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| 2 | What are some signs that a woman is low SMV?Clean criminal record is a sign of a LVW?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Men (I think) get slightly jealous when an attractive woman is taken by someone else. Do women get jealous when rich men are taken by women?Not often thankfully | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 12:21 PM |
| 5 | Aren’t “alpha widows” just women who are in love/pair bonded really hard?A high n count does not mean good in bed. If he had an LTR before you it’s a way better sign. But most men aren’t good in bed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 02:14 AM |
| 5 | Aren’t “alpha widows” just women who are in love/pair bonded really hard?I don’t know why you think women don’t know if the sex is good if they have nothing to compare it to? When my first boyfriend and I started having sex, I never thought I was having good sex. Sure I briefly entertained the thought - ‘maybe it’s not supposed to feel that good?’ Which I can see how that would be good for religious women who don’t really care about sexual pleasure as sex is just a duty, child making thing. But I had masturbated and knew what an orgasm is and knew that this guy wasn’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 01:44 AM |
| 2 | What are some harsh truths/redpills about men?Society has a very ‘boys will be boys’ attitude. That’s why most of the fuck ups men do get pinned back on women. Men aren’t really held accountable until they really fuck yo badly in which case we start taking them seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Men (I think) get slightly jealous when an attractive woman is taken by someone else. Do women get jealous when rich men are taken by women?I’ve been a lil jealous of every girl Harry Styles has dated in the last decade so maybe that’s more on par | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 04:20 PM |
| 1 | What are some harsh truths/redpills about men?I don’t think men are held to a higher standard than women. It just manifests differently. I'm sure you'd enjoy being this disposable if you got cancer If I’ve only got my male partner there with me with the stats pointing to him leaving me - yeah I know I’ll be disposable. In society - also disposable since I won’t be able to contribute economically. If I’ve got my mum, siblings, girl friends and kids there I will never be disposable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 04:13 PM |
| 5 | What are some harsh truths/redpills about men?Why laugh? A man had built his life with this woman, she’s been there through thick and thin with him, she’s given birth and raised his kids, she’s added to the household income, their friendship group is merged and most of his friends are married and he will lose that if he leaves her since women tend to hold the social part together, the kids will probably go with the mum, she’s been managing and cooking and cleaning for him, she’s been his primary - if not only - emotional outlet because he c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 04:00 PM |
| 5 | What are some harsh truths/redpills about men?You don’t think men stick around for the comfort and security of having their supportive wife there? And/or fear of losing their kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 03:48 PM |
| 6 | Men (I think) get slightly jealous when an attractive woman is taken by someone else. Do women get jealous when rich men are taken by women?I get jealous of the woman I dreamt my boyfriend cheated on me with. The audacity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 03:45 PM |
| 7 | What are some harsh truths/redpills about men?The dude above just said men do this? And that women were incapable of doing it? Who’s projecting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 03:41 PM |
| 3 | What are some harsh truths/redpills about men?How about all the things that women do that have nothing to do with men (which makes up majority of our lives). Working and hobbies and all those things that men say they don’t care about and yet women are out here doing them. Being feminists and following style/makeup trends that men keep screaming are unattractive. Investing heavily in their friendships with women. Also basically after menopause women aren’t controlled by their biology at all, whereas men never never get that. It’s like post-n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 03:40 PM |
| 8 | What are some harsh truths/redpills about men?Do they have an XY chromosome? Yes? They’re men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 03:17 PM |
| 4 | What are some harsh truths/redpills about men?How are women complete slaves to their biology? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 03:13 PM |
| 9 | What are some harsh truths/redpills about men?I love how you wrote a paragraph about men lying about their values to get in girls pants and how they say they want hot sex but respect you less for it and then followed it with the sentence ‘men are more honest about what they are into’ and still tried to pin the blame on women lying to other women lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 03:04 PM |
| 13 | What are some harsh truths/redpills about men?Ah the lies men tell themselves to feel better about their shitty nature | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 03:01 PM |
| 8 | What are some harsh truths/redpills about men?Most of what men do has to do with sex women are more slaves to their biology than are men You don’t think sex being your main motivator in life makes you more of a slave to your biology? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Can a well maintained 30+years old giga-Stacy with no baggage get a HVM to marry her, according to you?Very true. HVM/W tend to spend their 20s developing their career, chasing their own goals and becoming financially stable. And 2 tertiary educated 30-something year olds marrying brings the divorce rate down to ~20% so there really is no con to waiting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/20 07:14 AM |
| 8 | Can a well maintained 30+years old giga-Stacy with no baggage get a HVM to marry her, according to you?I mean the average age for first time marriage is 29 for women in most developed countries so 30 isn’t too far off that mark. And they’re marrying men usually 2-3 years older than them. Statistically it’s very possible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/20 01:12 AM |
| 1 | To those believe that something should be "done" about whatever it is you've observed (e.g. sexlessness). What do you think should be done?Sir, I say this with all due respect: get your head out of your deluded ass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/20 12:55 PM |
| 2 | To those believe that something should be "done" about whatever it is you've observed (e.g. sexlessness). What do you think should be done?Are you telling me that gender norms is preventing men from learning their kid’s birthdays? Well damn the patriarchy! Nice of you to switch it up and put the blame shamelessly back on women, with a completely illogical argument. I don’t know how much weight your arguments hold when you bring up words (‘palimony’) you don’t understand just because they kinda sound like they’ll support your claim that men are oppressed here. And then you tell me I just wanna complain about it. Dude, come on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/20 12:17 AM |
| 2 | The only “looks” that truly matter to women are muscles.Yeah I know what I like and I don’t waste my time pursuing something else. I’ve got a lovely man who I’m attracted to and who is attracted to me. We both treat each other with respect and adore our personalities and little quirks but we were both obviously first and foremost attracted to one another purely because of each other’s physical appearance and there’s nothing wrong with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 05:07 PM |
| 1 | The only “looks” that truly matter to women are muscles.I’m sorry for talking about men’s appearance on a post about men’s appearance? Did you want me to talk about how only personality matters so that the red/black pillers can pound on me about virtue signalling and this is why my life is shit it’s because women are liars why can’t they ever admit that they’re shallow and are attracted to looks aaaaaaaaaaaaaa’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 04:58 PM |
| 2 | The only “looks” that truly matter to women are muscles.The mentality of some is also unappealing, but honestly I just like my boys thin. It fits my lifestyle aesthetic better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 04:52 PM |
| 6 | To those believe that something should be "done" about whatever it is you've observed (e.g. sexlessness). What do you think should be done?That's not what palimony means palimony/ˈpalɪməni/nounINFORMAL•NORTH AMERICAN compensation made by one member of an unmarried couple to the other after separation. Hey I'm all for mothers and fathers spending an equal amount of time raising their kids and providing for their kids. I think it's beneficial to the kids to have both parents equally present in their lives, both doing household chores and both working. Both getting mandatory and equal paternal/maternal leave. When we achieve this equi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 03:07 PM |
| 0 | To those believe that something should be "done" about whatever it is you've observed (e.g. sexlessness). What do you think should be done?Again, fight the system. Be an active voice on this issue. Many laws have been changed and with the power of activism from social justice warriors and with the internet and the support of the manosphere you'll be able to get a real social outcry about the injustice of it all in no time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 02:44 PM |
| 3 | To those believe that something should be "done" about whatever it is you've observed (e.g. sexlessness). What do you think should be done?How hard is it to get a saliva sample from your baby? Those idiots are drooling constantly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 02:33 PM |
| 2 | To those believe that something should be "done" about whatever it is you've observed (e.g. sexlessness). What do you think should be done?Do it yourself so you know for sure and then fight the system! If everyone gave up this quick no laws would ever get changed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 02:22 PM |
| 6 | To those believe that something should be "done" about whatever it is you've observed (e.g. sexlessness). What do you think should be done?Yeah the odd occasion of this happening is really heartbreaking and now with our advanced technology easier to fix than ever. DNA testing is like $80 online! Take advantage of modern technology while waiting for the law to catch up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 02:15 PM |
| 5 | The only “looks” that truly matter to women are muscles.Gimme a pretty man who is taller than me and has a full head of hair and I don’t care if his rib cage is literally popping out of his body from how skinny he is. An obese man is obviously gross but a dad bod with all of the above is still miles ahead of a dude who is lacking those traits but has muscles. I’ve got more muscle than my boyfriend (I’m not saying I’m stronger but I am way fitter. The dude has never entered a gym in his life and I’ve been slaving away for 7 years). But he’s a 6’3 lank… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 02:09 PM |
| 5 | To those believe that something should be "done" about whatever it is you've observed (e.g. sexlessness). What do you think should be done?This is the first time I’m hearing about palimony and google barely has any stats on it but sure. In the rare case that palimony is given, let’s get rid of it. Women shouldn’t be encouraged to accept being men’s ‘forever girlfriends’ so maybe this’ll help. Child custody cases only get decided by family law court in 9% of cases, so once again let’s see what we can do for those 9%. Child support is sitting on an average of $311 per month per child... I really don’t see how we can push it lower tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 01:49 PM |
| 3 | To those believe that something should be "done" about whatever it is you've observed (e.g. sexlessness). What do you think should be done?Since you’re linking these six books I presume you’ve read them. Can you direct me to where they talk about your claims? Or maybe link some more condensed articles because what I’m finding doesn’t really agree with you. I’m curious about what these books have to say but I’m already in the midst of writing a thesis I’m actually getting paid for, I don’t have time to read through six entire books to be able to agree or disagree with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 01:46 PM |
| 13 | To those believe that something should be "done" about whatever it is you've observed (e.g. sexlessness). What do you think should be done?You mean when women still did all the childcare but had 0 rights over their kids? And couldn’t divorce? Not own property? Nor earn their own money? And their husbands could divorce them, leave them homeless and take full ownership of the kids she raised? Damn those slimy feminists, wanting human rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 01:11 PM |
| 8 | To those believe that something should be "done" about whatever it is you've observed (e.g. sexlessness). What do you think should be done?The first comment was a comical, exaggerated solution to the male sexlessness dilemma. Yours was a weird revenge fantasy about murdering women which would add to male sexlessness. Think about all those poor men going sexless if we start killing all the sluts who are just doing their best to help men :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 12:56 PM |
| 6 | To those believe that something should be "done" about whatever it is you've observed (e.g. sexlessness). What do you think should be done?There’s always someone that takes the joke too far.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 12:48 PM |
| 10 | To those believe that something should be "done" about whatever it is you've observed (e.g. sexlessness). What do you think should be done?Eliminate alimony in most cases Alimony has been eliminated in most cases Criminalize adultery I’m all for some kind of a fine or penalty for cheating on a spouse, it would make both men and women think twice before breaking their most basic marriage vow Mandatory dna test at birth Seems fair, we’d stop hearing the ‘men don’t commit to women with previous sex partners because they’re worried about paternity’ argument as everyone will be certain they’re raising their own kid. All in all, decent l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 12:32 PM |
| 5 | To those believe that something should be "done" about whatever it is you've observed (e.g. sexlessness). What do you think should be done?Are you suggesting men should play a bigger role in parenting and take on more early education roles? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/20 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Who are women settling down with?I am attracted to men and women and she was my best example, I understand the confusion though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/20 04:36 AM |
| 3 | Who are women settling down with?Yeah hence why I was talking about female attraction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/20 04:23 AM |
| 7 | Who are women settling down with?I had a professor in my first year of college and she had a really, really bad nose and a below average face in general. But her entire style, demeanour, intelligence, laugh made her so ridiculously enchanting to watch. If I had just seen a picture of her I’d say she was like a 4/10. But it’s been like 6 years and I still say she is one of the most attractive women I have ever met, even though she is not good looking. This is why tinder is such a shit show and why guys get pissed about it. I’ve … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/20 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Are women able to improve themselves the way men can?Yes to all of that! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/20 03:08 PM |
| 7 | Are women able to improve themselves the way men can?If I were to ask any of my female friends about their self improvement goals right now I would get a 3 paged essay from each of them. Most women I know are constantly in a battle with themselves to improve. We make vision boards and bullet journals and monthly habit trackers. What they focus on completely varies and a lot of the time it has nothing to do with what will make them more attractive to men. If it does end up attracting a man then great! But it’s not the end goal. Fitness/weight goals… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/20 01:52 PM |
| 1 | If women are so attracted to dominance and fear-inducing behavior, why do they seem to hate men so much because of it?Yes I am so mad, my days of dating alpha 5’10 lanky med students are over and I have to settle for my beta 6’3 fit man with a job, when will this pain end | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 08:14 PM |
| 2 | If women are so attracted to dominance and fear-inducing behavior, why do they seem to hate men so much because of it?Your comments get more deluded by the day dude, I have no idea how you came to the conclusion that I gave my best to him, cant lust over anyone, am alpha widowed lmao gave me a good laugh. Let’s see I didn’t know he was a violent man and ended things when he finally showed his true colours I didn’t suffer any consequences lmao he punched his own wall and got in fights with other men Yeah the guy I dated for 2 months at the age of 20 got the best of me - dating briefly during summer break after ~… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 07:41 PM |
| 5 | Would you date yourself in your early 20s if you were the opposite gender?I don’t even care about swapping my gender, if I could I’d clone, marry and fuck myself in a heartbeat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 03:22 PM |
| 7 | If women are so attracted to dominance and fear-inducing behavior, why do they seem to hate men so much because of it?Yeah he wasn’t like that before we started dating... and we dated a full 2 months since his true colours came out pretty quick once we were exclusive and he got comfortable. I feel like I’m lying even calling him my ex boyfriend, we had sex like a total of 3 times because his attitude was so off putting. Trust me - it’s not hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 03:19 PM |
| 10 | If women are so attracted to dominance and fear-inducing behavior, why do they seem to hate men so much because of it?Violent men turn me off. My man using his body to do something useful and thereby demonstrating his strength though - that’s sexy as hell. I had an aggressive boyfriend, constantly getting in fights, punching walls, acting all macho... it’s disgusting and shows such a low level of self control. I don’t want to date a baboon. Dating my current bf we went on a camping trip a few months ago and he was chopping wood, carrying me in his arms while we were hiking, we heard something rustling outside o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Which gender complains/whines more about the opposite gender's preferences?That’s because a lot of he things I, as a woman, would consider misogyny - you wouldn’t because you can relate to that line of thought and don’t label it as misogyny. The same way that I could hear something that you’d think is misandry but to me it would just be no big deal because I’ve thought something similar. Subtle misogyny goes over most men’s head as does subtle misandry over women’s so we all seem to think there is more of the other group | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Which gender complains/whines more about the opposite gender's preferences?TRP is also against porn. I think it’s like the one thing TRP and FDS has in common - porn is bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 05:57 AM |
| 1 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanI mean, she is a wealthy trophy wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/20 01:44 PM |
| 1 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanThanks for the FDS advice, you're right. If everyone followed that we'd be in a way better place as a society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/20 01:43 PM |
| 1 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanShe tells them she is a dancer at the start and afterwards tells them what she meant by 'dancer'. Not all of her relationships worked out (obviously) so maybe these guys did have a problem with it, it just didn't arise immediately. Her fiance finds her exciting - his word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/20 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4W - Don't you get it?there is not a chance in hell to them that a younger girl would date a guy for anything but his money A young girl will date a young guy for a multitude of reasons. A young girl will date an old guy primarily for money (with a few outliers out there - usually stemming from some next level daddy issues) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/20 09:38 AM |
| 2 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanI wanna have kids and having kids with someone who has raped a kid wouldn’t be a great idea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 05:34 PM |
| 9 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanBut someone could have an STI and an n count of 1. Someone could be clean and have an n count of 50. You need to just both get checked before a relationship so you can be sure the person is clean. Trying to avoid STIs by going off n count instead of getting a medical test just seems counterintuitive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 04:52 PM |
| 5 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanThe idea that some women aren't high n count needs to die. You mean... the truth needs to die? I thought y’all were all about the truth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 04:48 PM |
| 11 | It's not that Men get angry that women don't want them, they get angry that women don't respect themDamn I used to be so, so nice when rejecting men. And they’d take that as a good sign and keep pushing and pushing. I’ve had a few follow me onto buses/trains. Or they’d waste my entire lunch break even though I’ve told them I’m not interested politely. They’ll try to push getting my number/social media to catch up “as friends” when I reject them for a date. It gets quite scary at times. Now I’ve become a bitch. And I always feel bad about it and my overthinking dumbass will literally lay in bed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 04:46 PM |
| 3 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanYes I'm sorry that wasn't very PC of me. Not all strippers are sluts. My friend in the example is though. A huge one. It's impressive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 04:09 PM |
| 7 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanwearing facemasks in non-asian countries attracted/attracts abuse. Coronavirus changed that real quick, maybe we just need a worldwide pandemic of genital herpes for people to start taking their sexual health seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 03:55 PM |
| 2 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanthe more chaste she is, the more tempting it is to get her away from him. The stronger the power fantasy is. That's why his friends will try to 'shit test' him/neg him in her presence while talking themselves up. This is what I meant about these chaste looking women earning men a few points of respect from other men in the male social matrix. The power fantasy is stronger and there's a level of respect given to the guy who was able to pull it off. And yeah, you're right, the 'slutty' looking gir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 03:49 PM |
| 4 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanI'm all for people making in informed decision about who they want to commit to. I just think there are some things that should be told unprompted (i.e. criminal convictions) and other things that should be left up to the other person to inquire about (i.e. sexual past). I'm all for complete honesty when asked about these things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 03:15 PM |
| 5 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanBut cheating stats all point to either men being the more likely perpetrator or close to a 50:50 ratio in certain age groups. Women have more options to cheat but men men are more likely to throw it away for some strange. No one wants to be cheated on and unfortunately there is no certain way to guarantee that won't happen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 03:11 PM |
| 7 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanOk yes I'd definitely like to know if my partner raped a child. This feels like quite a poor comparison. Him raping a child could fuck up my life quite drastically. My n count doesn't have any kinda affect on his life. We traded STI results, discussed birth control, spoke about opinions around abortion. All the big potentially life changing things were on the table. I'm not about to randomly open up a conversation giving my boyfriend a list of my past sex partners, that's kinda on him to ask. Yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 03:05 PM |
| 7 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanA new boyfriend every 2 years is casual dating? Damn +1 on her n count every 2 years does add up quickly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 02:59 PM |
| 25 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanYeah some of y'all really went from black to white and didn't even stop to consider any of the shades of grey in between. I don't know whether blue pill naivety or red pill paranoia is better. Someone should make an actual purple pill before everyone starts turning to the black pill for real #itsover | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 02:57 PM |
| 2 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanWhat's a casual dater for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 02:52 PM |
| 6 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanIf you live in a bigger city all you gotta do is walk around for 10 mins and you would've walked past at least 5 of them. Especially during work hours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 02:52 PM |
| 6 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanI think we slut shame women who LOOK like sluts. Hence why a guy wouldn't wanna date a girl who looks the part, because of the social stigma/slut shame attached to it. You can't shame a slut if she doesn't look like one. If a tree falls in a forest and no one is around to hear it..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 02:50 PM |
| 5 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanA mix of A and B? Not too slutty, not to prudish, can dress slutty, can dress modestly? I agree, a balance is always nice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 02:46 PM |
| 11 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanOther things keep people in place after a while though. Comfort, kids, a mutual friendship group, finances, love. And you don't even have to lie - this is what got me thinking on this topic. Since I changed my style, no one has asked about my sexual past. That used to come up quite a bit. I'm 6 months into a relationship now and it's not like I'm lying to him (nor that I have a really scandalous sex past), but it was just yesterday that he asked me how many ex boyfriends I have. We had a discuss… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 02:44 PM |
| 13 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanIf a tattooed/hair dyed/pierced/whatever woman told you she had an n count of 2 would you believe her though? Orrrr would you go for the more modest looking woman who gave you a high n count? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 02:38 PM |
| 29 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanCase closed, everyone can go home now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 02:36 PM |
| 8 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanDon't men value virginity and chastity above everything else? I mean if you've been following my post you can see that I don't agree with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 02:31 PM |
| 3 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanSay it louder for the simps in the back! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 02:28 PM |
| 3 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanThanks Vic! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 02:27 PM |
| 6 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanLook hanging out with my friendship group from high school, I've seen the guys with a multitude of girlfriends. The way the men behave towards their friend + his girlfriend varies drastically on what she looks like. When they've dated slutty looking women, the guys will act more crude, talk more sexual, hit on her. Once she's out of sight they'll make sex jokes about them to the guy dating her. When the guy is dating a modest looking woman, their entire mannerisms change. Sex talk is out, they'r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 02:26 PM |
| 5 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanNo they'll take a woman who looks like a virgin but isn't because her looks turns all the tradcons away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 02:14 PM |
| 5 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanI had my ears pierced at the age of 2. It's very common in some countries for parents to pierce their daughters ears very, very young. My Indian friend got a nose piercing at 12 - once again, culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 02:13 PM |
| 48 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanYou don't need to be a mans ideal woman, you just need to look like her and he'll fill in the rest in his head. It's a blessing and a curse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 02:06 PM |
| 13 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womantall guy whos brooding but also loves them completely and nurtures her Ugh my heart <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 02:04 PM |
| 8 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanI've been friends with my virgin friend since we were 10 years old. I know everything there is to know about her. She has a few small sentimental tattoos, ~40 piercings (ears, nose, neck, belly) and she smokes cigarettes not weed. She has purple hair. She's an artist and very spiritual and believes sex is sacred and should only be shared with the person you want to have a child with. Your line of thinking is e x a c t l y what I was talking about in my post lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 01:49 PM |
| 13 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanI think like 1% of red pill men actually know what to look for, the rest are pretty clueless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 01:39 PM |
| 8 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanUm yeah if she had brothers she's a slut /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 01:37 PM |
| 18 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanSTD/STIs should definitely be something that people vet more seriously for. Luckily there are accurate tests for them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 01:16 PM |
| 24 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanYou find all those things out slowly during the dating process though. You'd need to be out of the honeymoon phase and have her (and her friends) be comfortable enough to start speaking more honestly. Everyone puts their best foot forward at the start | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 01:13 PM |
| 23 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanThat's also a good point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 01:10 PM |
| 10 | An 'innocent' looking high n woman has more RMV than a 'slutty' looking low n womanI'm not making an AMALT statement, it's just a trend I've noticed in my own life. Why did your boyfriend want you to dress sluttier and sluttier though, that seems quite strange | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 01:09 PM |
| 12 | Q4W - Don't you get it?Okay so it's not transactional relationships that weird you out, it's when people are honest about it. Women wanting a status boost will date up in class, men looking for a status boost date down in age. A young woman is a status symbol for an older man the same way that a rich man is a status symbol for a poor woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 11:18 AM |
| 13 | Q4W - Don't you get it?Yeah so financial benefits? Edit: also status goes both ways. An older guy definitely gets a status boost if he’s with a young woman, men definitely do care about status | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 11:07 AM |
| 18 | Q4W - Don't you get it?The transactional nature of that weirds me out. I guess I just find it so difficult to imagine a relationship between a young woman and old man that isn't transnational. If you're not getting financial benefits why wouldn't you fuck a dude your age? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 10:40 AM |
| 46 | Q4W - Don't you get it?Yeah young women tend to look good even if they’re not good looking, I get it. It’s just that while good looks plays a part, the whole easier to manipulate thing, Peter Pan syndrome and... well I don’t wanna say pedophile but when a guy is dating ‘as young as possible’ and only stopping at 16 or 18 because of the law you start to wonder how low he’d want to go if he wasn’t worried about going to jail. They’re all pretty real dynamics in a lot of these kind of relationships. I’m 23 and I just can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Why I liked bad boysThey were the only two options. + I have been to therapy, it’s cool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 04:42 AM |
| 38 | Overwhelmingly, women prefer not to have relationships with men who earn less than they do, why do women change this narrative to, "Men are intimidated by successful women" instead?You know it's gonna be an unbiased, open-minded, productive debate when the OP opens with: It is indisputable ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/20 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Why I liked bad boysIt was either that or cheat on him back, but my integrity is too high to cheat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/20 09:08 PM |
| 7 | Why I liked bad boysYep. He broke my trust by cheating on me, I broke his trust by reporting him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/20 01:56 PM |
| 7 | Why I liked bad boysAhhh this takes me back to when I was 19. I was so straight edge, did a year in the navy after high school came home to do my STEM degree, got a bartending job for some extra cash. At work I met a dj/drug dealer who after a long shift, fucked off drugs, opened up to me about his troubled childhood. My young naive heart fluttered ‘he is so deep and misunderstood! He’s a good person underneath! I can fix him!’ And I’d been so good, so disciplined my entire life so there was that added appeal to it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/20 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Men rating themselves higher than they actually are: what does it imply?No because all of those women can be pregnant at the same time even from 1 man. They will all be necessary for reproduction and child rearing. With 100 men and 1 woman, only 1 man is biologically useful per year. The only way women can be disposable in this post apocalyptic scenario is if they were all infertile. If you have 1 man and 100 fertile women they are still not a surplus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/20 02:52 AM |
| 3 | I think both sides have it just as hard. CMV.Doctors, nurses and aged care workers are all doing the same work right now. Male doctors tend to be in specialised fields so they are even less likely to be treating corona patients. Pathology and laboratory staff doing the thousands of tests a day - also lean female. Grocery, pharmacy, post office and bank workers (the ‘essential’ businesses) as well. Most of the infected dying from it are men and women are doing the most to help them. If the genders were reversed here you’d be talking about h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 09:11 AM |
| 5 | I think both sides have it just as hard. CMV.As we have seen with the outbreak of COVID-19, once disaster strikes women quickly retreat into their passive, lessor role. Women make up ~75% of the healthcare industry. Women are literally on the frontlines regarding this crisis, not to mention are the ones more likely to be taking care of their elderly parents who are sick/at risk of getting sick and are still doing the majority of the unpaid labour. Most of the employees in ‘essential jobs’ that are remaining open through this - women. How a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 08:53 AM |
| 2 | The hope of obtaining a young, beautiful virgin women to marry and be with forever is every bit as unrealistic as the "find your hero and live happily ever after" Disney fairytale sold to girls.And I’m still telling you that I am yet to meet a woman who would get excited about her partner having slept with a huge amount of women. Women are more forgiving of their partner having had a few more partners than them, but there is a limit and the limit isn’t that big | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 03:15 AM |
| 15 | The hope of obtaining a young, beautiful virgin women to marry and be with forever is every bit as unrealistic as the "find your hero and live happily ever after" Disney fairytale sold to girls.Yeah don’t you know that women’s SMV peaks at 18 and men’s peaks at 52? I remember when I was 18 and I didn’t want to date men my age because I couldn’t stop crushing on my grandfathers friends it’s bIoLOgY! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 12:32 AM |
| 1 | The hope of obtaining a young, beautiful virgin women to marry and be with forever is every bit as unrealistic as the "find your hero and live happily ever after" Disney fairytale sold to girls.women seem to either not care or actually see it as a bonus if he has slept with a lot of women. No women will think her partner sleeping around is a bonus unless she is also high n count and they have similar sexual experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 12:28 AM |
| 2 | The Orgasm intensity gapIt’s good that you’ve found guys that support you! I’m not virtue signalling I’m a woman who switches between dom and sub but is predominantly a dom. It’s tough being in the minority and makes relationships even harder than they are. I hope you find a girl that knows how to treat you right ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 02:16 PM |
| 9 | The Orgasm intensity gapSays the guy that just took PPD as an example of real life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 01:39 PM |
| 6 | The Orgasm intensity gapStrap ons exist, straight men can get their butt fucked too! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Men and women of PPD: do you have friends?I have a lot of different friend groups from different parts of my life. Some are quite conservative from my childhood/teen years (Orthodox private school and weekly Sunday church for 18 years), some are super liberal and go across the entire LGBTQIARHENSKEN alphabet (college). Ex co-workers that all have their own personal slots. I’ve got my group of girls who I talk to every day and my best male friend who I also talk to daily and who’s the only one that goes on these subs and I can actually t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 11:56 AM |
