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| 6 | Am I too aloof? Details in comments. | SEEKING ADVICE | Tequila_Fridaze | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Relayed a convo between me and my man earlier today and it ended up on r/thathappened. A damn shame that high value behavior is seen as a lie in today’s society. Come on dudes, you can do it! | MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERS | Tequila_Fridaze | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 04:29 AM |
| 0 | Relayed a conversation I had with my man earlier today, and it ended up on another sub. Shame that high value behavior is thought to be a lie in today’s society. Come on, dudes, you can do it! | MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERS | Tequila_Fridaze | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 04:48 AM |
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| 135 | Reminder: FDS is about a specific way to date. It's not for everybody. Totally cool if this is not your cup of tea, just move on. We are not going to change our beliefs to accommodate misogyny.Every single time I post here, I get DMd by some angry scrote who is snooping around. Listen, dudes, I don’t care about your low value bullshit!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 07:39 PM |
| 5 | Searches for International Men's Day Peak on International Women's Day EVERY. YEARI like you, too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 01:30 AM |
| 75 | Searches for International Men's Day Peak on International Women's Day EVERY. YEARTrue conversion I had yesterday: Me: Today is International Women’s Day! Him: Oh yeah? Is there an International Men’s Day? Me: Yes, it’s November 19th... not like it’s well deserved. Women have to worry about being followed, raped or murdered when we do something as simple as go out for a walk, or use a public restroom. We work just as hard as men and statistically earn 23% less. We’re just as smart as men (if not smarter), and can do anything men can do, AND we do it in heels! 👠 Him: Happy Int… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 07:16 PM |
| 15 | I was lurking on a subreddit and found this "HVM" lmaoSigh... you can’t turn a fuckboi into a husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 04:12 AM |
| 110 | NEVER date a male who used prostitutes at ANY pointAfter two months of dating, a man once told me that he paid a dancer at his friend’s Bachelor party so he could have his way with her. He also said, “she wasn’t too happy with that but took the money and did the deed.” I DUMPED him quickly after that news. Disgusting! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 02:44 PM |
| 16 | FDS made it to Black People Twitter... Responses salty as usual!Where does the original post say, “no man can make a woman cum”? This is just another LVM making excuses for the fact that he can’t. I know the HVM are confident they can take care of their woman! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 12:25 AM |
| 10 | This man just sent me a message in OLD. If you notice in his profile screenshot he says he's retired, but yet looking for a woman who doesn't mind helping HIM with the lawn, gardening and painting... Along with being every woman herself. WTF? I'm about to block 😂This was my first thought, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 03:29 PM |
| 11 | What could I be doing wrong?Ha! I love “flirting for sport”. Can we advocate to make this an Olympic event? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 01:40 PM |
| 9 | Do I tell the guy that I like that I’m on a date?Telling him you’re dating other people won’t make things better. Date other people for yourself, not him. If he’s not stepping up, just move on. Spend your time and energy on yourself - not some dude, who isn’t giving you the attention you deserve, jealous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 01:29 PM |
| 3 | I’ve been at home all day lately and I don’t have any friends around as I’ve just moved to a new city. I was thinking of going to a bar down the street. I’ve never been to one alone, and I’m an introvert. Would you guys have any advice about some dos and don’ts of going to a bar alone?To add to this- I bring a notebook when I go out to the bar. I’ll doodle, write out a grocery list, or just write what I’m feeling at the moment. I don’t usually even write full sentences, as I still want to look approachable. Write a bit, put the pen down and look up a bit. Having this to do definitely lessens the anxiety of being alone at the bar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 04:45 AM |
| 30 | Thoughts on prenup?My ex husband was entitled to, and took a huge chunk of my 401k. I will never get married again without a prenup. Edit- ...and oh yeah, I paid HIM spousal support during our separation (even though I had full custody of our child). Figure that one out?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 04:21 AM |
| 4 | LVM like this are so exhausting. I don’t care if you have a ‘high sex drive’, if you don’t respect my boundaries then you can go.I can’t even | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 03:51 AM |
