| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Why beauty doesn't matter | RANT | Then_Advertising_773 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 06:41 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | Oh.....oh no.......He said it in general | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 07:30 PM |
| 9 | Encountering men who overshare: RUN, SIS.Get a pet lol. Legendary | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 03:57 PM |
| 17 | Oh.....oh no.......Wise words. I got told the same by an ex whenever I refused him to pay for me. He was a mega player so he knew what he was talking about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 09:43 AM |
| 17 | In case any of you lovely ladies need this todayMade my day. Thank you 💜👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 12:20 AM |
| 116 | Men are stressfulShe couldn't be any more on point. Many times, once a guy gets the woman he wants, he tends to drop any effort and he's now someone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 12:09 AM |
| 4 | Turned this guy down politely bc he was uncomfortably physically pushy. Turns out he's just unable to take no for an answer :')Yeah it's just not logical, it's like he's texting a pal of his. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 11:48 PM |
| 70 | Has anybody been following the Armie Hammer situation? When they say consensual BDSM isn’t abusive...I just searched it and some messages he sent her are extremely disturbing. He literally told her he wants to chop her in pieces and have sex with the pieces & some other cannibalistic stuff. Some men's fantasies have no boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 11:38 PM |
| 70 | When they don’t want you but they don’t want anyone else to have you 🙄How dare she? he can't take her for granted anymore /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 11:31 PM |
| 9 | Turned this guy down politely bc he was uncomfortably physically pushy. Turns out he's just unable to take no for an answer :')His messages are kinda low effort, at least he should have asked the reason or be more well thought if he decided to text again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 11:24 PM |
| 38 | Oh.....oh no.......Money saved: check A girl who's there for granted whenever he wants: check | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 11:15 PM |
| 147 | Encountering men who overshare: RUN, SIS.When guys do that they want to make you pity them and to make you feel like they think you're special to them. In return, you are more easily to give them intimacy and get tricked into forgiving his wrongdoings with the excuse that he's traumatised so it's "not intentional" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 11:12 PM |
| 86 | Oh.....oh no.......Having a girlfriend is a great investment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 10:49 PM |
| 79 | Oh.....oh no.......Wont be surprised if he soon finds a side chick to spend the rest of his money on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 10:48 PM |
| 82 | The REAL reason men are on dating sites often isn't to find a date.I was watching a YT video of a therapist earlier today saying the exact same thing. You're right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 08:16 PM |
| 6 | Wholeheartedly agree! Stay safe out there everyone.This reminded me of when I got sexually harassed in the bus. I wanted to start screaming but I was scared people would call me crazy or ignore me. This hits home | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 05:57 PM |
| 35 | I am so glad that more and more women are realising that casual sex is a complete scam for women.Many women nowadays end up in situationships and they give sex just to please the guy they like, in hope of having more chances with him. Hookup culture has made it easier for men to get what they want and drag women along and take them for granted, while giving minimal effort and only viewing them as sex dolls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 05:55 PM |
| 18 | This is what a real man is aboutYour father is a role model | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 05:42 PM |
| 42 | Pickmesha on TikTok comments. 😔 Video was a lock on video game console 😌Tik Tok comments can be harsh but sometimes they point out the right thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 05:38 PM |
| 12 | STOP PLAYING HOUSELol exactly ! had a friend who dated a disabled older guy and he isolated her. He wanted her to leave everything and take care of him exclusively. He made her cut off with me. In a few months, she had changed a lot as a person (for the worse) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 11:38 PM |
| 43 | The average male redditor starter packThey're using false facts to promote certain beauty standards which are unhealthy and unrealistic. I'm tired of hearing "men are visual creatures". So are we, but society supports a good looking girl with a bad looking dude, the opposite is rare and criticised | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 08:16 PM |
| 20 | STOP PLAYING HOUSESeems like that could be the case. She does deserve better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 07:44 PM |
| 24 | STOP PLAYING HOUSEHope everything's good. It just seems weird that he doesn't allow friends to get close to her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 07:35 PM |
| 109 | STOP PLAYING HOUSEThe last one seems very abusive. Isolation is done by abusers almost every time. I hope she didn't have any bruise marks on her, next time you see her please try to look on her uncovered skin areas. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 07:27 PM |
| 137 | STOP PLAYING HOUSEIf I want a roomate, I'll get a roomate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 07:24 PM |
