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Blue Pill ExampleThrownAwayTRP/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 07:42 PM
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ThrownAwayTRP/r/askTRP03/01/15 10:23 PM
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Well that just plain isn't true. If all you wanted was the ending, you would just jerk it for the rest of your life. Men enjoy "the chase" as well, just in different ways and for different reasons.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 08:00 PM
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You do realize officers are not allowed to speak to the press right?
/r/askTRP16/05/15 03:19 AM
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Youre an idiot if thats what you think. I know the view in the media thats popular today but the emergency services of all kind are necessary and still committed to service. Real cops despise the bad ones and trust me when I tell you they actively root them out. And whether you want to admit it not, committing yourself to a profession that responds 24/7 to what is likely the worst day in your life is still noble and respectable. You can hate on it all you want but there are still hundreds of tho…
/r/askTRP15/05/15 03:02 AM
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I'm cop. Fits what you're looking for. 6 figures, full benefit, work your ass off for a worthwhile goal. You have to be tough, skilled, highly intelligent. Taking women for dates to the shooting range is impressive as fuck and its very easy to be aloof about the "things youve seen." Women love the uniform and learning to carry yourself in a RP manner helps you both on and off the job.
/r/askTRP14/05/15 08:16 PM
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What I mean by that is that I can create the impression that I'm courting her like a beta but in reality, I'm steering the interaction where I want it to go. Betas "chase" women. They react to their moves and hope to reply the right way to get her to sleep with them. RedPill has you leading her into your frame, towards your conclusion, not hers. The specific tactics are irrelevant and vary widely, its the philosophy and concept thats important. Really my individual moves aren't going to help you…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 10:39 PM
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I don't remember exactly but it was something along the lines of, "Write down your number, we'll meet up this weekend when (my friends name) isn't around to bother us."
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 09:36 PM
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I can confirm how true this is. I met this girl while out with another friend. We both decided to make a little game of it and see who could sleep with her. We both are attractive men, albeit in different ways. He has the aloofness down solid (unique personality combined with a bit of insanity) while I have to make a conscious effort at it. He's quite emotional, I embrace TRP, so I thought of it as a nice test. Throughout the night, I was thrwarting him at every turn. I position us at the bar so…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 04:55 AM
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The reason why you're okay with seeing other girls but not okay with her seeing other guys is simple: You both know it cheapens her but strengthens you. Its the same reason promiscuous men are treated with respect and promiscuous women are called sluts. Its easy to sleep with men and hard to sleep with women. You both know and understand this, though maybe subconsciously. She knows that if you can sleep with other women, it really just says her man is even better than most. You know if she sleep…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 07:31 AM
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No. Just no. Miranda has nothing to do with it being a proper arrest. In fact, Miranda doesn't even come into play until after you are arrested.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 12:57 PM
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Age of girl, bar or casino, Miranda rights, none of that matters in this case. You'll have to get your own lawyer. Depending on the state, I don't think this would rise to the level of molestation so thats likely a scare tactic. Get a lawyer and see what he or she can do.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 12:43 PM
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Its almost always this. The pressure to perform comes from the man's own head and creates a situation that doesn't really exist.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 02:18 AM
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You sound like a complete idiot anyways. Massified science, undiagnosed issues, doctors dismissing legitimate concerns.. Come on man, you probably believe vaccines cause autism too..
/r/askTRP12/02/15 04:49 AM
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As for that last part, don't explain yourself. It was what it is and going "my service was shit" just makes it worse. Other than that, stay vigilant, even when you know what to do, we get complacent and that will be when she gets you.
