| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 19 | Unsure about a woman? | TheGreatestGaine | /r/seduction | 02/09/17 02:18 PM | |
| 3 | The Eye Contact | TheGreatestGaine | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 01:05 PM | |
| 2 | Therapy | TheGreatestGaine | /r/seduction | 15/09/17 01:43 PM | |
| 2 | Working on my game. Making baby steps | TheGreatestGaine | /r/seduction | 16/08/17 07:08 PM | |
| 1 | Struggling with feeling unattractive | TheGreatestGaine | /r/seduction | 24/07/17 03:04 PM |
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| 2 | Looks matters a lot - and I'm disappointed. Seduction isn't so meritocratic as I thought.It's because your blackpill incel garbage needs to go somewhere else. Back when r/incels was a thing I shut down a lot of their victimizing "logic". Looks matter but you can't compare a dating app to in person encounters. | /r/seduction | 12/12/17 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Attraction problem (not what you think)It could be that? It could be a multitude of other things that aren't directly related to your dating life as well. What about really focusing on trying to build a connection with one of these women? Not that you haven't already, but just try it from a different angle of attack. | /r/seduction | 06/10/17 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Attraction problem (not what you think)That's what I'm saying. Have you gotten to know these women? | /r/seduction | 06/10/17 03:23 AM |
| 4 | Any real hardcase newbie success stories?Thank you! My anxiety has been my biggest issue. It feels good to finally be coping with it. | /r/seduction | 06/10/17 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Attraction problem (not what you think)Maybe you need to get to know them? I have to really get substance from a girl, not just her looks, but her entire vibe and personality, before I am in a fuck yes or no decision. | /r/seduction | 06/10/17 02:47 AM |
| 2 | What keeps you going despite the mistakes you make?Dear God. Why is r/incels leaking over here??? That sub is a toxic lake filled with crabs. | /r/seduction | 06/10/17 02:44 AM |
| 12 | Any real hardcase newbie success stories?I mean, I'm going on a date with a girl tomorrow. I met her in class and after three weeks finally decided to asked her out. I got a yes. I've also never done this kind of stuff before. So I am happy it was a success. | /r/seduction | 06/10/17 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Approached a 18 year old girlI agree to an extent. That rule should probably be followed until you are 22. Then just use it as a guideline from there on out. | /r/seduction | 05/10/17 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Tips for a Makeout Noob (F21)Do you like the sloppy kiss? If you do, that's great. If not, you can always talk to him about it. Tongue should be used sparingly, like the icing on a cake. In my experience. Certain people can be... Very forceful, with their mouth parts in your mouth parts, so if it you don't like it, just talk to him about it. If you are into that whole "I'm going to do my best to clean out your mouth with my tongue" stuff, just give it right back. | /r/seduction | 25/09/17 06:40 PM |
| 10 | Tips for a Makeout Noob (F21)Alright, so just a couple things. Kissing is a delicate tango of lips. Don't suck his face off like you are a sloppy vacuum cleaner, but don't be prudent either. Tongue action is about exploring each other's mouth. You don't need to be punching, high-fiving, or trying to reach the back of their throat. It's a dance you do with each other's tongue. Don't suck on his tongue either, unless they are into that stuff. Hands go where ever! Guys usually hold the face. But if you really wanna make a pers… | /r/seduction | 25/09/17 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Should having an average body...I guess I took your post for face value. I wouldn't put it past somebody to think that they legitimately have a disadvantage over race. | /r/seduction | 09/09/17 12:32 PM |
| -1 | Should having an average body...This is the most ignorant response I have ever read. Being of a different race doesn't affect you chances. | /r/seduction | 08/09/17 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Hard case newbie: how do I get past the feelings of not being physically attractive enough, not being interesting enough and how do I stop caring what people around me (including the girl) will think when I approach?This sounds a bit odd but I'm actually getting therapy for my low self esteem. I figure it might be worth a shot to see where my problem stems from and how to improve it. | /r/seduction | 08/09/17 04:46 PM |
| 3 | I can't be bothered to do online dating no matter how many times I try. Convince me I'm wrong.The thing that made me quit was when I matched with a girl. We exchanged numbers, then I swiftly did a phone number look up on Facebook and online. Turns out it was a 60 yo dude, portraying himself as a 19 yo girl. Never again. | /r/seduction | 06/09/17 04:16 PM |
| 2 | How often do you think the average guy, that has relationships now and there, gets rejected?I'm assuming you are one of those people. And to answer your question, probably just as often as you think. I've even had a pretty good looking guy (muscular, nice face, style) come up to me and ask me "dude where do you even find women at? I haven't been able to get one in so long." | /r/seduction | 06/09/17 01:13 PM |
| 3 | For those creative/weird personalities looking for conversation starters: Socks.As much as this is weird, I can honestly say that I don't disagree. However, I feel like this will work with younger women (under 30) but with older women.... Maybe not so much. | /r/seduction | 05/09/17 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Risk of accidentally hitting on an underage or younger girl during cold approachesBefore people give you the wrong idea here. In the United States, certain states allow the age of consent to be 16 years of age. HOWEVER, this consent can have it's limitations, such as in Arkansas, where the age of consent is 16, but it is illegal for a minor (under 18 years of age) to have sexual relations with someone who is over 4 years older than them. Just check your local laws. | /r/seduction | 03/09/17 02:15 PM |
| 2 | How do I get rid of the mentality that girls who like sex are sluts?Do you like sex? Are you a raging manwhore? Probably not. Those types of people are few and far between and it's wrong to label women as sluts just because they enjoy something literally every person enjoys. | /r/seduction | 02/09/17 05:05 PM |
| 31 | In doubtIt means "I'm too nice to tell you to fuck off". | /r/seduction | 02/09/17 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Girl is getting very attached..When top comment has 3 times more upvotes than the original post. | /r/seduction | 27/08/17 09:16 PM |
