| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 170 | [FR] Don't Be This Guy | The_Merkon | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 05:03 PM | |
| 10 | [FR] Solo, Gay Friend, K-close | The_Merkon | /r/seduction | 06/02/12 03:06 AM | |
| 1 | The Win-Win Technique | The_Merkon | /r/seduction | 18/02/12 12:21 AM | |
| 0 | Being a Gentleman Can Work | The_Merkon | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 02:31 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 40 | Is there a way to avoid touching a girl too much?You probably shouldn't be trying to get at her vagina while you are out in a crowed place. | /r/seduction | 02/06/12 03:00 PM |
| 2 | How do I stay alpha in a relationship?Learn to say no to her? | /r/seduction | 13/05/12 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Tempted to go out and game tonight, but I will be on my own...It's not creepy as long as you're not creepy. I picked up the girl that I am currently seeing while out at a bar by myself. At one point she asked me where my friends were, and I told her that I came out alone. She was actually kind of impressed saying, "Damn, you got some balls man." | /r/seduction | 14/04/12 04:11 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Very Short FR and a "What would you have done?"I don't know what tone they were using, but to me it seems like he just dumped her for cheating on him or something, and is trying to make her feel worse. | /r/seduction | 04/04/12 01:54 PM |
| 5 | King of the AFCsI think something that puts people off around here is all of the acronyms, and analysis like you said. However, you can see it more akin to a coming up with a strategy for a sports competition than a military mission. Sure both of those have have a goal, but the difference between sports and military missions is that sports are fun. Both sides find it fun (meaning men and women). And it should be about having fun even if you don't score. All the different terms, while they may seem crude, don't … | /r/seduction | 04/04/12 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Gaming Girls at Concerts/Very Crowded Floors- Tips and Tactics ThreadI like outdoor concerts the best for picking up girls. One pickup I had was at Jimmy Buffet, and it was actually quite hilarious. My friend and I are chilling on the lawn. He then tells me that there are some hot girls behind us that we should talk to. My friend then asks me if I ever watch How I Met Your Mother. I didn't at the time. Without another word he then turn around and goes, "Hey, have you met Alex?" Then walks away. I talked to the girl for a little bit, then we started dancing. After… | /r/seduction | 04/04/12 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Kinoing tall girlsLast night I ran into a girl who was taller than me. I'm 6'2" and this girl was probably 6'4". When I went up to talk to her, I of course commented about her height, but I used a certain tone to make her being tall sound cool and unique. | /r/seduction | 01/04/12 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Seduction Journal?I've been considering doing this, just to keep a memoir of all the hilarious things that have been happening. | /r/seduction | 01/04/12 02:29 AM |
| 2 | When to contact a girl met at a club/bar?I always text the next day. I will generally ask her about something that we talked about. For example: I met a girl last night. She said that she was going home today (she's in college) for work. So I texted her in the afternoon, "How goes the work." From there I set up a dinner date with her. | /r/seduction | 01/04/12 02:27 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Going out solo, dancing with a cute girl with frecklesI've had a girls hit the wrong button on my phone before too, it sucks. When you are trying to move girls, you don't always have to move them to another venue. Another spot in the club can work. Preferably a quieter spot so that you can talk a little bit, and build up some rapport. | /r/seduction | 31/03/12 02:37 PM |
