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DM me I got audio files fam
/r/seduction13/03/21 07:55 PM
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🔥🔥 you too broski x
/r/seduction26/12/20 08:08 PM
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"Asking more than once is begging"
/r/seduction26/12/20 08:07 PM
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r/certifiedbruhmoment
/r/seduction26/12/20 08:06 PM
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I think OP meant most of us who are "ourselves" isn't our true self (highly insecure, people pleasing, years of upbringing conditioned into you, etc). So once we disassociate from all the initial false believes of not being good enough, you naturally become your actual self and kill it throughout real life.
/r/seduction12/12/20 06:47 PM
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Wait you guys getting girls?
/r/seduction12/12/20 06:37 PM
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Wait you guys get dates?
/r/seduction08/12/20 07:46 PM
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If you value yourself, you'll move on. Respect your time & attention esp towards girls - it's your greatest asset broski
/r/seduction02/12/20 07:07 PM
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The way I see it - texting is just a means to meet up IRL. Hold the conversation when you're actually with her, you're not her pen. I value my time so I don't beat around the bush anymore. I just set the date, if she agrees then great. If she doesn't or is wishy washy then great. I've just weeded out a time waster & then I cut contact and move on.
/r/seduction01/12/20 08:09 PM
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Max explains it really well in that video :)
/r/seduction21/08/18 09:50 AM
3

Friend zone as many girls in your classes first. Then over time befriend their attractive girl friends of whom you won't see much during your school life. Yes, the high risk high reward is a good hunting strategy but while in school especially when we are all young you want to have a farmer's mentality. I highly recommend watching RSDMax's video on how to game in college/school!
/r/seduction20/08/18 06:55 PM
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I had to relogin to my 1 yr dormant account just to reply to this; Take my upvote
/r/seduction20/08/18 06:32 PM
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"How spontaneous are you?" In the reply the girls sometimes qualify herself, which you can delve into and then use the spontaneity to naturally agree on a meet-up/date. More in detail: https://drive.google.com/open?id=1tJqo2hvvuhuW7ApuNrbohHGpXQyDXM9P (all credit goes to Ice White from RSD London)
/r/seduction02/04/18 02:11 PM
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Ma nigga
/r/seduction23/03/18 05:15 PM
1

What did you send her? Give us material to work with :)
/r/seduction14/03/18 03:59 PM
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Nice and simple
/r/seduction13/02/18 10:00 PM
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Underrated comment right here lmfao
/r/seduction06/02/18 09:12 AM
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Instructions unclear; got my dick stuck in her mouth
/r/seduction30/01/18 10:03 AM
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hashtag foreshadowing
/r/seduction26/01/18 01:10 PM
3

Sick work
/r/seduction26/01/18 01:09 PM
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You don't.
/r/seduction20/01/18 10:15 PM
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u/AnObsessedRedditor This.
/r/seduction15/01/18 03:28 PM
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gg
/r/seduction20/12/17 11:58 AM
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Sick work brah, put a smile on my face :D
/r/seduction06/12/17 08:22 PM
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Fuck yeah! How'd the date go btw
/r/seduction06/12/17 01:48 PM
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Right in the feels
/r/seduction16/10/17 05:39 PM
1