| 3 | How to overcome self doubt and self sabotage?As much as you would like to think we are similar, we aren't. Why? Because I am actually doing something about my issues when they arise, and taking everybody's thoughtful opinions. | /r/seduction | 24/08/17 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Aesthetics - Should we train to be bulky or lean?To add onto what has already been stated. Protein is the building blocks of your cells, carbs are the energy blocks that allow you to use those proteins, and fats are there to help with hormones balance | /r/seduction | 24/08/17 12:29 AM |
| 5 | How to overcome self doubt and self sabotage?You have a bad case of "special kid syndrome". Everybody has their own shit they have been through. I won't go into my personal stuff for brevity's sake. But man, you gotta stop looking at everything so hopelessly. I keep reading about how you have problems but I have yet to see you at least aim for a solution. Aim to be better you than yesterday. The only one who can seize your future and your happiness is you. Nobody on any internet board is going to be able to fix those problems. | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 11:22 PM |
| 3 | How to overcome self doubt and self sabotage?I have never read a more self-pitied post. You ask for help but when people offer it you call it BS and immediately reject it? As someone who is in college as well you should have already learned how to thoughtfully consider other options and angles. You are using excuses to justify your own faults. All this talk about "girls don't like me because I'm skinny, self depreciative, depressed, blah blah blah" is a cry for attention. Nobody wants to be with someone who doesn't work on themselves. You … | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Aesthetics - Should we train to be bulky or lean?That's how I felt too. Now that I weigh more I am feeling more comfortable in my own skin. | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 09:22 PM |
| 5 | How to overcome self doubt and self sabotage?You can't help someone who doesn't want to help themselves Edit: a word | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Corny attempt - is it over?You should have just stopped replying after she said work... | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 09:03 PM |
| 2 | How were your first approaches?The truth is I haven't. I am taking small steps to get there. I'm working on getting the pieces down rather than addressing it as a whole. I can make conversations with anyone (I am a waiter at a restaurant), it's getting past the opener which is truly the hardest thing for me. | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Aesthetics - Should we train to be bulky or lean?Foods such as chicken and tuna, even though they get super hard to swallow at times, are some of the most protein dense foods you can consume. 2 percent milk, avocados, peanut butter, oats, are all healthy alternatives to a fat steak or burger. My morning shakes used to be 1 quart of pure calories, roughly 1500. It wasn't the easiest thing to stomach but hey, the important thing is with whatever you are doing is to watch your macros. | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Aesthetics - Should we train to be bulky or lean?I just wouldn't call it a struggle. No matter what body type you have you can still achieve the goals you set for yourself. I feel like framing it as a struggle puts a negative connotation. | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Aesthetics - Should we train to be bulky or lean?That is not a thing. I have an "ectomorph" body type and have a chronic gastrointestinal disease. I have managed to gain 20 pounds in 3 months with eating a well rounded diet, exercising regularly and constantly making adjustments. | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 07:12 PM |
| 3 | Aesthetics - Should we train to be bulky or lean?I'm 6' and 179 pounds and feel pretty small. But that's because my ideal body image is close to what you would see on men's health magazine. I would honestly say that you should train to whatever you want to look like. In the end you will be more motivated to hit the gym when you are working towards a goal for yourself. | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 07:02 PM |
| 7 | How were your first approaches?My first one wasn't even that bad. I was really surprised. I got a smile and a thank you. I felt like I could have kept going but all I wanted to do was compliment someone | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 04:28 PM |
| 1 | The Eye ContactI should be holding it for a few seconds right? That's what I'm trying to do | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 01:12 PM |
| 2 | The reason why I'm here is not just because I want to overcome social anxiety with women, but because I want to overcome social anxiety in general.Where has this post been all my life? | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 01:25 PM |
| 2 | My flatmate is moving to another city. I want to have her before that.I'm worried that he will rape her. You read through this entire post and it's got psycho-rapist written all over it. | /r/seduction | 19/08/17 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Any affordable surprise date ideas?Hike, go adventure, there are tons of different things you can come up with that don't really require much money, if any. | /r/seduction | 18/08/17 03:46 AM |
| 3 | How do I stop looking like I want to murder people?That sounds like an idea for a horror movie | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Working on my game. Making baby stepsI won't necessarily be relying on her too much. Rather, she will point out a girl for me to approach, and if I don't approach them within 10 seconds, I forfeit a dollar. Up to 50 dollars. Every time I do approach, I get a dollar back, allowing me to keep my money. I figure it's easier than me just hoping to approach someone | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Working on my game. Making baby stepsTomorrow I'm hitting up the mall with a wingwoman. I have a couple guidelines and consequences set up to urge me out of my comfort zone. | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 04:12 AM |
| 1 | How much does matter for a 30yo guy to not have anymore a car in a city where you need one to move decently?Buy a bicycle if you live decently close to work (less than 10 miles). It will also keep you in peak shape. You can get a decent bike for 700-1500 dollars. You can use public transport or taxis for everything else. | /r/seduction | 11/08/17 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Problems with my posture... solutions?A tip I was given about my posture that really helped me was be more aware of your shoulder blades. Almost as if you are trying to "tuck" them behind your back. It will help pull your arms back so your shoulders aren't rolled forward. | /r/seduction | 11/08/17 03:42 PM |
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