| 3 | SimplePickup Barney Stinson Openers. Legen...wait for it...They have gone downhill really quickly. I think the fame that they have been getting has gone to their heads. Now they just kind of seem like douchebags, when before they were inspirational. | /r/seduction | 31/03/12 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Let's create a definitive IOI list.Last weekend I had what I usually take as an IOI backfire on me. I was grinding on a girl from behind, and she kept playing with her hair on the side that my head was on. As in she was brushing her hair away, and exposing her neck. So when I see this I will start kissing her neck, and it generally is receptive. Now this one time that I did it, the girl pretty much straight up ran away. | /r/seduction | 28/03/12 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Met a girl on FridayJust tell her that you had a good time talking, thought she was cool, and want to hang out with her again. Then tell her that you don't go into the city that often, so she needs to show you some cool places to go. | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Two questions :PI like to do the high five if she says something that I agree with. A little trick to go along with it is to spread your fingers when you high five. If she is into you, she will lock fingers, and then you kind of hold hands as you are lowering your hands. | /r/seduction | 25/03/12 05:46 PM |
| 1 | So I have the opportunity to watch a movie alone with a girl. What do I watch?Spartacus is on Starz. But that is something that I wouldn't watch with a chick. | /r/seduction | 25/03/12 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Solo sarging and DHVI only got asked this twice. The first time I said that I didn't need to come with anyone to have fun. The second time I said I didn't have any friends and came out alone to pick up girls. K-closed both of those girls. | /r/seduction | 25/03/12 01:12 AM |
| 12 | So I have the opportunity to watch a movie alone with a girl. What do I watch?Scott Pilgrim vs. The World. | /r/seduction | 25/03/12 01:10 AM |
| 1 | What is it with spring?That is exactly what I've experienced the past few years. After Halloween I pretty much get nothing until the temperature starts to get into the 60s. Once spring rolls around I do crazy good. | /r/seduction | 24/03/12 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Did everything perfectly, but her friends got in the way. Could use some tips to avoid this in the future.Yeah, you pretty much need to get the mother hen to think that you're a good guy. From that point you need to isolate your target, and because you're cool with the friend then there shouldn't be an issue getting her alone. | /r/seduction | 23/03/12 03:07 AM |
| 3 | [FR] - first attempt at going out solo, great night, GO OUT SOLOUsually for me, girls that are that blasted are just annoying. Plus having a sloppy girl all over you can make you look like a creep. So I will only stay for the brief period of time that it is hilarious. Also when I go out by myself (which I do most of the time) I always end up running into people that I know. | /r/seduction | 18/03/12 03:03 PM |
| 25 | [FR] Pre-selection by WomenSlyly slip her your business card. | /r/seduction | 17/03/12 11:13 PM |
| 1 | How to approach/what to say if you're unsure about her age?I just ask where she is going to school. If it's a high school, move on. If it's a college, game on. | /r/seduction | 17/03/12 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Holy Fuck this stuff works (wee FR)The friend that I got introduced to. | /r/seduction | 17/03/12 08:39 PM |
| 5 | Holy Fuck this stuff works (wee FR)Exactly. Last weekend I started talking to this girl in a bar, and I could tell she was really into me (she was touching my chest). So I take her out on the dance, then she says that she can't do anything because she has a bf. I tell her to introduce me to her friends. She does, and full close. | /r/seduction | 17/03/12 02:37 PM |
| 5 | Thoughts on ASL (anti-slut defense)You sometimes have to use "bait." Like if you walk her home, ask if you can use the bathroom. If you want her to come to your place tell her you want to show her something cool that you have in your room. Then she can tell her friends that she just went to check out your teacup pig. | /r/seduction | 12/03/12 10:13 PM |
| 1 | K-close is extremely easy?I kind of disagree with you. I've only been out with one person from OKC (I don't really like it that much), and it was kind of difficult to k-close her, but I got it done at the third bar we went to. But I say that because it is a lot easier to tell if a person that you met out at a bar is into you than it is just meeting some random person off the internet. | /r/seduction | 12/03/12 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Can anyone give me some insight as to how this guy picked up these women?This is just an FYI for anyone interested, you can watch all of the Keys to the VIP episodes on Hulu for free. So you don't have to watch them in different parts on youtube with crappy quality. | /r/seduction | 11/03/12 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Suburbia bluesThe quad is an area of grass or open space between buildings (usually four hence the name quad). People will just go read on the grass, play sports, hang out. | /r/seduction | 10/03/12 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Suburbia bluesI wasn't