| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 406 | The Mask Slips | LESSON LEARNED | TAMITHROWAWAY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 06:33 AM |
| 331 | He cheated on her and she's still with him. She now finds out he spends money on porn. | MALE DEPRAVITY | TAMITHROWAWAY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 04:38 AM |
| 135 | Thanks FDS, For Keeping Me Up At Night | PICKME CULTURE | TAMITHROWAWAY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 10:31 PM |
| 1 | OMG sis please stop | PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAME | TAMITHROWAWAY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 11:23 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | Dear Scrotes, children aren’t trophies 🏆 🙄First of all, Bob, you work in Accounting. Calm down. First LMAO. Second, I'm in accounting and I really like my job :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 11:50 PM |
| 49 | Pickmes are cancer to women’s liberationyea ok, but can you tell me which men don't hurt women? Can you tell me where these men are in particular? No? Oh ok. Not all men my ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 04:43 AM |
| 32 | Men, Integrity, PornI remember my ex lied to me for YEARS about how much porn he watched and the fact that he watched port. I couldn't trust him and even til the end I couldn't and he couldn't understand why I didn't trust him. Like you lie to someone for so long and expect them to just be ok with everything. Nah dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 12:37 AM |
| 4 | What love song do you dedicate to yourself?Love Story by taylor Swift or pretty much all of Taylor Swift songs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 12:39 AM |
| 12 | Men are such crybabiesUgh this is legit why I've had to stop cOmMuNiCaTiNg with men. There is no point. They always ALWAYS play the victim card. And what's worst is that they look for comfort because "YOU HURT ME". Just no. Communication is useless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 12:37 AM |
| 1 | How were periods talked about when you were growing up?My parents didn't say anything to me other than give me a pad. My school actually taught us this towards the end of primary school. All the girls were taken to a class and spoken about the different methods and all given a free sample of pads and tampons. I think I was lucky to have that and the teaching continued in high school as well, talking about the diva cup and how birth control effects our periods. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 12:34 AM |
| 46 | Scrotes act like we have a biological clock as though adoption doesn't exist.This concept was proven to be false anyway. I honestly think it was made up and used now to create an idea that women "expire". Meaning that we only have an amount of time to be a useful broodmare and pop out children to whoever can come get us before the "clock runs out". I know that by 37 eggs become less in quality, but there are always other ways and methods. I myself don't want kids, but it's ridiculous to be told this because it shows that we are only used for breeding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 12:21 AM |
| 85 | The Eternal Girlfriend 😳😬I feel this so hard! I used to feel like I could be with someone and never marry them and told myself I can wait until he's ready. Now I'm like wtf man, if you ain't wanna marry me, then we are DONE. BYEEEEEE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 03:52 AM |
| 7 | Some things I've learned in trying to find HV people (friendships and romantic relationships)A red flag for me is being mad at you for small petty things and making you feel bad for it the whole time you're spending together. It's happened too many times and still now at times and I let it affect me so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 03:21 AM |
| 72 | Coffee dates = $3 / hour bargain-bin emotional labourYES YES YES! YOUR TIME IS PRICELESS! TIME IS THE MOST EXPENSIVE THING EVER! So don't waste it on some scrote who can't be bothered to give you a real date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 11:52 PM |
| 8 | Don't do "quickies".I feel the exact same way. At first I thought it was me just wanting to pleasure him and make him happy. But now I realise that to do that meant making me not happy and not enjoying sex. It's not that I don't enjoy sex, I do, but now I need to figure out what about it I enjoy. It used to be all about him and now I know that's wrong and I need to work on myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 01:54 AM |
| 7 | Don't do "quickies".Thank you for this. I really needed to hear this right now. I'm still going through the process of ridding myself of the pickmesha habits, but i know everything takes time. I know that we should do things for ourselves, but I'm still in the habit of saying yes even if I want to say no. But I know if I keep going with this I'm not going to get any better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 01:50 AM |
| 40 | they both acknowledge that women make the decision to create life yet take it for granted that we do and in doing so keep society alive and growing.omg i feel this so hard! It's not even about pregnancy either. Like some of us get period cramps to the point where we pass out from the pain. Should we just go through that because some decides that MeN aNd WoMeN sHoUlD Be TreAtEd tHe SaMe? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 05:05 AM |
| 47 | Found in the wild 🙄Nah sis, just nah. The desperation is so real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 12:21 AM |
| 52 | When pickmes and newbies talk about their "HVM"We all need some of that tough love tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 11:47 PM |
| 36 | Some of y’all are still pick-me’s, you just hide it betterI was about to say the same thing. Also relapsing at times is a real thing. A habit is so hard to break when you're still learning the ropes. But with the support of everyone here, it helps to just know that we're all human and we all progress at our own rate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 11:34 PM |
| 2 | I was reported for a comment here..to RedditI know exactly which sub you're talking about haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 11:02 PM |
| 144 | I was reported for a comment here..to RedditYea someone's fee fees were hurt obviously. They just want to silence us into submission because their porn minds need us to be ok with everything they do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 03:59 AM |