Real Social Dynamics. In my opinion the best business to learn game and lifestyle improvement :)
/r/seduction15/10/17 12:18 PM
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RSDYogi
/r/seduction14/10/17 12:32 PM
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11/10 would watch again
/r/seduction03/10/17 08:19 AM
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THIS. Having said that text game is relevant for Tinder to make her feel comfortable with yourself.
/r/seduction28/09/17 05:57 PM
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David Deida is that you? I have that book; it's very good indeed - I'll check out 3% Man next. Thanks for a great reply there's a lot of insightful meaning here. You in a relationship rn bro? Pick up for me has been so useful for improving my own skillset and mindset as an individual as well as applying to everyday life (Like RSDLuke said, girls are the lamest attainable goals in game). For me a relationship is not my cup of tea this moment in time as I just discovered game - I want to put mysel…
/r/seduction26/09/17 05:15 PM
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Interesting, could you expand on this? What would you mean by more 'fulfilling'? (NOTE: Am a beginner in game who never had sex with a girl yet aim for that result of sex IYGM haha)
/r/seduction25/09/17 07:57 PM
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Nice post! I will be starting Uni next week so I will make abundance my reality. Not in terms of lays (obviously aiming for this as it's what it counts) but coming from that non needy mindset that I tend to fall into quite easily.
/r/seduction25/09/17 11:04 AM
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good bot
/r/seduction25/09/17 11:01 AM
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Firstly, congrats on the date! Secondly, don't put high expectations on yourself and definitely don't compare yourself to other PUAs or posts on this sub because it will mostly pressurise you even more (speaking from personal experience). Thirdly, awkward silences will happen - accept and embrace them Chances are your date was also scared so don't feel ostracised bro. In terms of being able to speak freely, it took me nearly 5 months (because I used to only go out or socialise once a week or eve…
/r/seduction10/09/17 08:09 AM
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This is fucking dope thanks so much OP
/r/seduction07/09/17 09:36 AM
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After 8 months of finding game I just realised I actually reached this stage recently of having no filters around a girl/saying whatever I want while at the same time calibrating - thank you OP for posting this video haha! I am still at the beginning steps of game but it is nice and assuring to know the effort I put into being social is paying off. However my biggest sticking point is still approaching and even trying to feel 'good enough' in a venue where all the girls are insanely attractive. …
/r/seduction02/09/17 07:49 PM
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White Knight Vol. I
/r/seduction22/07/17 08:48 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction22/07/17 08:48 AM
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Savage
/r/seduction12/07/17 05:19 AM
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Do NoFap to increase libido
/r/seduction12/07/17 05:17 AM
2

