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it's called the spotlight effect - explained in this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5PYNhZDHus8 ;)
/r/seduction17/10/15 07:48 AM
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it just ends
/r/seduction12/10/15 03:52 PM
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Hey thanks for your response. However the stuff that I talked about isn't CBT and instead breaks with the CBT tradition and the belief that you can control emotions or thoughts. Therapy forms like Acceptance and Commitment Therapy are based in CBT but moved beyond the control agenda. And I do completely agree you can choose how you react to your emotions and what meaning you give them or how much you attend to them, however this is not be confused with being able to control them. And that is the…
/r/seduction23/06/15 04:55 PM
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exactly. and having an "emotional" goal like "be confident" is always a hard one that often backfires. instead ask yourself what would I do if I was confident and the answer might be "instead of being in my head I would pay attention to my conversation partner". This means you would write on your card something basic like "Recognize the eye color of your conversation partner" as a focusing strategy.
/r/seduction13/06/15 02:21 PM
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no rather specific behaviors you want to show.
/r/seduction13/06/15 05:36 AM
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haha...your phone works as well of course! a lot of people find something as physical like a notecard (not an entire notepad) very helpful in this regard. but funny comment nonetheless ;)
/r/seduction13/06/15 05:36 AM
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it's rather specific behaviors (that would make up your ideal identity) that you would write down. the point here is to refer to the thing you want to change on a regular basis especially in situations where a lot of emotions are involved. in emotional intense situations (especially if there are unpleasant private experiences involved like guilt, anxiety,..) there is usually a lot of operant behavior meaning you show overlearnt behavioral responses. these are almost always automatic. in order to…
/r/seduction13/06/15 05:35 AM
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second that!
/r/seduction13/06/15 05:29 AM
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haha....the king of clickbait
/r/seduction12/06/15 08:58 PM
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this made me laugh :)
/r/seduction05/05/15 10:06 PM
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Great. Thank you :)
/r/seduction04/05/15 09:06 PM
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Sure. As I said, I fully understand your side and in the end it's better for everybody:) Just posted one of my new articles on public speaking.
/r/seduction04/05/15 09:00 PM
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Hey :) Sorry. Totally get your point. Thought it is enough value when I give away a discount. But completely understand your side. Won't post links to products again. Thanks for your friendly reminder :)
/r/seduction04/05/15 08:46 PM
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Here are is link to the 25% discount: Silver Package: http://courses.comfortzonecrusher.com/courses/make-yourself-do-anything?product_id=10353&coupon_code=SEDDIT
/r/seduction04/05/15 07:43 PM
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perfect!! Looking forward to seeing you in two weeks
/r/seduction10/02/15 07:33 PM
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I will talk about exactly this in this free webinar >> http://www.comfortzonecrusher.com/comfort-zone-challenges-101-webinar
/r/seduction10/02/15 07:15 PM
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I just tested it. It should work. Which browser are you using and did you disable your popups? You can also sign up here: http://www.comfortzonecrusher.com/
/r/seduction10/02/15 07:14 PM
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hey folks...I will give a free webinar in two weeks >> http://www.comfortzonecrusher.com/comfort-zone-challenges-101-webinar
/r/seduction10/02/15 05:05 PM
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we know each other since years
/r/seduction09/02/15 01:42 PM
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thanks man happy you liked it
/r/seduction09/02/15 01:42 PM
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oh and a couple of you might like my website. we have a new 14day comfort zone challenge coming up soon. with videos and everything :) http://www.comfortzonecrusher.com/
/r/seduction09/02/15 04:29 AM
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Hey I gave this one on education! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TUnpSYMNEhY
/r/seduction09/02/15 03:59 AM
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Wow so many upvotes!! If you have any question I am happy to answer them!!! I gave the talk more than 6 month ago and I learned a lot in the mean time.
/r/seduction09/02/15 02:51 AM
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Hell yeah!!! I second that!
/r/seduction09/02/15 02:47 AM
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haha my boy jerome!! great that you are following him. we got something planned for the next weeks so make sure to check his youtube!!!
