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Brooo stop taking commenters on Reddit seriously. If people spend a lot of time on online forums then that means they have no life and I doubt they can actually score chicks irl
/r/askTRP20/10/20 12:06 PM
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what do you expect from people in this sub lol
/r/seduction15/06/20 11:54 AM
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Best advice is to stop following hot instagram models girl. I use insta to promote my music and build my network of musicians. It also motivates me to practice if see someone play much better than me but I get OP's point. If you don't have anything you really want to share genuinely without being needy then yeah stop using that shit. It's just that IG could be useful as well
/r/seduction06/05/20 12:46 AM
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I always say this whenever I see a “how to text girls” question here. GOOD IN PERSON GAME FIXES BAD TEXT GAME. If the girl likes you enough, you could text the dumbest shit ever and she’ll respond and make it easier for you to ask her out. bro you got the first step done. Based from your comments, you already know what you’re lacking and weakness in your game. Like what the top responder said, this is something you have to figure out yourself by trial and error. Use what you learned from these g…
/r/seduction08/04/20 01:43 AM
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Completely agree with this as well. I approached a lot of girls daytime that I went “instant date” with in a nearby pub or ice cream place but never heard of them again. I thought my game was “good” but not “good enough” yet to get the results I wanted. Instead of focusing on my text game and what to text them after the insta-date, I focused on improving my actual in person game and tried escalating as much as the situation allows me too with the mindset of “This might be the last time I’ll ever…
/r/seduction08/04/20 01:29 AM
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You’d definitely need these on girls you met on Tinder and while this are great advices I want to remind everyone that all of these advices won’t be needed if you have a good game when you met them in person. As long as you left them a good first impression when you met and the girl liked you on that initial meeting, you could text the stupidest shit and she’ll still respond or sometimes she’ll text you first. All you have to do then is prove you’re not a creep and you can ask her out. What I’m …
/r/seduction01/04/20 09:48 PM
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Try to be creative. Face to face date is better but you can try to suggest an “e-date”. Of course only if you are cool with cause some guys aren’t comfortable. I’d say “let’s have a drink together via Facetime” and then you can talk. If the girls like you enough they’ll agree since they have nothing else to do and probably on their dry spell as well (but these are girls I’ve before already not Tinder girls) Make sure the conversation is balanced between fun, flirty and some serious conversation.…
/r/seduction01/04/20 09:41 PM
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Basic rule, watch their actions not their words. Here’s an example Ex plate on the first few weeks: “I’ll be away from Wed till Friday but I can hangout with you on Friday evening and I’m also free from Sat until Monday” Ex plate after a couple months when I asked her out: “I wanna hangout with you but sorry I’m really busy, maybe next weekend but I’m still not sure?” (another vague excuse after I asked her out. Usually I give 3 tries) See the difference? In the first one she’s giving clear excu…
/r/askTRP24/03/20 11:19 PM
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That’s a very sensible answer. I guess I’m not yet high enough with those 3 things
/r/askTRP10/03/20 07:36 AM
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lol i like the last one
/r/askTRP10/03/20 07:35 AM
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makes sense
/r/askTRP10/03/20 07:34 AM
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Bro the fact that you tried setting up a date after her not responding is more cringeworthy. Never try to setup a date if she hasn’t responded yet positively. Just take this L and move on. You might still have one more chance cause I think she was really into you but don’t expect too much. Act like normally when you see her again and try asking her out when you see more IOI when you talk again.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 07:26 PM
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Diet is more important than exercise (not saying it's not important) Form over weights Consistency is the key Stretching and warming up is important. As you get older you get injured more easily. After the noobie gains, you'd have to be patient with your gains. Slowly but surely.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 03:25 AM
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25 here. I do Taekwondo instead of BJJ but I'm warning you to make sure you give yourself ample amount of rest. I do surfing as well and I tore my MCL while surfing because my knee gave up due to constant stress and lack of rest. I also tore my rotator cuff. I'd say limit lifting to 3-4 days and 2 days martial arts. I usually do martial arts on the days I lift and rest the next day. Make sure you have a day where you rest and don't do any sports or training. Then if you do another sports just do…
/r/askTRP22/01/20 06:02 AM
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while it’s true it’s not a good idea to approach women at work, it’s better than staying at home and jerking off to porn so well done OP
/r/seduction03/12/19 07:03 PM
