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First name: Levi Who introduced you to DiscipleCord? RC Location: Oregon Stats: Age/gender, Height, Weight, Bodyfat %, Marital Status, Lifts (Optional) 33, 5’7”, 164, 12% bf, single, PT and training around a herniated cervical disk 1 yr ago, lifts (setsxrepsxweight) Dumbell (DB) Bench Press 5x6x50lbs, no OHP - neck probs, Pull-Ups 4x7, Single Leg DB deadlift 60 lbs, Goblet split squat - 75lbs. Weekly summary (Brief): Preppin for launching my biz WildManEnergy, didn’t workout much due to aggravat…
/r/RPChristians25/03/22 12:24 AM
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Sorry to hear that Broski! I’m sad for you. If you feel like talking I’m here. Can even talk over the phone. This sounds like more than just a temporary thing. My guess is you have had a difficult intermatic life. Great job getting this far :-) there’s more work to do though and it gets better if you’re willing to do the work. It sounds like finding a good therapist would really help figure out the root of your depression. It should be in your childhood. Maybe all you need to do is get some ther…
/r/seduction28/02/22 10:11 PM
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Two things come to mind. 1) this could be a spiritual attack while you are sleeping. If so, research how to fight demonic dreams. I would highly recommended playing worship music as you go to sleep and throughout the night. Also, to have a devotion time with prayer and beginning in the word right before you go to bed in addition to what you already do. See if spending more time in the word changes anything. 2) hiding these things is unhealthy and Satan is using it against you. I would recommend …
/r/askRPC08/02/22 05:11 PM
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Very location dependent. That said, most of the world is not nearly as woke as what social media portrays. The woke tend to be more vocal on social media and as a result you get a skewed perspective of how woke the world is.
/r/askRPC27/01/22 10:37 PM
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Ty brotha!
/r/RPChristians05/01/22 04:30 PM
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LOCKED TILL YOU POST YOUR STATS - per rule 2
/r/RPChristians05/01/22 03:43 PM
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Unfortunately, as you likely know, you are in uncharted territory. There isn't anything official in regards to going back to normal. https://www.pfsfoundation.org/about-pfs-post-finasteride-syndrome/ I believe it can be done because the mind is a powerful thing but I personally have no experience with this. My guess is you will have to scour the internet and connect with the few ppl that have experience going through adverse reactions to see if any of them made it through those reactions.
/r/RPChristians26/12/21 05:43 PM
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Be straightforward with her and tell her that when she talks about her past it is hurtful towards you and is a boundary. If she is willing to work on it then awesome. Do not expect her to get it perfect. She is training new neural networks. You should notice her changing her behavior he respect that boundary. If she messes kindly remind her of your boundary. If she is genuinely trying to work on it you will see progress. If she does not respect the boundary then you can slowly start to withdraw …
/r/RPChristians15/12/21 10:55 PM
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I don't like "labels" -- what do you call someone who (when they die) will enter heaven? Whatever you call that person is what I wish to be called. A person that goes to heaven is called a Christian. Just because you say you are a Christian and going to heaven doesn't actually mean you are going to heaven. If you have genuinely given your life to Christ then you will do what he commands. Here's a few scriptures labeling what it looks like to be a Christian. If these scriptures don't sound like y…
/r/askRPC01/12/21 04:41 PM
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So many questions. The biggest question I have is in regards to your comment on sex outside of marriage and drugs. Are you saying you're actively participating in those things and still calling yourself a Christian or are you saying that you want to do those things in your fleshly nature but are a Christian and struggle with that? Also, I might delete this as it's not super related to our sub.
/r/askRPC01/12/21 04:12 PM
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If what you're saying is accurate, then I would stop listening to him. He has no scripture to support his thesis. He basing his argument off of culture and people's opinions ergo egalitarianism LOL.
/r/askRPC25/11/21 07:44 PM
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Never heard of him. If you were to give a breakdown of why you think he's feminized or maybe give an overview of the book you could get some feedback on that. That's what I would suggest doing.
/r/askRPC25/11/21 06:07 PM
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Should hop on the RPC discord channel and reach out there. You'll have a better chance to find what you're looking for😁
/r/askRPC23/11/21 10:20 PM
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Be patient and caring with her. She's carrying your offspring. Children definitely get in the way of sex. And what do you mean exactly by achieving salvation?
/r/RPChristians05/10/21 02:27 PM
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Hahah as a car salesman this is highly amusing! Your ability to use analogies in almost everything and pointing it to Christ is mind-blowing. I could totally see you talking in Parables with some gen Z apostles and telling them "Doyou guys still not get it?!"
/r/RPChristians29/09/21 02:20 PM
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Are you on mobile or desktop?
/r/RPChristians09/07/21 03:23 PM
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Downvoted because of your low effort on posting your stats. We're serious about following the rules here. It's for your benefit. ​ RULES: Mission: Tell us what it is and why you need a woman's help accomplishing it (I'm being serious) Stats: body fat, height, weight, lifts, etc. Reading: Which sidebar content you've read (RPC and/or MRP) Finances: Current job and income quality, future prospects, debt issues Spiritual: How mature you are, how often you pray, have quiet times, share your faith, m…
/r/RPChristians08/07/21 01:41 PM
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Best comment so far 👊🏻
/r/RPChristians03/07/21 07:41 PM
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Thorough breakdown 😁👌🏻 appreciate the tag
/r/RPChristians22/06/21 06:11 AM
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Dang! Solid post broski. I think that was a word for me and some of my ppls😁
/r/RPChristians20/06/21 07:15 AM
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.... NOVA?
/r/askRPC18/06/21 10:31 PM
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This is a perfect example of falling rule number two! Lord bless thee abundantly brethren🙏🏻😜 Keep at it! Get some accountabilibuddies to help you out. Or better yet get a couple of guys together that struggle with the same thing and lead them in sharing your struggle. Every time you fail you sure that failure with your Buddies. For some reason it seems that when one is in the position of leading would increase the odds of reaching your goal. My biggest weakness is my porn usage. I was convicted …
/r/RPChristians18/06/21 07:15 AM
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Post is locked for breaking rule #2: Post your stats. We need to know what your situation is like if you want effective advice. Here's what you're missing :l Rule 2 - Stats ALL posts asking for help with relationship issues must include the following: Mission: Tell us what it is and why you need a woman's help accomplishing it (I'm being serious) Stats: body fat, height, weight, lifts, etc. Reading: Which sidebar content you've read (RPC and/or MRP) Finances: Current job and income quality, futu…
/r/RPChristians11/06/21 03:32 AM
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Surprised this had only been mentioned once, but if you want to make it a pleasant first experience start with eating her out and fingering her with one finger. Let that sit in there a bit play around while you continue to eat her out. Slowly build up to 3 fingers. Get feedback from her along the way to see if you're stretching her too fast. Could take an hour or it could take a couple weeks. Once you're up to 3 fingers inside her that should be comparable to a dick. Also, don't expect an orgasm…
/r/RPChristians07/06/21 10:14 PM
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Yes, women can post on social media in bikini pictures and still be good marriage material. There is a lot more to it than that. Women make dumb decisions too. It depends a little bit on the pictures too. Is it her in a string bikini with a close-up shot of her ass or is she at the lake wearing a normal bikini? Every woman will have red flags. The green flags have to outweigh the red flags and you have to be comfortable with those red flags. Some of those green flags should be her spiritual walk…
/r/RPChristians08/05/21 06:41 PM
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I was with misunderstanding, misread my comment or it was worded a tad confusing. Looks like option 3 lol.
