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ThePacketSlinger/r/askTRP27/01/14 06:39 AM
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ThePacketSlinger/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 09:53 PM
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lol, they didn't have anti-septic either
/r/askTRP19/10/16 09:17 PM
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Yes. Also, this is not really a story. You can tell a story without being beta, but the story needs to have a point, even if that point is just entertainment. You half meditating and hearing someone else play Coldplay is not a story and provides no value to anyone. Why do you feel the need to share stuff like this with anyone?
/r/askTRP20/06/16 04:42 PM
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Go to the doctor, explain the low sex drive issues and have them run blood work to see if the issue might be physical/chemical. Always start with Layer 1!
/r/askTRP09/04/16 02:37 AM
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Yes. But what you consider intense cardio and what will be intense cardio for an obese person is vastly different, because the obese person is carrying around and moving more weight and so they burn more calories doing the same thing (or less) than a fit person.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 06:43 PM
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It's absolutely possible to use Machiavellian actions to further your goals that are rooted in your own morals and values. I try to strategize benevolently (read win-win) and execute ruthlessly. I said I try. :)
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 04:57 PM
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I think you need to visit a Home Depot and come back here and with that 5 minute line!
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 04:05 PM
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It mostly depends on your boss, in my experience.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 02:27 AM
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I'm confused by your last bit. If he's not a Christian he must be in the wrong place? Or did I misunderstand something?
/r/askTRP15/03/16 04:23 PM
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They just water down the market. Which is not 100% a bad thing all the time. Most (sane) hiring managers I know are terrified of the prospect of having to find talent from the open market for this reason. This, mostly, is what people are referring to when they call IT a "small world". Most of the higher-tier positions in SMB markets are filled by referrals, especially in the case of new management bringing in a new pool of talent to work under them.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 09:37 PM
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You know there's no literal rule book, right? What I wrote isn't from a comment or a post on TRP, it's just my personal reason for not raising my voice all the time. If you'd prefer to yell all the time, by all means do it. Take and use as much or as little from TRP as you like and leave whatever doesn't fit or make sense for you personally by the way side. No one cares how much of it you agree with.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 12:28 AM
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I think that's "never needlessly raise your voice". Realistically, if you're yelling all the time there's nothing to escalate to and people won't take you seriously.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 04:55 PM
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Yep, pretty much the same for me (IT). But if you're anything like me I'm guessing that you didn't meet those guys at an industry event or anything. All of my in - industry friends I met through other friends who wanted me to meet their other techy friend.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 07:59 PM
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Another way to put this is to teach but not lecture. As people get to know you and see that you do things differently than most people they know, they may begin to ask you why you do certain things differently. This is pretty much the only win-win scenario where you can teach someone something as an equal and have everyone walking away feeling good about the exchange. I think anything else has a tendency of coming off as condescending or preachy.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 07:53 PM
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There's never been a proven case of it happening with LSD. I think that's mostly because people who are on it are almost ALWAYS on other more dangerous stuff. Still, not for me. This isn't really a friendly place to be talking about this kind of thing so casually. I think it would be extremely interesting to see a post on how psychedelics can be leveraged to expose and address weaknesses through an RP lens.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 05:56 PM
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I think that very few people are "controlled" by their emotions. I do believe that most women are more influenced by their emotions than most men are. Of course, that's not to say that emotion is always the primary influence in every decision women make, nor to say that it's not an influence on men either. Psychology gets pretty nuanced so IMO these sweeping generalizations will never be true all the time. For example, take 10 white men of the same age, neighborhood, background, etc. Account for…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 05:34 PM
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Haha not all of them IMO but I do understand what you're saying. Guess I'm sort of in the natural but no chems camp.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 05:14 PM
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People who are abused, usually early on in life, tend to put themselves in situations where they can re-live and re-experience that trauma. This is a human thing, meaning that men exhibit this type of behavior as well. I'm from Chicago so I've listened to a ton of Dr. Drew / Loveline and this gets brought up pretty much every episode.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 05:00 PM
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Yep, pretty much this. I will usually say something like "oh, I'm gender fluid, I thought that much was obvious..." as if that explains everything. It allows you to instantly drop all the white male hate just by saying I don't IDENTIFY as a white man. Lol. Don't get too sucked into it though and shut down any further lines of questioning with phrases like "it's not my responsibility to educate you", "i don't have to explain my life to you" etc. Can make for some pretty funny situations that turn…
/r/askTRP06/02/16 07:39 PM
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Can you cite the source that says TRP deals with evidence and not hearsay? /s
/r/askTRP04/02/16 01:44 AM
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Wanting anything badly enough can easily lead to you becoming undone by that thing. Desire will push you to be more than you are until you have too much of it, then it will make you weak and undo all of your efforts.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 07:44 PM
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It's the woman's choice, bro. Rudy doesn't get a say, anyway.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 11:48 PM
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Am I getting China confused with Japan? One (or both) has a known princess syndrome epidemic.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 05:22 PM
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That's probably mostly because you're in China.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 05:11 PM
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Basically, it makes you want to reply to her message by validating you.
/r/askTRP26/09/15 10:10 PM
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I suppose. But Greek students eventually have to leave the free university and get a job in the Greek economy. I'm not sure they're any better off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 08:11 PM
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I think it would be more accurate to say that they reject going into a massive amount of debt to go to school for humanities only to come out of school and become a barista.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 06:37 PM
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| webdev/sysadmin Yep, there's your problem. Pick one.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 09:41 PM
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Your brain gets kind of stupid when you kick into fight/flight. You have to be able to realize when you've gotten into that mode (quickly) and stop yourself long enough to think clearly (when safe). Sounds like that's pretty much what you did once you got out of the car. I'll bet that two seconds felt like an eternity. Tbh, sounds like you did the right thing but a bit too late. When the shit hits the fan, take a breath, remind yourself that your brain is probably a little dumber than normal and…
/r/askTRP29/04/15 09:45 PM
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Sorry man, no silver bullet to this one. You either guide her through basic propriety so that she's not an embarrassment, do nothing about it and deal with it or cut her loose.
/r/askTRP29/04/15 09:32 PM
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The two are not mutually exclusive, IMO, as long as you can separate your kinks from you when not in the bedroom. Going to be super difficult to pull off in a ONS scenario, though. Did I read that right? You're sexually submissive, but not a fucking pussy? Do you pedestalize women in your every day life, or does it just get you off in bed? As with anything, you either accept it and deal with it, or you change it. Changing it will for sure net you better results if your goal is to spin plates. I …
/r/askTRP04/04/15 03:51 PM
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Step one: be a higher branch Step two: be close enough for her to swing to, but far enough that it still feels kind of dangerous.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 04:03 AM
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Right, but while abundance mentality is the right frame, its a bad hard and fast rule to apply when maintaining an LTR. Abundance should be your overall view, but not your goto at every confrontation. Its your ultimatum card, your last resort. Its important that the girl is getting what she wants and needs out of the relationship as well. The captain who ignores the voices of the first mate and crew does so at his own peril.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 10:24 PM
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I agree with all of your points, except I would consider her a threat (albeit a minor one). If youre in my home and attacking me and my woman and being out of line, when no one else is doing or saying anything because they've helplessly accepted that "thats just how you are", then yes. I will correct that behavior and you will remember that before you try to pull that again. This is true, I think, unless we happen to be in the sister's home, in which case it would probably be best to approach di…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 09:33 PM
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Plating is just short-hand for dating/fwb from the male perspective. Is having sex while not being in a committed monogamous relationship immoral?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/14 02:38 AM
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Is joke! /r/swoleacceptance
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 08:20 PM
