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I accidentally stumbled upon zombie game when I was being some beta bitch to some really hot girl and drove her around as her personal taxi. I'm a crappy driver so I would try to pay strict attention to the road. I would say something to her, sort-of hear her say something but I'd be too busy looking at the road. That's when she would give me a flirt slap and go, "Hey!!!!!". I was like, "huh?", because I was barely paying attention. I showed her my FM transmitter to keep her busy so I can keep l…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 07:09 AM
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It's an unfortunate culture we live in. Men are expected to be these unbreakable bastions of strength with no flaws or any obstacles. Superheroes in their own way. Men are objectified in this way in the same way women are objectified sexually. But men are people too, and when we reveal our flaws, our cracks, our weaknesses, then we lose that grandeur of being powerful, invincible. It's tricky in your situation because my cousin ended up divorcing her husband who fits the same description as your…
/r/askTRP18/07/14 02:25 AM
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Five Reasons Why Being A Nice Guy Makes You Want to Kill Yourself Nobody respects you. Nice Guys are always available and free to help you. In the nice guy's head he thinks that he's depositing friendship tokens but the truth is that nobody likes owing anybody any favors. If they're able to get you to help they'll just assume you don't have any valuable time. They'll say that they owe you for whatever it is, but honestly you can't depend on them to have your back when shit goes bad. Being a nice…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 11:46 AM
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Oh dear, I can answer this one pretty well. Do you know why so many girls love bad boys? One of the main reasons why is because girls feel the need to have a purpose in life, and bad boys are an easy target to fulfill that need. It gives them a challenge, a mission, to have meaning, to fix or help the bad boy in trouble who also gives them tingles for living life on the edge. Some girls are strange and want to garden plants, other girls are strange and want to garden people. They see nice guys a…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 10:00 AM
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I struggle with fighting my beta habits everyday. It's gotten so bad that in a brief moment of insanity that I discovered an option to find inner peace with myself; to continue being a nice guy even if it means that I will never be loved by a woman ever again. OK, I am not satisfied with that solution, that's why I am still here. In the brief moments I am able to muster TRP teachings I am getting amazing results and girls love the shit out of it, I even had a girl dry humping me but I chickened …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 09:16 AM
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That's right, you're exactly right. I should arrange an appointment with my doctor soon. Just to get a baseline of what's happening to me.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 05:42 PM
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She didn't admit it directly to me, we were at a party and the topic about sex came up. That's when she started saying how meaningless sex is and how it's all just for fun. My first thought was, "so she's DTF? That's cool." Then she started saying how easy men come and go, how she doesn't sleep with the same man longer than a few weeks, and I was like, "wait what?" We were all surprised, because we never took her for that type but then she started going on and said, "Well... I've had in the neig…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 05:40 PM
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My life when I tried out TRP hardcore was pretty much George Costanza when he decided to do the opposite of what he would normally do; it turned out great. In the first month, I stopped addressing girls as "guys", I started calling them girls. Typical speech would be, "You seem interesting, miss", or "You girls up to something?". They actually responded positively, said that I was behaving more manly than before when I would normally be shy to even say, "hey... you guys want any drinks?", to a g…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 09:12 AM
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I was a teenager when I first read this. I read it, and found myself agreeing with all the points but did the stupid thing and shared it with all the girls I knew, asking if they thought it was true. Of course they denied it, they kept telling me that whoever wrote it is some frustrated loser creep that can't get laid and if I was serious about attracting girls then I should focus on continuing to being a good person, a nice guy. I believed them because I was too naive to think that they'd lie t…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 07:12 AM
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A quick scenario: Women out there have no problems freely having sex with whoever is a hot party animal while at the same time the very same women would shame beta male providers looking for sex, calling them pervs and creeps. How does this make you feel? 1) Fucking women, I knew they were just trying to string me along. 2) Awesome! If you answered the former, then you're likely in the beta camp.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 06:18 AM
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I know, I just wanted to say how silly it is that guys get shamed into being nice and once they try that and it doesn't work then they get shamed even further that they weren't really nice after all.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 08:19 AM
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Nice guys can't win. There's just this massive cultural denial even on Reddit that being a nice guy is all you need to be. I wrote a post under a different account, talking about what drove me to TRP without mentioning TRP. I made it simple, I orbited some girl for several months but she ended up sleeping with some dude she barely knew. I was just tossed aside like chopped liver so now I spend all my free time working out. Immediately I get scolded and told "why don't you focus on being a better…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 07:38 AM
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For a second I thought you were trying to say that it's possible for them to be oblivious, but I see what you are trying to say. I'll go ahead and expand on your thought for some constructive learning. From the documentary "The Science of Sex Appeal": This was actually observed in a speed dating session in which men and women individually spoke how they felt about each person they speed dated. 80% of all guys felt like the women they were talking to were interested in them. Only 20% of the women…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 05:46 AM
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Stop assuming they don't know. They do know, it's nearly their fucking job. The reason they always act like they don't know is because it adds plausible deniability when she strings along a poor sap who showers her with attention and gifts. When she gets called out on it, she just says "oh he's just a friend, we're not like that." For fucks sake this very thing is on the front page of this subreddit as we speak. Poor beta buys a woman a $1200 purse and the radio host asks if she gave him "someth…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 04:59 AM
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I've found that many people in general agree with Red Pill and its teachings, they just don't agree with the terminology or the idea that there's a community dedicated to it. There was a bestof'd story of a guy talking about how women control and manipulate young male athletes, calling themselves basketball wives who ultimately end up divorce raping these men. The very same guy who posted the story started going nuts when RP linked his story and was spouting, "FUCK TRP" even though he was speaki…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 02:07 AM
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Despite the doubts that people have here that being a waiter will make you jacked, there is no question that being a waiter is physically taxing. I wear a pedometer on me during each shift and I found that I average roughly 3000-4000 steps taken per hour of work, 1.5-2 miles per hour, and roughly 200-300 extra calories burned per hour during each lunch and dinner rush. That's on a casual day. When I worked both lunch and dinner rush that was roughly 7 hours each day, that meant I walked 10-14 mi…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 09:13 PM
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The Extreme Waiter Toolkit Gear Compression Pants - Huge upgrade. I wear them underneath my work pants and they not only correct my form but they also reduce strain and improves muscle recovery. Bonus, you can wear it instead of underwear and it's like wearing underwear that gives you superpowers. Shock Insoles - This is a given. It eases joint pain and feet strain. Supplements WARNING MAKE SURE YOU DOUBLE CHECK WITH YOUR DOCTOR FOR ANY MEDICATION INTERACTION BEFORE TAKING THESE SUPPLEMENTS L-Ca…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 09:02 PM
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I was in the exact same situation too where I was too focused on my oneitis that I ignored all the other girls. They all kept vying for my attention but I didn't care. When oneitis quit and took off with another guy, I had to stop caring about her and decided to move on to the other girls but the stupidest thing happened. Now that I was giving my full attention to the other girls, now they stopped caring about trying to win me. I was too short-sighted to see this happening. I asked each of the g…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 08:05 PM
