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internet tough guy
/r/seduction29/05/14 02:59 AM
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Professional amateur boxer? Now I know you're lying, there's no such thing. You're either pro or amateur.
/r/seduction28/05/14 08:14 PM
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stop jerking off
/r/seduction17/05/14 05:39 PM
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Then fix that shit
/r/seduction17/05/14 05:18 PM
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No son, you HAVE to know what you're doing. They go for younger guys because they have stamina and can go multiple times. They are not grateful, lmfao. They actually do not LIKE young guys, they don't want their friends to meet you. They want guys their age or older but in between that, they want to have fun hot sex. If you can't bring them fun hot sex, they have no use for you.
/r/seduction17/05/14 05:17 PM
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Send your girls to me, I don't have performance anxiety
/r/seduction16/05/14 09:14 PM
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or maybe she's enjoying the attention and having a little fun.
/r/seduction16/05/14 09:13 PM
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No AA, no fear, I'm prob intermediate level at pickup. I get a good amount of good girls, I'm just new to this service industry environment, so I don't know the ins and outs. I hear about bouncers\bartenders pulling a ton of ass, I just want to waste months on trial and error, seeing as how I don't know how long I'll do this. I have a full-time day job. Thanks for the tips buddy!
/r/seduction16/05/14 05:22 PM
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destroy the touch barrier immediately. hold their hand a little too long when you meet them, keep holding it while you are talking to them and LOOK THEM IN THE EYE. Hug them, high five them, put your arm around them, play with their hair, etc. Don't be rough and maul them but also put their hands on you, if they're not reaching out.
/r/seduction16/05/14 05:12 PM
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It happens, it happens all the time. It happens more when you don't fuck them on the first date. Push hard for the lay on a tinder\online date. IME, if I don't lay them on that first Tinder date, 90% of the time, it never comes back around (I did a 4 week Tinder experiment) At any rate, with any girl, you're not supposed to know what went wrong. If you know what went wrong, that means there was a problem you didn't address. More likely than not, she's getting so much attention that she wants to …
/r/seduction16/05/14 05:07 PM
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When I was younger I targeted milfs almost exclusively. They were more fun, more sexually aware and there is less slut shaming amongst them. Also, if they find a guy that can give it to them good, they won't sleep with others. If we're being honest, most guys their age cannot fuck them the way they want to be fucked. Older guys are out of shape, poor cardio sometimes ED, etc. They want to have FUN. So be fun and be sexual. Fuck their lights out all night long and you'll hook them immediately. Th…
/r/seduction16/05/14 05:01 PM
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Great advice, thank you. Yes, I can tell when a girl is interested but I always just assume attraction anyway. I'm ok at night game but I prefer day game, seeing as how I don't drink and I like seeing the girls in the light of day, lol. Although, at the end of the night, they are more receptive to being pulled than in the middle of the day at the local coffee joint. Thanks again man!
/r/seduction16/05/14 04:56 PM
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You've been friendzoned. Stay away from her for a few months to a year and improve yourself. Date a bunch of women and have her see you with them, then you'll have a chance. Otherwise, you can wait it out and catch her at a low point during her divorce.
/r/seduction16/05/14 03:11 AM
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I'm 36, so I just say guess. they'll usually come in with 20-something and I'll say wow, good guess! and then just steer the conversation somewhere else.
/r/seduction16/05/14 03:04 AM
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So true. Almost every time a girl says we aren't having sex that night, I know we will and 95% of the time we do. Why? bc she's obviously thinking about it already.
/r/seduction04/05/14 12:25 AM
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Tinder is easy
/r/seduction27/04/14 10:34 PM
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There sure is a lot of judging going on here, he's aware of his\her vows. Be fun, be exciting, be a leader. She wants a little fantasy, she's bored at home.
/r/seduction20/04/14 06:14 AM
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I'm just not as good as you bro, but I'm trying, don't give up on me. And, I stuck with her to run interference bc my buddy, who's even worse than me (if that's even possible in your eyes) was spending time with her friend. If I didn't keep her busy, she would've killed his interaction. I'm sorry I didn't F-Close her, I'll try harder next time
/r/seduction08/04/14 03:45 PM
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HappyJerk has helped me out a lot, he's a little judgemental but his advice is top notch
/r/seduction08/04/14 05:09 AM
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I think that attitude is a NY move. I met a NY girl in New Orleans 2 weeks ago and it was similar with her, shit test after shit test. Her: I hate your accessory, it went out of style 20 years ago. Me: I know, I hate it too, but fashion is so cyclical it could come back in style any minute now. Her: That shirt sucks Me: I know, all my shirts suck You get the idea. anyway, after some of that back and forth it wasn't long before I was making out with her. Unfortunately, I made the mistake of makin…
/r/seduction08/04/14 05:04 AM
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This is how I do it. 1) Meet at a place close to your house for a drink. 2) After the drink tell her there are other places you want to take her. Tell her she can leave her car at your place, it's secure, you don't know about the lot where you are. As long as you built enough comfort during step 1, there'll be no issue. The only time this method did not work for me was recently, when her place was closer than mine & we dropped it off there, lol.
/r/seduction02/04/14 05:52 AM
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milk before meat? is that a real saying. I love it but I don't know why
/r/seduction21/03/14 04:46 AM
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Dude, that is GREAT! Just off the top of your head? It's so fun, I'm going to try it out tomorrow.
/r/seduction21/03/14 04:39 AM
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BS, you've wasted a TON of time on this girl, especially in the form of opportunity cost. You've chased her too hard, you're too available. Next time the 2 of you are out, let her see you scoring with other women.
/r/seduction16/03/14 04:50 PM
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LMFAO! He said he'd rather get 20% of the HB8-HB10's than get 100% of it the 3's. It is so true
/r/seduction15/03/14 02:27 PM
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update?
/r/seduction14/03/14 02:37 AM
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I agree, how do you know he was a pua? I doubt he said anything about it. Could've been a natural
/r/seduction13/03/14 04:38 AM
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dude, lay off the coke
/r/seduction13/03/14 04:34 AM
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A few dates? Just don't contact them anymore and they won't contact you. If one does, then just tell the truth.
/r/seduction12/03/14 11:08 PM
