I just got back from a great night out and wanted to share my weekend with you. Nothing groundbreaking but just shows what a little effort and belief can achieve.

Last summer was when I got my last fwb relationship started, and it is still ongoing. I read all the PUA shit there is to read and realized I just need the real experience to help me get a confidence base. This girl proved to me that I can get girls with my personality and not faking anything. She likes me for me and every time I approach a chick I think of how great this relationship turned out for me. She really built up a solid confidence base for me. I am a nice, good-looking Italian guy and yes, I do get away with a little bit more sometimes because of it. But there were many times I could have half-assed it and left but pressed on and got results.

Anyway, last night (Friday) I went to a basement frat party. I am 23, so this was a little weird. I realize it is going to be very hard to pull a chick since I don't live in a dorm and all the girls were freshman, so this is just a lets see what I can get away with night. I end up having good convo with a few chicks and making out with them. I also finger banged a high school senior on the dance floor.

Now its Saturday and I'm feeling like a pedobear. I invite my fwb over, fuck her and take her out to dinner. This girl is so awesome. One approach and I got so much return on investment its crazy. I drop her off, then hit a few of my friends up to see what's up for the night. Nobody answers. Fuck it, looks like I'm going to the bar by myself.

I get there at around 10:30. Where I live the bars close at 1 (I know....) so I have to get to work fast. I do about a dozen approaches or so in the span of an hour and a half. I get mild results but no real bites. It is now midnight and the bar is getting super packed and I'm feeling the social pressure. I decide to change venues to a less popular place.

While getting in, I chat up a cutie in front of me, we'll call her A. We had a quick 10 second convo then I walk inside. I try a few more approaches and again, no bites. I walk outside to call my friend one last time to see if theres a party I can go to after 1. He doesn't answer. It is now 12:30 and I'm getting kind of discouraged so I say I'll give it one last go.

I go back in and spot a cutie that makes my peepee tingle, she's all by herself. I chat her up. I can immediately tell she's into me, the first real indication of attraction I got all night. I suggest a dance, she suggests drinks. Fine. We go to the bar and we both get drinks, AND SHE PAYS. She says I'm adorable and she's all alone because her friends left her. She asks me if I'll walk her home and I say yes. We go to dance and we make out. Her friends later show up, and I can tell she feels too weird going with me so I get her number and let her go. Whatever, battle was won in my eyes. I text her and she replies saying she had fun and text her soon. She's getting the Italian sauseege for sure.

The bar closes and I'm hungry, so I go to a pizza place and its closed. lo and behold, girl A from before is there and complaining about the pizza place being closed. We go to another place, order food, and talk for an hour. She is getting into me and I into her, I wasn't really expecting anything so this was a nice surprise. She goes home with her friends and I get another make out and number right in front of her friends.

Conclusion:

1) Never give up. I didn't start seeing results until I was gaming for two hours and the bars were almost closing.

2) I went out ALONE and did this, and I told the girls this and they were all enamored by it. They thought I was brave for doing it. It's only weird if you let it be weird.

3) It's cheesy, but just have belief and confidence. Also, just don't give a fuck. I made plenty of awkward approaches tonight that felt weird and some girls legit gave me the cold shoulder. One girl wouldn't even tell me her name.

4) I'm getting into new territory with the numbers here. I don't really know how to go about this but hopefully I don't fuck it up.

I feel like I may finally be getting some control over my social life, and it feels awesome.