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This is 100% a shit test through and through. She is not happy with the sudden increase of the man's attractiveness and she is saying these things to try to lower him back down. I experienced this first hand after the girl that gave me the "LBJF" talk cut contacts. I figured it would be too hard to keep talking when she's getting sweaty with another dude so I let her go and went to hit the gym, hard. I didn't see her again until a year later and boy I had results when I did. I lost a ton of weig…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 05:13 AM
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Fuck. That strikes home. Coworker bitch recently got promoted even though she works only 3 days.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 04:53 PM
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This level of cruelty is what made me realize how destructive being a nice guy can be. To the very fucking end she was flirting like crazy with other guys in front of my face. I called her out and she said she's just playing around and it's nothing serious. When you are a beta, you get double fucked. Other women will shame you for stepping out of your role of being a nice guy provider and the woman you are trying to provide for will just step all over you and not even give a fuck you ever existe…
/r/askTRP12/06/14 07:28 AM
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I didn't know what caused men to go into a bloodthirsty rage when it comes to "he said she" said until I experienced it myself. At work I was talking to a girl and we were having some good chemistry until my co-worker saw us acting flirty and cockblocked me. She (co-worker) told me to go do something irrelevant and then sent the other girl somewhere else. Co-worker was jealous and wanted me to not talk to girls. I was pretty angry about it and stopped talking to co-worker bitch. A week goes by a…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 07:06 AM
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It's like a grand retelling of my entire life, being 30 and suicidal and all. I don't know where I'd be if there was no TRP, or even if I'd still be around anymore. By the time I got here I had already lost the will to continue with my life. I couldn't understand why, no matter how nice I was, no matter how kind, funny, easy-going and good I was around girls, that none of them ever thought much of me... nothing more than just a friend. I would hear them complain about men, demanding more time an…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 03:25 AM
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Part of swallowing the Red Pill is to accept that while men generally have the ambition to have lots of sex with women they like, women have their own ambitions of finding the best, most fit-to-survive mates they can. All the things that women find the most desirable in men are traits that imply high potential, high value, and especially high success. Being a nice guy does not show any of these traits. Almost all nice guys share the same failing behaviors that women do not like. The downfall of …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 10:22 AM
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I've been a "Jose" my entire life, going out of my way to be just like that for every girl that I was interested in and they always lead me on the same way. A non-RPer would rationalize it as, "not all women are like that", but it's happened to me several times in a row. Gosh I oughta try the lottery. I decided to try things differently, because fuck it, nothing else works. At a strip club I hear a woman start going apeshit about how these strippers need Feminism and how degrading it is for thes…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 10:12 PM
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Betas try to act like perfect boyfriends, jumping through endless hoops and doing endless favors for her while listening to all of her problems and always being there for her. When she 99.9% of the time goes for another guy, the beta then asks, "why?" and then gets shamed to death for being "entitled". The word "entitled" is already bullshit enough. It's a cop out word to shift blame away, a get-out-of-jail free card. When game companies produce shitty half-developed games with glaring flaws the…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 05:49 PM
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If TRP were a class, this would be mandatory viewing. This movie is one of the closest things to swallowing a physical red pill to wake you up from the blue pill world without all the pain and suffering. Of course, there is no stronger red pill then seeing the woman you love being fucked silly by a stranger, cumming to his dick while you slave away just for her to barely acknowledge that you even exist.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 02:21 AM
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Don't do it. I ruined the friendship I had with my best friend of 10 years by trying to speak Red Pill with him. Trying to teach others is a lose-lose situation, via Allegory of the Cave.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 10:02 AM
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Girls that gave me the LJBF talk always ended up being terrible wingmen. When they see me talking to another girl they suddenly either act "extra friendly" or get uppity that some other woman is in their territory like "Oh no don't you try to steal my backup plan" and try to drive them off. Girls that I have no mutual attraction with do make great wingmen however because they don't feel threatened by other women. Believing that girls that put you in the friend-zone would make great friends/wingm…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 04:56 AM
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Your story is the exact same as mine years ago, almost like we both knew the same woman. Was she Chinese? I need TRP because of that. I am an omega/ultra-beta and I've been searching endlessly for the right answer for me. The quick and easy answer I get told is: "Be selfish, be an asshole", but it's not that easy for me. It doesn't mix with my personality at all. I've found that what does help a little bit is knowing better social behavior/cues. I've had the most success with these changes to th…
/r/askTRP19/05/14 09:15 AM
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I've been in this exact position before, as the guy. I failed her by never making a move even though she would keep telling me that the times she had with me were some of the happiest she's ever been. This guy is like me, a nice guy. I never escalated because I was too scared. I never touched her, stayed respectful, and did not even make any flirty suggestions. I've been told doing any of these things is RAPE RAPE RAPE. I just kept my cool and waited for the moment that every single public speak…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 12:04 AM
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I tried to impress her by cooking Italian food for her. She thought it was delicious, ate every bite then took off to spend the night with another guy. I shared this story with my girl co-workers and I was surprised when they all gasped and told me that none of them cook for their SO's. They all thought it was romantic what I did and I said, "Yeah, so did I".
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 07:20 PM
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I almost learned the hard way when I tried to talk about TRP with my best friend about it. I thought he was cool with it because he is a major fan of all the comics out there who speak RP truths and rants about how much he hates feminism. I mean he never disagreed with me, he would just nod his head and said, "okay", when I try to talk about TRP. I was shocked when I was hanging out with my other group of friends, they warned me that my BFF was complaining about me talking about "Red Pill". The …
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 01:05 AM
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Sounds like we both met the same girl, not literally. The amount of times she touched me, lead me on, etc. When we hung out a lot, she eventually gave me the whole same exact, "Let's be best friends" spiel. The very best response I have ever heard to this statement is: "We are not best friends. We are just friends." So many +++ points to your frame. It's a form of rejection, girls hate rejection and will desperately try to win you. It sets your own standards as higher than hers, proving you're m…
/r/askTRP23/03/14 08:39 AM
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I must thank you for this post, because it may have saved my own life. The current results you have is my dream I've been working on, even doing the same to achieve it. I've been popping stims to further push myself harder on dieting/lifting, and have been going extreme. I notice I am less "sparking" with energy like I used to and even feel like shit for no reason sometimes. I'm just tired of being this unfit slob. I want to have an amazing body, but it's taking monumental effort. I was making s…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 08:09 AM
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They mention that TRP makes you the "asshole first boyfriend" that girls complain about. That makes me even more interested in TRP because those same girls would have never given anyone else a chance, hence "first boyfriend".
