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| 1 | I have Blonde FatigueSame. I find blonde women overrated, awfully self important and not as seductive as brunettes or etc | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/25 06:20 PM |
| 0 | How to handle women in the 28-33 year range? Need help from experienced peopleYou speak of a "conservative city" in a "conservative country'. Where do you live: Riyadh, Saudi Arabia? No other places but Muslim countries are actually conservative, and even within those you have huge exceptions "I only date 8/10s". Your post reeks of bullshit and you created an imaginary case to make a point for whatever reason | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/25 05:53 AM |
| 8 | Single mothers gave up their fairytale — they don’t deserve fantasy, just terms.Obviously you're out of place here | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/25 07:15 PM |
| 19 | Single mothers gave up their fairytale — they don’t deserve fantasy, just terms.Let's not get emotionally triggered. The argument is simple: you have leverage with single moms for whatever your goals are (exceptions with the super hot ones). Use it at your discretion, if you want. If you don't, just don't. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/25 10:38 PM |
| 3 | If You Talk Like Her, You’ll Think Like Her: Stop Using Her Vocabulary - What she says and what she really means.Good post | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/25 09:16 AM |
| 2 | Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experienceOh, I was a regular bible reader. My heart and my mind are closed to it. I just decided to stop pretending. Maybe my way it's another. Still, thanks. I'm glad you have a source of meaning. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experienceI practiced mindfulness for a time.... I didn't help me, but I'm sure I'll find a way to deal with this. Thank for wishing me well, hope you do well too. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experienceI Don't believe in heaven. Nothing against it, though. I like angels as mythology figures. Why do you ask? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experienceI thought I replied to this, no matter. Haha, I was expecting the "man the fuck up too" but I wanted to write nonetheless. I'll check the concept of the dark night and I won't discard completely the idea of psychedelics, maybe I Don't need them, but they can't harm? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experienceIt's actually in my reading list but I'm not sure about reading it because I've read it depicts too much cuckoldry. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experienceI'm not dating as constantly as I used to. So, yeah. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experienceI was always more or less nihilistic, egocentric, but maybe that's not helping me at all. I left Europe for Latin America and saw many things. I agree, it changed me. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experienceCamus and some other authors | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experienceI'm 28 years old. In my last serious relationship, she wanted children, but I didn't feel prepared in terms of money. Now she's pregnant from an x Joe (after we broke up for other reasons). Maybe I need a band of brothers. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experienceThank you. You've taken some good decisions. Reading you makes me think of my own father: he's a public servant and always loves helping others. Also, he loves me, even though I'm an older young man (28). I'm too egoistic and egocentric, never get why or how he gets so excited about seeing me... He wants me to have kids now, haha. Maybe I need a side quest too. I had a plan for an enterprise" I've been suppression because it seemed futile to me, but maybe that's my call. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 03:44 PM |
| 3 | Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experienceI Don't disagree, but my mind and my heart are somewhat closed to the idea of God. I tried it for years, but I just pretended. Perhaps my way is a different one. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experienceI always liked the serenity prayer they use there, it got me through some hard times. Maybe what I need is a mentor? I have some ambitions I've ditched, maybe I need someone to evaluate and "guide me" though my enterprise.. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 03:39 PM |
| 3 | Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experience"Usually, you fill find purpose at the bottom", I like this. It reminded something of Don Quixote and the windmills. A well written, insightful reply. It really got me, as other replies here are getting me. As I stated in the post, I always had political/social ambitions, but I ditched them because they're futile. Maybe I should dare going all the way nonetheless. Thanks for the post. Hope your situation improves. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experienceI had a band of brothers when I was a scene, counterculture musician a decade ago. Those were the best times of my life, but we all changed , I went abroads, came back but everyone changed and have their own lives now. Since then I never found men who I'd call "brothers". I've been active in political youth associations and they were all pussies. I need an enterprise in my work field (academia), like, spreading the ideas I believe in. Maybe there I'll find or develop strong bonds again | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experienceI'm an academic. My hobbies are music, gym, reading, "dating" which I'm becoming bored of. I always wanted to shoot, but that's somewhat an expensive hobby here. I tried out of boredom to mix drinks at the bar of a friend, but I feel nothing. Maybe I do need a challenge. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 03:22 PM |