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Dude, that's the BEST time to approach them. I've always had great success in this situation. Be playful & GENUINE with them, ask the girl about her "sister" (the mom/grandma) & when she says it's her mom/grandma, then you can say, that explains where you got your good looks. Here's the caveat, if you're NOT genuine or if you ARE a sleazeball, the mom/gma will see it a mile away. They will see through all your BS & your canned lines/PUA crap in a heartbeat & you'll have NO chance. But, if they l…
/r/seduction09/03/14 05:36 PM
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Go out today and tomorrow and strike up conversations with everybody. Not JUST girls but especially girls. Remember their names & use it. Find out something interesting about them and do a couple laps on that topic. You'll find that most women want a good conversation & you'll also find that there are some really interesting people that you'd never guess were. It'll get your mind off homegirl real quickly
/r/seduction08/03/14 11:27 PM
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It's going to be hard but it's doable. There's no guarantee that she slept with him, and if she did, it might not have been any good. If your date is on, you're still in the running. Typically (generalizing here) if a girl sleeps with a guy and she likes him, she'll stop investing time in other guys. I'm going out with a girl tonight that I met last weekend, I assume she's seeing other guys or has an FB\FWB at least (bc A LOT of single girls do) but I don't care, I'm going to knock her socks off…
/r/seduction08/03/14 07:10 PM
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First things first, congrats, most haters on here would cream in their jeans to get a kiss. I kind of had the same sticking point myself & had to tweak my game. Ask yourself this, what do you KNOW about these women? And what do they KNOW about you? You obviously have comfort & attraction but you don't have an emotional connection with them. The physical connection is great, and that means everything to us but women are a little different. Connect more with them emotionally as well as physically.…
/r/seduction08/03/14 03:31 PM
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Haha, I couldn't care less what size it is, it feels good to me. I don't feel like my member size was the point of my post, though
/r/seduction08/03/14 03:09 PM
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This isn't the place for a field report on seduction? ok
/r/seduction08/03/14 05:48 AM
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WeYou become more atrractive to women when they know that other women desire us. You're succumbing to the same thought process. She is now more attractive to you & you desire her more which is making you jealous. The only way I was able to deal with this same situation is to genuinely like and be happy for the girls you are spending time with. If they find someone they want to be with more, they should go be with them. Also, have an abundance mentality. If you lose her, there'll be more.
/r/seduction08/03/14 05:05 AM
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Dude, if a woman isn't willing to directly address her specific concern, why does he have to address what he interprets her concern to be? 1) If he does do it all the time, what does it matter and what business is it of hers? 2) If she doesn't want to do it, she doesn't have to. 3) If she wants to know about his STD's, she should ask. It may not be a "shit test" per se, but it is a shitty question. As for how he should handle it, he should just be honest. If he never does it, if he does it alot,…
/r/seduction08/03/14 04:47 AM
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Ross Jefferies said it best: No matter what happens The WORST that can happen is that nothing will happen Talk to everybody. When being a chatty/friendly is who you are, you won't really have to deal with AA.
/r/seduction07/03/14 06:35 AM
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Typically, I just move on to the next one after I don't get a response but I can see the value in giving it another shot. Although, I disagree on acknowledging the first text, just let it go. Most girls are so damn dramatic, they'd call that freaking out.
/r/seduction07/03/14 03:33 AM
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Ask yourself this, why would city X be better with her? Don't stroke her ego. You've given her WAAAAY too much power. You don't know her. The city would not be better with her, it would just be better for you, if you could get laid... and you don't need her for that. You're also a bit too self-deprecating. Keep in mind that most women have a shitty sense of humor, it's mediocre at best. So, a multitude of jokes will be lost on them. Remember, you're the prize.
/r/seduction05/03/14 06:49 AM
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What are your thoughts about Kezia's products? Worth a look? She has one on texting that seems interesting
/r/seduction05/03/14 06:36 AM
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Being on a boring date does not mean she's taken, especially when she's going to the bar and buying her own drinks. She identified herself as available, I said I'm going to call you and take you out & she said ok, then gave me her number, so she's single or at least as single as l am.
/r/seduction03/03/14 07:50 PM
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Great feedback, good insight. You're right, my texts could've elicited more of a response. I didn't know the girl was on the date, she was not low hanging fruit by any means. It wasn't until the 3rd interaction that she even said she was there with a "friend". When I was getting her # he showed up and said let's go. Prob a bad first date. I guess if taken out of context, the bartender one would seem odd. It was legit, we both have a similar lifestyle & she gave me her number. I wasn't drinking e…
/r/seduction03/03/14 07:20 PM
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Pursue her if she's worth your time. Recently I went on 1 coffee date and 2 real dates with this girl I met from the grocery store. On the last date, it seemed like all she wanted to do was make out. We made out on the first date, I don't consider making out more than the previous date a real progression. I don't have time to waste on girls that aren't crazy about me or have hangups OR WHATEVER. It's been 1.5 weeks, I haven't asked her out again and I won't. I know alot of guys that would still …
/r/seduction03/03/14 07:23 AM
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I was in this situation last week. I was at a show and one of the girls that was on stage was stunning. Every guy in the place was interested in her. After the show, I went right up to her & engaged her. I was very confident and used a lot of eye contact. She seemed fidgety and nervous, so I asked her if she was nervous and she said yes, uncharacteristically so. I was giving her butterflies & she was really responsive to touching. Long story short, we made out later in the night and went on a da…
/r/seduction24/02/14 04:39 AM
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I'm not that kind of girl either
/r/seduction19/02/14 05:45 AM
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Dude, that is profound. My take, if you think another man is superior to you in some way, fix it. Make yourself the best choice.
/r/seduction16/02/14 05:12 PM
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I wonder if doing that lip bite to a girl will have the same effect to her that it is having on us? She is really turning me on.
/r/seduction16/02/14 05:09 PM
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Exactly, go outside your house and stay outside your house, go be social. Also, don't knock bars and clubs, you'd be surprised what you find there. Amazing beautiful down to earth girls have friends that like to drink & sometimes, they like to just let loose.
/r/seduction16/02/14 05:03 PM
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MAKE it yours AFC
/r/seduction16/02/14 04:59 PM