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 01:45 AM
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Lots and lots of working out, strength training. 6 months ago I was only able to bench 125 lbs, today I can bench 235. Dressing a lot better. Before I dressed like a college boy, baggy pants, t-shirt. Now I switch between tighter fitting dress shirts/polos and dress pants/khakis. More haircuts and grooming. Went from getting my hair cut every 3 months to once every 3 weeks. The biggest change of all though, is being less afraid of calling people out on their bullshit. I suffered from debilitatin…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 11:28 PM
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A friendzoned orbiter is just a beast of burden who's been domesticated. Horse-broken.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 06:33 PM
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Asian parents raise their children with Spartan-like treatment in hopes of making sure they are successful, but what they don't understand is that it socially disfigures us. They see money as the end-all, be-all solution to every problem in life. I grew up developing intense anxiety when interacting with people because my parents had hair-trigger tempers that would explode for even the smallest thing. I got slapped in the face for laughing too loudly at a video. I got punched in the ribs daily f…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 06:45 PM
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Many "Nice Guys" like me came to this subreddit because we learned the hard bitter way that being a decent person is not good enough. People keep bullshitting us that being a good person is "good enough". If this were true, then this sub-reddit would be irrelevant... yet here we are. We learn very quickly here that women do not respond to "nice" behavior. If you do favors for her, defend her, cheer her up and act like her friend then all you'll ever be to her is just a friend. Instead they respo…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/14 07:12 AM
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It's a stupid question. The Red Pill is an analysis of the world as it is, not as it should be. Do you know what happened when people tried to idealize a perfect Red Pill utopia? The blue pill was created. Look at the answers, they are all callbacks to the blue pill world.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 10:34 PM
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I'm pretty sure that if this woman ended up with a supplicating beta that would listen to her every whim and always asked her for her approval on anything, then she would go slamming down Shawn's door begging for him back.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 06:28 PM
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I have to second the anime thing. One girl that I tutored mentioned in her speech that she watches anime. Except, when she was talking about it, she had a really, REALLY disgusted look on her face in her practice speech. I was like, "Wtf, why do you mention that you "watch" anime if you don't like it?" And she said, because her boyfriend wanted her to include anime in her speech, convinced her it'll get all the fat neckbeards in her class to pay even more attention to her and also make himself f…
/r/askTRP19/02/14 01:43 AM
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The red pill should only be taken by people looking for it, otherwise it'll be like trying to vaccinate a large angry animal. One of my close friends is a huge fan of Bill Burr, Patrice, Louis C.K., and very heavily delves into Men's Rights. He rants daily about his frustrations with women. He sounds like a prime candidate for taking the red pill right? Nope. Every time I try to discuss red pill with him, he gets insanely defensive, tells me to stop taking everything so seriously, and scoffs at …
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 06:24 PM
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So he was just orbiting. It's exactly the same as my situation. She won't officially be his, but she won't let him be with anyone else. Hah.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 08:05 AM
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I feel like a few more details are missing here: Was the guy friend and the girl he was in love with dating? Or was he just orbiting? Did the girl return those feelings or was she just angry that he went out with another girl? A girl threatening to commit suicide for losing her orbiter is a pretty strange over reaction. Unfortunately these kind of scenarios are ones that you can't win regardless of what action you did. Your friend will play again and again in his head that if he had stayed blue …
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 06:04 AM
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I haven't yet, though this video has inspired me to start using my commanding tone more often than my nice guy tone. I'll have to do a report or share my experience once I am able to try it out.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 12:49 AM
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Whenever I used that voice, people would look at me funny and some even said that I was mentally unstable. I understand now that it was because I wasn't consistently commanding, so switching from pleasant/commanding really made them go WTF.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 08:59 PM
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Being taught evolutionary/behavioral biology is what opened my eyes to TRP, years before I even found this place. I still remember the cognitive dissonance I felt, the extreme discomfort I felt, when my professor was talking about hypergyny (hypergamy) and the several strategies of sexual behavior in animals and humans. I still lived in that fairy-tale world that men and women fall in love the same. It hit me to the core when she talked about how the 90/10 rule naturally occurs in the animal kin…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 08:34 PM
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I've been ignored my entire life whenever I talk to people. I developed a high-pitched soft voice when talking to strangers and would often plead TO DEATH to get people to listen to me. I sounded exactly like the guy in the first part of the personal space experiment. I thought it was good for avoiding unwanted behavior and making friends but they would always walk over me like in the video. It was part of my "nice guy" identity. It kills me inside because the 2nd voice is more like my true voic…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 08:09 PM
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There's a saying that the biggest critics are often the ones that have nothing to add of their own. That's why there is so much animosity towards "nice guys", because they tried to find love via blue pill methods but failed. When they ask questions like why did it fail, they just get creep-shamed for even having any sexuality at all. For advanced RPers, blue pillers are correct in that it's "creepy" to try to find love via "friendship", but the problem is that it's blue pill teachings that gave …
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 12:18 AM
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I am not trying to white knight here but comparing brain sizes is not a strong indicator of intelligence. In the 1800s, whites considered all Asians to be inherently mentally handicapped because they had smaller heads. Hence the term "mongoloid". Also by this logic, whales and elephants would be the current master species because they have brains that are multitudes larger than any other animal. The strongest indicator for brain size has to do with increased body size and mass. Animals need larg…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 10:35 AM
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Oh hey, some people are starting to post things like: "Well, they do have some valid points about women..." and in the second one, "You can find a lot of great information there!" Shows you that regardless of how much they circlejerk each other's eyeballs out, TRP truths are seeping into them.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 06:28 PM
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Accepting blame for everything is what held me in the blue pill world. Every tantrum and fit she threw, I thought it was my fault and always kept trying to make her happy. Every single flaw she could find about me, I agreed and tried to fix. When she left me to go run off with some other dude, I cried and felt like a miserable failure of a human being. I understand the rationale behind "everything is your fault", but having the wrong perspective can be disastrous. It's like being stuck in a cave…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 01:48 PM
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Aside from securing dominant genes, another sexual strategy is having genetic diversity. That's why so many women are happy to carousel. They seek to have as much diversity as they can to increase the chances that one of their offspring survives.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 07:08 AM
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This is the critical thing about looks. When I was out of shape as fuck, if I so much as looked at a girl or said anything they would go eeeww creepy. Now that I'm much better looking I can and have gotten away with saying some pretty messed up things and they don't feel creeped out, they laugh with me. It's like if comic book guy says to a girl, "I wanna nomnom your boobies." He sounds desperate. If Fabio says the same thing he'll be seen as being cute and funny. There are buff Adonises out the…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 09:08 AM
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This has also been scientifically approached. In "Science of Sex Appeal", they had a group of men who were rated by their appearance alone, no context. The women gave them ratings of 1-10 on attractiveness with only their face. They then did another test, where they would give all the men a mini profile stating what their career is and how much they make. All the men who were considered drop dead gorgeous were given jobs like, "Waiter - $22k a year", and their rating dropped from 8-10ish to 4-5i…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 05:23 AM