/r/RPChristians07/05/21 02:24 AM
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What's the definition of oneitis?
/r/RPChristians07/05/21 01:48 AM
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Simple: go lift. You will become strong. Go talk to people. Talk to everyone you see. Talk to more women. You will become more social. This will help ease your obsession with this women. You sound desperate right now.
/r/RPChristians07/05/21 01:37 AM
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..... You need read up on your RP 101 lingo🤦🏻
/r/RPChristians07/05/21 01:32 AM
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You have oneitis. Start reading your Bible daily - how do expect you be a mature Christian if you never grow in your understanding of God? Get some interesting hobbies. Bonus points if those Hobbies involve meeting meeting other people in person. Double bonus points if there are hot single girls involved in those Hobbies you can get to know and go on dates with. One of those hobby should be lifting weights. Add 20 lb of extra muscle and it will do wonders for your dating life or lack thereof in …
/r/RPChristians07/05/21 12:00 AM
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Locked till you post your stats as per Rule #2. PM me once you edit your post and I'll unlock it. EDIT: ty for posting your stats. Proceed.
/r/RPChristians06/05/21 10:49 PM
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Everyone is waiting OP.
/r/RPChristians05/05/21 05:34 PM
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Thanks for helping 💪🏻👊🏻
/r/RPChristians05/05/21 05:34 PM
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Might not be insane, but your thoughts are insanely scattered. This is hard to follow and I'm actually at a loss for words what to say. If you want some good info make sure it's easy to follow.
/r/askRPC03/05/21 05:31 PM
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Can a man marry a woman that makes more money than him? Yes. Should he? No. Can you make it work? Yes. There are very very few guys that could pull this off. Either way, this goes against biological programming and I would never recommend it. Culture is trying to rewrite our biological programming with an idiotic narrative. Look where that's getting us. Also, I remember seeing a statistic about women making more money than their husband and this showed a correlation to higher divorce rate. That …
/r/askRPC28/04/21 04:44 PM
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... Friend transitioning.... 🤣🤣🤣
/r/askRPC28/04/21 04:37 PM
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This is super low quality. Sounds like something people might be interested in, but we have no idea what this is about. You didn't even link it. I'm going to lock this for a few hours til you edit it. Give a short summary using some bullet points and don't forget the link. Looking forward to to a quality post.
/r/RPChristians15/04/21 03:19 PM
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Dooode!! Post your flippin stats🤦🏻 Kinda ironic you missed the stickied post today that told EVERYBODY to post your stats. Locked till you can learn to follow the rules around here.
/r/RPChristians11/04/21 04:39 AM
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Generally yes. We will eventually crack down on that that once the amount of questions here deem it necessary to start funneling them over there.
/r/RPChristians10/04/21 08:15 PM
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Biblically this is a gray area. There is no scriptures specifically addressing birth control in the context of preventing pregnancy. As long as you aren't terminating a life you will need to decide for yourself. I refer to Romans 14:23 on grey areas like these. "But whoever has doubts is condemned if he eats, because the eating is not from faith. For whatever does not proceed from faith is sin. Rom 14:23 ESV. ​ Pray about it and see if the Lord puts anything on your heart.
/r/askRPC01/04/21 05:43 PM
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Matthew defines sexual immorality the most clearly. Here are the grounds for divorce: “It has been said, ‘Anyone who divorces his wife must give her a certificate of divorce.' But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery, and anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery. Matthew 5:31-32 Here is where Matthew clarifies what sexual immorality is: "This is how the birth of Jesus the Messiah came about: His mother Mary was p…
/r/askRPC24/03/21 04:47 PM
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Good question. I don't think anybody's going to dox themselves on this one LOL.
/r/askRPC20/03/21 05:16 AM
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There are people who have real limitations, either genetically or disability wise, that won’t be able to reach the numbers that people boast about here and claim. It really feels a lot like gate keeping. We get that. That's why you post your stats. I can't lift a lot right now due to an injury so I shared my injury and current stats. If you're disabled do likewise. Trust me, I love lifting and have reaped many benefits. A few of which is I get respect when I used to get bullied, and people are m…
/r/RPChristians19/03/21 07:42 PM
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Def a step in the right direction. We're here for you when you need direction.
/r/RPChristians12/03/21 09:23 PM
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If you've read any of the sidebar then this may just be a repeat for you, but your wife is a reflection of your leadership. Lead by example in everything and invite her to join you....I'm going to church, want to come with? I'm going to the gym, want to come with? I'm going to do XYZ, want to do it with me? Sounds like you're already doing this, but keep on using that approach until she fully adopts your frame. One more question. How much of the sidebar have you read?
/r/RPChristians12/03/21 09:00 PM
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Fair enough. Just curious, how long have you been married? How long have you been leading poorly? How long have you been working on leading better? Kids?
/r/RPChristians12/03/21 08:36 PM
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Glad to hear you're making progress bro. Keep up the good work. Stay plugged into the community. For future posts seeking advice be sure to adhere to rule number 2 and post ALL your stats. To address your post, why have you been pushing your wife to get discipled from another lady rather than you discipling your wife? A disciple is a follower and God calls men to lead their wives. So it would make sense that God calls husbands to be discipling their wives. Not saying it's wrong for a woman to di…
/r/RPChristians12/03/21 08:12 PM
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If it were me, I would have a conversation with them where I asked them why they thought it would be a lustful environment and why they thought working out is vain. Be prepared what their responses could be and have answers addressing all those objections. If your answers are adequate you should be able to go to the gym. That's just the salesman in me. Everything is a sale. You could probably even Google search positive benefits of working out. If that doesn't work then figure out how to start b…
/r/RPChristians07/03/21 04:00 PM
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The major glaring issue I see is your frame sucks (as indicated by all the times you talked about her her her). Your wife is a reflection of your leadership. If you want to see change in her start with yourself. MRP will tell you for every year you have been leading badly in the relationship it will take about 3 months/year of being a good leader before things get on track. I'm praying for you and your wife brotha. Please keep us up to date and we will try to give you the best feedback possible.…
/r/RPChristians07/03/21 03:51 PM
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Locked for half-assing rule 2 and writing an essay without paragraph breaks. I get that took you forever to write, but at least make it readable. Also, nobody has addressed your main problem. There's a lot of comments here, but so far none of them are getting to the core of the issue. DM me and I will unlock your post and respond with an answer. Rule 2 - Stats ALL posts asking for help with relationship issues must include the following: Mission: Tell us what it is and why you need a woman's hel…
/r/RPChristians06/03/21 03:15 PM
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There is no magical formula or special verse. I prefer women 18 to 22. I'm 32. Some chicks dig it, some don't. Don't worry about what current culture or other people tell you. Find your age preference and go with that. But stop worrying so much about what other people are telling you and develop your own frame with your own preferences.
/r/askRPC27/02/21 01:49 AM
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Read this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/lld7is/why_god_doesnt_love_you/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share Might help you shift your perspective.
/r/RPChristians19/02/21 03:49 PM
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I thought the post was actually quite entertaining to read😜 I give it 7/10 lol.
/r/RPChristians19/02/21 03:46 PM
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Sooo... Who peed in your cheerios? Some people really like what we do and some people hate it. If you don't like it you're welcome to leave. Or maybe.... you could stick around and learn a thing or two.
/r/RPChristians04/02/21 09:19 PM
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So then do you think there is a difference between a one flesh relationship and marriage as defined by the Bible?
/r/RPChristians25/01/21 03:35 AM
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Okay then, I'm going to push back on you pushing back on me pushing back;) I’m going to push back on your pushing. The importance is to get married rather than to burn with passion. Correct. Both methods, religious or legal, are just as viable as the other. Where do you get this from? But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion. 1 Corinthians 7:9 Amen.
