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You're a year late to the discussion lmfao But I'm in the Midwest.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 09:42 PM
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Warning, long post but I want to share with OP how I used to be in a very similar mindset and how I got out of it, and I think OP needs to hear about some good this situation can bring. Note, there is a TL:DR for those who don't like reading longer posts. "I'm this, I'm that, I'm this, I'm not that" Man, think about what you are, and what you can be. No woman, no man, no one owns you, so own your damn self and make something out of it. I honestly felt in the exact same boat a few years ago, I'm …
/r/MensRights07/12/23 10:12 PM
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Thank you! I will, and you do what makes you happy man, enjoy your life too, it's short, sweet, and it can't be beat if it's lived in the best way for you.
/r/MensRights26/08/23 01:16 AM
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Good times, create weak men? I'm sorry if I find that a little bit, strewn- but how is that so? I mean, hard times, can indeed toughen folks up, but it necessarily make you stronger. And a lot of folks, they don't come out so strong after. But still, what do you mean by hard times and good times? And how is it that weak men create hard times for other people?
/r/MensRights25/08/23 11:00 PM
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I like that way of seeing it, and I do really appreciate your honesty. The only place I really disagree, is social representation isn't what makes me a man, same as anyone else. What makes me a man, is the pure and simple truth that I am one, that is the truth in myself. Just the same as a man who was born biologically male is a man. It's, kinda hard to explain I guess? But the best way that I can put it, and what makes me this way, is a personal truth. Being transgender, being a man, or a woman…
/r/MensRights25/08/23 07:44 PM
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"Wish everyone could work together for everyone's benefit." Ain't that the damn dream. I too wish folks would just set aside their personal beliefs, and work for a common good, but that's just the way it is. But still, I try to do that for others, as good things don't just magically happen if everyone just sits down yknow?
/r/MensRights25/08/23 04:07 PM
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Huh, I suppose it would play a role where you live, and how you were brought up that would affect how you see it, so that makes sense. I guess, I see it in the way that all those things, are just traits. I don't really see a difference between men and women, I was never taught to. My whole life I was just taught that people are people, all shapes, sizes, colors, just people. And traits like being nurturing or protective, those are just traits, anyone can express them, anyone can conform to them,…
/r/MensRights25/08/23 04:05 PM
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Ah I get you now. I guess I was confused by the terminology at first, but thank you for clarifying. I guess for me though, as a trans man, being "male" is a biological thing. I mean, I am a man, but genetically, I am female. But female and male are just genetic makeup and biological terms, if I am going to a doctor about a problem related to my biology, then yeah I'm not going to be diagnosed and treated in the same way a man would, but socially and in my way of life, I am a man. That's how I've…
/r/MensRights25/08/23 04:00 PM
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I've been saying "Let live as desired, with respect, and live how you wish" all my life. It is one of the fundamental beliefs my entire family shares, it is your life, live it how you enjoy it most, love who you love, live how you want, as long as you are not hurting anyone or anything, and you are being respectful towards others. I am glad to see that's a very common and shared viewpoint, as I truly believe it is one of the most mutually respecting and correct views of life. Now I don't typical…
/r/MensRights25/08/23 03:55 PM
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I never said they weren't welcomed happily or anything, just that reputation plays a large part in people's first impressions of a community. And as you are, I am just speaking from my personal interactions with other queer folks online and in real life, I obviously don't have a scientific paper on the reputation of MRM within the nuanced communities of individuals, but of what I know, I have said here. If I can ask though, where did the whole Tate part come from? I'm not discrediting it in any …
/r/MensRights25/08/23 03:52 PM
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I appreciate the response, thank you! And I couldn't agree more personally, I've never held any expectations on anyone, or even myself, because of what other people decided they are, or even because of what they decided they are. I don't believe in any sort of generalization, especially one that so binary and simple when it comes to a species as diverse and complex as human beings. We are all far too individual to be put in any labelled boxes, there are no fundamentally shared traits among peopl…
/r/MensRights25/08/23 03:48 PM
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My exact ideology. Let live as desired, live your own way. I full heartedly believe that as long as you are not hurting anyone, or disrupting other people's lives, do WHATEVER the fuck you want to do, (within obvious reason of course), but love who you love, enjoy your life the way you want to, find the religion that is right for you, or none, live by whatever code you think you belong to, and enjoy life. It's your life, you are the sole owner of it, you are entitled to do as you wish with it, a…
/r/MensRights25/08/23 03:41 PM
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Appreciate the response, thank you Why is it you believe those things should be something men should focus on in their lives? Those are all good qualities of course, (the actual definitions of them I mean, not society's version of Hercules), but why are those things important for all men to focus on in your belief?
