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Thanks for the input, I don't wholly agree but the perspective is refreshing. I didn't autistically record every aspect of the 'date' (I like how autistic is a buzzword btw, must be a new thing to the TRP sub as I'd never heard it banded around so much) but it wasn't quite sitting in awkward silence miles apart. There was a decent amount of conversation, joking and tension building it (it's not like she just walked into my house silently and put the DVD on, perhaps that needed clarification?) ju…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 05:47 PM
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Bit of both, really. Valentine's definitely helped a tad but I could've probably turned it around on a regular day too, to be truthful. I'm no Casanova but I've never had issues with "handling" women via a TRP mindset. I don't think she was going to "put out no matter what" women seek companionship on Valentine's whereas men tend to go for sex: it is likely she would've been content to just cosy up to me and watch the shit film had I not applied some TRP principles to get myself laid. I made thi…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 08:01 AM
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It's a painful truth but one I can attest to being true. Well-worded observation.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 07:14 AM
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You can check my post history, I posted a FR about a year ago here. Former incel? Nah lost my virginity at 16 etc. banged approaching 40 chicks in the 7 years that followed ...just only truly started realising the past few years that my success with women weren't accidents but me applying TRP principles without (at the time) realizing it. I hope other guys aren't using this as a model for advice. What makes you say that?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 07:06 AM
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Valentine's day has to be the absolute worst day for a first date Curious as to what makes you say that, I've found it to be the opposite: most women have it drilled into them to not 'spend it alone' therefore go the extra mile to end up with someone.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 02:50 AM
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I'm not posting this as some feat of brilliance, just a simple FR bud.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 02:47 AM
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lol, yeah sounds about right. (I actually just had a heavy day beforehand and ridiculously overslept).
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 02:46 AM
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It's been almost a year since I last checked and posted in this sub, not really sure if there's a format or style for field reports so I just did the same as my first FR.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 11:55 PM
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Bipolar or Borderline? I've stuck the D in one and it was... not something I regret but not something I'd likely do again.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 11:42 PM
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Good work. Starting lifting a few years ago was the best decision I ever made. I was never "out of shape" per se, just on the gaunt side, but you can always look better by cutting bf% and gaining muscle mass (for me it was entirely the latter).
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 11:40 PM
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eh men are less emotional on average but you're right it does affect both genders, my bad!
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 11:33 PM
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Around 10. I aim for 1 new girl a month. I never claimed to be above the emotional rollercoaster, merely that I use it to further my own goals :)
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 11:32 PM
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oh I see. Met her last year, crossed paths a few times acting aloof - she drunkenly called me good-looking so I got her number and hit her up when I'm local.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 03:21 PM
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without sounding egotistical: handsome, own place, fuck well imo the only 3 you need
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 03:14 PM
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Re: initiation. I agree, of course 99% of the time you have to initiate but after you've spun a plate long enough it's more fun to let them try. Re: text. I agree, most of the time I'm the one instigating it, precisely as you've said there are times at like 1am that I've ignored 'requests' because it's on my terms, not hers. Conversation doesn't ruin your frame, it makes you human. I don't see an issue with casual chat during "breaks"... it's only a no-no if you're constantly chatting to her ove…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 03:12 PM
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What do you mean by "rapey vibes"? If a girl is in your house, dressed to fuck and giving off IOIs I'm not sure if any small talk is going to matter, you both know what's going to happen.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 09:43 AM
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ya fair enough but it was early and I fuck for my benefit not hers lol e: also note how I said "inside" rather than fucking, i'm not worried if she checks it whilst we're paused for a sec
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 09:40 AM
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Drinking age is 18 here. No, I said those 6 words. Ultimately what you text is irrelevant if you've got enough SMV for the girl to be interested IMO. Although I try and avoid texting whilst drunk because you can lose frame way too quickly.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 09:34 AM
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Straddling this line is probably the hardest aspect of following a TRP lifestyle. Because, believe me, there is still a clear distinction between maintaining frame and just being a cunt/asshole. The latter will sometimes cause you issues.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 11:20 PM
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I never asked to be born this way... (you've also kinda described every longer term relationship I've had too, alas)
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 11:32 PM
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Relax, follow the golden advice laid down by others in this thread. You're 18. You literally have 20+ years of good times ahead if you make some, potentially hard and difficult, choices and decisions now. Embrace it.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 09:48 AM
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people will think you're heartless. What if you are, though?
