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DebateSwoleAustralian/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:52 AM
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DebateSwoleAustralian/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:49 AM
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DebateSwoleAustralian/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:45 AM
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Now that I can get behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:09 AM
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I'm anything if not consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:02 AM
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What can I say? I'm a man of many talents.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:00 AM
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I mean hey, fair enough, each to their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:58 AM
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Eh that may be the case, I've seen many a couple with different eating habits though, it's more common than you'd think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:57 AM
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I mean, fit doesn't necessarily mean muscly 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:56 AM
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It's hard being such a beacon of light for this sub, but I do my best.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:55 AM
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I'm mean I'm not wrong here though, so the point stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:54 AM
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I don't live in America so beats me 🤷 not my problem. I didn't particularly like either of the options personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:06 PM
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No shit, I'm not saying they don't know I'm just saying nobody's worried about what the song is about when it comes on, they're just excited to dance to a banger of a song.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:04 PM
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I mean I guess Trump adopted it as his unofficial theme song, nothing wrong with that. I mean, corny songs are fun in my opinion, Cotton Eye Joe is another corny song for example, I still love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:55 PM
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I don't know? Are they? Just seems like a fun song to get crowds going at rallies, I think obsession is laying it on a little dramatic. I'll never understand complaining about playing a banger song because of the "subtext" of it, a banger is a banger. Just seems like a very chronically online take.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:52 PM
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I mean hey, it's pretty fun to dance to, always a crowd pleaser.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:48 PM
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So? Lots of songs have those types of stories to them, doesn't make them any less good. Nobody in real life is worried about the context behind songs, nobody is hearing YMCA come on at the bar and going "Oh my God it's the song about gay men hooking up!" They're going "Fuck yeah YMCA!!! Let's dance!"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:46 PM
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Because it's a great song? What's not to love about it? It's one of the biggest songs of all time for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:39 PM
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Just saw a video of Trump dancing to YMCA and I'm dying laughing, that's fucking gold, banger song.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:53 PM
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Eh I think There's another set of men that can fall in that I'd place myself in, guys who know what to do but had zero self esteem and confidence to take that step, Red Pill pushed me to take that step.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:17 AM
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If that's how you'd like to see it, then you're more than welcome to believe so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:14 AM
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You've just made that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 11:57 PM
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I was, I'm not anymore, but when I was going after casual sex all of it worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 02:01 PM
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I mean I can be sexist, we all can sometimes, but it's never impacted my ability to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:58 PM
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Pretty much, you worded it better than I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:57 PM
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I mean, plenty of guys get into good relationships even if they're misogynistic, they seem to be doing just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:57 PM
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Pretty much, it has lost all meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:44 PM
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Exactly, the majority of men don't hate women, what women consider hate has such a low bar that it just comes off as being a little pathetic, eventually you just need to get to a point and tell them to suck it up if those women continue on that route. Most sane women don't care though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:38 PM
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Exactly, most women don't care, they'll usually just laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:37 PM
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Exactly, most women aren't sticks in the mud in regards to humour, maybe the chronically online women are, but most women in the real world are happy to banter and do tit for tat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:26 PM
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None of that is redpill. Physical excercise ain't pilled, y'all are deranged. Of course it isn't pilled, but you're talking about an audience which has quite a few men down on their luck and with zero self esteem, if TRP can get them into the gym, that's a good thing. This is litterallly the "blue pill provider" simp nonsense. So no, unless you want gold-diggers. It can be, nobody ever said you actually had to spend that money on women though, you use that money to make yourself more appealing. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:27 AM
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They can never keep their false dichotomies straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:44 AM
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I mean I had my years of spinning plates and implementing all of the RP stuff I learned, and now I've got my girl that I'm dating, so as far as I'm concerned it was a success. I'm happy with what I got out of it, I'm done with it now. But I will always advocate for men using it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:19 AM
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The advice I got worked, why would I need anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:10 AM
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Eh, usually it just sped up the process for me more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:09 AM
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Who said anything about watching videos on YouTube?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:08 AM
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I don't know, I reckon it's pretty effective, it worked for me just fine, better than any other advice I got.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:07 AM
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Well there's no "need" for most things, but if it's effective then why not use it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:03 AM
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I mean I got some advice in my earlier days from blokes who pulled, and it pretty much always aligned with TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:03 AM
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Spinning plates was the biggest thing I got out of it In the earlier days I did use stuff like dread game, negging and some of the less savoury tactics and they worked on quite a few. Above all else I ended up just being the one in the partnerships with the "power" if you will, they were more into me than I was to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:02 AM
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I really think these people that are mad about it are in your head, majority of people don't care, in the real world at least. Sounds chronically online to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:00 AM
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I wouldn't say so, like I said, plenty of men are misogynistic and open about it, they still get laid. I'd argue they go towards those influencers because there's no real role models for them to look up to, so they go to the first influencers telling them to man the fuck up and start working hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:55 AM
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I mean, it hasn't steered me wrong yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:43 AM
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I like mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:36 AM
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I think they realised that just being a good person and themselves didn't work out so they're desperately trying to cling to the hope Red Pill isn't reality, when it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:20 AM
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Maybe, maybe not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:02 AM
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Because I'm not moving to a shit hole country.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:02 AM
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PUA just depends on the person really, I've tried it and it's not the worst, but I prefer other alternatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:01 AM
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You can do, and I've practiced abundance when not having many options, it's difficult but it can work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:01 AM
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It's all they have "Oh RP men are just bitter!" They have to convince themselves of that so they can be in denial that it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:00 AM
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No thanks, I'm good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:59 AM
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I think you're making that up, plenty of Red Pill guys are successful, hell Red Pill got me more success than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:59 AM
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The men complaining are the ones that are open about being Red Pill, you're supposed to just implement the strategies and ideas, not discuss them. And misogyny has never been a deciding factor on a man's dating success, plenty of misogynistic men get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:59 AM
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I mean true enough, they somewhat go hand in hand though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:57 AM
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I mean I never struggled with Red Pill, so it worked for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:23 AM
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Listening to women and what they want when it comes to dating ended up with me not getting any for a long time, it was once I started listening to successful men that I started getting results. Women give terrible advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 07:42 AM
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I love starting trends. The "bar" debate will surely go on for weeks now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 07:06 AM
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Eh not really, it's Reddit, if I wanted genuine discussion I'd go elsewhere, Reddit is for laughs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 07:05 AM
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Eh, partial trolling, partial wanting people's actual opinions. I don't see that as a bad thing, it's Reddit, not parliament.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 07:04 AM
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Well by beer belly I just mean a girl with some meat in her midsection. Beer belly is just the best term to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:59 AM
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Speak for yourself, more for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:56 AM
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One million beers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:54 AM
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I don't simp for just any woman, but God damn, if she got a beer belly....lord give me strength. I love my girls with some meat on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:53 AM
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I come here to instigate more than anything, I don't care if it's men or women I piss off, I'm just happy to spark discussion and if it leads to a couple of pissed off people my job is done. I don't take this shit that seriously, it's all fun for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:29 AM
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The bar is in hell because women don't have to accomplish or have much going for them to get a man, that's in essence what the bar is, the bar is the standard you have to meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:14 AM
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Men as a whole won't do that because quite frankly their results will stay the same, even if they raise the bar, those same men will still be getting minimal to zero results.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:04 AM
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Maybe so, at the end of the day, there's always going to be a case for both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:56 AM
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I mean it depends on the person, one person's shit may be another person's gold, it's all about perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:51 AM
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Dating someone who has hoe friends is shooting yourself in the foot, you're the sum of the five people you spend the most time with, why would she be any different if she hangs out with people that are hoes?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:51 AM
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Maybe lucky isn't the correct word to use, but they do have far more options to sift through than men, so I can understand why to someone that may be viewed as lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:48 AM
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He didn't say that women couldn't have standards, you're reading into what he's saying too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:46 AM
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Yeah, women always have and always will have it easier when it comes to using dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:46 AM
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I mean it purely depends on the man that you're talking to, it could be different depending on the guy, there's no way of objectively measuring it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:45 AM
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I never said it wasn't important? I said it's not the be all and end all. That's where I think you're being dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:41 AM
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I can see it like that, it just seems like a deflection on women's behalf.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:41 AM
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Maybe so, but it can play a very important factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:40 AM
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I don't know who's telling you all this. I think you're being a little bit dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:39 AM
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I didn't say it was a compliment did I? I just said that's the case, most men will fuck most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:38 AM
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Maybe they don't, but they're being taken down the wrong path by other women upholding the "unrealistic beauty standards" that they claim men uphold. I'm saying men don't uphold anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:37 AM
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Maybe so,the amount of good men that are good enough for relationships is aplenty though, so it shouldn't be too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:25 AM
