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Dude just gave you solid advice. If you built enough attraction and solidified things through the convo, you should have no problem with figuring out what to say. And even more, shouldn't be worried. You sound incredibly insecure, which is probably where the problem lies. Quit being a whiny bitch, and I agree, and drop that passive aggressive bullshit.
/r/seduction13/11/14 09:13 PM
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The only way to get someone be more receptive to what you say, is to be more receptive to what they're saying. You've ever talk to someone that never lets you finish or get a word in? How much of the convo do you retain, how much do you feel? On your next approach ask her where she got her earrings, because you have to buy a b-day present for your sister, and you think her style is superb. After that you could say something like Hitler did nothing wrong, and she's be at least willing to hear you…
/r/seduction19/06/14 05:44 PM
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I will also agree here with Richralph, and throw the idea that I believe this story is fabricated. Further more, I'll answer the question at hand. It is not the most important, by a long shot. I am a good looking man. It's actually taken me quite some time to come to terms with, because the general idea here in /r/seduction, is that if a guy does post his pride involving his looks, or body, style ect, it get's downvoted and deemed as egotistic. This is setting up a horrible cognitive thought tha…
/r/seduction19/06/14 03:53 PM
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Dude, all the shit you just said is the equivalent of saying I have a Garden in New Jersey, why aren't my flowers growing? You're probably right with the body language, if you look like you're a hunter a rifle, who's going to line up in your sights?
/r/seduction17/06/14 08:23 PM
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Did you make sure to check if my feet were pointing at you before said that?
/r/seduction16/06/14 07:30 PM
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I ain't doing any of this shit. I'm what you call an alpha male. I stand tall, arms folded with muscles showing mean mugging me until a girl dares come within arms reach. Then I grab her ass so hard she starts pouring juices out her front. Seriously guys, hate to be that guy, but 20 psychological hacks? This is shit you should all know from just being a normal member of society. If any of this shit is eye opening, or inspiring to you, you need to get off reddit and get out more. For realz.
/r/seduction16/06/14 07:02 PM
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Really? It's your input, amigo. Take some time to think about it. Don't get mad because there's a deep truth.
/r/seduction07/06/14 11:24 PM
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For dancing? Is it normal for guys to go to a club and have fun dancing by themselves? I honestly don't know, but I'm pretty sure society views this strangely. Inside this statement lies why you won't ever be the best man you can.
/r/seduction06/06/14 11:14 PM
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Jump up all those girls that are 5 4 and shorter. That's all. You're not going to be able to get girls taller than you. Accept that. You may get a few, but don't let the ones that don't explicitly take you down. I'll bet you 500$, no holds bars, straight up, that there are shorties giving you looks and you're missing it cuz you're so stressed up about the taller girls not giving you looks. It's pretty plain and simple, generally girls like guys that are taller than them, so you're pretty much in…
/r/seduction02/06/14 03:57 PM
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Why does reddit have to nerdify everything? Are people here that socially retarded? Who has a conversation with somebody and thinks of them as a "target"? Hit man. Politicians. Sales-man Boxers. Psychologists. Rapists Doctors Lawyers
/r/seduction20/05/14 08:06 PM
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This is a personal belief of mine that cellphones, facebook, and all that noise is ruining people's abilities to have in depth and intimate conversations with people. It's depleting people's ability to empathize. Sure many of you may disagree, and be proven examples of countering my point, but I'm more focused on younger generations, like my sister, that's roughly 17 yrs old. I hear them all the time talking about normal situations at like the mall, or school, or whatever, and they are always li…
/r/seduction20/05/14 08:04 PM
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/r/seduction20/05/14 04:27 AM
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You're absolutely right, I don't think anyone is throwing that up for debate. I do feel you may have move too hastily through the post. I may be wrong, however I kinda feel you may have missed the point.
/r/seduction13/05/14 06:40 PM
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Ya, I mean even if I did, wtf could I do, lol
/r/seduction13/05/14 06:09 PM
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Know what I mean? I'm not gonna lie man, I read your reply, and I read it again. I don't know what you mean. Mind ELI5?
/r/seduction13/05/14 05:15 PM
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Imagine your entire love bank contains one dollar. The first thing I would do is to break that dollar into 100 pennies. Maybe 70 pennies, 1 quarter, and one nickel. This gives you the ability to give people small amounts of your love, without suffering extreme loss. You met a great girl, you giver her a penny. A week later maybe another one. Then after 6 months a nickel. You've invested 7 of your 100 cents, with the possibility of getting return back. If you get return back, well shit, you're no…
/r/seduction13/05/14 04:56 PM
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The sacred rule was implemented not for the women, but for us. You shouldn't be checking bitches out at the gym. Part of being a beast is control, my man. The only person you should be checking out at the gym is you.
/r/seduction12/05/14 06:53 PM
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I'll never forget I was outside on lunchbreak watching a group of kids attempting to alley up a set of 5 stairs up to a steeple. All these kids were trying and failing miserably, except for one. The kids that were failing would get incredibly angry with themselves. They were swearing, flanting their arms around. Throwing their boards to the ground. THen there was one kid who after every failure, would smile. He would laugh and start already looking forward to his next attempt. By the end of my l…