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 09:46 AM
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You are 18 and you have already figured out that drugs, video-games, and educational institutions are a dead-end. You are actually ahead of the game in many ways, my friend. Contrast that to people who spend their entire twenties and even thirties in school only to get either no job or a shit job to pay down debts that will last into their sixties. This a million times.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 09:46 AM
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after this I switch from guy approaching in bar to interesting guy she might sleep with." I think in simple terms Brand is trying to get across the idea that when you approach a girl you don't want your intent to be misconstrued as friendly/platonic as opposed to romantic/sexual. I.e. "I'm here to take you home with me" vs. "I'm so glad to meet you, let's hang out!"
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 09:44 AM
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I think 1, 2 & 6 are pretty RP. 1 is pretty much dead-on. If you're following red pill ideology to get women then that sums up the game, in my opinion. 3 is subjective, I've never been personally. 4 & 5 are similar to each other, almost contradictory. "Don't be too blunt" followed by advice to verbalise "I'm chatting you up" but I think those are just "filler points". Maybe it's just a reminder to maintain frame and be self-aware instead of getting lost in the process and forgetting your end goa…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 09:40 AM
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Variety is crucial. Still reserve the right to be jealous of that setup though :)
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 10:48 PM
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I bet you're killing it with those logistics.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 10:34 PM
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Couchsurfing is a goldmine. If you have a free house in a big city you're literally reeling them in.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 10:32 PM
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Why do girls get over guys quicker? They get under a new one the day after. Pretty much echoed by a lot of other posts in this thread.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 03:14 PM
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Relationships are, broadly speaking, a trade. The man provides emotional intimacy, the woman provides physical intimacy. A slut is not respected because she provides physical intimacy without requiring emotional intimacy in return. She has sold herself cheap. A "nice-guy" provides emotional intimacy to a woman without requiring physical intimacy in return. He has sold himself cheap, and likewise is not respected. This is one of the most basic and core principles, imo, that drives TRP. Glad to se…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 02:48 PM
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I'm not truly worried seeing i have other plates but the lying is annoying me. She's just a plate man. Don't stress. Shit like this is gonna happen, I wouldn't press because you know the answers already.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 02:45 PM
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You're 6'3" and 160lb? You've been given a solid height if you can put on a bit of muscle mass your anxiety will soon disappear as you notice women doing 180 degree turns with their heads as they notice that tall motherfucker. Trust me. Stop wallowing in self-loathing and hit the gym, read the Book of Pook and find some good male friends so in a few months you can hit up the night scene and use your new frame (both physical and mental) to pick up some cute girls.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 02:24 PM
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Feminism has made casual sex a lot easier for the top 20% of guys at the expense of making it harder on the remaining 80%. TL;DR MAKE SURE YOU'RE ALWAYS WORKING ON BECOMING OR STAYING IN THAT TOP 20%
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 02:13 PM
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no way in getting a girl to leave Disneyland to come bone. She's probably at the centre of tonnes of validation which, in her mind, vastly outweighs sex. Nice analogy, very fitting hehe.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 11:46 PM
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Surprised nobody has mentioned the influence of a woman's relationship with their father on such a topic... Some women I know can still settle down with a sweet, nice guy even if they find him annoying on occasion. There are other women I know though who just float from one bad boy to the next, never quite learning their lesson. I wonder what traits make some women more addicted to bad boys than others? Daddy issues.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 11:38 PM
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college being a time for "experimentation" I just applaud the article for being straight up about the realities. I think hard truths are the most motivating toward RP theory.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 06:10 PM
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was FWBs with a makeup artist for a few months yes makeup can make a 6 into an 8 tl;dr water is wet. I get you, let it all out.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 05:02 PM
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overall acceptance, and encouragement of this behavior is also very well worth analyzing too. easier to justify what you're doing if you actively praise another person for choosing to do the same, or follow the same path whether it be a good or bad life choice
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 04:57 PM
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Women are more sexual then men can ever dream. Women, in sex, desire to be treated as an object and relish in it. Two most important for any newcomer to understand imo.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 10:28 AM
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does the wise thing by breaking up with her. Least it had a semi-happy ending. Thanks for that.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 02:29 PM
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This is essentially my go-to response. I love how it makes them qualify their maturity etc. to you. Spot on.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 02:27 PM
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But I got her to climb on my lap in my car and practiced a few tricks on her You could've/should've fucked her there BUT. Today I message her and ask her if she enjoyed the other night. She replies emphatically yes. I tell her that the next time I see her I want to have sex, and in fact its the only reason why I want to see her again. Her only reply: If you are going to use me for sex then just make sure I enjoy it. She has realised she is going to get pumped and dumped and she is happy with it.…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 02:26 PM
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Would you ask a fish how to catch fish..?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 02:09 PM
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she was headed out into a field with a friend to look for a flashlight that she accidentally lost in the tall grass. Moment of silence, please.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 02:07 PM
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Link please?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 02:07 PM
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It's insulting to be considered a bf/husband material by these women. Glad I wasn't alone in feeling insulted.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 12:51 AM
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I understand what you mean. The dark feeling when sex becomes a hollow experience. This is resonating hard with me at the moment. Fuck.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 12:47 AM
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Truth is ugly and shitty. That's all there is to it. Take this notion and adapt to exploit it. It doesn't matter if you're the beta provider or the alpha guy fucking her silly, she's still getting what she wants without impunity. Reality won't change just because you can see it. Aye but hey... see above. Life ain't fair chief and the truth is ugly and shitty!