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And I’m the opposite I hate going to clubs so I’d definitely not go unless she’s my girlfriend cause I won’t have fun and would look like an idiot OP our point is if you’re not gonna enjoy the event whether you could score or not then don’t go. Just do something more productive and wait for your date instead, it’s easier to escalate. I don’t know why I’m still replying when this should be in the sidebar wtf
/r/askTRP27/11/19 06:59 AM
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jesus fucking christ ask yourself if you want to go or not, if yes then go if no then don't go. If you go just be sure to socialise and be friendly with everyone, don't stick to her the whole night and don't be butthurt if she's getting friendly with other guys.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 04:36 AM
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true, think about it bro if a girl YOU LIKE asks you out on a date but you have to get to bed early that night, you’ll definitely suggest an alternative right like “how about tomorrow instead? i can’t eat that so we could just grab something nearby and chill near at the park/beach”
/r/seduction18/11/19 12:41 PM
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Can’t really give you a specific advice but read Millionaire Fastlane by MJ De Marco. I read it for the sake of learning how to earn more money but I learned about life instead and knew what I’m supposed to do. But I’m sure everyone here will agree that invest that money to yourself. Meaning spend it on stuff that will make a better person in the long run. I personally would advice you to start your own business.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 03:30 AM
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Even though this may sound cliche: the toughest persons (both mentally and emotionally) I met have gone through a lot of suffering and pain (war survivors and refuges, rape victims, cancer survivors) I have been through dark times myself that I almost died for real but I was able to conquer them. So now whenever I'm in a situation when people give me shit, when people are being dicks or ladies shit testing me a lot. It doesn't bother me that much and I can handle them well since I know i've been…
/r/askTRP10/11/19 04:17 AM
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I’m like you as well. I grew up in an environment where we roast each other so itms natural for me to tease everyone I interact with to the point where it offends them sometimes. In terms of seduction you should always be at the grey area. Too much teasing, girl will think you’re a dick. No teasing could make you look like a friend. Always be at the boundary. Two thing could help: 1. Tone down your teasing but increase the level of it little by little, if you think she was offended go one stage …
/r/askTRP09/11/19 04:51 AM
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reading OP’s history. Looks like she had a very crazy Ex
/r/askTRP06/11/19 08:23 PM
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ez money
/r/askTRP06/11/19 08:17 PM
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Funny that my last two Tinder experience are girls who look better in person than their profile, mostly mirror selfies and no bikini pics. I swiped right because I was horny af those days, turned out I got more than I wanted. Tinder is a hit or miss game. Use it but make sure it’s not just your main way of meeting women
/r/askTRP04/11/19 08:37 AM
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After my LTR dumped me, a lot of people gave me advices such as “it’s just one girl, there’s more to life than love”. But all of their advices just went through my head. I still kept on chasing her and begged her to come back. I’m imagining that will happen as well if you force “RP lessons” to him. Until one day I said “fuck it, tired of becoming a loser and want to be a real man” then somehow ended up here The best way to help your bro are 1. Always be there for him and support him 2. Introduce…
/r/askTRP01/11/19 04:31 AM
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I agree that you should be better at handling LMR and the commenters here gave good advices but I’ll give a totally different advice. Prevention is better than cure, you won’t have to worry about LMR if they don’t give you one. This will sound cheesy but if you connect with women emotionally they won’t give you LMR. Make sure they trust you especially if you give of the fuck boi vibes. You could make them attracted to you but if you don’t connect with them emotionally they won’t sleep with you. …
/r/askTRP31/10/19 01:46 AM
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I’m amazed some people answered this seriously
/r/askTRP28/10/19 01:28 AM
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same yet most people here preach "just be masculine and wear plain T's you'll be fine". That's definitely true but girls I smash often tells me the clothes I wear make me stand out from others.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 10:32 PM
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Lol acting emotional and feminine doesn't make him beta. Based from your description, he's the word per word the description of a Dandy in the Art of Seduction so I wasn't really surprised he gets laid a lot. EDIT: People here think having six pack Thor body == masculine lol what about gay people in the gym. Mark is masculine because: He DGAF what everyone else thinks if he wears female clothes He's passionate about his music especially on a genre which most people say it's dead. Add the fact as…
/r/askTRP10/10/19 10:31 PM
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Got the same problem before, I got you. It's because you don't escalate and touch her. Touching is what separates a friendly interaction w/ a flirty one. Search for kino escalation techniques. Another is like what the other guy said, is do the fuck eyes. During pauses, especially after a high point of the interaction (laughing or saying a compliment) look straight into her eyes while thinking you want to fuck her so bad. I don't know why but it increases the tension and it shows in your body lan…