| 5 | Why don’t women seem to be angry about polygyny the way men are angry about hypergamy?Physical violence is male nature. I can’t even go into this again without writing a whole essay but the two just don’t equate. When’s the last time you were worried about your safety while around a woman? From a partner? Or just a random woman walking down the street in a secluded area? If you were walking at night would you rather have a group of women or a group of men walking in the same direction as you? Ever been worried about your safety while on a first date with a woman? Ever had a woman… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 01:36 AM |
| 6 | Why don’t women seem to be angry about polygyny the way men are angry about hypergamy?History, biology, facts, stats | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 01:13 AM |
| 6 | Why don’t women seem to be angry about polygyny the way men are angry about hypergamy?They absolutely do. That’s not female nature though. Rape and violence is male nature. Women can also have some of those negatives, same as men can adopt hypergamy - it doesn’t change where the nature of that behaviour comes from | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 12:41 AM |
| 7 | Why don’t women seem to be angry about polygyny the way men are angry about hypergamy?The premise is - why aren’t women as angry about male nature as men are about female nature. He then equated hypergamy and it’s equivalent polygyny as the worst of both both genders. I’m just saying, polygyny isn’t even near the worst and women are pissed about male nature in many different areas. Sorry this triggers you so hard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 12:13 AM |
| 29 | Why don’t women seem to be angry about polygyny the way men are angry about hypergamy?I have a friend irl that is also on all these subs and we talk about these things. A few weeks back I brought up the same question: why is there no female equivalent to a rage phase? He was like: ‘there is, you went through it a few years back when you went crazy feminist and literally hated all men’. And he was right. For a little while there I really went off the extreme feminist deep end. There is so much female rage about male nature - rape, physical abuse, femicide, sexual harassment, unwan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/20 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Despite the wall, women's standards actually increase as they get older, not decreaseThe wall isn’t so much of a wall as it is a biological hump. You date for fun in your late teens/early 20s and then if you want kids you start dating for kids in your late 20s/early 30s. You either have kids and stay married, have kids and don’t stay married or don’t have kids. If you managed to have kids then you’ve fulfilled your biological imperative and if you didn’t manage to have kids then menopause hits and your biological drive to reproduce disappears completely. If you’re still dating a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/20 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Men: do you really believe that sexual frustration is worth deeply empathizing with?yeah it’s kinda like Muslims making memes about ISIS terrorist attacks. Obviously we know most muslims are peaceful but if they started making memes about how funny a terrorist attack is and then were like ‘omg guys it’s satire. Learn to take a joke haha’. I’m not gonna go through all those old posts but that’s when I found the incel community and the very few posts that said ‘hey guys this is actually bad and will reflect badly on this group’ got bombarded with ‘simp’ and ‘pussy’ comments from … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/20 03:45 AM |
| 3 | Men: do you really believe that sexual frustration is worth deeply empathizing with?Yeah most people thought it was satire but then there was the Toronto man sitting there seriously talking about Incels and Chads and Staceys during his police interview after murdering 10 people and the reaction in the incel communities was not one of empathy for the victims nor condemning the murderer nor being worried that this would make them seem like a terrorist group. They celebrated? BASED. Wish I had the courage to do that. And we can think it’s a joke again, but I am willing to bet that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/20 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Men: do you really believe that sexual frustration is worth deeply empathizing with?I agree with everything you’re saying here. And Elliot killed himself. He couldn’t let himself go to prison and have all the thugmaxxed Chads MOG him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Men: do you really believe that sexual frustration is worth deeply empathizing with?that's what you want, but what do you offer? Whenever I get this as a response my eyes roll so far back in my head. I haven’t even said what my standards are and you’re already offended that I dare have them. I offer myself as a human being with all my good and bad parts. I’m not selling myself. If I didn’t have standards and just went with any dude that hit on me I’d have an n count of 500 by now. Maybe one of them would’ve murdered me and saved me from having this dumbass conversation. I’ve go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 05:06 PM |
| 5 | Men: do you really believe that sexual frustration is worth deeply empathizing with?I just had to take Val because there aren’t many other crazy women that wrote manifestos and then went on to shoot someone. She’s the closest comparison to ER. That was a bit of a false equivalency because you’re right, we don’t get compared to her because she was such a weird little outlier. Incels call ER St Elliot and often talk about going ER because of their lack of success with women, so that raises the alarms a lil bit more. I don’t lash out at people that judge me fairly. Strangers on th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 04:54 PM |
| 11 | Men: do you really believe that sexual frustration is worth deeply empathizing with?I expected a response like this. Thank you for proving my point. You can’t empathise with the struggles on the other side and cannot see the double standards you inflict and most people (on both sides) are exactly the same. That’s why most of us are usually on self-defence mode and these arguments never have a conclusion and instead of seeing the other sides POV we leave with only bitterness and further resentment towards them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 02:41 PM |
| 19 | Men: do you really believe that sexual frustration is worth deeply empathizing with?Don't most feminist arguments kinda say the exact same thing though? You're a spinster/crazy cat lady/brainwashed feminazi if you don't follow the normie plan of life. People shouldn't be judged for the number of sexual partners they had in their life - but the first insult that a woman receives for wrongthink is usually a variation on "slut/whore". You should be mature enough in your early 20s to marry the first (preferably much older) man you sleep with and be prepared to put your needs second… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Are you accepting of men artificially enhancing their looks?I mean some guys aren’t ugly and get cosmetic procedures done (worked for a cosmetic surgeon, saw a whole bunch of different types of people). So for the dudes that are already attractive but are obsessed with being even more attractive - it’s a net negative in regards to these women. An ugly dude who was dating rejected before it anyway has a better chance of fooling a woman into thinking he looks like that normally so it’s a net positive/net neutral here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Are you accepting of men artificially enhancing their looks?If I were to put anything under the ‘toxic femininity’ list it would be this. With that being said... If getting those things makes you look better (which they will) and that makes you feel better about yourself - do it! You’re not hurting anyone by doing it and there are many short term procedures that you can experiment with because fully committing E.g. cosmetic filler in your jaw. But some women will be turned off by you being vain/insecure enough to do that and may not wanna be with you due… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 03:35 PM |
| 6 | Men: How important is it for you that your partner thinks highly of your sexual performance?If you want good, casual sex as a woman - fuck a lesbian. No pregnancy scares and an almost guaranteed orgasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/20 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Banning artificial appearance-enhancers would instantly balance the SMP.Hey read up a little on anthropological studies of ancient human civilisation, take a look at the way ‘law less’ tribes function today, look at human religion pre-Jesus, take a look at animal mating strategies today. It’s quite an interesting topic and I’ve done a lot of study for it for a college class but basically rape has always been present in society, but also hasn’t been the primary method of reproduction and has always been viewed as a bad thing - because in the wild, only the males that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/20 01:00 AM |
| 18 | Banning artificial appearance-enhancers would instantly balance the SMP.Men did evolve to chase and women did evolve to choose. It’s literally biology 101. Men shooting millions of sperm at a single egg that sits comfortably in the womb is an accurate representation of men and women as a whole. Men have millions of sperm that they keep making and can knock up multiple women at a time = male thirst, male chase. Women have limited number of eggs, can only bear one child at a time and only a few in a lifetime and places herself at risk of dying each time = female picki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/20 03:23 PM |
| 11 | The double standard for male and female promiscuity is totally justifiedAll I’m saying is, keep praising men all you want. Women aren’t praising men nor shaming men. Men don’t have to praise women for it, they don’t have to date women with an n count they feel uncomfortable with either, just don’t shame people for having sex? It’s a pretty basic part of life, we all do it (or wanna do it) it’s not illegal, if it’s mutually consensual it’s not hurting anyone - I just don’t see what the point of shaming is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/20 01:13 PM |
| 18 | The double standard for male and female promiscuity is totally justifiedMost women don’t want praise for having sex though, they just don’t wanna be shamed for it so her examples still stand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/20 12:27 PM |
| 1 | To the Women who say their number/sexual past doesn't matter and they don't understand why men lose attraction .. imagine this....Look I would just like to say that putting the person getting penetrated as the ‘submissive’ person is wrong and damaging. This is why male sexual assaults victims from female perpetrators struggle getting taken seriously. If we say anyone who has been penetrated is submissive, then a man being sexually assaulted by a woman cant happen because he was the dominant one in that sexual assault. I’ve dated a bi man and it made no impact on my sexual attraction to him. If anything it made me more attr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/20 03:27 AM |
| 5 | The Red Pill was a response to an unbalanced dating market in favor of women. R/ Female Dating Strategy serves to swing it back in their favorA woman let him enter without contraceptives? That dude made a conscious decision to enter without contraceptives knowing damn well that if she gets pregnant he has 0 say in what happens to that child because it is in her body. I have an IUD and I STILL have never fucked a dude who insisted on not wearing a condom because I’m like ‘really dude? You’re just gonna trust that I’m telling the truth and relinquish all responsibility over this act which can literally create another human being? That’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/20 04:47 PM |
| 4 | The Red Pill was a response to an unbalanced dating market in favor of women. R/ Female Dating Strategy serves to swing it back in their favorI am not deflecting accountability at all. I take my precautions when having sex by being careful about who I sleep with, using BC, tracking my periods and knowing when I’m most fertile to take extra care. Abortion/having a kid is something I’d really like to avoid and I do the MOST to avoid that by taking control over the things that I can. All I’m saying is - men have things they can control as well. Why do they avoid utilising them? Not fucking random women raw - or for a matter of fact ANY w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/20 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Q4women what are the differences between a “relationship” guy and a “good time” guy?I don’t have casual sex but I do have “good time” guys. They’re guys I’ll go on dates with and have fun with and make out and if they want to go down on me they can but I won’t touch their penis. Penis touching is reserved for “relationship” guys because I can’t imagine wanting to touch someone’s dick without dating them exclusively first. Therefore my good time guys are usually 18-19, not my type but not ugly either and eager to please. They’re fun to let loose with and smoking a joint in the b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/20 03:46 PM |
| 10 | The Red Pill was a response to an unbalanced dating market in favor of women. R/ Female Dating Strategy serves to swing it back in their favorMen have control over 2 things - who they sleep with and whether they use condoms. And they’ll still go blue in the face trying to convince random women to let them hit it raw. Men really need to get together and try to decide where their priorities are at | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/20 03:20 PM |
| 7 | Why is transactional relationship is frowned upon?I don’t know, if I had a lot of money and I made my name ‘richgirl’ and made a post about how much money I had and why don’t people like me for me... you’d probably assume it’s because I’m flexing about money frequently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/20 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Where would you be now if you married the first person you dated?I don’t think I would’ve gone to college. Or maybe I would’ve gone but I would’ve dropped out. I wouldn’t have travelled to 90% of the places where I have. I’d be living on a marijuana farm a few hours outside my home town smoking weed everyday. Probably would have a kid or two by now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/20 01:38 PM |
| 5 | Do high N women cause ED?Finally a real man 👏🏼 Look at all these simps getting hard for Chad’s virgin whores what has this world come to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/20 01:02 PM |
| 19 | Why is transactional relationship is frowned upon?Yeah but it’s obviously something that you consider to be integral to your identity that you’ve named yourself that on here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/20 11:26 AM |
| 6 | Why is transactional relationship is frowned upon?Choose better women. A relationship is a two way street. You’re there for my shit, I’m there for yours. Vet the women you date better you are the gatekeepers of commitment after all, that’s on you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/20 10:12 AM |
| 39 | Why is transactional relationship is frowned upon?A guy that calls himself ‘rich lad’ is upset that he’s keeps choosing gold diggers lmao. It’s like you’re advertising a burger and getting upset at people buying it and not being vegan because eating animals is immoral | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/20 10:10 AM |
| 4 | Why is transactional relationship is frowned upon?Yes because women don’t provide communication, sex, affection, help, emotional support to men. Come onnnn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/20 10:00 AM |
| 3 | How did Pick Up Artistry go from Jimmy Kimmel to extremely marginalized?That’s true but if you give me two good looking dudes the more charismatic one will win | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/20 09:48 AM |
| 4 | How did Pick Up Artistry go from Jimmy Kimmel to extremely marginalized?When I was 18 (way before I knew what any of this was) a guy did the cube routine on me at a bar. So he's gone through everything and now I'm giving him my answers genuinely impressed by how well he can read me. Until he asks me to describe the horse (i.e my ideal lover) and I say "the horse is dead. We're in the desert and there's no water around. Animals are feeding off his dead body". This dude, who was so smooth and confident the entire night, starts stuttering and trying to spin this in som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/20 06:56 AM |
| 11 | Do you really want sympathy from women?And she has to be a virgin who promises to never sleep with anyone else but him but encourages him to sleep with other women. Otherwise it’s not sympathy because he’ll still feel upset about all the Chads she’s comparing him to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/20 03:33 PM |
| 15 | Do you really want sympathy from women?Why don’t men as a whole get together and decide to stop being violent and rapey, improve their looks, invest in male contraceptives, stop shaming high n women and get better at pleasuring women so that having casual sex with men will be more appealing and less risky? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/20 03:29 PM |
| 2 | The redpill contradictionYeah it is important to teach men how to take advantage of young women and abandon their kids while also making a more positive contribution to their life? than their mother? After their mother raises them and the dad influences them in their adolescence post divorce where he avoids spending money on them? The red pill is fantastic and I wish you all a lifetime of following it to the T | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/20 03:24 PM |
| 2 | The redpill contradictionYeah and then cry about divorce rape because the girl takes half your money + child support. And I thought fathers were supposedly contributing to their kids’ lives when they’re adolescences? Can’t contribute much when you see your kids once a month. And at the end of it you’ll still say - wow women are horrible. I cannot believe I did this and there was some negative consequences for me. Ugh gynocentric society am I right boys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/20 02:32 PM |
| 1 | The redpill contradictionThen good luck getting a 20 year old wife in your 40s if you’re not willing to put your money where your mouth is lmao. The delusion of these dudes thinking they are such a prize a woman would give them her youth, children and entire life for a pair of saggy balls that don’t spend any money on her. Good luck dudes, truely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/20 01:39 PM |
| 1 | The redpill contradictionSo he is incapable of raising them when they’re kids? 40 year old dude finally deciding he wants to settle down and have kids, has a few kids between 40-45 and then finally when he’s 60 he is able to contribute to his children’s lives. And then he dies before they’re out of college. His now 40 year old wife has adult kids out of the house and all of her husbands money to travel and fool around with young men because she missed out on that in her youth when she chained herself down to the old far… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/20 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Ladies, help me settle a friendly debate I've been having with some dudesI’m an idiot if I think I can make insensitive jokes like that towards a man I’m attracted to and there would be no consequences. Making comments like this in public would mean that I wasn’t attracted to him anymore and probably hadn’t been in a while. Or he’s done something to hurt me and I wanna get some petty revenge in before it ends? Either way, I wouldn’t even think to say shit like that if I had any desire for my relationship to continue. Drunk words, sober thoughts. I don’t make excuses … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 09:06 AM |
| 4 | Q4Women: Ladies, help me settle a friendly debate I've been having with some dudesThe only way this scenario makes any sense in my head is if I imagine I want to end things with this dude but I don’t wanna be the one to pull the plug so I start being an insufferable bitch hoping he’ll dump me. In which case the last option is best because a) the relationship is over and b) he seems fine and happy so I don’t have to feel guilty about it either. If I’m making comments about such a sensitive topic in public where my man can hear, it means I am not attracted to him. Or an idiot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 08:53 AM |
| 4 | What N count are you Personally comfortable with?I’m 23, n=5 and I don’t see myself going up very high in the double digits ever. So I’d prefer someone <10 now, maybe up to 20 at an older age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 08:43 AM |
| 6 | What N count are you Personally comfortable with?I’m comfortable with an n count that is similar to mine and I don’t know if that’ll change later on in life but so far it’s been consistent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 07:35 AM |
| 3 | What do you think is the best way for a woman to spend her prime years?Straining due to orgasmic pleasure and sadomasochistic practices, This is a new one for this sub, and definitely my favourite negative sex consequences so far | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 02:07 AM |
| 7 | What do you think is the best way for a woman to spend her prime years?Don’t you KNOW that women are in their prime at 18 and men are in their prime at 45?? If you weren’t attracted to 45 year old men when you were 18 it’s because of brainwashing from this feminazi culture who has declared a war on men and is trying to make them all cucks because BIOLOGY says women want old men and that’s science I hate that I have to put /s but I’ve seen a few people on here that seriously believe this shit so /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 02:00 AM |
| 6 | To WOMEN, how would you honestly feel if your parter was unable to cum from PIV Sex?More oral sex for everyone! Lower stress over pregnancy! Less pointless jackhammering while I’m writing my shopping list in my head! Win, win, win | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 03:40 PM |
| 1 | How can a man who is average/below average become attractive?Hahahaha what gave me away? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 01:43 AM |
| 1 | How can a man who is average/below average become attractive?Sure, why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 12:36 AM |
| 2 | How can a man who is average/below average become attractive?Work out, dress well, eat well. Get plastic surgery if that helps. I have a friend who has done his jaw, a friend who got nose surgery. I’ve seen jaw line fillers in action and they work wonders. Some Botox in the right places helps too. A balding man should either shave it all off and embrace bald life or get a hair transplant. Skin care routine. Trim your fkn nails. Get a man-icure. Wax your chest hair. It won’t turn a 4/10 guy into a Chad, but it can get him up a few points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 06:25 AM |
| 2 | "dating is like an investment in your penis"As a woman if you put out too fast: “she’s barely gotten to know me, how many other dudes has she slept with this fast? She’s not LTR material”. If you wait to get to know him first: “she doesn’t have sexual desire for me! She’s not LTR material”. The real memo is: for guys that don’t want commitment there is NOTHING you can do right to guarantee commitment. He’ll find a way to hamster why you’re not LTR material. And the guy that DOES want to commit to you will be okay with waiting AND getting … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/20 10:40 AM |
| 2 | i dont care about number of men shes been with. i care about penis sizeActually getting blacked.com is a passage rite into womanhood. The second we get our period we get a huge, black dick wrapped and delivered to our door (another secret that this blue pilled cuckciety doesn’t want you to know). Our vaginas are already ravaged so that we can only feel the dicks that are larger than that first one, thereby satisfying our hypergamous natures. You could try those penis elongation creams they advertise on porn sites or maybe wearing a hollow dildo on top of your dick … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Is career still as important / a dealbreaker for women?100% serious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 07:51 PM |
| 6 | Is career still as important / a dealbreaker for women?Sis I’d pay so much money for a KING like this 🤴🙏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 06:41 AM |
| 10 | Is career still as important / a dealbreaker for women?Coming home from work to a well groomed, good looking dude, a nice home cooked meal, clean house and well taken care of kids who he will put to bed before going down on me for half an hour is a dream. I understand why men fantasise about the 1950s so much, they had it so good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 06:30 AM |
| 2 | [CMV] The majority of women are not principled, they chose what benefits them the mostI’m not here to argue about religion. I still have very conflicting views on it. I don’t believe that homosexuality is a sin and I do believe that people are born that way because homosexuals have always been around, even with the death penalty hanging over their head so I don’t think it’s just them being enabled. I’ve done fasts, I’ve felt whatever IT is. I was raised Eastern Orthodox and I’ve steered clear of that religion to find what resonates with my soul. I’ve done a month long silent retr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 03:08 AM |
| 2 | [CMV] The majority of women are not principled, they chose what benefits them the mostI’m sorry but a guy paying for a stranger knowing they are not attracted to him is not him being principled, it’s him hoping that by paying for her she’ll change his mind and touch his dick. Unless that girl is broke/homeless and this is a charity thing, he’s doing it in the hope that it will benefit him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 01:47 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] The majority of women are not principled, they chose what benefits them the mostThat’s interesting to know, thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 01:43 AM |
| 2 | [CMV] The majority of women are not principled, they chose what benefits them the mostI treat my friends out for dinner and drinks very often and they’re not attracted to me. I don’t think that makes me principled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 01:39 AM |
| 2 | [CMV] The majority of women are not principled, they chose what benefits them the mostSure but enduring hardships without complaining about it is beneficial to oneself as well in a lot of situations. And no one is stoic all the time. Which has been my argument throughout this whole thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 01:37 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] The majority of women are not principled, they chose what benefits them the mostGood joke | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 01:36 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] The majority of women are not principled, they chose what benefits them the mostSo anyone that does before having kids is principled no matter what they actually did in their lives? I’m confused | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 01:35 AM |
| 2 | [CMV] The majority of women are not principled, they chose what benefits them the mostOne of the few religion abiding friends that I have left is a lesbian. She has been involved in the church her whole life, is very giving, very Jesus loving. She says the bible doesn’t say anything bad about homosexuality and that she trusts God and God wouldn’t have made her the way that she is if it was wrong because God doesn’t mean us any harm. She thinks God made her this way so that he could bless her with her beautiful wife who she married last year, who loves her and who is now bearing h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 01:33 AM |
| 7 | [CMV] The majority of women are not principled, they chose what benefits them the mostBut everyone does this. Just because you have some principles, doesn’t mean you are principled. We pick and choose the principles that benefit our life, morals and values. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 01:23 AM |
| 6 | [CMV] The majority of women are not principled, they chose what benefits them the mostBut a lot of things cost me, doesn’t mean I don’t get some kind of benefit out of it. I’m vegan and have been since I was 14 because of some moral principle. I’ve missed out on a lot of really good food and sometimes I’ve just been left starving due to no options. But the benefits to me are having a peace of mind that I’m abiding by my moral code and a lot of health benefits too. I broke my principle once on a drunken antic and ate a burger and that cost me more in terms of that. I wake up early… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 01:19 AM |
| 11 | [CMV] The majority of women are not principled, they chose what benefits them the mostYes but that same Christian that abstained from sex before marriage might get drunk or swear or wear clothes made out of linen or wool (yes this is a rule in the bible). So they are going against their Christian principles because it’s too hard to stick to all of them. A man pays for dates because he wants something from the woman that will be beneficial to him, regardless of whether that is a relationship or sex. A woman will waste time and money on makeup, outfits, hair, nails. Will remove her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 06:31 PM |
| 47 | [CMV] The majority of women are not principled, they chose what benefits them the mostWhich people choose things that don’t benefit them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 05:12 PM |
| 2 | How does a man wanting to split the bill have anything to do with respect for women?Like I said, I have always insisted on paying for myself and they have always stopped me. I don’t date ‘strangers’ though, I’ve never done OLD so everyone that I’ve gone out with I’ve already spent some time with even if it’s just meeting at a bar and having a conversation there during the night. By the time we get to the date we already have met and have a base level of knowledge about each other. Also I kinda figure that my future husband would’ve spent money on women before me. That line of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 02:36 PM |
| 5 | How does a man wanting to split the bill have anything to do with respect for women?Honestly I’ve been dating for 7 years now and I’ve never been on a date where I didn’t offer to pay my half. I’ve also never paid anything on a date. I always offer and they always wrestled my card/money out of my hands to stop me. I’m used to it now and I’d take a guy that didn’t do that me as having low interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 12:36 PM |
| 7 | "Reformed sluts" are probably among the worst types to date.Are you okay with dating women who are open about their slutty pasts? You wouldn’t wife up a reformed slut but an honest slut is okay? Or do you just not wanna commit to someone who was promiscuous in their past regardless of how they are now? I am not an idiot, there are numerous indicators of how many partners you might have roughly had If you are such an expert at gauging n counts then why go for women who you think have a high n count? Why go for them if you’re a) not gonna be okay with thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 05:13 AM |
| 1 | The BP claims that its mens inability to adapt to the rise of the working woman and fulfill a caretaking role a major reason for the marriage crisis is kinda bullshit.Where did you find him? ... asking for a friend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 08:18 AM |
| 2 | [CMV] Women's hypergamy is dysgenic and anti-civilisationA woman’s fertility is a bell curve. The level it’s at at 16 is about the same it is at 36. Except a 36 year old woman has a higher chance of surviving the pregnancy whereas a 26 year old has a higher chance of not having a genetically abnormal child. So no, women did not evolve to have children as teenagers. They evolved to have kids in their 20s-mid 30s. Women being force to reproduce in their teens is the unnatural part | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 06:41 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] Women's hypergamy is dysgenic and anti-civilisationWomen are not supposed to reproduce as teenagers, fertility peaks at 25. And a teenager carries high risk of dying in childbirth. Women evolved to give birth in their 20s and have always valued resources which is a ‘beta’ trait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 06:16 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] Women's hypergamy is dysgenic and anti-civilisationI’m not, I’m just talking about how taking the ‘alpha fucks beta bux’ thing as a rule that all women follow and then saying this shit just doesn’t add up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 05:56 PM |
| 6 | Q4WOMEN: is ‘daddy’ stuff cringey to you?I was fooling around with a guy who would ‘jokingly’ say “call me daddy” while fooling around. I’d just laugh it off but his persistence was annoying. So we’re fooling around again and he starts sucking on my titties and I say “call me mummy”. Dude freaked the fuck out “why would you say that!!! Yuck!!! I’m thinking about my mother now, what the fuck you just ruined the mood that’s disgusting”. I just reminded him that I, too, have a father that comes to mind when I hear the word daddy. He never… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 04:25 PM |
| 11 | Q4WOMEN: is ‘daddy’ stuff cringey to you?I’ve spent a lot of time talking to older women who were married before feminism was a thing. Their secret to marriage is - the man must feel like he is in control because their egos are large, but you have to be the one running things. The man is the head of the house and the woman is the neck, she steers him where he needs to go. If your husband tells you what to do you say ‘yes dear’ and then keep doing what you were doing anyway. If he gets cranky, feed him fuck him and put him to sleep and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Beyond sex, does the average modern woman offer much to a discerning gentleman in 2020?Do you have those stats? And you mentioned the women in the world wars as well so you’ll need stats from the last 110 years to back up your claim | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 01:43 PM |
| 6 | Do women hate sluts because they’re a competition?Sluts getting pumped and dumped vs women holding out and getting commitment and investment from men is more analogous with giving out Voss water that you paid for for free (you lose out $5) or you charging $10 for the Voss water. If you’re giving it out for free it doesn’t matter how many customers you get - you’re always in the negatives, more and more each time. An FDS woman just needs 1 customer to get a higher profit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Beyond sex, does the average modern woman offer much to a discerning gentleman in 2020?Women are now more unhappy than they’ve ever been, including their grandmothers who survived the depression and two world wars. Are you really sure about that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 04:10 AM |
| 1 | When you're dating a guy, how important is it that the guy is "worth showing off" to your friends/social media. I strongly believe this plays a big factor in women choosing the guy they date.Only my immediate group knows the ins and outs of my relationships. My wider circle knows nothing past basics, like how long we’ve been together. I’ve never posted anyone from my relationships on social media. I don’t want people prying and I don’t wanna be that bitch that deletes half her feed after a breakup lmao. I’ll post my husband on there, but no one needs to know and judge my relationships now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 02:44 AM |
| 7 | Are you turned off by guys looking for relationships?Why would I be turned off by a guy with the same values as me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Men aren’t less shallow than women; they’re just hornier.Yeah and there are unemployed men sitting at home playing videogames all day. Are we arguing that lazy people exist? Chores with all the modern appliances is still keeping the house clean and the food cooked and if you have kids it’s still just as stressful. What if I work a really physically demanding job that pays me $15/h and you work a cushy job that pays you $30/h. We live together. Which one of us should do the household chores? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Even though women seemingly lose out- are patriarchal marriages the only marriages that can seemingly last and provide contentment?Cheaters lie. Men, women. It’s kinda their thing. So yeah it’s fair to be skeptical because both genders probably have higher cheating rates | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Q4W how aware/unaware are groups of single women of each other's levels promiscuity?They’re just dicks no need to be rude geez | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 03:39 PM |
| 5 | What are your opinions and observations on "the only girl in a company" types?It really depends on the kind of guys you’re in a group with. I’m 1 of 3 women in my maths masters program and my group in college is 5 guys I’ve been hanging out with since 1st year undergrad. We hang out outside of class pretty often and while hanging out with them has made me more aware of male issues, my humour and interests have stayed the same (they have not managed to get me into videogames or anime), hedonistic/confident/assertive/fearless are not words I’d use to describe them so that h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 03:07 PM |
| 4 | Even though women seemingly lose out- are patriarchal marriages the only marriages that can seemingly last and provide contentment?My point is that happiness was not measured before then. I mean the 70s was the first wave of liberated women, working, having freedom, the whole ‘sex drugs and rock n roll’ thing. It was new and exciting and had never been done before. That’s why happiness spiked so much in the 70s. It’s just stabilising now. I’d love a 50s vs 70s comparison so we can see whether the Valium addicted trad wives or hairy hippy stoners were happier. The couple that wrote that study are pretty interesting too. They… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 02:44 PM |
| 7 | Even though women seemingly lose out- are patriarchal marriages the only marriages that can seemingly last and provide contentment?When are the earliest studies in female happiness done? Or happiness studies in general? Because I can’t find any, much less ones from the early 20th century and earlier that we can compare it to. The UN started measuring happiness in 2011 and Finland has been the happiest country in the world 2 years in a row though. And Finland is easily one of the most feminist countries in the world. In 2019 they got the youngest prime minister in the world and she was female and they are still happier than … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 01:41 PM |
| 5 | How much is the SMV of a male artist diminished?The part time theatre/cook dude sounds like my dream man. Send him my way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 01:21 PM |