/r/RPChristians25/01/21 02:42 AM
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Going to push back a bit on this. Why do you think you have to get legally married? Why do you think you have to have a religious ceremony?
/r/RPChristians24/01/21 10:16 PM
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You big meany not submitting to "authorities" you better repent you big sinner😱
/r/RPChristians24/01/21 10:13 PM
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This podcast was inspired by a couple conversations I had with some good friends recently, both male and female. They know that I do a podcast and eventually listened to the podcast. They were pretty polarized for multiple reasons. This podcast episode and the next 2-3 are a good introduction for people that don't understand what we do here and why we do it.
/r/RPChristians30/12/20 09:48 PM
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Get a scripture memory app and spend 10 minutes everyday. I got recommend RememberMe. If you have a lot of negative thoughts then you probably need to do two things: 1 - work on externalizing those negative thoughts. I do that either by writing them down on paper daily or as they pop into my head I will say out loud (but quietly) "I rebuke you Spirit of anxiety" or something like that. Unlikely that it's a demonic force and more likely it's the psychology of externalizing it/owning it. 2 - consu…
/r/askRPC29/12/20 07:15 PM
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Pre-marital sex - I think Paul says it best. " Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. Phil 3:13-14" ​ Quit focusing so much on you negative thoughts. Take every thought captive 2 Cor 10:3-6. I would suggest memorizing and reviewing scripture (daily) that specifically combats your negative thoughts. Then when…
/r/askRPC28/12/20 07:19 AM
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Locked comments. OP, repost this to r/askrpc. This belongs there.
/r/RPChristians27/12/20 03:31 PM
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Great post! So keep in mind and I'm single, but I have also had enough experience to know that behavior before an LTR or (marriage) is generally amplified after commitment. Now take what Paul says into consideration "To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain single, as I am. But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion. (1 Corinthians 7:8-9, ESV) So biblically, marriage should be considered when yo…
/r/askRPC24/12/20 11:16 PM
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Locked for wrong sub, this belongs in r/askrpc. OP, just copy and paste listen to the appropriate sub. I'd love to comment on at once you posted over there. Tag me when you do.
/r/RPChristians24/12/20 08:54 PM
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Thank you for posting in the correct sub! Simply put, I chose to incorporate it because it describes the observations I see in reality. I think that's why majority of the guys here incorporated into their life. That and in an era where men never had strong guidance from a father, they can find a similar kind of guidance they missed out on here in the red pill communities.
/r/askRPC24/12/20 03:29 PM
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I am studying testosterone optimization therapy and once I have a good grip on it I plan on going on it for a few reasons. To clarify, testosterone optimization therapy is done under medical supervision and you are increasing your testosterone levels to live a better life. My testosterone and free testosterone levels are middle of the ground when it comes to the range, but I want to bump up to the top range of what is humanly natural. I'm doing this because I think it will help with a pinched ne…
/r/askRPC19/12/20 08:05 PM
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Locked comments. OP repost to r/askrpc.
/r/RPChristians19/12/20 07:09 PM
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Locked comments. This is an /askrpc post. u/MoneroFanboy, I'll give you an hour to copy this over to the appropriate sub. We're going to be redirecting all ask posts over to that sub as we see them pop up.
/r/RPChristians18/12/20 11:54 PM
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I agree. What are some of the things you want to see covered about dating?
/r/RPChristians16/12/20 09:34 PM
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Can you tell me a little bit more about what you mean by approaching strategy to potential disciples? Do you mean picking some Bible verse at random or specific ones that apply to what we are doing?
/r/RPChristians16/12/20 06:43 PM
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A quick Google search shows that ain't other word for self worth is self esteem. So I would say that your self-esteem is definitely tied how you doing physically, financially, emotionally, mentally, spiritually. If you're a thot broke dude then highly likely your self-esteem is going to be crap. I will say that I was leaning towards agreeing with your response but then I decided to Google search it.
/r/RPChristians07/12/20 07:02 PM
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Thanks for the tag broski! That is a really succinct definition for the acronym.
/r/RPChristians04/12/20 06:53 PM
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There is something to externalizing what we are struggling with, whether it is sin or not. There are many exercises or methods that you can use to externalize what is bothering you. One method I use is just calling out what's mentally giving me a hard time and rebuke it in the Name of Christ. For example, if I'm struggling with lust, I would say out loud, "Spirit of lust, I rebuke you in the Name of Christ." I don't know if it is an actual spiritual attack or if it is just my mind. But I can say…
/r/RPChristians02/12/20 08:43 PM
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Women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of commitment. So then, if a woman gives out sex freely she will be considered a low value woman (slut). In like manner, if a man gives out commitment freely he will be considered a low value man (beta pussy). Considering all this, it is then the woman's role to initiate the DTR convo since she is seeking commitment just as is it the man's role to initiate physical intimacy (Christians can only go so far before they should consider mar…
/r/RPChristians29/11/20 05:35 PM
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Western civilizations are on the decline and have been on the decline. There is a small percentage of people that realize this and majority of the people are still in ignorant bliss. The rate of decline is increasing at a staggering pace. It would be a really good time to start thinking about having mobile income and looking at other places in the world to move. This line of thought could be argued though. I know many people would say that we need to fight for what's right and bring some semblan…
/r/RPChristians26/11/20 05:01 PM
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Examples of....? The edgy content he's suggesting?
/r/RPChristians26/11/20 04:42 PM
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I think you should do this. Be proactive. Share with them your past sins before they are at the age when they are likely to repeat that sin. Tailor it to their age. As they grow tell them more. I wish my dad had done this, I might have been able to avoid some of those generational sins. And generational sins are a real thing, science is proving it. Things you do in your life passed down through your genetics. Including your sins. Also, being an example of a dude who can admit his faults and be v…
/r/RPChristians19/11/20 04:12 PM
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This post seems like it ties in well with the next episode on Red Pill Christians Podcast: Christian plating for singles. For the rest of the community here I'll be sharing my current experience with this. Stay tuned for that episode 😁💪🏻
/r/RPChristians14/11/20 08:36 PM
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If I was your husband I would want my wife to say something like babe, I'm really enjoying our marriage I want it to continue to grow. I found a community that I think would help lead us in the right direction, but it's more geared towards husbands. A couple areas I want to see grow is me being more submissive and you being more dominant in all areas of the marriage, but especially in the bedroom. Something loosely along those lines. I included the submissiveness part so it doesn't look like you…
/r/askRPC10/11/20 04:55 PM
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Tune in to hear our thoughts on Trump and testosterone 😁💪🏻
/r/RPChristians04/11/20 04:05 AM
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Sgm is way too early for this guy. Prerequisite for that is enthusiastic sex on tap. Does not sound like he's close to getting that. Every year he's been married it's going to be about three months of the grinding to unscrew himself from the situation he's got himself into.
/r/RPChristians29/10/20 02:04 AM
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Having a good understanding of how God interacts with his bride, the church is a great framework for our husbands should interact with their wives. It's really important not to have a cultural bias that panders towards women. We just look at what Jesus said in the context in which he applied it and Bam! You have a great framework for marriage.
/r/RPChristians21/10/20 05:25 AM
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Imagine you were talking to Jesus and said, "God, you're not making me happy and if you don't make me happy I'm going to go find happiness elsewhere." What do you think he would say?
/r/RPChristians21/10/20 04:54 AM
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Glad you recognized it as a fitness test. Did you take her seriously? Or did you take her seriously or did you respond to her as you would bratty teenager? .... "That's nice. Well you know where the door is. I'm going to go do the XYZ.😏.