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 12:47 AM
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I knew from the title this was going to be filthy but DAMN. The hamstering is HEAVY: This pisses me off so much. Makes it sounds like men are too stupid and lustful to have self-control. No, it's not your fault. If he wasn't happy with your sex life he could have talked to you about it or broken up with you rather than cheating. But I bet she'll blame her "emotions" once she gets the tingles for another guy and cheats on her beta bf. "The heart wants what the heart wants" right guys ;)
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 06:42 PM
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You fight crazy with crazy boys. Revenge porn until your hearts content, recording your liaisons could get you off a false rape charge and hey you get to build up your own personal wank bank, two birds with one stone eh? :) This. It's firstly good practice to protect your shit against the inevitable "I WAS NOT MYSELF" false-rape bomb that might crop up but secondly it's your own, and pretty much only, effective "mind" weapon to use against a woman if it ever gets really sour. As you can see appa…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 06:38 PM
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how do people live like this? he wants that pedestal pussy
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 06:28 PM
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Getting laid is a bad metric to measure TRP mindset against. It affects most facets of your life. I'd say one of the more directly translatable markers of TRP success is how many plates you can spin long term. That requires a good usage of TRP knowledge on many levels IMO.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 10:57 AM
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This is why marriage makes me feel uneasy. I'm pretty sure the vast majority of women have something like this in their background (it's tragic to think that a woman who doesn't isn't the norm anymore, but I digress). Do I want to gamble against those odds? EDIT: And that's solely what she's admitted to. Willing to bet, as others have said, it was probably more than just BJs.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 10:50 AM
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Everything. Half of them have been 10-15 years older than her That's normal though.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 10:42 PM
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Absolutely ruin her in bed. The rest of the circle will be lining up after a while for their turn.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 10:38 PM
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I want to make it as open as possible so people can offer their own thoughts for varying contexts instead of narrowing it down from the prompt.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 11:49 PM
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Only when it benefits 'em
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 11:46 PM
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Concise wisdom, my favourite response in the thread. I fuck almost entirely for ego purposes at this point...
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 11:37 PM
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It happens chief. I've had some weird ass cockblocks in my time "What??? You've only just met??" from the cock block squad stopping the girl from coming home with me. /smh jealous hamsters
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 11:31 PM
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Of course. I'm not debating any of the above, it's all true. But I'm just starting to seriously question: cute girls have heaps of status and options handed to them but over time this reverses - her looks disappear, and a guy who works hard slowly makes up the gap and then reverses it. TRP often phrases that in a positive light (which is fair enough) but who really wins? Easymode from 16-30 or a slog til you're 27,28,29 or 30 and then maybe 10~ years (maybe 15 if you age well) of potentially sim…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 02:59 PM
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Of course but it's not so basic really. That's one component. I understand where you're coming from but it's more "getting whatever you want when you want it" the 'sex' part was superfluous.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 02:36 PM
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that simply throwing yourself into a relationship, and trying to make a woman happy as the solution to the "Why?" Believe me that's not a consideration. I meant LTR solely from the perspective that it benefits the male hugely more (women gatekeep sex but men gatekeep relationships). I can then considerably invest less time in going out/spinning plates when I have one much more reliable plate.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 02:33 PM
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Believe me that's what keeps me sane. I don't do anything for women, nor have I really ever. Keeping in shape etc. is all for the self-feel good I agree. But I'll be walking about and just minor things will set me off. E.g. my sister is basically the female equivalent of me and her life is immeasurably superior to mine despite the vast differences in our ethics - she's unemployed, average build/height, dropped out of art school, but the few times we cross paths she's always on her phone with 5+ …
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 02:31 PM
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you're right
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 08:18 PM
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I should clarify that I always let them do the insertion so I can use the excuse that they initiated it.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 07:00 PM
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We need to pressure the gov't to recruit more RP officers then so it can be more like: Girl: I told him I didn't want to have sex. He then fucked me anyway. Officer: Ma'am, please stop wasting police time. I jest but could you imagine the tables turned? OUTCRY. SAVAGERY. BARBARIC.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 06:54 PM
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Terrifying. I hope that's sarcasm.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 06:46 PM
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(off college campuses) Phew. Was just curious though, thank you.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 06:37 PM
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I'm outside of the US hence my alarm at these barmy laws? Emotional impairment??