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Dude, you're a BARTENDER, you should be getting more ass than a toilet seat. Ask yourself this, do you want to have sex or do you want to be comfortable? Do you want to have sex or do you want to eat things that taste good to you? If you want sex more, then eat healthy and exercise.
/r/seduction16/02/14 06:24 AM
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All's fair in love and war. Take What's Yours
/r/seduction16/02/14 06:17 AM
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Dude, those openers suck. David Wygant had a great interview with Josh Pellicier where he really drove the point home about how stupid those kind of openers. Just be a real human, having a real human experience. Fun facts are GREAT to bring up during conversations and they make you seem more interesting but open with sincerity. In fact, be interesting bc when you say something interesting on an average of 3 times in relatively short order, the women will say that YOU are interesting.
/r/seduction13/02/14 06:02 PM
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Just fuck him. Guys aren't girls, we don't need crazy shit to turn us on. 1) Show up 2) Fuck Him 3) Feed Him he'll love you forever
/r/seduction13/02/14 05:58 PM
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This is a very good question, It's harder to make guy friends than it is to meet women. At some point, most guys stop making new friends and their # of friends starts to dwindle. Which is why most old men say that their wife is their best friend but most women say their husband is NOT their best friend; and statistically when wives die first, men die within a year. Women on the other hand, make new friends their entire life. So when their husband dies, most women continue to live long lives. So,…
/r/seduction13/02/14 04:45 PM
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Why are you complimenting them? I use observation openers, rarely do I compliment them. Observations about something they are wearing are good, because they put time and thought into it
/r/seduction12/02/14 10:29 PM
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This has been working for me lately: While making out, kissing her neck & all that, put her hand on your hard dick (outside your pants). Be sure to groan and moan when she works it. Usually, after a little bit, she'll just take it out. If she doesn't, do it for her.
/r/seduction12/02/14 07:38 PM
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I'm an IT guy, although you'd never guess by looking at me. If you like a guy, show interest. The only difference with going after IT guys is that you'll have to do a lot of the heavy lifting. They don't have the dating instinct, so you'll have to make it glaringly obvious that you are interested. You might even have to say: we should get together, take my number, etc. But, you'll never have to worry about them cheating on you, lol.
/r/seduction12/02/14 05:52 AM
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Man, I wouldn't worry about body language so much. You're all up in your head. I was on a date tonight with a girl I met at the grocery store over the weekend & she had horrible body language but we ended with a great makeout session. I slept with a girl on Saturday that I met Thursday, who exhibited horrible body language too. What do they both have in common? They were intimidated by me. 1 IS shy and the other ISN'T shy but she was around me. If I was searching for IOI validation, I wouldn't h…
/r/seduction12/02/14 05:30 AM
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Dating single mom's is different than dating regular girls. I dated one off and on for 8 years. You'll never get the same level of investment you would with a single girl once you get into a relationship, bc of the kids. You will at the beginning, bc she wants companionship, but once she has it, you'll be playing 2nd fiddle. Whereas a single girl will invest her life into you. Just keep that in mind if you are a needy kind of guy, which we all can be, that a single mom will not be able to meet y…
/r/seduction11/02/14 08:20 PM
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sorry, i lost interest in your post...
/r/seduction11/02/14 07:40 PM
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Never pass up a good thing. I made that mistake and even though I'm over it & her completely, I'll take it to my grave that I made a mistake. I know a couple other guys with the same regret. Go for it when you find that high quality girl. Because the next guy after you won't make the same dumb mistake you did, he'll lock it down.
/r/seduction11/02/14 07:39 PM
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It's easy, start off by having her do little things and snowball that into bigger things. She'll want to do things for you. I have girls make me cookies. I say, I need some homemade cookies, I don't eat processed junk. When she makes them, rave about them. Pick her up and twirl her around, kiss her, show her how excited you are. She'll want to do more for you. If you need to start smaller, then have her make extra at dinner one night and eat with them. Then rave about how good it is, see previou…
/r/seduction11/02/14 07:30 PM
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Be sure to smile, genuinely smile. Most people are in their heads, so they aren't expecting you to greet them. When you do, it might take them a second to register it in their brains, so smile warmly, make non-threatening eye contact and you may have to repeat it. You'll get a 99% success rate doing this. Now upvote me mofo!
/r/seduction11/02/14 07:21 PM
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You can't successfully meet women at bars? They are there to be social, otherwise they'd be someplace else
/r/seduction11/02/14 06:50 PM
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I like it. Can't wait to hear how this turns out.
/r/seduction11/02/14 06:40 PM
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It means she either likes you or she's 5 years old. Either way, go for it
/r/seduction11/02/14 04:44 AM
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His stuff blows my mind, I would love to see what his success ratio is. I'm sure he has spectacular crashes and burns but the successes are jaw-dropping, no doubt. TD blows my ever-loving mind though. I fucking love that guy
/r/seduction10/02/14 10:39 PM
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Coffee dates are great. Sometimes it's hard to turn a cold day approach into a night date, so I use coffee dates as a bridge. For instance, I met a beautiful girl at the grocery store this past Saturday, we met for coffee Sunday for 1 hr (longer than I like but we still left on a high note). We are getting together tomorrow night to go out. You can't crazy kino during coffee the way you can at a party or a bar, but you can still do enough to amp up the attraction. Destroy the touch barrier immed…
/r/seduction10/02/14 10:38 PM
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Actually, in a 5 day window (after you've already been chatting with her via text this weekend) you might want to touch base about the date a day before. Girls hate rejection and will pre-emptively reject you if they think you might reject them. I wouldn't be surprised if she flaked on Wednesday, feeling insecure about it.
/r/seduction10/02/14 10:02 PM
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That's just it mate, why would you fucking tell HER AT ALL? What do you hope to gain? Want to make her feel like a slut and not fuck you? Just don't bring it up at all and I guarantee she won't say, Hey, I got my lights fucked out in this very house a year or 2 ago! Chances are, she won't remember and in the slim chance that she does remember, she does NOT want to be reminded of it.
/r/seduction10/02/14 09:55 PM
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A world of difference! I used to have horrible anxiety about speaking to groups but improv has helped me. You practice getting in front of your small group of co-improvisers who are supportive of you (and you them). Then, with their support, you get in front of an audience, but you trust each other so it's not quite as scary as before, bc you're up there with a friend. It gets easier and easier each time until eventually, it becomes a rush that you love. Plus, improv makes you an even better\fun…