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Being supportive in a relationship would be like comforting her when a close relative is in the hospital. Not her sad feelings after reading a good book.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 08:18 AM
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Theres a show called Blue Bloods ive been watching on Netflix. Its about a family of cops. The dad/head of household is the commissioner, the grandfather a retired commissioner, oldest son is a renegade detective, youngest son is just starting out as a beat cop. Aside from being a great show, it also personifies the "family man alpha" role that you hear aboyt every once in a while here. Youngest son is kind of an alpha-in-training but a little too idealistic to be taken seriously all the time. S…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 08:56 PM
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You basically make up for it in other areas. Small dick? Be an enthusiastic oral guru. Short? Rock solid frame and tight game. Etc, etc.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 07:56 PM
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Oh, well thanks for clearing all of that up for me. All this time wasted on furthering my career when the real answer was right in front of me! Just give up and depend on big daddy government entitlements. That's alpha as fuck, dude.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 10:12 PM
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HAHAHAHA, why didn't I think of that? $240k? And you have to work for it? Fuck that, I'll just ride the welfare gravy train and pull in a cool $12k a year!
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 07:07 PM
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"But anyone can do it!", just not very well.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 07:03 PM
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Every time I read a post or comment from some non-technical fucktwit who can't hold their fucking telemarketing job is going to learn programming because they think they're going to create the next Tinder app I visualize blowing my goddamn brains out.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 07:00 PM
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IMO, winners always want the ball. Not in a petty "DO WHAT I SAY!!!" way, but in a "Who's in charge? I guess it's better me than them" way.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 06:49 PM
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We taught men not to rape and some of them learned!
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 11:43 PM
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If youre looking to avoid a hivemind, you might want to look outside of Reddit and internet forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 07:21 PM
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In a word, no. This is basically the opposite of abundance mentality. In addition to that, theyre trying to negotiate attraction. Getting a buddy to "convince" someone that they are actually secretly attracted to you and just dont realize it yet is about as far from RP practice as you can get. Honestly, I hope they're just fucking with this poor girl at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 05:54 PM
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Not at all, just trying to clarify
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 02:17 AM
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Another shitlord that thinks they're entitled to pussy! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 01:59 AM
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Its top 20% of men in SMV, not annual income. Also, the 57-58k yearly wpuld really depend on where you live. Other than that, I think this is spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 01:55 AM
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Judging by your response, I assume you havent actually read the book.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 01:21 AM
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And you're the anti-government and anti-biblical type and that association makes you uncomfortable? The book attempts to explain universal truths, so I think the wording is apt in this case.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 10:57 PM
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Sure, and that's a perfectly healthy attitude for anyone who is working a job and not already started in their career. However, I've worked far too long and too hard to lose my footing by taking stupid risks that net me nothing. Enlighten others at your own risk, risk for naught at your own peril.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 10:54 PM
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Because 48 rules of power would have made a shitty book title.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 08:31 PM
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Work is kind of like highschool. No matter how well intentioned it is, or how PC you frame it, other people will hear about it and you become "that guy". Dirty hands just makes doing delicate work that much more difficult.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 08:28 PM
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Thank god for the online stores, amirite?
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 09:48 PM
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c) get an internet plan that had a hard download limit You, sir, are a fucking masochist!
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 09:45 PM
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Haha, I'm pretty sure Reddit does this, I've seen it in other posts. There's something special you need to do to get a numbered list working.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 07:55 PM
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What you want to do here is poison the well. Actually, you want 1-3 (depending on size of group) in the group poisoning the well for you. Not an easy or simple way to go about it, but it's by far the most effective and is the best way to mitigate fallout. You do this by planting seeds subtly, not by talking shit about him. In fact, you should go out of your way to appear as though you really like and trust him, just that certain traits of his worry you slightly. Let your friends fill in the gaps…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 09:40 PM
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Same thing with Amy Lee/Evenescense (sp?). Guitarist that wrote her first album left the band shortly after, heard of anything decent from them since? Nope!
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 08:00 PM
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Not really, facesitting is purely a femdom thing, right?
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 09:39 PM
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most of them have been introverted This is not how introversion works
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 09:16 PM
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One thing that I think is worth mentioning is that there is a lot of pressure these days to decide right now whether or not you're going to do something. You don't have to give anyone a definitive answer right away. A simple "let me check my calendar and get back to you" is a perfectly acceptable response in most situations. It's always good, when possible, to leave your options open and your commitments few.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 09:50 PM
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Didn't look like the guy recording knew the guy that was being attacked. They may not have had the video right away, but yeah, I get what you're saying.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 06:58 PM
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|What do you all think about keeping this plate spinning?? She is a 9 in my book but the attitude needs work. Wait, keep which plate spinning? Your ex-fiance? Absolutely not. Go no-contact if at all humanly possible.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 05:34 PM
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This was one of the most refreshing comments I've ever read on trp. I've got a similar outlook on life and as you know, it's not a very popular one here or anywhere else. Alot of people look at this type of mentality like you've given up on life. It's really just an appreciation for different things in life than what most people are looking for. It's kind of like min/maxing applied to life. Anyways, thanks for the post.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 06:21 PM
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It's peddle. Sorry to be that guy, but I'd want someone to tell me.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 05:26 PM
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The 300-400 deficit is the fitness worlds response to being accused of encouraging eating disorders. Its completely possible to hit all of your macros at 1000 cals (not saying its easy, just possible). Obviously, a pure ice cream sandwich diet is not the ideal way to do it, but his point stands, youll still lose weight
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 11:40 PM
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Hahaha. She said none of them brought "money", not "cash". Is this the only club in existence without ATM's everywhere?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 09:49 PM
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Well, to consider yourself a "gamer" (which I do), you kinda have to not care when people refer to you like a neckbeard fedora wearing etc etc etc. So the usual "shame the unbelievers" tactic the SJWs are so used to working on normal people completely blows up in their face. You can call what I'm saying rape and misogyny and I'm going to keep talking and point out how stupid your points are, while most people would probably just stfu because no one wants that kind of attention.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 06:47 PM
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Bahahaha, you made a huge mistake by suggesting that lifting weights can't solve every single problem you've ever had in this sub.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 08:58 PM
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Pretty sure he meant IDGAF = "I don't give a fuck"
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 08:46 PM
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You should probably do some research on the subject before dolling out shit answers like that. Weight loss is a simple formula of calories in and calories out. Whether you burn all your calories lifting, playing squash or walking old ladies across the street is irrelevant. It is 90% about diet (calories in) and 10% exercise (calories out). In terms of weightloss the only thing you have to think about is how fast the exercise burns calories. Heavy lifts will burn PLENTY.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 06:08 PM
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Would you have listened if her ex told you she cheated on him? Dont involve yourself. You are not responsible for her new man's well being. Plus, for all you know, shes already told him about it.
/r/askTRP10/10/14 04:04 AM
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Talk about an open ended question. Life is about balance, but it's also about getting what you want/need. My personal philosophy (I'm way more laid back than most people) is to be chill/laid back until doing so doesn't get me what I want. Then I switch to being assertive/dominant until I get what I want. Then back to chill. Your "right" answer will likely be different, because that "perfect balance" is different for everyone. Are you getting burned by being too laid back in some situations? Don'…
/r/askTRP21/09/14 04:36 AM