| 3 | Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experienceI've seriously considered psychedelics. Like, maybe is exactly what I need right now. It would be an interesting, occasionally experience. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 03:19 PM |
| 4 | Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experienceI wouldn't say I was that much of a blue pill guy before becoming fully red pill aware: many of the tenets I was already intuitively aware of. Also, I never build my life around women, I always had this drive to act and live independently from others, even before becoming fully red-pill woke. I always did all of my hobbies and goals independently from women. I kind of stated that in the post. However, it's true that the effect from the lack - or theoretical impossibility for enjoyable companions… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experienceI'm a very egocentric, almost egoistic person. You're probably right. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 03:07 PM |
| 12 | Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experienceYou nailed an important point. I used to have a crew of friends I had a strong bond with: we were all musicians, played together and did a lot of fun bullshit when we were young. I felt meaningfully fulfilled back then with them. I was sort of the "gang leader" (musicians, artists lived in a sort of counterculture, parallel society back then). We were in constant trouble. I felt the most real and alive back then. However, everybody changed and even though I came back home, they have their own li… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 03:02 PM |
| 15 | Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experienceHey, thanks for this answer. Excellent points, I'll consider them all. I'm a musician too, however, I've been unable to enjoy creating or listening to new music as I used to. I'm not much someone of living in the present, but I think I should really start with it. Regarding to my past relationship (warning, you'll get irritated); The relationship ended because I was red pill aware with a blue pill heart. Also, I wasn't in good shape back then (not an Adonis now, but better). We were very compati… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 02:51 PM |
| 4 | Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experienceInteresting, I'll think of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 12:43 AM |
| 6 | Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experienceHey, thanks for this. I can totally relate to those aspects regarding having to end things with whom you really like and especially regarding the vision. Problem is, my vision used to be things related to violent political revolution, terrorism, etc (Don't judge me). I always wanted to join the military, but I'm somewhat old for that now. I always had this "call to adventure" I never managed to follow. Greatness was what I always desired besides love, but that's just a fantasy now. Maybe an ente… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 12:41 AM |
| 3 | Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experienceI know it's my choice, but that's too abstract. It's like having hunger. It's not really an idea, but an experience... | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 12:34 AM |
| 9 | Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experienceYeah, I'm prone to existentialist nihilism too. That's not the matter. I agree with everything you said. Yet, the void and the boredom are still there. It's not that I'm longing for transcendental meaning. Imagine You're hungry and you can get yourself to work for food because You're crippled or live in a poor place? It's about a need that I can't fulfill, a need that I'm not romanticizing, but recognizing as it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 12:08 AM |
| 11 | Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experienceThanks, but I Don't trust psychiatry, I rather psychology, but it's just my attitude is front of this reality in my organism, I suppose? I need to find an insight that gives me motivation, or allows me to feel engaged with life again... If there can be such insight at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/23 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Definitions of female monogamy: loyalty vs spontaneous, natural exclusivityYes, that happens, which might prove my point that the term "loyalty" is misleading. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/22 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Definitions of female monogamy: loyalty vs spontaneous, natural exclusivityI'm discussing the meaning of loyalty itself. I didn't say they aren't opportunistic. I said that they are unforcedly not interested in other men while You're their best option, until a better one shows up. In the meantime, eyes only for you, unlike other women who are together with men they like just enough. