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That's a great point, and honestly, you're thinking about this the right way. 💯 And no fluff, you're not crazy for noticing this. 😅 What do you want to do next, we can delve deeper into this, or do you want to talk about something else?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/26 06:11 PM
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For sure dude, keep your head on a swivel, this sounds suspicious. Also, stop being a bitch and getting into arguments. Arguments are two people trying to figure out who is the alpha. Almost every time. If you don't understand what I mean, go learn more until you do. hint: I'm not wrong.
/r/askMRP22/04/26 03:37 PM
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Does she put it in your butt? I'm guessing yes.
/r/askMRP21/04/26 01:56 PM
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But, I'm special. My mom said so.
/r/askMRP09/03/26 04:16 PM
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You wouldn't question the response from a running subreddit if someone posted a question like "How do I run a sub 4 hour marathon, but I don't have time for running or training or anything, and my feet work different that usual feet, and I'm obese but due to a medical condition I can't stop eating junk food?"
/r/askMRP09/03/26 04:12 PM
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Maybe the issue is her "man" has had a reddit account for 5 months and a metric fuckton of posts. Get off the internet and go do something useful, teapot.
/r/askMRP20/02/26 03:06 PM
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I think I get it. Anal only from here on out.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/26 07:28 PM
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MRP isn't an advocacy group. In fact, the more BP guys out there the easier my life gets in many ways.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/26 04:05 PM
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No, your issue is that you missed the reality that this is solid advice if/when you are ready.
/r/askMRP31/12/25 05:44 PM
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What he said has nothing to do with her enjoying the pain.
/r/askMRP30/12/25 04:51 PM
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It is never too soon in the process to be introspective and determine your needs and wants. For a lot of guys they start with nothing in the needs list, and that is fine. You can't make progress until you are honest with yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/25 06:59 PM
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Abundance vs scarcity.
/r/askMRP19/12/25 06:51 PM
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I refuse to play in the NBA based on principal.
/r/askMRP19/12/25 06:49 PM
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What would you do in my situation? Read the sidebar
/r/askMRP12/12/25 08:31 PM
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No is a complete sentence
/r/askMRP10/12/25 05:28 PM
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Anal
/r/askMRP03/12/25 05:09 PM
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Are you twelve? Maybe try locking in to be bussin on 6-7
/r/askMRP02/12/25 06:19 PM
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Knowing is half the battle. Acknowledge the mistakes, plan for your improvements next time. You need to get to the point where sex is for fun, and just for fun, not for ego. Women like that kind of sex the best anyway. The only reliable way to get to that point is through abundance, i.e. you can have sex whenever and however you want, there is nothing to prove. To do that, you need to be valuable. Work on being valuable.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/25 04:51 PM
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Is this a hiku or something?
/r/askMRP06/11/25 04:42 PM
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Yeah, you've got it. The goal is to always be better than you were yesterday.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/25 02:26 PM
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I guess, also it just gets repetitive and nobody owes anybody anything. Most guys who are successful at MRP do the sane thing and stop spending time circle jerking with tards on the internet. Some stick around mostly for the entertainment value, particularly when you've seen it all before and you know exactly what is going to happen next after some guy posts his first "this shit really works" story. I guess it is a protective mechanism, but I could simply write a post about any given Sunday in m…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/25 08:45 PM
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She should ignore Kevin's messages due to the fear that if it was discovered and it displeased her husband would leave. She has no fear that u/LeonidasMRP will leave, because she doesn't care that much for his attention in the first place and doesn't respect him. If my wife got some inappropriate messages first thing she would do is run to me and show me, just in case I found out some other way and suspected her of messing around.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/25 08:37 PM
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How would you know who is LARPing and who isn't? You might be right, but, I'm reminded that very often guys literally can't believe the lives that some of us live, so their immediate reaction is that we are exaggerating or outright lying. The part that's really going to blow your mind is that many of the guys here downplay their reality, trying to avoid giving dynamite to kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/25 08:24 PM
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If Brad Pitt (or whoever the current Chad is) was in the picture she would deepthroat him while having one of your kids hold her hair back and the other kids recording.
/r/askMRP21/10/25 06:46 PM
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Your top 10 goals all need to be the same thing. Stop eating like a fat fuck. Your lifts and shit don't matter at this point. Literally all you need to think about is to stop eating. If you were 100lbs lighter STILL you would be a fat fuck who needs to stop making excuses and fix it. At this point you are a 4 alarm fire. You can go days without eating, did you know that? If you are too lazy/stupid to figure out how to not over eat, just don't eat. Plan out your meals for some days, eat nothing s…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/25 02:44 PM
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Best way to get out of a hole is to stop digging.
/r/askMRP14/10/25 03:34 PM
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You missed all of the relevant information about yourself, wasted your time talking about her and she. Step 1 and 2 are steps 1 and 2 for a reason.
/r/askMRP14/10/25 03:25 PM
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Tylenol for the win
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/25 06:23 PM
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This is the way
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/25 06:11 PM
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Something fishy here, just can't put my finger on it. More accurately, I'm not that interested in figuring it out. For one, don't start spraying the champagne everywhere like you've won the game when I'm not sure you know the game you're playing. Not married, no kids.... Reminds me of the saying "Everyone's a genius in a bull market" Maybe the fishy part is, why are you here? Schrodinger's teapot? Both crushing it at MRP while also never been tested. This may be a rare glimpse into the origin of…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/25 05:39 PM
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How many guys would love to have had a woman just straight up tell them how to stop being a pussy and start being a man. For fuck's sake, reading that she is 22, you 39, and she is showing this level of maturity.... Honestly, let her go, she deserves better....
/r/askMRP01/10/25 05:13 PM
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Maybe if instead of being so cheap and only paying for 25% of her expenses you should man up and pay 100%, plus some of her college tuition too. She's messing around with other guys because she doesn't know if you are man enough to really support her.
/r/askMRP22/09/25 04:24 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/7v90zq/mrp_and_watching_sports/ Read this, also, go apple picking you retard.
/r/askMRP09/09/25 03:48 PM
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The business model is flawed. Win or lose, most everyone leaves, except for the autistic fucks who enjoy the pain of failure or the retarded fucks who enjoy the pain of dealing with the autists. Maybe we need a brand refresh, or maybe a collaboration with the crossfit subreddit, should be lots of fresh meat in there.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/25 06:17 PM
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Cock and Ball Torture seems pretty extreme. I think u/redsfpplus knows a bit about it, maybe check with him. I don't remember that on the sidebar, but also, I'm on mobile and I can't find the sidebar.
/r/askMRP14/08/25 02:34 PM
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You misunderstood, he's special
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/25 04:00 PM
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What if I told you....shitting on newbies is the help....
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/25 06:34 PM
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Or, and just hear me out on this one...go fuck yourself.
/r/askMRP03/07/25 03:51 PM
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Women are attracted to men who get shit done, vs sit around being lazy. They are not attracted to ADHD teapots who can't focus on one thing for more than a minute and never finish what they start. Which one are you?
/r/askMRP02/07/25 07:28 PM
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Retard, she wanted you to say "No pain, no gain" then proceed to fuck the attitude out of her. She wants a man who fucks. Not a guy who can only get starfish sex once or twice a month.
/r/askMRP01/07/25 07:50 PM
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is saying I love you the new Voldemort?
/r/askMRP09/06/25 03:13 PM
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Lol. Go on married redpill subreddit, sort by all time popular and see what you find.
/r/askMRP21/05/25 06:12 PM
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Leading and Supportive Love is awesome, possibly my favorite book on the topic, but isn't about dominance in the bedroom. It is about 24/7 power exchange, and in fact they specifically avoid the kink aspect of BDSM. Some people say they want TPE, but what they really want is to get a few more blowjobs once in a while. Most men are not cut out for a 24/7 D/s. If you can't dominate yourself 24/7, how the hell are you going to be in charge of others?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/25 04:02 PM
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Why ask what other people would do, are you giving them the money? Focus on yourself.
/r/askMRP30/04/25 03:09 PM
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Instructions unclear, tried going gay...kind of liked it
/r/askMRP25/04/25 02:59 PM
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No prob, keep at it, work hard, good things will come.
/r/askMRP21/04/25 04:14 PM
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Maybe....or....this is all in your head, and in reality you would roll over like a weak bitch and she will lose even more respect for you....
/r/askMRP17/04/25 04:47 PM
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So, in your hypothetical now, what are you doing when she says "too bad, I'll look at my phone if I want"?
/r/askMRP16/04/25 09:54 PM
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What if I already bought the cum holy grail stack?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/25 05:50 PM
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You are missing the factor of where a guy is on his path. For me, there are very few examples of behaviors I must accept but won't make a boundary, because my wife would crawl through glass if it made my day a little nicer. For many guys though, especially if they are on their journey, there can be preferences that are not deal breakers, if anything because he has a long term vision and expects that there will come a day where his preferences are given more weight. If you want a simple example, …
/r/askMRP16/04/25 05:44 PM
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This is an important question and worth a discussion. Your question, to rephrase, is how do I express dissatisfaction with a behavior without declaring it as a true boundary? Regardless of your specific examples, that is an important distinction. You don't want to be Rambo where every little thing becomes a hard boundary, but also, you don't want to get walked all over because you aren't going to do anything about it. To better frame it this is a definition of wants and needs. Your needs are you…
/r/askMRP16/04/25 05:34 PM
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No, OP is asking a real and reasonable question. There is absolutely nuance between boundaries and expressing disapproval for something that you don't prefer but is not a deal breaker.
/r/askMRP16/04/25 04:58 PM
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How many months along is the health issue?
/r/askMRP11/04/25 05:07 PM
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Is it about 4 days after her period ends....?
/r/askMRP09/04/25 03:37 PM
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Maybe we should change the subreddit logo to scientists in lab coats
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/25 05:22 PM
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How about the guy who's wife wore oven mitts or something to give him a HJ. ROFL
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/25 05:54 PM
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Lol, "Here at MRP labs, we're breaking new ground every day. For example, recently we developed the "reverse spreadsheet game" approach."
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/25 05:54 PM
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Thanks for that. Being reminded about the total dumpster fire that so many people live with is a nice pick me up when I'm having a difficult day.
/r/askMRP30/01/25 05:28 PM
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Be more specific if you need help. At the moment can't tell if your stupid or retarded.
/r/askMRP22/01/25 05:16 PM
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Dude, if you want to get pegged, just go to a truck stop and be done with it.
/r/askMRP21/01/25 06:09 PM
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Wow, impressive. Those spinning windmills are no joke!
/r/askMRP16/01/25 06:05 PM
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210lbs, 5'5" You're built like a meatball. You are not attractive physically nor do you behave in an attractive way. You're the equivalent of buying dinner off the McDonald's $1 menu and wondering why it isn't filet mignon. You can't afford the filet. Don't try to fix their dollar menu, be able to afford a better restaurant.
/r/askMRP15/01/25 08:45 PM
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You are confusing success rate for those who "want" a better life with the success rate of those who do what needs to be done. Effort is the difference. Are you going to tell Tiger Woods his ideas about golf are bullshit because only 1% of golfers can make par?
/r/askMRP15/01/25 08:40 PM
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In the land of the blind, the one eyed man is king.
/r/askMRP15/01/25 08:25 PM
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% seems a bit low...
/r/askMRP15/01/25 06:28 PM
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Other people shouldn't have a bearing on your "mood".
/r/askMRP15/01/25 06:27 PM
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It's a time for lifting, shutting the fuck up, and becoming attractive.
/r/askMRP08/01/25 05:49 PM
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Clever girl
/r/askMRP26/12/24 08:01 PM
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This is basically why MGTOW exists. Externalize your failures.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/24 05:05 PM
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Stop doing functional adult things for your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/24 03:34 PM
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The reality is to get to 300+ lbs you had to get through 270 first, and 250 before that, and 230 before that... Each level more and more absurd, yet continued pattern failure in life. So yes, seems like anyone at that point is likely a waste of effort.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/24 03:33 PM
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Probably a shit test, pushing you into the box. Maybe a bit of comfort, but mostly shit. Seems like you handled it decent. Verbal intercourse is voluntary, at a certain point just walk away if AA isn't enough or you get bored. I personally agree with trying to be tactful at first, but if a person (any person, including wife) keeps pushing you then you give it to them straight, unapologetically. "Don't ask questions you don't want answers to." is often my response if they get pissed. That's on th…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/24 05:44 PM
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His doctor said he has a bum metabolism, just genetics, can't be helped.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/24 05:28 PM
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This is the way
/r/askMRP16/12/24 03:53 PM
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Should have started "Married, 33M, overweight, unattractive..."
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/24 08:26 PM
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100% Statistical analysis is key. Don't just show up with a scatter plot like a BP fag.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/24 08:25 PM
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dafuq?
/r/askMRP31/10/24 06:14 PM
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Silly me, I saw the title and thought you're wife picked out a new sub for you.
/r/askMRP29/10/24 06:52 PM
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She came back and told me that she doesn't like to swallow. .....right now. Always end a statement from a woman with this.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 06:11 PM
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Because you're not attractive enough.
/r/askMRP16/10/24 05:41 PM
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He wants to be more assertive I think. For example, getting to choose the position his wife pegs him in.
/r/askMRP04/10/24 05:41 PM
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For me it's usually painting a white streak.... Before MRP I wouldn't have guessed you can cum while soft...but here we are.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/24 04:18 PM
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mom/school mode is a bullshit excuse. There are wives that would crawl through broken glass to get to her man's cock.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/24 04:15 PM
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Tyred is being modest here. He is a full blown EFL (Excessive Female Libido) survivor. There aren't many like him out there, anyone in this situation should seek out his guidance. Usually it is best start the conversation by DMing him a pic of your wife, so he knows what you're working with. That or a dick pic.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/24 04:10 PM
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Don't suffer in silence.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/24 04:03 PM
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Seems like a lot is missing here. Try again but without the ego protecting bullshit. This reads like AI browsed OYS and you asked it to make a generic post. A wife saying she wants a divorce is a big deal, there is much more to this story.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/24 04:48 PM
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Realizing there are no quick fixes
/r/askMRP18/09/24 01:21 PM
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Why didnt you just keep doing you, cook the meal, enjoy your meal, and then the rest of the fam can heat it up later when they are done doing their thing? That would have been passive aggressive. He should right at that moment deal with it and make a plan. Maybe whatever she is doing is in fact important, who can say? A man would ask her what she is doing, then assess if it truly needs to be delayed or tell her that they will be eating at the normal time and she can continue whatever she is doin…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/24 02:03 PM
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This is a reasonable answer....assuming you aren't full of shit. Most guys are full of shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/24 07:16 PM
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Ok, so the plan is to keep your marriage, but have women on the side secretly? What happens when that comes to light?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/24 06:48 PM
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Your wife/relationship section is a shit show. Mutual agreement for more sex.... Didn't have daytime sex because she wasn't drunk yet... One rejection escalates to a cold war for a week....then you do have sex, where you ruin it by being too rough because you're feelings are hurt... Then somehow that now informed you that you are the prize...? Fuck dude, you need to go back to STFU and lift. You sound like an insecure bitch who would be exhausting to be around.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/24 08:29 PM
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You leave home for 10 days, and when you get home if you ask your wife if she missed you she says no? Bruh
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/24 08:20 PM
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What is the point specifically for all of your approaches, let alone spreadsheeting your results? Are you trying to get strange or seeking quick dopamine hits in lieu of a successful relationship with your wife?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/24 08:07 PM
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That is a stupid rule of thumb.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/24 08:02 PM
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"That's my only real motivation is not to be hassled, that and the fear of losing my job. But you know, Bob, that will only make someone work just hard enough not to get fired."
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/24 07:58 PM
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Women don't want to fuck losers. Why would your wife want to fuck a dude who couldn't get laid for 5 years? Gross
/r/askMRP09/09/24 03:37 PM
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Your girl left you for a man with a vagina? Fuck
/r/askMRP09/09/24 03:35 PM
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I'm not gay, but the guy who fucks me is flaming.
/r/askMRP09/09/24 03:34 PM
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Receiving attention from a high value man and receiving attention from other women for having a high value man.
/r/askMRP05/09/24 06:35 PM
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You don't need friends. Be your own best friend to start, you'll find the friends you are wasting time with are holding you back. Stop drinking, it is low value behavior. Write down your life goals, where do you see yourself in 1 year, 5 years, 10, etc. If any action doesn't serve that purpose, ditch it. Time is your most valuable resource. Don't waste it trying to impress losers or drinking to avoid discomfort. Embrace discomfort.
/r/askMRP04/09/24 01:49 PM
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Yes, losing weight would be a good start.
/r/askMRP30/08/24 05:54 PM
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But it will happen again, as this has apparently already been an "issue" for you. Insanity is repeating the same thing and expecting different results.
/r/askMRP30/08/24 05:53 PM
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It upsets you because you see yourself as lower than her. Imagine a 3 year old making jokes, you wouldn't (I hope) get all butthurt, you would make jokes back. "No, you're the poopy pants". This is a test, and she has confirmed that you continue to be a weak ego beta bitch. As others said, AA would be the right answer, with some dread mixed in as well. A man of value with options wouldn't have this happen in the first place, and if it does, he would knock that shit out of the park with AA. To fi…
/r/askMRP30/08/24 05:52 PM
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You are a fat fuck who spends his time doing unattractive things like playing video games. If you legit want help stop lying to yourself and stop lying to internet strangers. Based on your responses, I'm thinking there is a slight chance that you are actually close to the mental space to understand what you are doing wrong and how to improve. We don't fix marriages here, but might fix you. I dare you to use this as an opportunity to at least emulate the kind of man you might one day be. Start wi…
/r/askMRP29/08/24 07:30 PM
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The normal MRP reading list works for women and children
/r/askMRP22/08/24 04:43 PM
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You should always be working to improve yourself, for yourself, not as a show for your wife. Do this plus STFU and you are 90% there.
/r/askMRP30/06/24 08:15 PM
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So, don't tell her how this year I'm going to drop from 25% bf to 10% and get promoted to director?
/r/askMRP30/06/24 08:14 PM
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225lb 10% bf........I'd tell you go to fuck yourself, but since you're a bottom, idk, maybe ask your wife to peg you.
/r/askMRP17/06/24 03:22 PM
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We never get to hold, you stock is always on the way up or down. You got lazy. Be thankful this happened.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/24 04:02 PM
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I have this same issue, except all of the things I'm asked to do involve my dick.
/r/askMRP12/06/24 06:21 PM
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Lol. Don't worry, he's good. He was texting about anal with the ex.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/24 06:14 PM
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Nice work. For those reading along, keep in mind that there is absolutely nothing wrong with apologizing for things you are sorry about or unintended impacts from your actions or inaction. Don't be the guy who never says he is sorry, that guy is a thin ego douche. Also, don't apologize for things you are not sorry about. I've also said "yeah, if I could do it over I would have done this differently", which is truth. In the end, Red handled it perfectly, specifically offering to assist if she wan…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/24 05:16 PM
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Huh?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/24 05:13 PM
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Standard answer is skittles
/r/askMRP07/06/24 05:51 PM
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She probably gets fucked by the gardener those days, then by 2 days afterwards is recuperated and ready to go.
/r/askMRP23/05/24 03:43 PM
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When you're ready...you won't have to
/r/askMRP30/04/24 02:36 PM
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Should he send a dick pic too?
/r/askMRP11/04/24 03:18 PM
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Like George Costanza said, it isn't a lie if you believe it.
/r/askMRP11/04/24 03:18 PM
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Are you 12?
/r/askMRP11/04/24 03:16 PM
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He's not wrong. Everything you said she sent I would respond with some level of innuendo.
/r/askMRP06/03/24 03:02 PM
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Yeah, it is pretty neat. Helps the reader identify those who fuck and those who beat off to hoes on onlyfans.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/24 10:27 PM
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Sometimes it isn't an echo, it is just the truth being told many times over and yet you refuse to listen... But, keep at it. Losers bring balance to the system.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/24 06:20 PM
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This is why you are banned. Go fuck yourself
/r/askMRP27/02/24 07:40 PM
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Sounds like everything is going pretty well. Jealous means it's working. Learn to not care about mouth sounds.
/r/askMRP22/01/24 04:44 PM
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I've found writing out the things you want with dried macaroni glued to a paper plate is helpful.
/r/askMRP19/01/24 05:43 PM
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She would never do that, she loves me
/r/askMRP19/01/24 05:41 PM
1

I'm trying to get her to come to crossfit with me. There are some fit looking guys there, it isn't like I'm going nuts trying to keep her away from other men, just tipping the scales in my favor.
/r/askMRP16/01/24 09:34 PM
3

Just looking for ideas, if it works it works
/r/askMRP16/01/24 08:29 PM
0

I'm her first
/r/askMRP16/01/24 08:28 PM
3

Ok, when you say it that way it sounds extreme, but we all do this to a certain degree. I'm just saying, while you are grinding on your dread levels it isn't the worst to keep her from thinking she has better options.
/r/askMRP16/01/24 07:59 PM
3

