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Thank you, I try :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:18 AM
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I respect your view, but I disagree that they aren't pussies, and that's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 05:13 AM
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They are, but it's okay to disagree with that notion. I respect your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 05:12 AM
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Agree to disagree, all depends on your perspective. We have different views and that's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 05:09 AM
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Damn shame, it's sad our world has come to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 05:07 AM
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It just seems like a boring and miserable life, waking up every day just to do nothing? No way of leaving your mark on the world, not having goals or ambitions in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 05:02 AM
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Staying home all day stress free just means you've got no drive or ambition in life, a life without ambition is a miserable existence. I'm sad you feel that way brother, hopefully one day you have a better mentality about life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:58 AM
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If you consider this complaining then I'd hate to see your reaction to actual complaints.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:47 AM
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Oh well, we can agree to disagree then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:46 AM
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That's true, two parents working is fine, which is what most people are going through anyway. But one parent working and the parent staying at home being the Dad is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:42 AM
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Of course it does, it doesn't stop applying just because it doesn't make you feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:41 AM
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Having kids isn't the end of it, it also requires being a strong male role model and turn them into the best adults possible, no kid is getting that from a stay at home Dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:38 AM
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Shouldn't just means they shouldn't do whatever, some things are just stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:37 AM
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Eh probably, how long until that happens is a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:36 AM
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Fair enough brother, whatever works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:29 AM
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It is fantasy, people shouldn't be allowed to just do what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:29 AM
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Some of my opinions are inflammatory, most people have a couple of them. Inflammatory doesn't always equal trolling, I do genuinely look down on stay at home dads
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:27 AM
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Maybe, but it's a pretty wasted potential for a man to spend his life at home, could do so much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:26 AM
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I'm usually in favour of split custody. Kids still need both parents, just in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:26 AM
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Of course there is, biology is a thing, men and women are naturally inclined to go towards certain things. But I respect the dedication to the fantasy of "People should be able to do what they want" though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:25 AM
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Yeah maybe, but why make a post if you can't be a little dramatic? Goes for the both of us though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:23 AM
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Not how it works unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:23 AM
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Bit dramatic aren't we?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:16 AM
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Mainly just men who don't act like men are supposed to, we're put on this Earth to protect and provide for those we care about, not doing so is just genetic failure in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:13 AM
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Nobody ever said stay at home dads don't get denigrated by men, you're the one running with it. We're saying both men and women think it's pathetic, which it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:13 AM
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That's understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:07 AM
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Eh, I like to throw in some of my actual opinions here and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:07 AM
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Damn, the chances of the Tate Brothers being cleared of charges have just increased, Romanian court has ordered some of the evidence to be thrown out, DIICOT now has 5 days to decide whether to continue with the case or not from what I've heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:31 AM
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I mean yes, to me. My opinion is shared amongst many though, it's a valid point to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:17 AM
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A man who can't get a woman to make babies with him is pathetic, but if you're a man who ends up being a stay at home dad it just kinda feels like a waste, you had the chance to be a good example for your kids and decided it was easier to be a lazy dog you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:51 AM
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And that's okay, we all have different viewpoints on the matter, it's all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:50 AM
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Exactly, but people nowadays are willing to call anything admirable even if it's a man willingly going against his biological imperative.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:49 AM
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That's okay if you think it's dumb, we can just agree to disagree with it. No biggie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:49 AM
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Like I said, it's pathetic for a man to do it because they're less biologically hardwired than women to do it. Women are much better suited.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:45 AM
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It's fine for mothers, mothers are better suited to the stay at home role.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:44 AM
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About the same honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:38 AM
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And that's fine, they don't have to care or think about it 🤷 still have my opinion nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:17 AM
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Fair enough, it may work for a few people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:08 AM
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Have you spoken to people? The majority of people you speak to will still believe in either both working or the man working and the woman staying home, there will be some women out there okay with a stay at home dad, but a lot won't, as it doesn't exactly signify a man who's strong and capable of taking care of her. Stay at home men aren't strong men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:05 AM
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I mean I do personally think stay at home dads are pathetic, so yes, I do believe so, and the majority of women agree, an exception doesn't make the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:00 AM
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Sweeping generalisations make the world go round gotta love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:59 AM
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You don't have to believe it, I believe it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:57 AM
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It's just a discussion I wanted to get other's opinions on more than anything. Gotta be a little biting to get people to engage though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:54 AM
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He doesn't have to care, the point still stands 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:51 AM
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Agree to disagree my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:49 AM
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Fuck yeah I reached the top of a category.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:48 AM
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I mean if a man wants to pussify himself that's his choice, it's still pathetic 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:48 AM
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If the salaries are such a staunch difference, maybe that's an exception, still doesn't feel right though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:32 AM
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Eh, just seems a little pathetic for a man to willingly do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:31 AM
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True enough, ideally I'd like a trade wife, I'm flexible if other options become available though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:31 AM
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Maybe not, depends on what you work though, doesn't have to be corporate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:30 AM
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I mean you don't have to live in the 50s for basic biology to apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:30 AM
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I wouldn't see finessing your way into being a stay at home dad as a good thing, sounds like a miserable existence for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:17 AM
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Other men seeing it as feminine is definitely part of it, but let's not pretend women respect stay at home dads either, they look down on them just as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:16 AM
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I wish it was man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:15 AM
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I couldn't do it either, I like doing hard work but above all else I like taking care of people I love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:14 AM
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Women are biologically hardwired and better suited to stay home and take care of the kids, if anyone should stay home it should be her, it's pathetic on the man's part.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:14 AM
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Sad thing is I guarantee a lot of them would support it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:12 AM
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Now that I can get behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:09 AM
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I'm anything if not consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:02 AM
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What can I say? I'm a man of many talents.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:00 AM
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I mean hey, fair enough, each to their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:58 AM
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Eh that may be the case, I've seen many a couple with different eating habits though, it's more common than you'd think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:57 AM
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I mean, fit doesn't necessarily mean muscly 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:56 AM
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It's hard being such a beacon of light for this sub, but I do my best.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:55 AM
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I'm mean I'm not wrong here though, so the point stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:54 AM
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I don't live in America so beats me 🤷 not my problem. I didn't particularly like either of the options personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:06 PM
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No shit, I'm not saying they don't know I'm just saying nobody's worried about what the song is about when it comes on, they're just excited to dance to a banger of a song.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:04 PM
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Eh life's too short to not enjoy corny stuff I reckon, if you can't be silly and dance to terrible/cheesy songs then what's the point I say. Give me Barbie Girl, give me YMCA, give me Cotton Eye Joe, give me all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:57 PM
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I mean I guess Trump adopted it as his unofficial theme song, nothing wrong with that. I mean, corny songs are fun in my opinion, Cotton Eye Joe is another corny song for example, I still love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:55 PM
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I don't know? Are they? Just seems like a fun song to get crowds going at rallies, I think obsession is laying it on a little dramatic. I'll never understand complaining about playing a banger song because of the "subtext" of it, a banger is a banger. Just seems like a very chronically online take.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:52 PM
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I mean hey, it's pretty fun to dance to, always a crowd pleaser.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:48 PM
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So? Lots of songs have those types of stories to them, doesn't make them any less good. Nobody in real life is worried about the context behind songs, nobody is hearing YMCA come on at the bar and going "Oh my God it's the song about gay men hooking up!" They're going "Fuck yeah YMCA!!! Let's dance!"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:46 PM
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Because it's a great song? What's not to love about it? It's one of the biggest songs of all time for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:39 PM
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Just saw a video of Trump dancing to YMCA and I'm dying laughing, that's fucking gold, banger song.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:53 PM
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I don't think they do, the whole mantra of TRP is "enjoy the decline" so I'd argue most of them just want to get theirs and watch the world crumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:24 AM
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Because it doesn't make them "feel good" and it throws their "vibes" off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:57 AM
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Red Pill guys from what I've seen are pretty anti-traditional because a lot of the original cause was surrounding casual sex. I'm sure some of them do, but that sounds like a big generalisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:53 AM
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Nobody's arguing women shouldn't choose? We're just saying there's nothing wrong with anyone choosing to engage in those relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:16 AM
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I haven't argued that though? I've just said we're not in any position to object if someone chooses to pursue that type of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:14 AM
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I don't know what you're trying to argue as I've not said most people want it, I've just said there's no issues with a couple having traditional roles if they so choose to. I think you're having a whole different conversation altogether with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:08 AM
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Huh? I've never been married nor have I cheated on any of my partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:07 AM
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I never said they did? I said if a couple wants to there's no problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:05 AM
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I mean I never hated the women I used it on, I loved and enjoyed spending time with most of them, like I said, I was throwing shit at the wall to see what sticks. I never hated any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:02 AM
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Worrying about what's "normal" holds a lot of men back, they're worried about how others perceive them, it's silly. If you want to approach a woman they just need to suck it up and do it, if people think it's weird so be it, just know the time to leave if she's not feeling it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:00 AM
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Maybe not, but if neither person in a couple objects to upholding traditional gender roles I don't see a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:54 AM
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Pretty much, that's a fair call, you have too many younger guys meddling with the original cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:50 AM
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I mean I guess so, but if a couple wants to stick to traditional roles I don't see an issue with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:47 AM
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I mean I can see the first two, what's wrong with traditional gender roles though?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:43 AM
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I can't argue there, the Gen Z guys like you said go off the garbage they see on Tik Tok and see it as "Red Pill" when a lot of what I see just isn't what it was about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:43 AM
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A lot of it used to be genuinely just guys helping each other become better men, holding each other accountable and now it's just guys screaming into the void about how unfair life is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:42 AM
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Maybe so, and I'm not being disingenuous because interacting with Red Pill guys and keeping each other accountable in our goals was a massive help. You don't have to like it, but it doesn't make the improvement any less valid just because TRP played a part in it. Hell I'm not proud of being a little manipulative here and there in my early casual days when I was just throwing shit at the wall to see what stuck, I've moved long past TRP now because I've had my fun and I'm with someone I love, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:40 AM
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Most of the guys from the prime Red Pill days aren't online discussing it, they moved on and just applied the teachings in their one lives. A lot of modern Red Pill guys haven't done any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:36 AM
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I mean I'd imagine plenty of Red Pill guys have had success, the reason a lot of people on here don't believe it is because realistically, they're not online discussing it, most of them read the teachings and moved on. I do think the modern Red Pill guys are much worse and stuck in the anger phase, which is why it appears to a lot of people on here that they're not "successful" because they're too busy whining instead of applying things to their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:35 AM
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I mean fair enough, I can respect that, at the end of the day I saw TRP as almost an accountability reminder and all that, just reading it a bit each day to make sure I was sticking to what I was supposed to be doing and all that, I never got all that deep into the more woman-hating stuff, wasn't my taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:33 AM
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It was nearly 4 years ago at this point and you're asking me to recall exact details? Like I said, I spoke to blokes who had also been struggling with self confidence who then proceeded to follow The Red Pill, whether it was them being single, letting themselves go within a relationship becoming miserable. All I know is after that I started reading more about TRP, read most of the sidebar and started applying it. I know what you're trying to get at here and I think it's a little silly honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:30 AM
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I've noticed on here whenever a guy says they had a positive experience with TRP and talks about how it helped them there's a small subset of people that will kick and scream going "NO IT WASN'T TRP THAT HELPED YOU IT WAS (insert whatever) TRP DOESN'T HELP MEN" Yes, you know more than the person with the actual experience, sure thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:26 AM
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Mainly just read success stories about blokes in similar situations to mine at the time as well as blokes that were struggling to get themselves out of a rut over on the now deleted askTRP sub. It was good stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:21 AM
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I was in a relationship at the time and was mentally checking out, I wanted to stop being the relationship guy and focus more on becoming the casual guy, I'd kind of let myself go and was struggling to find that momentum again, I started reading TRP subreddit and that eventually motivated me to get out there and work my arse off. I broke up with my ex and started focusing on casual sex only, so while it may not have been The Red Pill itself, it was the community that got me where I wanted to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:16 AM
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I mean I personally don't believe in LMR, women being the oldest teenagers and all that stuff, there are those of us that aren't into the fringe extreme stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:14 AM
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I mean hey, better late than never. Eventually got my self confidence up enough to act on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:09 AM
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True enough, I'm not big on them either, it's why I've never paid much notice to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:03 AM
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I mean for me personally, I knew all of it beforehand, but I never had the confidence or self-esteem to actually take the step, Red Pill was the kick in the arse I needed that pushed me to make those changes. Eventually I got tired of procrastination and TRP just happened to be what made it happen. But there are quite a few guys who fall into the category you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:00 AM
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Eh I think There's another set of men that can fall in that I'd place myself in, guys who know what to do but had zero self esteem and confidence to take that step, Red Pill pushed me to take that step.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:17 AM
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If that's how you'd like to see it, then you're more than welcome to believe so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:14 AM
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You've just made that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 11:57 PM
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Good morning everyone, it is a beautiful Monday morning and it's time to get to it, remember to go to the gym, remember to eat clean and work hour arses off today.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:55 PM
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I was, I'm not anymore, but when I was going after casual sex all of it worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 02:01 PM
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I mean I can be sexist, we all can sometimes, but it's never impacted my ability to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:58 PM
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Pretty much, you worded it better than I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:57 PM
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I mean, plenty of guys get into good relationships even if they're misogynistic, they seem to be doing just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:57 PM
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Pretty much, it has lost all meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:44 PM
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Exactly, the majority of men don't hate women, what women consider hate has such a low bar that it just comes off as being a little pathetic, eventually you just need to get to a point and tell them to suck it up if those women continue on that route. Most sane women don't care though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:38 PM
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Exactly, most women don't care, they'll usually just laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:37 PM
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Exactly, most women aren't sticks in the mud in regards to humour, maybe the chronically online women are, but most women in the real world are happy to banter and do tit for tat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:26 PM
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Fair enough, I get along with people on both sides, as I'm not bothered by people's political beliefs, if you're nice to me, I'll be nice to you. But in my experience, I've had more fun with my conservative friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:18 AM
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Left wing used to be the counter culture, it was about sticking it to the man, it was about fuck the establishment, now they've done a 180.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:30 AM
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None of that is redpill. Physical excercise ain't pilled, y'all are deranged. Of course it isn't pilled, but you're talking about an audience which has quite a few men down on their luck and with zero self esteem, if TRP can get them into the gym, that's a good thing. This is litterallly the "blue pill provider" simp nonsense. So no, unless you want gold-diggers. It can be, nobody ever said you actually had to spend that money on women though, you use that money to make yourself more appealing. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:27 AM
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In my experience people who lean more right wing are more fun to hangout and spend time with than people who lean more left wing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:18 AM
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They can never keep their false dichotomies straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:44 AM
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Well most men aren't going to become famous rappers who can get women off of clout alone, so you have to give them realistic advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:30 AM
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Eh maybe, but oh well 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:21 AM
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I mean I had my years of spinning plates and implementing all of the RP stuff I learned, and now I've got my girl that I'm dating, so as far as I'm concerned it was a success. I'm happy with what I got out of it, I'm done with it now. But I will always advocate for men using it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:19 AM
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I mean there's no real way to measure how many men are using it, some may be open about it, some may keep it to themselves, there's plenty of factors that go into it. It was the most effective for me and other men I know though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:17 AM
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I don't know most men, so I wouldn't know for sure. But I imagine quite a few do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:12 AM
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The advice I got worked, why would I need anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:10 AM
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Eh, usually it just sped up the process for me more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:09 AM
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Who said anything about watching videos on YouTube?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:08 AM
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I don't know, I reckon it's pretty effective, it worked for me just fine, better than any other advice I got.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:07 AM
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Well there's no "need" for most things, but if it's effective then why not use it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:03 AM
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I mean I got some advice in my earlier days from blokes who pulled, and it pretty much always aligned with TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:03 AM
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Spinning plates was the biggest thing I got out of it In the earlier days I did use stuff like dread game, negging and some of the less savoury tactics and they worked on quite a few. Above all else I ended up just being the one in the partnerships with the "power" if you will, they were more into me than I was to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:02 AM
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I really think these people that are mad about it are in your head, majority of people don't care, in the real world at least. Sounds chronically online to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:00 AM
3

