| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | Queen on AITA gave abusive ex’s dog to a good home and told him the dog ran awayThe dog was being abused. She lied so that he wouldn’t be able to try to get her in trouble for giving it away. He obviously didn’t care about that dog until it wasn’t his to play with anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:32 AM |
| 13 | Ladies, leave him well before your relationship turns into this 🙅♀️The thing is, a lot of men have no shame. The woman will come home and there will be dog pee everywhere because he couldn’t be bothered to take the dog outside. At that point though it’s better to kick him out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 10:14 AM |
| 17 | A male using the word tits. Red flag?No, it’s derogatory. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Cautionary tale: Betty BroderickYeah, my thoughts exactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Think about it 🤔And the mothers love seeing that their sons love them more than their partner. Most of the time they don’t care if he’s mistreating her, it just makes them feel superior. My brother used to be a “mommy’s boy” and date girls who reminded him of our mom. Now that he’s older and has more distance from her he’s an independent man thank goodness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 02:59 PM |
| 1 | “Ask your other peers what they make — especially your male ones.”I am 100% behind sharing how much you make with your friends, but not if they are coworkers. I’ve had too many people get upset that I made more than them and they treated me differently. It can cause some serious workplace drama. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Reminder: LVM don't like it when you have a support systemSo true! I wonder if we could have a get together (after COVID) for those of us in bigger cities to meet up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 02:48 PM |
| 8 | Reason #826 why OLD is a waste of time. Log in for the first time in a month or so and am reminded that if left unattended for too long, man-children will really pull this BS. I think this is it for me and online dating lolI like how the profile picture is of a car instead of his face. Huge red flag 🚩🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 04:09 AM |
| 12 | Just more proof of men being trash, the most he said was “yeah”This is me though 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 04:04 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020I’m in my undergrad still. I’m a sophomore. I’ve been doing well paying for college and I don’t have any loans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 03:46 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020Guys, I’m in need of advice. I’ve volunteered at nursing homes for years as a teenager and I’ve basically done what an unpaid activity director does. I’ve started working as an assistant to the activity director and I’m considering doing this for my career, even though I’m on the pre-med route. In my state, nursing home activity directors make around $47,000, and the cost of living in my state is very low (rent is around $500-$800 for a 1 bedroom apartment). As long as I don’t have children, thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 03:26 AM |
| 8 | Imagine being so insecure you can’t event hold a conversationWouldn’t he need a job to support himself? Oh wait... he’s looking for a woman to do it for him 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 09:40 PM |
| 3 | "'Cause he's a fucking waste of time" – Snow Tha Product, Waste of TimeI’ve never heard of her, I’ll have to add this to my playlist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 06:56 AM |
| 7 | Sicko of the day award goes to Randy (: Why cant you be 10x younger???Eww. I made a public post on Facebook and a weirdo like this started harassing me. They live for drama. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 06:46 AM |
| 3 | this makes me so sadI’m assuming they live together? It’s not like he can’t get the clothes back. Sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 06:45 AM |
| 20 | She literally mothered and fathered him... this cant be real 💀This actually happens. My mother let a homeless person and her kids move into our house and supported them while they went to college. CPS got involved after I was attacked. Mom basically did the same thing with my stepdad except he was on the brink of homelessness. Sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 06:39 AM |
| 8 | Don’t let any man waste your time, no matter how short.Just don’t respond. They thrive on going back and forth with you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 06:34 AM |
| 71 | I'm curious how life is for other women dating childfree! Please share your stories/goals/dreams with meIt grinds my gears how women who focus on their careers and are child free are judged. If you want to be a mom, great! Don’t tell me I need to be one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 06:28 AM |
| 9 | Had a self-care day after a break-up with a toxic guy, and I'm feeling much better! Even though it was just a manicure and lunch, making myself a priority again is so refreshing!That sandwich looks good. What all was on it? And those waffles? Beautiful 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 06:21 AM |