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/22 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Is your man the only man you desire sexually/emotionally, or do your "eyes wander" and enjoy the attention of other men?Yes, but most replies I got on male-only spaces where not to worry about things beyond my control, end. I'm not worrying, I'm curious. So your feelings for him are the way I described? | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/22 09:07 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about "settling" for someone?I am a man. Though most here are right in that you shouldn't be with someone you are not sure you are that attracted, it seems that you like him as a person and in the long term, that is what matters, because it is very difficult to find someone you like as a person and also shares your values. Maybe you could talk to him about his weight in an indirect way? I am not saying "keep him", but I am inviting you to consider the long term and the fact that is not alway easy to find someone that compat… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/22 04:02 PM |
| 1 | How do you attract a high value man?Work on your Instagram account. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/22 01:28 AM |
| – | How do you stop needing validation, recognition, affection, etc?Thanks for the detailed reply. So it is a conscious effort... I don't actively seek for validation/affection. The need and the bad feelings from it are just there and make me do inauthentic stuff. I know I'm fully responsible for my behavior, but telling myself not to seek it hasn't given me the results I wanted. Example: I have to talk to a colleague that overtly dislikes me. I tell myself "fuck him. I won't be polite or friendly to that imbecile. I don't need his validation". Then, when I face… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/21 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Short bros, how to not let height affect my happiness?If I remember correctly, around 166/167 cm. Leave it by 167 cm. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 08:36 PM |
| -2 | Stop pedestalizing/overcome oneitis is a useless generic advice. Self-Dignity/Boundaries are better. What do you think?Where's the blue pill there? Oneitis does exist. So what? Red-pill is social dynamics/theory, not necessary praexology. I'm saying that insisting in "just fuck other girls, bro" works for the basic chodes, not for everyone. You didn't even read. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 03:54 PM |
| -2 | Stop pedestalizing/overcome oneitis is a useless generic advice. Self-Dignity/Boundaries are better. What do you think?No idea who they're. I don't read gay shit like you, but do whatever you like. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 03:34 PM |
| 0 | Stop pedestalizing/overcome oneitis is a useless generic advice. Self-Dignity/Boundaries are better. What do you think?You're too stupid to think. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 03:26 PM |
| -1 | Stop pedestalizing/overcome oneitis is a useless generic advice. Self-Dignity/Boundaries are better. What do you think?Dein Vater. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 03:25 PM |
| -1 | Stop pedestalizing/overcome oneitis is a useless generic advice. Self-Dignity/Boundaries are better. What do you think?I'm not saying you can't. I'm saying that in some circumstances it doesn't help to repeat the mantra of letting go oneitis. It didn't help me, actually made me want to prove that I have options, that she wasn't the one. Besides, I was like "oneitis, so what?". I focused on my self dignity. That helped me better. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Stop pedestalizing/overcome oneitis is a useless generic advice. Self-Dignity/Boundaries are better. What do you think?Suck dick | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 02:14 PM |
| 0 | Stop pedestalizing/overcome oneitis is a useless generic advice. Self-Dignity/Boundaries are better. What do you think?I did not say that those bonds mean anything, as I said that women are actually hypergamous. Thus, those bonds only mean something as long as you are the best she can get. I know women are pragmatic. That those not mean they can't love you madly, until someone better shows up. This applies also to that "especial" relationships. Besides, that advice of "over investing". I don't know. I am a person who needs to know himself. I can't ignore stuff or lie to myself. It just does not work for me and I… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 12:14 PM |
| 4 | Short bros, how to not let height affect my happiness?The singer of a R&B/Soul Band in played in was 5,5/5,6 tall, light brown skinned, yet he has + THOUSAND followers on insta - the half are women, had very pretty girlfriends, was very confident, charismatic, well dressed, was able to sing good, write and dance. He also acted on a theater, music sketches and was very funny. Height was NEVER an issue for him. It's like the rest of us - all taller than 5,9 - never thought of the issue. It actually looked symmetric, as he stood in the middle. He was … | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Girls approach me, but they all seem to lose interest soon. What do I lack?Don't underestimate the power of social/conversational skills and body language -or the lack thereof. What he described is what happened to me several times and still happens because I was never a very social person. There were chicks who did not mind or who actually liked me that way, but I even got invited over to the flat of a girl one evening for a date for two only to be rejected with her telling me she "had to work early". I have no advice for him in social skills more than NOT saying what… | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 07:01 PM |