/r/MensRights25/08/23 03:38 PM
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Appreciate the response, but if I may ask: Why is it you believe the search for personal fulfillment and happiness is meaningless without a traditional life to build it off of? I've personally found a great deal of joy and fulfillment in the life I live, I never really wake up without thinking of the person I love, or thinking about visiting my family or going out. I am very happy in life, and I am that way because I let go of people's expectations of me, and I began to focus on a simpler life, …
/r/MensRights25/08/23 03:36 PM
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Appreciate the response, as always. But care to elaborate on that? As in, how so, and why?
/r/MensRights25/08/23 03:32 PM
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Thank you for the response! I find a lot of truth in this, especially in my own life being a trans man and having to find out what it meant to be a guy. But it took me some time in my life to realize that it wasn't something I could just do, it's just who I am. It didn't mean doing anything in particular, or acting a certain way, it just meant being who I was as a person for me. Now, I never cared about being perceived as masculine or feminine, I never did it for society's view of me, or to be a…
/r/MensRights25/08/23 03:30 PM
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I love this kind of response, genuinely! You broke it down and applied your beliefs individually, and even shared a bit of your own past, and I really appreciate that. I like seeing this kind of engagement because it really pushes that this sub is open to talking about things with experience and mutual discussion. And love that bit at the end lol And personally, I've always been the kind of guy who just did not give half a damn about what others thought, especially since I find so much joy in pe…
/r/MensRights25/08/23 03:23 PM
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Honestly, that's what I came here hoping to expect. I wanted a vast different amount of opinions, I wanted to see what individual people had to say, not just the whole sub in unison. It's hard to find that sometimes, but when you can, it can be a very interesting experience that can really help you find more truth in your own beliefs. And just find out more about the community in general
/r/MensRights25/08/23 03:18 PM
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Thanks for the response! And yeah, I know that this sub can be quite heated in debate sometimes, and it's generally more encouraged to discuss things than other subs, but that's kind of what I like about certain subs. The ones where people are more encouraged to debate things, if it's in good faith. I understand that this is internet, and no matter what you post or believe in, there will always be people who have strong opinions opposing yours, but that can be an interesting part of the situatio…
/r/MensRights25/08/23 03:16 PM
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I think that perfectly sums up my feelings about it, I have zero faith everyone will ever agree on everything, because that's an unrealistic goal, but if we can be mutually respectful about each other's opinions, and not push it on anyone for our own ideology, then that is the best scenario
/r/MensRights25/08/23 03:13 PM
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Exactly, but it's sadly a much bigger problem than you'd think, especially in places where it's quite important
/r/MensRights25/08/23 03:11 PM
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I fully agree personally, but I am confused as to what you mean by "I believe they are all men, even if they don't"? Just curious on that
/r/MensRights25/08/23 03:10 PM
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Because as someone who is trans and bisexual, and who frequents LGBT spaces a lot, there is usually a generally negative misconception in those places about the Men's Rights community. I'm not saying that everyone in those spaces believes in those harmful misconceptions and false information, but those in places, there is a lot. I'm not exactly sure why? But especially in my talks and discussions in said places, a lot of people there have believed the Men's Rights community to be something it's …
/r/MensRights25/08/23 02:18 AM
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On the "more traditional" point, I said that because generally I think of more traditional as meaning more along the lines of there's generally less LGBTQ folks here. I didn't mean traditional quite along the lines of the "traditional family dynamic" or anything. To add to that, I know there is quite a large number of folks here that happen to be queer, but generally I see less of them. Anyhoo, thanks for the response!