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Pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:23 AM
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I'll never understand the people who actually take this subreddit and Reddit as a whole seriously, just sit back and have a laugh, life isn't that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:20 AM
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It's PPD, when it comes to debate, the bare minimum is perfectly fine, you have to remember who we're dealing with on here. And eh, I just write posts that I know might spark discussion, I don't put anymore thought into it, plus a title that's a little baity and there you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:14 AM
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Well the engagement on posts in this sub wouldn't be anywhere near as high if you say only a certain group of men or women are like something would they? It's much easier to generalise when you're having discussions about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:04 AM
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Women are misled by other women for sure, they blame men when the majority of us don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:06 AM
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Pretty much, if a woman exists there'll exist a man that would fuck her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:06 AM
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Some are, some are too pussy to take the further step.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:05 AM
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Yes of course, it's pretty funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:05 AM
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r/nothowgirlswork from what I've seen is just a bunch of chronically online women mad at being criticised for anything. Seems to be the same for 90% of women's subs on Reddit. For a group of people on here that supposedly dislike men they sure talk about men a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:05 AM
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I mean so you know for sure they aren't? They might be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:00 AM
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Pretty much, women talk about these high beauty standards but the majority of men don't hold those up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:00 AM
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It's quite safe to just assume based on her lifestyle, she may not be a hoe, but if she goes out clubbing and parties every week I'll just assume she is and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:56 AM
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Ong bro you just ain't skibidi with it I finna pull you up on a fanum tax so why don't you go hawk tuah and spit on that thang.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:55 AM
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Why you'd want to mod this shit hole I have no idea my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:54 AM
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Was having a conversation with a couple of my female friends about clubs and all that in regards to a relationship, one of them was talking about how her guy was uncomfortable with her accepting free drinks at the club, they asked me what I thought and I told them if I found out my girl was accepting free drinks at the club she wouldn't be my girl when she got home, I find it very disrespectful. They didn't understand so the three of us debated it for a bit but eventually we agreed to disagree a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:10 AM
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Of course men worry about those things, that's just a given. Those are worries by default, but we're talking about dating dynamics here, those ones don't need to be said because they're common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:04 PM
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I mean it is what it is, I'll make new friends, I'd never allow myself morally to be friends with someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:53 AM
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I couldn't care less if it's not by business, if my friend tells me to lie for them I'm not going to, it accomplishes them receiving the consequences of their actions, if you cheat on your partner you deserve to be snitched on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:51 AM
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All I'm saying is they're both as depraved as each other, and I would want neither reproducing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:51 AM
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Damn, he just like me for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:51 AM
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If I ever find out one of my friends has cheated on their partner you can bet I'm ratting them out in a heartbeat, I don't associate with cheaters nor will I let them lie to their partner. I'm a bad friend? I could argue you're a bad friend for wanting to me to lie to your partner because you couldn't do the easiest job in the world, staying loyal to your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:50 AM
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Well then, that was an enlightening conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:29 AM
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I don't know what that is either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:27 AM
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That's fair enough, but at the same time, if someone is willing to go to lengths to have a sex bot, then it's probably a good thing they don't end up having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:25 AM
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That is true, I believe that in most relationships though, the man is the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:25 AM
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I have zero idea who that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:24 AM
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Men are the prize, no I will not elaborate, but this is an objective truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:20 AM
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Both are just as depraved as each other, the world is better off with both of them removed from the gene pool, neither deserve to ever reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:19 AM
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Why, I'm highly offended that you would ever believe I'd go out of my way to bait, especially the good people of PPD, I won't tolerate this slander.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:14 AM
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Me? Bait? Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:03 AM
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Patriarchy is good for society, and should be implemented far more often, bring it back in all of its glory.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:58 AM
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Mate I bet you could have any woman you wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:20 AM
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I wasn't talking about hate towards me, it sparked hate in general
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:20 AM
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It got the response I wanted, some nasty debate throughout the comments, was good reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:08 AM
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Agree to disagree, but you're entitled to your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:47 AM
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I had a feeling the party girls post I made would spark some hate but damn you guys out did yourselves, I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:37 AM
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Eh, partially instigation, partially just warning some of the men that weren't aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:30 AM
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By warning them not to deal with party girls, making sure they don't make those mistakes that I've made and I've seen other guys make.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:29 AM
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If they don't want to sure, I like to think my girl right now is pretty amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:28 AM
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No I'm mainly warning people about my own experiences in the party scene, I spent about two years going out every weekend, whether dating them or being friends with them I know plenty about party girls, just warning other guys from making the same mistakes I've made, and others I've seen make. I'm out of that scene now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:27 AM
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I wouldn't know, I moved on from casual sex a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:51 PM
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My opinions are based on my own experience of being in the party scene for a couple of years, whether dating them or being friends with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:14 PM
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The ones that know her well and know how she operates absolutely feel bad if he's in a full on relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:03 AM
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I'm a former party guy myself, I lived it for a good couple of years, I got out when I realised how miserable i was. I had fun for a couple of years, but long term? Not a lifestyle worth pursuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:47 AM
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I lived that life, and trust me it's not worth it, I'm still friends with some party girls, it's not a good life at all. Just trying to help men not make the same mistakes I've seen many make.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:46 AM
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Not really a fantasy when I've seen it with my own eyes, I used to live this lifestyle, I'm still friends with people who live it, it's very real.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:45 AM
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Nah, they may say that up front, but anytime I've seen a guy date a well known party girl, they just feel bad for him because they know he'll get fucked over sooner or later.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:36 AM
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Eh, each to their own, not my idea of fun anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:16 AM
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I wouldn't call it a false dichotomy when I've not only dealt with these types of girls, I'm friends with quite a few of them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:13 AM
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Not worth it in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:11 AM
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Yeah the emphasis on work in SK is a massive determinant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:18 AM
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The 4B Movement hasn't been the driving factor behind South Korea's declining birth rates though, lifestyle choices have, it's a very work heavy country. 4B is a fringe niche movement over there. It's not going to change anything in America, as women are basically saying they'll stop sleeping....with men they already weren't sleeping with. I think you'd have to be very chronically online to take part or even know what the 4B Movement is, nobody in the real world knows about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:17 AM
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Eh, you never know really.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:06 AM
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I mean I find it disgusting because I took part in it and ultimately regret it, could have done more productive things with my life but I spent it hooking up with random girls for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:52 PM
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Probably a half and half split.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:52 PM
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I did partake in it for a couple of years, I regret nearly every hookup I've had because I realise that all of it was a waste of time, I would have been better off doing other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:51 PM
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Because they have aspects of themselves that aren't desirable and that needs to change, telling a fat man to be himself is terrible advice, he needs to be told to lose weight and start working out/eating right.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:53 AM
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Unfortunately for some people, being themselves is a negative trait, because themselves isn't enough. Some men need to do more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:52 AM
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The death of hookup culture is a long time coming, I'm looking forward to it. Casual sex is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:42 AM
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They lost because they lost the support of the working class, plain and simple, Sanders said it best. You can take those racism and sexism excuses to the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:35 AM
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Oh settle down mate don't take things so seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:47 AM
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Must be an eastern states thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:46 AM
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Women weren't fucking those men already, so what's changing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:14 AM
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No the vast majority of women in America probably don't, the ones on Reddit though? More of an argument on that front. And hey, I'm more interested to see if it actually happens and if women have the balls to do it, if enough can get on board they'll get my props and I'll admit I'm wrong. But for now, I think it's all talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:37 AM
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I can't speak for what other men talk about at the end of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:34 AM
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I don't honestly, I'm just playing instigator to be real with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:33 AM
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I wouldn't say it gets under my skin, I'm just interested whether people think it'll eventuate or not. Agree to disagree. Plus trolling which is also fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:31 AM
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Oh I still wanna talk about it, I wanna get people's takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:50 AM
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Because it's funny watching people whine online, plus still salt farming here and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:43 AM
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I mean I'm in a country that's not effected by it, I just don't women have it in them to stick to it though, I think it's all talk, if they prove me wrong I'll give them credit. But as of now? I just think it's hyperbole, I don't think they have the balls for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:37 AM
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Maybe in smaller droves, I doubt it'll be anything substantial.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:33 AM
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I mean I'm over in Australia, so it's not something that would effect me, I just think the vast hyperbole and overreaction I've seen is hilarious. It's not complaining, I just don't think women actually have the balls to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:30 AM
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All I'm saying is, I'll believe it when I see it, at the moment I think it's all talk and just understandable frustration from the election results.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:27 AM
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I mean is it really a surprise to have someone say this extremely unlikely scenario is extremely unlikely to happen? It's just common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:27 AM
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You see it all over places like r/TwoXChromosomes and other women's subs saying that if men really want a loneliness epidemic then they're about to get one and all that, a lot of them seem very convinced it's going to take off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:20 AM
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It's Reddit, none of the problems people care about on here are actually problems in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:01 PM
5