really saying you should be hanging out in the hallways of the buildings, the quad would probably be better. It shouldn't really matter that you don't go there unless you are kind of a lot older than everyone else. | /r/seduction | 10/03/12 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Suburbia bluesI live in the suburbs, but maybe not as far from the city as you. I'm about 20-30 minutes from Philly. However, I really don't go there because I hate driving in the city, public transportation is expensive from this far and ends early, and there is the parking situation. I go to the college town that is about 20 minutes away. So I would suggest hanging around any college in the area. | /r/seduction | 10/03/12 02:44 AM |
| 22 | Went to a college party, horrible time, I had some questions.Well you sometimes just need to go to the places that you are more comfortable. If you're kind of a more low key guy, you're not going to feel at home or have fun in the middle of a rave. As for college parties, there are different types. From my experience apartment parties generally are pretty chill; where you talk and have somewhat of a normal conversation (however some do get pretty wild). As for college girls, I've pretty much exclusively picked them up. And what I've found is that they pre… | /r/seduction | 03/03/12 09:18 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First sarge ever, solo, 4 # closes, 1 K-close, Thanks SedditText a statement that she can relate to. Because if you get nothing off of a statement it isn't really like you asked her a question and she didn't answer. The statement gives you a little room to reengage. For example last week I texted two girls with the same statement, "It's the best feeling in the world when you just have a ton of work, and then it is just done." | /r/seduction | 03/03/12 05:05 PM |
| 23 | New favorite Opener: "Hey, you look REALLY cute. I had to come over here to talk to you."My favorite one is to say that she looks bored. Because one, she will generally be happy to talk to someone, and two, she often gives some sort of lengthy reply which I can thread off of. | /r/seduction | 02/03/12 03:45 AM |
| 2 | How to Move a Date to Your Place (Or Hers)Choose a place to go where your house is closer to it than hers/ on the way for her. That way you can say that she drive to your place, and then you'll drive the rest of the way. You know, to save the environment. | /r/seduction | 01/03/12 04:47 AM |
| 10 | Reading DiCarlo escalation ladder, need some pointers.Touch her every time you say something that she laughs at or she says something that you find really cool or interesting. It kind of works like a reward system. As time progresses she will get more comfortable being touched by you, and you can extend the length of your touches as well as engage in more intimate touching. | /r/seduction | 28/02/12 11:00 PM |
| 13 | It would appear that I have lost my Mojo.Stage a raid with your boys to get your stuff back. | /r/seduction | 28/02/12 05:22 PM |
| 3 | i'm approaching yet another year of life without any experience with women.Well you didn't say anything about you even approaching women, so I'm going to assume that your aren't. In which case you can't expect some woman to break into your home and try to jump your bone. | /r/seduction | 28/02/12 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Types of PUAsI feel like I don't specifically fall into any of those categories, but rather take what I like from each one. | /r/seduction | 27/02/12 06:27 AM |
| 1 | [FR] NOT my level of seductionYou don't go to the middle of the Pacific Ocean with cigar minnows looking to catch trout. You go to the stream with a fly reel. | /r/seduction | 27/02/12 12:45 AM |
| 5 | Help me with this sticking point, a heck of a lot rests on it.You would actually be incredibly surprised at how fast you can sometimes kiss a girl. The fastest I've ever done it is under 5 minutes, but I've seen people basically use a kiss as an opener. If you want to really get to know a girl I would suggest doing street pickups, and then actually going on dates. There is also a technique to make a girl put some investment in you where you ask her to tell you three interesting things about herself. This generally makes her think pretty hard, and then you … | /r/seduction | 26/02/12 10:08 PM |
| 1 | It's Sunday... So what did you learn this weekend?I've always felt a little weird trying to hit on girls when I am around girls that I am friends with. But I have realized that girls seeing you are friends with another girl gives you some pretty decent social proof. | /r/seduction | 26/02/12 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Dear Seddit, thanks to you guys, I need a new pair of pants. A girl literally tore my zipper off last night, I must be doing something right [FR]I started an OKC profile like a week ago. Spent probably around 12 hours on the thing, and get one phone number. I go out Friday night for about three hours and get one F-close. I don't think the online game is for me. | /r/seduction | 26/02/12 09:54 PM |
