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DebateTight_Lawfulness3206/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:03 PM
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It’s very easy if you are kinda a doormat or socially awkward. Meanwhile I know charismatic people who are total drama starting psychopaths who basically are surrounded by friends
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:22 PM
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I 100% disagree I’m describing someone like a dog when I simply describe positive attributes of someone. I also tend to type very straightforward, due to my autism
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:21 PM
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I have multiple mental illnesses and a bunch of pronatalists I know online are still telling me how I was meant to be a mother and how my kids wont inherit a lick of mental illness and how thats just “antinatalist propaganda” Sooooo we shall see if the right is shooting itself in the foot by this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:19 PM
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There is nothing wrong with that. You have a great family as your circle. I absolutely think it is ridiculous to shame women for life choices. You are intelligent and deserving of life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:16 PM
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It’s a bigger percentage with younger generations
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:45 PM
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I added an edit to my post
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:45 PM
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I was diagnosed in 2009. Thank you very much for the book reccommendation! I am also really into Buddhism and like following the moral precepts, so I’ve always believed in no gossiping.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:44 PM
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EXACTLY. I’m so confused why everyone commenting is like “if you have no friends you are weird and gross and stinky funky ew”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:20 PM
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That’s not true of “average normal people” in generation Z, who suffer loneliness and isolation more than any other generation due to having tons of social media and technology at their finger tips. And I believe considering people who follow the mold and are conformist “good” and people who are unique/dont fit in “bad” is exactly the problem we have with society.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:16 PM
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I’m not saying that this is a HUGE portion of men. I’m just saying men who care about this exist
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:08 PM
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Because dating is different than friendships, plus people often start focusing more on their spouse/kids as they get older, and less on friendships/partying every weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:02 PM
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I've also noticed that people I've known who had no friends were often the nicest people I've ever met, but just were morally unwilling to partake in shallow social things like gossip, bullying people, or excluding people. And those things unfortunately are how humans bond
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:55 PM
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I honestly have no idea why anyone would have a problem with this. I think dating someone with only 2 friends is way better than dating someone who's at the club all the time or at parties
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:53 PM
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Also wanted to add: A lot of people make friends THROUGH dating. I made a lot of my best friends to this day through my ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:51 PM
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Multiple men just commented here that they would want a woman with a social circle though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:48 PM
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why does no one want to associate with you? Because unfortunately a lot of the time people can be judgemental, cliquey, and shallow. A lot of the time in workplaces there's a culture of drama/backstabbing/gossip. And some people aren't into doing that. If you don't have a bunch of social media either it also isolates you as people use snapchat/insta for texting/planning things often job,education, why are you no where where you would meet anyone? A lot of people move around a lot, move away afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:45 PM
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Well yeah I find that when it IS a red flag is people who complain all the time about how they have no friends and everyone is mean to them and blahblahblah But when it isn't is when it just seems like someone who's locked in on their goals, or introverted, or on the spectrum, or a mix of all 3
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:32 PM
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There's some people who are shit with dating but great with friendships, and shit with friendships but great at dating. Like I have a few close friends but ultimately I enjoy having a partner be my primary social life, especially because of overstimulation from working and needing alone time, it's hard for me to balance regularly hanging out with friends AND having a partner. In fact most people are so busy with a full time job, kids, spouse, etc when they settle down that it's hard to make time…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:31 PM
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I mean I wouldn't say it's that small of a minority. A LOT of men, and a decent chunk of women are lonely nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:23 PM
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A lot of right wingers I’ve talked to. Hell even in the libertarian discord, I joined excited to talk about economic policy. But instead it was a bunch of people circlejerking about how women were “biologically designed to stay at home and do housework” using both pseudoscientific, and religious arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:50 PM