I'm not saying it's ideal, but it seems to work.
/r/askMRP16/01/24 07:20 PM
7

LOL, good one
/r/askMRP16/01/24 07:07 PM
4

You talk about your wife's parenting as if it happens in a bubble. Assuming you live together, your job is to lead her as well as your kids. Show her how to parent a boy then she will know how to parent a boy. There isn't a trick to it, unless you have no balls and say things like "don't tell your mother" a lot.
/r/askMRP16/01/24 06:09 PM
3

I heard two servings of pineapple a day can help.
/r/askMRP09/01/24 07:24 PM
1

Hmmm, the old outcome independence strikes again... Do you have a newsletter I can subscribe to?
/r/askMRP21/12/23 06:30 PM
10

Most answers here are bullshit. The world is full to the brim with dudes. The answer doesn't involve keeping her away from temptation, it involves becoming the temptation.
/r/askMRP20/12/23 06:51 PM
3

Do whatever you want, because that is what you want, not because of how your wife will respond, whether it be because she will complain or because you think it has something to do with "dread". I share my phone location, because I want her to be able to know where I am if she needs to know where I am.... Also, phones can be turned off.....
/r/askMRP15/12/23 07:55 PM
2

"Did you just eat oysters?"
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/23 07:49 PM
3

Oh, I get it, is this one of those things where we say journal when we mean fucking women at work in addition to the woman at home?
/r/askMRP13/12/23 06:32 PM
3

Maybe this will help: Food takes about 36 hours to process in the body. During those times when you were engaged or married, and you were oblivious like a fool (I'm assuming/hoping you didn't know), she was cheating on you. What does that mean? Those times she was sleeping next to you cuddling, those times you were out together picking out centerpiece decorations for the wedding, when you were planning your life together with her on those long walks holding hands....She had some guys jizz workin…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/23 06:30 PM
6

I have no purpose Keeping your balls drained is a purpose...
/r/askMRP12/12/23 06:07 PM
1

You have precious little time on this earth and you waste it navel gazing instead of fucking. Talk less, fuck more. That's my advice to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/23 03:20 PM
1

"Dread game" etc is a step towards the end goal of not having to adjust your behavior consciously or try to emulate how other guys act. Eventually the goal is to spend zero time thinking about it because you don't pretend anymore, you are. Neo: What are you trying to tell me? That I can dodge bullets? Morpheus: No, Neo. I'm trying to tell you that when you're ready, you won't have to.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/23 03:03 PM
2

This is fun, we're all having fun!
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/23 09:36 PM
2

Also wrong... Sometimes we need to crawl before we walk before we run. For guys just finding their balls, the game is to act like a man who fucks. Eventually you stop acting. "Playing a game" is a good way to phrase it. Eventually you don't play, you are.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/23 09:31 PM
3

There has been plenty of good feedback for you here, I don't see a need to add more at this point, you have lots of work to do. The good news is that you are really lucky you have found this place. You are young and early in your married life. You can turn things around (fix the man) for sure, and are generally starting from a decent place. The best advice I can give you is to stay on MRP, keep posting on OYS, treat comments from the vets here as gospel, and make your goal each day to take steps…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/23 09:26 PM
1

I heard if you retain enough of it you can save it at a special kind of bank.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/23 04:44 PM
5

In some deadbedroom post: "I'm still trying to broach the gangbang topic with my husband. I showed him this collage of pictures of me that the men I want to gangbang me made, but he didn't take the bait and I chickened out bringing it up. How do I go about telling him that I'm tired of pretending to be interested in a needy fat man who drinks pea protein and can't get his tiny dick hard...? Now he's even talking about a sex therapist...why is this so hard? I just want a real man to fuck me, not …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/23 07:51 PM
3

Somehow your explanation has made me understand even less than I originally did about why your wife is entertaining men who make serial killer vision boards with pictures of her... What the hell dude?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/23 06:54 PM
3

Ok, so when you spent all that time in your "sex session" it was 100% focused on pleasing your wife who won't touch your dick, and you took that as a win. Later you shaved your pubes, she commented on it, which you fully expected, then got drip fed some validation, you ate it up and you also saw that as a win. Oh, you also bought a vacuum, like a boss! Slow down Rambo, you're ruining it for the rest of us, the word is going to get out to the other women. One could only dream of having such power…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/23 06:55 PM
5

"retained semen" is loser speak for unattractive. I can't even follow this shit. You had a "sex session"...but didn't have sex and didn't cum? the fuck? Not even going to get into your pube saga...
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/23 03:42 PM
8

What is going on with this collage thing? I don't think I've seen anything like that on here before. Is she maintaining orbiters? Sounds like the opening few minutes to a Dateline episode.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/23 03:36 PM
1

Dr. Redcorn?
/r/askMRP27/11/23 04:41 PM
3

Best way to get out of a hole is to stop digging
/r/askMRP21/11/23 03:36 PM
1

Fix the man to fix the woman......or get a fresh woman. Either way, fix the man.
/r/askMRP20/11/23 05:46 PM
2

She's about to hit that wall, grasping for the parachute.
/r/askMRP15/11/23 02:59 PM
2

OYS 20 - 29, 5'9 206lbs, ~12%BF. Does the approximate symbol mean +- 5%? Said another way...I smell a liar. I could be wrong, but I'm probably right. You "need" this and that, but you're hamstering about whether you should work to achieve that. That's not how needs work. You need air. Quit being a teapot, stop lying to yourself and others, sack up and be a man. If you want to fuck strange, then do it, own it, and welcome any consequences.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/23 05:41 PM
1

Supposedly that's coming in the next patch.
/r/askMRP07/11/23 05:25 PM
4

Can you cash in XP for a rank multiplier?
/r/askMRP06/11/23 09:10 PM
0

No, the game in this case was her testing to see if her man had actually grown some balls, which he quickly answered by not just simply telling her to clarify where she is going. Don't over think it, not everything is chess.
/r/askMRP03/11/23 05:22 PM
0

It's only a game if that's the way you see it
/r/askMRP03/11/23 02:16 PM
12

Then you said "out where?"........?
/r/askMRP01/11/23 08:26 PM
3

Marriage without kids is dating with a little more paperwork. Take the L, move on. But...you won't....looking forward to your deadbedroom posts in 2 years.
/r/askMRP01/11/23 06:00 PM
12

If you wanted more information you should have asked for it. You didn't ask, she didn't elaborate. Case closed. Quit being a teapot
/r/askMRP01/11/23 05:54 PM
1

Human men used to hunt woolly mammoths in arctic conditions with sticks. 2023: the battle of the goldfish and chex mix
/r/askMRP31/10/23 04:24 PM
3

Dude needs to snack up
/r/askMRP30/10/23 03:44 PM
2

All those words and no mention of weight or bf%. Most of what you wrote is bullshit trying to impress everyone with your RP jargon. Another thing missing: All this energy spent on chasing plates, what is the nature of your LTR and your motivation for this? Trying to seek validation/ego seems likely. Do you want out of the LTR? Are you married? If so why don't you say married instead of being vague? More weird ego stuff I'm guessing.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/23 04:52 PM
2

Domestic sexual burden is an important issue that men shouldn't be afraid to talk about.
/r/askMRP20/10/23 07:10 PM
14

You need to post in r/TooLivelyBedrooms
/r/askMRP19/10/23 04:57 PM
7

Something like this? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4TuEWtXBT\_0
/r/askMRP19/10/23 04:47 PM
2

And later she'd text her girlfriends about how sweet and thoughtful you are. If a BP dude did this she'd be telling everyone you're abusive and how she's not that kind of girl.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/23 04:50 PM
4

Wait...this shit really works?
/r/askMRP18/10/23 03:33 PM
5

What if I told you....when you're Chad you won't "get" sex....
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/23 03:25 PM
10

If you jumped though all these hoops and did this shit because you are an awesome guy who recognized that your wife has been through some difficult times lately and you're trying to bring her up, awesome job, good on you. If instead this was a whole production to "get" sex....you fucked up. Chad doesn't even need to unzip his pants for sex, she'll do it for him. Don't be a dancing monkey, it is peak unattractive. In the perfect world a lot of guys imagine, yeah, this should somehow earn points o…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/23 03:24 PM
10

A lot of guys are downplaying this, but this is not cool. You're being manipulated. You shouldn't be forced to endure a woman sitting on your face while you are exercising. If you swapped roles and imagine it as a man assaulting a woman everyone would be up in arms. There is a support group for this, I suggest you post there. r/TooLivelyBedrooms Don't suffer in silence
/r/askMRP12/10/23 03:03 PM
6

The "one weird trick" to all this is simple, have abundance mentality and don't take things too seriously. It's the easy button. For those playing at home, try this: If your wife texts in the middle of the day asking how you are doing, respond "Pretty great actually! Later today I'm showing this hot girl how to deepthroat." Then don't reply for the rest of the day. That costs you like 30 seconds, but depending on what your current level is with your wife it might result in a whole roller coaster…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/23 07:46 PM
3

Is this a paid survey?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/23 07:30 PM
3

Not what I said
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 04:28 PM
5

Two shakes is fine, after that you're playing with it. That's what I was taught.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 04:26 PM
2

This is fun, we're all having fun!
/r/askMRP03/10/23 04:26 PM
6

In a world that has high quality protein powder which can be mixed with water and consumed in a few minutes I cannot fathom how you are "struggling" to get enough protein. In the time you spent writing out your excuses you could have had some.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 01:34 PM
2

Didn't you just get her citizenship like 10 minutes ago? dafuq dude
/r/askMRP03/10/23 01:22 PM
5

Thirst is a hell of a drug
/r/askMRP25/09/23 08:46 PM
2

I like to live dangerously
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/23 03:16 PM
–

I think you meant to post this here https://imgflip.com/memegenerator/102165628/Pointing-mirror-guy
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/23 04:13 PM
2

What the actual fuck? https://www.reddit.com/user/EitherBedroom2341/submitted/
/r/askMRP11/09/23 03:49 PM
4

Have some personal agency fuck tard. You are treating this opportunity to have real men give you advice as a game. Also, you are a liar. If you can't be honest with random guys on the internet how will you be honest with yourself?
/r/askMRP28/07/23 02:31 PM
3

At MRP that is like playing where's Waldo but everyone is Waldo.
/r/askMRP27/07/23 03:06 PM
3

Hmm, I wonder what would happen if you asked it RP truths? I'll look into this and report back.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/23 03:03 PM
1

I was feeling generous. The feeling passed. Back to $1,000/hr
/r/askMRP27/07/23 03:02 PM
11

this guy prompts
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/23 06:34 PM
3

$800/hr, hit me up
/r/askMRP26/07/23 06:29 PM
7

Try putting it on google calendars and adding her as a participant. Maybe keep a spreadsheet as well, so you don't miss out on any rain checks.
/r/askMRP19/07/23 07:57 PM
26

unless he goes for anal
/r/askMRP17/07/23 08:14 PM
20

One iron clad rule of the world is that value is directly related to scarcity. Gold, diamonds, real estate, and attention from a high value man/woman. corollary rules: If you give away an asset for free/cheap it will become devalued. If your asset isn't scarce it will have little value, regardless of how much of it you possess or sell. So, step 1 is to ensure that your asset is valuable, step 2 is to ensure that it is only exchanged for something of high value. For the slow kids in the back: You…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/23 03:44 PM
1

Too dumb, didn't read, except for the part where apparently you were facetiming your girl while she is at a concert. What the fuck is wrong with you? Do you think a high value man is living his life that way? Watching a garbled pixelated version of his girl having a good time? Fuck
/r/askMRP11/07/23 08:50 PM
1

You seem to have me confused with someone who gives a shit about convincing you of something or holding your hand.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/23 06:12 PM
3

The neat thing about boundaries is that every person on the planet gets to set whatever boundaries they want. The other neat thing is that everyone else gets to decide if they want to follow them, in that they can weigh the costs/benefits and decide if the juice is worth the squeeze. The hard part about boundaries is when you let your ego get involved and you mistake a want for a need. This is where men fuck up. Don't say something is a hard boundary if you aren't ready to burn everything to the…
/r/askMRP10/07/23 06:52 PM
2

Still all bad signs. If you want to give her the benefit of the doubt you should have a sit down discussion and get to the bottom of it all. Probably your only chance if there is a possibility of getting the relationship back on track. You have kids, so that is worth the effort IMO.
/r/askMRP10/07/23 06:43 PM
1

And yet, in between video game sessions you are spending time at mrp.... Generally guys are here to learn, here to teach, or here to navel gaze and blame others. You aren't learning, in that you fail to grasp the simplest concepts. You aren't teaching. So that brings us to option 3.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/23 06:38 PM
1

MRP men don't come here to "do fine". If that is your goal please see yourself out.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/23 08:39 PM
2

Women are water, they fill the container provided. She's switched from a pitcher to a juice box. Given the chance she will fill a pitcher once again. Your job is to stop making excuses and become the container who deserves a woman to follow.
/r/askMRP07/07/23 08:38 PM
2

The secret is that the lifting and getting in shape ultimately isn't mostly about increasing your SMV in terms of appearance, it's the other benefits that doing something hard brings you that ultimately pay off the most. So, basically you're right but wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/23 05:49 PM
3

tardception
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/23 04:46 PM
9

It's not just a joke though, it is you communicating that you don't take her silly questions seriously while also reminding her that she is replaceable.
/r/askMRP27/06/23 04:45 PM
2

Married with no kids is dating with additional paperwork. Hurry up, get the divorce and move on with your life.
/r/askMRP27/06/23 02:45 PM
22

"You're the only one I've slept with.....I always made them leave before we fell asleep"
/r/askMRP27/06/23 02:42 PM
1

Maybe your credit card charge on onlyfans didn't go through?
/r/askMRP26/06/23 04:24 PM
5

I wonder what else you've misremembered?
/r/askMRP22/06/23 06:13 PM
12

How did room service open the door if the chain was latched?
/r/askMRP21/06/23 06:00 PM
1

There is a lot of cross over. Sometimes men get more than they bargained for. There are a lot of good strategies to help address this though.
/r/askMRP19/06/23 04:04 PM
3

While that can be annoying, that isn't the main issue. The main issue is that you should be working to improve yourself in a way that impresses yourself, not trying to achieve any particular reaction from others. By talking about fight club you are inherently chasing a dopamine rush from approval from mommy.
/r/askMRP15/06/23 05:20 PM
35

Discussed all the time, don't talk about fight club. It's a resource, not a bible.
/r/askMRP14/06/23 01:51 PM
3

This isn't "woman crap" it's crap that unattractive men deal with.
/r/askMRP13/06/23 04:17 PM
1

Double dog dare
/r/askMRP12/06/23 06:09 PM
1

Hey, just seeing this thread. Any updates? Looks like almost 100% cheating.
/r/askMRP12/06/23 01:52 PM
1

I dare you to look at OP's post history. u/zbradigan
/r/askMRP12/06/23 01:39 PM
1

Soy isn't, but if you start pinning you should be fine. Basically just focus on solutions that can easily be solved by drugs and/or inactivity. That is the key.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/23 06:06 PM
1

A steady diet of soy and cross-fit should work
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/23 05:57 PM
7

Go fuck yourself, just delete out now like we all know you are going to do and save everyone time.
/r/askMRP05/05/23 02:41 PM
1

How are the two options in your title contrary? Also, we can't tell you what your life goals are.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/23 04:55 PM
20

What dread level are you at with your mother?
/r/askMRP03/05/23 04:52 PM
5

Tapout shirt
/r/askMRP04/04/23 04:37 PM
16

She already does crave those things, just not with you.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/23 04:20 PM
5

What the hell is K-closed? Is this a korean dating term or something?
/r/askMRP24/03/23 08:06 PM
15

Did you try giving her back rubs?
/r/askMRP17/03/23 08:26 PM
14

Are these "other people" you are attempting to see women? Something about the way you write makes me suspect otherwise.
/r/askMRP15/03/23 08:36 PM
8

Good advice. When you're doing it right sex isn't the prize, because it should be freely available in any form you desire. Scarcity vs abundance mentality. Also, regarding anniversary/birthday/V-day sex...as a general rule I stay away from it. Knowing that beta chumps "get" sex on those days makes it feel dirty.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/23 03:50 PM
18

HOA's dynamite 2.0: Cuddles
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/23 03:31 PM
2

Cuckception
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/23 03:27 PM
1

What the fuck are you saying? Jesus weeps for your teapot ass.
/r/askMRP09/03/23 03:25 PM
1

Well, both would be a reflection....but yeah....way worse
/r/askMRP08/03/23 07:35 PM
1

That's a lot of words to say nothing. "use it in the right circumstances"... social savviness....what the hell are you talking about? So now "calling out bullshit" is like some weapon you keep in your back pocket for just the right circumstance? Do you walk around thinking "oh man, just wait, she's going to say something silly and BAM....Ima call bullshit.....like a boss!" Do you think Chad has thoughts like this?
/r/askMRP08/03/23 07:28 PM
5

Fine, but then what? Don't draw lines in the sand that you won't enforce. Guaranteed for most guys starting out, plus you, when you "call bullshit" she's going to roll her eyes and do it anyway, leaving you sitting there with you junk in your hand like a child. I get to call bullshit on things, because I did the things necessary to get to that point, primarily resulting in a wife that is highly motivated to please me. Without that you're just making mouth noises.
/r/askMRP08/03/23 05:40 PM
3

"But...I'm a man now!"
/r/askMRP01/03/23 05:34 PM
6

"When I cum I feel guilty"
/r/askMRP14/02/23 07:08 PM
26

"Throw the lit firework in the room, close the door and leave the place". Does this sound like something a man who is in control of his life does?
/r/askMRP08/02/23 04:35 PM
10

You may have confused this subreddit with one that cares about you and your weak ass drama. Get to work, post in OYS, you are not special, not even close.
/r/askMRP07/02/23 04:33 PM
2

Man, chatGPT is getting good "Write me a paragraph that makes it seem like I am a manosphere guru"
/r/askMRP03/02/23 03:23 PM
3

You are right, it isn't different, and that is also teapot behavior
/r/askMRP03/02/23 03:20 PM
13

Because what you're describing is LARPing. Predicated on the idea "if I do this it will cause this reaction", which by definition is having external locus of control, also known as being in her frame. If you're trying to pick up a random girl for the night, fine, use this "one weird trick". A better life is where you live according to your own desires, make yourself a man of value, and enjoy the fruits of that labor that grow of their own merit. Wouldn't it be better to be a man that doesn't res…
/r/askMRP02/02/23 04:59 PM
3

We don't always get to choose our hardships, but we can choose how we respond. Your attitude and resiliency in the face of adversity is something we should all strive to achieve. I know you don't need the praise, but you should be proud.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/23 06:31 PM
7

That sucks. Maybe shave 5 minutes off of your porn and video game time today and you'll be at least back to even.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/23 06:25 PM
1

Sorry dude, guys with tiny cocks just aren't meant to get laid frequently.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/23 03:14 PM
1

Don't kink shame, masochism is pretty mainstream these days
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/23 08:40 PM
3

explanation: gay
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/23 08:33 PM
15

Thirst is a hell of a drug
/r/askMRP17/01/23 08:02 PM
9

Name checks out
/r/askMRP17/01/23 08:01 PM
4

Maybe try google sheets or something, the nice thing is you can edit it from your phone and share it easily. u/red-sfpplus might be able to help, he knows a lot about cloud data and stuff like that
/r/askMRP13/01/23 04:10 PM
6

It's hard to make a judgement without seeing a spreadsheet on initiations/rejections and notes on each encounter.
/r/askMRP13/01/23 03:48 PM
2

tg;dr Maybe lift heavier things more often
/r/askMRP13/01/23 03:36 PM
2

"The dick whisperer"
/r/askMRP13/01/23 03:33 PM
1

You should be honored.
/r/askMRP12/01/23 08:19 PM
1

Why would you spend all this time lying to internet strangers?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/23 09:27 PM
7

Per sidebar rules all manhood claims are to be settled by sending dick pics to u/red-sfpplus
/r/askMRP10/01/23 05:03 PM
3

Better than digging through your girl's drawers looking for her missed opportunity with Chad.
/r/askMRP10/01/23 05:00 PM
6

"Cucked by Pregnancy Test" https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/zksskf/why_did_wife_keep_used_negative_pregnancy_test/ ROFL
/r/askMRP10/01/23 04:31 PM
1

Stage 3: Profit
/r/askMRP09/01/23 05:00 PM
2

Yeah, but with today's technology it should be a lot easier. For example, could even just do a daily diary on tik tok. "Hi guys, it's me. January 3rd. I cleaned the kitchen, walked the dog, paid her credit card bills, then gave her foot massages for an hour. Tried to get a BJ, was rejected. She offered to let me beat off in the bathroom looking at porn, so that's progress. I'm shooting for a 3 way with her next week."
/r/askMRP06/01/23 03:23 PM
1

Power BI, is that a bisexual power bottom?
/r/askMRP06/01/23 03:20 PM
2

Living your best life #Blessed
/r/askMRP05/01/23 07:03 PM
8

Do you have a spreadsheet tracking initiations and success rate rates etc? All the pros have spreadsheets.
/r/askMRP05/01/23 05:30 PM
4

