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I wish both sides would occasionally try the other side of the equation. I think it's hard for guys and girls to understand why certain things are cringe while other things are extremely attractive because they don't see it from the right prospective.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:25 AM
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Alot of the problem is that neurodivergance often comes off as a lack of social confidence and a lack of social confidence comes of as being shadey or push over. I would suggest that if you have a disorder that effects you socially like autism then just own it while being confident about it. First date just say "hey by the way I was mild autism so I might need a little more direction then other guys/girls you have dated" then the other person can ask questions about what that means and you can t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:09 AM
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If I may get poetic. Real love is knowing all the qwerks and eccentricities of a person, knowing they are pretty weird but yet some how they are the wonderfully right kind of weird. Real love makes you fear that their loss in your life would some how magically make cake taste less sweet because it's not thier cake. That the stars would be less bright because your not looking at them together. Real love makes you sing karaoke dispite being tone deaf because they went hiking with you dispite hatin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:50 AM
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It's really hard to rate people because personal preferences on over 20 traits with a range of level's effect how attractive one person think another person is. For example a curvy women with red hair, glasses, and blue eyes is way more likely to be attractive to me then a super model thin women with black hair and brown eyes. Personal aesthetics matter more than societal standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:20 AM
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Everyone of all ages want excitement that part of why get into relationships in the first place. It's a fun adventure to get to know some else romantically. That's why having fun hobbies and interests is so important if your looking to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:05 AM
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Okay the hard truth is that alot of guys have impossibly high standards out of fear and insucrity. They are afraid of getting their hopes up and getting rejected. Maybe they rarely ask a girl out they all ready know is with someone else or probably wouldn't be interested just so their friends don't catch wise to the fact that they aren't actually looking to find miss perfect but instead are actively avoiding her. Why because even more then the quick pain of immediate rejection what they fear is …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:30 AM
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You only gain confidence romantically talking to women by actually talking to women you like. It doesn't matter if you look like Thor or look like a troll your going to be nervous until do it quite a few times. Honestly the nerves don't really go away so much as become less troublesome and weirdly more enjoyable. Talking to women you like is supposed to be kinda nerve racking , its thrill seeking behavior and thats a really big part of what makes finding someone fun. So go have some fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:04 AM
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Average guys as a whole aren't really struggling the problem is that a large minority of average guys lack confidence, social awareness, or have very specific standards that make it hard for them find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:32 PM
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Nice guy is a manipulation tactic that's kind of similar to love bombing. The "nice guy" pretends to be caring, empathetic, and responsible but only to get sex and a high status relationship. They don't actually care about the person they are with, that person is just a means to get personal gratification. You tell if your with a "nice guy" or "nice girl" if they seem to be extremely friendly but everything feels very surface level and there seems to be a lack of long term bonding.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:23 PM
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You like what you like. People will fake who they like to impress others but at the end of the day a person will only be really happy with a person they actually find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:37 AM
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If your partner is weird about you showing healthy emotions its usually because the relationship was built on pure attraction and never really reached the bonding phase. Good romantic relationships need both attraction and a bond in order to workout long term. When a person finds healthy emotions awkward and gross it means they don't feel the relationship is worth putting in the necessary effort to get past potential hard times. It's a " disposable relationship" when moment's of bonding start ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:15 AM
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All social relationships are a 50/50 about how we feel about that person and how we feel about our selves. Insecure people will treat people poorly to hide the fact they think poorly of the selves. Secure people will treat others well because they want to preserve the good time. It's going to be really hard for a insecure person to make friends and date because they few everyone as a potential threat to their ego. Secure people on the other hand will find it easier because they instead view most…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:48 AM
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I argue the whole guys trying to " get a high score" is mostly a movie/TV trope overplaying the propensity for young guys to fall for girls extremely easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:31 AM
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Yah some of my good friends have been women. I think most of the trashing talking of women from guys comes from a place of insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:44 AM
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True masculinity is about confidence, courage, strength, and humility. If your a cowardly wimp or an aggressive jerk your failing at being masculine. Remember masculinity isn't in opposition to femininity its in opposition to boyhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:39 AM
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OP is 100% right now your brand and what your offering then focus on the potential partners that want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:13 AM
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Yah your allways going to want to marry up that's just basic human nature obviously being richer, more attractive, more successful, ect is going to make it easier to find a partner but status,money,and good lucks only play part personality, lifestyle, and mutual interests also play an extremely important role in finding a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:04 AM
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Most "Chads" have better luck simply because they ace having clam confidence which is a super attractive trait. Confidence signals that your sure you have something to offer and are a stable person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:59 PM
