| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 35 | Wanted: To be alone | FIELD REPORT | Sweetz1029 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 09:50 PM |
| 18 | what are the most important indicators of dating sucess because I am confused. I have yet | DISCUSSION | Sweetz1029 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 06:12 PM |
| 9 | So how do you behave accordingly if you are the prize to be won | SEEKING ADVICE | Sweetz1029 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 12:44 PM |
| 2 | I wouldn’t even remember him if I walked past him tomorrow... Went on one date about 3 years ago and text me last week “How’s it going, it’s Chris from Memorial Square?” | NICE FOR WHAT? | Sweetz1029 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Picnic idea | SEEKING ADVICE | Sweetz1029 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Shamelessly optimistic | SEEKING ADVICE | Sweetz1029 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Lets discuss a quarantined first date | FIELD REPORT | Sweetz1029 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 05:12 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 5 | We’re retiring the “Seeking Advice” flair and redirecting all personal relationship questions to r/AskFDSThanks!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 01:34 AM |
| 0 | I wouldn’t even remember him if I walked past him tomorrow... Went on one date about 3 years ago and text me last week “How’s it going, it’s Chris from Memorial Square?”And here I thought I was laying it out and giving it to him straight when there’s no need to put in that energy. I gotta kick it up another notch or two. All the responses also just helped me realize that for my next committed relationship I need to do better when these guys come out the wood... no need to play nice or worry about being rude when it’s 100% waste of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 06:53 PM |
| 12 | I wouldn’t even remember him if I walked past him tomorrow... Went on one date about 3 years ago and text me last week “How’s it going, it’s Chris from Memorial Square?”And His blocked now!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 06:23 PM |
| 14 | I wouldn’t even remember him if I walked past him tomorrow... Went on one date about 3 years ago and text me last week “How’s it going, it’s Chris from Memorial Square?”Brutal. But I needed this blunt kick. I didn’t see it as stroking his ego and encouraging scrote behavior. I just said way too many words trying to come off nice and not too rude. This is all eye opening!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 06:21 PM |
| -17 | I wouldn’t even remember him if I walked past him tomorrow... Went on one date about 3 years ago and text me last week “How’s it going, it’s Chris from Memorial Square?”I’m too nice and I know I’m being too nice!! I think I might have block a max of 3 ppl my entire life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 05:56 PM |
| 3 | Wanted: To be aloneEwww. No thanks I don’t know why they think women are just to accept them now after their old without much to give. Suddenly old dogs learn new tricks ??! At 50 you now want kids, that D don’t even get hard enough and you look n feel like sh*t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Move...His sister passed away after the I broke it off. I felt like he need the support and someone to check on him. No way I’m sticking around if he reverts... right now I’m dating other ppl n he knows. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Wanted: To be aloneThis!! Seriously | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 04:20 AM |
| 8 | Move...So broke up with my ex and then I found Reddit and FDS few months later ... Thank you quarantine life. I had a recent conversation with him and I told him if I had found this sub earlier in our relationship and tuned in like I am now... he would have never made it as far as he did. Damn my pickmeisha ways. He cancelled plans, hardly gave me much quality time, hardly was transparent and hardly affectionate or romantic towards me! We stayed close as friends especially after his sister passed away … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 03:27 AM |
| 2 | Wanted: To be aloneYessss there’s hope!! I can’t wait to get there. I’m currently dating a match for about two months now. And the good news is he has been set-up by friends but he says that something was missing or the set-ups just didn’t advance anywhere. So far great qualities I guess now I’m just weary to know if he gives fair-shots or if there’s some type of phobia. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 02:13 AM |
| 12 | Wanted: To be aloneWow so you just laid it all out and kinda hit every point. I felt that !! I was reading some disturbing comments from men earlier saying they see no benefits in settling into a marriage because us women just want their money & cars... I thought after a certain age that we would be past this mentality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 12:09 AM |
| 2 | A High Value WomanSaved 🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 01:49 PM |
| 10 | Women making eye contact/staringYes. Eye contact and a smile...It’s her way to let you know she’s noticed you and so far likes what she sees. What you do next is simply go up to her and introduce yourself. Approach and Pursue. And maybe ask her name and if she often visit wherever you guys are at? | /r/seduction | 03/08/20 01:26 AM |
| 2 | So how do you behave accordingly if you are the prize to be wonOh I got it !! I do not want a struggle & toxic love. I know it has to be way more pros than cons and that life isn’t always happy & kumbayas. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 05:05 PM |