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I just want to point out how funny it is that this subreddit is the only place in all of Reddit that will give "nice guys" fair treatment. It doesn't make any sense. Your typical "nice guy" is someone who took too many blue pills and thought he could find a loving relationship with acts of kindness and friendliness. If anything, nice guys would be the ENEMY of TRP, but instead there's a reason why this is not the case. Women and white knights do what they can to illegitimize nice guys and throw …
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 12:09 AM
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That's why I'm here. I've been a nice guy for 30 years, and I can't let go. I want to let go. Seeing how quickly women throw nice guys under the bus just shows you how they truly feel about them. For god's sake, TheBluePill even frontpaged excerpts from the book, "No More Mr. Nice Guy", to show why nice guys are the most terrible people on the planet. It's like if Christian churches started giving out copies of "The God Delusion" to explain why being religious is bad for you. I just never though…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 07:47 PM
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I would argue that altruism is NOT redpill. I would argue that it is the opposite. Altruism makes men more inclined to sacrifice for others and withdraw from self indulgence. To other men this appears noble, but women do not perceive the same thing. Women see men who self sacrifice as being low value. He does not value himself enough to consider himself entitled, so why should I? It is the woman's job to break you down, don't do it for her. I want to believe being altruistic is noble and alpha, …
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 03:45 AM
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It is. Which is why it does not get you very far. Seeking her approval is the quickest way to turn her off to you. That's why I would say it is not a very effective strategy.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 03:28 AM
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From a cerebral aspect, seduction appears "rapey" because it can be seen as manipulating women into sleeping with you. If you look at other things cerebrally, everything seems weird/stupid. You have a camera pointing at two guys fighting and yelling at each other. Soon, someone in the back shouts, "CUT!" and the two people who were just trying to kill each other start laughing and shaking each other's hands. You then give these people money. To an inexperienced person, seduction seems immoral, w…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 12:31 AM
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Soda is sweet but will fatten you. Medicine is bitter but will make you better. The above reminded me of my own life. I'm described similar to the above but can't keep a girl if I had a gun held to my head.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 08:19 PM
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TL;DR - Social Proof yourself by acting nice and respectful to others. This will help you get the attention of a woman, but unfortunately that's as far as it can get you. Once you're alone with her, abandon all politeness and niceness or else she'll realize what a tool you are and abandon you.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 07:51 PM
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I brought a girl to go see Fast and Furious with me. We went to the wrong screen, instead was Star Trek 2. I was like, "HELL YEAH" and she was like, "HELL NO". She kept shoving me to leave and I was saying, "Dude just enjoy it, how can you know you're not going to like it?" but she wouldn't have any of it. She was seriously almost kicking me out my chair with her feet. I was still ultimate Beta, so we got refunded and watched F&F7, but I didn't say anything to her for the rest of the night. I ga…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 06:31 AM
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Guys will tease you about it, but the real problem is with women. Being a virgin is the ultimate red flag. There are mass murderers that are wanted by women for god's sake. The poor neckbeard is just trying to convince himself that it's not a problem and looking for others to agree with him.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 05:53 PM
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No, I never spoke to her again.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 11:35 PM
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Betas are extremely easy to manipulate. One of the worst mistakes I've ever made was having an "agreement" with this girl I spent a lot of time with. I was too trusting, the agreement we had is, "No lying, at all. To build trust between us, we must never lie", and I stupidly agreed. She then started asking me a bunch of questions about my life which I truthfully answered. She kept pressuring me, "remember, you can't lie!" After that I said, "my turn!" and asked her a bunch of questions as well w…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 10:46 PM
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I feel like I have aspergers. If I had said that, I could have totally gone home with Alicia. My guard was down because I genuinely thought friendzoner bitch cared about me.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 05:28 PM
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It really doesn't surprise me if I hear a story of a short guy pulling some amazing chicks. I just think, "Heh, must be like Peter Dinklage".
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 08:51 AM
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The knowledge in this subreddit is also great for keeping and maintaining relationships that you genuinely want to keep. I can tell you right now that if you follow the blue pill ideals in a relationship such as you and her being 50/50, or that she can go be the breadwinner while you be a stay at home dad, that the relationship will fail.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 08:44 AM
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I ran into a girl, Alicia, I haven't seen in a long time. I dramatically improved my appearance since I last saw her and when she saw me, she went apeshit and started armcuddling me. I had spent six grueling months at the gym, improved my physique and dressed better, etc. The girl who friendzoned me saw this behavior happening and went totally apeshit. Friendzoner started asking Alicia, "Where is your boyfriend? Isn't he around?" And that's when Alicia said, "No, I broke up with him, I'm startin…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 08:16 AM
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A deeper analysis on the phrase, "Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks". Betas hold on to this silly idea that whatever time/money investment they put into woman would somehow be returned in as love or affection. The phrase is a reminder that this world is not fair. You can spend so much time trying to make her happy but it'll just make you miserable in the end. There are alpha men out there who would see a hot girl, hump her brains out and then dump her with the only cost to him being the condoms.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 04:26 AM
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I'm not sure what's going on, it's blue pill to blame the tall guy?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 04:12 AM
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These people don't even know where the term "Nice Guy" comes from. The term, "NICE GUY" comes from when a girl rejects a guy and says, "Well, you're a nice guy, but..." They act like we label ourselves, "Nice Guy". They act like we're just pretending to be nice but are actually these evil manipulating men who mislead them with friendship for sex. "Oh you call yourself a nice guy? but you're expecting sex for nice things! YOU'RE NOT A NICE GUY LIKE YOU SAY YOU ARE!!!" No, your typical nice guy is…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 12:27 AM
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It's completely asinine that all these "guys" are coming out of the woodwork and start apologizing for the Red Pill. Apologizing for the Red Pill is like gathering all the kids into a gymnasium and apologizing for mathematics. They just don't fucking get it. The Red Pill is a body of knowledge, not a movement like National Socialism. If you shut down this sub-reddit and jailed every red pill member, you would still have red pill ideas emerging and being developed on their own. It's like that sce…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 10:47 PM
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It's not a good argument. It's a very common thing that Blue Pillers do, chastising and shaming "nice guys" for just wanting sex. It's pretty asinine because blue pill thinking is where all the Nice Guys come from. It's like running a crappy martial arts school, teaching your students really bad ideas like blocking punches with their face, and then shaming and mocking all of your students for being really bad at karate. Nice guys try to act nice to attract women because that's all that they were…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 08:32 AM
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That's why I tell him to fix his shit first, then next her. It sounds like the problem OP is having is not fully caused by the girl, but partly caused by him having loose game or game problems. I think we have a miscommunication here, I don't mean he has to stick by her, but instead to learn from her and himself what makes her tingle or what dries her up. If he learns enough to control the relationship and he decides she's worth it, let her stick around. If not, then next her.
