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Hi, no not really. But a lot of times, people who do feel sexual attraction and frustrated try to rationalise things
/r/ExRedPill23/03/23 12:54 AM
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Here you go-https://www.google.com/search?q=do+children+of+divorced+parents+fare+worse&oq=do+children+of+divorced+parents+fare+worse&aqs=chrome..69i57.7694j0j15&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8 Some quotes from the article-"Taken together, the findings suggest that only a small percentage of young people experience divorce-related problems" and "On average, the studies found only very small differences on all these measures between children of divorced parents and those from intact families, suggesting …
/r/ExRedPill03/08/22 03:36 PM
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You said EXACTLY what I was feeling. His wording is repulsive. His girlfriend is not in a good place if she behaved the way he says she did. He has and has every right to extract herself from the situation if he couldn't handle it but to use gross language like "tantrum" for a grown person is so condescending and dehumanising.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 08:14 AM
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I would be a little careful about this. A lot of redpillers are MOC but there just doesn't seem to be enough data about them. Whenever mainstream media or even youtubers talk about incels, they show a white guy. Contrapoints is the only youtuber who mentioned other races but everywhere else, whiteness still seems to be the norm. And the severe fetishisation of Asian women seems especially popular among young white men heavily into anime. Also, idk, for most of the mail order brides (hate using t…
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 08:11 AM
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Oh yes. Gavin McInnes seems to have come out unscathed but Tarrio might got o jail right?
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 04:55 AM
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Oh no there is so much fetishisation of white women by MOC, there is tons of internal colonisation. And from what I've seen, the ones who seem to hate white women the most seems to be white men, many of whom opine how feminism has ruined everything and groups like the Proud Boys literally promoted this trad-rad idea of a 1950s lifestyle. It's why the GOP is so anti-women, their main voter base is angry white men (and increasingly, though idk the numbers, people of colour). Also the racists who l…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 11:21 AM
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But to be someone's partner you have to show them you're worthy of their time. A lot of people are struggling, including women, and you'll notice with a lot of RP beliefs, they don't see women as full human beings with other worries and pleasures besides their dating life. It's tough for sure, but why should someone have to be with someone who they don't want to be with in the first place, whether because of neediness or any other reason? They are not obligated to, and if someone can't see your …
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 06:24 PM
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This must have been so hard for you, the dating, the recovering, the realising and then the explaining in such detail what happened. I read the whole thing and if it's any comfort, I think a girl who reads your post might learn something and be aware of such tactics. Really glad you found peace.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 08:19 PM
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I think if people had that defeatist attitude, women wouldn't have even the rights we have today. And if pushing can change even one problematic person or at least make them budge, that's probably one life saved. Not a massive accomplishment on a worldwide scale but it could mean the world to an individual. Also, I hope you're okay. Obviously can't assume anything but you sound like you're in a bad place and I really hope you can access help if needed.
/r/ExRedPill10/06/22 11:13 AM
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No dude, you just don't face the risks women do and you know this yourself. What is clear though is you have no idea how threatened women feel and I can't tell if you've even attempted to try to understand but if asked I'd say no. There is nothing anyone can do for you because you've decided the threat posed to women's lives that scar them for decades is the same as men consciously taking risks. And no dude, men aren't prone to trying risky stuff for no reason, that's social conditioning. We hav…
/r/ExRedPill10/06/22 09:04 AM
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That's a different thing again because then I could bring up how women compliment each other and we don't get freaked out because they don't normally pose a threat to us the way some men do. Key word here is "some". It's not always possible to tell who might be dangerous so we have to keep our guard up. Almost every woman has a story of their boundaries being disregarded, being harassed, molested and worse. Do you see what I'm saying? It's a whole world of fearful things not perceived by many me…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 07:49 PM
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Also might help if you think of people you're not immediately attracted to cause trust me, you will find them. If you look at just social media, chances are you're coming across people who look a certain way, usually conventionally attractive or whatever is trendy and you'll get a distorted view of reality.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 05:18 PM
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The key word here is this: "so to me being treated purely like an object of desire and affection would be amazing." You already said you mean it in a consensual way in other comments but just to help in case you're envying this position, imagine you're just going about your life and a person comes along who you not only feel unattracted to but you worry they might cause you physical harm or cross a boundary that will make you feel unsafe at sporadic moments, possibly for years of your life. That…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 05:16 PM
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Women can be easily manipulated but they also vote in their own self-interest even when it harms society? Isn't that s little paradoxical?