It doesn't matter what other people want, only what you want. Do you spend a lot of time thinking about what other guys and their wives do with their genitalia?
/r/askMRP04/01/23 06:54 PM
3

Lol, late Christmas gift, thanks bro
/r/askMRP30/12/22 04:25 PM
2

Cuckception
/r/askMRP22/12/22 04:36 PM
1

Need some pointers to get out of the situation. You've dug yourself a hole so deep you're about to hit magma and you're asking for pointers? Good luck with that, teapot.
/r/askMRP21/12/22 08:50 PM
2

He beats off to porn of other guys beating off watching their wives get fucked by men who lift.
/r/askMRP21/12/22 08:43 PM
10

Apparently you and I have different definitions of "final straw"
/r/askMRP21/12/22 08:42 PM
3

Make Conspiracies Great Again?
/r/askMRP19/12/22 09:23 PM
2

How about hats too?
/r/askMRP19/12/22 09:18 PM
11

Hey....Do you like apples?
/r/askMRP19/12/22 06:52 PM
5

Yeah, but, this shit really works
/r/askMRP19/12/22 06:51 PM
1

If you're going to do it, use someone who gets results, like Dr. Redcorn. Guy is a miracle worker.
/r/askMRP15/12/22 03:19 PM
5

Yep, arguments are two people trying to figure out who is in charge. That is all, the subject is irrelevant.
/r/askMRP15/12/22 03:18 PM
7

Would she have been late for George Clooney?
/r/askMRP14/12/22 04:38 PM
1

Doing some ROI calculations I see....Teapot
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/22 02:37 PM
5

Your Grindr profile works too
/r/askMRP05/12/22 09:37 PM
7

Only dick pics
/r/askMRP05/12/22 09:32 PM
19

We could tell you the "one weird trick", but you'll have to subscribe to premium MRP or u/SBIII 's Onlyfans.
/r/askMRP05/12/22 09:23 PM
2

Hmmm, now that I think of it, my current girlfriend was saying she doesn't get enough D. Maybe I should see if Dr. Redcorn is available for her too?
/r/askMRP02/12/22 10:19 PM
2

Yep, he's the one who had first suggested the vitamin C injections. Helps with headaches and general mood. My ex swore by it, he was giving her the C at least twice a week for years. In the end though, yeah, same, relationship didn't work out.
/r/askMRP02/12/22 09:03 PM
2

This. A jerking/twisting motion has gotten my deadlifts up 10% in the last month. Shooting to hit a two plate deadlift by the end of the year. 135lb here I come!
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/22 04:13 PM
18

The "health issue" that caused her to miss a lot of work, let me guess, was she seeing Dr. John Redcorn? Also, just curious, I'm having a hard time imagining a scenario where my wife says she needs to go to the hospital at 1am and I'm like "ok, cool, good luck". Obviously you've got a tard sandwich going on in this relationship, and unfortunately this kid is going to be the peanut butter stuck in the middle. By the way, her mood didn't improve because of the one time you showed her you're a man …
/r/askMRP28/11/22 08:38 PM
3

Why? How many different ways do you need to be told how to live your life? Also, who the fuck is upvoting half of the teapot comments on here? Fuck.
/r/askMRP28/11/22 08:26 PM
3

To be honest, no good advice has been given in this sub. All we faggots know is "work out, get rich, STFU". The change is expected to magically come from inside you, like a creampie. If it doesn't work it's your fault for not doing it properly. Typical response. I have an idea, and bear with me on this one....what if you....go fuck yourself? MRP doesn't owe you shit, and yes, it is your fault.
/r/askMRP28/11/22 08:20 PM
2

You've constructed yourself a house made out of shit, literal human feces, lived in it for years, even after allegedly having being part of a concrete house community for a long time, and you're back at the concrete house community asking how they deal with plugging their noses to cover up the smell of their houses. How to get your nose plug to work better is not the question you should be asking.
/r/askMRP28/11/22 03:41 PM
15

AWALT is a feature not a bug. Remember that class in college where the teacher would give your practice review assignments before a test that turned out to be basically the test, and you still had teapots failing the test? How lucky we are to understand that all women have a user's manual and millennia of recorded history to guide men. At this point if you can't figure out how to get women to work the way you want it's user error.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/22 03:08 PM
6

Pro tip: u/red-sfpplus accepts dick pics for payment
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/22 04:25 PM
5

"Does he have a sister?"
/r/askMRP22/11/22 04:23 PM
2

up, up, down, down, left, right, left, right, B, A and Start
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/22 04:59 PM
8

So go find some fresh girl to disappoint, quit rooting through the garbage
/r/askMRP08/11/22 09:27 PM
5

You mean why we broke up? I was very depressed at the time and I have anxiety problems and the relationship was too stressful for me (for my own problems). The relationship was becoming too much for me so I ended things (I never disclosed or talked about any of my problems though). When we were just FWBs everything was perfect. As soon as I feel commitment or responsibility with someone I get depressed and stressed out You sound like a walking pussy desiccant...
/r/askMRP08/11/22 09:07 PM
6

Ex because why?
/r/askMRP08/11/22 08:32 PM
2

Haha, so fun, you celebrate, she celebrates, everyone is having fun! Grow up teapot.
/r/askMRP08/11/22 07:47 PM
38

4 billion women in the world and you're rooting through the garbage. You sound thirsty as fuck.
/r/askMRP08/11/22 07:44 PM
8

Even if you have two kids, each gets two half-kids.
/r/askMRP04/11/22 08:23 PM
11

Best thing to do is hold her hand and offer encouragement when she gets gang-banged.
/r/askMRP02/11/22 01:59 PM
24

I think this shit might actually work! In the voice of David Attenborough: Here we see a "this shit really works" man in the wild. Notice how the other males in the group pay no attention. They are used to seeing this type of display, and ultimately know where it will end up. The question is, will he recognize his own shortcomings, or will he fall victim to the call of the Rambo like so many before him. Let us watch.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/22 04:27 PM
3

Google's at it again, sorry dudes, nice try, but no, still not passing the Turing test.
/r/askMRP28/10/22 03:36 PM
6

It works good on kids though, right? Like when your Dad would threaten to turn the car around 4.5 hours into a 5 hour drive. Oh, wait...
/r/askMRP26/10/22 05:53 PM
46

Looking forward to your post where she does something and you tell her that is "strike 2 and 1/2"
/r/askMRP26/10/22 03:55 PM
2

drugs, alcohol, and video games until dead
/r/askMRP26/10/22 03:21 PM
2

Once you round the horn rambo starts turning back into normal human interactions. That or getting the babysitter pregnant and going on vision quests.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/22 01:52 AM
6

I was going to give you shit for the lame approach #5, but fuck me, I hope this isn't some online roleplaying nonsense, because this shit below is textbook. I take the shirt off to change, wife sees my back with scratches. She looks at me waiting (hoping?) for some bullshit explanation. I just tell her this is exactly what you think it is, but I am drunk let’s talk in the morning. She told me she didn’t expect I would do something like that. I replied I am surprised, because my needs have to be …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/22 03:41 PM
18

"To run through some Erins"
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/22 03:35 PM
1

It's just in your head...ok a little on the shaft too
/r/askMRP04/10/22 10:15 PM
4

I'm glad you're enjoying this free service sponsored by Carl's Jr, please consider a premium plan for further spoon-feeding.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/22 10:14 PM
4

I see what you did there google, try to invoke emotion to obfuscate the shortcomings of your human man simulator. Nice try.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/22 05:40 PM
1

you and u/SBIII would get along :)
/r/askMRP04/10/22 05:16 PM
5

So, you're married, and for the foreseeable future you will remain married, as you made no mention of even the most remote version of movement towards divorce. Yet, for some reason, you allegedly put down a deposit to rent a place after a cinematic moment contemplating your future in a vacant living room, which one would assume you intend to live in after your fictional divorce is finalized. Also, you're paying some girl to have sex with you because your wife won't, yet imagine that once you get…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/22 04:52 PM
10

Hygiene: Continued at least showering once a day. Going to sent dental appointment this week. Why in the hell is this even mentioned? Is this something new for you? Fuck
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/22 04:41 PM
5

Lesson: she wants me to be immune to her mood swings, so she can feel them and not worry that I will then be angry / grumpy whatever in return. Minor progress here but a long way to go. She's even telling me the way forward. A. This is not the lesson and B. since when does what a woman tells you what to do even crack the top 5 of things you should do?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/22 04:36 PM
6

I thought not being able to find the clit was a joke, is this actually a real issue for people? Regarding noping out on bad sex, nothing wrong with that, don't encourage bad behavior, and/or you aren't worth it enough for her to behave. Either way, no need to force it, just have sex when you want to, and stop whenever you aren't having fun. If the reason you aren't having fun is due to lack of attractiveness, well, you made that bed, so lie in it. Every unhappy wife is a rape victim. Remember th…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/22 04:26 PM
7

Is the divorce going to help your shitty financial situation? What did you give up to negotiate the hiring bonus? Usually, if you're struggling now, good luck once you divorce. How much thought and preparation have you put into this? You say you prepared for all outcomes regarding divorce, but somehow glossed over this major issue. Money doesn't buy happiness, but lack of it buys misery, that is for sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/22 04:19 PM
5

Maybe one day it will. Fingers crossed!
/r/askMRP20/09/22 05:02 PM
2

Your boat has a thermostat?
/r/askMRP20/09/22 03:28 PM
5

Drives you crazy because you "know" that isn't the advice you need. How do you "know"? It's because you don't like lifting and keeping your teapot mouth shut. Snowflakes aren't special, they all end up as a puddle.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/22 04:14 PM
7

"In a world...."
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 01:48 AM
4

Fuck, how'd I miss that?
/r/askMRP26/08/22 05:40 PM
11

We'll get a research team on it, so far the main suspect is dyslexia, i.e. 31% not 13%
/r/askMRP26/08/22 04:09 PM
11

2 out of those three numbers are right....let's see who can spot the imposter
/r/askMRP26/08/22 04:00 PM
35

Maybe she thinks your vision is based on movement like in Jurassic Park?
/r/askMRP26/08/22 03:54 PM
11

Is catching oneitis like catching monkey pox?
/r/askMRP24/08/22 05:18 PM
2

This isn't a diary?
/r/askMRP24/08/22 03:52 PM
34

You should have had him clean you up too
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/22 03:59 PM
4

You owe me a non-coffee stained shirt
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/22 02:30 PM
1

My man
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/22 02:29 PM
3

Agree...but also, does that mean we'll miss out on gems like "Cucked by Cosmo"?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/22 04:50 PM
4

Ah yes, can't forget that
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/22 07:00 PM
4

OP is the wife of the boss I think
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/22 07:26 PM
2

Did you actually get a paternity test done, or is that another one of your lies?
/r/askMRP06/08/22 06:43 PM
3

Did the condom "break", or did you have sex while using a condom, and for some reason she is pregnant, so you assumed it was a "broken" condom?
/r/askMRP05/08/22 08:37 PM
9

I stopped reading at "condom broke and she got pregnant". No need to waste time on someone who can't even tell the truth to internet strangers.
/r/askMRP05/08/22 04:14 PM
7

Incorrect, keep making excuses teapot
/r/askMRP04/08/22 09:33 PM
3

11.7631%
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/22 07:46 PM
4

Are you 13?
/r/askMRP27/06/22 05:29 PM
2

If he can find any old little league trophies that might be helpful, no? Edit: Fuck, this is the dude who shoves shit up his piss hole...
/r/askMRP23/06/22 06:31 PM
13

Maybe she smells the other dude's ball sweat?
/r/askMRP14/06/22 07:46 PM
10

Until she rubs your butthole at night to help you fall asleep you haven't made it. Keep grinding.
/r/askMRP14/06/22 04:12 PM
23

There is a big difference between let her cool off and call a lawyer. How could we help you answer this knowing nothing? My vote is option 3, get your T levels checked.
/r/askMRP07/06/22 02:13 PM
3

Dang, can we make that a thing? Custom MRP magic 8 ball?
/r/askMRP06/06/22 08:44 PM
3

Does your magic 8 ball give advice that includes rubbing buttholes?
/r/askMRP06/06/22 06:28 PM
20

The best life decisions are settled using random internet teapot consensus
/r/askMRP06/06/22 01:30 PM
1

Why would one need to "do" anything?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/22 02:37 PM
5

She sounds like she would fit in at MRP, you should send her our way. Also, happy pride month!
/r/askMRP01/06/22 02:46 PM
7

Dang, fucker's gonna need some aloe vera
/r/askMRP01/06/22 02:44 PM
2

Comply isn't a word I would need or use. That's the difference. Comply indicates an inherent unwillingness or reluctance. A RP man's wife doesn't comply, she is enthusiastic about the idea of pleasing him.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/22 02:40 PM
2

This is fun, we're all having fun
/r/askMRP31/05/22 08:45 PM
8

Can't blame the girl for wanting something powerful between her legs.
/r/askMRP31/05/22 08:00 PM
29

Blindfold her and tell her you're her gym trainer
/r/askMRP27/05/22 03:29 PM
10

I'll bet $100 that some time after your brother "spoke angrily to her" she masturbated thinking about him and what it must be like to have a man with backbone in her life.
/r/askMRP27/05/22 03:17 PM
2

Don't just be the asshole. Rub it also. Should go on a t-shirt
/r/askMRP26/05/22 06:25 PM
3

Works with your buddies too FYI. Whenever u/red-sfpplus gets in a mood it works wonders.
/r/askMRP26/05/22 05:26 PM
10

I get hypergamy is a thing which is why I took the route of "become the best" but I don't get why she acts like nothing happened? Oh, I see the issue...you're a retard. Mystery solved
/r/askMRP25/05/22 03:42 PM
2

You wish you could fuck like Jada
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/22 08:37 PM
3

Keep my wife's name out of your motherfucking mouth
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/22 06:37 PM
1

Like a boss
/r/askMRP19/05/22 04:27 PM
1

Sky daddy made men with stomachs and cocks. We're meant to eat and meant to fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/22 10:03 PM
1

Abundance is having lots of items on the menu, not necessarily a requirement that you order more than the items you most enjoy. Or said another way, if one day your favorite item is unavailable, do you end up hungry, or do you have dozens of other good choices available?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/22 07:54 PM
2

From past experience, if I cut her off from one source of spending, she is ingenious to find another that I am unaware of. Clever girl....
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/22 02:36 AM
1

fuuck... I thought it was just a myth. I wonder what other creepy shit happens in your bathroom?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/22 05:21 PM
1

Overall, it's been a net negative for no reason other than my mindset issues and the lack of DNGAF/Prize mentality. I was more comfortable plate spinning and larping alpha. I am going to keep holding my feet to this fire and use this situation to take my mindset to the next level. What the hell? You're hamstering about the struggles of being monogamous and painting it as if you are embracing the suck so as to get some sort of character growth? This isn't BUD/S teapot, it's just a dude with exter…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/22 05:00 PM
6

I heard if you say covid three times in the mirror SBIII appears...
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/22 04:55 PM
2

I suggest that you work on a needs and wants list. I've talked about this a lot in the past. You don't understand yourself well enough to have a chance of tightening the rope for others to follow. Once you know exactly what you need and exactly what you want, now you can start to refine your path to ensure that the needs are satisfied and if possible your wants are as well. It is the easy button to MRP, if that exists, in that it is a good way for you to simplify your thoughts, breaking everythi…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/22 04:49 PM
1

Read: Book of Numbers, Atomic Attraction, The Game, What Women Want When they Test Men, Unplugged Alpha, Exhausted Wives, Bewildered Husbands, Boundaries in Marriage, WISNIFG, Rational Male: Religion, NMMNG, The Way of the Superior Man, The Rational Male But then: Her spending is more than what I want. I’ve discussed limits in the past, but she has always found a way around them. Charge to different cards, or use the grocery money for clothes, or online financing that I don’t know about. I didn’…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/22 04:29 PM
2

We all like attractive women. Carrying a purse that's sole purpose is to inform others that she has a good beta plowhorse who is willing to burn cash as an effigy to her...that is not attractive. Also, for the reader at home, this is from your OYS: ​ Wife says she’ll do X but rarely if ever follows through. Have had two storage units for 6 years. She promised to have them cleaned out and gone by the first of May. Her spending is more than what I want. I’ve discussed limits in the past, but she h…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/22 01:30 PM
1

Yeah, pretty natural to feel that way I guess. At a certain point you just aren't playing that game. If anything you're rooting for everyone else to get their shit together.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/22 04:52 PM
1

I get what you're saying, but also, you can understand a persons motivations for behaving the way they do and also recognize that they are retarded... All we can do at MRP is show guys that there is a back side to their menu of life. We can't force them to flip the menu over, and frankly, I don't give a shit what the guy at the other table is eating. BUT, it doesn't put me in his frame if I happen to look on his plate and see he's eating arby's while I've got filet mignon. Maybe, like your frien…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/22 01:44 PM
8

women don't call the advances of an attractive man coercion.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/22 01:24 PM
2

If that's the largest problem you see at MRP you aren't looking very hard
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/22 07:37 PM
1

Yeah, a $200 coach purse is fine. Good quality costs money, retard money doesn't mean better, means more retarded. ​ But for me, or anyone else who is the breadwinner, wouldn't it be delusional to point some woman's purse and feel like I'm financial superior in my situation. If I'm following what you're saying, I think maybe you miss the point of how frame regarding expenditure matters 100%. It isn't what you spend money on, it's why you spend it that matters. I bought a car recently (Fiat 500) …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/22 03:15 PM
21

I'd never thought I'd say this...can you chill with the "bitches" shit? It doesn't make you sound cool. Makes you seem like an angry 13 year old white kid trying to seem cool to the 16 year old black kids down the street.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/22 03:15 PM
2

I also find it fascinating that so many people think they've got finances "locked down" and then they'll say some shit like "I've got a good job, I'm saving 7%, I've got a gigantic debt load, and I like to buy my wife expensive purses, and I'm on track to retire in 2062." I agree. Part of the inherent problem is strongly rooted in beta behavior. Keeping up with the Jones'. For sure my wife and I earn much more than 95% of the people in my neighborhood, but I see so many people with multiple high…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/22 03:05 PM
2

I agree with everything you said...except for the purses... cars...yep vacations...yep kid's shit...yep hookers...yep booze...yep gambling...yep $2k purses...retard To elaborate more: All that other stuff is ostensibly in pursuit of your own happiness in some way, or the benefit of those you care about. (one could argue personal motivations for some of it vs optics, but, with me as an example, I don't buy a car for the optics, I buy it because it makes me happy.) A $2k purse for your wife can on…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/22 02:44 PM
4

Most people who have financial problems have spending problems, not earning problems. This topic is difficult regarding advice for the reader in that it can vary wildly depending on the person and their situation. If I were to add one thing, it would be that having discipline, a responsible first officer that will follow your lead and a good understanding about your financial situation and future is the number one predictor of a successful financial life. I know too many guys who are high earner…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/22 06:10 PM
21

OP's not the hero we need right now ... he's the one nobody wanted also.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/22 02:33 PM
5

You are unattractive, her cutting off sex isn't a punishment for you, it's a reprieve for her. My wife would have a breakdown if I told her she couldn't have sex with me. As horns told you, you are a pussy, and apparently your wife is not a lesbian, so, mystery solved. Go buy some tampons or something.
/r/askMRP05/05/22 08:16 PM
3

I heard recently there are dudes who pay fat cash to have other dominant men call them names. Don't give away the milk dude, lets get that onlyfans channel up and running again.
/r/askMRP05/05/22 08:07 PM
7

she revoked my touching privileges lol, is there like a card or something you have to carry? Anyway.... This verbal diarrhea of a post can be summarized as: "I throw a tantrum if she won't fuck me now that I'm not far from being shredded" Assuming OP isn't banned, my suggested flair would be "planning on starting to get shredded soon". u/HornsOfApathy
/r/askMRP05/05/22 08:05 PM
27

When I get E.coli I feel guilty
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/22 05:04 PM
1

Nice try zuckerburg, go refine your human sim AI somewhere else.
/r/askMRP03/05/22 06:07 PM
9

But...he RELUCTANTLY said no. I mean, if that wouldn't score you at least 100 dread XP I don't know what would.
/r/askMRP02/05/22 02:56 PM
2

so mysterious
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/22 03:16 PM
1

Do you have a point?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/22 03:15 PM
1

A pattern isn't necessarily a process
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/22 05:30 PM
2

Anger at her for not giving you what you want vs angry at yourself for not deserving what you want is a vastly different thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/22 03:03 PM
2

First he steps onto a stool.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/22 04:32 PM
2

We all do...we all do
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/22 04:00 PM
2

Why didn't you mention this earlier. I know a healer who is really good with fixing this stuff for my wife. His name is Dr. John Redcorn u/Tyred_Biggums uses him too. PM me for contact info if you need it.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/22 04:17 PM
3