| 66 | Straight from the horse’s mouthIt one of these options: He heard you but doesn’t care He doesn’t care so he doesn’t listen He has a hearing problem (unlikely) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 06:18 AM |
| 4 | OMG look who bought me flowers! It's me because I'm my favorite person and I love me so much.Slay queen 👸 keep treating yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 06:16 AM |
| 18 | Had a first date that a friend arranged for me and this guy not only was very nice and put together but he changed a stranger’s tire who got a flat on their way into the parking lot!That’s great! Even though he did something nice, this doesn’t mean he’s a HVM. A guy I worked with used to do favors for strangers like fixing tires, but would fat shame his wife and left her while she was pregnant with their second child for a girl just out of high school. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:17 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 23 2020Yeah I got demoted too a few months back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:43 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 23 2020Guys, I’m a college student and I’m stuck living with my pick me mom and her NVM. As much as I love my mom, I know her happiness comes first above all else and it’s not healthy for me to be here. Would it be wrong to ask my disabled aunt if I can live in her house while she’s in a nursing home? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:40 PM |
| 4 | Mum moves in with a LVM after 3 months of dating who won’t let daughter practiceYes! “Why don’t you want me to be happy? You’re so selfish!” Also my mom: “He’s cheating on me with other women again and he won’t get a job😭” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:37 PM |
| 10 | So when it’s the man getting abused, suddenly he’s not interested in abuse kinks? Also notice how no one in the comments said anything about the age gap.Unfortunately I knew a girl in middle school who used sharpies because her parents wouldn’t buy her sex toys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:17 PM |
| 42 | So when it’s the man getting abused, suddenly he’s not interested in abuse kinks? Also notice how no one in the comments said anything about the age gap.Not only that, but they try to label everything as a kink. Want your man to kiss your entire body or clean up after sex? Some people consider that a kink. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:14 PM |
| 59 | So when it’s the man getting abused, suddenly he’s not interested in abuse kinks? Also notice how no one in the comments said anything about the age gap.I’d hope so too, but why waste three months talking to him? She probably just graduated high school too, smh. You’d think kids would be busy with e-learning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:11 PM |
| 14 | Mum moves in with a LVM after 3 months of dating who won’t let daughter practiceI wish my mom valued me more than her current husband. She used to accuse me of being attracted to him and never believed me when I told her he’d call me “honey.” She let him move in and supported him in every way. It’s obvious to me now that he was trying to groom me but lost interest. She continued to be with him when she discovered he cheated, wasted thousands of her dollars on other women and himself, and watched child porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 06:49 PM |
| 11 | What it is about women-only spaces that energize me and calm me at the same time? I've come to believe that it's finally feeling heard by someone who understands. I want a lifetime membership to this gym!Same. With all the talented girls on this sub I wouldn’t be surprised if one of us started one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 06:52 AM |
| 82 | What it is about women-only spaces that energize me and calm me at the same time? I've come to believe that it's finally feeling heard by someone who understands. I want a lifetime membership to this gym!I think there are women’s only gyms. It’s called Curves. I’ve never been to one, but apparently they are nice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Men who ride motorcyclesIt depends. If it was a thing where he’d ride it for fun occasionally that’d be fine. If he’s in a biker gang, refuses to wear a helmet, and wears leather jackets and bandannas? No thank you. Also, the people who rev up the motor are annoying AF. I’d stay away from those guys too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Men battering women for rejecting them must come from more than just a sense of entitlement.Horrible. Ladies, if you haven’t already, get a Google number in case you need to protect yourself from men like these. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 06:37 PM |
| 13 | On a scale of 1-10, how much are we leaving him? Because he never called.Next time, use less words. Just stop texting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020Keep us updated. I’m sure you’ll do great ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 12:05 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020He doesn’t want you anymore. You sending him a screenshot of his location and trying to test him was immature and probably came across as controlling. If a man did that to me, I’d be done with him too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 12:03 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020I call them sluts/whores to be honest. And perverts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 11:56 PM |