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Men and women are equals but they do often want different things out of a relationship. Men tend to want to want a caregiver while women tend to want a protector. This doesn't mean that every guy want a new mom or every women wants thier own personal batman. What it means if that men want a women who will care about their day and make sure they are getting enough emotional support. Women want a guy who will help her get through tough times and help her conquer the things she is concerned about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:56 PM
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I'm useing a dateing up and largely have used.the same social strategy I use with prospective dates as in person if see someone's I'm interested in I strick up 3 or 4 friendly conversations to get to know each other better and then ask them on a casual date. Building a sense of friendship and commonality goes a long way towards getting a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:00 AM
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This is why personality plays a HUGE role in attraction for both genders. Certain personality traits are more likely to be found in people with other personality traits. Funny people are more likely to intelligent. Empathetic people are more likely to be caring. Relaxed Confidence shows that a person is less likely to be a creep. When you aren't confident your signaling to the other person that you nervous and importantly that there is something to be nervous about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:53 AM
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I'v always been way more attracted to the "cute type" over the model "hot type ". Curves are cool and a kind face is pretty much my kryptonite. So I would say I prefer "average" looking women over the media culture ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:51 AM
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I claim a orange pill lol viewpoint. Of course women and men both want partners who are attractive, have good jobs, and are socially adjusted that just obvious. But that doesn't mean that things like personality, common interests, and lifestyle compatablity don't play about equal roles when It comes to picking a partner. I generally think that people look for 3 types of compatablity 1. Psychical, are they attractive. 2. Psychological do they have similar interests and a good personality. 3. Life…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:38 AM
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They lack social awareness but that's from a lack of meaningful social practice. They didn't get that social practice because behind the veneer of being very confident they are actually extremely insecure people. So they fall back on annoying heuristics to avoid taking any real social risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:41 AM
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My claim is that a lack of of social skills is almost always linked to some form of social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:35 AM
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Honestly the only way to treat social anxiety is social practice. You have to get your brain to see that social interaction isn't an immediate life and death matter. Start by just having quick conversations with the random people around you about random low risk topics. If you try to have 2 random conversations a day for about 3 weeks your social anxiety will drop by about 50%. Joining groups like teams, clubs, and volunteer groups also helps with getting social time in a safe environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:25 AM
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In a girl I'm looking for a life partner where we can mutually support each other in our goals and go on adventures together. Someone with a good sense humor, doesn't sweat the small stuff, likes animals, and is smart and a little nerdy. That's my hope in a nut shell.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:12 AM
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Trying is good putting pressure on your self about dating is bad. Asking people you find attractive and interesting on a date is trying. Getting anxious and sick over a date is counter productive. The best way to look at dating isn't like your purposing a relationship but instead like your asking the person if they just want to enjoy a good time with you. Your not asking her to be girlfriend your just asking if she wants to try a new restaurant out. That helps you appear more confident and thus …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:16 AM
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I disagree at age 33 with a lot more maturity dating is easier and has lot less pressure. At this point everyone knows dating can suck and everyones goal is to just have a good time and hopefully find a stable partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:09 AM
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Looks matter but are only one third of the attractiveness equation and looks are much more open to variation then most people think. So yes looks matter but if your looks aren't 100% magazine attractive you should still be totally fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:46 PM
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I don't think dating apps are the issue I think dating apps coupled with high pressure status dating is the issue. People would be much happier if they just relaxed and started dated people they simply find of kinda interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:33 AM
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Generally I think worrying about clingyness and distance is mostly maturity thing. At a certain point you respect that different people have different romantic styles. So people want to talk every day some like to move things fast others like it slow. Good romantic compatablity requires compromise where both people feel wanted and are getting their needs met.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:27 AM
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I'm pretty sure this group isn't for me but I really do wish the guys and gals in this group the best. I hope you get to get lost in her eyes And I hope you get hear her laughs and her sighs. I hope you get to comfort her at her lows. And I hope get to see her highs. I hope she maks you go the extra mile And I hope she makes you smile. I hope you stay up way too late And I hope you wake up in a pile. I hope she lets you listen her favorite song. And I hope she makes your all your days feel long.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:43 AM
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How else are you going to find a gal that likes Warhammer?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:42 PM
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That's scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:50 PM
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I'm Taking that as permission and again I intend this rant to lift everyone's confidence this is a "locker room coach rant" not a "karen in the drive thru rant." With modern dating apps and cars there is no such thing as an incel. If your not in a relationship that's 100% a freaking choice your making. In America there are 1.1 women for every man that literally means that if we exclude gay guys and lesbians there is literally exactly mathematically one person for everyone. The only reason a pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:19 AM