/r/seduction10/02/14 07:36 PM
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You're in charge, it's your job to manage the interaction. Girls love a good story and a good story teller. Instead of talking at her, make her part of the story. I say things like, "Pretend you're So-and-so" or "such-and-such", "What would you do if you were in that situation", "imagine you were X", "Has something like that happened to you?". Make her part of the story, or have her tell a story and become a part of it. "If that were me, I'd do X". It's ok to do alot of talking just do not cut h…
/r/seduction10/02/14 06:47 PM
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Yeah, never grab random dudes, they always suck assholes
/r/seduction10/02/14 05:26 PM
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Be a man, grab the girl you like and move her 10 feet away. If one of her friends tries to pull her back point at her and say Hands Off She's Mine, You had your chance! Or Can't you see we are in love, quit trying to tear us apart! Be sure to smile but be forceful, believe in yourself.
/r/seduction10/02/14 05:26 PM
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Why do you have to tell her? Dude, don't even worry about it, do your own thing. Never bring up past exploits, hers or yours. You're being immature. Me and my buddy's have traveled the same roads many times before, who cares? What does it matter if she fucked your roommate, your neighbor or the Green Grocer?
/r/seduction10/02/14 05:20 PM
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I feel like I was sold a false bill of goods. Why didn't you get her number and set up a fun date? Congrats on the good conversation.
/r/seduction10/02/14 05:17 PM
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What are your hobbies? Go create a life for yourself. I never run out of shit to pique a woman's interest. I've done MMA for 6 years, I workout, cook, act, improv, and on and on... I can always steer the conversation towards something that is my forte. Make more statements and tell stories. Become a good story teller. But, at the very least, you should take improv classes. This will help you listen, and play off what people are saying.
/r/seduction10/02/14 04:14 PM
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She's shy but she doesn't want to be. I've found that the shy quiet ones are the most adventurous ones. Tell her to quit pretending to be shy, you know she's really a Lioness masquerading as a rabbit. Tell her You're Fun, You like to be adventurous. She will inherently want to live up to your expectations. Be a leader though, don't ask her what she wants to do. Take charge, and have a plan for everything. We're going here @ this time, dress cute - BAM. Also, be physical with her, she craves touc…
/r/seduction10/02/14 04:06 PM
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It's weird. We should never be outcome dependent but success inherently breeds success. When you don't have a stable of women OR a stable woman, you have to act as if you don't care (if you do care, which you probably do). When you have a girl(s) it's much easier to be nonchalant because your needs are being met. You're all up in your head and you're coming off as needy. Neediness is the #1 killer of attraction to women and they can smell it a mile away. Stop caring, stop putting so much pressur…
/r/seduction10/02/14 03:59 PM
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Also, If she says I'm not having sex with you, or we shouldn't be doing this, AGREE with her. Say, I agree and just keep on going. One time a girl kept doing the start stop and each time it would get further than the previous time. I just said, get out of your head, I like you, you like me and we both want to. It worked, but I don't suggest it.
/r/seduction10/02/14 05:04 AM
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Yeah, that does work, I've used it. Mystery talks about it, I think it's called the Freeze-out or something. When she says stop, you say ok, I understand, stop completely, remove all physical contact and then just try to go to sleep. Another thing you need to stop doing is LEAVING. Tyler talks about this, just stay. No sex tonight does not mean no sex in the morning. I've been here too. So, either way, Use the mystery method and she'll either re-initiate or you'll go to sleep and you can try som…
/r/seduction10/02/14 04:59 AM
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Awesome job bro
/r/seduction08/02/14 09:50 PM
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After your next class, tell her "I liked what you had to say about X" ,if she said anything during class. If not, then ask her what did you think about X? & then I'd disagree with her.
/r/seduction08/02/14 09:47 PM
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Not bad advice actually, a success snowball.
/r/seduction08/02/14 09:41 PM
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I was out with a girl from work and her "overweight pretty girl" friend. This girl did have a pretty face and good hair. Anyway, she would've been cool if she hadn't tried so damn hard to be funny (it was annoying) and she was a total emotional wreck, crying at the bar when me and my girl had a 5 minute conversation by ourselves for the first time all night. Moral of the story, Be Cool & Be Fun. You don't have to be funny and PLEASE don't be an emotional wreck.
/r/seduction07/02/14 10:19 PM
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Oh goody! After some guy's unloaded a dumptruck full of cum into them & left them on the side of the road, then you get your shot, awesome! Not being a prick, do whatever makes you happy. I just don't waste a second of time chasing unavailable girls but that's just me.
/r/seduction07/02/14 09:03 PM
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Ummm, weed and shrooms ARE drugs, they're not breakfast cereals. Now, they're obviously, not in the same category as coke but are drugs nonetheless, so that's what I meant. Do you find that it gives you an advantage to get them back if you have that? I have a feeling that having it would entice the girls that are into it but it might turn off the girls that aren't. Am I off-base?
/r/seduction07/02/14 07:02 PM
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You sly dog. How does being involved in drug culture help your game? I'm totally clean and don't even really drink either, do you find that most girls are into being in altered states and does that make hooking up with them easier?
/r/seduction07/02/14 05:12 PM
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Awesome post man, congrats on your breakout. Naturals are the best to go out with. Unfortunately, all my buddies suck at pickup. They either have AA, or the ones that don't have AA just interview the girl or monopolize the conversation.
/r/seduction07/02/14 04:56 PM
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Dude, I think You're only half right. Yes create a social circle of 20 women around you but do not waste your time with flakey hos. I give them 2 chances and after that, I'm done. We have limited resources, don't waste time, effort or brain power on women that aren't worth it... and surprise, none of them are worth the chase. Because there are 100 other girls where that 1 came from that WILL be receptive.
/r/seduction07/02/14 04:49 PM
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YAHTZEE! You wacky kid you! I have a feeling B will now pursue you harder, since you blew her off and took A home.
/r/seduction07/02/14 04:27 PM
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Last night a girl had a tattoo on her the inside of her wrist\forearm area, so I traced it with my fingers lightly for quite a while actually. She responded well to this. I'm going to start using that tactic with bracelets.
/r/seduction07/02/14 03:52 PM
6

