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28

Men rely on women, that's for sure. But the opposite can't be said because so many men are...you guessed it... unreliable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 04:27 AM
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My theory is, they're so utterly fascinated by their own dicks, they're convinced we're going to have the same reaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 04:56 AM
42

Heaux... lol I love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 03:39 AM
28

One little simple thing I've heard is, if you get home late and he's supposedly been home all evening - just feel the hood of his car. If he's driven in the last while, it will be warm. Gets home, feels warm hood "Hi honey I'm home, whatcha been doing?" "Oh just stayed home reading all evening waiting for you 💗😘💖😍💕" "Didn't go anywhere? Anywhere at all?" "Nope 😁" "Then why is the hood of your car warm?" "Oh uhhh I... Uh..... REEEEEEEEEEEEE YOU'RE SO MEANNNNNNN"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 03:47 AM
10

Not to worry dear gents - you can always just go to India or China and marry one of the many single women there... Oh wait... nevermind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:46 PM
4

I bet he knows who she is now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:04 PM
37

Wow... baby really needs his diaper changed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 12:14 PM
4

I know it's hard, and I'm proud of you honey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 08:14 AM
5

I'm sorry you're going through this honey, to me it sounds like he's not wasting his time, but doesn't mind wasting yours. But he can only do that if you let him. You know what to do sis: block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:41 AM
28

The few times I experienced being ostracized by married women was due to the fact that their husbands were known to be cheaters, so the wives didn't want any single women around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:35 AM
28

Why are you even entertaining this creep? Reading his long stupid, rambling texts made me want to set my computer on fire. Sounds like he wants to suck the life out of you. He had his chance and he fucked you over. Don't give him the chance to do it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 01:59 AM
36

I was, and it wasn't "people"... it was men - they just couldn't stand that a woman schooled them and changed the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:51 AM
7

Good luck with that, you reanimated corpse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:34 PM
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I tell the young women at my work "If it feels like you're banging your head against the wall, then something is very wrong with your relationship."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 11:07 PM
8

Many long years ago I had a relationship with a guy who said he was in the middle of a divorce (I know I was dumb but it was a long time ago I didn't have my FDS sisters watching out for me). Anyway, I let him stay with me for a couple months due to his financial instability. He brought his high school yearbook with him for some reason - I can't remember why. Any way we broke up and it was a fairly amicable breakup. I later found out he wasn't going to leave his wife, and I just wasn't up for be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:39 PM
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Oh yeah I remember one of our Cardiac Intensivists was fucking an 18 year old nursing assistant in his office, and she kept wanting money from him. He refused - I guess he thought she just had a thing for paunchy 50 year olds. She claimed he raped her - nothing really ever came of it, but he was quietly gone one day all of a sudden... nobody ever heard from him again. Saddest part for us was his wife - she was a pediatrician, an absolutely gorgeous lovely and wonderfully cultured woman. And you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:29 AM
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Are we allowed to private message her and tell her about this sub? I'd do it in a heartbeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:14 AM
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I had a friend like her whose boyfriend (now husband, sadly) treated her this way. He actually smacked her hand once when we were all out having a group get together because she reached for a dinner roll. She was 5'2" and couldn't have weighed more than 110lb. It's been 10 years since I've seen her and I don't have facebook or IG. Someone at work was showing me some pictures of her, and she's just this anorectic looking, hollow-eyed shell. I did a little digging and found out she's got six kids …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:01 AM
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He looks like a butter bean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 07:24 AM
82

Oh Yes! I've worked at teaching hospitals for 30+ years and I've lost count of the number of men who've dumped their wives just as residency or fellowship ends, then hook up with a 22 year old nursing school grad. Not to mention the established Drs who either continuously cheat or divorce their wives for a newer model, and then cheat on THEM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 04:14 AM
55

This post just gave me life. I read it out to the gentleman lying to my immediate left. We could hardly get through it due to our laughter. He's still laughing as I type this. I can't wait to read it to my girlfriends at work. You are a one-of-a-kind adorable little firecracker, young lady. I hope you get whatever the hell you want cuz you deserve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 05:22 AM
38

On a date in college: You're special. Really? Stop fishing for compliments. WTF...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 01:27 AM
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"Hearing a person's voice for the first time in person is part of the magic" What a crock of shit. This dude is clearly a catfish just looking for some attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:30 AM
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Sometimes at my job nurses will say "Oh this dad is so great, he comes every day- he's nice, he reads to the child and plays games with the child... what a fantastic awesome impossibly wonderful daddy!!" And I'll say you realize he's doing basic parenting, right?" You know, what one is supposed to do when they make a baby? Some of us are just so used to seeing the worst, that when we see someone who meets the bare minimum we think they're some kind of fantastic superdad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:15 AM
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Oh we've (inpatient Pediatrics) had fathers not really know the spelling of their kids names, their birthday, allergies, medical history - all kinds of stuff.. not even sure what grade they're in... and these are men that live in the home with the family. 10 minutes later they're out at the desk asking if we have any Xbox controllers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:10 AM
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I just read the wiki - they blame EVERYONE EXCEPT THE RAPISTS AND HARASSERS. Even women will blame other women, they've been so deeply indoctrinated into this shitty mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:43 AM
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9 years old walking home from a friends, a man asks me to give him a "piece of my pussy". I didn't know what he was asking. I told my mom, she told my dad and he drove around looking for the guy. Lucky for that creep my dad didn't find him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:25 AM
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I like to think they rode right into a pole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:22 AM
26

