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Okay, I apologize, the examples you provided were really out there. No personal attack intended.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 09:36 AM
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Women initiate the overwhelming majority of divorces. Sure, owning a home together and having children will, generally speaking, make cheating less likely, but never impossible. Has it occurred to you that women’s reasons for initiating divorce have more to do with finding out that their husbands are terrible partners? I feel so sad for women whose men are incompetent when it comes to caring for themselves or spending time with their kids. Most women leave because they get fed up putting up with…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 09:34 AM
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Men are competing with the yoga teacher that gives his wife the sexual energy and attention that he doesn’t have the energy to give after working 10 hour days to support his household. Men are competing with the millionaire who can afford to whisk her away to his private yacht to escape the boredom of keeping a household. Men are competing with the pool boy who validates her and can fulfill her sexual fantasies of youth and muscular tone. I have never had a yoga teacher give “sexual energy”, I d…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 09:23 AM
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TRP is a toxic place. Some of them will try to groom you. I would stay away. You are correct that they are spouting BS because they had bad personal experiences. Humans love because that’s what we do. To say otherwise is foolish. I know that I love my husband and child because they both give me immense joy every time I see them. Don’t let fools tell you what you feel.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/23 05:28 AM
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developed a routine. I wake up at 7, meditate, study for 6-8 hours, spend time learning a new skill, gym for an hour and then dance for another, I read about psychology, journal and cook and clean but now he is hurt and upset because I didn’t do these things when I was with him which I understand and I take full responsibility for. he believes that I wanted to leave him and that’s why I didn’t do the things i am doing here.. The truth is that you were so busy taking care of him that you didn’t h…
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/22 01:23 PM
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“I think Rob is manly and I bet he would be fun to hang out with” If he can dish it, he needs to be able to take it. If he gets hurt you can say, “doesn’t feel great now does it”
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/22 01:01 AM
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And to reply to your last remark, I tried that with Dutch men. I said clearly what I want and expect and it just never happened. It’s not in their culture to be generous or make romantic gestures. I am really desperate trying to date Dutch men. That sounds so sad and frustrating. I’m all for equality, but not when it leads to completely erasing the concept of femininity and masculinity. I agree that you will have far better luck in the US, where it’s normal for men to make grand gestures to make…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/22 10:26 AM
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They probably think that trp and redpillwomen are the same. They are not.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/22 03:42 AM
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I’m also very difficult to buy gifts for, so my husband knows not to unless I ask for something specifically.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/22 12:20 PM
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She is just trying baba. Be gentle Thank you for the reminder. You’re right, we can never be too kind to each other.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/22 03:45 AM
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Why are you doing his laundry? You’re not his mom.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/22 11:54 PM
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I proficiently knit, crochet, and sew. Sewing is the most frustrating, knitting can be tricky, and crochet is the easiest in my opinion. Yes you have to learn the lingo, but there are so many great beginner tutorials out there. Each has their own learning curve and you have to be willing to be patient and learn. Flower arrangement or cricut designs are other crafts that you can try. Or wood working if you already have the tools.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/22 02:44 PM
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Your body count is nobody’s business. I’ve been married to my husband for over 10 years and we have never asked each other about our counts.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/22 09:07 AM
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Set an intimacy date. Works for some people. You can make it a thing, twice weekly, every other day, whatever you and he feels is reasonable. Are you saying that nothing you do, flirting, dressing sexy, inspires any kind of desire in him?
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/22 03:16 AM
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The Gift of Fear is a book to read if you haven’t done so. If your gut is telling you something is off, best to exit without telling him. That’s general advice, though since you did not provide any specifics.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/22 06:26 PM
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I read that gem of a book in my younger days, it helped me with my girl game. So you’ve messed up and gotten entangled with someone who was honest and upfront with you about how he can never give you what you want, which I assume is a relationship. Now he is stringing you along with breadcrumbs on IG, whether he’s conscious of it or not. Your best option here is to stop engaging with him. If he asks why, which he may not do, be upfront with him. It’s time for you to move on, that’s what “bitches…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/22 08:15 AM
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A great book for married women is Shaunti Feldhahn’s book, For Women Only. I highly recommend it for traditional minded women.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/22 10:53 AM
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Go get therapy first, get your mind right, then come back here. You’re not ready to date. Like someone else mentioned, Reddit can’t fix the damage caused by your childhood, and neither can a man.
/r/RedPillWives16/02/22 11:27 AM
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What’s wrong with being vain? It’s important to be happy with your personality, and it’s important to like how you look, too.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/21 05:17 AM
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I’m from the Middle East and come from a very traditional and religious family and let me tell you women still get treated horribly and there is extreme sexism. That’s some important context, why did you leave it out in your post? In that case, you’re right, it would be much harder to find a high value male because I imagine they would be extremely rare in your society. The advice in this sub is more geared towards western cultures that have been poisoned by radical feminism.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/21 09:32 AM
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I’ve been ghosted before, and I never resented the person, but I did wonder for a second about why. Then I move on. It’s very important for people like us, who easily form attachments to people, to realize that other people don’t have the same level of attachment as we do. Best of luck to you.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/21 01:46 PM
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I used to think the same about ghosting, but given the bad reactions that people have had, my opinion has changed to be more accepting of it because of safety concerns. Or you can contact less and less, and allow it to fizzle out that way.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/21 01:34 PM
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e medical industry pushes hormonal birth control over e.g., copper non-hormonal IUDs Part of the reason could be from ignorance, the first generation copper IUDs had bad side effects so medical professionals had it in their minds to shy away from them. But you’re right, there is more financial incentive to push hormonal IUDs because they don’t last as long as the copper ones, which last for 10 years, so they’re more profitable. I believe the hormonal ones only last 5 years.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/21 12:46 PM
