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I'm 5'6" and get debilitating sciatica/back pain once I reach 170ish That pain is my, "You're getting too fucking fat" indicator. I can't imagine how poorly these women feel. If they understood what normal feels like they would put down the ice cream.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/22 07:36 AM
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Someone mentioned she is Filipino and I knew a girl who was single at that age. She told me about her overbearing parents that were 100% about school. She was shy and so in her teens and early 20's it was all about school, so hardly any connection to the opposite sex. Strict Catholic upbringing. She still lived at home with the same overbearing parents for 4 more years. Then she came to the U.S. on a work visa and started the process of becoming a citizen. Part of the deal is to be sponsored by …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 02:14 AM
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I read her book and her impression of dating as a man was so spot-on. She said how unwelcoming and judgemental women were in the dating context. It was hilarious reading her explain how difficult conversations were with women and how little effort they tried to be engaging. I think Norah kinda realized that dating for men is very much a "burden of performance" dynamic while women quietly wait and judge. It probably shook her core beliefs that dating is an egalitarian dynamic (it's not, and never…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 09:39 PM
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They assume that men get better quality matches despite getting fewer. No, men get the same proportion of bad matches as women do and still get less matches. Let's say 99% of matches are bad. For women with 100 matches that leaves one. For men with 2 matches that almost guarantees both matches are bad. So not only do men get less matches their likelihood of getting a bad match is even greater. There was a trans person who talked about her experience dating as a man and then transitioning and dat…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 06:55 PM
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Don't get me wrong, I'll call women out on their bullshit. I don't disagree with what y'all are saying. It's more like a sadness in seeing wasted human potential like a drug addict. She probably deserves what she got. And yes, maybe my bluepill programming kicks in when I see women cry. That's difficult to unlearn. I think I need a break from the internet. It's making me depressed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 03:31 AM
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I know that this sub is about poking fun at women making bad choices. Some days I enjoy the schadenfreude. But this one in particular made me sad. She is hurting and it's only human to feel bad for her. I hope she figures things out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 01:30 AM
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She's the most recent record label prostitute. They pick whoever tests well with young girls and then blow her up as an artist. It's all about money and selling a brand. It's incredibly easy to manipulate young people, they've done this since Elvis.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 07:37 PM
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I know a 27 year old who would fit in their club. She seems ok, I'd even say cute. I didn't understand at first why so many coworkers openly disliked her so much (mostly other women). I've worked with this girl for a year now, we talk at least once a week to pass the time. She literally only talks about herself. She is incapable of having a conversation about something that isn't directly related to her. Art, politics, music... Immediately circles back to her somehow. (It's actually kind of fasc…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/22 08:44 AM
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I do think this attitude will change over time. This is kind of a long winded explanation but right now more women go to college. On average they will likely out-earn men sometime in 20 years. Many will be overweight, on anti-depressants (no libido) and in serious debt. Many will double-down on their career and miss the opportunity to form meaningful relationships and have children. Once reality sets in that they missed their chance to have children they will be resentful for the single mothers.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 03:53 AM
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I've always said that there will come a day when a short guy finds his mom's old online dating profile. And it's going to validate that guy's concerns about height. It's going to be one of those things where he tells his mom, "I think my height plays a factor in dating" And the mom will say, "You just need to be more confident" "Oh ok, well here is your tinder profile from 2020 showing you don't like short guys" And the damage that is done is not about height. It's about women lying. That kid wi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 05:00 PM
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I think the problem is that some women fall into a "all or nothing" mindset. Where either they are going to be very fit or not bother trying. I would be very happy with a bubbly chubby girl. It just seems like some women give-up and go from cute to obese where there's a pretty obvious difference. Most guys aren't asking for perfection. I feel like a 5'4" woman should be able to be stay under 165 pounds.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 04:16 PM
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This is why I think height has become increasingly more important. The fatter you are, the taller the man needs to be to make you look feminine. I can be 6 inches taller than my date but she can outweigh me by 30 pounds. Also I don't mind girls taller than me but when they are tall and built like a linebacker I just don't think I can be attracted to them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 04:03 PM
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"everything was a crisis" Sums up my experience in a LTR. Really just a series of making sure she's ok
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/22 07:17 PM
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Unfortunately, I've been in those positions before where you are a punching bag for a nurse and it literally has nothing to do with you. It's a real eye-opening experience. And the fact that you're male means they don't feel bad about offloading that frustration. Working in a female dominated industry is emotionally exhausting. Makes me cringe whenever I see those Facebook posts about nurses being God's gift to the world. There's some doctors who start out as lower hospital workers, and they don…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/22 02:24 AM
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In many universities, there's an easier version of chemistry for nurses. The hardest class they took was memorizing anatomy. There's some smart nurses out there, but being smart is not a requirement.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 10:17 PM
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It's hard to convey something like, "Don't date single moms" Without some backlash. That's why I always frame the question as: what are you getting out of this? Does this positively impact your life? But young guys (including myself) are programmed from a young age to "save" women. It's probably because many of our own moms were single so we're trying to fix a family we never had. But this is a farce, claiming that male role with all the responsibility with none of the authority. So these guys r…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 10:10 PM
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I've always said that compassion is finite, just like energy or attention. Nurses usually expend all their compassion at work and when they come home there is nothing left. This is why off the clock nurses are some of the rudest and most entitled people I've ever met. Literally had a nurse scream at me for something that was completely out of my control. If a nurse is having a bad day she will offload that onto the closest person outside of work. What gets hypocritical is that this behavior is c…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 07:50 PM
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Well they sound empathetic. I've never had that reaction from female friends. It's usually a "that's not my problem" kind of response. But they will go on to complain about men being terrible when they are really complaining about the 5% of men they find attractive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 07:26 PM
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They straight up don't care. That's why explaining this stuff is usually a waste of time. If tomorrow a huge peer reviewed study showed that men have it quantifiably worse, what do you think will happen? Not a goddamn thing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 07:08 PM
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It's hilarious when women complain about hook up culture. Who do you think is hooking up? It's the same guy for every 8 women. Women think it's an even split, like the average male has the same level of access to casual sex as the average female. There's legit women who think this. It's pretty incredible that they can't fathom how different life is for males. There's this idea that, "Well men are hooking up too!" Um... No ladies, the average male is going years without sex. Mr. Average male is n…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 10:06 AM
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Well if we just increase the welfare state then that should curb the problem. I for one, would love to pay 60% in taxes in order to support these morons and their bastard children. /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 01:09 AM
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Dang this kind of parasitic relationship reminds me of the charity paradox. Where if a charity is successful, then it should cease to exist. March of dimes was originally a charity for children with polio. So when the polio vaccine came out they needed to find a new problem or else the organization would end.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 04:53 PM
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I know I'm sounding more and more like the conspiracy-theorist drunk uncle. But we're going to see a generation of TikTok kids who will want Communism (or some kind of authoritarianism) The app is controlled by China. They can't beat us in any kind of war. But they can brainwash kids into their ideology.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 11:39 AM
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Unfortunately I can't find it. It was on buzzfeed or cracked or one of those trendy internet news sites. This was around the time when tinder turned to absolute garbage. And probably when incels became a thing. I know that these aren't considered valid sources but it helped explain why literally every guy I knew was having an abysmal time on tinder. Even the tall med student friend said he gave up on tinder. And women just rolled their eyes at our experiences. It's not so farfetched to believe t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 08:30 AM
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In order to keep you on that app longer the algorithm purposely keeps you away from women you would like to actually date. There's just enough positive reinforcement to keep you interested. But that positive reinforcement is most likely a bot or a woman that never responds. It's designed to keep you there with the hope that you will match someone normal... Soon... 😉 Just keep swiping! I promise she's just around the corner! Hey check out this advertisment to more shit you don't need!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 05:00 AM
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What happens is they create a profile. They spend maybe a few days on the website/app. They leave for 8 months. Then come back a couple days. Then leave again for months. The profiles and women are actually there, they just don't go on as often as men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 04:40 AM
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I legit don't think they were concerned about women because the vast majority never intended to meet their match anyways. That's also a cold hard fact. Women are risk-averse, asking a woman to meet a stranger is like asking a deer to hangout with a taxidermist. The female employees of Tinder got a full picture of just how ridiculous women's standards are. "I'm glad I'm not a guy on that app" Is a quote that jumped out to me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 04:30 AM
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That number was originally meant to exclude "fake"accounts. There's people who worked at Tinder that talked about this at length. Even past female Tinder employees felt like the app was a complete waste of time for men. All of these dating apps operate in this way, it's huge money. If half the guys walked away their company would go bankrupt within a few months. It's all about money.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 03:57 AM
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The one to nine ratio is cited as people who have been on the dating website/app within the last month. Sure there can be a 2:3 ratio like you described for profiles that are created. But the actual active users are closer to a 1:9 ratio And that also factors in fake accounts. Online dating is the scam of the century.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 03:44 AM
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The male-female ratio is so in their favor it's comical. One female for every Nine males I wish more people knew that statistic. That fact alone should make men avoid online dating. It also highlights something very wrong must be going on for a girl to fail in online dating. Imagine a guy saying, "Yeah I went to a party where 90% were women but I didn't dance with any of them, too many losers"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 03:06 AM
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What's kind of mind-boggling is that you are actually doing very well in online dating compared to the vast majority of men. My experience sounds eerily similar to yours. After awhile I asked myself, "Do I actually enjoy this?" And I clearly didn't so I stopped online dating. This may be cope but I'm starting to be of the opinion that whoever you would want to date is not going to be online. A girl that is: 1) Decent-looking 2) Has her own friends/life 3) Enough time to date 4) Is available That…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 12:04 AM
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So I'm talking out of my ass but there may be a bit of game theory unfolding here. Where people can choose to be altruistic or selfish. Now if we look through history, altruism was the most popular and most effective strategy. It was so popular that being selfish had very high reward (uncommon advantage) and high cost, only the smartest and most competent sociopaths could pull it off. I now this is an oversimplification but consider, left and right-handed men in combat. The uncommon left-handed …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 11:50 PM
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It's very hostile out there. Women say they love confidence but the amount of rejection required to be successful in dating would deteriorate any sane man's confidence. So the only guys who can actually pull off that unrelenting confidence would have to be delusional and/or arrogant. I don't blame normal guys for giving up. It's like telling someone to keep touching a hot stove and maybe they will win $100,000. Can't handle the pain? Fuck you, die alone incel.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 08:46 PM
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I bet that dude had pussy thrown at him continuously. That probably fucked up his understanding of consent. Chicks will suck celebrity dick without hesitation. Eventually you would just assume that they want it. It's pretty bad, but I can understand where that mindset comes from.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 08:29 PM
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I like Disney, but wtf is up with some of these chicks super into Disney? I just don't get it. It's like if I watched dragon ball z as a kid and that was all the entertainment I would ever need. Forever. No breaking bad, or Dexter, or Sopranos. No sir, I'll be watching dragon ball z for the 100th time because I love it so much. People would say that's weird. It's like these chicks have crystalized their personality in their childhood entertainment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 08:25 PM
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I legit heard a 24 year old woman refer to a guy asking for her number as an incel (I asked if the guy got angry and threatened her). No just some dude who asked her number and took that rejection with humility. That's literally all that happened. The terms have lost all meaning.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 08:16 PM
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It is some of what you described. But I also think it's just women being generally unhappy altogether. And I think the 3rd-wave feminism ideology has come full-circle. The average American woman is overweight, loaded with debt and usually works an unfulfilling job for meager pay. That just breeds neuroticism. Women tend to overthink so much and that anxiety/depression manifests as anger toward their partner. If you want to make a woman happy for a day, (gently) tell her what y'all are doing. Whe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 07:26 PM
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I think there's some women out there that do this without thinking. It's a lose-lose situation most times. There's nothing to be learned in these interactions, she's just pissed and passively taking out that aggression to hopefully have something to be angry at. If you get angry and even say, "I'll wear my shirt whenever I want" Then she will pivot to you making a big deal about you being angry. Then y'all need to talk about why you're angry. And saying, "You making snide remarks" won't be good …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 11:07 AM
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Just don't give up important information. You can be polite and cautious. No need to be paranoid. Compassion costs nothing but I'm also not paying some dumb chick's rent. Lol There's a reasonable middle ground
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 07:23 AM
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I think you should give some women the benefit of the doubt. But as soon as those unnecessary digs "Oh so you eat oatmeal everyday? 🙄" (I can't think of a good example but it's just those little comments that are meant to make you angry) When that bitchy attitude comes up, I try to just make it playful. If that doesn't work, I'm mentally checked out and I go cold until she starts acting right. Ignore bad behavior, reward good behavior. This is why cohabitation may not be a good idea. You would b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 07:06 PM
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The hard truth is that most of those women instigate fights. No one ever says this, but it's true. Most domestic violence is reciprocal. I dated a chick who told me about her abusive boyfriend and I didn't understand how anyone could be so cruel. Then the passive aggressive attitude, the quick insults, and what I believe now to be something similar to bullying. It's like she couldn't get me angry so she kept pushing boundaries saying worse things. Most times I would laugh it off and try to deesc…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 06:47 PM
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At 5'1" anybody over 5'8" looks six foot. I use to think that these kinds of women could really only be attracted to tall men. Like how I could never be attracted to an obese woman. But that's hardly the case really what it comes down to is: 1) She's picking one trait to narrow her choices. She gets tons of matches and needs a filter. She doesn't realize how exclusive she is being. Even if you showed her the numbers she would still believe that she deserves someone so rare. And if she can't have…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 05:58 PM
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I hope this goes full circle. Like 20 years from now her son brings home a non-binary pansexual single mother that needs his support. I think that will be the epiphany for these chicks when they realize their sons are marrying women that will make their sons' lives worse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/22 12:33 AM
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People forget that about Johnson. He's remembered for his "great society" but holy crap he was dropping N-bombs in the white house. He didn't get a shit about blacks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 06:06 AM
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That makes a lot of sense. Some of the pickiest women I've ever met didn't put any effort in improving themselves. They've probably been rejected by average guys so they make far-fetched requirements to protect their egos. "I'm going to reject you before you can reject me!" Gives the illusion of control, but really there would be an equally shlubby looking guy that would date her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/22 09:48 AM
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If whites want any indication of what the dating market will look like in the future, just look at the dating market for blacks. It's extremely toxic and there's going to be many single mothers. This is because the state has supplanted itself as the father and there is a cultural narrative that screams, "We don't want/need men" The U.S. government has done more harm to black families than any other entity on this planet. But people focus on racist unemployed rednecks for being the cause of black…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 08:02 PM
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My perspective: I acknowledge that it's temporary. I enjoy hanging out with some women. There's a male-female dynamic that is worth pursuing. But I treat women the way they've always treated me, as an option. At the end of the day: it's about having fun. If I'm not having fun then peace out 👋
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/22 07:40 PM
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I caught that too. In the post she mentions he was willing to work it out. Unbelievable
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/22 07:33 PM
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The painful advice I've received from men has been more beneficial than any platitude women dole out. "Women generally don't like short dudes, you need to workout and be confident to offset your flaws" (That stung hard but it was what I needed to hear) "Become valuable, become the person other people want to be around" Imagine if I lived my life by sayings like "Be yourself" No, some advice is painful but necessary to grow as a person. Society tends to lean into the, "Your feelings matter (too m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/22 07:16 PM
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I knew a guy who tried to sell an old rickety futon on craigslist. He was moving out of his apartment within a month but didn't have the means to get rid of the futon. So he tries to sell this crap futon for $200. Someone offers $175, nope. And from there on the offers were worse and worse. He was so frustrated. I asked him what he paid for the futon, he got it free... He won't budge on the price of this eye-sore. Well move out day comes and he leaves the futon. The landlord bills him $250 to re…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/21 06:05 AM
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The whole love to laugh thing makes me think she is an NPC. There's no need for her to have any self awareness or introspection. Why would she? She's perfect!... /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/21 05:50 AM
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Or they will say, "That sucks, but my experience..." It is always about them. They are incapable of thinking there might be a unique male problem. And if they do, it's a... Well I have problems too. Guys actually care and try to fix those problems that women have.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/21 09:22 PM
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I can be impressed by women who achieves great things. Her socioeconomic status plays no factor in how likely I get a boner. I've never jacked off thinking about how much other people respect a woman. My attractiveness for someone is not influenced by how other people perceive them. Which sex is more shallow?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/21 04:52 AM
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These are the kind of posts that make me never want to get married. I can be a bluepilled simp soy boy all day for a girl I like. But I can't bare the thought of being stuck with someone who isn't attracted to me. Avoiding marriage seems to be self-preservation both financially and emotionally. If women can't understand this very real concern then I don't think we will ever see eye-to-eye.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 08:13 PM
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It doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:01 AM
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You have a point. It's not always about me. But (in these circumstances) it's hard to not see a correlation when the effect was an enthusiastic blowjob.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:41 AM
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Way to go extreme. Yeah I like sex. My point is that I could never afford to be as picky as women are. You honestly think if I go about my life doing most male hobbies great single women will just pop up? No they don't. It's an active conscious choice to pursue women. While women have the luxury of being passive Of course you can wait! You just don't get it. And no offense but anyone who refers to themselves as demisexual is usually a nut.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:56 AM
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It's really easy to say that when you literally have hundreds of more options than I do. It's really easy to say that when you have a 10th of my libido. You really can't understand how I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:40 AM
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Therapy for most people is a waste of time and money, even a well respected psychiatric professor has told me that. Yes some people need to process a trauma. That's not me. CB therapy is helpful because it helps to be mindful about actions. And recognizing patterns. But any idiot with a notebook can self reflect. All without shelling hundreds of dollars to a yes-man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:36 AM
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I'm not going to create an entire ideology based on those generalities lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:56 AM
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Lol you need to chill out. I can already tell regardless of what answer I give, your panties are twisted. I think you're smart enough to realize I wasn't making an absolute statement. If I had to choose though, Indian or Mexican over white girl any day of the week because they just seem happier to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:51 AM
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I think most women lean toward being neurotic. I also think most men lean toward being arrogant. Both of these negative traits are probably useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:22 AM
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Is it fair to say that men's behavior is a direct effect of how women treat them? Maybe that's why marriage is declining.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:18 AM
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I'm sorry but I had to sit in on clinical rotations for therapists. Their job is really: Patient: X happened Doc: how does X make you feel? Patient: Angry Doc: Why does that make you angry? Patient: because I don't like X. Doc: hm... Yes... I see... Why don't you like X? It's a tautology. A parrot would make a great therapist. I feel like therapists are required for people who are too stupid to create their own internal conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:13 AM
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I've never heard any guy say anything remotely close to what you've described. There might be an age/cultural difference here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:59 AM
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I'm trying be optimistic and even reframe how I view these interactions. But after awhile it seems disingenuous and forced. I feel like a car salesman. It's a little dehumanizing. Focusing on my own happiness and being a good friend brings me more fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:49 AM
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The sex part is not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:46 AM
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It's not about submissiveness It's about having reciprocal gratitude. When my brother was broke he got his (then gf) a nice necklace that she hinted at. She knew that this was way over budget and was so grateful. That's how their marriage works, they are grateful for one another. With many white women (especially rich white women) this is an expectation. They aren't really grateful because they have a "I deserve this" mentality. It's hard to explain but when you have someone really grateful it m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:39 AM
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That's the trap. You would dismiss my opinion either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:33 AM
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It's just always felt like a one-way interaction. From start to finish, it's a whole "What can you do for me?" Kind of attitude. I've tried raising my standards but that's like dividing by one. Many single women are just extremely un-funny and self-centered. If I found a woman even half as good as one of my buddies I would be all over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:29 AM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:17 AM
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I understand being unavailable is effective because I've had circumstances out of my control that created that unavailable vibe. Like my phone dying and she wants to talk to me. That seemed to make her want to talk to me more. Or a female coworker picking me up. I didn't specifically want these things to happen but the effect was so dramatic it's hard to ignore. Do I want that? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:16 AM
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Fair enough. I'll keep looking. I think I'm an ok guy. I've had really great friendships. For whatever reason that does not translate well into relationships. I don't think I'm autistic or a sociopath or whatever. I mean, my parents were divorced so I don't really have a model to work from so I may have screwed up there. I don't really know how to set healthy boundaries because the rules to me seem so ambiguous. I don't really know what I'm suppose to do. I don't really know what my role is as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:06 AM
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It just seems like from the outside looking in. Many women loathe their husbands. I have two coworkers who only have negative things to say about their husbands. Being a husband sounds kind of shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:53 AM
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That's a great answer
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:50 AM
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I needed that reality check Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:40 AM
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I'm just saying, it's easy being happy single when you know you need to put in minimal effort to acquire a relationship. Guys almost always put in more work. If we didn't, we would be single. Being single or being in a relationship is just as easy for you. If you were a guy, with the attitude you described you would be an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:37 AM
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I feel like this a trap Should it really matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:34 AM
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I am not endorsing manipulation. I don't want that, even if it is effective. I'm just telling my life experience. I would give anything for that to align with what you believe. I probably should let her go...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:29 AM
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This is hilarious because the only siblings I have who are married are married to either Mexican or Indian women. Both pretty patriarchal societies. But both my brothers cook, clean and change diapers. It's really as 50/50 as a marriage could be. And the wives seem happy. I do really think white women are totally coddled and entitled. I feel like Mexican/Indian/Pakistani women will meet me halfway and be grateful. While white women are obnoxious and their expectations are ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:17 AM
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I think that it's just asymmetrical from the get-go. Your boyfriend probably contributes more to maintaining a relationship. I feel like if you had this same attitude as a man, you would likely be single indefinitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:03 AM
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Although I wish that was the case. It seems like being unavailable and not invested in a relationship makes it better. I distinctly remember my gf and I walking after work and I told her "This is the best part of my day" It really was, my job sucked and I just had someone I could look forward to being with. And then she got cold and angry about very trivial things. Sex came to a screeching halt. For what it's worth, I still love her very much, I don't think I could ever stop loving her but it se…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:56 AM
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This is the 2nd relationship I've been in. Where things get pretty cold and she starts asking about marriage. It's like the real person comes out. Where she recoils when I put my arm around her while watching a movie. It's depressing, I don't know what I did wrong. I've had really wonderful friendships (both men and women) but for whatever reason I'm doing something wrong in relationships. Or maybe I'm just a beta losing frame or whatever. It just makes me want to check-out. Because I'm not buil…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:46 AM
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That sounds great. I hope I can find someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:21 AM
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Yeah it's not exactly a one to one example. OP reminds me of guys who were making 6-figures and then got canned only to be back with the regular folks making 50k. These guys were some of the most entitled because they felt it was only a matter of time before they would be back on top. Spoiler: They don't.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 08:24 PM
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There was a good study about how income changes effect emotional well-being in people. It's important to note that after a certain income, income stops being a factor for happiness. This study was more to do with the relative change in income and happiness compared to static income levels. Example: Bob makes 140k/yr he then loses his job and now is making 60k/yr. Steve has mostly had a stable career at 60k/yr. Steve is happier than Bob despite being essentially the same. If Steve had a promotion…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 05:31 PM
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Yep. That's why I immediately disregard a woman that demands a tall man. I'm short. Someday I could be a great bailout. But what I need is intimacy. I need it, I'm human, I need that physical connection. The idea that I could be contractually obligated to support someone who can't give me that intimacy is... I don't know the words. Nauseating.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/21 08:13 AM
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Your wife is tall for a woman. The average woman is 5'4" so at 5'7" your wife is 3 inches taller. Now, if the average male is 5'9" then a 3 inch bump gets him to the coveted 6 foot mark. Genetics is a crapshoot but it's likely her genes that got those boys over the incel line.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/21 08:01 AM
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It's honestly because above-average height wasn't a huge advantage in cavemen and it's not really an advantage now. Bigger frame means more food, lower center of gravity means better balance, and now with guns a bigger person is a bigger target. Evolution is dynamic, there's no "best" only what works within a given context. That's literally the reason why we have variance, it has very little selective pressure. If I tweak one amino acid on your DNA, you will be bed ridden and in pain for the maj…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/21 07:56 AM
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Genetics is a fickle thing. Even my siblings show a lot of variance from 5'7" to 6'2" Plenty of tall chads have 5'9" sons.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 09:08 PM
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It's going to be weird, that's for sure. It may just be normalized. But one thing I know for sure is that it will somehow be men's fault lol "If there wasn't so many men paying money to see me suck cock then I wouldn't do it. Men are pigs. I needed money!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 06:25 PM
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There's going to come a reckoning for these women. Their sons will find their old dating profiles which includes the height requirements. Imagine being a short guy and realizing that your own mother would consider you un-dateable. I know this scenario sounds far-fetched but considering where facial recognition is now this isn't improbable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 06:14 PM
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I think that's where this is heading. And I don't think women are going to be necessarily happy with that situation. I imagine a side-girl being very insecure knowing she is part of a rotation that is easily replaced. I'm mostly indifferent to what happens except concerning direct consequences like taxes or whatever.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 06:06 PM
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I'm really of the opinion that we need to embolden women to stick to their height standards. I'm being dead serious. If numbers on a driver's license is what you need to get off, don't settle. Short guys don't want to be with someone that isn't attracted to them. Would you want to be married to a gay man? Please don't lower your height standards, you're doing guys everywhere a huge favor. You can't negotiate attraction. Best of luck ladies.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 05:11 PM
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Instead of reflecting on what has changed about herself, she is more likely to believe that an entire gender changed. She doesn't understand that she had a massive advantage in her youth that did not require any effort. She doesn't understand that men in their youth usually have a massive disadvantage and that a lot of effort is required. Now, you're on equal footing. This is what dating as an equal looks like. I don't believe a lot of people are capable of admitting when they have an advantage …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/21 05:25 PM
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Most dudes just want one girl. But for the guys who want to sling it around town, I say, "More power to you" Women are acting in their own best interest, you might as well too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/21 09:34 PM
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Y'know as I've gotten older, I've realized that most people aren't boring. You just need to put in the mental effort to actually know them. You need to become the person that brings out the best in other people. Whenever I read profiles like this, I just know that she doesn't want to engage with anything related to my world. The conversation will be one-sided. Which becomes mentally exhausting. I just get a really narcissistic vibe from this profile. Hard pass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/21 01:51 PM
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She seems like the type that would pick fights in public about trivial things. Y'know, a classy gal that treats waiters like subhuman. Her empathy only extends to people who share her DNA (that's a stretch), everyone else is clearly out to get her. These are the worst kind of people but we tolerate their insufferable behavior. They hold up the checkout line and haggle over 50 cents but they have 2-3 credit cards declined. They exist to make everyone's life harder. The worst part is that if they …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 03:56 PM
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Already have. This was something I saw on Facebook. It was also one of the reasons I deleted Facebook. My hometown is dying, I always imagined I would eventually go back there to have a family. But it's become the worst of any political leaning. You have the ultra religious christians and yet they are the embodiment of crony-capitalism that run the place. Then you have most people in poverty who are unemployed and enjoying welfare. It's always someone else's fault why they can't get ahead. The s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/21 04:24 PM
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I can see that. Self-destruction seems to be romanticized now. There was a huge memorial for a drug addict in my hometown. Dark triad kind of guy. He OD'ed. Whole community remembers him as this misunderstood underdog. He was a bully and treated women like garbage. He was convicted of domestic abuse and sexual misconduct with a minor twice. It makes no sense to me, I nearly threw my computer against the wall reading everyone reminisce about how wonderful he was. Finally someone reminded the grou…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 06:29 PM
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I like chubby girls. Always have, always will. When people hear me say that, I think they imagine a chick with bigger tits on her back. I'm not talking obese. No, there's this really great goldilocks zone where her feminine features are more apparent with a few extra pounds. That curvy look. Not curvy as defined by the HAES people. Like Megan Trainor a few years ago. Or Abigail Bresslin. Nice curvy hips seems to be more of an evolutionary cue for me (and I think most guys). There is a point wher…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 04:22 PM
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Those people on Reddit are living in a world of how things ought to be. But when push comes to shove, people act within their own self-interests. Yeah it would be nice if your past didn't matter. That doesn't mean it's a principle I live by. If a chick I'm dating was a junkie hoe, then this is likely to negatively impact my life, somehow, someway. Just looking at this realistically, why would I take that risk? Why is it my job to shoulder that burden? Because I can? Because I ought to? These peo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 03:39 PM
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The relapse probability is so high. If it's like a sibling or a child, yes I wouldn't give up on them (not that I would blame people for giving up). But a stranger I invite into my life? No, that's a lost cause. I think a lot of older women would agree with me on this. So many trying to save the junkie, only to find out that he stole her money.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 03:29 PM
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What kills me about that whole media circus is that they looked at Kavanaugh from so many angles. Which is fine, Supreme Court Justices should be grilled. And they got nowhere. But media still refer to Kavanaugh as a rapist. It shows that once media has labelled you something, you will always be that. Late night talk shows still refer to him as some date rapist frat boy. And so there's still half the country that thinks one of our supreme court justices was a rapist that got away with it. That i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 03:24 PM
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Now do the calculator again except this time put in the requirements you have for a woman. Edit: So I did Not married 18-30 4'10"+ White Not obese Any income Gives a score of 29.1% which is "down to earth" It's pretty obvious which gender has a selection rubric based on reality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 12:28 PM
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Her ego is just bruised because he dumped her first lol I've rejected girls who could do much better than me and their egos take a huge hit. She doesn't miss him, she misses his validation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 05:33 PM
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Yeah number of dates isn't a good metric but I do think it inflated some women's egos. If they know they have another date in a few days then there is no incentive to try to be engaging or entertaining. It's very much a, "Ok this is your shot, time to wow me, oh I'm already bored" attitude. And the guy who gets a date maybe once every three months is thinking, "Oh I gotta bring my best" As you can imagine, it's an asymmetrical dynamic from the beginning. Where men and women aren't on equal footi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 04:15 PM
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I remember one of my first jobs there was an older guy who told me the stock market is gambling. He had no 401k. He saved everything in his savings account. He always complained about money trouble. How he won't retire before 76. It takes two brain cells to realize that this guy's advice is garbage. For whatever reason, women get to be the arbiter of truth when it comes to relationships, nevermind how she has never been successful. I hope smarter women figure this out. This spinster is evident t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 02:08 PM
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No need for self reflection when she can have four dates a week. While there's guys struggling to get one every so many months. This is the level of narcissism that dudes deal with and it's no wonder guys give up. She talks about bringing something to the table but I guarantee she just wants someone to stroke her ego. I agree with her though, she shouldn't settle, because the poor guy she settles for is going to be treated like crap.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 01:57 PM
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I think we know these kind of chicks. They pick fights over the most trivial things. And give backhanded compliments. I had enough with one girl and said I was leaving. She got in the doorway with a big spoon and started hitting me. I had to grab her wrist to stop her from hitting me and then move her out of the way so I could exit. She has thrown beer bottles before so I needed to leave before she grabbed something else. Defending myself caused a bruise on her wrist so I am labelled as a scumba…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/21 05:13 PM
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I hope more guys read what you've written. Guys... You can not fix her. Her past will be an excuse to treat you like absolute garbage. If a woman tells you that every man she dated is bad, run far far away.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/21 09:16 AM
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Most abusive relationships are reciprocal. It's rarely one person being abusive. The normal caring guy that she dates next will figure out real quick that she likes picking fights. So either the guy is going to be a doormat or another "abusive" boyfriend that is just responding naturally to a mercurial woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/21 09:13 AM
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They're trying to appeal to a hot country guy. The hot country guy got married at 18. (Source: I grew up in a farm community) There's other country guys that would find her profile appealing but I guarantee she isn't interested in Bubba. It's like chicks that say they like camping and then she always has an excuse to not be outside.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/21 04:10 AM
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There's no need for a provider when the state guarantees it. It's only the quantifiable metrics that the government cares about. Yes, the children are fed and they sleep under a roof. They will probably have a scholarship too. But they will never have a father in their life. She doesn't have a husband, she has a sperm donor. The Democratic party has done more destruction in the last 50 years than any systemic racism.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 05:01 AM
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I think finding purpose is part of the problem. There's this great anxiety to do or be this or that. FOMO. And there is no compromise, there's no way I can fund the lifestyle the average woman wants and I'm in the top 20% of income. It's gotten to a point where: I'm not tall enough I'm not interesting enough I don't earn enough To someone who is: Shorter than me. Has no hobbies. And makes less than me. So what do I get out of this?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/21 06:28 PM
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I just don't understand how it got this bad. It's not like the majority of guys got to participate in hook-up culture. I use to enjoy going on dates and being around women. Now I just feel like it's a job interview. It's so un-fun now. This isn't about sex or whatever. It's just honestly depressing trying to create a connection with someone who sees you as a villain at worst and disposable at best. There's always women talking about feeling dehumanized, well shit it's not like I'm treated like a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/21 04:32 PM