This may help https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ku6L8UupkG0
/r/seduction09/07/17 05:03 PM
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Yep so true. One thing that helped me to not make the other people judged is explaining from a myself frame. For example instead of saying "Alcohol isn't good for your body, it goes straight to fat and is bad for your health", tell them "I personally have experimented and found that booze makes it harder personally to get leaner and I tend to become less disciplined in life generally". Does this make sense? Secondly my first two nights were very weird and was VERY in my head because I had to con…
/r/seduction18/06/17 09:54 AM
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Taylor Swift is that you?
/r/seduction18/06/17 09:44 AM
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With great power comes with great responsibility.
/r/seduction18/06/17 09:42 AM
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Dead :')
/r/seduction18/06/17 09:41 AM
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Yes! I've noticed this too! Many times I would feel like I am interrupting by asking a question to a non-engaged person in a social group but 100% of the time I said fuck it and asked them anyway, they light up because they feel included! GUYS YOU WILL BE DOING THEM A FAVOUR TRUST ME! If they do for whatever reason don't answer or not seem engaged, just ask the next guy. It's your life, you fucking run this shit; not being governed by the people around you :D
/r/seduction18/06/17 09:41 AM
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I have stopped alcohol almost two months ago, had three night outs so far. As for being asked why I don't drink by people, I reply with honesty and tell them I am dropping body fat % and stopping alcohol personally yields better results for me. The word in bold is key because saying it's personal will not make the other person who does drink judged since you acknowledged it is working for yourself and hence not advocating drinking is bad blah blah blah. The first two night outs have been very st…
/r/seduction18/06/17 09:28 AM
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Haha I went out in Birmingham last in, I had almost the opposite experience to yours haha! Good post OP
/r/seduction17/06/17 07:11 AM
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Step One: Don't go on r/AskReddit ;)
/r/seduction09/06/17 04:37 PM
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"I hit on women and get head in the club, You hit women in the head with a club" - Lunar C
/r/seduction07/06/17 03:33 PM
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I want your tie where did you buy it from?? ;)
/r/seduction04/06/17 10:33 AM
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You're 3 years younger than me and sound at least five years more knowledgeable than me haha! That last paragraph is gold. It's been about 8 months since I have started self-improvement so still a a beginner in all this and your points resonate highly with me. Also I wanted to say congrats bro I am glad mate, all the best in your journey :)
/r/seduction03/06/17 01:49 PM
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Thanks bro, I reposted this in NoFap and they loved it! xo
/r/seduction30/05/17 07:10 PM
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"Back in school girls hated it when I pulled their hair... Funny how things have turned out."
/r/seduction25/05/17 06:28 AM
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Not you specially, most people's ego hardly do them good
/r/seduction23/05/17 01:46 PM
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This guy fucks
/r/seduction22/05/17 08:19 PM
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Hahaha that's the spirit! (I do hope you were joking about the face breaking; always be positive and humble brah. Do not associate yourself with your unhealthy ego :))
/r/seduction22/05/17 08:14 PM
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Brother I didn't realise gaming was possible in India 😂 Btw I'm an Indian-born 21 yr old living in UK. How old are you if I may kindly ask?
/r/seduction22/05/17 05:41 PM
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Bro you honestly shouldn't give a fuck what others think about you, that isn't your business :) If you like her, THEN JUST DO IT! The longer you live in the fear of others then the longer you aren't living your life
/r/seduction22/05/17 10:27 AM
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From now on (for the time being) your definition of success is "I have learnt something today", do not think sex = success because that will only lead you into a downward spiral. The MOMENT you said Hi you've already won! The beauty of this mantra is you remove the pressure of yourself and the girl since you are not attached to the outcome. If you two do not connect, great! That's one girl you won't have to worry about in wasting all your effort and energy! If you do connect and get her number, …
/r/seduction21/05/17 03:30 PM
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Not at all, being attracted to a certain lady is completely natural; after all it is in our genes to pass on our own genes haha. The reason why you people tend to connotate crushes with neediness is probably because men put that special girl on a pedestal and make her seem like a huge achievement when in reality she is just as human as you. Therefore when they approach they become too outcome dependant and stumble their way through the interaction with her thinking "will she like me" or "am I sa…
/r/seduction21/05/17 03:23 PM
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A great thing is you can change the viewpoint; YOU control how to frame it. So let's say you do get 'rejected' (I no longer use this word since a girl saying no is not necessarily negative or bad if you actually think about it), just embrace it. If your mates do tease you about it; this could be due to them being lowkey jealous as you are being brave and putting yourself out there so they feel guilty as they aren't doing shit to improve their own lives - just reply with a smile saying stuff like…
/r/seduction20/05/17 10:25 AM
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I can never look at fruits the same way again
/r/seduction15/05/17 05:23 AM
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http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2015/07/12/11/2A74AF0C00000578-0-image-a-11_1436696962342.jpg
/r/seduction15/05/17 05:23 AM
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Fuck outta here, delete that cancer
/r/seduction04/05/17 07:37 AM
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Fucking A1 post
/r/seduction03/05/17 05:19 AM
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It is normal to feel anxious; it's the way us humans have been evolved because in the wildlife if we are not scared then we will carelessly run into life threatening situations and probably die. But in this day and age we tend to be scared for things that 100% we will not die if we do it. Talking to a girl you are attracted to is a great example. I'd suggest talking to her either on the way to or out the class, because if you approach her directly with her friends then she may feel pressurized. …
/r/seduction23/04/17 12:16 PM
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Great report bro, by the sound of it you put yourself out and was present to the moment without getting in your head which is amazing in itself! Yes the night could have gone better but things always go wrong so why dwell on the negative emotions of the night? Just extract the lessons you need to learn from that night and focus on the positive emotions. Game can be a beast so you need to learn to always pat yourself on the shoulder. Remember, the moment your said 'hello' to her, you have already…
/r/seduction23/04/17 12:10 PM
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You nailed it pal, agree and amplify and then change the subject straight away. An example would be: Her: "So you're just here to talk to girls?" You: "Yeah if they're beautiful so anyways nice shoes/{INSERT COMPLIMENT}..." Bam. Also I don't get why people think if the girls 'found out' you are hitting on her (i.e. 'being too PUA') it is deemed bad. The whole concept of gaming her without her knowing will mean you won't look congruent hence come off creepy. You know why you approached her, she k…
/r/seduction19/04/17 08:33 PM
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Go ahead tell me haha!
/r/seduction18/04/17 07:21 AM
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Not bad, last month was pretty slippery and still get hit with constant urges. You?
/r/seduction17/04/17 03:48 PM
2