| 9 | I'm really sexual when 1on1 with a girl, but keep getting told, "I'm not that type of girl."One time a girl told me that "she wasn't that type of girl" after I asked if she wanted to come back to my place. This was about two weekends after she called me up out of the blue asking me to spend the weekend at her apartment (she lived like 3.5 hours away). I gave her the biggest what the fuck look ever, and just said "You are aware that we've already had sex right?" | /r/seduction | 26/02/12 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Week 3 learning club gameHere is what I generally try to do. I try to talk to girls who are not on the dance floor. Then once I feel that there is a decent amount of attraction built, I will suggest that we dance so I can get some isolate (even though the isolation is coming in the middle of a crowd). From this point I can generally k-close either right away or after a couple of minutes. If you are unsure about the kiss there are a couple of things that you can do. If you are not facing her you can kiss her on the neck … | /r/seduction | 26/02/12 06:41 AM |
| 6 | [FR] Don't Be This GuyAlright. My car was parked pretty close to the bar, so all four of us went and got in my car. I dropped my two friends off at their car, then me and the girl continued on to my place for the full close. | /r/seduction | 26/02/12 01:40 AM |
| 3 | Transitioning from talking to a more intimate setting?In college I would ask a girl if she wanted to come back and postgame. | /r/seduction | 26/02/12 12:57 AM |
| -5 | [FR] Don't Be This GuyWell I don't think I can do that because once I got her home I wasn't in the field anymore. | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 08:52 PM |
| 30 | [FR] Don't Be This GuyWell I guess what you can't really know from the FR, but at the point of the second bar the AFC was pretty much just 5th wheeling. Because my two friends were hooking up and I was hooking up with the other girl. | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 07:58 PM |
| 2 | [FR] One of my less productive nightsWhile I was reading that it kind of seemed like the f-close attempt came out of nowhere. You definitely needed to go for the makeout first. I don't know how many people you were with, but inviting more than just her back for drinks might have been better. That way she is in your apartment and you can make the offer that she stay. | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 05:41 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Don't Be This GuyProbably 21 because the girl is 21. I'm 23 and I'm pretty sure he isn't older than me. So in that range. | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 05:29 PM |
| 3 | How did you first motivate yourself to sarge when your friends are skeptical about PUA stuff?None of my friends know that I do this stuff or am into pickup. I don't go around spitting out PUA acronyms, just like I don't go around spitting out memes. Just ask your friends if they want to go pick up chicks with you. | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 04:28 PM |
| 3 | Seddit, what are your favorite places to go out alone and meet new people?I go to the downtown area of the college I just started grad school at. I also try to choose places that are a little more crowded. | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 02:32 AM |
| 14 | How to handle when a girl throws the "L" word at youTell her that you Lesbians her. | /r/seduction | 24/02/12 10:14 PM |
| 2 | [FR]OKC first date, F-close (Me too!)Well, I guess that is actually what my problem is then, and not my pictures or messages. Because about 75% of the chicks I messaged checked out my profile. | /r/seduction | 24/02/12 05:51 PM |
| 5 | How do you get motivated going out alone?Well when I go out alone approaching motivates itself. I don't really want to stand around looking creepy, so I approach. When I get to the place I usually start by talking to a dude or some ugly chicks that I don't care about making a good impression. That helps to get into state. | /r/seduction | 24/02/12 07:03 AM |
| 1 | How old is she? Any guides/links to help knowing someone's age?I ask where they go to school. If they say a high school I bail, if they say a college I'm good. I'm 23, so I don't really care about age as long as she is over 18. | /r/seduction | 23/02/12 11:26 PM |