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Movies, media, and schools encourage breeding like crazy. Any time there’s a childfree character in a modern show or movie like April Ludgate, Katniss Everdeen, Penny from big bang theory who are clear they dont want kids, they “change their mind” because of “magical mommy instinct”. The ugly bitter lonely cat lady careerwoman stereotype is alive and well in media. Half the country is conservative and watches conservative media full of pronatalist messages. Women who are openly childfree on soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:07 PM
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Agreed. Like it’s so weird that in the 2020s all of the sudden everyones like HEY LADIES IF YOU HAVE A JOB YOU STINK! Its like are women supposed to stand on the corner with a cardboard homeless sign saying “need husband, need money” I had a stay at home mom but she is very assertive and manages our household finances and decides where the money goes. Its so funny cuz one of my irl male best friends started dating a foreign woman from Europe after dumping his american gf, not because he wanted a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:01 PM
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All my relatives who had kids ended up in nursing homes, and my great aunt who doesn’t have kids is living in a fancy beachside retirement condo where she hangs out with other old people and does classes with them, gets her laundry done for her, and has on call staff to help her. How was she able to afford this? Extra money from not having kids. I’m not antinatalist, but I do think it’s misleading to tell people to have kids for elder care/company. Especially since the whole point of a lot of pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:45 PM
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There’s plenty of DINK couples and childfree men, why just blame women? And as someone who knows a lot of childfree women, their decision was not made due to “propaganda”. They often just cite how depressed, miserable, and bitter their own moms were. Or other female relatives
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:12 PM
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I agree with this heavily. People can’t just say they care about men’s mental health but then want men to be slaving away at jobs 24/7 to be “providers” while telling women they’re delicate little flowers who cannot be capable of even working part time. People think it creates some trad utopia but in reality it creates depressed, burnt out men and bored women. And it encourages people only pursuing the richest of men. In reality the best arrangement is like which partner is more passionate about…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:05 PM
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Fundamentalist religions have caused also loads of scrupulosity, OCD, and psychological trauma in people constantly afraid of eternal fire and brimstone if they even dare to gasp follow natural human desires and masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:59 PM
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Yet when women want to be tradwives you guys call them gold diggers. Whenever tradwife influencers leave their husband over abuse, their fans turn on them and immediately accuse them of being lazy gold diggers who wanted to get out of working hard
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:48 PM
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Child development major here. Childcare actually has huge benefits for children’s social skills and they enjoy going to school. Also helps with mother’s mental health. However for children with disabilities I do think they should have a parent at home because I notice they dont handle it well as neurotypical kids
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:47 PM
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Thats shitty of her and I apologize that that happened. You are not jealous. She seems insecure herself if she was so afraid of you leaving she pulled manipulative stuff like that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:47 PM
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As I’ve said many times, I am not talking generally about men who simply go abroad to find a wife. I am talking about what I have seen in a lot of these online spaces. There are mostly normal men who go abroad to find wives. I am talking about the ones in online spaces who make it into a hate movement. I also have noticed as someone whos been debating in “red pill” and “anti feminist” spaces for years, I’ve noticed a lot of very unhinged disturbing things said about women. In many comment sectio…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:48 PM
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I’m comparing him to people online.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:02 PM
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Like I said, I have no problem with these relationships, as I have friends who are dating foreign women. However, these friends do not need to make it into a racist thing against white women, nor do they sit there and claim women are ugly cat ladies all day. My friend who's dating a foreign woman is actually legitimately one of the nicest people I know and in fact tells me that I should be confident in being single and that I'm not an "ugly cat lady" My problem is this idea of flinging shit at e…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:14 AM
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Literally at every thread that mentions body counts and women settling for average men after their hoe life - almost half of the posts from users flaired as women are "Men are just jealous they didn't get to have that much random sex". That's really dumb af. I wouldn't be jealous of this "chad" character at all. That's like telling someone they're jealous of a gambling addict or drug addict. All of those shallow hookups have got to completely fuck up someones mental state. But like at the same t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:51 AM