| 101 | My cousin was molested by her stepbrother and his friends. The proliferation of "stepbro/stepsis" porn is something we should all be very, very worried about.That is disgusting and I hope that more women will come out and tell their stories to increase awareness. Porn is destroying society and it is so sad that men and pickme's are actively promoting this shit. It's destroyed relationships, families and the self esteem of so many women. My heart breaks for your cousin and I hope she gets the help and support around her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 01:59 AM |
| 87 | Starting over at 36...or "The Tiktok That Broke The Camel's Back"Thank god you're getting away from this LVM. It's disgusting that he did that, and on top of having daughters, he should be ashamed of himself. But obviously so many men will say "OH AS LONG AS SHE'S LEGAL" like fuck off with your paedophilia tendencies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 03:56 AM |
| 140 | Four stages of denial, aka "you should have CoMmUniCaTeD"The thing is, sooo many men on reddit always say ComMuNiCaTe, but I think they don't actually know how to communicate. When we rationally and logically point anything out to them, they take it as a personal attack on THEM. Even in relationships, we can say what boundaries we would have and they would just react. We CoMmuNiCaTeD like they've told us to and where does it get us? Advice like communication is useless unless it's productive, which most of the time with LVM will never be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 03:55 AM |
| 69 | Don't threaten me with a good timecause that's gaaaaayyy /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 06:00 AM |
| 535 | Don't threaten me with a good timeI shudder when I get asked "Where's my huuuuug?" Like ew no. Also, I don't ever EVER touch anyone at work, unless its a woman who i'm really close with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 03:52 AM |
| 111 | **NEW VARIATION** Coffee / Walk date 🙄So they want us to come to their house and just sit there and work for a few hours??? Like actually wtf. They're getting cheaper by the day I swear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 02:17 AM |
| 6 | I really enjoy watching antifeminists have a meltdown every time we discuss penis size. Just take your L and leave us alone! 😂 Ladies, please enjoy this curated collection of male tears, from the left-wing manosphere 🎁sooo... men can have preferences but we can't? And if we do it's body shaming? I don't even know what to say | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 11:09 PM |
| 38 | The truth about male attitudes towards "lower performance standards for women"I've been working in the corporate world for some time now and I definitely feel this. When pay is spoken about and men find out I earn more, they are so bitter about it and it's so obvious. They start putting down my efforts and my work, and start making it about them. Like honestly, just work harder/better. The worst ones are the ones who either say I slept with the boss, (which holy fuck no you unprofessional dickward) or that WoMeN HaVe An UnFaIr AdVaNtAgE. They think that because there are … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 11:04 PM |
| 10 | Men are cry babiessomeone got their feefee's hurt aww :'( 😂 😂 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 10:55 PM |
| 25 | If he’s letting himself go (both fitness wise and diet), it’s over 🤷🏾♀️ I’m sure you ladies can guess what the comments are saying 🤮CoMuNiCaTe my ass. Men say one thing but don't even know how to do. They get angry when you do and then blame us for CoMuNiCaTiNg jfc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 10:53 PM |
| 14 | So, he only watches women’s sports if he’s physically attracted to them & despises “manly” female athletes. But, in a previous tweet, he said he watches all types of men’s sports. Logical.LOL probably! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 05:42 AM |
| 54 | Would also love to have more conversations about how we can be more intersectional and open to discussions about race and feminism ❤️That's so good that they warned you about it! My parents were always worried about whether I looked "good enough" for boys or "I was acting womanly so I can attract the right man." It felt like I was shown that my value was based on what a man thought, not what I thought of myself. On top of that, Instagram models and what you see on TV is just so sexualised and it makes girls think that they need to be "sexy" too, and for me, it made me feel like I needed to be that way to get a man's attention… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 04:41 AM |
| 63 | So, he only watches women’s sports if he’s physically attracted to them & despises “manly” female athletes. But, in a previous tweet, he said he watches all types of men’s sports. Logical.This is just ugggghhhh. I have a friend who is absolutely gorgeous. She is one of those girls who love to work out and does a whole bunch of different sports. One day she posted on her isnta story of a guy trashing her and saying she looks like a tranny, and she should "slim down" to be more "sexy". Just ugggh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 03:34 AM |
| 121 | When has a woman ever spoken about a man like this? They HATE us.WTF! These men only think with their tiny peepee's honestly. This was a human being with a life and memories, and it's being completely discarded because "she did kegels" jfc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 03:30 AM |
| 14 | WHICH ONE OF YOU QUEENS DIVORCED THIS LVM LMAOoh but SAHM dO nOtHiNg AlL DaY /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 03:25 AM |
| 103 | Poor woman.I was thinking this too. Like "Oh yea, mummy does naughty things infront of the camera for other men to earn money for you and me" ??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 03:21 AM |
| 504 | Would also love to have more conversations about how we can be more intersectional and open to discussions about race and feminism ❤️It's disgusting how society actually grooms girls into thinking that sex work is empowering, let alone ok. It's sad to see that girls really do think it's a world where they think that being the pleasure of men is their value, on top of the fact that this is seen as "easy" money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 02:09 AM |
| 34 | "I look like a goblin but I want a thin princess" smh 😂😂😂I lost it at the picture! OMG I think it's hilarious how entitled these guys seem. Thin to average Like whaaaat? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 02:28 AM |
| 9 | Share your Red Flags on men who view women as disposable objectsUgh the hobbies thing. I swear, when I tell men about my hobbies, not even OLD, just in general, they completely dismiss it at times. Either that, or just seem like it's so strange and make comments about it. Like, you asked me wtf man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 11:08 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter