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Pffft. Everyone knows that the blinkers blink slower with less fluid.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 08:35 AM
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Soooo fucking true! i feel so out of place here and my game is suffering listening to men talk like this day in and day out.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 08:29 AM
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i've learned some elements of krav maga in the marine corps martial arts program. The parts we learned are how to effectively gouge out eyes, how to break elbows and knees and to kick the achillies if exposed. Wing Chun is a great system for fighting traditional "sparring" type martial arts. it's principles are to utilize angles and speed to reach an opponent along the centerline before their punches/kicks connect. you attack and defend at once which tends to overhelm less hardened fighters if d…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 10:46 PM
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Aww man that's too bad. I have a few weddings to attend during that time-frame. Next year though!
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 11:12 PM
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Anyone that says the girl in this post is "fucked-up" or disgusting is really in for a treat~ All women are like this, all they need are a series of events that allow her to rationalize her behaviors as okay. Don't think the girls or beta-fags crying immorality or unfairness is going to change hypergamy. Women are ruled by their emotions, by their vaginas, anyone that can harness the heat between their legs should do it. It's an opportunity. All you have to ask is if she's a 0 or 1. All you need…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 05:08 AM
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What do you mean? You are like that too for the right man tuts~
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 11:14 PM
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If readers are feeling a certain relief after hearing the message of TRP it's probably because they haven't consumed and internalized the sidebar material. They haven't caught on to how incredibly fucked we've let western society become, they haven't felt the sting and emptiness associated with the realization that the only meaningful relationship with a woman a man can have is the one where he uses her womb to bake a baby. Then they realize that once that baby is born, his offspring is now used…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 10:25 PM
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There is. It's called "Dad Bods."
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 08:01 AM
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Yeah~ i stopped reading it after that shit became pervasive. There are extremely valid points in it; but it's not what i came there for.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 07:09 PM
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Hahahahahaha!!! i'm stealing that shit.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 11:41 PM
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What? That's exactly the passive aggressive, totally missed the point/ didnt read all the way through because of feels kind of response that a woman would have. It's a generalization about the common mindsets of men vs females in regards to bussiness culture. And, it's super fucking accurate.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 07:30 AM
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It's mainly because the signal to noise ratio is pretty low due to high volumes of not fully unplugged folks posting shit. That's okay, but the meat of TRP is in the sidebar material, already hashed out and agreed upon yeeeeears ago. Look at that, ignore the noise.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 06:32 AM
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I like you. You are wacky and definitely on one, but you also kind of make sense. Like you google translated something you wrote in a different language.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 07:45 AM
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You've found the amazing world of operant conditioning game. Exotic fruits is a great idea, thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 05:53 AM
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... we have a standard format to prevent this kind of low effort post, this isnt #justTRPthings dude.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 05:50 AM
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hahaha of course she's a woman~ She's got the "man up and take responsibility" trope and the quotes for emphatic and implied shaming. Women cant even get creative enough to blend into a male forum, they have no context for thr discussion nor for the male experience in general.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 06:47 AM
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It looks like ya'll need to switch your game up. I'm not terribly good looking but I get same night lays pretty consistently. I think it's everyone's poor attitude about the place that pervades through each interaction. You really have to be about the abundance mentality and amused mastery here, regular PUA shit is played out here and doesnt work. If you love Seattle, connect with a scene, and show you are about it, the Seattleites will fuck with you the long way.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 05:42 AM
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Ahhh, the dependapotamus. They want to be a part of military wife culture, it doesn't matter who they are actually married to.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 10:30 PM
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Seattle is great if your okay hitting on tourists and foreigners. Also the talent around UW campus is palpable. The best bar i've seen is in Belltown called Ambèr and another across the street called Osaka.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 07:03 AM
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The SMV chart is exactly as you described, charts desirability/value of women from mens POV and men from womens POV for those in the same "age group." Using Rollo's chart to describe SMV of males to other age demographics is not the information the chart is designed to describe. If you try to use that chart for purposes other than for what its intended and for what data it represents will yeild contradictions. Because of user error... I.e: you. Go back to the drawing board.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 07:10 PM
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Never knew half this stuff. I'll make damn sure to capitalize on this in the future. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 02:50 PM
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Hahaha. This is great, I could just see this unfolding in a Victorian play.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 09:37 PM