| 12 | Did plate try to dread game me?Ehm... Sleeping over at another guy's house means fucking and even if she didn't, she wouldn't risk letting you become suspicious if she did actually love you and want you. Besides, recently after 1 year of being a plate (fucking other dudes) she developed feelings for you but she rejects you? 1 long year??? Do what your want. It's your life, but even if she seems really into you, it's not what you think it is or what you expected to be. I'm sorry. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Female Nature: Can a woman love you again of even more after you improved yourself? (Not trying to get her back)For me it's doesn't about validating my worth as a man, but about validating myself as a winner who got challenged, but I'll mind not obsessing about this intention and allowing it to become approval seeking. As you say, indifference might be the true win. Anyways, thanks for the hints and the link on shit tests. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 02:29 PM |
| 4 | Girl is trying to manipulate me into commitment"she says she thinks she should fuck/date other guys". Even if you don't care about redflags, you should at least care about boundaries. Do what you want with her, maybe it means nothing, but I would leave her all together. That's just straight disrespectful. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Ex LTR texted me 2 weeks after she broke up (wants sex)That depends on what you want. You clearly still like her. If you don't get emotionally involved, why not? But jf it wrecks you, I'd leave it. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Female Nature: Can a woman love you again of even more after you improved yourself? (Not trying to get her back)I'm not right now in her country. Bro, no need to get disrespectful. I don't have a broken self-esteem. I feel CHALLENGED and it would be FUN to see if I can get her back, but not to actually getting her back. It's just a game. I'll see what happens when I go back to that country. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Female Nature: Can a woman love you again of even more after you improved yourself? (Not trying to get her back)I don't know. Life without ego feels dull. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 08:43 AM |
| 2 | Female Nature: Can a woman love you again of even more after you improved yourself? (Not trying to get her back)Excellent answer. Thanks for sharing the story. I'd add a lot, but this goes straight to the point. My interest was t's general curiosity, but my personal interest: , I dumped her, tried to get her back and she refused. I'd like to test my self-improvement in SEEING if I can get her back. She's very hot, like many others, but this is exactly about pride: the pride of being able to be the one who now rejects her. She still contacts me, tells me she doesn't love her actual BF, it's sad that we did… | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Female Nature: Can a woman love you again of even more after you improved yourself? (Not trying to get her back)It's general curiosity, but personally, I dumped her, tried to get her back and she refused. I'd like to test my self-improvement in SEEING if I can get her back. She's very hot, like many others, but this is exactly about pride: the pride of being able to be the one who now rejects her. She still contacts me, tells me she doesn't love her actual BF. This may or may not mean anything, but it would be fun to restore myself and my ego | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Female Nature: Can a woman love you again of even more after you improved yourself? (Not trying to get her back)I know. In my case, I dumped her, tried to get her back, but she didn't want it. I'd like to reassure myself by bending her and see if I can have the option. She still contacts me, tells me doesn't love her boyfriend like she loved me, but I don't want her back. It's about ego and retribution. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 08:01 AM |
| 0 | Female Nature: Can a woman love you again of even more after you improved yourself? (Not trying to get her back)I don't have self esteem issues.... | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Female Nature: Can a woman love you again of even more after you improved yourself? (Not trying to get her back)You don't! | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Female Nature: Can a woman love you again of even more after you improved yourself? (Not trying to get her back)But do they actually feel sorry? | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 12:27 AM |
| 3 | Female Nature: Can a woman love you again of even more after you improved yourself? (Not trying to get her back)Puta. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 09:16 PM |
| 11 | Female Nature: Can a woman love you again of even more after you improved yourself? (Not trying to get her back)buy millions of white claws. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 08:30 PM |
| 0 | Female Nature: Can a woman love you again of even more after you improved yourself? (Not trying to get her back)That's true, but that's praexology. I like the feeling of being valued that genuine desire/love gives you. I will hit on one of my exes one of this days and I'll see if they get crazy about me like the did before, but I think it wouldn't be the same. I'll see. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Female Nature: Can a woman love you again of even more after you improved yourself? (Not trying to get her back)Doch | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 08:25 PM |
