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Also this is random but do you see my post under new? r/seduction is not showing my posts for some reason...
/r/seduction05/06/18 01:06 AM
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I don't follow with your logic. Do you mean not meant to settle down?
/r/seduction05/06/18 01:05 AM
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At the end of the day, it's about your own development. Focus on what's more important to you. Of course a job is more important than pursuing women, so that ultimately should be your number one priority.
/r/seduction21/05/18 04:47 PM
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To give an update, she had my number and never texted me so I don’t know her number. I did have her Snapchat, I messaged her twice asking her out to coffee and think I commented on her story once too, she opened them but no response. She would always check my story as well. I ended up deleted her from my snap. Who knows, the approach went well but nothing came of it.
/r/seduction19/05/18 04:58 AM
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My kino was pretty light, and the kiss...that was just my way of showing interest in her. It’s a bold move but I didn’t want to think “what if,” if she was expecting me to take the initiative in taking a kiss at some point.
/r/seduction19/05/18 04:54 AM
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Agreed, it's really about your perception. While it's a definite ego boost for guys to be told they are good looking, we shouldn't define value in that way in the way women do for themselves. While looks may be a catalyst, I feel women are attracted to all those intangible things (confidence, drive, etc.). So feel like you look like a million bucks in your mind, is what I try to do, even if we all have moments of weakness where we feel insecure about our looks.
/r/seduction21/04/18 03:40 PM
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Thanks man! And thanks for the advice in both of my posts :)
/r/seduction20/04/18 09:48 PM
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Agreed, I always make it a point to go for the hottest girl in a club. Either she says yes or no, at least I know rather than sulking in my imagination.
/r/seduction20/04/18 05:59 PM
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Hahah, my goodness, this brings back horrific memories of studying for the bar.
/r/seduction20/04/18 05:06 PM
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Because Learned Hand was the judge? Lol
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:07 PM
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As a fellow lawyer, I thoroughly enjoyed this.
/r/seduction20/04/18 03:37 AM
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Ghosting - just a part of the dating experience. Girls do it because they don't like confrontation. If someone doesn't have the abiilty to say "hey, I don't think this will work out" for whatever reason beyond your control, they are not worth your time.
/r/seduction16/04/18 03:03 PM
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Lol, clearly was. Update - So last night, even though I knew I should've have...I ended up going to the strip club again and wasting $200. I don't know why I went there when I clearly know they are bad for me, it's like I can't control myself. I don't know why I go there, ego boost? Validation? It's clearly counter intuitive, but maybe its me trying to win the game of making a girl like me that is already an uphill battle. Anyway, no more strip clubs for me, I will really drill that in my head. …
/r/seduction10/04/18 03:54 PM
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Thanks man. I appreciate that.
/r/seduction10/04/18 12:26 AM
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The flatmate comment hahahahah, golden!
/r/seduction10/04/18 12:10 AM
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I don't understand...seemed like a totally awkward exchange. I mean good job approaching but the girl in the colorful jacket didn't really seem interested.
/r/seduction19/03/18 10:36 PM
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Update - Ghosted. lol.
/r/seduction26/02/18 06:55 PM
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Good point, but how would you distinguish this from just going into the friendzone? Though game is really more of an art than a science, each woman is different, making it that much more important to do what you enjoy and find someone that matches that energy.
/r/seduction21/02/18 09:11 PM
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My people, as of now, I called her after work because I am old school like that, she texted me back telling me she was at the gym. I made some witty remark about go kill it rocky. She replied back that she will, with an explanation point mind you. This girl practically is in love with me. I messaged her again, which she hasn't opened yet because we were talking on snap chat. Honestly, this is the part I usually lose a girl, but I am going to ask her on a coffee date for next week, and see what s…
/r/seduction21/02/18 04:38 AM
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Another update, I text her today asking for her snapchat, she gives it to me and I tell her I'll add her soon (after I confirm a date with her). I tell her that "there is a restaurant I want to check out, let's do lunch, down?" She replies with Maybe. Seems like an obvious shit test, so I just responded, "great, see you monday at 1, hope you like those healthy, green restaurants."
