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We can't tell you how to parent your child. There are many different answers to this question but all the advice given here won't matter because only you can decide what message your child should hear.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 03:14 AM
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It means they are really into you. Since text can be misunderstood is best to do nothing. Give her the gift of missing you.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 03:06 AM
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Direct could be as simple as.. Hi.. I wanted to meet you. If that's a compliment is pretty pale or the compliment is implied. Your SMV will dictate the outcome. Having the balls to do may raise your SMV a little but your body language and vocal tone during that time will be much more important. Pick up is a good way to have something to say and a plan to approach. TRP will have more value for actually going on a date, sleeping with them, getting an LTR or plate. There is definitely an overlap bu…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 03:17 AM
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He repeatedly tried to get her to not be mad. Every time he tried to hug and kiss her she rejected him. It looks more like he got her because he was mad that he wasn't getting his way rather than hitting her under the idea that she provoked it by hitting him. A true PPD requires immediate response. This is a frustrated guy who hit her because he was mad.. not someone showing a woman what equality feels like.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/04/18 04:51 PM
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It will show you how much it sucks to have a thankless, low paying job. You should do it to see what it's like to have to juggle your responsibilities. Additionally it might give you a chance to learn other things in a restaurant that might help you later. If you do take the job be the best fucking dishwasher they have ever had.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 05:13 PM
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46 checking in. Be you. Stay in shape. Lift. AWALT. Life gets better as you get older if you have a good career. Focus on you. The women will fall into your life. As the line in DC Cab goes.. Don't let your dick run your life.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 03:49 AM
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What girl gets a 4th date w/o sex?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:17 PM
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I don't want to quit smoking because I want to show I'm stronger than cancer.
/r/askTRP01/04/17 02:45 AM
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I live in a blue-collar town and make very good money. This doesn't really happen to much where I live. However.. Go to city full of wealthy dudes and spoiled girls and this is the norm. I'm looking at you Boston, NYC, Miami, Vegas, LA, ETC
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 07:16 PM
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Listening to Queen won't make you gay.
/r/askTRP18/03/17 06:58 PM
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With that kind of money get both.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 03:59 AM
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Based on what you said you sound like you are well on your way to success in life. However, no matter where you go, you will always see someone with a nicer car, more money and better looks. "I feel like a loser when I see friends drinking and do drugs at college parties..." If you are doing these things as frequently as you want to then you have nothing to complain about. If you want to be doing it more you should try to figure out why. Doing something for fun vs doing it to escape are two very…
/r/askTRP21/11/16 06:01 PM
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Move on. Your her validation. Just ghost her. Spend your time and energy on girls who are on the same level with you as you are with them.. or girls who are more invested.
/r/seduction19/11/16 05:48 AM
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Hard next. Check out /r/theredpill
/r/seduction19/11/16 05:46 AM
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Example... Buy a hookah. It's fun. It's different. But ask people to bring tobacco for it. Tell them to surprise you with the flavor. That's just an example. Find something that suits your personality and provide a place and 85% of what you need. Get others to go the last mile. Share the reward. Build your friends up. Expect the same.
/r/seduction19/11/16 05:43 AM
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So you normally don't talk to girls. You finally did and got a number. It didn't turn into anything. You now know you can talk to girls and get numbers. Next step: rinse and repeat until you are getting dates. No one has 100% success. Your 0 for 1. Find out how many dates you can get with 10 numbers. Get comfortable with the entire process. You couldn't play piano without practice. Same thing here. Put in the effort. Get the results over time.
/r/seduction19/11/16 05:39 AM
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Like many of us here you learned the hard way that AWALT. It's a harsh lesson but it's real and you're better off knowing it now rather than 10 or 20 years from now. As stated already.. Sidebar is where to start. Use this as the eye opening experience that allows you to be comfortable with being the man you always wanted to be but we're afraid to be. Don't be angry. Be happy that you learned the red pill truth and can see the world as it really is. Let this be the catalyst to becoming the best m…
/r/askTRP06/11/16 03:22 AM
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Then give it 2 more.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 01:19 PM
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This was the first thing that popped into my head.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 03:03 PM
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If a woman is showing you where her clit is you should listen but generic advice from them is usually filtered through anti-slut defense and is too watered down to be taken seriously
/r/askTRP21/09/16 03:00 AM
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Things won't change until you change. If you need help then get help. Many people have various forms of anxiety and depression and help is out there but it won't find you. You have to find IT.