/r/askTRP16/12/14 08:14 PM
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Actual authority and implied authority are two different things.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 07:29 PM
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The important thing is to make sure you aren't her bitch but that its the other way around. Don't be the guy she comes back to to whine about her boyfriend. Don't be the guy she comes to after her other plans fall apart. Don't do things for her you wouldn't do for any other random person and make she reciprocates. As long as you do that, you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP16/12/14 07:23 PM
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Well, that can be difficult without knowing the plate personally and getting a feel for the situation. That said, I think at times, some people on this sub give women too much credit for their perception. If you answer her text or call the instantly and automatically say yes to her suggestion, that might come across to her as her being your best option. But, lets say a week in advance she tries to plan something, tell her you have some other things going on and you will see. If she calls that da…
/r/askTRP15/12/14 08:49 PM
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Could be but our filter system is just as easy. Click the flair for RP Theory, sort by Top, ctrl-f "shit test" and then you can browse at your pleasure, no extra clutter to the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 06:29 PM
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Remember, women should be treated like a random guy you met on the street. Judge your actions by whether or not you would do them for a random man you run into in public. Does this unknown male do exactly what is expected and you then tell him he looks good? I doubt it, so you don't do it for the plate. If this random guy is stunningly handsome and has earned a comment on how good he looks, then thats when you say it. Use that "test" and you will be just fine.
/r/askTRP15/12/14 06:26 PM
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I guess at the moment I was thinking a compliment wouldn't hurt It shouldn't be "Will it hurt me?" it should be "Will it benefit me?" What benefit do you derive from telling a person they look good when you both know they've looked better? I figured it deserved some kind of compliment of some sorts No it doesn't. She's just succumbing to her emotions and her natural tendencies. Oh you did exactly what was expected? That doesn't earn you shit, it just means you don't reprimanded. Lets also rememb…
/r/askTRP15/12/14 08:33 AM
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The best part about this whole thing is right there at the start. Shit tests are used by everybody, everyday. Hell, for the longest time I had no idea what they were but I used them anyways. I can look back at nights out at the bar or a party and meeting other guys. One of the first things I usually do is bust his balls and see how he reacts. That's a shit test right, I'm giving him shit to test what kind of a person he is. To understand shit tests, you have to understand how you yourself use th…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 08:01 AM
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The absolute best goes on the sidebar, everything else you have to take initiative to find. That wonderful filter at the top means one can see the highest voted content. The sidebar is the trial version but the real meat of RP is going to be in the older user content.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 07:52 AM
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Always ask but don't always accept the answer. There are a lot of new people on here who don't know a damn thing so read up on it yourself, read FR, Theory, all that stuff. Ask the same question to someone else and make sure you don't get the wrong stuff from the wrong people.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 07:50 AM
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I think you can tell by her response thats not okay. I think you and her both know she didn't really look that good, no one looks good after sex. They earn the compliment by actually doing whatever you are complimenting them for. For instance, I have this friend and I've made sure she knows her place. I treat her like I would any other guy, not mean but no freebies, no fawning, none of that beta shit. She asked me once about changing her hair color or style or something about it, I forget. I tol…
/r/askTRP15/12/14 07:48 AM
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You just say "K" and not another word. They come back almost every time.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 11:23 PM
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Because here's the thing: She may have been offended, or she may have been pretending. But if I sent her a message, I would never know. I would be playing into her story, into her frame, and in her story she is offended, regardless of reality. Best way I've seen frame described yet. Very simply put, but very effective.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 11:19 PM
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This can be difficult. A significant reason women will talk to you is your social status, or appearance of such. Some of my best successes have been because I'm with a group of friends and completely ignoring women. I had a literal beauty queen come up and beg my friend to introduce us because I was facing away from her and talking with my boys. Point is, it wont be impossible but it won't be easy either. You somehow have to convey status and approachability all by your lonesome. And, if you're …
/r/askTRP22/11/14 06:36 AM
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I like to use "If I can only see your face, I know you're fat." I get so many chicks starting off with trying to validate themselves by claiming they aren't fat.
/r/askTRP22/10/14 04:50 AM
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Right, you should always give credit where credit is due. I compliment when someone has earned it instead of trying to shortcut my way to sex with compliments like a lot of men think they're doing. Once someone realizes that your compliments are something to be earned, they will work for them, which is exactly what you want.