| 21 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020Why are so many men users? And why do their mothers always think that their son is a supreme being who can do no wrong? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 11:53 PM |
| 20 | No one that loves and values you will allow you to self-sacrifice like this...Yes! They always want to be the “alpha” and have kids. Also, they have big dreams of having a lifestyle they can never afford! And they want YOU to be the bread winner so they can have it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 11:38 PM |
| 6 | Anybody else sad to see their mother being a pick me?No, he was too big to do that. I think he liked smelling them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Anybody else sad to see their mother being a pick me?I feel bad for most pickmeishas, but there’s a point to where I don’t. Tearing other people down for “gains” and neglecting children for a man is inexcusable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 03:58 AM |
| 5 | Anybody else sad to see their mother being a pick me?I’m sorry to hear that. My first ex boyfriend raped me and when I went to the police they told me I had to let my mom know. She told me that denying sex was like teasing a dog, and that I basically put cake in his face and told him he couldn’t eat it. Then she said “that’s what happens when you don’t listen to me.” Our relationship is strained. She doesn’t think she did anything wrong. She’s a narcissist pickme that cares about men more than anything else. It took me years to realize that I was … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Anybody else sad to see their mother being a pick me?I get this. I think to myself “how can she be so strong but still allow this to happen?” She picks her husband over her own kids, except sometimes she’ll choose my brother. She told me men are superior and it’s her job to be accommodating. We don’t have the best relationship, and it’s hard on me seeing her be mistreated. Now she’s the abusive one in her marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 03:25 AM |
| 18 | Anybody else sad to see their mother being a pick me?I get this. I had an abusive ex, and when I told my mom I was thinking about breaking up with him she told me that he’s a once in a lifetime guy and that I was making a mistake! What exactly made him a once in a lifetime guy in her book? He would make me food and do laundry for me. Found out after the breakup he was stealing my clothes after he returned them in a plastic bag 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 03:17 AM |
| 12 | Guy I gave my number to dropped some of these: 🚩 🚩 🚩 🚩Thank you. I just set mine up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 06:10 PM |
| 13 | Guy I gave my number to dropped some of these: 🚩 🚩 🚩 🚩How do I set up a google number? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 05:55 PM |
| 28 | How much you want to bet SHE will have to pay to get a new one and he won’t help?How can anyone find that funny? Many jobs require you to bring your birth certificate to be hired, so him doing this could be a control tactic. This has been my strategy since the end of my senior year: if his friend’s are bad people, stay away from him. Nice people who surround themselves with bad people are either insecure and too afraid to find new friends, or they themselves are just good actors. Don’t fall for their act. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 02:49 PM |
| 8 | Things that make you go hmmm:Half of the time isn’t enough. If you’re in a cycle where one week you feel like you feel on top of the world being with him, and the next you feel miserable and want to end it, that’s not healthy. Even in a cycle where most of the time you are happy, evaluate the bad times. Some bad incidents, no matter how rare they are in your relationship, should be deal breakers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020Omg 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 02:12 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020Wtf? Are you twelve? He has to use his friend’s phone, and he talks to you only through Reddit and WhatsApp? How can he be playing you this much? Clown 🤡🤡🤡 I’ve heard that a lot of scammers get girls to talk to them on WhatsApp and get them away from the common social media sites. You’re wasting your time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 02:12 AM |
| 4 | 'He chooses to be home'And he’ll probably find a way to blame her for dying too while he does it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 01:39 AM |
| 2 | I’m not dating this guy or anything (cute guy on a group discord), but he worked on my Minecraft house, gave me a torch, flowers, an orange bed, a sign that said “welcome home (my name),” and a little craft table ❤️ thoughtful manI don’t have the game on PC yet, but when I do I’ll hit you up and we can play together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 02:15 AM |
| 3 | I’m not dating this guy or anything (cute guy on a group discord), but he worked on my Minecraft house, gave me a torch, flowers, an orange bed, a sign that said “welcome home (my name),” and a little craft table ❤️ thoughtful manI love it! I used to play Minecraft all the time while on the school bus as a kid. Now I’m gonna go teach myself how to play Minecraft on my Xbox again 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 02:02 AM |