text your friends, seduce her. Would Brad Pitt txt her all days asking her beta questions about how she feels? YOU'RE BEING NEEDY SON! knock that shit off. Be the Barbarian You Should Be. You can text her casually after you're married... but then, you won't want to
/r/seduction05/02/14 08:50 PM
7

Destroy the touch barrier. I've discovered that women are BIGTIME touchers when they like someone. Even when it's another girl. Remember the girls in JR\High school, always hugging everybody. They learn to touch early on & it's forever a part of them. They put their hands all over my chest mainly but also all over. I can tell when a woman is having an emotional reaction to me because she subconciously can't keep her hands off me. I pretend as if I don't notice, that it's totally natural, but i'm…
/r/seduction05/02/14 08:42 PM
1

Dude, act like you're the host. Is everyone having a good time? or You'd better be having a good time or I'm giving you the boot (WITH A SMILE) The host of a party gets HUGE props,take on the role.
/r/seduction05/02/14 08:34 PM
1

Most guys are horrible at sex. I'm great when it matters but I'm the worst when I don't care (apologies to all of my exes, once they become my gf's, I stop trying). You have to be the BEST option, in every way. The funnest & the best in bed. That's why they keep coming back to me, why they think of me when their with their new guys, and why they keep in touch (just in case)
/r/seduction05/02/14 08:26 PM
4