I do think looks CAN play a factor into whether or not behaviour is considered creepy, but at the end of the day I think people on both sides of the issue need to realise Not all behaviour will be universally considered creepy or acceptable. A guy can approach two girls and get two completely different results, one may really be into it and the other may be extremely turned off. I think guys who do want to approach need to understand that some girls will find it creepy, and you may come off as c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:57 PM
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TRP has had zero impact on the real world, the only place it's discussed is online. Think you're vastly overestimating its impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:59 AM
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People say I have a gambling addiction I just call it dedication.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:01 AM
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"I CAN'T HIT MY PROTEIN" 7 scrambled eggs, 100g of smoked salmon, 1 whole avocado, 100g of protein, over 1000 calories. No excuses!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:38 AM
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I assume it does, if they don't though they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:46 AM
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Honestly I suspect it gets done already, but honestly I think that celebrities should make presidential candidates bid for their endorsement. Have them go "Hey, Harris just offered me $5 million to endorse her, you give me a higher price and I'll endorse you instead" Make them earn your services.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:41 AM
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I don't think I could ever date somebody who thought going out and clubbing/getting drunk every weekend was fun, it's the complete opposite of fun to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:48 AM
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Traditional relationships generally are the most successful, so no surprises.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:46 AM
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Honestly, focusing on older women and going after them wouldn't be a bad call, they tend to love me. Hell when I was working in a clothing store and wore tight fitted button ups and dress pants they were always flirting with me. Probably because I remind them of when their husband used to be fit and attractive before he got fat and out of shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:43 AM
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I think the worst part about the whole male loneliness epidemic is that people who refuse to believe it's true will just brush it off and pretend like the people complaining are bad people: "Oh you're lonely? Have you tried not being misogynistic or a piece of shit?" It's much easier to act like there's not a problem when you act as if lonely people are bad by default. It always comes down to sex too, they just go "Men are sad they don't have community and feel like they can be heard? Yeah right…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:22 AM
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I'm not worried about changing people's opinions, I'm just here to see everyone's perspective, learning how different people think is fun. It is what it is at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:13 AM
1