Every time there is a post on reddit about the rape of women, some man always had to interject with his own rape story - and no one EVER asks what THEY were wearing. (This was pointed out to me by my wonderfully brilliant enlightened boyfriend)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:21 AM
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These types only have empathy for their own kind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:19 AM
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And maybe some self-control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:18 AM
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What they want is for women to remain at home, stay covered, not speak, and to just acquiesce to whatever will men impose upon them. Any woman who does differently is seen as morally deficient and deserves to be raped and/or murdered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:17 AM
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He thinks he's the only one allowed to define parameters for how often you see each other. If it were the other way around you'd be labeled as some sort of clingy gold digger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:53 PM
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I received a meandering, nearly indecipherable message from some XY today in response to one of my recent submissions, asking me to explain myself and defend FDS strategies. The petulance. Then he started talking about his made-up wife and how she loves porn (who asked?) He is "awaiting my answer". Stifled laughter. Gee, I don't know... I'm pretty sure this is as much energy as I'm willing to expend on this mewling bag of butthurt bullshit... oh, that and hitting the delete button. Move along, n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:45 PM
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🎵He must not know 'bout you🎵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:35 PM
14

Yes it was... it's so exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:24 AM
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It's like the very moment that they realize that we are not capitulating to men's desires, we suddenly become these witches that are screaming "Off with their heads!" And that is NOT what we're about! We're just sick of men who manipulate and use and gaslight and abuse, and we don't want to put up with it. We're mostly about navigating our relationships with men, and realizing when it's time to let go. Yes there are some women here that are still in pain from their relationships. Maybe some are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:15 AM
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Me too! I haven't posted in awhile but check in often. There was a very upsetting thread in another sub bashing FDS (It's almost as if the people posting there had forgotten how to read - they misinterpreted this sub so egregiously.) Men really cannot tolerate the idea that women don't need or want them. And the "pick-me" women posting there are even more tragic in my opinion. Either they believe mistreatment is deserved, or they in some twisted way like it... or they have just rolled over and g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 03:30 AM
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He'd do anything for her, except be a decent guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 12:39 AM
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In the past when guys would ask me for my number, I would often just say 'No but I'll take yours'. I'd think about it, and usually wouldn't call them (never having actually said I would). My current boyfriend didn't ask me for my number, he gave me his business card after we briefly met. Him, I called.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 11:16 PM
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Does anybody ever ask men what they were wearing when they were sexually assaulted? You know how they always jump into women's conversations about rape - about how they were raped too, and it's not just a female issue, etc... no of course not, no one asks - that would be absurd. My boyfriend actually posed this question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:03 PM
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I met him at the grocery store - I asked him to hand me a loaf of frozen garlic bread from across the aisle, and when I tried to take it from him, he didn't let go. We just sort of looked at each other and laughed. Then I saw him again in a different aisle and he gave me his business card. After a week or so I called him, and we've been going out since then. That was 14 years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:23 PM
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I have to believe. Right? God I hope. My current boyfriend of 14 years (we have no desire to marry, both being older and good careers) is a feminist, educated and outspoken. A complete gentleman, never crosses a line when we disagree. I did a background check on him - clean. I have work friends who are mutual friends of 2 of his exes - nothing untoward. But I still... sigh... I wonder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 12:06 PM
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This hits on something that's been on my mind lately. Every day you read about some new movie star or politician, athlete or famous person who now faces allegations of sexual misconduct. Every. Single. Day. Now think how many non-famous men could be rightfully accused every day - that you won't read about, or see in the news. Probably hundreds of thousands. That's because with few exceptions (I hope anyway, they can't all be like this, can they?) every guy, if given the opportunity to get away w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 11:55 AM
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Why don't they just tell us who they wouldn't fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 01:10 AM
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I didn't look to see if this OP had any sort of posting history, but I feel in my gut that a lot of these carefully crafted questions are really submitted by men pretending to be women so they can be creeps and not to have to take responsibility for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 01:04 AM
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Something about this just resonated with me. I mean it was like a punch to the gut. Looking back on my 35 year career in pediatrics - this also applies to the women who protect their husbands and boyfriends when the baby is brought in with signs of sexual abuse or other suspicious trauma. They will do anything to keep their man. I'm literally shaking right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 11:07 AM
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LOL Target acquired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 04:08 AM
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I've been in a lovely relationship for about 15 years now. We're both older so we don't care about getting married. We don't live together but he treats me like a princess. I like it here because it keeps me informed on how the dating climate has evolved. I share the knowledge I gain here with the young, innocent girls I work with. I'm 60 but I work with women (and a couple men) generally younger than 25. Oh my God the crap they're expected to put up with! UN-BE-LIEVE-A-BLE! Plus I read things o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 10:13 PM
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Proceed with caution, my dear. A proposal for marriage involves a ring and a very direct question. I'm hoping for the best for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 10:02 PM
2

FAAAAKKK put a shirt on, trolls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 09:23 AM
3

His ad says 27, one of his chins is screaming 39.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 11:12 AM
2

Didn't you know? Nothing is more affected by Covid19 than Low Value Dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 03:03 AM
1

This x 1,000,000.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 03:01 AM
1

Agreed, when mine was consulting, no matter where he was he flew home to see me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 03:00 AM
1

I know this is corny as hell but my guy and I play World of Warcraft together. I'm very good at it (he taught me to play) and he is very good at it as well, so we like to have our characters duel. I usually beat him just because my character has a skillset better suited to dueling than his. The goofy thing is - turns him on when I beat his ass lol. He's bested me before many times. He does not let me win - he's super competitive - it's just silly and fun, but we have a great time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 02:57 AM
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I've only seen bits and pieces of the show, I couldn't stomach the vapid self-centeredness. Plus excessive plastic surgery and extreme photo-shopping is a sign of pathological pick-me behavior. No one should watch this show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 08:51 PM
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When we met 11 years ago, I was 47 and he was 34. Keep looking, they're out there. Just be careful not to waste a moment on NVM/LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 08:46 PM
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Good for you sweetheart, I love the happy stories!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 08:43 PM
9