I wouldn't say so, like I said, plenty of men are misogynistic and open about it, they still get laid. I'd argue they go towards those influencers because there's no real role models for them to look up to, so they go to the first influencers telling them to man the fuck up and start working hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:55 AM
2

I mean not really, I don't know most of the people in my lives political views.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:51 AM
1

You don't, people's politics, religious beliefs are none of your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:44 AM
1

I mean, it hasn't steered me wrong yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:43 AM
1

I like mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:36 AM
-2

I think they realised that just being a good person and themselves didn't work out so they're desperately trying to cling to the hope Red Pill isn't reality, when it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:20 AM
1

Maybe, maybe not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:02 AM
2

Because I'm not moving to a shit hole country.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:02 AM
0

PUA just depends on the person really, I've tried it and it's not the worst, but I prefer other alternatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:01 AM
0

You can do, and I've practiced abundance when not having many options, it's difficult but it can work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:01 AM
4

It's all they have "Oh RP men are just bitter!" They have to convince themselves of that so they can be in denial that it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:00 AM
3

No thanks, I'm good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:59 AM
10

I think you're making that up, plenty of Red Pill guys are successful, hell Red Pill got me more success than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:59 AM
10

The men complaining are the ones that are open about being Red Pill, you're supposed to just implement the strategies and ideas, not discuss them. And misogyny has never been a deciding factor on a man's dating success, plenty of misogynistic men get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:59 AM
1

I mean true enough, they somewhat go hand in hand though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:57 AM
8

I mean I never struggled with Red Pill, so it worked for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:23 AM
9

Listening to women and what they want when it comes to dating ended up with me not getting any for a long time, it was once I started listening to successful men that I started getting results. Women give terrible advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 07:42 AM
1

I love starting trends. The "bar" debate will surely go on for weeks now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 07:06 AM
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Eh not really, it's Reddit, if I wanted genuine discussion I'd go elsewhere, Reddit is for laughs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 07:05 AM
1

Eh, partial trolling, partial wanting people's actual opinions. I don't see that as a bad thing, it's Reddit, not parliament.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 07:04 AM
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Well by beer belly I just mean a girl with some meat in her midsection. Beer belly is just the best term to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:59 AM
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Speak for yourself, more for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:56 AM
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One million beers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:54 AM
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I don't simp for just any woman, but God damn, if she got a beer belly....lord give me strength. I love my girls with some meat on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:53 AM
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I come here to instigate more than anything, I don't care if it's men or women I piss off, I'm just happy to spark discussion and if it leads to a couple of pissed off people my job is done. I don't take this shit that seriously, it's all fun for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:29 AM
17

The bar is in hell because women don't have to accomplish or have much going for them to get a man, that's in essence what the bar is, the bar is the standard you have to meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:14 AM
3

Men as a whole won't do that because quite frankly their results will stay the same, even if they raise the bar, those same men will still be getting minimal to zero results.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:04 AM
2

Maybe so, at the end of the day, there's always going to be a case for both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:56 AM
1

I mean it depends on the person, one person's shit may be another person's gold, it's all about perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:51 AM
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Dating someone who has hoe friends is shooting yourself in the foot, you're the sum of the five people you spend the most time with, why would she be any different if she hangs out with people that are hoes?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:51 AM
0

Maybe lucky isn't the correct word to use, but they do have far more options to sift through than men, so I can understand why to someone that may be viewed as lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:48 AM
2

He didn't say that women couldn't have standards, you're reading into what he's saying too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:46 AM
9

Yeah, women always have and always will have it easier when it comes to using dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:46 AM
-1

I mean it purely depends on the man that you're talking to, it could be different depending on the guy, there's no way of objectively measuring it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:45 AM
4

I never said it wasn't important? I said it's not the be all and end all. That's where I think you're being dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:41 AM
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I can see it like that, it just seems like a deflection on women's behalf.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:41 AM
3

Maybe so, but it can play a very important factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:40 AM
8

I don't know who's telling you all this. I think you're being a little bit dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:39 AM
3

I didn't say it was a compliment did I? I just said that's the case, most men will fuck most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:38 AM
4

Maybe they don't, but they're being taken down the wrong path by other women upholding the "unrealistic beauty standards" that they claim men uphold. I'm saying men don't uphold anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:37 AM
2

Maybe so,the amount of good men that are good enough for relationships is aplenty though, so it shouldn't be too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:25 AM
1

Pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:23 AM
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I'll never understand the people who actually take this subreddit and Reddit as a whole seriously, just sit back and have a laugh, life isn't that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:20 AM
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It's PPD, when it comes to debate, the bare minimum is perfectly fine, you have to remember who we're dealing with on here. And eh, I just write posts that I know might spark discussion, I don't put anymore thought into it, plus a title that's a little baity and there you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:14 AM
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Well the engagement on posts in this sub wouldn't be anywhere near as high if you say only a certain group of men or women are like something would they? It's much easier to generalise when you're having discussions about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:04 AM
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Women are misled by other women for sure, they blame men when the majority of us don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:06 AM
5

Pretty much, if a woman exists there'll exist a man that would fuck her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:06 AM
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Some are, some are too pussy to take the further step.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:05 AM
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Yes of course, it's pretty funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:05 AM
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r/nothowgirlswork from what I've seen is just a bunch of chronically online women mad at being criticised for anything. Seems to be the same for 90% of women's subs on Reddit. For a group of people on here that supposedly dislike men they sure talk about men a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:05 AM
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I mean so you know for sure they aren't? They might be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:00 AM
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Pretty much, women talk about these high beauty standards but the majority of men don't hold those up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:00 AM
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It's quite safe to just assume based on her lifestyle, she may not be a hoe, but if she goes out clubbing and parties every week I'll just assume she is and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:56 AM
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Ong bro you just ain't skibidi with it I finna pull you up on a fanum tax so why don't you go hawk tuah and spit on that thang.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:55 AM
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Why you'd want to mod this shit hole I have no idea my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 01:54 AM
1

I just like to try and get on people's nerves here more than anything, it's fun. This sub is so much more fun when you don't take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:37 PM
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No woman is hard to get, she's not interested in you. A woman who is interested in you will break every rule for you. Move on bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:10 PM
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I faced that rejection and adversity for years my guy, I was chubby and I wasn't good looking at all throughout high school, but in my last year I started going to the gym and taking care of myself, after a while, the results started coming, the rejections started becoming less frequent and I started getting some. It can happen, I know better than anyone being rejected over and over again, I get it, but I made it change.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:54 AM
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People on Reddit don't have relationships? Surely you know how ridiculous you sound?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:31 AM
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You have the right mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:58 AM
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I mean for most people it does work out, the exception doesn't make the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:25 AM
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I don't have to worry about any of that my friend, I've got my girl, she's lovely. But if you're happy to keep complaining and being miserable about how unfair dating is, more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:25 AM
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Plenty of people are still cold approaching women, if you live online then sure, you'd believe it's dead, it happens though. And hey, if you're too much of a coward to get better at approaching women, that's your choice, other men will step up and be rewarded though, you can't let your pride prevent you from doing stuff and occasionally making an arse of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:21 AM
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You can call it being a circus monkey or you can be a man and realise that the only path to improvement is consistency, are you a circus clown at work because you show up and consistently improve at your job each day? Are you a circus monkey by consistently going to the gym and getting stronger? No you're not, so the same applies to cold approaching women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:14 AM
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Pretty much, people think it's a cliche but it can be an effective strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:09 AM
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That's the right way to do it, you're doing better than the majority of men purely by forging your own path.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:08 AM
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The people who are so against the nuclear family are lost, why anyone would disagree with it I have no idea, it's objectively the best environment for kids to be raised in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:00 AM
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Maybe so, but it's not impossible, I think persistence and consistency is the best way for those men to improve their cold approach skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:59 AM
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Was having a conversation with a couple of my female friends about clubs and all that in regards to a relationship, one of them was talking about how her guy was uncomfortable with her accepting free drinks at the club, they asked me what I thought and I told them if I found out my girl was accepting free drinks at the club she wouldn't be my girl when she got home, I find it very disrespectful. They didn't understand so the three of us debated it for a bit but eventually we agreed to disagree a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:10 AM
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Of course men worry about those things, that's just a given. Those are worries by default, but we're talking about dating dynamics here, those ones don't need to be said because they're common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:04 PM
1

OF is much easier to hide.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:04 AM
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I doubt it, it'll be lonely virgins who can't get any.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:55 AM
1

Your world view is extremely immature if you truly believe any of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:48 AM
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Any man who uses sex bots is a genetic failure. Imagine being such a pathetic excuse of a man that you need to use a robot just to get laid. The world will be better when these wastes of semen are removed from the gene pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:40 AM
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If you're willing to let your friends cheat and break their partner's heart then that says more about you as a man than anything, letting your friends act in a low value way is cowardice, I do it for my friends but not others because I like to hold my friends to a high standard, if I cheated on someone I'd want them to tell my partner (ideally I'd tell them first). You're a coward if you don't hold your friends accountable, you can't call yourself a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:35 AM
1

That's a very pessimistic view of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:33 AM
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I mean it is what it is, I'll make new friends, I'd never allow myself morally to be friends with someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:53 AM
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I couldn't care less if it's not by business, if my friend tells me to lie for them I'm not going to, it accomplishes them receiving the consequences of their actions, if you cheat on your partner you deserve to be snitched on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:51 AM
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All I'm saying is they're both as depraved as each other, and I would want neither reproducing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:51 AM
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Damn, he just like me for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:51 AM
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If I ever find out one of my friends has cheated on their partner you can bet I'm ratting them out in a heartbeat, I don't associate with cheaters nor will I let them lie to their partner. I'm a bad friend? I could argue you're a bad friend for wanting to me to lie to your partner because you couldn't do the easiest job in the world, staying loyal to your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:50 AM
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Well then, that was an enlightening conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:29 AM
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I don't know what that is either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:27 AM
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That's fair enough, but at the same time, if someone is willing to go to lengths to have a sex bot, then it's probably a good thing they don't end up having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:25 AM
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That is true, I believe that in most relationships though, the man is the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:25 AM
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I have zero idea who that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:24 AM
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Men are the prize, no I will not elaborate, but this is an objective truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:20 AM
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Both are just as depraved as each other, the world is better off with both of them removed from the gene pool, neither deserve to ever reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:19 AM
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Why, I'm highly offended that you would ever believe I'd go out of my way to bait, especially the good people of PPD, I won't tolerate this slander.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:14 AM
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Me? Bait? Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:03 AM
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Patriarchy is good for society, and should be implemented far more often, bring it back in all of its glory.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:58 AM
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Mate I bet you could have any woman you wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:20 AM
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I wasn't talking about hate towards me, it sparked hate in general
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:20 AM
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It got the response I wanted, some nasty debate throughout the comments, was good reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:08 AM
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Agree to disagree, but you're entitled to your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:47 AM
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I had a feeling the party girls post I made would spark some hate but damn you guys out did yourselves, I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:37 AM
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Eh, partially instigation, partially just warning some of the men that weren't aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:30 AM
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By warning them not to deal with party girls, making sure they don't make those mistakes that I've made and I've seen other guys make.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:29 AM
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If they don't want to sure, I like to think my girl right now is pretty amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:28 AM
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No I'm mainly warning people about my own experiences in the party scene, I spent about two years going out every weekend, whether dating them or being friends with them I know plenty about party girls, just warning other guys from making the same mistakes I've made, and others I've seen make. I'm out of that scene now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:27 AM
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Nah my tone was genuine confusion, I'm good at playing the "aloof" sort of vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:52 PM
2

I wouldn't know, I moved on from casual sex a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:51 PM
1

I hope you all have a blessed day, remember God loves each and every one of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:32 PM
3

Most people in this sub didn't mature past high school and you can tell exactly who fits into that category with the way they argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:15 PM
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My opinions are based on my own experience of being in the party scene for a couple of years, whether dating them or being friends with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:14 PM
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People on this sub have a hard time grasping nuance and it's pretty sad. If you don't like a certain type of person to date it must mean you can't get that person, no other reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:11 PM
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The ones that know her well and know how she operates absolutely feel bad if he's in a full on relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:03 AM
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I barely get angry anymore, it's just a waste of time, it doesn't help, it doesn't change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:53 AM
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I mean, I used that exact line with the girl I'm seeing. We were talking about how damn dating podcasts are: Her: There's that Andrew Tate guy too Me: Who? Her: Andrew Tate? Me: You've lost me Her: You don't know Andrew Tate? Bald British guy? Me: Oh, he's the breathe air guy yeah? Her: Yes that's him Me: Oh okay, I don't really know him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:50 AM
0

I'm a former party guy myself, I lived it for a good couple of years, I got out when I realised how miserable i was. I had fun for a couple of years, but long term? Not a lifestyle worth pursuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:47 AM
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I lived that life, and trust me it's not worth it, I'm still friends with some party girls, it's not a good life at all. Just trying to help men not make the same mistakes I've seen many make.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:46 AM
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Not really a fantasy when I've seen it with my own eyes, I used to live this lifestyle, I'm still friends with people who live it, it's very real.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:45 AM
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The amount of modern Red Pill men who don't know how to keep their mouth shut is insane, can't help themselves when women ask them their thoughts on certain Red Pill ideas or people. Andrew Tate? Never heard of him. Joe Rogan? Never seen a podcast, don't have an opinion on him. Jordan Peterson? Haven't seen enough to form an opinion. Just lie, pretend you don't know any of these people or don't have much of an opinion. That simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:41 AM
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Nah, they may say that up front, but anytime I've seen a guy date a well known party girl, they just feel bad for him because they know he'll get fucked over sooner or later.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:36 AM
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Eh, each to their own, not my idea of fun anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:16 AM
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I wouldn't call it a false dichotomy when I've not only dealt with these types of girls, I'm friends with quite a few of them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:13 AM
2

Not worth it in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:11 AM
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The amount of people on the internet that are okay with someone getting hurt or physically injured or want that person to get injured is psychotic. I don't care how fucked up someone's views are, I'll never wish ill will on someone, it's wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:00 AM
1

Oh well, we'll see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:03 PM
1

Nah not yet, I want to wait honestly. Long gone are the days I jump straight into bed with a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:39 PM
2

I mean we've been talking for a while now, I'm down for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:14 PM
4

Hot women are far more feminine. Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:38 PM
7

Had a third date with the girl I've been seeing, spent the day at a botanical garden and then just cuddled near a pond in the garden. I'm going to her sister's birthday party next week so I'll be meeting the family and friends. Keen for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:35 PM
6