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Honestly at this point, the gender that is getting sexually shamed is men. It's literally a lose-lose situation. If you approach a girl and she isn't into you, you are labelled a creep. If you don't approach then you are a loser for being afraid of rejection. Men are considered creeps by default There's so many ways that things can just go wrong and as a male you will be sexually shamed for that. Women on the overhand, literally don't have to do anything and if someone does shame them there will…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/21 04:13 PM
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I came to a similar conclusion too a long time ago and it makes sense. When I was 18, I was 5'7" and weighed 150 I was pretty athletic, I was never self conscious about my height. Probably because the average girl was 5'4" and 120lbs and those girls didn't seemed to care about my height. Now I'm still the same height and weight and build but the women are 5'4" and 160lbs. Even though I'm 3 inches taller than them, I look petite next to the average woman. It's honestly pretty shitty to be exclude…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/21 01:31 AM
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Sample #26876 is eugenics wet dream. If more women do this, there's going to be some tough questions about why so many of these kids are tall, with blonde hair and blue eyes. I'm going to be laughing my ass off as an old man seeing a bunch of woke hitler-youth clones.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 06:38 PM
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Your wives were 5'7" The average woman is 5'4" So both are 3 inches taller than the average woman. The average male is 5'9.5" So if you just take those 3 inches from the mom and add them to the average male you get 6'0.5" Genetics is more complicated than that but the point is that the women most likely gave them their height because they are tall.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 02:42 AM
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I've taken the time to examine myself and realized I'm neither wise nor kind. I'm pragmatic. I don't really care to be entrenched in worthless philosophy. I don't really care to be a good person. I just know how this world operates and how to get ahead.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 11:50 PM
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It's funny because I know a girl who has a trust fund. She has no clue how money works. And she will never have to, she will always be wealthier than me, fine. I grew up pretty poor and money was always a concern. Eventually I learned how to get ahead through various means. And I got good at it, through a lot of trial and error, through a lot of hungry nights and sleeping in my car. I know how to play the game. It's like... You really don't master a skill until you absolutely have to. I feel lik…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 07:48 PM
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Oh no, this dude was skinny-fat and had more of the lovable-loser Jason Segel vibe. If I had to classify him he was more of a NEET with a girlfriend that subsidized his lifestyle. I'm not one of those guys that thinks being taller automatically guarantees an easier life, but I've witnessed enough to know it definitely plays a factor.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 08:54 AM
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The girl he dated disliked his weed habit and stayed with him for four years. If this was a stronger drug like coke or heroin, yeah I could easily see a chick casually whoring herself out to the dealer for her habit. But that wasn't the case here, this dude is pretty much every negative gamer/stoner stereotype (not really a bad boy, but just a loser), he just happens to be tall. This stuff happens dude. It's an extreme case but yeah some chicks will date a loser because of height.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 08:06 AM
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The girl disliked his weed habit and encouraged him to get a job. Lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 08:02 AM
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I'm appalled that you would reduce a human being down to some arbitrary metric. There's so much more to a person than that. /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 05:21 AM
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I say we go full retard on height supremacy. Any women under 5'4" is too short to date a 6' tall man. Tall guys need to protect their superior genes, sorry short ladies.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 05:00 AM
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I'm glad some tall guys understand this. I remember being 20 and telling my 6'3" buddy that height is a pretty big factor in dating. He couldn't believe it despite every girl starting a conversation with "Wow you're tall 😍" I had a college degree, a job, volunteered at hospitals, played rugby and guitar, and had a wide circle of friends and interests. My tall buddy? College drop out. No job and sold weed, played video games all day. He always had a chick at his place. We lost touch but he abando…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 04:56 AM
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Women are better communicators... So I'm told. /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 05:42 AM
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We have two choices: Either, 1) Women are capable of making adult decisions and therefore should be held responsible for the consequences of those decisions. Or 2) Women are incapable of making their own decisions and therefore shouldn't be held responsible for those consequences. When you look at this sub, which choice did we choose? It's misogynistic to deny women their agency. Pointing out that this chick fucked the local drug dealer isn't misogynistic, we are looking at her like an individua…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/21 11:56 PM
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I feel like men are way more likely to accept criticism and learn from their mistakes. It's not so much that one gender is better at doing this. It's that the consequences are much worse for men who don't accept advice and change. Loser women can skate by having relationships with minimal effort. If it goes to shit, she can always blame someone else. While loser men are left to nothing. Women don't have an incentive to be better so they won't.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 10:22 PM
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Huh something you pointed out.... Asking a male to help her with dating. That... Doesn't... Happen... Like ever. There's plenty of guys who will ask their sister for help. But women almost always ask other women for help when it comes to dating. There was a comment a while back that really stuck with me that went something like, "Men are trying to understand women, women aren't trying to understand men" And I think that's true... From normal guys trying to navigate the dating world, to the red-p…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 06:15 AM
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This really can't be understated! I know a few nurses and doctors who are functional alcoholics. This is just life for post-wall women. They complain, they drink, they sleep, they go to work. They hate men. So they complain more, they drink more, they sleep more, and they work more. Then when Mr. average asks for a cup of coffee? She's a bitter, fat, boring person who jumps on his dick and is upset when the guy realizes the above. These women are the mirror reflection of incels because they exte…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 06:03 AM
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So brave
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/21 07:30 AM
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No hookups! Is she retarded?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/21 07:28 AM
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I had a realization a while back about online dating. Why would an attractive, interesting, and available woman who has her own social circle need online dating? The short answer is: they don't. These women may create profiles but they will check it maybe once every so months. Because their offline dating life is so much better. So the women who actively use online dating are the ones who have no luck off-line. Think about that for a second... Dating for women is a cake-walk and yet some still s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 06:28 PM
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This is so painfully true that it freaking hurts. Even the one girl who admitted to being in love with me never planned anything. Why do lesbian dead bedrooms happen so frequently? 🤔
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 09:20 AM
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There's motherfuckers out there that will talk hours about hydraulic mechanisation. Men are the autistic gender. We obsess and find a better way. We absolutely need to solve a problem. Even if there's not a problem, we need to find something to make it better. Women don't solve problems, they complain. Adam meet Eve
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 09:14 AM
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Idk what the deal is... Horses are cool. But for whatever reason, any chick super into horses is just nuts. Maybe that Chad horse cock fucked them up lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 08:36 AM
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What really fucking sucks is when you date that girl. And you slowly realize, your social life is her social life. Your entertainment is totally her entertainment. It's like babysitting a full grown human. Try your best not to be patronizing though. Yeah sounds awesome at first but she doesn't like camping or playing guitar or discussing economics or cryptocurrencies or weird movies. So you buy her a fucking adult coloring book. Then people ask how you met and I just wanna say, "She was the only…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 08:31 AM
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I don't feel like there's much to gain from that discussion but you do you. Women in general think most men are walking on sunshine and there's nothing you can say to convince them otherwise. The very few who can honestly listen to our experiences are going to do what? Nothing, maybe a "Damn that sucks" I've said it before but when women have a problem, that's a society problem. When men have a problem that's a you problem. Edit: There was an AskWomen thread that really highlighted what I'm tryi…
/r/MGTOW231/07/21 01:22 PM
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Even accepting 25% is a bit of a stretch when you consider that women are passive players in life. "That guy talks to me. That guy asked me out. That guy fucked me. That guy abandoned me and my child" Could you get angry at a stream following the path of least resistance? That's pretty much how I feel about women. Just lazy adults that can pretend to be children.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 08:15 AM
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I like how when men struggle in dating it's 100% the guy's fault. When women struggle in dating it's 75% the guy's fault. Gee whiz ladies, take rejection and being treated like shit like a man not like some whinny incel.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 07:12 AM
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I'm leaning more towards this girl being: Mentally retarded and having average women tell her what they can ask for.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/21 07:40 AM
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I'm not trying to be mean here but I think she is mentally handicapped too. Probably her average sister said, "Tell them what you want" It's like a down syndrome guy being sexually frustrated because his teacher won't accept his flowers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/21 07:39 AM
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"I'm an individual and I need other people to recognize me as an individual" -said no competent adult
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/21 01:31 AM
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There's a fine line to walk of being yourself and not being a bitch. It's called self-awareness, apparently that is considered a weakness among these types. The only guy who dates these girls are the same guys who don't follow other social conventions. Sounds exciting, until he starts slapping her around. He's just being his true self. He's the only guy that can "handle" her lol Darwin award for the mentally scared kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/21 01:29 AM
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The 90's were 30 years ago. It looks like she is disappointed she didn't die from an overdose at a smashing pumpkins concert.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/21 01:21 AM
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Why can't we have both? I just need a big enough blanket
/r/MGTOW228/07/21 10:32 PM
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It's because there is a considerable number of women who become totally uninterested in sex after securing a partner. It's a real thing and around 30% show no interest in sex after a certain point despite wanting to hold a relationship. I wish I was joking, but once a woman gets the guy, the house, the kids. Well sex is not important to her, and it better not be important to her eunuch husband too
/r/MGTOW228/07/21 03:33 AM
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It's really bad when the frequency of sex falls off a cliff. Like it's one thing to be with someone who wants sex like once a week, I think a compromise can be met. What's terrible is sex every other day for two years and then after marriage it's maybe once a month. What kind of head-fuck is that? It kind of shows that she was just love-bombing you to get married. Some people would call that manipulation but no of course that's the man's fault for being a horn dog. Women get to choose when sex i…
/r/MGTOW228/07/21 03:26 AM
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It's also no guarantee. There's plenty of seniors with large families who drop them off at the nursing home. I'd like to die old on Christmas evening surrounded by my great grandchildren using my body as a hot wheels racetrack. But what will likely happen, is that all of us will find ourselves in some facility. We'll die alone with a nurse that didn't care to wipe our assholes properly. That's why as soon as I can't take care of myself, I'm walking outside naked in a blizzard. It will preserve m…
/r/MGTOW228/07/21 03:19 AM
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Same
/r/MGTOW228/07/21 02:39 AM
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Same
/r/MGTOW228/07/21 01:08 AM
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Not being a nag is already a ridiculous request
/r/MGTOW228/07/21 01:07 AM
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Honestly just pleasant to be around. It seems like life becomes exceptionally more difficult when a woman is in my life. Where are we going? What are we doing? That's the laundry detergent you use? Communism wasn't that bad, what do you mean I'm being naive? It becomes a game of: keeping her not bitchy and appraising her ego. I love women, I love their voice their emotional perspective and the world is a wonderful place with women. But holy crap do that make life difficult. If I was a millionair…
/r/MGTOW228/07/21 01:03 AM
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Narcissism in full effect. "Yes it was my enchanting self that made this man love me for more than 20 minutes"
/r/MGTOW228/07/21 12:51 AM
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Lol that was a dude who boned her and wouldn't think twice to kick her to the curb.
/r/MGTOW228/07/21 12:49 AM
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I picked 145 because I wanted to pick a weight that is reasonably manageable and still attractive. 5'4" and 145 lbs is a girl that eats ok and is not sedentary (literally walking maybe 2 miles a day). But also a girl who will enjoy pizza and beer on Saturday. I would never ask a girl to do something I couldn't do. I mean I could give up pizza and beer but damn what is life worth living for. I'll take a bubbly chubby girl that will make pizza with me over a skinny girl who will make me feel guilt…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/21 09:16 AM
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I get what you're saying but this is a conscious choice I've made as well. I think I have a healthy distance from her, so I'm not worried about her ruining my life too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/21 06:36 PM
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That's why I can't come back to this sub. My mom is the person y'all describe. She's broke. I know y'all can easily say, "Let her rot with her choices" Which I agree, she fucked up. She will always externalize her bad decisions. But I can't change the past, and it's a fool's errand to make women accept any responsibility for their lives. She's still my mom, and I want her to be cared for towards the end of her life. There was a cringey red-pill post that said something like "Children are women's…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/21 12:32 AM
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That's why marriage is off the table for me. I've taken a kind of Buddhist approach to relationships. It's all temporary, I have no attachments. When she's being a bitch or the sex stops, oh well bye bye 👋 More guys need to do this because it forces women to become valuable. The average woman is a walking autobiography of herself, she provides no value to a man's life. If anything, she will be a net-negative in a guy's life. That was the big wake up call for me, relationships almost always mean …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/21 05:27 AM
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There's some decent women out there. It's just the cost-benefit is usually not worth it. Outside of all this manosphere theory I really think it just boils down to the fact that men and women rarely have overlapping interests. It feels disingenuous for me to sit there listening to some chick and pretend like she's interesting. Despite all this talk about empowering women, it hasn't made them more wholesome, it's made them more self-centered. We've all seen that dude who is mentally checked out w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/21 04:57 PM
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I couldn't find the source but there is evidence that backs this up. Everyone from 19-29 is having less sex. However, you would think that both males and females within that age group would be the same right? Nope! There's like 20-30% more males who haven't had sex within a year (or never). So a common stance women have is, "Well guys are participating in hook-up culture too!" Um no, you have a fourth of the male population getting nothing, you have a fourth maybe getting sex once a year. Out of…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/21 06:42 PM
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I'm on the shorter side too. My mental health improved immensely when I realized tinder wasn't for me. There's still nice girls out there but I'm like 99% certain you won't find her online.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/21 07:05 AM
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I did the math on this awhile back but if I would have lived at home, worked part time and went to community college, I would have been able to put away a significant amount of money very early into my life. Knowing what I know now about compounding interest makes me really not give a fuck about having a high paying job, because it usually takes years of debt to reach that high paying job. I'm in my late 20's and have enough passive income that makes more money than new doctors. In about 5 years…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/21 06:53 AM
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Oh dude, there's tons of guys out there like I have described. And the insidious part about all of this is that these same guys are terrified about being labelled a creeps. It's incredibly sad that we've handicapped a whole generation of normal guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/21 09:12 PM
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Yeah 85% is hyperbolic, but the main takeaways is that more women can take advantage of tinder than men. It's such a hard thing for women to grasp when this topic comes up. I'm not even talking about sex here, I'm talking about everything else like dates, talking, plans being made. Women honestly think that the dating life of the average guy resembles the dating life of the average girl. I've known average kind dudes who spent years alone, working out, being rejected and then they have a date th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/21 09:06 PM
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I feel bad for those dudes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/21 08:49 PM
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Or just don't marry. Let's get truly egalitarian here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/21 08:45 PM
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Lifetime earnings are even worse for PhD's Because a PhD can take 15 years of higher education, that is a lot of time being paid peanuts. The PhD will earn more than a college graduate but not much more because by the time they start making big bucks they're ready to retire. Too many people were pushed into graduate school because "X masters makes Y income" but they are saddled with debt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/21 08:41 PM
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I love how in the article it talks about tinder and that both men and women "Can find something better around the corner" Yes, the 10% of guys can do that. Yes, the 85% of women can do that. I swear to God, we need to sit women down and have them use tinder with an average guy's profile. By average I mean: 5'9.5" guy that works in IT not skinny not fat. Just an average guy. With pictures of average guy hobbies. Maybe a picture where he's dress in a suit. Then these women who use this profile nee…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/21 08:35 PM
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As an educated man, I feel that my dating pool is becoming increasingly smaller too. Because more women are obese, there's less women I could see as a suitable partner. Edit: I know my comment sounds spiteful but it's true and is an actual public health concern. I actually like chubby girls, I just can't be attracted to women who literally outweigh me by 50 pounds.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/21 07:59 PM
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You can bet when they were winning, "It just is what it is" was the sentiment. There was a really great study that showed rich people (men/women different cultures; everyone across the board) are more likely to believe that their success was overwhelmingly due to internal factors. Like they believe 90% of their success was solely caused by them. Not the private school they went to, not the connections they garnered through nepotism etc... While the poorest people were more likely to have externa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/21 06:24 PM
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"I don't like this game when I'm losing, change the rules!" There's a lot of parallelism here with incels. The difference is that one is defined as a personal problem and the other is categorized as a societal problem. So which is it ladies? Will you take the same advice you give incels- to be more valuable? Or will you side with incels, saying this is a societal problem? I don't necessarily agree with either, but I just think it's funny contrasting the two.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/21 04:26 PM
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The common rebuttal is that these women are gaslighted to believe they "started it" by their abusive male partner. And that's a fair assessment, male or female, you can break someone down and make them believe they are the reason for the abuse. It's not out of the realm of possibility that there are bad men out there who treat their partners like crap and eventually she believes she is the one at fault, or answers this survey as "Yes I am the perpetrator" BUT I don't think that represents a plur…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/21 04:01 PM
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Many people forget that reciprocal domestic violence, is the most common form of domestic violence. That is to say, it's usually not one guy beating up on a girl. That is the least likely case. It's usually the guy and girl having a screaming match and then someone does something. This definition is not well defined but you can imagine, that rarely some dude who snaps. It's hardly women being helpless, women can be extremely confrontational. I've known guys who were chill dudes but their gf alwa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/21 06:40 AM
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Equality
/r/MGTOW202/07/21 07:28 AM
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It's amazing that the world runs on quid pro quo agreements. Most people understand this but certain social constructs are too sacred. Like when you are a guy not getting what you want. Be a good man! Marry that single mom with 40K in student loan debt. I'm sure between her dead-end job and two kids she will have the energy to give a lackluster handjob twice a year. /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 04:41 PM
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"Instead of crunches, I do scrunches!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 03:04 PM
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That's why I say embrace impermanence. It's about having fun, women can be great company. Just don't get married or have a kid. If she starts making your life worse with no indication of changing, it's time to let her go. If you're a Beta, I say be that guy up until it stops benefiting you. No sex? Bye bye 👋
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 03:02 PM
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Lol she sounds like an easy lay. Just don't marry and your life becomes so much easier.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/21 02:55 AM
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It's so bizarre that we're living in era where disparities are placed under a microscope. Feminism. Critical Race Theory. Economic inequality. All of these have carefully defined winners and losers that are powerless to change their caste. But for whatever reason pointing out disparity in the sexual market place is only met with a shrug and "Everyone has it tough 😊" Some animals are more equal than others.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 05:57 PM
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It blows my mind. I know two dudes, both college educated, both normal BMI, both over 5'9", both hygienic, both have a good network of friends and hobbies, both have dated fat, older women of different races. These average guys couldn't get a date to save their lives. These guys haven't had sex in years. I'm convinced these men don't exist to women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 03:26 PM
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The conversation always flip to: "Just because I can have sex easily doesn't mean I can get a relationship easily, both genders have it tough" And for awhile I believed that. But in either case, whether someone is wanting a relationship or just casual sex which gender is doing all the initiating? Which gender needs to have game? Which gender gets rejected more? Which gender usually pays more? The bottleneck in all of this is men's actions. Men would hardly ever have relationships or sex if we tr…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 02:55 PM
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That's insulting. I suppose because women have an abundance of romance novels they have "all the relationships they could possibly want"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 02:31 PM
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Well you see, women get too many matches and then they get overwhelmed by all those choices. It's truly awful. /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 02:27 PM
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Wow. She has no clue what the sex life is for an average man. Lady, men aren't "getting all the sex they want" There's even data showing men getting less sex. I'm just flabbergasted by someone having such a poor understanding of what the other side experiences. I swear, women think men are just walking on sunshine. Most of us spend years being alone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/06/21 02:26 PM
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It's not that hard to know a guy blew his load in you. I remember walking to the pharmacy the night after to buy the pill. I unloaded my balls several times but stopping pregnancy was so easy. I'm almost convinced these girls are 1) stupid 2) raped 3) intentionally trying to be pregnant.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/06/21 06:43 AM
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Women that size aren't mentally okay. Take the whole attraction factor out of the equation. Women that large have no impulse control and will kill your baby when she breaks up with you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 08:07 PM
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I don't think this girl fits in this subreddit. She seems to be asking for a regular guy. She hasn't made any outstanding demands, like excluding 90% of males based on height. My own criticism: her weight is an obvious sign that she doesn't has it together. That's delusional. She literally needs to work on herself and if her expectations that she listed is true, then a regular guy is very likely. She can go from obese to overweight and score a husband so easily. It's unreal how easy women have l…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 08:05 PM
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I think you lucked out
/r/MGTOW208/06/21 02:26 PM
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Yeah, you got good service because that place had tipping. Some places don't expect tipping. The waiters in places that don't expect/allow tipping only have an hourly wage so they work very slowly to keep tables occupied (which means less customers because less work).
/r/MGTOW208/06/21 01:59 AM
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$5 says her sense of humor is quoting niche tick-tock's. I'm not saying she can't be funny, but so many people are only funny if you understand the content and context they pull their material from. Are you reading this ladies? The reason why that guy is boring is because y'all have nothing in common, nothing to pull material from. It actually takes time for most people to be considered funny. Do people understand how hard it is to make a stranger laugh? Certainly not women, everything must be t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 12:38 AM
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Disagree, women can improve it's just there's no forces that really motivate her to do that. Women need a hard slap of reality to tell them that they can be worthless and valuable just like men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/21 10:11 PM
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Hard disagree. Women can be wonderful. They purposely choose not to be, because they are lazy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/21 10:09 PM
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After what? The tip?
/r/MGTOW207/06/21 08:45 PM
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Female entitlement
/r/MGTOW207/06/21 08:44 PM
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They have so little skills, but somehow butt cheeks means I should fork over cash. No, fuck you bitch.
/r/MGTOW207/06/21 08:43 PM
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How about commenting an actual opinion besides being an ambiguous douchebag?
/r/MGTOW207/06/21 08:41 PM
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If we lived in a world where 800 pound gorillas were the normal bartender then I wouldn't attend that bar. You miss my point completely. If the service is good, I will tip regardless of who is performing the service.
/r/MGTOW207/06/21 08:39 PM
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Who hasn't met a girl with a rape fantasy? I developed that fetish because that's what girls wanted. (Of course rape is abhorrent, I'm not advocating that. But being rough and aggressive is more good than bad for women. Men are taught from day one that women are fragile.)
/r/MGTOW207/06/21 08:35 PM
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That's a girl working what she got. My whole thing is jokes. Both me and that girl would get a good tip. The point is you got your fucking drink In a reasonable time.
/r/MGTOW207/06/21 08:31 PM
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Did you tip at those places?
/r/MGTOW207/06/21 03:12 PM
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Bro, we've been in doors for over a year. I get what you're saying but is it unreasonable to get a beer from a friendly bartender? Just a simple acknowledgement that I'm a human too maybe?
/r/MGTOW207/06/21 03:09 PM
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Me bad. Me give girl money. Girl good. /s Nah dude fuck that, shitty service gets zero tips. That's true if you're an 800 pound gorilla or a girl with a yeast infection from having a permanent wedgie.
/r/MGTOW207/06/21 03:06 PM
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If this was a dude, complaining about having no luck there would be a long drawn out conversation about hygiene, confidence, and reading social cues. "Be Better" Is pretty much the dating motto for men. Is there any introspection or urgency to improve for women? No. Can women even fathom that perhaps she is boring or rude? No. It's pretty obvious which gender treats themselves as the prize. It's pretty obvious which gender gets a big "fuck you" for trying.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/21 02:36 PM
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It's advertised as a normal bar. I've received $100 tips for being friendly and quick. Any bartender can tell you that every customer is worth the time to make goddamn fucking eye contact. Maybe these girls get by on some loser over-tipping but I guarantee their sales are terrible. Butt cheeks don't keep the door open, customer service does. I swear after covid, people became socially retarded and entitled getting paid to do nothing for a year.
/r/MGTOW207/06/21 01:55 PM
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You mean the guy actually moving the fucking keg? Yeah I did that. After what I saw today, I'm convinced I can bartender circles around these morons. I might not have tits but I'll get your drink and check within 5 minutes with a smile. I'm just flabbergasted, if I acted like these girls I would never make any money.
/r/MGTOW207/06/21 08:50 AM
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It's retarded to tip initially to get treated better. You should treat your customers better than literally ignoring them. I shouldn't have to bribe her to get her to do a service that is already expected to occur, this isn't Kosovo where people only understand bribing. French customer service can get fucked. You would think those espresso breaks would mean they would move faster but no. I'd rather order take-out then sit in a french cafe.
/r/MGTOW207/06/21 08:47 AM
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I never understood that mentality. I've tipped dudes well because they were quick and friendly. I would tip her the same if she acted like that too. It takes literally a minute to get me a beer and run my card, I would have tipped a dollar for that simple quick reaction. Instead it took close to 20 minutes... I know it's a small thing but goddamn...
/r/MGTOW207/06/21 08:40 AM
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I prefaced my post by saying this was a petty rant, what did you expect? On a deeper level, I'm really tired of women's shitty behavior being explained away. Women complain about being objectified and yet still wear floss up their ass and call it clothing. Men are demonized by default.
/r/MGTOW207/06/21 07:02 AM
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I'm not drunk, I had 2 light beers. The reason why I asked if I was in France is because France is notorious for bad service (they only get paid hourly, so there's no incentive to be a "good" waiter). Also! On a slow day at a bar you should be trying harder to get that tip. This was the second round of drinks being ordered for our table. I understand the whole "Give a big tip now and you'll be treated better" but it's not like I was fighting for her attention, the bar was dead. The way it works …
/r/MGTOW207/06/21 06:57 AM
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I could see why that's a real thing. They legitimately are attracted to each other but they want to be adored more than to adore their partner. I can't think of another word besides adore, but I think you get the idea.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/21 03:59 AM
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I was fwb with a girl who wanted to mess around with other girls. She liked Mila Kunis, I think she was legit attracted to some women. Well she met up with another girl and the experience she described was hilarious. Both of them had only had sex with men. So neither knew how to initiate anything. Also she told me that the girl just laid back and she had to do everything. The sense I got was that sex was "work" to her. Or like she wasn't the main show. She didn't like having to do everything, sh…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 01:47 PM
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I think the quarantine helped people recalibrate what they think is important. All of us were pretty much in jail for a year. So they think forming a family is good. That epiphany will dissolve when they have to change poopy diapers and have no sex for 6 months.
/r/MGTOW201/06/21 08:51 AM
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I am still in love with the girl I left. I will always love her, but I knew that we wanted were very different things out of life. I knew I would grow to resent staying with her. I wasn't a good bf and she still stuck by me. Probably because she had low self-esteem for being a little chubby and awkward. She has no idea how beautiful she is to me She has no idea how much I treasure our short time together. Yes, absolutely men need to experience that kind of love where she buys beer when you are h…
/r/MGTOW201/06/21 08:40 AM
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Life becomes incredibly easier when you stop focusing on women and what they want. I'd probably saw 80% think I'm a weirdo but I don't care. This is kind of the energy I bring: https://youtu.be/ormQQG2UhtQ I'm enjoying life. Most people are boring or stuck in their own ego. Once I started living for myself, I was happy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/21 04:08 AM
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That's because accomplishing your goals make you happy. For some people, being admired for existing makes them happy. This is great if you're a young woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 05:52 PM
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Geography, culture, and time are pretty important. I lived in an area of the U.S. where the average height was about 2 inches more than the national average. I think there was a disproportionate number of German and Scandinavian ancestry there. Also hardly any diversity. My best friend who is asian and average height had no luck as well. We both now live in large metro cities and the diversity helps women keep an open mind. It's funny because girls are in love with those Korean pop singers now a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 05:20 PM
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I'm fairly certain she advocates settling because it benefits her. If she was younger and thinner you can bet that settling would be blasphemous. That's what gets on my nerves, it's not about an epiphany where she sees value in Mr. Average. It's her retroactively explaining herself because Mr. Average is all she can afford. I would love to drive a Bugatti to work, but I settled with a Nissan because I need to get from point A to B. She's being pragmatic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 04:53 PM
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'Talks only about herself' A lot of people are guilty of this but especially women under 30. I have a coworker who literally just talks about herself and I just pretend to seem interested and make little jokes. It's gotten so bad that I know so much about her but she knows hardly anything about me. It makes the work environment friendly so I continue this. I've said for awhile that some women don't have conversations, they have monologues.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 04:42 PM
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The common rebuttal is that 'women don't care about how many sexual partners they could have' Which is perfectly valid, if only women weighing 300 pounds wanted to fuck me, I wouldn't call that a win. Unfortunately, men are sexually more attracted to women than women are to men. The thing that women forget is that someone has to do something and that is almost always the male role, whether we like it or not. Ugly girls can sit and wait and eventually that guy will come if that get out of the fuc…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 06:49 AM
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I was taller. Sometimes by as much as 5 inches. Now in my late 20's I actually have more success with women my height or taller.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 08:06 AM
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Attraction is amoral. I use to be so bitter about the way things were but accepting that finally gave me peace. No philosophies to that notion. It is what it is. At least when men are shallow, we admit it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/21 05:10 PM
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Thanks. I don't want to be all doom and gloom for my short brothers out there. I want them to understand you can be successful but you're going to have to work harder for less. It's not fair, but that's life. That reality is much easier to swallow than some vague jargon about confidence or the constantly changing dating rules that are different for every single girl. Edit: There's people in 3rd world countries who work hard for maybe a dollar a day. They will never reach the level of prosperity …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/21 05:05 PM
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To be honest, most dudes would be ok with this reality where a considerable number of women care about height. Dudes would say, "Wow that sucks, I guess I need to be competitive in other areas" The problem is that when short guys tell other people their experiences, they are invalidated. When I was 20 I had a date walk out on me because "I didn't realize you were that short, sorry" Little experiences like this accumulated over the years. I went to reddit and asked for advice (probably the worst …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/21 04:41 PM
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Let's be real here, the girls who are chubby are doing fine. The girls who are fat are just too damn fat. Source: guy who likes chubby girls.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/21 02:25 PM
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How curvy are we talking? There's a fine line and guys draw that line differently. I personally think some chubbiness is very feminine. If she has a warm personality too, that's a 10/10 in my book. Like Megan Trainor before she lost weight. But some girls get too big and look like linebackers which is not cute.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/21 02:23 PM
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I had a friend who cut out all drinks except water and tea. He's still a big guy but he lost like 20 pounds in 3 months. He had a headache for like 2 days and then he was fine.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/21 02:05 PM
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I think the best dates I've been on were when the girl was grateful. I don't mean in like a kissing-ass kind of way. I mean like she genuinely was grateful. Most dates seem to be nothing but expectations "what are going to do for me?" Kind of transactional attitude which is just a massive turn-off. Just pure entitlement. Regardless of the outcome, I always appreciated the girls that appreciated me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/21 05:51 PM
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Now contrast that with probably the most important thing women want out of a man. Conviction. "Don't waste my time. I want someone who knows what he wants!" It's pretty hilarious that one gender must be decisive from the get-go but the other one can change their mind on a dime. I say, use the same bullshit excuses, "I just don't feel that spark anymore"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/21 05:42 PM
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She's depressed because she is not living up to her inflated ego. This is a cancer on modern life. We've become so narcissistic that when reality unfolds, we become sad, not living up to the ideal we envisioned. In a bitter-sweet way, men are more often confronted with this sobering reality and it keeps our expectations in check.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/21 04:30 PM
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This is pretty interesting because in the current dating climate the most effective strategies are polar opposites of each other. The end-goal for both strategies being marriage. For obvious reasons, the girl who sticks by one guy and actually grows as a person with him will be married. But the chick that is getting down every weekend also has a good shot at roping in a sucker for marriage, just based off numbers alone. There's a chance the guy will figure out, but she can just hop on another di…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/21 04:18 PM
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Surely, her PhD will contribute to my net worth /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/21 04:11 PM
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This is why you should just do what you want to do (within the law!) Dating became exceptionally easier when I stopped focusing on what the girl wanted. Because to be totally honest, she doesn't know what she wants and even if she did, she would not communicate that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/21 04:09 PM
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I guess this should go under the "learn how to make a partner happy" But I've noticed, the girls who really shoot themselves in the foot are the ones who have no clue they are absolute negative people to be around. Like they need to complain about everything. Also they're incapable of being happy for someone else's good fortune. You can bet 100% if a guy acted that way, he would have no friends and never get laid. These kinds of women don't see how draining their personalities are. I wanted to b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/21 03:01 PM
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My own gripe about evangelicals is that they are purposely ambiguous with their faith. Each person of the evangelical faith just needs to accept Jesus as their Lorde and saviour, that's it. But then, you get to make God into whatever You want him to be. Because you have a personal relationship with him. The evangelical faith is a narcissist's wet-dream. Don't get me wrong, obviously Catholics got their own problems. Evangelicals are a me-first focused religion, while other Christian groups are a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/21 05:14 PM
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It's just the explanation. You can call blasphemy. Martin Luther did that 500 years ago lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/21 05:00 PM
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Lol I've heard that before and it is so inaccurate. That's like saying evangelicals are tv worshippers. Catholics pray through the statue, not to the statue. It goes back to that whole, 'should you glorify God through artistic expression or is this an idol?' And if statues are an idol, why not glass windows? Why not the church itself? Why not the ministers clothes? Why not his car? Creating a visual representation of something is not meant to worship it, it is to focus on God/Jesus/Mary/Saints i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/21 04:52 PM
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I mean, I'm all for Churches organizing like a paintball tournament but those activities should be outside the church, not the main event. I grew up in the late 90's- early 20's and they tried so hard to make Jesus cool. I saw this going to my friends' churches. It was like watching a parody of what worship should be. But I was also raised catholic and the message I got was "Don't lie or you'll burn in hell with crows plucking out your eyes" I felt, as a catholic, I was suppose to understand God…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/21 04:25 PM
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It will most likely work for those braindead neo-christians. You know that type of Christian church that has video game consoles and goes on mission trips to Colorado. You know the type of Christians that need to be inclusive so they abandon nearly every strict rule. They don't drink but they are usually obese. I'm not religious anymore but I know for a fact that these folks love a sob story. The obese youth pastor will want to support this single mom on his 25K salary. Literally savior complex.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/21 03:58 PM
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I think it's a blessing and a curse. You get to have full autonomy over your life but of course that has consequences, you get to own every reward and mistake. I have to create momentum in my little world or nothing will happen. I have to be entertaining, engaging, competent, confident, bold and decisive to even be on par with other men. And even still, I could lose everything. Women, for the most part, are passive players in the game of life. Events unfold and rewards are earned but misfortunes…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/21 04:09 PM
3