A guy asked me this once and I said "You were my first... today". He kept pushing and I told him it was none of his business. Hmmm... I never saw that guy again, and this is the first time I've thought about him in years. I wonder who he's bothering now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 09:11 PM
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I had a dear friend - an RN, who came to work with a black eye. Her husband got pissy because she flat ironed her hair before she came in (so obviously she was fucking everyone with a penis). And he had a history of cheating!!! They're divorced now and she's got a sweetheart of a husband, but I'll never forget that creep. I hated him the minute I met him - leering at women while at the same time crawling all over her like an infected rash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 10:00 PM
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Chicken shits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 05:19 AM
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I've worked at a teaching hospital for 40 years. We see residents, Fellowes, students - many from outside the US who come here and love to just fuck around with as many women as possible. I feel like they see it as some kind of smorgasbord. I can only think of one or two women who actually married a doctor from the Middle East, Greece or Asia. Most of the guys fuck around as long as possible, then they marry somebody their mommy picks out for them. (OR they already have a wife/fiancée at home) S…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 05:13 AM
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41... sure, in dog years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 08:51 AM
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I'm so sorry honey, that piece of shit has some bad karma coming his way and I hope it hits him right in the balls. At my 10 year HS reunion, I drank and smoked with a group who I had stayed friends with since graduation, men and women. I'd had minor flings with a couple of the guys but nothing serious. I was wasted, and I became aware that all the girls had moved off to talk to others. I was at a fairly distant table with 3 of my good guy friends - guys I'd known and been friends with for 10+ y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 07:31 AM
19

Yeah those filthy cheap-ass sweats and his puke-inducing "bulge" really get me going.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 06:28 AM
16

This scrote looks like he enjoys the smell of his own farts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 09:31 PM
38

My current boyfriend started experiencing severe anxiety, depression and insomnia as a result of work issues and being extremely self-critical. (They kept hiring idiots, who would mess shit up, fire them, and then dump the mess in his lap). I helped him as best I could, and when it became obvious he needed professional intervention, he sought help. He went to 3 different therapists until he found one he could relate to (Thank you so much Dr. S****). He tried several medications, some with rather…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 02:56 AM
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Beware the "Big Talker" ...we're going to do this, go there, see that... and it just never materializes. Also beware of elaborate excuses, "emergencies" unexpected deaths, catastrophes and other melodramatic stories to exonerate themselves from outright lying. And its never anyone you know, or met...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 02:33 AM
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Hell even if you turn them off they still won't leave you alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 06:22 AM
3

This incident occurred 20+ years ago, she was 24 or 25. In her defense, she had been mistreated by her father since childhood. He was definitely a narcissist. She knew he had problems. She didn't attack me when I stood up to him, as I recall she was crying and pleading with her dad to come back to the party. We've since talked a little recently, and hopefully we can work on being friends again. She was a wonderful friend. Her father has passed away - he committed suicide on Christmas Eve a coupl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:11 AM
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Thank you honey but my mom is the queen. She watched her mom get the shit beat out of her regularly, until her husband stroked out at 40, after which she met and married a wonderful man. She told all of us kids (all nine of us - 8 girls and 1 boy) if we ever let someone abuse us she would personally beat our asses. (She never hit or spanked us ever)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 09:57 PM
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My friend's dad used to make the creepiest comments to me all the time. Right in front of people (including kids). About my ass and my tits and betting I was "wet" (gag) and all kinds of highly inappropriate shit. One Christmas I finally had enough and I yelled at him to stop it and to never speak to me like that again. OH MY GOD THE POUTING. He hid in the basement and said he wouldn't come back to the party unless I apologized or left. Everyone was mad at me. I left, and pretty much got kicked …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 09:50 PM
13

You know that old saying "Be the change you seek" well it fits this situation perfectly. I'm sorry sweetie I know this isn't any fun, but it will be better in the long run because you won't be some dude's afterthought anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 06:23 AM
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The year: 1979. Watching The Bionic Woman with Jon Zimmerman. The stupid comment: "Damn I wish you were as sexy as Lindsay Wagner". He then had the AUDACITY to suggest I give him a bj. I excused myself as he happily unbuckled his belt. I headed towards the bathroom, and took a detour out the back door. He called me about 50 times and I let him stew. When I finally decided to answer he asked me what the hell was going on, I said well I wanted to leave you and Lindsay alone so you could get that b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 06:18 AM
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If someone ghosts you after having sex (not to mention being your first) then YOU didn't do anything wrong. That piece of shit is the one that's in the wrong. Let go of that sweetheart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 06:02 AM
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That's my girl ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 05:50 AM
11

A thanks but no thanks gift.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 10:16 PM
8

I met a man through online dating once, his picture was kind of blurry and the angle was a bit oblique. When I met him, I realized he had a huge raised purpleish/red vein that covered almost one whole side of his face (that was not apparent in his pictures). I did go out with him once and when he pursued the relationship, I said "I'm sorry, I don't feel the level of physical attraction to you that I require in order go further." I said it as kindly and gently as I could. Of course he got mad (no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 10:11 PM
2

Aw thank you sweetheart, I wish you ALL the best! ❤️💜💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 09:57 PM
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That's rough, honey - I hope things look up for you 💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 11:31 AM
4

Get a Harmony Roller and make him treat you first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 03:08 AM
25

I assume people know about this sort of thing via social media. Block and ignore. Why torment yourself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 01:49 AM
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Hugs sis ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 10:23 PM
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Questions like this remind me of a religious quote that I heard many years ago. Though I'm not religious, it's applicable when seeking to find a good partner. The question was asked "God what is my purpose in life? Will I marry? Will I have children? What do you want from me?" God's answer was "Your purpose in life is to bring glory to God" I would like to amend that by saying our purpose is to bring glory to ourselves, to take care of ourselves - to be the best selves that we can be - to let go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 09:59 PM
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He probably thinks he's so cool and edgy for "telling it like it is" but in reality he just shot himself in the foot. I hope he keeps this behavior up so at least women will be informed prior to wasting their time on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 09:46 PM
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And 99% will never pay a dime towards child rearing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 09:19 PM
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He's so concerned with his pride and self-respect, yet expects you to throw yours out the window. What a pathetic loser!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 09:17 PM
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Trying to figure out a fucking man who doesn't fucking know what he wants who gaslights you who acts one way one day, and one way the next and you're supposed to be the one to figure it out and fix the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:32 PM
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I'm so sick of every fucking male problem out there having to be fixed by women. It's so exhausting, just fucking take care of yourselves for once in your lives, Jesus Christ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:31 PM
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Everything you said just sounds like banging your head against the wall. Don't waste your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:17 PM
12