/r/ExRedPill08/06/22 07:23 PM
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Please stop thinking in absolutes, please. I think the fact that you're here is proof that you are open to different perspectives and I think that's amazing. But I just had to address this. My comment below doesn't answer your question exactly but I hope you give it a chance. Start viewing women as humans before you think of them as women and do the same for yourself (assuming you're a man). Really ask yourself if the patterns you think you're noticing are real and why you think "women" and "men…
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 06:17 AM
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Thank you very much :)
/r/ExRedPill30/05/22 03:57 PM
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Hey have you seen Healthy Gamer GG? Dr K has tons of videos on men's issues
/r/ExRedPill30/05/22 03:46 PM
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True, very true. I genuinely appreciate that perspective. I grew up sheltered so the misogyny I encountered as a child just made me curl up and get so sensitive and defensive I literally deprived myself of experiences to never experience it when I was a teen (didn't work fully obviously). But then I saw it online, i.e. the misogyny, and started teaching myself and comments like yours are honestly a huge learning experience.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 09:47 PM
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I honestly don't know what the intention was. It's like they are enjoying the circus and happy with the results
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 09:12 PM
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Omg yes and one thing that rubbed me very wrong was that Camille Vasquez just smiled instead of saying no when asked if she was dating Johnny. Heard she isn't dating him so why not just say it up straight?
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 08:35 PM
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No ofc not, I just meant it as sth that needs to be cured. That sounds terrible because of the condescending ways it is often used but I hope you understand what I mean
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 08:32 PM
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Yes, on some places they're supportive, on others, the same rhetoric being used against Amber (who again, I don't support). Idk if this true but one comment under the Princess Weekes video on the Depp Heard trial said people are going after Kesha too.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 08:30 PM
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His feelings really don't change his actions. Idk, not condoning, but sometimes I think the red pill makes people absolutely ill
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 06:01 AM
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You know a petition to get Heard off Aquaman gained over a million signatures in 2020 BEFORE the trial even began? People already believed Depp. I guess he was pissed about losing his Pirates of the Caribbean role but the genre was kind of dying anyway. Lindsay Ellis literally had a video called Dead Genres Tell No Tales or sth. And the thing with so many dv victims siding with Johnny is, as harsh as this sounds, they don't necessarily know for sure what happened, no one does except people with …
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 02:41 AM
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Dude this was completely set up in so many ways. I am in no way saying that Depp wasn't abused or Amber was never abusive but it's insane. I felt anxious a few days ago about this because of just how bad people were behaving. Depp's finger story was confirmed as believeable by one suspect and not by another. Amber's ex-partner said she was never abusive and Ellen Burkin said Johnny had issues. They are literally portraying him as this saint. They're doing the same things but getting a completely…
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 02:36 AM
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The fact that you can admit to yourself that you are unhappy honestly puts you miles ahead of a lot of people not yet prepared to accept they are. Keep going, I genuinely think you can make it
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 04:49 AM
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For sure. Think of Afghanistan and India. Look up Iana Matei. Just letting you know it's graphic in case you're at a point where you can't look at these. Iana Matei saved tons of trafficked girls in Romania and the stories are absolutely bone chilling. Also, do you know a PUA was said to have allegedly gotten involved in human trafficking in Romania? It's alleged so I'll give yo a link to a video where a woman still manages to have empathy for him despite everything he says and does. Here it is …
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 04:40 AM
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Hey long answer ahead but I hope you read it and it offers some perspective. Really and truly recognise just how terrifying it is to be a woman even in this day and age. You think of male loneliness and friendlessness but make a list of the problems women face (this will also act as a test of how much you actually know about the other side instead of the venom spewed by RP) and ask if you would ever like living like that AND experiencing loneliness on top of all of that. Also, the RP seems to th…
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 03:27 AM
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The misogyny and if they push this idea that they are the only truth tellers in a world constantly lying about everything. If they have weird formulas and terms they fit everyone and everything into despite it being ovely simplistic. I also think they rage-bait a lot.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/22 01:10 PM
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Idk if this helps but in the Harry Potter books, J.K. Rowling (now disgraced as a TERF for her gross behaviour obviously but she still wrote well) wrote Hermione as having bushy hair and big tooth. She literally said, when she saw Emma Watson, that this is not her Hermione cause she isn't supposed to be pretty. Here's the link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7BdVHWz1DPU It happens around 5:40 mins. Hope you can come out of the red pill mindset. What I've seen from posts here, it's as if the ide…
/r/ExRedPill27/05/22 09:35 AM