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You guys are seriously missing the point. Its about redefining how you think about women And how they fit into your life. That is the core message. You dont have to self-improve there is a whole flair dedicated to MGTOW. Its not about tricks, its not about lifting or any of that. Its about how you either win at sexual strategy, lose at it or not play at all. Saying this subs core message is self-improvement instead of sexual strategy denotes your ideologies. What are you improving for? The woman…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 02:11 AM
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You can, and it's not. The predecessor to this community was the concept of Game which had no requirement for self-improvement. It ony required that you run a set which had higher probabilities of working. If you continue trying to to tell me I'm wrong then im going to have to call you out on concern trolling. Self-improvement is a by-product of sexual strategy. Once more, re-read ALL of the side-bar and contribute again when you are actually unplugged.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 02:55 PM
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Self-Improvement is not the central message. Sexual strategy is the only message. Everything else is peripheral to the core tenets of the Red Pill: AWALT, Hypergamy, Solipsism and the FI eating your lunch and having cake too. We teach it so you wake up to reality, de-pedistalize women, and get your shit in one sock. Read the sidebar again before you try misleading the uninitiated again.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 02:14 PM
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I am a creative writer, and I'm definitely ready to help spread the word and unplug men from the FI matrix. I can do the whole gamut of internet related projects as well: html/css, web programming(javascript,jquery,webGL, etc.), web graphic design, and content creation. I'm sure that there are other talented folks with similar skills lurking around here as well. Let me know what I can do.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 09:23 PM
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There is no GPA requirement for those that already have degrees. The officer ascension and ROTC programs do, however, but those are designed for folks that will earn thier degree on the Navy's dime.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 10:51 AM
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I am an officer in the best Navy. If you do decide to join, use your useless degree in your favor and get a commission as an officer. This way you'll still be forced to live a disciplined lifestyle but you'll earn more, have a better quality of life, and potentially network with folks that can advance your interests outside the Navy. Go to a Blue and Gold officer recruiter, the sooner, the better. P.S. - It is a super feminist organization, however based on the promotion system it doesn't really…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 10:49 PM
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I always felt like the term Red Pill referred to the awakening to the truth of sexual strategy, or dirty truth in general. If all women were naturally aware of their sexual strategy and biological programming then, yeah they are RP. But most women are not REALLY aware of it, and in that regaurd most women are not RP. They are, however, Machiavellian in their thinking, subversive, manipulative, constantly and simultaneously starved for and recieving attention and validation... among other things.…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/15 05:45 AM
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She offered you multiple positions and even offered to cry herself to sleep? I would've taken her up on that. "Doesn't matter, had sex!"
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/15 03:55 AM
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My wife found my posts a few weeks ago. She was mainly mad about the stories I have posted that I changed the details about to prove a point at the time. I'm not the best storyteller, so I use my own experiences. She'll get over it. If not, well... might as well start working on that DREAD :P
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/15 03:51 AM
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All scientific anthropological evidence and anecdotal evidence spread across hundreds of generations point the the undeniable fact that women have invariably, without exception, tried to secure the best genetics possible for their children. This TRUTH flies in the face of any kind of feel good bullshit about women trying to help you become a better man or to "find your alpha" If she didn't believe that you were the best genetics she should secure at that time, she wouldn't have married you. Peri…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/15 03:46 AM
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I don't like the MMSLP at all. The #1 rule of TRP and MRP is TO DO WHAT WORKS. DO WHAT WORKS. If that bullcrap in the MAP and MMSL doesn't work for you, then don't do it. There is a wealth of information floating around out there that provides alternatives to that kind of behavior. (Rollo Tomassi, Chateau Heartiste, TRP game) The important part is to find out about and really understand what is ticking in the mind of your wife. Learn about the tropes, the trends, the biological and feminine impe…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/15 03:32 AM
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Hell yes. RATM is my shit. Zach De La Rocha also has another EP called "One Day as a Lion" and kills it again. check it out.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/15 06:07 AM
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There is a successful model for captain and crew interaction proven by a couple hundred years of experience. You tried to be captain from the wrong seat and it didn't work. This exactly. The Captain always controls the direction of the vessel. The crew trims and lets out sails and takes care of details. Also a perfect metaphor. You can't be the captain if your sitting in the wrong seat.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/15 03:07 AM
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coupons? Shes like a sex vending machine.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/15 10:12 PM
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Yup. Tension is a two person deal. You should be able to get over shit so fast, that if she still wanted to have hard feelings she'd just come off as bitter or resentful. Works like a charm.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/15 02:33 PM
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Jerkboy attitude accomplished. Standby for tingles.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/15 10:31 PM
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I died. That killed me. No one expects the Spanish Inquisition!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/15 10:01 PM
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I am well past the righteous anger phase. I could give a shit less how the message comes across to some other people. I doesn't matter if you got William Fucking Shakespeare to write that shit- those BP chumps are so invested in the FI that they will do anything for a feminist pat on the head. Like Rollo said in his new post "Memento Mori" The message of TRP is like triage, save who you can. They come to you not because you persuaded them, but because they realized that they are fucked up. That …