/r/seduction11/09/16 04:11 AM
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And each time you meet up you'll feel less nervous
/r/seduction11/09/16 04:07 AM
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Do you have a freezer? If so get stuff for an ice cream sundae making contest and you make 2 huge boobs. Be playful with the whipped cream and ice cream during the process. It's different. Not expensive. It's as sexual as you make it. Edit: missed a word
/r/seduction08/09/16 10:17 PM
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I recommend "blow out game" First person to get blown out gets free drinks on the others for the night. Say something you think will get you blown out. First.. Often times it won't. Second.. Everything after that will feel easy because you've already had the worst possible outcome and you're no worse for wear. Approach girls and say ridiculous stuff.. Tell them to buy you drinks. Tell them you are filming a porn tonight and need more girls and want to know if they are interested. Whatever it tak…
/r/seduction08/09/16 04:26 AM
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Game is an interesting thing. When you're new routines and a contrived plan help you focus and give you the belief that you can do this. You can. Over time you will start being more natural. Don't feel like you need to get there all at once. Shit Strauss and Mystery were doing years ago works. Cherry pick what you feel comfortable with. You're young.. Girls are not that complicated. They want attention. Doing silly routines makes then feel validated. If you aren't already lifting.. Start. It giv…
/r/seduction08/09/16 04:16 AM
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I wouldn't worry too much about the little things you missed. Day game kino can be awkward. Her interjection shows interest. Make a plan to actually do something. Since you are going to see her do it in person.. Not text. Standard.. We should go blah blah blah kind of thing. Make it happen. Be vague about your availability and don't give her a weekend night. Strike while the cliché is hot. Worst case she says no and you just go on with life as it was.
/r/seduction08/09/16 04:05 AM
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Divorce is so good I've done it twice. Women change after marriage and then I walk away. Never again.
/r/askTRP03/09/16 04:42 AM
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Open is good because it covers this but it also deals with the fact that women are hard to trust. Just know that she will always get dick and your mileage may vary.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 03:09 AM
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I think it depends where you live.. I'm near Boston so A+ is worthless. Some places that don't attract the best of the best think it matters. You need to decide if you want to be a software engineer (programmer) or a systems admin/engineer (build/run) or a network engineer or even a dba (database). For software look into Java. It's something that runs on every platform. For hardware.. PC hardware is fine. Look into Linux over windows. Harder but more rewarding for the mind and the wallet. If you…
/r/askTRP26/08/16 04:38 AM
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Thanks.. I was being far too analytical. /thread
/r/askTRP11/08/16 01:28 AM
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Girls can pee with a tampon in.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 01:10 AM
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Please tell me it's OK so I can feel better about a decision I have already made.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 03:55 PM
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Are you confusing submissive with shy and intimidated?
/r/askTRP28/07/16 10:57 PM
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Just as petite girls are in high demand taller girls are not as pursued. Many men are intimidated by a tall girl and many girls won't date a shorter guy. The petite girl fits in almost every guy's wheelhouse.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 04:51 PM
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Information Technology. Should take a good tech or programmer 3 years or so to hit 6 figures. I've been there since 2000. Started in 1996.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 09:43 PM
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Is it wraps? I bet it's wraps.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 09:39 PM
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If she's not looking for a different dick then this post is the other truth. Sounds like she used sex early on to lure you in. Now she is trying to show you who she really is. I agree with the article that sex doesn't have to be perfectly aligned but it can't be such a huge gap in desire where one person wants sex 15 times a month and the other wants it 2 or 3. Either way this isn't going to end well. Move on instead of delaying the inevitable.. Sex will be the downfall of this relationship.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 05:49 PM
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I forgot about Stay Hungry.. Loved this song as a kid.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 06:20 PM
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From a very unlikely source.. Morrissey formerly of The Smiths "Kick The Bride Down The Aisle" Kick the bride down the aisle And make no mistake It's the best you can do for everyone's sake Kick the bride down the aisle And treasure the day I know so much more than I'm willing to say She just wants a slave To break his back in pursuit of a living wage So that she can laze and graze For the rest of her days Write down every word I say Kick the bride down the aisle In a mudslide of gloom She'll or…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 06:15 PM
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I hear hatchet wound is a British slang for pussy. What could possibly go wrong?