/r/askTRP18/10/14 02:55 AM
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Right, its a textbook example of cognitive dissonance.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 08:44 PM
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Oh I know, I'm just using that as a reference point to demonstrate that I had been drinking heavily and no one knew.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 11:41 PM
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Exactly, she clearly had a level of thought that went beyond simple rote recitation of past experiences. If she was really a virgin, it wasn't like she was just doing what she always did, she was actively considering the possible consequences of her actions.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 07:42 PM
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To be fair, nights where I've blacked out, I've been amazed at the level of coherence I've displayed outwardly. But really, thats exactly why John shouldn't be responsible. I am able to fake being sober even when I don't have the consciousness to do so. I have sent text messages that were perfectly spelled and punctuated, driven an hour while on a medication that I didn't know would cause me to lose all memory, and blown a BAC that says I should be medically blacked out but I personally felt lik…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 07:41 PM
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I think you're getting a lot of responses from guys that are confusing TRP with pick-up. We had a post the other day about how TRP is not a strategy to get women, thats more a side effect. Red Pill is about being the person you want to be, without compromising any of that for what some dumb fucking woman wants out of you. They're forgetting that MGTOW is a part of RP and yet doesn't involve women at all, or even necessarily being some testosterone fueled gym rat. Look, do your thing. If you want…
/r/askTRP15/09/14 09:25 PM
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There's no pouting. I prefer intercourse to having my dick sucked. Obviously, there are some days where I just randomly really want to get sucked off but if I had to pick one for the rest of my life, it wouldn't be getting my dick sucked. How is that BP in any way?
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 06:35 PM
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So if they have to be trained, then you're acknowledging exactly what I said to be true.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 02:45 PM
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Went over to this plates place, got a bit frisky. I went down on her, she came multiple times. I finish up and she goes, "Was that just so I'll suck your dick?" I tell her, "Nah, I like going down on girls. But you're still going to suck my dick." I don't even like it all that much because most girls seem to be pretty bad at it but I'll last longer during sex so I make her do it anyways. She needs to experience having to do something she doesn't like for the mutual benefit of all involved. Now, …
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 04:20 AM
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Exactly. If I see a couple, I like to eye the girl, make definite eye contact and don't even look at the dude. You can practically see him wither. And she fucking loves it, she eats that shit right up.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 03:40 AM
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Definitely. I'm a problem solver, I genuinely enjoy hearing a problem and finding a solution. But I never tell my problems to women. They see me as the solver, if I'm having a problem I've suddenly undermined this reputation.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 01:21 AM
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Exactly. I get these white knight fucks interrupting conversations I'm having with girls going, "Hey man, she has a boyfriend." Okay, that's his problem, not mine. I'm doing the man a favor by bringing to light her true nature. Its funny though, I get this even when I'm not trying to game the chick. It could just be a friendly conversation but I think they recognize alpha traits and go into knight mode. To me, its one of those signs like being called an asshole. If guys think they need to show u…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 01:16 AM
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I've been doing this more lately and its brilliant. Women are shocked when you walk away or you tell them to fuck off. This chick I was with wanted to leave for a bar I didn't want to go to. Its basically where all the guys hang out and the girls parade around in front of them. She wanted to go and get validation because she sure as fuck wasn't getting it from me. I tell her, "Nah, I'm staying here. See ya." and walked away. Next night, I saw her again and first thing she does is hug me and say …
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 01:10 AM
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Men are the true romantics. You see that everywhere. We genuinely like that stuff and want a woman that's that way, the lovey-dovey shit. But women don't love us like that. Its not the same way. To me, TRP is about coming to that realization. It's about understanding that they will never want the same things we want. Go read the Women and Men in Love links on the sidebar. That's what helped me with the same feelings you're having.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 01:01 AM
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Someone's been reading too much Tom Clancy..