Good article but it's a bit rich saying ditching your virgin friends. There was no need to include that to be honest.
/r/seduction17/04/17 07:11 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction17/04/17 07:07 AM
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Gold
/r/seduction12/04/17 07:03 AM
1

This is epic; thank you! I've started to notice the same thing (beginner here) however your wording has hit the nail on the head!
/r/seduction31/03/17 10:06 PM
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r/NoFap
/r/seduction23/03/17 09:09 PM
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Lmfaooo
/r/seduction21/03/17 01:56 PM
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Jokily reply with 'Watch your language! Do you kiss your mother with that same mouth young lady?!" And then quickly change the subject by saying "So anyways..." Honestly it doesn't matter what you stay, it's how you say it. Also it's important to show her you won't be butthurt by what she says but also you don't tolerate her shit because you are a man on your own awesome mission in life!
/r/seduction13/03/17 10:07 AM
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Great work! I am still working on my approach anxiety; you seem to be bossing the approach haha got any tips for me? One thing I can suggest is as soon as you see the girl's friends coming over befriend them ASAP! Be as friendly with them as possible and make sure you include them in your conversation with the girl. Then once you feel the friends are comfortable with you, start paying more attention to the girl of your interest. Let me know your thoughts and if it works next time G!
/r/seduction11/03/17 05:05 PM
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Light heartedly ask her 'Whats your type'? And then immediately reply with the complete opposite of you haha. I.E. if you're a short, African guy you can say something like 'I bet you love tall white guys ;)' This self amusement goes a long way and shows you do not take yourself or her too seriously while having fun and keeping the vibes up :D
/r/seduction09/03/17 08:09 AM
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I know what you mean, that was me exactly 6 months ago. For me what it was, I was still surpessing and latching onto very old memories (which I don't even remember until after I found my old personal journal) that made me feel like shit, less worthy of a human and hence making me hate myself. I discovered NoFap and realized how flawed I was and more importantly how bad my mindset was. It was viewing the same world with different glasses that are new and cleaner. I would suggest you to sit down, …
/r/seduction02/03/17 10:39 AM
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This is epic! Great work brother
/r/seduction02/03/17 08:07 AM
4

Yeah you probably will pal. But are you going to continue bitching and moaning about it which leads to depression with no results, or improve yourself with an outcome independant mindset, get back the fuck up and continue your epic journey?
/r/seduction28/02/17 07:22 PM
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As long as possible is the simple answer.
/r/seduction23/02/17 07:59 AM
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Step 1: Lift at least 2x the weight she is lifting for a minimum of 2x the reps she does. Step 2: Repeat step 1 till muscle and mental fatigue.
/r/seduction22/02/17 09:16 PM
1

Hahahahaha that was epic
/r/seduction22/02/17 09:07 PM
2

You are very right sir, what I was meant to say is the girl you wanna pull could be all good with it but her close friends could come and grab her from you if you haven't befriended the friends already. For all the friends know you can be a drunk stranger/threat to the girl in their eyes. Over-exaggerating but you get the gist :)
/r/seduction22/02/17 05:36 PM
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This. Is. Epic.
/r/seduction22/02/17 04:54 PM
1