/r/askTRP30/06/16 09:29 PM
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Can you elaborate how they came to know?
/r/askTRP16/06/16 07:10 PM
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Can you elaborate how they came to know?
/r/askTRP16/06/16 07:10 PM
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Thanks. I'm an IT guy but Occam's Razor still applies here.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 03:22 PM
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Using Occam's Razor.. It sounds like deliberate blocking to prevent OP from seeing what she's doing behind his back. Suggesting she might be bi-polar is far too generous a suggestion in an AWALT world.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 01:04 PM
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Crying is the most manipulative thing a woman can do. Never talk to her when she is crying as a response to you being upset.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 01:58 AM
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There is a girl I sleep with every few weeks. We never talk. When I see her out we hook up. In the morning she leaves and I get ready for work and carry on with my life. Rinse. Repeat. Effort is for relationships.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 03:45 AM
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CS grad from an inexpensive state school here. Jobs galore. Great pay. Wish I understood women at the time. Get your game figured out if you haven't. Half the people I work with never went to college. Everyone makes 6 figures. You've chosen a great major. Automation is where it's at. Anything you can learn about things like puppet and VRA (Google them) are faster tickets to IT jobs that will still be there. If you're going to be a software developer that too will always be there. Target non-wind…
/r/askTRP05/06/16 04:01 AM
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And keep gaming the one you are with. Tell her you don't want a girlfriend. Don't get jealous when she dates other guys. Women want what they cannot have. Once they have it is all downhill from there. Be her best sex. Be the most confident man she's ever dated. Bust her balls. Make her feel like she can never win with you because your standards are so high. If you want affection give her very little so she will initiate. Push away before she does. This is counter-intuitive but these are the thin…
/r/askTRP05/06/16 03:35 AM
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Are you seeing anyone or taking any meds to deal with this stuff? I used to be a housebound agoraphobic. Now I'm a world traveler. You can turn your life around but probably not alone. You can PM me if you want more insight but be ready to make changes not excuses.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 03:24 AM
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Unquenchable thirst.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 12:11 AM
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Would you have done anything different if you knew she had a boyfriend? I used to try to be noble but eventually it happens to you and you get hit with the AWALT hammer. The only women that are off limits for me are ones with men in the service. I have too much respect for their service. Some guy who is always around and the girl has lost the tingles for is fair game. We all have our own moral compass. Do what feels right but don't kiss and tell. Nothing good will come of it.
/r/askTRP14/05/16 02:14 AM
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Tried it twice with 2 very different women. Same result. Changed expectations and massive contempt toward her. The second time included massive contempt toward me. Plus side.. Married two people who didn't try to take half and I initiated both but the second was pretty mutual.
/r/askTRP14/05/16 02:05 AM
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This doesn't sound like a girlfriend. LTRs always want a special night with their guy. Something smell fishy in bikini bottom.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 03:26 AM
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Chill for a while. Let her find herself. If you stand out from the rest she'll be back. If not don't sweat it. It was just your turn. Use the momentum and keep pushing yourself.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 03:19 AM
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Find a barber that specializes in 50s style cuts. Barbers are cheaper than stylists and it's a very clean look that is easy to maintain. You will probably need pomade but it's a look that works with any dress style.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 03:15 AM
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You don't deserve anything you aren't willing to state you want.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 03:11 AM
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Classic example of "No good deed goes unpunished"
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 04:49 AM
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I learned about Blowout Game from Mark Manson. Your goal is to get blown out. It forces you to open but since you are expecting a blow out you can't lose. You'd be amazed at what you can get away with. Is usually done with a wingman and the goal is to get blown out first to win. I once walked up to vip table in a club they had 11 women at it and told them that it was time for equality and that one of them should buy me a drink. 2 offered. Another time I asked a group of girls an opinion opener. …
/r/askTRP03/05/16 06:18 AM
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They are the same. They know there is a lot of thirst out there and can reach above their own level. You should never date down but if it's a hookup there is some wiggle room.. At least for me. Women know they have a ton of options even if they are a 5. As someone in his mid 40s I can't possibly date down in my own age group because the women are so post-wall I'd be scraping the proverbial barrel. Even a lot of women 37ish look haggard. I generally hook up younger and don't date after many LTRs …
/r/askTRP03/05/16 05:53 AM
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It shifts more to pregaming at a house and going to clubs/bars but there are plenty of hookups to be had. Online dating is another alternative but feels like more effort.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 05:41 AM
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I lost 17 lbs in 2 months of keto. Actually went up a few pounds the first week. Don't get discouraged. Once you start losing it's very satisfying.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 12:33 AM
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I'm big into Manson. He's a friend of mine and he's legit. There are a lot of community guys who talk but I've seen him in action. He backs up what he says. He's not throwing theory around. His words come from experience.
