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It’s not my fault if OC is weak willed - but I will mind my manners. Hope you’re doing well Vermillion.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/26 07:29 PM
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"People get into car accidents, so you should never drive." - that's how ridiculous your argument sounds.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/26 10:42 PM
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Not trying to shit in your scrambled eggs, but all of this can be condensed into a few words: be more valuable than she is. Keep writing though.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/26 02:28 PM
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[u/Vermillion-Rx](u/Vermillion-Rx) They’re like cockroaches. Requesting bug spray.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/26 03:35 PM
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Genuine answer: blue pill thinking is an ideology that women can do no wrong, that their shit doesn’t stink, and that anything they say can’t be used against them. It’s feminist propaganda to cuck weak men into thinking disrespect is okay. The Red Pill is an antidote to this thinking by unveiling the cold hard reality of life: women are inherently apathetic to anyone but themselves because that’s how nature intended it - primarily designed for bearing and raising children. It’s not evil, it’s no…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/26 05:19 PM
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Sign me up if you need more mods. I’ve been following this sub since 2016. Former dating coach, digital nomad, marine corps vet, startup founder. I know my stuff.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/26 05:10 PM
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He overreacted by getting emotional, but he was right to walk away. The proper way to handle this would’ve been to say “You think he’s hot? Go get his number” - you get up and leave, she’ll blow up your phone, you let her come over, pump and dump, then block her on everything and find a new plate/gf. None of this “play it cool” bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/26 05:07 PM
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There is something seriously sick with this comment section. You did the right thing by walking away - even if you laid pipe it wouldn’t have made a difference in her character. If it were me, I would’ve just hit it a few times and moved onto the next one. No bimbo is going to call another man attractive in front of me and get away with it. If she’s doing this shit this early on, imagine what she’d do a year from now. Shame on this comment section. Absolute cucks.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/26 05:00 PM
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Am I tripping balls, or is this entire comment section filled with lightning blue-pilled cuckery? We need to start banning this idiocy. OP did the right thing by walking away.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/26 04:57 PM
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Tell us more.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/26 08:45 AM
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Success requires sacrifice. I don’t have much of a social life.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/26 08:44 AM
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I do - partially. A new hole always feels great, but sometimes I do crave more, like a meaningful conversation about life, aspirations, intellect. But those moments fade when you see what’s actually in front of you: nagging, shit tests, monotony, financial drain. It takes a bit of luck finding women who check all the good boxes and lack the bad ones. But for now I don’t mind being single. I’ve got a great life.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/26 08:43 AM
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I couldn’t have said it better myself. >> One woman - ONE - decides if you’re going fuck or not. That’s exactly it. I don’t do well at conceding power in a relationship. Women call it “compromise” but it just boils down to a balance of power. If she knows you won’t leave because the state says you get half your shit taken away, it’s self-castration the moment you put a ring on her finger. Monogamy is a relatively new concept, only a few thousand years old - but for 400,000+ years polygamy was th…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/26 07:26 AM
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I’m on the same boat. I like my freedom, but I do want to have children.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/26 07:28 PM
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No one said I didn’t have hobbies lol. But my routine is there for a reason. Being a startup founder is probably one of the most challenging things in my life. When you have purpose and a vision, everything else becomes background noise.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/26 04:23 PM
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Eh, debatable. As long as you’re not trying to repopulate the earth, 1-2 kids you could still give plenty of attention and resources to. Obviously you wouldn’t be able to live with them. I’m up in the air on this one. I grew up in a traditional household and having a dad in the house absolutely made a difference. Couldn’t imagine not having one.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/26 06:40 AM
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Thanks Vermillion - it was meant to be a question, just forgot to include it in the title.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/26 06:01 AM
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I’ve never pandered. But I’ve made perfunctory compromises to keep my relationships alive. The question becomes whether or not the upsides outweigh the stress.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/26 04:36 AM
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Oh trust me I’ve had my fair share of bad moments. One time I was dancing with some bimbo, I tried to dip her but she didn’t know how. After the song ended she went up to the bouncers and told them I was trying to kiss her (not true). 5 of them came up to me and told me to go out back with them - my instinct told me to gtfo, I ran, one of the big ones bear hugged me from behind, I tripped, girls started screaming, big one carried carried me out when I was already running for the exit. Most humil…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/26 03:36 AM
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I politely disagree. I’ve had too many positive experiences, lots of lays, and even a few relationships. The only issue is that it can lead to continual momentum where you don’t want to slow down - if that’s what you’re referring to, then yes, it can lead to being a forever bachelor rather than strategically searching for a wife.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/26 02:25 AM
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Can’t believe I forgot to put this one in here. I learned how to dance salsa years ago and it is easily one of the best ways to meet women.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/26 09:36 PM
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Innate prerogative to reproduce. The irony is that it leads to less reproductive success until that dopamine feedback loop is seared beyond recognition from heartbreak - hence why old(er) men are usually more detached/attractive to women.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/26 08:59 PM
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Absolutely. As much as we like the feeling of being in love, it’s also a double-edged sword, very much like a drug. I don’t fall in love anymore - but I care deeply from an elevated place, like seeing the lower floor in a building through clear glass. It’s the closest thing to having the best of both worlds (control vs indulgence) - but it will never be what it was like before swallowing the pill. I prefer it this way, because it keeps me in control and most importantly, gives me the ability to …
/r/TheRedPill06/05/26 09:20 AM
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I’ve already addressed the risks and solution to post finasteride syndrome in two other comments in this thread. And yes, hair is really that important. It’s the difference between looking 25 or 40. Then men who look good bald are the ones with well-developed facial structures and strong jawlines.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/26 07:40 PM