/r/askTRP28/01/14 08:04 AM
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I never see it mentioned here, but a good source of Red Pill information is Tariq Nasheed's podcast macklessonsradio. Everyone's got their own flavor of Red Pill. Tariq focuses most of his show around how to a man. One of my favorite podcasts is one he made years ago regarding Chad Ochocino's divorce and how being young, athletic, popular, rich, can really fuck you up and cause you to do stupid shit like marry a psycho gold digger. Basically he foretold that bestof'd Reddit post regarding NBA wi…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 07:23 AM
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It's fucked up that men are taught to be "nice guys" to women, and when women string them along until they find another man, women and other white knights start shitting all over the "nice guys" and shame the fuck out of them: "Women aren't hurr hurr machines you put hurr hurr tokens into for hurr hurrs..." etc. No shit. We nice guys are angry because we've been taught and raised that by being the nice guy, that's the "correct" way to attract women. If women kept telling us guys that the only wa…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 06:41 AM
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The exact same motherfucking thing that drove me to TRP, but I wasn't so lucky. I was in the beta camp, did everything my soul could muster to be a nice guy, hell, a DECENT guy for her. I drove her hundreds of miles around, brought her to 20 different places, made her laugh and smile 2000 times, shared deep stories about ourselves, gave her amazing gifts and told her that I'll always be there for her. She lost all interest in me in 3 months. I cried my eyes out, wondering what could I have possi…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 01:43 AM
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To be fair, money is just a softwall for men. In fact a bit of me got grossed out inside that I even said that money is a wall for men. No, money is a wall for WEAK men. That's why it's beta bux because weak men who have nothing else to offer women use their money as a crutch to keep them. Look at the movie, Casino, where De Niro plays a man that doesn't have a lot going for him other than his wealth and status to get a wife. No matter how many dresses and pairs of shoes she has, she gets bored …
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 11:04 PM
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Using OKCupid stats and other dating sites, men in ALL age categories, minus under 18, always receive a lot of responses if their income is very high. Universally in all ages, men who earn less than 30k a year get almost no attention. Universally in all ages, men who earn more than 100k a year get all the attention. Age is not a wall for men, money is.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 10:45 PM
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After she left me, my sister and mother kept trying to tell me, "there's nothing wrong with being a nice guy, trust us, we raised you right. The problem wasn't you, the problem was her. They just haven't learned to appreciate nice guys yet, so what you should do is date older women who are 30+ years old." I said in the back of my mind, "Gee, thanks, thanks for raising me to be lonely the entirety of my teens and 20s. Now that I've worked so fucking hard on trying to being the perfect nice guy, I…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 10:41 PM
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Just wanted to add, the best thing you can do is just ignore her demands and start bringing her to different places, distract her, have fun. She'll follow her tingles and forget she even had demands in the first place.
/r/askTRP27/01/14 09:35 AM
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She ended up getting mad, claiming that I was being rude and that she was trying to be flirty. I shrugged the incident off and claimed that I was only being funny. Is what I was referring to, but if what you say is the real case then never mind. All I can essentially guarantee is that if you do cave in to her demands and start acting nice, she'll get bored of you and look for another dick.
/r/askTRP27/01/14 09:23 AM
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Yeah, you're pretty new. Here's the ways you messed up, and thank you for being honest. If you lied and pretended, "Yeah I held frame", then it only serves to defeat you. These are lessons that will only make you stronger. You essentially apologized/caved in when she got mad and you said you were just being funny. You lost frame -> You lost attraction. When I'm a "jerk" to girls which I often am, I just laugh at them and give them a grin. They would act angry for a few minute until they cave in …
/r/askTRP27/01/14 08:55 AM
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It's just not compatible. One of the core ideas of Red Pill is to be manipulation proof. When she tries to string you along, use you for her own gains, implies a relationship, etc. The way you act or respond determines if you are blue or red pill. Blue Pill: To believe that by bending to her will, doing as she says, and believing her you will be rewarded with pussy. Red Pill: To know that by passing her tests, giving her nothing, and following your own path is the surefire way to get pussy. A ma…
/r/askTRP27/01/14 08:25 AM
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I feel really fucking sad because my buddy's girlfriend taught her little brother to be a man hater. Yes, he writes posts daily on facebook about how perfect this world would be if there were no such thing as masculinity. She is even converting my friend into feminism, what the fuck. In our last conversation he told me about Tropes vs. Women and how bad sexism is in video games.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 07:51 AM
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RP isn't a doctrine like the ten commandments. RP is just an observation of how the real world works. If you want to still marry a woman despite swallowing red pills, then that is your own perogative.
/r/askTRP27/01/14 03:36 AM
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You know what, we fucking called it. Mention TRP or anything, and it'll be downvoted to oblivion. Mention TRP truths WITHOUT mentioning TRP and it'll be bestof'd. Mention ANTI-TRP shit, even the most stupidest arguments such as, "If TRP was going to work for you, then it'd already be working for you." gets Bestof'd. Laugh, out, loud.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 03:34 AM
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You don't get it. Women straight up love it when we act Red Pill. I have seen beautiful intelligent women fall in love and do anything in their power to please dark triad men. Patrice O'Neal straight up complained about how much attention his girlfriend smothers him with and he's as RP as they come.
/r/askTRP27/01/14 03:02 AM
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Patrice on why he gives mostly advice for men on his relationship shows. "When you fix the king, the kingdom is in line... If the king is wrong, then the whole kingdom is wrong. You don't have to focus on the queen because if you fix the king, then the queen will be fine."