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My apologies, I was under the impression that she was having relations with adults while she was a minor.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/21 01:23 PM
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When we talk about body count, it’s assuming consensual sex as an ADULT. Being raped and abused as a minor is completely different than consciously choosing to have casual sex as an adult with fully formed volition.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/21 11:19 AM
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A minor can’t properly consent. You just outed yourself as a creep and a predator.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/21 11:14 AM
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Have you tried scheduling a date night together? You don’t necessarily have to go out. If you have similar taste in movies, watch a movie together, play chess, play cards, video games, etc. I don’t really talk to my husband, either, but we do enjoy our daily evening walks together.
/r/RedPillWives14/08/21 01:02 AM
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Recently, in a mom forum here on Reddit, someone made a comment in response to me attempting to invalidate my advice to another mother by saying I’m a member of this forum. Same thing happened to me. Really annoying!
/r/RedPillWives29/07/21 09:32 PM
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I currently work. I think it’s good for kids to be around adults who love and care for them, whether it be at home or daycare. That said, what loving parent doesn’t want to spend time with their kid. Before the pandemic when my kid was at daycare, I spent my time doing chores around the house, taking classes, treating myself to massage, doing what I like. Does great for my marriage, just like any healthy relationship there’s a lot of love and mutual respect. Work, laundry, playing with my child,…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/21 12:35 AM
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That wasn’t the case for the many years that we’ve been together, it’s only been recently that he started making more than me. He says he often wishes that I brought home more money. My man is very secure in his masculinity, he doesn’t give any fucks about something as petty as that, and has no patience for any BS. It might matter to someone who makes less than 6 figures a year, but we each make 6 figures. We share equally in paying for expenses, which we budget. While he was earning less than m…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/21 12:00 PM
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Don’t know about that, when we first got together, my husband was thrilled that I was making more money than he had ever made. Fast forward a decade and now he makes more than me. He and I regularly discuss our finances because we need to plan for our future. Your opinion is a bit outdated and has nothing to do with RP.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/21 03:26 AM
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I disagree that being agreeable is an RP trait, I see it as more of a societal thing imposed upon women. It’s okay to be feisty! It’s the timing and the delivery of it. You can be opinionated without making your partner feel less than. You can listen to your partner’s point of view AND share your thoughts and suggestions too. Also pick your battles. Before you start one, ask yourself what you and the other person stand to gain from the conversation. Is it valuable? Or is it for the sake of petty…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/21 03:19 PM
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Is the hardwood sealed with varnish? The varnish helps repel dirt and stains. If the original varnish has been worn off, you might need to have it professionally refinished. Or you do it yourself, YouTube has some good tutorials.
/r/RedPillWives03/07/21 08:22 AM
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Agree with this, OP, if he tries to isolate you from your friends, family, and support system, that’s a big sign to get out. It’s understandable in a new relationship to want to spend a lot of time together, but make sure you also spend time with your friends, too.
/r/RedPillWives17/06/21 04:52 AM
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At your age that’s a pretty common experience. You’re searching for meaning in your life. But like others have mentioned, also get yourself screened for depression. Do you have a religion to connect to? If not, then are there causes or purposes that interest you?
/r/RedPillWives13/06/21 07:24 PM
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My husband sees a therapist. I’m not much help because my default advice is: “get over it” lol. Thankfully he’s not too proud or macho to seek help from a professional. It’s really helped him. He’s also on meds.
/r/RedPillWives13/06/21 07:12 PM
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That we’re subservient Stepford Wives. We don’t vilify women for their choice to be a homemaker, this is a safe space for that…but some of us have careers! That we’re all religious and politically conservative. Feminine qualities are timeless regardless of political affiliation. Personally, I’m a liberal and not religious. That we’re not champions for women’s rights. What better way to encourage men to treat their women partners well, than to act in a way that encourages love, caring, and affect…
/r/RedPillWives11/06/21 01:19 PM
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Absolutely not, the vetting has already been done. How exhausting to have to constantly go through shit tests when you already know and trust someone. Do they not trust you?
/r/RedPillWives11/06/21 12:55 PM
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I really hate that saying, “happy wife happy life”. It makes the man sound subservient and that’s not attractive at all! What about the husband’s happiness? Marriage is very much a partnership. My husband is jokey and sarcastic and will bust my nuts in a fun and loving way. I admire how he refuses to take shit from me and will call me out if I’m acting like a jerk.
/r/RedPillWives11/06/21 04:10 AM
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/r/beyondthebump good place for new parents. The first few months after birth are HARD. Even doing one load of laundry is an effort. Expect the house to be a bit messy. Make sure your husband understands the changes your body is going through, especially if you breastfeed, it takes a ridiculous amount of energy and calories to produce breast milk. Sex…even if you’re both horny there will be times when you’re both too damn tired.
/r/RedPillWives09/06/21 12:59 AM
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Wait..you’re a virgin? No one is going to expect you to be good in bed, it comes with time. Be open and playful, and listen to what she wants and needs from you. The Way of the superior Man by David Deida is a good place to start. Other qualities I love about my husband is he’s respectful but refuses to play into my childish tendencies. He simply won’t engage. He’s good at communicating and in turn makes me a better communicator. Loving, caring, and affectionate. He also understands my need to b…
/r/RedPillWives08/06/21 04:06 AM
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For Men Only for you, and for your fiancée, For Women Only by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhaun. They’re both quick reads and really good guides to a happy and fulfilling marriage. Congratulations, and wish you the best love and happiness.
/r/RedPillWives08/06/21 03:59 AM
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I was in a similar situation as you, with my husband being super stressed with work, which caused him to develop anxiety and depression, which are big killers of any sexual desire. Unfortunately the only thing that cured it was him changing jobs. He also sees a therapist for the PTSD from his abusive work place. If he insists it’s not you, you should believe him. Explain to him that you’re concerned for his well-being as well as your relationship, and ask him to consider applying for work elsewh…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/21 09:29 AM
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the link to r/marriedredpill Did not know about this sub, will have to check it out! It’s amazing how applying basic principles can turn your marriage around. Really happy for you!
/r/RedPillWives04/06/21 09:16 AM