| 25 | Today has been a sad day. Thinking of the abuse, how badly men treated me. My ex broke my nose on my birthday 2 years ago. I hurt for that woman who thought that was love. I truly hope to heal...Try to work on your trauma and self esteem first. If you consider dating again, get educated on manipulation tactics and red flags. Take your time. You deserve the best | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Yo??This. I gave my number to a dude from an app, he checked my number in my phone provider's catalogue and found personal info about me that I didn't know was public, like my exact adress, my full name and my father's name. Beware. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 05:05 PM |
| 37 | On Raising men....Yeah in my old school guys could take their t shirts off in class to change after PE. But during an event, a girl was wearing a costume that had a crop top that wasn't even revealing and the teachers scolded her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 04:43 PM |
| 70 | The average male redditor starter packWhat was a good catch about him? I've had pick me friends encourage me to be a rebound to a guy because "I shouldn't be alone". What's up with that logic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 04:39 PM |
| 98 | The average male redditor starter packThey also use this as an excuse to belittle women's bodies. "Science proves that men like this x body type cause it's more fertile" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 04:36 PM |
| 32 | Clown Central 🤡🤡And then erection problems begin and they usually blame the woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 03:00 PM |
| 8 | Why is mainstream dating advice like this?? 🤢🤢🤢It is hard to put it in your subconscious cause our whole lives we are programmed differently every single day. I got advised by a kind older woman to write positive phrases on the mirror and read them when I walk by it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 02:44 PM |
| 11 | Ladies, don't be a FWBLol I read in another comment here that a user knew a guy who told her his life goal was to sleep with women of all races in a day. Oh ambitions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 02:42 PM |
| 18 | Ladies, don't be a FWBTruly yeah. They're only looking to satisfy their sexual urges and fill their ego | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 02:39 PM |
| 12 | Slamming doors and breaking things is intimidation which already is domestic violenceWe can learn what to avoid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 02:30 PM |
| 100 | Why "jUsT cOmMuNiCaTe" is problematic: we live in a culture where men generally get what they want when they ask for it, and where women generally don't.Yeah they call us "the weak sex". They were raised in a society where they were taught to be entitled and to have high standards and we women have a duty to obey. I see so many families who have boys and girls as children and the girls are treated like maids or are considered stupid and inferior. The girl isn't allowed to date but the boy is. The girl is supposed to help with the housework but the boy shouldn't cause that's not a man's responsibility. I had a friend who went to study education i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 02:01 PM |
| 106 | Why "jUsT cOmMuNiCaTe" is problematic: we live in a culture where men generally get what they want when they ask for it, and where women generally don't.If something is important to a man, he will remember it. Period | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 01:50 PM |
| 61 | The average male redditor starter packThe imaginary perfect anime girlfriend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 01:41 PM |
| 26 | If dating apps aren't working for you and you don't feel like you'll ever be enough, read this.Thank you. I also have given up on dating apps cause I only met guys who use flirting methods like negging etc. And they mainly want casual stuff. I got played a billion times. One guy had a girlfriend but was on the app, another one kept telling me we will go out and he suprisingly never had time for me but he was always up for sexting.. I found myself putting up with lots of things that looking back, no woman should. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 11:08 AM |
| 22 | Just seeing the foolishnessThis is insensitive. If a woman does that she'll be considered crazy and inappropriate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 11:04 AM |
| 13 | Has the FDS-mindset ruined (some) music for anyone else?Yup. Some song lyrics make me mad cause they promote several unhealthy things. I try to listen to more empowering songs, they tend to improve mood and self esteem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 11:02 AM |
| 11 | Oh... oh god... oh god it gets worse... oh it gets even worse...This is a harsh situation. I hope she realises that this is not healthy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 10:57 AM |
| 7 | On Ethical Self-Preservation: is it okay to fundamentally distrust men?She's in a monastery with only women and they invite a priest when they're doing ceremonies. I've seen misogyny in the church a lot and it makes me sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 10:51 AM |
| 78 | Why is mainstream dating advice like this?? 🤢🤢🤢Say this out loud: I'm good enough as I am and I don't need to prove it to anyone else, whoever doesn't see my value isn't worth staying in my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 03:02 AM |
| 6 | I recently saw my now 25 year old ex who lied to me, used me as a human fleshlight then dumped me (as in, asked me to leave immediately AFTER!) 4 years ago. He now needs to wear glasses and his hairline has receded 3 inches back. Isn't karma beautiful?And a blue f-k off for them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Advice neededI eeked when he said "some guys would have an issue with that but I won't judge". He basically said "other men won't date you for that cause it's horrible, but I would tolerate it" It's like saying "you're ugly but you're beautiful to me". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 12:43 AM |
