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Lmaooo great advice.
/r/askMRP16/11/24 05:08 PM
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Lmaoo nah
/r/askMRP16/11/24 04:35 PM
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🙏🏼🤝
/r/askMRP16/11/24 04:34 PM
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This is where I was leaning towards. I appreciate your honesty and perspective. I’m planning on writing down all bills and income and see where I’m at. I’ve been investing in a brokerage and Roth IRA for the past 5 years and already at 30k with 22-24% up. I’ve already started the process for her as well. I had this doubt which is why I was vague with her because I simply did not no so I STFU. Any other insights you can provide so I don’t shoot myself? I feel my relationship is better than most. …
/r/askMRP16/11/24 02:43 PM
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I appreciate your input and perspective. She asked even if I was wealthy and she said no, what would I do? I said if it didn’t budge us I would do it. Obviously I’m not gonna go buy a house without letting her know and I wouldn’t do it if it affected us. We’re talking 15-20 years from now btw. Should I at least make her feel a part of it while it still being my final decision is what I should do?
/r/askMRP16/11/24 01:25 PM
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This wasn’t the only reason lmao
/r/askMRP16/11/24 01:20 PM
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Yes
/r/askMRP11/04/24 03:16 PM
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I appreciate your input. I am normally on top of things. I had a moment of weakness and wanted to share my experience and get perspective. I will learn from this.
/r/askMRP10/04/24 07:02 PM
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Yeah i know bro. In hindsight I’m cringing. I had a huge moment of weakness. I’m normally a rock around her. Not sure what came over me. But I’ll learn from this
/r/askMRP10/04/24 04:50 PM
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I appreciate this comment. It’s been a while since I’ve read . I’m normally very levelheaded and in frame, but I don’t know what happened last night. Definitely a moment of weakness. Any other advice or perspective is appreciated
/r/askMRP10/04/24 03:41 PM
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I needed to hear this. I can be very hard on myself and overthink shit. I appreciate you.
/r/askMRP06/03/24 10:41 PM
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Good, because I usually send her two dick pics
/r/askMRP06/03/24 02:36 PM
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Grow up bro.
/r/askMRP06/03/24 02:16 PM
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Yeah in hindsight I think I awarded a bad behavior. Last night she asked me to take the dogs out. In the mornings we usually go down together but she did have to leave early af. I wasn’t too fond on the idea and I showed it (her dog takes forever to pee/poop). It honestly annoys me. She does however take them out when I’m at work and help me out in that way. I finally said I would do it in a calm way but she replied with “no it’s fine I’ll do it.” And she turned her body away (we are in bed and …
/r/askMRP06/03/24 02:15 PM
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Do you have a resource for rewarding her with my attention etc?
/r/askMRP06/03/24 01:51 PM
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Appreciate the response. I don’t mind her texts. Let me know if she’s thinking of me. Just wanted reassurance that I am managing this right.
/r/askMRP06/03/24 01:51 PM
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Yeah, sometimes I wait an hour or so — because I’m genuinely busy — but I know I should wait longer. Doesn’t help that she also bombards me with three Instagram messages while I have 2 of her messages left unread. Would you reply to both her texts and instagram DMs? What’s the best way to approach this? I sometimes feel obligated to reply to everything but I also feel it comes off as needy or makes it look like I have too much time on my hands.
/r/askMRP06/03/24 01:42 PM
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This is my first LTR in six years (dating in between). I know I tend to overthink stuff in an LTR but only because I’ve recently been noticing some complacency from my end. Very different from plating girls. I even had to re-read up on Kino and keeping her on her toes/not being so predictable. I’m pumped to apply these things. LTRs are not easy
/r/askMRP06/03/24 01:38 PM
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I appreciate the examples
/r/askMRP06/03/24 01:27 PM
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Cool man I’ve pretty much been doing this. Thanks. Any good reads on the sidebar over this?