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 06:40 AM
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TRP has dramatically changed the way I interact with my mother, for the better. I hated my nice guy persona and blamed it for the reason why I can't keep a girl interested in me longer than 2 weeks. Every night I would dream of putting a gun to my head and snuffing out the nice guy within me because of how much sadness it brought me. After months of meditating on why I can't kill my inner nice guy, I finally had a mini-epiphany. When I met the mother of the last girl I dated a few times, her mot…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 09:15 PM
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Quick note from the Book of Pook and why men get Oneitis: Men develop oneitis when they try the ol' fish with one rod technique rather than trying to catch with a net. The body tends to biologically enter marriage mode if she's the only woman you give attention to and spend time with. Your body produces oxytocin to create bonds and significant feelings where there are none. This is how some decent men end up falling in love with some of the most ratchet of bitches. I've fallen in this trap befor…
/r/askTRP24/01/14 08:47 AM
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A scorpion and a frog meet at the river. The scorpion begs the frog, "please, carry me across the stream", but the frog says, "no! you're going to sting me if I try to swim across." The scorpion says, "don't be silly, because then I'll die too." The frog is convinced and carries the scorpion on his back. Halfway across the stream the scorpion stings the frog and paralyzes him. They both begin to drown when the frog tries to ask the scorpion, "why?", and the scorpion says, "because it's in my nat…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 03:05 AM
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How has she added value to your life and made you "realize a lot of things"? I'd be careful with that. When I was younger, girls would preach to me too about things and I'd auto-agree just because they were girls. When you are attracted to someone, the brain tricks itself into believing there is more value in what they have to say. This girl I knew once said, "My favorite animal is the cow because cows keep giving to others and are strong but hurt no one." I used to think it was the most profoun…
/r/askTRP24/01/14 12:01 AM
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Realizing that girls have zero control over her attraction is what I have to begrudgingly accept. The hind/forebrain explanation perfectly describes the girl that drove me to trp. Her forebrain told her that I was the most wonderful man she could be with because of how happy I made her, but no matter how hard my captain save-a-ho cape flapped in the wind, no matter how many times I rescued her from her problems, she ultimately couldn't feel any attraction to me. She tried to bring out the bad bo…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 06:29 PM
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As the CEO of Beta, I'll go ahead and say that it's true. 90% of betas out there are happy being betas, but it's not the good kind of happy. It's the same as saying 90% of Drug Addicts are happy when they do drugs, therefore you should keep letting them do drugs. I was happy being a beta, doing everything in my power to keep trying to please women by giving them gifts and doing favors like driving them around and fixing their computers. I was happy because I believed that in some sick sort of wa…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 01:44 AM
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Another great example is Episode 11 where Pam, a woman described as being so gorgeous it's unreal, starts massively trying to tear down Patrice. She calls him gay, a woman hater, a rambler with anger problems. She says that men like him are only angry because they have small dicks that can't get laid. She's trying her best to dig into Patrice mentally, saying that Patrice's anger stems from having so much trouble attracting women. She goes all out, pulling out all the stops and even daring to sa…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 12:24 AM
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My dogs always refused medicine when they were sick. My dad had to always hide the medicine in hotdogs to trick them into eating it. TRP is the same thing, when comedians are telling jokes and ranting about dealing with women, their girlfriends, etc., people just laugh it up when they'd normally be offended.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 06:12 AM
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Number 13, oh god. Bronies.
/r/askTRP21/01/14 05:56 AM
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"Just be confident!" - typical reddit advice. Confidence means horseshit if you don't have any game. "Game? OMG GAME IS ORAL RAPE!"
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 06:32 PM
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I'd like to share my perspective if it'll help others understand why there is so much hatred/resistance to Red Pill. Years ago when I was fresh out of college my white knight suit still shined brightly and I would have rejected Red Pill ideas like the rest of the crowd because my life was too good. I enjoyed the peace. I held onto the security blanket that eventually I'll meet the perfect woman but Red Pill is telling me that this peacefulness I'm feeling is a lie. The Red Pill creates a strong …
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 06:43 AM
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Red Pill appears so many times in front page discussions that it's gotten boring. Every day someone makes a comment that says, "RED PILL = RAPE PILL" and then it gets bestof'd. Then there would be another AskReddit thread saying, "WHAT DO YOU NOT LIKE?" and someone would say, "RED PILL CUZ I HEARD THEY ARE RAPE PILL".
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 07:22 PM
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Better said than me.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 10:01 PM
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Red Pill Men: We want sex. Red Pill Women: We want commitment. Red Pill Women's goals are to prove that they aren't the party sluts that men would typically pump and dump, but instead are the woman that men really want in their lives, great partners that you would be stupid not to commit to.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 07:39 AM
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It was difficult for me at first to swallow the red pill as well. I also did everything for her, she manipulated me all the way and left me to rot like garbage. I kept blaming myself, and thought that if I did things better, paid EVEN MORE attention to her (I temporarily abandoned my friends for her, el oh el...), etc, that things could possibly have been different. Here's what happened to me that made it really fucking easy to take the red pill: When I agreed to stay friends with her and meet h…
/r/askTRP17/01/14 09:20 AM
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I know what you're trying to say, however recent events have highlighted new information regarding who we can label as the true shitlords. You see, we've been dumping piles of horseshit in front of parliaments lately and since it's on public property, the horseshit is ergo now public property. What do you call someone who owns/governs property? A lord, like a landlord. Since our government now literally owns shits, we can formerly and officially proclaim Democracy as literally shitlords.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/14 08:50 AM
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Whoa now, we should focus our attention on the true shitlords, hospitals. Hospitals go against natural selection, which is good because it has the word natural in it. Besides, only unfit diabetic cancerous accident prone senile people ever visit hospitals, you wouldn't want to be one of those guys do you?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/14 08:36 AM
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Sigh, the strawman game. DEMOCRACY Allows half the country, hundreds of millions of people less intelligent and educated than you, to run your government. Directionless, inefficient, broken. Wastefully spends trillions a year to do nothing. GOD/JESUS Is omnipotent and all loving yet doesn't help anyone. Doesn't care if you are a starving kid on earth, just waits for you to die. HOSPITALS Saves millions of lives each year, worsening housing and food shortage conditions. Doesn't close on holidays,…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/14 08:18 AM
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I love Bebop, but I also gotta say that we shouldn't use fiction as examples of RP, it is no better than people using Disney films to prove that blue pill concepts are real.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/14 02:57 AM
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I was her personal taxi driver for 3 months. :(
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 01:49 AM
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I was friends with this girl that I liked that people told me to tell her that I liked her, so I did. After all, the worst that can happen is that she says no, right? Noooooooooooooooooooope. At first she was like, "Eh, I'm not interested." And I thought that was that until I noticed the way she acted started changing, a lot. She was known for giving these mega hugs, and even used to give me some. After I told her she wouldn't even touch me or let me touch her, most she'll do is a wave. Then she…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 12:21 AM
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Getting women advice solely from women has been the most nightmare inducing experience for me when it comes to dating. Before "Be respectful. Keep your hands to yourself. Do not rush her, don't make a move unless she gives permission first. Anything else is rape." After "Well obviously you never made a move so it's no wonder she didn't think you were interested!" Before "Girls need time to get to know you, that you are a kind good person, will listen to her, and will always be there for her. Wil…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 11:32 PM