| 3 | Q4W how aware/unaware are groups of single women of each other's levels promiscuity?Yeah you’re probably just unaware of it. Read the other comments on here. Girls talk to their girlfriends and we love detail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 11:46 AM |
| 8 | Q4W how aware/unaware are groups of single women of each other's levels promiscuity?Newsflash: most women talk to their girlfriends about this shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 11:36 AM |
| 2 | Q4W how aware/unaware are groups of single women of each other's levels promiscuity?Well they have nudes of their partners too but we don’t see them, there is a limit. And nothing is said in a mean way about the boyfriends. Some of the boyfriends are fiancés/husbands now and the details about them are slim. ONS/FWB - explicit detail because who cares, fiancés and husbands very very rarely get spoken about, they get their privacy and respect. Boyfriends really depend on the relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4A: Married Redditors on PPD, Why Did You Marry, Have Gender Issues Caused Problems, and Would You Marry Again?Yeah my dad fucked up at 20 and his stance is kinda ‘I’m glad I fucked up, you’re great but don’t you dare fuck up it’s not worth it’. A lot of conflicting emotions there dad. It’s definitely made me very careful with sex though so that’s a plus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 09:28 AM |
| 2 | Even though women seemingly lose out- are patriarchal marriages the only marriages that can seemingly last and provide contentment?400,000 people pay alimony in the west and that’s decreasing. It’s still 97% men who pay it but there are also 3% of women who were the breadwinners who pay. The way to eradicate alimony even more is for men and women to marry people with similar finances to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Q4A: Married Redditors on PPD, Why Did You Marry, Have Gender Issues Caused Problems, and Would You Marry Again?My mum let my dad hit it raw for the first time as a Valentine’s Day treat and he knew she wasn’t on BC and she got pregnant with me. My sex talk from my dad was just him saying ‘I didn’t use a condom ONCE and 9 months later you popped out. ONCE!! Don’t be an idiot like me’. That was also the day I found out I was an accident :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 08:57 AM |
| 4 | Even though women seemingly lose out- are patriarchal marriages the only marriages that can seemingly last and provide contentment?Newsflash: men cheat more than women, society does not encourage cheating of either gender, men leave women due to their looks fading a lot more (the stereotype of a man trading up his ‘starter wife’ for a younger, prettier woman if he’s successful enough is a stereotype for a reason), menace more likely to get married again after divorce, women are more likely to be content solo if they’ve got kids already, and alimony is very very rare in the west | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 08:48 AM |
| 8 | Do men only care about sex?If I took these subs as a measure for all men I’d conclude that the reason that men do anything even having a job, getting an education, showering, working out was to get sex from random women. I really wanna believe that the group of men on here are just a bizzaro bunch of outliers who exaggerate to the max to get their point across because I feel like out in the real world most men want relationships and like being healthy and have a good job for their own fulfilment, not just to get their dic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 08:43 AM |
| 3 | Even though women seemingly lose out- are patriarchal marriages the only marriages that can seemingly last and provide contentment?So instead of promoting education and more equality at home with both parents being involved in child care and domestic labour your idea is to take 50% of the population completely outta the race? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 08:36 AM |
| -1 | Q4W how aware/unaware are groups of single women of each other's levels promiscuity?I’ve been with my girls since we were 12. This level of detail isn’t only reserved for the dudes they’re sleeping with, I’ll even get snapchats of their shit sometimes if it looks off. The boyfriends know we all know everything and at most they’ll tease us about it, they’re fine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 08:34 AM |
| 4 | Even though women seemingly lose out- are patriarchal marriages the only marriages that can seemingly last and provide contentment?I would literally give up every single modern comfort and technology to go live in a tribe in a mud hut than live in a strict patriarchal society. If we get some handmaids tale shit happening in the west where we go full religious patriarch I’d quite literally die before bending my tail and becoming a submissive bangmaid incubator with no human rights. Fuck that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 08:29 AM |
| 4 | Even though women seemingly lose out- are patriarchal marriages the only marriages that can seemingly last and provide contentment?There are 76 million women employed in the US and there are 3 million men unemployed. So if we give all men a job that has been ‘taken by a woman’ we still have another 72 million women in jobs. Modern US is not traditional. You would not have a modern US if it stuck to traditionalism. Women entering the workforce in huge numbers during WW2 was completely necessary to keep society standing and they holding down those jobs afterwards was necessary for society progressing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 08:23 AM |
| 5 | Even though women seemingly lose out- are patriarchal marriages the only marriages that can seemingly last and provide contentment?Feminism is not a natural progression but patriarchy is? Please do tell who you think created feminist theory (in before: Jews!!) Men and women ‘naturally’ are hunters and gatherers. Very little of what we have in today’s society is natural. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 08:16 AM |
| 12 | Q4W how aware/unaware are groups of single women of each other's levels promiscuity?Idk I’m interested in everything my good friends tell me, even if it’s the same story for the 7th time because I love them. It’s nice knowing you can get into the nitty gritty details of things and have someone hear you out and ‘ooooh’ and ‘aaaah’ at all the right times | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 07:06 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: What color pill were you raised as?I thought it was an EE thing, but I am from the Balkans specifically so maybe that has more of an influence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 06:56 AM |
| 4 | Q4W: What color pill were you raised as?Moving to the west and encountering male feminists was the mind blowing part for me. Luckily now I’m older I’ve met dudes that fall somewhere in the middle of this spectrum and they’ve slowly brought the blue pill outta me. Bless them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 06:36 AM |
| 29 | Q4W how aware/unaware are groups of single women of each other's levels promiscuity?I could describe to you the size, smell and taste of every dick my female friends have sucked from how open they are to talking about it all. There are no secrets amongst us | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 06:14 AM |
| 10 | Q4W: What color pill were you raised as?I was raised in Eastern Europe and I’d say it was more red pilled and maybe even black pilled. The nature of men was explicitly discussed and reading TRP for the first time was just like ‘how is this revolutionary at all? Don’t all men behave this way?’. You grow up very weary of men in this sense and FDS strategies are just common knowledge and basically small talk amongst the women. The good (?) thing is that men don’t really take that big of a role in childcare so my childhood was mainly spen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 06:10 AM |
| 3 | Q4All: Would you rather have one adopted child who you get to raise, or 10 biological children who you never get to know?I’d adopt a child. It’s something I’d like to do to even without this scenario, I just think raising a kid and providing them with the love and resources they need to thrive in life is the most selfless thing you could do. But it’s not really selfless if you have created and popped out the kid yourself. Also, it would drive me CRAZY knowing I had kids out there I’m the world that I couldn’t see. I don’t think I’d be able to handle that, they would be on my mind 24/7. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 12:48 AM |
| 6 | Why can’t women just genuinely enjoy sex? Why must there always be a deeper reason according to this sub?But no one is seducing me before I masturbate and I still get wet so how is that reactionary and not spontaneous? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Why can’t women just genuinely enjoy sex? Why must there always be a deeper reason according to this sub?To most women, sex is a minor enjoyment, if any, I thought you Brazilians knew how to fuck, this is disappointing :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 12:28 AM |
| 5 | Why can’t women just genuinely enjoy sex? Why must there always be a deeper reason according to this sub?Do you think TRP has heard of female masturbation yet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 12:15 AM |
| 9 | In modern day, being "good" for a man is a recipe for getting taken as a sucker.An unsuccessful marriage is not just one that ends in divorce. It’s also one that you keep up for the kids or for financial reasons or out of fear where you are actually unhappy. And I know wayyyy too many women in those situations to take THAT gamble with my life. I did also address the chance that I may not find a man to have a kid with I’m not oblivious to that possibly. But for me personally, I want one child and I am not opposed to sperm donor or adoption as I said. Having one kid in a lovi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 09:31 AM |
| 7 | In modern day, being "good" for a man is a recipe for getting taken as a sucker.I know it’s absurd and possibly even a myth that a woman can get married in her 30s but a girls gotta dream | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 07:49 AM |
| 9 | In modern day, being "good" for a man is a recipe for getting taken as a sucker.God I am so grateful to be born in this day and age where that is my life as a woman. Higher education, independent financial security, the ability to travel, to work a job I love, own my own house and even have kids alone if I really wanted to. My grandmothers both have expressed how badly they wish they would’ve had the opportunities I do now. My female relatives almost unanimously advise me to take every advantage I’ve got because generations upon generations of women have fought for me to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 07:06 AM |
| 3 | [CMV] Women's hypergamy is dysgenic and anti-civilisationI mean it’s not impossible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 06:22 AM |
| 4 | When men date younger womenI mean Adam Levine is good looking for a 40 year old. But put him next to a 20 year old celeb, like Shawn Mendes, and count how many 20 year old women choose Adam over Shawn. I guarantee it won’t be many | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 02:29 AM |
| 7 | [CMV] Women's hypergamy is dysgenic and anti-civilisationSee this is what I don’t understand, y’all talk about how women follow the ‘alpha fux beta bux’ strategy by fucking around with Chads in their 20s and then settling down with betas to have kids. I’m sure some women have ‘Chad’s’ kids but the vast majority of them are having kids with a ‘beta’, thereby they are not screening merely by looks/height when it comes down to reproduction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 02:15 AM |
| 4 | [CMV] Women's hypergamy is dysgenic and anti-civilisationFor all men to have quality harems of, let’s say, 4 women per man we’d have to kill 75% of men to be able to achieve that. And then we probably wouldn’t have wars for a while up until the male population rose up again, so I guess if that’s what you want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Would you forgive infidelity in a marriage?All adjustments fall outta line when cheating happens | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 01:33 AM |
| 9 | Would you forgive infidelity in a marriage?If we had kids I’d stay with him until they were 18. I’d start dating and sleeping with other dudes though. Man one of my boyfriends cheated on me and I slept with his best friend of 20 years. We dated for a 2 years but I definitely jumped him out of revenge. I just don’t think I’d be able to drop it without getting mine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 06:15 PM |
| 6 | Why do women love feeling special so much?TRP is comedy gold. asktrp is ever better. Sooooo many alphas 🥰 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Why do women love feeling special so much?You take the girls I’ll take the betas and I’ll give you credit for your autobiography, deal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 04:25 PM |
| 6 | Why do women love feeling special so much?A true ALPHA would never be a paranoid ex boyfriend. Something something abundance. Read the sidebar, sweaty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 04:20 PM |
| 27 | Why do women love feeling special so much?Men had a mental breakdown when they realised that they aren’t ‘Chad’ and they are required to bring something to the table for women to wanna date/bang them. The fear that women won’t be innately sexually aroused by them, even though statistically and biologically they know they won’t, is deep. They want to be that special dude that can just look at a girl and have her want to throw her entire life, values and sexual inhibitions away for him. The entire TRP is dudes talking about how aLpHa they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 03:39 PM |
| 0 | Q4Women: What are some things you've done to get the attention of a guy you're interested in?Pretending to be interested in what he’s interested in and dressing a lil slutty was my go to up until I turned 20 and went for a more beneficial strategy for me where I stopped trying to get guy’s attention and only developed interest in them if they were already paying me attention or I was sure they were into me. I act and dress as I usually would, dudes bring up sports/video games/anime and I tell them I have 0 interest in that, I’m don’t feel some weird shame in telling them about my girly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 04:21 AM |
| 9 | Is sex a need for women?I mean I’ve got years without sex but haven’t gone more than a day without an orgasm since I was 14. I think many women go without sex but still have orgasms... and many women are having sex and no orgasms. Now they’re the cranky ones :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/20 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Aren’t women with high notch counts men’s best bet?That’s how I landed on here too! Sometimes I wonder how different my life would be if I didn’t search up ‘the red pill’ on reddit thinking it’d be some cool Matrix references :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/20 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Men aren’t less shallow than women; they’re just hornier.I don’t have it difficult. The women before me did and it annoys me when their labour and hard work get ignored or straight up erased. I am very, very grateful to be a woman in 21st century Australia and I plan on making full use of my privilege while it lasts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Men aren’t less shallow than women; they’re just hornier.Well I’ve never been a housewife but it still seems like a revenge fantasy, I’m a 23 year old woman in a western country and that’s enough to make men whine constantly, if I was after a revenge fantasy this would be it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Men aren’t less shallow than women; they’re just hornier.Yes things were difficult at home and at work. I didn’t say that the work men did wasn’t difficult, it’s just ridiculous to keep talking about about how men took care of their partners and how women just sat at home and did nothing. But the things that I listed I did specifically so that they’re still applicable to today’s housewives. Cooking, cleaning, washing, ironing, folding clothes, raising kids. Sex has changed and you’re allowed to say no + there’s contraceptives so I’ll revoke that. Ever… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 09:43 PM |
| 3 | Men aren’t less shallow than women; they’re just hornier.Yeah maybe I’d have male hookers just for some variety and since I am the sole earner of the house and my husband respects me he’ll understand that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 09:36 PM |
| 10 | Men aren’t less shallow than women; they’re just hornier.Yeah it’s because they don’t do as much as housewives do. Who wants a SAHH if he isn’t doing everything SAHW do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 03:00 PM |
| 5 | Men aren’t less shallow than women; they’re just hornier.If a stay at home husband actually did all of that for me, I’d be real happy with him. The problem is that they don’t which just makes them a burden | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 02:38 PM |
| 11 | Men aren’t less shallow than women; they’re just hornier.Yeah it’s both. They weren’t allowed to work for money, yet they worked all the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 02:37 PM |
| 24 | Men aren’t less shallow than women; they’re just hornier.Men brought money into a home when women didn’t have the opportunity to do so, they did not take care of their partners. They had mommy wifey at home to cook their meals, cut the crust off their sandwich, clean their house, feed/bathe/educate/raise their kids, bleach the skid marks off their underwear, wash, iron and fold their clothes, pat their dick and tell them that they’re such a good boy and mommy they are so proud of them, fuck them with minimal pleasure on their end and pray that they do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 02:14 PM |
| 13 | CMV: women take sex for granted.I don’t think my friends or family only care about me because they wanna fuck me lmao wtf. How would not being valued for sex affect any of my relationships outside of my romantic relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 02:39 AM |
| 11 | Men, what do you want women to do?You are listing the 23% stat wrong. The portion of Americans 18 to 29 reporting no sex in the past year more than doubled between 2008 and 2018, to 23 percent. So first of all, it’s talking about men + women AND it’s only talking about legal adults under 30. But then we break down the gender of the people that make up that 23% and realise it’s 28% of the male population aged 18-29 and 18% of the female population 18-29. So men are winning the race by 10%. It’s no where near the wild 80/20 discre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 02:00 AM |
| 1 | If you are in a relationship with a guy, what did you get him for Valentines Day?He’s a stoner it’s fine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/20 12:10 AM |
| 1 | If you are in a relationship with a guy, what did you get him for Valentines Day?Ehhhh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 04:33 PM |
| 2 | If you are in a relationship with a guy, what did you get him for Valentines Day?Bought one half a bag of weed, another one a Lokai bracelet and a book on meditation, another one a guitar pick engraved with his initials. Damn am I a female betabux? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 02:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are jealous of lifting.I’ve come to a similar conclusion to this and I love it when men try to say ‘it’s biological! We’re attracted to signs of fertility’. Why are men disgusted by a full bush of pubic hair on women then? It’s a biological sign of fertility... a naked vagina shouldn’t turn you on more since it indicates the women hasn’t gone through puberty yet and is therefore not fertile. Culture (and porn) has set shaving as a feminine quality though. It’s a performance, not biology | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 03:25 AM |
| 2 | If we care about men's rights, then we need to treat men's rights as a men's rights issue, not an anti-women's rights issue.Men don’t give a fuck about men’s problems. I was at a birthday and the topic of female teachers raping their male students came up and the men there laughed that I called it rape. ‘Man I wish Ms.Jones raped me when I was in high school’ ‘dude I would give anything to have been sexually assaulted by Ms.Smith when I was 14’. My friends boyfriend went and got circumcised at 24 and was pissed at his mother not doing it to him when he was a baby. My friend begged him not to do it and idk how many ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Why do women stay away from men who went or go to hookers?I’m in the Balkans, don’t wanna get too specific. Your height, dick size and glasses are not the problem. You’re JUST below average for height/dick size and if the glasses are such a big problem you can always get contacts. For as long as you think THATS what’s holding you back you’ll stay in this mindset. There is something else that is contributing to your lack of luck when it comes to love and fucking hookers is only going to make it worse. It will even further fuck up your mindset, you’ll st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Why do women stay away from men who went or go to hookers?Yeah I’m from Eastern Europe, I know what kinds of women you’re exploiting. You are not helping those women. The amount of EE guys I’ve heard bragging about running away without even paying them honestly y’all make me sick. Give them food, clothes for their kids, fund their child’s education to break the cycle if you really want to help them. Don’t fuck them for €10/€20 raw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Why do women stay away from men who went or go to hookers?You pay them 10 euro and 20 to go raw and put them at risk for pregnancy and STIs. You said you often go raw which means you literally don’t give a fuck if you get them pregnant and put them in an even worse financial situation. Don’t use the sentence ‘I’m helping them out’. At least have the decency to admit that you are a disgustingly degenerate POS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Why do women stay away from men who went or go to hookers?Those men would benefit from going to an actual psychologist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Pursuit of status, no matter how dangerousWow I thought I was the only one who wanted to fuck osama bin laden, I’m so glad every other woman does too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 09:03 AM |
| 3 | Do you believe that all men end up paying to be with a woman in one way or another?I’m pretty sure those dudes pay for everything? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 06:19 AM |
| 8 | Do you believe that all men end up paying to be with a woman in one way or another?Do the top 1% not pay for some dates, pay bills in a relationship, have a job or go to the gym? You’ve listed a lot of things under the ‘paying’ for women category, I don’t know any man that wouldn’t fit it. And in that regard I also wouldn’t know any woman who wouldn’t fit the reverse ie. ‘paying’ for men. I really don’t know how you imagine a relationship where literal 0 investment needs to be made? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 01:55 AM |
| 24 | CMV: As a bisexual guy women are generally far more homophobic than men are when it comes to their partner being bisexual or having experimented with the same sexSo I dated a bi guy 2 years ago. I didn’t know he was bi when we started dating and he only opened up to me a few months into our relationship. I was very VERY vocal about how okay with it I was but there was definitely a part of me taken aback. I tried to do the PC woke feminist version of the ‘cool girl’ act and suggest we go to a gay bar together where we both had a free pass of kissing people of the same gender. Seeing my boyfriend getting hit on left right and centre while I spent the entir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Women are not more attractive than men on averageOh shit lmao my bad, I get ya. I feel the same way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 06:14 PM |
| 4 | Women are not more attractive than men on averageI’m just surprised you say it’s only societal pressure that’s keeping you from being gay. For most people it’s the fact that they’re not gay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Women are not more attractive than men on averageWhat societal pressures | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Can women not genuinely enjoy sex for the sake of it?I thought that was also the case. And then my friends and I started having sex with men. It’s genuinely shocking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 05:42 PM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalYour mental well-being takes a toll on your physical health as well. Also like 75% of workplace assaults happen to healthcare workers, with the majority being towards nurses. More physical harm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 03:09 PM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalI said primarily physical jobs and primarily emotional jobs can be equally taxing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 03:02 PM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalBill Burr the comedian who built his career off mysoginist/racist jokes who then married a black feminist is gonna answer my question? Man can’t even keep up with his own values who is he to be the voice of reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 02:41 PM |
| 3 | Would it be better for everyone if women couldn’t work?Fair enough, you just threw me off with your wording of your hunter gatherer description. I agree with the other two points | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 01:50 PM |
| 6 | Would it be better for everyone if women couldn’t work?Hunter gatherer era: men hunted, women gathered and took care of kids Agricultural era: you said it yourself, men and women both working on their farms and houses Industrial revolution: once again, everyone except the wealthiest of the people were all still working Was your point to agree with the comment above? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 01:41 PM |
| 34 | Women are not more attractive than men on averageSome gay men have standards lower than the floor. My gay best friend broke up with his bf like 2 months ago and he went out alone to a gay bar that same night, pulled a weekend longer bender and came back with 18 added notches to his n-count. In 3 days. I asked him if they were all attractive and he said he doesn’t really even remember what most of them looked like. It was just about sex. Gay men are just living the wildest lives out there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 02:12 AM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalI’m fun, smart, good looking, a good conversationalist, allow for emotional vulnerability, generous, have my own money, have a cool job and interesting hobbies and a positive outlook on life. In before: haha men don’t care about those things :p honestly man, they’re having fun dating me and obviously see it as worthwhile, I’m having fun dating them. It’s not that serious. I doubt me and you would ever date so you don’t have to worry about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 09:39 AM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalHow am I supposed to prove any of this to you? You can think whatever you want and also think that I’m lying when I say something that doesn’t fit your narrative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 09:27 AM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalYes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 08:46 AM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalI don’t agree but there’s no way we’ll see eye to eye no matter how much we discuss this. So I’ll do my thing, you do yours. I’m not hurting anyone, hopefully you aren’t either, there is no harm done | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 08:46 AM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalIf I was sleeping with them I’d be a hooker, if I’m not I’m an escort. I’m sorry guys wanna pay for our dates when they take me out I’m not forcing them and I’m not gonna stop them because of some salty reddit dudes who don’t know shit about dating lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 08:09 AM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalYou didn’t ask me what I offer them? And I don’t need an atm, I just date men who pay for dates. I can afford that on my own, it’s just the thought that counts. I earn more than some, less than others. It’s just about the effort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 08:07 AM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalI’ve spoken quite a lot on this sub about how I expect to be the breadwinner and I am actively vetting for someone who will want to be the primary caregiver for kids. I make enough money and I love my job. I’m not gonna date a man child who doesn’t have at least an average income though. This was my prior comment I don’t know what you’re not understanding | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Can women not genuinely enjoy sex for the sake of it?Yeah they’re great, just not my thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 07:31 AM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalEarns less ** typo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 07:31 AM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalHow do you know who offers what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 07:31 AM |
| 2 | Can women not genuinely enjoy sex for the sake of it?I had one when I was 19 but it turned into a 6 month relationship, so kinda? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 07:06 AM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalI want someone who earns a salary because I also do but I’m not fussed if he earns more than me if he is okay with being the primary caregiver? If that’s your definition of a breadwinner then yes, yes I do. In fact most people, men and women, would want a breadwinner partner if that’s what we’re defining it as | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 06:45 AM |
| 5 | Can women not genuinely enjoy sex for the sake of it?Yes I know. Which is why I don’t have casual sex as I have implied many times in this thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 06:43 AM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalI’m not having any issues getting them to stick around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 06:42 AM |
| 7 | Can women not genuinely enjoy sex for the sake of it?If that was easily available, more women would be having casual sex. Men aren’t good at casual sex. And I am personally against abortion which I tell my partners from the get go. If we’re fwb and I get pregnant congrats we’re parents now! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 06:33 AM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalI dunno, I’m dating 3 guys at the moment and I haven’t touched my wallet and I’m not sleeping with any of them. Y’all keep crying about it, it’s not gonna stop me from doing what I’m doing nor will it stop me from telling women that it WORKS because it does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 06:31 AM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalI’ve spoken quite a lot on this sub about how I expect to be the breadwinner and I am actively vetting for someone who will want to be the primary caregiver for kids. I make enough money and I love my job. I’m not gonna date a man child who doesn’t have at least an average income though. Keep telling me what I want internet stranger who’s never met me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 06:28 AM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalYes I want all my requirements, yes I expect a man to also earn money like I do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 05:53 AM |
| 7 | FDS is the strategy to find a HVM while RPW is the strategy to keep him?FDS and RPW are not complimentary at all. The only thing we agree on is that red pill men should be avoided which FDS succeeds in doing while RPW strategies attract them and then act shook when their captain is mean to them. I got banned off RPW by a MALE mod when I suggested a woman’s unemployed ‘captain’ for the last 2 years who expected her to be the breadwinner and do all the cooking and cleaning because that was a woman’s job and who was angry she didn’t have enough time to suck his dick wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 03:52 AM |
| 2 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalI wish FDS was lying and exaggerating about their experiences with men. Truely, I wish that they were just making that shit up but when you’re a woman who has experienced similar scenarios to them and every woman you know has also had similar experiences it’s difficult to maintain that outlook | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 01:38 AM |
| 1 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalWhat’s the questionable part? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 09:20 PM |
| 2 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalLike I said, some things will be slightly tweaked as I get older but I’ve got older friends now and the ones that are doing the best in dating are the ones that are doing it following FDS as closely as possible. I mean I don’t know how y’all don’t understand that FDS isn’t something brand new - these are tried and tested techniques that have been proven to work. It’s not just me going off my experience. It’s from what I see and hear from my friends, what my mother and aunts have told me, relatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 09:19 PM |
| 0 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalWhat was the context of that? That old men shouldn’t reproduce just because they can since their decreased sperm quality has negative repercussions on the children. I’m sorry but that’s not exactly hate speech and I stand by what I said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 09:00 PM |
| 4 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalThe childcare and nurturing jobs are almost always left to women despite equal opportunity - they just don’t wanna do them. Physical labour is something men are better at, emotional labour is something women are better at. Who’s to say what’s more taxing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 04:44 PM |
| 6 | Can women not genuinely enjoy sex for the sake of it?Sex just for the sake of sex doesn’t happen at all for me. Because attractiveness is the only thing I can judge in a person who I haven’t properly gotten to know so I need to find out the rest of those things. And without me knowing the rest of those things, I can’t have sex just for the sake of sex. Like I said, if someone gave me a hot dude and told me all of my other requirements are guaranteed to be fulfilled, then hell yea I’d go there. But if you just gave me a hot guy without any of those… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 04:39 PM |
| 8 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalMen built civilization and then shared it with women for free. HAHAHHAHAH fuck. Y’all just keep ignoring women’s labour and then keep wondering why women sick of your shit. God I can’t even hate you, you genuinely believe this shit. Thank you for building society with 0 help from women and thank you for sharing it with us without us doing anything for you, or for society, to deserve such a thing. Thank you for protecting us in wars that you created. Women haven’t done anything for men ever and a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 04:23 PM |
| 4 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalIf that’s what you think that’s cool! Doesn’t change the fact that everything that she said is true but if that hasn’t been your experience in the manosphere I’d understand why you’d be feeling attacked by it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 04:06 PM |
| 9 | Can women not genuinely enjoy sex for the sake of it?Yeah? It’s not just the about physical attractiveness doesn’t mean physical attractiveness doesn’t play a part in it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 03:34 PM |
| 3 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalThat’s because one side consists of posts upon posts of how to manipulate the other person into doing said thing. Isolating, using alcohol to get past her anti slut barriers, lying that you want a relationship, pretending you want don’t want to have sex and gaslighting her if she insists that you do, pushing past her LMR, negging, there are posts on how to turn a ‘no’ into a ‘yes’ or posts that literally go along the lines of ‘her saying no is just LMR, keep pushing’. And yes you can say - well … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 03:32 PM |
| 9 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalOk let me get this straight To me a woman who says "I cheated, give me your money" is on the same level as rapist. And most men see it the same way. So since that is the part of FDS is what gets you angry you think that FDS does promote cheating and divorcing and Women on FDS don't advocate for cheating and divorcing their husband the same way TRP don't advocate for rape and murder. TRP does promote rape and murder. You really want your argument to be that FDS promotes cheating and divorce and T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 03:23 PM |
| 15 | Can women not genuinely enjoy sex for the sake of it?Nah there are a lot of attractive men and I am not keen to fuck most of them. If you think that a lot of men check those other boxes then it is obvious that you don’t have sex with men. But you are right in that if someone did check all the other boxes but wasn’t attractive I wouldn’t want NSA sex with him. I also wouldn’t wanna fuck an attractive dude if he didn’t satisfy me sexually or if he refused to wear a condom or if he has an STI. I need all of the above guaranteed for me to want to have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 03:12 PM |
| 6 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalThat sub literally had a post from FDS like 2 days ago and it was taken completely out of context just to make the men angry about it. So I’ve seen how MR makes their arguments and it is very, very heavily based on emotional triggers that are almost always taken out of context and are very rarely viewed objectively. Typical SJW behaviour | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 03:04 PM |
| 2 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalYes there are bad people in the world. Show me a post like that that is actually on FDS if you wanna argue that point. I’m not going to argue about a hypothetical scenario where someone on FDS has posted something like that just because you think they hold that belief despite there being no evidence that supports your theory | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 02:59 PM |
| 7 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalExactly and a guy that expects you to come to his house after the first date and you don’t, also has the right to cut the relationship off there! You’re getting it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 02:42 PM |
| 3 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalHow does it encourage lying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 02:38 PM |
| 7 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalNo wonder y’all are so angry about FDS when you just imagine it says all these horrible things that no one actually says on the sub. Honestly sometimes I wonder if we’re even talking about the same sub or if men get redirected to somewhere else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 02:35 PM |