| 12 | Boyfriend feels too niceGood luck! I have trouble finding men who are willing to wait. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 06:13 AM |
| 26 | Boyfriend feels too niceThere’s a good chance he has a small penis, but he could be inexperienced too. There are some guys who chose to wait for marriage or a long term partner before having sex. It’s rare, but possible, and that’s a green flag for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 05:37 AM |
| 2 | He's 'fine' with FDS but misses the point completely. Link in commentsI don’t know, but if someone reaches out to her I was able to find an email of his if she needs it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 02:49 AM |
| 3 | He's 'fine' with FDS but misses the point completely. Link in commentsHe claims to be a lone wolf living in solidarity, but still gives men advice on how to get women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 02:40 AM |
| 8 | "... go for a walk..."I personally like walks. But you’ve never met in person yet. He’s either inexperienced/naive, cheap, or up to no good. A date at an outdoor restaurant would be a better alternative. Maybe say “That sounds fun, but we should have dinner first before we start making plans to be walking buddies.” The other responses on here are pretty solid too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 02:48 AM |
| 5 | "... go for a walk..."What did she say? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 02:43 AM |
| 27 | Opinions on Cops?Not a great idea. If you’ve known this guy for a while and trust him, then I’d say giving him a chance is fine. But if you met him on an app, or you barely know him, don’t do it. Stay away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 11:08 PM |
| 11 | Body issues and HV- Are they incompatibleStretch marks don’t make you lower in value. Things that make you low value include stealing, cheating, sleeping with random men, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 08:55 PM |
| 42 | No words...Does the girl look nervous, or is it just me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 08:51 PM |
| 5 | Dating in college - a waste of time?Hey girl, college sophomore here! I would not necessarily say it’s a waste of time, so long as you don’t invest a lot of time into it. Dating for more than a month = not a good plan. Limit how much you think about dating, and don’t date often. It’s good to get some experience to know what it’s like to talk to/date guys so you feel better prepared for the future when you meet other men. I highly recommend not getting into a relationship. If you think there is a strong connection and he’s a HVM, y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 07:50 PM |
| 16 | The Boss of all Pickmeishas? Woman arrested after helping her boyfriend dismember a woman he murdered (and probably raped)I went through a phase where I wanted to join the military. To be honest, if there weren’t so many rapists and sexist pigs in the military I probably would have joined. Sometimes I wish I joined the air force so I can travel, get school paid for, and change lives. But I don’t see the military becoming a female friendly environment anytime soon, so I don’t plan on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 07:13 PM |
| 10 | NVM with dentures advertising his services on CraigslistHe makes multiple ads on my neighborhood Craigslist, and usually he specifies “ladies.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 12:25 PM |
| 13 | NVM with dentures advertising his services on CraigslistPretty sure it’s real. This guy reposts these ads on Craigslist all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 08:09 AM |
| 2 | If he says this it's a red flagBest case scenario, he’s bad at sex, at worst, he’s a rapist. Stay away. Also, why be with a guy who describes his past partners in bed? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 07:41 AM |
| 2 | IT'S HERE!! WE'VE LAUNCHED THEREALFEMALEDATINGSTRATEGY.COM WEBSITE! SIGN UP ASAP IN CASE WE'RE BANNED!Maybe we can do some sort of identity check and send proof that we’re women. For example, maybe email a picture of ourselves with our usernames written on our arms? Some content men are going to try to use to try to undermine us. Some of the content will need to be members only. Just my thoughts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:34 AM |
| 21 | All that needs to be saidI’m sorry that you were taken advantage of. I’m also 19, so if you ever need to talk to someone around your age I’m here. After the BLM movement we should try to end the porn industry next. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 09:38 PM |
| 9 | Men will use whatever unconventional platform is necessary to message a woman they are interested inI blocked a guy after he ghosted me. Last night I saw he messaged me on my Hinge profile saying “Hey, how are you?” Like wtf? 😂 I don’t need you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 01:33 PM |
| 9 | HVM shitPretty sure this is fake. I saw a similar post almost word for word being shared on Facebook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Wait until he finds out I can do calculus!! *Ladies, I’m not overreacting when I say this bothered me, right?*That devil emoji... wtf 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 03:50 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020I’m sorry you’re experiencing discrimination. I have nothing but respect for the single moms out there who take care of their children. I’ve seen some hateful comments on here about SAH and single moms, and I’ll be using the report button more. As for the ages on this sub, I think a lot of us are between 20-30. I think it would be cool if our sub did a poll about our ages so we can know for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 02:08 AM |