Being attractive is the only weapon you need
/r/askMRP13/04/22 02:28 PM
5

Wrong answer, thanks for playing
/r/askMRP13/04/22 02:19 PM
5

The only person that SHOULD care....OP may not fit your statement
/r/askMRP13/04/22 02:17 PM
3

Dude, I'm with you. Nothing like AMOG a dude by letting him take your girl home for the night. Not even worried about it. I'm the lion, they're the sheep. They can have my leftovers.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/22 02:13 PM
1

The struggle is when it starts getting fun
/r/askMRP08/04/22 05:26 PM
1

You got a science based answer my man. Basic behavior psychology. Also, heterosexual women, by definition, don't like fucking pussies. That one was free.
/r/askMRP08/04/22 03:19 PM
2

That reminds me, your red make women great again hat came in. Should I just ship it with your Tapout t-shirt?
/r/askMRP08/04/22 03:14 PM
1

For you, a woman not having to worry about you fathering her baby would make you a little less repulsive I suppose.
/r/askMRP08/04/22 03:10 PM
19

To start, imagine that it is many years in the future and that you've just died. Spend some time writing down what you’d hypothetically want said about you after your death, whether in your obituary or eulogy. "This guy fucked"
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/22 03:06 PM
13

This is a gift you teapots don't deserve. Don't waste it.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/22 02:53 PM
13

Getting used to doing something that is hard, consistently, and seeing the result of that hard work, which, also happens to increase your attractiveness
/r/askMRP06/04/22 06:11 PM
5

"Oh, I see the problem...you seem to think slut is an insult. It's a compliment. You derive pleasure from making me happy, that's pretty special. You're like the Mother Teresa of sex. I love my little slut, keep it up." end of conversation
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/22 01:46 PM
5

Not my girl. She had just forgotten her phone charger, but she told me everything when she got back.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/22 01:37 PM
16

You could let her in...if you want to be walked all over your whole life.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/22 07:27 PM
24

Fuck you! Who the fuck you do internet assholes think you are? Just hiding behind keyboards all day, probably never even saw a woman. My wife would never ever ever cheat. She is the love of my life, my whole world. I live and breathe for her. She would never do something like that to me. And before you say "all woman are like that", which you misogynistic assholes all say, you don't know her, so keep my wife's name out of your fucking mouth. She was never like that. She doesn't even like sex. On…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/22 07:08 PM
3

Look, I'm not a doctor, but I mean, how else would she have gotten it?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/22 04:43 PM
15

I tried the rubbing butthole every night from last post, went kind of ok for a while, but I ended up giving her a herpes infection. I guess from the rubbing every night it somehow opened up the skin for infection. I don't really get it, but she said her doctor said it was my fault. Is there anything in here that I might need to watch out for? I feel really bad for getting her sick.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/22 03:55 PM
3

I eat mostly soy, is there enough potassium in that?
/r/askMRP04/04/22 08:17 PM
3

I don't have a leg machine, I do crossfit.
/r/askMRP04/04/22 04:08 PM
2

Same here... I don't know why the medical community is so far behind on this stuff. We started off with twice a day applications, then after things got better scaled it back to once a day. She complained that her butthole was getting a little irritated, but, totally worth it. Annoying how expensive the prescription is though, I do kind of feel like spit can work eventually, almost like placebo effect.
/r/askMRP04/04/22 01:10 PM
1

Lol, yep. "I don't do anal....for you"
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/22 01:38 PM
2

Here's the real kicker. Once you stop worrying about what everyone else thinks. Do you even know what your own thoughts sound like?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 07:56 PM
2

Reminds you of when you first broke your behymen?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 06:12 PM
1

The good news is that you've fairly quickly gotten past the ego protection phase. This is all your fault, everyone else always knew it, now you know it. So, what are you going to do about it?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 03:36 PM
1

Called out my wife on her bitchy behaviour once. Received a "well maybe that's who I am" response. She sounds delightful
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 03:33 PM
1

It sounds too simple, but for most things you can break it down to "what would a silverback do?". From when you wake up to when you fall asleep, imagine living a life like a silverback. It is a mental switch to flip, but in fact is not a case of "easier said than done". Just do it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 03:28 PM
2

Police arrest kids for meeting girls now?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 03:14 PM
10

This isn't your personal diary. Most of this shit should be written in a little unicorn notebook you keep in your underwear drawer next to a picture of Zack from Saved by the Bell. For fuck's sake, going on and on about your wife's bleeding vagina, don't you have better things to do? Also, 3 holes, 1 out of commission, for the rest of us this is a slight adjustment, not a life changing event.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 03:06 PM
24

Frame matters 100% on this though. If you do it because you're angry that she doesn't OR do it because that's what you demand of your environment. Either way, if you're pissed at HER, you're still doing it wrong. If you do it because you think it will get her rear in gear, you're doing it wrong. All of that is still in her frame. Learning to do the things you want done if nobody else has already done it for you and not holding any grudge or anger is easier said than done, but when you get there,…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/22 02:45 PM
10

That should be his MRP flair
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/22 03:53 PM
8

It's concerning when someone who says the most crazy stuff is also the person I agree with so often :)
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 03:49 PM
5

When you're ready, you won't have to dodge bullets.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/22 07:24 PM
6

You've got it. What do you want and can you work with what you have? Reminds me of the old reddit post where the guy couldn't get a BJ without a court order and he finds a sex tape of his wife getting gangbanged in college, anal, the whole nine yards, screaming "I'm such a slut!" in the video. IMO most woman can be made into what a guy wants given that he has the qualities necessary to make it happen, the question is if the juice is worth the squeeze. Why spend your energy doing an off frame res…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/22 07:10 PM
6

The fact that you're trying to negotiate your way through this with us says everything anyone needs to know. This isn't PUA shit. PUA is "I do this to have a better chance of getting that". That isn't what were doing here. We are "I do this...and I get what I deserve". I am definitely saying you should control the environment and manipulate it to your advantage. Be the man who enjoys doing fun things, not a man who spends time thinking about how to seem like a man who does fun things. It might j…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/22 06:51 PM
19

By this point you've selected good enough clay to work with to mold into what you want, and the endgame possibilities are endless. I like this. A lot of guys see their mating strategy as a zero sum game, where they are trying to "get" the highest SMV woman they can. Like a video game or something, once you get enough dread points you can unlock a thin woman. A few more points and you can "get" the BJ badge. I particularly liked that you said "good enough clay". You understand it, but for those w…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/22 06:43 PM
11

Way way too much thinking about how to peacock yourself in the service of her opinion of you. Fuck that shit, teapot. Build yourself a social circle full of ugly losers and be the king when you make plans. I'm going to pretend I didn't see that...fuck
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/22 06:25 PM
9

Send her a picture of your clit
/r/askMRP16/03/22 08:15 PM
21

Easiest way is look in the mirror
/r/askMRP15/03/22 06:29 PM
14

Do you think she would go to bed early if she were dating George Clooney?
/r/askMRP09/03/22 04:58 PM
5

Fuck ... over 1/4 fat.
/r/askMRP09/03/22 04:57 PM
10

I apologize when I mess up and regret my actions. I do not apologize for things I don't regret saying or doing. I don't know why that is so hard for so many people.
/r/askMRP09/03/22 04:56 PM
11

Post in OYS
/r/askMRP08/03/22 05:21 PM
3

Then sucked him off
/r/askMRP07/03/22 05:12 PM
3

Can't get back what you never had.
/r/askMRP07/03/22 05:11 PM
8

Starting with the idea that you are a retard, next time go with opposite of whatever your teapot brain tells you.
/r/askMRP07/03/22 05:10 PM
2

That was my thought. I could see hanging out with the guy in the other car. Not OP's dramatic ass. I bet $10 OP's wife's next fap session will involve thinking of that other driver AMOGing her beta husband.
/r/askMRP07/03/22 04:17 PM
8

Exactly. Imagine if you were his wife and actually knew his weak points. He's got the frame of a soggy tissue.
/r/askMRP01/03/22 07:04 PM
2

Lol, I can see someone hit the second cup of coffee today
/r/askMRP01/03/22 06:30 PM
6

I've always wondered, is there a special signal you give to let the men know your a bottom? Like a scarf tied to the left or something?
/r/askMRP01/03/22 06:27 PM
9

Just ask your wife, my pics are in her "Finally Alone" folder
/r/askMRP01/03/22 06:18 PM
4

huh? If you want a dick pic, just ask bro.
/r/askMRP01/03/22 04:09 PM
2

20%bf...When you display anger, does it look like this?
/r/askMRP01/03/22 03:45 PM
2

But, he got a shit ton of XP points in addition to levelling up. Did you take that into account?
/r/askMRP01/03/22 03:41 PM
22

I want to recapture that single energy I once possessed. How do you guys do it? If you eat out your wife after her dates maybe you can absorb some of her younger boyfriend's energy? Not sure though, I'm rusty on how that eastern medicine shit works.
/r/askMRP28/02/22 04:32 PM
3

Let's be honest, most of your free time will be spent playing video games and furiously masturbating to porn.
/r/askMRP25/02/22 05:53 PM
2

12 stone 2 isn't bad for 5 foot 2 dorn, depending on bodyfat. Of course, OP didn't say.
/r/askMRP15/02/22 07:43 PM
1

https://static.tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pub/images/deja\_q\_hd\_046\_resized\_6484.jpg
/r/askMRP11/02/22 07:58 PM
2

I didn't read the last 2/3 of what you wrote, but, in general, bubbles means it's working.
/r/askMRP11/02/22 05:44 PM
4

Are you going for the life you deserve or the best deal you can get?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/22 04:44 PM
5

Yes, settle, this is the way.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 10:04 PM
2

So, you're saying that if money were no concern you would divorce, but because of money you are going to stay in an unhappy relationship?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 09:49 PM
3

For the love of god, please don't make me have to read about rubbing buttholes in every other OYS... It's weird dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 08:47 PM
1

ELI5...What are you going on about with the $500k?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 08:43 PM
3

Gonna need a skin graft after that burn
/r/askMRP03/02/22 03:18 PM
16

So sack up and realize that even if you do hear praise from her, it's worthless. Worthless? Nah, it has value, but not the kind that affects your mission. I enjoy sloppy BJ's, I also enjoy a nice "I love you" note slipped into my lunchbox.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/22 08:54 PM
5

Get that prayer emoji the fuck out of here. You control you, no divine intervention needed for that. If you're going to pray, pray for forgiveness for sullying the body god gave you with your pussy ass behavior.
/r/askMRP01/02/22 08:46 PM
1

Her actions control you, this is scarcity mentality allowing you to be in her frame. You are still negotiating. Everything you do is a negotiation, you trying to see the best "deal" you can get. Don't try to get the best deal you can get, command the best behavior you deserve.
/r/askMRP01/02/22 05:52 PM
5

The good news is you are in the right place, that is all of the good news. Get to work
/r/askMRP01/02/22 04:34 PM
1

so fun, we're all having fun
/r/askMRP01/02/22 03:52 PM
1

You aren't getting it
/r/askMRP01/02/22 03:51 PM
1

Perfect, so we're all laughing at you now.
/r/askMRP31/01/22 06:53 PM
1

You seem to be more focused on it being your car than her endangering the life of your children's mother. For reference, I put it that way for a reason, do you know why?
/r/askMRP31/01/22 06:48 PM
1

I can’t tell her to stop going to work or to stop driving. The only thing I can control is my time and attention. Yes, yes you can, you can tell her whatever the fuck you want. It is up to her to judge the value of your time and attention and decide accordingly.
/r/askMRP31/01/22 06:44 PM
1

That's why this place is so cool, you think you've seen it all, then you find a guy who wants to fuck his girl in her pee hole....
/r/askMRP31/01/22 06:34 PM
1

How's your urethra stretching going? https://www.reddit.com/r/sounding/comments/r7g3pm/does\_stretching\_female\_urethra\_cause\_urinary/
/r/askMRP31/01/22 02:56 PM
3

RIP
/r/askMRP28/01/22 06:31 PM
1

lol, comment of the day
/r/askMRP28/01/22 06:30 PM
9

Ah, here's the issue, you forgot to press start after. It's Up, Up, Down, Down, Left, Right, Left, Right, B, A THEN start. Those are the correct buttons to push to get her to do the things you want even if you're not attractive and she isn't interested in fucking you.
/r/askMRP28/01/22 03:10 PM
3

"Ok, here's the plan: I'm going to make a new account, go on redpill subs, and bait these misogynists into saying they hate women, then I'll use the content on our sub and do some youtube videos about it, maybe if I'm lucky I can get an interview on fox news, I heard they go well." ​ Fuck off loser
/r/RedPillParenting28/01/22 03:04 PM
1

Oh, I could see the confusion. Attractive women are the only ones I call women. The rest is in the same bin as trannies, grandmas and realtors.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/22 08:17 PM
2

Lol, perfect for this time of year...
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/22 05:59 PM
2

IDK, I seem to remember mittens or something knitted...
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/22 05:48 PM
2

Just wait until he's back to monogamy after he gets zero interest from other women.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/22 03:44 PM
1

Remember the oven mitt handjob guy?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/22 03:40 PM
1

Maybe he should have drawn up an agreement for her to sign. Like a contract
/r/askMRP17/01/22 02:29 PM
12

"I don't understand, I did _____ and she isn't doing _____."
/r/askMRP14/01/22 07:10 PM
3

You're in the wrong frame. You're thinking what buttons can I press in what order to get her to do X. Instead, she should be thinking, every day, what can I do to have him keep me in his life?
/r/askMRP14/01/22 03:56 PM
1

Yeah, George seems to have held up better. Is there a Chad to replace Brad?
/r/askMRP13/01/22 07:15 PM
32

Do you think she would be watching middle age women dance on tik tok if she were out to dinner with George Clooney? More so, if that did happen, would George sit there like a twit, be unhappy, then come and ask some internet strangers what to do? Don't fix her, fix you.
/r/askMRP13/01/22 05:57 PM
2

Who dis?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/22 02:55 AM
2

Sorry, on mobile
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/22 02:55 AM
6

everyone here knows I have a big fat fucking ego Nobody here knows you exist
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/22 09:40 PM
15

And who said MRP is stuck on recycling old sidebar posts? This is direct, and accurate and as relevant as ever. Ego can be a rock to build upon, or an anchor pulling you under. To anyone reading this post, you didn't deserve it, but be thankful Blarg has given you this gift. Don't waste it.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 06:08 PM
3

Only when you want to, not because you need it.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 05:55 PM
5

You can't drive a car? Impressive, every week something new to be found in OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 02:12 PM
4

When she got home "OMG, I'm not sure, but I think that guy that played the fat hobbit in Lord of the Rings tried to pick me up at lunch! No, I didn't give him my number, he was giving major creep vibes. He might be homeless." How do you turn that into "You'll never believe what happened to me today..."?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 02:05 PM
1

It's the easy button for live. But, it doesn't guarantee that people make the choices you would prefer they make. That comes back to "be attractive".
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/22 05:48 PM
5

400+ lbs. Schedule, who knows. Belt...we know
/r/askMRP07/01/22 07:33 PM
3

Lol, at least he isn't playing Tekken. Those guys are the worst
/r/askMRP07/01/22 06:15 PM
3

Probably cry
/r/askMRP07/01/22 06:15 PM
1

What we would do has no relevance to what you should do. Did you try being more attractive yet?
/r/askMRP07/01/22 05:59 PM
3

How's your gaming problem going?
/r/askMRP07/01/22 05:48 PM
7

I'll tell you, but only if you join my subscription only discord server.
/r/askMRP07/01/22 05:46 PM
4

Try being more attractive
/r/askMRP07/01/22 05:13 PM
3

There are some things you don't joke about man. Missionary sex with an old woman...face to face!?!?!...what's wrong with you?
/r/askMRP07/01/22 03:46 PM
1

That's disgusting, what the fuck dude?
/r/askMRP06/01/22 07:47 PM
1

You're not getting it
/r/askMRP06/01/22 06:33 PM
2

These are symptoms, not the main problem.
/r/askMRP06/01/22 04:04 PM
4

One of the best experiences of my life was kicking my MIL out of the house when she was being a bitch. Literally said "not under my roof". 10/10 would recommend
/r/askMRP06/01/22 03:37 PM
2

You can pee on her, I've seen dogs at the park do that
/r/askMRP06/01/22 03:33 PM
4

Quit expecting your wife to work like a dysfunctional man. Nice
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/22 04:20 PM
1

Maybe at the next quarterly MRP meeting this can be brought forward as a point of order.
/r/askMRP04/01/22 04:12 PM
10

Stupid me saw the title and thought we were talking about flirting with women :)
/r/askMRP03/01/22 08:44 PM
1

I generally agree, but don't know if in practice it has been so clear. Often Alpha=good, Beta=bad. For that reason I tend to not like to even use those words. To your point, captain and oak are much better to describe specific ways of behavior.
/r/askMRP03/01/22 05:41 PM
4

44% bodyfat ...... dafuq you talking about games for?
/r/askMRP03/01/22 03:04 PM
1

And I can tell you that at high alpha, there’s no mindgames or hard work. It’s fucking ez mode. I would contend that the use of alpha and beta is often different depending on who is saying it and what they mean. My definition of alpha is different than the 19 year old boys at TRP, for example. In particular, I see the "dual" strategy satisfied by 100% alpha in MY definition of alpha, which does include more than jumping motorcycles and smashing beer cans on your head. 100% alpha as defined by TR…
/r/askMRP01/01/22 09:52 PM
13

Arguments are two people trying to determine which one is in charge. Think about that.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/21 05:22 PM
6

Don't be negative, we can view the cup as half full. He failed successfully.
/r/askMRP24/12/21 05:53 PM
2

If you want/require something, ask for/demand it; let the outcome be as it may! Don't demand something of another person, demand it of/for yourself, and allow those around you to choose for themselves. It may seem like a small distinction, but to me, it is very important. i.e. not "If you don't fuck me I'm going to divorce you", instead "I am a man who has frequent high quality sex with attractive women. I'm hopeful that you can be a part of that."
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/21 04:53 PM
2

Being your own worst critic is not a bad thing. Ideally though, you are your only critic, at least the only voice you care about. Along with that, be your best fan as well. Praise or critique yourself based on your effort more than your outcome. In the end you die alone, try to live in a way that makes you proud of yourself. When we talk about seeking validation, we mean external validation. Internal validation is the shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/21 04:46 PM
0

Good point. But it's confusing to me, if he sees himself as high value, like you said, he wouldn't be afraid of marriage. But, if he sees himself as low value, wouldn't he want to "lock in" his girlfriend before she gets away?
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/21 10:00 PM
8

If he doesn't "care" about the piece of paper, and you do, then why is getting married an issue for him? Sounds suspicious if you ask me.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/21 06:51 PM
4

Marriage without kids is dating with more paperwork. Probably the best bet is get her pregnant.
/r/askMRP13/12/21 02:07 PM
7

Thirst is a hell of a drug
/r/askMRP03/12/21 09:28 PM
7

Thought experiment. She agrees to bang him once a month but also goes out every weekend to get railed. Does he take the deal? I'm betting yes.
/r/askMRP03/12/21 07:35 PM
5

I would have guessed 3 weeks. You feeling ok?
/r/askMRP03/12/21 07:33 PM
3

Trickle implies at least a steady pace. You are more in the temporary lapse of judgement frequency range.
/r/askMRP03/12/21 07:30 PM
1

Dude, equality is the cornerstone of a good marriage. If society doesn't recognize the importance of a woman's role, it's up to us to make it right.
/r/askMRP03/12/21 05:48 PM
3

WhenSheIsPoorIFeelGuilty
/r/askMRP03/12/21 05:34 PM
5

I think the answer is that the train will arrive in 2.5 hours.
/r/askMRP03/12/21 05:24 PM
4

Maybe the prenup can specify that she gets 75% of the assets upon separation or something like that so it can be more even?
/r/askMRP03/12/21 04:25 PM
4

Should he look into pegging? u/red-sfpplus knows a lot about this, maybe he can advise.
/r/askMRP03/12/21 04:24 PM
1

Yeah, bassinet is small for a reason, just early on. Crib and baby monitor is the way after that. One really neat feature of baby monitors is that they have a mute button...
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/21 05:19 PM
9

Advice to new Dads: Master bedroom is for adults only. When the baby is young, put a bassinet next to the bed. When it is time, they go to their room in a crib. Kids never sleep in your bed, not once. It is better for you, better for your relationship, better for your kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/21 04:27 PM
7

If you're doing D/s right, you know her better than she knows her. You can tell. But here is what I've seen over the years (I've been doing this for a number of years now, a lot of this took time to fully master). At first, each spank she is almost bracing for, afraid of the pain. When you've turned the corner, she no longer braces, she accepts it, because she appreciates it, because the net release of emotional pain is greater than the net addition of physical pain. Eventually, as the emotional…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/21 08:36 PM
4

Yeah, pre-punishment spanking she is not your good girl, because good girls don't do ______. Close physical connection is for good girls. Afterward, you've got her back, so that's where you need the aftercare and cuddles.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/21 08:25 PM
7