That's a sick plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:28 AM
1

Oh I don't, I'm just seeing if anyone will bite.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:19 AM
3

Halloween isn't just the time of year for going out and getting drunk in costume, it's the night of the year Dads drink the most after having to see their daughter dress like as big of a whore as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:40 AM
3

Just remember that all these pills are purely online discussions, nobody is talking about or even knows of the red pill in the real world. It's just not a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:29 AM
1

Great Northern (easiest and most crisp beer) XXXX Gold (almost tastes like creaming soda, gets you pissed quick because they're easy to smash) VB (just for the sake of it, VB sucks but it's a meme) Most hipsters will tell you to drink craft beers though, some XPA or IPA bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:54 PM
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Millers Draft, Coors, Budweiser (not light)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:52 PM
1

I have to say just like your coffee, American beers are piss weak, like seriously, you're not helping your stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:54 AM
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I'll never understand people who would protect their friends and defend them if they cheat on their partners, not only am I telling your partner I'm probably kicking your ass too. I've got no time for people who do such a thing, especially if I know how sweet and cool their partner is. Like fuck you, you ain't my friend if you do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:16 AM
2

Never been attracted to thin women, nor gym women ironically enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:44 AM
0

God I love nerdy/chubby women, just women in their purest form in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:23 AM
2

Why do some of you, worry about the most stupid things, that realistically, have no effect on your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:16 AM
3

Improving for dating is improving for yourself, the women you get as a result are to your benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:43 AM
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Why people had to turn run club into a dating service I'll never get. Plus running sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:38 AM
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Oh well, the world isn't very nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:39 AM
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Eh, fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:39 AM
1