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Naw he’s not a predator. One of my male best friends irl got a gf from spain. He didn’t do it though because he wanted a “submissive wife he could beat” like I see on passport groups. He just loves her genuinely. She’s a great woman. I wouldn’t even care if these online movements didn’t spout so much misogyny and just focused on the normal travel passport bro lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:47 PM
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I was raised by libertarian parents and I personally dont GAF if people want to submit to their spouse. I don’t think these women are oppressed, esp because its two consenting adults. And I agree with what you’re saying. While yeah I think some women enjoy it, there’s a reason that women who were raised by submissive traditional mothers run screaming from that lifestyle. Not because theyre “degenerate modern career whores” but because I can only imagine the chronic stress, anxiety, and gut issue…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:43 PM
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There is no such thing as anyone being whiny for venting or expressing frustration. I 100% agree that the whole “6 foot tall rich men only” thing is delusional BS But people are shooting themselves in the foot if they create it into an extreme anti woman movement
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:39 PM
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Thats awful and completely not okay. I am so sorry you want through this. You deserve fat better than someone who’s fat, mentally ill, or has STDs. In fact people with STDs deserve nobody
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:34 PM
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That’s not true at all. Women get tons of hate online for various gender based things. In some cases it’s justified like when an overweight woman demands a rich tall man and gets buried in hate comments In some cases it’s not, like when a woman gets death threats for even remotely expressing that her life is relaxing without kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:26 PM
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2-4 is a very fun age, ive worked a lot with them. rn i just started working with a new batch of 1 yr olds
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:16 AM
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thanks for the tip!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:15 AM
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I take care of babies at my university daycare, and i will either keep doing that or grad school and going into child psychology. Idk yet
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:51 AM
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Bro i just picked this flair because i like the color pink. Im nothing pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:50 AM
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Im thinking of picking up magic the gathering
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:49 AM
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I just dont want anyone to be sad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:31 AM
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NOOOOOOOO wishing you best of luck where you are
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:30 AM
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Its a random one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:21 AM
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My username or my flair?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:19 AM
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Come to California
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:19 AM
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Was raised in a really strict household and so I feel a lot of guilty esp if i see stuff thats critical of women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:12 AM
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I feel guilt and pain and like I need to get with a lonely person to make them less lonely. Where do lonely men go?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:02 AM
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I dont think there's anything wrong with being a male virgin. When I meet a 26 year old virgin guy I assume it's because he was busy with school or is an introvert or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:23 AM
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Well you're told constantly as women to lower your standards, give men the benefit of the doubt, etc. With threats if you don't have your standards to the floor you'll end up as a "bitter cat lady" and that even being in the most toxic relationship is better than being a "corporate career cat lady with no children" And so due to this fearmongering, I can understand why people hop into abusive relationships out of fear of being alone. I'm saying this from personal experience, as someone who dated…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:17 AM
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Dude id love a stay at home husband. Men are the ones telling me they want to be providers and feel needed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:17 PM
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I’m autistic but I assume so to neurotypical women idk
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:27 PM
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Average size woman here. I like authenticity. And while there’s nothing wrong with muscles, due to all the steroid use and plastic surgery culture nowadays, something about dating a chubby/skinny guy feels more “real”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:20 PM
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That’s like if I said “men are never happy enough!” When they bring up wanting more funding towards male mental health. There’s obvious glaring issues in our society such as men being locked up for things they should be rehabilitated for, or women not getting proper pain relief for things such as IUDs For example, during IUD placement women often lose consciousness/vomit/are traumatized from the pain. Yet theyre often not offered anesthetic. How is me pointing out this issue “anti man”? There’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:52 PM