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 05:35 PM
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My recent post on how NOT to approach your feelings for a woman. Let their action guide your emotional response. Do not give up your emotional attention for nothing, let them earn it.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 03:51 PM
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It was amazing, like an hour into the first episode, I suddenly felt calm and at peace with it all. I felt detached and could see it just as a mistake I need to move past. Made me excited to get back into the fray.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 03:40 PM
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Patrice called it their "movie." They are making a movie in their heads thats written, produced, directed by them. It stars them as the main character, the sidekick, and every character in it. You're in it, but she still plays the role. You have to understand that men are what give women a reality. They don't know something if we haven't told them.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 06:14 AM
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I agree with you completely. But just to clarify, I'm not saying don't feel emotion ever, I'm saying control them, don't let them control you. Don't allow your emotions to undermine you.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 06:02 AM
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Exactly right. I know that emotions are okay, in fact they can come in handy at times. But its that lack of control when normally I have total control that makes me feel like I'm being a pussy.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 06:00 AM
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Definitely right about that. Its like a fuel, I just need to decide if it powers my anger/hurt or my growth.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 04:08 AM
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Personally, I believe she was waiting to find a way to cut it off completely but hadn't found a good way yet.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 03:36 AM
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Okay, that makes sense I guess. What else then? It just seems like thats severely limiting.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 07:00 AM
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Remember, no matter how much a woman fits one of the above categories: If she talks about how much of a slut she isn't, shes a slut. Straight women don't feel the need to remind you how straight they are, respectful people don't need to remind you they're respectful, smart people don't need to remind you they're smart. If she's talking up how tightly guarded her snatch is, you know its only because she already let the whole block loosen it up.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 06:36 AM
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See thats why I'm asking you. Google suggests you're full of shit and my past 9 or 10 days without fapping also suggests you're full of shit.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 06:30 AM
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Do you have proof of that though?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 04:53 AM
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You know he's on top of his RP when he brings up the hunter/gatherer stuff. I found most interesting the stuff about the short first date. I can't think of anything to do in an hour that doesn't seem tryhard/cheesy but would also be enjoyable. Well, besides sex..
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 04:49 AM
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Holy shit, I read that as HIV and saw these comments, I was like "The fuck is wrong with all you idiots.." Yea man, be responsible and tell them. Might screw you out of some lays but at the same time, show some respect and do the right thing.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 04:42 AM
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Correct me if I'm wrong, but I thought masturbating had nothing to do with testosterone levels. Basically, nofap is a bunch of bro science/placebo effect. Personally, I decided last week to stop jerking off. I was getting a little stressed and unfocused and didn't really have it in me. That said, I think it would be wise to start doing it a little more. I fucked a plate and after I came in her mouth, it was plainly obvious it tasted a lot worse than the last time. I do know that its a fact that …
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 04:40 AM
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Man, I don't know what it is but this post really struck home with me. You are completely right about men being the gatekeepers to a relationship. I mean, lets be honest, women like to think they are but any self-respecting man with even a little value is really the true decider. I'm sitting here thinking about my own problems and my own life and damn, it is fucking refreshing to have someone articulate it like that. I know I'm going to be set with the career choices I'm making. This means I get…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 04:27 AM
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Patrice O'Neal has an answer for this one too. He made his girl sit on his face while he came. Simply told her to do it and didn't leave any room for options. Which is exactly what you suggested. If you give them wiggle room, they're going to take advantage of it and undermine you. Don't let this happen.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 06:26 PM
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Just working my way through all the Black Phillip episodes. Thats basically Patrice's response and its brilliant. "I want more than sex, unless thats all you got."