Hmmm now I kind of want to drown this microcephalic pos in ranch. But that would be a waste of ranch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:03 PM
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OMG I just learned the term Hobosexual: guys that expect women to pay for everything and they still think they can bang LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:01 PM
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I'm sorry you're sad honey, but I'm so so proud of you for ridding yourself of an emotionally unavailable man. Things will get better, you're going to move past this. Cut contact, block and ignore. Be done with him wasting your time. You can private message as much as you need - I'll be your cheerleader and your FDS mom ❤️. You did the right thing and you're going to be just fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 09:55 PM
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Oh wait maybe you're confused honey... I think he made his wedding vows to his wife, not his coworker. At best he is a complete and utter moron At worst he's a sociopathic creep with a poor me attitude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 09:45 PM
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Almost 40 Years of pediatric nursing and I've seen dozens, if not hundreds of men just disappear when things get rough. Leaving the mom to shoulder the entire burden herself. Sure, there are some great dads out there (so save the 'not all men' comments please) I was lucky, I have a fantastic Daddy (he's 96 and going strong) but man - it was never a surprise when suddenly dad's just stopped showing up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 06:49 PM
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If there's any hope whatsoever, he will have to let go of his ego and learn to take instruction. An extremely rare occurrence in my experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 12:23 AM
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I've been watching Roseanne, The Office, Parks and Rec, anything with Tim Gunn or RuPaul, Star Wars, Star Trek, and Marvel movies. Tried to watch The Big Bang Theory - couldn't stand the stale jokes and the really poor acting (in my opinion). Plus, like you - I hated the laugh track - just nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 09:50 PM
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(beta men are angry because they are at the bottom of male hierarchy but too cowardly to confront other men so they attack women instead). This is genius!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 09:38 PM
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This must be why my personal heroine Judge Judy says "You're still cooking!" when faced with a young person's poor choices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 09:34 PM
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Hopefully she'll retreat faster than his hairline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 08:04 AM
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I see this so often with the young girls at my work. Their boyfriends and husbands don't know how to do dishes, can't dust, don't know how to operate a vacuum cleaner, can't ever remember to close cabinet doors, don't know how to lock the screen door, are mystified by the scary laundry machine, don't know how to let the dog out, don't know how to make the bed, can't remember to pay a bill... I could not tolerate a man who gaslights me and behaves so obtusely and expects me to just swallow it. Fu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 01:50 AM
10

This is fantastic, but I will always love "Dick is abundant and low value".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 01:41 AM
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Sounds like she was raised to value belonging to a man more than belonging to herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 10:56 PM
7

33? Yeah.. in dog years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 10:53 PM
9

Ohhhhh good for you honey! I wish more young women were like you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 10:52 PM
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I will admit that I've trolled a few OLD accounts by asking the dude if I can have his wife's information; that I'm not really interested in him but I'd like to talk to his wife. Sometimes for me, sometimes to join my S.O. and myself. They never do it course because they're lying and I'm fucking with them anyway. They get so mad! Not nice I know, but fun. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 10:40 PM
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When I was about 18 years old I worked at a place where the cleaning lady was a late 60s woman named Alberta. She was a lovely Southern Black woman with gold teeth and a warm, loving heart. She "adopted" all of us girls, always calling us honeybug, sugarbug, doodlebug. We just loved her - she was a lovely human being. She would sing hymns while she worked and was a devout Christian. Anyway, one day we were sitting and talking and lamenting about our boyfriends and she put down her mop and said, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:43 AM
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Probably worth it just to get rid of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 03:13 PM
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I went out a few times with a guy like that, the third time he did it, I literally went my own way without saying a word, and I never looked back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 06:52 AM
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He was either consciously or subconsciously testing the waters to see how cool you were and what he could get away with. What a creep - you did the right thing. You need to send your pick-me friend a link to FDS. Reminds me of a date I went on a long long time ago. We were at dinner and my date kept flirting with the waitress (who was admittedly beautiful). She was completely professional however, probably having to put up with this kind of shit non-stop. After the tenth time of him openly stari…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 05:25 PM
7

I could just kiss you! Brava darling!!! ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 09:47 AM
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When they do form their own communities - even if they honestly start as a genuine support for each other, they always descend into hate subs. I actually remember when MGTOW was what it's purported to be: a discussion of valid issues with inequalities that men face. Now I can't go there because I don't like puking on myself. A staggering number of men don't want to help themselves, much less each other (that's gay, bro)... they think it's a woman's job to do everything, and when that doesn't hap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 06:18 AM
28

Because toxic feminity wahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 06:11 AM
5

I know the post you're talking about. I just wasted 15 minutes of my life perusing the comments. It took about a minute to get to the bitching about feminism/women/bitches/whores, females this and females that. Everything is women's fault of course, and how dare anyone suggest that men are the reason for their own problems. Nope it's always got to be a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 06:10 AM
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Honey you're not really attracting them, they're constantly on the lookout for what they hope are vulnerable women. They're opportunistic creeps. Saying that you "attract" them puts the onus on you, when they are the sick ones seeking to hurt and use others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:10 PM
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I would also love to know more about /u/-emilia's friend's thesis. There are some compelling (and hideously tragic) documentaries on YT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 06:06 AM
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The things that women endure - physically, sexually, educationally, makes me feel like some of us are stuck in the 15th century. It makes me eternally grateful for where I was raised, by whom I was raised and what I was allowed to become. No, not allowed... encouraged! The more I learn about it the more inspired I get about helping bring about change. But it must come from within and the men in power don't want to change. They want to control women in every way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 05:55 AM
5