| 3 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalThanks I do! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 02:28 PM |
| 5 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street Journalhttps://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/f0phhc/holy_shit_fds_made_the_wall_street_journal/fgx6x33/ I read this woman’s comment just recently and I feel like there is no way I could possibly top her explanation on the difference between TRP and FDS and use of the FDS terminology. Give it a read | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 01:53 PM |
| 3 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalThat’s cool no ones arguing that it‘ll work on everyone! It’s works for me though and I like it and that’s all I can say to vouch for FDS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 01:47 PM |
| 3 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalI know what my company is offering and right now I have enough applicants that I need a really good vetting process to work through them effectively. In fact, my company is at the peak of its business right now. It’ll drop down a bit in a few years and I might need to readjust some requirements. But right now I’m 23, good looking and making a decent amount of money. I can be as picky as I want with my applicants because they never stop rolling in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 01:44 PM |
| 6 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalAnd I have no doubt you’ll be able to find an endless amount of women happy with that arrangement. Just not FDS women, and since y’all don’t want FDS women and we don’t want TRP men it all works out and no one wastes their time :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 01:29 PM |
| 5 | Is male sexuality seen as a joke/disgusting?Yeah think of how some men speak about women with sexual pasts as ‘used up’ or ‘damaged’ or ‘dirty’. They see male sexuality as so disgusting and as something inherently bad that it literally lowers the woman’s value if she associates with it. Think of how freaked out men get around gay men, think of how disgusted they are at the mere thought of gay sex or a gay male desiring them. Humour is used to cover up the disgust men have towards their own sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 01:23 PM |
| 5 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalLet’s say I am hiring people for my company. I write my list of requirements on my job ad. I don’t expect that everyone who applies will fulfil all of my requirements but I filter the resumes out until someone does. The people that didn’t meet my criteria are more than welcome to apply to other jobs and they will find someone who thinks they are the right fit for their company. Filtering for what you want =\= expecting it to be a quality present in every man. Y’all make it sound like we’re going… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 01:01 PM |
| 5 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalOkay then criticise GC not FDS? Can you show me any post on the entire manosphere where they have taken a case of a man abusing a woman and had a talk about how the man was abusive and created a toxic relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 12:47 PM |
| 6 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalWell they’re not defending her either? It’s a female dating sub, what point would talking about her serve? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 12:17 PM |
| 12 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalWe don’t expect men to fit those standards! I wait 3+ months to have sex, I’m not angry or even bothered by the men that don’t want to. They are free to leave and fuck someone who doesn’t want to wait, I don’t care about those men and they shouldn’t care about me because we are not compatible. There are no hard feelings. FDS continuously stresses the importance of women being financially secure and independent themselves. They just want a man that can prove he is able to take care of himself, ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 12:15 PM |
| 6 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalYou don’t have to bet anything you can just look at the sub and realise you’re wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 12:02 PM |
| 37 | Can women not genuinely enjoy sex for the sake of it?If someone gift wrapped me a man and told me: this guy will be attractive, will respect you and will always ensure you are satisfied sexually, he won’t have any STIs and won’t cry about using condoms and will act like a responsible adult in the case you end up pregnant - but he will not commit to you, you will strictly have a FWB relationship. I’d unwrap that man and enjoy our sex based relationship while it lasts... but you don’t have any of those guarantees with randoms guys. The closest you c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 11:59 AM |
| 2 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalOkay I’m sorry but just the fact that you refuse to acknowledge that men would be raging over an FDS post like that, when the entire manosphere had a mental breakdown over that infamous post of women saying they expect men to pay for the first date is a fucking joke! Dudes are salty about every post on there. Some posts warrant some saltiness, but I’ve literally received death threats after I posted this one post calling out the hypocrisy of MGTOW men on there. Death threats! And here you are, t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 11:06 AM |
| 5 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalI’m not reaching I’m asking you if FDS posted an article like that, genders reversed, would there not be an outrage? In that MEME posted on FDS there are women saying we shouldn’t be saying things like that. Where’s the same response on the make forums? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 10:49 AM |
| 5 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalWhat was the point of posting that article? What was the tone behind the comments? There’s one guy that literally says ‘winning!’ And lmao this comment CALLED IT https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ezd1wb/and_i_oop/fgn4jmp/ Edit: my point was - if women on FDS posted the link of an articles titled ‘man who moved to Cuba with younger girlfriend murdered and found in a suitcase’ there would be an outrage from the dudes on these pages because LoOk aT ThEsE BiTchEs lAuGhInG aBoUT … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 10:37 AM |
| 10 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street Journalhttps://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/f05mtb/canadian_woman_52_who_moved_to_cuba_with_her/ You could literally just take a peek through his posts dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 10:19 AM |
| 13 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalIt’s not playing games though. It’s setting standards for your relationships that you abide by. No one has to fit your standards, but you don’t have to entertain the people who don’t. None of the ‘games’ are harmful to the other person - they will not harm the men in any way. The end goal of FDS is a loving LTR where the give and take is equal. The end goal of TRP is playing with as many women as possible, wasting their time, actively trying to diminish their self esteem and confidence, expectin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 10:18 AM |
| 13 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalThis guy literally posted an article on mgtow yesterday about a woman getting murdered by her boyfriend with his loyal followers foaming at the mouth about how it was her fault for following her vagina tingles. FDS would NEVER celebrate a man getting murdered by his partner. But noooooo the reason why the media sees mgtow as threatening and not FDS is because of ‘gynocentrism’ and a ‘pussy pass’. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 10:04 AM |
| 14 | FDS Endorsed by the Wall Street JournalYeah that’s literally what FDS aims to do. Provide a guidebook on which behaviours women should avoid in LVM, including TRP men and what actions women can take to more effectively vet against these men so they get outta there faster. Like, there is even a word coined specifically for the type of woman who bows to the demands of a TRP guy and that’s a pickmesha. Value yourself, know what you want, and quietly stop seeing HIM as soon as you figure out that your goals are incompatible. Congrats you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 09:53 AM |
| 2 | Men overestimate how much women care about male approvalWomen obviously, but they ain’t doing any of those other things I listed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 04:58 AM |
| 0 | It’s stories like this that make me wonder why women here expect so much. She’s in a non-committal relationship and pissed that he won’t go over to contract the flu from her. Once again, this shows the societal disposability of men this day and age. The nerve proves these women’s privileges.Extremist LMAO | /r/MensRights | 09/02/20 04:43 AM |
| 3 | Men overestimate how much women care about male approvalHair transplants, viagra, testosterone supplements... I worked as a receptionist for a cosmetics doctor and the men made up ~20% of the clients and it’s still increasing. They’re just a bit more subtle about their Botox and nose surgeries | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 04:43 AM |
| 3 | Is 40 too old to get married and have kids??It’s not too old, you just need to consider what it implies. My friend’s dad had her when he was 46 and his son when he was 49. His kids are now 25 and 22 and he’s turning 72 soon and is not doing great health-wise. And I mean, life expectancy is 76 for men, so being ill at 72 isn’t that shocking. He’s finding it really hard to cope with the fact that he probably won’t be around to see his kids turn into proper adults and he won’t be able to experience being a grandfather. His wife (14 years you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Why do women seem to love damaged men? It doesn’t line up with any “pill”.I attract a lot of damaged people because I have a need to nurture and fix. This isn’t only limited to the men I date but to the men and women I befriend. Most of the people in my life came into my life by me meeting them randomly, having an intense conversation about their deepest, darkest secrets and them telling me “wow I’ve never told that to anyone before”. I guess those words tap into some of my narcissism as well because they’re enough for me to allow this person to latch onto me forever.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 04:00 AM |
| 0 | Men overestimate how much women care about male approvalhttps://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/didl7n/women_do_you_even_have_any_hobbies_please_read/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 03:20 AM |
| 6 | Men overestimate how much women care about male approvalLmao men lie that they’re older when they’re younger (18 year olds saying they’re early 20s) and when they hit 40 they panic, bring it down to 35 and keep it there for the next 20 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 02:58 AM |
| -1 | It’s stories like this that make me wonder why women here expect so much. She’s in a non-committal relationship and pissed that he won’t go over to contract the flu from her. Once again, this shows the societal disposability of men this day and age. The nerve proves these women’s privileges.Sorry you brought ‘my subreddit’ to yours so obviously you want our attention. We don’t cross link your whack ass posts on our sub lmao | /r/MensRights | 09/02/20 02:36 AM |
| -1 | It’s stories like this that make me wonder why women here expect so much. She’s in a non-committal relationship and pissed that he won’t go over to contract the flu from her. Once again, this shows the societal disposability of men this day and age. The nerve proves these women’s privileges.Wow a random dude on the internet has never called me a dumbass bitch before when they’ve been in the wrong, I’m shook | /r/MensRights | 09/02/20 01:49 AM |
| -1 | It’s stories like this that make me wonder why women here expect so much. She’s in a non-committal relationship and pissed that he won’t go over to contract the flu from her. Once again, this shows the societal disposability of men this day and age. The nerve proves these women’s privileges.I’m sorry I cannot keep going through her post trying to explain it to you because you have the reading comprehension of a toddler man reading a woman’s post with the pre meditated intention to get angry about it | /r/MensRights | 09/02/20 01:25 AM |
| 1 | One step at a time. Finland now grants fathers paid paternal leave.Women have more maternity leave = feminism is evil Women and men have equal maternity/paternity leave = feminism is evil | /r/MensRights | 08/02/20 01:19 PM |
| 0 | It’s stories like this that make me wonder why women here expect so much. She’s in a non-committal relationship and pissed that he won’t go over to contract the flu from her. Once again, this shows the societal disposability of men this day and age. The nerve proves these women’s privileges.No she didn’t get pissed that he didn’t visit her while she was sick you literally jumped to that assumption just because you want to elicit an emotional response in men. She merely mentioned it to explain that they hadn’t seen each other in a while and then when she was able to see him again (after her flu had passed) his effort had dropped. She wasn’t expecting him to go to her while she had the flu and risk getting sick, she just wanted him to make the same amount of effort that she was makin… | /r/MensRights | 08/02/20 07:37 AM |
| 0 | It’s stories like this that make me wonder why women here expect so much. She’s in a non-committal relationship and pissed that he won’t go over to contract the flu from her. Once again, this shows the societal disposability of men this day and age. The nerve proves these women’s privileges.Where does she say she’s pissed about him not going to visit her when she had the flu? There is nothing here that even hints that she may have expected him to go visit her while she was sick lmao you literally twisted that so much just so you could have something to be angry about | /r/MensRights | 08/02/20 05:16 AM |
| 1 | The value of a SAHM's labor should be factored into divorceThis could work if.... you’ve been paying your wife an agreed upon salary for her labour during your marriage. Let’s say you decide that she should be getting $2000 a month and she has to perform all of the agreed upon duties. In the case of divorce you stop paying her salary. You can’t just suddenly decide her labour is valuable AFTER you’ve divorced. This would be problematic in the case where a woman would be giving up a high paying job to be a SAHM though... the incentive to do all those dut… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/20 02:26 AM |
| 1 | What goes on in women who are 30+ that decide to settle down?If you couldn’t detect the sarcasm in that message.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Canadian man literally burns $750,000 in a bonfire to avoid paying child and spousal support.Nothing is! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Canadian man literally burns $750,000 in a bonfire to avoid paying child and spousal support.It also means there’s room for change | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Canadian man literally burns $750,000 in a bonfire to avoid paying child and spousal support.That’s an optimistic view that I want to agree with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Canadian man literally burns $750,000 in a bonfire to avoid paying child and spousal support.No definitely not 100%. But it is the driving force of life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 10:20 AM |
| 0 | Canadian man literally burns $750,000 in a bonfire to avoid paying child and spousal support.Yeah that’s how marriages work and that’s what he signed up for. Her kids, his money. If they divorce each person gets 50% kids, 50% money. He should respect the contract that he signed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 10:14 AM |
| 4 | Canadian man literally burns $750,000 in a bonfire to avoid paying child and spousal support.Tomato, potato | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 06:49 AM |
| 9 | Canadian man literally burns $750,000 in a bonfire to avoid paying child and spousal support.Just block them off social media and do some drugs like a normal person geez | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Canadian man literally burns $750,000 in a bonfire to avoid paying child and spousal support.Damn I honestly don’t know much about America and so many of these debates are catered to you guys. I’m talking about my experiences as someone in Eastern Europe and how most families struggling with money consider having 1 child a luxury | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 06:09 AM |
| 4 | Men Crave Sex cause it's the only way we dont get shamed for admitting we want physical affectionOk but what if your bro sucked your dick and said ‘I love you, no homo’. Would that help? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 06:07 AM |
| 4 | Canadian man literally burns $750,000 in a bonfire to avoid paying child and spousal support.Yeah and men should vet women they have kids with to minimise their chances of ending up with a piece of shit woman like that as well. Both men and women should be ‘shit testing’ the person they decide to create a human being with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 06:02 AM |
| 3 | Canadian man literally burns $750,000 in a bonfire to avoid paying child and spousal support.Nah people with low income and no education who have contraceptives available have the least amount of kids. If you introduce contraceptives to third world countries the richer people will be outdoing them kids wise in a few generations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Canadian man literally burns $750,000 in a bonfire to avoid paying child and spousal support.Sabotaging your children’s chances of survival/reproduction is also leading to being a genetic dead end. We’re all (meant to be) playing the long game when it comes to reproduction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 05:55 AM |
| 8 | Canadian man literally burns $750,000 in a bonfire to avoid paying child and spousal support.I mean a fathers role is provision and protection for his kids. That million dollars wasn’t all for them, he probably would’ve been paying like $300-$400 a month which even if the kids were literal infants would’ve amounted to ~$60-$70k. And I doubt the kids were infants so the total amount would be a lower. But even if he did give them a million dollars. Parents that want the best outcome for their kids invest as much as possible into them. Investing in your kids is the only worthwhile way to i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 05:38 AM |
| 22 | Canadian man literally burns $750,000 in a bonfire to avoid paying child and spousal support.Man, I have an uncle who was very well off and owned his own company. He cheated on his wife with his secretary (how cliché). Wife finds out, goes to divorce him. He doesn’t wanna pay any alimony or child support (she was a SAHM and they had 4 kids so I presume it was quite a lot) so he put the entire company and all his properties in his mistresses name. He puts all his money into her account. The mistress liquidates all his properties, sells his company and just fucking disappears with all his… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 05:17 AM |
| 4 | What goes on in women who are 30+ that decide to settle down?People in the Midwest hanging for guys like that should just quit the game now. They never had a chance. And lmao my tumblr aesthetic was sad skinny boys crying into their poetry books with a cigarette dangling from their mouth. Finding them was easy, retaining my mental stability around them was hard. I was the female equivalent of captain save a hoe. Fuck tumblr | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 04:51 AM |
| 5 | What goes on in women who are 30+ that decide to settle down?This has got to be my most frequently typed out sentence on this sub but here I go again: WOMEN DONT WANT CASUAL SEX LIKE MEN DO. Being able to get sex easy does not mean being a woman is easy. We want different things!!! Agghhh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 04:39 AM |
| 3 | What goes on in women who are 30+ that decide to settle down?Damn you did college the right way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 03:58 AM |
| 8 | What goes on in women who are 30+ that decide to settle down?Tryna find a chad on tinder is so damn hard. Even harder now that Chadfishing is a thing. You reverse image search Kyle, 23 8km away, works in IT and find out he’s actually Steve, 28 underwear model from New York | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 03:57 AM |
| 4 | What goes on in women who are 30+ that decide to settle down?Ok lemme get back to you after I’ve reached double digits and have experienced the Chad life. I’m probably not qualified to comment on this yet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 03:53 AM |
| 5 | What goes on in women who are 30+ that decide to settle down?Maybe I’m really lucky or I’ve just lived a very sheltered life (which I don’t think is the case) but that just has not been my experience with men orrrrr my friends’ experience. I just can’t imagine that enough women are having these experiences for it to have become a stereotype here. Also Chads like the way y’all describe them are near impossible to come by and when you see one he’s usually in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 03:19 AM |
| 8 | What goes on in women who are 30+ that decide to settle down?Beauty helps with attraction but they are not the same thing. There are gorgeous men out there that I have 0 attraction for. There are average men I have crazy amounts of attraction to. Attraction encompasses so many different variables and characteristics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 03:05 AM |
| 14 | What goes on in women who are 30+ that decide to settle down?... conga line of Chads she railed in her 20s. She’s fucked men who had 9 inch thick dicks , chiseled jawline, 10/10 face. Where are these Chads? Seriously is there a secret group for women that I haven’t been invited to where they gather together and fuck an entire conga line of model tier men with huge, thick dicks? I didn’t realise how much I’ve been missing out on. My friends, too. Unless they are apart of this secret group and are getting railed by Chads every day but they don’t want to tel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 03:02 AM |
| 3 | Why doesn’t being hurt by alphas make women attracted to betas?I have no idea what you’re trying to say ngl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 06:50 AM |
| 6 | Is fds a troll pageI’m a woman, I know a lot of women that use reddit. And FDS is fkn great. I’m sure some of the members might be trolls and some of the posts are there to rev TRP dudes up (it’s funny because it works every fkn time), but most of the posts are great and the memes are on point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 05:40 AM |
| 9 | Society doesn't tell men that “All women are special and perfect”. Certain men just lied to themselves.Well daddy issues are just a meme/sexual kink by this point as well, I don’t think society is doing a stellar job with addressing parental issues at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 05:36 AM |
| 7 | Society doesn't tell men that “All women are special and perfect”. Certain men just lied to themselves.This is probably true. We talk a lot about women with daddy issues and not nearly enough about men with mummy issues | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 05:08 AM |
| 4 | Why doesn’t being hurt by alphas make women attracted to betas?... how many women do you know that have had this oddly specific thing happen to them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 01:15 AM |
| 5 | Am I supposed to see myself as a prize (or not)?My uncle is very naturally red pilled, but when he gives dating advice to me, my sister or his daughter it is like he read FDS and is quoting it word for word. He is an ‘alpha’ by TRP terms but says that guys like him are only fun for a few months and locking them down for commitment is possible, but difficult and requires constant maintenance. Basically alpha guys are the equivalent to a diva girlfriend with a princess complex. He wants to give us advise that will vet against men like him. Dati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 11:21 PM |
| 8 | Why doesn’t being hurt by alphas make women attracted to betas?Are you telling me that you can’t go for curvy redheads anymore? Her looks isn’t what ripped your heart out, it’s her personality and yet here you are vetting only against her looks. You’ll attract someone that acts the exact same way, come to the conclusion that since one curvy redhead woman and one petite blonde woman both acted like heartless bitches it must mean AWALT. So do alpha men all have the same look? Are you saying women go for guys that look the same and shouldn’t be surprised when … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 11:08 PM |
| 7 | Do all women desire/expect a man with a high-powered career, six figure income, and big dreams for the future?I don’t think there’s a one size fits all for the kind of men women want. I value empathy and being good with kids above that so I tend to almost always go for teachers, counsellors, ‘healers’. Last guy I dated was a nurse. I’m in a STEM field myself, so I need someone that balances me out. I acknowledge that I will most likely be the breadwinner and I want someone that will take a more active role in childcare than I will be able to. I also lead a more alternative lifestyle so I need someone th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 11:59 AM |
| 7 | Q4women: What’s a better strategy for a man to get laid...C) pay a hooker | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 04:08 AM |
| 10 | Worst first date you ever went on?Went on a date to an Italian restaurant and the guy ate his spaghetti with his fingers. Like there was a perfectly good fork there and he was just scooping it up into his mouth. It was the most disgusting thing I’ve ever seen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Is Hypergamy or Polygyny worse for monogamous relationships?When they are in love no other men exist and stuff like that. This is a lie women tell men because y’all are so damn insecure about every other man around you. You need to believe this because otherwise your lizard brain will just wanna kill every dude around your partner. Still, I would’ve thought TRP would’ve taught you better. Everyone notices other people around them. Attraction can be had for other people. It doesn’t mean your attraction to your partner disappears. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 03:15 AM |
| 12 | Is Hypergamy or Polygyny worse for monogamous relationships?Women also think ‘if he wants to fuck other women that must mean that he doesn’t love me’. No matter how much men say that isn’t so, there is always disbelief from the women. Same with what you’re saying. I’m telling you, I can be attracted to more than one person and still choose the guy I’m with. The reason that you don’t believe me (and the reason why women don’t believe men when they say their part) is 50% insecurity and 50% projection. It’s not fun to think about, which is why people get so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 01:27 PM |
| 6 | Is Hypergamy or Polygyny worse for monogamous relationships?Well of course things get more difficult when it’s real people. Because if he had told me his fantasies revolved around girls present in his life and they were hitting on him, I wouldn’t laugh it off. The same way he wouldn’t laugh it off if my hvm was his friend and he was hitting on me. Which is why my argument is - both polygyny and hypergamy bear relatively similar weight in relationship destruction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 12:53 PM |
| 9 | Is Hypergamy or Polygyny worse for monogamous relationships?I disagree. Women are capable to having a fantasy man and still being attracted to hubby. They don’t have to only be attracted to one person for their attraction to be legit. That’s why I gave my example - my attraction towards Harry Styles was there, but I was still wildly attracted to, and in love with my boyfriend. If he was a more insecure man he could’ve let that get to him and rationalised that I must not be attracted to him because he is nothing like my ultimate fantasy dude. But I also c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 12:34 PM |
| 13 | Is Hypergamy or Polygyny worse for monogamous relationships?I would argue that Hypergamy is much worse simply because I can will myself not to cheat,you can't will yourself to stay attracted to someone. You are comparing an action to a desire. A more accurate comparison is ‘men can’t will themselves to not desire many other women and women can’t will themselves to not desire the better man’. Cheating is a choice that is controllable and avoidable, desire is a little trickier. Men’s desire for other women even while in monogamous relationships is evident … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: How do you feel about the red pill now offering financial advice?They realised they can’t be alphas and now are hoping they’ll at least get to be some woman’s beta bux | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 09:48 AM |
| 3 | Unattractive men have absolutely no idea what the life of an attractive man is likeOn a different note, I feel like that song of Bo’s should just start playing automatically whenever you’re in any of the subs we discuss. It would help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/20 09:12 PM |
| 5 | How many dates is "three months"?About 15-20 times. They’re not all 3 star Michelin dinner dates, you won’t go broke don’t worry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/20 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Ending Child Support and Special Welfare Benefits Fixes the SMPSome of them. Judging by the way the entire manosphere gets super salty about this, and the way they exaggerate it to no end and are already fantasising about ways they’d avoid it if it came to it... I think you’ll find that a large proportion of these men understand the system and just don’t wanna do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/20 08:46 PM |
| 10 | Ending Child Support and Special Welfare Benefits Fixes the SMPOnly ~10% of child custody cases get decided by family court. Majority of the time it’s the parents that make that decision alone. And 75% of the time they decide on the mother being the primary care giver. Most men would rather pay child support than raise their kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/20 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledJudging by this dumpster fire of a thread, I’m not hopeful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/20 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledI have a similar mentality on this. I don’t know if you’ve read about ecofeminism but I think you’ll find it interesting and a breath of fresh air amongst the gender related ideologies :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/20 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledDude I’m off to bed and I will not be continuing this conversation in the morning because it is so dumb. But it isn’t healthy to be as obsessed with this as you are. The way you are viewing it is not right and you’ve turned a mouse into an elephant in your head. I hope that this part of you only comes out on dumb online arguments like this because if this is your thought process in real life too then I presume you’re struggling quite a bit. Maybe therapy would help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledOkay so if we credit all the bad things that men to do women, then women get the credit for all the good things that men have done as well. Men only do good things to appeal to women’s hypergamous nature and to be the best competitor they can be in winning women’s hearts and vaginas. Since apparently men have no drive nor personal morals and their only incentive in life is getting women and they are willing to both work hard to appeal to women and kill to compete for women. So now we come to the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe that there is "someone out there for everyone"?You think arranged marriages and enforced monogamy meant people had found their person? Only a very small proportion of people find their ‘soulmate’. Pre sexual liberation most people spent their lives in miserable marriages and a few spent them alone. Now less people are in miserable marriages but more people are alone. Nothings really changing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledBreaking news: Men and women are different, more at 6! Sexual attention from men literally means nothing to me. Getting cat called in that way in the reason I carry pepper spray with me. You want me to sympathise with men when you can’t do the same with women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledI’m not talking about men or women in a broad term. What have YOU done? Because if you take credit for the good that other men have done, you also need to realise that men also have committed the most murder, rape and created like every single war in the world. Do you want all of those credited to you too? Men are not opposed to female hypergamy. Think about how men react to women from poor countries who will settle for ANY man with the right passport? These women are willing to take low value m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledYou know, I’ve been totally single for a while now. If I could switch bodies with you so we can both see what it’s like, I’d do it. But I haven’t spoken to a guy in a romantic/sexual way in ages. Talking to men who are just tryna get in your pants makes you feel lonely as well. There is no value to those interactions for me so I avoid them. Being single isn’t the worst thing in the world. I’m not expecting a relationship or sex. If they happen they happen. If not, I guess I’ll go WGTOW. I’ll be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledand so you choose to doom them to a life of suffering, for no other reason but because you want to. You give me too much credit. I am not God. I do not have any kind of control over the suffering of 90% of the human population If I was an incel with a female mindset/sex drive it would be a lot more bearable than it is for men because I don’t get my validation via men. And I could still have a kid, which is the whole point of this sex thing anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledYes our source of inequality is biological you are right. We can only fix this completely by turning into literal robots. And I asked you for specific examples of what you do for women and what I can do for men. What you gave me is really vague. Because I also think that I am fair and I believe I do recognise the system in which we live and I don’t really give a fuck about power over men honestly. I’ve never directly hurt anyone and I try to be good to the people in my life and that is all I can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledI won’t be able to change your mind on anything and you be able to change mine. I think you’re wrong or at the very least hypocritical with everything you’ve written. You probably think the same about me. This conversation is a total dead end. If you’ve got any specific solutions that people can personally implement, I’d like to hear them but right now you’re getting riled up over things that only seem true to you because you have an emotional connection to this topic. It took me a few years to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledWhy must women always attempt to "harness men for things". Stop using us as tools! Why must men always attempt to exploit women for their own sexual imperative? Stop using us as your personal incubators/fleshlights! Men should be more picky because we don’t need the world overrun by human garbage. I think women aren’t picky enough. Men definitely aren’t picky enough. We should not all be freely and continuously reproducing. We’d be overpopulated with a species that is 90% genetic trash in only a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledWhat do you suggest I, personally, do to help solve this issue for men? What are you, personally, doing to help women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledNature made men disposable and made women physically weaker and bearing all the risk of reproduction. We can argue all day long about what’s fair and what isn’t but nature doesn’t give a fuck. I was born a woman and I gotta focus on my shitty end of the deal while you focus on yours. I don’t go around being angry at biology for it. The two objectively even each other out - will I be more sympathetic with women’s biological burden? Sure because I can relate. The same way you are more sympathetic … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledBy throwing the dice do you mean... getting pregnant and having a son? Like what am I supposed to do to avoid that if that is the outcome? Abort male babies? Don’t have any children at all? Only have sex with the top 1% of men genetics wise? Isn’t that what y’all complain about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Regardless of whether you're blue pill or red pill, I think many of us can agree that strawmaning is currently done almost exclusively by the blue pill side.This thread has been the greatest example of a strawman arguing that he doesn’t strawman that I’ve ever seen. Meta af, I’m glad you’ve expanded your horizons out of MGTOW Dang, looking forward to reading more of your brilliance on PPD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 11:00 AM |
| 3 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledWomen’s libidos are altered drastically with BC pills. All you need is a pill that decreases testosterone and your thirst is decreased | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 06:33 AM |
| 2 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledBud you’re talking to a woman doing her masters in engineering. It is us engineers doing the work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 06:25 AM |
| 2 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledThat's fine, but don't expect these people to be happy about it, and don't expect them to not try and burn down everything if they get a chance. How is this an appropriate response? This is why sympathy is so hard to give to people with this mindset smh enough with the toddler tantrums | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledI said the value of male physical labour dropped with the creation of machines and automation that took over the majority of the grunt work. Which is a fact. I did not say that men don’t matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledFrom a biological and social standpoint it would be so, so much worse if women matched men’s standards + libido. Honestly if women were not sexually selective I don’t think society would get very far, we’d all be fucking each other and no one would want to do much else. Sexual selection isn’t something that women collectively decided on just to piss men off. Nature developed it because it is essential for the continuation and betterment of our species. Women won’t change that because it makes no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledI think you’re not understanding my hypothetical scenario where this is happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledWhere did I say men are no longer needed? I don’t even wanna argue your point since it’s based on something that I didn’t even say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 08:59 PM |