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 09:47 PM
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Tingles have nothing to do with education. Your education doesn't get panties wet. Her education doesn't prevent her from getting her panties wet. You aren't sexy enough. You probably aren't lifting, you aren't dressing better, you haven't got a better haircut, you haven't established dread by increasing your SMV. If you want sex, the best way is to get sexy. Simple.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/15 03:41 PM
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Ah. You went there. RIP Patrice.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 10:42 PM
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Its the harsh realities of women: read this: http://therationalmale.com/2013/11/13/empathy/ Women are incapable of real empathy, you are a provider who's not doing his job to her, so you are therefore resented for being hurt/needing help.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/15 08:57 PM
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I am. I see your completely lame and whiny post about "feeling fake" and see all the responses you get even though you clearly violate the forum rules. From some endorsed contributors no less! It made me face-palm. Really. If you value this community don't post crap like this again.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 07:27 PM
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Male affection is dangerous to the FI. Females want to be solely responsible for dishing out affection and all things nurturing. If close friends take care of each other and show affection by embracing or (appropriate) affectionate words... You don't really need women other than for the obvious sexual release.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 07:12 PM
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You are not following the forum rules. If you did the required reading and followed the forums we reiterate what you need to do OVER and OVER ad nauseam. Read the sidebar. Don't post crap like this. If you absolutely don't understand something, post it in /r/asktrp.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 07:09 PM
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Honestly, here is what I would say (If I really wanted to do it): "There will be no discussion or suggestions on this, Let me be clear about the message: I am going to the meeting because I decided to." Then something to the effect of "I do not expect to hear about this again." It's better when delivered on the phone. When I say stuff like this with a steely tone my wife normally doesn't say anything on the other line and I finish with "I'll see you when I get home." I would come home to either …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/15 06:54 PM
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You sound like a chump. You haven't internalized shit. Refrain from posting and take in the collective knowledge of the men here. Put it into action until it IS you.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 12:06 AM
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First off... You are way too involved if you are trying to tell her to eat bananas on a flight. Why? Is that a thing? ... I don't think its a thing. In response to a ridiculous command to bring bananas, she responded correctly. You don't worry about that. You worry about important things, or you don't worry at all. How can you be the one who makes reliable decisions on important matters if you can't tell whats important and whats not? If she really was worried about fallout from her folks... jus…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/15 09:36 PM
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Nah bro. That's a bro-boner.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/15 09:28 PM
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From this post I understand there is something culturally significant about the accompanying of the parents. I don't understand or pretend to know about Indian culture but I'm going to weigh-in anyway. Indian women expect you to lay out the red carpet for them. They've been spoiled their entire lives and expect to be spoiled rotten by their husbands later on. In order to stop this endless cycle of princess-diseased women you have to have a backbone and be willing to deal with fallout from your w…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/15 07:35 PM
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Don't read HuffPo. It's drivel, mind-rotting, and you don't need it. Read the new Mark Twain auto-biography instead. Its a giant book that will look sexy (in a smart way) when your plopped down in your leather reading chair with a glass of scotch.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/15 07:09 PM
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No one ever thinks they can pull it off. Just do it, and be surprised at what you find in the deep dark recesses of your wife's sexual desires.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/15 07:06 PM
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Gold. I love Roissy. The knowledge in this site is so incredibly applicable its downright scary sometimes. Who knew acting and being self-centered is actually sexy?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/15 09:54 PM
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Excellent post! I enjoy reading stuff like this, It makes me feel like this sub is making a difference, one dude, one marriage, one family at a time.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/15 06:05 PM
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I tend to agree with you. I wouldn't put up with that bullshit if my wife did that. I would kick her to the curb quicker than my morning dump.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/15 05:55 PM
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My wife borderline worshiped the mail I sent her when she was studying in Korea. (on single letter) I save all the cute little letters she sends me and stuff them in a Tupperware box. She gets more of a kick out of seeing them than I do. I don't wanna discourage that cuteness though, its nice to have records of her adoration for me every once in awhile...
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/15 07:30 PM
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The first (very) cold shower, I saw immediate energy effects. The shower was less than 3 minutes long. took less than a week for blood-flow benefits. took 3 or 4 weeks or so to see skin benefits.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/15 03:38 PM
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Don't deny yourself sex. You gotta hit it when you can. That's the point of No Porn, No Fap. You aren't supposed to do Denying sex AND NoFap, it defeats the purpose of both programs. Denying sex shows that you don't need sex, and that you are a stable and busy enough man that could get his rocks off elsewhere. It's supposed to be a DREAD tool. If you are just hanging out doing nothing for 3-5 hours a day... That's not really painting that picture. No Fap, No porn is a method to increase your nat…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/15 06:42 AM