/r/seduction01/05/16 08:16 AM
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Are you getting quantity or quality? If you're not getting an rejections your bar is too low. Raise the bar and your interest may follow.
/r/askTRP01/05/16 08:01 AM
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If I wrote the last message in silent until I get a response. This is usually a stale conversation anyway.
/r/askTRP01/05/16 07:37 AM
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Very much this.
/r/seduction25/04/16 11:09 PM
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Definitely get a job. People at work will be social in the right setting. Work in the food industry. Everyone is hooking up with everyone. Having a job will help your self-worth, get you out of the house more and give you money to go places where women are. It will also raise your value in the eyes of women. You have to make changes if you want things to change.
/r/seduction25/04/16 11:03 PM
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Invite her over for an ice cream sundae making contest and make it fun and sexual. Make giant tits and be playful and silly. You should be able to turn this into a kiss with either cherries or whipped cream. That kiss will lower the pressure for the rest of the night.
/r/seduction25/04/16 10:53 PM
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I highly recommend "blow out" game. You can do it alone or with friends. It's funny either way. Your goal is to get blown out. Think big. Say shit you'd never dream of saying. It's harder than you think. With friends last one blown out buys the first round but only once he's been blown out. By setting the goal to have them walk away or turn their backs, a failure means they keep talking. You will learn very quickly what does and doesn't work. Don't be a dick. Say cheers and smile as you walk awa…
/r/seduction25/04/16 10:49 PM
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Entitled
/r/askTRP17/04/16 03:17 AM
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The problem with game is that it's a product. They change the rules of the game but it will cycle back and repeat in time because without change there is nothing new to sell. Original game was all indirect approach. Get them to like you before stating interest. It then became forked into direct and indirect. Try it all and find what works for you. Regardless of what you choose try something. The reason game works is because it gives you a reason to interact and approach women. You don't need gam…
/r/askTRP16/04/16 04:30 AM
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Don't get married. Women typically at one way to get you down the aisle and do a 180 after the honeymoon. Also be careful that you don't end up in a common law marriage situation because that too can cost you deeply. I like women. I like LTRs. I don't believe in forever. I'm not saying avoid women. Avoid their game. Never be more invested in her than she is in you.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 05:53 PM
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Most common phrase I hear when wearing Viktor and Rolf Spice Bomb is, "you smell delicious"
/r/askTRP30/03/16 06:15 PM
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Way too many dates for no sex/head. Did you freeze her out after the LMR? If not you rewarded the behavior and gave her all the power. Soft next.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 04:13 PM
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This. Everything about this is true. Online dating is an uphill climb if you don't look amazing. In person is 90% of my success. I'm not tall. I'm in my 40s. Bad stats for online.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 01:57 AM
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I give her a 10 as in 10 shots of whiskey in an hour and if be too drunk to know it wasn't.. Who am I kidding.. I'd be unconscious.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 01:55 AM
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If you don't want to get matched with a kraken don't swipe right on a kraken. Don't drink and swipe. That only leads to regret. Tinder is a time sensitive app. The sooner you respond the better. Move quickly. I tell them we should meet for a drink and if there is no vibe we go separate ways after 20 minutes. When they show up I tell them they're on the clock and play it cocky/funny. I frame meeting in general as "I don't want to spend my life on this app.. We should meet." I find most people you…
/r/askTRP21/03/16 01:31 AM
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This kind of advice is always for the person who's made up their mind and is looking for affirmation. We can't tell you what's right for you. Do what you want but apply the strategies of TRP.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 05:14 AM
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Been married twice. This is often times a game for women. They act a certain way because they want the prize of getting you to give up all your power. Once they get what they want they stop being submissive and become demanding. They make you earn sex. They set expectations in you based on "we are married now so..." If you've already made up your mind nothing I can tell you will matter. Just don't be surprised when your entire reality is changed against your will once you say "I do"
/r/askTRP16/03/16 04:38 PM
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Anxiety needs to be dealt with. See your doctor.