| 19 | LVM happy he can finally be a total piece of shit in peace with his brand new “downgrade” PickMeishaI cant | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 06:09 AM |
| 7 | Don’t be like me and fall for the bait but anger, frustration and confusion and my broken heart got the better of me. This guy left me bc he didn’t want to date anyone and wanted time to his kids. FF 2 months and he tries to match me and I respond like a dumbo 😭told him to go F himself tho🤷🏽♀️“Unless you want me to cut myself and send you the video”... did I read that right? What in the actual FUCK!?? Sick af. Thank god he showed his ass early on, and you blocked. WTF!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 06:07 AM |
| 2 | We're not doing this anymore. #kickhimout2020No worries. Welcome to this sub full of strong, smart women and amazing mods. It seriously helps me. I hope you get a lot out of it, too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 01:43 AM |
| 54 | Male wanted to try “nonmonogamy” with his girlfriend then flips out at her when she shows interest in another guy. They’re always mad when “nonmonogamy” isn’t exclusively in their favor. 🙄I knew this was going to end up here! What did he think was going to happen? I’m so annoyed at the comments that say she was in the wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 01:27 AM |
| 11 | Where is the lie? 🤔Damnit! I came here to say this! Lol “Woooooooooooooooooooooooooooow” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 06:32 PM |
| 6 | We're not doing this anymore. #kickhimout2020Low Value Man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 01:02 PM |
| 12 | Xmas present protocolWhen my last relationship was still new(ish), he was obsessed with this specific brand of pita chips. For Christmas, I got him 10 bags. He loved it. Maybe you can think of something inexpensive and thoughtful like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 01:11 PM |
| 38 | OLD profile red flags #1: "No Drama"I agree. I always swipe left on dudes that say, “No drama.” I strongly believe that a man brings on “drama” from women because he isn’t treating her the way she deserves, and she decides to speak up about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 11:21 PM |
| 12 | Why do men constantly talk about their exes?Yep, I’ve found this is very common. I shut it down quickly. Such a turnoff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 01:44 PM |
| 5 | It would be more impressive if he weren’t such a looker, but I’m honing my FDS craft.u/jewdy09, I’d like to know if there was a reply, too! Keep us updated. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 03:09 PM |
| 21 | He sent me a picture of his ex?That was seriously over the top. I would have blocked him, too. Generally, I find that a lot of guys want to bring up their ex’s on first dates. I mitigate the situation by smiling and politely and maybe even flirtatiously say, “Hey, I’m here to get to know you, not your ex.” I’ve never had a bad reaction to that. I don’t know when talking about ex’s so soon became the norm. I think it’s tacky. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Am I too aloof? Details in comments.The your/you’re thing gets me too. Ha! Right, he should be man enough to pursue, not give up. I’ve been almost tempted to text him back and tell him that I was actually looking forward to this weekend, but I don’t think it’s worth it. Low value, for sure. Major turn-off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 12:59 PM |
| 5 | Am I too aloof? Details in comments.Thank you. “You’re right, Oh well” is kinda how I feel about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 01:32 AM |
| 11 | Am I too aloof? Details in comments.I think I agree. I’ve never gotten mad if someone doesn’t text back right away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 01:31 AM |
| 5 | Am I too aloof? Details in comments.Yes, we talked about getting together this coming weekend. Maybe he met someone else. I honestly doubt it, but who knows? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 01:30 AM |
| 11 | i can't believe that i put up with this...Would have been funny if you just wrote back, “*you’re”. What an entitled prick. Block and move on. You deserve way better than this shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 01:25 AM |
| 9 | Am I too aloof? Details in comments.Hi Ladies! I matched with a guy OLD 2 weeks ago. I was definitely interested in meeting him, but I have had a lot going on the last few weeks. We have been texting each other intermittently, and have sent a few snaps. Friday night, he was texting me about some stress at work. I texted him back some sweet encouraging words. He responded Saturday afternoon thanking me for caring. Saturday, I was busy with finishing last minute details for my sister’s bridal shower. Sunday was the shower. Frankly, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 01:06 AM |