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High risk of relapse, and their former behavior is indicative of lack of impulse control - i.e. she is more likely to cheat when she’s thin. Also, loose skin.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/26 04:47 PM
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Politely, this is not correct. Assuming the state is Texas, only two conditions need to be true: If you live together + you present yourself to others as husband and wife. No wedding ceremony necessary.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/26 04:46 PM
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Will do.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/26 04:44 PM
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I made a comment about this to another user regarding post finasteride syndrome. Topical fin, oral dutasteride, minoxidil + tretinoin, then Clomid or TRT for anyone who already has PFS. It’s completely reversible after flooding your system back with androgens.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/26 04:43 PM
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Easier than you think, especially since performance is all audio-based. I was able to find one within 3-4 weeks, but I also have experience in the field I applied for.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/26 04:37 PM
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Same reason you don’t give a loan to someone with bad credit.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/26 07:15 AM
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Look up MBTI (myers-Briggs) personality types. Ask ChatGPT which personality types are correlated with the type of girl that fits you best. Once you have that list of 2-3 compatible types, ask it where you can find those girls. But generally speaking small towns is where you find the best ones. They’re isolated from the clown show of feminism and their parents are likely still married. A good compromise if you don’t want to live in a small town is a medium to small city of no more than 300k peop…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/26 07:21 PM
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Women are social creatures, much more than men. Their biological makeup thrives on communication, even if it’s with a therapist. They feel better this way. Your career taking off and your mental health improving is no coincidence. When men focus on misery, it’s just rumination - which does nothing, or could even make things worse. Since men are primarily testosterone based, androgen-based biology is dictated in action - why is why it feels good to pick heavy shit up and put it back down, or why …
/r/TheRedPill13/04/26 06:23 PM
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Thanks. Your comment is really useful, but with your permission I’d like to add a clarification: heaviest is not recommended. You won’t be able to reach those 8 reps if they are 8 counts each. Maybe only 1-2 reps at most. You have to pick a lighter weight that you know can get you “close” to 8 reps, otherwise heavy weights just promote neural activation but not hypertrophy - and increase risk of injury. Great to see Mike is being talked about more on this sub. -I see the edit you made. Your clar…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/26 05:57 PM
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Use tretinoin + minoxidil topicals together. Tretinoin activates a pathway that makes minoxidil more “bioavailable”. That’s why minoxidil doesn’t work for most guys until they stack it with tretinoin. As for your question, I recommend topical Finasteride and oral Dutasteride together. I’ve heard of a lot of Fin users get post-finasteride syndrome through oral, but almost never with oral Dutasteride. Both are 5AR inhibitors. So they prevent the conversion of testosterone into DHT, which is why th…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/26 05:37 PM
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Exactly. The trick is to either move to a state where co-habitation laws don’t exist, or draft a prenup and then tie the knot. Most people don’t know this, but divorce laws favor women heavily because capitalism benefits the economy - if both men and women are in the work force, wages get cut in half but the country’s GDP doubles - hence why we need dual income households now. This was not the case prior to WW2. And guess when feminist propaganda started? Feminism was never meant for women.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/26 03:17 PM
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Because being in love is a benefit to men too - regulates your immune system, telomeres, cortisol levels. The reason you can’t show it is because it shifts the power dynamic in favor of your girl - they start getting cocky or overconfident and will start to shit test you to make sure you’re still in control. Stoicism is about controlling your body/actions, but stoicism explicitly states you can still feel.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/26 03:48 PM
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15-year red pill veteran here. Once you reach the point of being able to walk away at a moment’s notice, falling in love is permitted - under the conditions that she 1) Doesn’t see it, and 2) your emotions are always under your control. Btw if the higher tier women are leaving, your SMV might not be high enough. The women you’re after are most likely more attractive than the ones you didn’t commit to. Keep working on your SMV, especially your physical appearance/face.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/26 03:10 PM
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I founded a startup for a dating app that ultimately transitioned into a bigger social media platform, and have been studying the industry since 2011, so I know a thing or two about online dating. You will 100% have a bigger pool of men to choose from. But bear in mind, the top 10% of men that you choose to respond to will have significantly more options than a guy who isn't using dating apps at all. Since women want men that other women want - those men will be more susceptible to cheat or dece…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/24 01:07 AM
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I'm the guy on the other end of this. He's 100% been cheated on or dealt with a similar situation, so his defense mechanism is to shut down. My ex (I ended things for different reasons), who is very sweet and caring, had the exact same issue with me. If she told me about guys she was platonically talking to, it triggered the living hell out of me and I would shut down for hours, if not half a day. It didn't happen often, but once I recognized it I knew how to handle it by talking it out with her…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/24 11:40 PM
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You might think he's healthy - but having a low sex drive is an absolute indicator his testosterone levels might be low. After I got out of the military I had my T levels checked and found out they were low (I was around your husband's age) which explained why I was tired and skinny all the time. Soon as the doc gave me a prescription for T, I got into bodybuilding, gained 20lbs of muscle in 4 months, founded a startup, and my sex drive was so insane I prsctically wanted to make love to a donut …
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/24 11:26 PM
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Same situation. The options I see on Tinder aren't that great, and I've met and been on more dates with women just by, you guessed it, doing the things I like and meeting people through overlapping social circles. My team and I are working on a new social media platform just for this - a dating app that isn't a dating app - and it acts more like a gamified version of meeting like-minded people in real time rather than having profiles. Keep an eye out for it by November of next year. It's called …
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/24 11:10 PM
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Yup. I only do dumbbells as well.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/24 04:31 PM
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The game is not to look for the close. You look for the indicators of interest. Women half choose you if they're interested, otherwise they've already made up their mind. Don't focus on the girls. Focus on increasing your value, then the girls will start popping up. There are only two rules: 1) Be attractive. 2) Don't be unattractive. There's a reason this is touted as the best advice on this sub. Use it.
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