/r/seduction09/02/15 02:47 AM
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Definitely agree with you here!! This is the reason why I finish my degree and put in some considerable effort in order to study at The University of Chicago for a while. An important point here is the signalling effect of an degree: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Signalling_(economics)
/r/seduction20/10/14 11:30 PM
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Hey cool that you can relate to it. I actually still go to University because in psychology it is just necessary in order to have a certain standing. I also still reach out to therapists and coaches in order to learn from them. I am 22 so there is still a way to go..
/r/seduction20/10/14 11:29 PM
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btw you might know the guy I talk about at 9:55min ;)
/r/seduction20/10/14 09:56 PM
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I will :) send me a PM with your email adresse and I snatch a picture of it..I guess my next workshop is in two weeks or something :)
/r/seduction09/10/14 08:13 AM
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they also quote a lot of research
/r/seduction08/10/14 01:35 PM
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uff a lot...there is no one specific but rather a whole body of research! What I can recommend if you want to get into the research of this start reading books like this one: http://www.amazon.com/Overcoming-Social-Anxiety-Shyness-Behavioral/dp/0465005454/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1412775284&sr=8-2&keywords=social+anxiety
/r/seduction08/10/14 01:34 PM
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Good point!! Actually a bunch of people often check on us if we were alright. As it happened here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ODF4c7jNnd0&list=UUkqkl2kU9h-cFPjDxpWhMOQ The trick is to lay down and obviously showing that you are just chillin. So put your hands behind your head and signal you just chillin..don't lay there like you passed the fuck out haha
/r/seduction08/10/14 01:32 PM
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erkläre ich unter anderem hier: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OQn3jYsNUZk die kurzversion ist, dass ich mit coaching und therapie was gefunden habe das mich begeistert und gleichzeitig in dem ich echt echt gut werden kann. In basketball hätte ich nie höher als Rollenspieler in der ProA sein können.
/r/seduction08/10/14 01:31 PM
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Thanks :)
/r/seduction08/10/14 01:29 PM
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Thanks a lot for viewing it :)
/r/seduction08/10/14 01:29 PM
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Thank you :)
/r/seduction08/10/14 01:28 PM
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not that I know. We uploaded a bunch of challenges on youtube...this might give you inspiration https://www.youtube.com/user/ComfortZoneCrusherTV
/r/seduction08/10/14 01:28 PM
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Do it!!!
/r/seduction08/10/14 01:21 PM
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haha tell her :)
/r/seduction08/10/14 01:21 PM
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I actually do move to the US. University of Chicago :)
/r/seduction08/10/14 01:21 PM
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yeah that would be funny...I might do it the next time I talk about :)
/r/seduction08/10/14 01:20 PM
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Thank you for your kind words:)
/r/seduction07/10/14 10:21 PM
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Haha Year I am working on this :)
/r/seduction07/10/14 10:15 PM
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Ja nbbl bei den Eisbären bremerhaven. Hast du gespielt?
/r/seduction07/10/14 10:15 PM
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Thank you so much!! This really helps and is great feedback and I can relate to all of this.
/r/seduction07/10/14 12:31 PM
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I really apreciate!! maybe you like this haha http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QyoKj2dIw9w also the girl is a good friend of mine check out her stuff as well https://de-de.facebook.com/pages/Viktoria-Ecker-Yoga-Lifestyle/452433714861082
/r/seduction07/10/14 12:29 PM
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oh shit...thans!! Will forward this to Roman he is taking care of the website :)
/r/seduction07/10/14 12:26 PM
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To be honest. Not even once ;) My first name gives way more room for creativity. "Whats your name" "Till" ...."Till when?"
/r/seduction07/10/14 10:07 AM
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Thanks. Will try to incorporate it :)
/r/seduction07/10/14 09:10 AM
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Yeah good point. Just posted it!!
/r/seduction07/10/14 09:10 AM
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Thanks :) I do talk fast and I am working on this. I will move to Chi-Town hope the accent might go away a little.