| 6 | Nothing but FACTS. The sad part is, she isn’t even exaggerating.Don’t forget that they want girls to be dependent on them, not financially, but emotionally | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 12:57 AM |
| 12 | Mixed signalsThank you for your reply. I definitely blocked him, I just feel so angry that I didn’t stop talking to him sooner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 11:51 PM |
| 13 | Mixed signalsThanks for your comment. While on the date he was talking about how he could help me with school work, his family, and even joked about possibly meeting my mom. Looking back, him saying that he could help me and planning things out in a way kind of made me see a future that seemed certain, but ultimately was just him saying things. I’m still pretty young, and I’ve still got a lot to learn. Thank you again 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 11:48 PM |
| 6 | I can’t decide which one is more shameful here...the girl, the guy, or the parents letting this happen.A girl from my high school wanted her boyfriend to do this 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 09:34 PM |
| 3 | What are fictional characters that you consider HVM ?He was an alcoholic, if I remember correctly. He had a lot of qualities of a HVM besides that though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 07:47 PM |
| 191 | I just can't anymore.It makes more sense for people to take their mother’s last name. If the child came out of the woman, there’s no denying that it belongs to her. Whereas with the father, it has to be proven with a DNA test. Women pass on unique antibodies and mitochondria to their offspring that men never will. Mitochondrial DNA has been the same down the female line and has been inherited from mother to offspring in all humans. This means you have the same mitochondrial DNA as your mother, as well as your great-… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 03:40 AM |
| 22 | When I first saw the comment I thought it was a joke.... then the picture. #CancelMen2020Eww 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 03:53 AM |
| 25 | Men🙄🙄I must be in the minority then. I liked when my ex would wash my hair for me. The only issue was when he tried to turn it into some sort of shower-sexy-time-fantasy 😒 Ruins the whole experience | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 04:44 AM |
| 12 | WholesomeI think it is necessary a lot of the time. What do you have issues with? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 04:34 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020Where can I find the uncut version? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 04:13 PM |
| 13 | LmaooooYou go queen 👑 Phlebotomy is a noble profession and don’t let any scrote try to make you feel bad about it. I’m proud of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 03:55 PM |
| 15 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020Anyone else see last night’s episode of 90 Fiancé Tell All? After everything Ed did, I never expected Rose to try to get back with him. Or maybe she was telling the truth and Ed was the one reaching out, but I don’t think so. Also, typical LVM/NVM behavior to be willing to abandon a relationship with your only child in order to pursue a relationship with someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020Thank you, I didn’t see it 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020In the past I’ve been in a relationship where my partner and I would mutually masturbate, but never have sex. Even though he was overall a NVM in the end, in the bedroom he took pride in making sure I was satisfied. A man that doesn’t want to pleasure you is selfish. He should do as much as you do to him, and maybe even more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020You’ve been FWB for several years? And only now after you withdrew attention from him to recover he wants you back and offers a relationship? A relationship you have wanted to pursue multiple times, but he was never ready when you were? He’s using you. He realizes that the only way to have you is to cater to the idea of being in a “relationship” and you’ll become a forever girlfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020Big time. Everyone from my high school who admitted to enjoying anime were weirdos. There’s a stereotype for a reason, unfortunately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020I’m also on Hinge. Luckily I’ve met some good guys, but there are all sorts of weirdos in my area on that app. One bio said “I’m attracted to feet” and “I’m weirdly obsessed with sex” 🤮 Blocked Don’t lower your standards. If you have an issue with age gaps now don’t change your views because of the lack of available HVM men in your age group. Be patient. We don’t need men to have a purpose in life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 05:00 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020Good luck! I didn’t have high hopes either with a guy I went on a date with a week ago, but things seem pretty promising. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020Anyone else see tonight’s episode of 90 Fiancé Tell All? After everything Ed did, I never expected her to try to get back with him. Or maybe she was telling the truth and Ed was the one reaching out, but I don’t think so. Also, typical LVM/NVM behavior to be willing to abandon a relationship with your only child in order to pursue a relationship with someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 04:42 AM |