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How long has it been since you've been putting TRP knowledge into action?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/15 06:11 AM
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Little changes like that make a world of difference. Good job. Keep it up. Don't ever get stagnant or comfortable with a routine, you always need to add that unexpected flavor or excitement otherwise you'll be stale again.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/15 06:05 AM
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She's on the looney meds? Bad news bro. You need to Red Pill Up. Lift, get away from the house, join a club, eat right, dress better. Let your wife know what you need. Sex, a feminine wife, food on the table (if your that type of guy). You can't expect results right away. The BP you has dried her vagina, you need to put the tingles and wetness in those walls with a Man-over. When you be the man she needs, her physical health, her mental health, and emotions will stabilize. If you are a BP wreck,…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/15 05:56 AM
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Don't give her cash. My wife has been an angel lately, So i'm going to do something nice for her. The only thing she consistently whines about is my perceived inability to cook a meal for myself. I've told her plenty of times that I can cook but she doesn't believe me. So this V-day i'm going to cook dinner. After we're done and she's impressed. (I can cook well, i've cook ever since i was a pre-teen) I'm going to frame the night like this: "I don't need a wife to cook and clean for me. I let yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/15 05:46 AM
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I agree. Withdrawal of affection needs to be with some jerkish flare. You need to make it clear that she is lacking and that's why you are ignoring her. When you AREN'T ignoring her, you need to be teasing her and slapping her ass, and coppin' feels, kissing her neck all that stuff. The PUSH-PULL dynamic is what is going to get you laid. The PUSH without a PULL will just make a wife estranged and angry unless she's a go-getter personality.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/15 05:36 AM
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Psh. I vote for a secret society clubhouse. We'll pay for the rent by brewing our own brand of scotch, burbon, and cognac. and have our own members only robes and smoking jackets and poker night.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/15 05:32 AM
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http://www.artofmanliness.com/2010/01/18/the-james-bond-shower-a-shot-of-cold-water-for-health-and-vitality/ There are more science-y links in that article, but it is a pretty good write up of the benefits and it echo's my experiences. Answers to your questions: Was I hornier? : Yes, I normally wouldn't get a boner right after waking up. But after I was taking cold showers i would get that boner watching my wife cook me breakfast. It resulted in many quickies in the morning times. I do these sho…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/15 05:28 AM
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Hahaha. Its funny because its true.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/15 10:05 PM
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ALSO, Try cold showers in the morning. I did this, it boosted my energy and testosterone through the roof. I was never a morning person but now I eat breakfast, wake up early, shave, apply facial lotions, style my hair- all because of the jolt I get from a few minutes of cold showering. I hear it helps with skin too, my skin has definitely improved.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/15 05:29 PM
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This. Do this. I do it all the time. It gives you a massive boost of confidence and sometimes gets you pumped when a sweet thang gives you the "fuck me" eyes. Gah.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/15 05:27 PM
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Whew. I wish I had you guys when I started out on this journey two years ago. u/intellectual_zombie this advice from strategos and theultimatecad is absolute gold. 24k. No question. You can't negotiate attraction, you can't demand it, you can't summon it, you can't buy it. A woman has to get her tingles from your manly jerk-boy actions, posture, and gorilla fucking. When I married my wife in May of 2013, she was kind of prudish about sex. I eventually had to go away (in the military) for four mo…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/15 05:24 PM
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Indeed. I don't know why this got downvoted. People don't want to take responsibility for their past BP life once they find out how wrong they were in their beliefs. Own it. Become a better man in spite of it. NotABibleScholar is on to something. Owning your shit is the first step to the TRP process and the foundation for everything that comes afterwards for the rest of your life. Your nagging wife doesn't deserve a medal because she stayed, she gets what you give her. If you don't want her anym…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/15 04:59 PM
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Upvoted for general awesomeness. I'm glad you guys are active on this forum, it seems like these guys here are the ones that need the most urgent help and the ones that are putting TRP into action in their lives the quickest. It's fantastic to see and be a part of. Good job mods.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/15 04:48 PM
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Are you being clear with your desire to get busy? Normally, even if my wife isn't really feeling it (at that moment) I can just tell her something along the lines of "this is happening" and escalate the kino and affection until it does. If she flat out tells you "No" even after all your effort, then treat it as a shit test. Because it is. Apply your negative behavior conditioning tactics and move on with your life. Eventually, you'll get that bust bruddah.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/15 01:21 AM
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The information is out there if you hunt for it. Your journey for marriage dominance is only going to go as quickly as your quest for knowledge and the application of that knowledge into field experience. Good luck in your campaign.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 04:21 PM
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Rollo's Tomassi isn't christian themed. Dalrock is the christian themed blog. You can find his posts: https://dalrock.wordpress.com/
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/15 04:29 PM
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No. Do what you want. Make it such a ubiquitous and common occurrence that you no longer become shit tested on it. P.S. You WANT to rock the boat. That is what stimulates the tingles.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/15 02:43 PM