Why do I care about any of this though? None of this makes my life any better, my life is better when I'm spinning plates and having casual sex with women. My life gains nothing from settling down with one woman, marrying her and raising a family, I don't get anything out of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:57 AM
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As much as a lot of men in the Red Pill want to help other men escape from the Blue Pill generic beliefs that are holding them back, I'm all for letting other men fail, as far as I'm concerned it's every man for himself out there, if anything, encourage more men to believe in the Blue Pill so that you stand out as a better candidate in the dating market, you eliminate the competition and it's an easier ride for you. I'll happily fuck over other men in that regard if it means my prospects are bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:54 AM
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I remember how long I tried to make myself enjoying going to nightclubs and going out drinking, I tried so hard to enjoy it, I went out with different people, I got really drunk and fucked up sometimes, I did everything I could to make the best of it but everytime I've gone to a nightclub, I ended up wanting to leave within half an hour, I just can't stand them. Luckily I don't struggle with dating so I don't need to go to these places to approach, they just make you miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:47 AM
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At the end of the day it just saves an argument and a hassle, I'm looking after my best interests first and foremost. I don't have time to deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:45 AM
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"Men don't care about body count" "Women don't care about this" "Men don't care about that" I think people forget how easy it is to just lie, when it comes to body count and sex, to their face? I'm the most progressive guy there is "What? Why would I care? That's in the past, anyone who cares about that is just insecure!" But deep down I'm already planning to leave and I'm judging them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:40 AM
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I mean most people aren't going to say up front. I never do, but deep down I'm judging and creating my exit plan already if I hear a sex life they've had that doesn't align with what I want. But to their faces I'll pretend I don't care, because I don't have the time to deal with that argument or debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:26 AM
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Question, what is the genuine appeal of buying an iPhone 16 or Samsung S24? Spending over 1k on a phone when you can probably get a good phone for half of the price.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:43 PM
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I mean I think Americans have made up their minds anyway, these debates aren't going to do anything except maybe change the minds of about 60,000 people in inconsequencial states who were likely not going to vote anyway, it's all for show. I do think Harris going for the "Trump is insane" card is a good angle though, because the proof is in the pudding.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:19 PM
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Donald Trump I do not believe to be an absolute idiot, he may be a vile human being in every sense of the word, but I don't believe you run for president three times and win presidency once while being an absolute idiot, I do believe however, that the American people are absolute idiots for even letting the psychopath run in the first place or even putting him in that position. If you can listen to any of Trump's inane rambling and think "Yeah this guy would run the country well", then guess wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:05 PM
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My apologies, I was mainly coming at it from a place of showing the perspective of the other guy and that mentality, it's far from a nice mentality and it's gross to look back on.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/24 02:00 PM
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Yeah I know, I'm not proud of how I acted, but it's what I did, still a slow move away from the terms, hard to not use them when you got used to it for so long.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/24 01:47 PM
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Was nothing to do with that in that moment, my mindset at the time was purely one of just moving on without confronting the problem. I'm not proud of it though, but it was a time of needing validation.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/24 01:46 PM
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Not fully no, but I'm working on it, I'm far better than I used to be. Still working on getting there.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/24 01:45 PM
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Usually whenever I was called out on it during my Red Pill phase I'd just move on to one of my other plates and dedicate more time to them. No big deal.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/24 07:52 AM
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Yeah that's definitely going to be one of them with how flexible it is, festival season here is coming up anyway so plenty of work to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:38 AM
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Festival and event staff is basically first come first serve, you work whatever events you want to work. The other two are more regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:34 AM
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Funnily enough my base rate for festival staff is $30 an hour, so triple penalties would be HUGE. And yeah I reckon those will be my choices either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:32 AM
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I've gone from having 0 jobs at the start of the week to 3 jobs now, I'm only going to keep two of course, but my options are, Liquor store worker Festival and event staff Sporting clothes store What two do we reckon?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:26 AM
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Pointing out the discrepancy is fine, the problem is when those same men will go "Women don't have to improve so I'm just not going to either." That's what I'm mainly talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:35 AM
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Very lazy, it takes them out of their comfort zone of sitting on their arses smoking weed, binge watching Netflix and playing video games. I do all of these things myself, but I still make sure to meditate every day, gratitude journal, workout and read for an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:33 AM
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Men on here will do anything to avoid self-improvement it's fucking hilarious "Oh I don't get return on investment bro!" "Women don't have to self-improve!!" "It's a waste of time" Making positive changes to your lifestyle and your habits is the furthest thing from a waste of time, who cares if women don't self improve as much? It's not about doing it for them, you're doing it to make your own life better. When I hear someone say they think self improvement is a waste of time it just makes me th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:30 AM
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Because I was struggling with taking that next step to get more into that casual sex stage, I just needed the push and reminder to do what I needed to do, it didn't really do much itself out of the reminder to stay on top of things. Once I was done with casual sex, Red Pill had no use for me anymore, plus I avoided most of the other people involved who were deeper than I was, it gets a little weird at that point. Feminism is alright with me, do whatever you want to do with your life, I'm not bot…
/r/ExRedPill18/09/24 02:10 AM
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One exception doesn't make a rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:09 PM
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I think a lot of people here need to remember that when you're arguing or debating with someone on here, they probably knew they were wrong about 15 minutes ago, they're just continuing purely to piss you off and get you angry now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:53 PM
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You should be self-improving anyway, you should be doing all of these things in the first place regardless of whether you're doing it to improve your dsting prospects or not, at the end of the day these are the things that will help you stand out, and when the majority of men on this planet don't take care of themselves, don't have anything going for them and don't have the discipline to improve themselves, then by doing so alone, you're already making yourself stand out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:39 AM
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He may be paying prostitutes, but he may just unashamedly be himself and that rubs off on others, he knows what he is and he's cool with it. That level of confidence can be infectious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:27 AM
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The overall goal is to not treat them like they're better than you or above you, it's the same mentality with celebrities, they hate when people come up to them and treat them like God's gift to the Earth, they love it when people just come up and talk to them, when people don't give a fuck who they are. It's the same with women, they always say you'll have better luck with 10s than 7s because the 10s aren't used to actually being treated as anything other than a celebrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:25 AM
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It'll be the usual responses, the women on here will say that they love when men open up and express their feelings but deep down it inherently disgusts them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:23 AM
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The people who make me laugh the most are people who worship politicians as if they have their best interests at heart, especially those who volunteer for political campaigns. There aren't any politicians that have your interests in mind, none of them, they're all self-interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:22 AM
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It's not about being pretty it's the personalities underneath.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:46 AM
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The proof that sexuality is not a choice is men being attracted to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:30 AM
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When a girl says she doesn't go out a lot but she hugs the bouncer at the club. Sorry bro she's not the one. The ones that are always out partying are for the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:06 AM
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And they're welcome to do that, it's about looking after your fellow man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:38 AM
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Oh well fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:37 AM
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I mean it can be retroactive jealousy sometimes, and that's okay. And depends, if I can coach her through it to get better? Sure I'd go through it, most girls can't give head for shit anyways, I'm happy to think about the long term for that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:35 AM
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Good call.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:33 AM
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Yeah true you just get that feeling of "This shit isn't going to last" after you hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:33 AM
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I'd say more people in the world care than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:32 AM
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Again, I still believe the guys who claim not to care are the insecure ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:32 AM
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I mean hey I make sure I don't date smokers as well, is that a fixation?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:30 AM
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I do ask it, everytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:29 AM
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It's not even a fixation really, it's a quick question. "How many people you been with?" "insert number I'm not okay with" "Okay we're not compatible bye" Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:51 AM
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Yeah of course I'll ask, I've had it divulge into them cursing me out a couple of times, no biggie.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:49 AM
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Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:41 AM
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No I can't say I've heard that one before, I just don't like it, simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:40 AM
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Maybe a little hypocritical, but hey, my best interests will always go first. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:36 AM
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Ah not really, mine is pretty decent, if I was looking for a relationship I'd absolutely care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:35 AM
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Do tell me how I'm the problem, I'm providing the solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:39 PM
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Mate at the end of the day if you want to come up with every excuse you can to not do anything about your situation that's your problem not mine, but yes, not wanting to get better at cold approach and improve your social skills makes you a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:19 PM
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That's a lot of words just to say "I'm too gutless to do anything"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:00 AM
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Because it's good to be out of your comfort zone, you should want to push yourself to be in uncomfortable situations as you become desensitized to it after a while, it just doesn;t register. Besides, getting rejected gives you the chance to try out different approaches, see what works and what doesn't, it's all experimentation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:12 AM
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Improving your own life should be a given already, you should be doing that regardless, letting yourself become more comfortable with approaching and rejection in my opinion is improving your life though, because it's a learning experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:08 AM
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I mean hey, I've shot myself in the foot plenty of times, it's not fun in the moment, but within a couple of minutes I'm over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:06 AM
3

Fair enough then! Good stuff here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:06 AM
2

Gave me a chuckle here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:03 AM
1

That's fair enough, I can respect that, but honestly, I'm of the mindset it's better to shoot your shot and miss than not even bother shooting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:02 AM
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Of course, and while they of course don't have to do it, I think they're limiting their life experiences by being afraid of being rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:01 AM
3

Very dramatic mate, it's not going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:01 AM
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I kinda did, they need to get over themselves because at the end of the day rejection is apart of life, you can't let it stop you from doing stuff otherwise you're limiting yourself to a lot of life, there's always a chance of rejection, but it's better to take that chance and get rejected than not do anything. Besides if guys want to get anywhere in the dating world then they need to get used to approaching women, no matter the setting, the more well rounded your social skills are the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:00 AM
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They're not obligated sure, but if they want to get anywhere in the dating world they need to suck it up if they're afraid, cold approach itself is good as I said above for just making yourself comfortable talking to anyone, it's worth getting good at.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:56 AM
2