| 1 | [FR]OKC first date, F-close (Me too!)I actually think that I need to get some better pictures. For some reason I get red eye in all the pictures of me, and generally look like a terminator. | /r/seduction | 23/02/12 11:20 PM |
| 1 | [FR]OKC first date, F-close (Me too!)I'm curious as to what your numbers are on OKC for message returns? I set my profile up on Tuesday (I think), and have sent out about 10 messages and only received one back. | /r/seduction | 23/02/12 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Pinnacle of SeductionWhere can I see full episodes of that show? That was awesome. | /r/seduction | 23/02/12 05:52 AM |
| 6 | Perpetually out of state. Lacking motivation to practice my game. How do you get motivated?The alternative is regret and boredom. | /r/seduction | 21/02/12 03:22 AM |
| 3 | What was the single most useful thing in your life to improving to improving your game?Probably the first thing is that I read "I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell." I realized that if a dude could be that much of a dick and get chicks I could. Then there was that show that Mystery had on VH1. Discovered Seddit and Simple Pickup, and realized I was making it a bigger deal than it actually was. Got tired of being a little bitch and staying in all weekend so I started going out alone which great results. | /r/seduction | 20/02/12 05:57 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Going off-book and succeedingI wouldn't say that as going off the book. It kind of is the book (or one of them). Go in strong, be confident in what you are doing, escalate. | /r/seduction | 19/02/12 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Tyler Durden at 22 years old, with Mystery.I've got a couch and a bed in my room, and I stack shit on the two chairs. | /r/seduction | 19/02/12 10:18 PM |
| 3 | Sunday Reflection Thread - What did you learn this weekend?Once you get sufficiently into state you're basically unstoppable. I ran into some friends that I hadn't seen in a long time, and k-close this teacher that was a few years older than me. So I am walking down the street after the bar closes, and some girl comes over and stops me, telling me that I look like the happiest person in the world. | /r/seduction | 19/02/12 09:37 PM |
| 5 | [FR] First kclose ever. Picture inside.I had the same style in middle school. | /r/seduction | 19/02/12 09:21 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First kclose ever. Picture inside.The only way to get over it is to do it. Just instantly talk to the first people that you see. You will probably suck at this first first approach, but it will give you some confidence and warm you up. The next one will be better, and then eventually you will just be owning every set. | /r/seduction | 19/02/12 09:21 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Finally taking controlI attempted to get pizza, and hit on some girls after the bars closed last night. Then a fight broke out, a gun came out, and I ended up in the back of a cop car as a witness. Needless to say I didn't get any pizza. | /r/seduction | 19/02/12 06:01 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First Solo Night Out, Get your reading glassesI have been going out alone, and one thing that I have found out is that as you open more sets you keep getting better, and feel more comfortable doing it. It's like jogging and stretching before you compete in a sports match. | /r/seduction | 19/02/12 12:54 AM |
| 15 | Lessons learned from clubbing last nightABC, always be closing. I never let a girl that I just met and am vibing with just walk away, always go for the close. It gets to be instinctual after a while. And if she starts to walk away with her friends or whatever, just grab her hand and pull her back into you. From here you can either go with, "Wait, I need a kiss goodby" or "Wait, I need your number." | /r/seduction | 19/02/12 12:44 AM |
| 1 | OpenersYeah, I definitely prefer the SP approach over MM. There is actually a really funny SP video where they parody MM. | /r/seduction | 18/02/12 09:59 PM |
| 1 | OpenersI don't like all his talking over the shoulder opinion openers, false time constraints, and over the top peacocking. I guess it's just more of a preference thing, and I like to be more direct. I don't want the girls to think that I am talking to them as an afterthought. | /r/seduction | 18/02/12 08:22 PM |
| 2 | OpenersIt wasn't just like that. You can't say hello to a girl and then hook up with her (well sometimes you can). We danced and talked for a little bit, then things were getting a bit stale, so I picked her up, carried her into the stairwell, and then started making out with her. | /r/seduction | 18/02/12 05:37 PM |