/r/askMRP06/03/24 01:21 PM
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CONVO 1 Her: “I could use a nap” Me: “Come take a nap with me. Bed is comfy” (I was working from home) Her: “Don’t tempt me” Me: sent meme/gif of guy picking girl up and taking her to their bedroom CONVO 2 Her: “My abs are so sore lol” Me: “😈😈” (I put her through a workout day before” CONVO 3 Her: “It was honestly a big mistake eating the wings babe” Me: “lol”
/r/askMRP06/03/24 01:20 PM
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That’s a better way of putting it. What do you think is a good way to go answer this? She sends me one almost everyday
/r/askMRP06/03/24 12:44 PM
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Thanks Any specific episodes you recommend?
/r/askTRP21/04/21 11:27 PM
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Absolutely. Just send me you social security for proof of identification.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 02:59 AM
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Appreciate it my guy. Thank you
/r/askTRP20/04/21 02:58 AM
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Great insight. I’m in the suburbs of the DFW so I’m sure I can find a good location. Didn’t know you could do 2 year leases (just started educating myself in this) and I can see this actually bringing me more clientele. If you have any more recommendations or have good resources I can look to educate myself please send them my way. Thanks.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 08:39 PM
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Go the the party and chat up girls nonchalantly great opportunity for dread. DREAD.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 12:05 AM
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Stop giving validation. Start chatting other honeys when y’all go out and see how her behavior changes. But also actually try to close with other.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:02 PM
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Depends what you want to achieve. I did a mini monk mode where I got off social media for 3 months. My anxiety was so bad then that I felt I couldn’t live alone without getting depressed. I moved out on my own and it was the best thing I ever did from a mental standpoint. I even started my own business and made content creation (hobby) into a job. Idk if that helps but I’d say set a goal and until you reach it stay in monk mode.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 09:17 PM
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Why are even entertaining her? You’re falling on all her traps
/r/askTRP16/03/21 01:00 PM
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She ain’t interested. Move on.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:57 PM
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100% bro was giving an example and you’re on point.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 01:33 PM
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Right here bro. Acknowledge your inner demons and work on them on your own. Don’t tell her what you’re doing. She will pick up on your improvement like going to the gym more for example.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 11:57 AM
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Faking it leads to you actually becoming that (in the long term) as long as you work for it and envision yourself as what you want to become. Analyze how you talk and behave and determine if that falls in line with what you want to do. Eventually things add up and you become the byproduct you’ve always envisioned yourself to be.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 08:28 PM
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You’re being dramatic. You’re still a kid be patient. Change doesn’t happen over night. Invest in yourself for the next 5 years.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 05:44 AM
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26 now started improvement at 18. Would say at around age 20/21 I really stated to notice good things. Having a lot of hobbies and going out with social people helped.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 06:27 AM
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Then work on speaking with your diaphragm bro. Literally everything you saying is me. And as the guy below mentioned exposure is huge. Like seriously even asking the cashiers how their day is going to asking a clerk for help and improving each interaction. Shit I even wrote down my conversations and though of better things to say afterwards.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 05:53 AM
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Yes sir. I used to be socially awkward af and lacked emotional intelligence. Biggest thing that helped me was to talk to everybody and anybody. Thinking back it was a long road as I did some cringe shit for the sake of improvement trying to figure out what worked. Read how to win friends and influence people. If you understand this aspect you will become more confident in your conversations. Cheers
/r/askTRP21/11/20 05:46 AM
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I’m also 5’6”. If your looking for the ladies to come to you build a strong social media. Post pics and look fun. Build strong frame and develop your quick wittiness.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 01:38 AM
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Overthinking. Pay.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 01:49 PM
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Didn’t read. It’s a plate not your LTR.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 03:13 AM
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Lmfaoo
/r/askTRP25/09/20 07:10 PM
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Get your act together. Man up and realize how your girls treat you is a reflection of yourself.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 11:27 AM
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Anger brah
/r/askTRP02/09/20 08:04 PM
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Dated a western Muslim girl in the states. Probably the most submissive kinkiest girls out.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/20 02:03 AM
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I’m going to look into this thanks for the well detailed info. I do have a question. Once porn is eliminated, can you still fap or should that be placed on hold for at least 90 days as wel?