| 8 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledI’m sorry for suggesting that men should be able to lead fulfilling lives even in the absence of sex and that society should find ways to ensure men feel validated even when women don’t sleep with them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledI didn’t say that it was a good thing. I just said it was a fact. “There is never not going to be poverty and famine in the world and some people are born to just starve to death”. Do I think that’s good? No. Do I agree with the statement? Yes. If my son if one of the unfortunate ones, I will make sure that he knows he is valued and important regardless of his relationships with women. I will make sure he has an abundance of interests and curiosity for the world and that even if things don’t wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 04:36 PM |
| 5 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledThe way our society currently is would never have been achieved if things didn’t go exactly as they did. It might’ve been better, it might’ve been worse. I believe everything happens as it should and I think there is a reason why movements such as feminism took off after global industrialisation - the value of male physical labour dropped. It’s crazy to expect things to remain the same when society has changed so much. We need different priorities and different social standards. We need differen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledSee this is what I mean, my womanly low libido allows me to have so many other incentives to lead a good, productive life that have nothing to do with sex. Exploring the world, building relationships, helping people in need, studying topics you find interesting, raising kids (even via adoption/fostering), creating a beautiful living space, learning how to play instruments, climbing mt Everest... the world is a big, beautiful place. There are plenty of incentives to work hard. Sex is just a tiny,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 04:12 PM |
| 3 | Do you agree that young women avoid good men because they're afraid of discipline?There needs to be a balance in life. I’m all about working hard and having a goal, but I also just dropped everything for 2 months to go backpacking and do scuba diving classes in Malta, a psychedelic retreat in Portugal, skiing lessons in Austria, skydiving in Switzerland... I’m not going out often when I’m home, but every now and then a rave does wonders. I’ll prioritise my work but I’ll blow it off occasionally to go on a spontaneous road trip. I am just 23 but even if I’m 40 and I end up wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 04:05 PM |
| 2 | How do you feel about people sleeping around in the same social circle?When it works out it’s great, when it doesn’t it’s a fkn mess and will probably ruin the social circle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 03:56 PM |
| 6 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledAs the other dude said above, men thought sexual liberation was a promise for more sex for them. So it wasn’t something they selflessly allowed. It just backfired for the men that aren’t getting chosen AND it backfired for the women that did end up having sex with a lot of men because men still judge them harshly for it. And it turns out casual sex for women is more risk than reward. Everything that I’m talking about is based on the hypothesis that we could somehow lower men’s libido or figure o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 02:23 PM |
| 7 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledLowering it would also help dudes that are borderline suicidal without it. Which is apparently a lot. They’d be able to find purpose outside of sex and wouldn’t feel like a waste of a human being without the validation of a woman’s vagina. And they’d stop being so angry at women about it - it’s a win on both sides. Imagine women’s libidos shot up to men’s levels. Imagine all the STI’s, unwanted babies, violence, complete destruction of any semblance of a family unit/monogamy... what’s the worse … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 01:59 PM |
| 0 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledI’m not saying they never have sex. It just drops in rank from a ‘need’ to a ‘want’. They harness that sexual energy into something else. Men rise above their animal nature, find fulfilment outside of sex, and their libido starts matching women’s so we get along better. It just seems like everyone would get along better when we stop using the “we’re animals with 0 self control” excuse. Like cmon we were given consciousness for a reason, let’s rise above this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledThat’s the spirit! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 01:23 PM |
| -1 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledMaybe only as a treat once in a while when you’ve been a good boy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 01:17 PM |
| 27 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledThis is why I think it’s hilarious how people throughout history have came to the conclusion that women are controlled by their biological urges and female sexuality must be regulated. Women are, for like 5 years when baby rabies hit. And it can be stopped by having a baby. Men have baby rabies their entire lives. They’re not just driven by a need to reproduce 3 days a month for 20 years, they are controlled by it from the first time they pop a boner till they die. Regulating male sexuality and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't as much into "buffed" men as some guys defend, it's just that already-attractive men are immediately considered "buffed" as soon as they put a little muscle on.Pretty thin boys are the new alphas get with the program | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 07:34 AM |
| 6 | Is misogyny just nature?Is it purge week already? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 10:27 AM |
| 2 | What do women bring to a relationship besides sex?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/didl7n/women_do_you_even_have_any_hobbies_please_read/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Are TheRedPill and similar movements going to make any difference, or is the rate of people happily married still going to drop and drop every year?Can you post any links to where women attacked companies that used AI? I’m genuinely curious to see the reasoning behind it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 01:32 PM |
| 5 | Would you Date someone on the opposite end of the political spectrum.I am left wing and lead a borderline hippy lifestyle. One of my best friends is a right winged conservative who has a literal poster of Trump in his room so he can be inspired everyday. This motherfucker worships him like a God. We have mutual respect and love for each other (been friends for 12 years) but whenever we hang out we have a ‘no political talk’ policy. Our friendship has been almost ruined so many times due to politics. If I was dating him, one of us would’ve murdered the other perso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 01:24 PM |
| 5 | Q4Women: How many of your ex boyfriends were absolute pieces of shit?High school boyfriend was great, things ended mutually after we graduated and realised we wanted vastly different things out of life. We stayed on good terms and I’ll be going to his wedding this year Next boyfriend - wouldn’t surprise me if he was getting all his dating advice from TRP. Pretty much ticks off all the characteristics in your list, except aggressive. I’d met him from a friend and he was so confident, lots of negs, cocky, socially dominant. I’ve never liked dudes like that. Then I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensNot everyone is from the USA dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 04:45 PM |
| 4 | Women: what about tall men is so appealing to so many of you?Also clarifying: I am also joking and I in no way want to objectify men by saying there is no difference between him and a ladder. I’m a nice girl I don’t do that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 08:07 PM |
| 6 | Women: what about tall men is so appealing to so many of you?Same thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 08:00 PM |
| 5 | Do men love dominating as much as women love being dominated?It’s literally obsessing over the details in male-female social and sexual relationships to an autistic degree. It’s literally studying people and their behaviours | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 07:59 PM |
| 3 | Do men love dominating as much as women love being dominated?All in all men are not all that interested in "people subjects" as women are. (You just need to see our preferences in subjects of study) What’s TRP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 07:54 PM |
| 11 | Do men love dominating as much as women love being dominated?From a female who errs on the dominant side during sex, I think a lot of people think they want to be dominated in bed but what they actually want is to feel passion and desire from the other person. This is a bit difficult to execute when you don’t have passionate feeling towards someone so you need to take it a notch up and be ‘dominated’. Sometimes I want to be ‘dominated’ in bed but for me that means that I’ve already had sex with the dude multiple times, we feel comfortable with each other … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 07:51 PM |
| 5 | Women: what about tall men is so appealing to so many of you?Having the opportunity to climb on his shoulders at concerts, festivals and raves and being able to see everything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 04:28 PM |
| 7 | Why do women have to lower their “standards”? Why can’t men just lower their sex drives?They do. All the time. And then men complain about women settling for them, picking them safe option’, not experiencing raw sexual attraction to them, being a beta bux. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 03:37 PM |
| 38 | Specific examples of a ideal or rp wife 36 f married 13 years.I just spent half an hour reading through your post history. Therapy won’t help you. Leaving your husband will help you. You’ve been posting about this for months and you’re driving yourself insane. He’s cheating on you and you’re bending over backwards to be his perfect little wife, even having threesomes with other women where he doesn’t even abide by your single rule of not kissing the other woman? You try harder, he ignores you. You give him everything he wants, he detaches. Yes he is probab… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/20 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Seems like there is always an ulterior motive agenda with women.I’m not defending anyone I’m making my own separate point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 12:12 PM |
| 5 | Seems like there is always an ulterior motive agenda with women.I don’t know, if I gave up on every friendship that went through a rough patch where someone distances themselves, I wouldn’t have half of my friends. Maybe she is just feeling sad about being rejected and doesn’t want to associate with people where he’d come up into conversation so she can get over him quicker? Idk it’s all assumptions here, he should just talk to her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 12:26 AM |
| 3 | Seems like there is always an ulterior motive agenda with women.Where did I say he has ulterior motives? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensBut women were getting so much shit for feminism when it first came out as an ideology. They risked becoming undesirable, losing male’s empathy (as well as the women’s who didn’t agree with them). I’m sure it wasn’t easy for them, as it won’t be for the first or even the second generation of men that attempt something like this. But society has a way of adapting. It’s playing the long game, not expecting short term results. And men need a united front that isn’t based on aggression because that’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensNo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 11:05 PM |
| 29 | Seems like there is always an ulterior motive agenda with women.This guy hasn’t even spoken to her to ask her why she’s distancing herself. He just jumped to the conclusion that she doesn’t wanna be friends with him anymore because she’s been using him the whole time to get a guy that came into the picture 4 years into their friendship?? Dude if she’s that good of a friend go and talk to her!!! Tell her you’re confused as to why she’s pushing you away and just ask that if she needs some space she can tell you and you’ll be there for her afterwards. That’s fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensWe’ve had so many conversations about men. It’s real cool asking me to have empathy for men with a bunch of men in these comments saying what women go through is easy. This is why I didn’t involve all these other issues. It was just supposed to be about biological differences. I’m telling you what I think is the solution. In real life I’ve donated, volunteered and advocated for male suicide victims and domestic violence shelters for men. Feminists took their stance, united (at least first and se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensOkay cutie pie I already said you’re right no need to keep talking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 08:42 PM |
| 69 | Seems like there is always an ulterior motive agenda with women.So this girl was friends with you with the ulterior motive that you’d wingman her 4 years into the friendship? You can’t give her any benefit of the doubt that maybe she’s just going through some shit that is completely unrelated to you and maybe just needs some time alone and away from your friendship group to process her emotions? No, her faking 4 years of friendship to get a guy that wasn’t even in the picture when y’all became friends makes a lot more sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensNot getting laid is harder you’re right you’re CMV | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensI think I underestimated how desperate y’all are for pussy, my mistake | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensI mean no consequence rape + no contraception was a thing up u til recently. So... men? But now we have choice, some are choosing against it, some of us still have a biological ‘need’ to do it. Tldr; because humans are animals and reproduction is our only biological purpose? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensI’m saying there is no point in having 2 genders if they can do the exact same thing. There is even less a point of a gender where the other one can do everything the 1st one can and more. Mother Nature doesn’t like to waste her energy, a single gender would do if that was the case. We complement each other for a reason and at the core of it is men being protectors and women being nurturers. That’s all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensYes to not be an incel you need to drive at 150km/h after drinking a carton of beer. Okayyyyy. Women use cell phones more but men still cause more accidents and die more often? And that depends on which country you’re looking at, millions of little girls born in China were murdered or left in the bin when the 1 child policy came out because society values males more. Why do male kids die more often? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensSo you’re saying that at the start of humanity men and women were exactly the same in physical strength and women were capable to doing everything that men could PLUS they had the responsibility of bearing and raising children?? That means that men were relatively pointless besides that lil bit of semen that comes out of them. Men being physically stronger and women bearing kids is biology 101 and it makes sense from an evolutionary point where the gender’s biology is symmetrical and complimenta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensThe worst also happens to women on a daily basis - not all at the same time obviously (same as men) but it’s all happening to some woman out there. Men die on average 5 years earlier because y’all do impulsive things, are more likely to abuse drugs and alcohol (and drive while under he influence) and are less likely to go to the doctors when sick unless you have a mommy/wife to nag you into going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensYeah it’s not like pregnancy is the one and only thing that ensures we survive as a species. You guys don’t wanna give any sympathy for pregnancy but want women to feel sympathetic for men not getting laid? “BuT iTs A BiOlGiCaL NeEd!!! Something something spreading my seed, something something blue balls” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensYo men were born physically stronger. Women were born with the ability to give birth. No shit the physical stuff was left to men. It’s literally your biology. Am I supposed to sit here and be like “why did the men leave the childbirth to women?? Billions of women have died giving birth and not a single male!!! The audacity!” Like I said in the other thread - you’re arguing a moot point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensOk we can all pick and choose the literal worst case scenario for our gender. You make it sound like that is something that every single man goes through. It’s like me saying “I’d love to see you live as a woman. Being sold into sex slavery or kidnapped into the human trafficking business. Getting beaten up by your husband and people asking you why you chose him as a partner and not why he did what he did. Getting killed because you dressed a bit too proactively and your partner is the jealous t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensThat’s why I said a collective of men need to do it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensWhat would be a fair comparison? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 02:45 PM |
| 3 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensOkay fair enough. Where are the stats on the transitioning claims though? And I thank my lucky stars I was born a woman where and when I did. Trust me, I know how privileged I am compared to like 90% of other women in the world that ever lived. For as many things I hate about being a woman, there are just as many that I love. But I’m pretty sure being a guy in a western country is just as good. If only we could all see how good we have it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensGoing into all the social-political differences is too much of a broad conversation with too many variables for this sub. Which is why I’m only focusing on a single part which is the easiest to polarise and seems the most appropriate to discuss on a sub that is based on the contrast of the sexual strategies of the sexes. So yes, basically everything else stays the same, the only thing that’s flipped are the biological differences between men and women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensI’d take the burden of being the less sexually desired sex. Which is why I stated women would be doing the chasing, wining and dining in this scenario. I’m only sticking to clean biological sexual differences here, not getting into all the socio-political differences because there’s too many variables on both sides | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensI mean there is literally always a chance you’re get pregnant every time you have sex. Abstinence is the only contraceptive with a 100% success rate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensFixing all those issues rests on a collective of men standing up the and way feminists did. Except where women hit with aggression as opposed to their docile state, men need to hit with emotions as opposed to their aggressive state. Men need to stand up and admit their weaknesses, insecurities and fragility. Men need to say they want to be better nurturers and to be taken seriously in caretaking roles because they are also capable of empathy. Watch how many of those things will change if men as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensI hope you find her! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensThat’s why I called this phenomenon ‘Chad’. Chads that have that effect on women though are not 20% of the male population like the manosphere states. More like 0.0001%. The only man I can picture making myself a foolish pickmesha over is Harry Styles. Or a late 90s Leonardo Di Caprio. Men like that are so rare they may as well be unicorns | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensI’m keeping it to biological benefits/disadvantages | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensStraight men wouldn’t change their sexuality, they’d also be repulsed at the thought of sleeping with the men they want women to be sleeping with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensOkay a lot of this was just rambling but I like this Women aren't born desirable, men are born desiring them. That’s a very good point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensImagining the amount of whining we’d have to endure every month from every male if they were the ones dealing with with periods/pregnancies sounds more painful than actually going through it myself. Look no further than the phenomenon of the ‘man flu’. When I’m having a conversation with a dude about how insanely painful pregnancy is and how it’s not just the childbirth part but growing the child in your body, pushing them out, altering your body and hormones forever, nursing them with food you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 01:39 PM |
| 3 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensKicking myself for not adding the orgasm gap to the conditions damn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensIt’s just male projection of them wanting to be viewed as a sex object and how much that would validate them. Tell a man you don’t find it flattering and you’re ungrateful and entitled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensI’ve watched it, there are also videos of men being dressed up as women and being put in areas around other men. Men don’t like it much either. We all develop thicker skin to the things we’re exposed to daily and we all think the ‘others’ have it easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensZombies are cool and at least you’re getting the recognition you deserve from your readers! I’ve been working on a single sci-fi book for like the last 5 years and haven’t managed to put it together. 11? That’s impressive as fuck! Are all your books seperate from one another or are they all part of the same story? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensThank you 😊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensAw thank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 01:15 PM |
| 4 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensThey are both finding and providing food for the tribe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 08:41 AM |
| 4 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensWhere did I call anyone an asshole? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensMen were hunters and women were gatherers. As in, they both provided food for their kids and tribe. They just provided different things - men: meat, women: fruits, herbs, water, nuts, etc. And if that’s in our biology, then by that logic both men and women are providers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 02:06 AM |
| 3 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensMost people want kids. Not all pregnancies are unwanted. Y’all would have to carry the kids you do want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensWhat disadvantages do modern men have that women don’t have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 02:00 AM |
| 6 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensIt’s so funny how suddenly not a single dude on here wants to have a kid if they have to be the ones to carry it. It speaks volumes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 01:58 AM |
| 5 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensYour shitty diet is your problem and not something you are forced to deal with every month The fact that you have this paranoia about women but still don’t use a condom is hilarious because apparently all of the risks are sooooo horrible BUT worth it to fuck raw? We’re all working dead end jobs. Women who stay at home being homemakers and raising kids are working the most dead end job. And they do it for free. And they don’t get appreciated for it by men like you who think all the money you earn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 01:55 AM |
| 4 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensBased and blackpilled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensOh I 100% agree with this. But ‘Chad’ in the way the manosphere describes him is a dude that just has to appear in a room and every woman is ready to abandon her religion and marriage vows and children just to suck his dick. That’s why I went with that phrasing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 01:48 AM |
| 4 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensDomestic violence happens to men also, it just doesn’t get attention because women are physically weaker and unable to administer as much harm as men. If they were physically stronger than you chances of getting murdered by a woman suddenly rises quite a bit. Birth control is available the same it is for women. And your orgasms are also the same as they are for women. You cum ~60% of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensI’ve got jar openers, I can pay someone $20 to move my heavy furniture and I live alone and inspect things that go bump in the night. I’m sorry I can’t find it in me to be grateful that men wanna fuck me (and everyone else with a vagina). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 01:43 AM |
| 9 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensEvery dude here that has responded to point 2 has only focused on unwanted pregnancies. No one has considered that they actually might want to have children, which is really interesting. Makes you think, if men suddenly were the one that got pregnant, the human population would die off pretty quick because y’all would not put yourself through that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 01:41 AM |
| 6 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensGood luck getting sterilised as a young woman with no kids. You’ll be jumping through hoops for years before you get that shit approved. I mean a lot of domestic violence cases are woman on man as well, the man just gets off unharmed more often because he’s physically stronger. I suspect domestic violence shelters for men will actually be getting some attention if point 3 happens so there is that to think about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 01:37 AM |
| 5 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensBeing a provider isn’t a biological aspect of sexuality which is what I’m talking about here. Women are also providers in many relationships, it’s not a polarised gender thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 01:33 AM |
| 5 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensThat sucks man, what are your books about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 01:30 AM |
| 6 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensAnd there’s always gonna be a girl younger, hotter, with bigger tits, better ass than me. Same shit except as a man I can achieve more, as a woman I cannot get younger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: how long does LTR sex take and what does it entail?Female, purple, single When I’m in a relationship I prefer sex at least once a day, maybe every other day when life gets busy. Quickies happen but I’m not a fan, I like to spend at least an hour. I like teasing, long foreplay, edging, roleplays, dancing, testing out weird positions, maybe stopping halfway to smoke a joint... by the time sex happens I want us both to be so on edge that we just explode | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 11:55 PM |
| 9 | q4w what do you think is a reasonable amount of sex men should expect throughout the course of a relationship ship?Whenever I see your name in this sub I start cringing before I even read your comment. You are either a very dedicated troll or just the most perfect epitome of a pick me. I dislike you, but I am very entertained by you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensSometimes my cycle does fuck up outta and surprise me though, usually if I’ve been sick and taking meds or are really stressed or partied a bit too heavily. The body always has signs though, so I guess it’s still not a total surprise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensI lose my things all the time so at least I’ll be able to blame the mean fairies who steal things from now on. It’s ok it’s 2020 and gender isn’t real, I’m sure it’ll be easy enough to accomplish | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensIt’s very eco-friendly and sustainable. And it has a kick ass backyard that I can’t wait to turn into an enchanted fairy garden. So I guess it depends where your priorities lie? But no I can’t do that I’m sorry I can’t impress you :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensNo ones forcing you to do that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 09:38 PM |
| 14 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensI’m in my early 20s, a small business owner, in a STEM masters program and only a tiny bit away from owning my own house with 0 financial aid from my family. I’d just like to get some appreciation from men for those achievements because I have worked so damn hard for them. But I also have double D’s. And apparently those are worth more praise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensI know exactly when I’m supposed to get my period and I know when I’m ovulating as well. Just by being in tune with my body. Good on you for paying attention to your partners cycle, it’s sweet when guys I’ve been have picked up on it too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensLifting is optional. I’m keeping it to purely biological aspects. Also women go to the gym too. It was leg day for me yesterday and I got my period today. Not only are my ovaries dying but I also vomit when I have my period and my legs hurt so much from the gym that I just sat in front of the toilet for an hour dreading having to get back up. Also in this scenario you’re still a man. Would you not keep lifting to keep your body looking good and being healthy or would you not care since you’d get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 08:57 PM |
| 10 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensWomen point out the normal functions of their body as a trump card, men play the “I can lift heavier things that you therefore I am superior”. I thought about adding birth control and the array of negative side effects to this post but I didn’t want to steer too much into things that are ‘optional’. And I know men want to fuck women, not be women. But they want to be desired like women are desired. Being the desired sex comes with conditions, all I wanna know is if y’all think that being desired… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 08:46 PM |
| 21 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensIf only we could swap. I’d love to be desires for my accomplishments and things I’ve worked for as opposed to just my body. If we had the ability to take these things for a test drive we wouldn’t be on subs like this though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 08:41 PM |
| 6 | Men want the benefits of female sexuality without any of the burdensNot in this scenario. There’d be too many advantages/disadvantages to list to compare so this is purely for a basic sexual comparison | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 08:39 PM |
| 9 | (For women) What is it that men don't get about women's sexual selection?Even when I see a very good looking dude, a ‘Chad’, I can think “he’s really good looking” but I will not think about having sex with him. I’ll be thinking that I’d love to talk to him/get to know him. An average dude with the right combination of good personality/humour/charism/smells nice/good conversationalist will get me more excited sexually than a Chad who is a dud with nothing else going for him. There is a looks threshold though and if someone doesn’t reach it my mind doesn’t register hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys care if a woman views them as the safe option?That sounds like what women were going through for most of human history. Most of the manosphere is built on the rage of things not being that way anymore (kinda). Anyway, we’re not talking about cheating. If my partner finds other women more attractive than me but stays loyal - that’s fine. If my partner finds other women more attractive and sleeps with them - hes a cheater, it’s not fine AND it’s not what this discussion was about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Is the Taylor Lautner Effect common?Dude are you okay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Is the Taylor Lautner Effect common?Wow I cannot believe how superior you are good job 👏🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 03:46 PM |
| 0 | Is the Taylor Lautner Effect common?That’s what I was saying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Is the Taylor Lautner Effect common?Lmao I met Taylor Lautner at the peak of the Twilight obsession too and my 5’1 ass was like ‘wow he’s soooo tall’. Maybe this is what they mean by beauty is in the eye of the beholder? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys care if a woman views them as the safe option?this is the first time im hearing of a high beta, im so sick of random terminology popping up whenever someones tryna prove their point ughhh ok red, you got me!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys care if a woman views them as the safe option?We’re talking about beta dudes. By definition they have no alternative path | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys care if a woman views them as the safe option?Beta dudes that realise money = women and go through a mid life crisis? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 02:34 AM |
| 0 | So you want all the rewards without any of the effort or risk?Her face not looking like 5 miles of bad road is a wish list not a condition!!! Nah I’m stoned af and your message made me giggle, here’s an upvote and let’s all hope we find our perfect arm/legless partner. I’ll smoke to that Also let’s not forget that if they had no arms they wouldn’t be able to post on any of these dumnass sites were all so obsessed with, that’s a fkn ++++ from me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 01:35 AM |
| 4 | Do you believe that body standards are rougher for women than for men?I like my boys lanky and sweet. It’s the curse of growing up on tumblr and being flooded by pictures of sad skinny boys smoking cigarettes what can I say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 01:14 AM |
| 3 | Do you believe that body standards are rougher for women than for men?Look. All I can offer is my perspective. All my partners have been skinnier than dude #1. I wanna see visible rib cages not visible abs #nawalt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 12:33 AM |
| 3 | Do you believe that body standards are rougher for women than for men?I am a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 12:31 AM |
| 6 | Is sex the basis for everything?“Everything in the world is about sex. Except sex. Sex is about power” - Oscar Wilde | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 11:46 PM |
| 1 | So you want all the rewards without any of the effort or risk?So would you date a girl with no arms or legs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys care if a woman views them as the safe option?But I’m a member of FDS and agree with most of the sub... Wild how people can agree on something but argue because we call the same thing different names. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys care if a woman views them as the safe option?I guess that is a problem and another problem is me not doing what you say is wrong labels me as a ‘pickmesha’ lmaooo. Doomed if you do, doomed if ya don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Why do guys care if a woman views them as the safe option?I think we have different definitions of a ‘safe’ option. I’ll bite on the ‘less attractive’ but less interesting and less talented? Not necessarily. When I think of a ‘dangerous’ type that I am attracted to I think drug addicted musicians. I’d never in a million years go for these guys. Am I attracted to them? Yes. Will I date them? No. All I’m saying is there are different standards for sexual attraction and someone you want to spend THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH for both men and women and it imp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 10:03 PM |
| 6 | Do you believe that body standards are rougher for women than for men?Guy number 1 has an ideal body. Guy number 2 isn’t too bad either, he hasn’t overdone it like a lot of guys tend to do. But, and this is probably a more personal biased opinion, I find the V torso body type so ugly. It makes dudes look like a cartoon character. Think Johnny Bravo. And it’s every worse when they don’t put the same effort into their legs, they look like a triangle walking on chopsticks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 09:47 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: Why do guys care if a woman views them as the safe option?Men still marry those women. Frequently. And if they pick the chaste safe motherly type they tend to get bored and wanna fuck those women. Why did men through history, who got to marry the young, submissive, virgins that all these men here seem to want STILL chase whores and pay for prostitutes? Why were men so obsessed with Femme Fatals? Flappers? And now Instagram models? E-girls? Dominitrixes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 09:36 PM |
| 18 | Do you believe that body standards are rougher for women than for men?Yes to all point! Men: a very, very small proportion of the female population wants Zyzz looking dudes. Lean-skinny has ALWAYS been the preferred male body type. I hate how y’all have no middle ground and jump from one extreme to another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 09:31 PM |
| 1 | So you want all the rewards without any of the effort or risk?The man’s conditions are usually the woman looking good, having regular sex with him, giving birth to his children, being a nurturer, being loyal. More recently it is also earning money and if not keeping the entire house clean and cooking all the food, doing the household shopping, supporting him in his ‘mission’. Seriously don’t act like men bring everything to a relationship, it’s neverrrrrr just one person bringing everything and loving the other person unconditionally despite them doing not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 09:16 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: Why do guys care if a woman views them as the safe option?Are men attracted to the safe option when it comes to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Why do guys care if a woman views them as the safe option?A dude viewing me as a potential mother of his children is such a better compliment than him being physically attracted to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Why do guys care if a woman views them as the safe option?He posed the question: Why do you care how your partner views the relationship as long as you are getting what you want out of the relationship? If my partner only saw me as a set of wet holes I wouldn’t be getting what I want out of the relationship i.e. respect. You can still get what you want out of a relationship if the woman sees you as the safe option | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Describe the best sex you’ve ever had.Thank you! Yeah I don’t have any regrets, it’s just one of those ‘I wish I met you later in life’ kinda moments. A LDR in my early 20s just would’ve failed and it would’ve poisoned all the nice memories we had as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Describe the best sex you’ve ever had.Like we started going on dates and then my life crashed and burned and I broke all romantic things off and we decided to just be friends for a while. We’d only kissed a few times before this event (while we were ‘dating’) and it was no where near the chemistry we had this night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 08:27 PM |