I've had many FWB's over the years and I've had a couple FWB's for many years. I'm also the first guy several women call as soon as they are single. There are 2 ways to go about it: 1, with an ex that you ended things with on great terms, hard to do. 2, From the beginning; Be awesome, Be FUN, be non-needy, NEVER be jealous or ask them who else they are seeing bc you don't care, see them only on your terms but when you do see them, make sure they have an amazing experience. Make sure they have mu…
/r/seduction05/02/14 07:40 PM
3

You meet girls online and then complain that they are easy... HELLO, online chicks ARE easy, they are putting it all out there. That's like saying, you're tired of buffets because there's just too much food, then STOP going to buffets. I tore through TONS of women online and it got boring, 90% of them were all first night lays & half of those I never even took out, they just came over. I don't do the online thing anymore for just that reason. I discovered quickly that I valued ANY woman I met OF…
/r/seduction05/02/14 04:00 PM
12

I've taken a guys date home and fucked her before, lmao. It was a total rush guys, best sex of my life. I said hi to them out and about, then I took the lead. I said, we're going "here" then "here" and I made sure to buy her guy round after round. he got blitzed. I put him in a cab home and then I took her to my house. I remember at the end of the night, we were at the bar, she was seated facing me, I had my back against the bar looking out, with my hand on her inner thigh and he was hugging her…
/r/seduction05/02/14 06:03 AM
1

I had bad AA too, but I've overcome it. Take an Improv class, it's fun and it'll help your conversational skills. I was a great conversationalist before but improv has made me a first-rate listener and being a better listener has made me even better with women. Women will give you a ton of material to work with. This is what I did, find a place you like & are a regular at, mine is starbucks. Go to starbucks and engage the people that work behind the counter. Learn their names, learn things about…
/r/seduction05/02/14 05:50 AM
2

Be exciting & fun, dinner is not exciting. Create a fantasy for her, to get her out of her head. She wanted something to get her mind off her ex, you had a golden opportunity.
/r/seduction05/02/14 05:43 AM
1

How can being an interesting, fun, abundance-minded ALPHA man in ANY area of your life be a bad thing? You have to GAME women differently in these environments as opposed to a bar but your persona should be the same.
/r/seduction04/02/14 09:44 PM
1

So, what happened? Did you go out with homegirl?
/r/seduction03/02/14 10:22 PM
0

Bro, we've all been there, some women are just trainwrecks and sometimes even we can get sucked into their vortex. Your night sounds kind of like my Saturday night. Get this, I went out to a bar with my buddy (he has extreme AA but he can old his own if I open the set and bring him into it). I'm opening 2\3 sets and bringing him in. He pisses me off though bc when I say eject, he wants to stay. Anyway, Long story short, I bring these 2 girls back to my place. My girl and I are making out, having…
/r/seduction03/02/14 10:03 PM
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You'll be fine, go enjoy life. Do not text her again until the day of or if she txts you (but even then you should wait). Either you will go or you won't go, agonizing over it won't help. Learn from your mistake get more hobbies to occupy your mind.
/r/seduction31/01/14 09:11 PM
1

I've never had trouble with dinner dates but if you do just eat something before you go on the dinner date so that you're not starving. Then you won't be focused on your apparent feeding frenzy and you can regale her with stories of your adventures and make her laugh. Remember, the dinner date isn't about you shoveling food in your barbarian mouth, the dinner date is about connecting with her.
/r/seduction31/01/14 09:08 PM
1

If touching her doesn't feel natural to you, touching you won't feel natural to her. Humans are designed to be touched and to touch, we all crave it. There is no physical barrier, only a mental one.
/r/seduction31/01/14 09:03 PM
1

Who Me? lol
/r/seduction31/01/14 03:40 PM
1

you have 2 options: Tell her to come in and have a seat and offer her a drink, sit next to her and catch up a little. OR You could always build a fantasy with her. Ask her what her fantasy is, say oooh yeah, and incorporate into your fantasy. Tell her, I've always had this fantasy... <where you open a door, passionately kiss the girl there, carry her to your bedroom and make love for hours, all without ever saying a word... See if she's into it, sounds like she wants an adventure, she knows why …
/r/seduction30/01/14 09:09 PM
1

when in doubt, a "Say what?!!!" and a "Oh, I GOT to hear more about this!" stay engaged, eventually it will get to a topic you can shine on.
/r/seduction30/01/14 09:02 PM
3