Good advice, but honestly I believe cold approaching is a good skill to have, if anything it gets you comfortable talking to pretty much anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:53 AM
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What hypocrisy, I've stated multiple times in the comments I'm not interested in a relationship, nor have I implied I want a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:26 AM
0

To people personally? No. Shit posting on random forums? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:47 AM
0

I'm saying they should at least try it, if they don't like it after trying it that's fine, but I'd give it a go before saying it's not for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:08 AM
1

Fair enough, it's not for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:01 AM
2

Who said I don't use protection? That goes without saying. Didn't think that would need to be clarified.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:51 AM
-1

Shit posting is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:51 AM
-1

Oh well fair enough mate, I don't put too much value into this place so I'm quite happy shit posting and doing whatever amuses me, may be different for you and that's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:50 AM
6

Fair call, that's a good way to look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:49 AM
1

Fair enough, I think it can be good for men to experience it but yes, it's not for everyone. I think at least trying it is worth it at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:49 AM
0

Maybe it is, you never know if you don't try though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:48 AM
0

Fair enough, not everyone is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:48 AM
0

Fair enough man, respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:48 AM
1

I've never called myself alpha, I think the word is stupid as are most in this space.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:43 AM
-9

If you're expecting "good faith" posts from Reddit you're in the wrong place. Reddit isn't a place for genuine discussion, it's a place to take the piss.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:19 AM
1

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:54 AM
1

That's the way to do it mate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:53 AM
-3

I'm sure you're a dapper young man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:53 AM
2

Good advice right here
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:53 AM
-2

Eh I got mine, but hey, it's Reddit at the end of the day, it's not too difficult to annoy people on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:44 AM
-3

I mean in a paragraph it was maybe a couple of sentences, the entire idea was for men to go out and enjoy that lifestyle of being pined for, feeling validation etc. sometimes ghosting people is part of the process, it sucks but oh well. Think we just read the post differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:37 AM
-15

Fair call, I'm just posting whatever gets engagement though, so a little contradiction here and there will occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:33 AM
-3

I can live with that, it's a cruel world out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:27 AM
0

I mean I'm just posting whatever gets engagement
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:14 AM
2

Fair enough my friend, you're a stronger man than most.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:43 AM
-7

t's not about it being enjoyable, if it comes down to it though then you just gotta do it sometimes, it's not my problem you know? I love sex, I'll just always put myself first, if that gets in the way of others then so be it. So yeah, it's not enjoyable, I'm just apathetic in the event it does rub someone the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:35 AM
1

It can get a little boring sometimes so I just take a 1-2 month break and then I'm right back into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:30 AM
2

Fair enough man, agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:30 AM
-5

I mean yeah you can, and sometimes I will be up front, depends on how I feel about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:29 AM
-2

Just get checked regularly and you'll be fine, it's never been a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:25 AM
1

I post whatever will get the most engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:25 AM
1

Luckily only had one scare myself, clean otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:24 AM
1

Oh well, life's like that sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:24 AM
1

Some men do, more men would benefit from doing it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:57 AM
-5

Depeneds on how you look at things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:56 AM
4

Again, I don't care what women do with themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:56 AM
-3

It's not even about taking pleasure, it's just about putting your own needs first, if you ghost someone and they're upset, not my problem you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:49 AM
3

If that's your perspective then that's all good, we can agree to disagree, I respect your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:41 AM
5

I wouldn't be happy to date any woman I'm quite happy keeping things casual. Relationships seem like a drag.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:39 AM
2

I think you're looking at things a little deeper than they are, i'ts about living your life to the fullest. Fear is a bit dramatic buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:34 AM
2

I mean, like I said, if you're a man who doesn't have much success, go lower and sleep with women you're not as attracted to, do what you have to do to live this lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:29 AM
1

Pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:28 AM
10

Better to live it and grow disengaged than to not do it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:28 AM
7

I don't care what women do with themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:27 AM
0

Maybe not, but for these guys it's probably their best chance of somewhat experiencing what it's like to be a "fuckboy"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:18 AM
2

Nah fair enough I can see your perspective, depends on how you look at it at the end of the day. Agree to disagree there friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:13 AM
2

In that sense sure, however I wouldn't consider them "alpha" or "chad" as you put it (I hate those terms), because they're still jumping through hoops that those guys you refer to don't have to, those guys don't have to work for it, this "safe" guy still does to an extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:05 AM
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Of course it can be said for men, I do think it's a far more common sentiment in women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:03 AM
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Yeah it's a tough one, I feel despite their insistence it isn't true, a lot of women just view the "forever guy" as that safe and boring guy. They may believe they don't, but deep down they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:03 AM
2

The world is only going to get worse mate, I appreciate the optimistic point of view, but it's tough shit unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:59 AM
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I'm saying jump through the hoops, make her think you're someone worth committing to, when she's finally ready to sleep with you, just go do it and then ghost her, simple as. Play the long game, that's the opportunity for the guys who can't get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:58 AM
5

The problems aren't going anywhere mate, they're here to stay unfortunately, it's either play or be played.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:53 AM
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Maybe so, however people act like these issues are massively important when the reality is nobody talks about "sexual market value" and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:32 PM
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The easiest way to relax your mind is that this place is a bubble the majority of things this sub complain about aren't big problems in the real world. Barely anyone actually talks about body count in the real world Nobody knows what an incel is let alone has heard that word in the real world, it's just not a discussion. Incels are purely an online phenomenon. Red/Blue/Black pills aren't things in the real world nor does anyone know about them. Nobody in the real world gives a fuck or judges you…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:22 PM
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There's no such thing as a "hoe phase" You can't blast steroids for five years and call yourself a "lifetime natty" If you were one before, you always will be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:27 AM
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I tried magic mushrooms for the first time last night. Good shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:34 AM
4

It probably isn't a common thing, but it's been a hell of a high standard set for female friends for me, anything less isn't worth my time now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:49 PM
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Unpopular opinion: If your female friends aren't being wing women or helping you with dating they aren't your friends. Trade them in and find some new ones. I'm so grateful for my friends, my girls are great at being wing women. Plus they're just amazing people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:26 PM
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I got plenty of female friends and a lot of them are wing women for me. Sounds like you've got faulty female friends. Get some that actually work properly. If you're friends with women and they aren't helping you out in the dating scene they aren't your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:24 PM
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Life is so much better when you realise that it isn't that deep, that one little thing that's been nagging you for days? Not that deep, it won't matter in 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 01:52 PM
4