One of the biggest indicators to a woman that you're a man of quality is your competence, specifically being the type of man who'll get on with it and get what he needs to done regardless how he feels, he's not the type of man that goes "Oh I was going to workout today.....but I have a headache so I won't go" Her pussy would dry up hearing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:06 AM
2

Wish me luck, just made an unpopular opinion post shitting on step-dads and men fathering kids that aren't theirs. This could get very ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:28 AM
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creates post "This post has been removed, please reflair post as a debate" Create post again with debate flair "This post has been removed for being a rant" You can't make this shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:12 AM
3

I remember once someone said that all you had to do was dress nicely and shower regularly, and he said that's literally all you need 💀💀 They take the completely opposite view, that anything and everything Red Pill is wrong and you're a horrible person even if you agree with a single aspect of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:46 AM
3

Just saw a comment on r/exredpill saying most successful people and most actors in Hollywood disagree with Red Pill actions and misogyny......you sure about that???? With all the horror stories about Hollywood being a massive cult I'd argue the opposite is true, I assume most people in Hollywood are deeply fucked up and hold some discriminatory views at this point. They're not going to say any of that shit publicly though, they have a brand they have to uphold, also don't want to piss off the el…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:30 AM
3

Yeah the emphasis on work in SK is a massive determinant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:18 AM
2

I mean I don't see how any normal person actually has time to pay genuine attention to these personalities in the first place, don't they have jobs and families? It's much easier to just go "What a dick" and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 02:23 PM
0

I just assume they're unemployed if they're so invested in what an internet personality has to say, nobody with a normal busy life has the time or energy to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 02:19 PM
1

I get it, but still, you'd have to have a lot of free time on your hands to let an internet personality have such an impact on your emotions. Normal people don't get riled up by this shit, because they're too busy to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 02:17 PM
1

Eh I just can't see why any same person is giving the time of day to a random internet clown, let him tell into the abyss and do literally anything more productive with your life is my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 02:16 PM
2

They really haven't painted themselves in the best light after the election, it's been quite sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:41 PM
-1

Exactly, but you have Redditards who go "Umm actually Nazis deserve to get their shit kicked in! Consequences!!" Who the fuck has time for that shit? Nobody with a job and who actually has a life has time to go and find internet personalities who upset them, I don't care how fucked up his views are (they're pretty fucked up). I will never dislike someone so much that I'd go out of my way to find them, I just move on because I'm an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:40 PM
1

That's what caused me to make the comment. Only someone chronically online/mentally ill would go as far as to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:38 PM
0

Jesus Christ, Nick Fuentes is a little rat no doubt about it, geek of the highest order, but the amount of people wishing genuine harm on the guy and letting a dickhead on the internet anger them so much is insane. If an online personality genuinely makes you THAT personally angry that you look forward to seeing them get the shit kicked out of them you need to rethink your life, you're mentally ill if that's your mindset. Whatever happened to the days of just moving the fuck on if you come acros…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:30 PM
1

Who pissed in your corn flakes cupcake?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:29 AM
2

S Tier: SwoleAustralian F Tier: Everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:29 AM
2

Took women this long to stop having sex with men? Fucking rookies, I've been avoiding sex with men my whole life, get on my level.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:26 AM
1

It's a based list.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:18 AM
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Imagine being scared of women, your ancestors and bloodline would look down on you in disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:18 AM
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The 4B Movement hasn't been the driving factor behind South Korea's declining birth rates though, lifestyle choices have, it's a very work heavy country. 4B is a fringe niche movement over there. It's not going to change anything in America, as women are basically saying they'll stop sleeping....with men they already weren't sleeping with. I think you'd have to be very chronically online to take part or even know what the 4B Movement is, nobody in the real world knows about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:17 AM
1

No, right now. Go to the gym right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:41 AM
1

Yeah that's fair enough, can't blame you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:06 AM
1

Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:00 AM
1

Fair enough, I use mine for just about everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:00 AM
1

Damn we must be at different gyms then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:59 AM
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If you haven't gone to the gym today, make sure you do, there's no excuse to skip training!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:44 AM
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It's a thing in the minds of women who likely weren't sleeping with these men in the first place. Like it is in South Korea, it'll be a fringe movement but it won't have any major impacts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:35 AM
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I think the more I go on, the more the move to just fully pirating all of my media seems more enticing. Streaming services don't make it worth it anymore. Plus with all the different services it costs too much to upkeep. The only one I keep is Netflix because my family uses it, but now with my VPN I can just access other Netflix catalogues from different countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:34 AM
1

Eh, you never know really.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:06 AM
1

Everytime you read something on Reddit that's largely agreed with, just remember that same opinion is either unknown or unpopular in the real world. Redditors have a warped view of how the world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:54 PM
2

I mean I find it disgusting because I took part in it and ultimately regret it, could have done more productive things with my life but I spent it hooking up with random girls for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:52 PM
1

Probably a half and half split.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:52 PM
1

I did partake in it for a couple of years, I regret nearly every hookup I've had because I realise that all of it was a waste of time, I would have been better off doing other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:51 PM
1

What if instead of PurplePillDebate, it was PurpleFreakDebate, and instead of arguing over gender wars we had a sub wide makeout session.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:11 PM
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Because they have aspects of themselves that aren't desirable and that needs to change, telling a fat man to be himself is terrible advice, he needs to be told to lose weight and start working out/eating right.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:53 AM
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Unfortunately for some people, being themselves is a negative trait, because themselves isn't enough. Some men need to do more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:52 AM
1

The death of hookup culture is a long time coming, I'm looking forward to it. Casual sex is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:42 AM
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I don't disagree, but at the end of the day the right wing wasn't going to vote in the half assed right wing party, they were always going to go full speed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:15 AM
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Same as I said above, Democrats tried too hard to appeal to the right wing, and for them, why vote for right-lite when you can just vote the actual thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:11 AM
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Democrats tried too hard to appeal to the right wing voters anyway, why vote for right-lite when they can just vote for the actual thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:11 AM
1

This could have all been avoided if they'd just run with Sanders 8 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:55 AM
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At the end of the day I don't like Trump as a person but at the same time, the DNC don't help themselves when they pick supremely unlikeable candidates, or people who won't actually make a whole lot of change.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:53 AM
1

I tell my beer getting machine to shut his whining and bring me another beer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:51 AM
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I mean I highly doubt anyone from this sub actually acts like this in real life, but still, I think the men and women on here are not representative at all of the real world, so you're probably right.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:51 AM
1

I must say I'm shocked that the VP of a widely unpopular president who herself was even more unpopular as a primary candidate didn't do well in the election, shocked I tell you. All this could have been avoided if the DNC stopped getting in their own way and stopped forcing candidates, instead just letting the people vote for their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:49 AM
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Women are threatening to stop having casual sex and to make sure they have a partner their values align with? Shit maybe Trump being president was a good call after all, the culture is already fixing itself! I'm all for the death of hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:06 AM
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I really don't get how anyone on this website can sustain their anger over the whole week, I barely can stay angry for a few seconds nowadays, it's just a pointless and waste of an emotion, getting angry never actually solves the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:28 AM
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They seem to genuinely believe you can't be in the middle and have views on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:56 AM
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They lost because they lost the support of the working class, plain and simple, Sanders said it best. You can take those racism and sexism excuses to the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:35 AM
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I mean some men will, some men won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:03 AM
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I imagine that's a small demographic of conservative men online, most of the men with "conservative views" I know in real life are in relationships with women with similar views. Goes to show the internet isn't real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:02 AM
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I mean I personally don't care, as long as they're nice to me and they're attractive I don't care what they believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 12:51 AM
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The more I see it, the more I'm convinced the narrative that "conservative men are desperate to fuck liberal women and lie about their political leanings to get laid" is purely a social media narrative. I'm really not convinced this is something that actually happens a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 12:31 AM
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This is only the start, people will bitch and moan on a new level like never before.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:12 PM
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Imagine going to university and having to pay off your student loans and debts for the rest of your life, so glad I left that scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:11 PM
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Great way to put it, at this point a life of comfort scares me more than a life of hardship, because it means I'm not learning or refining myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:05 PM
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Exactly, couldn't have said it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:05 PM
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You can say all you like for your personal experiences, all the times I grew the most and learnt the most are when I went through pain and suffering. Pain made me a better man and taught me more about myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:37 AM
2

I've sworn off Australian beers, they're shit for the most part outside of a couple (I'm not touching that fucking fruity IPA shit) International/imported beers it is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:51 AM
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It has been really entertaining to be honest with you, it's only just the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:50 AM
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Oh settle down mate don't take things so seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:47 AM
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Must be an eastern states thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:46 AM
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Man, Reddit has been a fun place over the past few days, I love all the chaos and I love the meltdowns, if I knew how bad it would get I would have supported Trump to be elected a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:59 AM
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Reddit isn't a reflection on the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:26 AM
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Well if it's going to be anyone, it might as well be me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:26 AM
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They have no clue about the real world, they think their lives are over because they live in the Reddit bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:51 AM
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Women weren't fucking those men already, so what's changing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:14 AM
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No the vast majority of women in America probably don't, the ones on Reddit though? More of an argument on that front. And hey, I'm more interested to see if it actually happens and if women have the balls to do it, if enough can get on board they'll get my props and I'll admit I'm wrong. But for now, I think it's all talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:37 AM
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I doubt the amount of men saying any of that is substantial, maybe a few of them are. But I highly doubt "all" conservative men are saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:35 AM
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I can't speak for what other men talk about at the end of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:34 AM
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I don't honestly, I'm just playing instigator to be real with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:33 AM
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I wouldn't say it gets under my skin, I'm just interested whether people think it'll eventuate or not. Agree to disagree. Plus trolling which is also fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:31 AM
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Oh I still wanna talk about it, I wanna get people's takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:50 AM
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Because it's funny watching people whine online, plus still salt farming here and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:43 AM
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That's what I'm saying, no real world woman is actually talking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:37 AM
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I mean I'm in a country that's not effected by it, I just don't women have it in them to stick to it though, I think it's all talk, if they prove me wrong I'll give them credit. But as of now? I just think it's hyperbole, I don't think they have the balls for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:37 AM
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Maybe in smaller droves, I doubt it'll be anything substantial.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:33 AM
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I mean I'm over in Australia, so it's not something that would effect me, I just think the vast hyperbole and overreaction I've seen is hilarious. It's not complaining, I just don't think women actually have the balls to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:30 AM
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Exactly the point I'm making, no actual women are discussing it or even know what it is, it's restricted to the Reddit echo chamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:28 AM
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All I'm saying is, I'll believe it when I see it, at the moment I think it's all talk and just understandable frustration from the election results.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:27 AM
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I mean is it really a surprise to have someone say this extremely unlikely scenario is extremely unlikely to happen? It's just common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:27 AM
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Hmm if anything I feel like this is going to end up effecting more liberal leaning men than anything, conservative men will just pair off with the conservative women and start pumping babies out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:26 AM
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That's the thing, the ones supposedly boycotting weren't doing it in the first place, so....keep being you I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:25 AM
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Exactly, people aren't going to stop just because you tell them they should, and yeah I don't think anything will come of it, it's still funny to sit there and read them acting as if it's going to happen. Their optimism is cute I'll give you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:24 AM
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You see it all over places like r/TwoXChromosomes and other women's subs saying that if men really want a loneliness epidemic then they're about to get one and all that, a lot of them seem very convinced it's going to take off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:20 AM
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Damn people on Reddit really believe that the 4B movement is actually going to happen don't they? A movement that makes up less than probably 1% of the South Korean population is going to take America by storm, sure thing. It's chronically online behaviour, remember Reddit and Tik Tok don't speak for the real world, if it's popular on Reddit, then that means most people probably don't know about it in the real world. Did people learn nothing from this election?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:05 AM
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It's Reddit, none of the problems people care about on here are actually problems in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:01 PM
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I do think looks CAN play a factor into whether or not behaviour is considered creepy, but at the end of the day I think people on both sides of the issue need to realise Not all behaviour will be universally considered creepy or acceptable. A guy can approach two girls and get two completely different results, one may really be into it and the other may be extremely turned off. I think guys who do want to approach need to understand that some girls will find it creepy, and you may come off as c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:57 PM
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Anyone with a working brain understands why young men gravitate towards those figures, they don't have to agree with it, hell I don't always agree with it, but I absolutely understand the appeal to young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:33 AM
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If people are still genuinely confused why you have young men moving towards the right wing and listening to the likes of Joe Rogan, Andrew Tate, Donald Trump and the likes after the way people have carried on since Trump won the election, you'll never have a clue, nor will you ever empathize with why young men are in a crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:27 AM
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I'm pro doing whatever you want with your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:24 AM
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I don't live in America, nor would I have voted for Trump if I lived in America, however I have zero sympathy for America for voting him in, this is what your country wanted, this is what you get. If people still don't get it now, they never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:23 AM
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They're full of it, they won't do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:16 AM
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So to look at the list so far of people who are "to blame" for Trump winning the election: White men White women (poor manipulated souls were obviously forced to vote Trump) Latino men Black men Indian men Racists Sexists Non voters All to avoid the real people who are to blame: The Democratic Party and Kamala Harris.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:38 AM
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This website is only a small proportion of men though, most men out in the real world aren't discussing this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:53 AM
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"Oh but those women were manipulated by their husbands" Because a woman can't possibly be against abortion on her own accord.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:51 AM
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I'm genuinely sitting her baffled by the women online going "Men just don't care about abortion as much as women do" No fucking shit? The gender that can't get pregnant doesn't care about abortion as much as the gender that can get pregnant, what a shocker. Why would you expect otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:43 AM
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I think people need to stop looking at politics now through a "moral" lense, throughout human history, none of this shit was ever decided or centered around being a "good person" or not, being a good person has never fucking mattered when it comes to the people who make decisions, why do you think even to the earliest times in human history, being a "good person" got you fuck all? Aztecs would rip people's hearts out Why do you think people were lynched? Politics never came down to a person's mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:26 AM
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Didn't Bono say he would drive off a cliff and end his life if Trump won the election? Is Bono a man of his word? Or was he just talking shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:26 AM
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Bullying the liberals is always fun, I didn't even vote her, live on the other side of the world, but I'm still going to have fun bullying them for the LOLS.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:25 AM
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I have to say I'm going full salt mining on the political subs now, fuck Trump, but trolling all the cunts that astroturfed every subreddit with Kamala Harris propaganda for the last month or so is too much fun to pass up. Fuck it, I'll enjoy their tears.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:16 AM
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Elon Musk is about to get in on that trade and make so much money off of SpaceX and Tesla branded sex robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:14 PM
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I have to agree, but people aren't going to stop giving into instant gratification, we as a species don't have a great amount of mental discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:13 PM
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I'll believe the sex boycott in the United States when I see it, women on Reddit don't represent women in the real world, people will go on having sex like normal, all the outrage that happens on Reddit will be kept within the Reddit bubble. Life will go on as normal. If you genuinely believe women en masse will stop having sex because of this, I don't know what to tell you, you're not very bright, you don't really have a grasp on the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:09 PM
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Well we're going on a third date so yeah she's pretty based.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:21 AM
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We're in Australia, we just watch from afar and enjoy the chaos.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:20 AM
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No but I say y'all, I like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:18 AM
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Honestly Trump's a piece of shit but also fuck America, so this is probably my favourite outcome, my preferred option when it comes to America is always chaos. So fuck it, I'd say I'm here for Round 2 of Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:17 AM
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The girl I was on a date with today and I were keeping up with the election while we walked through the zoo (morbid curiosity) and she was stoked Trump won, she said she hates Trump but can't stand Kamala more, safe to say she's very pleased.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:15 AM
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Honestly laughing at America right now, y'all voted him in so you deserve whatever happens to you now. Look forward to watching that shit country burn to the ground under Trump. Don't feel bad at all for whatever happens, no sympathy from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:51 AM
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What if instead of "Make America Great Again" Trump's slogan was "Hawk tuah!!! Spit on that thang!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 06:12 AM
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She won't block a guy friend that wants to fuck her because "that would be mean" But she'll block you the moment you piss her off. If you're not her top priority then she's for the streets, send her back to where she belongs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 06:03 AM
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TRP has had zero impact on the real world, the only place it's discussed is online. Think you're vastly overestimating its impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:59 AM
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I rightfully see people calling Trump garbage but I laugh at the people pretending that Harris and Walz are good people, they're politicians, people forget that politicians are objectively bad people no matter what. You can't become a politician and not be a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:45 AM
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Muted a bunch of subreddits like pics, politics, unpopular opinions and pretty much any sub talking about the whole election and politics in general. Get this shit off my page, I don't give a shit what happens to America.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 04:55 AM
3