I've been listening to MF Doom, always seems to get me in a rhyming mooD
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/21 03:46 PM
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Yeah I watched my 600 pound life and I noticed that too and it breaks my heart
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/21 07:42 AM
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Squire: M'lorde why doth the maidens of your court seat upon chairs of woven-straw? King: I like'em thicker than a snicker but not enough to break wicker
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/21 06:05 PM
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She's mentally unstable and wide as a table. I don't care what she thinks, she needs help.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/21 05:37 PM
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Also it takes time to actually love someone. The more experiences you have, the more good and bad that you have with a person by your side, forms a bond. That is the feeling many of these women are looking for. But in order to get that feeling, it takes years of experiences, ups and downs. Instead what we have is a, "He checks most of my boxes but he eats pizza with a fork and knife NEXT!" So you need more extreme experiences to artificially create that bond, something few men can do (or would w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/21 05:29 PM
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This is just sad. When someone is that big, they didn't get that big because they "just like food" She's eating to escape something. I hope she figures out a way to deal with whatever is causing that compulsive eating. We poke fun here, but this is just sad. Someone that big won't live to see 50. Poor girl.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/21 05:16 PM
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It was a good experience because it made me re-think the whole "Men have just always been awful to me 😭" narrative. I lost friends because they thought I was a scumbag. I could have easily dragged that fuckzone on for way longer but actually being honest labelled me an asshole. The messed up part was that I got laid from another friend after all this went down. So this short scrawny kid gets labelled a "player" when I was the furthest thing from that. Edit: it's funny because nicegirls create ni…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/21 06:22 PM
15