| -1 | So you want all the rewards without any of the effort or risk?You missed the point. There is no such thing as entirely unconditional love is what I’m getting at (with the exception of love towards your children). Men and women just have different conditions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 07:04 PM |
| 3 | Describe the best sex you’ve ever had.We slept on our friend’s couch, went to breakfast the next morning and he asked me to be his girlfriend. Unfortunately we only got 5 months of dating before I scored an internship overseas and we both agreed we couldn’t do LDR. It’s been almost 2 years since then and I still find myself thinking about him/that night in particular. Sigh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 06:12 PM |
| 16 | So you want all the rewards without any of the effort or risk?I remember when this meme was going around on Facebook and everyone was like hehehe girls are so unreasonable! But then I found the manosphere and it’s just a bunch of salty dudes that are like ‘I can’t believe women expect me to have good looks or money or a good personality or a sense of humour or a social hobby or dress well or listen to her talk about her problems UGH WHY CANT WOMEN ACCEPT ME FOR WHO I AM I DONT WANT CONDITIONAL LOVE/SEX WHY WOULDNT SHE STILL WANT TO BE WITH ME IF I HAD NONE… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 03:04 PM |
| 4 | Does comfort kill desire?I think if both partners put in the work they can have comfort AND novelty from the same person. Dust off your Kama Sutra book, change location, bring some toys in, role play, go to a bar and pretend you’re meeting for the first time, take some drugs (safely), keep up with date nights... both partners need to be equally invested in keeping the spark going and it’s unreasonable to expect there won’t be some periods of time where desire drops and you revert just to comfort but, no, I don’t think c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Describe the best sex you’ve ever had.Thank you. I loved it too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 12:28 AM |
| 10 | Describe the best sex you’ve ever had.I started seeing this guy at a really bad time in my life where everything was going to shit. I didn’t really tell him much about it because we didn’t know each other that well and I didn’t want to emotionally vomit on him. We kept things relatively platonic for a while. A couple of months in, we’re at a mutual friends house party. At the end I’m outside alone smoking and he joins me and he doesn’t say anything, just puts his arm around my shoulder. There must’ve been so much emotional buildup j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 11:01 PM |
| 9 | You just learned that your boyfriend won the lottery when he was 18 and blew it all on hot girls, paying their credit card debt, traveling on yachts, buying them designer bags and shit. Now he lives a frugal and modest lifestyle with you. How do you feel?Wow an 18 year old who came into a lot of money wasted it impulsively on what all 18 year olds want? Let’s judge him for the rest of his life!!! I’d tease him about it a little but that’s about it. He’d probably have some cool stories, we’d laugh about childish ignorance. Everyone does dumb things when they’re young, as long as he loves me while we’re together now why would I care what he did when he was an 18 year old millionaire? It would probably be a pro rather than a con if anything because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 10:20 PM |
| 1 | How would your life change if you knew for certain you would never have physical or romantic intimacy again?I took myself entirely off the dating/sex market for 2 full years because I wanted to ‘define myself without the male gaze’. I dove head first into my career and hobbies. I tried out a bunch more hobbies. I became obsessed with maths, I started painting, writing, I volunteered at a palliative care unit and became very comfortable with people dying everyday. I deleted all my social media and backpacked around Europe alone for 6 months without taking a single picture. Then I got into photography. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 03:06 AM |
| 2 | The argument “men don’t need sex because they can survive without it” is bullshit.Do these men feel fulfilled butt fucking dudes? Or do they want a female to validate them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 02:04 AM |
| 1 | The argument “men don’t need sex because they can survive without it” is bullshit.Why is there such a high rate of prison rape between men? Why do men in the army duck their army bro’s dicks? Why are so many priests gay? I highly doubt they’re all gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 01:21 AM |
| 2 | The argument “men don’t need sex because they can survive without it” is bullshit.You can hire a prostitute in almost every country in the world. You can be a sugar daddy. You can fuck a gay man. Sex is easily accessible for men, but what you want isn’t actually about sex. It’s about validation. That’s not something you can fuck your way to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 01:05 AM |
| 2 | What Entails "Being Settled For"? What Criteria "Should" Women Enter LTRs With?Majority of population usually has more than one criteria point that they want fulfilled in a relationship. The guy might value looks above everything, but still expect her to be loyal, fertile, hygienic...whatever. The people that only have one criteria are usually men who want young hot women and women who want rich successful providers. Those people usually end up together in sugar baby/daddy relationships. The girls can be dumb af and he won’t care, the guy can be ugly af and the girl won’t … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 07:31 PM |
| 4 | What Entails "Being Settled For"? What Criteria "Should" Women Enter LTRs With?Actually doesn’t settling imply a lack of choice? Why would someone with a choice for a better partner ‘settle’ for the less desirable one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 07:22 PM |
| 4 | What Entails "Being Settled For"? What Criteria "Should" Women Enter LTRs With?What if her one criteria is that he has money? Or her one criteria being that he won’t leave her? How is that settling if her one criteria is being met? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 03:14 PM |
| 7 | What Entails "Being Settled For"? What Criteria "Should" Women Enter LTRs With?Yeah but guys will date women they don’t even like just because they’re hot? Or they might not even be hot but the guy just wants a ‘steady supply of sex’ - which is a sentence I’ve heard soooo many guys use to describe a relationship on here. If you only have physical attraction towards your girl, and you wouldn’t really mind if she was swapped over with another girl who provided the sex, are you not settling? And is this not a common thing that happens? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 01:47 PM |
| 9 | Q4All: How would you feel if you discovered that you were the safe option?From what I’ve picked up on this and other ‘pill’ subs, this is how it usually goes. Woman picks a safe option - her fault if the relationship fails because she ‘settled’ for you for stability or whatever Woman picks an unsafe option - her fault if the relationship fails/guy becomes abusive for chasing bad boys and basing her life choices on who gives her ‘tingles’. She could’ve avoided this by just going for a nice guy!!! Man picks a safe option - woman’s fault if the relationship fails for bei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 01:29 PM |
| 1 | If you dislike facial hair but also prefer men with full heads of hair, what exactly is the difference?Yeah idk when I see a bald man with a beard his head just looks like an ice cream cone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 05:55 PM |
| 1 | If you dislike facial hair but also prefer men with full heads of hair, what exactly is the difference?Men with a THICK head of hair and no facial hair > thick head of hair + facial hair > bald men no facial hair >>>>> bald men with facial hair. Head hair is just attractive. If you’re balding however, shave it all off - including your beard. I don’t think I’ve ever met an attractive bald men with a beard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Women do not want equality; they want the best parts of female privilege, and the best parts of male privilege.I would have been so much happier seeing Rose die to protect that beautiful, beautiful man. We would’ve gotten a scene of Leo crying for her and clutching her dead body. And then he’s 84 years old and he’s still thinking and talking about this girl he was in love with 60 years ago?? SWOON. And as he’s dying he imagines himself walking up to her to finally embrace her and dance together. Bless. It’s not romantic when men as good looking as late 90s Leo die. It’s a tragedy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 11:45 AM |
| 2 | Women who think it's better to make a man wait a few months before you have sex because it helps to build an emotional bond, why do you care if he has sex with someone else later in the relationship?I can definitely get behind that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 11:22 AM |
| 3 | Women who think it's better to make a man wait a few months before you have sex because it helps to build an emotional bond, why do you care if he has sex with someone else later in the relationship?I think sex is a very important aspect of a committed relationship so no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 09:50 AM |
| 1 | If women disdain the majority of men and do not want to have a relationship or sex with them why do they care if those same men use sex bots or sex dolls if they don’t even want them?!I have never seen a post from a woman being against sex bots. I’ve never even seen the conversation come up from a woman. It’s men that keep jerking off on the thought that women are bothered by this at all. Get your sex bot, live your best life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Is there a “red pill rage” for women?Yes it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 09:25 AM |
| 27 | Women who think it's better to make a man wait a few months before you have sex because it helps to build an emotional bond, why do you care if he has sex with someone else later in the relationship?If he cannot stop thinking about the hot neighbour and has no impulse control then a) he wouldn’t have made it through the months I took to vet him because waiting for sex literally vets against men like that and b) it would mean that our connection isn’t strong enough that he wants to risk losing it for a pump and dump in which case I would loose attraction to him. Also if I’m with a man who only wants what he doesn’t have... what does that say about him being with me? He doesn’t want me? This … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/20 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Why do men care about the sexual past of women they love?Would you still enjoy sleeping with a high n count woman? I really don’t wanna be on the ‘defending incest’ side. I’m just saying that for some reason it is the most popular sexual fantasy right now and surely there has to be some biological reasoning behind it? Why would they be attracted to the thought of having sex with blood relatives even if they don’t have siblings though? There are so many porn categories, why go for that one? Also the most popular sub category is mom-son and everyone has… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/20 08:36 PM |
| 11 | Why do men on TRP argue that women have less morals when they have a plethora of advice on how to cheat on your spouse/ gf?I mean women not reaching their full potential probably has more to do with the fact that they weren’t allowed to get educated and work and explore and be curious. Imagine literally not allowing 50% of the population to do anything and then patting yourself on the back for doing more than them. And then the women that fought tooth and nail to get educated still had their achievements stolen from them. If in ~100 years of female ‘rights’ women have already become the majority of college students,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/20 08:20 PM |
| -2 | Why do men care about the sexual past of women they love?Can we really count things as instinctual or biological if we don’t have any way to pick up on whether a person has a high n count without them telling us... and even then can never really confirm it? Your body doesn’t have a way to detect whether a woman is high n count or not. You can look at a woman, be attracted to her, talk to her, fall in love... and then she tells you she slept with 80 guys before you. You had no instinctual physiological reaction just by being around her that caused any … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/20 08:06 PM |
| 4 | Is there a “red pill rage” for women?I honestly thought this post was a satirical take on every single ‘red pill rage’ post on the manosphere. But then I realised you seriously feel that way. How old are you? Understanding male nature feels like something I’ve known my entire life and then was just further confirmed by listening to my female relatives talking, or just looking at the actions of my male relatives and then friends and coworkers... There’s no need to rage. It is what it is. Find yourself a man who has evolved a bit hig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/20 07:55 PM |
| 15 | Why do men on TRP argue that women have less morals when they have a plethora of advice on how to cheat on your spouse/ gf?Einstein ripped off his wife’s ideas HARD. Giving him as an example is a great portrayal of how much women have contributed just to have their names wiped off their own achievements because they were women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/20 07:19 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most women just hate sex.You know that saying ‘sex is like pizza. Even when it’s bad, it’s still pretty good’. I don’t know who came up with it but I’m willing to bet on my life it’s a man. A bad pizza in this analogy for men means it’s cold, or the cheese is a bit hard or maybe it’s got an ingredient they don’t really like. But it’s still edible. A bad pizza for women is a pizza that contains an ingredient that she’s allergic to or some undercooked chicken that makes her bedridden for a week while she vomits. (Almost) … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/20 06:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women who make men wait for months just don't like sexOnly 1 guy made it through a lot (a LOT) earlier than 3 months. I was 19, had just broken up with my high school sweetheart and I didn’t have any other dating experience. I was at a music festival, took molly for the first time and slept with a guy because I figured that’s what I’m supposed to do to get over this. Anyway, it wasn’t even a bad experience, the guy was lovely and very good looking but the fact that I barely knew him made my sexual experience with him very, very meh. We spent 2 week… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/20 05:09 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women who make men wait for months just don't like sexI have heard of it! It sums things up nicely however I’m just weary of labelling myself as one because people get so angry about those terms... as evident from the comments below. Yes it doesn’t mean I’m unable to have an initial attraction to someone. It just takes a bit more than that for me to be interested in having sex with that person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/20 03:30 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Women who make men wait for months just don't like sexThen I guess I’ve never met Chad. I’ll let you know if things change when I do meet him. If I meet him. I’m still convinced Chad is a male fantasy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/20 05:02 AM |
| 3 | Do men know what it feels like to not be attracted to someone?Yeah man I get it, men and women are different. I can acknowledge that fact and still have a tough time wrapping my head around the male mentality, same way as you can understand all that ^ without being able to fully empathise with it. Unless we get to a point where science is able to switch the minds of men and women over to the opposite bodies none of us will ever fully be able to understand what the other sex goes through. The fact that you think it’s ‘easy to have intimacy with someone you’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/20 03:14 AM |
| 14 | CMV: Women who make men wait for months just don't like sexI’m not God. I’m not here to judge anyone. Maybe they like sex, maybe they have a low self esteem and think that’s the only way to get a man, maybe they like the attention. All I know is I need 2 orgasms a day or I get very cranky. I assess myself a high libido. How they assess themselves is up to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/20 12:23 AM |
| 0 | What things make a guy hotter to you but disqualifies him from being relationship material?A musician... with a drug addiction. I know they’re bad news. I would never go there. But they go right in the wank bank | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 11:22 PM |
| 13 | CMV: Women who make men wait for months just don't like sexIt takes a while to get to know anyone and I really enjoy getting to know people. What their past relationships were like, what their relationship with their parents are like, what they want out of life. They’re all ways to both get to know someone and to tear your compatibility with them. Kissing is really underrated and a great way to vet. How much effort they put into you in a non sexual context is usually a good indicator of how much effort they’ll put into sex. Dirty talk. Or just a good ol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 10:19 PM |
| 4 | ‘Submitting to my husband like it's 1959': Why I became a TradWifeThey’re grown ass women who refer to their mistakes as an ‘oopsie’... and I’m supposed to take advice from them? Lmao nah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 09:21 PM |
| 110 | CMV: Women who make men wait for months just don't like sexI consider myself to be a high libido woman and I still wait long to have sex. I don’t have any sex issues and I enjoy sex very, very much. I masturbate twice a day. If I was a dude I’d probably be getting mocked on FDS under the flair ‘porn sick, limp dick’. BUT I can’t enjoy enjoy sex with someone until I’m comfortable with them. Vetting them as a human being and potential partner is more important than vetting for sexual comparability. I find that once an emotional bond has been established, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 07:45 PM |
| 15 | ‘Submitting to my husband like it's 1959': Why I became a TradWifeI just scrolled through the first page of RPW and not a single post is about how great their life is going and how amazing their partners are. Tips on how to act feminine when they actually aren’t, feeling shame, advice on whether sexting outside a relationship is okay, thinking about dropping their education to appeal to their man, being disrespected by their partners friends, their partner not being supportive of their pregnancy, ‘my partners great but I had to move to a woman’s aid because he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 05:10 PM |
| 6 | ‘Submitting to my husband like it's 1959': Why I became a TradWifeThe end of her video where she touches on ‘choice’ is the whole point. The beauty of feminism is that is gave women a choice. And she right that women should be able to choose a tradwife life if that’s what they want. If they want to pursue careers, go at it. My best friend is a wonderful homemaker and that lifestyles works for her and her fiancé. It’s still not super realistic to rely on a single income and she plans on going back to work eventually but she wants to pop out the 4 kids she’s alw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl reject a guy out of her league?‘Alpha’ guys in the way you describe them were only intriguing when I was high school (and they were also in high school). Guys like that are just walking red flags now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 01:10 PM |
| 9 | How many times have you taken home the ugly, unattractive friend so your friend could hookup with the hot person?Sure sex is different for men and women. I quite like your theory on how there is inherently no difference between having a conversation and having sex with someone though. Next time I’m with a guy and he’s trying to sleep with me I’ll be like “but we already had a conversation? The only difference between talking and having sex are arbitrary values you have assigned to those acts!” I’m sure the folks over at /deadbedrooms will be thrilled to hear about this revolutionary thought as well. All th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 12:01 AM |
| 25 | How many times have you taken home the ugly, unattractive friend so your friend could hookup with the hot person?I’ll talk to a guy I don’t find attractive so that my friend can get in with his friend... why would I have to fuck him just because my friend wants to get laid? My friend hooks up, me and ugly dude part ways and go to our own homes. Wtf just admit you wanted to get laid and you have no standards, don’t play this off as something you did as a favour for your friend that’s weird as shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 10:01 PM |
| 11 | For those women who believe in the 3 month wait ruleI don’t have a 3 month rule but I’ve always waited at least 3 months to sleep with someone. I wasn’t crossing off days in my calendar and then slipped on his dick the second the clock hit midnight on the eve of the 89th day. I’ve just waited until I’ve been comfortable enough with the person and known them well enough to sleep with them - which for me, takes a while. Have all the men I’ve dated stuck around for it? Absolutely not. But I haven’t ever regretted losing those men because for me it’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Women don't even consider below-average menCombination of both. If I’m rejecting a guy that isn’t within my limits I still won’t tell him upfront, mainly because I don’t wanna get abused but also because it just isn’t polite. I just go with a general “you’re not my type” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Women don't even consider below-average menI know it’s a CMV but I was agreeing with OP. I say it doesn’t matter because I don’t really think about the guys that are outside my range. I can admire them as people, as friends, as coworkers, teachers, mentors... but when I’ve said it doesn’t matter I’m only thinking of the men that are already within threshold lines. I haven’t said it since I found subs like this, now I just try be as literal as possible because men literally need shit spelled out for them apparently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Women don't even consider below-average menI’ve discussed this before with both male and female friends because I also have said looks or whatever don’t matter. When I say that, and most of my female friends agree, we still have a threshold. So I’m 5’1. I date 5’3 and above. If a guy is 2 inches taller than me, it doesn’t matter if he’s 2 or 7 inches taller. I have an upper threshold as well where attraction starts dropping - for me that’s above 6ft because that’s too tall for me. So a 5ft tall guy and a 6’3 guy are both guys I don’t con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Do women mislabel ‘asshole’ behavior?Hm, I can get on board with this because of the lack of details in the message. I guess without knowing the full story from both of them all we can do is assume, but you’re right there is definitely some missing info and I, internet stranger, will bestow some benefit of the doubt upon this other internet stranger. I’m sure he’ll be pleased. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Men or women, who generally overestimates their value more?Honestly sometimes in these threads I end up going really hard to one extreme because people nit pick every single thing. My view on relationships isn’t as doom and gloom as this. I think men and women are both capable of being independent and self sufficient which makes a partner a want rather than a need. However men tend to think of sex as more of a need rather than a want and women tend to think of kids as more of a need rather than a want. We’ve reached a point in society where women can ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 11:34 PM |
| 6 | Do women mislabel ‘asshole’ behavior?Dude asking a woman on vacation very clearly implicates that you want something romantic/sexual to happen. Imagine you’re a businessman. A woman has connections with a client that you want. You don’t ask her to be introduced to the client, maybe you don’t even know that she knows the client. But she knows that you meeting that client will help our your career so she goes out of her way to say to you ‘hey I can arrange a dinner with this client for you’. You’re really excited and grateful to her.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 08:58 PM |
| 6 | Do women mislabel ‘asshole’ behavior?Asking someone to do something and getting them excited about it and then switching up on them without a valid reason is an asshole move regardless of which gender is doing it... it’s just an asshole move. The fact that it was her career adds a layer of asshole-ness. Imagine he just wanted to host her art show and expected that she finds her own accomodation and she just comes to his house because she expects she’ll be receiving free accomodation and food for the week but he didn’t want to be pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 08:47 PM |
| 4 | Do women mislabel ‘asshole’ behavior?He is obliged to host her art show because he went out of his way unprompted to say he wants to host her art show... If he just wanted to fuck her he could’ve just asked her out on a date, not by getting her career involved? The reason why both her and her friend got creepy vibes off him and she didn’t end up going (and I’d react the same way) is because he gave off ‘luring vibes’. The yacht is a completely different situation because he’s being about as upfront as you can be that it’s to fuck. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 08:37 PM |
| 8 | Do women mislabel ‘asshole’ behavior?I explicitly said that he could have hosted her art exhibit and still tried to sleep with her and not been an asshole. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that. But making the presumption that she was going to stay at his flat for the week, just makes it seem like he just wanted to fuck her and didn’t know how to lure her into his apartment so decided to play on her desire to have an art exhibit without actually respecting her as an artist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 08:18 PM |
| 15 | Do women mislabel ‘asshole’ behavior?The guy in the comment is an asshole because he knew she was an artist and spoke to her in what she presumed was a professional manner and then she realised that he didn’t actually respect her as an artist but was only using that as a manipulative tactic to get in her pants. If you’re gonna play games like that you can still get away with not being an asshole - the correct way to play that would’ve been for him not to react to her saying she’s staying at her own AirBnB, followed through with hos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 07:29 PM |
| 1 | If you DON'T want to have children, then why does a potential partner's job/finances matter to you?I don’t even understand why people want a partner if they don’t want kids honestly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Men or women, who generally overestimates their value more?Finally we reach our nihilistic conclusion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Men or women, who generally overestimates their value more?Okay then let’s just settle on women = cum buckets, men = atm machines provided they have money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Men or women, who generally overestimates their value more?I’m implying that they don’t have any added value to women. Not that they don’t have value | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Men or women, who generally overestimates their value more?I don’t talk to men who think women are cum buckets, I’m just gonna go keep living my best life. I know what value I bring and I don’t have to insult an entire gender to feel validated in it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Men or women, who generally overestimates their value more?Men are literally out here killing them selves because women don’t wanna be with them. They pay for female companionship. They change their entire lives to appeal to women. Either women are valuable or men are dumb | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Men or women, who generally overestimates their value more?Women bring kids and their vagina as extras on top of all that shit. Men bring... their penis? A penis has literally 0 value | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Is having a daughter a bad investment?Well obviously a daughter is only worth having if you’re the only one that gets to fuck her | /r/MGTOW | 14/01/20 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Men or women, who generally overestimates their value more?Yeah my point is that 50+ years ago most of that wasn’t a possibility for women to achieve without a man so they really needed one. Now the incentive to get married is so low therefore they can afford to go without and only want a partner as opposed to needing a partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 10:22 PM |
| 10 | Is having a daughter a bad investment?I cannot think or comprehend of anything more cucked than having a daughter. Honestly, think about it rationally. You are feeding, clothing, raising and rearing a girl for at least 18 years solely so she can go and get ravaged by another man. All the hard work you put into your beautiful little girl - reading her stories at bedtime, making her go to sports practice, making sure she had a healthy diet, educating her, playing with her. All of it has one simple result: her body is more enjoyable fo… | /r/MGTOW | 14/01/20 05:58 PM |
| 1 | How can I be more feminine and more productive during the work week?Lingerie under your clothes will make you feel sexy and feminine as hell. As for all the chores, get your boyfriend to do some? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/20 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Are there really men who don’t cheat or who strive not to?Read the book ‘why men love bitches’. Men liked you when you were independent. They love submissive women because they know they can get away with cheating and doing whatever they want and they’ll always have their main woman at hand staying loyal to him because she’s deluded herself that he’s her Captain. A man is so much less likely to cheat when he knows you have your own life, and so many options that if he were to do something wrong you’d not only be completely fine but men of a higher valu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/20 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Men or women, who generally overestimates their value more?Do men only exist when they’re directly connected to women? Why is it that when women say they don’t need men, men presume women want them all to die? I can say I don’t need a bee keeper. Doesn’t mean that I don’t think they play a vital role in society. Women create technology, men create technology. I don’t take credit for what women have created and I don’t feel in debt to every single man for what men completely unrelated to them have created. With the technology that we have today, from joi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Men or women, who generally overestimates their value more?Men and women are going 50/50 on financial aspects more and more, if men offer financial support throughout a relationship it’s because the woman is taking care of kids and a house and micromanaging everyone’s life. Women deal with men’s testosterone induced outbursts and thats one hell of a hormone. Attention? Protection? Both questionable. Women in western countries are at higher risk being abused by their partner than by a stranger so if by protection you mean ‘I don’t beat her up and therefo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Men or women, who generally overestimates their value more?I didn’t give an example of any man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Gender rolesGood for you! Being able to find your own value without relying on other people is so freeing, I wish you the best | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 03:11 AM |
| 3 | Gender rolesMen and women both want out of their gender roles while the other gender sticks to them. How many men have you seen on here that drool over the thought of having a submissive homemaker virgin wife to pop out 10 kids and stay thin and feminine and virtuous? The only difference is that women care less about what men think of them. No one is holding a gun to men’s heads forcing them to stick to their gender roles, they can be as feminine as they want to be and society will even celebrate that. But … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Men or women, who generally overestimates their value more?Ok so then what value do men bring to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Men or women, who generally overestimates their value more?Do you want me to copy and paste my comment? Because that’s my answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 10:51 PM |
| 5 | Men or women, who generally overestimates their value more?Men wouldn’t have invented shit if women weren’t doing all the backstage work and were prevented from entering the limelight... also this is a shitty argument. Even if men made all those things completely alone, should women not use them to their benefit? Should men not drink beer, own a dishwasher or work in computer coding because women created that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Men or women, who generally overestimates their value more?Guess it must just be the kinda women I hang out with, no one shames women for being single they applauded them for it. We all got taught career > men. I have friends who are ‘hitting the wall’ and are adopting a child together instead of desperately searching for a man. I’ve stayed single, without sex for years at a time without stressing out over it because I’ve just been too busy to even consider a relationship. I have friends who got married really young and not a single one of them are happ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 10:13 PM |
| 3 | What would you do if your partner wanted you to fulfil the dominant role in bed or do a sex act to him that would be considered submissive?Find you a girl who wants to sit on your face, blindfold you, tie your hands back and experience the exhilarating feeling of blindly anticipating her every next touch knowing it will never cross a degrading line. It’s a shame more men don’t allow themselves to explore this with a loving partner, I love being the one they experience it with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 10:01 PM |
| 37 | Few questions. I am mentally fucked. LTR says she feels like shes walking on egg shells in our relationship. I have cheated a lot and I have a lot of options due to high SMV and being in college. I am manipulative and emotionally abusive. Why does she stay even though I fuck her over so much?She has daddy issues, you’re a piece of shit, it’s a match made in heaven. You’ll break up and she’ll realise she was a fool and proceed to screw over every single man she dated after you, you’ll keep looking for mentally fucked up women to date because they’ll be the only ones that put up with your shit and you’ll both create more fucked up men and women together and the cycle will continue. You both need therapy | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Men or women, who generally overestimates their value more?In a society where women work on their appearance, make their own money, are able to have children alone, have no problem relying on their friends/pet companionship and emotional support, can cook and clean and give themselves orgasms... what value do men bring? Women want a lot because they bring a lot to the table. A man has to really benefit her life in some way for her to want to be with him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 08:57 PM |
| 2 | What would you do if your partner wanted you to fulfil the dominant role in bed or do a sex act to him that would be considered submissive?I lean more towards dominant in bed anyway so I’d be happy to entertain him. But I draw the line at degrading sex acts (both to have them done to me and to do to him) so if that’s what he’s into we’d break up because we wouldn’t be sexually compatible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 07:47 PM |
| 1 | The case for prestigeWomen want an Alpha/Beta balance men want a Madonna/Whore balance. Delete all subreddits centred around this topic because hallelujah we’ve figured it out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Do women "fall in love" as easily as men?I have never left a relationship thinking about rebounding. After a break up I literally don’t even wanna talk to another man for a few months, much less entertain the idea of sleeping or dating another one. Pretty much all the women in my life are the same, we all take a long time to just ride it out totally solo and hang with the girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 05:01 PM |
| 2 | The "Beta" providerFirst point, men weren’t hunter gatherers. Men were hunters, women were gatherers. Men hunted periodically, their main responsibility was protection again other tribes/animals. Women provided just as much food, just in the form of berries, nuts, herbs, water gathering and also raised and looked after kids. So if we look at humans from that first perspective we can say that men hunt and protect, women gather and nurture. Hunting and gathering has been replaced with earning money. It would be fine… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 04:31 PM |
| 2 | I want to make him feel like a man, but I act like a boy.He needs a hobby at least but preferably a job. Otherwise you need to look at your relationship 5, 10, 15, 40 years down the line. Will he be the stay at home husband/father? Or are you still going to be playing feminine wife/mother/successful doctor while he does nothing? He is love bombing you hard so that when he does start straying towards other women he’ll be able to make you feel guilty for not reciprocating his needy demands. He’ll say you were too cold, didn’t have enough time for him, d… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/20 01:59 PM |
| 0 | Why do weeb Red Pillers fetishize Japan and Korea when these countries have many of the problems they complain about?You know how these men love to say AWALT? TRP works on every woman! They find that in the western world, that’s not true. They just convince themselves that these western women that don’t fit the generalisation in their head have been ruined by feminism. So in a bid to get a woman that fits their expectations of women they go for an East Asian country, and they have a preference for a woman from a poor family. These women make them feel like an alpha on the streets and a beta in the sheets. She … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 01:00 PM |