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It sounds like he was over it and had moved on. You should, too. Remember that he’s on your team! He’s not your enemy, so there’s no need for defense. He just wants a happy family and a somewhat tidy home. I understand it gets crazy with kids. You can always enlist their help! I make a game of it and pretend that we have to do xyz chores or the “monster” will get us, and we can’t let that happen!
/r/RedPillWives16/05/21 08:01 PM
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This happened to me when I was dating. I was just a backup for someone else.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/21 03:27 PM
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he came in and tried to be affectionate with me but I didn’t return it. I presume this to be true, I honestly don’t remember it. I was making lunch for our kids and his mother, doing dishes, cleaning up, etc... basically I was distracted. Wait...so you’re making lunch and doing a million other things that need to be done including taking care of his mother, and he’s whining about not getting attention? If he wants more attention, then he needs to help you clean up so you can have more time for h…
/r/RedPillWives04/04/21 03:15 AM
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You’re being downvoted because this is not a red pill issue, this is a rape issue and a woman’s issue. Please get help. The RAINN network has resources https://www.rainn.org/
/r/RedPillWives15/03/21 09:45 PM
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I have had the Paragard copper IUD for over 5 years now. No hormones, no side effects, it’s been great!
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/21 01:11 PM
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For men, admiration = respect. Speak well of him in public especially when his friends and coworkers are around. Don’t undermine or embarrass him.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/21 12:37 PM
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I think that because you live in a liberal city, he’s just making sure you don’t get offended if he pays for the date. Maybe he’s had bad experiences with women who got offended when he opened the door for them. It’s hard to tell what will offend people these days
/r/RedPillWives07/02/21 08:18 PM
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An important part of being hard to get is having standards and being willing to walk away if the guy is mistreating you or doing something that goes against your values. Know your own worth.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 06:01 PM
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Sounds like a self esteem issue. If looking good makes you feel good, then do it for yourself. Actually, you are doing good for the world because you are putting more beauty into it. I love admiring pretty and well-dressed people, too, they are like a breath of fresh air. No one should judge you for looking good, and if they do, it’s their problem, not yours. Edited to add that you don’t need to waste your youth being frumpy. Frumpy is acceptable when you’re old, and even then, I’d still like to…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/20 10:26 AM
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I’m honestly confused why your post doesn’t have more upvotes. You literally did everything that we advise in this sub: you read the recommended readings in the sidebar, set out to work on yourself to be attractive and a soft landing spot for your husband, did thorough vetting and found a solid RP man. An RPW success story. I guess women don’t celebrate each other’s successes anymore?
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/20 02:18 PM
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This is a story of great transformation. You discovered RP, pulled out all the stops to better yourself to fix your relationship with your man. When that didn’t work despite your best effort, you were wise enough to let go of someone who wasn’t captain material in the first place. Using the RP skills that you gained, you found your true captain. Well done!
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/20 01:26 PM
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TRP is a full of young guys who have had their hearts broken when they were doormats and had no one’s respect. The posts are terrible, but the core beliefs are valid. Basically it boils down to the fact that women tend to be attracted to men who are self confident and know their own value. It outlines how a man can improve himself to be attractive to women. The most vocal ones on there are angry or just getting into their game and like to brag.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/20 05:19 AM
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I have a feeling that a lot of these men who are complaining are not being adequately involved in their new child’s life. While it’s true that the baby is on mommy’s breast a lot of the time, there are still a lot of ways for the father to bond with his child. My husband bathed our son, changed his diapers, held him to soothe him so I could get a bite to eat or take a shower. By allowing me to self care and recharge, I was able to devote time to my relationship with my husband. It made us closer…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/20 12:14 PM
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he doesn’t have breasts or is bonded at all with the baby, and can feel jealous of both the mothers love for child and the child’s love for the mother. While it’s true that the baby is on mommy’s breast a lot of the time, there are still a lot of ways for the father to bond with his child. My husband bathed our son, changed his diapers, held him to soothe him so I could get a bite to eat or take a shower. By allowing me to self care and recharge, I was able to devote time to my relationship with…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/20 12:06 PM
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This exactly. You do have to vet for a partner who believes in equal parenting, which includes giving mom and baby all the support they need shortly after the baby’s birth, being involved, taking over the chores, helping change diapers, etc. Childbirth and breastfeeding takes a lot out of you. I remember barely being able to do one load of laundry, whereas on a normal day I can do 5 loads.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/20 11:56 AM
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Good relationships are ones where both partners are happy 98% of the time. What percent of the time are you happy? I was 34 when I got married, and I know people who didn’t find real love until their 40s or 50s.
/r/RedPillWives11/10/20 05:37 PM
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You came to the right place to learn how raise your value to where someone will want to marry you. First you need might need a different therapist to deal with your self-esteem issues which are keeping you in an emotionally abusive relationship. Get rid of the guy, he will only get worse and more abusive as time passes. Or at least read everything recommended in the sidebar. Then go into nun mode and work on making yourself better.
/r/RedPillWives11/10/20 05:30 PM
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If your past issue is cheating, then make it clear from the beginning that you will not tolerate cheating in an exclusive relationship. No need to disclose that you have been cheated on in the past (somehow men interpret this as baggage) you’re just laying down some rules. Agree with others say about letting them know that if they don’t treat you with decency, then you will walk away with no hesitation.
/r/RedPillWives02/10/20 06:36 PM
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Same! My number is super low, but I have an irrational embarrassment of it, that’s why my husband doesn’t know. None of his business anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/20 03:45 PM
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As opposed to one of my girlfriends, who asks the guy on a first date how many women he’s been with? She asks out of pure curiosity, is my understanding. It’s no one’s business how many people they have slept with. I have never asked my husband, and he has never asked me. This is not to be confused as a license to sleep around, because that’s disgusting . We mutually accept that each other’s past is past, and the only thing that matters is our present and future.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/20 03:43 PM
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That’s a huge assumption. What proof do you have of this?
/r/RedPillWives02/10/20 03:00 PM
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Exactly, RP values are apolitical. I happen to be a liberal following traditional feminine gender roles, that’s why I’m here. It would not help our cause to exclude people on the basis of political affiliation.
/r/RedPillWives02/10/20 02:53 PM