/r/askTRP10/10/19 10:27 PM
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Most basic example you can use easily: Push - spiking their emotions negatively (teasing) Pull - spiking their emotions positively (compliment) Example: “You look really gorgeous (pull, positive emotions)... but it’s probably because I’m not wearing my specs (push, negative)” “I love that all black outfit of yours! (pull) where’s the funeral? (push)” which are esential to flirting. Verbal push and pull is just the tip of the iceberg. Too much pull will make you look like a clown/friend but too m…
/r/askTRP09/10/19 12:06 AM
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girl sneezes “Oh shit it’s a shit test” ffs how come people here overthink about absolutely anything. She might be busy or whatever the reason so she wants to resched it. Like what the other guy said, she set an alternative not “next time” The only question is are you down to meet up at 10pm or not? If yes then say OK if not then don’t agree. Simple as that
/r/askTRP08/10/19 09:53 AM
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Yeah as long as you make sure Tinder is your last option in meeting women it’s not waste of time
/r/askTRP22/09/19 08:36 AM
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OP's question is how you improved your game to get your plates.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 01:01 PM
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​ most underrated comment. yeah you'd look good with whatever clothes you wear if you're jacked af but people think your style will improve after you lift. It's not like you couldn't improve them together.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 12:59 PM
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Doing cold apporaches every day. I just go on my life then approach on my way home or to work to be more effecient in time. Daygame helps me to be more witty on the spot and confident to talk to people so when the venue is more social it is so damn easy to talk to girls because you’re like “fuck i can approach strangers and have insta dates on them, approaching a set is nothing in this party” Next is hanging out with someone who is a true alpha. Good way to learn is to find someone who is really…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 05:37 AM
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Basic compound movements. Focus more on legs instead of arms.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 06:57 AM
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Good shit music
/r/askTRP05/09/19 03:26 PM
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Doing good bro, coming from someone who games day game 80% of the time. Try to get their number on a “high” point e.g when you both laugh on a joke. Say something like “Hey you’re cool/funny, let’s hangout again” if you do that at the right time they’ll say “Sure” then you get her NUMBER, not snapchat not IG. It’s more personal and it solidifies it’s a man/woman interaction. If she doesn’t want to give her number and prefers IG/SC then it’s a good sign she’s not that interested. But if you have …
/r/askTRP05/09/19 03:20 PM
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I didn't know that Asians who play are popular now, interesting. But for sure not a lot white people I know can't play instruments. Yeah bro i still play guitar but I dropped the piano tho and focused on singing.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/19 12:06 AM
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Salute to you sir from a fellow Asian. I can relate to you that when failing, instead of getting discouraged, it lights a fire under my ass more and learn from my previous mistake and keep on trying. I don’t know if this is an Asian thing or not. I got that work ethic from my family when they forced me to study in school or piano/guitar. Advice number one is the most important. You’ll reach a point where you’ll get a few lays but will plateau. More advices and theories won’t help you. I’m still …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/19 08:22 AM
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It’s over man. I know it’s hard to swallow the bitter pill but this is her way of saying “I don’t love you anymore but I can’t say it directly so I hope you’ll notice that and do the breakup instead” This is how my LTR of 3 years ended (and most cases as well) which made me go into RP transformation. NEVER EVER CHASE HER as that would only destroy the slim chance of her getting her back. I say you get your shit together and keep on improving yourself and who knows she might come back but don’t c…
/r/askTRP01/09/19 11:43 AM
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This guy couldn't have said it better. Lifting is essential but it's not the solution to all BP problems like what a lot of people here think. You could be jacked like Arnold but still be beta af.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 05:22 AM
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username checks out
/r/askTRP01/09/19 05:12 AM
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Not spinning anything now but for the past year: -Cashier at a coffee shop -Waitress at a pizza place -Dating app -Dating app -Park during my lunch break -Walking in the park while going home from work (x3) -Archery class Best sex is the one is from the dating app. Prettiest are the ones I meet in park while walking home. The one that really liked me and got attached was the cashier Day game and cold approach is a cheat code. Yet people complain they don’t meet women. I never do night game. I li…