/r/seduction12/05/14 06:50 PM
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lol @ you getting shit dates outta this. What're you gonna do when you're in person? Try playing that suave dominate party in my head line? I give power to you, you're getting results, but all virtual. Being good at tinder as grounds to project PUA abilities is the equivalent of saying I can beat Cruising USA in under 3 quarters to a nascar team. I give you props dude, but never once in your life would say that to a girl in real life.
/r/seduction24/04/14 05:37 PM
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Great post HappyJerk, I never knew you did stand up. The cheese tricks, gimmicks, famboozles, etc don't work because, (off your point) the TEAM A'ers are all doing it, explicitly to get women That's the definitive factor. All the shit you're doing is not for you, it's for the women to get the women. Those type of people are building poor self depending habits relying on women. In other words, as many as you see here, are trying to seek self validation by getting a girl. This shit will work tempo…
/r/seduction23/04/14 05:42 PM
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At most Barber shops you'll drop a 20 usually to give a 5 buck tip. At a puerto rican barer shop you're going to get an hour hair cut. You're going to get quality fades, as well as a nice line-up. They will also do your facial hair, eyebrows, and anything else you want. Salons are meant for hair styling, not hair cuts. You will end up paying more at a salon and get a lower quality hair cut. Hair Stylists seldom ever go to school or get experience cutting hair, especially for men. Most will even …
/r/seduction23/04/14 02:14 PM
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I feel you, but y'know some dude's here take shit literally.
/r/seduction23/04/14 03:32 AM
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Get a haircut at a salon WTF? I would never ever, fuckin EVER let anyone in a salon touch my hair.... ever. Find a puerto rican barber, show him a picture of what you want. Done.
/r/seduction23/04/14 02:59 AM
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Most people don't want to hear about your diet, plans or training so ... Find something else to talk about. Personally, if I were a chick, I'd like to hear more about goals, like why you going to the gym all the time? TO tame lions girl, what you think? Y'know?
/r/seduction23/04/14 02:57 AM
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WTf is up with this subreddit today? People turning down class A advice from a good experienced guy. I mean shit, you're getting called creepy, asking why, then go on to talk about how you e numbers from day-gaming. Which is it amigo? "walk up to a girl in broad day light and start flirting" actually works, just needs too be more subtle to a degree. That shit is an oxy moron. wtf is subtle flirting? I'm sure you get numbers day gaming, but how many turn into dates or connections. A simple Hey, h…
/r/seduction18/04/14 05:35 PM
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Recently I started getting feedback from people who know the girls im hitting on Nigga that shit is creepy. People are usually creeped out by guys that are really socially awkward, try grabbing a friend and joining in on group conversations to learn how to act and talk correctly. You can't just walk up to a girl in broad day light and start flirting. Shit's weird as fuck.
/r/seduction18/04/14 04:45 PM
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Ya, you're 17.
/r/seduction18/04/14 04:02 PM
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Fuckin A happy jerk. I wanna go out with you man, we think so alike. Yes I'm coming on to you.
/r/seduction18/04/14 03:56 PM
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O good lord, kid. Are you like 17 or something? Forget the advice I gave you. No one here owe's you shit. Including the advice. You got some quality advice take it and move on. Fuck your crying, man.
/r/seduction18/04/14 03:54 PM
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Verbal flirting is what I'm good at, and I am very good at it, lol, you come here asking for advice and get some solid advice and don't like it becuse you don't agree with it. If you're going to go ahead and say you're good at verbal flirting, then you've already openly admitted that there is a difference between verbal and phsysical flirting., I just told you physical flirting is 100x's more important. It's pretty much scientifically accepted that we communicate 90 to 10 physical to verbal. Thi…
/r/seduction18/04/14 03:46 PM
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....... You are part of a the tech generation that is not finding out why it is harder to be in personal contact. Why? Because with everything being digital with FB, texts, etc, you lack the ability to read social cues given with body language. I can't even understand how you could even flirt on the phone. You think flirting is verbal? No, it's not, it's probably 9 - 1 with body language to verbal. You all need to start learning how to read body language it's the most important thing not only in…
/r/seduction18/04/14 02:40 PM
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You can't change it. If you're introverted, you're introverted. There's nothing wrong with that. Contrary to what all think, as you get older you'll be happy you were the 4 friends type of guy, and all those that didn't have it will be envious they didn't. To all say why not both. Shut up, you don't know what you're talking about. The real answer to the whole question is that it can't be answered, a hi-bye friend is an oxymoron
/r/seduction18/04/14 02:36 PM
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The true master of conversation understands silence is his most powerful weapon. I challenge you, the next time this you begin to think a silence is awkward, continue being quiet while smiling enjoying the moment. Report your results.
/r/seduction13/04/14 11:44 PM
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Reading that right now 70 pages in, I'm very impressed.
/r/seduction09/04/14 04:40 PM
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I am the mother fuckin' man. I even have it tagged next to my name. Take a look. http://imgur.com/cJBAoXV
/r/seduction09/04/14 04:35 PM