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At this point I genuinely don't think you want to leave RP. Like another commenter said, you want confirmation bias. Hate using this term because it's weaponised by the rw but you are hellbent on proving men have it worse. What will that do for you? What don you hope to gain by that? I honestly don't know what else to say and I can't engage in this conversation anymore
/r/ExRedPill27/05/22 08:53 AM
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Please do, thanks
/r/ExRedPill27/05/22 08:52 AM
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No dude it's not. Dating is inherently linked with danger to women and men are usually the perpetrators of it. It' why there is the joke Donald Glover had about men having crazy girlfriends stories but girls not having crazy boyfriend stories because girls with crazy boyfriends don't live to tell them. And you SERIOUSLY downplayed sexual harassment. You are NOBODY to determine what is "very serious" or not. Even a victim of domestic abuse can sometimes not tell if someone was a victim of dv. It …
/r/ExRedPill27/05/22 04:53 AM
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Dude, just please honestly tell me how often you go out and if you have hobbies that care about? Also, Tinder is so so so not a reflection of reality. You do realise that right? I am pretty sure I sent you a video showing exactly the problems with dating apps. Some have only 20% of women compared to 80% of men. There is a very specific thing most people on Tinder look for. Ofc there are couples who've lasted long and found each other through Tinder, but mostly people go there for hookups. So wha…
/r/ExRedPill27/05/22 04:48 AM
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For the umpteenth time, the violence men face is not something women are at fault for because other men commit them. Why not tell the men this? The problems women face however are also often caused by men which is why the other points were brought up in relation to how women behave when choosing a partner. Do you see the difference? And friends suddenly declaring their attraction causes strain on a relationship and can even ruin it. People value friendships but when that happens, people and espe…
/r/ExRedPill27/05/22 04:40 AM
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You're so into the red pill ideology you're unable to see girls as whole human beings. Why do they have to care and force themselves to like someone when they don 't feel like it? They don't owe you anything. No one owes anyone anything. You see girls as this panacea for all your problems but the truth is it has to come from you. You're self-victimising. Imagine, the thing you're upset about is not finding someone, and that is painful. But the things girls have to worry about is bodily harm and …
/r/ExRedPill27/05/22 04:20 AM
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Please seek therapy. And just fyi, there are girls who self-harm and try to meet the unattainable standards shown in media too. Body dysmorphia affects all genders but the number s were originally much greater for women you know why? Because for the longest time, women needed to be attractive to be valued and for survival and the mentality stuck somewhat despite more jobs being available. The legislation of laws don't automatically alter deeply held beliefs society has conditioned people to have…
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 09:57 AM
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It often does apply to bad relationships too. Bad relationships can have problems ranging from envy, lack of effort, unwillingness to understand problems, gaslighting, lovebombing and even abuse. Just the other day, there was a post in this subreddit where someone mentioned how their bf got into RP ideology (yes, while being in a relationship). The guy heard her phone buzzing with texts, said he just wanted to check the time, had his phone beside him, but he literally went over her to check her …
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 09:48 AM
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DUDE WHAT? Oh my god. Poeple get PTSD from sexual harassment. I was scared to go into my freaking school two years after an incident happened and after the offenders weren't there. i legit wanted to miss a family member's graduation because it meant walking up back those same steps where they were sitting. How can you even bring yourself to say something like that? I'm not even mad right now, I'm just in complete and utter shock. Please go to a therapist if possible, please. And watch Healthy Ga…
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 08:49 AM
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The more and more I branch out to see the content in left, liberal and right wing spheres and then spheres dominated separately by men and women, the more I realise how completely out of touch each group is from one another and I say this as someone strongly left-leaning. The fact that you have such a simplistic view of this, (this sounds harsh, sorry about that, but idk how else to word it) that women being complimented will raise their self-esteem, ignores the fact that what many men think are…
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 08:27 AM
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This sounds exactly like the tactics suggested by PUAs. I think Elliot Hulse said sth like this, like withdrawing attention and making her insecure by making her think that he might be with someone else. Guy was literally upset about his wife giving their literal INFANT more attention than him. It seems dangerous and pathetic at the same time. Sorry about your experience though.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 06:43 AM
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I don't know why this didn't come to me before but it genuinely seems like the promoters of the red pill use and abuse the same tactics used by abusive men towards women (I'm mentioning only this type of relationship because this is the one I have mostly read about). I have been reading a book called "Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them" and one of the first stories is about a woman who says her husband is wonderful, but he gets enraged at her for the slightest things, and she ends up…
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 06:02 AM
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Thanks for sharing the examples
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 03:35 AM
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I heard Richard Pryor had some inappropriate (read horrifying at times) jokes on women but I have to look into Eddie Murphy an Chris Rock. But I am curious about your last line. Are you saying they expressed some red pill views in their jokes that you find acceptable? Could you elaborate on what they are? And do you really find RP views acceptable?