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Here's a youtube clip I found of a professor who debunks claims of wage earning gaps: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G_sGn6PdmIo#t=2m Quick breakdown: The income gap comes from directly comparing single men and single women, which does not work. Single women include single mothers and divorced women who spent a significant amount of time either raising their children or only working part-time which does not compare with men who have been working full-time for decades. If you compared "Never Marr…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 11:05 PM
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In our mid 20's, I was in the blue pill camp and my friend was in the red pill camp. Every day he'd tell me about how to attract girls red pill style but I'd argue and say that what he's telling me goes against everything I've ever been told. I absorbed nothing. It was too difficult for me to swallow was because I thought I had a baseline idea of what works and what he was telling me contradicted that. It's like telling someone to lose weight by eating nothing but fatty steaks and greasy bacon a…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 08:04 AM
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I'm not sure, no one wanted to specify. It was only explained that the biological reason for a female to fall out of love in 4 years is to encourage genetic diversity in offspring. Otherwise, love chemicals would have/should have lasted forever.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 11:16 AM
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Age 4 and above is the age when young children are able to start running and walking on their own, thus having a small ability to start hunting small game and gathering on their own in the emergency case that something does happen to his/her parents. I've also read in history books that it wasn't until the last few centuries that the concept of childhood even existed. By the time you were 6 years old you were already expected to start working for the family.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 09:39 AM
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Very interesting. I do not have many resources on early human sexuality but this book tries to expand on the idea of comparing apes to humans. Evolution of Human Behavior: Primate Models (1987) (page 105) Monogamy does occur naturally in humans, but polygamy and polygyny occurs much more frequently. The only hominid that practices monogamy consistently is the Gibbon. Only 12 percent of primates practice monogamy. Only 20 percent of human cultures practice monogamy. Of the 20 percent of monogamou…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 09:34 AM
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Several years ago my friends were having a discussion about education in America vs other countries. Friend1 said, "It is rather dumb how in some countries, girls are not allowed to enter school and are instead taught how to be housewives. Why would they cripple their economy like that? Aren't women just as capable as men?" The moment he finished his sentence, Friend2's girlfriend started giving him the deathstare. She kept giving him the deathstare and started seething. We were like, "Whoa what…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 02:57 AM
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Personally I would reserve "Red Pill Truth" for real world situations but nonetheless this rings pretty fucking true.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 02:10 AM
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When we say girls are hardwired, we really mean it. They don't have conscious control over it. This is natural behavior for women to know if they've made the right choice in a mate. Girls don't want to win, they want a winner. That's why they lose attraction for you if you let them win.
/r/askTRP08/01/14 10:57 PM
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A guy that fucked one of the girls I spent months chasing was "The Machinist" level of skinny. If you've seen that movie you know what I'm talking about. He made up for his scrawniness by peacocking elsewhere. He had a huge mohawk, wore a spiked collar on his neck, a leather jacket, and had black colored nails. His general attitude was showing disdain in anything that anyone else liked. Being buff as fuck is just one of the ways to exhibit alpha behaviors. This guy fucked a girl in one night tha…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 10:46 PM
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Tariq Nasheed dissected this pretty well in his August 2012 podcast regarding Chad Ochocinco. It just goes to show that even if you removed the TRP community, that TRP knowledge and truths will still continue to exist and grow.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 07:02 PM
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Expecting girls to know what makes her tingle is the same as expecting everyone to be a foot doctor because they all have feet.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 01:53 AM
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Be the dominant one in the relationship I can't stress this enough for other men. I was going to write another post about it because I witnessed RP truth in action when I watched my cousin go through her divorce. I've met her ex-husband and he's a genuinely good guy. He lives the ideal life, he's very rich, very handsome, and very fun. My cousin saw these qualities in him and fell in love but she could not stand being in a relationship with him. He didn't take enough responsibility. She always h…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 08:37 PM
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JamesDK's comment got BESTOF'd by reddit. BEST. OF. A poorly constructed fallacious comment filled with weird rhetoric like, "If it was going to work for you it'd already work for you." and tripe like, "Just be yourself and you'll find love!" Holy shit. I have learned 2 things about Reddit. 1) These redditors have no fucking clue what logic is and how to argue. It's like they knock over the pieces, shit on the chessboard and call themselves the winner. 2) They are so desperate to bash TRP that t…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 01:21 AM
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50% of the change to my SMV was the way I acted around girls, here's an example of some SMV pulverizing things I used to say to girls all the time. If you ever need anything, let me know. I'm always here for you. Making sure you're happy is my number one goal. You don't owe me anything, seeing you smile is enough thanks for me. Alright if you want to pay me back, you pay me back in 200.... smiles and hugs! I'll always protect you. If anything happens, don't worry. I've lived a good life. Now, le…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 06:45 PM
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Alright, it's true. I was a white knight beta that had an incredibly low SMV, surrounded by equally low SMV friends. I didn't even know what SMV was. I thought it was completely natural to have to work extremely hard at proving your worth to a girl to attract her. Any crude joke, any playfulness was instantly rebuked by girls I interacted with. I didn't know that the problem wasn't the behavior but that my SMV was too low. If I had a higher SMV I could easily act the same way I did and have a ve…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 12:38 PM
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I time ho'd away over 10 years of my life thinking that all the positiveness, the kindness, the patience, the listening, the understanding, and all the good "nice guy" traits that a nice guy could possibly have would somehow resulted in at least ONE girl liking me out of the dozens I've time ho'd for. The last girl I tried to get with, I was her time ho for an entire year when I was a super white knight level 90 elite. I thought finally after a decade that I'm getting somewhere when she would dr…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 09:50 PM
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You're right, I am unhappy with my life. That's why I'm here. Most of my anger with women is because of all the lies and bullshit I've been fed throughout my life. The first woman I thought I loved told me this. When I told her I loved her, she said this to me," I love you too, but you must know something. Love and sex are not the same thing. Sex is for fun, love is for people I care about and I love you the most." Being stupid, I believed her. She always kept me at a distance physically and I t…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 02:37 AM
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To me, you're one of those people who raise a gold nugget in the air and say, "Look what I found. If you keep working hard at digging you'll strike gold too!" Some of us just aren't that lucky. I've been digging for a decade and got nothing. At what point do you just call it quits and go home? You claim to have found a quality woman, good for you. People have won the lottery as well, good for them. I'm not one of those lucky people, for me all I have left is to survive. Some will win. Some will …
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 02:07 AM
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I'm not an RP man, just a novice, but I've seen my family member's marriages/relationships fail because the man put his SO before himself. It sounds unreal but it's true. My cousin shortly before her divorce said, "My husband is loveable as fuck but I have to push him in order for him to be successful. I could keep pushing him but then I would never respect him. I can't love a man that I can't respect."
