Hey everybody, this sub has been growing really fast and we need you guys to help us so that we can help you.

1) This should go without saying, but if you're posting here and looking for feedback then you need to follow the rules and post your stats.

2) If you see a post where somebody is looking for a feedback, especially in relational or life situation, resist the urge to comment in response on that post. THEN report it and message one of the mods here.

I know a lot of you guys like to help and that's great. But giving advice without knowing the specifics of the situation means you have to assume a lot of things. And assuming things leads to a lot of wasted time and inappropriate advice.

*** General Life advice: if you want the best advice when posting on this sub make sure you keep your post relatively short, simple and give all the pertinent details (see rule 2). If you have to edit because you made it too convoluted or didn't follow the rules people rarely go re-read posts. So you just wasted your only opportunity. Use your first opportunity wisely.