Hey guys, hoping to get a perspective from you guys who are more experienced.

My girl started her period yesterday and was very emotional. I said omething small about her burping and which made her go through an emotional rabbit hole and brought up additional little things of me not being attracted to her. Tears and everything. She definitely was oversensitive and usually is oversensitive during this time. Personally, I feel I need to watch what I say especially during these times. She woke up this morning admitting she was overeating.

Things have been very overwhelming for her with school and her job. Full time for both. I was in the mood last night and was hoping to get head (she wasn’t in the mood as she was tired but things were headed in that direction) but things quickly changed when I said something about her burping loud a lot. That’s when things spiraled. I went into husband mode and provided comfort. I am highly conflicted on how much comfort to provide, especially when I’m the one that made her cry. Maybe I shouldn’t have tried “getting some” and should have been more understanding.

Am I just overthinking? I don’t want to come up as beta and needy. Which is Something I had done in my last LTR a few years back. I’ve learned a lot since then and have improved significantly. However, Sometimes every now and then I feel the beta come out but again, maybe I am overthinking.

I’m hoping I can get some honest perspective from you more experienced guys on how you are around your wife/LTR who is oversensitive.

My post is all over the place I know.

EDIT: I appreciate every single one of yall bringing me back to reality. Your advise is appreciated.

PS: got the best head when she got home from work. To my surprise she showered me with I love you and kisses. Maybe I held frame better than I thought. I for sure was overthinking it.

Note to self: keep striving for better.