/r/askTRP12/03/16 04:45 PM
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I once fucked up a chance with a girl and got friend zoned. Slept with her a few years later after learning pickup. If you're the same old you then no. If you have changed then yes. I got out of the friend zone by saying.. I'd never fuck you over.. But I'd fuck you over and over. The old me would have never said that. I changed and the dynamic changed.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 04:22 AM
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This can't be answered singularly because the income of people here is a very wide range and cost of living varies dramatically. What people want from life is different. Maybe someone here thinks I wasted money buying a guitar because I haven't monetized it but it gives me great pleasure when I'm playing. Maybe my car is too fancy and I wasted money not buying something more utilitarian but cars are a passion of mine and it makes me happy when I am out on the open road, music blasting, hugging t…
/r/askTRP14/02/16 07:17 PM
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It's a lot easier to miss someone you only were with for 6 months. Stay with her another 5 years and see how much you miss her. The first 6 months are the best part.
/r/askTRP14/02/16 12:45 AM
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What happens after? Do you eventually come again?
/r/askTRP14/02/16 12:31 AM
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If you are logical you can learn to code. Almost all math in coding is arithmetic and algebra. Java is good because it's everywhere on full websites and for Android programming.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 05:22 PM
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I cannot call someone my girlfriend until I've dated them for a year. No sex after 2nd or 3rd date is a deal breaker. You're 24.. Go live life man!
/r/askTRP04/02/16 05:09 PM
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You can't help anyone who doesn't ask for it. This is especially true when you tell someone, "you need help being a man"
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 09:38 PM
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Exactly how I frame my answer.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 04:07 AM
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Next or plate. Anything else and she has all the power. If you can't plate her without getting jealous... next is the only option.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 10:26 PM
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HB6 is not an HB.. She's mediocre. No 6 is worth this much writing. Fuck them or don't. It doesn't matter.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 06:26 AM
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Bald and tan or spray tan. A shiny white dome looks weird. Tanned looks a lot better.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 06:42 PM
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I have seen videos where they just disable the audio. Also, if there was a DCMA claim I believe you get notified and you can appeal.
/r/askTRP10/10/15 02:07 AM
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Are you sure she doesn't think you need a tutor? Your story is vague on her perception of you getting her number.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 07:15 PM
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5'7" here.. What I lack in height and muscle I make up for with fashion and wit. Also a great cologne gets me opened all the time.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 08:51 PM
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Women will always upgrade. If you can be an upgrade you win. If you're a downgrade you lose.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 03:38 PM
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She's your ex. Anything she feels about you now is her issue. If the roles were reversed you would be emasculated by her if you couldn't be at a party with her. Focus on you and your situation. Let her deal with her.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 03:58 AM
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It's true for this movie.. Ratner got the girl after she rode Damone's CC.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 03:55 AM
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The biggest red flag is that you're asking. Marriage changes the dynamic a lot. I have been married twice so I've seen it. You're going to have to go with your gut. You have plenty of time to have kids so if that is your only reason to do this you will probably regret it.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 12:20 AM
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This is really about frame control. Anytime someone sets a frame you can do 1 of 3 things. Buy into the frame (ignoring/agreeing). Reject the frame (defending yourself). Accept and destroy the frame. The latter is the best because you take control. Example: "you're a fag" "whatever dude" "no I'm not" "you're right.. But I wasn't until I met you." I always go with 3.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 03:11 PM
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If you're not willing to invest in yourself no one else is going to. Read this.. https://www.reddit.com/r/getdisciplined/comments/1q96b5/i_just_dont_care_about_myself/cdah4af
/r/askTRP15/09/15 08:54 PM
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If she wants a weekend away now how much time will she want when she is inundated with hit presence? The flags don't get any redder than this.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 06:18 PM
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