| 154 | The only way to respond to unsolicited dick pics!!Did he manscape his area and leave the rest of his body hairy af? Nasty!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Dating a great high-value guy but may be too late in establishing my standards- do I scrap?And if he doesn’t act right naturally, then cut him! Hopefully, he’s a good one who does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 01:54 AM |
| 29 | Dating a great high-value guy but may be too late in establishing my standards- do I scrap?I don’t think you should scrap it. I think you should work it into conversation. Say, “I was feeling impulsive and bought my ticket to Cancun. I’ve since realized that’s not something I can really do.” If he’s a high effort dude, he’ll take over the conversation and all will be ok. Even if he decides that he can’t afford trips often, but still treats you like a queen locally, you’re all good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 12:34 AM |
| 25 | Genuine Emotional and Physical ConnectionI think genuine connection comes with time. A lot of the content on this sub is to help remind us ladies that we need to differentiate that initial physical connection from a genuine one that may be built later. We need to protect our hearts from low value, low effort men. We may be attracted physically to someone right away, but if we give them our hearts and our bodies just to find out they aren’t willing to invest their time and resources in us, they will just string us on and ultimately leav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 10:29 PM |
| 3 | Come Join Us on Our Brand New r/FDSSuperFans Page!! Featuring A Collection of Adoring Messages From Our BIGGEST Fans From The Manosphere!!Thank you for creating this alternative sub. Let’s get that dumb bullshit these idiots are posting off of here and keep using this platform to lift each other’s up! Mods, kudos to you. I’m so sorry you’re being DMd such horrible things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 10:41 PM |
| 88 | Male Trolls Are Pretending to Be BatShit Crazy Women Who (Poorly) Implemented FDS Advice and FailedYou can tell this is a troll. What an unimaginative, butt hurt, idiot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 03:30 PM |
| 42 | 3 Ways to Know FOR SURE That He Doesn't Want YouThis dude is explaining my life for the past THREE YEARS! I haven’t talked to low effort guy in a few days thanks to this sub. Every time I want to text him, I come here for a little empowerment instead. I’m trying to stay strong so a few days will ultimately turn into bye boy, forever. I (we all) deserve better. You ladies are amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 03:14 AM |
| 9 | What are your sex tips?Don’t be afraid to vocalize what you like and don’t like. Most guys appreciate when you give a little direction when needed. Also, be sure to tell them when something feels good, too! Enjoy and use a condom! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 09:39 PM |
| 3 | “I’m not like other girls”Thank you for your kind words and advice. I’m really dreading the dating app, but I’m going to do it. I’ll definitely post about how it’s going. Ladies on this sub are so supportive and I’m going to need all the support I can get. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/19 03:34 AM |
| 4 | “I’m not like other girls”You’re very right. I do get angry and he just says I’m tripping for no reason. He honestly believes there is nothing wrong with his low effort. I deserve better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/19 03:29 AM |
| 6 | “I’m not like other girls”Thank you. I know I need to let him go. It’s definitely not going to work between us. I dread getting back on dating sites. But, it may be a necessary evil. I work from home, all my friends are married and I’m a full time single mom. It’s very difficult for me to get out and meet people. I’m currently going to therapy, working on self-care. Wish me luck. I just need to toughen up and follow through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 08:12 PM |
| 14 | “I’m not like other girls”You are so right. I know I allow this behavior to continue. It’s so hard to let go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 02:17 PM |
| 15 | “I’m not like other girls”Yes, my fwb. I say (hardly any) bc I feel like I’m not getting much of anything I need from him lately. He says he wants a relationship, but he doesn’t want it to be with me because he needs me to be more chill. It’s a word he uses on almost a daily basis. A good example of what he means is he that I shouldn’t need him to bring me soup and sit with me when I’m not feeling well bc it’s not convenient for him. He only carves out time for me when it’s convenient for him, but I’ll jump through hoops… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 02:12 PM |
| 25 | “I’m not like other girls”Just sent this list to my fw(not very many)b of the last 3 years. He’s always telling me he doesn’t want a relationship with me bc I need to be more chill. Needless to say, all hell broke loose. (https://imgur.com/a/UY9SAo8) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 01:30 PM |
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