Lately I've been getting the numbers of girls that have bf's\husbands, but not on purpose. I only found out after the fact that they were unavailable. I still play it cool, no big deal. A lot of girls are like tarzan, they only let go of one vine(guy) when they've secured another or whatever relationship they are in just ends or hell, some just like to have fun. I just keep it fun and friendly, and maybe an opportunity pops up. It has in the past, many many times.
/r/seduction30/01/14 08:59 PM
5

Quit trying to be mr. clever and say something that will knock their socks off. But here, try these: "Oh No you did-ent" "Don't go there" "I told you that bitch was crazy"
/r/seduction29/01/14 08:28 PM
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Dude, these aren't shit tests, they are indicators of a bitchy girl or a girl that isn't head over heels anymore. Shit tests are what girls use to disqualify you BEFORE they invest. Once they invest, they don't shit test. THis is what happens when a girl is no longer impressed by you. It doesn't mean she's heading out the door today but, it won't be too terribly long. You remind me of my friend ####, he never believes his girl is a bitch (or anything else negative) until after she dumps him and …
/r/seduction29/01/14 08:21 PM
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This site has a lot of info, I loved it: www.yourcharismacoach.com/
/r/seduction28/01/14 05:58 PM
1

Reject her! Eject.
/r/seduction27/01/14 08:16 PM
1

Dude, be the fun friendly guy, don't be the desperate creeper. Whatever she says works for you, yes or no, bc you have a ton of options. Don't push a work hookup, if it happens organically, then cool.
/r/seduction27/01/14 05:20 PM
1

This might be weird, but thinking about her shitting has the opposite effect on me. I'm totally into it. Am I alone on this one? Hello? Ohhhhh
/r/seduction27/01/14 05:19 PM
2

It's rude if she's in the middle of a set but otherwise, being friendly is ok. ESPECIALLY, if the ball rolls over to you. Be playful. Have a quick convo. Say, ummmm, I don't know what exercise you're doing, but I hope it doesn't involve assaulting me...
/r/seduction27/01/14 04:37 PM
2

Such great insight. After my improv show last night, I went out for drinks with one of my female classmates. She's not my type & has a bf so I wasn't interested in that way but we're becoming friends and have fun. Based on a conversation with her, this was essentially my take away & correct me if I'm wrong: Be forward with the girl you are interested in. If she's into you, she won't be turned off by your advances. If she's not into you, she will be & that's best to know up front. Right now I get…
/r/seduction25/01/14 09:12 PM
2

You lost alot of weight but do you still have alot left to lose? How did you lose the weight? Get a STRICTLY female friend and have her be honest with you. Maybe you're putting something out there that you don't realize.
/r/seduction24/01/14 02:29 PM
2

Dude, listen to their answers!! Their answers give you more to go on. She said she was new, Go with that. Find out why she's new or playfully misunderstand her. Oh, you're new to working out, you can be my apprentice. Or So, you're another one of these New Years Resolutioners clogging up the gym. Whatever you say, be sure to smile
/r/seduction24/01/14 02:10 PM
3

You should gesture with your hands while you talk & you should touch people, high five etc. If you're hands are already moving, it's more organic to touch the people, otherwise it will seem weird if you take your hands out of your pockets to touch them.
/r/seduction24/01/14 02:05 PM
1

If she's into you, you asking her out twice isn't going to blow the deal buddy. It sounds like she isn't into hanging out & the only thing you can do is drop it. We only see things from our perspective. Your interest level is high, but you didn't increase her interest level high enough. It's like I tell people about having sex with me, the best 2 minutes of my night are going to be the worst 2 minutes of hers ;-)
/r/seduction24/01/14 01:55 PM
1

I usually go to multiple venues on a first date. Start off at a nice bar and converse kino, then go to a diff type of bar and converse kino escalate, by this point her comfort level should be up, then you go listen to live music for a bit & more kino. Then say, let's get out of here and go back to your place where hopefully, things will go too far, lol
/r/seduction23/01/14 08:01 PM
4

Dude, everyone has to start somewhere. I've been with tons of girls but after getting out of a 2 yr relationship, I had to start all over again. Even the initial approach was hard, we get all up in our own heads. Approach Anxiety is a real thing and maybe the hardest part of the game. It seems insurmountable at first, but success breeds success. Help a brother out, think back to the time before you were such a hardcore player
/r/seduction23/01/14 05:02 PM
1

Ross Jeffries said an amazing thing on a podcast: "No matter what happens, The worst that can happen is, Nothing will happen" I was in the same boat as you but I've discovered something recently. Women are up for friendly conversations. Just say something and smile; immediately, you will see their whole face change. Even if you don't get their number, just enjoy the conversation. I chat girls up everywhere now, not once have they ever been rude or made a face. Trust me on this. Just be sure you …
/r/seduction23/01/14 04:55 PM
1