Yeah let's get all the great people who may be self conscious and may have low confidence of silly things about them they uselessly worry about to dwell on the fact it isn't deemed normal for them to not sleep with any 'league' of girl. Not the best idea IMO but I see where you're coming from OP
/r/seduction20/02/17 05:38 PM
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For Geography it's the classic "Oh so all you do is colouring in?". Interested to hear any for the rest!
/r/seduction11/02/17 08:23 PM
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No! Braces is not a hindrance. Just embrace it, go out and approach! Last time I went out I approached a tall girl who is say is 'out my league'. When we started talking I clocked she had braces. Did that make me like her less? Fuck no it's one of those things that won't affect a person for who they actually are not can you change in a person. All the best bro!
/r/seduction11/02/17 07:22 AM
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This.
/r/seduction02/02/17 01:07 PM
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I heard Chloroform does a good job
/r/seduction28/01/17 04:48 PM
3

Yes! Excellent job mate, now all that there's left to do is another one.
/r/seduction27/01/17 04:47 PM
15

Reply with 'Tell him I'm gay.' without breaking eye contact Then see her reaction
/r/seduction20/01/17 04:34 PM
1

Step 1: Approach. Step 2: Fuck
/r/seduction19/01/17 03:14 PM
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I never pulled and couple nights ago I opened and was vibing with these two girls in smoking area of night club. 30 mins later one of them leans in close and asks me 'Do you like insertothergirlsnameshere? I can help you get her.' Not knowing how to actually pull I only got a #-close; the thing I did was having a not giving a fuck mentality was laid back the whole set. Also I cold read like shit. Keep approaching brother, miracles will happen!
/r/seduction18/01/17 04:45 PM
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Is this from Models? I hope so because it scarily rings a bell to me
/r/seduction17/01/17 04:41 PM
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Direct message
/r/seduction04/01/17 08:15 PM
1

How many girls total did you DM and how many replied?
/r/seduction04/01/17 01:56 PM
2

conversation and Hennessy ;) Have my upvote for this and not at all for the amazing work of escalation you did ;)
/r/seduction02/01/17 04:38 PM
1

Try r/NoFap. What have you got to lose?
/r/seduction02/01/17 02:00 PM
3

Save yourself the trouble and stay away form these low esteem gals; the comments saying she is wanting your attention are spot on.
/r/seduction02/01/17 12:58 PM
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You probably heard this a shit tonne but it doesn't matter what you say, it's how you say it. Project your voice loudly and clearly so the girl has no choice but to hear your voice no matter what AND keep eye contact strong constantly! You can say pretty much whatever you want BUT calibrate after approaching (especially during day game). Then quickly change the subject, but here are a few you can use: Hi do you have the time? (make sure you aren't wearing a watch lol) Hey I know this is weird bu…
/r/seduction31/12/16 10:08 AM
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I am glad to say I haven't yet been involved in a scenario like this, but good clues to spot low SE girls are: they cannot take compliments well, they give out dichotomous signals, they always go over the top (i.e. their shittests can be hella brutal and sometimes even dangerous to not only you but others around you).
/r/seduction31/12/16 10:01 AM
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Run dude, Run
/r/seduction30/12/16 02:09 PM
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You won't try your best, you will do your best ;) Srsly what have you got to lose? For me it was nothing (apart from the streaks from when I relapsed). All the best brother!
/r/seduction30/12/16 07:43 AM
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I started it just to challenge myself, the best streak I got was 94 days. If it wasn't for r/NoFap then I would not have found seddit; this is because starting NoFap made me realise how flawed I was and basically improve myself in ways I can change. I am now closer on the journey to being Me 2.0.
/r/seduction29/12/16 10:50 PM
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Before you shoot the messenger, go porn free and masturbation free for a week. If you can last a week, go again. Baby step for as long as you can. Trust me I'm doing the same thing and it does help!
/r/seduction29/12/16 10:15 AM
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Baby steps brother, Baby steps 🚼
/r/seduction27/12/16 07:56 PM
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Couldn't have said it better myself :) Thank you sir and a very merry Christmas!
/r/seduction26/12/16 11:11 AM
2