| 1 | wait. what the f*ck just happened. did I just grow a pair of balls?I would have kind of played around with it for a little bit. Something along the lines of: Whoa, you're already trying to get me naked. Maybe after you buy me a few drinks. I'm not that easy. | /r/seduction | 18/02/12 05:30 PM |
| 2 | OpenersThe first time I was exposed to pickup was on that VH1 show that Mystery did, and I though that he was some sort of god. But now that I have seen what other people do I dislike Mystery's stuff more and more. But really anything can be your opener. Last night I was talking to one girl, the conversation kind of went flat. So I turned around and saw another girl looking at me. I smiled, walked over to her, and just said, "Hello." Ended up hooking up with her. | /r/seduction | 18/02/12 05:24 PM |
| -4 | Eye contactI've heard that when most people make eye contract they generally look at the other person's right eye. But if you are trying to escalate and go for a kiss then you should switch and look at her left eye. It is supposed to make your eyes look more seductive and alluring. | /r/seduction | 18/02/12 05:11 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Noob breaks his clubbing cherry. Three questions.One of the things that I have done that has greatly improved my self confidence and posture is to start going to the gym. It makes you look better, and that makes you feel better, which gives you a great boost to confidence. | /r/seduction | 17/02/12 06:07 PM |
| 1 | [FR]First time club game, no closes, still had a fun night. Any tips?Well it's generally a lot easier escalate kino faster in a club because it is so loud, which means you need to be closer to hear each other. So you can kind of touch heads if you are talking in her ear, put your hand on her hip or her stomach, and finally there is dancing. | /r/seduction | 16/02/12 05:54 PM |
| 2 | [FR]First time club game, no closes, still had a fun night. Any tips?Well I would say that you need to move onto conversation topics that aren't so bland. It seems like all you talked about was the setting. Make sure you entertain the entire set, and gain everyone's approval. If you don't get the approval of the friends, they are not going to let you close the target. Also try to get kino in quickly and rapidly to build up their comfort level with you. | /r/seduction | 16/02/12 04:49 AM |
| 2 | How can I be more witty?I am generally pretty good at being able to twist people's words on them, but I have also found that it can be helpful to try and emulate the actions or thoughts of another person. My favorite show is Californication, which is about a self-destructive ladies man in a sense, but he always has the best lines so I often try to think up what the main character would do or say in the situation. For example: I was at a bar and I was in a set talking and one of the girls started jokingly spanking me, s… | /r/seduction | 16/02/12 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Kino - Overt 1I will generally go for a hi-five, then interlock fingers and continue this while the hands are lowered and a few seconds after the hands have gone all the way down. So it is technically hand holding, but it isn't like walking down the street holding hands. | /r/seduction | 16/02/12 04:37 AM |
| 1 | What are some good techniques to get past LMR when a girl says to you "You can come home with me, but we are not having sex"?When she says that, it generally means that you are going to have sex. It's just a shit test that you need to pass. Say something that agrees with her like, "Oh, I wouldn't dream of it." | /r/seduction | 15/02/12 07:45 PM |
| 1 | EnergyI just get it in my head that I don't want to miss out on anything, so I do everything. I also think being in good shape may have something to do with it. For example sometimes I am able to work all day landscaping, come home and go to the gym, and then go out and party at night. You just have to really want to do it. Also rum and coke usually peps me up. | /r/seduction | 14/02/12 04:13 AM |
| 1 | What Should A Guy Have In His HomeI need to find a girl to practice picking up. I'm fairly confident that I could lift easily lift a girl weighing as much as me, but all it takes for a header to happen is being a little off balance. | /r/seduction | 14/02/12 04:00 AM |
| 3 | A drinking question.Greater than 6 less than 15. | /r/seduction | 12/02/12 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Wtf, people keep trying to Alpha me..I really want to try the caveman carry one day. | /r/seduction | 09/02/12 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Wtf, people keep trying to Alpha me..Same. I was going to suggest giving him and Eskimo kiss if he gets in your grill. | /r/seduction | 09/02/12 09:35 PM |
