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This is what I don't understand -- I think I look better now. I take better care of my hair and skin, and dress better. I've always been fit, more towards the skinny end of the scale. I put on a little bit of weight (he has mentioned I was too thin). I can totally understand your last paragraph. I thought I was doing a good job at that.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/25 09:26 AM
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Loyalty is measured by actions and choices, not what's going on one's mind.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/25 08:57 AM
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I believe in evil forces, and that they come to test you sometimes. Trying to keep vigilant 🙏
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/25 08:56 AM
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You usually give good advice, but I have to challenge your opinion here. If I wanted a side dish I would've gone for it, no? I'm here because I want to show up differently. Authentically me, but in a way that benefits my relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/25 08:55 AM
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Thanks for the words of encouragement :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/25 08:53 AM
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Great tips, specially the working out part. Social media has probably been clouding my judgement too. And I feel relieved to know I’m not the only one :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/25 07:21 PM
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Yes, that’s the way to go, but I feel like I already do that? If I do it more it might be overwhelming for him. Our bedroom is quite alive.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/25 07:19 PM
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Girl, I literally work full time in Engineering.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/25 07:18 PM
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Perfectly put. That makes me think I’m in a pickle right now. My long term BF (2 years together) has a lot of things I love and has shown that from the get go. One of them, is that he was super attracted to me. But lately (last month or so) he’s desire for me has gone down drastically. Now, when he’s more stressed, his desire ebbs I know that. He hasn’t pursued me in weeks and my eyes are starting to wander. It’s almost a physical itch. What does that mean? The moment he shows me affection or de…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/24 11:59 AM
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Hi all, I can't reply to everyone individually but I'd like to thank you for the support and inputs. I've reflected on what you've said, and even though both parties have their share of fault here, I'd like to focus on my side only (after all that's all I can do). I'll try my best not to snap, and be on a complaint-free diet for some time. Also, will channel my love even more towards my family and friends (and, why not, on my creative hobbies too?). I'll do this and observe a month or two. I sho…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/24 03:45 PM
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And thanks for reminding me of self-compassion :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/24 03:44 PM
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Tell me about it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/24 03:43 PM
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You're right. I make myself too available, I think. It is a harsh position having to ask for love all the time. I think what's tricky in my case is that I already do all these things: focus on myself, have a few gal pals I reach out to and hang out with... I live a full life. I'm out of the home at least twice on weekday nights (yoga/pilates/dance class or hanging out with friends), and sometimes 1 day of the weekend too. Besides, we both work from external locations when the other is working fr…
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/24 02:51 PM
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I think I lost my best leverage which was not moving in until marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/24 10:50 AM
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I know. It’s too high of a risk. But I wouldn’t be asking unless I loved him like I do. And we match on so many levels.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/24 10:49 AM
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That advice is on point. From what OP posted it seems like she’s already getting resentful for having put higher expectations (an engagement) early on. You don’t need to ditch the relationship or close off your heart, but while you’re not married I’d value freedom more than potential.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/24 11:16 AM
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How was his attitude towards you before pregnancy? I’m wondering how did you find out he had a provider mindset while you were dating.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/24 02:21 PM
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Wow, these words… just wow. I’m taking it in. Thank you so much for taking the time! You're right, maybe I should work on my “carefrontation” game. I’m passionate about things, as you guessed, but I noticed that the moments in my life where I was at my most relaxed I cared less, and let things slip. In the beginning of this relationship he complimented me for being “very womanly” not just in my care for my appearance but behaviour too. I don’t wanna ruin that. Sometimes the roots of my (amazingl…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/24 02:38 PM
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Well, it kinda was me taking too long actually. I started rambling “well I’m always down but at the same time blah blah”
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/24 10:29 AM
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