| 1 | I don't understand jealous pickmes that tear other women down 🤦🏾♀️This. Hating each other makes it easier for men who want to treat us like trash. I'm tired of seeing ladies fight for men who aren't even worth a potato | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 12:31 AM |
| 24 | I recently saw my now 25 year old ex who lied to me, used me as a human fleshlight then dumped me (as in, asked me to leave immediately AFTER!) 4 years ago. He now needs to wear glasses and his hairline has receded 3 inches back. Isn't karma beautiful?Or blue balls as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 12:21 AM |
| 50 | Teenage girl gets "consensually" slapped by her boyfriend. Comments are saying its okayThis. BDSM is very trendy. Many in these generations will most likely not experience romantic intimacy. It's not what they've been taught. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 12:19 AM |
| 18 | On Ethical Self-Preservation: is it okay to fundamentally distrust men?I am a Christian orthodox and I think every person is valuable but not everyone's path and morals match mine. I got advised by a nun not to trust men cause many of them tend to play games and then leave. She said she and her childhood friends decided to devote to God from an early age and they didn't want to get married and start a family. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 12:16 AM |
| 141 | I’m so sorry for sharing this...And then it's a turn off if a woman has leg hair or some mustache that's barely noticeable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 12:09 AM |
| 17 | I’m so sorry for sharing this...Oh my God, I will see a nightmare for sure tonight | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 12:08 AM |
| 14 | Recovering PickMeisha Here! After researching the sub, I started writing myself a document to reference when dating. Would you guys mind reviewing what I have so far?That's what I was about to comment. No love bombing or pity trap ,which means if he opens and over shares traumas early on it's a red flag that he's trying to make you feel sorry for him. He targets your empathy and you will feel like you want to fix him and you will be willing to blame his trauma for anything bad he does to you and forgive him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 11:51 PM |
| 29 | Swipe to learn more about men's audatious mental health woesTHIS. I knew a guy with bipolar depression and I suggested therapy and he laughed at me. He's a heavy drinker too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 11:41 PM |
| 17 | Lets leave situationships in 2020!This. Holding onto dead situations is exhausting. Especially when there is no progress for the better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 11:39 PM |
| 3 | If I had to read a book to my ex...Yup | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 11:38 PM |
| 61 | Imagine playing the cool girl for a guy who talks about you like this. This is not an appropriate Valentine's date and I hope she leaves before they get marriedI think they feel like a good looking woman would have more competition, so they fear losing her. Most of the time they want her in order to brag to their friends. In the end they will manipulate her and neg her in a more subtle way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 11:38 PM |
| 34 | Imagine playing the cool girl for a guy who talks about you like this. This is not an appropriate Valentine's date and I hope she leaves before they get marriedI had a guy in a class who spoke about his girlfriend like that. He thought nothing was wrong with it and he even considered himself a great boyfriend for dumb reasons like "I post pictures with my girlfriend, most guys don't do that on social media, it means I show appreciation" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 11:33 PM |
| 6 | I found this thing called MDS.Just try to actually better yourselves. If a guy has a bad past but has decided to change it, it will show and it will be forgivable. If you just try to hide things, at some point something will slip.. Also the 6 rule isn't much realistic. A guy can be HVM and still make an average wage, have an average appearance etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 11:28 PM |
| 91 | Yep.Woah women have body hair? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 11:18 PM |
| 16 | Be awareThey brush it off as "it is inequality" but they don't say anything when it comes to inequality in sex, where it is often the man who only cares about his pleasure. I'm tired of hearing "Women have it better cause they can get free dinner and free drinks, this is unfair, we live in the 21st century, we should split the bill" Well, it is socially acceptable to only care about your pp when it comes to sex, I don't hear any complains about inequality now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Men always talk about wanting to do sex TO a woman but never about wanting to please a woman sexually.Sex has turned into a stress and violence relief thing because it is trendy to do so. Where's the love? The romance? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 06:30 PM |
| 14 | Evan Rachel Woods steps forward about the abuse she, at age 18, suffered from 36 year old Brian Warner aka "Marilyn Manson"In my high school, every girl who had an older boyfriend was considered cool and mature. When I reacher those guys' age and saw the real reason they go after younger girls I was like meh. The younger, the easier most girls are to manipulate. Especially if they have issues at home or their parents aren't that close with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 05:00 PM |
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