| 8 | Do women "fall in love" as easily as men?I can be infatuated with someone, but it takes me months to think I’m even close to being in love with someone. I think some people just have a more difficult time compartmentalising their emotions so they mistake infatuation, attraction, desire for love. I don’t think this is a gender divide though I think it just depends on the person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: When is the right age to tell your daughters about Red Pill?You’d think they’d be able to keep track of the one and only rule | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 03:35 AM |
| 29 | I want to make him feel like a man, but I act like a boy.This guy doesn’t go to school or work, meanwhile you’re in med school, working and keeping fit... and you still do his laundry, cook for him, take care of his house and act like his personal assistant? Sis you could grow a dick and this guy wouldn’t dump you, he’s got a personal bangmaid at hand. You’re so busy building your life and maintaining his that with his schedule that solely consists of bodybuilding he’ll have no problems fucking other women without you knowing. Although your standards … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/20 03:23 AM |
| 5 | Q4RP: When is the right age to tell your daughters about Red Pill?Yes my entire comment is a projection of your own shit being thrown back at you, your reading comprehension is definitely better than your writing skills, good for you. I never took psych 101 and my knowledge on Freud is about as deep as your knowledge on Marx. I can’t imagine jerking off to anything related to the red pill would be very simulating, go to pornhub and search up Mom Fucks Son for a quick nut. An alpha male’s time is his most valuable asset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 03:06 AM |
| 6 | Q4RP: When is the right age to tell your daughters about Red Pill?Something something bourgeois something something Marx. We get it dude. You took an intro to political philosophy class in college and now have 3 buzzwords that you continuously use to showcase you intellectual superiority over us bourgeois retards. You’re so full of shit you conflate my red pill critique with a completely misplaced commentary on Marxism. Men who are run by an egotistical desire for superiority always have unresolved mommy issues which with Freudian theory allows me to conclude … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 02:50 AM |
| 7 | Q4RP: When is the right age to tell your daughters about Red Pill?Your entire writing style follows the rule ‘if you can’t dazzle them with your brilliance, baffle them with your bullshit’. Stringing together a few socio-political terms might be enough to convince your red pilled fanboys that you are the misogynistic embodiment of Morpheus and not just a pseudo-intellectual reddit philosopher who has managed to gain a following by taking very simple concepts and vulgarising them enough that it catches that attention of a tiny group of men who have absorbed so … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 12:38 AM |
| 4 | Q4RP: When is the right age to tell your daughters about Red Pill?What I’m getting from all these comments is you show your daughter TRP to know what to avoid in men. It’s literally The Red (Flag) Pill for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/20 03:29 AM |
| 1 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?I make collages out of last weeks newspaper, so I keep bits and pieces of it for a while. And I’m a really great date, and am still on speaking terms with almost all the men I’ve dated so even they aren’t as bitter as you, random stranger on the internet who knows nothing about me. Anyway, hope you have some better luck dating in 2020 my dude, it’s not all as bleak as you think it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 10:57 PM |
| 25 | Q4RP: When is the right age to tell your daughters about Red Pill?Look I took TRP’s best known advice - I read the sidebar. This is literally what TRP sounds like for women, which is what the daughter will also think if her father introduces her to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Why do women think it’s acceptable to bash guys over their height, but they don’t think it’s okay to be called out about their weight?Yeah and those women would be wrong. As long as you’re not openly insulting fat women and calling them derogatory terms, have whatever preference you want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 10:36 PM |
| 1 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?I’m happy and not actively hurting anyone. I’m sorry my joy is ‘oppressing an entire group of people’. Y’all need to learn what oppression actually means | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 10:34 PM |
| 1 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?I’m 23. Datings fun. I’ll quit when I find what I’m looking for/it stops being fun - whichever comes first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 10:26 PM |
| 50 | Q4RP: When is the right age to tell your daughters about Red Pill?Imagine showing your daughter TRP. “And this, honey, is how men train their bitches - that’s you!” “If you want a HVM like daddy just make sure you keep your mouth shut unless you’re sucking your husbands dick!” “Don’t bother with college, you’ll waste away your most fertile years and men can’t stick their dick in your degree so it’s pointless... also thinking too hard will give you wrinkles and your only value are your looks!” Jesus Christ I hope none of you have daughters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 10:11 PM |
| 6 | Why do women think it’s acceptable to bash guys over their height, but they don’t think it’s okay to be called out about their weight?Saying “I prefer men who are at least 2 inches taller than me” is not bashing guys over their height. Saying “I prefer thin women” is also not calling out women over their weight. Telling men to rope if they’re under 6ft and referring to fat women as land whales is what you’re not supposed to do - and I only ever see men doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 10:07 PM |
| 12 | What's wrong with the trend of men who earn equal or perhaps less money than their wives?It’s the male equivalent of ‘I want her to pay her half’ and ‘I want her to do all the cooking, cleaning and raise all my kids’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 09:45 PM |
| 1 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?But if I can fulfil most of my wants by myself, I only need a relationship to fulfil a very limited set of ‘wants’. So I’d rather strive for that as opposed to a relationship that negatively impacts the things that I already am able to provide for myself. That’s all it is. Weighing up the pros vs cons. The pros of single life far outweigh the pros of being in a shitty relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 09:37 PM |
| 0 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?How is online dating self improvement is all I’m asking you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 03:09 PM |
| 0 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?You haven’t said anything that shows how I’m being delusional so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 02:54 PM |
| 0 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?Wow thank you so much that was profound. OLD is not out of my comfort zone. Going on a date with someone without checking any of their social media is out of my comfort zone and my preferred way of doing things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 02:37 PM |
| 1 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?Ok since you apparently know me better than I know myself, please tell me how I’m refusing to improve? Is it solely because I don’t use OLD? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 02:23 PM |
| 1 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?I do think that ‘GYOW’ is the best choice for ANYONE who cant find what they want. It’ll be better than settling for someone you’re not happy with and wasting both your times? I think you need to be a very specific kinda woman to read RPW and decide that’s a strategy you want to adapt to your life. It’s not for me. I’m fine with being alone if I don’t find someone with whom I wanna spend the rest of my life with. Go on the RPW sub and try to find descriptions of their HVM. They are very rarely t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 02:21 PM |
| 1 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?But I am happy? Im continuously working on myself, I’m improving in every area of my life and I’ve got exactly what I want out of my dating life at the moment. OLD doesn’t make me happy.... I don’t like making judgements off people’s 5 pictures on a dating profile, I don’t like going into dates where the assumption is that we’re just there to fuck, I don’t like texting. I get asked out enough in person that finding people to date hasn’t been a problem so why would I? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 02:06 PM |
| 0 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?I work on myself constantly? I put myself out there? Just because I don’t do online dating it means that I do nothing? Wtf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/20 12:56 PM |
| 5 | disrespect for women comes with the territoryI’m so sorry you have such a skewed image of sex that you view it with such disgust. I can’t image having such a low self esteem and thinking I’m so dirty that just by approaching someone I taint them and that I’m disrespecting them by consensually touching them in a way that is meant to be pleasurable for both. Get therapy dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 10:31 PM |
| 5 | disrespect for women comes with the territoryMen don’t expect their male friends to suck their dick either what’s your point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 10:21 PM |
| 0 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?I’m 23 and I’d say I’m a 7. I’m 5’1 and petite and when I go out barefaced, hair up, glasses on, baggy comfortable clothes on (which is usually me at college) male attention is pretty much at a 0. I’ve spoken to male friends about this and they’re convinced it’s because I look about 15 like this. Some make up, well fitting clothes, a nice hairstyle, accessories, etc and males start popping out from their hiding place | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 06:50 PM |
| 1 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?Yeah Eastern European here 👋🏼 Look honestly, men here don’t have a problem with approaching. It’s really frowned upon for women to approach. Something something submissive women something femininity, etc. I do my part to look good, he does his part to approach. And since it’s 2020 I go above my part to also be financial secure, he goes above his part to be attractive. I’ve never been interested in a guy that hasn’t approached me it’s just not how I work. If I find you attractive and you don’t ap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Gendered stuff discussionI don’t think there’s anything wrong with gendered items I just think it’s wrong to forbid your kids from playing with items that aren’t ‘for their gender’. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 06:32 PM |
| 4 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?Are all guys who are not chad LVM? It’s almost like women don’t have different tastes in men. Getting dating advice from men is so pointless unless you wanna be turned in a pick-me with a bright neon sign above her head saying “you can pump and dump me and I’ll be okay with it!” FDS understand this already, RPW need a wake up call | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 06:24 PM |
| 1 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?The pill almost killed me and hormonal BC has way too many negative side effects AND they don’t even always prevent pregnancy. I’m a condoms gal myself, but those carry their own risk. Expecting women to just carry guns is ridiculous because a) stats show that when they do they are at a higher risk of having them used against them and b) not all of us live in America... guns are very illegal where I’m from. So are pocket knives and pepper spray and anything else that can be used as a weapon. And… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 06:13 PM |
| 1 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?If men had the same risks that women do when dating, then yes it would be entitlement. Where biology made women less expendable, it also made us physically weaker and the ones that get pregnant. That shit balances itself out. My gay/lesbian friends are the only ones that get to experience both approaching and being approached. Approaching men as a woman 100% does impact your chances to be seen as a serious dating prospect and not just an easy fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Why can’t more guys who are physically unattractive understand where they stand in the dating pool?Nah, everyone should shoot their shot. As long as they’re not stalking you or physically assaulting you or tryna force themselves on you I don’t see the harm in it. Get off your high horse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 05:37 PM |
| 2 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?The egg doesn’t chase the sperm, it sits safely in the womb and kills millions of weak sperm until one is tough enough to make it to her royal chambers. If women were tripping over themselves chasing you, you’d stop chasing and pick from your options as well. Why would I need to be proactive when I have no need for it and it negatively impacts my chances of getting the guy anyway? When women chase a man he will never put as much effort into the relationship as he would have if he’d done the chas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 05:17 PM |
| 5 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?I’m entitled for... wanting to meet someone in person? Don’t you guys always talk about how OLD has literally brought about the demise of society but if I agree to that as a woman it’s just another form of entitlement? Can y’all get your opinions straight I literally can’t keep up anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 04:57 PM |
| 4 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?They do!! That’s my whole point. They should be doing all of what I’m mentioned (or the male equivalent of it). The problem is that they don’t do it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 04:50 PM |
| 4 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?I’m a huge romantic. OLD hurts my heart, it’s gotta be in person or I’m dying alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 04:49 PM |
| 4 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?Chad isn’t my type though, so I’m not talking about chasing him. I’m talking about the kind of guys I want to be attracting and how much I lower my chances in attracting them when I’m not putting the work in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 04:48 PM |
| 4 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?No but I go to the gym daily on top of my yoga classes and morning run and I make sure I’m like a hairless cat with skin as smooth and shiny as a well oiled baby’s butt. I know how much time I put into looking good. I know how much time, effort and energy goes into gym. I also go to college and have two jobs so I know it’s completely achievable for most people, they’d just rather whine on the internet about how unfair it is that people don’t just ‘love them for themselves’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 04:42 PM |
| 8 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?How many times do we need to go over the fact that men and women want different things outta dating? Men want sex (usually) women want commitment (usually). I could have sex every night with different dudes off tinder you’re absolutely right. But what use is that to me when that’s not what I want and will literally do me more harm than good?? I’m working to get the kind of attention from men that is beneficial to me, not for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 04:38 PM |
| 7 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?I’ve done the experiments man, I’ve gone out completely natural and it’s really not the same as going out with your hair/makeup/clothes done properly. You don’t notice the curls but you hit on me because I’m looking good. If my hair is flat and unmade you also don’t notice that but you don’t hit on me because I don’t look good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 04:30 PM |
| 6 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?Boy let me tell you, removing the hair from your legs, arms, armpits takes a lot more than 5mins. Throw in your vagina and butthole and holy shit that is a mission. And requires so much maintenance. And then you gotta follow another 10 step routine of exfoliating and moisturising bc you can’t have dry skin and razor bumps. I’m tired just thinking about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 04:27 PM |
| 1 | How many times have you hooked up with someone below your league?Ahhhhh right. It’s just been my preferred relationship dynamic, I’m the smart/attractive one and they usually have a really obscure hobby/lifestyle that I’m interested in. I usually just date for fun so gaining life experience and compensating for it by bringing my looks, book smarts and money to the table feels like a fair deal. I guess I’ll have a different outlook when I start taking dating seriously maybe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 04:24 PM |
| 7 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?Yeah men think that that’s all women need but then again y’all see a woman with a face full of subtle makeup and hair in casual curls and call it ‘the natural look’, completely disregarding the fact that that look takes like an hour to achieve. The standards for women’s beauty have shot up as well, as shown by how many women are busting their ass in gym. Proper fashion?? Women have made a sport out of it. Hygiene? Yes. Being feminine but not too feminine because she also needs to be taken seriou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 04:16 PM |
| 1 | How many times have you hooked up with someone below your league?I don’t understand what you mean. All I’m saying is the guys I’ve hooked up with have been less attractive, less successful and had less money than me, except 1 guy that was definitely outta my league in almost everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 04:02 PM |
| 17 | If boys weren't "lied" to about how shallow girls are , how many would put in the work and improve themselves?They’d just complain about it more. Men that complain about the fact that they have to look good to get female attention are the equivalent of feminists who stop shaving their legs/armpits and whine about how unfair it is that women are expected to do so. No one is forcing you to put the time/effort into being attractive but you’ve got no leg to stand on when people don’t wanna be with you 🤷♀️ Before I landed in the manosphere I didn’t even realise that men thought women didn’t care about looks… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 03:51 PM |
| 1 | How many times have you hooked up with someone below your league?All but 1. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Why do obese people show their bodies at the beach?Not everyone walks around with only sex on their mind 24/7. I’m guessing when fat people go to the beach they wanna tan, bathe and not be sweating balls under layers of clothing. Not everything is about being sexually attractive dude sometimes people just wanna go to the beach without the intention of getting laid. Crazy concept I know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 02:35 PM |
| 22 | Guys need to get their living quarters in order (& get a house plant)LMAO THESE COMMENTS. “I bought a bed frame and cleaned my apartment and women like me more!” Comments: betabux confirmed!!! Y’all really think owning some basic ass furniture and taking care of your apartment makes you a betabux in women’s eyes? Sometimes I wonder why some men have such a hard time dating and then I read shit like this and I’m like “oh, that’s why”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Going home with a guy is consent to sex.Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 10:28 AM |
| 2 | Going home with a guy is consent to sex.Scenario: you go home with a guy who says he just wants to show you his book collection. He locks you up in a glass cage in his basement. Do you still fuck him? Well yes ur gonna have to since you went to him house lol sorry I don’t make the rules | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Whenever I make comments when I’m blind drunk/high I get a lot of likesIf the bears ate my pussy first I wouldn’t complain. #bearpill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 05:45 AM |
| 2 | Whenever I make comments when I’m blind drunk/high I get a lot of likesI love you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Whenever I make comments when I’m blind drunk/high I get a lot of likesWho the FUCK cares?? Live your life and try be. The best u u can be lots of love worlaholiconew | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 05:32 AM |
| 3 | Whenever I make comments when I’m blind drunk/high I get a lot of likesThanks bitch I appreciate the reminder gotta get on it and stop wasting time on drugs and reddit love u | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 05:29 AM |
| 4 | Whenever I make comments when I’m blind drunk/high I get a lot of likesDONATE TO THE AUSTRALIAN BUSHFIRES, ITS MORE IMPORTANT YHAN IR DICK/PUSSY. SAVE RHE ANIMALS!!!!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 05:20 AM |
| 4 | I did a study on gender, sexual kinks, and how taboo they areYeah I’m dominating in bed and it boggles my mind how many men play it off as unattractive until their hands are handcuffed to my bed, legs locked, eyes blindfolded, me ordering them around until it’s done and they’re like “wow that’s the best sex I’ve ever had”. You don’t lose your alpha status by allowing a woman to take control dude, just enjoy the ride | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 01:39 AM |
| 15 | Going home with a guy is consent to sex.If you go to a gay guys house you’re consenting to getting butt fucked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 01:34 AM |
| -2 | Do women choose the men or do men chase women?I choose the men I want to chase me. If I’m out and I see something I like, I will not approach him but make sure he takes notice of me. I’ll go to the bar when he’s ordering, I’ll accidentally bump into him, I’ll find a way to make eye contact and shoot him a smile. If I’m just looking to hook up I’ll do this to multiple men. Most of them will approach during the night. Then I pick and choose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 10:37 PM |
| 5 | Is height the most important attribute for male attractiveness?I’m 5’1 and I date men 5’3-5’10. I’m really short so I don’t think I’m being unreasonable by asking for 2 inches taller than me. I don’t do 6ft and over because I don’t wanna be half my boyfriends height. I’ve made two exceptions (both ways). I briefly dated a dude shorter than me (5ft) and a dude a lot taller than me (6’3). They were both really attractive guys but I couldn’t bring myself to pursue anything more with them. The 5ft dude was okay until we went out and I towered over him in my hee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 09:19 PM |
| 0 | The movie Second Act with J LoWhat’s next, fantasy movies convince people that they can have superpowers? Sitcoms convince people that they can remain friends with the same 6 people forever and can all hang out together everyday despite having work? Madness!! Also Hustlers is a real story, those women literally did pull that off | /r/MGTOW | 06/01/20 07:57 PM |
| 9 | Men Are Scared of Women Because of the Divorce Rates so It Makes Trying HopelessI’m from the Balkans. It’s very normalised in our society, although it definitely is getting better. I really wish I was making this up honestly but domestic violence just doesn’t get treated as a serious problem here it’s just part of being a husband. My male relatives aren’t bad people, they genuinely think that what they’re doing is the right thing to keep the family together. They’re just putting their women in their place | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/20 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Men Are Scared of Women Because of the Divorce Rates so It Makes Trying HopelessYeah systematic cultural oppression and religious brainwashing totally isn’t a thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/20 12:40 AM |
| 10 | Men Are Scared of Women Because of the Divorce Rates so It Makes Trying HopelessFeminism isn’t really a thing where I’m from, patriarchal views are standard and a woman being abused by her husband is a norm and a reflection of her being a bad wife, not him being a bad husband. I’ve since moved to the west and my relationship history consists of (mostly) good men and I’ve worked through my shit with a therapist quite a bit and I’ve never been abused. But it’s still a fear in the back of my head, probably from seeing so many female relatives with black eyes for coming home at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/20 12:28 AM |
| 3 | [Q4All] What is the weirdest thing someone has said or done during sex with you?I’ve gotten into a habit of high-fiving every time I cum. With my first boyfriend we dated for over year before we had sex and then took it super slow to figure things out properly and every time we’d finish we’d high-five and congratulate each other. I can’t stop doing it. It’s been 6 years. It’s just like some weird reflex now. I nut, I high-five. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/20 11:36 PM |
| 16 | Men Are Scared of Women Because of the Divorce Rates so It Makes Trying HopelessAs a woman I wish my biggest fear from marriage was divorce and not being beaten, controlled and murdered like women have been in my family at the hands of their boyfriends/husbands. And I’m still able to recognise that not all men are evil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/20 11:16 PM |
| 5 | [Q4WOMEN] You have two options: become someone you would hate to be and get laid, or stay true to yourself and get, at best, two lays from fives every six months. Which do you choose?Stay true to myself and be celibate with an extensive sex toy collection. No sex > sex every six months with a 5. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/20 06:15 PM |
| 11 | believing in blank slate equalism is the root of mens frustration in dating.Omg lmao “I’m sorry I’m unable to think of you as a real person, my crush in grade 2 rejected my offer to play together and now I can only see women as sex objects”. Seriously why do men have one bad experience with women while they’re kids/teens and then use that as an excuse for their relationship issues for the rest of their life? Deal with your shit! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/20 02:51 PM |
| 1 | So do women communicate what they want in bed or not?Who knew the line between submissive and dominant was so slim, I guess I’m dominating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/20 10:29 AM |
| 1 | How do you feel about age gap relationships?Not exactly. He laughs about the fact that when he met his girlfriends father he shook his hand instead of beating him up “if I was him I would’ve belted me”. I think he feels like what he’s doing is wrong but he gets off on the fact that he’s getting away with it so easily and effortlessly. He wouldn’t be happy with me dating any guy that much older, even one that would be able to provide for me - I was really pissed after this incident because he caused such a scene and I felt like a child wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/20 02:00 AM |
| 1 | How do you feel about age gap relationships?Yeah he’s alright | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 11:15 PM |
| 5 | How do you feel about age gap relationships?My uncle is 47 and his girlfriend is 23. I’m also 23. He’s got a 12 year old daughter. He’s got money, his girlfriend’s really poor (and hot). He owns a bar, she’s one of his bartenders. I went to the bar where they work with them a few months ago and one of his coworkers was flirting with me - he’s in his late 30’s. My uncle went apeshit and fired him. I had a conversation with him afterwards to tell him that that wasn’t necessary and he went really overboard. He was talking about how this guy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 10:07 PM |
| 13 | So do women communicate what they want in bed or not?I’m very vocal in bed and that makes guys think I’m dominating. “Do this, no not like that let me show you, let’s do this position, put your hand here, stop doing that do this instead”. My general sex feedback has been - “you’re really vocal and dominant”. So I think that dudes that like sUbMisSiVe women don’t actually want to be guided in bed they just want the girl to cum from whatever THEY want to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 12:26 PM |
| 3 | Is male pattern hair loss ("balding") at a young age unattractive to women?I like pretty boys. You can’t be a pretty boy without a thicc head of hair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 02:21 AM |
| 1 | If every guy was attractive, would that just raise the bar or improve the condition of everyone?So there aren’t many attractive guys where I live. I’m lucky to see one dude a day where I’m like ‘oh hey he’s good looking’. And I live in a city with 3 million people. I went on a holiday to a little island near Spain recently and every second guy there would’ve been a 10/10 back home. I was in Chad-land. I spent the entire first day just sitting and looking at all these beautiful men convinced I’d died and gone to heaven. But I was there for 10 days... and in those 10 days my standards of ‘go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 01:07 AM |
| 8 | How do you resolve it with your friends when you both want the same high value man?By calling dibs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/19 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Is your first impression about a guy who doesn't use social media (Facebook, Instagram, etc.) that he is a creep or that he has issues?Two books, even creepier than the show because they’re written from Joe’s perspective so you’re just reading his fucked up thoughts. I recommend them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/19 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Women. For the next 30 days you are now a man. Tell us what you think happens.I don’t live in the USA. I’ve seen all my male friends butt naked in various random streets. The unspoken perks of people not wanting to fuck you ahhh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/19 12:58 AM |
| 0 | Women. For the next 30 days you are now a man. Tell us what you think happens.Yeah I’d definitely just travel to places that aren’t ‘female friendly’ like the Middle East. I’d have sex with women bc I’d still have my woman brain and I know what women want. I’d maybe even bang a prostitute just to understand what it feels like to pay someone for sex. And I’d streak through a public place. It looks really fun but I just can’t pull it off as a girl :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/19 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What’s your age range?I’m 23. I find men 20-26 attractive. Obviously it does go up as I age, at 20 a 25 year old would’ve been too old, at 18 22 was my cut off etc. My social group is between 18-40, although they’re not all in the same group, different aged people from different groups. I’ve only ever slept with 1 guy who was older than me (4 years) and it was the first time I’d taken molly at a festival and I was horny. Youngest dude also 4 years younger than me and I thought he was smart and really cute and had a s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What’s the largest age difference you’ve had with a sexual partner?4 years both ways. Me 19 him 23 and me 22 him 18 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 08:58 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Most men don't give a shit about woman's age, even for LTRs and marriage. If a woman is hot enough, they won't care if she's 25 or 50.At 35 your chance of successful, natural conception is around 15% which is actually about the same as a 16 year old. The female fertility is a bell curve that starts on 0, takes off when she gets her period, peaks at 25 (with about a 25% chance natural conception) and then goes back down till she reaches menopause. Idk where you pulled the 0.6% stat but that was enough for me to disregard the rest of your arguments | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: If s/he has twice your n count, s/he is out of your league?I don’t know why it’s so difficult for people to understand that in terms of n-count everyone should be dating ‘within their league’. Dating someone with an n count a lot higher/lower than you has a good chance of backfiring, causing jealousy, feelings of inadequacy. Dating someone with a similar n count means they probably share similar values to sex as you and have had roughly the same amount of experience. It just makes dating so much easier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 07:42 PM |
| 2 | How often do you think about sex?Female 23. I think about it every night before sleep bc I masturbate then and by this point my brain just makes the connection. If I see a hot dude/something that turns me on during the day I just bookmark it in my head for the night and push any momentary urges down. If I have a partner then it’s a different story and it’s every time I’m around them and most of the times I think about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 03:28 PM |
| 10 | Women who have surpassed childbearing age should be eliminated from society.Women naturally live past 45... having to physically murder someone is not something that adheres to nature. A farmer killing a hen is not NATURE, it’s someone ending a life to put food on the table. There are many animals that live past their reproductive years. But let’s play along with this little fantasy. Men that don’t grow above 6 ft should be murdered. Men that don’t have status, money, looks by the time they’re 40 should be too because by that point their fertility and T levels and sperm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/19 05:05 PM |
| 0 | Do you find the rugby player physique sexually attractive?I find the rugby player body really unattractive, it’s way too much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/19 10:20 AM |
| 0 | Change My View: These lyrics are the absolute ultimate fantasy for womenSo turning the alpha into a beta? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/19 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Are women lied to more than men growing up?They don’t have all the time in the world if they wanna have kids. If they only want a man? The world is their oyster 🦪 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/19 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Are women lied to more than men growing up?Moms got a lot of hot friends. She’s worked in factories her entire life so it’s not like she’s been sheltered and blessed with an unburdened life. Hopefully it’s genetics 🤞🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/19 06:22 PM |
| 7 | Q4W: At what frequency are you normally daygamed?Yeah I think a lot of the men here are just more sexually aggressive. When they check you out they make sure you know they’re checking you out. They don’t ask if they can buy you a drink, they buy you a drink and give it to you. And they will NOT stop until you’ve given them a number. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/19 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Are women lied to more than men growing up?Yeah I guess my grandma with her varicose veins, urostomy and colostomy bags is a hot old woman. Mom is a milf though so I’ll give you that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/19 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Are women lied to more than men growing up?Idk my mum still gets hit on every time she’s out and she’s almost 50. My grandmother is 72, been widowed for a year and has had 3 marriage proposals from divorced/widowed men. I don’t think male thirst has an age limit. The fertility thing I can agree with though and is definitely a harmful narrative to push | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/19 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Are women lied to more than men growing up?I was raised with the ‘men only want sex’ ‘you can never rely on a man in any way’ your need an education and to make your money so you can support yourself through everything’ ‘if you can be independent enough to have a child without a husband you should do it’ ‘love isn’t real’ ‘life isn’t a fairytale’ ‘female friends take priority over boyfriends because they’re the ones who will be there for you’’. And this is from my female and male relatives. It’s quite exhausting being so on guard all the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/19 05:03 PM |
| 9 | Q4W: At what frequency are you normally daygamed?I’m 23 and from Eastern Europe, living in the west in a very crowded urban area. I spend about 9 months a year in the west and 3 months home in Eastern Europe. I veryyyy rarely get daygamed in the west but while in Eastern Europe it’s pretty much every time I’m outside. Random dudes on the street, in coffee shops, in shopping centres. I am currently in Eastern Europe and took a cab to get to dinner today and the taxi driver asked me out and then didn’t charge me bc I gave him my phone number. It… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/19 04:03 PM |
| 3 | A fuckboy is not low valueI never understood the hype around dick 🧐 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/19 10:45 AM |
| 3 | A fuckboy is not low valueA fuckboy is exactly like a male prostitute (who still pays for your shit) if you find a woman who treats fuckboy men the way they treat slutty women. I love fuckboys. I want more of them because I don’t feel bad asking for head, getting mine and then as I lean over to take a sip of water I see my phone and ‘omg I have 16 missed calls from my mum/omg I totally forgot I had a thing to do/holy shit my friends car broke down and they need me to get them!’ I have never touched a fuckboys dick becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/19 09:21 AM |
| 1 | A fuckboy is not low valueI think contraception and the availability of abortion really changed this though. I mean I can’t say for certain, but I’m pretty sure I’d be a virgin if contraceptive and abortions weren’t available to me. I’ve been totally neurotic and paranoid about getting pregnant since I became sexually active and the thought of getting pregnant from the people I’ve slept with has made me disgusted. Women just being on hormonal BC alone takes away their ability to want to fuck someone for the sake of repro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/19 09:00 AM |
| 5 | Myth about "female nature" and hypergamyMen complain about hypergamy but then love going to said South East Asian countries because they know their wealth is finally high enough that young hypergamous women will want to fuck them and then they come back to reddit to talk about how feminine and submissive those women are and how if they were to get married it would definitely be a woman like them. When women are making money and have solid careers and don’t want to be a SAHM they’re all ‘ugh so masculine, I don’t want to marry a man’. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/19 10:57 AM |