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 06:32 PM
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tl;dr don't act creepy and you won't be perceived as such.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 06:30 PM
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Re: rape accusation I've never, thankfully, been accused. How would it work? Maybe my mind is too logical to process the thought of this being an argument investigated by the police "Hi officer, I went home with a guy, sucked his dick then when he fucked me and I made no physical indication of stopping or refusing - now the morning after I realise it was rape." Wouldn't the officer be rather confused? Again pardon my extreme ignorance on this topic.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 06:26 PM
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Definitely. Always err on the side of caution. I should probably mention my phone is always recording audio from my jacket pocket by the bed when I bring someone home. I agree with the risk.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 06:22 PM
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Amen.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 05:57 PM
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This video made me very unnerved.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 12:32 AM
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Ego isn't really relative to blue/red pill behaviour IMO you're going down the wrong thought path. I know tonnes of humble blue pill betas and egotistical RP folks. I fail to see any true correlation.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 12:30 AM
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That's slightly alarming if correct.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 12:27 AM
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23 years old, living at my parents, Yeah you are buddy sorry.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 12:23 AM
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Good insight m8 welcome aboard.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 11:03 PM
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Golden rule: if you are in a girl's bed and you haven't fucked her you're fucked. Move on. I'm sorry it happens. It's like the ultimate affront to a woman if they bring you to their bed/let down their defences etc. and you don't capitalise on it. You're pretty much done for. Don't worry it only happens once then you'll never make the same hesitation again.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 06:33 PM
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Pretty obvious IMO. Pretty much any excuse she uses to touch you is a very solid indicator.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 06:31 PM
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It could go either way. Jealousy/hamstering is powerful it could go in your favour: "Oh look how other women jump on his dick he must be worth fucking". Who knows?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 08:43 AM
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"who told you that?" GOLD
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 08:27 AM
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Good point. I won't add the sulking part, wondering if I should add to the end "6pm, don't be late or I won't be taking you to Baltimore" or is that overkill? (She said 'we should go' at some point a few days ago - although I don't mean at the weekend probably the week after)
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 08:24 AM
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I suspect she'll bolt if i actually do They love sabotaging a good deal. Don't get blackmailed into commitment.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 08:22 AM
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I've already replied. I'm just debating the next course of action.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/13 09:08 PM
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Was direct. Response was positive. Not much to say.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/13 12:19 PM
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I'm a mobile red flag (improving piece by piece)
/r/TheRedPill09/09/13 10:10 PM
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Kinda completely ignores her question though, maybe: "I'll be at XX on (pick day of week)" "and I can show you."
/r/TheRedPill09/09/13 10:09 PM
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Dunno, don't think she's part of the "ready to ambush me with sex at a moment's notice" club. early days friend
/r/TheRedPill09/09/13 09:58 PM
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Just any extra development would be interesting. You did the right thing and most of the advice in this thread is solid.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/13 09:02 PM
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Need a follow-up soon OP
/r/TheRedPill09/09/13 02:39 PM
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I just feel like if I'm silent she'll get bored
/r/TheRedPill20/08/13 09:49 PM
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I just feel like if I'm silent she'll get bored
/r/TheRedPill20/08/13 09:48 PM
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Very nice read mate, top work and inspirational. Where in Europe do you hail from?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 10:37 PM
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