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 04:22 PM
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Oh my goodness what? And yes I remember this, the creepy messages. But would you mind directing me to some of these instruction manuals and forums where men give whack advice like not eating curry?
/r/ExRedPill20/05/22 05:47 PM
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Thank you so much for your response! I understand the part about racism, that must be hard swinging between being completely ignored or marked as undesirable and then on the opposite end being fetishised. Now that you mention the case of the South Korean guy, I remember now how so many South Asian men who've grown up abroad come back to find a bride in their parent's country. It always struck me as strange and creepy because I grew up here and I've always loathed the idea of arranged marriage be…
/r/ExRedPill20/05/22 05:12 PM
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The height range you mentioned, not a factor and definitely not a deal breaker. Your attitude to people sharing their experiences here, definite deal breaker. If you are so convinced you won't find anyone, accept that and move on? Why do you have this intense need for everyone to confirm your subjective opinion? Your experiences and views don't negate that of others. No one is stopping you from making a safe space for men. You're deliberately coming to a place where you know people won't share y…
/r/ExRedPill05/05/22 05:55 AM
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A 12 year old? Seriously? That is absolutely petrifying. And I understand what you mean. There are so many things I didn't know as a child even with the internet from when I was 9 tears old but kids these days come across so much
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 12:58 PM
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Thank you for both your replies. I guess there were more concrete and agreed upon dating rules in the past. This isn't related to dating exactly but whenever I look at the AITA subreddit, I keep seeing how people are having trouble navigating the changes in all kinds of relationships today, not just the romantic ones, largely because of changes in expectations. So I see your point about being in social limbo. But men not being appreciated for what's expected of them, I don't know about that. If …
/r/ExRedPill29/04/22 05:53 AM
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Ok dude, very seriously asking, if women "want it more than men do" and again your evidence seems to be "Trust me bro" with no empirical evidence cited, why don't RP men just stop cold approaching women or just mind their own business and see how it goes? And, on a serious note, do you realise how dangerous statements like yours is because you encourage men to not listen to women when they say no? Do you realise how you fall down that slope? I literally saw a post on RP saying women want to be "…
/r/ExRedPill28/04/22 08:23 AM
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there's absolutely no guarantee that just because you have a father means he's a good role model. Spot on
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 08:08 PM
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I found your answer very enlightening and I definitely have to watch the movie because I hadn't even heard of it before you mentioned it. You made a lot of great points that I agree with. Your point about boys being taught to be "incredible" also reminded of The Incredibles and how it views mediocrity as bad and I've been thinking of that but linking it with this because of your answer now. As if a "normal" life where you feel wholly satisfied and even peacefully happy is bad. Where I disagree t…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 08:08 PM
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Also, women are treated as abnormal when single too. Convenience Store Women is a novel that explores this, and women in many parts of the non-western world are pressurised to marry and people ask intrusive questions like "Is sth wrong with her" when a woman is single past a certain age or even if young. There was this famous story of women in China hiring fake boyfriends for Chinese New Year's.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 05:51 PM
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Ah thanks for clarifying. But I think men think women want these types of men because many more men prefer supermodels themselves and think women are the same? Idk, despite people like Brando and Pitt being portrayed as sex icons, there is more diversity in the kind of men being portrayed positively. Like the nerds getting the girl. I think I've never seen as many non-traditionally attractive women in media as I've seen in recent movies. Even a decade back, someone like Adam Sandler (not calling…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 05:48 PM
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Oh yes I have and I partially blame academia for this. I for one don't know how to read scientific papers and am educating myself on this. It's not even entirely their fault. Education systems suck. Underpaid teachers, misguided parents, lack of funding, needless homework and then no teaching of how the modern world works.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 05:45 PM
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Hmm. I watched the video you showed and loved it, thanks for reminding me of it. Also, I get the comfort part. What about someone like Anthony Recenello? He is a confidence coach but I found some of his content fun and he analyses relationships sometimes. Charisma on Command too maybe. HealthyGamerGG often discusses things related to dating and he once tried explaining how women feel that was just funny (but not inaccurate) but I think it's something that will appeal to and help men. But I think…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 05:40 PM