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I found it obtuse at first, but after I figured out the lingo (About 7 essays in) I got used to it. So used to it I found myself talking and writing like him when I was writing/talking about anything TRP related. I had to fight hard to change that about myself (my involvement in the TRP subs is the product and vehicle of my efforts). Not only has he changed my life, he has had visible effects on the people around me too. I bought his paperback book and offered it to some acquaintances that were …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/15 01:55 PM
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I noticed that CH had the asshole game week, I've even been implementing tactics like this at home during this week. Some of my examples: My wife has of late developed habit of wearing these hideous shorts/skirt hybrid thing that she got from her mother. They looks so goofy and unattractive that I decided I'd make it known. Cue the relentless plausibly deniable make-fun-of-her-weird-house-clothes-session. I came home from work and the second day in a row she'd been wearing them, the first thing …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/15 01:47 PM
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Ah. I'm glad I'm not the only MRPer that does this. Its puts so much into perspective when the irrational knob is turned up to %250 due to PMS.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/15 01:30 PM
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YESS!!! Patrice O'Neal is my shit. Have an upvote, sir.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 10:17 PM
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OP's post made it seem like this was a psycho bitch. I have dealt with a woman like this and when we are talking about raging... whew.. I could have gotten seriously hurt. Have you ever had a vase thrown at you? What about and iBrick? If the answer is no, then you probably don't know where I am coming from. Build up a case against her, document her violence via police report because this isn't going to end well. (Sounds like my parent's fights, and that was UGLY). If you do it right, you might e…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 09:28 PM
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Yup. I'm not a fan of the MMSLP so I naturally incline towards Rollo and Chateau Heartiste. Also I am young, and I have a young wife. So CH's methodologies work a lot better than some of the older guys here with partners that had 3+ sexual partners before them. Rollo's work has fit the bill in my marriage that its uncanny. I can definitely say that I am a spoiled young'un compared to what problems some of the long oppressed AFC/BP husbands have to contend with.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 09:21 PM
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Yes and No. I wanted to provide a semi-cohesive track for gaining knowledge that spans all four years of Rollo's work. Its got essays from the first year to the most recent.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 07:48 PM
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You gotta be accountable to her? She flips out and throws shit at you? You were afraid of sleeping in a hostile environment? Don't ever sleep on the couch. You know what I would have done? Took pictures of the scene, called the cops and put her in the pen for Domestic Violence. If you can't control her actions now, and she's getting violent, you need to send a clear message that her behavior is dangerous and unacceptable. That may seem harsh, but I guarantee results. She's doubled-down on her sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 04:58 PM
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Ahhh... the Book of Pook. That was my actual first exposure to TRP. I recommend it. Also the Futurist's article called "The Misandry Bubble" Thanks for the co-sign professor
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 04:30 PM
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Yup. You betchya.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 04:28 PM
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It's normal. I understand. I have posted a series of links to Rollo Tomassi's blog on TRP theory. Please read and understand. Do not take steps that you are uncomfortable with. But In time, with the right advice and guidance you will be ready.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 03:52 PM
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What do we know about how women view the world? (About most things in general) They come from the standpoint of Solipsism. They think, how does this story apply to me? What can I offer from my own experiences to this discussion. Therein lies the problem. With such a self-centric view of the world you have to always insert in your mind the question: How does this benefit that woman? Why does she like to let her man lead? There might be many complicated answers, but if we apply Occam's Razor we mi…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 02:44 PM
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You know what. I will start posting the relevant Rational Male articles about this kind of stuff. MMSL < TRM
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 02:21 PM
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Not to mention, killing adulteresses by stoning, killing women who have slept with a man before their wedding, beating down women that have become too proud (wearing jewelry, scanty clothing, seducing men), etc. Lots of stuff in the bible, albeit obsolete, that is pretty extreme.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 02:19 PM
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Push-pull bruddah. Push.and.Pull. Although I don't agree with MMSL red-pill-lite. Having a MAP is better than nothing at all. Have an upvote, you two.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 08:03 AM
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I don't understand the Christian aversion to dread-tactics. I know that as Christians you (we) are practically force-fed feminist ideology and women-pandering at every sermon. But a reading of the bible (I use the KJV) shows us that old school men were more hardcore in "red pill" ideology than we were. You forget, men back in the day that had difficult or wives that were acting out their hypergamic needs were beat to death, or beat in general. Talk about dread! That's REAL dread. Nowadays its no…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 08:01 AM
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A feminine women excels in a role where she has defined expectations from her. You want a woman that can handle the trivial shit that life dishes out and can make decisions on what she's going to cook for dinner when she doesn't have any inputs. She has to be able to respond to minor emergencies like a sick or hurt child, or a fraudulent charge on her credit card, etc. Other than the ABILITY to respond to things as a normal functioning adult would. A feminine woman generally has the attitude of …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 03:26 AM
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Interesting, It seems that my advice is being consistently down-voted by someone despite the fact that its is practicable and succinct. (and field tested) At least you agree u/theultimatecad, have an upvote!