Love bombing works fellas, easiest way to get chicks obsessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:43 AM
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People say I have a gambling addiction I just call it dedication.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:01 AM
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"I CAN'T HIT MY PROTEIN" 7 scrambled eggs, 100g of smoked salmon, 1 whole avocado, 100g of protein, over 1000 calories. No excuses!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:38 AM
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I assume it does, if they don't though they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:46 AM
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Honestly I suspect it gets done already, but honestly I think that celebrities should make presidential candidates bid for their endorsement. Have them go "Hey, Harris just offered me $5 million to endorse her, you give me a higher price and I'll endorse you instead" Make them earn your services.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:41 AM
3

Chicks often hate it when you're in an argument with them and don't provide the reaction they expect, whether the issue is minor or major. It's important not to give in. If you respond with indifference or simply say "okay" to everything they say, it frustrates them. They seek an emotional response, and if you don't give it to them, they lose their leverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:01 AM
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On Tuesday, Americans on this site and every other social media weill inevitably whine that their favourite team didn't win the presidency, people will praise that things will finally change for the better/worse and in 4 years people will still be complaining that nothing has changed. A cycle that people can't help but putting themselves in, "Left bad" this and "Right bad" that, you're all morons in the first place for believing that either shit stain running for the position cares about you in …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 08:46 AM
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Anyone who unironically uses the word "ick" in regards to its modern meaning in dating is a child, nobody normal or well adjusted is worried about "icks"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 07:45 AM
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Plenty of them would still cry about their "freedoms" being taken away.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 07:28 AM
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I mean fair enough, the meltdown would be worth it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 07:28 AM
1

No clue what that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 07:28 AM
1

Probably not, but I would laugh my arse off watching the porn addicts cry their eyes out on this site.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:54 AM
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I will say as much of a vile human being as Donald Trump is I 100% fully support the porn ban completely. Fuck the porn industry and everyone involved in it, vile industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:48 AM
3

Remember that there's no such thing as a "hoe phase" A man can't blast tren for years and then claim to be "natty" after they come off Once a hoe, always a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:54 AM
2

You yourself should also have a clean past.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:51 AM
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Hasn't slept around is a big factor, wasn't a party girl, didn't dabble hard in drugs and booze benders etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:50 AM
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Most women won't marry you unless you have a promising future, that's fair. You shouldn't marry her unless she has a clean past, that's also fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:28 AM
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The five types of women to avoid dating: - Coworkers - Your friend's ex - Your ex - Party girls - Single mothers No exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:23 AM
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Hookup culture is a scam people get conned into thinking that they're "living their best life" but it's not what it's cracked up to be. Make relationships great again, committing to one person, getting married, having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:57 AM
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Wow I checked out r/exredpill, they're not very bright over there are they? Nor do they have much good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:50 PM
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Halloween costume is all sorted for this week, keen for it. Ghostface it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:19 AM
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Fair enough, at the end of the day I'll never tell someone what they can and can't do, that's wrong, I'll never be able to control someone's choices, all I can do is analyse if that person fits into my life anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:44 AM
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I'll never understand the men who think they can tell their partner what they can and can't do, you're giving up your frame instantly by doing that, if they want to go to the club or go out with their whore friends that's their choice, they just won't be in a relationship when they get home. Don't threaten them with stuff just break up with them, rip the band-aid off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:27 AM
3

A moment of silence for all of the men that had their girlfriends or wives go out for Halloween this weekend without them, it's time to get into the gym and forget about them. Those hoes ain't loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 09:22 AM
3

A moment of silence for all of the men that had their girlfriends or wives go out for Halloween this weekend without them, it's time to get into the gym and forget about them. Those hoes ain't loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 09:22 AM
1

Gotta love how Reddit thinks calling a man a misogynist will make him go "Oh no...no no no not a misogynist! I've been living my life all wrong! Where did I go wrong in my ways???" When in reality it's just "Lol K" Like oh no don't call me a misogynist, anything but that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 03:59 AM
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I would straight up date a McDonald's worker and I'd be happy, I don't care what my woman does for a living. As long as you're kind and cute you could be a fast food worker or a coffee shop barista and I'm happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:56 AM
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I don't think I could ever date somebody who thought going out and clubbing/getting drunk every weekend was fun, it's the complete opposite of fun to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:48 AM
2

I genuinely don't know how people can be involved in politics outside of elections, even just going and voting is mentally draining. Once I vote my obligations to politics is done for the next 4 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:28 PM
1

To be fair I mainly brought them up because they're factors discussed on here, they aren't things I'd mention to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:58 AM
1

Objectively? Probably 6-7, but those types are my 10s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:15 AM
1

I mean what I find attractive is probably different to a lot of people, I've always found thick/chubby women attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:06 AM
1

I'd say it's pretty rare in the current world. She was good looking in my opinion, she was my type for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:03 AM
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I did like her beyond that, she was kind, she was good looking, easy to talk to. I just listed those traits because they were things that mattered to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:02 AM
1

Oh well, if I don't find someone like that again I'm happy to just be single then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:48 AM
2

True, going to be awhile before I meet someone that good again though. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:46 AM
3

At the end of the day I wanted a girl who had similar interests to me, wasn't interested in getting drunk or partying every weekend and she was just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:46 AM
2

Surprisingly not yet but they'll come
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:44 AM
3

Why's that bud?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:44 AM
1

Yeah we saw each other for a few months, but we both knew long distance wasn't realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:44 AM
5

Sad to think I had a girl that was pretty much perfect for me and in the end her/her family had to move so it didn't work out. She: Didn't drink Didn't smoke Didn't vape Didn't party Didn't go to the club Preferred staying in Low body count She had pretty much every green flag a woman could have and unfortunately it wasn't meant to be, and we weren't doing long distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:36 AM
3

Remember to go to the gym today if you already haven't, there's no excuse to skip the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:02 PM
2

I just say pull the "it doesn't matter" card and never give an exact number.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:35 AM
3

People will say men ask about body count more often yet 9/10 when I've been with a girl she's always been the one to ask me first.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:00 AM
3

If doing basic shit like eating right and going to the gym is being a slave to you then I think you're too far gone. It's okay, if you want to sit around doing nothing and eating shit for the rest of your life that's your choice, but there's so much more out there. Besides self improvement is a core tenant of RP, you can't be RP and not believe in self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:49 AM
2

No I get it, the whole "B-but women don't have to self improve!" Tough shit, we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:43 AM
3

The funniest criticism I see of RP is that the strategies aren't "normal" or "that's not how normal people date" Who gives a fuck? Why would you want to be normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:42 AM
2

You should be improving yourself regardless of whether you're dealing with women or not. Self improvement is the bare minimum any man should do, you should be working out daily, you should be eating a clean diet, you should be trying to learn more, get your money up etc. If you're not doing those things as a man you're not doing anything right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:40 AM
1

It's hilarious that there are women nowadays that find sucking a man's dick or getting finished on their face less demeaning than cooking and cleaning for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:24 AM
-9

Traditional relationships generally are the most successful, so no surprises.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:46 AM
2

I feel bad for all the kids of pornstars and OF workers, imagine having to grow up knowing that kids in your class have probably viewed her content. "But they probably live a comfortable life" No amount of money will make up for the hit to the kid's pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:44 AM
2

I will never understand people who buy premix spirits instead of just buying the bottle and the soft drink seperately, it's so much cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:02 AM
5

I don't care who is right or wrong, if I'm watching two people arguing, and one person is raising their voice and getting angry, I'll always side with the one staying calm and speaking normally, I don't care if they're wrong, I have zero respect for people who can't control themselves emotionally, it's a sign of low intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:48 AM
2

Honestly, focusing on older women and going after them wouldn't be a bad call, they tend to love me. Hell when I was working in a clothing store and wore tight fitted button ups and dress pants they were always flirting with me. Probably because I remind them of when their husband used to be fit and attractive before he got fat and out of shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:43 AM
5

I think the worst part about the whole male loneliness epidemic is that people who refuse to believe it's true will just brush it off and pretend like the people complaining are bad people: "Oh you're lonely? Have you tried not being misogynistic or a piece of shit?" It's much easier to act like there's not a problem when you act as if lonely people are bad by default. It always comes down to sex too, they just go "Men are sad they don't have community and feel like they can be heard? Yeah right…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:22 AM
3

I'm not worried about changing people's opinions, I'm just here to see everyone's perspective, learning how different people think is fun. It is what it is at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:13 AM
1

That's a sick plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:28 AM
1

Oh I don't, I'm just seeing if anyone will bite.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:19 AM
3

Halloween isn't just the time of year for going out and getting drunk in costume, it's the night of the year Dads drink the most after having to see their daughter dress like as big of a whore as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:40 AM
1

"Why excuse me dear, would you ever so happen to be interested in joining me in an evening soiree, you look ever so beautiful in the moonlight"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:54 PM
3

Just remember that all these pills are purely online discussions, nobody is talking about or even knows of the red pill in the real world. It's just not a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:29 AM
1

Great Northern (easiest and most crisp beer) XXXX Gold (almost tastes like creaming soda, gets you pissed quick because they're easy to smash) VB (just for the sake of it, VB sucks but it's a meme) Most hipsters will tell you to drink craft beers though, some XPA or IPA bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:54 PM
1

Millers Draft, Coors, Budweiser (not light)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:52 PM
1

I have to say just like your coffee, American beers are piss weak, like seriously, you're not helping your stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:54 AM
4

I'll never understand people who would protect their friends and defend them if they cheat on their partners, not only am I telling your partner I'm probably kicking your ass too. I've got no time for people who do such a thing, especially if I know how sweet and cool their partner is. Like fuck you, you ain't my friend if you do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:16 AM
1

Yeah I won't lie the alcohol discount I get as a bottle shop worker is insane, if something is like a 10 pack or slab/carton at least $20 gets knocked off everytime. It's genuinely insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 10:02 AM
1

The point is people are so desperate to attach a label to themselves, hell I've got traits that would link me to "identities" or "archetypes" but I don't label myself as any of that, because it's silly, I'm just me, nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:41 AM
1

So many of you don't know how to just love for yourself or be yourselves anymore, no, we have to attach ourselves to an identity and all that rubbish "I'm a sigma" "I'm an alpha" "I'm a strong independent woman" "I'm a boss bitch" All complete garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:05 AM
2

Never been attracted to thin women, nor gym women ironically enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:44 AM
0

God I love nerdy/chubby women, just women in their purest form in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:23 AM
2

Why do some of you, worry about the most stupid things, that realistically, have no effect on your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:16 AM
1

God I love working in a bottle shop, the alcohol discounts are insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:41 PM
2

Of course they are emotional, and that's a fair point. The point however is that even if you are upset that someone rejected you for something you don't think is valid, that's your problem, not their problem. It's why in that case you just go for people who won't judge you for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:49 AM
3

Improving for dating is improving for yourself, the women you get as a result are to your benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:43 AM
2

You have to love that for the first time in a long time you have an actually rational post on this subreddit (you can reject anyone for whatever reason you want), yet people still find a way to complain or disagree. Let me reiterate that user's point: There is no such thing as a bad or wrong reason to reject someone (outside of certain topics, however those are still your choices you're allowed to make) If someone has too high of a body count for you, then you can reject them, if someone has a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:39 AM
1

Why people had to turn run club into a dating service I'll never get. Plus running sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:38 AM
2

Because I like having options too much, it's a gift and a curse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 10:37 AM
2

Yeah but rankings change so often to the point I lose track sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 10:24 AM
3

When you're carrying multiple friends with benefits, multiple long distance connections and in multiple talking stages but your favourite one goes and gets tied down 💔 Sad times. Gotta go find a new favourite.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 10:15 AM
1

My life has been far from easy unfortunately, I wish it was, at the end of the day though, I worry about the things I'm able to control and let life take control of the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:28 AM
2

A lot more people would be happy if they just adopt the mentality of "it is what it is" No matter what happens, life will throw curve balls at you, some good some bad, but at the end of the day, shit happens 🤷 you can't control it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:07 AM
3

I may be single but at least I can say I've landed the majority of women that I've wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:36 AM
2

I low-key lose respect for my friends whenever they go back to an ex, whether male or female, I know my friends aren't that fucking stupid. "But I love them" Don't care, you're better than that. Just sucks sometimes, nothing you can do about it either. They'll know if I don't like their ex but you always gotta end it with "But I don't know, I can't tell you how to live your life"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:25 AM
3

10 Things I Hate About You is the best rom com/coming of age movie and you can't change my mind, plus my hometown boy Heath Ledger is in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:26 PM
1

Pretty much, they take up about half the movie too, the song choices sucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:57 PM
1

Gaga was one of the only somewhat decent parts of it honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:43 PM
3

Man, I really regret spending money to go see Joker 2 tonight, what a waste of time. I had low expectations going in but they were completely blown out of the water, what a terrible movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:30 PM
3

Not with that attitude it won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:41 AM
3

Say "chat is this real" when they show their tits to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:37 AM
1

Am I a dick for always rejecting to hang out with my friend's friends because there's one person I can't stand? My friend always invites me but if I know if that person is going I'll always make an excuse not to go, which sucks because they go to a lot of the group hangouts. Usually I would suck it up and just go but I'm at the point in my life now where I won't give the time of day to someone if I don't think they warrant it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:01 PM
1

Club bitches are nasty
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:06 AM
1

Nightclubs are overrated, don't waste your time in places like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:04 AM
0

America is one of the biggest shit holes when it comes to first world countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:03 AM
2

I feel like a lot of the stuff that gets discussed on here is only really relevant to the Americans, a lot of topics of discussion on here just aren't all that relevant in the rest of the world, not in Australia from what I've seen unless you're really chronically online, to be fair I think you'd have to be chronically online to know what incels, SMV and other stuff are anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:20 PM
-1

Oh well, the world isn't very nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:39 AM
0