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Thanks for taking it in good faith :D . Intelligence is a factor I forgot, and considering how terrible the education system is almost around the whole world, it's a massive issue and I'm grateful you brought my attention to that. "General bad starting in life" is a really great way of putting it. You know what I think a massive issue is? It's that women continue to have problems today that are much more subtle but because it was so much worse in the past, many in society claim it is not real no…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 05:11 PM
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Yeah they for sure do but I don't see women saying things like "men want to be raped" unlike certain RP threads like this https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2bowat/women_want_to_be_raped_by_a_high_value_man/ Also what is a "high value man"? I know what a chad is but idk the specifics of HVM. Why are some RP men so confident that most women want HVM?
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 04:23 PM
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Hmm I think lack of positive male role models is for sure a factor but I worry that might be used to discriminate about non-heterosexual families. I think there needs to be a community approach to this. This might sound funny but I remember in Wimpy Kid, there was this company called "My Big Brother" or sth and kids got to be with an older guy who would play baseball with them or just give them time. With adult supervison ofc, I really think sth like this might be necessary. Also more male teach…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 04:10 PM
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Yes, and someone mentioned Susan Faludi's "Stiffed" in an RP video comments section which I thought would be useful
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 04:05 PM
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For me red pill is a way of understanding of how people choose each other. I don’t think idealising the past or arguing with feminism is what necessary follows from this understanding. Being uneducated about the past and holding misogynistic beliefs is well possible without any red pill. That is for sure true but many (not saying all cause there were differences in viewpoints) seem to resort to these simplistic and reductive ideas and then get affirmation from hoards of others at a low point in …
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 04:04 PM
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I agree with you on the media part. A lot of movies targeted at women really just flip the problematic things in male movies and that's just not empowerment-it's easy entertainment meant to make a quick buck because it's quirky and eye-catching. It sure makes many women feel good but in this day and age when so many learn from the media and even porn, I can understand why some men feel lied to. And also, and you'll see this in feminist circles criticising older generations, many women did and co…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 03:58 PM
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I see you don’t like the concepts of red pill. But can I ask you how does dating work in your opinion? What is a “healthy” description? Absolutely. But I would just like to say beforehand that I have never dated am currently actively choosing to not date at this time. I am going to be 24 very soon but don't have it in me to be in a relationship. Do I feel embarrassed about my lack of experience? Yes at times, but I realised I need to be by myself more and that the emotional weight of being in on…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 03:51 PM
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I actually am very uncomfortable with the concepts of the red pill and don't like them because I find them using the same old tired stereotypes of women. And that's just the main one. They also refer to women of the past as generally more ideal but not once do they mention how sad so many housewives were nor do they seem to have awareness of the fact that calling women bitchy or unhappy because they're feminists is a very old strategy, an that too with deep political roots. I don't find Gloria S…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 03:13 PM
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Sorry about your experience and thank you for sharing. Hope you are now in a better state of mind. Would you mind telling me though why you ended up believing in RP with a few examples? I completely understand if you don't want to. It's just that as a woman, I usually direct the hate toward myself and I've seen most other women do that too even when they have friends saying otherwise. I know women's socialisation plays a role here and many of us are forced by our families to be submissive but I …
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 02:56 PM
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Yeah I came across posts asking for help to change mindsets too and I do wonder why there isn't a public health focus on this
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 02:52 PM
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I thought of that too because I was just wondering if everything else is going well in their life for them to place relationships on such a high pedestal. Not diminishing loneliness and need for human connection but you know, most people have a lot more stressful things to worry about than dating
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 02:51 PM