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Permission to go on a full on seriously epic rant under your post? I actually do want promission do that I know you that I'm targeting my rant to you but towards incel culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:30 AM
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I think there is lot of fake marketing pressure for guys to get girls. I believe this fake pressure creates a get laid at all costs mentally that counterproductively makes it extremely difficult for those guys to to get dates. As an adult guy I could not care less how many girls other guys are getting or how I stack up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:23 AM
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I'm absolutely no problem with the idea that if you want to have a easier time dating you have to improve your self that's just basic no crap logic. What I don't like is that many of not most guys in the red pill community are for some reason resentful of women wanting better. I also don't like that the redpill often focuses on hookup culture which isn't dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:03 AM
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Nothing wrong with marriage nothing wrong with LTRs and Nothing wrong with hookups. Everything is wrong with lying about what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:45 AM
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The main problem isn't with marriage, dating culture, or hookup culture. The problem is that it's all intermingled you have people who want marriage matching with people who want long term relationships matching with people who want hook ups. Dating would be massively simpler if everyone just plainly said I'm looking for XYZ and no one on the other side judged them for looking for XYZ. Dating for marriage and dating for a LTR and dating for a hook up are completely different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:41 AM
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The best thing I ever heard on relationships is that they are not 50/50 they are 100/100.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:25 AM
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Yah but PUA/manosphere still has the same my gender is the victim mentality. Both also provide often bad advice in an effort to push a social agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:17 AM
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Absolutely no offense but I'm pretty sure women know what women tend to want. Obviously thier own biases will come into play but I think they are honest and the advice actually helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:18 AM
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I generally think the FDS and TRP are the same. Both are movements filled mostly by people who are unhappy with their dating prospects. Instead of dating for love, working on them selves and asking others close to them for advice, instead they create crack pot theories about the other gender. FDS and TRP ideology will only make it vastly harder for you to find your person. This because those movements rob you of the most impressive trait for both men and women to have optimism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:55 AM
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I'm just interested what did it say my city was?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:45 AM
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This is the point I'm trying to make that different women like different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:30 AM
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I had an interesting experience once. I was 31( yes I'm old) at the time and had a co worker who I thought for sure was about 25. We would flirt with each other and Im very sure there were times both of us thought about asking each other out. Found out about a year into working together that she had just turned 20 around the time we met. We both thought the other was 25 i look and act 5 years younger than I am and she looked and acts 5 years older. We both laughed it off and were still very good…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:43 AM
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Generally it's creepy if that person is age where they could reasonably be your child so anything 16+ is creepy. Less than that could be considered controversial or odd but is not really creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:20 AM
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Im 32-34 and my dating range is 25 to 40. At my age I feel the same maturity as I did at 25. That likely won't change till I hit around 40. My ideal person would be someone who has maturity but also energy. Someone who does thier tax's but will also take a trip see the Grand canyon.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:10 AM
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I don't think videogames are having any effect on peoples ability to date videogames are just a passive hobby like reading books, going to the movies, or going to see live music. What is having a negative effect is the way modern media paints relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:12 AM
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99% of incles are just 16 to 22 year olds that don't realize that dating at that age is basically crap for everyone. 1% are dangerous and those people scare the hell out me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:05 AM
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Why does anyone care what thier partners body count is. Obviously your partner is choosing you so it's not like it's a competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:39 PM
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Exactly if someone is an awesome person they are awesome regardless if they sing bad pop songs in the car.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:00 PM
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Exactly and this goes for both sides it's almost comedic how often you see women say I caught the ick because he ordered his food first or guys who say I don't think I'll date her again because she didn't laugh at my best dad joke. This dispite saying how super awesome the date was going right before that moment. It literally amazes me how critical people can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:48 PM
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You absolutely do but I think to many people think building your self up means totally changing your main traits and that not true at all. You don't have to turn into a mega Chad you just have to be the awesome version of your self.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:38 PM
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If you guys want to get actual dates especially on OL dating I can seriously show you how it's not the freaking hard. Click match on at least 1 in every 4-5 people that are in your 30 min area and are in your age group. Ask your self if you would at least like to have a chat with that person if so click match. Being to picky prevents you from finding surprise picks. Have 4 decent pictures. 3 are of you having fun doing stuff and 1 is a selfie face shot. Your match's want to see that your a fun p…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:59 PM