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Fuckin A HappyJerk, sometimes I find your shit debatable, but you always throw your 100% heart into this shit. Hit the nail with your opening lines man. Bravo.
/r/seduction04/04/14 04:26 PM
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GOOD LORD, I'M GLAD YOU CAME HERE WHEN YOU DID.
/r/seduction03/04/14 06:43 PM
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I never feel like girls find me sexually attractive. Knowing what a girl really thinks is the equivalent of being able to predict the lotto numbers. Please attempt to stop letting her decide whether you're sexually attractive and let her know yourself.
/r/seduction03/04/14 01:56 PM
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I'm out spending it with another girl.
/r/seduction02/04/14 12:02 AM
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There is a universal rule, that you never give in to a girls attempts to see you, at least at first. I learned it from Dazed and Confused, my father, my older bros, and even my favorite puas. Here's the line from Dazed and Confused. Wish I had the video clip You know that Julie chick? Loves you. You want her? Gotta play it cool, you know. You can't let her know how much you like cause if she knows, she'll dump you like that. Believe me. Like, if she asks you if you want a ride, you say, "No, I'v…
/r/seduction01/04/14 09:06 PM
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This is crazy man!! If you get her over your house, it's over, you already won. Start with just sitting next to them with the tv on, talking. Then scoot closer. Then lean on her, or have her lean on you. Be creative. Then ask her if she's ticklish, when she says yes, ask her where and then tickle her. After tickling her you go in and tickle her again, except this time you kiss her. Done. I'll never forgot there was one time I got this really cute girl from Amsterdam to come to my house from the …
/r/seduction31/03/14 07:52 PM
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Escalate this to walk by eye contacts, and now you're giving them the opportunity to do something back. you never know.
/r/seduction31/03/14 12:26 AM
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I'ma drop some shit I learned from the two best PUA's I've ever met in my life. They are a gay man couple, and they got god damn game, and I go to them for all my texting game cuz they are pros. Straight up guys. Texting is not about what you say, but rather what you DON'T say. You build the attraction through the mystery, by making her think. In some other instances girls ARE going to play that waiting game, or that bullshit. You gotta convey you don't give a shit. Classic example happened a fe…
/r/seduction28/03/14 03:41 PM
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Instincts tell you you are worthy of a girl you fancy, and are ready to approach. Pseudo socially influenced bullshit, tells you are not. Which do you want to trust? May I remind you, it is 100% your choice.
/r/seduction23/03/14 10:30 PM
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I hope I'm not late to the party and you get to read this. To delude the awkwardness you must open the pseudo womb to the air, and relieve yourself when you realize there's no pain when it's exposed. Trust me man. 9 out of 10 times every girl human being is going to be open and friendly your openings. You will get the 1 bitch that just thinks you're not worth her time. I know this is what you dreadfully fear, but it doesn't really happen as often as you think, and when it happens it's no differe…
/r/seduction23/03/14 10:25 PM
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This is such a bullshit ass-backwards cyclic logic that's going to propel anyone who uses into failure.
/r/seduction23/03/14 01:19 AM
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I've gotten 500 times as many women by sincerely and openly complimenting them, than I ever did ignoring them. In fact I did it yesterday. "Girl A! Get tipsy more often, I fuckin love it when you show off that smile!" Ya, that cheesy line right there got me her. Why? Cuz I meant it, and I said with a subtle hint of God damn girl, I want you. Convey your want without need, and you win. This isn't me telling you what to do, just simply disproving the one bullshit alpha method. As stated early in t…
/r/seduction23/03/14 01:15 AM
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Humans are social beings. In that sense, there is, and always will be a sociological evolution chain.
/r/seduction12/03/14 02:09 PM
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Just chill. They'll open a window of opportunity and then you just pounce on them. Prime example.... Had an Amog try bullying me out the other day. I just stood there and smiled, taking it. Y'know throwing small pussy ass jabs here and there. Drake song comes and I start singing to the girl, "I got my eye on you!" AMOG goes, You ever think of starting a career in singing long lul he finishes with a ..... don't. While still dancing to the song I look over and go, you ever think of being a comedia…
/r/seduction09/03/14 08:27 PM
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Hey there XX, long time no see. How are you? Done.
/r/seduction05/03/14 08:41 PM
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I'm just trying to shift their views of me from cute to hot. lol, GOOD LUCK WITH THAT, dumbass! just though of a better comeback.... cutie
/r/seduction05/03/14 12:49 AM
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I've noticed this from when I was a much younger lad, when I first joined the military. I will admit, I was very brainwashed, but the results don't lie. Not just with women, but with people in general. Standing very confidently, and telling people, please, yes, thank you, you're very welcome changes people's insights on you almost instantaneously. There's a very loud roar of masculinity from a man that projects chivalry. It's almost a nobility and treating those somewhat under you with respect. …
/r/seduction04/03/14 06:36 PM
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You're a loser man. Find another hobby. You got girls calling you cute, and adorable. And you can't make game off that? You're turning it around as if it's a bad thing? FUCK man, these girls are calling me cute..... Fuck that sucks. C'mon man, get your head out of your ass. You're insecure, fix it. I can't stand this fuckin bullshit you throw out like "I don't need the height doesn't matter train" while you cry about being insecure about being cute. You're cute, cuz you have no order, you're not…
/r/seduction04/03/14 05:29 PM