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Totally agree with you on this but I have a feeling many men, especially young ones, feel humiliated to share their experiences. While I see older men speaking openly of their negative experiences of divorces, courts, etc, I think there is still a lot of shame attached to school bullying, being a virgin, social gaffes, etc and many RP men feel afraid of sharing these stories.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 02:49 PM
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Emotions don't make sense and can't be rationalised and fit into a box. These guys feel backed into a corner without options, no one wants them, nobody cares and that was BEFORE they joined TRP. It's easy to hate who or what you want the most to place the responsibility for your suffering on an external force. I love your whole answer but the first paragraph especially is eye-opening for me. My thoughts when I went down the RP rabbit hole was they seem insecure and entitled but I neglected to re…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 02:47 PM
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This is so insightful. I did hear about the loneliness epidemic and I knew the way men are socialised was drastically different, but the expectations of how we are supposed to be in terms of how we connect to each other I think I forgot about. Thank you for your answer! Also I am somewhat in the same boat as you in thinking that women really can't help here especially because so many of them have such a low opinion of women if they do not downright hate them, but I just worry that if it's not so…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 02:37 PM
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This I actually do think is a very interesting point too and one I plan to remember well.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 02:26 PM
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I find your point about the suicide rates of ethnic minorities very interesting because it overlaps with what I've heard (this is anecdotal though) of how white people living in poverty often feel ashamed because they are conditioned to think it is an anomaly to be white and poor and feel humiliated about their lack of wealth. About feminism being alienating is where I disagree, because it's primary target wasn't men at all, it was to help women. It continues to be the case today because women c…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 02:25 PM
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Lol no radical feminists don't hate it because "they know it takes their power", they hate it because they have uppity moral standards from a bygone era and/or haven't been able to overcome their own negative experiences of being involuntarily sexualised. They can't see the difference between women's exploitation in porn and women having some form of an option to earn with sex work; they conflate these two different scenarios often. The term SWERF (from TERF) exists for a reason, and no feminist…
/r/MGTOW230/05/21 11:42 AM
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Yeah I get it. I hated high school and only found peace after being an adult because my adolescent bran was crazy. Either way, good luck man.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/21 07:08 PM
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I'm so sorry about that. If it makes you feel better, where I come from, psychiatrists sometimes just tell people to pray lol but smh in pain and disappointment
/r/ExRedPill28/05/21 05:28 PM
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Yeah, sorry if it felt like I was generalising. It's just a lot of violent incels are male and I'm yet to see an angry female incel. My head spun when I tried reading Elliot Rodger's manifesto but a part of me (and not in a condescending way) thinks he needed genuine psychiatric help. So freaking scary how calm he was about everything but also keep wondering if his mind was okay
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 08:36 PM
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Hey, as a woman who was bullied and ended up having severe anger issues as a result, I think the other crucial point that needs to be made is that boys are raised and brought up in a society that makes them shockingly entitled. Not blaming individual teenage boys of course, but I, even with my fantasies of hurting people, never felt jaded if someone didn't like me back. It never crossed my mind that people I was attracted to owed me anything and years later I think my being a girl played a huge …
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 07:37 PM
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I am fully on board with the suggestions of therapy mentioned here in many comments and additionally I think she needs some counterinformation to tackle this. A lot of feminist research has focused on this. The MGTOW and RP shit might make her suspicious so maybe read some yourself and suggest it to her and later tell her it was discovered by a woman. Also let her know that she has value in your life and just because staying at home doesn't generate money doesn't mean it has no value. Care work …
/r/ExRedPill22/05/21 07:21 PM
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You might already know this but a channel called The Take has some videos on the problematic messages in Rom-Coms and even sitcoms like Friends and HIMYM. I think you'll really like them.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/21 06:57 PM
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Thank you so much for making this video. Not a man nor was I ever a female misogynist, but I have recently been wanting to learn all the small and major ways in which men are taught to behave in a bad way and videos like yours really help give me perspective and learn a lot.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/21 06:55 PM