/r/RPChristians19/10/20 09:49 PM
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There's a really good chance of that. I assume you had a conversation with her relaying that coming to you with her concerns is something you want her to do, but the threat of divorce is unacceptable?
/r/RPChristians19/10/20 07:45 PM
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one week into *RPC..... Sounds like you may have gone a bit Rambo. Typically for every year you have been married it's going to take two or three months to get your marriage back to where there is a healthy dynamic. Also, look at her actions not necessarily her words. If she is saying things like divorce, but is acting otherwise than keeping attention to what she does and listen to what she says with a grain of salt.
/r/RPChristians19/10/20 07:40 PM
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If you don't want to be wrapped up with appearance your best option is to probably poke your eyes out or chop your nuts off. That said, if this isn't an option for you then you just need to recognize that this is the way God hardwired us and then get out of your head. You're thinking about it too much. Here's some scripture to think on. But the LORD said to Samuel, "Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the LORD sees not as man sees: man …
/r/RPChristians04/10/20 04:51 PM
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Glad you'll consider it. It's not just me though. The advice I shared with you is standard advice on every redtail community. So safe to say that this is the opinion of collectively thousands of guys. Read the sidebar.
/r/RPChristians04/10/20 05:11 AM
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Dude, why the heck are you waiting one or two more years? You're a skinny string bean and that will definitely tank your testosterone levels. No Wonder you've been low libido. unfortunately, the only respect you're going to get from being an ultrathon Runner is from other runners. And that respect is not the same thing as attraction. Guaranteed you'll get more respect AND attraction by putting on some weight and lifting iron. Not to mention you're going to feel better when you put on more weight…
/r/RPChristians04/10/20 01:41 AM
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Honestly you never going to feel like you have the balls to do it. You have to go into it knowing that it could be horribly awkward, you could come off as creepy, you're going to feel anxious, and freaked out, but you just choose to do it anyways. Some things that helped me massively was: lifting weights regularly, healthy diet, and stopped jacking off. Also if you watch porn or anything close to it, STOP!! It just turns you into an always anxious pussy. Go get em tiger 💪🏻😁
/r/RPChristians03/10/20 11:12 PM
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Cold approaching is a great exercise for the purpose of getting comfortable talking with attractive women (which you should be able to do regardless) and building confidence. You can do it lustfully or you can do it without lust. A lot of it has to do with where are your heart and mind is at. Also, it sounds like you're too worried about what other people think of you. You won't be able to go out cold approaching and not seem creepy at sometimes. You can't please everybody and you have to recogn…
/r/RPChristians03/10/20 06:31 PM
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If you have a good marriage why wouldn't you share (with the guys that are struggling) what you're doing that is helping you have a good marriage? Sounds like you're afraid to hurt feelings even if it could be helpful for others. It's like if you climb a mountain and know how to do that really well and you see other guys struggling climb a mountain but you look at them and think "Man I don't want to tell them how good of a climber I am (and what I did to get good at it) because it might make the…
/r/RPChristians28/09/20 12:45 AM
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As long as u/rocknrollchuck has time he would love to. Want to pm us your number?
/r/RPChristians19/09/20 10:36 PM
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Would love to help if I can. I don't have enough time for commenting though. What I do have time for is voice texting through an app called voxer or sending video messages with an app Marco Polo. Want to try something different? Might even be more effective in terms of communicating better and helping your marriage than commenting here.
/r/RPChristians19/09/20 09:16 PM
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Looks like you should give your marriage at least another 5 months. The RP community as a whole advises that for every year of being together with your SO it'll take about 3 months to unfu** your marriage. Looks like you've been married 8 years. So 8 *3=24 months. And that's not even including dating. So if you dated 2 years add another 6 months on. Biblically though you have no grounds to get divorced.
/r/RPChristians19/09/20 08:12 PM
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Awesome breakdown! Couldn't have said it better.
/r/RPChristians19/09/20 07:55 PM
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I'm putting together an outline today for a solo episode just for singles😁
/r/RPChristians28/08/20 03:30 PM
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Roger! Busy for the rest of the night, but can I hit you up tomorrow?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 02:17 AM
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Do you want redpill advice from a Christian perspective or secular perspective?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 02:03 AM
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I think you already cover blame vs responsibility in another post 🙂
/r/RPChristians18/08/20 06:08 PM
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Well since he's in another country you could start calling him regularly and just chat and get to know him. Encourage him in what ways you can and pray for him while he is on the phone if he's comfortable with me and prayed for. Generally you should be doing 20% of the talking and 80% of the listening. People like to talk about themselves. It does make them feel better. Get an idea of where he's at mentally and spiritually. Meet him where he is at so to speak and then how do you build the relati…
/r/RPChristians16/08/20 07:41 PM
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Great post and I think you had a sweet spot in length 😉 this would be a great topic to add to one of the next Monday night discussions in addition to going over part of the sidebar. u/OsmiumZulu and I have talked about the burden of command and this post topic seems pretty similar to it.
/r/RPChristians15/08/20 12:19 PM
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Locked comments until OP posts stats. u/wharri215, please edit your post with stats. Also, read the rules before you post willy nilly in a sub. We want to help you, but in order to give you the best tailored advice we need to know more about you. Rule 2 - Stats ALL posts asking for help with relationship issues must include the following: Stats: body fat, height, weight, lifts, etc. Reading: Which sidebar content you've read (RPC and/or MRP) Finances: Current job and income quality, future prosp…
/r/RPChristians06/08/20 03:30 PM
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At some point almost any woman can make a man lust. I've walked through Costco after not jacking off for months and almost every single woman (except the fat grannies) made me lust. And to add to that they were dressed in jeans and shirts\sweaters. The only other solution was to cover them in blankets or not allow them in public. The lusting was on me, not them. Getting nit picky means group think gets to dictate what is sin. That's a slippery slope.
/r/RPChristians30/07/20 09:35 PM
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You remind me of this guy. Aahhahaha😂 On a serious note though and like I said Song of Solomon (SoS) gives a vividly graphic (and poetic) description of sex. Way more graphic than the intro.Tbh it's (SoS) a tad arousing lol.
/r/RPChristians30/07/20 09:11 PM
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I think that was the other one 🙏🏼
/r/RPChristians17/07/20 08:32 PM
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I found it :) I think there might have been another but this is all I could find. https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/agzcbn/what_is_the_christian_rp_advice_to_a_wife_for/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/RPChristians17/07/20 08:14 PM
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I found it :) I think there might have been another but this is all I could find. https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/agzcbn/what_is_the_christian_rp_advice_to_a_wife_for/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/RPChristians17/07/20 08:14 PM
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Nope. Also read teh rules before you post...🤦‍♂️ And read the sidebar. This screams newbie. Tagging u/deep_strength for lockdown!
/r/RPChristians17/07/20 04:02 AM
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Hasn't been said yet, but this should be pretty obvious. Stop listening to so much secular redpill stuff. If I listen to something that is constantly encouraging sin, guess what? I'm probably going to be thinking about doing said thing and way more likely to do said thing. Choose what type of man you want to be and then choose what material you consume and friends you hang around based on who you want to be.
/r/RPChristians11/07/20 10:53 PM
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Just read this in its entirety! Fascinating to say the least. Ty for taking me and plz tag all such threads in the future.
/r/RPChristians08/07/20 03:26 PM
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Hahaha.... Looks like we got a mini novel on our hands. That said, I think this would be a great topic for a walk and talk episode!
