So I just had my second date with a girl whose number I got during daygame. She's a cute yoga girl with a fit body and an amazing ass. The first date was a lowkey park date where she didn't seem interested at all, but as we progressed she opened up some more and we ended the date with a make out session with her saying "it looks like that was a good first date."
Second date I take her to a place for lunch that I know she would love, which she does. I don't really focus on kino or anything, I just honestly am myself, being a normal guy, having a nice lunch talking with a friend. I pick this place near her apartment, and I tell her we should walk around near the close of the lunch and she recommends we just walk to her apartment since she has a meeting to go to soon.
We hang out in her apartment and sit on the couch, her roommate comes in and I talk to her for a bit (even though I really wanted to just initiate a make-out session with her on the couch, but I wanted to show that I wasn't desperate for sex). That lasts for about 10 mins when she realizes she has to get going, so I walk her to her car and we both kiss, really initiated by her as soon as I got close to her.
Here's the twist. I am 28, shes 22. I have a career and have a kid with a previous relationship. She's young, still trying to get into college and has money problems. Maybe this is just the poor quality of my game, but after our make out session I tell her I have something to tell her, after which she gets really worried, and I think she thinks I am about to break up with her or something. I tell her that I just want to be honest with her and that I have a kid. It clearly bothers her as she kind of freezes up, but she tells me shes not looking for anything serious right now which totally is fine with me. The reason I tell her is because I am still working on things with my son's mother, so if she saw us together outside she wouldn't be totally shocked and think I was cheating on her. I totally want to fuck her and grab that amazing ass while doing it, truth be told. We kiss again and she leaves.
I text her, she texts me back a couple hours again, I text again, and now the waiting game. Hopefully will have a positive lay outcome, but unsure at this point that she's going to likely ghost me. This is my first girl that I've had success with in gaming, I am still a novice here.
Maybe I wonder I shouldn't have told her, because if I didn't, I am wouldn't feel this indecision of thinking she would ghost me. Because after our make out session, she told me to text her. Though, even after telling her, we still had one last kiss before she left. I know I shouldn't be thinking about this so much, and have an abundance mindset...but I suppose its easier said than done.
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