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 01:15 AM
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A high quality woman is this: A red pill woman. Reading this thread made my dead heart flutter a bit. It brought back feelings of longing again, wishing more women like this are out there. As of now, I have given up on the idea of a relationship and plan to go full MGTOW mode. I'm sorry Journey, I stopped believing.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 12:31 AM
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"Being a virgin isn't a problem!" is the biggest bullshit advice I've ever heard from women. I mean I believed shit like "be nice to her!", and "always be there for her" but wow you have to be a whole new level of retarded to believe that statement for a minute. In just 2 minutes of searching I have already found several posts of virgin men being rejected just because of their virginity. http://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/lbt3w/32_year_old_male_virgin/ http://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 11:05 PM
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Wow, I seriously did not know this until I looked it up. Gives me the chills. However, if the person was overweight or obese when the relationship or marriage began, the chances of that relationship or marriage ending within two years after the surgery is 80 to 85 percent. Source http://rfl.com/Portals/3/PDF/Counseling%20Bariatric%20Surgery%20Patients.pdf
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 08:38 PM
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Thank you about the advice on spinning plates. Being afraid of being seen as a scumbag was my biggest problem because what little honor & morality I have left in me told me there would be conflicts & problems, but I realize now that for women there's a double standard. Men who don't care aren't thought of less. Men who show weakness and worry about what women think are the ones they bring out the rope for and take down.
/r/askTRP29/12/13 08:29 PM
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My day is ruined from reading that. Too much rage. Notarealplayer tries to talk about pre-selection, posts actual scientific evidence, and the hamsters just dismiss it and say "oh it doesn't mean anything", when YES IT DOES. It feels like creationists trying to disprove evolution by saying, "Not enough evidence! Evidence doesn't make sense! Where is the evidence?" They also strongly keep insisting over and over and over again that, "Being a virgin isn't a problem!" which is total bullshit. Every…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 01:26 AM
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When I first stumbled upon TRP I didn't believe it'd work but I was out of options so I said fuck it, "for science", or whatever kids say. The difference in how you get treated by girls pre-TRP and post-TRP is day and night. Pre-TRP I used to play taxi for a girl (Veronica). I acted supplicating, saying stuff to her like "Hey it's alright I'm here whenever you need me. I'll always have time for you, just call me up and I'll be there in a jiffy." Things started respectful between us before I said…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 06:55 AM
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I've fallen into the texting trap before: Texting and texting again and again because I had too much anxiety to actually do something with her. When I finally did have the courage to ask her out she wasn't interested in me anymore and kept telling me that she's "busy". Every weekend and holiday she was "too busy". I looked over my message history and found that I messaged her over 200 times in the past 2 weeks. When I told a few of my friends they said, "Yep, you goofed up. It's called 'cupcakin…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 03:54 AM
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30s, sorry I over-did it.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 05:19 PM
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Thank you, this is valuable info to me so I can expand the way I behave next time. I should have definitely capitalized on this... if only my betaness did not oneitis her... but I'm swearing to myself to never fall for that again. Next time, I'll be better prepared. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 09:46 AM
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Thank you, I just think I'm entering a depressive state, too low willpower, thinking about it and the memories coming back also brought back those same feelings I felt when I went through this. I'm sorry about the tone of the post, I still carry a lot of resentment/sadness about it all.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 06:01 AM
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Thank you, I am very grateful for this community because of how much knowledge that is shared. I don't have anything alpha/redpill to offer, just the opposite. Before this sub-reddit I felt like I've thrown my life away. It is thanks to you guys I feel like I could get it back.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 05:32 AM
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It was really painful for me to read this article because I was exactly in Ted's position long ago. Almost word for word. I made the stupider mistake though and stood around for her. Girls bitch and whine when the beta leaves when she finds an alpha, but I guarantee you 100% that they never once gave a thought to how the beta feels. I know how it feels, I lived it. If Ted stuck around I'll tell you what would have happened to Ted if he stayed, what happens to men who stay in the friend zone. Fir…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 08:42 AM
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I agree. I am a fervent reader/believer in the Red Pill, however I do not believe "evangelizing" it would further it's cause. There are people like me who stumble upon it because we want answers. To me, the Red Pill is like a new Buddhism: to no longer live on faith and assumptions and to live with objectivity... to take empirical evidence and apply it to the real world for actual benefits to this life, and not some fantasy life/afterlife that people try to indoctrinate into us. I'm comfortable …
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 01:37 AM
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I'm in the same boat. I am beta/bluepill to the very core. I'm typically good at letting go of bad habits, thoughts, and ideas so that I can learn and adopt better ones but no matter how hard I try, I can't let go of the blue. It feels like a virus that no matter how many times I try to delete it, it always keeps popping back up. It's terrible, it's rooted itself into my very soul. Not a day goes by without me wishing to die because of how deeply ingrained I am, by how badly I've been programmed…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 12:13 AM
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Easy trick to make her less resistant to change and be more mindful of her weight is to frequently go out with fit/attractive people, keep taking photos of her with them, and let her see them without saying anything. If she loses her shit about it, put up a weak defense and it becomes her fight. People tend to think they're more beautiful/attractive than they really are. If you were to play back a recording of themselves or show them photos taken with others then they'll be taken aback, that psy…
/r/askTRP07/11/13 03:21 AM
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Damn, you're like the brother I never had. Thanks for all the advice.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/13 05:15 AM
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You're right. After weeks of blaming myself, buying into her hamster logic, and thinking about suicide I finally snapped out of it and realized I shouldn't care about it any more than she cared about me.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/13 03:04 AM
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This hurt me a lot to read because I was the ultimate #5 when I was younger. She still texts me and tell me that she feels and will always feel that I am the nicest, sweetest, most wonderful person she has ever known even though she dumped me and moved in with another man nearly instantly when she found someone else. She still "values our friendship" and considers me a "true friend." I would ask her why she left me then if she thinks I'm so great, and she would hamster to me that it's my fault, …
/r/TheRedPill21/08/13 02:09 AM
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