/r/MensRights25/08/23 01:48 AM
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In every community there will be people who hold ideals and beliefs that will not align with yours, but that shouldn't stop you from attempting to connect with the vast majority of those who do see you as just as much a man as anyone born with a dangly skin stick lmfao You will likely come across people who may be transphobic outright or may not be understanding and may hold transphobic views or ideology, even if they themselves are understanding, but such is the course of traversing a new commu…
/r/MensRights06/08/23 09:41 AM
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I personally think she is a genuinely good person, with good intentions, but doesn't fully understand men, being a woman. However, I don't see what your point was by saying "sometimes men don't want to show emotions, they don't want to wallow in self-pity", no one to my knowledge wants to wallow in self-pity or always show emotions, all human beings have times of self-restraint and control of their feelings, that is apart of what makes us human. Giving men the room to show emotion, doesn't mean …
/r/MensRights06/08/23 09:37 AM
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I am incredibly glad to hear you beat your skin cancer and got out of that abusive relationship! I know a lot of people don't have that kind of strength to get out of those situations, and it means so much when I get to see people talk about their personal wins in life, because it reminds me that even though I don't live the best life, I always have a chance at something more, and I like to preach that. And I fully agree with the "man up" trope being bullshit, it's just a harmful and problematic…
/r/MensRights25/06/23 08:03 PM
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I cannot believe a bunch of fully grown adults told a goddamn five-year-old to man up and take care of the house and family, that's horrible... Kids should be free to be damn kids and grieve just the same as anyone else, you can't expect a kid that young to understand that, to understand the meaning of those words. I am incredibly sorry to hear how you had to go through that stuck in your own mind, and I truly hope to the Gods above and below you have made it out of that okay, though if you stil…
/r/MensRights25/06/23 04:09 PM
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That's understandable, but good on you for not letting others rule your life! And if you are the kind of person to make a few amazing friends rather than a bunch of decent acquaintances, then I hope you find the best folks out there man.
/r/MensRights25/06/23 04:05 PM
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That is absolutely atrocious, I am so sorry this absolute bullshit happened to you. I hope you can someday find peace after all this, though I know that's easier to say than to do. Thank you for your response, and my heart truly goes out to you, I cannot imagine the weight you must've felt in your heart after hearing that news...
/r/MensRights25/06/23 04:03 PM
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That is honestly great to hear that you have found a better community and closer people in your life, I am super glad you found that! I hope things continue to improve for you, thank you for taking the time to respond to my post :)
/r/MensRights25/06/23 04:01 PM
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Mostly due to a lot of the folks who act as role-models for the MGTOW communities. And a lot of the time you see MGTOW folks being really ridiculously harsh or sometimes downright dehumanizing towards women. Through my lurking in Reddit in various communities, I've seen a LOT of dudes use ridiculous wording like "femoids" or "money-suckers" and other various dehumanizing shit to describe women. Now there are a lot of great guys in the MGTOW loop, I'll grant you that. And the group itself doesn't…
/r/MensRights31/05/23 04:18 PM
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Ha! Weird is fun! Being normal is boring and unfulfilling. But being your little weird self makes everything 10x more fun, especially with other little weird people lol
/r/MensRights31/05/23 02:55 AM
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You're welcome man! And don't worry, I get it, you don't have to say much lmao Really though, best of luck finding your love bug, they tend to weasel into your life when you least expect it, so maybe lower your guard a little bit, give somebody a chance that you wouldn't normally, you never know!
/r/MensRights31/05/23 02:46 AM
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We need to be old for that? Me and my Dandelion are doing that already!