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Epidurals sometimes give negative effects or don’t decrease the pain. Sometimes women also don’t get to the hospital in time to have an epidural. A lot of neurodivergent women also get needs ignored/mistreated by medical staff. Not to mention the post childbirth pain and things like postpartum depression which are often not taken seriously In my opinion saying “epidurals and c sections, problem solved” is a huge misunderstanding
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:47 AM
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I think with most people their heart is in the right place because they’re worried about humans going extinct. However with people like Elon I’m skeptical because I feel like in his ideal world everyone’s having babies at 16, skipping college, and working at a tesla factory for minimum wage to desperately support their baby
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:42 PM
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https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-news/shakshuka-girl-matt-walsh-internet-x-drama-1234819913/amp/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:26 PM
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It isn’t one person when a lot of right wing politicians and potential voters are saying these talking points
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:57 PM
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Im a fencesitter but seeing the amount of rage towards childfree people actually pushes me MORE towards the childfree side. While meanwhile seeing kind people and progressive policies pushes me towards having kids side
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:51 PM
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Understandable. Some women love staying at home, some women love working. It all depends on the person and there's no right or wrong answer. I'm glad you did what worked the best for you and your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:25 PM
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I mean yes it's a partner's job to be an emotional support obviously. Like comforting someone after a bad day at work. I think I mean people are talking about stuff like threatening suicide to your partner all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:07 PM
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Depends on the needs of the family. There is an unfortunate amount of shaming towards both working and stay at home moms. For example, I had severe behavioral issues due to autism, and so my mom had to stay at home my whole life. It probably would've been kinda rough if I had to go to daycare. I've also seen a lot of neurodivergent kids slip through the cracks in the public school system and completely not get their needs met. I was one of them once I started public school at age 5. But on the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:05 PM
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I'm not saying they replace them, I'm saying the often compliment happy relationships with your partner. People have different levels of relationships. Friends, partner, family, acquaintances, kids, community, therapist, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:35 PM
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I live in liberal ass California and every girl I grew up with talked about marrying a rich man and becoming a stay at home mom LOL. It makes me laugh so hard when conservatives act like trad lifestyles are being oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:25 PM
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Why is it a dichotomy between "trad mommy" and "girlboss"? I never understood this. Especially since a lot of women have flexible arrangements such as part time work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:15 PM
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As someone who has been a huge people pleaser/doormat my whole life and was bullied for 10 years: Being codependent is often unhealthy because it causes you to ignore red flags and not have boundaries. You can still cherish and appreciate your partner without wanting to die from imagining the idea of you guys breaking up. I actually find being too codependent is off putting too for attracting partners, because it creeps people out if you're too obsessive. Your lover can be your best friend, your…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:15 PM
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I think you don't realize though that a lot of people have social jobs, and make social connections through their jobs. Like teachers, people who work with animals, people who work at community centers, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:09 PM
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She literally said vice versa. And they didn't really work "well" for everyone when a bunch of women in the 1950s were taking copious amounts of "happy pills" and drinking nerve tonics/wine Sure they work well for keyword: SOME people. Some people like my parents meanwhile are individualist introverts. Some people are autistic. Some people are extraverts. Some people are masculine women and feminine men. Some people are gay. Some people are religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:01 PM
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On the other hand, I think due to the sheer number of abusive parents and women who were promised a perfect happy life if they got married and become a housewife, I think some people were also lied to in that regard. There's subreddits, facebook groups, and forums who regret parenthood. While yes your aunt is an example who regrets NOT having kids, there's no guarantee she wouldn't be complaining her head off if she did have them. I'm not antinatalist but I'm sure as hell glad my mentally ill gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:30 PM
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I've known so many people with abusive parents, that you saying popping out unwanted kids isn't conspicuous consumption and hedonism is hilarious. Look at mom and dad influencers using their children as props for social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:26 PM
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That's what I'm saying. I could care less about height, income, etc. But seeing someone making violent disturbing comments about women online instantly makes me think "I'll take the wine and cats please" (and I don't like either of those things). Imagine how they'd talk to you in an argument or how they'd talk to their own children out of anger if the child messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:21 PM