/r/seduction07/10/14 09:09 AM
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www.comfortzonecrusher.com It is already up and so far we coached almost 1000 people. Now I am doing another trip to get more ideas: www.roadstocourage.com to tackle fears and in Feb a whole course will come out :)
/r/seduction07/10/14 09:09 AM
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haha this kind of slipped out yeah! Two weeks ago I gave another TED Talk where I cursed a lot more...upps!!! And yeah I totally agree with you. What I often see is that people start to cross the boundaries of other when it comes up to comfort zone challenges. Not a big fan of this even though it happens to me as well that I violate the comfort zone of others.. This one definitly bothered a few: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7q7wm2apsCQ
/r/seduction07/10/14 09:08 AM
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So true!! Though in some cases it is important to look at the underlying beliefs or fears, becasue sometimes just doing the stuff actually makes it worse. For example if I believe others generally don't like me and I just go to parties over and over again. I will not neccesarily become more relaxed because due to this underlying belief I might only focus on the bad feedback. So this fear or discomfort will remain even though I go to a hundred parties, because all experience fit into my negative …
/r/seduction07/10/14 09:05 AM
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Nice. Thanks for the interest: www.comfortzonecrusher.com So far we did 3 pilot programmes which went amazing. November and December I will be on a trip through SA and USA where we interview successful people from different areas on their strategies on deal with fear --> www.roadstocourage.com When I come back from this trip I will produce the whole big programm on overcoming social anxities and nervousness :)
/r/seduction07/10/14 09:02 AM
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Definitly!!! Meditation helps a lot because you learn to direct your focus of attention. In social situation where we get nervous it is often the case that a large amount of attention is direct towards ourselves (how do I look, am I likable, does he notice I am nervous,...). Being able to control your focus therefore leads to an decrease in self-conciousness. Here a short video:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9wckkyge5LI
/r/seduction07/10/14 09:00 AM
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lol ;)
/r/seduction07/10/14 08:58 AM
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Before presentation there are two "techniques" which beat almost anything. 1. preperation 2. right before slow breathing for 3min. Breath 5sec in, exhale 5sec. You breth slows down, heart rate slows done and you will be calmer. This gets up your presentation skills easily with no effort.
/r/seduction07/10/14 08:58 AM
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Thanks!!!
/r/seduction07/10/14 08:56 AM
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Thought about it ;)
/r/seduction07/10/14 08:56 AM
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Great relpy, thanks for that!! Great book on this Mark Glouston - Listen. And I don't know where I read this but what I started to do is to always remeber the eye color of the person that I spoke to. This puts my focus totally on the other person and away from myself. And so true a video camera often helps. We offered first trial Comfort Zone Crushing courses (www.comfortzonecrusher.com), where we gave challenges to the people and they had prove they did it with a video. They also agreed that a …
/r/seduction07/10/14 08:56 AM
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yeah do it :) can highly recommend it...This might give you some ideas https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lv_FVq_s5H0
/r/seduction07/10/14 08:53 AM
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This is how they call me in the streets!!!
/r/seduction07/10/14 08:51 AM
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Thanks. Yeah probably. I am about to move to Chicago anyways...so this might help :)
/r/seduction07/10/14 08:51 AM
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with socially-focused you mean challenges to become more social and have friendly interactions with others? Our past programm went like this: 1. Look 5 strangers in the eye until they look away. 2. Smile at 5 strangers 3. Say Hi to 5 strangers 4. Ask 5 strangers a question 5. Make a compliment to a stranger 6. tell a short story to a stranger 7. talk to a group 8. tell a stranger a joke there are a bunch more...we also have videos for each of them https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n0aruRsLs_w
/r/seduction07/10/14 02:19 AM
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Thanks for the feedback :) What would really help would be one thing that you liked (so I know what to stick with) and one thing you would improve. Really apreciate it.
/r/seduction07/10/14 02:07 AM
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yeah comfort zone challenges are a great way to spicy up your life! There are some funny ways how you can make a routine out of it. Nick Winter who wrote the book Motivation Hacker does the following: when he crosses a street and the traffic light turns red while he is still on the street, he throws his hands in the air and runs to the other side like a headless chicken.
/r/seduction07/10/14 01:56 AM
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Haha..actually no! I'm German though.
/r/seduction07/10/14 01:26 AM
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Thanks. And yeah very true. Though I am working on this and taking speaking training, it is getting better ;) My websites are www.comfortzonecrusher.com and www.roadstocourage.com (this one is not officialy live yet)
/r/seduction07/10/14 01:15 AM
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Haha thanks man!
/r/seduction07/10/14 01:03 AM
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