The punishment is disappointing the man she desperately wants to please. The spanking is the humane thing to do, literally putting her out of her misery. It is also important to make sure that the spanking is enough where she really feels like she's paid the price. It isn't for us, it is for them.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/21 08:18 PM
7

My experience is that it is important is to have a "different" type of spanking for punishment versus emotional release (i.e. maintenance spanking). What you did starts with the physical, leading to the emotion. By keeping her close over your lap it ties the physical to the emotional, where her physical submission drags her emotional submission along literally kicking and screaming. A punishment spanking starts with the emotional and ends with the physical. She knows she did wrong, she feels abs…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/21 05:53 PM
8

Lol, were you punching her in the spine?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/21 05:14 PM
5

Be the change!
/r/askMRP18/11/21 03:34 PM
2

Legit, I wanted to compile all of the posts and OYS content and make a book
/r/askMRP18/11/21 12:36 AM
4

How's he doing? Can't remember seeing anything for a while. Last I remember it was going pretty well all things considered.
/r/askMRP17/11/21 05:09 PM
3

God's KY
/r/askMRP17/11/21 03:40 PM
3

ROFL
/r/askMRP17/11/21 03:40 PM
2

Brat/dom relationships are BP relationships with more steps.
/r/askMRP17/11/21 02:43 PM
14

This teapot was on here a year ago asking about a "big fight". Learned nothing in a year. Not worth the wear and tear on your keyboard.
/r/askMRP17/11/21 02:41 PM
11

Impressive Sounds like you need to work on your ground game.
/r/askMRP17/11/21 02:37 PM
2

Hey, not that I'm an expert or really care that much, but as I understand it using a company vehicle for personal use, even if at the permission of the company, would be taxable income for you. I'm not saying anyone would ever know or if you even care, just pointing it out in case you didn't know. Congrats on the baby!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/21 04:07 PM
2

Home Owner's Association. It's an allegory for women who are elitist and drunk on power.
/r/askMRP16/11/21 02:44 PM
1

That's a good point. Because Horns is taller than you, it is easier for him to have self respect and frame. Don't let these guys bring you down, they are definitely part of clique of tall guys who conspire against us short guys. Because they are tall, now they get to live with what's called abundance mentality. They see the world as a world of opportunity. They see each obstacle as just a temporary impediment that they will be able to overcome through some combination of effort and intelligence.…
/r/askMRP16/11/21 02:22 PM
17

How about "When I say no, I get an erection" phase?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/21 05:16 PM
22

The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is today. If you change your mental models today, you can change your life forever. Congrats on not being in the "this shit really works" camp. Don't go there. Keep the pedal down, keep moving forward. The journey is long and the only one you need to impress is yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/21 05:00 PM
4

Don't hate https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vk9lWnoAbzg You wish you could have tits like that
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/21 04:38 PM
1

I guess part of that is knowing the person/child. If they are a puss (most) then their tolerance will be low, and they are likely farther away from serious injury. If they are a beast, tend to really get in the zone, then you have to watch and check in with them more carefully. In general, you want to avoid all injury for kids. My goal is to help them understand that discomfort is not pain, and pain is not injury. There are certain situations in wrestling where you have to overcome pain in order…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/21 05:48 PM
6

Would you not cheat on you? Of course she's cheating, idiot.
/r/askMRP07/11/21 09:12 PM
3

Imagine if after all that he choked on a popcorn kernel and died. Living life, 100 calorie snack pack at a time.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/21 09:10 PM
3

Don't let that hold you back...teapot
/r/askMRP02/11/21 01:17 PM
7

This is a lesson that I believe is being lost at an alarming rate. Discomfort is the new injury, skip right over pain. I teach the kids there is discomfort, pain, injury and death. The first three are temporary with varying degrees of time until recovery. None of them are fun, but you need to make a value judgement against the goals you want to achieve, recognize that it exists, then execute your mission. This extends beyond the physical.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/21 12:54 PM
5

Thanks, I hate it
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/21 07:36 PM
3

RemindMe! 5 years
/r/askMRP25/10/21 05:03 PM
2

Dude, that is the way things are going everywhere. Somehow that is the attitude towards life that is being learned. I don't why or how it is happening, but it isn't just at MRP. Finding starting employees that have internal locus of control has proven very difficult of late. I'm shorting this shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/21 02:04 PM
10

The proper response: Throw it on the ground, that way she knows you're a man. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gAYL5H46QnQ
/r/askMRP25/10/21 01:55 PM
0

The proper response: Throw it on the ground, that way she knows you're a man. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gAYL5H46QnQ
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/21 01:38 PM
3

Again, completely above ground and I have no issue with wife seeing it. Wife goes off, tells me I'm attention seeking loser etc, shows me she received a dick pic from some guy. From you Dad, I learned it from watching you.... Figure out why you do shit like that which is obviously intended as some sort of teapot level dread, and you will know why she did the same thing back. Honestly everything in your story was so predictable. After each paragraph, I could think to myself, what would a rambo te…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/21 08:20 PM
5

Schrödinger's affair
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/21 08:07 PM
2

Good comment
/r/askMRP05/10/21 04:24 PM
1

It is an anal suppository.
/r/RedPillParenting04/10/21 01:33 PM
12

Doesn't matter; had sex
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/21 09:01 PM
28

People go to couples therapy because they expect this therapist is going to tell their partner why they are wrong and why you are right, and then magically everything is better. You want to fix her? Fix you.
/r/askMRP30/09/21 08:31 PM
5

There is a genetic component though. For example, you and I have these things called Y chromosomes. OP is Y chromosome deficient, but has extra X chromosome. Don't genetics shame
/r/askMRP30/09/21 08:06 PM
2

The saying is to be part of the solution or part of the problem... I say, why not both?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/21 07:58 PM
7

At least this way it is entertaining.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/21 07:02 PM
10

Don't feel like logging into my MRP-exclusive account, so fuck it. We've got a wild-man here!
/r/askMRP30/09/21 06:16 PM
21

But, what if your wife is asexual? Just kidding.... Nice work, organization of this is top notch. I often wonder with content like this, how much do we need to thread the needle between pointing guys toward the path and giving "cheat codes" to help build confidence. Fake it till you make it is often good, but, we want to avoid the "this shit really works" trap. As you know, that can lead a guy into a dead-end. I don't have the answer, but I think about it a lot when I consider making posts, part…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/21 05:54 PM
2

The fuck? That was your first fucking point. Go away dipshit
/r/askMRP30/09/21 05:32 PM
1

Good luck teapot...you're going to need it
/r/askMRP30/09/21 05:31 PM
1

Trans, now a dude.
/r/askMRP30/09/21 03:26 PM
2

One possibility is that you are so naturally gifted at this stuff that you are playing 4D chess to our checkers. Another possibility is that you are just another teapot in a long long line of teapots who think they found a shortcut to the road to success that has been laid out by prior MRP men who are now living a life you could only dream of. Ladies and gentlemen, take your bets.
/r/askMRP30/09/21 03:20 PM
2

"Hall pass" is one of the most teapot phrases ever uttered by a man. What are you, 7 years old? Your wife doesn't have a problem fucking, she has a problem fucking you.
/r/askMRP30/09/21 03:13 PM
2

If 24/7 D/s is your interest I really like Leading and Supporting Love by Lyons. It is not a kink book, it is about the relationship structure.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/21 02:52 PM
4

Remember when we were joking that your last reddit post is on your tombstone. This would be a good one.
/r/askMRP29/09/21 01:47 AM
2

It's like a hall monitor, making sure everything you do is safe. That or they open locked safes when you forget the combo.
/r/askMRP29/09/21 01:41 AM
5

He'll pay an extra $2k if you fuck his wife
/r/askMRP29/09/21 01:40 AM
15

This will end well
/r/askMRP28/09/21 03:25 PM
7

Well, now that you are Redpill Aware™ it should be smooth sailing
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/21 03:20 PM
3

Good plan, to start with, STFU with your bullshit post, and don't come back to MRP until you can get those undescended testicles dealt with.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/21 03:16 PM
2

With all the effort you put into this OYS#1, I can't imagine why you are having woman trouble.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/21 03:14 PM
6

You are full of shit on many levels, that is not unexpected, but understand that we all see it. 19.9% bodyfat...What is this, a sale at walmart? Why not tell us 19.97%? You are (according to you) 20% bodyfat, you are fat, not skinny fat, whatever the hell that ego protecting meme is supposed to mean. You are fat. Stop worrying about your wife's hairy snatch. You don't deserve shaved pussies, that's why you don't get them. You spend most of your waking hours worried about what your wife is doing,…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/21 03:13 PM
5

No need, in general it's better to tag horns, he is more entertaining. Just wanted to point out for you and anyone playing at home that you need to be careful what you wish for. If you really just wanted to do anal but thought you need to go full 24/7 D/s to get it, that is a covert contract with bad results expected.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/21 03:02 PM
4

But... his bum bum hurts
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/21 02:17 PM
5

24/7 is nearly a different animal than "BDSM" type behaviors that are limited to the bedroom. Often intertwined, but fundamentally different. D/s "in the bedroom" is about animalistic dominance and eroticized submission. 24/7 is a relationship structure. Often 24/7 D/s relationship has highly kinky sex associated with it, as a natural consequence of a man being free to enjoy what pleases him and a woman who is free to enjoy what pleases her (which includes him doing what he wants). But, just to …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/21 02:09 PM
1

I think it was Sun Tzu
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/21 07:24 PM
3

You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it stop being a teapot. That motivation can only come from within.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/21 04:30 PM
2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SyNt5zm3U\_M
/r/askMRP22/09/21 03:34 PM
23

Maybe you missed the part about her being a really trim menopausal woman traveling with a used to be fit but now not so much elderly woman. Who wouldn't be insecure when that duo gets boots on the ground? A day or two is one thing, but good luck keeping those stallions in the barn for a week.
/r/askMRP21/09/21 07:41 PM
9

Then everybody clapped
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 02:39 PM
2

Defeat from the jaws of victory. Nice work teapot
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 02:38 PM
10

"Correction, sex with YOU for a week"
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 02:00 PM
39

You've been here like 10 minutes, and now both of your posts are about your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/21 03:40 PM
2

Instructions unclear, smashed a cake on the counter top.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/21 06:50 PM
2

Stop eating too much, very easy
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/21 05:35 PM
2

Agreed.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/21 05:34 PM
2

Settle, got it :)
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/21 05:34 PM
2

Beyond empirical observation, I don't believe that "Briffaults law" need be true, only that it is often/usually the case. I can't think if a good way in which a RP man cannot also dictate the terms of the relationship. The "what have you done for me lately", or better, "what do I expect that you will do for me in the future" concept is real, but can and does also cut both ways. I agree with the post, this is more of a side discussion.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 07:57 PM
3

It is as it always has been and always will be.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 07:04 PM
4

You went backwards, from your already lack-luster goal. Have you considered not eating so much?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 06:57 PM
1

You may be right, but I'm not even sure to be honest. That would at least take a bit of frame to say that.
/r/askMRP15/09/21 06:50 PM
8

This isn't the kind of thing that internet strangers are going to answer for you. How much does it matter to you is the question.
/r/askMRP14/09/21 05:15 PM
6

You tell your wife every time you jerk off? Do you keep a jerk diary too? I didn't read all of your drama diarrhea, but my sense is that one of the issues causing your financial troubles may be related to tampon consumption. Those things aren't cheap for a regular pussy. I can't imagine what it would cost to cover you for a month.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 04:55 PM
6

Lifts doughnuts to his excuse hole. Does that count?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 04:49 PM
8

You've been posting to OYS for 3 months, one of your goals is to not be as fat (your goal of 94.9 kg is oddly specific and still fat, by the way), and inexplicably you don't actually know your weight OR (probably this one) you don't want to post it because you are still a fat sack of crap and still can't figure out the relationship between all the shit you shove down your complain hole and your weight. If I were in charge I would ban you for a while.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 04:47 PM
3

"out" Ooooh, so mysterious. Where could he be? Nobody knows. Maybe he is a secret agent? Maybe on some sort of top secret spy mission? Maybe he is a masked hero fighting crime at night? Or, and I'm just spit balling here...maybe he is a frameless teapot who uses the power of pouting, butthurt and whining to get what he wants. Tune in next time to find out!
/r/askMRP14/09/21 04:39 PM
-1

It was a prank bro
/r/askMRP13/09/21 03:09 PM
1

But, what if their distinction as to wanting or not wanting the men depends on whether the men are trying to chase in the first place? We might need a flow chart.
/r/askMRP13/09/21 02:38 PM
2

"but...but...I did the things. I did everything the internet men told me to do, and you still won't have sex with me?" Wish I was capable of finding an attractive way to spell that out. Assuming your wife is not a lesbian, this all makes perfect sense. She isn't interested in fucking a pussy. You are in her frame still, that is the problem. No amount of fake it till you make it will fix that. You want to fuck? Go fuck. Who do you want to have sex with? Your wife, great, go have sex with her. She…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/21 04:58 PM
5

Going to need a diagram
/r/askMRP10/09/21 04:46 PM
7

Are you having a stroke?
/r/askMRP10/09/21 04:01 PM
6

Step 3: Profit
/r/askMRP10/09/21 04:01 PM
2

Teapot
/r/askMRP07/09/21 03:05 PM
14

Women fill the container provided. Granted, don't try filling your container with sewage, some fresh water is a preferred start, but you have to realize that "vetting" for positive traits is probably a bit of a fools errand, especially early on in dating. Older women, yeah, probably more "set in their ways", but even then, plenty of middle age women do a 180 for a man of value. For younger women, they will fill the container provided for a man of value with frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/21 07:01 PM
11

Go fuck yourself (because nobody else will)
/r/askMRP27/08/21 02:56 AM
2

It isn't free. When you successfully unfuck your mental models, and eventually progress towards living your best authentic life, then you come back and help the next batch of teapots :)
/r/askMRP27/08/21 02:52 AM
1

His wife for sure is getting raw from Chad in accounting, we're going to at least need a clean STD screen.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/21 05:59 PM
2

It is sounding like you are in need of the platinum MRP service. For a fixed fee one of the MRP guys can come to your house for a week and demonstrate what it looks like when a man lives in your house. Prerequisite requirements are a notebook for taking notes, tissues to sop up your tears, and two value packs of condoms. Contact us for more details.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/21 05:49 PM
4

Nice man. You are transitioning away from the teapot "manipulation" model, where guys give an "input" to their wife with the goal of getting what they want as an "output". These are the "This shit really works" guys. Where they do a "one weird trick", get a different result from their wife, then get super excited and look for more tricks. In that example, who is really in charge? Who's frame is that? If a man's state of being is dependent on the output from his wife, this is the tail wagging the…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/21 05:41 PM
10

No and yes
/r/askMRP24/08/21 05:46 PM
8

But, he won't cum from reading sidebar.
/r/askMRP24/08/21 02:43 PM
8

So, what was the final answer on the easiest place to cum after jerking off to porn? I was thinking toilet, but you have a good point in that you have to aim. You need to think outside the box a little. Maybe you can try shooting it on your wife's dirty laundry, that way she'll think it was leftovers from when she gave Chad in accounting a BJ and you won't have to worry about the cleanup.
/r/askMRP24/08/21 02:26 PM
10

Doesn't matter; got flowers
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/21 02:00 PM
7

Check out OP's post history...you won't be disappointed...or surprised. u/throwawaypizza1
/r/askMRP24/08/21 01:37 PM
9

Just thinking out loud...what if instead of all that he just put a baby in her? That would work too, right?
/r/askMRP24/08/21 01:29 PM
14

Usually the answer would be, no, stop being a pussy and do something different so you can become different from the sad sack of tears you currently are. But, in this case, I can see that you are special, so yeah, go ahead, skip that stuff, you go gurl!
/r/askMRP20/08/21 05:44 PM
6

Oh shit, I forgot about the gloved hand-job guy
/r/askMRP20/08/21 03:48 PM
7

How long until OP's "This shit really works" post after he tricks his wife into a hand-job and declares mission accomplished? I'm saying 2 weeks tops.
/r/askMRP20/08/21 03:24 PM
7

Haha, so funny, we're all having fun!
/r/askMRP10/08/21 05:22 PM
8

Roots through the garbage at the morgue
/r/askMRP10/08/21 05:21 PM
6

How much is your onlyfans? Maybe that's more his speed.
/r/askMRP10/08/21 05:04 PM
6

Write my own self defeating post about why I need to settle for a leather skinned post wall woman who's husband had the good fortune of escaping from her early? Nah, I'm good.
/r/askMRP10/08/21 04:08 PM
6

That's a lot of words to say that either you spend a lot of time jerking off in the mirror or you are currently courting a 4/10 50+ widow with STDs.
/r/askMRP10/08/21 02:08 PM
3

This
/r/askMRP10/08/21 02:05 PM
9

Maybe OP can prescribe something for that burn :)
/r/askMRP10/08/21 02:05 PM
8

So does OP
/r/askMRP10/08/21 02:00 PM
12

Shit
/r/askMRP09/08/21 06:55 PM
12

Can he use a copper butt plug to supplement?
/r/askMRP09/08/21 06:36 PM
9

If it is true science you need a control group. Low quality study.
/r/askMRP09/08/21 04:31 PM
3

RP sons come from RP men. Set a good example, be a good father.
/r/RedPillParenting09/08/21 04:29 PM
3

Propel is decent, but OP needs Gatorade at a minimum...he is very thirsty :)
/r/askMRP28/07/21 08:54 PM
2

You might want to look into drinks with some electrolytes.
/r/askMRP28/07/21 06:29 PM
5

But, should he play the dread game?
/r/askMRP28/07/21 06:08 PM
24

Do nothing and complain about it to internet strangers
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/21 08:01 PM
15

That isn't the problem, he already told us he's just a little over weight. So, things with him totally fine and unrelated for sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/21 08:00 PM
3

By doesn't get talked about, do you mean is talked about constantly and basically considered step one? Then yes, I agree.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/21 03:13 PM
5

Only the ones that didn't get lost on their way to the meeting
/r/askMRP26/07/21 03:05 PM
25

TG;DR But, based on the first line: Married with no kids is dating with slightly more paperwork.
/r/askMRP26/07/21 02:55 PM
8

She's a lesbian?
/r/askMRP23/07/21 06:27 PM
2

The circle of life
/r/askMRP23/07/21 06:11 PM
26

Ok, here is the real deal. Given opportunity, would your wife cheat now? That is the only question that matters. A murderer who never had the opportunity to murder is still a murderer. The question you are actually asking is: Was I low value enough that my wife wanted to cheat AND did she have opportunity? Well, let me tell you the answer: yes on the first part, the second part doesn't matter. Thinking about this in any other way is purely ego protecting. Said another way, IF you are low enough …
/r/askMRP23/07/21 06:05 PM
5

Testicles are a social construct.
/r/askMRP22/07/21 08:06 PM
2

Instructions unclear, had gender reassignment surgery...
/r/askMRP22/07/21 05:54 PM
11

Fake it till you make it. By fake it, I mean pretend that you are a man with testicles.
/r/askMRP22/07/21 04:40 PM
2

Thanks bro! I'm hoping I can get things back on track. She hasn't let me finish while having sex ever, and we only have had sex like 4 times since we got married, all to try to get her pregnant. I get that she won't let me finish, she said semen is gross. But not having sex at all, I think she should realize that I'm a man now and men need sex, but I love her so much. She is my first and we have a special bond. Part of the issue is that she has PTSD from college. Her roommate had tricked her int…
/r/RedPillParenting14/07/21 07:26 PM
2

Cool, thanks! Do you think this will work even if your wife doesn't like guys with muscles? Mine doesn't like big guys.
/r/RedPillParenting14/07/21 06:48 PM
1

Does it work on mobile? I have a nokia
/r/RedPillParenting14/07/21 06:08 PM
1

Is it like an actual bar you go to? Edit: Ok, I saw the other message, you said it is a sub sidebar. Where is the main sidebar?
/r/RedPillParenting14/07/21 06:05 PM
1

Cool, I'll look for that. Do you think this shit really works?
/r/RedPillParenting14/07/21 05:50 PM
4

We're all excited to see where you go from here! Keep that pedal down.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/21 05:31 PM
2

Cool...Is there any book you can refer us too? Maybe one about how to no longer be a nice guy? Also, you forgot to tell us to smash that like button.
/r/RedPillParenting14/07/21 05:16 PM
1

But what if taking what you want makes you feel guilty?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/21 05:06 PM
11

It’s what I need to be happy. It's what I'm attracted to. I won’t be happy without it. If it’s not with you, I need to move on to be congruent with who I am. We will talk about it if that time comes. I know that you have to take charge in your work, and it might be difficult for you to turn that off, but I am not attracted to that behavior. Boom To a BP man a simple straightforward statement like this is downright terrifying. To a man of value and purpose, this is freeing. Just realize, you have…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/21 01:42 PM
3

I can't wait for season 2
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/21 04:20 PM
14

Congrats! It's going to be smooth sailing from now on. Enjoy your life of good sex and happiness now that she realizes you are a man of value. Just as a warning, if she starts to revert back to the old ways remind her how much you earn by buying her expensive handbags and jewelry.
/r/askMRP09/07/21 06:53 PM
2