/r/MensRights31/05/23 02:43 AM
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OMG Right? That has been my golden rule for ages. If we're mad at each other, we wait until we're not, and then we explain calmly why we were, how to fix it, and we hug it out and/or fuck it out, excuse my language lmao No relationship is perfect, and we understand that. But we both try our hardest for each other to make it as much of an adventure for each other as possible. Because life is short, sad, and often times ridiculous. But with her, it's short, fun, and just as ridiculous, but sometim…
/r/MensRights31/05/23 02:33 AM
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I feel you man. But listen to me, DON'T, GIVE, UP. It took me years of trying and feeling like dying, and then one day I found my current woman, and all of the horrible shit I've gone through has seemed like nothing. It was all 10000% worth it. I cannot express how much I would absolutely, no hesitation go through the HELL that the dating game was 1000 times just to meet the girl I have. She's everything to me. She's not perfect, but she doesn't try to be, and she accepts that I'm not either. Sh…
/r/MensRights31/05/23 02:26 AM
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What hasn't been at this point man? Every side has "cancelled" the other, at this point it means nothing.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 02:16 AM
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A lot are, society is really, really harsh to everyone involved in a relationship, and a lot of people are getting hurt by each other, and they don't know how to heal. So they just seethe and stay perpetually angry and argumentative at each other. It's really upsetting to see to me personally. I have an incredible relationship with my woman, and we complete each other. We both have had ups and downs, we've hurt each other sometimes, but we healed, and we fixed it together as a team like partners…
/r/MensRights31/05/23 02:15 AM
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Apparently they're all about not being tied down by a relationship and not "letting women distract them" from living fulfilling lives. And mostly working for themselves and their own benefit. Sooo... I dunno take from that what you will- But don't take my word for them, I'm not one myself so I don't know that much about it.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 02:11 AM
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"Men Going Their Own Way", it's a group with a lot of stigma as one of those "women hate groups", but it's really just an ideology of men who distance themselves from traditional gender norms and work for themselves and their own benefit, and typically don't like or participate in relationships.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 12:55 AM
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It's a group that stands for "Men Going Their Own Way".
/r/MensRights31/05/23 12:53 AM
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No worries man, I'm just glad you got that off your chest and I don't mind you doin' it here at all. Some folks just don't understand the impact they can have on you, and how long it can last. It can be horrible, I know
/r/MensRights30/05/23 11:21 PM
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There is literally a "WARNING: Some other subs have bots that will ban you if you post or comment here." message in the description of the sub. However, it's completely stupid that some subs have that bot, I just find that to be an utterly ridiculous attempt at gate-keeping communities.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 11:18 PM
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When did I ever say that? I just said I've never seen it in person, and thus I have a hard time believing it's as much of a constant as everyone says on the internet. That's all. The objective reality is obviously comprised solely of factual evidence that can be proven without any case of contradictions. Otherwise it'd be known as subjective or a case majority. Objectively, it is true there are women who care far too much about height and earnings, sure. But it is not objectively true that ALL w…
/r/MensRights30/05/23 11:15 PM
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I kinda think that's how it is for all people really. It's easier to say you're a good person than be one, and as for them calling you cheap after- Let's be honest, unless folks break up on good terms, chances are one of them is going to try and hurt the other with words and "get the last laugh" or some shit. Don't listen man. If they didn't mind during your relationship, ~they didn't actually see it as a problem, and are just saying it is to hurt you afterwards~ I've seen guys and gals do this …
/r/MensRights30/05/23 10:07 PM
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I personally will never "legally" get married either, but I do live with my woman and quite happily so. I am sorry you had to go through the hell that is the American domestic court, I've been face to face with a judge before, though thankfully I had video evidence, witness reports, and no room for bullshitting so the case went easily enough. I can't imagine a divorce court though, so I truly empathize with you. My only advice for your relationship, is don't let the distance between you cause a …
