| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Being direct on Tinder? | Fundamentals | TheFifthEspada679 | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 01:03 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Has anyone here ever lead someone on in order to get in their pants?Thanks for that. I’ll have a think olongapo these lines to see what signals I’m putting out. Cheers | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone here ever lead someone on in order to get in their pants?Never thought about framing in this context. I keep getting girls wanting a relationship then having to explain that’s not what I’m after. Definitely hurt a few feelings Somehow making it clear that isn’t on the cards without openly saying so?….how do you do this …any does and donts? | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Doctors, lawyers, professors, engineers, businessmen, what is your dating life like?Status can come before looks …it really depends what the lady is looking for at that particular moment. I don’t think we’re disagreeing here. As for this guys query - get a good job. It helps. But it won’t make much difference if your just swiping tinder - better off just getting some nice photos in that context | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Doctors, lawyers, professors, engineers, businessmen, what is your dating life like?Go put an ugly photo on tinder and say you cured cancer. When they are just looking to fuck appearance is the main factor by a huge margin. I totally agree re-status being important. But those criteria come into effect when they are considering a longer term partner | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Doctors, lawyers, professors, engineers, businessmen, what is your dating life like?Same. Engineer pay in the UK is much less than abroad. Might be time you move jobs, your due a bump in pay soon | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 11:50 PM |
| 12 | Doctors, lawyers, professors, engineers, businessmen, what is your dating life like?If you want a girlfriend then it helps quite a lot. If you want to fuck it’s basically irrelevant | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 11:34 PM |
| 2 | I (23F) want to make a move on my older neighbor (52M), not sure of how to go about itThere is no scenario where he won’t be happy as hell of you do make a move. Regardless of if he’s available etc …it will be well received. As for judging if he’s in a relationship- that’s really down to his honesty. That’s out of your control . Good luck | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Holding hands backfiredPersonally I see hand holding as very intimate and would never do it unless I’ve reached a stage where im getting kinda serious with a girl. …this might sound back to front but it’s true for me at least. So I see this as a weird way to approach things to go in for handholding at the start. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 03:33 PM |
| 1 | How can I help my (21F) friend (21M) realize that I like him?Most of us guys are reaaaaaalllly dumb! Just tell the guy | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 07:31 PM |
| 8 | Any guys who get zero matches but have success in real life?Sage advice. OLD is useful because it’s super convenient…you can shoot your shot with 50 women while taking a dump (just for example 😅🤦🏻♂️), but you will always tend to do better in real life. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Paying for sex, am I a loser?Probs a good thing so your more chilled when you get laid normally. Just don’t make this your only avenue of trying to get laid | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 11:29 AM |
| 3 | How to get laid with new people consistently?This | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 11:06 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys lie to have sex? how do you handle the guilt?I totally get your internal struggle. Tell her. Especially an issue in this case with her being a virgin. Our Penis’s don’t understand abstract, long term concepts like Karma (real life Karma)… But console yourself with that you really are doing a good thing by being honest…hopefully the universe will reward you with some good pussy at some point down the road 😇 | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | First date fundamentals (for beginners)?I agree with you personally. Dates always go better when you relaxed. But this persons trying to build up their confidence to get to that point. It’s understandable to want to have a framework for how to proceed in a new situation- share some tips | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 03:07 PM |
| 14 | First date fundamentals (for beginners)?Think of it as practice. That fact your putting yourself out there is already a win - well done ! Try to ask open questions, if they do the talking and then you make them feel like they are interesting / entertaining- that’s a good start. Think over your life - consider stories from your life that are funny / interesting..but also demonstrate some of your achievements or good qualities . Don’t force them into the conversation- but taking some time to think about these things beforehand will make… | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 03:02 PM |
| 3 | First date fundamentals (for beginners)?Think of it as practice. That fact your putting yourself out there is already a win - well done ! Try to ask open questions, if they do the talking and then you make them feel like they are interesting / entertaining- that’s a good start. Think over your life - consider stories from your life that are funny / interesting..but also demonstrate some of your achievements or good qualities . Don’t force them into the conversation- but taking some time to think about these things beforehand will make… | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Best tinder opener that’s not cringeyI didn’t - new to this | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Best tinder opener that’s not cringeyFocus on building up your life again with things you enjoy my man. Things that get your out meeting people. As you start to enjoy your life again grab some pictures - things will come together for you | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 02:12 PM |
| 8 | Best tinder opener that’s not cringeyHe’s unearthed a real treasure | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls come back to my place but leave instantly?Is your apartment clean ? Are you certain it doesn’t smell? Make sure if these things as a start | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 07:29 AM |
| 6 | If a woman says shes engaged, do you give her your number anyway or you just leave it be?How would you feel about someone hitting on your fiancé? Not good for your real life karma. Hunt elsewhere and feel good about yourself for not fucking up someone’s relationship | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Tips on asking out a cute waitress?Go to Meetup’s, build up a social network. Work on building a life you enjoy. Really focus on this. Eventually you’ll be busy having fun and you’ll notice women have just appeared…no bs | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 08:02 AM |
| 2 | I made an experiment catfish profile with a young Pretty Boy Guy on TinderI want to like this more than once 😂 | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 04:33 PM |
| 3 | sex with a longtime friendSounds like sleeping together will probs make the friendship become weird for you….it doesn’t always. The decision is : How badly do you want to fuck this girl vs keep her as a friend ? | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 05:07 PM |
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