| 3 | So how do you behave accordingly if you are the prize to be wonI really love how you just put it. Endurance & leveling up through difficult goals!! Duly noted This was what I needed to hear... not just the fluff of cooking & staying pretty but the harder things & times of a relationship. Or even past relationships. What was some of your own red-flags? I’ve always taken flight... and given up on past relationships. A lack of patience, communication and reassurance caused a few of my splits. Don’t want to do that again especially after I meet my high-value ma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 04:48 PM |
| 1 | So how do you behave accordingly if you are the prize to be wonI truly understand the leveling up and Queen Dom. Last comment said to hit that search button but I saw mainly post about being a high value women. I took more notes as usual but I was thinking more of a list of what you as a girlfriend/ wife offer the relationship... what you want to bring to the table ?! Quick examples: .Self-awareness was a big one .Developing yourself throughout the relationship .Work ethics or entrepreneurship so we could have generational wealth and a legacy. .Staying acti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 12:26 PM |
| 1 | So how do you behave accordingly if you are the prize to be wonI just got done with my list. I’m very curious to see FDS guidelines. Thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:36 PM |
| 8 | Green flags and what they look likeI love to see it. He sounds great. Thank you for the positive message. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 01:43 PM |
| 59 | Men battering women for rejecting them must come from more than just a sense of entitlement.He took it that far I think because he was around that group of boys... not even going to call them men. Especially after they did nothing... not one calmed him down and not one rushed in. Pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 03:16 PM |
| 124 | Men battering women for rejecting them must come from more than just a sense of entitlement.I saw a video where the guy used his skateboard to smack this lady dead in the face after the woman turned him down. It was crushing and heartbreaking to watch. And to see him just walk off without any remorse because of his bruised little man ego. This is why woman tend to not say no but rather give a fake number instead hoping they can run away as fast as possible when she is just not interested. Or say I have a boyfriend... which doesn’t even work half the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 02:50 PM |
| 4 | A question to ask yourself periodically when you get into a relationshipThis is great!! I just got out of a relationship because of how incompatible we was... I would have left a little earlier if I had this. I am dating now and will not forget such great advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 09:03 PM |
| 11 | These two things get confused for each other far too oftenaww I like him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 12:56 PM |
| 2 | what are the most important indicators of dating sucess because I am confused. I have yetMy issue with unmatching or blocking ... Is it better just to cut it without another chance ? Or to see if they eventually will realize that they can do better ... and do better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 11:38 AM |
| 2 | what are the most important indicators of dating sucess because I am confused. I have yetDefinitely seeking quality over quantity. Thanks for the support | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 11:34 AM |
| 3 | what are the most important indicators of dating sucess because I am confused. I have yetThanks for all that !! I’m going to remember not to bring up sex early on and not to take it all too personally | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Lets discuss a quarantined first dateI hear from him less and we have no second date lined up. Our last conversation was me asking if he was still interested and him texting back that “you put in as much as you want back”. I’ve realized that it boiled down to sex and not much else I can say or do so it’s whatever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Queen ( High Value Woman ) MindsetNoted and saved. Needed this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 09:12 PM |
| 4 | Or- better yet, don’t reply.I was taken back. I did not like the “I don’t know if I can wait for commitment “ and the “were two adults “ ... I was just stating exclusivity would be better sooner than later but you much rather I just open up my legs now so you can see what I got. But your profile said you wanted a respectful woman. So I’m confused | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 10:40 PM |
| 28 | Or- better yet, don’t reply.Just sent my first okay. We were talking about sex drive which turned to me saying that I’d like to explore our chemistry but I won’t be having sex if it’s not in a committed relationship and he writes back that he can’t say he will wait for commitment and that we are two adults. I’m a bit disappointed and instead of going off. He got a simple okay. I wonder if I will ever hear back from him again? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Lets discuss a quarantined first dateQuick update- after asking enough ppl, many suggested to do the park. So I changed up the plans and he was okay with it. We went on a walk after work, I did my hair n makeup and dressed comfortably. We talked and talked, he was silly and very genuine. After 45 mins it did start getting chilly, we were getting hit with that mountain breeze. He asked if I was okay and if I felt safe being around enough we could head back towards his place and reheat some food. I agreed to it, his place was neat an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 01:45 PM |
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