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Also check out Big Joel's video on it
/r/ExRedPill14/05/21 03:09 PM
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You have no defense do you? Alright dude, stay in your bubble. You're clearly not ready for anyone who doesn't blindly believe him. You don't have the guts to refute even one of the points I said. And I even gave links xD. And about the length, how big is Peterson's favourite The Gulag Archipelago again? You really need to do better than saying something so generalised man. Anyone can avoid actually talking if they make random statements that makes them feel like they've one-upped a person who h…
/r/ExRedPill14/05/21 03:07 PM
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I'm sorry. I guess I failed to see how much you're struggling and assumed you want to hold on to some of the RP ideas because you said utilitarian and that made me think that maybe in some way you still think those ideas might be valuable and right. But that's on me. I've actually saved some links that dispel a lot of RP ideologies. Let me find them and share them here. I really hope they help you. (Some other redditor made a long list of these all by himself so all credits to that person, not m…
/r/ExRedPill13/05/21 07:10 PM
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I honestly appreciate that you are sorting out the RP brainwashing in therapy, but I think you really need to realise how dehumanising you sound atm. She is a human being and you are assuming things about her. And about finding some younger after settling down, the possibility of meeting someone better will always be there, and it's not something you can allow to dictate your life. I think you need a lot more help to get over the red pill ideology you have because you seem to have this AWALT ide…
/r/ExRedPill13/05/21 04:22 PM
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Nice to see you finally honestly engaging with what I said. And I did think about it. That's why I said he was able to fill a vacuum in the lives of so many young men. He is popular not only for his opposition to political correctness but because of the vociferous support he gets from his followers. But it still doesn't negate the dangerous views he pushes. The examples go on. Just look at his daughter and him banking on this and pushing an all meat diet that could have dangerous consequences pl…
/r/ExRedPill08/05/21 12:15 PM
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Alright. It's clear you're evading the discussion. It is very easy to understand that you made a statement strongly in favour of a person and I explained in a lot of detail (twice) why I think he is problematic, especially because you said someone like Peterson should be taught in high school. Isn't it obvious to expect a response defending him since you so vehemently support his work? And I clearly mentioned support in the middle of my second long response lol. You were unable to engage with th…
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 09:45 AM
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So you have no actual response to actually support him?
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 06:31 AM
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Sure, when I become a tenured professor earning thousands from patreon instead of being a 4th year college student on her third internship, I'll certainly consider it. And I will try to do so without making generalisations about subjects I didn't bother to study up on and I will certainly not pretend to be apolitical while pushing my personal views onto readers who are likely in a bad place. Your assumption that anyone can do anything at any time proves once again one of the issues with all self…
/r/ExRedPill01/05/21 06:12 PM
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Seriously? He sprinkles his problematic views in between his self-help advice and that can definitely impact a young person's thinking. He keeps pushing unsubstantiated views and vilifies entire departments. As an English Literature student myself, I can tell you how dismally he misunderstands what is being taught. All he focuses on are how all humanities courses teach postmodernism when one of the first literary theory classes students take often require students to get a taste of various theor…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/21 06:49 PM
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How on earth can you expect a deep meaningful connection with someone on a site designed for quick hookups? I'm not saying you can't find long-lasting love form Tinder, etc, but you do realise that a system where you swipe left and right and people present who they are in a few lines is reductive and people at this era now more than ever have been conditioned for quick dopamine hits. And about your whole beard/no-beard situation, you do realise that people have preferences right? I personally li…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/21 08:10 AM
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Hi, it's really nice that you have had the realisation of how PUA behaviour can be extremely harmful and damaging. I myself have been put in situations where my no wasn't heard and I felt extremely scared of voicing even my discomfort. Your remorse however seems very real, and I can understand the guilt you're feeling. As a teenager, a former close friend behaved in a very gross way and made me feel unsafe, but when he started dating a female friend of mine, I didn't have the courage to tell her…
/r/ExRedPill21/04/21 01:46 PM
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