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That is not what the article is saying, I think you have misinterpreted the real message. It doesn't quite state to ignore fashion or fitness. It is more rather, telling you to focus on why you're doing it. Going to the gym because you want to live a long healthy life is a man of order. Going to the gym explicitly to get "swoll" and to attract more girls, is an insecurity.
/r/seduction04/03/14 02:09 AM
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O sweet seduction sorceresses let the downvotes rain upon me. Dude, you're in with your height, 100%. She loves it, and is way attracted more to your -50 pounds and your height, and than the 300 you currently have. I promise. It's ok to reap the benefits of being tall and saying "Hey I am tall!" Everyone's got their pro's, focus on them. Best of luck.
/r/seduction02/03/14 01:37 AM
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You're labling the situation in your head. You're litterally creating a scene in your mind titled "Ok, section 14: Physical Escalation" and you're psyching yourself out. Next time this happens, stop and literally ask yourself, why am I thinking this. Shit even say it out loud and make a joke out of it. Look at the girl and say "haha wow, I can't believe I'm axious to do that" She'll be like "do what" Then you say "this" while going in. I just made that little routine up just now. I bet I can pul…
/r/seduction02/03/14 01:35 AM
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Brotha, it's good to have no expecations when living life in general. Depression comes when you're living in the past Anxiety comes when you're living in the future. Peace/Chillen comes when you're living in the now.
/r/seduction28/02/14 05:49 PM
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This is the best answer because if you really do move on and she see's it.... well you know the rest.... You know that Julie chick? Loves you. You want her? Gotta play it cool, you know. You can't let her know how much you like her 'cause if she knows, she'll dump you like that. Believe me. Like, if she asks you if you want a ride, you say, "No, I've got my own ride, but maybe I'll see you later." Sounds stupid, doesn't it? It works. Words to live by - from Dazed and Confused.
/r/seduction27/02/14 11:37 PM
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I think you made one mistake/awesome move. She may or may not your username, and this exact post.
/r/seduction27/02/14 11:35 PM
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I'll bet 500 bucks everyone of these bitches is single. And I don't feel bad for calling them bitches. I can't stand the arrogant disposition they hold that they are privileged and should be swooned by. I want you to stop and ask yourself, do you think you could write an article on what to do to attract a man? You think you could, but you couldn't trust me. Go to a gay bar and see if you can hook up with a target of your choice. You're pretty much asking a fish what techniques we could use to ca…
/r/seduction24/02/14 05:58 PM
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"I don't know about this thing you guys mentioned, so I'm going to discount it as worthless before ever taking a look at it." Absolutely. Sex and love making is something you should be comepelty thoughtless about, it is something you shouldn't even think about, but rather enjoy endlessly and emotionally.... and pyshically This script shit is 100% chump shit. But after reading your second part, I see it's not entirely a script like effort. Good stuff.
/r/seduction24/02/14 02:43 AM
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I don't know of these escalation ladders everyone's talking about, but that seems like bullshit and forced method, and will make the whole act less enjoyable. This is what I do, because I really enjoy it, and every partner seems to too. I'm not just doing what she wants or what I want, I do what I think we as one would want. I always go with the flow and start off very dominate. Kissing and then moving to kissing her jawline, to her ear, then down her neck. Then I go towards the chest slowly inc…
/r/seduction24/02/14 01:50 AM
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Gonna say delivery. Actually it's just a shitty ass opener. I think I have an opener that might work for you. I call it the "My opinion matters" I literally just made it up, and I have totally used it before. She gets the Oh hey, I think your cute shit from everyone So you can do one of two things.... change the line..... or change the guy that's giving it. Go up to that same type of girl and say with extreme excitement and loud body open language, I'm talking big ass smile, loud, and arms open …
/r/seduction20/02/14 05:07 AM
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I did mate. I'll finish it. Also, a little trick I learned on this subreddit that helped me a lot, is when you see a girl and you make eye contact, just whisper to your mind "I'm fucking you tonight" in a sorta cheeky way. Always makes me put a casual smirk, and drop any restraints.
/r/seduction17/02/14 05:57 PM
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Ya man, we've all been there. You're nervous. There isn't one man in the hisotry of the world that doesn't get nervous when trying to flirt with a hot girl. Except maybe gay men. You just need to try it, fail at it, and realize it wasn't so bad. Like getting your first haircut, or trip to the dentist, or first day of school, etc. Shit gets easier. Also, when
/r/seduction17/02/14 09:54 AM
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lol at all you chumps. You all say act like you don't give shit, act reserved, when in reality you want to give her piece of mind. That's chump shit man. A man is always in tune with his feelings, and doesn't give a shit. She's being fake as hell, and you both know she's being fake as hell, and you're going to let her do it? No way, Jose. I am the prize baby, and you just passed up something great. I'm a well relaxed and confident guy. I'ma get mine. I always do. The first thing I would do is pl…
/r/seduction17/02/14 09:50 AM
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I'ma put shit in perspective for you and a lot of people here. If you don't feel a real enough conneciton with her where you can't tell if she's making an excuse or flaking...... then what do you think she feels about the connection with you? It's simple man. Take shit at face value. You know when you got something real with someone. Furthermore, and I bet you some of you are gonna call this "beta" Ask her. Ask her for real. Be a man about it. "Hey, I can't help but feel that you might be flakin…