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Hello, I responded to the comment below, not sure if you get a notification if I don’t respond directly to you.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/20 04:16 AM
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This, the time saved was the main reason. A side effect that I didn’t expect was that because the guys knew that they had competition, they really stepped up their game and put their best self forward. I felt that they were more invested in me than if I were exclusive with them from the beginning. They were okay with it because I made it clear that I wouldn’t be physical with anyone until I decided to be exclusive.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/20 04:14 AM
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I went out with multiple guys as part of the vetting process. They knew I was seeing other people. I didn’t get physical with any of them until I chose one of them, who is now my husband.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/20 04:03 PM
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It’s been a while since I’ve been in that sub and I don’t care to go back there just to look for that type of comment. They were men from TRP who posted those grooming type of comments. You’re right that this sub is more welcoming of diverse viewpoints.
/r/RedPillWives24/09/20 09:52 PM
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You should look at it more as your SO is such an amazing partner that you just want to sing his praises! It may feel strange to you because society is used to putting men down. I take every opportunity to speak positively of what a wonderful husband and father my partner is. It really does help to strengthen the relationship. I wouldn’t like it if my husband spoke ill of me to his friends, so why would you feel ashamed of being with a really good guy?
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/20 09:47 PM
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Thanks for addressing this, I’m tired of reading posts that should have been posted in r/relationship_advice
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/20 02:37 PM
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That’s why we moved over to this sub. It started feeling like it was a place for TRP to groom young girls to be plates. The whole thing felt icky.
/r/RedPillWives19/09/20 09:05 AM
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Speaking as a working mother, you are essential. I’m always so grateful for the amazing women who take care of my child while I have to be away from them. So, thank you! Caring for children is a noble pursuit. Feminism should be about embracing all aspects of being a woman, not just focusing on breaking the glass ceiling. It’s possible to move towards equality while also respecting a woman’s choice to be a mother. Many of the feminists in my life made the decision to have children, and they are …
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/20 05:05 PM
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I don’t see why not. Exercise common sense, don’t put yourself in situations where “things” can happen, don’t flirt, keep conversation nonsexual. I’m a married woman, though, and I mention the husband frequently when I talk with my male friends. For single women it’s a little different.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/20 10:11 PM
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Bars and clubs aren’t the best place to find quality men. There’s more of a hookup vibe in those places.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 09:23 PM
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I think my husband would be horrified, even though he has a lot of RP traits.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 03:38 PM
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I let the guy pay on the first date, but will offer to pay or split the bill on a 2nd or 3rd date.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 09:43 PM
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The current accepted standard is to just let people be. None of the feminists I know of would ever look down on someone who had children at a young age. Ruth Bader Ginsburg had her first child at age 22 while attending law school, and she is one of the most prominent feminists. Blaming feminism for the toxic people around you is unfair. Being young, you may be misinterpreting older women's caution as discouragement. Being a mother is an enormous task. Fulfilling, but enormous. I love my child mo…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 06:49 PM
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Sundress with a wide brim hat
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/20 06:15 PM
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You were rightfully cautious and yet your priest pushed you to go through with the wedding? Sorry this happened to you. There is a lesson here. You married someone who was emotionally incompatible with you. You deserve to feel love. Hopefully you find it with your next partner.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/20 09:52 PM
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This happened to me and my husband! I used to earn over double his income, but by following RPW, his confidence and skills grew and now his income is double mine!
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/20 07:24 PM
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I guess I assume that women are responding to mens behaviour because 90% of anything a man does is in order to attract women hahaha. Speaking for myself, probably. The reverse is true for women: 90% of what we do is to AVOID men's attention. I have personally walked 10-15 minutes out of my way to avoid construction workers or clusters of men because I did not want to be leered at or catcalled. This recent post may be enlighten as to what I'm talking about. It just feels really disgusting. Doesn'…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/20 09:28 PM
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I feel like the shit test theory is a bit of a stretch, but that's because of the feminists I know personally. Their mantra is, "everything a man can do, I can do, and better." Which is clearly ridiculous. Men and women have different modes of strength and power. Ours is a quiet kind of power. It's counterproductive for women to become men and vice versa. Many of the RP women in this sub used to be "feminists" and grew up on grrrrl power magazines when we were teenagers, and thought it was "cool…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/20 08:50 PM
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I don’t agree completely but you may be onto something. I once dated a feminine man and indeed I resented being the masculine one. I wouldn’t say that modern feminism is a giant shit test. It’s more an overreaction to women having unequal rights. The pendulum swung too far in the opposite direction and there are confused women walking around with the belief that the way to correct the sex inequality is to become more masculine and beat the man at their own game. Sadly, this results in heartbreak…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/20 08:55 AM
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It’s in poor form to “kiss and tell”. You don’t have to listen to your friend’s retelling of their sexcapades. Politely and firmly tell them that you prefer not to gossip about people’s sex lives and change the subject. How would they feel if they were the subject of their boyfriends’ gossip with their buddies? Gossip is boring and unclassy, and not in line with RPW
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/20 08:45 AM
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this escalated 5 x 10E4
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/20 03:46 PM
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From everyone I've talked to, women usually don't orgasm from PIV sex, unless you're riding up top which helps with clitoral stimulation. Have your partner play with your clit or do what I do and use the vibrator on it while having PIV sex. There's nothing wrong with using one. If anything, it can make sex more fun!
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/20 08:24 PM
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I sense that you are looking to get comfortable in your own skin. I found that taking adult dance classes (and I've done them all: ballet, jazz, hip hop, belly dancing, pole dance) and yoga really helped with my confidence and poise. Aside from the physical fitness factor, which is an added benefit. Obviously, not viable right now due to quarantine, but even learning from YouTube, anything kind of physical activity that forces you to be present and aware in your own body is immensely helpful. I'…
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/20 09:52 PM
3