/r/askTRP20/04/20 07:46 PM
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What episode is this if you remember
/r/askTRP24/03/20 11:31 PM
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Realized how alpha my dad actually is. Mom brainwashed me to thinking his attitude was toxic. He’s the top dawg at work and we’ll respected. He’s 5’4.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 02:13 AM
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Several nights? Girl is getting too comfortable.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 03:23 AM
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They all are
/r/askTRP25/12/19 01:42 AM
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Watch the old Vincent’s Fernandez movies. Dozens of positive masculinity role models during that movie age. It’s not on Netflix tho.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 11:56 PM
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Lol nice. Guys a beta. Ignore him if you can.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 09:13 PM
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Move on you have oneitis and don’t know abundance
/r/askTRP07/09/19 01:48 AM
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Fuck it. KINO KINO KINO.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 01:46 AM
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He means fuck a fatty
/r/askTRP07/09/19 01:39 AM
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Ask her if he’s a part time comedian. If she asks if you care say you could care less what anyone thinks. It’s how you say it of course. You could say a millions things.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 01:36 AM
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Not a plate if she’s the only one. She’s a fwb and make sure you keep it like that. Don’t fuck it by agreeing with her that your ‘not gonna sleep with other girls’ but also don’t say that ‘you’re gonna do what you want and see other girls.’ This is girl logic and you need to play it right. It’s a shit test so continue to be sarcastic and A&A or whatever works best for you.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 09:00 PM
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Been lifting for years and I recently go into Muay Thai. I will say that my confidence has gone up. Like mentioned in the comments, knowing you are the baddest mother fucker in the room is a huge boost for your well being.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 03:12 AM
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Bump
/r/askTRP27/08/19 06:37 PM
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I’m 5’6” yet surprisingly I have not gotten a height shit test from girls. But I have some in my tool box just in case. For example, if she says “you’re short” you can say, and fear this to your personality in a playful manner, “I made a deal with the devil to allocate those inches elsewhere,” or, “yeah I’m snack size.”
/r/askTRP27/08/19 12:25 AM
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^Right here. Just do it and SHOW her you don't care about that.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 11:33 PM
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Weird flex but ok.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 11:42 PM
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I’ve had girls ask me what I’m doing as we’re making out and touching her in other places. Did she stop me? NOPE. Actions > Words
/r/askTRP23/08/19 11:39 PM
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Start with his clips. Looks up Andrew Shultz roasting a def guy.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 09:21 PM
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Takes practice all they are just comebacks. A great way to practice is writing shit down on a notebook after a past opportunity do this constantly and come up with good responses. For example, A coworker of mine used I crack jokes about my height. It went something like this, “I’m surprised you can reach that with your short self” I replied, “I’m surprised you can see anything with that big ass nose” Keep practicing but also get some inspiration from others. I like to watch Kevin hart and Andrew…
/r/askTRP31/07/19 03:12 AM
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People are noticing that your SMV is increasing. This is normal so expect more and more shit tests until they truly identify you as a higher male. Not to say that the shit tests won’t continue, there will be less of them. However, this will hold true if you really do continue to hold frame, AA, but more importantly pressure flip (PF). PF is one of my go to’s. You become a lot more witty and clever with practice. Watch Andrew Shultz.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 06:10 PM
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This is good bro thanks
/r/askTRP24/07/19 08:14 PM
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Needed to read the end. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/19 04:27 PM
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Your dick is talking right now. Rationalize this. Do you value those friendships enough not to fuck her? If you fuck her, you’ll be satisfied at the cost of losing them. So what’s it going to be?
/r/askTRP08/06/19 10:35 PM
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Good move. Let her reach out again. Her hamster will spin like crazy
/r/askTRP30/05/19 01:17 PM
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Scarce mentality. Sounds like you’re scared of not getting any/loosing her. Make other plans and let her reach out.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 12:18 PM
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You’re doing great bro. To further raise your SMV and social skills do you try to talk to everyone? Flirt with the cashier girl? Or game girls?