It's truly heartbreaking and sickening the way women are treated by radical, fundamentalist religions. I don't want to say anything further but if anyone would like to discuss it with me, they can p.m. me. I've been working with a group in my city that helps women and their children find a way to safely leave various religions and start new lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 05:46 AM
5

He's from Scotland, but lived in Canada from 18 until I got my hooks in him lol. He's a feminist and the smartest man I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 05:40 AM
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It won't cure their anger and mental illness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 08:46 PM
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My boyfriend and I were just talking about this very same thing last night. He believes that this is what happened in the Middle East when they went through their revolution in the 1970s. They claimed it was a religious revolution but it was just a revolution with the goal of controlling women (through religion) - to "put them in their place" and treat them like chattel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 08:36 PM
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Christ he reeks of insecurity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 03:09 AM
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I wish you the best sweetheart, and I'm sorry you had to go through this. I'm sure he will be dragging your name through the mud to anyone who will listen. But based on your post, anyone who knows you at all is going to see what a strong, beautiful, intelligent, classy woman that you are. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 11:46 PM
70

I have two. I met a guy from a newspaper ad (this is in the olden days for all you girls wondering wtf a newspaper ad is). We met at a bistro but he wanted to meet in the outdoor area. I got there and I noticed that he was sitting at the furthest point away from the entrance, okay maybe he's shy. There were people around fairly close by, so no biggie. As I approached him I noticed that 1. he was at least 300lb and he had an umbilical hernia the size of a bowling ball that he curiously failed to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 05:28 AM
20

Beautiful, thank you for posting this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 11:13 PM
15

I don't remember who said it, so I really can't claim it as original content, but I remember hearing the credo "It's better to be single than wish you were." It was a long time ago and I've always carried it with me. I have a very nice relationship right now but was single for a long time before that and if ends, I might cry, but then I'll be fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 11:11 PM
1

"Whaddaya got?" Then you can gauge the rest of the conversation by his answer, i.e. "No thanks" or "Tell me more".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 10:41 AM
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"Even if it's just friends with benefits..." Fuuuuuuu... lol don't do me any favors. Sure, I'll let you use me for sex out of pity - how attractive!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 10:33 PM
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When I would get those types of questions, I would just say "Inspire me." If they can't figure that out then they have no business asking. Most of the time there was no follow-up. It was as if they wanted me to do the work for them. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 10:27 PM
12

I'm almost 60 years old and I have to say that every single male platonic friend I've ever had has been as you described (except for one). I like having guy friends but they always want to fuck you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 11:14 AM
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Precisely why I have this sub blocked. It's mostly a bunch of whiny men who frame all of their posts to put women down and make themselves look like selfless heroes. All so their loser "brocels" in the comments can all pat each other on the back and and talk about how horrible women are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 11:09 AM
3

Oh my God LOL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 02:17 PM
14

Bad teeth, broke, delusional nutjob... and the list goes on. But girls, hold up... THIS is by far the most cringeworthy paragraph I have ever read: Hence, my greatest pleasure is worshiping my goddess by giving her prolonged, repeated, explosive, full-body, female experiences. I am grateful to God that after more than two decades of inner work and outer practice, I seem to have mastered that ability. I am a true Tantra Master. Physical technique matters, but far more important are a man's state …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 08:12 AM
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He is grooming you. He doesn't pursue women his age because either he has a fetish for extremely young and barely legal women, and/or women his age are experienced enough to see through his horseshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 12:20 AM
17

As far as "Size doesn't matter", I would like to respond with "Size doesn't matter, FIT matters" (In other words, your big dick doesn't give you a pass, doesn't make you a great lover and doesn't mean you're special.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 11:47 PM
2

I always loved John Candy! I'm glad you have a good one ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 11:31 PM
42

I told my sweet guy if I couldn't have Ryan Reynolds, I'd go ahead and settle for him lol. He was amused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 04:24 PM
70

It really does, doesn't it? Just in time for Christmas morning 🎄🤶🎅🎁⛄🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 03:49 PM
3

I'm proud of you, sweetheart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 07:49 PM
2

Are you enjoying this? Is it what you want? Is it making you happy? I don't think you could answer yes to any of those questions, so it's a big NO. Especially since he's on the rebound. He may be a nice man, but he might be looking for a convenient distraction (mayyyybe subconsciously - to give him the tiniest sliver of the benefit of the doubt - but the outcome for you is still the same: your time is being wasted whether he means to be a thoughtless ass or not)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 07:38 PM
33

I bet my 401k that he will eventually be throwing this in her face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 07:27 PM
36

Probably the best thing he's ever done for Christina. Defective men do not want to be fixed - they want to wallow in their misery and are only too happy to drag a woman down with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 08:19 AM
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These fuckwits think they are Jeff Bezos? Some kind of billionaire playboy that women chase and beg? Be a decent human being, treat your wife with respect, realize her sacrifices and work. Be present in your home and in your children's lives. It shouldn't be this difficult to understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 11:09 PM
20

I know SO MANY Women like this, married or saddled to bums.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 07:50 AM
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Some day, and I hope it's soon, men will learn that they're going to have to step up their fucking game. You're helping to bring this about OP, Brava!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 12:51 AM
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I got ya sis <3 Click the little yellow rectangular RES icon on the upper right corner of your screen. In the dropdown that appears click Options. On the left margin near the bottom, look for subreddits. Next click filteReddit on the left, near the top. Make sure filteReddit is toggled ON at the top of the screen (I also have Hide Until Processed toggled ON - there are other settings that you can choose as well, like NSFW, and certain keywords) Just below the toggle buttons you will see "Hide po…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 08:13 PM
11

I got a lady-boner reading this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 07:33 PM
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This is why I have AITA blocked via Reddit Enhancement Suite (the best add-on for Chrome in my opinion). 90% of it is low-value asshole men looking for validation from other low-value asshole men. Before I blocked it, I remember thinking that a great many of the posts looked like carefully crafted stories designed to support misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 07:29 PM
10

