I posted in the main sub and got blocked/muted/shutdown whatever.

Didnt realize how strict the rules are here.

Looking for advice... i'm starting a new journey.

Quitting drinking, smoking, fapping.

I am 30 years old -- wife is 35 -- and just recently got married.

Traditionally we used to have a great sex life -- dress up, and vacation sex is always the best right.

I still get sex from her 1-2x per week but its not as passionate or fun, it's starting to become very vanilla.

I am committed to her - and we want to have a baby and start a family.

I am a successful consultant and she is a stay at home housewife.

I wish she had a higher sex drive and was more kinky, horny, and all that.

I am very attracted to variety in women - and have this fear that I will pursue other women outside of the marriage if I am not fulfilled sexually by her.

Is this just a matter of accepting Red Pill life -- or do I increase romance and make the best of a vanilla situation?