Eh, fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:39 AM
1

Why do I care about any of this though? None of this makes my life any better, my life is better when I'm spinning plates and having casual sex with women. My life gains nothing from settling down with one woman, marrying her and raising a family, I don't get anything out of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:57 AM
-1

As much as a lot of men in the Red Pill want to help other men escape from the Blue Pill generic beliefs that are holding them back, I'm all for letting other men fail, as far as I'm concerned it's every man for himself out there, if anything, encourage more men to believe in the Blue Pill so that you stand out as a better candidate in the dating market, you eliminate the competition and it's an easier ride for you. I'll happily fuck over other men in that regard if it means my prospects are bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:54 AM
2

I hope you're having a good day 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:05 PM
6

I'm drunk as fuck right now but I hope you all have the best day, you all deserve the best in life,no matter what you believe, just know I believe in you. Life will throw curve balls at you, but you're strong enough to get through it. I'm definitely taking advantage of the liquor store discount.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:51 PM
3

I remember how long I tried to make myself enjoying going to nightclubs and going out drinking, I tried so hard to enjoy it, I went out with different people, I got really drunk and fucked up sometimes, I did everything I could to make the best of it but everytime I've gone to a nightclub, I ended up wanting to leave within half an hour, I just can't stand them. Luckily I don't struggle with dating so I don't need to go to these places to approach, they just make you miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 04:47 AM
3

At the end of the day it just saves an argument and a hassle, I'm looking after my best interests first and foremost. I don't have time to deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:45 AM
4

"Men don't care about body count" "Women don't care about this" "Men don't care about that" I think people forget how easy it is to just lie, when it comes to body count and sex, to their face? I'm the most progressive guy there is "What? Why would I care? That's in the past, anyone who cares about that is just insecure!" But deep down I'm already planning to leave and I'm judging them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:40 AM
5

I mean most people aren't going to say up front. I never do, but deep down I'm judging and creating my exit plan already if I hear a sex life they've had that doesn't align with what I want. But to their faces I'll pretend I don't care, because I don't have the time to deal with that argument or debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:26 AM
1

Hmm we'll have to agree to disagree on that one then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:04 AM
1

Commonly accepted doesn't make it right though, again, left and right terms are far too simple, they're for lazy people who don't understand politics on a deeper level.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:02 AM
1

Terms like left wing, right wing, liberal, conservative don't mean anything, they're for lazy people who can't be bothered doing any reading or for people who watched a couple of videos they vaguely agreed with. Left and right wing is extremely outdated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:45 AM
–

Question, what is the genuine appeal of buying an iPhone 16 or Samsung S24? Spending over 1k on a phone when you can probably get a good phone for half of the price.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:43 PM
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I mean I think Americans have made up their minds anyway, these debates aren't going to do anything except maybe change the minds of about 60,000 people in inconsequencial states who were likely not going to vote anyway, it's all for show. I do think Harris going for the "Trump is insane" card is a good angle though, because the proof is in the pudding.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:19 PM
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Donald Trump I do not believe to be an absolute idiot, he may be a vile human being in every sense of the word, but I don't believe you run for president three times and win presidency once while being an absolute idiot, I do believe however, that the American people are absolute idiots for even letting the psychopath run in the first place or even putting him in that position. If you can listen to any of Trump's inane rambling and think "Yeah this guy would run the country well", then guess wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:05 PM
10

My apologies, I was mainly coming at it from a place of showing the perspective of the other guy and that mentality, it's far from a nice mentality and it's gross to look back on.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/24 02:00 PM
1

Yeah I know, I'm not proud of how I acted, but it's what I did, still a slow move away from the terms, hard to not use them when you got used to it for so long.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/24 01:47 PM
2

Was nothing to do with that in that moment, my mindset at the time was purely one of just moving on without confronting the problem. I'm not proud of it though, but it was a time of needing validation.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/24 01:46 PM
-3

Not fully no, but I'm working on it, I'm far better than I used to be. Still working on getting there.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/24 01:45 PM
-8

Usually whenever I was called out on it during my Red Pill phase I'd just move on to one of my other plates and dedicate more time to them. No big deal.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/24 07:52 AM
4

Had my first shift at the bottle shop today, was pretty good. Easy stuff, just serve costumers and stock, easy stuff. But now I'm getting drunk and high for the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:48 AM
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Yeah that's definitely going to be one of them with how flexible it is, festival season here is coming up anyway so plenty of work to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:38 AM
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Festival and event staff is basically first come first serve, you work whatever events you want to work. The other two are more regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:34 AM
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Funnily enough my base rate for festival staff is $30 an hour, so triple penalties would be HUGE. And yeah I reckon those will be my choices either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:32 AM
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I've gone from having 0 jobs at the start of the week to 3 jobs now, I'm only going to keep two of course, but my options are, Liquor store worker Festival and event staff Sporting clothes store What two do we reckon?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:26 AM
0

Pointing out the discrepancy is fine, the problem is when those same men will go "Women don't have to improve so I'm just not going to either." That's what I'm mainly talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:35 AM
2

Very lazy, it takes them out of their comfort zone of sitting on their arses smoking weed, binge watching Netflix and playing video games. I do all of these things myself, but I still make sure to meditate every day, gratitude journal, workout and read for an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:33 AM
2

Men on here will do anything to avoid self-improvement it's fucking hilarious "Oh I don't get return on investment bro!" "Women don't have to self-improve!!" "It's a waste of time" Making positive changes to your lifestyle and your habits is the furthest thing from a waste of time, who cares if women don't self improve as much? It's not about doing it for them, you're doing it to make your own life better. When I hear someone say they think self improvement is a waste of time it just makes me th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:30 AM
6

A lot of people on this subreddit are all talk: "Oh I'm just going to never approach women or talk to them again because they already get enough validation!!" Do it then, instead of whining about it on here, actually do it. Go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 08:02 AM
2

Remember to go the gym and eat clean today, your body is your temple, it's your job to take care of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:12 AM
3

Because I was struggling with taking that next step to get more into that casual sex stage, I just needed the push and reminder to do what I needed to do, it didn't really do much itself out of the reminder to stay on top of things. Once I was done with casual sex, Red Pill had no use for me anymore, plus I avoided most of the other people involved who were deeper than I was, it gets a little weird at that point. Feminism is alright with me, do whatever you want to do with your life, I'm not bot…
/r/ExRedPill18/09/24 02:10 AM
-1

From what I've seen I still don't get people who think the Democratic Party in the US is left wing, in regards to purely the USA, they're more left than the Republican Party, objectively they're still right wing though. Makes me laugh when I see people call the Democrats "the loony lefties" when they're the furthest thing from left wing. They'd be a right wing party in every other country in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:10 AM
2

As a dude who grew up fat, getting complimented for my looks since getting swole has been a huge ego boost, about time I got all that validation. Besides being objectified and looked at as a piece of meat is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:10 PM
1

One exception doesn't make a rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:09 PM
4

I would rather be liked for my shallow looks than for who I am as a person, it's nice to be objectified.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:54 PM
2

I think a lot of people here need to remember that when you're arguing or debating with someone on here, they probably knew they were wrong about 15 minutes ago, they're just continuing purely to piss you off and get you angry now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:53 PM
3

I get that, men have the opposite problem unfortunately, we never get complimented on our look for the most part so we crave those sorts of compliments more. It's a double edged sword, women want more compliments about their personalities and who they are as people, men want more compliments about their appearances.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/24 09:54 AM
0

As I said to the other commenter before, most of my comments on PPD are trolling because it's a cesspool and it's entertaining. And I wouldn't say I'm angry at women at all, more just disappointed in myself, it makes me feel like I could have done more to make myself more physically appealing, so when I do get those compliments about my personality it comes down to "What could I have done better?" Like I said in my post, I'm aware it's my own insecurities. And when it comes to the bullying about…
/r/ExRedPill15/09/24 07:01 AM
3

Oh I forgot to delete that post, was just trolling PPD because it's a cesspool on all ends and I felt like sparking debates. But my actual beliefs are just do whatever makes you happy.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/24 04:13 AM
3

Sure, I've known that deep down, it's just hard hating my appearance for so long, finally getting it to where I want and then still not getting the level of validation I was hoping for. It sucks, big oh well.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/24 04:11 AM
2

Fair call, at the end of the day though I ended up growing up hating my appearance so it hasn't been easy coming to accept a lot of things, I'm slowly working on it though and building a better relationship with my body.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/24 04:10 AM
2

The problem with a lot of modern day streamers like Adin Ross for example, isn't spreading of "dangerous rhetoric" the worst thing is that he and others like him are teaching their younger audiences to be impulsive, because their audiences have grown because they do outrageous and dumb shit, once the money well dries up they have to out-do that, leading to more impulsive behaviour, which will inevitably effect their young audiences. Impulsivity is the height of immaturity, maturity boiled down t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:06 AM
2

It's really not that difficult to stand out as a man, most men don't have anything going for them nor do they have anything that makes them stand out, put in the work and you'll be miles ahead of most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:40 AM
-3

You should be self-improving anyway, you should be doing all of these things in the first place regardless of whether you're doing it to improve your dsting prospects or not, at the end of the day these are the things that will help you stand out, and when the majority of men on this planet don't take care of themselves, don't have anything going for them and don't have the discipline to improve themselves, then by doing so alone, you're already making yourself stand out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:39 AM
1

Oh well then, the simple solution is to ignore the women that do value personality first and focus on the women that put looks first.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:35 AM
1

If I wanted to be complimented on my personality I'd go to my friends and family to tell me all the things they like about me as a person. I don't care if you're attracted to my personality, don't tell me about how I make you feel safe and all that, that's well and good, but tell me about my appearance and how hot you think I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:48 AM
1

If you believe abundance mentality to be magical thinking then I don't know what to tell you, it's a real thing, not just in relation to dating, but to pretty much everything in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:00 PM
1

It's not delusional when it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:57 PM
1

Abundance mentality genuinely can make a man ten times more attractive than he is if he had a scarcity mindset, which most men have unfortunately. Most men get hooked on one girl and fixate over her,they wait eagerly for her texts, they get upset when she doesn't respond in a quick manner, they overthink everything they say, that's because they're worried they won't find another woman any time soon. The reality is your mindset should always be as a man when it comes to dating: "There's always an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:47 PM
1

You're misreading what I'm saying and coming to your own conclusions, when I say "regular person" I mean talking to her just in a normal friendly manner, just having a conversation about whatever. And that's quite a generalisation to say that men treat "regular" women very poorly. I'd argue the majority of people, man or woman treat each other well and with respect when you're out and about, a minority of people who do the opposite doesn't change that. But you're entitled to your opinion though,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:40 PM
1

It's not false, you precisely proved my point, 10s get treated like celebrities as you pointed out that when you don't treat them like that and you converse with them like any regular person, it's a nice change of pace for them. That exact pretty privilege is why people don't treat them like a normal human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:31 PM
2

At the end of the day, for most men, the problem is they treat women as if they're above them, the same way that a lot of people treat celebrities, you're instantly placing them above you and giving them power without them even doing anything. If you see a celebrity you don't go up and ask them for a photograph or autograph, you just treat them like you don't know who they are, like a regular person. Like the 40 Year Old Virgin says: "You're putting pussy on a pedestal man" 10s are easier to bag…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:07 PM
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He may be paying prostitutes, but he may just unashamedly be himself and that rubs off on others, he knows what he is and he's cool with it. That level of confidence can be infectious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:27 AM
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The overall goal is to not treat them like they're better than you or above you, it's the same mentality with celebrities, they hate when people come up to them and treat them like God's gift to the Earth, they love it when people just come up and talk to them, when people don't give a fuck who they are. It's the same with women, they always say you'll have better luck with 10s than 7s because the 10s aren't used to actually being treated as anything other than a celebrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:25 AM
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It'll be the usual responses, the women on here will say that they love when men open up and express their feelings but deep down it inherently disgusts them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:23 AM
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The people who make me laugh the most are people who worship politicians as if they have their best interests at heart, especially those who volunteer for political campaigns. There aren't any politicians that have your interests in mind, none of them, they're all self-interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:22 AM
2

Remember to stay hydrated today, and remember that this sub isn't that deep, you don't need to get angry at others for having a different opinion to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:32 AM
5

Meditation and journalling have single handedly saved me from going down a bad path, ever since I started years ago I've never had better mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:13 AM
1

Not the pamphlets, go somewhere that has all the information on each candidate, read their policies and pick the best one, these debates are pure peacocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:19 AM
2

I think debates are pointless yes, just read up on the candidates the night before, you'll be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:16 AM
3

I don't know man it feels like a lot of Americans nowadays don't talk about anything but politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:13 AM
3

Trump is obviously more evil, Harris is still a politician though, all politicians are vile human beings, you kind of have to if you want to be one. There's no such thing as a politician than's a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:13 AM
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Do y'all have nothing better to do than watch two evil people debate? That's the best use of your time?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:09 AM
3

I do feel the problem with The Red Pill currently is that you have too many false idols coming in and trying to "claim" it as their own and use it to manipulate others into buying their courses, I can comfortably say that the original Red Pill wouldn't have time for clowns like Andrew Tate, Fresh and Fit, Sneako and others.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 01:15 AM
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Seeing the post about women going into depth about sex with their friends, I don't care if you're bragging about me or leaving glowing reviews about me, keep your mouth shut about our sex life, that's between the two of us, it shows I can't trust you. I remmeber my ex revealing she'd spoken positively about our sex life to her friends and I remmebr straight up telling her if she did it again we were done, I have zero tolerance, if I ask you not to do that and you still do, it shows you're not a …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:28 AM
1

At the end of the day it's just hilarious people think their rights are being taken by either rolling their window down or getting out of the car. Big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:18 AM
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Your rights aren't being taken away by getting out of your car for a couple of minutes mate. A minor inconvenience for yourself sure, but by not you're just making the situation go longer for no real reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:17 AM
2

Just seen the Tyreek Hill body cam footage, he made it worse for himself. If a cop asks you to get out of the car don't be combative, just do it, saves everyone lots of hassle. Don't be one of those "But erm actually the law states", seriously don't be that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:31 AM
1

I don't know mate, I reckon you're still amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:58 AM
2

"We're just little specks compared to what's going on up there in the universe, no matter how small and insignificant that may make you feel, you're still amazing" Sassy the Sasquatch Little quote for you all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:44 AM
1

It's not about being pretty it's the personalities underneath.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:46 AM
6