Can confirm. Was labelled a bad boy even though all I did was not reciprocate her feelings. There's way more nicegirls than niceguys out there lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/21 05:53 PM
12

Plausible deniability is such a powerful thing. Imagine doing an action and then having the ability to explain the intentions of that action retroactively to benefit you. Yeah that's retarded.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/21 05:51 PM
21

That makes me think that women, in general, aren't competitive. Competitiveness isn't as strong for them as males. We generally enjoy competition. Now, knowing that and how casual sex can pit women against each other. I don't feel like the average woman would try to compete. She would just give up or y'know just lazily fall on her back and tell the guy she is horny (which won't secure a relationship).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/21 05:45 PM
3

Man I just realized, every dude that I know who grew up with both his parents stopped being a white knight by 15 lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/21 05:36 PM
1

Ok...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 06:07 AM
24

It's definitely not all I (or most men) want. It's just all she can give.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 02:07 AM
29

What do I get out of this?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 02:06 AM
2

NIMBY is real. The funny thing is that the white folks who are most adamant about zoning are usually the most left-leaning. At least that's what I saw in the south. Rich litards have a bleeding heart until Lamar wants to build a housing complex down the street. It's hilarious seeing a redneck contractor, a black business owner and a possible Hispanic tenant getting their permit denied by a rich democrat that's afraid of poor people. Yeah, let's make this shit about race so that no one gets ahead…
/r/MGTOW212/05/21 08:50 PM
11

$20 says she works in a healthcare facility and hates people
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/21 05:32 PM
8

It's apparently funny when she does it. You just have a poor sense of humor /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/21 05:28 PM
1

No, all relationships I've been in are a cycle of keeping her entertained and avoiding things that piss her off. Putting all the mgtow and pill philosophies to the side, it's more work than reward. A woman should make my life better. It is suppose to be more fun than dread. Someone said a while back that men aren't big on romance because romance is just work. For women, romance is something that happens to them. For men, romance is something he must do. I don't want a romantic gesture, I'm just …
/r/MGTOW212/05/21 10:27 AM
2

Honestly so many pornstars have this weird shrill voice like they're about to cry. Such a turn-off
/r/MGTOW212/05/21 09:46 AM
5

You know what really fucking sucks? Being the kid in this situation. Being gaslit by society. Oh now I need to bailout mom because she can't find a bailout. That shit really fucks with your head. I love you mom but you are a moron.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/21 07:13 AM
2

You haven't read many OLD profiles. Pictures are the first impression.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/21 03:19 AM
1

You understood wrong.
/r/MGTOW211/05/21 10:20 PM
2

Good for you. That wasn't even remotely my point.
/r/MGTOW211/05/21 08:35 PM
1

Are you going to get a tattoo of nine cats with three crossed out? It sounds like it's hubris that is motivating you "They haven't killed me yet!" Which is fine, but that's exactly my point, you're getting a tattoo for vanity.
/r/MGTOW211/05/21 08:32 PM
1

It sounds like you're just too lazy to decorate. If you put a picture up and dislike it, you can always take it down. It sounds like you're describing shroedinger's living room lol
/r/MGTOW211/05/21 08:21 PM
1

Only you can really give it meaning, it's subjective. I loved Legend of Zelda too, it was a big part of my childhood. However, I think that's where it should stay, in my childhood. I'll play games every once in awhile. It's fun. I'm starting to see a theme were guys are being way too nostalgic almost too fetish-like point. It's like grown women who are way too into Disney movies. Yeah the Lion King was awesome but to tattoo that just seems silly. I'm not saying you can't have nostalgia, I'm not …
/r/MGTOW211/05/21 08:10 PM
1

Or for me, there was always something else that I would rather spend my money on. Like I mentioned in another comment, that I like baseball and considered getting a Houston Astros tattoo. If I blew that money on a tat then I wouldn't have been able to afford tickets to the games.
/r/MGTOW211/05/21 05:05 PM
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I don't think it's necessary to gender this issue. From what I understand, builders are only taking large home contracts because it's the only way they can make a profit. And I think zoning laws play a role too. The smaller the home, the less return. So my question is, why not build multiple small homes instead of one large home? Even still the large home nets more profit. Lumber prices have gone up, we may see a reversion back to smaller homes but this might be more of a city zoning issue.
/r/MGTOW211/05/21 08:23 AM
10

I'm really tired of glorifying mental illness. When people tell me "Oh I have depression oh I have anxiety" I'm like ok. That sucks. What steps are you taking to get better? I'm not trying to be an asshole, people pull out their life story and get angry when I actually listen to them. Yeah, I'd be depressed too if I was 40 pounds overweight, flunked outta college, and sexually frustrated. Maybe you should be depressed and anxious because you make choices that have made you unhappy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/21 07:11 AM
1

I'm not your Dad. I don't care if you got tattoos. But more likely than not, those tattoos are dumb and even meaningless to you now. That's my point and that's probably why you're so salty.
/r/MGTOW211/05/21 01:19 AM
1

It sounds like you care a lot. Lol
/r/MGTOW211/05/21 01:13 AM
4

I think I struck a nerve for some. I've thought about getting a Houston Astros tattoo because I like baseball, but then I think about it and realize: I'm paying someone hundreds of dollars to permanently scar my body all so others know I like baseball. Wtf... I'll just wear a hat.
/r/MGTOW211/05/21 01:09 AM
2

You throw out the whole GYOW line, fair enough. And then you try to use sex as a shaming tactic. Dude if you're mgtow, why should you care if I am drowning in pussy or not at all? Lol way to show your hand.
/r/MGTOW211/05/21 01:03 AM
0

You didn't dodge death three times. You dodged death thousands of times, and so did everyone else. It's spectacular but not unique. Again, ego driven for the tattoo.
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 11:53 PM
0

You must have a poor memory
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 11:46 PM
1

I speculate. It's fun. Humans are interesting. What is going my own way? Playing with sticks in the mud? There's no worry here dude. If we followed the most mgtow perspective all of us would be in a cabin in Alaska. Nah man, you're just butthurt because you have some retarded tattoo and you know I'm right.
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 11:45 PM
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You're always welcome to voice an opinion. What exactly did you want from this sub?
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 11:34 PM
2

Getting money is not easy. You can get tats and a ripped body. But money takes time, for most of us, nearly a lifetime to build.
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 11:32 PM
1

I really hope that this gets extra retarded. Like dude putting ' F A G ' on his forehead. Then people say "wow that's offensive" But then others say, "He's reappropriating a negative word, making it his own, you're too ignorant to see that" Even better if it's the n-word Just more retards jerking off to establish a identity.
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 11:27 PM
2

No quite the opposite. I'm agnostic. I don't really believe in anything, so I think it's silly to put a symbol on my body that I don't believe in.
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 11:21 PM
1

They like it because of the response they get from others. That's vanity
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 11:15 PM
1

Lol me and best buddy put spoilers on our freaking Camry and Nissan Rio. We thought that shit was so badass but any soccer-mom van could dust us. I love cars, experimenting with design is fun. I wouldn't want to experiment with my skin
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 10:33 PM
1

There's a company that manufactures the equipment for tattoo removal (they make other stuff too). I hope they go public because in about 5 years their company will triple their profits. Tattoo removal is most common among women. More women getting tattoos = more tattoo removal. I say benefit from people's retarded choices.
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 10:14 PM
1

Yeah cultural significance makes sense. So I grew up catholic and there is a lot of lore to pull from. Rosary beads, crucifix, latin sayings, saints. If you look hard enough, there's always something. There's a patron saint of throat diseases, Saint Blake. The Lady of La Salette had the symbols of the hammer and pliers. The hammer drives in the nail for Jesus on the cross. The pliers represent removing that nail. Forgiveness, compassion. A symbol of impermanence because anyone can be saved and i…
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 10:07 PM
1

I'm not saying you should. It's just effective. If an incel came to me, saying he couldn't get pussy and he really wants it. I'd honestly tell him to lift as much as possible and then get a bunch of tattoos and lastly talk to every person that comes near them. That's like the cheat code to get pussy lol
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 09:35 PM
1

I guess it depends where you are. But for most of my experience young women view tattoos as attractive or neutral. Most people don't mature passed a high schoolers mindset. I agree, it is stupid, but like a lot of things redpill it's counterintuitive.
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 08:40 PM
1

Don't risk what?
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 08:30 PM
2

Shit I can see that. I bet there's gunna be a good amount of transgirls that flood the market. It'll be funny when women have to start competing with trans-women. As for the transboys, they will probably not participate lol
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 08:26 PM
1

I'm curious to see what the next generation is gunna do. It seems like kids don't want to look like their parents. Or maybe the kids will be even more extremely, like putting LED lights under their skin or something else retarded.
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 08:03 PM
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Let's say you did find that perfect symbol. A symbol that could stand the test of time. How badly do you need to express that symbol? Who are you expressing that symbol for? Yourself? That's kind of my thing. If I know who I am why do I need to show others? I think tattoos are tethered to identity but they are more so wrapped up in narcissism.
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 07:46 PM
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You lost me there. Impulsive people would probably be more likely to have friends and relationships. Not saying those relationships will be good. I know of one guy who seemed like ADD on crack, he'd interrupt people, he'd say just random things and do backflips off lunch tables. People gravitated towards his impulsiveness. To me he seemed obnoxious. No surprise, he is covered in tattoos. He cheats on his now second wife. He's been busted for petty theft several times. He has tons of friends and …
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 07:38 PM
7