The irony is that women don't treat men like human beings at all. Pretty hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:01 AM
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Wanting life to be easy is silly to me, living an easy life sounds so boring, life is all about risks and challenging yourself, it's about failing and trying again, learning and all that. I don't know, I like that life can be tough at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:31 AM
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Some guys fuckzone those women for revenge I fuckzone those women because it's incredibly easy to do so We are not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:44 PM
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Because most of the men on here aren't interested in relationships, it's about casual sex and pumping and dumping for a lot of them. Having good values doesn't help you get laid at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:53 AM
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I think food and people are slightly different scenarios. Besides most guy's preferences don't change, I may be in my early 20s but I know when I'm 30 I'll still want a chubby girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:51 AM
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Sounds like it, I also think they just want women to stop pretending that they actually love the guys they settle for, no you didn't just happen to find the man of your dreams after dating around in your 20s, you were afraid of being alone and went for the guy who was the best bet for YOUR future success. Just be honest, that's all they're asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:50 AM
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I'd say you're demented for watching porn full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:43 AM
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The thing a lot of women don't seem to understand is that men are upset about being settled for because they don't want a woman to have to come to realisation that he's the type of guy she wanted to be with, he wants to be the type of person she wanted in the first place. If she had to date a lot of guys to figure out what she wanted chances are she doesn't actually want you, she's just afraid of being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:43 AM
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The dating market isn't fair. Conventionally attractive people will always have an advantage You get exactly what your level is If you have a niche fucking stick to it Don't like it? Tough. World isn't fair So many people still don't get any of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:34 PM
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Love is one facet, but it alone is not enough, being compatible living together is a big one too, live together first for a couple of years before getting married., similar life plans etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:04 PM
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I love how across Reddit "because they love each other?" is enough of a reason for people to get married. Love alone isn't good enough for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 11:50 AM
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Calling one or the other the "prize" in a relationship is just stupid, you're the prize to each other. This gender war garbage is ridiculous. You're either both the prize or neither of you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:42 PM
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Most of those types don't exist in the real world, you meet a couple of them here and there but they are far more common online than they are in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:42 AM
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The world is a cold place, you have to do what you have to do to maximise your options, if that means dating multiple women and slightly lying about my intentions to keep them around then that's the breaks, too bad. I have to look out for myself and my prospects first, if they get burnt so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:42 AM
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Time and a place for that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:37 AM
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If Donald Trump was almost guaranteed to win the presidency before, I'd say he's a lock now. Biden had some level of hope, if Harris gets thrust in, the Democrats probably don't have a hope in hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:36 AM
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The optimal outcome for men in dating is the fuckboy lifestyle, there are no downsides to it, every other outcome has downsides.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:18 AM
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Being liked for your looks is a bigger compliment than being liked "for you" as so many phrase it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:52 AM
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Eh I'll give that one a pass I have beautiful eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:49 AM
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Being appreciated for your looks is the biggest compliment you can receive, you really think I put all this work into my body at the gym so you can say some dumb shit like "I was attracted to your personality" or "You make me feel safe" That shit is nice and all but fuck that tell me about my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:44 AM
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Father Time takes us all eventually, that's why you enjoy it while you're not in his sights.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:14 PM
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Someone liking me for me means fuck all to me if I'm honest, I'd rather they like my physical attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:12 PM
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Christ imagine being with someone and the thing they like about you the most is something personality related. Dagger to the heart right there. If it isn't something about your looks.....tough break man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:07 PM
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I mean at the end of the day, everyone is sexually attractive to someone, what that level of attractiveness is will very. As far as I'm concerned the "quality" of said sexual partner's looks doesn't matter all that much, as we all have our different preferences, the women I sleep with for example probably wouldn't be attractive to quite a few men, but they're attractive to me, that's all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:01 AM
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Mate, if they're saying that then just ignore them, they aren't hurting anybody with their preferences or opinions. It's more that it feels like every post you've made lately is about single mothers, surely it gets tiring?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:00 AM
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No, it just means he's questioning the reasons that his partner is with him, or whether she's a good long term bet. And you're aiming that at the wrong person, I've never claimed men were more romantic and love people unconditionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:59 AM
1

Well, everyone is sexually attractive to someone, what that level of attractiveness is varies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:58 AM
3

It's different when we're talking about hoe women, if she hasn't been sleeping around and racked up a high body count, sure, you've won, but if she's slept around and been a hoe you're far from a winner for wifing up the community bicycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:36 AM
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Body count just means that you're sexually attractive, if you weren't, people wouldn't be sleeping with you, so there is the factor of desirability there. If you aren't desirable people aren't going to have sex with you in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:30 AM
9

Far out are you still badgering on about single mothers? Surely it most be tiring talking about the same old crap?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:28 AM
2

Why are we talking about Andrew Tate still? He became irrelevant a long time ago, the world moved on when the next grifter came along, besides I think most Red Pill guys with sense don't want Tate anywhere near it, he's a bad figure to have involved with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:25 AM
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I swear to God the funniest line that gets trotted out every time you see a post on a dating sub about a guy being worried about their partner's past is "Why do you care? Those guys were just casual flings, she CHOSE you to be her life partner, you won!!!" Being the one she sticks with for life isn't winning, it's losing, the guys who had one night stands with her won.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:20 AM
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Yes, it is a fair assumption. Not all women who do that engage in it sure, but most will.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:16 AM
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Andrew Tate isn't someone to look up to, he's a guy that passes off as a "self improvement guru" when in reality he just teaches men to be vapid, materialistic and shallow., No, having multiple sports cars, a big house and loose hookers won't make you happy, it won't make you a man of quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:05 PM
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There will always be a man out there desperate enough to get with a woman that's been passed around, because most men don't have any self value or respect, so even a chick like that seems like a option when no man with self respect would give them the time of day for a relationship. Besides based off my own female friends, they just lie about their body counts, I know deep down they're hoes because they're straight up with me, but with the guys they see? They'll pretend it's a single digit numbe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:03 PM
1