Doesn't seem like you have much faith in your boyfriend's ability to move up in the world. That's not being a soft landing for him and it's not going to help him. When I first started dating my husband, he was a poor student but he had drive and ambition, and I believed in him. Now in just a few years he earns more than 3x his initial salary and he is an amazing father and husband. You have to ask yourself what kind of man you want and what kind of partner you want to be.
/r/RedPillWives21/10/19 03:50 AM
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You handled the situation very well. You were vulnerable, honest, and genuine with him, while communicating that you are supportive of him. It sounds like he appreciated that you shared those feelings with him.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/19 04:27 AM
3

H&M
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/19 03:40 AM
1

Second the one by Shaunti Feldhahn.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/19 03:06 AM
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I was told the same thing over 10 years ago, I wasn't feminine enough and my personality wasn't attractive for dating. But that's why you're here! It's a chance for you to begin to learn about yourself and how to improve yourself to be more feminine. The truth does hurt (and trust me, I was hurt and angry), but once you get past it and accept it, you will be well on your way to being dateable. Read the sidebar, ask questions. You have a whole community of women here to support you.
/r/RedPillWives29/07/19 02:59 AM
1

I don't know about that graph. Good news is women are more strongly attracted to personality traits than physical traits. Looks don't matter as much. My husband is on the heavy side, dad bod, but I don't care. He is such an amazing person and father that I count myself lucky every day. To be honest I've never met a guy who was downright ugly.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/19 05:21 AM
2

I like men, and I find the majority of them attractive. Especially if they are confident about themselves and don't put women on a pedestal. My husband is wise, understands me, is good at communicating, treats me as an equal, but doesn't put up with bullshit from anyone, myself included. Your whole premise is flawed. What makes you believe that only a small percentage of men are attractive or loveable?
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/19 05:02 AM
2

I love Fascinating Womanhood! A must read for all young women.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 05:57 AM
7

Literally no one seeks to acquire "orbiters". You either have male friends who are like a brother to you or you have men you're interested in. This question is inappropriate for this sub. You must be a guy fishing for advice. I suggest that you head over to r/theredpill. Edit: since I answered your first question, may as well answer the rest. In my immature years, when I didn't reciprocate interest from someone I considered just a friend, I would feel repulsed and drop the friendship. In my late…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/19 07:16 AM
1

It's great for making potato soup!
/r/RedPillWives28/06/18 05:10 AM
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However, there is one class of men who are still marrying and perpetuating legacies through their children. Educated, upper class men have carried on tying the knot, as marriage increasingly correlates with higher education levels and socioeconomic status. My husband and I both make 6 figure salaries, but came from lower class blue collar families. We were the first in our families to go to college. Both sets of parents are still married, and so are the other lower class couples in our respectiv…
/r/RedPillWives27/06/18 12:27 PM
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Women have been complaining for years and they have never been taken seriously because of the fact that they're women and the harmful assumption that they were sluts, or did something that warranted the attack. It wasn't until Taylor Swift won her counter lawsuit against a man who groped her that women had a glimmer of hope that they could win against sexual attacks. She sued him for 1 cent , so obviously she didn't do it for the money, she did it to pave the way to help women everywhere. And wh…
/r/RedPillWives27/06/18 12:07 PM
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the whole metoo movement is women perhaps unconciously realising that this full liberation and promiscuity is maybe not in women's best interest. It's literally feminism going "oooh maybe we fucked up!" and trying to reassert some control over the sexual marketplace. Seriously? That's conflating rape and men's predatory behavior with the misbehavior of slutty women. #metoo is about the former and is entirely a separate issue from the latter.
/r/RedPillWives26/06/18 12:57 PM
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My husband has never asked me, and I have never asked him. It's really none of his business and it's none of mine. You're right. High quality men don't ask, and they don't care.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/18 05:18 AM
2

I can't count how many times I've read this scenario posted on TRP: couple marries young, girl is a virgin. She gets starts to regret not having more sexual experience before marriage and starts on the CC and basically destroys her marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/18 05:15 AM
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Not really. My n count is really low, so if hubby ever asks, I'd be embarrassed to tell him. Even though he doesn't care and it doesn't matter to him.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/18 05:04 AM
2

Agree with you on all counts. Didn't think it needed to be mentioned, but you do have to be a man who is willing to walk away from women who repeatedly goes into emotional outbursts and never learns from her mistakes. I reign in my emotions for the most part because I want my husband to look forward to coming home to a happy loving wife and not start looking elsewhere for greener pastures. As with all relationships we do disagree from time to time and if we have issues we talk it out.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 04:58 PM
3

Yep, this is what happens when you try to be self-reflective as a woman on this sub and share your insights. Your insights are solid, some of the male bitches on this sub have their head too far up their asses to know it. We're supposed to be stupid and vapid whores, which explains why a guy thought I was a man because what I had written was ”too insightful and self-reflective to have been written by a woman” * eye roll*
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 10:49 AM
7

Am married, can confirm that the game never ends, and nor should it. Honestly it's what keeps the spark in our marriage. Hubby never loses his frame, always keeps me in line, which is such a turn on. We regularly have hot sex and I love going down on him because he is my king and he deserves it.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 10:32 AM
1

I don't see why it matters whether or not you cum after sex. She may be stupid or ignorant.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 10:26 AM
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What everyone said, he has multiple red flags for abusive behavior. A truly strong man would NOT be threatened by your career and hobbies. He's isolating you and putting you in a prison. RUN.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/17 03:11 AM
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When I underwent chemo, my hair fell out in clumps. My then-bf (now husband) helped me shave it all off. He knew that my self-esteem took a downturn from not having any hair but made sure to always tell me that I was beautiful. I will never forget his love and kindness. Your bf? He doesn't sound so kind. It's either that, or he's worried and stressed out for you? Anyway, you can always wear a wig when you're out in public.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/17 01:34 AM
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Right, we can't expect our men to be all things to us, just as it would be unfair for them to expect the same of us. That's why women have other women to commiserate with. Men do have empathy for their women but it's unrealistic to expect them to empathize to the extent that a woman would. In the case of miscarriage, it can't just be any woman, either. it would have to be someone who has gone through the experience of pregnancy. It's such a unique thing that it's impossible to relate to unless y…
/r/RedPillWives12/04/17 01:18 AM
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He wanted a child with you. Yeah, I'd say he's committed. Stop beating yourself up for no reason. I've been working harder towards being more put together, girly, makeup done and not nagging him and just being his soft spot to land. Sounds like you're doing all the right things. If you're concerned about letting yourself go, pretend that you're cute, fresh, and flirty. You'll feel better about yourself, and he'll notice, too. My husband is a few years younger than me, but it's never been an issu…
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/17 02:06 AM
2