/r/askTRP31/08/19 09:35 PM
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Asian here as well. The most suited hair cut for most of us is the faded undercut. still depends on the shape of your face.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 10:40 AM
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I agree that you can't be fat and be attractive but that doesn't mean you shouldn't work on your game while lifting. Focus on lifting but improve your game/social skills as well. Your attractiveness isn't just attached to one particular trait of yours, it's a sum of all the good traits you have. You might be jacked af but if you don't have an amazing lifestyle and personality, you'll be stuck with the same problem. You'll get approached for good looks, but they'll stay because of your personalit…
/r/askTRP30/08/19 04:07 AM
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and if you have high SMV she won't cheat on you even if she's stuck in a 3rd world country without internet and communication for a year.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 03:59 AM
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When I was in uni I never used IG so you could survive. Do you have some hobbies that are worth sharing? If you do, then yeah. Not just for raising SMV but it is a good way to connect people and share your craft. I use my IG to share my music and the SMV part is just the side effect. I'm a still firm believer that getting numbers is better than IG. But it's a plus to get their IG as well. Just don't post anything you do and like girl's pics all the time.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 07:22 AM
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That’s true but fashion will increase your attractiveness a lot. Not just with women but you also get respected more by men. Like what Mark Manson said in Models, two important factors in attractiveness is “Fashion and Fitness”. If I would increase my attractiveness by even just 10% for dressing better then I would do it.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 03:25 PM
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What do you RP bros think about 500 days of summer? It teaches you how “love” has been romanticised by people. I love it because it teaches you the harsh reality of relationships, that it is not a happy ending like what mainstream media taught us.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 03:14 PM
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Lmao I bet . But I fell in love with nyc and I definitely want to live there . Barcelona just reminds me of my home country a lot . I’ve been meaning to visit Australia , I had tickets but had to cancel on them due to work and school. Would love to go there for a few weeks, and check out NZ aswell We have the same experience then, falling in love with a place not our home country, just different countries!
/r/askTRP27/08/19 01:03 AM
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LTR of 3 years broke up with me and got me devastated because all my future plans coincide with us being together. Hit the reset button, moved to another country and told myself I won't be a fucking loser anymore. Australia, you should move here bro! A lot of people from Europe/US move here especially in Sydney because the weather is amazing and a lot of pretty ladies as well from all over the world lol
/r/askTRP27/08/19 12:25 AM
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LTR of 3 years broke up with me and got me devastated because all my future plans coincide with us being together. Hit the reset button, moved to another country and told myself I won't be a fucking loser anymore.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 06:47 AM
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Same boat as you OP a few years back but with one of my cousin. First is be a good role model, show her you have a life mission (I'm pretty sure you have that) hoping you could inspire her to do the same. You can't really do a lot since you're away but messaging her from time to time helps; asking her how things are going so if she's having some trouble with friends or school you could give her advices instead of her resorting to drugs, drinking or sleeping around. It also helps as well that you…
/r/askTRP24/08/19 04:51 AM
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And if they are, take them for yourself. Why don't you take a seat? in Chris Hansen's voice
/r/askTRP24/08/19 04:41 AM
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take singing lessons and you will learn how to breathe properly and speak from your diaphram. Plus, singing is an amazing skill to have
/r/askTRP22/08/19 12:16 PM
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True and it's not like one reply can really help you. You read sidebar and books, apply what they teach then when something is not working on a specific idea out you ask questions.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 03:02 AM
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Perks of growing up in an Asian household is you could cook while in your sleep cause we've been trained to cook since we were kids. Doing this as a first date only happened to me once but it was with a low SMV girl but it's possible. I'd rather not do it tho cause it's more effort cooking and cleaning afterwards then you ended up not liking the girl afterwards. Classic drinks as first date is still is better but this is the best 2nd date. ​ EDIT: Or another thing that I do a lot as well is set …
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 12:31 AM
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Fr I feel like most of the replies here are just incels and MGTOW
/r/askTRP17/08/19 11:01 PM