/r/askTRP12/08/14 06:18 PM
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The guy below you is right though, don't be passive about it, flat out tell her to cut the bullshit. And when she argues, tell her it isn't up for discussion. "Put your phone away." "Oh I'm just sending a text" "I see that, put it away." "Oh come on, I'm not doing anything, play the movie." "You're being disrespectful. This isn't a discussion." And if that doesn't solve it, walk away without a word. My major mistake is that I was in her house with her brother and his gf. I bitched out because I …
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 05:50 PM
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Exactly what my response was going to be. I said they can't physically compete, which they can't. But there is no evidence to say women are inherently less intelligent than men. I see no way that could even be possible. Society may stifle their intelligence but at birth, men and women have the same potential brainpower. It comes down to how they are allowed to flourish. I was also careful not to say women could compete across the board. They can't be as good of soldiers, cops, firefighters, labo…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 05:46 PM
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Man, get over yourself. Liking a finger in your ass aint gay, liking men is gay. Just because you're too insecure to handle a little of your own jizz near your mouth doesn't make me any less right.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 05:42 PM
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Not really. I had a 2 years dry spell after my last LTR and the first girl I fucked, done with her after two times around the track. They're only clingy if the guy only sleeps with girls he wants a relationship with. He's clingy because he wants to date her even before they sleep together.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 05:20 AM
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Its interesting how these perceptions come up. I've had people think I was the same way and I chose to not really address it one way or the other. A 19yr girl I was with assumed I could get her a fake just by stealing an ID from one of the many girls I was supposedly fucking. I was confused how she came up with that idea about me and I figure it has to do with how you project an RP mindset. I wouldn't call myself alpha but this was the first girl I really tried to approach with an RP attitude an…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 05:10 AM
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I like the blank face/stare with the slightest shake of the head, then slowly look away, like they don't even deserve to be looked at in the eyes.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 05:01 AM
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You're right. I just experienced this with a woman I was interested in. She realized that by being overly affectionate, I would mirror her. She set me up to get overly emotional and I made a fool of myself. The rule about who has the power in a relationship is so very true. Once I acted like an idiot, all the leverage was hers and Im stuck doing damage control and walking away. Its not fun and it makes me feel stupid. I lost the battle with this woman but each mistake you make is also a step tow…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 05:00 AM
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I don't think he means that as her seeing the logical error of her ways. OP intends that you convey that her actions are unacceptable and she learns to not do them simply through cause and effect. But you are right, if she had the brain to see the error of her ways, it never would've happened in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 04:55 AM
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Completely true. I fucked this up with a girl the other day. We were sitting and watching a movie, then she pulls out her phone and starts messing with Instagram and texting. I didn't stop her, even once she noticed that I noticed. Major fuckup. You have to make sure people know not to do that or it will never stop.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 04:54 AM
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If she throws a fit, you say "This isn't a discussion" or "Not up for debate" and then walk away. I prefer this because it reenforces in the future that you set the frame of things. Make sure she knows that the debate or argument is on your terms, she doesn't get to have a say in that.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 04:51 AM
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Its both. Society is this way because of our deep-rooted evolution. They used to lack the nature required to compete with men. They couldn't hunt as well, run as fast, fight as fiercely, be as strong. They are physiologically weaker so when humans still had to be physically powerful to survive, they couldn't hope to match men. As society developed, we retained these attitudes that women were weaker. However, in today's world, we have advanced beyond a merely subsistence lifestyle. I have little …
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 04:39 AM
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Im not saying you would or anyone on this sub would. However, most people aren't RP and wouldn't have that same aversion.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 04:28 AM
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What? Its expelling it because you just coaxed yourself into orgasm. It thinks its better off outside your body only because it thinks you're impregnating someone. You're acting like its piss or something..