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It gets very confusing when 50 percent of people on here say women being provided for is “gold digging” yet the other 50 percent say its necessary for society or else “the west has fallen”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:38 AM
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agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:58 AM
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At this point I’m sick of the divisive us vs them mentality. Like “feminist woman bad, trad woman good!” I know great feminist women and great conservative women (im a libertarian whos friends with left and right people) and i know shitty feminist and shitty conservative women Seeing the world in black and white does nobody good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:10 AM
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Profs talk openly a ton about their personal lives here. I hear the mom ones complain about how painful and difficult childbirth was LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:12 PM
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It's why I try to be intellectually charitable. But at the same time even though a lot of neurotypical women bullied me, I have empathy for them. I would not wish for them to suffer, nor do I think it's right if a woman openly posts about being childfree online she deserves the death threats from angry right wingers. I believe in true gender equality. If a woman punches a man, she should get punched back. Circumcision is genital mutilation and not okay. But if men go and talk crap on women onlin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:20 PM
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a lot of these women were pressured by parents to enter careers super early or may have had severe social anxiety. it's like telling a person with a mental illness such as anorexia "just eat a cheeseburger!"....like im sure theyve heard that a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:18 PM
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Thanks, im sure i will. And if i dont theres always marcus aurelius and eastern philosophy ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:35 AM
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So you proved my point! You admit that anti white bias is wrong. Great! So then stop shitting on women and then say it's okay because misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:54 PM
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Personally, I’m single and 24 and heavily planning for what could go wrong if I’m childfree, and what could go wrong if I’m a mother. I have heavy risks of postpartum depression/psychosis due to having multiple mental illnesses, and its what makes finding the right partner extra important. I am planning my retirement/whats going to happen when I get old, who id socialize with, where I live, etc for both scenarios
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:25 PM
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That’s BS that scaremongers women into jumping into abusive/unfit relationships. I know tons of older childfree women who are beloved by their friends and community. I live in California so it may be because our culture is more accepting, but my mom is good friends with several older women without kids and theyre not on antidepressants nor are they “friendless”. Even my great aunt who is abusive and has a horrendous personality (and doesnt have a husband or kids) is surrounded by friends Meanwhi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 02:16 PM
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The only witches are the abusive christian trad moms who beat their kids with a Bible and call them sinners
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:41 AM
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Oh no I know, I was just emphasizing for the other people reading it haha. And YEAH! Men and women are lonely rn due to a lot of factors like social media and post Covid changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 02:33 AM
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It concerns me because of the fact two wrongs don’t make a right. I acknowledge the way society treats lonely men is awful. It’s awful that for years we ignored mens mental health, and im glad we’re finally starting to shine light on helping men. HOWEVER I don’t know how then creating the opposite issue for women where lonely or depressed women aren’t allowed to express how they feel or are told to STFU somehow makes the problem “better”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 01:58 AM
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As I mentioned, two wrongs don’t make a right. Just like how the horrendous acts done to Black people in the US for decades doesn’t mean it’s okay to harm someone for being white
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 01:06 AM
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Absolutely! It makes people afraid to be single, desperate, and neurotic which I think can do the opposite effect when it comes to finding a partner, or a good partner for that matter
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:39 PM
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I was referencing your post in this haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 10:40 PM
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I don't think it's terrible. Attractive people have their own issues. Like my friend whos really beautiful often attracts people who just want to take advantage of her, or who feel insecure the whole time dating her due to her beauty. I want to try and make my life worth it, no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:09 PM
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I have professors who are fat old single ladies and they just chill with their gal pals or go to hawaii with their nieces and nephews. I never really hear them complain or brag
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:23 PM
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No thats called not lying to people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:39 PM