When dealing with Americans, you have to realize that we're working off an 8th grade vocabulary at best.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/21 05:24 PM
24

This post seems like it was written by an AI bot trained on a database of Adam Sandler movies, Verizon customer service chats, and conversations logged from an Echo Dot in a preschool classroom.
/r/askMRP09/07/21 03:49 PM
1

Words only have the meanings we attribute to them. You know the "theory", you've been at this longer than me. I agree with a lot of what you said, but disagree on some too. I'm using authentic as meaning that it is representing your true feelings and intentions on a matter with the understanding that you have fully considered all possible outcomes and are at peace with them, hence me attributing that to outcome independence. To me OI doesn't mean you can't be rooting for one particular eventuali…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/21 02:12 PM
1

100% within your frame. Expressing your exact desires and intentions only as a point of information to communicate to another instead of an attempt to manipulate or elicit a particular response from that person. A guy can get himself into a lot of trouble if he is inauthentic, which is by definition not within his own frame, essentially "playing games". For example, I might say that frequent sex is a requirement for marriage to me. I'm not manipulating, I'm communicating a fact with outcome inde…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/21 01:59 PM
3

Lol, what is the rule for when you write more about some shirtless dude than yourself?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/21 05:09 PM
3

Good points
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/21 05:02 PM
2

I finished after < 3 min. Now am stressed as fuck about it. I booked 3h of therapy this week so will focus on that. I threw up in my mouth a little
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/21 04:55 PM
5

I heard trans fats are bad for you...
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/21 04:53 PM
1

Was it something like: "Babe, I love you and care about you. Something has happened to me in the last few years and I just need to go off and do this thing. I'll take care of you and the kid. I'll come around too. But, I'm going off on my own - maybe I've gone a little nuts (feed the hamster?), but this isn't about you. I loved being married to you. But I have a path that I must take, and that path doesn't involve being married to anyone." We'll see what he says, but if authentic to someone this…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/21 04:23 PM
1

Instructions unclear, downvoted post
/r/RedPillParenting29/06/21 04:48 PM
3

Should we also smash that like button?
/r/RedPillParenting29/06/21 02:40 PM
2

I knew I shouldn't click, but I did, and now I have regrets.
/r/askMRP25/06/21 02:24 PM
2

Your brain seems to be as broken as your shift key.
/r/askMRP25/06/21 02:23 PM
19

Why would they have answers? They're women. I like the cut of your jib
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/21 03:59 PM
8

Over load-bearing?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/21 03:57 PM
5

This will get taken down soon enough, but try posting this to red pill women
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/21 03:43 PM
2

Lol, I wish so much this post was a joke...but no, not me.
/r/askMRP18/06/21 02:29 PM
2

It's time to come out of the shadows. People are hurting, they need a safe space to talk about it.
/r/askMRP18/06/21 02:26 PM
3

He would probably feel guilty
/r/askMRP18/06/21 02:23 PM
2

What about the Crazy/Hot matrix?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 05:49 PM
2

mmm, so hot
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/21 04:09 PM
5

The frame of a wet paper bag would be an insult to paper.
/r/askMRP09/06/21 03:50 PM
4

I'll follow you if you follow me. subscribe at GoFuckYourselfYouHucksterPussy
/r/RedPillParenting09/06/21 03:44 PM
2

I so much hoped you were linking to this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=StFEz3Nl1JE
/r/askMRP02/06/21 08:05 PM
7

Haha, so funny, this is all so funny, we're all having fun. Yay.
/r/askMRP28/05/21 04:34 PM
0

This is a good question...which belongs at askMRP. That's where "men" with undescended testes belong.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/21 03:34 PM
6

You worry about what you control and judge yourself by your actions not the outcome. This is life on easy mode. You define the conditions by which others are able to enjoy your company/influence. You enthusiastically encourage others to have agency. Manipulation is effectively a person offering biased information designed so as to influence the behavior and decisions of others. The locus of control comes into play when you consider the nature and validity of the information you provide. Stress c…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/21 03:16 PM
5

I couldn't even figure out what it was that he "did" wrong, besides wear contacts and shower. But, I also didn't read too far, because retard.
/r/askMRP17/05/21 06:06 PM
12

Up, Up, Down, Down, Left, Right, Left, Right, B, A
/r/askMRP07/05/21 02:45 PM
15

He's not making a joke.
/r/askMRP07/05/21 02:44 PM
2

Did everyone clap afterward?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/21 02:52 PM
7

I'm surprised it took so long for you to start arguing with vets on here. You ain't shit. I bet the sex you referred to was actually a handjob. Go ahead, tell me I'm wrong. I'll bet even that you had to beg for. STFU and learn, you'll do a lot better, instead of moping about denied pull requests.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/21 09:05 PM
15

Look dude, we've all viewed our relationships through the same vista, but at a certain point you have to reboot and look at the code behind the matrix. It's all built on the same shit, the same operating system since you let her change you, all the way back in 95. Before that you were different, you were networking, managing workgroups, even enjoying your time in solitaire, but then the siren call let you get swept up in this new exciting relationship, and you changed the core of what you are. W…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/21 08:59 PM
6

She left him.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/21 08:45 PM
3

Yep, just like with an asshole 18 year old.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/21 08:41 PM
8

I'm a woman's dream How so? Nothing here besides money leads me to believe you are anything more than a nightmare. The minute your wife had to actually spend more than an hour here and there with you she pulled the eject handle. The good news, you can change still. The bad news, you have decades of bad programming which is going to hold you back. This isn't a small change, you need to go back to BASIC and rebuild from there. For now don't worry about the ED issues, being nano soft or whatever. J…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/21 08:39 PM
2

At a certain point the responsibilities flip. You are now the protector and decider, as long as they are willing to accept it.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/21 02:59 PM
6

Muscle worries about losing red...
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/21 04:40 PM
9

At night Alpha wears red-sfpplus pajamas
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/21 04:38 PM
5

More like "I've never failed at lifting 375"
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/21 04:37 PM
2

Step 1: Convince husband that for him to be happy you must be happy, and for you to be happy he needs to earn more money. Step 2: Husband runs himself ragged trying to earn more money. Step 3: Spend the more money, still not happy, go back to step 1.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/21 04:25 PM
2

Weird, it's almost like you've spent years studying the particulars of modern intersexual dynamics.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/21 09:40 PM
2

It's equal, because, well, he makes a lot more of it, so...she should get to keep most of hers. Also, she needs fun money to keep herself entertained since he is practically never home, off having fun probably, whatever it is he does all day while she is stuck at home watching TV and finding new ways to spend more money than they can afford.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/21 09:25 PM
2

Lucrative for who? ALL of her money is your money. You can't say you are in charge of finances if she keeps most of her miniscule income as fun money. You are more like her servant...
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/21 05:07 PM
2

Meanwhile you make much more and provide for pretty much all household expenses... What a good little plow horse you are! Pussy
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/21 04:08 PM
2

What does it mean that your wife "sent" you $200/week? Where is the rest of it?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/21 02:37 PM
3

Some dude is going to get that tattoo...
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/21 04:19 PM
1

He'll pick both
/r/askMRP15/04/21 03:37 PM
3

Something you keep in your heart will never die
/r/askMRP15/04/21 01:08 PM
5

I make my own anti-hypergamy cream...You know, it's all about self reliance.
/r/askMRP14/04/21 03:16 PM
5

But, he recently came out of a LTR due to hypergamy. Give the guy a break. That shit is serious. A hypergamy flare up can put anyone on their ass for a while.
/r/askMRP14/04/21 01:29 PM
5

So much this. In actuality pretty much every sensation or feeling has now become weaponized in our culture. If you make me feel bad you have harmed me. If I feel discomfort that means something is wrong. I believe that through habitual abuse of their feedback mechanisms people no longer really even experience or understand hunger. It is more like full and not full. A reset of that system including intermediate fasting is a really good idea, and is ancestrally consistent with humans. For sure sug…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/21 05:39 PM
9

Yeah, I'm the same, I don't get drunk. Control is very much my thing, it applies to myself and anyone who wants to be in my circle. I'm not hassling people at a bar, I'd just leave. At my house though, my rules or GTFO. I once kicked my MIL out of the house. 10/10 would recommend.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/21 04:24 PM
4

Not in my house, no
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/21 01:23 PM
-1

but everyone is different. Yes, that is apparent
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/21 07:14 PM
5

I expect adults to be adults AND I tell them to act as such if they want to remain in my presence.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/21 06:55 PM
13

Do you regularly have people incapacitated in your house?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/21 06:50 PM
48

But...he is pretty creative...
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/21 05:03 PM
4

Sounds to me like you're preparing your list of excuses of why MRP doesn't work.
/r/askMRP14/03/21 12:16 PM
4

It is best to not put more effort into a response than the original post.
/r/askMRP07/03/21 10:51 PM
8

Why would one even imagine apologizing for asking for a BJ? Was this a micro-aggression or something? What planet are you from?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/21 01:58 PM
5

The correct way to evaluate is the CMPY metric. (Cock Miles Per Year) You calculate it like this: CMPY = N*L*P*F/T N = Number of unique cocks L = Average length of each cock (for estimation purposes, for high fidelity each needs to be calculated individually and aggregated) P = How many pumps per fuck session F = How many times she had sex total in her life (You have to get this data likely through asking her and keeping detailed spreadsheets, snooping through her phone can help too) T = Number …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/21 05:00 PM
2

Made me lol
/r/askMRP10/02/21 02:04 PM
7

The "one weird trick" is the following: What would a man who only cares about internal validation do? Meaning: How do YOU feel about doing something she might ask of you? The issue is when a man's internal validation compass is fucked up. Be a man who has his shit together and most of your questions answer themselves.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/21 10:04 PM
4

Nice idea, the trick is making sure everyone is "red pill aware" so they can find it.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/21 03:32 PM
13

Lol, 3 MRP guys respond, all say the same thing, life is good
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/21 03:16 PM
38

“I would love to help, but I am busy with that instead.” No, don't say something you don't mean. If you are sugar coating your feelings or desires you are not operating 100% in your own frame. "No." works just fine. Why? "I don't want to". ​ Also, congrats at being "red pill aware" for 3 years! We're so proud.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/21 02:40 PM
7

Said in Arnold voice.
/r/askMRP04/02/21 06:57 PM
2

Well, if the snap score is 0 then that probably means something. What the fuck that means I have no idea, because men don't concern themselves with whatever in holy hell a snap streak is. Grow up.
/r/askMRP03/02/21 01:51 PM
3

Nice
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/21 07:29 PM
3

Somehow the soccer moms always want to discuss how much of a good influence I am on their kids after practice...with their fat husbands right there...LOL.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/21 07:16 PM
58

She she her she her she she she
/r/askMRP01/02/21 08:52 PM
1

Because fear
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 07:21 PM
7

Long story short, Horns is writing the screenplay for Inception 2: Desire Within a Dream. Cumming to a streaming platform near you, April 2022
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 07:15 PM
9

I'm going to judge, not on moral grounds, but on retard grounds. A little flirting at the office is one thing, as long as plausible deniability. You are risking a lot for very little gain. Go flirt outside your office, or, god forbid, game your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 07:07 PM
5

Training yourself to last a long time because you want it to last a long time is a good goal. Trying to last a long time because that is what she wants is beta behavior. Understand the difference. I know you are just having sex now, so everything is new again. Sometimes I will have sex for hours, but not jackhammer mode for hours, lots of fun, fucking, sensual sex, jokes, breaks, just having a good time with my wife doing things I like doing with sexy women. At no point am I thinking about my "p…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 06:28 PM
2

Outwit, outplay, outlast...the way of the truly Alpha man
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/21 02:48 AM
8

I agree. Take the W, he needn't get too in the weeds at this point, steady progress is progress. With that being said, the pressure flip move is to tell her to "be tighter" then NOT cum at all...
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/21 04:25 PM
6

Next post: "I tried to cheat but women don't want to talk to me...what's wrong with them?"
/r/askMRP18/01/21 05:27 PM
21

Dear diary, I'm so special and unique, but nobody sees that, they just see a lazy, unattractive, boring fucktard. If only there was some sort of a place with advice for me, since obviously the sidebar material at MRP is for not special and unique man-children. What is a boy to do? I guess I'll just go eat some chips and play computer games...
/r/askMRP18/01/21 05:06 PM
9

Do you yell at the clouds for raining? It’s their nature to do so. Hey, you took my line! .... good choice Completely agree. And all the other MRP clichés, be the oak, big ship towing the rope, etc. As the guys at the gym would say...he needs to relax bro.
/r/askMRP14/01/21 04:34 PM
20

I suspect OP is an idiot, probably arguing over nonsense. But in general, this is the right answer. It's funny when a harpy woman removes her presence for a guy and he doesn't realize the gift. The pro move is to pretend you didn't notice if she brings it up.
/r/askMRP31/12/20 01:42 PM
11

Plot twist, the snitch couldn't take a photo because he was busy with this dude's girlfriend on his lap.
/r/askMRP28/12/20 03:25 PM
6

Red, the eternal optimist
/r/askMRP22/12/20 03:21 PM
7

It's simply what it looks like from an outside observer. But more importantly, dominance is an attitude, not an action. This is really important. Unfortunately many of the examples young men see are not in fact demonstrations of "alpha". The loudest man in the room is usually not the alpha. Having a hair trigger temper, being super sensitive, always worrying about what others are saying or thinking about them, these are paper-alpha traits. I often say "what would a silverback do?" When I say tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/20 03:42 PM
7

I think it is important to differentiate rational and irrational confidence. It is always a good thing to punch above your weight a bit, but there is a limit. Don't be a 5 year old declaring "I'm the man of the house now" when your Dad goes out of town. There is no substitute for putting in the work. In the PUA world it is a whole different game. Smoke and mirrors. As you pointed out by separating a woman from a wife, a relationship with your wife cannot be faked. Women have perfected the abilit…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/20 03:14 PM
2

Amen
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/20 03:05 PM
5

SGM is about dominant sex. Being dominant in life is more than a set of tricks. It starts within, as you put it so well here. As a parallel I like to consider the concept of rational confidence vs irrational confidence.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/20 02:17 AM
9

Again, doing the lord's work...
/r/askMRP10/12/20 02:06 PM
13

She she she she....
/r/askMRP08/12/20 02:57 PM
1

Lol, doing god's work.
/r/askMRP07/12/20 12:10 PM
3

You have my blessing.
/r/askMRP01/12/20 05:07 PM
7

Congratulations Dave! This is now my favorite example of a BP man's life. IMHO this is sidebar material. Nearly every sentence is perfect. Well done. You're a natural. Like a BP savant. Copied below for historical record, with my emphasis on some of the more exceptional parts. Each bold part could be the impetus for a MRP post. Bravo. **************************** Posted by u/DavefromCA How would you handle this? Wife goes nuclear over garlic salt My wife can have quite the reaction to trivial th…
/r/askMRP26/11/20 01:16 PM
13

Comes through with the background check, doing the lord's work.
/r/askMRP26/11/20 01:10 PM
1

Wait, are you saying I have a small pecker?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/20 12:38 AM
3

Ok, so....14cm minimum?
/r/askMRP17/11/20 08:18 PM
5

This is the way
/r/askMRP17/11/20 03:59 PM
13

13cm...is that enough to please a woman?
/r/askMRP17/11/20 03:58 PM
2

Nice work! It all starts in the head.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/20 07:33 PM
7

Early on I remember something from him about immersion in sex, where he was going on about putting glow sticks all around the bedroom, rose pedals and shit like that. All I could think is how thirsty that seemed. If I have to go through gymnastics to convince my wife to have sex then there is a larger problem than not enough scented candles.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/20 07:31 PM
3

Lol, can't even let us fuck with him for a little?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/20 07:41 PM
13

15cm is the minimum for sexual satisfaction, MAYBE 14cm, but that is case-by-case
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/20 07:40 PM
3

Ok. And the cuck part?
/r/askMRP10/11/20 02:30 AM
4

Why get a job before divorce? Isn't the play to lower your perception of income? But I don't know anything about it, just saying. Also, if she is out of your life stop having sex, sounds pathetic and thirsty.
/r/askMRP10/11/20 01:46 AM
3

Maybe you should look into going trans?
/r/askMRP08/11/20 06:57 PM
20

If you are ever kidnapped, post on here and don't mention anal. We'll come for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/20 02:15 PM
1

I see. Yeah, good luck with all that.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/20 03:31 AM
1

I feel like I missed something...but nice rant
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/20 02:00 AM
3

My method: Stack of beach towels live under the bed. Pull them out when things get sticky.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/20 06:16 PM
13

Good post. We talk a lot about validation. What we mean is external validation. Internal validation is a good and important thing. Did I do a thing the way I wanted to do that thing? Success or failure is only tied to your locus of control. If the execs like you plan, cool, if they don't, cool. Your ego should not be tied to their decision. If you get the green light and end up failing, the question is if you still would make the same choices at the time presented with the same information. If y…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/20 03:36 PM
3

I like being married.
/r/askMRP28/10/20 11:20 AM
49

Kids = married No kids = dating with slightly more paperwork. Pull that eject handle asap. Or put a baby in that, either way is fine for me...
/r/askMRP28/10/20 11:18 AM
1

It's got a certain ring to it.
/r/askMRP23/10/20 12:52 AM
5

Put a baby in that
/r/askMRP22/10/20 03:04 PM
1

I wish I had to wonder which one you're going for...
/r/askMRP21/10/20 04:15 PM
2

Good point, you really need to work together to keep a consistent home environment.
/r/askMRP20/10/20 06:40 PM
7

We could go halfsies on OP's wife as the bottom bottom sub. Like a joint custody kind of thing.
/r/askMRP20/10/20 05:17 PM
3

OP would prefer that a guy named Ricky at a truck stop owns his shit.
/r/askMRP20/10/20 05:16 PM
6

Calling it now: OP would prefer to beat off in the corner while Horns and I doubled up on her.
/r/askMRP20/10/20 05:15 PM
7

That is so 90's. I've got a zigbee pressure sensor on the toilet seat that sends alerts to my phone and an sql server.
/r/askMRP20/10/20 12:11 PM
2

Excellent OYS. Recognizing that you are in control of you is no small feat. One thing I found helpful for managing the concept and decision aspect of nuking a relationship is to spend time and clearly define your needs and wants. From there you have a concrete yardstick to measure against anything you do in life. Wants are things you aspire to achieve, needs are non negotiable. If you want a relationship where you have awesome sex on tap, good for you, do the work and try to make that happen wit…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/20 10:09 AM
3

Earlier in my D/s journey we enjoyed playing with handcuffs, restraints, etc. but actually don't use them much anymore. The exciting aspect of restraints is of course the idea that I can do whatever I want with her body, where she is powerless to stop you and your savage masculine energy. Our relationship is now such where I do already have 100% control and ownership of her body (and mind), so the restraints end up just getting in the way. As /u/HornsOfApathy said, "...freedom is wonderful." It …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/20 06:39 PM
12

Butt plug training? See if you can make it up to grapefruit status by 2021. Gotta have goals.
/r/askMRP16/10/20 12:25 AM
2

Can power be pleasure? This is what I am questioning. Can power be detached from validation? Interesting. Yes, the answer is yes. Maybe it is all validation, not external but internal validation. i.e. not validation from another person but gaining satisfaction by demonstrating some skill or capability to yourself. Like when you are by yourself a crush a long drive at the driving range. Feels fucking good. Not for anyone else, for you. Why do I like it when my wife swallows? Ostensibly it shouldn…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 04:38 PM
3

What would a silverback do? Does he fuck for validation or because he just feels like it. Most guys (including me) get off on the idea of anal, and sure, it is fun once in a while, but being honest it isn't about the physical sensation. As some comedian said once, "Anal is fucking shit". Why is it so hot? Mostly due to the excitement of the taboo and the high levels of validation when you have a woman that fully submits. Same for her, it for sure doesn't feel "better", but the psychological aspe…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 03:57 PM
5

Never change.
/r/askMRP13/10/20 11:58 PM
20

She should be up at 3am with you if she really loved you. This isn't looking good.
/r/askMRP09/10/20 05:36 PM
1

TBH sounds like a win for her
/r/askMRP07/10/20 05:21 PM
2

u/johneyapocalypse JCX, I'm not really interested in fighting with people online about this, you do what you want, but here is my take. I'm tagging Johney knowing that he is probably more vulnerable than others. Covid is not just the flu. Period. People can argue the numbers to try to make a case that matches some existing leanings, I know lots of MRP guys are armchair epidemiologists, but in reality we're saying something in the range of maybe 1/100 chance of death compared to 1/2000 for flu. A…
/r/askMRP07/10/20 05:20 PM
1

What the fuck are you even saying here?
/r/askMRP07/10/20 04:58 PM
1

You seem to speak as if this is something you deserve.
/r/askMRP07/10/20 04:57 PM
1

Holy shit, nice catch. I just assumed it was a copy paste deal. Wow
/r/askMRP07/10/20 04:56 PM
3