/r/RPChristians06/07/20 10:26 PM
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Competence is the ability to do something successfully or efficiently. Example: Koby was a very competent basketball player. How did Koby become so good? Thousands of hours of practice and a lot of failure. Pick a 1-2 things you want to become competent in and practice practice practice! The more effort you focus on ONE thing the quicker you will master it. Spread your efforts out and you'll take a lot longer to become competent.
/r/RPChristians03/07/20 11:40 PM
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Let me clarify because after reading your comment I don't think I communicated clearly enough. Revised: don't do anything (as dictated by current media coverage) that will cause someone else to sin by violating their own conscience/convictions. Your framework: Don't do anything that could be potentially harmful to someone else. By your assertions media gets to dictate what is "loving" (as long as what is loving isn't explicitly a sin) and if we don't conform to their frame we are causing others …
/r/RPChristians01/07/20 04:07 AM
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Hmmm I see your point, but that framework can be a slippery slope. If we know for certain (based on scientific data) that doing/using xyz thing/product (that is NOT explicitly labeled as sin) causes some other random person harm or contributes/causes their death then by the rhetoric you just laid out we must stop doing anything that could potentially harm/cause death to other people because doing so might cause others to stumble. Best to base gray areas on faith as it says in Romans 14:23. I cou…
/r/RPChristians30/06/20 11:23 PM
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By acting in the manner you posted, the pastors are completely ignoring Paul. He stated to not eat meat sacrificed to idols due to how it could cause others to stumble. In the same way, there are people who believe the air they breathe will cause them to get Corona if someone sneezes a mile away. By completely ignoring the general population’s panic, they are causing many to stumble. Context doesn't match up. One is sin one is not. Good try though 😉 You MIGHT win with some other arguments, but I…
/r/RPChristians30/06/20 07:47 PM
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Checkout Connor Murphy before you trip. He went from jacked stud Killin it with the ladies to tripped out hippy dude.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 05:45 AM
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When you buy a car and make sure it's over 5 years old. Most cars lose 34% or something like that of their value the first five years they are on the market.
/r/RPChristians18/06/20 06:45 AM
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Sounds like you could have communicated that looks gave him a better advantage and added to the substance he had already or something like that. That way it would have avoided any implications of him interpreting that you meant he was a shallow person. Either that or he was just a butt hurt little sissy. In the future make sure to include all this and if they still get butt hurt it's because they are a sissylala.
/r/RPChristians15/06/20 05:20 AM
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I have met women who own their shi*. I will say they are not very common, but they exist. And most marriages fail because guys don't know how to properly vet and Lead a marriage (be RP). You have a negative bias because you've been paying attention to too many red pill scenarios that talk about marriages and relationships going south. This includes that garbage Christian marriage sub. When you pay attention to too many bad things you're going to think a lot of bad exists in the world. Also, if y…
/r/RPChristians13/06/20 02:24 PM
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Obviously. Be careful how much attention you put into that sub. You may become jaded.
/r/askRPC13/06/20 02:17 PM
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Did you lock the post until OP delivers? And for that matter, why are you answering his question when he hasn't posted his stats? It only encourages future posters to be negligent.
/r/RPChristians13/06/20 01:42 AM
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You sound jaded 😜
/r/RPChristians12/06/20 06:10 PM
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Biblically speaking, intimate interactions are not a which that gets magically flipped on once the wedding ceremony is over. There is a reason that Paul said if you burn with passion you should get married. You should only consider marriage if you are starting to burn with passion AKA if you're getting to the point where physical interactions are getting too intimate to be justified outside of marriage. The current Church model is the switch magically flips on wedding day. The biblical model is …
/r/RPChristians12/06/20 06:03 PM
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If you jack off plenty now then you will not be okay with occasional sex in the future. Based on 1st Corinthians 7 burning with passion is the only reason to get married. And from the sounds of it you guys have zero passion. - a little side note. If you jack off plenty I think your T levels are fine. All you're doing is wasting a lot of potential energy you could be putting into other more valuable things. Also, when you jack off, can you (assuming you desire to disciple other guys) say to other…
/r/RPChristians12/06/20 05:17 PM
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Okay. Definitely definitely take most of the responses here with a grain of salt. I've read through everybody's response and so far only u/agoodcrayon's advice is something that holds water. Quick questions for you. When was the last time you jack off? How often do you jack off? What are your testosterone levels like? Because if you think you would be okay with sex once every other week I'm willing to bet serious money your T levels are low. You should go get that checked out because there is ne…
/r/RPChristians12/06/20 04:16 PM
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Your Oneitis is pretty prevalent here I think so take a step back and maybe start to get some others in the background. He doesn't have oneitis. Oneitis is an unhealthy obsession with somebody. He knows he has options and has thought through this very pragmatically.
/r/RPChristians12/06/20 04:01 PM
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Lift. Read the sidebar like your marriage depends on it. And read the rules before you post again. If you want advice that is tailored to your situation you need to follow the rules.
/r/RPChristians12/06/20 04:05 AM
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There are some studies on this. I think after 10 women are statistically damaged goods. Sweet spot is about 0-3 if I remember right.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 02:36 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/RPChristians05/06/20 01:32 PM
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Sweet post. Very entertaining. Not much to worry about after reading this. Not that I was worried in the first place if you got your live together, but now as long as you're not literally beating her sounds like you don't have much to worry about at all. divorce-rape-boogie-man 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 - TRP/MRP has definitely got too many guys believing in this hooey.
/r/RPChristians04/06/20 06:38 PM
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Lose 10 more pounds of fat and read up on kino to build sexual tension. That said, I have a sneaking suspicion that it's not tension you need.
/r/askRPC03/06/20 02:48 PM
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HTWFAIP is not a book to use to attract women. It's a great book in general for people and building friendships whether personal or her business, but using those principles found in the book don't apply well if you're looking to build a romantic relationship.
/r/askRPC03/06/20 02:44 PM
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Also, don't make it a big deal or super confrontational. Just say it matter-of-factly. "Hey how's it going? I saw you in my social media feed the other day and noticed looking a bit on the risque side. What's up with that?"
/r/askRPC31/05/20 03:46 AM
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call her out on it in person. Be loving, as you would for for any fellow believer, and also be firm.
/r/askRPC31/05/20 03:21 AM
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It's only weird and pathetic if you make it weird and pathetic. And it depends on the context. If he is high-value enough then she will continue to orbit him. That's not weird or creepy.
/r/askRPC31/05/20 03:18 AM
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Hey brother, thanks for the tag.😁 You either serve social media or it serves you (your mission). If all you are doing is consuming or producing content for validation then stop. Where do you put your energy and what do you do with that? That will give you an indication of if you're serving or being served. I have several Instagram accounts. A personal into business accounts. @TheChristianAlpha is one of them and I have put that one on hold to work on another endeavor. That leads to my second Ins…
/r/askRPC30/05/20 09:56 PM
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Did you forget the rules OP? Stats: body fat, height, weight, lifts, etc. Reading: Which sidebar content you've read (RPC and/or MRP) Finances: Current job and income quality, future prospects, debt issues Spiritual: How mature you are, how often you pray, have quiet times, share your faith, memorize Scripture, etc. You almost got em all. Edit the post and you will likely get better responses.
/r/RPChristians30/05/20 06:12 AM
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I think you nailed it on the head. OP sounds like a nice guy TM who is constantly orbiting his girl/in her frame. u/ChestHairAtWork, grow that chest hair out all the way before you consider marrying. That "chest hair" needs to include developing your own frame and mission (in Christ) AND reading the sidebar.