Who cares what he thinks? If you want to wear makeup, tell him that you enjoy wearing it because it makes you feel pretty and put together. Too bad if he doesn't like it. He can take it or leave it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 01:55 AM
6

A lot of us are feminists, or started out as feminist. I still consider myself somewhat feminist, not the man-hating type, or the kind who subscribes to the philosophy that women should be men, or "anything that a man can do, I woman can do better," but equal opportunities. A lot of us have careers, we're not all stay at home moms, not that there is anything wrong with that, and some of us earn more than our partners. The thing to remember is that God created men and women differently for a reas…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 03:13 AM
7

My ex and have done it for each other. I didn't get much out of it aside from us forgiving each other and agreeing to move on with our lives.
/r/RedPillWives10/08/16 03:06 AM
1

Small amounts can still get absorbed into the bloodstream through the skin. Personally, I wouldn't risk it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/16 04:23 PM
1

Do you know specifically what ingredients you are sensitive to?
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/16 03:45 AM
2

Alpha Hydroxy Acid. Asian beauty products are generally very high quality, especially the ones from Japan and Korea, and contain many of these ingredients.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/16 03:01 AM
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Caution on the retinol/tretinoin. Don't use it if you are pregnant or trying to get pregnant, it can cause birth defects.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/16 03:00 AM
2

You have to ask yourself, can you see yourself spending the rest of your life with your boyfriend? You should already know after dating for 5 years. Are you completely satisfied with him? If not, it's time to break up with him if you want to be fair to both him and yourself. Otherwise, after you get married, it will get worse. You'll feel depressed and sad that he wasn't everything you wanted and by then it will be too late. But if you are completely happy with him and you know he is the one for…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/16 03:46 AM
2

Be mindful of your body and what it needs. Often, when we don't take care of our bodies it lets us know by making us feel like crap. When you eat, eat mindfully. That is, when you eat a salad, how does it make you feel versus after eating some greasy fast food? Pay attention to your energy levels after eating fresh food versus after eating processed food. Like many people, I grew up eating TV dinners and junk. It wasn't until I started practicing yoga, which teaches mindfulness and self-awarenes…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/16 12:34 AM
1

You might also like https://wwnh.wordpress.com/ Both this blog and Fascinating Womanhood really helped me understand how to be more feminine in manner, attitude, and appearance
/r/RedPillWives19/04/16 03:52 AM
2

I loved this book! The ideas in it are timeless.
/r/RedPillWives19/04/16 03:39 AM
3

I loved how you rolled with it even when things didn't go exactly as expected (lackluster dinner and you thinking that HB wasn't going to be able to take the day off). You were such a champ, and I think it cemented in his mind that you are cool and easy going. Really, that's what a man wants for his soft landing, and you gave that to him. Nicely done!
/r/RedPillWives19/04/16 03:37 AM
3

INTJ here. Husband is ENTJ, too.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/16 08:47 PM
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Wow, I think that you are really confused about what feminism is. I don't know any sane human being who would support the notion that people don't need to be responsible for their actions. Feminism is about women getting equal opportunities and equal pay for equal work, etc. Now there are those pseudo-feminists who think it's cool for women to be as slutty as men, but I don't consider those people feminists. They're just called sluts. In any case, back to the story at hand: The author's mother p…
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/16 04:50 PM
2

It's laughable that the author blames it all on feminism. There is nothing feminist about cheating on your spouse. The real problem is the military life, the culture of military wives, and the inherent difficulties of being away from your spouse for long periods of time.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/16 04:00 PM
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I don't see your post as being in any way bratty. You raise a very valid point. An RPW woman expects some show of the man being a good man, and part of that is that the man at least pays on the first date. If I had a first date with a guy who didn't pay, I would think he were a loser, lazy, or a freeloader. And there would be no second date from me.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/16 01:35 AM
1

That's really interesting! I always expect a guy to pay on a first date. As long as he does that, I have no problem splitting, or even paying for him on subsequent dates. I guess everyone's experiences vary. My husband paid for our first date, and years later I buy him a luxury car :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/16 01:31 AM
3

It sounds like he got over the mistake and expected you to do the same. Just as you didn't get over it and you expected him to remain hung up on it.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/16 07:51 PM
3

You're emotionally immature. The perfect reality that plays in your head is absolutely not the way your life will play out and you just need to accept that. You're never going to get your way 100% of the time. You just need to learn to roll with things and let them go, especially if they're minor things like having a sauceless pizza (which, by the way is technically called a white pizza). You could have laughed with your husband and the two of you could have had a nice evening together. Instead,…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/16 07:47 PM
6

It's also that, when I was a teenager, I read a lot of girl power-type magazines that made me think it was cool to have masculine qualities, to be one of the boys, and that it was lame and backward to be feminine. This is the takeaway message that young women are getting these days. It took me some time and a few failed relationships to realize that this doesn't play out. It took my brother criticizing my lack of femininity that made me go out and research how to be feminine. Because I had no cl…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 02:46 PM
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Her experience is similar to mine in that she is fed up with dating men who are weak doormats. Strong women like herself (and myself) don't want to be the man in the relationship, they want to be the woman. We know how it sucks to always have to take the reins when it is really the man's job. The essay is honest and happens to support RP tenets. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 03:51 AM
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Maybe try something more loving, like, "You are so wonderful". You sound a lot like my husband, he's a Mr. Grumpypants in the morning and very not functional. But I always kiss him and tell him I love you before heading off to work, and if I'm lucky, I'll get a very sleepy "..lurrv you..mmblargh.." in return.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/16 02:18 AM
3

I've had a Paragard for 4 years and my periods only last 2-3 days. I cramped for the first few months after I got mine put in, but it went away quickly.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/16 03:48 AM
3

We have a whole lot of introverts here (raises hand). FTFY. It's *introverts. An apostrophe ' indicates a possessive. Nice map!! I'm an introvert, too.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/15 03:08 AM
3