| 2 | When you go out and someone says "You came out ALONE? AHAHA", what do you reply ??I got this last weekend, it wasn't it a mocking tone, just a question. I responded by saying that I didn't need to come out with anyone to have a good time. | /r/seduction | 09/02/12 04:21 AM |
| 6 | Maximize the quality of your physical appearance as often as you canWhen I go out I tend to wear kind of tighter clothes, and I also try to hit up the gym before I go out so I still have a little bit of a pump going on. I'm not some guido, and I'm definitely not huge (6'2", 160) but I think it has more to do with my mindset and confidence. | /r/seduction | 09/02/12 04:14 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Didn't try too hard, K-CloseYeah, I guess it does get harder as you get older, I'm 23. | /r/seduction | 07/02/12 09:48 PM |
| 7 | [FR] Didn't try too hard, K-CloseI always sacrifice sleep for social interaction, and definitely sex. In the words of Young Jeezy, "Run these streets all day, I can sleep when I die." | /r/seduction | 07/02/12 09:01 PM |
| 3 | A challenge for seddit to hold me toEven if you go out and do nothing, it will still be a first step, and you will feel better than if you have pussed out and just stayed home. Also try to get hyped up and excited before you go out, and maintain this all the way to the bar. It's a lot easier to do approaches if you are in an excited mindset. | /r/seduction | 07/02/12 08:51 PM |
| 3 | Interesting weekend FR...Beginning my journeyIt sounds to me like you failed pretty much every shit test that got thrown at you. Also don't drunk text a girl that you just met during the day. | /r/seduction | 07/02/12 03:41 AM |
| 0 | mini-[FR] & hit a road block trying to F-close at a club/ dance-floor.I saw this the other day in a video about qualification that may help you when the friend or friends try to drag her away. It goes along the lines of you telling the girl that you met a girl a few weeks ago that was just like her, and you hooked up and had sex. But the one thing that you didn't like about her was that she was "pussy whipped," and always did whatever her friends said to do, and that was a huge turnoff for you because she wasn't independent. Then ask her if she is like that. Of co… | /r/seduction | 06/02/12 09:13 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Solo, Gay Friend, K-closeI'm aware of that, but there was a gay friend FR request a few days ago. So I figured that I would include it in the title because there is probably a few people that are curious about that situation. | /r/seduction | 06/02/12 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Club game adviceWell when I am in a club situation I will always try to get eye contact first, and then I will ask her to dance. That way I am not a creeper. When it comes to kissing a girl I have two techniques (mind you this is after some pretty heavy kino has gone down, such as running my hand up and down her thigh, putting my hand on her stomach and neck). The first one is when I am dancing behind her , and I will start lightly kissing her neck. If she is receptive to this I will grab one of her hands, then… | /r/seduction | 05/02/12 02:23 AM |
| 6 | When I have the #-close should I advance for a K-close?I don't think so. I tend to get numbers right before I leave the venue, or if I am going to be ending my interaction for at least the time being with her. Most of the time I will go in for the kiss/make out before I have her number. | /r/seduction | 04/02/12 05:53 PM |
| 3 | I'm a bouncer. Give me some lines/ideas to try tonight at work!Unclench, father. | /r/seduction | 04/02/12 05:30 PM |
| 14 | Not sure if this is the place to post, but any tips/links/etc for a girl looking to pick up guys?Most of the time the smaller your entourage the more approachable you will seem. Also mos guys will stick around for a while if you just go up and start a conversation with them. | /r/seduction | 04/02/12 02:44 AM |
| 4 | I'm a bouncer. Give me some lines/ideas to try tonight at work!Tell them the cover fee is one nipple. | /r/seduction | 04/02/12 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Can someone give me some tips on going out alone?AFC means average frustrated chump. There is a link on the sidebar to a glossary of terms. And I made up grilled cheese sandwich close because she made me a grilled cheese sandwich. | /r/seduction | 03/02/12 11:27 PM |
| 9 | I'm that guy.All the ways you wish you were, that's me. I look like you wanna look, I fuck like you wanna fuck. I am smart, capable, and most importantly I am free in all the ways that you are not. | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 06:36 PM |