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Since you are still trying out different things, are you open in trying Taekwondo as well? Biased since I do this but besides fighting you will also learn self-discipline and patience as it involves a lot of repititve movements. ITF is the traditional one that focuses on self defense while WTF focuses on competition. But if you have two choose between MT and BJJ, MT focuses on striking while BJJ on grapling. Like what others say just sit in class and see which one you enjoy. Good for you for doi…
/r/askTRP17/08/19 10:53 PM
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Looks like I should only make promises you can make. If not decide on the day itself. I realised as well that if it isn’t that important, I shouldn’t commit more than 2 days in advance
/r/askTRP17/08/19 09:31 PM
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Amenn 🙏
/r/askTRP17/08/19 12:59 PM
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Don’t forget travelling just to post and brag in IG lol Anyway here are my serious takes: Most men are also like that, spend their time just watching Netflix and video games Don’t easily judge a woman just because they don’t have hobbies, doesn’t mean their personality is boring. For me even if she doesn’t have a hobby as long as she’s smart and can go along with my banters then I’m cool with her. Are you sure you’ve already appraised their personality properly before you come to the conclusion …
/r/askTRP17/08/19 12:30 PM
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Join a club associated to your hobby. If you don't have one, find one and be good at it! It doesn't matter what it is, be sure you're passionate about it. All I did while I was your age was learn instruments and play sports after school which raised my SMV at HS. If you're good at it your hobby, SMV is definitely off the roof. Don't be just good at them as well. Be proactive and take leadership roles.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 09:45 AM
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Yeah, don’t worry most of us have the same experience as you. Read the section there about Law of less investment.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 10:47 PM
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You don’t have inner game OP. You don’t have that “I love myself first so I don’t give a fuck even if the girls don’t like me” TRP is about improving yourself and attracting girls is just a side effect. If you’re down to read (which you should), read Models by Mark Manson Edit: also not because you say “I love you doesn’t mean you’re beta” It’s not recommended but I have a friend who says that to girls yet he has more plates than IKEA chasing him and is more succesful than anyone in life. It’s a…
/r/askTRP11/08/19 09:45 PM
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If you haven’t read Models start with that, not a lot of night game techniques but it has the fundamentals
/r/askTRP11/08/19 04:15 AM
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This gives me hope I’m 24 and 5’7 lol any advice OP for non white and not jacked like me? I’m still in the process of bulking up and still working on my SMV and this is true, Tinder is not for LTR and shouldn’t be the only way for you to meet girls but it’s a good way to meet women while taking a shit or about to go to bed. idk why a lot of people in this sub hates Tinder
/r/TheRedPill04/08/19 02:22 AM
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+1 to this. I feel like OP wants us to give him blessing to cheat. Just break up with her. You’ll just end up having oneitis to her if you plate her.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 01:47 AM
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That guy is a fucking legend! like what others have described the dude, a Psychopath
/r/askTRP25/07/19 01:07 AM
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I'll try this next time. Thanks ​ Also for OP, if you're only free time is just one day then don't ask her when she's free and just say which day you can only meet her.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 05:24 AM
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+1. I sing and play guitar and I made an IG account dedicated to my music. Then another for my skateboarding tricks. I got a few people from the same area DMing me asking to meetup and I was able to widen my social circle.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 01:37 AM
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Isn't this unhealthy? I thought the purpose of RP is to be happy with or without women?
/r/askTRP19/07/19 01:32 AM
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tbh I've reduced flakes by asking a girl when she's free cause it gives them the feeling that you're considerate and that they feel like they made the choice but it's bad to just ask `when are you free?`. I read from a book that people will most likely to agree if they think it was their choice (I think it's 48 laws) What I usually do is I give a range. Example `Which days are you free in the next few days`? Then when she responds Tuesdays and Wednesdays that's the time I get assertive and say W…
/r/askTRP19/07/19 01:25 AM
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I hate clubs as well and I dread going there with the purpose of just meeting girls' ​ Have your read Mark Manson's models? There is a chapter dedicated there where you find hobbies that are social (where it involves events with a lot of girls) then you go to those events. That way you are enjoying the night or day plus you get to meet people not just girls.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 07:01 AM
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Hey mate, this is an amazing idea! Especially the rotation. I could apply this with my music and probably spend a few weeks till I finish an album then remove it from my cycle for a time. I'll definitely use this. Cheers!!