I don't know, actually, I would veer towards no. It's okay for a male partner to have both alpha and a few beta qualities. My SO has many alpha qualities, but not so alpha that he is ever belittling or condescending. He listens to a lot of my ideas and takes me seriously. And when he sees that I'm feeling or upset, he tries to find out what's wrong and make me feel better. Those aren't exactly beta traits, though, they are good human being traits :) Sorry if I'm not answering your question adequ…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/15 03:55 AM
2

RP theory is based on evolutionary psychology. That is, female mammals instinctually seek out males with dominant alpha-type features that display their ability to provide resources which ensure the survival of their offspring, whereas males instinctually seek to propagate their genes widely. When applied to human behavior, it translates to women's instinctual attraction to men who have dominant features and resources that ensure the survival of their offspring (ie, money, power, ambition). This…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/15 03:43 AM
4

Being an introvert in a committed relationship, "me time" or "alone time" is very important to me, and when my SO and I first started dating, I made sure to let him know this. Alone time for me personally takes the form of specific interests that I pursue on my own, such as adult ballet/jazz/ dance classes, group fitness classes, yoga during the week. It can also be when I go to my room and work on a sewing project, practicing my violin, or reading a book. Basically, anything that enriches your …
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/15 08:21 PM
4

Ask her for her references and get testimonials from other people who have been her clients. That should give you some valid reasons to present to your husband.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/15 12:40 AM
2

They were playing sports and engaging in team-bonding activities, which include partying. But I will apologize for my harsh tone earlier, I understand you were just trying to provide cautionary advice to OP to prevent her life from being miserable 30-40 years down the line.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/15 02:14 AM
2

During this time we play sports and have fun/bond with our team Actually, they do play sports with the team.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/15 02:06 AM
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Your responses do nothing to address OP's specific situation, and neither do the responses to this thread. She said she was traveling with her sports team, not traveling just to travel. And she mentioned that she was single, so obviously, responses saying, "Oh, I always travel with my spouse" are just a circle jerk and do nothing to help OP.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/15 01:52 AM
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These responses here ignore the fact that OP travels with her sports team. She is going for the specific purpose of participating in events, and there's nothing wrong with that. Same if she were going on a medical mission trip to Ghana to volunteer, as some of my friends did. It's not like she's going to Phuket or Bali for some freewheeling weekend.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/15 01:49 AM
2

Tacos are super easy. I stuff them with meat, avocados, tomatoes (salsa works, too) a tiny bit of cheese, and they're good to go.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/15 12:30 AM
2

I was once like you. Eventually I grew out of it by realizing several things: Life never goes the way you planned. You will never get your way 100% the way you imagine it in your head. That is okay! Accept that there is a reason for everything that happens. The important thing is, what do you choose to learn from it? Everything is a learning experience that can help you improve. When life knocks you down, pick yourself back up and keep moving. Cultivate an attitude of gratitude. Even in a crappy…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/15 04:44 PM
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I'm with you on this one, OP. What good would it do to tell him that he grabbed the wrong ones? It's not like he could learn from it for next time, especially since you did not communicate which ones to bring. I disagree that it would be patronizing for this particular case if OP said nothing about the mistake.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/15 09:58 PM
1

Yes, it would have been obvious and not necessary on her part. ED is a mechanical malfunction for men, whereas for women, it's normal to take time to orgasm. But perhaps it's not so much that OP's husband is unkind as he is ignorant of the fact that we women tend to take much longer to orgasm than men.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/15 09:50 PM
2

Bravo for having the courage to be supportive of your husband! RPW is about being that nurturing "soft landing" for our men, and in doing so, they do so much better. Your story illustrates an important point: A common question that comes up is some ladies are concerned that they make more money than their partners. As long as you don't belittle the man by using the fact to lord over him or continually brag about it around him, like you previously did, it's not an issue. Instead, you helped him a…
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/15 09:44 PM
1

For someone whose lack of morals borders on the despicable, that is, despicable to me as a woman, you are incredibly self-aware. That's somewhat admirable. I didn't realize that a man would choose to not be a good captain, though, so I found your responses interesting. TIL
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/15 02:55 AM
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That wasn't a nice thing for him to say. What is he doing to help you along? For example, my SO fingers me in my G-spot, and does extensive foreplay to make it a mutually pleasant experience for both of us. But rather than telling him, you can grab his hand and guide him to where he needs to go.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/15 02:21 AM
1

If you do slip up and find yourself acting mean and bitchy, by all means apologize!! Acknowledging your faults and apologizing for helps clear the air more quickly.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/15 01:46 AM
1

What everyone said about "faults" being bad habits that women do to hurt their relationships with men. An example of my own personal one includes my doubting and second-guessing my SO, not trusting his opinions, not having enough confidence in his judgment and decisions. Red pill theory is based upon evolutionary psychology, which supports traditional masculine and feminine gender roles. That is not to say that red pill women are all stay at home moms. Many of us are highly educated, have high-p…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 02:45 AM
2

OP, I completely understand where you are coming from. I am not at all religious, but I feel that sex is a sacred and highly intimate experience meant to be shared with only the worthiest. This would be someone to whom you are married. Your virginal status is no one else's business but your own. It's not necessary to disclose it so early on in the relationship. If you must disclose, I would say wait until after the third date. If a guy is really interested in you, he will pursue the relationship…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/15 01:14 AM
7

Your parents are racists. If you were my daughter, I'd be delighted if she were dating someone with that kind of financial sense and responsibility.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 10:35 PM
1

Came here to say exactly this. If he keeps wasting food even after 2 or 3 gentle reminders, I would show him the food before throwing it out, and ask for help with replacing it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/15 04:13 AM
1

My SO and I are happily married, have separate bank accounts, and are co-signers on the mortgage for the house. I make about double my husband's income, but that has never been an issue between us, we even joke about him being the gold-digger. It works because I maintain my feminine traits and qualities, and always defer to him in our daily life. Thankfully he's secure in himself that he doesn't feel threatened by the fact that I earn more than him. I wouldn't make a big deal out of it, it seems…
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/15 09:10 PM
3