| 32 | Nonsexual video of a pornstar and her bf.. It just makes me so sad how the dynamic is so obviously about humiliating the femaleThis is just terrible. While I definitely don’t respect sex work, people are still people. To treat any woman that way is despicable. She doesn’t even seem that bothered by it either, which makes me wonder if she was conditioned to believe that being humiliated is a normal part of a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 04:59 AM |
| 2 | What if we started a Women’s Social Justice Movement?We shouldn’t have to talk about being raped or stalked in order to be part of a movement. We can talk about the issue as a whole without having to tell the world what each of us have experienced. That’s what I’m trying to say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 02:44 AM |
| 6 | What if we started a Women’s Social Justice Movement?Calling it a gang could cause some controversy, but I’m down to form a sisterhood of sorts fighting for our rights 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 02:11 AM |
| 5 | What if we started a Women’s Social Justice Movement?I felt like MeToo required a lot of people to be open about experiences that many people wouldn’t want to share with others. Not everyone wants it to be known that they are a victim of sexual assault/harassment. Our next movement won’t require women to expose their personal experiences, so more people will get involved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 01:41 AM |
| 9 | What if we started a Women’s Social Justice Movement?YES!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 12:59 AM |
| 1 | We are staunchly Pro - Ghosting on this sub. Any comments guilt tripping women for dropping communication with men without explanation will be removed.Yup. Better to seem like a bitch than end up killed 💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 09:40 PM |
| 16 | While we’re on the subject of shitty policing ...Women really need to start protesting to get things like this more attention. I’m thinking about organizing something depending on how bad COVID gets with the current protests. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 06:49 PM |
| 79 | 🧐🧐 Don’t let yourself or your daughters be involved with a man like this (or your son be one)… pedophiles exploiting the vulnerable minds of young teens via an age gap.Yup. Don’t forget they’re also the same guys who target the mentally handicapped teenagers while still in high school. Sick fucks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 06:39 PM |
| 45 | While we’re on the subject of shitty policing ...Yup. Had a stalker in high school, they were more interested in making sure he’d have a clean record so he’d “have a chance” at making it in the adult world. Meanwhile I was hoping I wouldn’t get killed. Smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 06:25 PM |
| 16 | How is this gem still single?Makes my heart hurt knowing there are so many people in law enforcement like this 😢💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 06:24 PM |
| 10 | I hope she gets picked!A girl from my brother’s middle school ended up on pornhub. It completely ruined her life. A kid from school found it, told the guidance counselors, her parents had to come in, etcetera. I’ve never gone on pornhub before, so I don’t know the whole process of getting things uploaded. I don’t know how that was able to be online for so long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 01:24 AM |
| 2 | How do you feel about sex dolls?Sex dolls are nasty. I think the men who are tempted to hurt or abuse women during sex are more likely to become desensitized to hurting women by “taking it out” on sex dolls. I think sex dolls shouldn’t be normalized. Porn is normalized and now look at all the issues there are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 01:11 AM |
| 3 | Imagine being a pickme dating a guy for 10 years and he doesn’t propose lol based off this video alone you can already tell what kind of person he is.I had a cousin who dated a guy for at least seven years. Now she’s engaged to a guy she’s been with for a year and a half, and very happy. I hope this woman finds that happiness someday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Is he playing me?Yes, he’s playing you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 04:03 PM |
| 21 | Imagine being a pickme dating a guy for 10 years and he doesn’t propose lol based off this video alone you can already tell what kind of person he is.Everyone is different. Age is a big factor too. If you’re in college and just got out of high school, getting married after a year of school is probably too soon. Get your education, make money, and then decide if you want to stay with the man. The last thing you want is to marry a guy who sees you as a potential bread winner for him after you finish school. Also, getting pregnant and having to drop out of school sucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 07:06 PM |
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