Hahaha I probably was. I was in such a high morale, I had a no-fucks given mentality, especially as a beginner I need to get out and get as much experience as possible. Thank you for your reply pal :)
/r/seduction25/12/16 01:33 PM
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The fact that you opened her AND she was responsive to you means you already won! I have been in similar situations being too up in your head, one thing I have incorporated is having three things to focus on each night out. Like last night I put down on my phone's lock screen (android has this feature called 'Owner Info' in Lock Screen settings which is pretty neat) 'Talk louder, Open the first set ASAP & Strong eye contact' Guess what, since i just focused on three mere things I was much less i…
/r/seduction24/12/16 09:33 AM
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Asking the name is normally my opener haha.
/r/seduction21/12/16 09:51 PM
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Can confirm; do not try this^
/r/seduction21/12/16 05:43 PM
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Always answer your 'am I good enough' question with Why the fuck not? Srsly, try it. Has helped me a few times and I'm just a beginner to all this :)
/r/seduction10/12/16 09:36 PM
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It's not them. It's you. You clearly did not want or like approaching the 'less hot girls' and this must have been visible to those girls as you probably approached them thinking it was more of a chore. But when you finally went to talk to the "hotter girls" that you actually wanted to chat to, this would have shown as you would be more passion to find out about them. Simple.
/r/seduction07/12/16 09:39 PM
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Haha yes it was an epic night out for me. That is awesome; I could not go solo just yet but massive props to you! Yes I get that a lot too, it happened in this post's night out in the first venue. At one point I was even thinking "Man I suck so bad at approaching why did I even think I could do pick up. What a really bad decision", because all these thoughts were in my head like how do I approach her or how do I get her to dance with me, and so on. But then I realised you need to be having fun f…
/r/seduction04/12/16 08:48 PM
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Thank you for the feedback! What methods do you recommend to keep her interested without relying on the kiss? :)
/r/seduction04/12/16 10:22 AM
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You don't. You just have to lead and dance with her. For example, playfully grab her hand(s) and initiate dancing. It's something I'm trying to incorporate myself haha EDIT: The reply below is absolutely right; YOU NEED TO BE HAVING A GREAT TIME EVEN BEFORE you think about approaching a girl and I thought I'd write in bit more detail. Think of it as you are the fucking party in that moment on the dancefloor and your job is to share your own happiness & positivity to the people around you; not ju…
/r/seduction04/12/16 08:59 AM
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Haha yes I've seen and commented on that! Was an epic FR
/r/seduction04/12/16 08:52 AM
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To reply both of you kind people respectively: Bare in mind I've never escalated in any way on a girl before so what happened last night was pretty much a milestone for me. Yes it does sound like common sense, I should've used her free hand to get more intimate with her. That sounds like what I experienced! I guess I kept using the drink as an excuse now that I reexamine last night hahah. And please do let me know how you get on tonight! Thank you guys it does help especially for a beginner ova …
/r/seduction03/12/16 04:11 PM
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This has done me such the inspiration
/r/seduction01/12/16 05:38 PM
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Maybe not while talking on the phone but is she's just texting or whatnot, go up to her and say something like - "Put your phone away and introduce yourself to me!" (Credit to RSD, can't remember who exactly) or even "Put your phone down so I can hit on you!" (If you're confident enough which I'm sure you are)
/r/seduction28/11/16 04:49 PM
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I tried this one sentence posted by a seddit user two nights ago and went pretty well. Walk up to a girl (in my case two girls who didn't even know I was near them) look one of them in the eye and with a comforting smile say 'Hello I'm (INSERTYOURNAMEHERE).' and simply wait for their response (while keep smiling). I tried this as an experiment. Beauty of this is you now put the ball in their court. If they like you they'll introduce themselves to you back. If not they'll ignore you (they must be…
/r/seduction28/11/16 04:44 PM
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Hmm. After a long hard study of your case, I suggest you go on a date with me.
/r/seduction28/11/16 12:47 PM
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Yeah, you have certain types of women that attract you just like everyone else. So what? Ignore EVERYTHING what others say or believe and do what you want because you are a boss :)