/r/RPChristians30/05/20 06:10 AM
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Yes, a more correct way of putting it would be to say is that we are supposed to make things better than they ever were before. This past reconciles Christ's mission to us and a bit of our desire for things to "Go back to the way things used to be."
/r/RPChristians29/05/20 04:52 AM
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No, but you don't need to. You just need to steward God's mission where you are. If it's part of the Christian Mission to reconcile the world with Jesus then shouldn't this be a given that we can and have to change the world? If you say no one can never change the world, then doesn't isn't that just like a victim mindset? Why would God give us the ministry of reconciliation if it's impossible to reconcile the world?
/r/RPChristians29/05/20 12:54 AM
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Sexual strategy = game. You're conflating game with manipulattion. Those who don't know how to play the game either settle or stay single (and very likely sexually frustrates).
/r/RPChristians29/05/20 12:49 AM
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Brother, I feel for you. You're putting way too much attention on the negative stuff. The red pill, in general, is full of guys with bad experiences. They have not vetted very well. They have not been a good leader in marriage. They have made women their mission. They are reactive, weak, egotistical, and majority of them come to the red pill because they are in a bad spot. There are plenty of guys out there though is that are living a nice healthy marriage full of tons of sex and their wife supp…
/r/RPChristians28/05/20 08:00 PM
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I would love to respond to this whole thing at length. I have some things I need to work on though. I think this would be a fantastic conversation to record next time we chat. Maybe getting u/OsmiumZulu to join us as well.
/r/RPChristians20/05/20 06:46 PM
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This is all fine and dandy if we're talking about just the government as our Authority, but it's blatantly obvious to anyone that can critically think that the government isn't the one calling the shots. It's people with enough money to sway influencer. So then the governing body isn't actually the government. Not that this isn't too different from corrupt civilizations from history. I guess another alternative would be to just become so rich is that you could pick and choose who will be leaders…
/r/RPChristians20/05/20 03:43 PM
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The system is irreversibly broken. The only solution is to get rid of it and start with a new one. I don't know what that looks like, but it would take a heap of time to formulate a plan in codify something. Then once enacted, assuming there is enough traction, there would be Mass confusion for quite some time. Probably even Anarchy. Not sure of the best way of doing it, but one way might look like getting groups of like-minded guys together that live close to each other and creating your own se…
/r/RPChristians20/05/20 02:46 PM
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Your security certificate is broken and it won't let anybody get to your website easily. You will not get traffic until you fix that
/r/askRPC04/05/20 05:58 PM
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Solid post! There's some really good things in there that a lot of guys can learn. Ty for posting that.
/r/RPChristians29/04/20 01:44 PM
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For starters, what are your stats? Basic rule #2 mate....don't be lazy. Stats: body fat, height, weight, lifts, etc. Reading: Which sidebar content you've read (RPC and/or MRP) Finances: Current job and income quality, future prospects, debt issues Spiritual: How mature you are, how often you pray, have quiet times, share your faith, memorize Scripture, etc. Edit your post with those in their then we can talk.
/r/RPChristians28/04/20 08:30 PM
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Apparently, this was a controversial post lol. 0 upvotes and 1 down when I got here...got some bluepill weiners lurkin round here. I really like the examples, but I think 3 was sufficient and then referencing the others would increase readership. Less is more. People Change: Can you imagine if Jesus used "compatibility" as a standard before making us any part of his bride? Solid! This would be worth talking about a bit more in the future. Might even be a phrase worth coining. ​ You missed someth…
/r/RPChristians26/04/20 03:35 PM
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It would definitely be worth the post or a topic to discuss in the podcast coming up to talk about the difference between terms and meanings in the Bible and how they've changed over time to what we have today. Especially in the context of what we talk about here.
/r/RPChristians25/04/20 06:03 PM
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Have you read the full sidebar? That would give you some idea of what you might want to put on that subreddit. If you haven't, as you go through reading the sidebar, take notes of things that would help to form this new subreddit. Also, they chat with u/Red-Curious would be substantially helpful if you really want to take on that endeavor. He did create a subreddit.
/r/RPChristians25/04/20 05:05 PM
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Tagging u/rocknrollchuck for your input here. You do a great job sharing the Gospel and talking ppl thru it.
/r/RPChristians12/02/20 01:31 PM
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Repenting is simply just confessing your sins to God and asking him for forgiveness. If you aren't saved though, then confess your sins to him, ask him for forgiveness, and then tell him that you want a relationship with him and are you giving your life over to him. If you sa these things and don't mean them thenn it's an empty prayer and nothing is changed. But if you're genuine and mean it you will be saved. "Because if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart G…
/r/RPChristians12/02/20 01:27 PM
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Either one will sound retarded if you don't socially calibrated. One framework is superior to the other, but the one you listed works as well. In the end it all comes down to what vibe you're exuding. If you're acting nervous, insecure, awkward and retarded then she's going to feel that Vibe and follow suit. And vice versa.
/r/RPChristians11/02/20 02:50 AM
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Great intro! Glad you are bold for him to your Muslim fam and peeps. Keep at it. I also believe apologetics should be taught, but in addition to applying them. Knowledge without application is pointless. You said something about an agnostic Christian girl..... Do you believe that you can be a Christian and saved while not believing in the only true God of the world? Also, if you read the sidebar, why are you "pursuing" a girl? RC did a great post on pursuit. Check it out - https://www.reddit.com…
/r/RPChristians09/02/20 03:13 PM
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I stand corrected LOL. You are correct.
/r/askRPC12/01/20 11:50 PM
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Roissy from Chateau Heartiste and Roosh V (who not so long ago swallowed the God pill - at least professes to as a now Catholic).
/r/askRPC11/01/20 04:27 AM
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The book Hormonal by Martie Haselton is a good starter. Rolo tomassi, one of the three Godfather's so to speak of the red pill, references the studies in this book regularly. Start there. You can also find a lot of information on the CDC and US Census Bureau with divorce statistics in correlation to amount of times a woman has had sex before legal marriage.
/r/askRPC09/01/20 08:07 AM
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Awesome FR broski!! Love hearin from guys about their journey. Keep hammerin! ​ My biggest failure here is knowing where I want to go but getting mad when my wife does not want to do it alongside me. Over the past few weeks, I have changed that and obviously there has been friction because of this but nothing I cannot deal with, but I will save that for OYS, this is already entirely too long. I'm guessing that your mission is to reach and disciple your druggie friends? If so, what's the plan aft…
/r/RPChristians07/01/20 05:16 AM
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This is what I find works for me is very well and when talking with some of my buddies they agree that majority of these elements are true for them as well. So if you think of your horniness levels (or ability to be tempted or whatev) as a glass with tiny tiny holes at the bottom and every time you view something that inclines you to be horny or makes you horny it adds liquid to that glass. The glass drains very very slowly, but it's really easy to fill it up or very quickly. Basically the more …
/r/askRPC30/12/19 05:46 AM
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Invite her to something you would normally do. If that's coffee thrn great
/r/RPChristians02/12/19 12:42 AM
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You : hey girls name, I'm doing XYZ on Monday at 7 p.m. . It'd be cool if you came along :-)
/r/RPChristians01/12/19 11:09 PM
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Awesome post me! This is definitely needed. I went through a phase like this and I know of other Christian read pillars that are going to a similar phase of despair. I agree that there should be a much greater focus on the positive than the negative. I think with scripture references (and capitalizing all those lowercase i's) this sort of post should be sidebar material because there's the anger phase those talked about, but I firmly believe that there is a despair phase that a significant amoun…
/r/RPChristians23/11/19 03:59 PM
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Just checked it out on mobile and it's easy to find. Desktop version is a little more difficult. Why not just copy paste the rules to lower the entry barrier to making a good post?