| 3 | Q4women: do you ever turn down sex with your SO?You can provide femininity to a house and still be able to earn a paycheck, in fact I’ve heard it’s quite common 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/19 10:40 AM |
| 6 | Male orbiters are the cringiest people and do more damage than the actual thots.I think he’s saying ‘I would be an abusive rapist if it wasn’t against the law!’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 04:48 PM |
| 1 | What's your age cut-off?Well yeah my ex’s boyfriend was a complete mess and a great guy. He just didn’t have a handle on life at the time and ended up changing college majors like 4 times, went through a brief stoner phase, changed jobs, moved in and out of his parents’ home. He was also a good little momma’s boy who woke up early every morning to make coffee and tea for all the homeless people on his street, was very respectful and just an all round great guy. A complete wholesome mess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 05:02 PM |
| 2 | What's your age cut-off?Please tell me where she says she wanted a bad boy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 04:06 PM |
| 2 | I've seen men claim they don't trust women on N count. So, why are so many men offended when women ADMIT they lie about the N count?You can’t keep using the word ‘procreate’ interchangeably with ‘had sex with’. I can understand being put off by a mate that has procreated with someone else but your mate could’ve had sex with 100 people and not procreated and you could think she’s a virgin if she wanted to lie to you. If we reduce ourselves to animals do you think chimps are out there being like ‘I wanna mate with her but I heard ChimpChad had sex with her 2 years ago and even though she didn’t get pregnant I cant mate with he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 12:28 PM |
| 1 | I've seen men claim they don't trust women on N count. So, why are so many men offended when women ADMIT they lie about the N count?Yep!! That’s exactly it. I’ve had 2 guys ask me, I was really naive when the first one did and I just answered honestly that it was 2 and he was like “yeah okay so 6”. I hadn’t even heard of the x3 rule at that time and I found myself trying to prove to that asswipe that it was actually 2 while he was all ‘I know all women divide it by 3 you can’t lie to me’. Holy shit talk about mental gymnastics and not being able to win no matter what. Fuck dudes like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 10:39 AM |
| 4 | I've seen men claim they don't trust women on N count. So, why are so many men offended when women ADMIT they lie about the N count?Yeah I bet all these guys are looking to procreate. If it was your biological instinct you would all be 100% against birth control, have sex to reproduce and be more than happy to be living and working with the sole purpose of handing over all your resources to your women/children to ensure their survival and laying down your own life for them if need be. You’re not hardwired to wrap your dick up and bang women for the sake of sex so let’s drop the biological instincts jig. I’ve never been pregn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 10:34 AM |
| 3 | I've seen men claim they don't trust women on N count. So, why are so many men offended when women ADMIT they lie about the N count?When a dude asks me my n-count I disqualify any further relationship I might have with him so I just choose to be 110% honest. I tell him my n-count, give him all the details, names if he wants them, the entire story. He can do whatever he wants with it. Men don’t know what the want, they only want to know your n-count if its 0 and you gush over how he’s the first and one and only and his dick is the biggest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 09:34 AM |
| 8 | What's your age cut-off?She wanted to date guys she could relate to in her early 20s while she was a mess and figuring things and now that she’s matured and has her shit together she also wants someone mature with their shit together... and that’s red pill confirmed? If that’s the red pill then y’all really are some autistic idiots with 0 understanding of how the world works because people wanting to date people they can relate to is hardly a revolutionary idea lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 08:14 AM |
| 1 | What's your age cut-off?I’m 23 and my cut off is plus/minus 3 years. So I date 20-26. Boys fresh outta high school are too immature and men in their late 20s and above are in a different phase in life and I find them old. My ‘cut off’ will definitely change as I age but this is where it’s at right now. I was at a bar last weekend and I spent like an hour talking to this very attractive man, I was very into him and then he mentioned that he was turning 30 in a few days and 100% of my attraction to him was gone in a seco… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 08:06 AM |
| 3 | What is a high value man for you?Every single woman I know refuses to date men who have a history of casual sex, it’s a deal breaker for a lot of women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/19 10:34 AM |
| 45 | Where is the lie? 🤔When you call a fuckboy out on his fuckboy behaviour and he gives you the longest “wooooooooooooooow” you’ve ever heard. Boy bye 👋🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 11:25 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W]What was the shortest amount of time it took for a guy to have PIV sex with you. What were the circumstances?Everyone has taken between 3-12 months except 1 dude where we were banging on the same night. I’d been single for a while, hadn’t had sex in over a year and had ecstasy-goggles at a festivals and he had a hotel room close by lmao definitely a “I never do this kinda thing”. We ended up dating for a few months though so it still wasn’t a pump and dump but it’s something I don’t think I’d ever do again. AND he is definitely the least attractive guy I’ve slept with, unattractive enough that none of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 10:55 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: How much does the ability of a man to keep you physically safe impacts your attraction to him, if at all?I love skinny guys. All but one of my LTRs/partners have been really skinny. The one muscly guy I dated was my worst relationship and there’s probably a lot of shit to undig here with a therapist but he’s the only one I felt unsafe around. Like I live in western country with a super low crime rate, the chances of me being abused are significantly higher at home from my boyfriend than they are from randoms on the street. I jog alone at night, have travelled alone, hitchhiked... my skinny boyfrien… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/19 01:50 AM |
| 3 | CMV; its not slut shaming, its self respect. men need to develop some self respect and dating women who have been passed around their whole lives.No. Every relationship is different, there’s a reason why my stoic husband is not with that girl and is with me. Expecting people to act the same throughout their whole lives is so limiting, people learn and grow and change and so does the nature of their relationships and their attitude towards them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/19 01:36 AM |
| 3 | CMV; its not slut shaming, its self respect. men need to develop some self respect and dating women who have been passed around their whole lives.How can men want a virgin/low n count AND ‘sexual value’? My first boyfriend had to wait over a year for me to be ready (we started dating when I was 17) and I was trash at giving head and a starfish when we started boning. My sexual value has definitely gone up with my sexual experience, each partner gets better ‘value’ than the last. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/19 01:32 AM |
| 3 | [Q4W] how come jerking to porn "damages" male brains but high N-count doesn't "damage" female brains?I’ve never not got oral because I don’t sleep with someone if he doesn’t go down on me. So when I state that as a rule and you get the guys that don’t do it, do it for 10 seconds and act like they’re doing you some huge favour. The head is trash, the lack of enthusiasm kills the mood and I know the sex is gonna be bad with this selfish mofo. A lot of guys just honestly think their dicks are enough to get a woman off and it’s annoying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 07:44 PM |
| 5 | [Q4W] how come jerking to porn "damages" male brains but high N-count doesn't "damage" female brains?And I would like to add that if we’re playing the ‘evolution’ card, evolution literally created an entire organ whose one and only purpose is sexual pleasure in women. Evolution went through the whole damn effort to give women a clitoris just for men to skim over it because it doesn’t directly involve their dicks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 07:38 PM |
| 11 | [Q4W] how come jerking to porn "damages" male brains but high N-count doesn't "damage" female brains?Women do orgasm easily, most men just have 0 skill lmao. It takes me 5 minutes max when I’m alone, although if I’m rushing I can get there in under a minute. And then you get a dude that either leaves you with blue balls or gets salty when you try to teach him or doesn’t listen when you guide him because he needs to feel dominant or his dick will fall off. I’ve had a few good guys so hashtag notallmen but still tooooooo many | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 03:53 PM |
| 41 | Men are forever exaggerating how much better they are than women. 50 years after the birth control pill and we’ve nearly caught up with them after centuries of oppression. We see now that state enforced subservience via the Patriarchy is really just affirmative action for men.Honestly when you consider the fact that women have had basic human rights for only about 100 years (and less for women of colour) and then you look at how much we’ve succeed in such a small amount of time it is mind blowing. The strength, intelligence and resilience of women all around the world is astounding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 03:23 PM |
| 48 | Never Internalize Men’s BehaviorBeyoncé got cheated on. Case closed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 12:36 AM |
| 18 | Read the comments and learn what not to do in a relationship. Don’t ever give up your family/friends/career/hobbies for a man. A HVM will not expect you to compromise your entire life and personality to fit his.HoW sWeEt!!!!! 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 11:39 PM |
| 16 | Read the comments and learn what not to do in a relationship. Don’t ever give up your family/friends/career/hobbies for a man. A HVM will not expect you to compromise your entire life and personality to fit his.I hope every single of them is dudes talking shit honestly it’s too sad to think they’re real | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 11:38 PM |
| 14 | “Women don’t want to fuck me. Therefore, they shouldn’t have rights. There’s no other option. I hate that it has to be this way though :/.”If this man got the world he wanted he’d still complain about women being hypergamous because he earns more than his wife for whom it’d be illegal to have a job so ☹️ Poor little dude. Must be difficult living with such a logical mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Black Friday is coming up and I'm stocking up on perfume - what perfumes get you guys the most compliments & smell super sexy?The original Roberto Cavalli has been my go to for years and it still gets me compliments. Also Chanel No.5 and Si by Armani. My newest obsession is Mèmoire Dune by Gucci though, it’s unisex and just has these sexy masculine/feminine undertones, it’s a really unique smell and I adore it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 08:43 PM |
| 8 | A Generation of Children That Male Sex Tourists Left BehindThis is why laws like the one Indonesia is passing (anti pre marital sex) are drastic but necessary for countries where sex tourism is thriving. It will harm innocent people BUT it will also make men travelling to these countries to fuck kids think twice. I hope they do pass it and lock up all those disgusting, depraved pieces of shit for life. They don’t deserve to ever see the light of day filthy fucking animals | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 01:20 PM |
| 8 | MGTOW men: hypergamy is bad women need to stop dating up! Also MGTOW men: women dating average dudes with little to offer is bad, they need to have higher standards!Right?? Imagine thinking so low of yourself that by touching a woman you think you are devaluing her. But if she doesn’t sleep with you then you’re the one that feels devalued. Its the male version of the Madonna/whore complex except in typical male fashion the problem rests with the female’s decision regardless of which one she chooses | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 01:01 PM |
| 17 | HVWomen We AdmireMy grandfathers sister is in her 70s now, born and raised in an Eastern European country. When she was in her 20s (so 1960s Eastern Europe) she decided she wanted a life of passion and adventure and she never wanted to get married but she did want kids. Everyone in her (my) family thought she was insane but she left for America, saved up money, paid a dude to impregnate her she had twin girls. She’s raised them, put herself through Med school and has done literally every bucket list item you can… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 06:02 PM |
| 37 | Ain't that the truthAnd when women like something that they think they have some kind of manly dibs on (sports, games) they get soooo pissed off. Their entire personality is so damn fragile that a woman just liking the same shit as them is enough to turn them off the thing that they like. Really liked this game but now women like it as well and that enrages me so much I cannot play it anymore but I will continuously cry about how women ruined it for me, I bet they don't even like it, name the creator and the illust… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 06:15 AM |
| 88 | Don't tell men how horrible other men are.Told a guy I was dating that my previous partner had removed his condom during sex once and it totally broke my trust in him and I wish I had had the self respect to dump him right then and there. It was the first time he’d heard of stealthing and he was all supportive and shocked that he had done that and I hadn’t noticed until sex was over. Guess what he tried like a week later?? And when I called him up on it he said ‘well you continued to date your other partner for a few months afterwards s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 08:28 AM |
| 17 | Don't tell men how horrible other men are.THANK YOU FOR THIS POST!! It’s the damn truth and I learnt this way too late. Now when men ask me about past relationships/experiences with men they’ve all been great and treated me like a queen we just didn’t work out/I had to move/he had to move/we were in different places in life.... “no I’ve never received a dick pic do men actually do that?? I’m shocked 😱” “no no never been ghosted, we always left things on good terms with mutual respect” The bar is always high | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 08:03 AM |
| 12 | Guys weaponising/withholding sexWas seeing a guy like this a few years ago, we’d get as far as a steamy make out sesh and then he’d resist and push me away, he’d literally just zip my pants back up. I mean we had had sex a few times but even during it he was kinda mechanical in his approach I guess? Like he’d read a ‘how to sex’ and now was following it word for word. I wasn’t too bothered at the time because he was so damn pretty and really spoilt me and treated me well. But it eventually fizzled out and last I heard he’s in … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 10:14 PM |
| 58 | Pro tip: it’s usually AFTER you’ve moved on/cut him offYou are literally amazing, you should be so damn proud of yourself QUEEN 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 04:50 AM |
| 44 | I bet he thought he really got me typing out this word soup. Just say you want a FWB and go.“Hang out with me when I’m bored fuck me when I’m horny but if you ask where this is going I’m gonna act like you’re crazy because we’re just friends obviously haha wyd tonight ;)” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 04:48 AM |
| 16 | The myth of "sex positivity"I was rewatching my favourite movie yesterday (Before Sunrise) and the main actress says this quote that used to annoy me when I was lib-fem but now I understand it a lot more “I have this awful, paranoid thought that feminism was mostly invented by men so they could fool around more. "Woman, free your mind, free your body. Sleep with me. We're all happy and free, as long as I can fuck as much as I can.”” Now obviously feminism has done a lot for women but men seem to have a lot of problems with… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 06:55 AM |
| 23 | Women don't let these men trick you into dumb shit like this. You are not obligated to get an iud for his pleasure.Honestly I don’t fuck with hormonal birth control. I tried the pill and it made me so moody, my libido was on a fat 0, I was so depressed. Tried a few difference brands, they always had horrible side effects like weight gain... almost died from it because I had to have an emergency surgery and my blood clotted a lot more than expected and had a huge blood clot bump in my arm for ages just waiting for it to travel into my heart and kill me. And I’ve explained this to partners who have asked me to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 03:58 AM |
| 45 | “It’s ok man, trust me, women will be lonely, depressed, and worthless after hitting the wall at 25. We have it better lives in the end hahaha”One of my mums friend’s husband left her and their two kids for a woman he met at his gym that just wants to be a housewife as opposed to his SELFISH career driven (ex)wife. It’s been 3 years since he left, his new gf dumped him, his kids hate him, he lives in a share house with 3 other lonely 40 yo men and she’s gone back to college, finished off her law degree, got a great job, an apartment in the city and is dating a fitness model 20 years younger than her. She’s approaching 50 and the wall i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 03:47 AM |
| 11 | Imagine "Phasing out" items of clothing from you wardrobe because they're not what some dude prefersThe whole red pill ideology is just people who took the handmaids tale as an instruction manual as opposed to the terrifying dystopian story it is honestly there are so many paralleles I could write a thesis on it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 03:40 AM |
| 42 | What do y'all think of coffee dates (for a first date)?The only time I agree to a coffee date is if it completely fits my schedule, I refuse to go out of my way for a low effort date. So if he suggests a coffee date and I am interested in him it’s always on my terms ‘yeah I need to do some shopping meet me at the shopping centre at 3pm’ or ‘I’m going out for breakfast with a friend on Saturday, meet me there at 12pm after we’re done’ or ‘my work break is between 1-2 on Tuesday there’s a coffeeshop near me you can meet me there’ That’s all the effort… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 03:24 AM |
| 69 | The Oxytocin MythDon’t worry about sneaking off, just tell him that you’re not done yet. From here he can either finish you off or if he doesn’t care, you whip out a very large and very loud vibrator and make it as awkward as possible for him :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 12:31 AM |
| 31 | BDSM is disgustinghttps://theviolenceofpornography.blogspot.com/ This is a really great (and horrifying) page that goes into detail about how harmful the ever increasing brutalization of mainstream porn is for women. I needed like two bottles of wine to get through 3 posts because it's honestly the first time I've properly stopped to think about how fucked up it all is. Portraying rape, violence, mutilation, coercion, incest porn and girls who look like they're 12 getting their 'innocence destroyed' by Daddy (swo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 04:49 PM |
| 9 | Emma Watson: successful and happily single. MGTOWs: upset that she is actually living the lifestyle they advocate for, complete lack of self awareness and extreme projectionThat is literally my favourite MGTOW comment of all time. If I ever have to describe them to someone that’s the quote I’m using. They just make it too damn easy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 01:24 PM |
| 19 | Reminder From RPW: If you're ever tempted to go the "traditional" relationship route because it seems quaint or sweet, remember that it involves sacrificing all of your self-worth, dignity and happinessOmfg a few months ago I was at a bar with a friend and in the bathroom there was a group of women comforting their hysterically sobbing friend. Pretty standard for a women’s bar bathroom. We went to check up on the her with my friend and she said she’d caught her husband cheating on her. So we’re all screaming at her about how he’s a piece of shit and she’s beautiful and she deserves better and her face just changes in a split second and she’s like “Ive got the motherfuckers credit card in my wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 12:17 PM |
| 9 | British women are killing themselves over revenge porn - please never trust men completely even if they are your long term husbands,mots of these victims thought they are in love with those men,never share a nude no matter the pressureGonna have to start investing in fkn metal detectors just to have sex smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 07:32 AM |
| 10 | British women are killing themselves over revenge porn - please never trust men completely even if they are your long term husbands,mots of these victims thought they are in love with those men,never share a nude no matter the pressuresbfkjsbfksbfks the YOU'RE JUST SO SEXY comment actually makes me want to flip my table. Even when they're caught out doing some vile shit it is STILL THE WOMAN'S FAULT for merely EXISTING and being soOOOoOOOOO sexy that he just can't help himself! How DARE SHE. Honestly you're friend is lucky she caught onto that when she did, I feel so so bad for all those other girls on there ughhhh honestly [don't] fuck men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 07:31 AM |
| 30 | Another example of why being a sweet, loving woman who caters to her man will get you nothing in the end. This poor woman. Men are SO selfish."I basically just clean up and do whatever I want" .... "I find myself thinking about the obligations I have taken on for her" WHAT OBLIGATIONS?? The only thing the woman isn't doing for him is wiping his ass (probably). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 07:24 AM |
| 27 | British women are killing themselves over revenge porn - please never trust men completely even if they are your long term husbands,mots of these victims thought they are in love with those men,never share a nude no matter the pressureWhat scares me even more is dudes filming shit without you being aware of it. Having cameras hidden or their webcam on. Honestly it sounds like crazy paranoia but my expectations of men are already so low I feel like I need to Nancy Drew the fuck outta every single location I decide to have sex in. Dating men is so exhausting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 03:58 AM |
| 60 | Men actually like picky womenMen want a woman to sit in her room and reject every single man who isn't them, no matter who they are, until they come along and she's so entranced by his neck beard, beer gut, poor hygiene and minimum wage job that she just fucks him on the spot. Now I can't quite work out the logistics as to how this scenario would work, but then again men ARE the logical gender so I try not to worry my lady brain too much :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 05:24 PM |
| 25 | Hmmm. But moids claim women hit the wall at 30.The real crime is that they ever thought someone like Keanu was ever even close to their trash standards. They are so damn deluded | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 03:29 PM |
| 56 | Hmmm. But moids claim women hit the wall at 30.It's even funnier because TRP/MGTOW dudes worship this guy because he has been single and is from the Matrix aka the first guy to take the red pill. He's seems like such lovely person though, I hope they make each other really happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 12:32 PM |
| 9 | FDS Discussion: How are you working on yourself?Studying full time Two part time jobs Run for an hour every second day/an hour of yoga on the opposing days Making the time to socialise and see friends once a week no matter how busy I am Giving myself the time and space to just paint, write, play guitar and not feeling guilty for 'wasting my time' by doing so And I'm leaving for a 2 month solo backpacking trip through Europe this month. I've got deep sea scuba diving lessons in Malta, a natural medicine and yoga retreat in Portugal, skiing in … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 04:31 AM |
| 3 | Not gonna be your slutty therapist!!Oh you're sad? I bet I can make you feel better ;) *whips dick out* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 11:14 AM |
| 28 | PSA: Never send nudes.To be fair she didn’t get outright fired. They just suggested they thought it’d be best if she quit, which she agreed with as well seeing as by that point every single student and teacher in the school had seen her naked and you can just imagine the kind of shit she was getting from the hormone fueled monsters | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 05:46 AM |
| 7 | Proposal for a sticky: a non negotiable list of dealbreakers in husbands, fans, dates, boyfriends, etcYuck 🤢 count your blessings though, at least he’s an ex! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 05:26 AM |
| 29 | PSA: Never send nudes.Yeah no. She had to move to a completely different state to start fresh, she’s definitely learnt the titty pics weren’t worth it 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 05:26 AM |
| 117 | PSA: Never send nudes.I have a very sex-positive lib femenist friend who’s used to be the biggest advocate for nudes “I’m not ashamed of my body/I have nothing to hide/I’m empowered and in control of my sexuality/I enjoy surprising my boyfriend with these photos”. She thought she was being smart by only sending them to boys she was in long term relationships with. Her boyfriend of 4 years physically assaulted her once and she went to stay with her parents brcause they were living together. Told her dad that her boyfr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 12:59 AM |
| 31 | Not gonna be your slutty therapist!!Most often they want both - what an amazing combo deal! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 12:47 PM |
| 92 | Proposal for a sticky: a non negotiable list of dealbreakers in husbands, fans, dates, boyfriends, etcMen who are unable to listen to you talking about women’s issues without “what about men??” Men whose entire friendship group consists of emotionally stunted frat bros Men who don’t respect your sexual boundaries and try to bargain with you “just once please, it’s always been a fantasy of mine” “everyone does it it’s not a big deal” “you’d do it if you loved me” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 07:21 AM |
| 5 | Come Watch A Bunch of Men Be Gleeful About Inanimate Sex Dolls Because Nothing makes the “feminazis” madder than Jizzing Into A Sex Doll and Thus Voluntarily Removing Their Subpar Sperm From The Gene PoolIt is so uncomfortable watching these men interact with their dolls but it doesn’t make me angry, it’s just pure cringe and pity. Also how does one invest in this market? Might as well make some money off of this 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 04:01 AM |
| 5 | How do you deal with naturally lacking femininity?Pick the right clothing for your body type, the right hair for your head shape, learn some make-up skills to 'soften' your facial features. Red lipstick always makes me feel like a goddess. Femininity is 50% appearance, 50% how you act and that is something you have control over. And a completely 'perfect' looking person isn't something to strive for. First because its usually impossible to achieve and you'll drive yourself crazy trying to get there. And second because weird little unique parts … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Why do people always bring up how the majority of rape victims are female, but never the fact that 90% of homicide victims are maleAccording to the data given by the United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime, worldwide, 78.7% of homicide victims are male, and in 193 of the 202 listed countries or regions, males were more likely to be killed than females. In two, the ratio was 50:50 (Switzerland and British Virgin Islands), and in the remaining 7; Tonga, Iceland, Japan, New Zealand, Republic of Korea, Latvia and Hong Kong, females were more likely to be victims of homicides compared to males.[61] A 2013 global study on homici… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/19 11:08 AM |
| 4 | Do you have genuine guy friends?Only one I would consider a 'genuine' friend. We've been friends for about 14 years now. A few years back he said he was in love with me and got quite offended when I didn't feel the same way. We didn't talk for about a month and he wrote me a message saying that he really loved me, but the love wasn't only romantic and he respected that I didn't feel the same way but he needed a bit of time to compose himself before we could go back to being friends because he didn't want to lose me as a friend… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 07:58 AM |
| 13 | What is a high value man (HVM)? What traits should we be seeking in a partner? Share your thoughts below.the ability to hold a conversation generous on dates and in the bedroom not a huge n-count, has been in a few relationships and he doesn’t trash talk his ex girlfriends good relationship with his parents (esp his mum) able to admit to his mistakes and takes action to improve them a decent career | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 05:35 PM |
| 5 | Why are men like this? 😅You tell him you’re not after sex, he disrespects that and sends a dick pic. You tell him again and he tries to convince you that you’re wrong for thinking he’s after sex. Gaslighting 101, this dude will have no problem pushing more of your boundaries and then making it out to seem like you’re the crazy one who got the wrong idea when you tell him off about it. Nexttttttt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 05:25 PM |
| 22 | Dating my boyfriend for 9 months - not unhappy, but not ecstatic either. Is it ok to date others?You’re young and if you feel unfulfilled just leave and date around to find out what you really want in a partner. You shouldn’t cheat though, that’s a shitty thing to do and the karma from it almost always catches up with you. Just dump him sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 05:17 PM |
| 22 | Always have your own money regardlessMy mum has always told me to have ‘dash cash’. You should always have some kind of an income and no matter how small it is, put a part of it away every pay check. Even if you’re tight with money some months, put at least $10 of it away. In a separate account or a cash bundle hidden away. Every cent will help you get away and be able to afford some accomodation and food for a while in case you need to dash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 02:30 PM |
| 18 | "I've fallen in love with myself and i want someone to share me with me", the most based relationship advice I'd received pre-FDS“If a man came into your life wouldn’t you want to compromise?” Eartha: BAHAHAHHAHAHA stupid. Literal Queen 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 10:43 AM |
| 21 | So what's wrong with hypergamy?Oh my god you are on point with this! The amount of posts about these men talking about how when they want to settle down they’re going to be chasing young Asian/eastern European women. They know that those women from poor countries will only be with them for a visa/money and they’re 100% happy with that. Men not liking hypergamy in a woman is literally the biggest lie, that’s why high earning women have such a hard time in love. They need to feel like they’re needed for their resources. That’s … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 09:08 AM |
| 12 | So what's wrong with hypergamy?For real, most women I know aren't hypergamous because it has such negative connotations but... they should be? When I learnt about the concept I was like I have very few examples of real relationships like this but the whole thing makes sense, why AREN'T women doing this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 06:39 AM |
| 20 | So what's wrong with hypergamy?Oh I believe the 80/20 rule... in that 80% of men are having sex but probably around 20% aren't. The ones that aren't having sex just try to convince themselves that majority of men aren't and only the Chads get laid because if they were honest with themselves they'd have to realise that they are the problem. Online dating is a horrible way to study human relationships because who you swipe on is 100% based on like 5 carefully selected pictures. If you met that person that you swiped on in perso… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 05:17 AM |
| 22 | How do you feel about incel subreddits using this subreddit to validate women are deceiving and only care about money?They think a woman wanting a man to have a job is a more shallow and unrealistic dating expectation than men wanting a woman who looks like she’s 16 her entire life so 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 02:02 AM |
| 13 | This one was a charmerThe first message is problematic to say the least, but the second two messages are some hardcore projecting oh my. Who would've expected that from someone called cum shooter? :\ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 04:50 PM |
| 4 | How many of you are femcels and how many date routinely?I've been in 2 long term relationships but have only been casually dating for the past year. I've been on quite a few dates but haven't gone past kissing any of them in the last year because, well, none of them have been good enough | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 02:53 PM |
| 15 | Us: Brag about not letting a dude fuck us over Them: Brag about happily watching a woman get fucked overIf I saw something like that happening to a man or a woman and I did shit all to help I would NOT be bragging about it online. Imagine knowing you could've helped someone by calling the cops (no one's forcing anyone to physically enter into a dangerous situation), but not only did you not do that... you found the situation so amusing that you typed it out, read over it, had a laugh again and posted it online. Yikes. A part of me hopes that it didn't happen in real life but in some video game he … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 02:42 PM |
| 44 | “FDS is the most toxic space on reddit, even worse than redpill subs.”And just after that: women really need to stop treating us like we're dangerous! It makes me upset :( Not all men are predators! I'm a really nice guy why doesn't she just take my word for it ugh Bottom line is the wrong men are going to think you're a bitch no matter what you do, so you may as well maximize your safety and benefit! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 03:44 AM |
| 82 | “FDS is the most toxic space on reddit, even worse than redpill subs.”Confident women with self respect helping other women be confident and learn to value and protect themselves: TOXIC!!! REPULSIVE!!! HOW IS THIS ALLOWED? Men preying on women with low self esteem and teaching other men it's okay to do so: Haha classic! Boys will be boys! It really is women's fault for not learning how to protect themselves haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 02:01 AM |
| 18 | A thank you to the Red Pill man I datedWhen men say these things I like to hit them where it hurts them the most. Women were the first producers of beer and the first ever recipe is credited to a female priestess labelled ‘the goddess of beer’. Also a woman was the first computer programmer (Ada Lovelace) and coding was first a pink collar job until the men pushed the women out. Their own beloved matrix franchise that they’ve based all these pills on had both of the brothers the created it transition into women... now THEY took the r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 03:18 PM |
| 11 | Look Hotter If You Want To Get a BoyfriendLooking feminine and having good posture, chest out, head held high and making eye contact while smiling. It makes them stumble over their words like a flustered school boy. Holding the right amount of eye contact alone has been my simplest and most effective strategy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 01:35 PM |
| 7 | A thank you to the Red Pill man I datedIt breaks my heart thinking of how many women hear that and believe it. I sure did at the time. It is such a pathetic thing to say to someone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 12:53 PM |
| 16 | A thank you to the Red Pill man I datedI am so grateful my mother raised me to value female friendships so highly. One of her favorite sayings is - when the boat is sinking a man is at best an expensive piece of jewelry you carry with you; comforting but unnecessary. At worst he is an anchor on your leg. But your sisters are your life raft. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 12:51 PM |
| 10 | A thank you to the Red Pill man I datedThank you girl! The subs are good to read so you know what to avoid in a man, but they're so toxic it's almost guaranteed to shit on your mood when reading it, so maybe book in a yoga sesh if you decide to dive in there 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 12:47 PM |
| 11 | A thank you to the Red Pill man I datedMGTOW is just a low budget parody of the female Spinsters. You can't even get mad at them they're such a joke. If they really do stay away from women then they're doing everyone a favour and I support them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 12:44 PM |
| 21 | A thank you to the Red Pill man I datedYeah, with all those red pill strategies you think they'd teach them how to deal with their own shit being thrown back at them but admitting women are capable of that just doesn't fit their narrative! My dad was way too happy to kick him out. He's never interfered in my love life because he doesn't think it's his place but when I came back and told him I broke up with him he was just like 'oh thank god. I couldn't stand that little shit.' ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 12:41 PM |
| 11 | A thank you to the Red Pill man I datedThe amount of strong women I've been encountering on and off line gives me so much optimism for this and future generations of women! Thinking about how much women have achieved in only a few generations of having basic human rights gives me a warm fuzzy feeling inside. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 12:33 PM |
| 16 | A thank you to the Red Pill man I datedYes! I liked some posts in RPW because they acknowledge how counterproductive the lib-fem narrative is for women, but they fail to recognize that these alpha men they are chasing don't respect them in the slightest and they are all too happy to treat those trash men as the prize. I don't want to judge too hard though - while I was in that relationship I would have eaten that shit up. I'm very glad I didn't find that sub when I was in that mind state, it would have been so toxic for me when my se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 12:30 PM |
| 8 | A thank you to the Red Pill man I datedI'm so happy to be here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 07:31 AM |
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