Yes, there's even a study that shows people with tattoos are more impulsive.
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 06:50 PM
5

Exchanging resources requires that there is a line between yours and mine. You want to exchange wheat? Fuck you, I'll get it myself, what are you going to do? That's my point. When you hold a dollar and the government prints away trillions, they have effectively stolen from you.
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 07:25 AM
7

You mention all the debt that the state has taken on. Buddy, I don't know about you but I can exist in another country with another currency. I love the U.S. I love Texas, but what I loved most were the ideals of rugged individualism. The debt taken on by the state is not my problem and I am willing to jump ship to avoid those debts. Similar to how my great great great grandfather escaped debtors prison.
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 07:02 AM
6

The government is full of people who can barely open their e-mail without tech support. Even the people who have a grasp on this and an idea to stop it are powerless. On the lobbying side, financial institutions know that this is coming see ARKK, see TSLA, see the emergence of crypto EFTs, see JP Morgan reversing their views on crypto. This isn't some shot in the dark bullshit. The U.S. government is a decaying bureaucracy.
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 06:57 AM
2

You're not really listening to what I'm saying. The individual can in fact reduce their tax burden. Who cares if milk goes up 20 cents when we're talking about 20K on a regular salary. You seem like a smart guy, do some homework and you'll see that what I'm proposing is a supplement to your good plan. Yes of course I know this won't last. Shits going to get real in a couple of years.
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 06:09 AM
2

The government should be concerned if I can literally erase my taxes through crypto.
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 05:33 AM
8

The sad part is that some women show their true selves after sex. Like once they get comfortable around you, then all the craziness comes out. Then the guy dips. And she complains about men not being honest. It seems like women love telling men, "Be confident, be yourself" Um... I've always done that. Why don't you do that too?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 06:04 PM
2

I mean outside all of that, she probably doesn't give off a welcoming vibe. I get the kind of vibe that she will always be arguing with her partner. No regular dude is going to talk to you if you look like you're annoyed/pissed-off. I think the bad boys won't take that social cue and instead ask her out. It creates a barrier for normal guys, which is good because I don't want to date someone who is angry.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 05:32 PM
5

I've noticed that men need to immediately know if they are invested in a girl, we need to know right then and there if this will result in marriage. Otherwise, we are wasting her time lol I feel like women can be indecisive till the end of time. I've been that guy who had no intentions and dated a girl. She pushed me into bed and I mean, I'm not gunna say no. After sex, she started showing her real self. Which wasn't anything bad, it just wasn't for me. I told her that this wasn't going to work …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/21 05:23 PM
1

I've done this once. Lester would have realized the eventual trappings of a "loser" lifestyle. It goes like this: Lester discovers his full potential as an inhibited man. He's creative, he's funny, he lives. Lester finds a girl who is attracted by his IDGAF attitude. Girl realizes she needs/wants things. Lester realizes he can't be free and have a girl at the same time.
/r/MGTOW209/05/21 07:16 AM
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I mean yeah, you are kind of rooting for Lester but that's just how life unravels sometimes. At least Lester owned who he was, not a lot of people can say that. People can be 80 years old looking back on a life that they lived for someone else. Now that's tragic.
/r/MGTOW208/05/21 06:00 PM
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Notice that he's not angry. He's at peace. Few guys make it to the top and realize "I was just as happy when I was 17 working at a drive-thru" Not saying working fast-food is what I want to do, but this dude simplified his life so fast.
/r/MGTOW208/05/21 05:56 PM
3

The male to female ratio is nine to one. So many people gloss over that fact. NINE DUDES FOR EVERY ONE WOMAN And even out of the few women on that sight, most of them do it for attention. Don't think of online dating as a litmus test. It's a broken game, purposely designed for you to keep playing. Rise above it.
/r/MGTOW208/05/21 07:10 AM
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Gender dysphoria falls under the umbrella of anxiety. His gender dysphoria may be genuine. However, I'm starting to think too many therapists lead people to believe they are trans. Power of suggestion. No doubt your brother feels something wrong but I'm always hesitant to leap to gender dysphoria. Maybe he doesn't like himself and that's where this anxiety comes from. That's actually pretty darn normal for a kid to not be comfortable with themselves. He could be grasping for an answer to explain…
/r/MGTOW208/05/21 07:05 AM
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Yes, it's been described as a race towards the bottom and I think there is something to that. What's the point in taking a girl out on a nice date, when she has potentially hundreds of other men wanting to do the same? What incentive does she have to treat you like anything more than a car salesman? Likewise, why should a guy marry his live-in girlfriend if they already have sex? Both genders get screwed over because we have ambiguous rules and expectations.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 02:25 AM
38

Isn't Warren a widower?
/r/MGTOW206/05/21 06:36 AM
44

I remember reading a reddit AMA with Elon Musk's ex-wife. Some guy asked something vague about success or motivation or whatever gay shit. She gave a pretty cold response of "You need to be valuable to other people" Although I agreed with her sentiment, I couldn't help but feel like that's an arrogant thing to say for someone who just fucks a successful man. "Be valuable" Really brings home the point that women are human beings, and men are human doings.
/r/MGTOW206/05/21 06:36 AM
11

It sucks because modern medicine will likely address most of the hard problems of aging by the time you are 80. However, this may not be a life you want to live. You may be able to live to 150 but you're gunna feel like 80 for another 70 years... That sucks. I'm gunna take a lethal amount of blow and do some dare devil shit. Hopefully I can get a flip in.
/r/MGTOW206/05/21 01:53 AM
1

I picked 145lbs because that's a pretty easy weight to maintain. Also my bias is showing here because girls with a little chubbiness is my type. It's unfortunate that women get frustrated that they aren't the ideal weight and so they just give up and balloon to 160+ 145 is just being mostly healthy and maybe a few drinks on the weekend. Sustainable moderation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 05:32 PM
1

Ah ok, I like coinbase. I always try to find bad news for something I like. I'll probably buy their stock once the crypto-market has a correction and everyone thinks the world is ending. I'm also a fan of BAT, I think it will be big but that may be a very long hold.
/r/MGTOW205/05/21 08:45 AM
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You don't need to be cold hearted but you do need to ask yourself repeatedly "What am I getting out of this?" It's happened a few times where I'm just sitting there on a date with a girl and it hits me "I'm not enjoying this, this is a waste of time" So I just get up and leave. I have been with some women that I enjoyed talking with but the attraction wasn't there. I still consider those dates as a win because I enjoyed that evening regardless.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 08:38 AM
1

You think ethereum will eventually be worth more than bitcoin? I keep reading arguments that say bitcoin was first but ethereum is better.
/r/MGTOW205/05/21 08:06 AM
1

What about coinbase?
/r/MGTOW205/05/21 08:05 AM
1

I freaking love Fidelity active trader pro. Making charts has become a recent obsession. I can't believe I use to make decisions on stocks with robinhood.
/r/MGTOW205/05/21 08:04 AM
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No but I'd like to expand more on my point. Why would a person have over 30 matches on a dating app? You're telling me, that someone is really looking for a relationship while talking to 30 other people (usually more)? That is insane! How does it get to that point? How can someone say they are looking for a long-term relationship, where they would need to actually get to know this person but they keep acquiring new people. If I thought someone was a waste of time, I would immediately unmatch. I …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 05:37 AM
6

I feel like when a woman says she is bisexual, that is just useless information. I'm fairly certain most chicks claiming to be bi are just trying to hop on the lgbtq bandwagon. They like the intimacy of female companionship but aren't necessarily sexual driven. See lesbian deadrooms. Lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 04:17 AM
2

I wish someone would clearly define what chicks mean by bisexual. I'm sure there's some who are actually bisexual but I think these chicks are ascribing the porn they watch to their sexual orientation. If a chick gets off to two lesbians kissing, it may have more to do with the action itself not the participants. I dated a chick for awhile who met up with another girl because she thought she was bi. It's hilarious that she described the other girl as lazy and made her do all the work. She was so…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 04:13 AM
1

Before modern medicine, a woman with HSV-2 had the potential of passing that on to her child via the birth canal. Unfortunately, this virus could find it's way into the child's central nervous system and lead to meningitis and or encephalitis which could lead towards deafness, blindness, limb-necrotization, paralysis, mental retardation and death of the newborn. It makes me think that people needed to find a reason for that tragedy. Outlawing sex out of wedlock wasn't because some sexually frust…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 04:03 AM
1

That is the kind of guy that will pick a fight with you when she hugs you. I just know. He'll get drunk, then antagonize a fight. The girl will play stupid: "Please stop fighting over me 😣... 😏" These two idiots deserve each other.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 03:03 AM
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I don't understand why someone needs to date multiple people at the same time when their end-goal is monogamy. I remember using dating apps awhile back and when I found that one girl I was excited about, I didn't bother asking the other girls out. I've always been a one-girl kind of guy. There's probably women reading my comment and thinking, "Ah hah! You just picked the hottest girl!" No, I was excited about seeing a girl that actually talked to me and seemed genuinely interested. It had more t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 02:41 AM
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I actually know an older woman who wanted a pre-nup before marrying an older guy. They were both well off, but she was more well off. He technically made more than her but because he was planning to retire in a year or so, she would actually be the one that made more because she wanted to continue working. She also had more assets because she was a widow. The guy in this situation was divorced so all he had in assets were his smallish house. The point is, the woman stands more to lose in this si…
/r/MGTOW203/05/21 05:44 PM
3

I think it's a lot easier for me to say no and drive off lol When you're 20 and three chicks pile into your car, at first you feel like the Mac daddy. I remember thinking, "Cool I need some more female friends in my life" I honestly was trying to be friends and widen my social circle. Boy was I wrong.
/r/MGTOW203/05/21 03:36 PM
1

The absolute worst is agreeing to pick a girl up from the bar and she fails to mention her 3 drunk friends too. "LeTz gOh tA wHataBuRgEr!" Never again. Never. Again.
/r/MGTOW203/05/21 06:51 AM
11

It always blows my mind that there are chicks walking around with that much weight. I'm 5'7" and I felt like absolute shit when I was 170 lbs (no gym, garbage food). 5'4" and 145lbs is totally within reason for most girls to maintain.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/21 05:42 AM
0

Goddamnit I hope it lessens I'm 28 and I still have the same drive as when I was 13
/r/MGTOW201/05/21 06:35 PM
0

I have a very strong sex drive. If I knew today was my last day, I'd probably get off about 5 times in an evening. My sex drive is exactly the same as it was when I was 13. I stopped wishing it would disappear, I try my best to use that energy for platonic relationships. I tried doing the whole nofap thing and it was great up until 2 months where I started having rape fantasies and dreams. Like, I couldn't imagine myself doing something like that but then I could, and that scared the shit outta …
/r/MGTOW201/05/21 06:30 PM
2

I'll take Daddy Issues for 300 Alex
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/21 07:40 AM
1

Losing weight isn't easy, but maintenance is. If you have a healthy breakfast and lunch and then not pig-out for dinner you can stay in the same weight just by walking like an hour a day. Throw in caffeine, and you're set. It's incredibly easy to keep the same weight. I've done 1200 calories per day for a month and it took awhile to get to my goal weight. Once I was there? Dude I was eating 2000 calories feeling great and not gaining an ounce. I see people complain about losing weight and I'm co…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/21 07:38 AM
3

The thinking behind the whole older dude and younger woman dynamic is that the older women are worried about a naive younger woman being taken advantage of. Ok fair enough, she's not able to make her own choices. No drinking, no voting until you are 25. She could also date men near her age but those guys could take advantage of her too. If older women really believe that young women are too stupid to taken advantage of by older men maybe there's other things young women aren't ready for. It's pr…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/21 07:21 AM
1

As far as online dating is concerned, it's more like a male-5 going on a date with a female-3 who has a shitty personality. When the online dating ratio is nine men per one woman entitlement kicks into overdrive. That 3 is overwhelmed with choices. The more options someone has, the better of the choices they will try to choose. Why should she care about making a good impression? Why should she be interesting? You're there to entertain here, "show me a good time". Alright now couple that with a c…
/r/MGTOW201/05/21 06:57 AM
1

Depression is violence turned inward
/r/MGTOW201/05/21 04:12 AM
3

I'm wondering what the popular reaction will be once it's 50% The bleeding heart narrative is that we should resolve inequities. Or at least try to resolve those inequities. But that would be an uncomfortable discussion, because people would have to acknowledge that there are external forces that are causing those inequities. That is to say, it's not entirely that guy's fault that he can't find a girl, despite being an decent citizen. It is probably a complex problem that requires more than one …
/r/MGTOW201/05/21 04:04 AM
7

Money management isn't taught to a lot of people. Even very accomplished and intelligent people can progress through life without learning money management. It's equivalent to not learning how to cook. You can get by but it makes life harder not having that skill. This is why you see professionals going broke, for every dollar they earn, they spend two. For me personally, there is no consumer good on this planet that is as comforting at "fuck you" money.
/r/MGTOW229/04/21 04:59 PM
5

I've been reading your comments and it sounds like you "get" what guys are trying to convey to women about dating. Some of which can be pretty harsh. However, I don't think you're worth less as a person because of your age. I don't think you are "rotten meat" A lot of guys here will talk about youth and beauty and don't get me wrong I'm just like any other guy here. But I can go out and get a young moderately attractive woman and she will be a net negative in my life. It's almost guaranteed at t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/21 11:06 PM
1

The point of fishing is to fish and enjoy the outdoors, in peace.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/21 10:32 PM
2

Some are tolerable. But quite a lot of them are just a headache to deal with. If I had a male friend who did nothing but talk about himself and bitch about the smallest inconveniences, we would not be friends. Women are a drag most the time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/21 10:24 PM
1

Oh I did a long write-up on the bachelor tax. I'm fairly confident if one was created, it would be single women who would be paying for it. I'm not worried about a bachelor tax at all.
/r/MGTOW228/04/21 09:33 AM
3

There was a big survey that came out recently that asked "Why are you single?" The most popular answer was "I don't know how to flirt" We've essentially made it extremely difficult for people to learn this skill. Like most skills people usually suck at it at first. We have a culture that really shames men for even trying. A long time ago, women had a complex about being perceived as slutty and then slut-shaming became a thing. I think a similar thing will happen with men called creep-shaming. Wh…
/r/MGTOW228/04/21 08:52 AM
19

Hey now, this princess deserves loyal eunuchs!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/21 08:39 AM
15

Vin diesel
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/21 08:25 AM
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This is why immigration will occur. Another culture that prioritizes the family unit will displace the lagging population growth. Probably by the time I die, the U.K. will have the largest western muslim population. The U.S. will see a hodgepodge of Mormons, Pentecostals, Old-school Catholics, and Muslims. My point is that, it's the ideologies that are fucking the most that will continue to dominate in the future. Your purple-haired 30-something obese blogger will never spread any of her retarde…
/r/MGTOW228/04/21 08:22 AM
1

Either becomes obsolete or compulsory
/r/MGTOW228/04/21 08:11 AM
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I maintain work friendships with female coworkers and it's painfully boring. It's good for morale, but if there was a vin diagram of what I want to talk about and what they want to talk about the two would never touch. Can someone launch a PSA telling women they can have interests other than being an autobiographer? If you just sit and watch women talk, all it is, is one woman interrupting another one's monologue with their monologue. Yeah if my buddy told me a long meandering story about runnin…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/21 07:55 AM
1

If you want to go down that rabbit hole about the male greater variance hypothesis. This is to say that men have higher variance in expression of genes. Men are more likely to be geniuses but also more likely to be retarded. More likely to be awe-inspiring artists but also more likely to be serial killers. Males are more likely to show extreme phenotypes, at least that is what the hypothesis says. And it is true for fixed quantifiable traits like height, but intelligence is much harder to prove …
/r/MGTOW228/04/21 07:33 AM
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Jack Bogle, he is credited with creating the first index fund. Warren Buffett called him "The single most influential man of the middle class" Imagine you are an average american and you aren't good at math. Imagine your employer says "Well we offer a matching 401K with vanguard, would you like to place 5% of your paycheck into that account?" You say ok, not understanding that the exchange trade fund Jack created essentially gives you a piece of every successful business for the next 35 years. Y…
/r/MGTOW228/04/21 12:20 AM
10

If you came at it in good faith and explained your views you would only be met with the oppression olympics. I can acknowledge that being a woman alone at night in a parking garage is scary because literally 50% of the population could overpower her. I think it's easy for me to empathize because at one point in my life I was helpless and scared too. Women for the most part, don't really experience the full spectrum of loneliness, violence, competition and continuous rejection that is overwhelmin…
/r/MGTOW227/04/21 08:44 PM
11

I think what blows me away is that I've never heard a woman say "Yeah our relationship ended and it was my fault" There's only two stories you hear from women: That guy is an asshole we broke up amicably (which is pretty rare to hear) Probably every guy I know can honestly say he dropped the ball at least once. The ones who don't are textbook narcissists. That's how I know this whole transaction is not equal. One party has more obligations and the other party has more expectations. One party ack…
/r/MGTOW227/04/21 08:18 PM
1

Thanks, I had a really awful job out of college and what made it worse was this notion that I thought I was stuck. I hated the idea of being a slave without choice. There is one small caveat that I want to say about Ecuador and really any ex-pat location. You can't really be certain about the cost of living in some of these developing countries on a long timeline. Sure Ecuador may be very cheap now, but in 50 years? It may make the leap to a mature developed country and with that brings a higher…
/r/MGTOW227/04/21 09:49 AM
1

It's criminal that they don't teach us this shit in highschool. Lol
/r/MGTOW227/04/21 07:27 AM
1

You're also right about not immediately paying off the house. It's not smart to blow all your money on one asset in a short amount of time. Plus the actual debt would be eroded away simply by inflation. There's probably some tax benefits to paying interest on the home loan which would help because my tax burden would still be high at my current income. When I say paying off the house, I mean having enough money that I could pay it off.
/r/MGTOW227/04/21 06:26 AM
2

CPAs are great but I already have a career that will get me where I need to. Also like I said, I can't do office work. I can't stare at a computer screen all day. That shit made me suicidal when I worked in data entry. As far as a side hustle, if my trading stays at it's usual returns then I'll look at rental properties. I don't have a business idea that I'm particularly excited about right now. Plus health insurance is damn expensive, I would rather work part-time at whole foods counting cucumb…
/r/MGTOW227/04/21 06:14 AM
2

Success to me is having no debt. A paid off house and a community that I respect and respects me. I've considered getting a house, paying it off quickly, then have enough money to do day/swing trades (I have my boring retirement account too that is used responsibly). I enjoy most people and moving my body (I can't do office work) so I also considered working part-time at a whole foods which offers health insurance. I think this is a good balance. I'd like to be a volunteer firefighter or maybe m…
/r/MGTOW227/04/21 05:55 AM
2

Why are you starting and stopping your education? Is this unique to your field? Because it may be best to just knock it all out in one go. If that's your gameplan then godspeed, but I know many people who planned on getting their masters and then saw their first paycheck and never went back to school.
/r/MGTOW227/04/21 05:38 AM
1

Percocet Molly Percocet Chase a Check Never chase a bitch
/r/MGTOW226/04/21 05:02 PM
1

It takes time to have that conviction. I hope the younger guys here read what you said. I distinctly remember all the things that I thought were so important at 23. Now I can't help but laugh at all that melodrama.
/r/MGTOW226/04/21 04:00 PM
2