This
/r/askMRP03/10/20 09:43 PM
6

I am a man Nope
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/20 05:30 PM
8

We are post gender, get with the times.
/r/askMRP29/09/20 09:15 PM
6

TG;DR All I saw was no kids. No kids = dating with slightly more paperwork. I have no advice, just pointing this out for frame of reference.
/r/askMRP29/09/20 09:13 PM
3

and I struggle to shorten the amount of words Yes, yes you do :)
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 06:39 PM
8

I have a tendency to Rambo. You? No...
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 06:37 PM
5

You proved the exact point, never take it personally. Your frame should be formed with an internal locus of control. Do you get mad at the cloud when it rains? If she has a bad day it has nothing to do with you.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 05:42 PM
11

You've come a long way, congrats. You are about in the right place to start getting complacent. Don't do that. Do you have your goals, targets and plans for executing worked out? Keep that shit locked down tight, make your plans and continue to execute until you have reached those targets, only then can you change the goal posts. From what I can tell you are now living the "best case" for the vast majority of BP men out there, which is dangerous. You got some cheese, don't let it distract you fr…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 02:44 PM
3

What do they say ... something like "a right not asserted is lost"? I've wondered about the lull, I don't see exactly how covid would be causing it, figured there would be more British cigarettes sitting at home with time and splooge on their hands. I figured the trp quarantine has something to do with it. Probably for the better in some ways, if you have a chance of actually swallowing the pill you have to go looking for it. Things are very good, I'll PM when I have some time. I owe Horns an up…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 02:15 PM
2

Wait...is this a reddit career suicide note?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 01:03 AM
13

"Are you going to love me less if I get fat?" "yes"
/r/askMRP21/09/20 03:19 PM
4

It can also be seen as terrible grammar.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/20 03:25 PM
7

If I start seeing comments from you that don't mention butts in some way I'm going to assume you have been hacked or are kidnapped and secretly asking for help.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/20 03:24 PM
2

Bingo...
/r/askMRP17/09/20 08:55 PM
2

I could tell stories...
/r/askMRP17/09/20 01:40 PM
5

Probably their wives think of you in the bedroom, and probably their sad-sack husbands know it.
/r/askMRP17/09/20 01:25 PM
8

I don't have the energy or time to tell you everything you need to do to right this ship, but I will tell you that you are in the right place. Large ships don't turn on a dime, so understand that this is going to be a process, starting with fixing yourself. Pay attention, work hard, and don't let your ego get in the way of success. You were never alpha, you were bluepill in training. Look at a seed sprouting, could be a mighty oak, could be some scraggly bush. Don't look at a sprouting oak seed …
/r/askMRP17/09/20 01:22 PM
2

Good, I think the mental point of origin needs to be 100% on yourself in so much as you are not conditioning your happiness on the performance or quality of the people, things or situations around you, but on the choices and behaviors you make on a daily basis. Paint by numbers as in spend the time to really think about your wants and needs then come up with lists and plans of actions and decisions that will likely achieve them, then execute. As a corollary example, think of successful stock day…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/20 01:13 PM
4

If you haven't looked at some of my posts regarding needs and wants you might want to look into it. Having a very concrete list of what you need and want out of life might help you to waste less time ruminating about your life choices. More paint by numbers would be good for you. Regarding divorce stuff, the concrete truth is that MOST women are malleable, like water filling the container provided. You provided a shit container, which allowed your woman to develop into a shit wife. Fix the vesse…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/20 01:12 PM
66

She gets home crying around midnight, "He rejected me". I was beta bluepill comfort boy, Impressive, comforting your wife as she cries about another guy rejecting her advances. You win. I don't know what it is, but for sure you win something.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/20 12:57 PM
2

So, you would have that fear in any relationship, right? That is a you problem. Be the prize, and know that if she does or doesn't it will not affect you significantly. You lack frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/20 03:40 PM
2

So, if you aren't talking about it out in the open then you aren't in a D/s, you are in a vanilla relationship with a strong masculine/feminine dynamic. There is a difference. The needs/wants stuff only applies to the real deal. You have to be on one side of the fence or the other. Can't be in-between, that just makes you a BP sucker :)
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/20 02:49 PM
2

What is this fear of cuckoldry? Where does that come from?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/20 02:43 PM
5

Why are you so set on divorce? Ever see "Love it or List it" on HGTV? It seems like you are making progress getting your wife fixed up, maybe you should finish getting her up to spec before deciding on divorce.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/20 09:41 PM
6

Thanks for the bat-signal. u/2wo2wo3hree mentions D/s, but uses phrasing that confuses me, like it is something that hasn't happened yet. u/2wo2wo3hree are you in a formal D/s relationship? What Horns said is correct, but only within the bounds of a 24/7 D/s relationship. I can't tell if you have that or if you just like to get kinky in the bedroom. Although it is often conflated, 24/7 D/s is a relationship structure, not necessarily related to BDSM. It just so happens that often when people are…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/20 08:40 PM
5

But, you don't understand, he used to be Alpha.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/20 04:09 PM
1

Beware of false prophets?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/20 02:30 PM
6

I can't even...
/r/askMRP27/08/20 05:07 PM
2

Well put
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/20 06:42 PM
4

Maybe the best case is that a guy starts out doing paint by numbers and by doing that work figures out that he doesn't have to paint by numbers?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/20 01:57 PM
19

MRP isn't exclusively for men who are married, but this is deep in the asktrp lane. We're playing baseball and you are asking questions about wiffle ball.
/r/askMRP21/08/20 04:15 PM
5

Just as a follow on to what you said, I think it is useful to point out that for the PCPs who aren't on board with TRT to someone measuring in the "normal" range, it isn't that they are necessarily bad doctors. Modern medicine is defined by liability, insurance companies and "standard of care". So called defensive medicine is all about not doing something that gets you sued or you lose your license. Every patient encounter is another opportunity for you to get your life fucked over and lose ever…
/r/askMRP21/08/20 01:48 PM
12

She wants the D :)
/r/askMRP21/08/20 01:39 PM
1

Cool, yeah it makes sense. It's funny how distasteful the idea of "modern-traditional" relationships are now. Couldn't go back if I tried. When we see other couples and how they interact it is stressful to even witness. We did actually have a little blip recently that required meta discussions of the contract and the relationship. I'll DM you about it when I get time to swap some notes.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/20 01:27 PM
1

You dropped the contract? I guess you had mentioned that but I forgot.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/20 01:40 AM
1

One thing you want to consider is that in my view the D/s contract is not where you call out particulars, it is where you specify how the dynamic works. i.e. coffee ready every morning by 8am is not something for a contract. She shall follow your instructions to the best of her abilities is. Get it? It is a very personal thing that requires a ton of consideration. Don't ruin it with stupid shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/20 04:28 PM
3

I indulge fantasy less and less, I can manifest my desire openly but also decide not to if I see she is not open. What does this mean?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/20 04:15 PM
3

You spend $6k to tell you if you're fat?
/r/askMRP18/08/20 11:58 AM
2

If you were to stop being a fat piece of lard most of the issues you are dealing with would melt away, like the butter melting on your pancakes this morning.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/20 06:15 PM
7

It's hard enough getting a guy who WANTS to be redpilled to follow through...
/r/askMRP12/08/20 02:19 PM
2

Lolz
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/20 02:16 PM
3

Yeah, I'm not saying bringing a girl home would be move 1, but my first step will be in telling her that the monogamy thing isn't working out, lets talk about where we go from here.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/20 06:09 PM
5

Is you a retard?
/r/askMRP11/08/20 05:51 PM
7

Yeah, you and I go back and forth about this one. For me it conveys maximum value, in that I'm a man who holds myself to the highest standard, but also, illustrates that I don't "cheat" in the way that cheating means I am doing it secretly. I disagree that it doesn't induce dread. Would a Sliverback cheat? Hell no, he would bring that slut home and fuck her right in plain view if that's what he felt like doing. To me cheating feels like low value, in that I am afraid about her finding out, givin…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/20 05:46 PM
4

I didn't read with a fine tooth comb, but looking good. One thing regarding "non-verbal" removing attention because you don't what to sound like you are bitching. There is nothing wrong with overt communication. Where guys fuck up is when they are paper alpha, and don't have the frame to follow their statements, or, they are "asking" her to do something, which frames her as the decider as to whether she will honor your request. i.e. she has the power. Being able to communicate overtly will come …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/20 03:36 PM
4

I like the line of thinking regarding congruence. The things you or I say or do are congruent with our frame. It would look ridiculous and disingenuous for another retard to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/20 03:21 PM
13

If you're going to use my line you have to get it right: "I don't cheat, when I'm ready to start having sex with other women you'll be the first to know."
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/20 03:19 PM
13

Do you think it has something to do with you beating off to porn 3X a day?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/20 01:28 PM
10

We should write a book about that. What to call it...
/r/askMRP09/08/20 01:26 PM
2

I guess you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him kill his ego. See you in 6-10 years with your victim puke.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/20 07:39 PM
2

Height: 6'6" (198 cm) // Weight: 220 lb (100 kg) // BF: sub 10% One line into your first OYS and already with the bullshit. Don't waste your time and more importantly our time if you are going to half-ass this like everything else in your life.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/20 03:32 PM
2

Jesus...
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/20 05:58 PM
1

Yes, yes it did :)
/r/askMRP05/08/20 03:47 AM
0

I think Scott is mostly concerned with some retarded guy shooting off guns with Scott's inexperienced kids and Scott's whore wife. Also, it's spelled cum. It's not your fault, I know the sex education in those red states is lacking. I hate to break it to you, but the fact that three rich guys randomly showed up to give gifts after the birth of Mary's baby isn't a sign of the immaculate conception. She had a 4 way gang-bang while Beta Saint Joseph beat off behind the manger.
/r/askMRP04/08/20 06:03 PM
3

Just so I have it straight. You watch porn together, but she freaks out about doggy style? She needed to "guide" you in? Is she a land whale? What the hell is going on over there?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 05:47 PM
5

Lol. What you said is true though. Really just being authentic is the main part. As long as the authentic you isn't a whiny bitch. I was thinking the other day, I realized that I sing to myself a lot. Around the house, even at work. Just hear a song in my head and start singing along. I never really thought anything of it, but I could imagine that some people would say that's unattractive or strange or something. I think it is a reflection of how little fucks I give about what others think, and …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 12:24 PM
6

No, it's fine now, she was actually already thinking about planning to consider breaking it off before OP found out.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 12:21 PM
5

90% of what I suspected for so many years was true. Wait, are you saying this has been going on for years?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 11:57 AM
8

Taking notes: Little boys are attractive. Ok, got it, thanks Horns!
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 11:45 AM
9

Specifically, not putting up with people who don’t add value. Welcome to the next level. There are multiple red pills. You define your environment, it is on the rest of the world to either adapt or GTFO. Needs and wants my friend, needs and wants.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 11:41 AM
13

I couldn't follow all the Jerry Springer family situation going on there, but the gist I got was that your wife was out with your kids and: A. You had no idea where they were - FAIL B. They were in a dangerous situation - FAIL C. You are butt-hurt - FAIL D. You are afraid she will cheat - FAIL E. You don't have any frame with which to establish a boundary - FAIL This isn't a multiple choice, you failed at least 5 times. Here is the super-secret guide to establishing boundaries: Boundaries only m…
/r/askMRP04/08/20 11:31 AM
3

Give her the gift of the D
/r/askMRP03/08/20 01:24 PM
5

Stop with the labels and stop wasting everybody's time.
/r/askMRP01/08/20 12:01 AM
6

You say "my girl" like someone would describe a bum leg or something else they have no control over. "The woman I choose to spend my valuable (lol, not really) time with." u/HornsOfApathy just gave way too much of his time to try to help your sorry ass (and frankly, I wish he hadn't), wisdom more valuable to a man in your position than you can even comprehend, and here you are coming back with more excuses, rationalizing and a defeated attitude. Maybe you should check out r/CuckoldRelationship, …
/r/askMRP31/07/20 11:59 PM
2

Good question. I guess it would be personal. Generally, it would probably depend on the nature of the swing.
/r/askMRP31/07/20 03:44 PM
9

Branch swing is not equal to casual sex. Why do you care why a girl wants to have fun with you. Have fun, enjoy your youth, but don't engage in a "relationship" with a girl with ANY red flags. As others said, work on becoming a man of value, gain experiences, have fun, and don't get locked down with a woman in any of your three categories if they aren't 100% what you want as a long term partner. Be comfortable owning your point of view and outlook. When a girl wants to lock you into a relationsh…
/r/askMRP31/07/20 01:12 PM
2

I would ban you if I were someone who could ban people.
/r/askMRP30/07/20 07:30 PM
3

Gotcha, I thought you were referring to D/s as being the dirty part.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 05:57 PM
3

Sounds good. Regarding "taking it off" I mean that symbolically, she takes it off when reasonable, like in the shower. Having multiple necklaces that can be worn to represent the same thing is a good idea. I did that. I like where they are loose enough to be comfortable, but shouldn't drape below her collar bone. It can always be seen, does't slip below clothing or anything. Another aspect for us is that the D/s relationship is not necessarily tied to marriage. i.e. we could theoretically divorc…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 05:12 PM
5

Cool, I figured you've considered all the angles, thought I'd just poke a little just in case. Exhibitionism... deal. You should make a bit of a ceremony out of it IMO. I put particular emphasis on the permanent aspect of it. i.e. she is free to take it off, but I am only putting it on once.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 03:40 PM
4

You might want to consider a two-tiered approach to the collar regarding 24/7 wear. i.e. training vs permanent. I saw the first like the engagement ring (worn for a year as a trial), the second like the wedding ring (if it comes off it won't go on again). Also, are you sure that rigid collar makes sense for 24/7? Is it intended as symbolic for you or symbolic for others? A simple necklace can be symbolic for you and her and could be worn in literally any situation. Would you see her wearing this…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 03:01 PM
2

Definitely not the truest test of your frame you will ever find. Lots of guys on here have stories that will make you hide in the closet... The good news is you haven't totally fucked yourself yet. Don't marry her and don't get her pregnant. Or do, at least that saves some other poor guy from having to deal with her.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/20 02:02 PM
3

So, what are you going to do about it? You've been around here too long and made too little progress. Shit or get off the pot. Your first OYS is disgraceful (you are in good company there), then radio silent for months until #2, which was still a shit-show, now this. You are LARPing. Spitting out redpill acronyms and memes while going on about your fucked up unicorn does not a RP man make.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/20 04:03 AM
2

And you actively chose a woman says these things?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/20 05:18 PM
6

From Office Space: "That's my only real motivation is not to be hassled, that, and the fear of losing my job. But you know, Bob, that will only make someone work just hard enough not to get fired." This sounds a lot like her. Is she afraid she will be fired? I know you are afraid to fire her. You're batting 0-2 there. Fix that and I bet a lot of other stuff fixes itself.
/r/askMRP22/07/20 10:34 PM
10

No good answers here. This is supposed to be the one thing women are naturally good at. If it were me I would probably escalate my disapproval to the point where the whole relationship is on notice, which as you indicated might end up with you separated and the child with the mom most of the time. But, maybe your frame is wrong here. Perhaps the threat of HAVING to be the primary caretaker for the kid will scare her enough to follow your lead.
/r/askMRP22/07/20 04:57 PM
2

Impressive
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 11:35 PM
8

No, opposite, I'm advocating full ownership. He bought and fully accepted a relationship uncoupled from sex. He got what he paid for, no sex. If I order something and get the wrong meal, I get the issue rectified. If I eat the whole thing, then come back to the restaurant every day for 18 years and tell the chef "the usual", I have no business saying that the chef cheated when he makes the table next to me a better meal.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 03:36 PM
3

Good work on changing your mindset. Make sure it sticks. Also, stop smoking. Don't make a plan to stop, just stop. Show yourself that you are a man in control of himself. How can you control the world around you if you can't master yourself. Throw them away, don't buy more, done. We grow through adversity.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 12:15 PM
4

Was she a virgin when you married or an Alpha widow? A lot of talking about her here. 18 years with no sex is a you problem. Let's assume you bought a broken unit, to waste 18 years trying to figure out why it won't work right is all you. She didn't cheat on you. You didn't have a marriage. Married people have sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 12:05 PM
18

But ... she touched his pee pee
/r/askMRP21/07/20 11:53 AM
5

You have the frame of a wet paper bag. Lol at your responses in this thread. Looking forward to this post being from [deleted]
/r/askMRP20/07/20 11:11 AM
14

Why are you DEERing to explain why you were mowing the lawn? Because your neighbor was out in the yard and you were seeking attention. There is literally no other reason for you to go on and on explaining to internet strangers why you are mowing a fucking lawn. Worst intro to a porno ever, 1/5 stars.
/r/askMRP19/07/20 01:59 AM
1

You might want to hire a PI
/r/askMRP18/07/20 06:28 PM
11

Yes, the best way to handle unspecified problems is to run away and avoid facing them and more importantly yourself.... WTF are you even going on about here? You're not special, don't come here with no relevant or actionable information and ask others to manage your life. Looking at your post history every single one has been removed by mods. Lets see if you will keep that streak going!
/r/askMRP16/07/20 01:40 PM
1

I like it. Make a plan and make each moment count. Can you climb 10 feet? Great, do that 3000 times and eventually you've climbed mount Everest.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/20 01:36 PM
1

My point isn't about socializing, it's about recognizing that you are just barely surviving on so many fronts. Get your ass in gear is my message. Or don't. I don't really care either way.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/20 10:48 PM
12

Are you from the future?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/20 02:25 PM
2

Yeah, I agree, in spirit that is what I was saying. His first priority is getting his shit together, which is important beyond himself because his kids need a father who has his shit together. I guess some of my moralizing shows, but I do feel that by having kids you now have a higher duty to get yourself square so you can raise kids properly.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/20 02:21 PM
1

Generally additions cost more than buying a bigger house. Is this house a unicorn? If so, pretty cool that you happened upon two unicorns in your life, your wife and your house. Also, I don't know and don't really care about your job or skills. Just a note, I don't apply for jobs, they apply for me. Figure out how to be more like me.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/20 09:41 AM
10

When I read this I thought it was written by a 22 year old single kid who just found out the things hanging between his legs are balls, has found MRP, and is trying to get his shit together before going off into the world and fucking himself. Then I looked at your post history and saw that you are 37 with three kids. You should figure out why that is. No new women located Jesus, you even talk like a 22 year old computer science grad ​ No meet ups possible until payday Am I to understand that a "…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/20 09:36 AM
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I’ll give myself a pass for the first 2-3 Who put you in charge of the passes? Attitude like that got you into this mess. ​ I'll be back in the gym The gym doesn't make you not fat. Too much eating shit does that. Don't put the power in someone/something else when it is with you all along, that is a loser's attitude. Also, worrying about other people's needs is for a man who has his own shit together. Put on your mask first before helping others. Didn't they tell you that on your international f…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/20 09:18 AM
3

While I can't say I've experienced any ED issues, I can give my 2 cents. As you indicated your mental focus is so much on the ED that it manifests. Much of that is due to you being out of your own frame, worried about what she will think. Try to not take sex so seriously, just focus on having fun. Also, don't think like a man when imagining her reaction. If anything a woman will get dread if you occasionally have trouble getting hard (assuming you are a man of value to her). If things don't go t…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/20 09:09 AM
0

You need to guard the shit out of her, mate.
/r/askMRP12/07/20 09:49 PM
2

very different on the inside I try to not think about what's inside u/red-sfpplus
/r/askMRP12/07/20 05:53 AM
1

dog training book Don't be crude, women aren't animals... Parenting difficult children books work great though ;)
/r/askMRP12/07/20 05:49 AM
17

Do you still lift with buttplugs in?
/r/askMRP10/07/20 08:03 PM
7

The bubbles means it's working.
/r/askMRP10/07/20 02:19 PM
1

Lol, it's exhausting...
/r/askMRP10/07/20 02:19 AM
9

I still get sex Fix your mindset. My wife gets to have sex with me.
/r/askMRP09/07/20 06:43 PM
1

but I can certainly avoid giving my time, effort, attention, and affection to those who don't appreciate my gifts and act appropriately. Just don't be surprised when there is nobody left when it turns out your gifts aren't worth the price of admission :)
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/20 06:39 PM
1

But ... didn't you see how he got the reaction he was looking for?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/20 12:01 PM
1

You've got a long road ahead, get to it and don't let up.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/20 11:58 AM
2

Don't use phrases like "overt contract" and think you have this shit figured out. My overt contracts are things like "you fill all my needs and you are allowed in my life", yours is "I will dance like a monkey and give you massages if you give me a worthless hand-job like a 16 year old in the back of chemistry class" Notice the difference in performative order? Your sad handjobs are transactional and not predicated on your presence and attention. Christ, fuck the massages, go to an asian massage…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/20 11:53 AM
1

I see it as an inner circle / outer circle thing. I can't control the behavior of others towards me, but I can control who is allowed in the inner circle. If you are a man of value then naturally those who wish to be within that inner circle will pay the price of admission. If not, fuck'em. Also, when a relationship with someone is transactional (most are) I will play whatever part I need to play to achieve my goal. I have business associates I work with (get money from) who I "allow" to push me…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/20 11:45 AM
1