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 03:06 AM
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Imperator Young Patriarch demands IRON-FISTED RULE of house and womynz! Seriously: 1.) Create genuine desire from her. (cannot be taught, different for every women) 2.) ??? 3.) Capitalize on your new sexualized wife by getting your way in every facet of your life together. 4.) Profit. Bask in the glorious ruler-dom and poon that is the birthright of any good patriarch. There is no room for half-measures when your opponent (read wife) has a a voucher for half your stuff and a your kids whenever s…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/15 07:15 PM
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Hmm... I feel your comments about people doing things that you may or may not already do. The thing about women though is that if you set a bar, she's used to that. You have to put in more effort than most other BP->RP stories because you have some mild success already. It doesn't matter if your wife is hot or not, she's not going to be grateful for your usual manly work because its normal for her. She thinks she deserves whats she has. Its true, AWALT. Anyway to address your question: No not qu…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/15 04:24 PM
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Great post! Great job breaking from the BP routine.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/15 04:11 PM
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Excellent. I've never really been into the bondage thing, but I have tied up my wife (then fiance) with a red present ribbon before. She enjoyed it. I might do it again after reading this.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/15 04:10 PM
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I approve. http://img813.imageshack.us/img813/7014/spndeanokthen.gif
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/15 06:47 PM
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Maybe I will. The problem is that I'm involved at the moment in many different writing projects. I also am wary of rehashing topics that have already been covered. My own experiences don't lend much insight in regards to how stoicism will affect a mindset of outcome independence... but I might be able to shed light on how to become Stoic. An interesting thought.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/15 08:04 PM
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Ooh Sassy. Look champ. The problem then is that you just haven't drank the koolaid. What is the difference between me and you? I'm a 5'10 white male with no real stand-out qualities other than a mildly good physique. We are probably the same level of attractiveness. So what's the deal? I wield the attractiveness I have like a veritable poon sword. You worry about how techniques employed by 'PUAs' will ruin your respect of women. Why is it an integral part of your life to retain the ability to re…
/r/askTRP27/01/15 07:57 PM
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I don't think you are working too hard on making yourself attractive. Your post has BP mentality strewn across it. "I can get girls If I just believe I can!" "Im working on my mental toughness. " "God forbid if PUA stuff works! I'd lose respect for women!" "I'm being rejected guys! HALP!" What the actual fuck. What are the CORE POINTS TRP teaches you about women? 1.) They are hypergamous, always trying to achieve mates of higher status than them. 2.) They are unabashedly ruthless and conniving i…
/r/askTRP27/01/15 06:49 PM
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I found Stoicism as a side-effect of my existential trek through my depressing BP life. I lost my feeling. I lost all my fucks to give. I didn't know how, I didn't know at what point, but somewhere muddling through a bland life thinking that somehow I had deserved or caused my ill-fortune slowly chipped away at me. Then I was put through the crucible at one of the nation's leading military academies. I ate cynicism for breakfast, breathed discontent, supped on bullshit. But I found salvation in …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/15 06:26 PM
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Great quotes! When you are a man about your shit, you own it. Self-pity is the least manly thing you can do- blame it all on circumstance or someone else... Shameful. Don't let pity enter your mind and when you catch yourself saying woe is me, cut it out. Don't let anyone tell you that you are a victim of circumstance, a product of your environment, or any of that other shit. You have complete and sole ownership of you. How you act, what you do, when you do it. It doesn't matter what happens to …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/15 04:44 PM
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As someone who has actually dealt with depression in my life. There's not really any one method that you can go to that will pull you out of a funk. Your chemistry changes. You become different. You cut that connection you once had with all your normal people emotions and look at them from afar, you aren't affected by them like you used to be. You cordon yourself off into a special lonely place where suddenly all the people you know and all the people you see around you are just so alien and the…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/15 04:36 PM
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Whooohooo! Lets whip out the banhammer and squash these BP trolls!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/15 03:01 AM
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^ Agreed. There must be some sort of penalty for her not failing to reach your expectations. Personally, I ruthlessly point out and make fun of my wife's flat bottom (im an ass guy) until she got so upset/motivated that she did the 30 day squat challenge (twice in a row) Happy to say that she has a little booty bump going, and I enjoy it often. Long and short, Find what gets under your wife's skin. Use it as a punishment. Make sure its not naggy, passive agressive, and make sure its clearly unpl…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/15 02:59 AM
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+1 Whinemoreplease. If I could give you internet points I would. Spot on advice, couldn't have done better myself. Key takeaway is to know your wife, know what she's really playing at. The default strategy is "less is more" and "don't compromise your frame" As long as you aren't mewling like a helpless little bitch about the boss that you hate. Or complaining like a child about normal first world problems.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/15 11:38 AM
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^ Yeah its not strictly legal... I should have mentioned you shouldn't get caught doing these things heheh.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/15 11:32 AM
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Wait. Is your mother in law making snide comments about your wife to you? Or is your wife mouthin off to you? The quotes are confusing.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/15 09:48 AM
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I would bring it up to your buddy (if he's ready for it and won't take it the wrong way) You need to be supportive in his quest to be better, that's what a good friend would do.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/15 09:45 AM
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I agree. You have the perfect laboratory for confirming your new TRP mindset. Lots of people like to say TRP is "Game on Hard-mode" and it kind of is. Your wife is more comfortable in a marriage because she knows she can fuck up your finances via divorce rape. My TYP TIP for you would be to run standard dread game (search for examples in the TRP sub) and build your SMV to the point where you can verify that other women are interested in fucking you, and your wife is dying to give it up. Also pre…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/15 09:39 AM
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I agree. Women don't do dread. They do hypergamy. They branch-swing. Saying she's using "Dread" gives her more agency over her actions than she can really take credit for. This kind of thing happens. As I said before Post-wall women love to try and re-enact the lastest Cougartown episode and go out with a group of hags to act and feel like they "Still Got It" Bitches please...
