Backstory: she's 6.5/10, 21 y/o, haven't banged before but figured I'd try get a first date bang by using Valentine's Day to my advantage. Text her the week beforehand to set it up, all looks good so far...

...I oversleep my 'date' with this girl for Valentine's, it was supposed to be at 4pm and I woke up at 6:30. Of course she is freaking out at me. I remain calm, ignore her tirade entirely, no apology. (MINDSET, FRAME)

With just a simple "Yeah I must've been tired, 8pm work for you?" she agrees, fast forward a few hours and I'm at mine - she comes but it's 9pm and she's only just arrived. I mentally note she's late but don't mention it [yet].

We're both sitting side-by-side but not touching on the couch watching "Love Actually" (lol) there's obviously some pissed vibes about how late and half-assed I've done this, she's next to me but she's entirely fixed, almost angrily, on watching this shit piece of cinema. Sure I want to get moving but I'm not James Dean, I give her a little to chill and let the emotions from 'Love Actually' supersede the negative vibes from earlier (TIMING).

About half way through this unbearable chick flick I think "enough's enough", it's time to close the gap both physically and emotionally. (ESCALATION)

Smoothly pull my arm around her waist and kiss her neck "You were late," (I felt almost cruel given I was actually the late one in the scheme of things) "but you can make it up to me." (TRP MENTALITY)

Adjust my hand that's around her waist I start to caress her inner thigh a little (KINO) and use my free hand to sort've hold the back of her neck (DOMINANCE), kiss for a bit but with every one it leads to me withdrawing slightly and her becoming closer until she's sort've leaning over me: at a certain point she's now leaning toward me with her hands on my legs as support (KINO), a gentle nudge and the strategic unbuttoning of my jeans and I'm getting one pretty good BJ. I keep the hand that was guiding the back of her neck there for "encouragement" and free up my other hand. Enjoy the moment for a while before I move my free hand to her hair to keep her hair back and away from her mouth (10pts to the genius as to why) but also it leads onto...

I pull her head up, slowly, by a gentle tug of her hair, she looks extra cute now her lipstick's all smeared. I whisper in her ear "Take off your clothes. Now."

She gives me "the look" I can't describe it but anyone familiar with TRP knows it. I don't want to sound misogynistic but it's like that expression women have when they know, but enjoy, you've got total control over them (in that moment).

[cue decent couch sex, this isn't a fucking erotic lit book. Suffice to say I enjoyed that more than the shit film I had to endure beforehand]

The key idea behind this, and I guess TRP in general is taking action. If I'd had just sat there watching that mind numbing crap and not 'taken control' of the situation I'd probably have ended up home alone afterward and disappointed.

I don't post or even need to read around here often, as you can tell, but it's always fun sharing a report in the hope it helps wake someone up to how simple things are when you lose 'the fear' and just become a man unafraid.