Am I weird?

CallMeJamarcus · 2015-09-20T05:03:05+00:00

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The_Amp_Walrus · 2015-09-20T06:12:03+00:00

Don't worry about whether you're weird or not. I'd say that in general not being bothered is a good thing. The level of sexual frustration that a lot of young men (including me) experience is often counter-productive.

On the other hand, if you never got hungry and never ate then you would die. So I'll say this, if you know on an intellectual level that you want to be with a girl but you don't feel the emotional drive, then you might need to actively do something about it. Just like if you knew you never got hungry you might need to force yourself to sit down and have a meal. On the other hand I don't know your specific situation and it could be that you haven't found a girl you're particularly attracted to, have some female friends and are overthinking it. Your call there.

C_a_p_i · 2015-09-20T08:07:49+00:00

At some point you have to get over the fear of rejection or conquering something new.

I was 23 when I had sex for the first time and it was not at all how I expected it to be. Things happen in a weird way sometimes but one thing that won't change is having to put in the effort initially.

I promise you won't regret it. You'll probably wonder why you never made the effort in the first place!

Good luck man... Put the pussy on the chain wax

MizTaKes · 2015-09-20T04:49:05+00:00

Im sorry but stop being a pussy. Once you have a taste of a girl, it will change your life. Stop being a "friend" its holding you back. get out there and enjoy yourself

Swankymcdoogle · 2015-09-20T05:46:19+00:00

When I haven't been with a girl for a while, I usually get pretty comfortable being single, so no, I don't think that weird at all. What do you mean by comfortable? You have to take the risk so you know what it's like.

If you genuinely like her as a friend, then be her friend. If you want something more then you'll have to be honest with yourself and her about it.

ThrowawayPUA · 2015-09-20T14:25:46+00:00

No you're not weird. But there are statistical measures to determine if you are "normal." The CDC has statistics on sexual activity. According to Table 8 of this report, 24.2% of men aged 18-19 have never had any kind of sexual contact. 14.3% of men aged 20-24 never had any sexual contact. That last age group is a big jump because it includes 24 year olds, there is no separate data for 20 year olds.

So you are well within the mainstream. It may seem like every guy you know is having lots of sex. They're usually bragging, and it's not true.

thethethet · 2015-09-20T08:07:00+00:00

maybe ur just asexual

Requiemforaflower · 2015-09-20T12:31:52+00:00

Caring if you're reddit friends know just shows how shifty you are at this. Internet friends don't judge and if they do. Ditch them. If you are a Virgin start with a hooker. Then lern pua. 1. Item 2. Item

Title	Am I weird?
Author	Thisisnotmyaccount09
Upvotes	4
Comments	8
Date	September 20, 2015 3:23 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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