/r/MensRights30/05/23 09:47 PM
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No women I've ever dated has ever cared about my height or my earnings, the only questions that have come up about my salary is if it could sustain me, them, and any future family we had. Which is a completely understandable question, and one I often ask them. I've only ever heard and seen this stuff on the internet. And out of all the dates I've been on, there have been times they've paid, I've paid, we've split it. Then again, I've also dated a lot of guys so I guess I have a more rounded view…
/r/MensRights30/05/23 09:41 PM
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Ah, that makes a lot more sense. I was genuinely confused on what the fuss was about to be honest, because after 30 minutes of scrolling it I couldn't find much but women talking about their day to day lives.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 09:38 PM
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Incredibly helpful and insightful information, thank you Sherlock.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 09:36 PM
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I've not really heard of them before, what's the sub about? I went and looked and it just looked like a place for women's issues, kinda like this one is for men's issues.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 08:35 PM
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So I guess I'm living in an entire town/community of exceptions? I really just have never had those kinds of experiences. And it's not that I'm not accepting, I just don't follow it. I don't care if someone is MGTOW or not, and I personally am not. I feel like sometimes men and women's views of each other are very, very skewed by what the media portrays, and sometimes we forget that online isn't the same as real life, and what is depicted is always through a biased lens, as where real life has n…
/r/MensRights30/05/23 08:25 PM
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I can understand most of that, not so much the part about woman being materialistic in nature, but the lot of that yeah. For me, I'm kind of the opposite. I generally like being alone, but my partner has made my life much, much better and more fulfilling to me. And she's never really been one for material. I don't have a lot to give, I live in a poor area and she's never once complained about money or material, she's always known I have nothing to give but love, and that's more than enough for h…
/r/MensRights30/05/23 07:15 PM
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Fair enough I suppose? I guess, my only question is why? And how do you feel about women in general? I feel like there's always so much stigma around every group, so I like talking to those actually in those groups to see how it actually is and not just pick the few bad apples.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 06:32 PM
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Well now that makes a lot more sense. I was mostly got so angry because of Weirdsideomines other comments on my post
/r/MensRights15/05/23 02:15 PM
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Wha??? The hell are you even referring to? Me asking a simple and mostly non-controversial question on a subreddit MADE FOR THAT EXACT PURPOSE is now considered creepy?? Apologies is you're referring to something else and if I am assuming things, but seriously what do you people not understand about SIMPLE GODDAMN FUCKING CONTEXT. I've had more fluent and in-depth philosophical conversations with TODDLERS than a lot of people on Reddit.
/r/MensRights15/05/23 02:07 PM
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No, idiots with god-complexes impose their ideals and feel morally elevated, but I've honestly never met a Vegan in my life who was like that. Sorry if that happened to you, but you can't say all Christians are god-fearing gay haters who all feel morally superior to people who aren't Christian. Because they're not. Sure, SOME might, but that's a small minority in Christian culture, and even smaller when it comes to sects. Vegans are the same, MOST Vegans are just good people, who don't go on and…
/r/MensRights15/05/23 02:04 PM
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Oh? What's that? I have a differing opinion and I've been in groups that aren't toxic man-hating cesspools because I know how to debate things without arguing? I must be a troll. Not at all like I've given actual valuable feedback and even learned from some people in this thread 🙄 But seriously, if I was trolling, wtf do I gain from that? What do you gain from calling it out? If I have learned important views here, and other people have learned from me, WHAT IS THE PROBLEM.
/r/MensRights15/05/23 01:53 PM
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I've had a LOT of discussion in feminist groups and I've never seen this so called holy grail of rage bait pal
/r/MensRights14/05/23 06:24 PM
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What? No, seriously. What???