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Regardless though, it doesn't invalidate their issues. Just like the fact people are being murdered in Gaza doesn't mean a lonely man in the US's problems is less valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:07 PM
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Nobody should be treated poorly, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:02 PM
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Some people are also really good at friendships but like awful at dating. I have friends like that who are amazing friends but struggle to hold down a relationship. when I see someone who's been single their whole life (male or female) I just assume theyre shy, introverted, akward
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:51 PM
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Well even if lets say they had a guy or two ask them out who they werent attracted to, are they supposed to lie and leech off their income?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:39 PM
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I absolutely think the male loneliness crisis is valid and we need to help men more as a society. My brother is lonely and he is a wonderful man and I always try and support him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:22 PM
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Because there's excessive amounts of angry DMs from men yelling at them. And how do you know this "attention" isn't a literal serial killer/catfish/troll? It's like yelling at someone for not getting with some random stranger off craiglist. A lot of these women report being ghosted/stood up on dates as well. Not to mention being lonely/depressed/mentally ill is like a giant target on your back to attract abusive/narcissistic people. Women with asperger's are far more likely to be abused than neu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:20 PM
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I think it's a sign for all of us to probably cut down on the internet, regardless of our gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:19 PM
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And I don't agree with people shaming lonely men at all. I go out of my way to tell people "small penis" or height jokes are not okay either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:18 PM
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Some people say it is physically impossible for women to be lonely or struggle with having options
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:14 PM
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This is just from my experience if you read my post. And FYI I don't think misandry is okay either. But it boils down to this: Why would you want to be around a rude, angry, hateful misogynist/misandrist? I personally find rude attitudes and bullying to be repulsive. Plus if these pick me girls are so "superior" to other girls they sure seem insecure and obsessed with these other girls. Especially if they claim to be "feminine and trad" yet then engage in masculine competitive behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:35 PM
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I disagree. It’s pretty simple. Don’t be an asshole to other women. Don’t act like you’re smug and superior to everyone else because you throw on a pink dress and apron and jiggle your tits on trad tiktok I’m personally against casual sex and promiscuity but I recognize a lot of promiscuous people I know are making those decisions because of sexual trauma, mental health issues, low self esteem, or they weren’t raised right by their parents. I have empathy for them while also wanting society to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:10 AM
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Theyre not pick mes for being submissive. By pick me I mean women willing to excuse abuse or women who tear down other women. I know great submissive women irl who have great boyfriends who dont need to go around being internalized misogynists
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:07 AM
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I 100% disagree with shaming women for being tradwives or choosing to be stay at home mothers. Especially when incels accuse them of being gold diggers. IDC about ballerina farm lady. Its her choice. However, if they’re going to fling shit at feminist women on social media, they should expect shit back. Hell if you even try and dispute anything these tradwive influencers say on social media like “women having jobs is evil and selfish” you get dogpiled on by like 10 of their followers accusing yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:29 PM
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I’m so sorry about your experience. It was not your fault. I think a big thing people forget is the idea of consent and boundaries. Even BDSM relationships involving chains and whips take this into account. With stuff like safe words and “no I’m not comfortable with this” A woman choosing to let her man lead is not bad at all. What is a problem is when young girls are told abuse is okay and if they have even remotely a boundary they’re a feminazi cat lady
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:30 PM
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What if you have genuine sensory issues with jizz
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:27 PM
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“Taken off their pedastal” I’m not denying that there’s tons of shitty women out there, but I think a lot of men often don’t see the way what I call “the forgotten women” of society are treated. Extremely unattractive women, shy women, women with disabilities. I’m an extremely unattractive autistic woman (not fat) and I’m pretty submissive/quiet but have been treated poorly by both sexes my whole life and bullied pretty heavily. I don’t think I’m a victim and I’ve learned from these experiences,…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:25 PM
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Why are you doing this just to find a husband? Why not do it for genuine human connection besides just romantic. You should volunteer because it feels good to catch others, not just to "find a man". You should go to the gym because it helps with self improvement, not just to find a sperm donor to breed with. You should go to church or temple to form a better spiritual life. I think that's your biggest issue. Childless Buddhist monks are shown to have the best mental health, and spend their days …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:50 PM