The proof that sexuality is not a choice is men being attracted to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:30 AM
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When a girl says she doesn't go out a lot but she hugs the bouncer at the club. Sorry bro she's not the one. The ones that are always out partying are for the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:06 AM
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And they're welcome to do that, it's about looking after your fellow man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:38 AM
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Oh well fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:37 AM
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I mean it can be retroactive jealousy sometimes, and that's okay. And depends, if I can coach her through it to get better? Sure I'd go through it, most girls can't give head for shit anyways, I'm happy to think about the long term for that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:35 AM
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Good call.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:33 AM
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Yeah true you just get that feeling of "This shit isn't going to last" after you hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:33 AM
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I'd say more people in the world care than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:32 AM
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Again, I still believe the guys who claim not to care are the insecure ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:32 AM
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I mean hey I make sure I don't date smokers as well, is that a fixation?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:30 AM
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I do ask it, everytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:29 AM
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It's not even a fixation really, it's a quick question. "How many people you been with?" "insert number I'm not okay with" "Okay we're not compatible bye" Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:51 AM
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Yeah of course I'll ask, I've had it divulge into them cursing me out a couple of times, no biggie.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:49 AM
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Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:41 AM
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No I can't say I've heard that one before, I just don't like it, simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:40 AM
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Maybe a little hypocritical, but hey, my best interests will always go first. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:36 AM
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Ah not really, mine is pretty decent, if I was looking for a relationship I'd absolutely care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:35 AM
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Yeah you're being dramatic, it's nowhere near what you're making it out to be in the real world, maybe online it's like that, but nobody acts like that in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:21 AM
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If you're worried about "women's egos" your priorities are wrong, who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:07 AM
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Seems my post about men needing to get over themselves unsurprisngly brought out the dudes who look for any excuse to make up why they can't do something. I don't think some of them can even be called men at this point, they definitely don't have the qualities of a man if they're scared of something so simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:01 AM
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Do tell me how I'm the problem, I'm providing the solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:39 PM
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That sucks, unfortunately that's one of the exceptions where you're going to be hampered by default, which sucks. I'm mainly referring to the people who CAN change things but choose not to because they're either a pussy or lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:19 PM
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If you're not willing to make the changes to make yourself a better person along with a better candidate in the dating world you have nobody to blame but yourself if your options are lacking. People shouldn't have to lower their standards so you can have a better chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:16 PM
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Mate at the end of the day if you want to come up with every excuse you can to not do anything about your situation that's your problem not mine, but yes, not wanting to get better at cold approach and improve your social skills makes you a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:19 PM
1

Woo boy there's some men on here that are pussies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:01 AM
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That's a lot of words just to say "I'm too gutless to do anything"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:00 AM
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Because it's good to be out of your comfort zone, you should want to push yourself to be in uncomfortable situations as you become desensitized to it after a while, it just doesn;t register. Besides, getting rejected gives you the chance to try out different approaches, see what works and what doesn't, it's all experimentation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:12 AM
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Improving your own life should be a given already, you should be doing that regardless, letting yourself become more comfortable with approaching and rejection in my opinion is improving your life though, because it's a learning experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:08 AM
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I mean hey, I've shot myself in the foot plenty of times, it's not fun in the moment, but within a couple of minutes I'm over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:06 AM
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Fair enough then! Good stuff here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:06 AM
2

Gave me a chuckle here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:03 AM
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That's fair enough, I can respect that, but honestly, I'm of the mindset it's better to shoot your shot and miss than not even bother shooting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:02 AM
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Of course, and while they of course don't have to do it, I think they're limiting their life experiences by being afraid of being rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:01 AM
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Very dramatic mate, it's not going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:01 AM
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I kinda did, they need to get over themselves because at the end of the day rejection is apart of life, you can't let it stop you from doing stuff otherwise you're limiting yourself to a lot of life, there's always a chance of rejection, but it's better to take that chance and get rejected than not do anything. Besides if guys want to get anywhere in the dating world then they need to get used to approaching women, no matter the setting, the more well rounded your social skills are the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:00 AM
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They're not obligated sure, but if they want to get anywhere in the dating world they need to suck it up if they're afraid, cold approach itself is good as I said above for just making yourself comfortable talking to anyone, it's worth getting good at.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:56 AM
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Good advice, but honestly I believe cold approaching is a good skill to have, if anything it gets you comfortable talking to pretty much anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:53 AM
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What hypocrisy, I've stated multiple times in the comments I'm not interested in a relationship, nor have I implied I want a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:26 AM
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To people personally? No. Shit posting on random forums? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:47 AM
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Are you surprised? Most people on here suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:33 AM
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I'm saying they should at least try it, if they don't like it after trying it that's fine, but I'd give it a go before saying it's not for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:08 AM
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Fair enough, it's not for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:01 AM
3

Hydrohomies are the realest ones in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:57 AM
2

Who said I don't use protection? That goes without saying. Didn't think that would need to be clarified.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:51 AM
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Shit posting is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:51 AM
-1

Oh well fair enough mate, I don't put too much value into this place so I'm quite happy shit posting and doing whatever amuses me, may be different for you and that's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:50 AM
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Fair call, that's a good way to look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:49 AM
1

Fair enough, I think it can be good for men to experience it but yes, it's not for everyone. I think at least trying it is worth it at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:49 AM
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Maybe it is, you never know if you don't try though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:48 AM
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Fair enough, not everyone is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:48 AM
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Fair enough man, respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:48 AM
3

Hope you all have eaten plenty and stayed hydrated!! Make sure to be drinking plenty of water.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:47 AM
1

I've never called myself alpha, I think the word is stupid as are most in this space.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:43 AM
1

People here can be so serious sometimes, lighten up and have a laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:20 AM
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If you're expecting "good faith" posts from Reddit you're in the wrong place. Reddit isn't a place for genuine discussion, it's a place to take the piss.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:19 AM
5

Check on your family and friends today and make sure they know you love them, you never know who's going through a tough time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:38 AM
3

Hope everyone is having a lovely day so far. Take care of yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:15 AM
1

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:54 AM
1

That's the way to do it mate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:53 AM
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I'm sure you're a dapper young man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:53 AM
2

Good advice right here
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:53 AM
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Eh I got mine, but hey, it's Reddit at the end of the day, it's not too difficult to annoy people on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:44 AM
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I mean in a paragraph it was maybe a couple of sentences, the entire idea was for men to go out and enjoy that lifestyle of being pined for, feeling validation etc. sometimes ghosting people is part of the process, it sucks but oh well. Think we just read the post differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:37 AM
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Fair call, I'm just posting whatever gets engagement though, so a little contradiction here and there will occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:33 AM
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I can live with that, it's a cruel world out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:27 AM
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I mean I'm just posting whatever gets engagement
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:14 AM
1

She wanted to suck your dick bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:49 AM
1

I said I portray myself as chronically offline, not that I am, I wouldn't even really call myself Red Pill fully anyway, I just have beliefs closer to it than the other "pills" So when I'm on dates I just pretend not to know any of this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:46 AM
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Fair enough my friend, you're a stronger man than most.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:43 AM
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t's not about it being enjoyable, if it comes down to it though then you just gotta do it sometimes, it's not my problem you know? I love sex, I'll just always put myself first, if that gets in the way of others then so be it. So yeah, it's not enjoyable, I'm just apathetic in the event it does rub someone the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:35 AM
1

It can get a little boring sometimes so I just take a 1-2 month break and then I'm right back into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:30 AM
2

Fair enough man, agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:30 AM
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I mean yeah you can, and sometimes I will be up front, depends on how I feel about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:29 AM
-2

Just get checked regularly and you'll be fine, it's never been a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:25 AM
1

I post whatever will get the most engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:25 AM
1

Luckily only had one scare myself, clean otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:24 AM
1

Oh well, life's like that sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:24 AM
1

Some men do, more men would benefit from doing it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:57 AM
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Depeneds on how you look at things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:56 AM
4

Again, I don't care what women do with themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:56 AM
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It's not even about taking pleasure, it's just about putting your own needs first, if you ghost someone and they're upset, not my problem you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:49 AM
3

If that's your perspective then that's all good, we can agree to disagree, I respect your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:41 AM
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I wouldn't be happy to date any woman I'm quite happy keeping things casual. Relationships seem like a drag.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:39 AM
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I think you're looking at things a little deeper than they are, i'ts about living your life to the fullest. Fear is a bit dramatic buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:34 AM
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I mean, like I said, if you're a man who doesn't have much success, go lower and sleep with women you're not as attracted to, do what you have to do to live this lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:29 AM
1

Pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:28 AM
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Better to live it and grow disengaged than to not do it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:28 AM
7

I don't care what women do with themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:27 AM
1

Oh well luckily I can get away with it living in Australia.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:01 AM
2

Most regular people are online, that's the sad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:59 PM
3

I didn't even mention normies, I mentioned chronically offline. Most normal people are online now. Be different to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:58 PM
3

I honestly have found being chronically offline is a great strategy when it comes to dating, women seem a lot more at ease if you just don't know anything going on in the world. Toxic masculinity? What's that? Andrew Tate? Never heard of him, who's he? Barbie Movie? Never saw it. If you're American, Presidential debate? I don't even know who's running. Thoughts on Incels? Sweetheart I've never heard any of these words in my life. Ignorance is bliss sometimes, it works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:39 PM
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Maybe not, but for these guys it's probably their best chance of somewhat experiencing what it's like to be a "fuckboy"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:18 AM
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Nah fair enough I can see your perspective, depends on how you look at it at the end of the day. Agree to disagree there friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:13 AM
2

In that sense sure, however I wouldn't consider them "alpha" or "chad" as you put it (I hate those terms), because they're still jumping through hoops that those guys you refer to don't have to, those guys don't have to work for it, this "safe" guy still does to an extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:05 AM
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Of course it can be said for men, I do think it's a far more common sentiment in women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:03 AM
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Yeah it's a tough one, I feel despite their insistence it isn't true, a lot of women just view the "forever guy" as that safe and boring guy. They may believe they don't, but deep down they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:03 AM
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That's what the original definition of incel was, and I'd say there's plenty of actual incels like that, guys who want to get laid but get in their own ways. The definition of incel that people use now isn't really a thing, that caricature doesn't exist in the real world. The whole guy who's bitter and hates women because he can't get laid, nobody is actually like that, it's hyperbole.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:00 AM
2

The world is only going to get worse mate, I appreciate the optimistic point of view, but it's tough shit unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:59 AM
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I'm saying jump through the hoops, make her think you're someone worth committing to, when she's finally ready to sleep with you, just go do it and then ghost her, simple as. Play the long game, that's the opportunity for the guys who can't get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:58 AM
5

The problems aren't going anywhere mate, they're here to stay unfortunately, it's either play or be played.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:53 AM
2

They both suck, vaping is a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:50 AM
5

Incels for the most part are fairly harmless, they're not some danger to women and some imminent threat like many act they are online, they're just socially awkward guys that are bitter, you rarely ever see or hear anyone discussing them in real life, nor do you ever see one in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:49 AM
1

Maybe so, however people act like these issues are massively important when the reality is nobody talks about "sexual market value" and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:32 PM
6

The easiest way to relax your mind is that this place is a bubble the majority of things this sub complain about aren't big problems in the real world. Barely anyone actually talks about body count in the real world Nobody knows what an incel is let alone has heard that word in the real world, it's just not a discussion. Incels are purely an online phenomenon. Red/Blue/Black pills aren't things in the real world nor does anyone know about them. Nobody in the real world gives a fuck or judges you…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:22 PM
3

I'm finally going through and reading the self improvement books I always said I would read but never did. I've just finished Atomic Habits which was very informative, I'm now onto The 48 Laws of Power.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:31 AM
10

There's no such thing as a "hoe phase" You can't blast steroids for five years and call yourself a "lifetime natty" If you were one before, you always will be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:27 AM
2

I tried magic mushrooms for the first time last night. Good shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:34 AM
1

What the fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:49 AM
1

Maybe so, it would be nice to see people actually interested in hearing other people out in general on Reddit, but of course, people on this website don't have the best social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:48 AM
2

A lot of you are stuck in your ways and would benefit from actually listening to other points of view. Instead of sticking your fingers in your ears going "Everyone else is wrong except me, my way of thinking is the correct way."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:38 AM
4

It probably isn't a common thing, but it's been a hell of a high standard set for female friends for me, anything less isn't worth my time now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:49 PM
2

Unpopular opinion: If your female friends aren't being wing women or helping you with dating they aren't your friends. Trade them in and find some new ones. I'm so grateful for my friends, my girls are great at being wing women. Plus they're just amazing people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:26 PM
1

I got plenty of female friends and a lot of them are wing women for me. Sounds like you've got faulty female friends. Get some that actually work properly. If you're friends with women and they aren't helping you out in the dating scene they aren't your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:24 PM
1

I like to get out and do stuff that's active, whether it's going for a hike, exploring new places I haven't been, going to the beach and having a swim, doing something fun like bowling, mini golf, escape rooms, karaoke etc. I love going to the gym, but I also just like staying in and doing simple stuff, watching a movie, reading a book etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:29 AM
2

Every time I go out to a nightclub or a festival with my friends, I try to get myself in the right mindset that maybe this time I'll finally have fun, but each time I'm ready to go home within 30-60 minutes. I want to have fun, because I want to do it for my friend's sake, they enjoy it so I tag along to spend time with them, but every time I'm just standing there thinking "This shit is the furthest thing from fun, why the fuck am I even here?" But hey, we suck it up for the people we care about…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:41 AM
1

While it's probably because most women don't like being viewed as a piece of meat, I would much rather be just viewed as a sex object and a piece of meat than be viewed as someone a woman wants to spend forever with and build a life with. Being viewed only sexually is so much more validating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:22 AM
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Life is so much better when you realise that it isn't that deep, that one little thing that's been nagging you for days? Not that deep, it won't matter in 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 01:52 PM
1

I don't even live in America 🤷 I just like bashing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:27 AM
1