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Yes. Rejection is part of life and rejection feels bad. No one is entitled to sex. Everyone is entitled to bitch about not getting what they want, even if they don't deserve it, they just may not be taken seriously/no one will care. I think that people have always and will always bitch about this kind of thing, however only a few will see the situation for what it is and do what needs to be done to change the results of what's got them so upset. ie some people will figure out that they need to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/14 07:07 PM
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5'6 checking in here. Stop being such a pussy. Would life be easier if you were 6'+? Absolutely. But you're not that tall and no amount of work or stressing about it is going to change that. You are hardwired to compare yourself to others. You will always do that and it's really not such a bad thing. You assess others and compare their strengths and weaknesses to yours, then you file that information away to be used later. That's it, though. Move on from there. I never understand why short guys …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 09:46 PM
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It's a bit more difficult than that, I think.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 08:37 PM
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To be fair, you're comparing a study where women are brought into a room and asked if the man in the image in front of them is attractive with real life attraction. The two will never be the same. Listen to what they say, but act based on what they do. (Or don't listen to what they say, watch what they do)
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 08:35 PM
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I sort of disagree with this. I agree that pride is important. But I think that too much pride is poisonous and distracts you from your long term goals. In my experience, every once in a while you have to take shit from someone. A colleague, a client, a boss, an insane relative. If I spent all my time defending my honor I'd never get anything else done! There are some lines that you can't tolerate being crossed, sure. But for the most part, I think the core masculinity is knowing where those lin…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 08:31 PM
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I think you can be a cynical sarcastic asshole and still be a happy person. Just because you expect and prepare for the worst doesn't mean you can't be happily surprised when it's not so bad. I actually think looking back on things you've done to mitigate damage and how your actions improved the result of a situation is one of the best ways to become happy.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 08:21 PM
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He's saying that theredpill isn't about sparking change in our society and attempting to fix it. It's about knowing the rules of the game and using them to your advantage. But you didn't call it a movement, so I get the confusion.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 09:40 PM
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Assuming this is in the US, it's a non-issue. 13 year olds can legally fuck 13 year olds all the livelong day without fear of legal consequences. However, if they trade nudes they can both be stomped on for child pornography.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 06:43 PM
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Generally there's alot more buildup/pressure at the end. If you do it some time in the middle, it sets the tone for the rest of the date.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 07:47 PM
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It's like the blind leading the blind in this sub. You can't counter 5 years of beta supplication with a coffee date and "establishing some ground rules".
/r/askTRP09/06/14 11:47 PM
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This reads like a post from someone over at /r/thebluepill. It was painful to read and I couldn't finish it. I really hope you're trolling. If you're not trolling, please do yourself a favor and cut all contact with this girl. You have put way too much into this and have gotten absolutely nothing in return. As has already been suggested, read the sidebar 3 times. Then read no more mister nice guy. Then come up with a plan for what to do next.
/r/askTRP09/06/14 11:44 PM
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Get your priorities straight, man. Don't worry about maintaining frame when you're homeless. Taking care of yourself is a basic foundation of being a man. Be a man first, and then worry about becoming a redpill man. You should have never allowed your lease to expire with nowhere to move to. You slipped on that and now it's going to delay your progress. Own your failure and don't let it happen again.
/r/askTRP03/06/14 02:48 PM
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There is something that makes me feel as if I have lost a part of her if I relegate her persona as a child. How can I swallow the red pill while not losing that sense of closeness? You don't literally treat her like a child. Imagine two men are in the armed services and have served together for years and are sitting down for a meal. One of the men is the commanding officer of the unit the other man belongs to. These men have been friends for years and have tons in common, but one is the commande…
/r/askTRP02/06/14 10:12 PM
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tl;dr "Do you smoke weed just for the benefit of hooking up with women?" No. If it doesn't fit your lifestyle and goals then don't do it. Simple as that.
/r/askTRP02/06/14 10:00 PM
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I would think dying for your country would be an obligation more than a right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/14 05:58 PM
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Just do a good job pretending to believe what you are being told Honestly, this is what school is about. Learn the rules and don't be seen breaking them. Instead of working against the rules, make the rules work for you. Don't believe everything you're told, think critically. Just because you memorize the answer they want doesn't mean you have to believe it or put it into practice. Shitty parents are the ones that expect the school system to raise their kids. Homeschooling is kinda hit-or-miss a…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 08:01 PM
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Yeah, and that's why you should like, talk to your kids after school.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 06:26 PM
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You have that link handy? I looked through the sidebar and first two pages on tbp. Pls respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/14 08:22 PM
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have said things in red pill that sound like they could lead on to rape or are potentially rape. What is potentially rape? Are we talking about micro-rape? Nano-rape? In a society where everything is rape, nothing is rape. Why are you propagating rape culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/14 07:39 PM
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Kind of sad that such a ridiculous statement might be taken seriously anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/14 07:37 PM
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I remember that thread. Good times. Most BPers there went the way of logic, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/14 07:10 PM
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Edited my first comment with an actual answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/14 06:16 PM
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Just being sarcastic. Kind of sad that needs to be clarified, though, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/14 05:54 PM
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Hypergamy isn't a bad thing, it's natural, and it's just how women are wired. People grow up watching Disney movies and romantic comedies and expect women to stick it out with men once the guy "gets" them, even if he loses all of his attractive qualities. Realizing that this is not how things work in reality is really frustrating for some of these people, thus all of the negativity. This is mostly just people who haven't quite come to terms with it all yet. TRP has exploded over the past 6 month…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/14 05:50 PM
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If it's the female that's drunk it's rape. If it's the male that is drunk, he should just man up because he probably wanted it and should be grateful a girl actually wanted to fuck him. Also, if the female wakes up in the morning and regrets it, it's probably still rape regardless of who was drunk, or if there was alcohol involved. She was obviously coerced, in that case. Edit: Okay, fine, a serious answer. If I (a man) allowed a very intoxicated girl to fuck me without ever touching her and onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/14 05:41 PM
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I'd stay. The thought of leaving wouldn't even cross my mind. That being said, we've been together more than 3 years and were pretty much best friends for 4 or 5 years before we got together (gag, retch, I know...). My scenario, already answered. Assuming you meant been together 1 year? It would depend on the SO, but I would have stayed for mine after only a year, definitely. I have no idea. Sorry, it's just really hard to imagine that scenario and exactly what I'd do. Points for honesty?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/14 04:50 PM
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Many of them are really entertaining. Some of them are stretched truth. Some of them are obvious fiction. Any of them (even the fake ones) could provide a valuable nugget of information. A witty response I might not have thought of, an interesting technique managing group dynamics, etc. /u/scottishredpill has by far the best FR's. They could be nothing but internet lies but they're really fun to read and usually have something valuable to take away from them, even if they are fake. I'm not sayin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/14 04:44 PM
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The drive to have sex is one that affects all human beings outside of a few outliers (asexual people, people with hormonal or reproductive system issues, etc). When a female who sleeps around is being discussed, there are a couple of different reactions that are likely on TRP. You have people who accept this for what it is and shrug their shoulders and move on with life and you have people who are pissed off that girls who sleep around aren't sleeping with THEM. The only people who comment on st…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/14 04:12 PM
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I you look at the post that's referenced, they're talking about a girl who is upset that a guy was sleeping with other girls before they were exclusive. So it's not cheating and not really relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/14 07:56 AM
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Like I said, TRP is amoral. Getting laid is a very basic goal that everyone has, whether they want to admit it on the Internet or not. People want to get laid in different contexts, of course. Some I long term monogamous relationships and some in one night stands and some in between. TRP is about understanding how attraction and sexual dynamics work and using that information to your advantage. Whether that's to have one night stands, friends with benefits, or long term relationships is irreleva…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/14 05:46 AM
8