| 12 | Female Nature: Can a woman love you again of even more after you improved yourself? (Not trying to get her back)today in a beautiful day of march, a sperg showed up in the comments to display his cuntiness. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Female Nature: Can a woman love you again of even more after you improved yourself? (Not trying to get her back)Dein Vater. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Questioning morality of cold approachDu bist echt ein richtiger Hurensohn. Typisch Deutsch. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Getting over her while having no options?Sad you went through that. Your insight makes sense. Thank you | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Getting over her while having no options?Sounds good. Thanks for the insight | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Getting over her while having no options?Thanks for the reply, this sounds good. That's right, my ego is challenged. Even if I don't want her, I want to have the option again after I recreated myself, so that I say FUCK YOU to reality and her. Yet, that's not completely up to me, but to her. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 09:49 PM |
| -2 | Getting over her while having no options?I couldn't tell with the insulting, disrespectful "tough approach". I guess that's not common outside the USA. I know still don't get over her since then. I already said that, which is why I stated the question. No need to lecture me on stoIcism or existentialism. I know all that shit and I so practice it. I'm "pushing through", embracing suffering, whatever. My question was a more a psychological question, because I know there are millions of her like, that she's not especial, that I have no op… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 09:43 PM |
| -4 | Getting over her while having no options?You're here to help or just to troll around? Fuck off | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Getting over her while having no options?How? Tell myself "I hate her" everyday? Already did that. It doesn't work. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Getting over her while having no options?Thanks for the reply. Consciously, I hope nothing. I don't want her back, though I would like to have the option. It has been more than a half year since the break-up, I've done A LOT of soul search and I still can't get over her. How do you "move on" while being unable to have sex with other women? Sure, I can block her, but that would show my vulnerability. I just ignore her | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 08:06 PM |
| 2 | How to regain your sense of dignity after having being a simp?"One of the most thrilling experiences in life is starting at the bottom and working your way back up into an amazing person". It's an interesting way to look at it. Honestly, I can't relax, but after reading some replies here, I feel a bit less ashamed of myself. Anyways, thanks for replying | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 02:22 AM |
| 1 | How to regain your sense of dignity after having being a simp?"worst, to die a fool". That resonated deeply. These are great Insights. Thank you very much for your reply. Much appreciated in this moment | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 02:14 AM |
| 1 | How to regain your sense of dignity after having being a simp?I'm not one, but I share their concept not honor. I do feel suicidal and have nothing to lose, but I can't do that to my parents and Blonde HornyElf gave me a greay insight: even Napoleon humiliated himself for a girl he liked. It stull hurts to have acted like the simps I aleays mocked, though... | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 11:54 PM |
| 1 | How to regain your sense of dignity after having being a simp?Great, really great answer. I have nothing not add. This is what I needed. I thank you a lot | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 11:04 PM |
| 1 | How to regain your sense of dignity after having being a simp?That's the thing, I wasn't dumb because I was fully aware of what I shouldn't have done. I wouldn't end my life due to her, but due to myself, because I can't forgive myself. If I could restore my dignity, I could move on, but I don't know how... I just feel so ashamed and worthless - due to myself, not her. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 11:02 PM |
| 1 | How to regain your sense of dignity after having being a simp?Thanks, but won't you hate yourself after having done what you knew well you shouldn't have done, what you swore to yourself to avoid? | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 10:48 PM |
| 1 | How to regain your sense of dignity after having being a simp?Thanks for the reply, but my issue is not rejection, but having betrayed myself after being rejected, when I was aware I should have burned when I had the choice and still reacted to her ego seeking. I need to do something to feel dignity again or I will just end it all | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 10:47 PM |
| -1 | How to regain your sense of dignity after having being a simp?Because of having dishonored myself. Don't be shallow | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 10:32 PM |
| -1 | How to regain your sense of dignity after having being a simp?I prefer literal death to be honest | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 10:16 PM |
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