/r/askRPC09/11/19 10:10 PM
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Okay. It looks like it never got ported over or something like that. At least from my end of things. I believe I am viewing things through the old Reddit design.
/r/askRPC08/11/19 03:39 PM
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Any requirements for stats here? If we are making the shift to ask question here then there should be rules for this sub that include stats. I just have not seen any and I looked, but couldn't find any. I'm pretty tech savvy, so if they're here they aren't easy to find.
/r/askRPC08/11/19 02:40 PM
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MMM....stats? Also, this should be posted in r/askRPC, not here.
/r/RPChristians08/11/19 02:38 PM
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Glad to help mate!
/r/askRPC24/10/19 09:58 PM
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If you feel it necessary to tell her then just tell her what happened. It's pretty matter-of-fact. If you give off the vibe like it's a big deal then she'll follow your lead. But if you're just describing something that happened as matter of fact then it shouldn't be a big deal. If she gets upset at what happened or at you then you just need to hold frame and agree and amplify or if you have the mindset and frame of somebody who is amused at situations then that should be part of your frame when…
/r/askRPC19/10/19 08:34 PM
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Amen broski 😁
/r/RPChristians19/10/19 08:01 AM
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That sounds pretty spot on broski! Again, in the end, just don't get stuck in your head. As long as you're pursuing God through your mission and see a random cute girl in the process and want to see if she is interesting just go say hi:)
/r/RPChristians18/10/19 12:03 AM
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I'm just going to roll with the passive game name. I'll give the example of being a leader of some Ministry within a local congregation. As he is building his ministry in his Pursuit Of The Lord, he will begin to attract orbiters. The more he builds his ministry the more women will start to take notice of him. He will have more women to choose from than a dude approaching 1 woman on the street. On top of that, there will be constant preselection going in his favor.
/r/RPChristians17/10/19 11:21 PM
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Go crush life. Become more attractive. If you see a girl that's interesting go say hi to her. Be a social guy. Do both. The passive game, as you call it, can come off as being risk- averse. And on the opposite end of the spectrum, approaching can come off as try hard. There are pros and cons to both. I would say there is a bit more Pros to "passive game" than active game. At the end of the day who cares. Just don't get stuck in your head. Godspeed mate!
/r/RPChristians17/10/19 11:12 PM
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That might be a good start. Ty broski
/r/RPChristians15/10/19 12:28 AM
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Great book, but idk if he'll go for it since he'll discard any secular advice despite the truth in it.
/r/RPChristians15/10/19 12:27 AM
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Ty brotha
/r/RPChristians15/10/19 12:24 AM
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Thanks for the FR brotha!
/r/RPChristians12/10/19 02:37 AM
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Do you believe that the Bible, Old Testament and New Testament, are the written word of God? 2nd Timothy 3:16 Says all scripture is god-breathed and profitable for teaching, rebuking, correcting, and training in righteousness. If then you do believe that the Bible is is the written word of God then you need to read the Gospel of John. John, especially the first chapter, is insanely clear in saying that Jesus is God and that he was the creator of all things. John 1:1-3 says in the beginning was t…
/r/askRPC11/10/19 05:53 PM
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Weird this got downvoted.
/r/seduction07/10/19 06:23 AM
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Read all of 1 Corinthians. It will clear up a lot of things:) it shows us when something is Paul's opinion and when something is inspired. It also tells us it is better to be single but if you do marry you have not sinned. I believe it also covers that we should not intermarry with unbelievers. Intermarrying with unbelievers is a message throughout the whole Bible including the old and the New Testament though. God wants a people separate for himself. That's why he told the Israelites not to mar…
/r/RPChristians15/09/19 06:43 PM
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Whhhoooooohooooo a field report::))))) Great field report broski. I'll tuck this one away for a future rainy day.
/r/RPChristians13/09/19 05:59 PM
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It takes two to tango buddy. You sound narcissistic.
/r/RPChristians10/09/19 10:37 PM
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Busy processing an elk, but there is a lot wrong with this. Have you read the sidebar yet?
/r/RPChristians10/09/19 10:31 PM
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Yes, generally it is universal, but not always. Source = personal experiences.
/r/seduction02/09/19 06:00 AM
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Did King David confess to his other wives when he committed adultery with Bathsheba? Did he ask for Bathsheba's forgiveness or committing adultery with her and sending her husband to her death? No. For I know my transgressions, and my sin is always before me. Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight; so you are right in your verdict Psalm 51:3-4 This is the Psalm of him confessing his sin. 2 Samuel 12 is the setting for this Psalm. Repent. Confess to a brother or …
/r/askRPC30/08/19 12:26 AM
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Haha glad I got something out of all those years living for the flesh. Don't forget the props😜
/r/RPChristians15/08/19 04:51 AM
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That should be a post someday
/r/RPChristians13/08/19 07:21 PM
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The cognitive dissonance is hilarious when you realize what's going on. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/RPChristians12/08/19 07:44 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/RPChristians12/08/19 05:12 PM
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Very interesting. In fact, I would say this is "balls deep" interesting LOL. I don't have time to quote your direct text but one of the things you said in there reminds me of how the Bible described a magician, Simon bar Jesus as someone who believed but then shortly after ask to buy the power of the Holy Spirit and Peter rebuked him saying you have no part in us. Or something like that. Also, not quite sure if that was his name.
/r/RPChristians02/08/19 07:29 PM
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Rad analogy broski! Maybe I'll use that someday down the road LOL.
/r/RPChristians02/08/19 06:02 PM
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u/SkimTheDross 👌. To elaborate a little further, improve yourself Spiritually, mentally/emotionally, PHYSICALLY, socially, ect to the point where taking over the finances and having that convo isn't going to come across as going Rambo, but more like natural byproduct of you becoming the leader you should have always been.
/r/RPChristians28/07/19 10:52 PM
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I died a lil bit reading that🤣🤣🤣
/r/RPChristians27/07/19 01:44 AM
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Wouldn't be surprised if he came out as a legit f** few years from now. Ha, google voice text thinks that the word fag is worthy of being censored🙄 wouldn't want to be a bigot or anything...
/r/RPChristians27/07/19 12:57 AM
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Tsk Tsk... That response wasn't socially acceptable😜
/r/RPChristians25/07/19 07:59 PM
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Thanks for the tag! Never considered AMALT, but subconsciously I knew this. I have just never given a conscious thought.
/r/RPChristians23/07/19 07:59 PM
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As you probably guessed he has insecurities about himself that makes him seek validation from unhealthy sources. Ideally, he would only need validation from God or validation from his boss when he's seeking a raise or things like that. u/Red-Curious has a good post on the different types of validation and what is and isn't healthy. From the sounds of it, I think you are doing everything in your power to be a Godly wife. As others have said, you have a decision to make. Are you going to do everyt…
/r/RPChristians23/07/19 04:17 PM
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The Bible is clear that divorce is permissible (ONLY in the case of sexual immorality), but remarriage is not. That is unless your husband dies. ​ A wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord. 1 Cor 7:39 ESV ​ If you're doubting this due to scriptures like - "And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.” Matthew 19:9 ESV then you must…
/r/RPChristians23/07/19 01:02 AM
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You're in your family's frame. My buddy has this problem. Basic red pill stuff like lifting and changing your physique will really help. Is that mean problem is you suck at setting boundaries and keeping them with your family. If your family was a woman and she kept violating your boundaries what would you do? The caveat is your stuck with your family. You can almost think of your family like a wife in terms of setting boundaries in keeping them. One of the awesome byproducts of having healthy b…
/r/askTRP16/07/19 12:16 AM
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Virginity will always be a green flag if the guy is a genuine Christian. Don't worry about the rest. Keep vetting super hard and don't compromise waiting until. Here's some info for women in here: https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/6nhfri/advice_to_young_women_today_for_a_better_happier/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share This link also talks about what you can do to "increase your chances of marrying."