/r/seduction06/02/14 07:56 PM
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this comment should be downvoted to fuckin hell. I hate this fuckin attitude you have, like you're totally ass backwards with your logic. Just about all the time, this is a shit test. Why would anyone show key signs of flirting for 20 minutes to pull his card? The easiest way to pass this is immediately ask what his name is, not even dropping the ball and watch her pull the immediate key sings of fumbling while lying. She'll fuckin love that you just rolled through the test though.
/r/seduction02/02/14 02:14 PM
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You're right in saying her shit tests will never end, you're wrong in your logic on why she's doing it. At some point or another, you conveyed an aura of positivity, confidence, comfort, or whatever. Whatever it is, you're not displaying it anymore and she's asking for it back. Everything she is doing translates to..... "Hey you're not being the man you were, why?" Telling her she could have happily left or acting selfish isn't the alpha or right thing to do, she's your girlfriend, not a random …
/r/seduction29/01/14 07:47 PM
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like a fourteen-year-old pre-neckbeard Well he's gotta appeal to his main demographic here.... I kid, I kid.......
/r/seduction28/01/14 02:49 AM
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How do I keep things fresh, vibrant, sexy, funny and be on the forefront of her mind while there is this seemingly awkward absence? Call her un-expenctingly. if that's a word. Do it, it'll work 100%
/r/seduction28/01/14 02:34 AM
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I made all that up to rustle that sexually frustrated dude's shit. Sorry man.
/r/seduction27/01/14 08:54 PM
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Don't know why this is getting downvoted. Molly is an incredible tool to cure social anxiety....permanently.
/r/seduction27/01/14 08:46 PM
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Bro, you just beat street fighter two with the stars all the way up. I don't give a shit if you don't feel it, but you are a fuckin hero.
/r/seduction27/01/14 08:42 PM
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lol, dude's got a username to match this shit.
/r/seduction27/01/14 08:40 PM
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My friend, you have a lot of talking to do with yourself. I am so happy you opened up and have shared what you may think is some downfalls, but I riddle you this. To see yourself down in a lower position, well, you must be looking at it from above. As far as your depression and anxiety, I am no therapist, psychologist, psychiatrist, etc, but I recommend finding a support group with people of similar hindrances in life. I'm sure you may be able to find some in your local area. Best of luck amigo.
/r/seduction27/01/14 06:16 PM
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I usually don't even reply to silly, trivial things, but I thought someone who is so in tune with wanting to be correct should know this: The whole I could care less, comes from the Portuguese phrase Eu poderia cuidar menos, mas eu não me importo em todos os Which means, I could care less, but I don't care at all Over time we just dropped the second half. The more you know. Also, this whole I don't get why everybody says Stop thinking about other people.... and further more... That's all I get o…
/r/seduction27/01/14 05:26 PM
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I mean this is a non dickish way. There are no tips/tricks. You must simply become aware of the illusion of fear your mind is creating by becoming more confident in stepping out of your comfort-zone. You must simply talk to more attractive women. The more they intimidate you the better.
/r/seduction27/01/14 01:02 AM
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Who invites you to their bedroom if they're not in the mood for sex? Sounds to me like you're almost like trying to walk the ball in so to speak. Asking to make a move ain't making a move my lad. Here's a move I actually learned somewhere in this sub years ago. For some reason it stuck, and it's generally an easy way to feel confident about going in for a move. I have personally used this a lot, actually it's textbook to me. Simply ask if she's ticklish, after she says yes, or no, or whatever, g…
/r/seduction27/01/14 12:56 AM
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TL;DR - people don't know how to really fail. They're just comforting their egos One who can't see the victory in reaching failure, will forever see failure in reaching victory. In my eyes, it takes a lot to actually fail something. I mean to really accept that you failed. You may get an F on a test, you may be cheating on your diet. You may have given up on Contra for the NES. But you have to actually acknowledge it, speak with yourself and tell yourself "I gave it my all and couldn't compete" …
/r/seduction27/01/14 12:16 AM
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Jelly is a female, passive trait. Shame on all you here. Is he lying, truth-telling, bragging or being humble? Who cares? You sure as hell shouldn't.
/r/seduction26/01/14 09:53 PM
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No that's even better. You can say I just heard that new drake song. because he doesn't have a new one out she'll say which one. then you say a song. and she'll go on about hahaha that's not new it's been out for X months. people love to tell other people they're wrong, or show they know something about somoene. it's almost undeniable. Think when you hear someone at a table a restarurant talking about something you know of, and thy're both completley wrong, you just wanna get in their dinner, te…
/r/seduction25/01/14 02:14 PM
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I really want to help you. What is your age? Give me what you remember of your last approach.
/r/seduction24/01/14 04:12 AM
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You're doing it wrong. Always make sure to have a highlighted moment. Then text with that. IE. You're talking and Drake comes up, she says some shit about how she loves drake, she saw him in concert, yada yada yada, Next day you open up with, I just heard that new Drake song on the radio. That's it. for clarification, you didn't really just hear taht new Drake song on the radio Do you understand?
/r/seduction24/01/14 02:11 AM
8