Porn - for the availability and production, generally against regular use. Everyone probably feels a bit different about it. Personally, I say it's like anything else, use it as much as you want as long as it doesn't interfere with your goals. Investment - the man is always to blame in this scenario. Even if the woman made the mistake, the man is ultimately responsible for failing to catch the mistake. As far as always being right - it's not that you should never admit mistakes or anything like …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/14 10:57 PM
1

So, you presume women who have gotten sex with men their entire lives by simply "giving in" / "saying yes" are suddenly going to be paying for sex? Maybe 5 or 10 years after legalization, but definitely not right away. Assuming your presumption is correct, no. Men don't get anything for providing sex as a service generally, so the "lowering of the prices" of a man's sex would have no effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/14 06:17 PM
5

Hit the gym - check Start your own business - not present, -25 points Ignore women, acquire currency - check Make fun of videogames - check 3/4 (75%) Circlejerk successful - You could do way better, though. Dig deep, man! Haha, sorry, maybe I've just been here too long. Your title looked like this was going to be a really interesting post on the give and take of social and sexual dynamics, but you've basically summarized the top 10 comments of any given thread on the frontpage of /r/theredpill.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 07:26 PM
1

I'd go with: "thanks! sorry, looks like I lost your contact info. Who is this, again?"
/r/askTRP28/04/14 11:05 PM
4

Do you really buy into that "you can't win an argument with a woman!" bullshit, grrrl? Maybe you just need some work on maintaining frame. In the past men slapped their wives around. Now, we got nothing. Can't tell if troll or moron
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 01:49 PM
2

Just checked your submitted history to see what kind of quality you deliver. Empty... Imagine that, someone whining about the quality of content without contributing anything.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 05:02 PM
1

A lot of guys in the redpill community already know that love is an exchange of resources. Guys trade their money, knowledge, skills, maturity, masculity, attention, etc for a woman’s physical beauty, youth, ability to rear children, etc. etc. All relationships are transaction and investment based. From your Mother to your nemesis without exception. But I think it’s going too far when so many people now only look at what they can gain from having a relationship with someone. It’s extremely selfi…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 01:50 PM
33

"tingles"
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 01:39 PM
2

Men are not wolves. While there is a social hierarchy, it's not as simplistic as alpha, beta, omega, gamma etc. While you might be amog in one group, you might not be in a different group, depending on who makes up the group and how you rank among them. Like people in general, it's fluid and always changing based on timing and environment. To simplify for the purpose of discussion on trp, alpha and beta describe specific traits. Everyone has some alpha traits mixed in with some beta traits. No o…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 06:42 AM
-1

Sorry, but relationships without sex don't work. This is one of those "no one believes the fire is hot until they get burned" things, LDR's never work out because they require a ton of effort to maintain and don't even pay out the bare necessity of relationship fulfilment. Unless you finish school in a month or two, you will both end up spending most of your day thinking about someone that you won't be able to see for months. Sure, you could try some of the suggested... Sexting, dirty pictures, …
/r/askTRP26/02/14 12:11 AM
2

Sounds like it might be frame issues, then. Could be worth while to work on that by putting yourself in situations where it's difficult to maintain it but not impossible. So if you typically hang out with 3-4 of them at a time, see if you can hold frame while hanging out with 1-2 of them. Then work your way up from there... It'll take some time, but it's definitely possible. You might wanna include your above comment as an edit.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 11:52 PM
2

Agreed, it's not binary.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 09:15 PM
2

You can download the app onto an iPhone, Adroid device or Mac/PC. No kindle required.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 08:27 PM
65

but as a Alpha I demand to be treated the same way I treat others Alpha, like beta, should be used to describe traits, not people. Declaring yourself an alpha looks silly and weak.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 07:59 PM
2

Because the burden of proof rests on the existence of Karma. You can't scientifically say something exists unless you can scientifically back it up. So if I said unicorns exist and you said they didn't the burden of proof would be on me to show evidence of a unicorn. It would be impossible for you to prove that unicorns don't exist, right?
/r/askTRP25/02/14 02:04 AM
4

No. The punk look can definitely be hot, but she looked terrible.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 11:13 PM
22

Yes.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 10:34 PM
2

Haha, I just get frustrated and cheat
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 09:36 PM
1

Had to look it up, they're Oceania, Eurasia and Eastasia. (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nations_of_Nineteen_Eighty-Four)
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 05:01 PM
2

It's annoying when people attribute hard work, dedication and foresight to "luck"
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 07:54 AM
5

Read this as cispool haha
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 05:39 AM
2

Eurasia I think
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 04:30 AM
32

Societal pressure and patriarchy made me choose to work retail, that's why I'm not in a STEM field!
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 12:07 AM
1

I think this is more of a school thing... Girls have an easier time sitting still, listening to teachers, not being rowdy, getting homework in on time, etc than boys. To the schools, that translates to more mature or maturing faster.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 10:12 PM
1

Interesting, I've never thought about it like that.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 09:43 PM
1

There are some people like this, but it's definitely not the majority. You're being overly negative because people have interests that aren't your interests and you don't understand why they enjoy them. Chill the fuck out.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 09:41 PM
1

Really? People in general always seem surprised when they find out I'm not into sports, but I've never had any negative reactions to it outside of some light ribbing here and there about how I'm a weirdo that doesn't even like sports. It's definitely seen as non-normal, but I've never seen anyone offended by it. Think this is because I position it like "hey, I'm kinda geeky and it's just outside my interests", or is it a region thing? I'm from Chicago so fans are pretty hardcore and take their s…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 09:38 PM
4

Pointing out a double standard != MRA
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 08:57 PM
2

Heh, it's sort of a core tenet around these parts
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 10:30 PM
16

Outcome independence, gentlemen.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 10:04 PM
13

I think everyone has baggage and women generally deal with it differently than men do.
/r/askTRP12/02/14 05:09 AM
2

Eh, I dug for the comment for 10 minutes or so and can't find it. Someone cross posted it on a thread on TRP from yesterday.
/r/RedPillBooks10/02/14 10:56 PM
1