/r/RPChristians14/07/19 10:14 PM
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You sound a bit like King Solomon. I know you said your didn't want to be born again or anything, but Ecclesiastes might have a bit of what you're looking for. A wise book regardless of beliefs.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 02:56 AM
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Yep. Succinct way to put it.
/r/RPChristians12/07/19 08:32 PM
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I don't necessarily take this view, but to play Devil's Advocate, the church is composed of many people. Christ has a relationship with many people that make up the church. If many people make up the church, then doesn't that mean that Christ could be polygamist? Good post btw.
/r/RPChristians12/07/19 03:29 AM
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Hahahaha..... Yep.
/r/RPChristians20/06/19 05:45 AM
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The "updated graph" is F***ing brilliant...I died laughing when reading the descriptions of the pink areas and round brown area. Made my day broski😂😂 Also, I have never thought too much about those gravitational areas is that men can experience in a relationship and how it takes an increasing amount of effort to pass on to the next level so to speak. That was enlightening.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/19 09:03 PM
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Hit the nail on the head lol
/r/RPChristians09/06/19 03:43 PM
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Whoa turbo.. that escalated quickly. Sexual intimacy is the glue that holds a marriage together. Sex is closest type of intimacy we can have on earth and it is designed to point us our intimacy with God. As for the antichrist dark stuff... Yeh, not really bro.
/r/RPChristians09/06/19 03:43 PM
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Meh... It gives off a feminism vibe from what little I skimmed and was written by a women. Also, it's ~15 min read give or take 5. Your wanna give a tl;dr?
/r/RPChristians07/06/19 04:59 PM
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If you believe in The Big Bang Theory then you have to believe that there was death before Adam and Eve (in order for humans to be fully evolved into their current form) were kicked out of the garden. And we know that sin brought death, therefore if the big Bang Theory is true then there was sin before Adam and Eve.
/r/RPChristians05/06/19 06:59 AM
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The number one advice here is that you make Gods Mission your mission. It is not your wife and is not your family. How you going about doing that is in the sidebar and you always have the guy is here to help you out, including me.
/r/RPChristians02/06/19 12:48 AM
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Thanks for the shout out Broski!😁 u/JimmerJamm I'm putting a lot of time and effort into making disciples, studying what the church used to be (and how we can get back on track with God's plan), and creating my own supplement. I want a wife someday, but I have no idea where she would fit - all in God's timing though. Even if I don't get married I'll still have an awesome life and be making spiritual babies (disciples). What u/rocknrollchuck was saying about the identity thing is spot on and remi…
/r/RPChristians26/05/19 11:27 PM
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Thanks broski 😁
/r/RPChristians19/05/19 04:31 PM
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You totally got me on that one! I'll work on putting something out here soon. Probably in the next couple weeks. I have a pitch that I'm working on that I have to be stage ready for on Wednesday
/r/RPChristians17/05/19 04:47 AM
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Thanks mate! It is a pretty big struggle to get in all that content in the Instagram format. Eventually I'll probably do some cross-posting.
/r/RPChristians14/05/19 07:46 PM
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Thanks brother! I am certain that there will be some times where it really is going to build my faith. Probably when the feminists come out of the woodworks lol.
/r/RPChristians12/05/19 03:23 PM
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👌
/r/RPChristians11/05/19 03:08 PM
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Thanks brotha 💪😁
/r/RPChristians11/05/19 02:57 PM
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Technology has definitely had an impact on Christianity in the church. I'm hoping to be able to use it to reach a wider audience in the future.
/r/RPChristians11/05/19 02:03 AM
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Thanks brotha 😁 we'll be seeing a lot more stuff like this happening in the next year or two. I'm contemplating a yearly red pill Christian get together where we do something like a mission trip together or hiking the Pacific Crest Trail or something cool and manly. I'm super stoked to see what the Lord has in store over the next decade, especially if that includes the rapture.
/r/RPChristians11/05/19 01:37 AM
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Dude, we should def connect over the phone or something. What time zone you in?
/r/RPChristians11/05/19 12:46 AM
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Thank you Broski 😁🙏
/r/RPChristians11/05/19 12:45 AM
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All good points. And of course we should not give up😁💪 this discussion definitely warrants a much broader conversation. One that might be a topic for a podcast down the road. I definitely love to chat about tonight though after church.
/r/RPChristians30/04/19 04:38 PM
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I think u/Red-Curious already addressed this in this post https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/aslgro/addressing_the_blue_pill_hate_objectifying_women/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share And u/OsmiumZulu also addressed this in the 1st comment.
/r/RPChristians30/04/19 03:51 PM
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This sounds good in theory, but I'm not quite so sure. This is just based on the observations of the red pill and red pill women so far. That and the general observation of women policing their own hypergamy, which has been very ineffective. Rollo also shares this sentiment. Also, I think if we start seeing more women posting then guys will subconsciously start catering their posts. This kind of puts us in a pickle. On the one hand we know that women gravitate towards men who are strong leaders …
/r/RPChristians30/04/19 03:50 PM
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I feel you bro and see what you're saying. Like the other guy said, this sub is predominantly four men, but women can greatly benefit too. We are here to teach men how to be men the way the Bible teaches, which happens to be ten times more masculine than the soyboy Christians we have today. And, as a byproduct of teaching Christian men to be masculine again women will how to be women again (the the Bible teaches) becuase men will start leading women again.
/r/RPChristians30/04/19 03:37 PM
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Honestly it sounds like a personal trainer in an app. Except super tailored to whatever you want to do, including injuries. I'll be checking out, especially when I travel or don't have access to the gym.
/r/RPChristians22/04/19 05:27 AM
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Awesome:) Also, great post. From post: If a man asks a woman out on a date and she turns him down, should that man continue to try to be “romantic” and chase after her? Of course not! There's nothing a man can say or do to convince a woman to like him more. Even if by some measure he wears down her resistance and she capitulates, such a relationship will not work out in the long run because it was not based on her genuine desire to be in the relationship with him. Whether or not she actually act…
/r/RPChristians20/04/19 11:04 PM
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Started to read that book, but stopped when the author started talking about a husband should be pursuing his wife like Christ pursued the Church. Has that ideology changed?
/r/RPChristians19/04/19 11:38 PM
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Great comment and I agree with a good amount of things you said. ​ >I think it's marriage itself, as that is what helps produce the godly offspring, and in fact the rest of the verse goes on to say to be faithful to or don't betray the wife of your youth. Pursuing God first and foremost through your mission in the context of a marriage is what produces Godly offspring. ​ >It's focusing on the relationship, which in turn, helps bring forth the Godly offspring. Again you should not be focusing on …
/r/RPChristians02/04/19 12:46 AM
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Dude, I used the exact same term "superceded" until I learned very recently that physical offspring was never God's intention. If that was true then He would not have wiped the earth with the flood. The intention was always to produce Godly offspring. Malachi talks about this. Credit to u/Red-Curious telling me this👊 Did he not make them one, with a portion of the Spirit in their union? And what was the one God seeking? Godly offspring. So guard yourselves in your spirit, and let none of you be …
/r/RPChristians30/03/19 09:48 PM
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