Tips/Tricks to not be intimidated by the attractiveness of a woman.

Sky-Might-fall · 2014-01-27T03:57:39+00:00

It helps to rate girls by a 1 or 0.

mindfully_liberated · 2014-01-27T01:02:12+00:00

I mean this is a non dickish way.

There are no tips/tricks.

You must simply become aware of the illusion of fear your mind is creating by becoming more confident in stepping out of your comfort-zone.

You must simply talk to more attractive women. The more they intimidate you the better.

mak7912 · 2014-01-27T01:28:44+00:00

okay, this is what helped me, it's kind of gross but it works. When you see a girl who you are about to put on the pedestal, remember, she takes shits as big as you do, I know it may seem weird but it always brings them down to a level playing field for me.

quickie_ss · 2014-01-27T06:29:20+00:00

In her mind, she's just as insecure as you. Also, don't fear rejection. You have to die a 100 times before you start living. Failure isn't failure, it's simply finding how not to do something.

HappyJerk · 2014-01-27T01:38:24+00:00

Think about all the things it takes to make a person awesome: personality, interests, discipline, intelligence, etc... Just because she has one of those things (attractiveness) doesn't necessarily mean she has the other things. I know plenty of super hot girls and their lives completely suck. Their house is a mess, they suffer from terrible anxiety/depression, they have drug problems, etc...

Of course, when they leave the house they put on their best face and try to maximize their strengths (i.e, appearance). So you, the dumb guy at the club, think she's a beautiful goddess because all you see is her appearance. But she knows who she really is. She knows she's poor, stupid, about to get fired, etc...

The key is to talk to her on levels other than attractiveness. Ask her opinion on intellectual matters. Ask her if she does anything creative. Ask her what she does to help people. This will put her on the defensive and start looking up to you. I was talking to a super super super hot girl last night who was getting hit on by every guy at the club. When I was talking to her she was like "don't I look cute" and I was like "yeah, but what else do you have to offer other than your appearance"? She then rattled off her education, where she works, etc... For the rest of the night we talked on and off (I ended up going home with somebody else). But the point is, she knows that she lives in a world where appearance isn't everything and you need to let her know that you know that too and you are going to demand more from her than attractiveness.

TheGreatOutdoor · 2014-01-27T09:15:13+00:00

Imagine her in baggy clothes, without makeup on or her hair done. If she actually looks like that already, imagine her taking a dump as someone else mentioned. Girls are people too- even the pretty ones. And they all have their own insecurities, probably many more than men do.

Title	Tips/Tricks to not be intimidated by the attractiveness of a woman.
Author	SKIDDLYBEATBOP
Upvotes	8
Comments	11
Date	January 27, 2014 12:41 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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