The landscape is tough. When below average women get a taste of Chad, they don’t lower their standards on dating apps, so we need to adjust our strategy. Below I have listed 5 of them, but make sure to read past the initial title on each bullet because there are additional nuances that expand on the core concept. 

Edit: I already posted this but I had to introduce one more very important bullet that I forgot to mention. 

  1. Small towns. After having traveled to 9 countries and lived in 4 of them, city girls always pursue degeneracy. Girls from small towns aren’t nearly as exposed to this and the people are much more humble. And because everyone knows everyone, women don’t have the luxury of whoring out. Go to your nearest town outside your city and you will see how different the girls are.

  2. Dance classes/places - this is the one I had to edit in. It is arguably one of my favorites. I learned two-step, salsa, and bachata over a decade ago, and I’ve met so many women from this alone that I could make a post on it. Touch builds trust, and ability to lead adds another layer of attraction. I’ve had a few relationships stem just from meeting so many women at dance places. However, it also has the highest barrier to entry (which is also a good thing, keeps high SMV males away). You can’t be mediocre, you actually have to know what you’re doing and build enough confidence over the course of several months or even years if you’re a slow learner. A private instructor will accelerate this process.

  3. Coffee shops. I practically use Starbucks as my office every day. The ratio of women to men is always 3:1. Trick is to sit next to them, or wait until a few sit near you, then strike up a conversation by asking for a charger or asking her to watch your stuff while you go to the restroom, easy openers. Pro tip: go to your local coffee shop instead of Starbucks. The ones who go to mom and pop shops are higher quality because they’re not looking for that Starbucks lifestyle that feeds their ego, and Starbucks also blasts their AC on purpose to get people to leave.

  4. Wear a suit every chance you get. When you look like you have money, people give you free stuff, they hold doors for you, and it’s easier to strike up a conversation while you’re out running errands. Luck is when preparation meets opportunity: if you always look good, your chances of winning increase.

  5. Cooking classes. This one is a no-brainer. Women who are looking to become better cooks make excellent wife material. But really anything that requires effort or labor (think farm girls, baristas, chefs) usually make great girlfriends. Women who put in physical effort are overall better people, especially in relationships. The only exception is gym girls, since many of them are simply looking for validation or click farming on Instagram.

God speed.