Yeah, just discovered this subreddit yesterday. Fucking awesome content and discussions.
/r/RedPillBooks10/02/14 10:21 PM
35

Yeah, alot of people use alts for trp for this very reason. We're the boogeyman of reddit.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 06:39 AM
2

It's close/similar, yes. Not the best example, though
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 11:22 PM
1

Well I was assuming that you're being selective in the relationships you choose to have
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 09:41 PM
1

I'm going to disagree with you on your last point. It's important to bring value to your relationships and that sometimes requires making personal sacrifices. He qualified this with people you choose to care about (I assume dare was a typo). Without this qualification you'd be right, we'd be talking about a whit knight doormat. But surely you've made small sacrifices in your life to help out a friend or family member, right?
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 09:30 PM
1

Yep, story time!
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 10:19 PM
9

I agree with you in principle, but it's not like the government took it down. Amazon doesn't have to sell anything they don't want to.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 11:36 PM
2

You said to make socializing his primary focus, and devalued hitting the gym, but you didn't offer any practical ways to get better at socializing. True, and maybe I should have. Also, I didn't devalue hitting the gym, I said he should probably do that too. Also, I didn't say the a person's physique should be the source of their confidence. I said the source of OP's shitty social skills is a lack of confidence, which can be helped by going to the gym. True, but I had already said the gym was pro…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 11:02 PM
1

CEO is an employee, unless he is the sole owner of the business. But I get what you're saying, shitty example.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 09:26 PM
1

He co-founded and then sold. His next company was bought by Apple and he was then made an employee. Just pointing out that your definition of "rich" is stupid.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 09:10 PM
1

Ok... Sure. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Steve_Jobs#Return_to_Apple "In 1996, Apple announced that it would buy NeXT for $427 million. The deal was finalized in February 1997,[105] bringing Jobs back to the company he co-founded. Jobs became de facto chief after then-CEO Gil Amelio was ousted in July 1997. He was formally named interim chief executive in September."
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 09:02 PM
1

I thought it was common sense that investors don't give money to people with zero experience who won't put any money of their own up for risk (because they have none). Obviously, your knowledge on the subject overwhelms me.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 08:59 PM
2

So a stay at home mommy who "makes her own hours" is rich? Can I sit at home, doing nothing and having nothing but time on my hands while I collect welfare and be "rich" in your mind?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 08:53 PM
1

So to be clear, Steve Jobs, while employed at Apple was not "rich yet", because he was an employee... Is that right? So does that mean someone who runs an unsuccessful business out of his mother's garage that consistently loses money every quarter is "rich" because he owns his time and is technically "in control of his financial future"?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 08:50 PM
1

I never said it can't be done. I haven't done any of that because I have no interest in owning or running my own business.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 08:46 PM
2

I never said "go socialize", I said "make fixing it your primary focus". Believe it or not, the gym (or lack thereof) is not the end all be all root of every problem for every person. While it might be easy and popular to say "hit the gym it will solve all your problems, bro" it's simply not true, especially in this case. Is it possible that there can be more to what a person has to say than how many reps he hit on leg day? Is it possible that maybe physique should enhance one's confidence and p…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 08:39 PM
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Haha, aren't you a snotty twat? Sure, you can get loans. You could find investors. Of course, then you're heavily depending on other people for your success. You think the guy that that has trouble making friends and doesn't talk at social events because he doesn't know what to say should be pitching a business plan to banks and other investors? Wow, good plan. That's some real entrepreneurial ingenuity you've got going on there.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 08:36 PM
5

Well I don't know any 30 year old millionaires personally... If your suggestion is that he should invest/start his own business/etc I think we can both agree that he'll need starting capital and more than likely a skill to help him get that capital.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 07:48 PM
4

Most people here are/will tell you to hit the gym, work on your body language and approach women. All pretty solid advice, generally speaking. While you should probably do all of those, to me, it looks like your biggest problem is communication and socializing. I would make fixing that your primary focus.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 07:34 PM
1

Erm, what?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 07:27 PM
7

but antagonizing them is what, heroic? Funny, in this case.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 05:55 PM
1

I'm not really attacking you, buddy. I make the suggestion only because if you expect us all to suddenly start playing nice and using politically correct language, you're going to be disappointed. Seriously, if it's that distracting for you there are other places that offer similar content that's more non-offensive and feel-good. I'm not saying you're not welcome here because you have different views than the rphivemind, just saying you'll have to put up with some political incorrectness and har…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 05:18 PM
1

Perhaps you'd be happier over at seddit? They're much more politically correct, less likely to "use language irresponsibly" and might not rustle your jimmies so much.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 04:29 PM
8

There was a fairly lengthy post on this subject a few months ago. Basically how an endorsed contributor might say something like "it's impossible for women to love men" when what they really mean is something like "it's impossible for a woman to love a man in the way that the man wants to be loved for a variety of reasons (I'm not going to list them in this explanation as it's been better said by other members)." There's a lot of implied knowledge required for you to understand what they're real…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 06:41 PM
1

So yeah, then your a mix of alpha and beta just like everyone else. Most people here would advise you to turn your beta traits into alpha traits, but if you're happy with your beta traits and your life overall then cool, keep on keeping on.
/r/askTRP27/01/14 07:31 AM
4

Redpill is a collection of knowledge on sexual strategy, blue pill is a parody making fun of redpill. If you mean alpha vs beta, Noone is 100% one or the other. It should only be used to describe specific behaviors and situations, not an individual as a whole. Does that answer your question?
/r/askTRP27/01/14 07:15 AM
3

Sure. It's just that real love is nothing like Disney love. I'm in love with my girlfriend.... but that shit takes work to maintain. It's not like you find your one and only love and all game goes out the window. It always takes work. It's never easy (especially long term). Love is possible, sure, but maybe not in the way you're looking for.
/r/askTRP27/01/14 06:47 AM
-8

Unrelated, but I think he ripped off my name...
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 01:36 AM
1

Doesn't Ripptoe recommend moving off to a different program after like 16 weeks or something? It's meant as a good start, to build strength so that you can later build muscle faster.
/r/RedPillBooks23/01/14 04:29 PM
2

In order to be the best person possible, you need to surround yourself with the best people possible. Books are a pretty good way of surrounding yourself with ideals from people that are unavailable in your day-to-day life but have tons of value to offer. I appreciate your sentiment that you can't just read books your whole life and improve yourself without going out into the real world and that self help stuff can become toxic, but books are a great way to test/reinforce your frame. How can you…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 04:16 PM
1

You lost 85 lbs in 21 days? Or did you mean the beginning of 2013?
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 09:36 PM
1

I'd agree that it's not as much of a disqualifier for women as it is for men,but I'd say it's still a pretty big disqualifier.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 09:25 PM
2

Or maybe not that it's fake, but she's not really in a position to have an opinion about it so it doesn't mean as much.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 09:18 PM
2

Ha, awesome write-up. I've always tried to explain what you call "fat game" to my thinner friends, but the best I ever came up with was "slow game". Awesome explanation.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 09:17 PM
3

You can check out /r/redpillbooks to narrow your reading.
/r/askTRP10/01/14 09:59 PM
2

I think that was sort of the point he was getting across, right?
/r/seduction07/01/14 05:37 PM
1