You'll clean up in Texas lol
/r/MGTOW226/04/21 07:30 AM
10

Guys ask girls how much they make? Why would a guy care how much a girl makes? It's always gunna be his money spent lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/21 07:07 AM
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You joke but that is exactly how some people sell cars lol I once was gunna buy a futon in college and the guy upped the price by $50 when I got there because it had sentimental value. I was like, "Wtf yeah sentimental value to you"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/21 05:46 AM
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There's few things sadder than a drunk woman. My mom is like this. We poke fun here but I hope this lady gets sober. I hope she finds whatever she is looking for.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/21 05:41 AM
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This is one of the reasons why altruism and communication are human's strongest assets. Whenever shit goes down it's always the cooperative team that wins. I think we are living in a time where things are so comfortable, that the consequences are so insignificant to be selfish. I think dark-triad men are currently living in a utopia where the risk of being selfish is miniscule compared to the reward and therefore being a selfish man is currently the most successful sexual strategy. What happens …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/21 04:09 PM
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Oh it's a total power trip for them. If you really want to fuck with them, ask them about a friend/coworker.
/r/MGTOW231/03/21 08:37 AM
9

I've worried about money since day one. My family would crush cans for nickels. I'm now at a tipping point where making money is like mowing the lawn. It's easy and repetitive and extremely easy to replicate. But the anxiety is still there. How do you rationalize purchases? I find it hard to spend money.
/r/MGTOW231/03/21 03:35 AM
3

Fuck big cities. Rude morons and bums shitting in the street. Nowhere to park. Cities are for driving into for a day for fun and then go back home.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 06:09 AM
3

I think it's hilarious when people insult incels by the very thing that may have caused their inceldom. Pretty much giving credence to the blackpill perspective (which I don't entirely agree with fwiw). Reddit: "You're probably some short, balding guy with a tiny dick! Fucking incel!" Incel: "Well yeah, that's what I'm saying! Looks matter!" Reddit: "..." You can't create an insult and then totally walk back it's meaning.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 05:57 AM
1

This is one of my more specific rules, but I do not date nurses. No thank you.
/r/MGTOW230/03/21 04:04 AM
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I'm a short dude who actually likes plump women. Not obese, just cute chubby girls. I've realized I'm an accessory to these kinds of girls. Even if she did like her short boyfriend, she wants to look good next to him. Narcissism in full force.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 10:36 PM
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Shit I'll go to town on a bulging becky. I just won't get married because I'm not retarded.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 10:30 PM
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I like big tits, that's why I have big tits lmao I think this reasoning started because people couldn't believe men and women are actually different. Wow wee that girl is pulling in 6-figures, I honestly don't care. She probably has an expensive vibrator. But I'm sure she cares if I don't make 6-figures. But I have big tits! And two children that come before anything else. I have so much love to give! /s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 10:28 PM
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When your significant other is also an accessory. I like wearing grey suits so I can only date blondes, can't clash brown and gray, ew that's gross.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 10:21 PM
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"It won't happened to me!" Yeah that's the same mentality about cancer. It's probably going to happen. You're not special.
/r/MGTOW229/03/21 10:18 PM
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Bruh it's all good women. Women are like way nicer then men /s
/r/MGTOW229/03/21 10:16 PM
6

Two words: Meth and housing
/r/MGTOW229/03/21 10:14 PM
4

They want. Idk, I've never really wanted anything that bad, and I grew up without heating during winter months. I wanted food but wasn't ready to lie. Maybe it's my pride? Some people want, the way I want to breathe. These people will always make it to the top. I am willing to make $500 tomorrow day trading. But I don't want to because I'd rather sleep in. My comforts are met. But some people can't have that, they absolutely need more.
/r/MGTOW229/03/21 07:43 AM
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But even the few that recognize this, must stay humble. Lest you be a target.
/r/MGTOW229/03/21 07:37 AM
1

Amen. Y'know, I think anger is good in some sense. When I was sad, what did I do? I tried to reason with problems, I tried to compromise. Anger is the emotion of occam's razor.
/r/MGTOW229/03/21 07:35 AM
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Hey now, there's plenty of great women past 30. I just don't sign a retarded contract. I say play the game baby. Be a fucking beta, enjoy simping, all the good stuff for a girl to rope you end (maybe use less than 10% of your income to do this). When marriage talk comes, use emotional language. I'm a strong independent man, I can have kids at 55 if I want.
/r/MGTOW229/03/21 07:23 AM
3

https://youtu.be/pb7BIaaxGAU
/r/MGTOW226/03/21 05:40 PM
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It's pretty hilarious that the word slave came from Slavic people being enslaved by muslims. And as an Irish descendant one quote really reveals what the Brits thought of us.. "I am haunted by the human chimpanzees I saw along that hundred miles of horrible country...to see white chimpanzees is dreadful; if they were black one would not see it so much, but their skins, except where tanned by exposure, are as white as ours." — Cambridge historian Charles Kingsley, letter to his wife from Ireland,…
/r/MGTOW226/03/21 05:21 PM
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What good did that apology do? Seriously, it's obvious that this was important to the person who created this mandatory charade. I'm curious what could actually be gained from this. Maybe one or two guys think this will "help" somehow? Because women suddenly can't succeed unless they're vindicated? Isn't it more degrading to ask for an apology? Wait, don't women also encourage gender roles? Shouldn't they apologize too? Who the fuck does that? That makes you as weak as you claim to always be. I …
/r/MGTOW226/03/21 07:43 AM
2

It is measurable. https://youtu.be/Yo4WF3cSd9Q They've done this test through the years and then followed-up with the kids later in life. Trauma, socioeconomic, intelligence, all were relatively trivial when compared to delayed gratification.
/r/MGTOW225/03/21 05:38 PM
2

I actually always enjoyed work. All of it. Mowing lawns, waiting tables, bartending, phlebotomist... I look back on that work as meaningful. It's the people I can't stand, the petty power struggles and bruised egos. It's like these people exist to create misery in an otherwise simple world. I've come to realize, the only way I can escape these people is to create my own business. Work is extremely easy, it's the shitheads that make work unbearable.
/r/MGTOW225/03/21 05:52 AM
1

Disagree. The greatest indicator of success is the ability to delay pleasure. People that are drinking and shopping and fucking everything that moves hardly ever get ahead. Look up the statistics, your average american is drowning in debt and can't afford a $2000 emergency expense. People hate studying, but they understand that if they don't study now, they won't reap the rewards later. Smarts is just part of the picture, not the whole gallery.
/r/MGTOW225/03/21 05:40 AM
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Marriage is a life-long commitment with someone you create a family with, it's truly a sacred bond. But it can also dissolve quicker than cyanide in kool aid. My question is: which is it? Why do the same people who push marriage as sacred are also willing to dismiss it on a whim? Is it sacred? Or is it a business contract? Is it both simultaneously? Or an elastic definition depending on who benefits? Because from my perspective it seems like a lousy business model dressed up as a sacrament. That…
/r/MGTOW225/03/21 05:26 AM
1

You're right. So why should we place any emphasis on IQ at all? JP seems to have a boner for it. That's more my point. The worst thing you can tell someone is that they have a high IQ. Way to create a complex.
/r/MGTOW225/03/21 03:49 AM
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Fear. I never want to be broke again, so I work my ass off and save like a squirrel before nuclear winter. Fear. I had a friend from highschool commit suicide and so I try to always be there for my friends. I'm terrified a friend or family member will off themselves. Fear that I'll be stuck working a low paying job being disrespected by morons. Once I realized that job could be the rest of my life I was overcome with dread. So I did whatever it took to pass my classes. Fear is one hell of a moti…
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 11:00 PM
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I just don't buy that. Normal people don't do what he did. He's an example of evil that will always persist in this world, regardless of the climate. Let's say this guy had a means to channel his aggression constructively like boxing. That is the kind of guy who loses a match and then slashes his opponents tires. It's not about healthy masculinity or competition or aggression. It's about power, absolute control of the situation using a gun. What he did isn't a build-up of healthy masculine energ…
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 09:14 PM
1

Nah dude, don't defend this guy. It doesn't matter if we were living in a utopia, this guy would have done something bad anyways.
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 08:54 PM
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What gets me is the anti-asian narrative the media keeps pushing. Because asian = covid-19 apparently? I don't know, I know many people in the south who don't wear masks and I haven't heard anything about them blaming asians. Like no one makes that connection. And since I moved up north, I don't see or hear anything about blaming asians. I see news videos about asians being mistreated and I just don't think this is a big problem, like a Karen throwing a tantrum doesn't need to be a national disc…
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 08:43 PM
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Yeah that's been my understanding of IQ tests. It would be like me making a fitness test and having people swim laps in the pool. Sure, someone who is good at swimming is likely to be fit, but really my test only proved that they're good at swimming not fitness in general.
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 09:32 AM
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JP is a tradcon shill. He wants more Christian babies because he knows Muslims are out-fuckin' the western world. "Make your bed, stand up straight..." Gee wiz, what a revolutionary concept.
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 07:24 AM
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I agree with everything you've said but I think IQ tests are inaccurate or at least unimportant. There's plenty of dudes who can do calculus in their head and they jack off all day, thinking about the person they could be. In my experience, playing dumb with women is much more endearing. People like to believe they are smart, let them think they are smart. Play into their narcissism.
/r/MGTOW224/03/21 07:11 AM
5

What helps me is to imagine my emotions as water passing through a stream. Let them come, observe them, and let them pass. Too many dudes try to white-knuckle their emotions under the misinterpretation of stoicism and pack their feelings down. Let it come, let it go. Eventually you will become better at understanding how temporary life is. How to relish the good and how to endure the bad. Let it come, let it go. It's all temporary.
/r/MGTOW223/03/21 10:58 PM
2

It's not really the same thing though. Generally speaking, Men play an active role in courtship, women play a passive role. These women are doing exactly what every other woman is doing, absolutely nothing. A better comparison would be incels and career women. Both groups have unrealistic expectations about the opposite gender and are upset that those expectations aren't being met. The truth is that many men would be ecstatic to date an independent woman that can support herself, but because he …
/r/MGTOW223/03/21 10:18 PM
3

I see what you are saying. I shouldn't assume that these women don't want to be alone. It's my own confirmation bias that tells me these career women want to be married and have children. They could be perfectly happy doing what they are doing, but I doubt it. In the end, it doesn't really matter what I think. Lol
/r/MGTOW223/03/21 09:49 PM
1

That's a good comparison for many of the guys that practice paranoid/destructive mgtow. Like the guys thinking every woman will claim false rape. The difference is probably that mgtow wouldn't want long-term companionship, the way these women want it. In that regard these women and the same bitter mgtows are in the same sad category.
/r/MGTOW223/03/21 09:14 PM
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Well the thing is, I actually have gotten more attention in my late 20's because I fit that beta mold. I'm a stable, agreeable guy, who loves my family. I've always been that guy, it's just now suddenly I'm valuable to them. Yeah I'll buy drinks, I might even take them on a trip, if they are fun. I enjoy the company of women. But marriage? Nope, sorry that ship sailed a long time ago.
/r/MGTOW223/03/21 09:07 PM
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Honestly that's sad, they probably work a lot and go home and binge watch Law&Order:SVU so they're terrified of men. They probably only go out with a group of other bitter women that cock-block each other. No dude is going to approach a girl when she has 7 other cackling hens heckling him. Then of course, she's probably lazer focused on her superior, who is smart enough to know that in this metoo era he won't get within 6 feet of a female subordinate. You would have to be a moron to do that. So …
/r/MGTOW223/03/21 05:28 PM
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I'm at a point in my mgtow journey where I frankly don't care what women want. I'm more preoccupied with creating a life that I believe is worth living. As far as interacting with women, I live a pragmatic but also care-free lifestyle. I'm here for the fun, and as soon as that stops I'm out. I think I probably look and act a lot like what people would describe as a beta. Which I am totally fine with. I'm at peace because I won't be taken advantage of. Once you reach that level, where you underst…
/r/MGTOW223/03/21 04:55 PM
2

I don't believe most incels would reject an average woman. If even a below average girl showed interest, I bet money they would abandon incel-ideology so fast. They would probably have sex a few times and then be pretty awful boyfriends lol I've wanted to write a post about incels for so long about where I believe this entitlement comes from. I think where this all started was when sjw's kept harping on societal equity for race, gender, sexual orientation, disabled, depressed, poor, just whateve…
/r/MGTOW221/03/21 06:47 PM
1

I think another thing is that I like seeing the world change around me. Too much cool shit happening. And I love to speculate, despite being dead wrong most times lol Some people are saying VW will overtake Tesla in a decade or so. Some say Ford can easily compete against Tesla in the commercial vehicles. And I believe it, because ford is the largest manufacturer of commercial vehicles. But Kathy Woods, the ETF manager, is bullish on Tesla and says their battery tech makes them #1. Hard to say..…
/r/MGTOW221/03/21 01:35 PM
1

kierkegaard and camus
/r/MGTOW221/03/21 09:42 AM
1

Just dank marijuana
/r/MGTOW221/03/21 02:16 AM
5

I know Alan Watts introduced eastern philosophy to western culture but much like Charles Bukowski I have trouble disassociating the artist from the art. Alan Watts was totally hammered through most of his life's work. It doesn't mean that his contribution is less or that there's no meaning. It just kind of taints my view of him, he talks about happiness but wasn't sober for more than a week. It would be like a morphine addict lecturing people about how to cope with physical pain. No shit you fee…
/r/MGTOW220/03/21 11:02 PM
1

Bertrand Russell writes quite a lot about depression and it's philosophical causes. One cause for depression he talks about is narcissism. We are most certainly living in an age where the average person has an inflated ego. And therefore they become depressed when their reality does not correlate with their inner projected self. This doesn't mean you're a narcissist, it means you haven't been honest with yourself. We want so badly to believe that we are here to do something great, to have a purp…
/r/MGTOW220/03/21 07:59 PM
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I wouldn't get too bogged down in the whole purpose thing. Been there, done that. You're probably never going to be fully satisfied with whatever answer you create. Creating a goal and accomplishing that goal does it for me. I want a Tesla (or VW they may have something better in a few years). I'm aware that buying a Tesla isn't my purpose in life, I just want one. No need to overthink what I want, Tesla's are cool ass cars. I got really high in college and experienced depersonalization (some ca…
/r/MGTOW220/03/21 03:02 PM
2

Wtf, no wonder they laugh at almost anything. "Watch out for Melissa, sounds like she's got a case of the Mondays 🙄" 😂 JESUS TAPDANCING CHRIST CHERYL THAT IS THE FUNNIEST GODAMNN THING ANYONE HAS EVER SAID 😂🔫
/r/MGTOW219/03/21 07:32 AM
1

All dividend aristocrats
/r/MGTOW217/03/21 02:23 AM
1

What did you originally say? I don't think every woman is shitty lol There's some fantastic loving women out there.
/r/MGTOW215/03/21 10:56 PM
2

And I think you missed my point. I'll give an example: There's two bowls in front of you. Both filled with M&M's The bowl on the left has roughly 1% of those M&M's laced with cyanide. Upon ingestion would kill you. The bowl on the right has just regular M&M's. Which bowl do you choose to grab candy from? Alright now, you get to choose between a woman who had an abusive ex and a woman who didn't. Which one do you choose? It's playing the odds, and a pretty reliable one at that.
/r/MGTOW215/03/21 10:11 PM
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I've been thinking this for awhile. Let's take all the mgtow, pill-talk, divorce rate stuff off the table. Just temporarily forget it. Ok, now, do you actually enjoy the process of dating women? No? Then that's really all the evidence you need right there. Dating feels like an interview, to a job you don't want: The responsibilities are constantly changing but the pay will always be low. You will be expected to give respect but likely won't receive it. If you're lucky, you will be promoted to a …
/r/MGTOW215/03/21 09:43 PM
2

My subjective experience led me to actually do my homework on domestic violence. Reciprocal abuse is a real thing that's been studied objectively. If I didn't have that subjective experience I would probably lazily dismiss the notion of reciprocal abuse. If I'm wrong dude, who really cares? It's an unnecessary risk, much like marriage. No thanks.
/r/MGTOW215/03/21 08:54 PM
1

That last point seems to be totally lost on single moms and it shows that they aren't able to see things from the guy's perspective.
/r/MGTOW215/03/21 04:47 PM
4

I use to lean more towards believing that the guy was [insert bad trait here]. But after having some real world experience, I realize it's not so black and white. I actually had an ex that would pick fights all the time, I usually just tried to diffuse the situation because I dislike confrontation. The one time I said no to her she started throwing beer bottles at me. So I broke it off. A week later her brother is knocking at my door telling me he is going to kick my ass for abusing her. The bru…
/r/MGTOW215/03/21 04:39 PM
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I don't think this will happen, at least within my lifetime and here's why: 1) It is illegal to tax based solely on gender. You would need some pretty creative language to get that passed. If this was to occur, you could use that same argument for race, religion, nationality, sexual orientation, etc... It just wouldn't happen. Don't let twitter fool you, no one would support this. 2) Ok, they can't outright say they want to tax single men so instead they just tax high single income earners. This…
/r/MGTOW215/03/21 04:03 PM
3

One incident that comes to mind is a gf in college. We were hanging out with some friends and this one guy just kept making short-guy jokes at me. I was pretty insecure about my height, but I also knew that if I react in any negative way, I would be condemned as an 'angry short guy' So I rolled with jokes and took them, honestly what else can you do? Fast forward a few days my gf keeps talking about men's height. She tells me about how tall her dad is, how tall her brothers are. She asks me how …
/r/MGTOW213/03/21 06:36 PM
2

If bitcoin has taught me anything it is that it doesn't really matter what I consider valuable. It matters what other people consider valuable. She acts that way because she can and other men enable that behavior. Personally, I wouldn't spend more than 5 seconds talking to her. It's pretty obvious she is out for blood. Pump and dump stocks with inflated hype. Pump and dump chicks with inflated egos.
/r/MGTOW211/03/21 04:58 PM
3

You're playing with fire lol
/r/MGTOW210/03/21 08:01 PM
1

That's stupid. If I was gay I would want to keep that to myself. It's unnecessary to label someone when it literally has no bearing on their work. So what? You see a rainbow and now you gotta treat this guy differently? Isn't that what we are suppose to not do?
/r/MGTOW210/03/21 07:08 PM
4

I am a man who still has to participate in this society. I admit it doesn't really effect me in any way, I just wanted to rant about it.
/r/MGTOW210/03/21 07:05 PM
3

Then disabled lesbians of color. Bring it on, I won't be in the workforce by then.
/r/MGTOW210/03/21 07:00 PM
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I didn't clarify but my rant is mostly about LinkedIn. Every other post on my feed is about encouraging women or celebrating women or something to that effect. It's been like this all damn year long. How much support do women need? Based on LinkedIn you'd think women are stuck in the fetal position crying unable to have the slightest confidence.
/r/MGTOW210/03/21 12:11 PM
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I liked that the conversation stayed on track. But I also know, you might as well be talking to a wall. So I feel silly listening to the same rehashed arguments. Women don't care because they don't have to. I like that he drove home the point about how great and free our society is. I don't want to go back to the 1950's. This is literally the best time to be alive.
/r/MGTOW210/03/21 11:07 AM
1

So there's a species of fish and it's mating season. There's two different kinds of male phenotypes (or physical traits). One male phenotype looks almost exactly like the female, just male. The other phenotype of male is roughly 1/4th the size of the other male. So you got average and dwarfish types of males. So when mating season comes about the female lays her eggs. Both males want to blow their load all over those eggs. Sometimes the bigger fish fertilizes the eggs. Sometimes the smaller one …
/r/MGTOW212/02/21 12:42 PM
1

