Where is the lie? 🤔

LandisRiv · 2019-12-13T05:13:02+00:00

Honestly seems like it. My friend's husband got so mad at her when she figured out he was cheating. First he shouted at her and denied it a lot, then when she had proof he tried to call her paranoid, then when she filed for divorce, he was all tears and big apology gestures. She still kicked him out.

jay_the_human · 2019-12-13T07:13:06+00:00

Oof, if only I could go back and show this to 2015 me I wouldn't have wasted 2 years of my life lol

totallylikeothergals · 2019-12-13T15:26:21+00:00

I remember this from my times as a pickmeisha, when I was always posting in my social media pictures of quotes about being hurt, all male are the same etc. after LVM dumping me. And those LVM where all responding to that in messages like: "You are posting this because of me, right? I am not like other guys blabla I just didn't catch more feelings for you." or "You know I have a hard time currently, I just can't commit right now but that has nothing to do with you. Please stop accusing me of hurting you, this hurts me and my mental health state is so bad currently, something like this makes it even worse." blablabla, always the same sh*t. And guess what? Most of them where actually like two months later in a relationship with another woman.

Yup. They feel accused if they are confronted directly or indirectly. They don't want to commit. With you. But it has NOTHING to do with you. You are not low value, they are. But don't act like you are low value if you r gold, cause that will make you a pickmeisha. And guys like that will always choose a pickmeisha, with some of them they actually will bond but do they stay faithful or are they going to be caring partners to them? No.

Also a advice if you feel like you're surrounded of LVM: Stop posting depressive quotes on social media, this will make it more likely to attract LVM because they notice your lack of selflove. If you are depressive or in a bad mental health state, you really don't need more toxic people around you and sadly if you open up to people you don't know well personally, they will be more likely to abuse your mental health.

alluringjustice · 2019-12-13T11:25:32+00:00

When you call a fuckboy out on his fuckboy behaviour and he gives you the longest “wooooooooooooooow” you’ve ever heard. Boy bye 👋🏼

TheOGJammies · 2019-12-13T06:04:28+00:00

I’m crying at the accuracy 🤣🤣

Scotsburd · 2019-12-13T13:48:26+00:00

They truly believe the best form of defence is attack. Might have worked in the Napoleonic War, but nowadays, notsomuch.

babyturtle1995 · 2019-12-13T20:28:58+00:00

I told my ex I knew he was cheating on me and had another girlfriend and he started sobbing and then PRETENDED TO FAINT. I wish I was joking.

smiles-and-knives · 2019-12-13T17:24:20+00:00

So true! If they didn’t do it, they can just calmly show your that.

Title	Where is the lie? 🤔
Author	NecessaryCook
Upvotes	476
Comments	29
Date	December 13, 2019 4:23 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/e9z1rx/where_is_the_lie/
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