Get rid of this inconsiderate leech before he wastes any more of your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:49 AM
4

Oh my God you are a Goddess!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:44 AM
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I've seen women escalate their ridiculous behavior to get attention more times than I can count. Flashing their boobs, making out with other girls, groping themselves.. practically giving dudes handjobs at the bar. Always made me incredibly sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:36 AM
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I don't think lil chubs here has to worry about being seduced in any way shape or form.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 03:05 AM
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Its power that comes from knowledge and she literally give zero shit about these dongs or their feels. Omg the savagery, I love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 02:56 AM
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My, my what a rich and full fantasy life he has.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 07:25 PM
12

Yes they sure do seem to be quite a ways up their own ass 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 01:09 PM
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What happens on /r/FemaleDatingStrategy is up to there mods. ... there mods... LOL Someone ought to tell them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 12:45 PM
13

Next up "Mom of 7 kills self and children after suffering with zero help from her creep of a husband". I'm sorry if this triggered anyone out there. But these baby-machine women...quiverful... or whatever they're called sadden me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 09:59 AM
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The only thing that's EVER bothered me about short/bald/chubby guys is the inferiority complex they often have. I dated a 5'2" bald guy for a bit, he was so amazing I really didn't notice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 09:55 AM
9

Brava sis!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 09:47 AM
15

I find it extremely shitty of him to tell you this... what was his motive? Definitely not to make you feel loved. Fucker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 09:45 AM
13

Oh I loved Harry! He would get those lovey-dovey oogly googly eyes when he looked at Charlotte - it just melted me. Samantha was my hero.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 07:12 AM
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Sing it sis! I'm 58 and got hit on at work the other day (not anyone I'd ever date, but a decent guy - at least 10 years younger than me). He said "You're so cute and sweet, and you have such a pretty smile - are you seeing someone?" Didn't hurt my feelings, not even a little bit My squeeze is 45...what's this about a wall?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 07:09 AM
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Personally I see nothing wrong with paying for a little bit here and there, like parking or grabbing the tip or getting the popcorn. To be clear however, I would never pay for anything if a guy gave me an expectant look or said 'Well aren't you going to offer to pay the tip, etc... " - Fuck that - Some others might disagree. I'm sure they have their valid reasons and and I respect that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 06:37 AM
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Looking back on all my relationships (and there have been many as I am quite old LOL)... every guy I ever dated that turned out to be a creep had a shity relationship with their dads. Every single one. They were either afraid of their dad, felt unloved by their dad or were straight up abused by their dad. Conversely the man I'm with now (who I've talked about before - probably too much so I won't go into it) has a wonderful relationship with his dad and he is the opposite of all those jerks I wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 09:38 PM
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This does not shock me. After my last post I was talking to some coworkers about this. Between the two of us we thought of 20+ affairs, fuck boys, infidelities and various other horrible things people have done while in "committed" relationships and that's just going back 2 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 01:17 PM
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Speaking of the hospital environment, they're also full of pickmes... women who will do anything to snag a Doctor. Best of luck to you sweetheart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 06:06 AM
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Did he recently start at a new hospital? (Assuming he's in medicine)... I've seen 30+ years of new Med Students, Residents and Fellows. I've dated them, loved them and been close friends with dozens of them. Not even a word of lie sis, almost ALL of them see the women at a new workplace as a "smorgasboard" of new conquests. You seem very sweet, a lovely young lady. You're obviously intelligent, but it's time to be smart, I hope he isn't just another creep, I really do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 05:48 AM
10

If this is really eating at you, then you might have to surprise him. The next time you do see him, look into his eyes, tell him how much you love him, how much you cherish him... search his face for signs of doubt, or guilt. Providing he's not a sociopath, anything but a steadfast, equally heartfelt response would tell me there's trouble brewing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 04:52 AM
18

Long elaborate stories always make me uneasy. I hope he's being honest with you. Can you make an unplanned "pop-in"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 03:42 AM
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Way back in the old days, when personal ads were 6 lines in the newspaper, I met up with a guy. The moment we met I knew he wasn't for me (smoker, dirty, baked bean teeth, functionally illiterate). But I was polite enough to finish my coke. In the first 10 minutes he started lamenting that "Once a gal finds out I got a nice house, they're all over me trying to get married". He told me the street he lived on, and a few days later, for shits and giggles, I drove by to see this magnificent mansion,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 03:34 AM
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They need to enjoy each other's company and provide comfort and support for the other person. Well said. This transcends sex and procreation. If you don't just plain enjoy the company of the person then what's the point?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 04:34 AM
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I've been reading this thread all day, and there are so many amazing points made by people. I'd like to share what my guy brings. We just complete each other (I know that sounds trite but he's my other half). He's my equal, and my hero. I put him first and he puts me first - that way we both get to go first lol. No one's perfect but he's pretty damn close. He's smart, and kind - he listens, he compromises and I do the same. I don't want an ass-kisser or a sugar daddy. I want an equal... I got so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 03:31 AM
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I hope this doesn't come off as creepy/stalkerish, but is this the same man that you discussed a few days ago? If so, I'm worried about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 01:38 PM
10

Make your own life exciting enough and fulfilling enough that some traumatized dude who refuses to seek treatment for it isn’t so intriguing to you. Sigh Where were you when I was 19? Also, I love your username.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 01:22 PM
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I'm beaming all my good thoughts and support to you. I don't know you but your sweet earnestness really touches my heart. I hope everything works out for you! ♥️♥️♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 01:15 PM
15