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/15 04:31 PM
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This snippet of your week is a confusing synopsis of your relationship. Its more helpful to give general trends and justify that trend with a few anecdotes like what you provided. Like maybe you have a dead bedroom. You say. Hey MRP I have a dead bedroom. I don't have as much sex as I should. I want more sex than 2 or 3 times a month. This past week the only action I really got was in the shower when I put my thumb up her ass. maybe your wife is an irresponsible looser (you'd be hard pressed to …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/15 04:09 PM
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Rollo's sexual strategy breakdowns are gold. I'm kinda worried to see that this post only got about 5 replies to it though, are MRP subscribers not reading/excited about Rollo's work? Hmm...
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 10:25 PM
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... What. What possessed you to tell me about the one time you stuck your finger up your wife's ass? and then label this as a FR? Why do you cook almost every night? Why does your wife even get a say about what time dinner is? You fucking cook dinner for HER. You are either in a female-female marriage or this is a troll post. I don't get it at all.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 10:19 PM
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If you are improving yourself then keep doing it. Use this as fuel to dig even deeper in the gym, and hold yourself to an even stricter diet. In my experience, giving into these little games is a loss. Showing anger about something that is probably just post-wall preening is a total chump move. Women do this ALL THE TIME. ESPECIALLY POST-WALL WOMEN. They crave sexual attention. That is the ENTIRE reason for a Girls Nite Out. What the hell do you think they talk about while they are getting slosh…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 07:27 PM
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AGHH! I just made a reply to your last post. You missed the chance to squash this shit quickly when she showed back up! You were supposed to have the showdown at the front door, barring entry until she capitulated to your complete and total reign over your life. You better get your flack-jacket, kevlar helmet, and scotch ready because you are in for a long and protracted battle. Guide to Winning Home Trench Warfare: Bunker down: Stake your claim to all the high value areas to the house. I'm talk…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 07:18 PM
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Its called a Nuke Shit Test. Happened to me before. I just shrugged and carried on with my life as usual. Actually, I made an effort to do some extremely awesome things that I didn't have time to do before because I was expected to spend time with her. Ignore her ass. Carry on with your life. Prepare for a showdown. (She will be back with either a vengeance or an apology) The Showdown is the most crucial part! When she comes back, do not demand an apology, do not get pulled into an emotional arg…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 06:54 PM
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I'm all for moderating your actions based on the situation. After all, this kind of behavior does fall under the "Push-pull" dichotomy TRP tactic. When you are married and have given all of your chips to the most responsible teenager in the room, its wiser to be more "Pull" and less "Push" because the original idea is to weed out the sluts for the hardcore sluggers and invoke the tingles by display your outcome independence. THAT BEING SAID, if you have outcome independence even while married (i…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 06:42 PM
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I second this motion. I could listen to Rollo, Dago and McQueen talk all day.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 04:24 PM
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No.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/15 09:28 PM
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You might want to consider that maybe divorce is a good decision for you. Especially for a woman who would talk to another man and when confronted about it immediately say she wants a divorce. You have to really consider the reason why you "really" want to save the marriage. Is it because you are very invested? Is it because you stand to loose a lot of money? Is it because you have children together? Many people before you have "cut off their foot to save their leg", and are better for it. I thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/15 09:25 PM
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My wife would do this sort of thing all of the time. Emotional tactics to try and get you to respond in kind. The "You don't care about me/my feelings" (she often confuses her feelings for herself in the abstract sense) is just a very commonly used tactic, with varying levels of efficacy. My line of defense is to recognize it for what it is and not play. I deliver my lines with unwavering eye contact and a calm even tone. My common responses are: "I don't care for your childlike behavior." "I do…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/15 08:46 PM
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Hard and Fast Method: Take a month or two off work in the summer and hike the John Muir trail alone. If you live overseas (i.e. not US) take a flight out to Tibet, Mongolia, the Alps, Patagonia. Rent a horse and a guide and go to those rarely seen places. The idea is to have a very damn good reason why you want to be away from your SO for a significant amount of time. Not only will you be alone, but you will be isolated and forced to reflect and observe what makes you, you. Longer more expensive…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/15 08:17 PM
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Forgive me for going out on a limb. But, I think this has to do with what Rollo described as the propensity for women to confuse their self-worth with their sexual attractiveness. (Despite all the whining about how they are sex objects) The article is [here.] (http://therationalmale.com/2014/07/15/separating-values/) I think the logical extension of this is that women also take it as an affront to their self worth if you deny friendship as well . "Friendship" is weird social dynamic when you loo…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 02:54 PM
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Robert Green amalgamated a bunch of knowledge and trends concerning powerful people through study of their deeds so that you don't have to. It doesn't have to be a super in-depth book because the real value in it is putting in short concise statements the "shocking" (not really) truth about what you have to think like in order to become powerful. Tools for building a mindset are wonderful things. If you are creative enough to apply them in your own life and adopt them, you gain the mindset of po…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 02:29 PM
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Its a case of bragplaining. The Feminists and SJWs that run that show use this type of thing all the time in their day to day routine so when it shows up on 2XC and the woman in question has an enviable career, has no trouble getting laid, and is not really coming off as a victim... the feminazi hamster brigade has no reason to help this person. The average SJW and feminist don't compare to that woman, that woman is in all measures of their little feminist manifesto BETTER than them therefore th…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 07:21 PM