Not a red flag, just something to think about.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/20 08:12 PM
1

Is it dominance if she is asking for it?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/20 06:35 PM
1

It sounds like she is pushing for it. Maybe the tail is wagging the dog here.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/20 04:07 PM
6

Not in all cases, but generally yes, don't "argue".
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/20 03:59 PM
14

Welcome to MRP, also known as TRP after it's testicles descend.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/20 01:19 PM
6

Great post! IMO there are a number of "red pills" to be taken. Realizing that the core structure of what defines a relationship is another big pill takes some time for some, and is never achieved by others. As I've said before, crawling is a drastically different motion than walking, which is drastically different than running. Full speed walking might include a lot of STFU as a core tenet, whereas running might include lots of OVERT communication. Once you understand the rules you can break the…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/20 01:17 PM
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Well, that's just what you think.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/20 07:17 PM
5

Acceptable responses might be ridicule, toxicity, hostility, pointing to askMRP, etc. I guess I've been doing something right around here :)
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/20 07:15 PM
0

Alright Rodney
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/20 03:40 PM
1

If I were a mod I would give this guy a 30 day ban, just for excessive faggotry.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/20 02:52 PM
4

PUA is not MRP, maybe somehow parallel, but even that is a stretch. The PUA "community" (it's hard to not vomit a little by even calling it that) is generally a group of insecure children who came across the 1998 Nintendo64 Ultimate Cheat Code book and use it to be slightly better at the game of getting laid than their uninformed peers and use it to shape their misinformed worldview. MRP is about realizing that there is no cheat code to a game of getting laid, because the game you thought you we…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/20 02:51 PM
0

TRP is unbearable...
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/20 02:41 PM
1

And yet you post in the main sub instead of askMRP...
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/20 02:41 PM
5

The person you described could dry a pussy like that of 1000 deserts. Stop being that person.
/r/askMRP01/07/20 02:37 PM
1

Cool, thanks for the tip. Lol at current posts, including 3D printed chastity cage :) The future is now...
/r/askMRP30/06/20 12:33 PM
1

Yeah the one I have uses the double ended snap hooks, it's just that there is a lot of play, which I want to explore getting rid of... It is a pretty nice bar in general, wrapped in a padded fabric all around, soft liner for the cuffs. As I think of it I guess I'm thinking I want something like a stockade. I'll look into it :)
/r/askMRP30/06/20 11:40 AM
1

Did not disappoint :) Sidebar regarding leg spreaders: I have an adjustable one where the ankle cuffs have clips between the eyelets on the bar vs the cuffs. I like it, but the issue I have is that it allows her a good amount of free motion due to the clips/chain links. Of course there is a maximum and minimum range, but I find that it diminishes the dominant aspect of it. I'm thinking about getting some sort of bar with fixed cuffs, but I guess it would need to have some padding on the cuffs. H…
/r/askMRP29/06/20 06:13 PM
1

LOL, yep. By the way, congrats on the job headway! I meant to reply specifically regarding apathy towards success and failure, but don't have my thoughts all together on it. I think part of getting to a higher level of success as a man is decoupling outcome from input in how you judge yourself. As you learn to only seek validation from yourself you become more discerning as to which of your actions and efforts merit satisfaction. You can only control what you can control, so you judge yourself b…
/r/askMRP29/06/20 01:51 PM
1

That's why u/red-sfpplus is needed in the world, to bring balance to the force
/r/askMRP29/06/20 12:36 PM
1

You do you, I just can't comprehend the idea of not being able to test drive a car before committing to it.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/20 01:29 AM
4

Lol, I never slay pussy. I like to keep it alive so I can extract maximum value. Like a cow.
/r/askMRP27/06/20 01:27 AM
3

Yep, never alpha, always a beta in training.
/r/askMRP26/06/20 02:03 PM
1

I try to store up my emotions so I can let them out all at once. Usually all over my wife's back.
/r/askMRP26/06/20 02:02 PM
5

Hahaha, it's all so funny, we're all laughing, so fun, yay! Get to work faggot
/r/askMRP25/06/20 03:45 AM
4

What would a man do?
/r/askMRP25/06/20 03:42 AM
1

Did you get yourself infected yet? Those antibodies are gold once/if you recover.
/r/askMRP25/06/20 03:42 AM
1

Dude, he's the REAL Joe Dee!
/r/askMRP24/06/20 06:11 PM
1

Frame. You can only be in one person's frame at a time. "Look mommy, I'm a big boy now!" If their is one thing women are dangerously well adapted to do, it is to see through a facade. That is why a great starting point is STFU. It may not be suave, it may not be exciting, but it is at least honest and within your frame. Would you rather a real sapling or a paper-mache oak tree? A real sapling can grow to something great.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/20 08:38 PM
1

Yes, it is all about frame. Who's head are you in. When do you X to elicit the response Y from your wife you are in her head, doing the dancing monkey routine. Just do X because that is what the person you want to be does. It isn't about what you do, it is the why.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/20 08:31 PM
3

nah, I'm good
/r/askMRP23/06/20 07:22 PM
0

Askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/20 01:01 PM
1

Yes...plus lose weight. If you read my "story" post you will see a lot of frame discussion. That is stuff that changes overnight while you wait for your body to catch up.
/r/askMRP21/06/20 07:31 PM
4

Yep
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/20 02:08 AM
3

You're not wrong. But also, dropping 100lbs of fat will do wonders...
/r/askMRP19/06/20 07:02 PM
6

Social anxiety will fall with your weight. Don't worry about "running dread", literally your main concern is getting that extra person full of fat off you...
/r/askMRP19/06/20 04:38 PM
18

Marriage is for raising kids, I wanted kids.
/r/askMRP19/06/20 02:56 PM
17

Why did he have this chick's number on his desk three months after he got it? We can all pretend it was for no particular reason, and he forgot about it, etc, etc. But let's not jerk each-other off and address the reality, OP intentionally kept and left it around hoping to instill dread. Post is fine, he's doing well, but the sooner we are honest with ourselves the better.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/20 02:55 PM
1

Happy to give back!
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/20 03:47 PM
13

So....no "one weird trick"? These videos are longer than like 100 tiktoks... Who has time for that? I'll just post my stupid question to askmrp and have them sort my life out for me. Edit: I found the 1 weird trick: https://youtu.be/IoZsfzV7OT0?t=1396
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/20 07:50 AM
3

I don't like getting rained on when getting out of the car. But I do like all the other good shit water does for me. Water is wet, I like water.
/r/askMRP14/06/20 04:54 PM
2

I came to the realization (ironically during sex) that my wanting to do certain things sexually was really about validation. How's that pill taste? Good progress, keep it up!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/20 12:35 PM
34

I should put a tractor on her Yes, absolutely yes
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/20 11:46 AM
2

And how'd that work out?
/r/askMRP06/06/20 02:05 AM
2

I don't complain about women. They are a fun challenge, and they make life better. You don't hear guys complaining about how hard climbing Mount Everest is. I want to enjoy the challenge, enjoy the climb...then cum.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/20 10:02 PM
1

What's the fun in that?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/20 06:43 PM
2

The best thing we can do is lead by example and stay out of her frame. Knowing what could be in the future is helpful, but unless you can prevent this in a meaningful way while living your life the way you want it, it is not actionable so it isn't worth our energy. Fearing something gives it power over you.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/20 06:40 PM
1

Mindset is everything. Lifting is a good idea, but as you know it takes time to develop "gainz". You can change your mindset tomorrow.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/20 04:20 PM
10

Jesus, leave some words for the rest of us :)
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/20 04:18 PM
13

"Don't worry, you've still got the power to get me hard. When you lose that power then you should worry." Smirk, ass smack, end scene.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/20 04:17 PM
2

My needs list did expand a bit over the course of events, but not by much. Again, starting with zero is not wrong, it is all unique to the man. Adding to the list is expected as you learn more about yourself, but again, be cautious that you don't bullshit yourself. If you can't hold frame against yourself what hope do you have against others? Yes, your mental models are fucked up. Typical BP. How did you act when you were a kid? Why did you change? Don't be afraid to be fun and silly like a kid,…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/20 09:49 AM
-5

There's no point worrying about whether or not she's going to cry "Abuse!" someday. Just assume she will. Ok, so is this post mental masturbation? It's best to spend our energy on things we can change.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/20 09:30 AM
5

Agreed that ultimately all we can do is calculus comparing human suffering vs human suffering. The important part is that we are intellectually honest and rigorous in our pursuit of the facts, then calculated, decisive and cohesive with our chosen path forward. One major challenge is a generalized distrust of science and those best suited to help make the decisions, as well as distrust of our elected officials to act in the best interest of all parties involved. Discounting it as a hoax or scam …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/20 10:15 PM
1

Start with defining your needs, worrying about your wife is probably not in the cards until you have mastered yourself. Keep in mind, your list of needs could be 0 at first, and that is ok. One of the biggest problems with men establishing boundaries is when they mistake a want for a need and crumble when that boundary is crossed. Don't put daily BJ's on your need list, unless you are ready to pack bags and walk on Tuesday if no BJ on Monday. Once you master this though, it is a cheat code to li…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/20 09:02 PM
3

There are probably studies where you can be intentionally infected so they could test treatments. Since you are so confident maybe you should look into it, make some $$$. I know for sure you can sell antibodies after you recover, so try to get it as soon as possible so you can sell that shit while the market is hot. Unless, of course, you regularly interact with and love people who are in those higher risk groups.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/20 08:57 PM
3

I told her: it’s not safe, we don’t have health insurance, if MIL wants to make different choices and start isolating for 2 weeks and wearing a mask then she is more than welcome to come visit after. I will not expose my family to something unnecessarily at this time. Excellent. This is how it goes, good job sticking to your instincts. Reminds me of a couple posts I made a while ago, about oldest child in the house and following the leader. Read my follow the leader post for some "Aren't you gla…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/20 08:52 PM
2

Lol
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/20 11:02 AM
2

What the hell are you trying to say here?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/20 10:49 AM
4

The problem is the insecurity, not the size of your dick. Eating pussy like a pro is you seeking validation. Stop caring about what she thinks, focus on you.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/20 10:44 AM
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Hmm, I thought I made a post but I guess it was a lot of comments. Read Act 3 from my "story" here. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/c3lm0f/inchargemans_story/
/r/askMRP30/05/20 10:22 AM
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I've always been interested in things like the hedonic treadmill, dopamine tolerance, etc. I suspect that after achieving such high success in so many areas (wonderful marriage, great kids, constant level 10 sex, awesome house, fun hobbies, financially secure, etc.) the raw excitement that comes with bagging new business deals doesn't seem to register the way it used to. Not that I'm depressed, just that the thrill of the chase is gone I guess. Maybe as you said it is time to move to a new adven…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/20 12:14 PM
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Check out some of my needs and wants posts. Having that sorted out within yourself first is the cheat code to life IMO.
/r/askMRP29/05/20 11:59 AM
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I'm also a sex addict. I'm also addicted to air, water, food and shelter. If I married a woman that made me go to counseling for needing water she would no longer be my wife. Men need sex, they don't need sex with their wives.
/r/askMRP28/05/20 09:03 PM
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Thanks. I think one of the issues I need to work past is if I'm ok with doing "really well" in the typical sense by keeping what we are doing rolling, or if I want to make the changes and accompanying expended effort to take it to another level, probably at the expense of the other areas of my life. In a way I've already won life, so sometimes when I weigh the effort I know it will take to go platinum versus the life I very much enjoy now I get a bit apathetic. I guess the question is: A. How do…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/20 01:48 AM
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Thanks man, I agree completely. White collar is definitely on the chopping block. I've got lots of friends who are probably 5-10 years from being obsolete and I don't have the heart to tell them, I just innocently pose questions hoping they will take their own red pill. My business segment is somewhat unique (everybody is special, right?) in that the approach towards scalability which assumes an ocean of potential markets doesn't apply. It is more like a single relatively fixed market (within on…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/20 02:08 PM
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Really good stuff here man. One blindside I think I have had is operating with a goal of selling the business. I have never had that as my goal, instead progressing towards a constant revenue stream for years to come. I'm wondering if I should revisit this, even if I truly don't plan to sell. Perhaps just that mindset and how it affects decisions will be beneficial.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/20 12:48 AM
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askTRP
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/20 12:34 AM
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Not all heroes wear capes.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/20 08:07 PM
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Congrats! Now keep that pedal pegged.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/20 06:36 PM
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The idea that my approach would defeat the role of dread. What is more dread inducing? A man who "might" try to secretly sleep with another women while sneaking around town looking over his shoulder like a puss, or a man who at any time might decide his wife isn't enough and declare point blank that he will be fucking other women too now, and she is welcome to stay or leave?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/20 04:47 PM
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Nice work!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/20 04:41 PM
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A woman doesn’t like rough dominant sex with a man that is inside his own head and doing it for her. She wants that primal, raw, unfiltered sexual version of you. The same you want out of a woman. Hear, hear. I've said it once, I'll say it again. When you are doing it right it isn't hard, it isn't complicated, it should come natural. What do YOU want to do? Do that. You want to be a man who does what you want, and she wants you to be a man that does what he wants. What would the siverback do?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/20 04:37 PM
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One time as a joke I tried to keep my wife from getting to swallow my cum during a BJ. It was hilarious, she was chasing my cock down like a wild animal, making sure she got it in her mouth before I busted.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/20 04:30 PM
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For sure. Just yesterday I fucked twice during the day just because I felt like it. Didn't finish, just stopped after a bit, ready to go do something else fun. The top shelf sex was later.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/20 04:26 PM
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With an audience. So we're just going to gloss over this :)
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/20 04:24 PM
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Ironically right about when you made this post. Who wore it better?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/20 04:23 PM
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Serious question, how do you mentally deal with that? I think I have maybe an unusually high aversion to loss. I fucking hate losing, drives me nuts, which in some ways pushes me to be successful in life, but I can see that I am possibly preventing further grown by being too conservative.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/20 03:04 AM
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I get that you think you are on top of your game here, but I can tell you with all certainty that you are missing a bigger picture. Sometimes there isn't just one red pill....
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/20 02:56 AM
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I think your statement regarding changing morals is true, but in this case I wasn't implying that. Fucking other women isn't against my morals. Lying about fucking other women is. When you think about dread like a gas pedal, where you modulate the pedal to get a desired reaction from your wife, you are not 100% in your frame. You are settling into a covert contract, "if I do X she will do Y". This is dodging bullets. Do you lift because being bigger will make her notice you more, or do you lift …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/20 02:50 AM
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Honestly it's just a better way to live your life. What would the 900lbs silverback say? Do that.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/20 02:50 PM
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Exactly right. His statement is predicated on things within her control, i.e. frame. Even worse the last line is just cringe, especially the way he almost invites her to have an affair if her feelz say that he gave her a reason. All so very wishy-washy. It's like he wants to have an overt contract but doesn't have quite enough balls to say it. Even this new post is flat footed IMO. Of course the conversation doesn't end there. Show me a woman who wouldn't immediately say "yes, I want to know". T…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/20 02:47 PM
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What's up your butt? Are you typing this from a Motel 6 because you got caught cheating? Who said it was a lie? I wouldn't cheat. Running around town looking over your shoulder is for weak framed pussies, even if they are sensitive... Maybe you should spend some time reflecting on why my approach is not a copy of "your work". ROFL You: I love you enough and respect you enough that if I'm going to have an affair, I will be sure that you're the first one to know. I guarantee I'll do you that court…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 08:35 PM
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My approach: "I would never cheat, that is against my morals................when I'm ready to start fucking other women I'll let you know." That one sentence (with appropriate pause) gives push-pull emotional stimulus, demonstrates frame, is playful, but also directly communicates that you are fully in control of your ability to have sex and exclusive sex with her is conditional on your desire to do so and nothing else.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 09:33 AM
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Would you have overshadowed him? Maybe as a new guy he doesn't want to risk having a shining star under him. I usually like to paint my role as someone who doesn't like the attention, who is happy busting ass to make someone else a success, and someone who can help them avoid failure (a bigger motivator than sucess). Then I make myself indispensable. As a note, this applies to me selling myself as the leader of a company, not as an individual "employee". Either way, definitely no chance if you p…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/20 06:55 PM
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Is that job opportunity dead? How was it left? Definitely an odd set of circumstances. Do you think they were being up-front or was there more to the story? I wonder if you could have offered something to validate their concern but allow for them to be confident in hiring you. Maybe performance pay, or ownership % or something like that. I like when people want ownership, it shows commitment. "Well Bill, you're right, I could get a job anywhere, but I don't just want a job, I want to build somet…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/20 03:56 PM
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I thought she was going to flip her shit, but instead she’s now encouraging me to talk to / fuck other women. Yep, that's a good sign.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/20 06:55 PM
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Just a quick update here because some people have been asking about my status. Really?
/r/askMRP08/05/20 07:00 PM
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The purpose of RedPill program is to build the man. I'm happy to report that it is a fantastic program. Is there a 12 disc video set I can order?
/r/askMRP08/05/20 05:16 PM
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My wife makes ME more money than I make ME. Change your frame of reference. Everyone contributes toward the relationship in many ways, each in accordance with their own skills and capabilities.
/r/askMRP08/05/20 04:59 PM
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Sorry man, no amount of pussy is worth wearing birkenstocks... Also, already planned out the puppy thing, just grab one from the bin they keep at the front, tell them you are thinking of adopting, but you need a good fur mom to show you the ropes. Tell her you are new to dogs, but you are a pro at taking care of pussy...long pause...cats.
/r/askMRP06/05/20 02:33 PM
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A lot of MRP is guiding you on how to "act" around women. Expert level is when it isn't an act. Best quote from the matrix: Neo: What are you trying to tell me, that I can dodge bullets? Morpheus: No, Neo. I'm trying to tell you that when you're ready, you won't have to.
/r/askMRP05/05/20 06:14 PM
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Petsmart in the morning (girls looking to love something), the closest restaurant to a nursing school for lunch (nurses be horny), maybe a street art gallery or something in the afternoon (figure all the obvious spots are going to be mobbed with Chadbros, and girls who make art are looking for validation), then settle in at the local $10 fitness place next to a smoothie place.
/r/askMRP05/05/20 05:50 AM
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Wrong answer, sorry, thanks for playing
/r/askMRP04/05/20 07:53 PM
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Pics or it didn't happen
/r/askMRP04/05/20 07:52 PM
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Cant stop laughing imagining a 4th annual "Pussy Gettin' Contest". I could imagine banners and trophies. Would be great. All the dudes behind a rope, it drops and they start charging the town like a fox hunt.
/r/askMRP04/05/20 07:51 PM
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For real. I fucked 5-6 times yesterday before getting to the real 2-hour play session. Didn't even cum most of the time, just saw some sexy ass or mouth and wanted to fuck it for a while. For a woman in heat looking to fuck Chad, well, as Jeff Goldblum would say, "Nature...Finds a way"
/r/askMRP04/05/20 07:48 PM
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Not true. Correlation vs causation. This is part of the issue with "lift faggot" as your mantra to fix all parts of your life. If being jacked is a covert contract for the rest of your life fixing itself, then success you will not find. Lifting to become a man YOU want to be, regardless of how it affects other aspects of your life is where it's at. In my regular life I have friends and lots of acquaintances that are alpha level 10 in their chosen line of work, swole as shit, everything the paint…
/r/askMRP04/05/20 07:45 PM
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ROFL
/r/askMRP04/05/20 07:38 PM
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So you're saying there's a chance!
/r/askMRP04/05/20 07:37 PM
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Some would say she is trying to be good for you, others would say she is making you buy her shit, i.e. topping from the bottom. In reality it only matters how you feel about it and her intentions and attitude in general. D/s can be the absolute easiest and simultaneously hardest relationship style. Easiest in that you simply do whatever feels right, period. Where does a 900lb silverback sit? Wherever he wants. When does he fuck? Whenever he wants. Hardest in that you are 100% responsible for EVE…
/r/askMRP04/05/20 05:24 PM
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I think my favorite part about the D/s journey was the aspect of being able to create something special and unique to our relationship, our needs and wants. The world's interpretations on what an ideal relationship hold no value, we decide what is right for us.
/r/askMRP01/05/20 05:40 PM
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Remember when we discussed not talking about D/s fight club... This stuff is why, too much dynamite in the hands of kids. u/RedishPill D/s when you are doing it right is as natural and easy as breathing. If you feel like a fish out of water it is because you are. You aren't there yet, you are not yet your own mental point of origin. For me and my relationship it is the natural progression to the lowest point of stress, a valley if you will. It would be the most exhausting and stressful to live a…
/r/askMRP01/05/20 05:38 PM
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Yep
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/20 07:33 PM
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You seem very focused on her... I'd like to see you progress past "I do this...so she will do that" and get to "I do this, because I'm a man and this is what a man does." Pretending to be busy is a waste of time, go actually be busy.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/20 09:48 AM
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