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 02:59 AM
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You ever tried it? I won't lie, I licked it off my fingers once, just on a whim. Didn't bother me one bit.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 02:57 AM
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First time I fucked a plate, it was right after she sucked me off. She goes "So I bet you're not going to kiss me now.." I planted one on her, laid us down, and went for it. Don't be so ridiculous, just like only sluts talk about not being a slut, only gays talk about not being gay.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 02:56 AM
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I can see it both ways. Its the implication that OP was trying to pay for her groceries because the woman is good looking. I don't think dread is restricted to the explicit. If you simply sow some seeds, you never know what they might grow into. Maybe OPs girl thinks its just being nice or maybe she thinks its because the other chick was hot. Its a pretty easy way to have a good chance at creating jealousy, which is what dread game is really all about.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 02:48 AM
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If you want that. I don't think you can ignore the fact that quite a few people, men and women, would pounce on the chance to have everything provided for them while still fucking around with hot members of the opposite sex.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 02:39 AM
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Read up on it man. You don't have to agree with it or subscribe to it but learn nonetheless. I believe the best way to combat something is to understand it the best. So whether you want to believe RP or fight it, you should still take the same course of action and make sure you aren't ignorant about it.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 02:36 AM
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I believe this is the correct answer. They don't want to do it because they know its easier to just keep pretending to be the weaker, oppressed sex. My neighbor works at a federally-run particle accelerator. She is the head mechanical engineer. She plays in the same orchestra as me and could kick my ass at playing music any day of the week. Clearly, women can advance in life. I know for a fact that she is intelligent and ambitious and can get shit done. I see the attitude of a man in her. At the…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 02:33 AM
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Just because someone disagrees with you doesn't make them a retard.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 04:25 PM
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I guess my claim is based on purely anecdotal evidence. I was certainly BP during all of my LTRs. Maybe a proper RP LTR never hits that stage. Good for you man.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 04:11 PM
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You're completely right. However, I think men need to eventually move to a LTR. I think they are the ultimate goal. A truly Red Pill relationship should be lasting and beneficial to a man. In my opinion, we owe it to the world to reproduce and spread offspring that understand the true places of men and women in society.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 09:26 AM
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To be fair, I think they do happen. I have been involved with a partner who no longer caused me to be excited about sex. I enjoyed it but after a while, it didn't excite me in the same way. I think you can avoid it if you acknowledge the possibility but, if you ignore it now, eventually you will become bored with sex.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 09:20 AM
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Im just worried you'll end up with a disease or a child you dont want. Look out for yourself man, make sure you thoroughly vet a woman before you bareback her.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 09:16 AM
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At least I don't think it is. There is something to be said for a long-term relationship based upon RedPill ideals. Personally, I hope to find a woman that I can shape into the ideal RP woman and stick with her. I like the idea of a LTR and I want to find a woman who can raise my offspring like a proper woman should. I want a way to spread my seed and I want it with a woman who will stand by me while I raise so proper fucking children.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 09:14 AM
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This seems more like a guide to ending a relationship with petty revenge. If the woman is losing interest, this all seems like its only going to reinforce her desire to leave. If you actually want to keep things going, there are a lot of these I wouldn't recommend. I don't know what the best route is but I do know my intuition says these are a bad move.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 07:55 PM
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Only a matter of time before that blows up in your face..
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 07:47 PM
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But you can have a marriage that isn't an invitation to get divorce raped. Everything about LTRs assumes that it has a RP foundation. There is no other way to really build a LTR. This means you can craft a marriage agreement that doesn't allow the woman to use the marriage against you. You could also just live with the person, never getting legally married. People do that these days..
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 07:45 PM
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You're right. Thats my point though. If thats the biggest drawback of a LTR, second only to getting your heartbroken, that says a lot about how beneficial they can be. If one strives to maintain originality, uniqueness, and spontaneity, while remembering to do the things they enjoy, boredom can be largely avoided. And, if you be careful with your emotional investment, ramping it up only in careful timing with discussions and interactions with your partner, you can also do your best to minimize t…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 07:42 PM
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I like this. I think it's all very true. And OP, I think you are correct in pointing out that some alpha-bros on here may disagree, they may scoff at your post. But to me, it's being disingenuous to pretend that many men, even RP men seek LTRs and committed partners. I think this is partially socialized into us but it is partially a function of evolution. We naturally want to find an ideal mate who can properly raise our offspring. This isn't to say that all LTRs are for the purpose of reproduct…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 03:57 PM
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Dating a girl is different than having a LTR. Dating revolves around going on dates. You have returned to the same girl but the mechanism for your relationship is going out, you don't do much beyond that. You can date many women at once and that is even socially acceptable. A LTR is a function of high quality interactions. You see this girl not to go out, but it enjoy their company and spend time with them, even in settings beyond a date. They've moved beyond the "audition" that dates serve as, …
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 03:46 PM
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Even better: The Freakonomics Podcast. You will learn that many things are not as they seem while also understanding how you can use logic and numbers to find an answer to almost any problem. Very fascinating, I listen to them on the train every morning.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 11:31 PM
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