Honestly? Probably would deny a relationship with both of them, the money would be a draw sure, but they're too skinny in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:59 PM
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I don't consider clowns like Tate, Fresh & Fit to be Red Pill in all honesty, not the original sense of it at least, they're a more modern hyper materialistic version of it focused on paying hookers and having the most expensive stuff possible. That's not what Red Pill was about originally, it wasn't about being rich and having material possessions it was about becoming a better man, but unfortunately that's what "Red Pill" is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:07 AM
4

Pretty sure Tate denounced the Red Pill long ago and pretty much lambasted everyone involved in it. He doesn't want to be associated with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:59 AM
0

God I would hope not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:52 AM
5

The saddest thing about this whole Trump thing is that it'll be old news and forgotten in about a week's time, shows how small our world's attention span is when people just move on to the next thing. Couple weeks from now people will be like "Oh what? Aww yeah Trump did get shot didn't he?"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:50 AM
2

I appreciate the sarcasm 🤣 can't get beta cucked if you're sleeping with other girls 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:28 AM
5

People who still watch Tik Tok will always baffle me, the short form content is designed to give you constant hits of dopamine which in turn burns out your dopamine receptors which lowers your ability to engage in delayed gratification. People wonder why their attention span is dwindling and why they can't enjoy things as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:04 AM
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The date with my virgin girl went really well, went to the arcade, whooped her ass at most things, although she did beat me at skee ball. Had a couple of drinks, walked around the city together, grabbed some ice cream. Was a fun night.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:31 AM
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Silly to get angry about it, but this is what I mean when I say women's humour is cringy. This trend is the type of thing they find entertaining. It's pretty embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:29 AM
1

Going out with the girl I've been seeing again tonight, should be a fun time, still taking our time as she's not quite ready to go all the way in terms of sex yet, which is understandable because she's a virgin, she's got a really good head on her shoulder, an adorable laugh too. Probably going to hit the arcade, she claims to be very competitive so we'll just have to see if that's the case, can't promise I'll go easy on her though I love my arcade games.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:31 AM
1

Women are the ones laughing and finding it funnier in my experience. Don't see many men making them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:55 AM
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Well it's a shame that Trump has won the election now it seems, he's going to take this assassination attempt and use it to make himself a martyr. The event itself is horrible, I find him to be a detestable human being who should be in jail, but I don't want him to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:41 AM
2

Men should look out for themselves first and foremost, it's about what he wants. If he wants to hook up and pursue random hookups he should do that. I've mostly moved on from it, but still, not everyone finds value in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:34 AM
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Women's humour is so cringy, if you see some of the stuff they find funny on Tik Tok or IG it baffles me, oh well it's not for me I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:32 AM
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Your first problem is focusing on women on the internet, the internet isn't real life, sure there's women out there who want revenge, but the world is a nuanced place at the end of the day, most feminists you meet in real life aren't the crazy types you meet online.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:52 PM
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It didn't just work for me overnight I put in the work to change myself, it took a long time but I stuck to it. Peace and love my friend, hope you find some happiness one day, negativity isn't your colour.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:39 AM
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Been fat, been ugly, been broke, I've looked like I've been balding since like the age of 3 (double cowlick), hasn't been an issue for me. By all means though, believe whatever makes reality easier for you to digest, if that means ignoring reality then go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:26 AM
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Why pay for Netflix when free streaming sites are a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:50 AM
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"I'm fat" "I'm ugly" "I'm short" "I'm bald/balding" "I'm broke" All invalid excuses. Quit using these as a crutch to be a lazy cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:47 AM
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The same men that say cold approaching women is pathetic are the ones too pathetic to put themselves out there and bet on themselves. Nothing more pathetic than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:42 AM
1

I couldn't care less about falling birth rates, they have nothing to do with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:19 AM
0

Why would you ever encourage men to be a step father? That sounds like a fate worse than most having to raise someone else's kids. You're really on it with the whole single mothers topic today ain't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:20 AM
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Mary and May sounds phenomenal. The other two? Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:18 AM
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I mean sure why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:18 PM
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I know you did, I was only reaffirming what you had said. And eh, I think it's not a black and white situation, you can be successful in some areas and a loser in others. For example with Wilson he can be a stud on the football field and be a champion of the game, he can also make some less than smart dating decisions. Like Will Smith, slightly different scenario, but sure he's a critically acclaimed and successful actor, nobody can take that from him, but when it comes to his marriage with Jada…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:10 PM
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I mean I personally don't use these services but I won't fault other men for using them. Look dating a chick can take time and effort, no guarantee you'll get sex in the first few dates. If you're a guy wanting sex straight away just skip the get to know you crap and go straight to the sex with a hooker. You'll probably end up spending the same amount of money as you would going on a few dates anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:05 PM
1

I don't remember that no because I don't keep up with the lives of celebrities. I do hate spineless and weak men, saddens me to see wasted potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:55 PM
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I think seething hatred is overdramatic but they're just not a good bet to date. No man should be subjected to having to raise another man's kids, it's not noble, it's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:11 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:51 AM
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Nobody has the right to complain about anyone leaving them for anything. People will do what's best for them, if that doesn't include you then it's goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:17 AM
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True, I can't disagree there, I think a lot of guys that go towards the Red Pill are just there to have their beliefs reaffirmed rather than actually challenge themselves or go and make a change in their lives, so they end up complaining online claiming they're self improving without any of the actual work. It's sad, laziness is a true cripple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:26 PM
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Eh I don't know about that necessarily, I think some people need that extra boost and if the Red Pill gave them that good for them. Takes some of them a while to get out of their socially awkward bubble and open up more. I don't really think it's a case of you have it or you don't, no inbetween.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:20 PM
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Yeah, the likes of Fresh & Fit, Rich Cooper and all those types aren't what the original Red Pill was about, it became "How can I become as materialistic as possible?"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:15 AM
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The Red Pill's fall from grace needs to be studied, it used to genuinely be a great community for guys to come in, self improve, get their body in order, get chick advice and once it was all processed they would just move on and go about their lives. Nowadays the Red Pill is a bunch of guys who just circlejerk and complain about how awful women are and how they just deserve stuff without actually putting in any work. It's a shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 08:35 AM
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