/r/askTRP09/07/19 03:49 AM
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I have a full sleeve of tattoos myself (and I could spend hours telling someone why I got each and everyone of them) and this might sound lame but please don't get it for the sake of women. It's a disrespect to the art :( ​ Some women love guys with tattoos, some are turned off by it. No women has ever told me "Oh shit you have some cool tattoos, you are attractive to me now". I was curious so I asked one lady in bed after we did it if my tattoos had some factors in making her attracted to me, s…
/r/askTRP04/06/19 11:25 AM
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that was a good way to put it thanks
/r/askTRP21/04/19 09:29 PM
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Cheers mate. I didn’t expect to give off the player vibe cause I thought it only happens to guys with top notch game. Need to review this. I think what I need to learn as well now is when to step back and push again. I thought that when she makes out with you, you already got her. I’m Asian who grew up in an Asian country where that is usually true. Need to get used to white girls and western dating where making out is like a freebie. Any advice on how to handle the shit test when she says you’r…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 09:00 PM
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none really lol
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:15 PM
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not the best advice but better than OP’s convos. This guy is polarizing like what others suggested.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 04:21 PM
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example say jokingly “yeah I can’t even look a girl straight in the eye how would I get laid”
/r/askTRP19/02/19 03:34 AM
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I read Models to pickup chicks. I learned more about life instead lol. +1 to this
/r/seduction16/02/19 10:52 PM
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Dafuq, I thought I’m the only one who feels like this. I find it easier to approach strangers since you’ll never see them again unlike in social circles. Need some advice related to this as well
/r/seduction13/02/19 05:55 AM
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Aren’t you supposed to approach even without IOIms?
/r/TheRedPill01/02/19 11:20 PM
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If getting blown off is frustrating you then it means you aren't approaching girls enough or not focusing on your own happiness that much, yet. You have to get rejected, blown-off and flaked a lot to the point where if you get flaked it doesn't sting anymore cause: You're already used to rejection You still have an awesome life. Flaked? At least I can play sports on that time, meet friends or spend time for myself. Meaning you have backup plans cause you're a busy man If you should still message…
/r/askTRP01/02/19 04:00 AM
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Congrats! Wait till you get your first date and you’ll feel even better.
/r/seduction30/01/19 11:08 PM
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Yeah makes sense that they won’t trust strangers. I learned that timing is important as well. I usually have success with tourist who are bored and about to leave. I find it weird tho that women aren’t likely to trust strangers who approach them but they are more willing to go on Tinder dates with people they meet online.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 08:54 PM
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Cheers, I needed that!
/r/askTRP28/01/19 08:49 PM
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If you get cute girls irl then stick to that and stop dating apps. In dating apps even average girls gets 1000+ likes so they’ll pick the male models level.
/r/seduction18/01/19 08:18 PM
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yeah that one. I wasn’t able to finish it cause I feel like he is contradicting himself midway
/r/seduction05/01/19 07:48 AM
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This book is the best. Life changging but somehow his 2nd book doesn’t resonate much to me.
/r/seduction05/01/19 04:16 AM
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Thanks for the encouragement guys. I know most of the stuff you guys have been saying. I just need the reminder and the encouragement. Thanks a lot
/r/askTRP18/12/18 07:31 PM
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totally agree. Asian living and Australia and I know the struggle. The moment you stopped classifying people in general as white and asian is the moment you’ll start getting better at this. Just see them as normal people. Sure you’ll get rejected a lot, but white men get rejected as well. Remember you only have 2 choices, either you give up or get better at this.
/r/seduction07/12/18 11:32 AM
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This in inspiring bro. I also have a Filipino ethnicity and migrated into a white dominated country.
/r/seduction20/06/18 04:58 AM
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Sit in the bar. Talk to the first person who sits next to you. Then once you gain momentum start hitting on girls on another tables. Did that in Japan and got some success. It’s also a big plus if you can speak their language. Just make sure you are not alone in a corner sipping your drink, that would make you look creepy.
/r/seduction10/02/18 02:28 PM
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This lol. OP, If you are not that good looking then stay out off Tinder, or other online dating. Girls in Tinder usually swipe right because of something superficial like your looks so if you are “ugly” then stay out of that. In dating, before you can have some conversation to attract a woman, you have to break their first wall first. In Tinder that would be difficult if you are not good looking. Meanwhile in bars/clubs or anywhere irl, you can carry yourself in such a way that you are oozing wi…
/r/seduction18/01/18 04:12 PM
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This is a mathematical equation that is so much older than Einsteins e=mc2 or Isaac Newton’s gravitation rule and it’s proven scientifically: Aggressive girls > Hot girls Learn how to flirt, make your motives more visible.
/r/seduction18/01/18 04:00 PM
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Just like what everyone here says just be yourself but don’t forget to bring your A game and remember that this girl is a potential girlfriend so bring all you seduction / attractions moves with you. Don’t use the “the weather is nice” topic starter. I had one date that we were set-up I just did “be myself” because I was confident I’m also her type but that’s not the case. Also, it’s not just you selling yourself to her, it’s also her selling herself to you. With this in mind, you would be more …
/r/seduction18/01/18 03:56 PM
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