/r/MensRights14/05/23 03:50 PM
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I suppose I can see that. Thank you for your feedback
/r/MensRights14/05/23 03:46 PM
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I fucking hate people like you who make a statement and provide literally no context even when asked. And then pretend like it's "so obvious". If you have literally nothing to add to my post, don't comment. Your response was literally the most useless I have gotten so far.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 03:44 PM
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Couldn't agree more man
/r/MensRights14/05/23 03:41 PM
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Ahhhhh apologies for my assumption then, good on ya lmao
/r/MensRights14/05/23 02:25 PM
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A. Whom? B. If you're just becoming a mod to exert force on people you don't like, you're the problem.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 02:18 PM
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"These people suffered so it's not so bad that those people are suffering now" Is basically what I heard from that, correct me if I am mistaken though. And yeah, it sucks, and it is life, but there's always something you can do about it. What did the black/Irish/Asian/Hispanic slaves do about it? RALLIED UP and done fixed it. What did the women do when they couldn't vote, fight in the military, or work most jobs? THEY RALLIED UP and done fixed it. It's just another part of the cycle, and after u…
/r/MensRights14/05/23 02:15 PM
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If you saw my other comments you'd have seen my view on this, but I never said feminism was an enemy or even a terrible thing, and I fully agree, there are horrible people in EVERY group you can imagine. I simply said in my original post that there was a lot of negativity towards MRA in the feminist subs on here
/r/MensRights14/05/23 02:12 PM
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A pawn? Really? Just because I focus on different problems makes me a pawn now? And I thought MRA was all about seeing the different problems different people have in life.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 02:10 PM
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I know it's never as easy as it looks on the page, but what else have we got man? The world hasn't gone to hell, it's not as bad as everyone says, we're not all dying tomorrow like all the news points to. But people focus way too damn much on all the bad in life and never stop to enjoy a nice cup o' joe in the game room anymore.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 02:04 PM
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A lot o' folks laugh when I mention them, thinking they're all in the past. But look around man, it's still everywhere
/r/MensRights14/05/23 02:00 PM
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Also can't discount your experiences, but I live in a very progressive community in my town of mostly african-american and hispanic folks and a LOT of LGBTQ+ couples and supporters around here. Everyone's pretty close and discrimination against ANYONE is usually dealt with by people when the cops aren't around, sooooooooooooo there's that. Hate and discrimination is just really frowned upon here, and our pride march is HUGE so I think that's why I've had an easier time than most in the communiti…
/r/MensRights14/05/23 12:53 PM
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All too true friend
/r/MensRights14/05/23 12:50 PM
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There's no room for confrontation in a world bigger than ideology can fill alone. There is always a way to get your word out without fighting, even if it's much, much, MUCH harder. Feminism isn't an enemy or an obstacle to Human rights, it's a puzzle. And sometimes you can fit a puzzle piece in a spot it isn't cut for if you're smart enough, or too damn stupid to stop trying. I, do not know yet which I am, but I am going to KEEP SHOVING THAT GODDAMN PIECE IN. As for an idealist? Nah, I'm just op…
/r/MensRights14/05/23 12:46 PM
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Damn man, I appreciate that really. Though as a simple man I'll likely live the simpler life in the blessed circles I have. I'd rather live in ignorant bliss than truthful rage myself. I've always been the kind of person who had too big a heart, and no room for hate in my life, so I think it's blue that I'll do
/r/MensRights14/05/23 12:42 PM
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Nah, nah man. Vegans are usually really great people, they just have to deal with a lot of shit because the bad ones are usually the ones EVERYONE thinks about when you hear the word vegan
/r/MensRights14/05/23 12:39 PM
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Yeah. The fight women have fought all of human history to be allowed in the military in the nations that didn't allow female soldiers has been insane. Drafts are disgusting and should never be employed unless 100% necessary and even then it should be a vote. So no one can blame them for not liking the idea of drafts, but the hypocrisy of wanting soldier status without the draft is inconceivable.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 11:56 AM
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Which isn't entirely their fault, there's so much oppression on both sides they hardly have time to see the pain in their "enemy's" eyes and not just the pain in theirs
/r/MensRights14/05/23 11:38 AM
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Eh, there's wretched assholes who are liberals, and wretched assholes who are conservatives lol I've always believed if you grow up one thing, and one thing only, you'll never realize how right or wrong you were. Or how much you actually had in common with your enemy as you thought. Also, if it means anything from an old asshole farmer from the middle of nowhere, that steak was well-deserved. I hope it was cooked to perfection for ya pal lmao
/r/MensRights14/05/23 11:28 AM