You said that so succinctly sis, Brava!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 08:46 AM
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Past trauma that is undealt with always festers and one day erupts. Like a wound that hasn't been properly cleaned and treated; just covered over and forgotten - it never heals. Gangrene sets in, infection spreads... the disease grows. Pretty soon there's nothing but utter destruction. I know that sounded pretty dramatic but he needs help - more help than you can give him. Maybe you want to stand by his side during this; help him, let him lean on you like a "good woman" (note - you are a good wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 08:35 AM
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The FIRST time that happened would be the LAST.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 08:23 AM
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I've shared the sub with about 15 women at work. I don't know if they've joined or not, but they sure got quiet and were looking at their phones for a good while after I sent the link.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 08:20 AM
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I hope this degenerate piece of shit goes to prison for a long long time - better yet - never gets out. I hope this poor, misguided, simple woman finds the strength to move beyond this, remove any trace of this asshole from her life, and finds a way to make a life for herself. Also "Jakub"?... Good Lord!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 08:15 AM
12

And then they scream about "pussy pass" when THEY are the enablers of the phenomenon. They want us to exist as these ethereal, beautiful, otherworldly creatures but the minute we become self-aware, we get eviscerated. I'm sorry, I know I commented on this thread earlier today, but it just peeves me so much I had to come back and say this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 10:02 PM
2

How sweet and kind you are, you REALLY made my day! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 03:44 PM
52

He wants to help you blossom into the beauty that only he sees. Sorry Jackfruit, you're not the first guy to notice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 03:38 PM
5

I saw an online article about Instagram models versus true runway models. The true runway models were kind of these plain looking girls that were tall and slim, and the Instagram models were these extremely heavily made up (at all times) older (~7 years) women with fake lips, fake boobs, butt implants, severe shapewear, always dressed up, dolled up and "posing". Many of them were short and some a bit chubby, but because they edit their photos to Hell and back, it was not generally known. And yea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 07:07 AM
3

Vanity, narcissism and a pathological need for attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 07:03 AM
7

Hell, KISSING is more intimate to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 06:59 AM
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My sweet guy would get irked and make this low grumble when I wanted to even just get the tip, or pay parking. (I'm a never-married, no-kids APN and I make a good living). Hell he'd make this face if I brought groceries to his place to make dinner. Honey all I'm saying is that if he's a true HVM, it will give him nothing but pure joy to take care of you. Don't get me wrong I spoil his ass rotten - backrubs, affection, and certain things I know he loves. Yes I go shopping with him and make sure h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 06:51 AM
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Honey I wish you lived by me, I'd take such good care of you and find you a sweet man. I would also be your online dating personal assistant and go through the 10,000 likes that your gorgeous little ass would get everyday. Broaden your horizons, expand your vistas go new places. Hit up allll your friends and their friends and their mother's friends. Married friends? Ask them if they know any singles. A caveat - do not hesitate to pass on anyone that does not interest you, be gracious but stand f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 06:31 AM
9

Guys! You found out my true identity!!! LOL I kid, I kid... Damn she's (as the youngsters at work say) totes gorge!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 06:22 AM
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"Nothing is ever my fault so don't trigger me."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 06:15 AM
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I'm glad, sweetheart 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 08:45 PM
16

And imagination leads to romanticization.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 08:43 PM
11

But it's not hims fault! Hims isn't getting enough attention and hims is stressed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 08:39 PM
10

If I saw or heard that at my job I would call security, have him ejected and call DCFS immediately. I wouldn't even ask the mom - I would just do it. That is 100% wrong in every way. It's not a red flag - it's the whole fucking flag factory falling out of the sky and landing on your house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 08:37 PM
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To me it's just another example that with a lot of men, everything comes down to their dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 01:51 PM
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Omg LOL! You win at reddit today m'lady!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 01:49 PM
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Thanks for your kind words, you're sweet💕. It took me a long time to find him. We met at the grocery store, we were across from each other at one of those open-air freezers and I needed a loaf of garlic bread, but I couldn't quite reach it. So I said 'Excuse me sir, would you mind handing me a loaf of that garlic bread please?' He was a decent, pleasant looking chap, but I was really only interested in the bread. (I would've asked whoever happened to be there.) Well he handed it to me, and when …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 02:57 AM
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Thanks love :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 01:36 AM
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What a pretty arrangement, I love the pine cones
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 12:26 AM
9

Oh jeez. Good find either way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 11:28 PM
11

You're a superstar, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 11:27 PM
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Back when I was dating around, I actually had guys get mad bc I wouldn't drink, or I'd just have one. They would pout "You're no fun! " (I'm a lot of fun) "What are you some kind of alcoholic?" (So long fuckwit!) "I don't want to drink alone!" (Grow up!) On my second or third date with the man who I've been with the last 11 years, I got quite drunk on one and a half drinks (I had started the ketogenic diet, and it lowers some people's alcohol tolerance). I ended up feeling quite ill and had to c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 11:09 PM
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Sounds like a man wrote it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 10:45 PM
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I hope this is okay to share, this poem embodies this sentiment so beautifully. Caged Bird BY MAYA ANGELOU A free bird leaps and floats downstream 'til the current ends and dips his wing in the orange sun rays and dares to claim the sky But a bird that stalks down his narrow cage can seldom see through his bars of rage his wings are clipped and his feet are tied so he opens his throat to sing. The caged bird sings with a fearful trill of things unknown but longed for still and his tune is heard …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 06:03 AM
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As if I would forgo my beautiful midnight blue Italian leather platform shoes if he were gasp short and threatened by my height. Confidence and self-esteem > being tall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 03:16 AM
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"Wahhh I'm sorry I'm a piss poor excuse for a man... now make me feel better!" He's not worth anything but the most basic workplace civility. I'm sure whoever he was fucking this last month probably wised up... so he's scurrying back to sniff out any vulnerabilities you may have. Give him NOTHING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 07:32 AM
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I will be shocked if I see anything original... probably just the same impotent diatribe favored by useless, sputtering, frustrated trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 07:27 AM
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It means he knows how to act right, but doesn't care to actually do so. Classic dual personality/liar/abuser tactic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 07:25 AM
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Cowards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 08:19 AM
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Omg he might be the biggest creep, outside of serial rapists/abusers I have ever read about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 08:17 AM
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I deeply appreciate our moderators. Thank you so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 08:14 AM
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(I think) it was the fantastic Mae West who said 'Men are like buses; there will be another one along in 15 minutes' .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 08:07 AM
15