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My advice is to just be your self. But your confident main character self.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:28 PM
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This is because we have put wayyy to much pressure on dating. The first 3 dates are not about finding your forever partner. The first 3 dates are just about having fun and deciding if you want to keep dating that person. People go on less dates now because everyone of both genders is superficially picky about dating partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:25 PM
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A dating coach is only good no matter what if they admit that you have to have realistic expectations and they admit that rejection is just a normal part of dating. Any guru that says they can get you sleeping with supermodels and only losers get rejected is a total idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:02 AM
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It really depends on the settings and how inappropriate the outfit is obviously. It could be controlling or it could be just asking for normal behavior. How a person brings it up also makes a huge difference. Basically it's all in the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:46 AM
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I literally can't date a girl that doesn't have a strong sense of humor. A good sense of humor is a massive sign of emotional development.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:26 PM
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Are you an adult because if so I'm pretty sure I can "fix your game"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:09 AM
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I can almost guarantee it's not your looks that are the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:01 AM
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Guys become red pill because they lack guidance from male role models and from friends that are women. These guys are stuck thinking they are ugly and losers when in reality they 1. Have fairytale expectations for a partner. 2. Have not flipped their confidence switch yet.( Get your mind.out of the gutter lol) The good but also sad thing is that alot of these red pill guys could easily be full catches in 3 months if they got and took honestly given advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:55 AM
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I'm here cause of morbid curiosity and an odd desire to help these guys, who I honestly feel just need someone who was in there shoes to show them that world isn't all against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:27 AM
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Can you love another person for their innate traits, if so then so can your girlfriend. If you can love the way your girlfriend twists her hair when she's super focused on something then she can love the way you sing off key in the shower. If you can love that she can wax poetically about the universe then she can love how you want to pet every dog you see. Love is not all about the grand moments of affection it's dad jokes and late night conversations, it's suggling up to watch a movie. Love is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:20 AM
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100% hygiene is seriously where most guys who claim they cant get dates are failing on. There are ton of psychology research on this. But basically good hygiene signals that you have you have your life together and that's attractive. And I'm not saying that incles are a bunch of dudes who don't bath ( some are tough) but also keeping your hair/facial hair presentable. Wearing an antiperspirant that doesn't smell like a middle school locker room. Brushing your teeth twice a day so you don't devel…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:57 AM
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And hard disagree to that. If your looking for a 1 night stand then it's looks 60% social skills 40%. If your looking for a long term relationship then it's 60% social skills and 40% looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:31 AM
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Yah therapy 100%. More people really should try therapy especially if your just going through a stressful time or work a stressful job.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:03 AM
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They just need some help. Basic hygiene, adult clothing, a personality that isn't all negativity, and a smile go a looooong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 12:56 AM
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I would also point out that for most incles it's not actually a looks thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 12:52 AM
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If your not actively asking people out and are not currently interested in dating then your single by choice. If your actively asking people out or are too afraid to ask anyone out ( looking at you half of Reddit) then your not single by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 12:49 AM
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I generally prefer women with some curves so I don't really get the idea that most women are to fat. On the other stuff I kind of agree with you. I'm not saying physical attraction is meaning less I'm just saying alot of guys have impossible standards for looks and then have next to no standards for personality. At the end of the day a life partner is really a best friend that you want get to live and sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 12:44 AM
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Exactly. Look at the most charismatic people in the world they got that way because they had their own personalities not because they copied someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:26 AM
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Yah cause fun people want to be around other fun people who would have thought lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:19 AM
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Here is how to get a partner. 1. Know your brand what is it that you offering a potential partner. How is that any different from what Chadrick or Beckifer is offering? 2. Know what you want in a potential partner. How is that different than everyone else. 3. Work on your 2 min elevator pitch cause that's how long you have to find common ground. 4. Focus on the date as an experience not as an interview. 5. Show that you care about having a relationship. Do these 5 things and a ham sandwich could…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:17 AM
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Yah its all about being the best you, it's not about being the best "chad".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:08 AM
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My honest theory is that the reason there is the " no one gives me a chance crowd." Is because too many people are dating for status and not dating for happiness. This creates 3 major problem. 1. People have unrealistic expectations for themselves and there potential mates 2. People focus too much on quantitative traits and not nearly enough on qualitative traits. 3. People view dating as a competition rather than just having fun with another person. My advice is just date to have fun and hopefu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:56 AM