| 6 | Can someone give me some tips on going out alone?I went out alone for the first time last weekend. The places that I went were pretty crowded, so it wasn't all that weird. I opened a couple girls in the bar but nothing really. Then I left about 15 minutes before the place closed, and that is where I had a good amount of luck. I opened one girl walking down the street by just going up and saying "hi" and introducing myself. I tried to number close with her but got rejected, whatever. After that I approached another girl I saw standing on the si… | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 06:32 PM |
| 17 | I'm a little blasted right now, but I managed to bring a girl home (also, I live on a boat)But it sounds like she doesn't want to have sex with you. | /r/seduction | 29/01/12 05:20 PM |
| 27 | I'm a little blasted right now, but I managed to bring a girl home (also, I live on a boat)That sounds a little dark. What implication? | /r/seduction | 29/01/12 04:57 PM |
| 7 | [FR] The Apocalypse Opener.I would say this sounds like a pretty good time to whip out the questions game, and just skip right to the sexual ones. | /r/seduction | 29/01/12 03:06 AM |
| 1 | How to pick up girls when you live at home?To add to that, I take it that because your parents are retired, they are old. And old people tend to have a habit of going to bed early. On the other hand young people have a habit of staying out until two in the morning. | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 11:47 PM |
| 3 | Ultimate Peacocking Item...I use Silly Bands (the ones that little kids wear that are in the shape of animals). Also I always wanted to try using bubbles, but have never done so. | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 11:36 PM |
| 7 | Fun little games that you can play with her to help build attraction? Lets make a list. I got a few:There is the Fuck, Marry, Kill game. One person picks three people that they see, and the other person has to choose one to fuck, one to marry, and one to kill. | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 12:15 AM |
| 11 | How can you meet the girls in your classes?I was just making a joke. Everyone knows women love orange juice. Let's get real here, who doesn't want to get orange juice with me? | /r/seduction | 08/01/12 11:16 PM |
| 16 | How can you meet the girls in your classes?I don't drink coffee. Think she will want to get some orange juice with me? | /r/seduction | 08/01/12 11:04 PM |
| 4 | Is there a way to keep your game sharp for six months or more without going out into the field?You may get a little rusty, but it's not like you are going to forget everything that you have learned. It's just like playing a sport, after the off season it's going to take a little bit to get back into game shape. | /r/seduction | 05/01/12 10:13 PM |
| 1 | If you lived downtown in the city or in a bar district, how would you use this to your advantage?I guess you could take a cab ride if you wanted. However, walking in the cold could be a good opportunity to hold her close "for warmth" and continue your kino. One time in college I was walking a girl back to my place in mid-January. We actually had a blast trying hold each other up while navigating icy sidewalks. | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 11:16 PM |
| 1 | If you lived downtown in the city or in a bar district, how would you use this to your advantage?I've never had any trouble getting a girl to go a few blocks. Or you can go for the piggy back ride. | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 11:01 PM |
| 5 | Job TitlesI'm actually in a top secret government space program called Secret NASA, or SNASA. | /r/seduction | 04/01/12 10:59 PM |
| 7 | Absolutely cannot get over my huge insecurities about heightBeing 6'2" has landed me a girl. | /r/seduction | 02/01/12 09:48 PM |
| 10 | Going out by myself: How to DHV when asked why I'm not with friends?Make up some lame excuse for why your friends bailed on you at the last minute. Then say something along the lines of, "Just because my friends don't want to have fun doesn't mean that I'm not interested in meeting some new people and having a good time." | /r/seduction | 02/01/12 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Problem: I find working out boring as fuck.It may be a problem of just initially starting to work out. I've been going to the gym for almost six months now, and now that I am looking a lot better I have new motivation to keep going. So I think once you start to see real results, and your body looking better, you will begin to like it. Additionally, I work out with one of my friends, so there is also a social interaction that I am finding enjoyable. | /r/seduction | 02/01/12 04:11 AM |
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