Ah yes, the age old debate that has plagued PPD and other dating communities for many years, the classic body count, does it matter? Of course it does, it's silly pretending that it doesn't, we can sit here and make comments about what it says about someone who cares or not, but the reality is, whether people say it or not, the majority of people care about it to an extent, they can pretend they don't, but in their minds there's an aversion, especially in men towards women who have slept with a higher number of men than average, it honestly makes you feel a little icky inside hearing it, it sometimes makes men wonder if they should even bother asking their partner their body count, out of fear of losing all interest you had in her and feeling apathetic towards her, but at the end of the day, you don't want to be stuck riding the town bicycle, nobody does, it's not a good feeling to have.

"Men who care about it are insecure"

If anything I'd argue the men who care about are the secure ones, the ones who don't care are the ones who are insecure. The ones who claim they don't care are insecure because deep down they do, but they don't have the balls to say anything about it, so they just go "Oh no honey I definitely don't care, tHe pAsT iS tHe pAsT" The men who do care are secure enough to make their boundaries clear and end things if the woman doesn't align with those.

"Don't you want someone with experience?"

Most men don't care about how much experience you have, as most men are happy dealing with a woman with little experience because it means you can learn together what you both enjoy. And besides, if she's good at giving head, think about how many guys she had to suck off to get that good, most men would rather she learns to get better with him.