It's insane that in the entire time I've been alive the United States hasn't had a single good president. Bush was awful, Obama was awful, Trump was awful, Biden was awful. Harris and Trump will be awful no matter which one gets in. Neither have the interest of the wider country at heart, neither did any of the previous presidents. They'll only ever try and benefit the elites.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 02:00 AM
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Maybe so, I don't think women just need to make sure they're not unintentionally hurting their partners and pick their words more carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:32 PM
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I do believe so, however I've put hours of time and effort into my appearance to make me the best version of myself, if I'm getting more compliments on my appearance I just feel like that effort is wasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:27 PM
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No I get where women are coming from, they need to realise it's going to come off as insulting to a lot of men though. Need to choose their words more carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:26 PM
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I feel that's different as you sound very consistent with what you want, fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:25 PM
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Fair enough, I guess I personally would rather be valued solely for my appearance rather than my appearance along with other stuff too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:16 PM
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Fair enough I guess, I don't know, being valued for my personality for example would just kinda bum me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:15 PM
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I have, and I understand the sentiment, but a lot of women don't seem to get that men really value being valued for their appearance above all else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:10 PM
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I see the hookup material vs relationship material debate has finally reached broader social media, I love it, one of my favourite debates personally. At the end of the day women can say up and down that being marriage material is the best compliment you can get from them, but they really need to understand above all else, men want to be PHYSICALLY desired. Myself and most men would rather take a compliment about our appearances than one about who we are as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:01 PM
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On a serious note, it's only fair at the end of the day, can't hold it against her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:56 PM
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I'm being sarcastic, at the end of the day I'm doing it so if she's doing it it's pretty much fair game.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:55 PM
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No feeling more painful to a man than when he has a roster of women but his favourite is also seeing other men, it's like a dagger to my damn heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:46 PM
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Just seen the post a few days ago about draft dodging and I'd have to say if there was ever a draft I sure as hell am avoiding getting called up. Why? Because I don't gain anything from going and risking my life for my country, there is nothing for me to personally gain or benefit from. There's no legitimate reason for me to go do it. I'm putting myself first and making sure I survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:21 PM
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I'm more of a one and done type myself, I don't want to sleep with someone multiple times. Once is more than enough in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:44 AM
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Hmm, I'm more of a "once is enough" guy when it comes to casual hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:40 AM
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My ego is boosted by being the casual guy. I feel as though it would cut deep to be considered relationship or commitment material.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:34 AM
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If she sleeps with you and never calls you again, congratulations, you got the best deal. If she wants to settle down with you then my condolences, life is going to be rough for you my boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:29 AM
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By not effecting me personally I meant more in the sense that it's not really any of my business, it just sucks seeing it play out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:50 AM
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At the end of the day because it's not really my business and they have a tendency to take things the wrong way sometimes, I don't know, I don't like hurting my friends even if they need to hear it. Maybe it's the right thing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:49 AM
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Is it bad to stop being friends with someone who constantly makes stupid decision after stupid decision? Like yes it doesn't effect me personally, it's just hard to sit and watch someone you care about constantly self sabotage and dig a further hole for themselves, doesn't help that you can't really tell them the truth without sounding like a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:44 AM
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Problem with gyms is the last thing I want to see is a lot of other people there, you always need to time it just right so there's barely anyone there when you go, no worrying about people trying to come talk to you or bother you, no more "how many sets you got left?", no more waiting half an hour for some dick weed to get off a machine. Home gyms are a great investment, I hope to build one myself one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:42 AM
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The irony of women telling men to treat women like people/human beings is that women absolutely do not treat men like human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:02 AM
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The irony is that women don't treat men like human beings at all. Pretty hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:01 AM
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Wanting life to be easy is silly to me, living an easy life sounds so boring, life is all about risks and challenging yourself, it's about failing and trying again, learning and all that. I don't know, I like that life can be tough at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:31 AM
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I wish I could be more into skinny women because it's obviously what society considers attractive but I just can't, I gave it a go and just couldn't do it. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:20 PM
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Suit yourself man, more chubby chicks for me. Win/win
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:19 PM
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I think bro was onto something with that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:36 PM
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Yeah that black and white thinking doesn't really hold up. I'm far from conventionally attractive, I still clean up the chubby bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:14 PM
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Indeed, let everyone go after the skinny girls, I'll happily sit over here with my horde of chubsters and clean up with em.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:06 PM
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Being a guy not attracted to skinny or "conventionally" attractive women is a God send. The chicks I'm typically into (chubby chicks) are usually the ones into me the most, a jacked dude with a slight amount of chub is like crack to them. Women who are fit/in shape or skinny are a massive turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:00 PM
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1 million beers
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:49 PM
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I mean hey, my female friends have been just as helpful in the actual friends department as my male friends have been, could be a completely different culture here in Australia but they've been great, not including the help in my dating life, they're just very good friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:48 PM
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Exactly, and I'm at the point either way where I wouldn't even consider touching these girls for a relationship or even a one night stand, I know details that would turn me off as a romantic partner. They're still amazing friends though and I love them to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:45 PM
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Some guys fuckzone those women for revenge I fuckzone those women because it's incredibly easy to do so We are not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:44 PM
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Cold approaching is still very much a viable option, you just need to have the right mindset for it, sure if you go into it with "Oh she might be scared" or "She might reject me harshly" then sure, don't approach, you don't have the courage or guts to do it. Cold approach all just comes down to not caring about the outcome, if you get the number, great, if not, you still had a somewhat nice conversation. Abundance mindset my friend, if you always go in with positive thoughts you will never lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:40 PM
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I don't think I'm much cop, but I've done fairly well in dating so I must be doing something right, I'm fairly jacked but I do have a small layer of fat on top, I'm tall, decent haircut, face isn't the best but oh well can't do everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:37 PM
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I mean it entirely depends on the woman, but in Australia at least, from the women I've been friends with, they've been very happy to have controversial conversations and are more than welcome to that dark sort of humour, I don't ever have to censor myself. Sure it may be rare, but I guess that's why they're so valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:35 PM
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Any woman who I can see is putting me in the "friendzone friend" section is gone incredibly quickly. My female friends are fucking amazing, they scratch my back, I scratch theirs if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:34 PM
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Plenty of my female friends have done those more "friend" type actions, a lot of them were there for me more than most when my Nan recently passed away, not only do they make my dating life easier but they've been incredible friends to me. I love them all to pieces, some of them are incredibly stupid and make me want to tear my hair out sometimes, I still love them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:33 PM
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I have said this once and I will continue to say this as many times as I have to, as a man, it is extremely beneficial to have female friends, you may laugh, you may snicker at it all you like, but it can make a massive difference, some of my female friends have been amazing wing women on nights out and introduced me to some of their friends too. Plus Red Pill 101, pre-selection checks you out to other women if they see that women can be comfortable around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:24 PM
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Because most of the men on here aren't interested in relationships, it's about casual sex and pumping and dumping for a lot of them. Having good values doesn't help you get laid at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:53 AM
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I think food and people are slightly different scenarios. Besides most guy's preferences don't change, I may be in my early 20s but I know when I'm 30 I'll still want a chubby girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:51 AM
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Sounds like it, I also think they just want women to stop pretending that they actually love the guys they settle for, no you didn't just happen to find the man of your dreams after dating around in your 20s, you were afraid of being alone and went for the guy who was the best bet for YOUR future success. Just be honest, that's all they're asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:50 AM
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I'd say you're demented for watching porn full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:43 AM
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The thing a lot of women don't seem to understand is that men are upset about being settled for because they don't want a woman to have to come to realisation that he's the type of guy she wanted to be with, he wants to be the type of person she wanted in the first place. If she had to date a lot of guys to figure out what she wanted chances are she doesn't actually want you, she's just afraid of being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:43 AM
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Most of the posts on this sub can be boiled down to "I saw one or two people of this leaning have an opinion so that means everyone who leans that way has that opinion."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:45 PM
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The dating market isn't fair. Conventionally attractive people will always have an advantage You get exactly what your level is If you have a niche fucking stick to it Don't like it? Tough. World isn't fair So many people still don't get any of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:34 PM
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There is no such thing as a situationship, you're either in a relationship or you aren't. Stop making up definitions to cope with the fact they don't want to be with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:17 AM
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Honestly at this point I don't think I have any interest in going to America for even a holiday at this point, the country is in such a terrible place and the people putting their hands up to take the lead are all awful people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:28 AM
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Americans just seem to be obsessed with anything and everything that means nothing in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:27 AM
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Americans and their obsession with politics will always amuse me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:16 AM
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The more someone complains about the opposite sex the more I believe they're the problem in most of their circumstances. A woman that complains about men a lot is likely a shitty person. A man that complains about women a lot is likely a shitty person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:20 AM
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Well I've cut off all the women I was talking to now, with everything in my life right now it's too much work, I think I've decided for the time being relationships and dating isn't worth the work. I'm quite happy just taking care of and helping my family for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:54 AM
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Love is one facet, but it alone is not enough, being compatible living together is a big one too, live together first for a couple of years before getting married., similar life plans etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:04 PM
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I love how across Reddit "because they love each other?" is enough of a reason for people to get married. Love alone isn't good enough for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 11:50 AM
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Everyone deserves love, not everyone will get it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:09 AM
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I mean at the end of the day, people will be afraid of whatever. It's no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:08 AM
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I'm glad most people in the real world aren't like most of you are, I see the way some of you act and then you go outside and people aren't anything like it. Goes to show most of you haven't got a clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:08 AM
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Have to say, I think Community is going to go up there as one of my favourite sitcoms of all time. How I Met Your Mother is firmly on-top, but I think Community may overtake it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:18 AM
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Calling one or the other the "prize" in a relationship is just stupid, you're the prize to each other. This gender war garbage is ridiculous. You're either both the prize or neither of you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:42 PM
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One thing I always thought would effect me in dating is that I don't have a car or drive, hasn't effected me outside of one or two chicks. Hell certain chicks are happy to drive you. Hasn't been a downside.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 08:42 AM
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Just because you lie to get laid doesn't mean you NEED to lie, but lying usually just speeds up the process. I lie because I get what I want quicker than I would being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:06 AM
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I always think back to that Seinfeld episode where Jerry gets dumped and just acts nonchalant about it and think more guys would just benefit from having that mindset, hell even just saying what he says. "Don't worry I'll meet someone else" "You will?" "Yeah, things always even out for me, it's been really nice dating you for a while, so good luck." Honestly that mindset is the only one you should have in dating, no matter what, you'll always meet another girl, so losing one isn't anything worth…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:36 AM
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Most of those types don't exist in the real world, you meet a couple of them here and there but they are far more common online than they are in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:42 AM
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The world is a cold place, you have to do what you have to do to maximise your options, if that means dating multiple women and slightly lying about my intentions to keep them around then that's the breaks, too bad. I have to look out for myself and my prospects first, if they get burnt so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:42 AM
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Time and a place for that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:37 AM
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If Donald Trump was almost guaranteed to win the presidency before, I'd say he's a lock now. Biden had some level of hope, if Harris gets thrust in, the Democrats probably don't have a hope in hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:36 AM
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The optimal outcome for men in dating is the fuckboy lifestyle, there are no downsides to it, every other outcome has downsides.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:18 AM
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Being liked for your looks is a bigger compliment than being liked "for you" as so many phrase it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:52 AM
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Eh I'll give that one a pass I have beautiful eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:49 AM
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Being appreciated for your looks is the biggest compliment you can receive, you really think I put all this work into my body at the gym so you can say some dumb shit like "I was attracted to your personality" or "You make me feel safe" That shit is nice and all but fuck that tell me about my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:44 AM
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Father Time takes us all eventually, that's why you enjoy it while you're not in his sights.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:14 PM
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Someone liking me for me means fuck all to me if I'm honest, I'd rather they like my physical attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:12 PM
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Christ imagine being with someone and the thing they like about you the most is something personality related. Dagger to the heart right there. If it isn't something about your looks.....tough break man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:07 PM
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I couldn't have worded it better myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:28 AM
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Possibly, but it's Reddit, it wouldn't surprise me if it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:28 AM
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Better be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:28 AM
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I never said she was my girlfriend broski.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:26 AM
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Just because you can do something, doesn't mean that you should do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:26 AM
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A lot of you have got an air of arrogance about you when you're debating with others on here, my favourite line has to be "I'm not going to explain it to you because if you don't already get it there's no use" and others along those lines. Your parents never taught you manners and respect did they?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:16 AM
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Honestly that works too, most men don't know what they're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:10 PM
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You have a future in theatre with those dramatics my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:09 PM
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Of course it's more complicated but that would require the majority of this subreddit to think critically, and let's be honest, that's asking too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:06 PM
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I'm all for giving men bad dating advice, makes you a much better prospect in comparison when they all weed themselves out of the dating pool. It's a cold world out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:06 PM
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My aesthetic has changed over time, at times I just stick to casual gym attire and basics but there was a time where it was all suits, smart shirts and pants, at the moment my aesthetic is probably "country"??? A lot of flannel, denim, boots etc. Core personality traits are probably honesty, loyalty, putting others before myself, disciplined, but also easy going/nonchalant etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:51 AM
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The people who say that the person you are online is the same person you are in real life always make me laugh. It's incredibly easy to act differently. Here I'll happily go out of my way to get under people's skin, real life? Nicest person you'll meet, always friendly. Helps that I don't engage in any news/politics/world events whatsoever, I have zero clue for the most part what's going on in the world, so whenever those conversations come up in group settings I just don't partake or tune out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:23 AM
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You really learn who the real people are in your life when you're going through the lowest points. Ironic that a few people who were "friends" have happened to just exit my life as I've just lost my grandmother, a time where you need your friends along with your family. Oh well, the ones who've stuck around I'll always value.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:49 AM
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The whole "Older men go for younger women because they can't get women their age" rhetoric you see is ridiculous. It's harder for them to get young women. And besides, if you're an older guy who can pull younger women why the fuck would you ever date women your age again? When you can clearly go for better?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:10 AM
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Yeah I guess so, it's just disappointing that it seems like people don't want to discuss anything new, just the same tired topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:13 AM
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Even so, the point remains.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:13 AM
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I'm sick of the influx in single mother and Andrew Tate posts lately, I thought those topics were left back in 2022 where they belong?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:59 AM
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I mean at the end of the day, everyone is sexually attractive to someone, what that level of attractiveness is will very. As far as I'm concerned the "quality" of said sexual partner's looks doesn't matter all that much, as we all have our different preferences, the women I sleep with for example probably wouldn't be attractive to quite a few men, but they're attractive to me, that's all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:01 AM
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Mate, if they're saying that then just ignore them, they aren't hurting anybody with their preferences or opinions. It's more that it feels like every post you've made lately is about single mothers, surely it gets tiring?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:00 AM
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No, it just means he's questioning the reasons that his partner is with him, or whether she's a good long term bet. And you're aiming that at the wrong person, I've never claimed men were more romantic and love people unconditionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:59 AM
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Well, everyone is sexually attractive to someone, what that level of attractiveness is varies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:58 AM
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It's different when we're talking about hoe women, if she hasn't been sleeping around and racked up a high body count, sure, you've won, but if she's slept around and been a hoe you're far from a winner for wifing up the community bicycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:36 AM
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Body count just means that you're sexually attractive, if you weren't, people wouldn't be sleeping with you, so there is the factor of desirability there. If you aren't desirable people aren't going to have sex with you in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:30 AM
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Far out are you still badgering on about single mothers? Surely it most be tiring talking about the same old crap?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:28 AM
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Why are we talking about Andrew Tate still? He became irrelevant a long time ago, the world moved on when the next grifter came along, besides I think most Red Pill guys with sense don't want Tate anywhere near it, he's a bad figure to have involved with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:25 AM
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I swear to God the funniest line that gets trotted out every time you see a post on a dating sub about a guy being worried about their partner's past is "Why do you care? Those guys were just casual flings, she CHOSE you to be her life partner, you won!!!" Being the one she sticks with for life isn't winning, it's losing, the guys who had one night stands with her won.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:20 AM
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Yes, it is a fair assumption. Not all women who do that engage in it sure, but most will.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:16 AM
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I mean true, but that's okay, sometimes you just need to learn stuff into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:06 AM
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I do think a lot of men need to accept that even if a woman is a hoe, she'll have options for a long term relationship because so many men are desperate for a woman. A lot of my female friends are hoes, and I tell them that to their faces, I still love them, but they're hoes. And I usually feel bad for the guys they date because they have no idea about their past, they lie about the amount of guys they sleep with because they know the guy would probably leave if they knew. The occasional guy tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:27 AM
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The whole "If you were Chad you'd never need the Red Pill in the first place." mindset has never made a whole lot of sense to me. It's silly to think you can't learn things over time. I think the most underrated part of self improvement people here don't understand is having someone constantly hammer into your mind the habits you should be doing, constantly holding you accountable. Repetition can be a massive tool with self improvement, doesn't matter if you already know what you need to do, som…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:57 AM
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Andrew Tate isn't someone to look up to, he's a guy that passes off as a "self improvement guru" when in reality he just teaches men to be vapid, materialistic and shallow., No, having multiple sports cars, a big house and loose hookers won't make you happy, it won't make you a man of quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:05 PM
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There will always be a man out there desperate enough to get with a woman that's been passed around, because most men don't have any self value or respect, so even a chick like that seems like a option when no man with self respect would give them the time of day for a relationship. Besides based off my own female friends, they just lie about their body counts, I know deep down they're hoes because they're straight up with me, but with the guys they see? They'll pretend it's a single digit numbe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:03 PM
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Honestly? Probably would deny a relationship with both of them, the money would be a draw sure, but they're too skinny in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:59 PM
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I don't consider clowns like Tate, Fresh & Fit to be Red Pill in all honesty, not the original sense of it at least, they're a more modern hyper materialistic version of it focused on paying hookers and having the most expensive stuff possible. That's not what Red Pill was about originally, it wasn't about being rich and having material possessions it was about becoming a better man, but unfortunately that's what "Red Pill" is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:07 AM
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Pretty sure Tate denounced the Red Pill long ago and pretty much lambasted everyone involved in it. He doesn't want to be associated with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:59 AM
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God I would hope not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:52 AM
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The saddest thing about this whole Trump thing is that it'll be old news and forgotten in about a week's time, shows how small our world's attention span is when people just move on to the next thing. Couple weeks from now people will be like "Oh what? Aww yeah Trump did get shot didn't he?"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:50 AM
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I appreciate the sarcasm 🤣 can't get beta cucked if you're sleeping with other girls 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:28 AM
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People who still watch Tik Tok will always baffle me, the short form content is designed to give you constant hits of dopamine which in turn burns out your dopamine receptors which lowers your ability to engage in delayed gratification. People wonder why their attention span is dwindling and why they can't enjoy things as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:04 AM
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The date with my virgin girl went really well, went to the arcade, whooped her ass at most things, although she did beat me at skee ball. Had a couple of drinks, walked around the city together, grabbed some ice cream. Was a fun night.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:31 AM
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Silly to get angry about it, but this is what I mean when I say women's humour is cringy. This trend is the type of thing they find entertaining. It's pretty embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:29 AM
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Going out with the girl I've been seeing again tonight, should be a fun time, still taking our time as she's not quite ready to go all the way in terms of sex yet, which is understandable because she's a virgin, she's got a really good head on her shoulder, an adorable laugh too. Probably going to hit the arcade, she claims to be very competitive so we'll just have to see if that's the case, can't promise I'll go easy on her though I love my arcade games.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:31 AM
1