There was a study that showed Gen-Z kids being the first generation to be more conservative than their predecessors. Usually the pattern went that, the boomers were more progressive than their parents, and Gen-X was more progressive than boomers, and then finally millennials became the apex of progressive ideology. Some people speculate that many of the Gen-Z kids are either 1) Living with their grandparents that instill more conservative ideas. Or 2) A kind of rebellion against contemporary cul…
/r/MGTOW211/02/21 02:14 AM
1

You gotta flip the script on the whole gay thing with people. If someone makes a snarky comment about your sexuality just loudly say, "What's wrong with being gay?" Hopefully enough people hear it and think the other person is a bigot. I say, play into the politically correct bullshit, everyone else already does.
/r/MGTOW209/02/21 10:07 PM
7

Don't forget single guys are the workhorse. There thinking is that, 'hey he has no kids, no wife, not even a girlfriend, ask him to pick up the slack!' And I use to be angry about this until I played into it. I purposely accepted as much overtime as possible, for the obvious extra money. But I also became one of the few people who could do certain tasks. After a year I ask for a raise that is 10% and if I don't get it, I immediately put in my two weeks and start answering calls for jobs I applie…
/r/MGTOW209/02/21 09:59 PM
2

If your work experience only says "I worked for my parents" I would not hire you.
/r/MGTOW230/01/21 05:54 AM
22

People who are afraid of dying alone are afraid of being alone. It's taking the fear of loneliness and placing it at the worst conceivable time. You may just be afraid of being alone and that's totally fine and normal.
/r/MGTOW230/01/21 04:33 AM
20

I think OP imagines some movie-like scene where you can control death like releasing a fart. "Goodbye everyone👋... brrfpt" The vast majority of us will die in our sleep or have a death that is scary for like a minute. Both don't really matter who is nearby and we won't be fully conscious when it happens. "Oh what great tragedy as I am to die alone, such a pity" Yeah you won't have much time to reflect on that. At most it'll be a "Oh shit" moment
/r/MGTOW230/01/21 04:30 AM
20

Maybe it's the English in me but I don't want to be embarrassed when I die. I like the idea of walking out to a blizzard. Feeling cold and then colder than you've ever felt then your brain kicks on the happy drugs (people with hypothermia believe they are "hot" sometimes) and you let nature kill you. That sounds like a rewarding death, to be totally exhausted and cold and let your brain chemistry do it's magic. The problem is that, I imagine I would need to be strong enough to walk out that far …
/r/MGTOW230/01/21 04:17 AM
1

I would say write about something you care about. I write a weekly blog about disruptive technologies where I speculate what will happen. I made $5 last month. My opinions are usually garbage but someone is reading them and I enjoy the discussions. I would continue doing this even if I was a millionaire because it's fun and it helps expand my thinking.
/r/MGTOW230/01/21 12:11 AM
0

Mgtow definitely has a boner for hermitage lifestyle.
/r/MGTOW229/01/21 05:00 PM
2

I think family and community is priceless. Mgtow seems to lean towards being a hermit but I don't think this is healthy for most guys. We are social creatures. Most people want to connect with others and grow. Just like your Grandmother, she sees the intrinsic good in helping her family. So many people feel aimless and depressed despite having a "good" life. I think that it is because they are hyper focused on themselves they've lost community and the rewarding connections it brings. Your grandm…
/r/MGTOW228/01/21 05:01 PM
2

Because the mom will likely see that she is dating a scumbag and try to deter it. If the mom has any self-awareness she will try to stop her daughter from ending up like her. There's always the possibility that the mom pushes the daughter away to the scumbag but then the scumbag almost has to support her. The girl should figure out pretty soon that this guy either doesn't have the means or doesn't want to support her.
/r/MGTOW228/01/21 03:39 PM
5

I want to take things a step further: Young Americans struggling to gain independence is a symptom of how hard life is. When life is hard, you want people you can depend on, you want good boring men when life is hard. When life is easy, you want novelty and excitement, sometimes that includes bad guys. When situations are very bad cooperation is the strongest force in a communities tool kit, we are all our own best asset, no wonder altruism is selected over selfish dark-triad traits. We have exp…
/r/MGTOW228/01/21 08:36 AM
10

I did read some actually good advice from a guy in the r/fatfire community. He said to get involved in a small to medium enterprise and grow from there. Talk to everyone. Pretty much tethering your success to a small business, unfortunately there may come a time where you are undervalued and you must jump immediately or the company goes under. You have to reinforce your value to your company everytime it grows (whether that is true or not doesn't matter). I found this advice helpful because alth…
/r/MGTOW225/01/21 01:28 AM
3

That's pretty much the reason I didn't get my master's. I knew of three people with MBAs that didn't use them. I'd get a master's if my employer paid for it.
/r/MGTOW223/01/21 10:22 PM
9

This was me for alcohol, I was eventually like "I don't like this, either I kick this or I'm eating a bullet" Sometimes things have to become unbearable before you finally decide to do something.
/r/MGTOW223/01/21 10:10 PM
6

Modern dating is like buying a 50-year old home with a caved in roof in the worst part of town for 350K. It's simply not worth what it is asking for.
/r/MGTOW220/01/21 07:28 PM
7

I would say that Republicans may be more family-aligned which somewhat includes men. However this is usually framed as bad for women because anything that could possibly benefit men must be misogynistic. But democrats, as far as I'm considered couldn't give a shit about families unless it's for transgender disabled immigrant lesbians adopting.
/r/MGTOW220/01/21 07:24 PM
2

If I could go back in time... Right out of high school, I would just do the highest paying job whatever that might be like oil-field or alaskan crab fishing, whatever can make a lot of money with low skill. Stay away from all drugs and watch the drinking. No prostitutes. Work that job for 3-5 years saving as much as possible. Hopefully 200K. Tell no one! NO ONE! Then finally go into a trade or college. Get your first post-school shit job and max your 401K, IRA, HSA. Transfer companies every two …
/r/MGTOW217/01/21 06:06 AM
9

There are some women who aren't a total drain on finances. There are guys who marry women that help add savings, however these down-to-earth women are rare. Every chick I've spoken with in the last year is blowing her dad's money and will likely blow through her husband's money too. The ones who grew up poor fantasize about luxury, the ones who grew up rich have become accustomed to that luxury. It's usually the girls in the middle, who had a taste of luxury and realized it's not necessary for t…
/r/MGTOW217/01/21 05:37 AM
13

It's pretty crazy that I was able to afford rent and my last year of college on 19K (2017). I mean yeah it sucked but it was do-able. Now I make 5 times that and I cringe when I eat out more than once a week. Life in america is great and being single is retarded easy. Don't do drugs, don't have kids, get a skill and you're almost guaranteed a good life.
/r/MGTOW217/01/21 05:26 AM
2

Boring is perfect, it's the right word. Boring in that people don't seek out connection with each other and feel bored without constant stimulation. Although we are the most sex positive, we are also having less sex, less relationships, less marriage, and less children. Maybe someone smarter could explain why but I guess it's a combination of: 1) Obesity 2) Breakdown in courtship (there's no rules but there's rules) 3) Abundant access to a variety of entertainment (including porn) 4) A perniciou…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre31/12/20 02:06 PM
1

Hobbies include: sleeping, tv, and telling people about a new hobby that you already lost interest in.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/20 01:42 PM
5

There's a lot of women out there that have no friends and it's incredibly sad to date them. If you date one of these chicks you become their whole social circle and entertainer. I genuinely feel bad for these kinds of women.
/r/MGTOW231/12/20 11:32 AM
3

I agree about how shitty things have been but I also recognize how great modern day distractions are. It's a push-pull dynamic: modern courtship is pushing men away and modern entertainment is pulling them in.
/r/MGTOW229/12/20 02:03 PM
7

I don't know if it's true but I read that fetishes can come as means to cope with anxiety. So these guys may have initially been anxious about being dominated by a woman and then their brains re-wired to enjoy it. I'm not sure where the switch happens. A good example is I grew up strict catholic and so masturbation was sinful. I was worried that people would find out I masturbated and this caused a lot of anxiety and shame. That anxiety manifested itself as a fantasy to be caught masturbating or…
/r/MGTOW229/12/20 01:44 PM
1

You are awesome. You had a vision and you stuck to it. Failure is not the worst thing, the worst thing is regretting that you didn't try. I don't even have the skills to start a business! I couldn't even begin to try! I couldn't fail because I couldn't start! Get up! You're still breathing! Get up because you can fail and you're still here! Keep moving!
/r/MGTOW228/12/20 10:47 PM
9

Women are the prize is the narrative. When women fail to attract a mate it's men's fault. When men fail to attract a mate it's men's fault. It's raining equality on a one-way street.
/r/MGTOW228/12/20 10:26 PM
10

Nice catch, fuck this clown
/r/MGTOW228/12/20 10:02 PM
8

"something, something gender wage gap (gasp!) Something something me too (oh my!)..."
/r/MGTOW228/12/20 09:59 PM
7

It's pretty crazy that we are the most connected the human race has ever been and yet we are pairing up less. We're also having less sex. You would think that this would be the easiest time to find someone compatible but that is not what the data says.
/r/MGTOW228/12/20 09:57 PM
13

You won't approach this topic with the nuance and empathy it fully requires to be understood. Go ahead and conflate mgtow with incels. I already conflate journalists with gossip.
/r/MGTOW228/12/20 09:41 PM
1

I still take care of myself. I watch the scale and adjust my diet to keep me in the 145-155 range.
/r/MGTOW228/12/20 12:29 PM
1

When do you cut your loses? I've tried giving myself a hard rule like if it drops below a certain percentage.
/r/MGTOW228/12/20 01:04 AM
1

Mind if I ask what your strategy is? Do you compare the SMA of 50 and 9 weeks then buy below the 9? I was looking at bollinger bands and they seem helpful.
/r/MGTOW227/12/20 11:53 PM
2

Reading about biotech stocks. I have a bio and clinical lab background and some of the tech coming out is absolutely incredible. ARKK etf has a handful of biotech stocks that could be industry disruptors. Maybe it will happen, maybe it is hype like most biotech (remember theranos!) Really loving these publications and considering writing a blog. I'm not gunna buy any of them but I am passionate about the tech.
/r/MGTOW227/12/20 11:50 PM
36

I'm convinced, that there's people who are born with this mindset of keeping score and there's no way to change that mindset. It's exhausting. I've never done something because I wanted something in return unless it's a job. I would do something because I genuinely enjoy seeing someone happy. What a concept!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/20 11:28 PM
13

My biggest ah-ha moment was me asking myself "Do I actually enjoy this?" It becomes pretty clear that we've been programmed to pursue something that almost always makes our lives' worse. So fuck it, let's enjoy things that actually make us happy, because God knows it's not women.
/r/MGTOW227/12/20 10:32 PM
14

My younger brother spent most of the holidays bitching about dealing with his gf. My mom finally said, "Being single is easier, have you considered that" To which I smiled and nodded. Then my mom asked me to buy her a new car... Someone needs to be extracting resources from you!
/r/MGTOW227/12/20 10:22 PM
6

I had a traumatic experience with my ex where she used me for money. Because of that traumatic experience I will give you the bare minimum of money even though I bought my ex romantic get-aways and fancy dinners. I just really need you to understand, that my ex has totally destroyed my trust in other people and that's why I'm so cheap with you. HOW THE FUCK WOULD PEOPLE RESPOND TO THAT?!!!!!! Women would be laughing their asses off and bail immediately. That's why dudes should bail immediately i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/20 11:21 AM
7

Holy shit, that was the post that got me started down this rabbit hole. I remember being like, "Wtf is the red pill? I better do some research" Talk about Streisand effect
/r/MGTOW226/12/20 10:10 AM
4

Is that you Joe Rogan?
/r/MGTOW224/12/20 06:05 PM
4

Volunteering has been a rewarding experience, especially with the elderly. They want friends, you probably want friends. Some mgtows would be happy alone in a cabin in the woods. I think most people need a sense of belonging and I think that is what you are mourning the way you talk about family. I know it sounds cheesy, but open your heart and you will find people who will see you as family. I'm white and have a black co-worker who is like my second mom. I drop in every Thanksgiving to give her…
/r/MGTOW224/12/20 05:58 PM
3

The leaders you've pointed out were not considered short compared to the general population. I'm average height for a British man in 1915. I appreciate the sentiment that 'height doesn't matter' and I am living my best life, but to say height isn't somewhat important is simply not true. This isn't some 'woe is me' kind of thing. It's been proven in many many studies across different cultures. If you had a young son and you wanted to give him the best chance at life, giving him HGH during puberty…
/r/MGTOW224/12/20 02:01 PM
19

Not my brother, just one of my brother's co-workers. These kinds of people will pop up regardless. And their snobby comments always come up when I'm making other people laugh. I suppose by happiness I mean absence of pain and fear, which allows me to enjoy whatever is going on. Happiness is wanting others to have a good time because it's only a brief moment before more pain and fear will inevitably surface.
/r/MGTOW223/12/20 02:38 PM
4

I think he is right, I think there will be more WMW relationships because societal attitudes already don't give a shit. You can explain anything with "That's my choice" under feminism. But I don't think there will be a significant amount, not in my lifetime anyways. I'm just picturing the year 2245 and this rebel incel leader is raiding Chad's sky mansion. It would be hilarious to see this super jacked battle-hardened incel running in and he finds some Harry Styles Trillionare wearing a dress ge…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/20 07:03 PM
11

Let's say it loud and proud so that women and nice guys can be on the same page: Just because you want something, doesn't mean you deserve it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/20 02:45 AM
3

Do you mind telling us what the warning signs were? Is there any general advice you can give on vetting women?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/20 01:03 PM
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I think if I'm dating a girl who isn't wife material and she asks why I won't marry, I will be honest with her. I don't even have to go into the discussion about how divorce screws over men. That falls on deaf ears. I can be honest in saying that our values are incompatible for a thriving marriage. So I'm ok with being in a relationship with someone who doesn't share all of my values but I won't marry her. Also it would be silly for me to ask her to change (when she would just change back after …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/20 07:36 AM
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I'm trying my best to not be jaded and bitter but I think you are right. What I keep asking myself over and over again is "What am I getting out of this?" I've realized that working within my own best interests will be perceived as selfish but then again that's what everyone else is doing. My only rules are for me to be honest both with myself and whoever I will date. Unfortunately not bending over backwards to accommodate entitled women is apparently a failing dating strategy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/20 03:28 AM
3

I would date her, she seems cute. But I have a feeling her demands are going to make the entire dating experience just me doing the heavy lifting. That's what gets on my nerves, how very little effort she is willing to put in. It's totally lopsided. So three days? Yeah ok, it sounds like you have better things to do. She's not looking for anything guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/20 05:38 AM
1

I do have an addictive personality.
/r/MGTOW215/12/20 12:33 AM
1

Most abuse is reciprocal. I can't find the study but that shit was eye-opening. If she claims to have been in an abusive relationship it's likely that was reciprocal. I've experienced this first-hand with an ex who told me how nice I was, how her ex was abusive. (Because I was a people-pleaser) I always said yes. Until one day I said no and she threw an empty wine bottle at me and scratched my arms when I left. I knew right then that I was never going to be around her after that, but apparently …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/20 10:46 PM
1

I have read the book. Are you talking about social engineering? Yeah I could see that. But overall things are better.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/20 10:38 PM
10

Yeesh, sounds like she is looking for a punching bag. I guarantee she's going to be a horrible partner and she will justify her actions because she was treated poorly in the past. A normal dude would ditch her as soon as that unresolved anger starts poking through.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/20 06:44 PM
16

WAATGM? They are with the good women. It's really that simple.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/20 03:34 AM
2

I don't make enough profit to be taxed at that rate. It looks like that 33% tax rate kicks in at like $191,000. Or maybe I'm missing something, I'm fairly new to this.
/r/MGTOW213/12/20 07:33 PM
4

The median U.S. income rose in 2019 something that the liberal media forgets. Nearly a billion more people have clean drinking water. Female literacy rates have quadrupled in the last 10 years. Death from war is down. Rape is down. Trafficking is down. Average life expectancy is up. I could go on and on about how are world is absolutely getting better but bad news is easier to sell. Bad news generates more attention, it's called the "mean world" hypothesis where people believe the world is shit …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/20 08:51 PM
3

Not The world, Your world isn't getting better bud
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/20 08:41 PM
1

I'm new to this but I looked at DNP's dividend history. So you get about 6 cents per share every month. Each share is a little over 10 bucks. How is that 7-8% return? When I say I'm making 3% I'm making 3 dollars off of 100 dollars worth of stocks. Wouldn't making 6 cents from a 10 dollar stock be like 0.06%?
/r/MGTOW212/12/20 06:34 PM
3

I agree. That's why I only use half of what's available to trade in that small day trading account. Total = $500. Trading $250. At the end of the month all profit goes into better long-term investment accounts. This will help me not blow all my money on one bad trade. If a series of bad trades occur then I will refine my strategy, so far that hasn't happened yet, but I'm sure it will.
/r/MGTOW212/12/20 06:11 PM
1

Do you have an example of one I can look at?
/r/MGTOW212/12/20 03:00 PM
1

I would go part-time AFTER many years of proving I could trade (and emotionally manage) large sums of money. Never said I was going part time soon.
/r/MGTOW212/12/20 02:48 PM
4

I'm risk averse as well and that's why my percentage is so conservative. As soon as I get my 3%, I gtfo and then watch that stock rocket passed +10% sometimes. I keep getting that greedy, 'oh I should stay in longer' mindset and as soon as I do that I end up fucking myself. It's much easier to set a plan and no matter what, stick with it, taking the emotions out of it.
/r/MGTOW212/12/20 02:45 PM
1

The amount of time comes out to about 3 hours per week. I have a degree and a stable job, that although doesn't pay a ton still above average with good benefits and I mostly enjoy the work. I might be in a place career-wise where I am content and may not go further so I don't have to work 150% harder in order to make 10-20 grand more a year. We'll see. There's still opportunities to expand my skills in my current role. Outside work and day trading, I practice classical guitar about 2 hours a day…
/r/MGTOW212/12/20 02:38 PM
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Up until the pandemic, the world was doing better on almost all metrics. And it's likely to return to that. Don't get sucked into that lie that the world is shit. This is literally the best time ever to be alive
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/20 10:37 AM
1

Like a lot of people in this discussion, you misunderstand what I am saying. I am not saying whether someone should or shouldn't marry, I'm saying that the opinion of marriage should be held in a higher regard. I'm saying men can have an honest discussion about marriage with women if we actually hold women to the standard that they believe marriage warrants. I can see myself dating someone who isn't wife material but a good fwb. I can honestly say, "Our values are incompatible for a successful m…
/r/MGTOW209/12/20 12:26 PM
1

Tradcuck thinks that marriage is good regardless. That's not what I'm saying.
/r/MGTOW209/12/20 12:11 PM
1

Marriage probably does work when most people actually treat it as the sacred commitment they claim it to be. It would be like a police force telling everyone in town that their job is to protect and serve, and everyone in town says "wow look at those fantastic police officers" when the police force takes bribes and intimidates business owners for money. Eventually someone will say, "I think our police force is not living up to the standards that they claim, we should do X, Y, and Z to improve it…
/r/MGTOW209/12/20 06:38 AM
0

I don't think what I'm asking for is unreasonable. Considering that I meet all of these requirements myself. But yes, it does appear to be asking for a unicorn when you hold women to a standard that you hold yourself to.
/r/MGTOW209/12/20 06:17 AM
1