This looks like he's copy/pasta the same shit to multiple girls. Probably why he's not phased that she has like never responded. He prolly didn't even notice until she called him out on it.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 12:11 AM
1

Goddammit. RedPill is not being a prick - even to fat or ugly girls. Fuck.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 11:13 PM
1

Got into an LTR with a girl with high numbers. She never really did relationships and she hooked up a lot. We've talked about it, but I've honestly never cared. But yeah, as has been said, there's no accurate way to ever know for sure. No regrets on my side, though. We've been great friends for 8 years and have dated for 3 now. I know that goes against the general consensus here, but just thought I'd throw out my 2 cents.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 09:32 PM
3

Meh, it really depends on you. Do you understand that real sex is nothing like porn? Have you tried not using porn for a week? Experiment and see if you see a difference and then go from there. Your sessions (to me) seem a bit excessive. If I did it 6 times a day, I'd be doing literally nothing but that and eating.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 09:08 PM
8

the pool of available attractive single women over 25 is minute. Date women under 25? lol
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 07:19 PM
1

Have you read this article from the /r/theredpill sidebar? Love exists. It just doesn't exist in the fairytale way that we've all been told it does. No relationship between two humans is ever going to be perfect. People are naturally going to have unrealistic expectations of each other and the relationship. I think it's important to analyze what, if anything, you want out of a relationship. If it's to find your unicorn soul mate, please re-read that article and re-evaluate. Once you know what yo…
/r/askTRP30/12/13 07:17 PM
1

!!! TRIGGER WARNING !!!! Haha, it started as a joke/troll sub and was then taken over by social justice warriors. It's actually pretty entertaining to lurk there every once in a while. You'll pretty much be instabanned if you post from your RP username, though. It's entertaining for them for the same reason it's funny to laugh at angry feminists.
/r/askTRP30/12/13 05:56 PM
20

As a fellow recovering fatty I can tell you that you're probably way more concerned about it than she is. Being attractive helps, of course, but for most women that's a tiny part of the equation. My advice is to work on gaming your woman while you're working on your body. Start teasing her before you guys start hooking up, send her dirty text messages in the middle of the day. Get her juices flowing emotionally and work on your confidence. Your body should reflect your confidence and dedication,…
/r/askTRP30/12/13 05:40 AM
1

It's not too depressing, pretty decent flick
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 01:51 AM
2

Also the main theme of Blue Valentine. I watched it the other day after seeing it referenced as "life altering" a couple of times in an /r/movies thread. It was actually the most RP romantic drama I've ever seen. Wasn't life changing for me because it was pretty much RP. I could see why it would be life changing for people not familiar with those themes though
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 12:05 AM
2

Gotcha. Yeah, that's usually a behavior learned by women taking white-knight lance. Does he jump in on the drama and reinforce this behavior, or does he get her to settle down? Poor dude might just be dealing with the mess the last guy met. I think if you're clear with your GF that that shit isn't going to fly either before hand or the first time it comes up, you're not going to have a problem with it. People usually aren't so quick on the draw when they know they have to deal with the fallout o…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 10:43 PM
1

You'll have way better luck with this over at /r/fitness and /r/weightroom
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 10:26 PM
5

All conflicts are different and deserve to be analyzed individually. Everyone is going to have a different answer to this question, so here's mine. This only applies to conflict/arguments that I feel I need to intervene in and it's not something I make a habit of. Generally speaking, I will neutralize the conflict quickly, quietly and discreetly and then have a discussion with her in private. This is a personal thing, as I prefer internal relationship conflict to happen "behind the curtain". I h…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 10:09 PM
3

Basically, MR attempts to change the current sexual/gender climate, where RP attempts to capitalize on it. It's not that I don't agree with some of the MR stuff, it's that they all sound like whiney bitchy victims.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 09:30 PM
2

I have pretty much the same line of thinking. Red Pill theory operates on the generality of the masses. Meaning that most of RP theory is applicable to most women in most applications. There's stuff that's RP theory that I don't agree with, so I just don't apply it. It's in my repertoire but sits on the shelf so to speak, because I've never cared to utilize it. Beyond that, there are people I know that have been exceptions to specific parts of theory, so to act on that theory knowing it doesn't …
/r/askTRP26/12/13 09:09 PM
8

You cable into the switch that's included on your router. A router routes traffic between subnets. On the home/small office models you're probably used to, it routes between the internet and your LAN. So it really only has two interfaces or ports (outside/WAN and inside/LAN). A switch facilitates LAN traffic (devices communicating with each other on the same local subnet without going out to the internet). A switch will have multiple ports/interfaces for all of those devices to plug into and (ca…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 11:46 PM
6

Router should be changed to switch. lol
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 08:16 PM
3

Please try to bear in mind that our grandparents grew up in a completely different world. Sure, people (as a collective) never change and core tenets about people now were just as true back then. But society has changed so much that the repercussions vary greatly if a person did x then compared to doing x now. Remember not to compare apples to oranges. This subreddit is all about averages and applying theory that will work on 99% of the population. 99% of redpill (or pre-redpill) men are interes…
/r/askTRP19/11/13 10:40 PM
3

I am stopping my pot smoking as well /r/leaves
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 11:06 PM
24

He answered the questions in your post point by point. "No one cares, keep it to yourself" is not offensive. Your questions are general and could easily (and have multiple times) been asked by men or women. Your gender on this particular post is irrelevant and therefore: "No one cares, keep it to yourself". The fact that you found this offensive (which I think is a little funny) and completely skipped the rest of the points of the comment is a cop-out. You didn't like the answers and can't be bo…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 08:10 PM
0

It's not an ethical framework. It's a sexual strategy framework. Upvoted for the Crowley reference :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/13 06:54 PM
1

Actually, "Blue Pill" is typically used to describe beta behavior, not just anything that isn't "Red Pill". Scratching your ass, for example, while not Red Pill is not Blue Pill just because it's not Red Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/13 06:40 AM
2

Not sure what you mean about trp being a feel good place, I personally find it sort of cold. Where are you getting that from?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/13 05:51 AM
3

Yeah, I agree with most of what you said, actually. Initially I said truth is a lofty word when dealing with human interaction, what I really meant is that it's subjective. You seem to be saying that TRP promotes truth for the sake of truth, as in definitive, peer reviewed and objective truth. I would say that TRP promotes the collective experiences of it's individual members to create guidelines to navigate social interactions in the direction you want them to go. From what I've seen, most TRP …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/13 10:36 PM
6

There isn't one / we all have different opinions. There have been a few trans people that have commented on TRP and askTRP, from what I've seen they've all been treated with respect and dignity. From an analysis perspective, they're definitely outliers in that they don't fit in to the typical alpha/beta/$greekletter roles. It's not something that comes up very often.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/13 07:12 PM
2

I'd say that you're correct, it's a simplification. I wouldn't say that it's either "you're either with me or against me" because while I can't speak for all of trp I don't care what anyone else does or believes. I see it more as either you believe what you are told and act accordingly, or you study behavior and reactions to certain behavior and change/tweak/experiment accordingly in order to figure out what works best for you personally. A common theme in trp is "don't believe what they say, wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/13 07:07 PM
-2