If a girl Shit Tests you (and ALL hot girls will) just reframe it. The other night a girl asked me my age, then she made a comment about how I was too old. There's probably a 10-12 yr age difference between us. I said, yeah, you're right, you're probably too inexperienced for me, I like sophisticated mature women. She tried other shit test's too and I just told her You're Cute, Or that's funny. Eventually she stopped and made a comment about how confident I was. The bottom line is DO NOT INTERNA…
/r/seduction22/01/14 03:17 PM
0

I disagree, you want her to say NO, if she's not interested or a waste of valuable time/energy. There are going to be NO's, it's best to clear them out of the way and focus on the YES's. IDK how much time you have but I don't have time to waste. Also, You can't "Yes Ladder" a Get Together. Are You Holding Your Phone? Are You Breathing Air? Want to hangout sometime this week? Please
/r/seduction21/01/14 10:25 PM
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I disagree. If a girl just flat out says no, she's not into you and you move on. If she can't make it AND she's into you, she will give you an alternate time. If she's wishy washy, she's not really that into you and you tell her, "No Worries, some other time". We all make time for that which we want to do. If she is "busy", you're not what she wants to do.
/r/seduction21/01/14 08:59 PM
2

Don't text. Only text her to set up the date. Tell her where, when and how to dress.
/r/seduction21/01/14 08:54 PM
1

Better than you? You have such a limiting mindset. You're like a woman, you internalize everything. A confident person wouldn't have taken ANYTHING I've said negatively. Re-read it all again but this time, pretend you are a confident capable man and don't get your feelings hurt. It'll make you a better person in all aspects of your life. Now bugger off, there's a good lad
/r/seduction21/01/14 06:50 PM
1

Ha ha, you're a funny guy. You really love your porn & self-love, it's cool. David Wygant recently had a post about quitting porn. It's really not good for you at all, it's much better to get your sexual release with a human. But hey, if you want to pull it, all alone in your flat, while looking at her majesty then do what makes you happy. It takes all kinds. Cheerio and all that.
/r/seduction21/01/14 06:05 PM
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Goddamn, this is spot on, SON! PRO
/r/seduction21/01/14 04:40 PM
3

If you want her to be your gf, make her invest in you. Tell her next time she comes over, to bring you homemade cookies. Then another time, have her pick you up something from the store the next time she is there, and pay her back for it. Have her pick up your dry cleaning on the way, and pay her back for it, etc. Have her brink you a drink when she gets up, or get the washrag to clean you off. stuff like that. Ever wonder why women fall in love with losers? bc they need them, and women like fee…
/r/seduction20/01/14 07:56 PM
1

wtf is Knackering?!!! Porn & fap is ruining you, stop it altogether if you can. It's hard, I know, but after a week, you'll be a normal human again.
/r/seduction20/01/14 07:41 PM
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Sometimes, you gotta strike while the iron is hot bc once it goes cold, it stays cold. Simple tweak to your routine, if you're making out with a girl in a club, come up with a plausible excuse to go back to your place. If she says no, OK, it's not a same night lay and you calling her in a few days might work. The first girl either met a guy that took her home OR they felt a little guilty (slutty) about making out with a random and want to forget it. It has nothing to do with you, girls are alway…
/r/seduction20/01/14 07:37 PM
2

Due for tails. Ha, I see what you did there!
/r/seduction20/01/14 07:27 PM
1

I believe I am in the same situation, I have a feeling that my buddy's longtime gf is attracted to me. It's due to the fact that I understand who she actually is, thanks to all the time I've spent learning this stuff. Obviously, there's only 1 way to know for sure but I'm not willing to go there. Just let it go, there are too many other unattached girls. Enjoy the ego boost but don't cross the line... of course, if you do cross the line, let us know ;-)
/r/seduction10/01/14 10:32 PM
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Dude, most guys are NO good in bed. Just do what you want to do and she'll never know it's your first time; she'll just think you're like every other guy. It might help to read a book though, you don't want to put it in the wrong hole... That was a trick, there is no wrong hole ;-)
/r/seduction10/01/14 04:35 PM
0

You did the right thing for you, just eject. I would've told him to Eat Dick. But then again, I've been doing MMA for over 6 years and am nationally ranked in Jits. Big muscles require a TON of oxygen; they might have 30-45 good seconds in them before they start huffing and puffing. Then, they'll get an impromptu rectal exam
/r/seduction07/01/14 05:57 PM
1

Personally, I never kiss or get anything physical started in public, I just build rapport and have fun. I find it's better to start when it can go somewhere, than to start and stop in public. This method builds sexual tension and an air of mystery, she wants that first kiss but she'll have to come inside to have a chance. When we get back to my place (My place is clean, nice and very comfortable), I put on a movie and sit with her on my oversized couch, comfortably snuggled next to each other. W…
/r/seduction07/01/14 05:42 PM
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A man's most basic need is significance. Sleeping with multiple women is a BAND AID that makes us feel significant. It is a false significance, b\c it's based on sexual conquest. So, when we are a bit immature, hearing that our FB's\FWB's\BC's want to sleep with other men makes us feel less significant, because we're deriving our significance from sexual conquests. Find your significance elsewhere and you won't care that your FB's are doing what you are doing, bc it won't bother you. In between …
/r/seduction07/01/14 05:31 PM
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