Play it as if you're giving her the chance.
/r/seduction24/01/14 02:05 AM
2

Help a brother out, I did.
/r/seduction23/01/14 05:16 PM
-1

Idiot? You feel like an idiot? This is a prime example of exactly what you should be doing. Not giving a fuck, approaching and then approaching more. I mean be proud, you read the situation right, strong eye contact, a look back, you just slipped and forgot, but you read the hand right, so kudos.
/r/seduction23/01/14 04:36 PM
24

Call me an asshole, downvote me, get angry, I don't care, but you should.... because the fact that this getting upvotes makes me despise this subreddit more and more each day. This isn't a support forum for people who can't say hi to people. What good is putting yourself down or asking people how to initiate conversation with a cute girl on a bus? Nothing. I could probably give you an in ear headphone and tell you what to say and you'd still screw it up. People come on here and tell of their suc…
/r/seduction23/01/14 04:34 PM
1

Please understand, if a girl is giving you a shit test, she is testing your ability to save face, and stay in tuned with yourself. Essentially, she's sizing you up. Do you ever size up anyone you wouldn't waste your time with? Think about this. If a girl is shit testing you she's conveying interest. Smile and respond accordingly. You don't even need to be good with your response, you just need to hold your ground with a smile.
/r/seduction22/01/14 05:31 PM
80

This is the absolute problem with this subreddit. Too much thinking, not enough doing.. I mean no disrespect towards you my friend, but I want you to read carefully. Let me ask you, in your experience, which technique do you think would work? Do you not have any experience at all to compare or conclude an opinion? Then stop dead in your tracks of reading and start going out to find out. There's a lot of golden material on this subreddit, but there's a lot of pseudo shit, and that's where so many…
/r/seduction22/01/14 05:25 PM
1

100%
/r/seduction20/01/14 03:30 AM
53

Here's some useful shit I learned in this sub 1) Hey Brenda I like your shirt -you're complementing your self 2) Hey Brenda, that's a nice shirt -you're complimenting the shirt 3) Hey Brenda, that shirt looks nice on you -bingo Just think about sometimes someone has said these things to you. Which made you feel like a baller?
/r/seduction17/01/14 06:34 PM
5

This is the coolest shit I've read here in a while. Good post man.
/r/seduction17/01/14 03:08 AM
8