/r/seduction27/11/16 07:28 PM
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You will need to communicate with them so they know you are confident. No, I do not mean telling people you are confident; I mean show them that you are confident. An example would be meet new people with the intention of wanting to meet them; going up and introducing them to yourself first (i.e. before they do) can portray a sense of power and confidence through your actions since you are doing what you want regardless of others opinion, as well as without needing others approval. That's an eas…
/r/seduction27/11/16 07:26 PM
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Be honest + Be healthy + Improve looks that you can change + Practise being more social + Experience + Experience + Experience (I cannot stress this point enough so here it is again: ) + Experience = 'Game'
/r/seduction27/11/16 07:18 PM
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Interesting view point! I will try this soon :D I think main problem looking back was that I was mad tired since I went out after work which I woke up at 5am for. Also I wasn't drunk (I was edging towards the starting of tipsy stage) because I didn't want to rely on booze to approach the ladies.
/r/seduction27/11/16 03:13 PM
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Trust me you are aboslutely right, AA will never vanish. I just read a post (from the sidebar I think) which says if you at least try and get rejected you are in the norm which is very interesting to think about. Next time I go out I will use this mentality and hopefully just brush aside my AA instead letting it affect me but I know this will only happen with experience; think of approaching and "picking up" girls like a skill you need to invest man hours into. But I do love this method of just …
/r/seduction26/11/16 06:36 PM
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I tried this last night at the club by a bar which nicely was the first time I overcame my shitty AA. My mates to me were like "So ThatBoyAgain when will you go over and introduce yourself to a girl?". I looked around and there were these two cute girls talking to each other. I literally went in my mind fuck it and darted straight to the girl closest to me confidently said "Hi I am ThatBoyAgain." (that's all) with a smile on my face. Both look at me and were absolutely startled (not in a bad way…
/r/seduction26/11/16 03:03 PM
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This has made my day and quite possibly my week
/r/seduction26/11/16 01:23 PM
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/r/seduction26/11/16 09:58 AM
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"Excuse me would you like to see my baubles?"
/r/seduction24/11/16 01:22 PM
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This is so deep on so many levels I can't even see you right now. Haha but seriously you are so right, I have at some point strongly felt all those points you made; thank you for making me realize this! You are going places sir.
/r/seduction22/11/16 12:50 PM
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Preachh. If I told my mates I'm into pick up god knows what reaction I'll get especially them knowing I'm as introvert as a human could get :') Only choice I have is go out and grow the balls to do it. I'll try incorporating the 3 second rule.
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:35 AM
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Yes indeed. I almost wish I could have another guy with me who is also looking to pick up just so we are both in that mindset and can psych each other up like RSD haha. You are right though, gotta trial & error it because after all repetition is the mother of all learning
/r/seduction20/11/16 08:06 PM
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You brave soul, how do you personally approach girls in a group in clubs? And definitely let me know how it goes!
/r/seduction20/11/16 07:21 PM
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Exactly. Turns out I went out last night and had an alright time with my mates but I was so enclosed in my own little bubble. 90% of me wanted to go approach girls in the club; 10% was like 'fuck that' mainly cos 1) Never done it before and 2) I had 0 idea how to approach any girl in a group in a loud club. All I have read to supposedly 'aid my game' are a few posts on this sub and Models by M Manson. Any help would be greatly appreciated because deep down I know I want to and I know I can, but …
/r/seduction20/11/16 06:00 PM
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Had a great time reading this! As a lurker and in no way near a PUA I wish I could offer advice but I use this sub to gain insight haha. Next week I may be going out in a new town for the first time and it will entail moving form one venue to another; a bit like your FR included. All in all I am happy you had fun that night even though you didn't 'pull'. At the end of the day that's all that matters. The thing with me is I recently got into this sub as a guy who had no interaction with a girl wh…
/r/seduction19/11/16 05:27 PM
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