/r/seduction17/02/18 08:10 PM
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So update, the HB9 has deleted me from Snapchat, never messaged me about the situation so not sure what’s she’s thinking. I have her number but if she blocked me from Snapchat she probably doesn’t want me to contact her and I am in no rush to do so. The other girl who texted me hasn’t gotten back to me yet.
/r/seduction17/02/18 02:01 PM
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So true, my mistake man. I have been having a hard time in taking the abundance mentality in theory and applying it in actuality. Anyway she texted back saying “Haha no I don't care I just thought it was a funny coincidence since she texted me about it” I said, “lol what did she say” and then I told her I am honest and don’t wear a mask and if I was in a relationship it would be different...which now I realize I shouldn’t have said. I know she was going out and hasn’t responded yet.
/r/seduction17/02/18 07:36 AM
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haha will do, I texted her this: "One, just thought maybe your friend confused me with someone else haha, but yeah I met her yesterday and we got drinks together. I have no reason to lie to you since I am not in a relationship with either you or your friend right now so I am not doing anything wrong" At this point, I think they are going to both ghost me, which I am fine with. I will just tell them that I am a social guy meeting new people, take it or leave it.
/r/seduction17/02/18 04:55 AM
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I just did that
/r/seduction17/02/18 04:51 AM
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Its so hard to tell if its a shit test or just her actual personality. She told me guys her age are just way to immature, hence why she was open to getting drinks with me as an older guy. She doesn't give me the impression that shes the type that likes to sleep around, but I really don't know after all. It's funny how even though shes so cute, she seems to be just like any other insecure person, and didn't know what to say when I would complement her.
/r/seduction17/02/18 01:38 AM
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I never intended to debase others or to debase her, If I came out that way that wasn't my intention. She was attractive, but she was really smart too that we generally had a really cool, intelligent conversation. I just trying to understand more about her perspective and understand that I am demonstrating neediness in this situation in a way I shouldn't be. I don't believe this has anything to do with masculinity but just being a confident, well rounded person. In any case, she texted me back wh…
/r/seduction17/02/18 01:27 AM
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Well said...what made you pick boxing over muay thai? For me it was scheduling lol, otherwise I probably would want to do Muay Thai, but I would be so scared to spar muay thai.
/r/seduction13/02/18 04:58 PM
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Thanks man, well said. I talked to two other women, one literally while I was driving and she was walking to work, and another after work. I got both of their numbers and scheduled a date with them for tomorrow in person. So it really turned around for me by the end of the day, so let's see what happens tomorrow.
/r/seduction13/02/18 04:29 AM
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I picked up boxing a few weeks ago as well, wake up every morning before work 3x a week, and its really awesome. It has made be more confident for sure and given me something to thing about...but I can't say it has addressed everything for me. I am still here overanalyzing the texts I get from women, always checking my phone, and not having the abundance mindset that I need to have.
/r/seduction12/02/18 11:16 PM
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So true, one of the women just blew me off completely. I really feel as much as we try to master game, it's not a science and more of an art. Each individual woman is going to be different with different issues, tastes, interests, things on her mind, and you can only put your best foot forward and just see what happens.
/r/seduction12/02/18 11:14 PM
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I went out too on my lunch break...was like 1-4, only to later find the girl on IG and see she clearly has a boyfriend unless she broke up with him recently.
/r/seduction12/02/18 09:53 PM
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Good point. Next time I will keep that detail hidden until after having sex.
/r/seduction04/02/18 09:26 PM
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Thanks, this is solid. She texted me back apologizing for the late reply and stating things have been hectic. She let me know her schedule. I texted back lets meet at her place for something simple like tea and hang out (because shes into all that healthy stuff). She said she would do that except things are difficult with her roommates and she can't bring any guys over. I would invite her to my place but difficult with my son and the nanny. So I texted her to a beach morning run/walk or she can …
/r/seduction04/02/18 09:26 PM
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