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The time frame before say date 3 is basically marketing. That means it's about knowing your brand and fitting that brand to the customers needs. In other words 1. Don't be a creep/ have confidence 2. Know who the hell you are. 3. Actually care about who she is and what she wants. It's really that simple. No pick up artistry will ever work unless you already have those 3 things down and if you already have that you don't need to be a pick up artist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:30 AM
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So it's your standard "alpha male" bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:21 AM
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Can anyone give me the cliff notes on what the heck PUA is. As a marketing guy I can tell most of cheesy pick up artist stuff is a scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:43 PM
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The whole number things is useless. Different people have different senses of aesthetic. Do you like redhead, blonds, black hair. How about green, blue or brown eyes. Do you prefer a round, square, or oval face shape. How about glasses. That's just 4 of the 10+ features of a persons face. Do you want your partner to be thin, muscler, average, or curvy. Taller, the same, or shorter than you are. For the girls thin framed or broad shoulders. For the guys what sized chest. Oh and by the way much do…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:14 PM
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I pretty much agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:49 PM
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Being a super nerd and a guy that could probably live in the wood indefinitely if I had to. I both agree and disagree. I agree that guy's need some challenges/adventure in our lives to build confidence. I disagree in that I don't think it needs to be that extreme and most would likely end up frozen to death. I suggest some other adventures instead. learn a language in a year and spend a month in a foreign country. Train for a year and run a marathon, learn boxing/MMA for 6 months and then do a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:26 AM
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The influencer thing was a throw away phrase to mean the " valley girl type".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:17 AM
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My question is this are the middle 33% of women to "fat" or too " ugly" to date on your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:34 AM
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I don't buy this with a decent hair cut, getting roughly the right weight for their body weight, and buying halfway okay 70% guys are attractive enough to date 70% of women. The main issue is that guy's lack confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:17 AM
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I may have over simplified my argument. The point is that overvaluing looks, money, social status makes it vastly more difficult to find a person you would actually want to be around. Obviously you can be almost any mix of traits. I'm only saying balance those traits your looking for if you actually want to date someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:36 PM
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How high are your looks standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:27 PM
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But you can't just say I only want to date super attractive supermodels and expect to be happy that's totally unrealistic what is realistic is dating someone one you think you can be friends with, who you also think is cute, and who has is a genuinely nice person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:24 PM
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I'm not saying physical attraction should play no part obviously it plays a part what I'm saying is that it should be 1/3rd of equation not 4/5ths if that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:21 PM
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What I saying is that the reason most people men and women on these pill/ dating advice pages are not happy is because they have screwed up standards based on social pressures not because " no one will give them a chance."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:18 PM
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So hotness trumps all else?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:13 PM
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Why would you date a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:02 PM
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Largely the issue is here is that we have cheaped dating by alot. We tell guys that they need to find a "8+ mpdg" and we tell women they need to find a "8+ machoman". Very little focus is put on things like personality, emotional maturity, and life compatablity stuff that makes a relationship actually work. Instead we focus too much on looks and coolness. It's totally normal as a teenager to be attracted to the best looking popular kids. But once your college aged it's really time to focus on fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:32 PM
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Ask your self do you really think most super models are that attractive or do you instead have a sort of type. I for one don't find Megan Fox that attractive. You have to be around women. The lack of male female socialization is why people develop dating anxiety in the first place. If your not dating for the enjoyment of it then your doing it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 07:33 AM
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Average guy - 5'9" 198 pounds, black/dark brown hair, square or oval face shape. Average woman - 5'4" 166 pounds, light brown hair, oval or round face shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 07:23 AM
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Works because it opens up a much wider dating poll and makes finding dates less stress inducing and instead makes it actually fun. Works because 1. It teaches you how to actually be comfortable around women. 2. Female friends provide great advice on upping your game. 3. As people mature it's likely that a friends will turn into a romantic partner. Works because time spent sulking over a rejection is just time wasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 07:06 AM
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Preference in looks is totally subjective. Look at the variety of couples that you see. All shapes, sizes,colors, and styles dating each other. Everyone has a type. The problem is alot of men and women are too afraid admit thier type isn't the "normal" for fear of seeming weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 06:48 AM
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Some actually useful tips for both sides For men 1. Stop dating for a status symbol. Instead date to find a friend not to impress your buddies. 2. Have more platonic friendships with women. 3. Learn to not take rejection so seriously. For women 1. Guys like being asked out too. It's totally ok to be up front about liking someone. 2. If a guy puts on a jerk image it's because he's actually insure and that's a bad sign. 3. Stop dating for a status symbol instead date to find a friend. Not to impre…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 06:29 AM
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