Quiet, non-drinking girl here. I always get taken aback when my man asks me why I'm so quiet, even after being together for a few years! There's nothing wrong. I'm feeling happy just BEING, and enjoying being in the present moment. I don't feel the need to pollute the silence with speech, unless I have something important to say. What you can do if she is quiet in the car, is simply to hold her hand, and for me personally, that is enough. The downside to my being quiet is I don't always communic…
/r/askTRP04/01/15 08:49 PM
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People who complain of drama are the ones responsible for causing it. It's all in how you react to the person. My SO calls me out whenever I use a confrontational tone with him, and I don't even realize it until he does! I think the key to avoiding drama is to not be confrontational and speak in a kind manner. I learned all this from my captain, he teaches by example.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/14 05:08 AM
1

I fully expect to be downvoted for my response here, but whatever. I see nothing wrong with paying for her if you like her. A traditional girl will expect a gentleman to pay for her on a first date. Just don't take her anywhere expensive on a first date, as she hasn't earned it yet. And if she likes you and isn't an asshole, she'll offer to pay on the second or third date. Source: lady here, SO of 4 years paid for me on our first date (as he should) and I gladly pick up the tab half the time we …
/r/askTRP28/12/14 04:18 AM
2

I explained why we weren't equal, nor would she want to be. I'm her daddy, and she can just enjoy the ride. Then she gets even more upset. She doesn't like that I don't take her criticism seriously. Uh oh... Alarm yellow, gentleman. So I try to remind her that we're here to have a good time, and I own her, and we're OK. You were condescending towards her , at least that's what I picked up from your wording. If that were the case, it indicates that you need to work on how to relate to people with…
/r/askTRP23/12/14 05:26 AM
2

To her credit, she apologized. Bad habits are hard to break. Whenever she repeats it, remind her of what she said she would do: trust you. If she gets combative and starts to get ugly, just look at her as you would look down on a child, and ask, "Are you done? Let me know when you are finished" Then leave the room. Refuse to involve yourself in the conflict, and refuse further discussion unless she can act like a mature adult.
/r/askTRP23/12/14 05:06 AM
1

Would I have done what you did, my answer would be "sorry, I hadn't realized how important this was for you. Had I known, I would not have watched it alone" Exactly this. Apologizing when you are truly in the wrong actually increases respect in her eyes. This is actually one of my favorite things about my SO, and he's about as RP as you can get.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 04:06 AM
1

Thank you for taking the time for providing your explanation, it was helpful. I now understand that the answer is different in the context of RP theory. However, I was responding honestly to the question as I understood it, that is, in general, can men and women ever have strictly platonic relationships.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 11:56 PM
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Caring for someone, especially, a spouse, has nothing to do with RP vs BP. You seem confused about the appropriate application of RP theory.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/14 12:09 AM
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I was in a similar position as you quite recently. I was really sick from the chemo treatment, which, aside from the awful side effects, also caused my sex hormones to shut down. During that time my husband didn't initiate sex with me because he knew what I was going through. It was more important to him that I get well. Good men protect and care for their women. Allow him to love you. Best wishes for you!
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/14 11:55 PM
2

I see. Hopefully you're not too hard on yourself. We all make mistakes, and that's okay.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/14 05:45 PM
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Depends on how wise the woman is. If she sets firm boundaries and doesn't put herself in compromising situations, then yes. Most young girls don't, largely due to naiveté on their part. Women aren't wired to look at every person of the opposite sex as a sexual prospect the way that men are. Edit: Downvoted, seriously? I guess some people don't like to hear the truth.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 05:43 PM
2

To add onto #5, A lady always speaks well of her husband and seeks to praise him in public. Also: A lady never engages in gossip. It's simply not classy.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/14 04:36 PM
1

I second this so much! I don't agree with everything he says, like his stance that women shouldn't vote, but everything else there is gold.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/14 04:28 PM
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He isn't interested in you for a gf. Cut your losses and move on. There are plenty of good men out there. You said that you are hurt from a past relationship, so spend time away from men, and go your own way for a while. This will give you time to learn from your mistakes, and improve yourself for next time.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/14 04:25 PM
9

Seriously, if OP only liked her because she was "hot and good fun in bed", he should have just plated her instead.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 03:28 PM
7

My first reaction was, this guy did a solid here, high-five. Then I re-read the backstory: Gf was always going to be trouble because she has tattoos and is a veteran of the CC but I was with her because she is hot and good fun in bed. OP should have plated her from the get-go. Instead, for the shallow reason that all she has to offer is that "she is hot and good fun in bed", he keeps her as a gf and then is surprised that she acts like a slut. I don't understand people who choose to fuck idiots …
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 03:18 PM
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It makes me incredibly sad that feminism has destroyed all the traditional natural gender roles, and now, here we have a real man, a Good Man (and I believe many men on this sub are Good Men) who can't find a decent woman because of it. All I can say is that RP isn't so much about treating women like dirt as it is about maintaining frame and not letting a woman get away with misbehaving. It's like bargaining, you have to be willing to walk away if the price isn't right for you. 9 times out of 10…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 03:03 PM
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person of much higher spirit to see the emptiness between casual sex culture and survive it. It's the Kali Yuga, man. Folks who have enough spiritual supremacy to survive it are folks who are steering clear of degenerate places and not indulging in it in highly hypocritical manner ("lemme just fuck sluts and then I'mma gonna marry my virginal waifu. oh crap all women are sluts :("). You speak words of wisdom, sir. It's like going to a brothel to find a wife, and then complaining that, "Gee, they…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 06:00 AM
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Yes, sir, indeed I have. Note that the incidence of Mc is about the same in Group A (female offspring) as it was in Group D (never pregnant). The paper states that "other possible sources of male microchimerism include [...] sexual intercourse." It's common for scientific papers to provide speculation in the Conclusions section, and this is what it is, just speculation. Although it would be really fascinating if it were true. I clicked on the article hoping that this was so, because it would hav…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 05:35 AM
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Did anyone read the actual study? The whole study dealt solely with fetal microchimerism. Meaning that the Mc was the result of the woman being pregnant at one time or another. The partner count tests on which some commentators are speculating, if based on fetal Mc, would be invalid for women who have never been pregnant.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 08:27 PM
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