The only non-RP users here actually wanting a discussion and/or debate all say essentially the same thing: "Explain what /r/theredpill is and what you believe in 120 characters or less". If you don't understand what theredpill is, there's not a whole lot to debate, is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/13 10:46 PM
2

You're implying that it does currently, it doesn't. But at the time of segregation it was and it was democrat states passing those laws. Kind of weird how much the political parties have changed. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_segregationists_during_the_African-American_Civil_Rights_Movement_(1955%E2%80%9368)
/r/TheRedPill09/10/13 08:32 PM
2

Yeah, as /u/invisiblephrend mentioned, if you look at it historically, Republicans were originally liberal and Democrats were conservative.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/13 06:55 PM
5

Blue pill women don't invest, they cash out and move on.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 04:18 PM
1

Perfect
/r/TheRedPill26/09/13 06:17 PM
3

I thought so too, but after searching through the last week didn't find it. I did find it on /r/cringepics, though. Can't remember for sure where I saw it originally.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/13 03:59 PM
2

I didn't see it via a search. Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/13 05:10 PM
1

I'll look into it, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/13 04:44 PM
-1

I would say that no part of TRP recommends lying about aspects of your personality. Not like you should walk up to women and say "Hi, I'm a successful, assertive billionaire that cured cancer by the time I was 16. Sleep with me." If you're talking about "fake it till you make it", well that's something different. You're emulating behaviors of a man with confidence and self-esteem, which with enough practice and social interaction leads to genuine confidence and self-esteem. That can and should b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/13 04:41 PM
3

This is dumb because it implies that one's "self" is static. By that logic, a change of clothes creates a false illusion of self. What is a "false illusion of self"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/13 04:17 PM
5

No, I'd consider that highlighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/13 04:13 PM
1

Compromises are absolutely vital to any relationship, including friendship but especially LTR's. The trick is, you compromise on things that lie between her and you. Examples: Where to go eat, what movie to watch, which party to go to, which friends to invite over tonight, where you're going on vacation. You never compromise on something that is completely your choice... Your drug use is your choice, not like you're forcing her to take any. Do your thing, take your drugs and don't lie to her abo…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/13 03:55 PM
3

No. The purpose of TRP is for people to learn how to become more attractive, physically and otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/13 02:51 AM
1

I think she quit acting a few years ago after having a kid
/r/TheRedPill23/09/13 09:50 PM
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ITT: "She nailed her ex so next her before she does it again!" Remember it's usually best to pay the least amount of attention to plates you're most interested in. It's hard, but worth it long-term.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/13 08:39 PM
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To be fair, it seems like he's trying to eliminate the large majority of women reading it so as to not waste time on someone he's not interested in. So MAYBE!
/r/TheRedPill20/09/13 11:24 PM
1

Cult implies blind acceptance. Trp is more of a set of philosophies imho
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/13 07:16 AM
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Disclaimer: This article is meant to be both humorous and satirical, no offense was intended by either the author or Elite Daily.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 10:48 PM
1

"You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it swallow the red pill" -Elvis Presley No, but seriously, you can't force someone to adopt a new outlook on life. You can talk to her, advise her, point to the err of her ways, but ultimately it is her life, her responsibility and her decision. Sorry, bro.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 10:21 PM
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You didn't come across as arrogant, just a cautionary comment from someone who's been there (and maybe got a LITTLE try-hard) haha.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/13 12:13 AM
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It makes a difference and anyone who says differently has never had one. After buying one, I immediately saw a difference in how I was treated by people after they saw the car. That said, it doesn't make THAT big of a deal. I bought a Challenger when I was 24 because I had been driving shit cars since I was 16. It's not the coolest/fastest car, but it looks cool as fuck and I love driving it. I've always had a pretty long commute to work (bout an hour 1 way) and it wasn't very expensive for what…
/r/askTRP16/09/13 11:22 PM
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It's always possible he's transexual
/r/askTRP16/09/13 11:10 PM
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I would say it's just going to take some time for the self-esteem to bolster the self-confidence. I got the impression that all of this success/value is fairly recent. It takes some time to absorb all of that before you'll start to view yourself as the "new" you instead of the "old" you. After that and some positive interactions with other people, your confidence will level out to match your esteem. Also, sounds like you could use a few new (higher value) friends. You're in a completely differen…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 11:00 PM
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25, oh wait I'm old...
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 07:17 PM
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Seriously, people talk about ways to stand out from your competition - your possibly future boss is going to remember the dude that figured out who would be responsible for filling the position and contacted him directly.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/13 09:48 PM
1

To be safe, I might check out the other subreddits you subscribe to before looking at trp for the day. At least this way you're posting in threads you're interested before you ever even hit a trp thread, so if it's ever a question timestamps can save your ass. It might not matter, though...
/r/TheRedPill10/09/13 02:28 PM
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My understanding of this was that only happens when you legally adopt the child, or sign the birth certificate when it's born.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/13 05:07 PM
2

Only thing worse than no socks is wet socks
/r/TheRedPill05/09/13 05:41 AM
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Can confirm. I discovered this subreddit from one of your posts (I think on askmen)
/r/TheRedPill05/09/13 12:22 AM
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Seriously, what does mfa have against socks!? No one wears socks there!
/r/TheRedPill04/09/13 11:32 PM
1

Well he did say not to portray a false image to people. Haha
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 05:56 PM
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Not in my experience, no. Its just a common jab on reddit
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 04:11 AM
2

I do have a neckbeard.... I just get annoyed when people act like its such a common thing.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 03:41 AM
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Its possible to go from pudgy to not pudgy in 2 months and not everyone has a fucking neckbeard.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 02:57 AM
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Srs or thebluepill?
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 02:45 AM
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Yep, I'll allow it.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/13 05:01 PM
1

Pretty slick car! What the hell kind of lemonade stand were you running?!
/r/TheRedPill26/08/13 10:13 PM
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It seems to me that you're okay with this situation and you're worried that it doesn't fit neatly into the alpha/redpill ideology. If that's the case, you're doing it wrong. If you're cool with it, then let it be and don't worry about it. If you're looking for validation, you've come to the wrong sub-reddit.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/13 09:39 PM
2

Wait... You owned a car at 13?
/r/TheRedPill26/08/13 08:46 PM
3

He's got a point, bi-piller is way funnier than purple piller. Haha
/r/TheRedPill23/08/13 03:55 PM
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What annoyed me most was the misuse of the word "steal".
/r/TheRedPill22/08/13 08:40 PM
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So will you be posting a screenshot of this post from your other account on /r/cringepics, /r/TheBluePill or both? 2/10, I'd like to see some more effort next time.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/13 09:31 PM
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No participation. It's basically a reddit link that starts with np.reddit.com that tries to block you from up/down voting and commenting. We get picked on alot in this sub, so we've had a few problems with people getting shadow banned for participating in other subreddit threads that were linked here. So now if you're liking to other subreddits, you have to use a np link. Original (I think) modpost from RedPillSchool about it is here: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1eilir/no_partici…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/13 02:37 PM
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Haha, I'm pretty sure you don't have to use np links when linking to the same subreddit ;)
/r/TheRedPill20/08/13 07:31 PM
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I'll keep this short. I'm pretty happy. My TRP discovery, for me, wasn't as mind-blowing as most people describe it. Most of the stuff I read here is a better, more thought out and refined version of ideas that were already in my head. There are some specifics that come up that I may disagree with, or that I'm surprised I've never thought of myself. For me, discovering TRP was like "oh, these guys actually seem to know what they're talking about and give half-way decent advice".
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 09:55 PM
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They exist, but for most it doesn't happen every time. So unless you're sleeping with her regularly, you might never know it. Don't worry, bro, you're not missing much. Extra cleanup... Not sure why everyone gets so excited about it.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/13 03:32 PM
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http://np.reddit.com/r/TheBluePill/comments/1jr6hp/were_just_mad_no_one_will_rape_us_waaahhhh/
/r/TheRedPill05/08/13 10:49 PM
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Preach? No. Share? Only with close friends and usually only when they're already asking me for advice. There are exceptions to this, like if I notice they're making a fool of themselves publicly.... But generally speaking, you should never wake up a sleep-walker.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 09:54 PM
5