That's exactly my point, if you acknowledge that your values may change or that you can't love her unconditionally then you shouldn't marry. If you treat marriage with the same seriousness that women do then few people actually should get married. It helps frame the problem of marriage within their hypocritical context.
/r/MGTOW209/12/20 03:35 AM
1

Ok relationship with her dad Bachelor's degree Ability to budget, thriftiness Little to no debt A want to be healthy, including activity and cooking No past traumatic events No depression No abusive drug habits (moderate drinking is ok) Maximum of one tattoo The ability to make her own friends (can't believe I had to include that one) A job that makes at least 50% of what I make And those are just the hard rules, I have a list of soft rules too that I think about.
/r/MGTOW209/12/20 03:29 AM
1

If you treat marriage with the same seriousness that women do then few people actually should get married. It helps frame the problem of marriage within their hypocritical context.
/r/MGTOW209/12/20 03:12 AM
5

I have a list of requirements that must be met in order for me to marry. None of those requirements are based on physical characteristics. I think men should be just as selective as women. That list substantially lowers the odds of a bad marriage for me, the problem (or serendipity) is that those conditions aren't likely to be met. So it's unlikely that I will be married. I'll probably just have a gf until she demands marriage and I tell her that I won't marry her because she is not wife materia…
/r/MGTOW208/12/20 10:46 PM
2

That's good. Never start, total waste of time and money just to get fat.
/r/MGTOW207/12/20 08:08 PM
25

"Yeah money is tight right now... Anyways I was thinking of a new tattoo that says 'only God can judge me'" So many of those chicks are just straight up dumb.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/20 01:10 PM
7

Yes but at least he cooks
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/20 11:29 PM
3

Imagine a divorced dad asking his adult daughter to stay home to cook and clean. A dad who tells his daughter not to go out and instead watch movies with him and cuddle on the couch. Everyone would call that fucking creepy.
/r/MGTOW206/12/20 10:15 PM
7

My mom said something similar like she was raising me to be better than my father. I think that placed a false narrative in my head that being a good man would mean women, including my mom, would love me. I've come to realize that putting women (including my mother) ahead of my own self interests only really prepared me to be a tool, a doormat, a wallet. At 20, I would have happily taken up the burden of providing for a single mom because on a fundamental level I felt like that was what a "good …
/r/MGTOW206/12/20 07:16 PM
6

I'm not a resident but I nearly took a contract in Fairbanks alaska because the money was really good. Somethings to consider, is that the cost of goods is high. This includes internet, which doesn't sound like a big deal except when you consider that during the winter months you are pretty much trapped in your house. Another reason why I didn't take the job is because the other activity that men do there is drink, like a lot, and I didn't want to get back into that lifestyle. If you're doing 3-…
/r/MGTOW206/12/20 06:29 PM
33

Imagine using a rock to describe yourself Edit: I'm a total emerald 😊
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/20 05:03 PM
21

"Women are attracted to funny men, it is often said. This is not true. It only appears this way because women laugh at everything a very handsome man says. So this gives the very handsome men the idea that they are funny." -Norm MacDonald
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/20 09:25 PM
12

I remember asking myself, "Is this fun? Am I actually enjoying dating?" After that I cancelled my date, I went skateboarding and saw a help wanted sign for the humane society. My time is better spent doing things that actually make me happy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/20 07:41 AM
22

The only girl that I told "Hey I don't think we have chemistry" her brother texted me that he was going to beat me up. When I have standards and reject, suddenly I'm a fucking asshole. The whole system is geared toward them and they still somehow fuck that up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/20 03:19 AM
32

I'm gunna be real. I think online dating has destroyed a ton of guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/20 09:16 PM
18

Few people can tell the difference between confidence and arrogance. This is why being a little arrogant works out better.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/20 08:32 PM
16

I wrote a reply to that deleted comment and didn't want to waste it It's hard to shake the mentality that you want to provide and protect. It's hardwired. My work place is sponsoring a family for the holiday season. I was ready to write a check for $100 when I saw the kids photos but I can only give cash so I would wait till I got to an atm. Out of morbid curiosity, I found the mom on Facebook and looked through her profile. 1) Her husband is in prison. 2) She posts long rants cursing out other …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/20 08:25 PM
15

She'll also tell the kids that their father is an asshole while receiving alimony checks. If the kid is a boy he will grow up being a white knight that believes all women, if the kid is a girl she will believe men are terrible and be a raging cunt to every man she dates.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/20 07:54 PM
6

Yeah this is why I never ventured into hard drugs. I fucking loved booze and I had to get over that. If I did harder stuff I'd be dead for sure lol There's few days that are as great as shotgunning a beer, there's still good days but they aren't that great.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/20 07:50 PM
56

All those dates must be exhausting. I can't empathize with her. I just can't. It's like someone complaining about a buffet when I was starving for years. I understand women have their own unique problems but what she is describing makes me think she should be alone. I'm not saying that out of malice but to just be pragmatic. Honestly. It's evident that she either will not or is incapable of connection so why waste men's time? The worst part is that there's men lining up to 'give it a shot' and I…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/20 07:47 PM
5

That guy looks like he describes himself as an intellectual but works at GameStop.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/20 01:25 PM
0

It's hard for me to wrap my mind around people who are married but also have no friends. Like what does that really say about them? What does that say about their spouse? I would hate to be the center of attention for someone like that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/20 01:21 PM
40

We definitely celebrate mental disorders now like it's a badge of courage. When it should be avoided. For all these woke people I recommend they attend an Al-Anon meeting. Listening to people's lives being destroyed because their family member has a drinking problem gives a sobering perspective. You will probably never fix that person's mental illness, so you should decide right then and there if it's still worth it to stay in. After dating a depressed chick who had a non-existent libido I can h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/20 08:57 PM
17

Authority by consensus fallacy coupled with fear of missing out. If everyone I know is doing it, maybe I should too!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/20 08:54 PM
5

I actually prefer chubby girls, always have, always will. But there's a huge difference between a sweet bubbly girl that's 20-30 pounds overweight and a girl that is 100+ pounds overweight. It's depressing that so many girls give up because they think not being obese is unattainable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/20 01:33 PM
23

Don't save her, she don't want to be saved - J. Cole
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/11/20 09:37 PM
13

It might work for the white knight retard who loathes his own gender.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/11/20 08:09 PM
8

Keyword there is prefer. I'm 5'7" and have no problem dating a girl my height or taller. My preference isn't a requirement. I'm more likely to be rejected by a taller girl than for me to reject her. I'm sure that there are men who reject taller women but I'm sure it's less likely because men place less importance on height, that's the distinction.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/11/20 03:14 AM
15

I could see that. I personally wouldn't want a prostitute now but dating at 23 was incredibly difficult and lonely (I'm an average guy, a little on the short side). I could see my younger self buying a prostitute just to feel like a person again, at that point it wouldn't really be about sex but just touching. Idk how many times I considered suicide because I just couldn't compete in the dating game and the rejection and loneliness and the constant talk about confidence was soul crushing. I don'…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/20 07:47 PM
7

That sounds like a fair price. Has that impacted the dating market?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/20 07:34 PM
2

They tell young men to bugger off? Are they expensive?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/20 07:27 PM
22

It's pretty crazy seeing the percentage of single men between 18-29 compared to single women at the same age. There's a ton of guys in their 20's with so poor prospects in work and love that I don't blame them for being frustrated. Brothels would be a release valve for these men and it would actually encourage them to work and give them more confidence. I think feminists will go full retard on brothels and see it as women making money or whatever.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/20 07:02 PM
40

Every woman I've ever dated has been 1) Shorter than me 2) Less physically fit 3) Less educated than me 4) lower income Four metrics that are vastly more important to women than men. I would also say I was funnier but there's no real measure to prove that. I've come to realize that men aren't better than women but within the context of dating, we better be.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/20 06:50 PM
4

This why being a man is a blessing and a curse. You must take full responsibility for your life but also the realization of that autonomy (and the discipline to wield it) leads to actualization. Women are more than capable of doing this as well but don't really need to, so they don't. Their game is easier, but less fun.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/20 08:44 AM
5

Oh yeah that's the best part. Regardless what you do, they're going to be upset. I tried being the decisive guy. I tried being the agreeable guy. I tried being the indifferent guy. All the same result. It pretty shitty whenever one of those ladies becomes the manager and the power dynamic totally shift and the other ladies become shitty to her. It's like women are their own worst enemies.
/r/MGTOW222/11/20 11:02 AM
2

One thing I've seen too with women in low-mid menial jobs is how extremely democratic they are. It sounds good to have everyone's voice heard. But you don't need everyone's opinion on every decision. I remember being asked what I thought about the break room layout, specifically where the tables were positioned. My coworker was trying to reach a consensus on opinions. And I honestly didn't care. There were so many trivial things like this that would have been better if the manager just said "no …
/r/MGTOW222/11/20 10:22 AM
3

I'm 5'7" and I think my limit for a partner would be 5'9" maybe 5'10" Even still, I would never make height a requirement because there's a chance I could click with a 6'+ girl.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/20 10:05 AM
5

That's insane that I can be 4" taller than the average woman and be in good muscular shape and still weigh less than them. I've wondered if the recent obsession with height are because women just want to feel smaller in comparison. I had no trouble dating a girl who was two inches taller than me but I probably had like 20 pounds on her. Short dude + taller slim girl = best physics in bed
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/20 09:50 AM
2

Women make better employees for low-mid menial office work. They are more agreeable. They are less likely to ask for a raise. They engage in less risky-behavior outside of work. They are less likely to move. Less likely to risk a new job or career. Women are the ideal paper pushers. Unfortunately, many of these jobs will be culled by near future automation. Why pay Melissa $12/hr to check reports and plan birthday parties when you have an app that can do both in one tenth of the time for pennies…
/r/MGTOW222/11/20 09:20 AM
8

I've wanted to expand on an overarching idea I had about 3rd wave feminism, critical race theory and incels. All three groups are complaining about unfairness. Some is valid, a lot of it isn't. There's this notion that any disparity in life is the result of systemic and intentional oppression. And people want to address this problem through law or by what I would call brute force cultural reconstruction, (agree with me or you're a Nazi, cancel culture). So you have people screaming about this pr…
/r/MGTOW222/11/20 09:07 AM
12

That's exactly the thinking that sparked so much scorn from her friends. It's insulting because it reduces me to just wanting sex and her just being an object for sex. People are way more complicated than that. Sorry but if I'm going to enter a financial partnership with someone then I need them to be financially sound.
/r/MGTOW219/11/20 01:13 PM
22

It's actually perfectly fine to have rejection and pressure. What is hypocritical is that I'm not entitled to anything but apparently she is? I dated a girl for awhile who I slowly realized was drowning in debt and was terrible with money. My mother told me to marry that girl, "Don't do her wrong, don't hurt her" And I was like, "You gotta be fucking kidding me? Wtf I should ruin my life to not hurt her feelings?" And I'm the asshole for breaking up with her, for "using" her. I lost friends for …
/r/MGTOW219/11/20 07:57 AM
19

That's exactly how I feel. I don't really blame anyone, I just understand how competitive life is. It's not easy being 23, being rejected both in a romantic sense and professionally repeatedly. Even when you followed conventional advice like go to college and respect women. I take full responsibility for both now but I do feel somewhat mislead. It's hard to not feel like a loser when every avenue of success is increasingly more difficult to acquire. The message becomes loud and clear that societ…
/r/MGTOW219/11/20 06:51 AM
3

I was flipping through LinkedIn and it hit me that every third post was about "empowering women" I do want women to succeed, honestly I do. But it's getting ridiculous now, like if a woman doesn't succeed then of course it's because of inherent sexism. Sarah Silverman had a good quote, “We need to stop telling girls they can be anything they want when they grow up. Because it would have never occurred to them that they couldn’t.” Lastly, Bill Burr pointed out that the oppression olympics were hi…
/r/MGTOW212/11/20 03:38 AM
3

Holy shit is this true. There was a stat that said something like 80% of females throughout all of history have reproduced. They used molecular analysis to see maternal dna being conserved. What percentage of males have reproduced throughout all of history? About 35-40% It's probably a combination of war, risk-taking behavior, male variance hypothesis and THEN mate-selection on top of that. I know that the natural history of the human race has been a brutal existence (how many of these women wer…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/20 03:39 AM
6

I've had some ok female friends but they were never on the same level as having a bro. Quite often I would make too crass of a joke. Or she would be obnoxiously sarcastic and just plain un-funny. Or whiney. And it becomes painfully obvious that I need to censor myself around this person to maintain a good rapport.
/r/MGTOW206/11/20 07:45 PM
2

There's a difference between being a gold digger and looking for someone who isn't a moron. If you flashed your cash and suddenly girls are interested, then yes of course these women are gold diggers. But pulling a "gotcha" on a girl for saying you made bad bets only shows that you're terrible with money. Who would want to date someone who is terrible with money? That's retarded. How you deal with money is a part of you, it shows you're impulsive and have poor decision making. If some guy gave m…
/r/MGTOW206/11/20 05:21 PM
10

No that's a great way for my brother to think I'm a psycho.
/r/MGTOW205/11/20 10:19 AM
24

People don't want to be persuaded. That's a fool's errand and a great way to cause friction with the small amount of time I have with him. No, the best way is to lead by example. Have a good time, let him get his humor back and then he can make his own decisions. Shouting mgtow from the rooftops isn't going to do any good.
/r/MGTOW205/11/20 10:19 AM
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I was in a bad relationship before and my best friend didn't try to tell me to do this or that. When we hung out, we just focused on things that were fun. And in retrospect I appreciate it. I had an epiphany when one night I was leaving my friend's place and I was the happiest I had been in months. That's when I realized that the relationship I was in was a net negative. I don't think I would have come to that conclusion if my buddy was screaming "pussy-whipped!" "You should dump her bruh" So I'…
/r/MGTOW205/11/20 09:25 AM
5

Less marriage also means less divorce. Which people have started to cite as a reason to get married. Many young kids are seeing that marriage is unnecessary.
/r/MGTOW205/11/20 04:26 AM
20

We're seeing marriage for what it always was, a business contract. No doubt there was some serious consequences for a woman to leave her husband pre-WWII so the contract was amended, rightfully so. Women were not giddy about marriage if it meant that her husband could do anything and still leave her destitute. Unfortunately, now the contract exclusively benefits women and men aren't thrilled about marriage. So marriage as the legal institution is gradually dissolving because men stand to lose mo…
/r/MGTOW205/11/20 04:23 AM
4

Well I wouldn't date a girl who is drowning in debt. Well maybe a little, but I wouldn't commit to her. There's being broke and then there's like ok this person is a moron with finances. I have an average job and save about 70% of my paycheck, but I don't tell anyone that. If a girl dumps a guy because he literally couldn't feed himself then I would totally understand. What exactly are you trying to prove? That chicks don't like total losers? Well I don't like dumb broke hoes either lol
/r/MGTOW204/11/20 02:53 PM
2

You would think having another person would cut down the overall cost but it never works out that way. So much crap... https://youtu.be/UpcXsRlt3i8
/r/MGTOW201/11/20 07:24 PM
7

I agree. Before Covid I had a date planned and I remember being nervous and also halfway thinking this girl doesn't really seem excited about going out. I started thinking about having to carry the conversation and doing the whole song and dance. I started thinking about the friendships I've had and how great and effortlessly rewarding they've been. And I got dressed and this feeling of dread overcame me. Like I was going to a job interview I didn't want. She texted me 15 minutes before our date…
/r/MGTOW201/11/20 07:02 PM
2

When it comes to different countries, I like to think of them as different buildings and each floor represents a higher level of wealth. America has the tallest building with an elevator that can sporadically take people up or down, but you get to ride the elevator for as long as you like. Even the ground floor is liveable, not great but ok. Europeans have a median height building with an elevator operator. The elevator moves very slow and predictably at the operators discretion. You really only…
/r/MGTOW230/10/20 01:29 PM
1

I feel like there will always be people like my brother who will never think critically when it comes to women. Always the benefit of the doubt. Maybe when he gets burned one day he'll be able to see women as bad as men. I understand that when that day happens the red pill rage could destroy him.
/r/MGTOW230/10/20 03:08 AM
1

Yeah, my dad's actions spoke for themselves. He would get pissed off at me, but in retrospect it was always for a good reason. My dad is mostly just a chill dude. That's why something just didn't make sense to me. Also my sister has been nothing but skeptical of women (almost unreasonably so) going back years. My sister would say blunt things about my gf like "She could be lying" and I always thought that was so weird. Now I understand why. She understands our mom got away with lying for years. …
/r/MGTOW228/10/20 02:36 PM
3

Her dad (my grandfather) was a hard working good man. However he came from an era where showing affection was not something fathers do. He showed his love through his ability to support his family. I think having no affection from her father and minimal affection from her mother may have messed her up. I think about that little girl who grew up in a big house, alone, and waiting for her dad to come home. It doesn't excuse her behavior but I understand what her childhood was like and it breaks my…
/r/MGTOW226/10/20 06:05 PM
1

I think I'm ok with living in the blue pill fantasy as long as I don't marry and/or cohabitate in a state that recognizes common law marriage. I'm not playing the redpill or blue pill game. I'm being myself and pragmatic. If I get burned for not holding frame then whatever, I can't be anyone else but myself. But I won't marry, that's fucking retarded. Edit: lol getting downvoted for acknowledging that I'm a human with needs. Sorry that I can't be a stone like everyone here.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre23/10/20 06:23 AM
8

That is pretty much what people say when they are confronted with the numbers. Pick the right one! How about we don't pick, how about we form a relationship built on actual trust and not contingency plans? It's actually kind of romantic when you think of it that way. You're there for that person and they are there for you because you both want to. Not because of wealth, or religion, or social status. That person is there because of love and that's all that should motivate them to stay.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre22/10/20 01:41 PM
9

This is going to get way too personal but when I was 20, I couldn't get a date to save my life. And eventually someone told me to be valuable, to be the guy people want to be around, to be an interesting person. And for a little while I thought "No, I'm special just the way I am" and I probably had some incel-like thoughts because, why should I change? I thought being an underachieving introvert was an endearing quality, it's not, it's socially lazy. Guess what? No dates and I finally understood…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/20 06:16 AM
8

I think what probably happened is that she had tons of attention when she was younger. She never learned how to "win" someone over. She never learned how to showcase her value to someone. So she believes, she just opens her legs and a relationship will happen. That may have worked when she was 20. But now, her and the guy are actually on equal footing. So from her point of view, these fwbs weren't chasing her the way she has been accustomed to. Oh how terrible, to actually have to try to be a va…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/20 07:34 PM
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Wtf does she mean by building something? Like honestly, whenever I read this crap, I can't help but picture "building something" being a list of obligations that exclusively benefit her. Maybe that's why her fuck buddies didn't want to "build something". Has she given any indication that she is someone worth "building something" with? I've literally been on dates and I ask myself "Is this woman actually going to make my life better?" The short answer is usually: no, she will be a drain on my lif…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/20 06:58 PM
3

Same. It also makes me realize that a relationship is pretty much me maintaining the relationship and then her reacting. Racking up the sex points. I'm thinking about the next relationship just start asking her to iron my shirts or ask for dinner once a week. If I've learned anything it's that in my previous relationships, I had so low expectations for what a woman should contribute. No hell no, gimme the plain Jane cook that does my laundry and has a decent libido and I'll move mountains for th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/20 01:44 PM
2

I wouldn't be surprised if prostitution became legalized within my lifetime. It's really the only conclusion to this insanity. I say let the feminists go full retard.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/20 01:33 PM
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