/r/askTRP20/05/19 01:22 AM
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Should have said “I’m a better listener in peroson” and kept it playful
/r/askTRP20/05/19 12:21 AM
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This is TRP 101. You are investing too much. Your time is valuable, let her reach you.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 02:05 AM
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Got braces at 22, 24 right now and get them off this summer. DO IT motherfucker.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 02:04 AM
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This is Shit test on easy mode. Good response. Keep it playful and don’t react.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 03:41 AM
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Very broad question. Look up how to keep an LTR on TRP. You need to understand the dynamics of dread and game even more with an LTR. If you’re caught slipping or slacking she’ll notice. She should always be in your frame. And whatever you do, do not acquire her feminine qualities. Stay masculine af. LTR = Hard Mode
/r/askTRP23/03/19 05:35 PM
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Pay attention to what they do, not what they say.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 05:26 PM
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Does she have a lot of guy friends? Know that when a girl sees her man as a real man she will look up to him and want to please him only. As far as jealousy goes that needs to come from within that you are worthy. You shouldn’t be jealous because your with him. Also, never ask her about her guy friends or any other orbiter (makes you sound weak), you don’t have time for that.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 02:57 AM
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Don’t be stupid. This is a a high likelihood. Read the sidebar and look up frame.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 02:28 AM
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Best thing to do it tease and change subjects.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 02:26 AM
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DREAD
/r/askTRP20/03/19 02:25 AM
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Then don’t be at a caloric surplus. There’s a reason every mma fighter hires a strength and Conditioning coach.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 03:48 AM
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this.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 11:36 PM
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Everyone should be doing. “Master your breathing” - WuTang. Been doing it for a while. I feel more in control, more aware, and more happy with myself.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 04:03 AM
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Dude that’s awesome. I told you you had it. I would say wait a day or two text her, plan to hang out, and close.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 11:57 PM
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Give an update good luck brother
/r/askTRP19/02/19 01:53 AM
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Hold her hand and fucking go for it. If she doesn’t reciprocate (LMR) shrug it off, laugh, and try it again later. I had to try 4-5 before I fucked this girl. REMEMBER be outcome independent.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 11:21 PM
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Based on what you’ve said you can do this. Invite where you can apply kino (bar, a walk, a playground(my fav)) or even invite her to your place and watch a movie and escalate. Read into kino and escalating before hand. I think you’re in bro.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 10:47 PM
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I’d she a friend or someone you’ve kept in contact with ti plate her or whatever your goal is?
/r/askTRP18/02/19 10:18 PM
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I’m 5’6” and have had plenty of success remember confidence is key.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 07:45 PM
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RP isn’t a magic pill, it’s the pill to open your eyes to reality so that you may succeed. Sounds like your just making fucking excuses. I don’t know what you want from us but the dude above is taking time of his day to help you out.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 07:40 PM
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Lmfao how is this oneitis
/r/askTRP18/02/19 07:33 PM
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Life really is a fucking roller coaster. I’m at a low right now in my life but trying to regain myself. Cheers to you bro.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 04:07 AM
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You know what to do. Have some people to talk to (friend, family, etc.). It's gonna be a hard uphill battle but you will get through this shit. Then, swallow the big ass pill.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 02:14 AM
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Men envy him!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/19 09:02 PM
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Don’t match her. Talk to her in person and game.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 06:18 AM
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Solid. Just don’t give ultimatums. Like he said you can’t negotiate desire.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 11:03 PM
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Like I said it’s a mistake that a lot of us do. Whenever I found RP I tried applying RP to my beta life but it doesn’t work that way. You will always go back to your old way until you fully accept female nature for what it is and begin to only focus on yourself. A girl is a byproduct of your life not the focus of it. She supplements your awesome lifestyle. Don’t LTR girls plate them/fwb them and if they are deemed LTR worthy, let it become the byproduct.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 09:28 PM
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Was that your first time going back BP after being RP aware? What we (TRP) do that is very common is try to apply RP to our BP lives (consciously and subconsciously) thinking we can cheat the game but later find out that it doesn’t work that way. I hope you’ve learned that valuable lesson and do better the second time.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 04:22 AM
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Yep
/r/askTRP13/01/19 04:19 AM
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You failed her comfort test. In an LTR some beta qualities are needed. You handled her shit tests well nonetheless. Also, don’t tell her you can liver your life without her. Instead, let her figure that out on her own.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 04:01 AM