BA in Network Communications, I work for SMB's as a network/system (mostly windows) engineer.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 09:45 PM
1

Yes, there is, actually. /r/TheBluePill
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 08:23 PM
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Haha, that's an excellent story, man. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 05:44 PM
5

NAAWALT!!! (Not All American Women Are Like That)
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 09:14 AM
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Story time?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 09:05 AM
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I'm pretty sure being a victim by being lied to since you were born doesn't equate to weakness.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 06:21 AM
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Lack of accountability.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/13 06:29 PM
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That was my outlook initially, hahaha
/r/TheRedPill17/07/13 02:34 PM
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Haha, like I said I'm not sure if I care yet. If I did, I wouldn't care about what they think, I'd care about what they might do because of what they think. Sounds like other people have been doxxed and threatened before.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/13 02:33 PM
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doxx = documentation, basically having your reddit profile linked to your identity. Reading it near other people should be fine.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 11:13 PM
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I see your point, but I wasn't thinking in that context. I was thinking more along the lines of when you're with a group that's thinking about doing something you're not into so you just go do something else without really trying to convince anyone that they should come with you.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 10:54 PM
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Really? What was the fallout? Yeah, I think I'll probably do that.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 10:50 PM
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Yes, and the feminist hate is the only thing I'm really concerned about. That or like a potential employer seeing it. I might doxx proof....
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 10:31 PM
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Really? I mean re-reading it, it does sort of sound corny as fuck (my post not OP) and a bit generic. I guess I was thinking of this quote as more of a general life tip rather than sexual strategy. I agree with the "fake it till you make it" mantra. But once you have confidence, know what you want and are in the process of obtaining it, what random people say and think about you become drastically less important.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 10:29 PM
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Be a genuine guy. Don't be a fake motherfucker. You become fake by caring what others think of you. Stop that shit right now. Don't care what people say or think. You are who you want to be. You are on a path to GREATNESS. Trust yourself, you got this. Yep, this was the best point. Be true to yourself and others will notice, some will even tag along for the ride. Great post, man!
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 09:48 PM
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Nah, I disagree. Adults don't raise their voice to continue a conversation when children begin talking over them. They put the child in their place for interrupting. As for becoming a superstar idol/hero/ceo, that doesn't happen over night. His post was directed at introverts for stuff that they can start doing right now. Not to mention, it's lonely at the top.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 09:45 PM
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I suppose it really depends on yourself and the fetish. For me, I know who I am and since my kink play is so far removed from my own identity, it's easy to distinguish the two. Once I cum, I sort of snap back into place and I'm a little bit disgusted with myself :P I should note, I have only really indulged fetishes with LTR's. I imagine that helps because they know me well enough to know that it's just fantasy.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 09:25 PM
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I wouldn't own up to mine without a throwaway :P That said, acting beta while indulging in a fetish doesn't make you beta, as long as you ensure there is no spillover between sex acts and your daily life.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 07:01 PM
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She did say that she met him after he lost all of the weight, so I could kind of see how you wouldn't feel proud of something someone did before you knew them.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 06:34 PM
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Hahaha your comment suddenly makes way more sense. Television programming is definitely not a male space, so I get where you were coming from!
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 05:30 AM
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How many programmers do you know, exactly?
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 05:06 AM
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Come on guys, dont downvote the uninitiated. Some trp newbies are new to reddit as well.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/13 05:24 PM
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You should probably read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/13 05:22 PM
2

Was linked in the article, but since you asked nicely: http://www.adarkheart.com/2013/06/14/how-to-be-alpha-in-a-relationship-part-1-a-proper-beginning/
/r/TheRedPill12/07/13 10:19 PM
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Golden
/r/TheRedPill12/07/13 08:51 PM
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Haha, thank you for reminding me about /r/imgoingtohellforthis, I haven't been there in a while!
/r/TheRedPill12/07/13 04:33 PM
2

Video games are like drinking beer on a diet. While delicious, they're essentially empty calories. Fine in moderation, etc, etc.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 10:54 PM
5

Ever see Game of Thrones? Become Tyrion.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 10:26 PM
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"Aw, shucks, I'm just a lil ole naive girl from the south, I don' know nothin bout seeex. It makes me so uncomfortable!" Cant believe he bought that line...
/r/TheRedPill10/07/13 09:56 PM
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He's been reading Wilhelm all day! That kinda language rubs off on you when you've been reading it for a while.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/13 08:18 PM
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This is excellent!
/r/TheRedPill05/07/13 09:52 PM
3

Thanks! I'll do my best to contribute wherever I can.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/13 09:34 PM
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Your friend sounds like a real douche-bag, glad to hear you ditched him. Don't feel bad about it, people change, grow apart and become incompatible. If you don't cut people out of your life like that, they will poison it from the inside. Sounds to me like you're pissed off and looking for someone/thing to blame. Your friend sounds like he's a pretty fucked up dude. The effort you put into this post might have been better spend in an e-mail to your friend. TRP has nothing to do with manipulating …
/r/TheRedPill05/07/13 09:33 PM
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Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill05/07/13 08:31 PM
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Just wanted to say that I stopped by here a few days ago for the first time when someone linked to this sub during a rant. To be honest, I felt like a lot of the information here was stuff I had to learn on my own between 16 and 20. Wish I had known to come looking for the redpill then. This place is fast becoming my favorite subreddit because it's so interesting to see some of my own private thoughts show up in other users postings. The world could use some more redpill.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/13 07:45 PM
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Keep the values that you believe in but recognize that they leave you vulnerable. From there, just monitor things and basically cover your ass. Nice guys don't get stuck holding the bag because they are nice, they get stuck because they assume everyone ELSE is nice too.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/13 05:31 PM
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Looks like the post was deleted :( Anyone have the original text?
/r/TheRedPill05/07/13 05:21 PM
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hamstering Rationalization Hamster From The Private Man: "The rationalization hamster is an analogy for the thought processes used by women to turn bad behavior and bad decisions into acceptable ones to herself and her friends. When a woman makes a bad decision, the hamster spins in its wheel (the woman’s thinking) and creates some type of acceptable reasons for that bad decision. The crazier the decision, the faster the hamster must spin in order to successfully rationalize away the insanity." …
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 06:14 AM
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