TheDoinksAreBack Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
27	After being in previously abusive relationships I'm scared of dating	SEEKING ADVICE	TheDoinksAreBack	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/08/20 09:39 PM
24	Where the fuck are some good Rom-Coms?	DISCUSSION	TheDoinksAreBack	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/09/20 02:29 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
22	For women of color/ minorities, be extra careful of fetishization or familial racism What the ffuuuuuuck	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/21 02:47 AM
22	Destroy the concept that your teen years are supposed to be fun and once you hit 25, you’re old and it’s over. Some of us had to heal from trauma during our teen years and our 20s (30s, 40s, 50s and so on) and would like to begin a good life without constantly being told it’s too late. Oh my god I needed to hear this	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/21 01:40 AM
41	Why did Disney and society at large lie to us about the true nature of most men? Prince Charming, more like Prince Foot Fetish	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/21 10:05 PM
4	This is what LVM do to women…they break and push them to the point of suicide. Can we help this woman? I truly think that her she has a divorce case that could get her out of this mess to the point the debt of legal fees are no longer hers to deal with and to the point her debt is relieved. He put her in debt and continues to stay in debt because of him while he fucks around and from that she can't even afford therapy or have any physical accessible help to escape except from the internet where you're blindfolded and shitty people can stray her away from the resolution she needs and deserves. She…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/21 03:40 PM
12	This is what LVM do to women…they break and push them to the point of suicide. Can we help this woman? She deserves help and just support overall. The fact that she was in the hospital and they didn't have someone to stay and evaluate her is messed up. I've noticed that women with her mentality refuse professional help because they've been manipulated by systemic misogyny that their standards aren't valid and to not take care of themselves and to not seek help unless it benefits their abusive S.O. And when they have the option of help or escape they refuse it, not because they want to but because…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/21 03:14 PM
11	Why do men leave yellow stains on the sheets? Your stained sheets happened because you were trying a new method to take care of your skin and body. Guys' stained yellow sheets happen because they like to lay in their sweat and dead skin cells, and don't know how to take a 5 min google search on how to get rid of it. Do they not know how to put a cup of white vinegar on a warm/hot rinse cycle to get the sweat stains out of their white sheets? Oh girl if you ever use castor oil, or any oil of large portions on your skin for that matter: only …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/07/21 03:49 PM
13	Date a man who is proud of you You pointed out all the important details of what was moral decency and what is shitty behavior. Part of moral decency means the capacity of realizing the things that are not about you and not for you. It makes me really happy for her as well when I read this. And happy for you too! There's a lot more support here than any place I've ever been. Thank you :)!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/06/21 02:30 PM
4	Online dating profile red flags Wow you really said that in three paragraphs. Everything you said feels like what I've been trying to explain for several years! Thank you!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/21 01:47 AM
2	paid attention to the lyrics of this song and realized the singer was such a desperate pickme Yes. She wasnt gonna turn 18 until later in the year. I dont know the age laws in my state but he groomed her.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/20 06:55 PM
2	paid attention to the lyrics of this song and realized the singer was such a desperate pickme His name is Jasper. He is never seen on screen. I cant seem to find him through their website either.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/20 06:41 PM
3	paid attention to the lyrics of this song and realized the singer was such a desperate pickme The artists and instrument players are fine and have nothing to do with the pedo! It's one of the cameramen that is the pedo. I remember because he was so eager to show me what his work was and it was him recording that stuff and editing it. It was so odd because he was so nice to me and talking to me about things I would like. Found out he was dating my friend and I thought they were friends or whatever. No.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/20 06:31 PM
2	paid attention to the lyrics of this song and realized the singer was such a desperate pickme I know one of the guys that works for that specific YouTube channel you posted the video from. He is a pedophile. He actively seeks teenage girls. I went to my friends grad party, she wasn't 18. She was 17, dating a 28 year old man. I told her that's wrong and her parents are enabling pedo behavior. He also told me I was pretty and beautiful right in front of her face because he felt bad for not complimenting me. He ended up dumping my friend within the year. I figured out that he has had sex wi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/20 06:18 PM
8	My mom said "maybe he was kidding". I just told this jerk that I've been medicated since 14 and now I'm suicidal. Not suicidal, but will be when my meds run out. Fellow FDS members have told me not to tell men about my medications! They can use your weakness against you. They can use the info they know about you to their advantage. I had expressed my fear of being raped in my sleep and these ladies helped me with info! So be careful and stuff those red flags into that scores throat! Fuck that dude. I have a handful of the amount of times I've had to block men because of them asking for my nudes, etc. And whenever I told friends, they said "why block?". A…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/09/20 01:12 AM
2	After being in previously abusive relationships I'm scared of dating 💕💕💕thank you for your wise words!! :)!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/09/20 01:12 AM
1	After being in previously abusive relationships I'm scared of dating Oh I'll definitely say that!! I take iron as well! I take it in the morning. But does it work more effectively at night on an empty stomach? Or does it do something else? My night medication makes me light headed during the day. So I try to take iron in the morning to combat it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/20 08:41 PM
2	After being in previously abusive relationships I'm scared of dating Also! Thank you for the advice! I'm too lazy to edit my post! Thank you 💖	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/20 02:34 PM
2	After being in previously abusive relationships I'm scared of dating YES exactly what you said makes so much sense and is exactly what I'm trying to do for myself. What you said about the friends thing makes so much sense too. It's what made me suffer longer than I should have when I was with POS men. And they knew the abuse? And recently my friend they were like "oh I hung out with your ex. He seems nice and changed" like okay! I dont give a fuck and I start to cry and panic anytime I'm around them! Not to mention he told me I didnt trust him enough and when I s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/20 02:32 PM
2	After being in previously abusive relationships I'm scared of dating Oh yes definitely! Men are seriously detrimental and toxic when it comes to dating somehow. I find that everyone is so pressured to date, especially women?? And so women start to date bc of the pressure and end up with bad men since they were rushed into it. I honestly never want to date ever again each time I read those stories too. A long break from men is really the tea we shouldve been sipping all along. 💕☕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/20 02:26 PM
1	After being in previously abusive relationships I'm scared of dating Thank you! My friends pressure me into dating men and its obvious they're pickmeshas. I now wear a ring on my ring finger to avoid any contact from either friends or men for now. Thank you! I wont tell em about my meds!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/20 02:21 PM
1	After being in previously abusive relationships I'm scared of dating Oh wow that's something I never thought of! Men usually ask so many questions about me and I cant help but answer them. Now I know why, its bc I show vulnerability. I'm definitely not gonna sleep with anybody for a long time due to my abusive exes. And that's okay! It takes time for me and everyone is different. I usually have two pill boxes. One for morning and one for evening, its filled with my meds and my vitamins. I'll just say they're my vitamins if they see them and try to hide them as mu…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/20 02:19 PM
10	Men’s Porn Addictions The only man that I know that confessed he had a porn addiction was one of my youth pastors. He told us that it leads to a toxic mentality of how you view others and glorifies treating women poorly and abusively. He got help and recovered and told us as teens that it's not normal and also along with that it's a sin bc you know hes a pastor. But he really focused on how wrong it is. I really do think he was trying to teach the boys in my youth group to be better and to understand the toxicity of …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/08/20 11:10 PM