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Solid. I've always had an aversion to the PUA rhetoric but, like you said, certain social and psychological insights can be gained from just the sheer amount of approaches these guys make. PUAs put too much emphasis on the pussy, they measure themselves on the bench mark of pussy. They define their self-worth by how much pussy they get and the yard stick they measure other men by is "how many women he's slept with." Most enlightened brethren know that this is a shitty metric to determining happi…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 06:59 PM
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I don't get why these professed MGTOWs are getting upset over this post. That seems a bit childish and contrary to the spirit of a Man Who Is Getting His Own Way. You shouldn't give a fuck if anyone is bashing your lifestyle, you chose that for yourself, correct? Based on reason and logic, right? That's the whole point of the MGTOW! Stop worrying about someone else's opinion of the lifestyle choices that you profess. Its not some kind of football team who's fans have to defend their own and bash…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 03:44 PM
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This is an interesting post for me. I have similar ideas about legacy and a patriarchal familial system. I think the discussion is missing something, something that made sense to the powerful men of the past but has just been lost to time and the changes time brought with it. I don't think it had much to do with "immortality" so much as creating structure a providing tools for the offspring that a man had already invested so much time and energy into. I have been ruminating a lot on what a legac…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 02:51 PM
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Branch swinging/ Vine swinging: Poon: <- you'd be surprised how many of my contemporaries don't know what this refers to Id: <- CH uses this alot, I actually had to do research the first couple of times I encountered this. However, I don't see it often on TRP. Harem: Soft Harem:
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 02:41 PM
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I'll be damned. I had it in my head as P for Potential this whole time. Either way it makes sense I guess.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 07:48 PM
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SMP is actually Sexual Market Potential as stated in Rollo's graph on The Rational Male. It is basically the potential value of a female at a given age as evaluated by a female, and vice versa the potential value of a male at a given age as evaluated by a female. Your SMV at any given time is based on a number variables (height, weight, game, wealth, fitness), but your SMP at your age generally follows the graph. I can't produce the link to the graph right now but I am sure someone can.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 07:31 PM
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If you've read the Art of Seduction, you should know that some of the key things you have to do is intentionally keep her off balance and catching up to you, while displaying high value always. Regardless of what you may think or feel about "not knowing this woman" if you have already made contact, established some rapport, and the person that you see on date night is indeed the person you were talking to via POF, you can assume that you are familiar with her because the object of your interacti…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 06:43 PM
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Her: (grabbing my arm and snuggling next to me) "Who is it? Me: (Pull out phone, search for picture, present findings and declare with a matter of fact tone:) "Scarlett Johansson." Her: (after confused silence a smirk) Me: (Take her!)
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 06:08 PM
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Oh my. That line about barking literally made me snort ice tea through my nose. Painfully funny and insightful.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 02:44 PM
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Isn't the red pill all about improving oneself? Why purposely make yourself an obnoxious bastard? Two words for you: Concern Troll. The Red Pill is about waking up. Its about sexual strategy, the truth, the way forward. Also if you thought that little quip was obnoxious... you must be a woman or something pretty close.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 02:41 PM
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Women are naturals at assessing SMV. They automatically categorize and rank men and determine if we are worth their time by evaluating the perceived difference in her's and our SMV. The awesome graph you crafted out of observation, study and instinct has probably been built into the female OS for ages. Alas, the lack of originality XO Jane bloggers have is probably evidence enough that she probably used it... I give it 84% odds in favor of her "re-purposing" your graph.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 05:49 AM
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I agree with that line of reasoning. I would like to offer, however, another form of learning by example from great (or High Value) men: Reading definitive biographies of great and famous men. There are hundreds of great examples of men who made fortunes and accomplished greatness whose lives were studied and accounted for in great detail for the benefit of others. A good biography will not only give you background information on a certain character in history, but also inform you of the actiona…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 06:46 PM
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Play the mysterious card YES. I had recently similar situation to OP. I was, however, on the complete opposite side of the country from where I had my falling out. Making friends is no different from gaming girls, all you have to do is DHV. All you have to do is find someone mentioning or doing something that you also know about and strike up a conversation. I want to preface the rest of this by saying I have a extremely eclectic list of hobbies and interests, this allows me to have insider conv…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 08:08 AM
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The term "Shit Test" is a kind of over-arching word we use to describe several different types of testing a woman will give you based on her perceived needs at that specific time. The types of shit tests you'll receive change over time. The initial shit tests you'll encounter are test which try to determine where or not you are a high value man. You demonstrate/display high value (DHV) by maintaining frame during these types of shit tests. The fact that she is giving you a shit test indicates th…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 07:46 AM
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I agree with plainwiff and Vegas. Stoicism =/= calm/no emotion. Stoicism is a philosophy of life, and with that comes a very involved process to develop a stoic mindset. The principle of being stoic is having complete and total control over yourself. A true stoic is never disturbed from outside influences, never provoked, never manipulated by emotions. Along those names like Marcus Aurelius and Epictetus, A more modern example of a stoic mindset would be James Bond Stockdale (yes that's his real…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 07:08 AM
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