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A lot of exposure. Go monk mode.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 03:51 AM
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Learn from your mistakes and work on yourself.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 03:17 AM
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It’s all good bro. As long as you learn and work to become a better man. Read on how to LTR. A lot of questions are already answered on TRP search them on google.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 03:15 AM
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One I used that I got from TRP is, “looks great and all but i need to see it in person just to make sure.” This is is when y’all haven’t fucked yet. Point out her dirty mirror. Or just ignore.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 02:56 AM
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You can’t be serious bro, do you know how many faults you have done? Remember that you are responsible for the relationship. She is slowly disrespecting you and you are reciprocating with attention. Stop communicating shit to her unless it’s a boundary issue. Your biggest advantage is attention.. withdraw it when she misbehaves. She will thank you in the long run. A women needs a man with frame that won’t take her shit.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 02:53 AM
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Learn frame now. Learn to fight. Be social. Join a sport. Work hard in school.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 10:50 PM
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Peterson.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 05:40 AM
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Practice frame and practice passing shit tests. I can tell your a newbie but that’s okay as long as you learn and critique yourself but don’t overthink shit.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 05:33 AM
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Jack Reacher
/r/askTRP09/01/19 04:09 PM
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Hypergamy, shit tests, etc.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 04:08 PM
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Fuck yes and no. I am happy I can finally own my life and be in charge which is something I thought I was never going to be. For years I told myself I would never be a top male. Now I am more confident than ever and know success will follow as long as I continue to work hard. The reason I say no is that deep down I wished life wasn’t a game and much more easier. Once unplugged, you can never truly go back. In term of female nature, you see them for they are at the psychological level. No more Di…
/r/askTRP09/01/19 06:06 AM
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Take the advice that gentlemen in your comments are telling you. Do not fucking engage in validation seeking behavior. Read the sidebar. You are her captain and she follows you and remember that she wants to follow your lead. A women loves when a man is confident, not seeking validation, and doing what he wants.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 09:37 PM
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Fuck no
/r/askTRP08/01/19 09:32 PM
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Late to what? A date? Make her buy the first round or that she needs to repay you (in a joking way). Something serious? Dread and withdraw attention. Our attention is our biggest weapon.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 04:32 PM
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This is a quality post brotha. Too many people make goals but do not do anything to plan out specifics and the process to attain that goal. Advice to anyone is write it down, track it, and don’t tell your goals to ANYONE.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/19 04:05 PM
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Let her reach out do not open any of her stories up. Let her hamster spin.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 01:26 AM
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Bro if you’re in college you are lucky. Get into organizations, events, parties, or just fucking chat a girl up in the Starbucks like. The opportunities are endless.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/19 01:15 AM
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Intergender friendships aren't terrible per se but you shouldn't go out looking for them. One of my coworkers which I befriended is female however she doesn't express feminine vibes so I am not attracted to her whatsoever. She's like a bro to me (raised by her dad and most of her friends are dudes). The biggest thing is to not expect anything from her, do not text her buddy buddy shit. However, she will sometimes try to bring up drama related shit to work which I barely acknowledge and act unint…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/18 01:32 AM
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Girl: mocks jesus looks at me I think im all great and can do anything Jesus: shit grin let’s turn this water into wine
/r/askTRP08/12/18 10:01 PM
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First of all congratufuckinglations, realizing that you deserve better and breaking up is the hardest thing to do. I went through the same thing I’m doing great now. Give it time and chase your passion. Study l hard, learn, apply, and lift. Good luck man.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 12:37 AM
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Thanks brah. How do you suppose I handle the situation when I can’t get a full hard on? We did foreplay for a while fucked for a bit (without a full erection) but saw it pointless at the end. I was trying to play it cool and went it “well that’s embarrassing” with a playful tone. Didn’t really seem to bother her as much but I’m pretty sure I set the bar high so she was disappointed haha. Btw I’m handling my ED with supps.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 01:16 PM
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Everyone has gone through this. Don’t get so hung up on your past behavior it’s not your fault it’s society’s BP feminine influence. Just know that that will never be you ever again. You will learn how to be and act like a real Man now.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 04:49 AM
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You’re right I’ll try later in the week.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 04:02 AM
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I see what you’re saying and I haven’t tried contacting.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 04:02 AM
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