Women are the ones laughing and finding it funnier in my experience. Don't see many men making them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:55 AM
11

Well it's a shame that Trump has won the election now it seems, he's going to take this assassination attempt and use it to make himself a martyr. The event itself is horrible, I find him to be a detestable human being who should be in jail, but I don't want him to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:41 AM
2

Men should look out for themselves first and foremost, it's about what he wants. If he wants to hook up and pursue random hookups he should do that. I've mostly moved on from it, but still, not everyone finds value in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:34 AM
3

Women's humour is so cringy, if you see some of the stuff they find funny on Tik Tok or IG it baffles me, oh well it's not for me I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:32 AM
2

We've never had any trouble with communication so far so we should be okay, I tell her about the girls I'm dating, she tells me about the dudes. We both know the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:11 AM
1

Eh, agree to disagree there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:10 AM
1

Yeah possibly, although she has friends that she's slept with that were there when she was with her ex, can't see it being too different. I don't want anything serious with her, she doesn't want anything serious with me, eliminates all the awkwardness.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:07 AM
1

Q4All Do you think if you had sex with your friend it would ruin the relationship? One of my female friends asked me if I thought it would ruin our friendship if we slept together, we're both single, we're both done with random casual sex, however we'd happily do casual with someone we know. We don't think it would, but were just one example.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 12:51 AM
2

I think exploit is a very strong word though, I prefer just withholding information unless asked, it just hasn't come up so I haven't said anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:49 PM
7

Damn you're really hung up on that aren't you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:41 PM
2

I mean I'm nothing if not a world class hater.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:34 PM
12

The women on this sub make me thankful that the women in my life are well adjusted people, I think I'd tear my hair out if they were anything like the ones on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:32 PM
2

I can't say I date men so I don't think that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:29 PM
3

As they say to the men that say "not all men" If it doesn't concern you why do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:24 PM
2

As I said before, we'll have to agree to disagree on that. It's sad watching a friend get lied to about their partner's past, I don't know, if I were in their shoes I'd want the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:23 PM
1

They're just as ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:21 PM
4

Unless you're a single mum yourself I have no idea why you'd care about men shit talking single mums. It doesn't effect or concern you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:17 PM
2

We'll have to agree to disagree on what constitutes bothered I'm afraid. Sure they're happy in their blissful ignorance, would they be happy if they knew more about her past though? Party girls aren't usually honest about their wild pasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:15 PM
2

I don't think anyone ever said *only* chads get women. Bit dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:13 PM
2

Don't know, you'd have to ask every man on the planet for their opinion on that one. I think in general your best interests should always be above others though, always put yourself first.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:12 PM
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You don't need to have things in common with someone to date them at the end of the day, there are that many couples out there who are the complete opposite of each other, they're still together, because they compliment each other. The whole "You'll have nothing in common with them" remark from the whole men dating younger women debate is just another way to say "I personally don't like what you're doing and I'm going to make up a reason why I think it's wrong"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:08 PM
5

The point is neither of them should be in the running to begin with, Biden should be in a home and Trump should be in a prison cell.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:04 PM
3

Yeah you make good points, when I say party girl I mean going to the club every single weekend getting blind without fail (my friends in a nutshell), the guys they're seeing are the complete opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:04 PM
1

Definitely up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:02 PM
3

I know, it's a sad world we live in isn't it? Gotta look out for myself first though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:02 PM
3

Like neither candidate will benefit the country, but surely anyone is better than Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:01 PM
2

Bothered isn't the word I'd use personally, it's more pity than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:00 PM
8

The United States are so incompetent that Donald Trump has a genuine chance of getting back into presidency. Clown world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:58 PM
1

I know poor things, oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:55 PM
2

Eh one or two of my female friends are in that situation, so it can happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:55 PM
6

Your first problem is focusing on women on the internet, the internet isn't real life, sure there's women out there who want revenge, but the world is a nuanced place at the end of the day, most feminists you meet in real life aren't the crazy types you meet online.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:52 PM
2

Sounds like a few of my female friends, minus the abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:51 PM
3

I ain't got a clue to be honest with you, but it seems to happen either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:51 PM
2

"Purr queen that's a slay, I'm looking for a real man who can take care of me, as he should, that's on period"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:49 PM
6

Imagine being the guy who the party girl settled for, what a terrible existence. "No babe that was just a different part of my life!!" "I'm not like that anymore" "I love you for your personality" Party girls are great for casual relationships, long term and serious relationships though, not even worth considering.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:47 PM
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It didn't just work for me overnight I put in the work to change myself, it took a long time but I stuck to it. Peace and love my friend, hope you find some happiness one day, negativity isn't your colour.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:39 AM
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Been fat, been ugly, been broke, I've looked like I've been balding since like the age of 3 (double cowlick), hasn't been an issue for me. By all means though, believe whatever makes reality easier for you to digest, if that means ignoring reality then go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:26 AM
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Why pay for Netflix when free streaming sites are a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:50 AM
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"I'm fat" "I'm ugly" "I'm short" "I'm bald/balding" "I'm broke" All invalid excuses. Quit using these as a crutch to be a lazy cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:47 AM
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The same men that say cold approaching women is pathetic are the ones too pathetic to put themselves out there and bet on themselves. Nothing more pathetic than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:42 AM
2

In the sense that most men are just there, they don't value many of the men in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:23 AM
5

Of course, I believe most women see men as disposable though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:20 AM
1

I couldn't care less about falling birth rates, they have nothing to do with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:19 AM
2

Not even just from women, if I get viewed that way by even gay men I take it positively, it's nice to be viewed attractively.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:49 AM
2

Honestly I feel extremely flattered when gay men or even women I don't find attractive view me that way, a gay guy called me handsome the other day and it made my week.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:48 AM
3

I have to say I disagree with all the women that go "I hate when men view me as nothing but a piece of meat" When I was still dating casually and having casual sex bring treated like an object and a piece of meat felt pretty damn good. Was very validating. I'm past all that now, but it felt very good at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:43 AM
11

The irony of women telling men to "view women as people" when most women absolutely do not view men as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:23 AM
0

Why would you ever encourage men to be a step father? That sounds like a fate worse than most having to raise someone else's kids. You're really on it with the whole single mothers topic today ain't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:20 AM
5

Mary and May sounds phenomenal. The other two? Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:18 AM
1

A lot of you wouldn't walk around so high strung and agitated all the time if you realised life isn't that fucking deep. So many of you just over analyse every little thing and refuse to acknowledge the reality that people's experiences are different, there is no one experience. Maybe if y'all just relaxed and didn't take shit so seriously you'd be somewhere in your dating lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:42 PM
2

Nobody is going to get onto campus security just because you approached someone come on now man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:32 PM
7

Nothing turns me off a woman much more than them using social media and Tik Tok lingo "Side eye" "It's giving" "It's the (insert whatever) for me" "Slay" "You really thought you are" Like speak properly for fuck sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:31 PM
3

Cold approaching is fun though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:29 PM
1

Love you too ♥️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:23 PM
4

I mean sure why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:18 PM
1

I know you did, I was only reaffirming what you had said. And eh, I think it's not a black and white situation, you can be successful in some areas and a loser in others. For example with Wilson he can be a stud on the football field and be a champion of the game, he can also make some less than smart dating decisions. Like Will Smith, slightly different scenario, but sure he's a critically acclaimed and successful actor, nobody can take that from him, but when it comes to his marriage with Jada…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:10 PM
10

I mean I personally don't use these services but I won't fault other men for using them. Look dating a chick can take time and effort, no guarantee you'll get sex in the first few dates. If you're a guy wanting sex straight away just skip the get to know you crap and go straight to the sex with a hooker. You'll probably end up spending the same amount of money as you would going on a few dates anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:05 PM
1

I don't remember that no because I don't keep up with the lives of celebrities. I do hate spineless and weak men, saddens me to see wasted potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:55 PM
1

Oh of course not, quite a few of my female friends are those types and I love em to death, I just know that lifestyle and sort of thing isn't conducive to mine for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:40 PM
1

I know it doesn't, I'm just saying a lot of people would consider those traits as a whole together "boring" compared to the fun girl. She's not boring to me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:27 PM
1

True enough, a "boring" girl with big titties though is the fucking dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:25 PM
2

Big titties always skew things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:20 PM
1

Boring girl I guess to me is just a typical homebody, introverted, prefers to stay in on the weekends. Has her niche hobbies etc. Fun girl would be a girl that goes out regularly, parties a lot, smokes, drinks regularly, enjoys festivals etc. that typical sort of girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:18 PM
24

I think seething hatred is overdramatic but they're just not a good bet to date. No man should be subjected to having to raise another man's kids, it's not noble, it's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:11 PM
1

Eat faster and with your mouth open now to assert dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 11:58 AM
3

Yeah that doesn't surprise me in all honesty, definitely think it's prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 11:56 AM
4

People on this sub have the most black and white thinking I've seen in a long time. No nuance, no critical thinking, it's either one thing or another to a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 11:51 AM
1

Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 11:49 AM
2

The guys who are waiting for AI women were never going to reproduce in the first place, pathetic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:27 AM
1

I mean the way I see it, exclusivity will come in time, until then, I'm game to see whoever I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:27 AM
6

People will call their ex a "loser" as if they didn't choose to date them in the first place, if the person you dated was a loser, there's a good chance you're a loser too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:23 AM
1

Pretty much what I'm going for, but people will have their own opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:22 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:51 AM
1

Nobody has the right to complain about anyone leaving them for anything. People will do what's best for them, if that doesn't include you then it's goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:18 AM
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Nobody has the right to complain about anyone leaving them for anything. People will do what's best for them, if that doesn't include you then it's goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:17 AM
1

How is everyone's day/night going? We up to anything exciting?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:56 AM
3

Sorry that you feel that way my friend, just remember it's never as deep as it seems, I wish you well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:54 AM
2

I have nothing to be vengeful for my friend, if that's how you chose to interpret it that's okay, I hope you find happiness :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:50 AM
1

Far from it, I know what I like though and I just put myself out there. Simple stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:48 AM
1

Fair play to those guys, gave it a red hot crack, juice wasn't worth the squeeze. I choose peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:46 AM
1

Fair play, that's definitely a good option.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:44 AM
3

It's not that deep bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:44 AM
1

I mean as far as I'm concerned boring girls are just more peaceful, makes my life ten times easier. May not be for everyone but hey, that's what makes the world go round right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:43 AM
1

Don't hate the player, hate the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:42 AM
1

Boring girls > fun girls I just want peace in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:31 AM
1

We're still college/university age so it's not quite there yet, but eh, as long as I've got others I can get with in the mean time I'm happy to wait until she's ready, she seems to be a very good long term option.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:29 AM
1

Quite happy to just wait it out until she's ready, we're not committed yet so if I need to get my rocks off I'll just get with someone. And agree to disagree really, boring girls are better than fun girls in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:28 AM
1

I mean she's open to new stuff when we've gone on dates, just doesn't like to drink. I'll take a boring girl over a fun girl any day of the week, they're more attractive. Not particularly interested in being shown the ropes, quite happy taking things slow with her while casually getting with others on the side, we're not exclusive at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:26 AM
1

Nope, just a very shy person. I ain't complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:24 AM
1

Why's that? Sounds like a dream partner to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:22 AM
1

Don't question what goes into burger meat now, don't be doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:35 AM
1

Dating girls that don't drink is such a beautiful time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:11 AM
3

The girl I'm seeing at the moment ticks off pretty much all the boxes I want in someone: Doesn't drink ✅ Doesn't smoke ✅ Doesn't party ✅ Virgin ✅ Introvert ✅ I was also the first date and kiss she'd ever had. I'm holding onto this one as long as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:01 AM
1

Yes and very thankful about it. I haven't been in the know on anything for years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:29 AM
1

Come again? The fuck is a hawk tua?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:00 AM
1

All it came across as was people going "Hmm I'm bored, let me make something up to get angry about"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:58 AM
1

I just find it hilarious that you would never hear people talking about this in real life, would never hear about it, but online people were acting like it's some massive debate. Chronically online people are some of the best entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:44 AM
1

Here's the only discourse you need, anyone actually discussing those topics is chronically online.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:37 AM
1

Remember that stupid Man vs Bear debate? Only good part about it was that it helped weed out chronically online people, because those are the only sort of people who were actually talking about it. No one in the real world actually talks about or cares about that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:36 AM
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True, I can't disagree there, I think a lot of guys that go towards the Red Pill are just there to have their beliefs reaffirmed rather than actually challenge themselves or go and make a change in their lives, so they end up complaining online claiming they're self improving without any of the actual work. It's sad, laziness is a true cripple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:26 PM
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Eh I don't know about that necessarily, I think some people need that extra boost and if the Red Pill gave them that good for them. Takes some of them a while to get out of their socially awkward bubble and open up more. I don't really think it's a case of you have it or you don't, no inbetween.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:20 PM
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Yeah, the likes of Fresh & Fit, Rich Cooper and all those types aren't what the original Red Pill was about, it became "How can I become as materialistic as possible?"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:15 AM
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The Red Pill's fall from grace needs to be studied, it used to genuinely be a great community for guys to come in, self improve, get their body in order, get chick advice and once it was all processed they would just move on and go about their lives. Nowadays the Red Pill is a bunch of guys who just circlejerk and complain about how awful women are and how they just deserve stuff without actually putting in any work. It's a shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 08:35 AM
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