The four agreements, practice these and your world will unfold before your eyes. Many many of you haven't been living/thinking free, you're all shackled to society's poison, which is precisely why you over think, put yourself down, or gain fear of an uncertain future (approach anxiety) I am not the creator of this, so don't thank me, just pay it forward, you can buy the book on Amazon. It's not matter of whether it';ll change your life or not, it's whether you will apply it or not, because it wi…
/r/seduction14/01/14 11:13 PM
1

Yes, in the sense that you'd have a wider range of dates to select. Typically women want the partner of someone who is taller than them. The taller you are the, the wider your selection. So being at 5'8" that leaves with about 3,000,000,000 women to choose from. So you're absolutely right, considering you can't get in with those 3.000.000.000, you better get the surgery to give you access to the remaining 1,000,000,000. Surely you're chances will then get better.
/r/seduction13/01/14 04:01 AM
-4

U WOT, m8?
/r/seduction13/01/14 03:55 AM
1

I literally tell myself I am the man over 100 times a day. Every chance I get. I even say it to the women I'm with. I literally say "God, I love being the man" Affirmations is real deal dude. Be impeccable with your word, it's the first agreement.
/r/seduction09/01/14 03:04 AM
5

Damn kid, your asshole must be fuckin LOOSE!
/r/seduction09/01/14 03:01 AM
2

Dude, re-evaluate shit. Your age has nothing to do with anything. Nothing.
/r/seduction09/01/14 03:00 AM
1

Flow is not when you have everything in control.... This is some pseudo shit that does not need to be in this subreddit.
/r/seduction04/01/14 02:57 AM
13

Came over my oneitis, found a new girl who is awesome and I love lol, you sure about getting over oneitis, kid?
/r/seduction04/01/14 02:55 AM
1

This shit's probably late to the party, but what a great article. I don't play this game for petty shit. I don't. I go big or go home. After a night of at bats, a k-close, #-close are all loses to me. I mean, don't answer, but ask yourself, how many of your # closes have led to anything? I'd be a liar if I said even 1 in 10. I don't do that shit no more, get the number close after a f-close. that's a win. This has resulted in me being way more aggressive and passionate in making escalation happe…
/r/seduction31/12/13 06:06 PM
2

Best answer here. You'll often find in times of desperation the aimless shot will work 1 out of at least 50 approaches.
/r/seduction31/12/13 05:42 PM
-4

When the fuck has secudtion been about a girlfriend? Seduction is about seducing women, not wifing them dude. FUCK your type around here. Seriously, fuck your type. Any excuse you can find to justify the fact you're women less. SHe's too ugly, she's too cute, she's too extroverted, she's too loose. FUCK YOU!
/r/seduction31/12/13 04:27 PM
6

In my 10000 plus approaches I don't think I have ever been asked this once.....I digress I thought we all agreed here to ditch the whole, OMG what to do in this situation? What do I say now? what about after, this shit isn't in the script? How about you ask yourself, do you? Are you? Are you flirting with her? Yes? Then act accordingly. "Are you flirting with me?" "I don't' know, are you acting like you don't know" "Yes, only because you're enjoying it." "Wow, it's been a while since you've chat…
/r/seduction30/12/13 07:47 PM
4

who cares?
/r/seduction29/12/13 04:36 AM
0

Which is basicly nonsense in taking control of your own life and finding real options. It's easy to tell fish how not to be fish when you're a turtle.
/r/seduction27/12/13 04:37 PM
6

How can I make ice cream that's vanilla flavored, but is also a hot dog?
/r/seduction27/12/13 04:30 PM
0

I have literally gotten not just women, but dozens of people to open up to me by simply asking "do you have anxiety right now" just about 9 out of 10 times they will reply "omg, can you tell?" from there just tell them "ya, I used to have them all the time, lemme help you out" just be the guy to take it from them. remember, like a TCP establish connection or a hand shake, it takes at least two or more acknowledgements to truly make something awkward. If one person thinks something is awkward, we…
/r/seduction24/12/13 10:49 PM
5

What type of club is it? Club game is my favorite genre, mainly because it's taught me more about body language, and actually holding a good confident vibe, because you can't really talk with loud music. I typically achieve this by dancing, because I love it an I am good at it. I've come across the hot sitting girls quite often. I usually talk shit (not straight shit guys) in a manner of like "wtf do you come to a club for if you're gonna sit around" I usually do this after dancing so my energy …
/r/seduction24/12/13 10:45 PM
3

Whether you're lying or not is not important at all. Why people think you're lying is. It may not be that your stories are so outrageous, as much as it might sound that you're bragging or intentionally exaggerating to make friends or impress people. Perhaps your delivery is somewhat more validation seeking than you may think.
/r/seduction23/12/13 03:40 AM
1

If I had to default to one I'd default to how to win friends. It's one of the best selling books of all time, and has been in practice for some what 60 years?
/r/seduction23/12/13 03:36 AM
2