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I'd appreciate not to be called blind, I may be young, but the only blind aspect of mine is my wretched devil-cursed eyesight lmao Though from my experience, the bad ones are the ones with the loudest voices, and so they get seen and heard the most. But truly, most people of all movements are actually genuinely good people who fight for a cause. I fight for human rights, and I've never had a heated debate with an MRA or a feminist. Though the part about people trying to silence the angry, I've s…
/r/MensRights14/05/23 11:25 AM
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I can see that yeah
/r/MensRights14/05/23 11:21 AM
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I've always hated the whole "men vs women" outlook. It's childish and laughably short-sighted. A much better one is men AND women, fighting inequalities we both face to fight for a better future for our poor damn children to live in. I've never been a men's rights or women's rights activist because I don't believe in two separate movements. It's HUMAN rights to me, innocent men should not have their children taken away, women should have just as much opportunity in the working field, PEOPLE shou…
/r/MensRights14/05/23 11:20 AM
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Until we start fighting the REAL bad guys, like supremacists, eugenics supporters, and anti-LGBTQ movements as allies, men, women, and all, we'll never have peace between us
/r/MensRights14/05/23 11:16 AM
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The day we shout "equality for all" from the same castle instead of two opposing ones from opposite sides of the battlefield, is the day we'll realize we all struggle impossibly hard in life because of our own mistakes and those of others.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 11:15 AM
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The worst protesters I've ever had to deal with were vegans on our farm, but I can't hardly imagine the feeling of that shit. My heart goes out to you dude, I couldn't have been able to deal with that. Over here, I've never even seen such a sentiment, most of my community is African-american and Hispanic, with a ton of interracial couples and families so that stuff is very, very frowned upon here. I've never really noticed a divide between white and black people here, but I've heard it's horribl…
/r/MensRights14/05/23 11:13 AM
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While a lot of that I've seen, and it always sucks for someone like me. I've been a victim of quite a lot of shit in my life being a trans man, but nothing at all like you see on the internet. Honestly, it seems like there's more bias online towards heterosexuality and cisgendered folks more than there is towards men. Though of course, that doesn't make either more important in any way. Though something interesting I've noticed, in most LGBTQ+ communities, I've noticed I've had almost a sort of …
/r/MensRights14/05/23 11:09 AM
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I've definitely noticed an absolute ton of that around Reddit. Though I've noticed this place is nothing like that at all from everything I've seen. At least, nowhere near as bad.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 11:02 AM
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I've never been one to label myself as a feminist or MRA or anything, mostly because no matter who you are or what you advocate for, there'll be hardship. Everyone suffers something, so I've always wished it didn't have to be Women's Rights vs Men's Rights, and just be Human Rights... Neither women's rights or men's rights are more important than the other, so I've never seen a good reason to say I'm one or the other. I've always hated seeing the seething hatred between people whom in reality, a…
/r/MensRights14/05/23 10:59 AM
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oh! That actually makes a damn lot of sense, this being one of the few places to share horror stories that women and women's groups have inflicted on certain individuals would understandably cause a pretty loud echo chamber and hate-magnet around here, but at the same time while it may seem disingenuous, it's really just a gathering of bad experiences that just makes it seem worse than the community is, in spite of the metric ton of good and positive stuff that goes on here. Thank you very much …
/r/MensRights14/05/23 10:55 AM
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Family and domestic court are absolute hell holes for men, that I can testify personally to, though do you feel as though MRA also has a bad habit of painting feminists and women's rights groups as negative as well? I've always as though there was a discussion to be had there but I've never had the opportunity
/r/MensRights14/05/23 10:52 AM
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What's an example of not being able to defend themselves? And what do you mean bow down? Me myself, I've never met an LGBTQ+ person who hated men or saw them as less, including myself. And all the feminists and women's rights advocates I know have all been super sweet people, so is this possibly just a chronically online issue or is this happening in the real world a lot more than we take into account? Oh, and just to clarify. I'm not at all arguing any points, just adding my own experience and …
/r/MensRights14/05/23 10:49 AM
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I don't exactly see how that relates to my post? Sure, there's certainly a disinterest bias when it comes to male issues, but my post is about why there's so much hate towards this sub? Not giving a damn is one thing, actively pushing against it is another.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 10:42 AM
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Alright, I'm a dude who's been around A LOT with woman, and other dudes, and I'd just like to say: I ain't never met a man who married a woman for her looks, literally no one I know personally has ever even dated someone else purely for their looks. Nor have I ever asked a guy or a girl out because I thought they were particularly attractive, nor has anyone asked me out for that reason. Also, marriage is NOT just an "economic agreement". Marriage to me, everyone I know, is a truly special and im…
/r/MensRights29/03/23 07:10 PM
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