Yes they LOVE to extoll the virtues of "sticking their dick in crazy". Then get pissed if they experience repercussions, or it's no longer fun for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 07:06 PM
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Gee I wonder what he's compensating for...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 06:58 PM
5

I remember saying to a guy "Sorry, but your dick is not enough." He exited my life like a deflated balloon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 06:50 PM
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I tried it years ago. If the picture was fine and he could construct a sentence, I was all in favor of a quick brief meet-up just to see if we could stand the sight of each other. Dated a couple nice guys that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 09:50 AM
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I have a sweet, young (19) beautiful friend who got roped into being some 30 year old piece of shit's nanny and "lady" (I don't know why but I've always hated that term). Of course she fell in love with the kids and refuses to leave, while their "father" chose to work 70 miles away (when he could have worked locally) and stays at his buddy's place 2-3 nights a week because he's "too tired" to drive home, but not too tired to go to the bars with his bros. So basically she's an upaid live-in nanny…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 09:45 AM
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I've had these mystery "men" message me (years after dating, even). I reply "Sorry, I date a lot of guys... who are you, again?" Takes the wind right out of their sails.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 11:00 PM
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This is a scratch, it will heal quickly. I'm proud of you for putting yourself first. Don't feel bad about crying, you're human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 10:54 PM
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Clever girl 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 10:50 PM
5

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 01:12 AM
9

True, but I still enjoyed her prick pricking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 01:12 AM
5

You've got my respect, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 12:50 AM
3

Excellent point! I like you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 12:46 AM
24

I do see your point regarding the 'no response is the best response' tactic. I rather like how she deflated him. His grand offer to suck her clit (it takes more than that, creep) was just completely rebuffed (quit likely to his astonishment). Maybe he'll think a little bit.. maybe he'll regret being a puke... Probably not, but who knows? In the end, she took out the trash. Job well done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 12:43 AM
4

When those mental giants would text me 'sup?' I would always respond 'no thanks I already ate' and they wouldn't get it of course because they were dipshits. Block Block Block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 05:06 PM
44

I'm 58, he's 45. Before I started seeing him I dated a few guys my own age. One thing I noticed that men over 50 seem to just stop taking care of their teeth and I just can't deal with that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 04:47 PM
41

NO FANTASIZING. No what if, no if only, no I wish he would, no it would be so great if he'd... Stay focused on reality and concrete actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 02:06 PM
12

It kills me that they're SO sure that they're SO clever, like no one with two fucking brain cells couldn't see through their contrived circle-jerking bullshit. I really need to stop cussing so much...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 07:04 AM
3

Imagine he's a piece of paper...now imagine crumpling up that paper into a compact ball of garbage. Imagine walking that wad of useless trash out to the dumpster. If you want to cry, go ahead and have a cry, have a screaming fit - get it out and get it over with - you'll feel better than if you walk around with this emotional bomb in your chest. Mourn your loss and then move on. You MUST push him out of your mind. When you start missing him or thinking about him, say NO! out loud and think of so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 03:50 AM
17

Unpopularopinion, askReddit, AITA and many other subs are just thinly veiled forums for men to whine, and to trash women. I use the Reddit Enhancement Suite addon for Chrome and filter that shit out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 03:33 AM
60

I stamped [NEXT] on many a forehead before I found a sweet, smart, funny guy who takes care of me in every way. The most important thing is that I was 100% fine being single if I hadn't met him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 03:05 AM
4

You got this honey ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 09:12 AM
3

Brava darling!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 09:11 AM
25

This little ploy is just the first little ploy in a long line of little ploys that this little boy will employ to use you like a toy. Sorry for the rhyming poetry, I'm not nearly as cool as I think I am. I love your instincts, don't let this fuckwit get away with his douchery, this was his plan all along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 09:17 PM
8

Also, somebody please take the exclamation mark far away from this man. Thanks a lot sis, I laughed out loud and woke up the cats, and now they won't let me lay in bed cruising comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 09:12 PM
27

Someone needs to tell Kiran that bored is boring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 09:04 PM
18

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 12:50 PM
28

Oh, and can we discuss his delusional thinking that he looks 10+ years younger than his age? My ass. Why the stupid face paint? Reminds me of the vainglorious types who fail to realize that gas station attendants and liquor store cashiers card everyone across the board. You ain't special, you wrinkly ballsack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 11:46 AM
42

54 and still doesn't know the difference between 'than' and 'then'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 11:34 AM
12

Don't be ashamed love, you were heavily manipulated and didn't have the benefit of this wonderful group of women to lend strength. I find you to be incredibly brave for sharing your story, and even more than that I think you're amazing for moving on and learning from your past. I hope you know that you're a superhero - helping your son become a good man (I hope he's doing well) and looking forward to the future with more clarity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 11:26 AM
26

I was once called a stupid ugly (edit) for not wanting to fuck a dude, so I told him it must've felt really bad to be rejected by a stupid ugly (edit) .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 06:45 AM
35

Your missile struck with surgical precision you magnificent babe ♥️. I can just imagine these pasty idiots sitting at their computers, furiously typing their infantile diatribe with one hand and jerking off with the other.. tears splashing off of their manboobs onto their keyboards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 06:31 AM
5

They are deeply, irrevocably, passionately in love with their penises. And I guess in their deluded minds they think we are too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 12:31 PM
6

Or a stupid sweaty bandana! And I don't even care if they're balding, it's their superficial vanity and lack of confidence that's the turn-off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 12:11 PM
13

I believe they want to, in the simplest definition of the word. But they don't want to put forth any effort. And when smart women won't play along, the women are suddenly labeled "mean". Fucking babies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 01:26 AM
3

Well at least he didn't say "females". But I dare say this little creep has had minimal interaction with living, sentient, non-inflatable/pixelated women who weren't his mommy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 12:53 AM
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