Good advice from AnUnknown. What a perfect oppurtunity to practice being outcome indendent. You can 100 approaches in 100 minutes if you wanted to. My advice, if you like the atmosphere and the type of crowd, then do the drugs. Roll get high enjoy the ride.
/r/seduction23/12/13 03:00 AM
2

Ha, dude, for some people even beautiful girls, it takes a while to actually come to terms with realizing you're a good looking person. In some aspects many may find this comment some what arrogant or stern, however you may need to start really checking yoruself out and telling yourself, wow I'm actually a very a good looking man. You're sitting here asking yourself how do I compliment back? Well if you wanted to you'd know how, y'know. Take the compliments and ride this out, it'll work in your …
/r/seduction22/12/13 04:53 PM
0

I can't stand this topic, because it gives guys an excuse to put themselves down, and not approach. Ask yourself this, do you get mad when someone "claims" you think a certain way? It may be extreme, but what would you think if someone came out of nowhere and said hey you racicts! You'd be like wtf? I'm not racists. So who the fuck are you to say whether a girl is gonna find you attractive or not? How about you approach and find out. This game is so cyclic in theories and techniquese it's kinda …
/r/seduction20/12/13 07:34 PM
-2

classic one I use is so how do you guys know each other? What brings you here? You guys like to party. I mean for fucks sake its your night your fun. If you don't know them well enough, find out enough to know if you WANT to know them more. I enjoy partying, if you catch my drift? I'm in a group of 5 people and I find out they're just "drinkers" I'm out, see ya later. And for the last time, you're no fucking introverted cuz you lack social skills, that's some bullshit problem avoidance that's = …
/r/seduction12/12/13 07:33 PM
1

I don't get it your question is How do I touch her hand, or hold her hand? Do you not know how to hold a hand. Step one, open your hand. step two, reach for the opposing hand. Step three, grab the opposing hand step for pull the hand towards you. Done. You are thinking to much. Your instincts are telling you touch her, but your ego is telling you not to. The ego hasn't been around that long. Instincts? about a billion years. You tell me which one you're going to trust?
/r/seduction04/12/13 08:32 PM
1

That's called assault, and that's way too aggressive.
/r/seduction04/12/13 03:12 PM
-5

To each his own. It fits my character. It's been field tested. Pretty good success rate.
/r/seduction03/12/13 03:45 PM
-9

I'm not going to lie, this shit pisses me off. I usually give a warning. Then I literally take the phone from them and tell 'em I don't tolerate that shit. I don't care if I've only known them for 2 minutes. I'll snatch that shit right outta their hands. I don't just do this with girls, I do it with everyone.
/r/seduction03/12/13 02:31 PM
26

I literally walk around all day telling myself over and over that I'm awesome and I"m the man. It's embedded in my sub-conscious and is now a part of my every day persona. This comes into play how? Well, I'm never actively thinking of looking at someone, or vice versa. I just do it while jamming to Zeppelin or something. Much of this game believe it or not, is not what you need to learn as much as you need to forget. Just stop thinking about it.
/r/seduction02/12/13 07:33 PM
-4

Great post man.... but dude this whole texting story is all pussy shit in my eears. FOr real, and all you others posting analyzing is pussy shit too. Wanna know what a real man woulda done? Flipped the tables on that bitch and called her. Fuck this texting shit, "alright girl you wanna talk here I am." I am a caller, always have always will be. Mad girls will tell you, Oh I don't like when a man calls or whatever....ya it's because it doesn't catch you on the go, and you don't get to have an adv…
/r/seduction25/11/13 02:54 PM
5

The high upvote count of this makes me cringe at the number of people here with oneitis. You'll build more attraction by moving on than you ever could through action. This is 100% factual. Find a new chick and hopefully run into her when you're with your new one.
/r/seduction22/11/13 08:05 PM
2

I feel like that's best compliment I can get from you so thank you.
/r/seduction22/11/13 06:34 PM
1

Ya bro, I go out in Boston all the time. What type of place you looking for? I hit up Rise all the time, but that's my flavor.
/r/seduction21/11/13 05:48 PM
1

lol
/r/seduction18/11/13 10:05 PM
5

Ya but check out what he said, none lasted more than two months. You're saying you've done with "every" girl, implying there's been more than few? Notice how none were keepers? I do the same thing, but just imagine how happy our parents were when they first started dating. only seeing each other a few times a week for a rew hours, after not seeing or hearing from them at all.
/r/seduction18/11/13 03:37 AM
12

Number 9 is my favorite OPS for sure. Number 12 was really in depth, I've always agreed with anti-texting, but couldn't formulate the words to kinda explain why. You hit it very well. I'd much rather not have a gf than have one out of her wanting to be not alone.
/r/seduction17/11/13 10:14 PM
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