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Fling shit, expect shit back. Don't throw stones from a glass house.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:09 PM
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very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:06 PM
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Oh thanks, people also don't realize there's millions of other ways you can connect with children! So many volunteering programs, they always need preschool or K-12 teachers, working at libraries, community centers, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:04 PM
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I'm pretty progressive but being almost done with a child and family development degree, I believe two parent households are essential and I am firmly against people becoming single parents by choice. Unless it's like fostering/adopting, because the foster system is full of so much abuse (even with two parents) that having a non abusive single parent is better than foster care But most people become single parents by choice via IVF because narcissism and obsession with their bloodline I think it…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:58 PM
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Fling shit, expect shit back.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:51 PM
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There's nothing wrong with your friend, and men who go out of the country to find women. My two close male friends irl found foreign wives, and they didn't make it into some dumb racist political statement. They're also both really great respectful men and the women they found are great. They don't go around calling themselve's "passport bros" or making it into some racialized divisive political crap. I don't think passport bros are ugly, and I disagree with anyone using their appearance as an a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:50 PM
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Well this is simply what I am replying to. And as I mentioned multiple times in my post, there's absolutely nothing wrong with a woman being submissive to her husband. My problem is people telling young girls that if they're not a doormat who allows themselves to be abused, they're going to die alone as cat ladies. It scaremongers people into entering toxic relationships out of the fear men won't want them. I'm saying this as someone who's a TOO submissive doormat IRL; it's gotten me treated lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:13 AM
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I do not prefer they are single at all. I think it is great they found a good wife. I am simply asking they leave western women alone and stop bullying them. Let me provide you with an example. Let’s say there’s a woman who got rejected by a bunch of American men. She gets angry and chooses to leave the country and find a submissive husband who makes a lot and pays a lot for her lifestyle. Zero issue. It’s her life. However, she then proceeds to be constantly bitter and angry and sling mud towar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:04 AM
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Let's say your typical western woman would be pissed off if their bf/husband "told" them to have long hair... maybe your typical eastern woman would appreciate the insight of their partner's likes and dislikes because they prioritize looking good to their partner over a typical feminist prioritizing themself. In this case though, it's a man prioritizing himself. I don't think there's anything wrong with a man telling his wife she looks better with long hair. But then it just becomes constant nag…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:21 AM
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I responded to the "You're just jealous!" claim in my post today. I don't care if guys want to be passport bros. But it's ridiculous to call a whole group of people jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:48 AM
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You started your claim by tying what you call the “passport bro movement,” to women killing themselves; then when asked to provide a source, you back-peddle to something less disprovable. Again, I meant online misogyny in general but didn't specify well enough. I am asking these subreddits to please leave Western women alone. We deal with enough beauty standards, judgement, etc. You also seem scarily comfortable with labeling anything you disagree with as misogyny. Like labeling homemaking women…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:25 AM
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Not every joke has to make you cry in laughter, nor is every joke written for you. So I'm saying this is causing problems when these jokes are directly fostering divisive racially charged culture wars that aren't helping anything in this country or uniting us. In this upcoming election there's a huge risk of political violence depending on the election results. There's really no benefit to this "us vs them" mentality. Additionally, if men finding women elsewhere to be more attractive dating opti…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:35 AM
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I literally said there was no problem with them doing that in my post. I simply said using it as a divisive movement to push racist stereotypes, bully women and pit them against each other, be spiteful and bitter, is the problem. I have two good male friends who found great foreign women to marry. theyre both great men and dont go around circlejerking on the passport bro sub how they want western women to die and get eaten by cats or posting smug memes with strawman stereotype wojaks like a chad…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:43 AM
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im casein intolerant, not lactose intolerant. i just cant have dairy in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:38 AM
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because people losing their empathy and genders hating each other is a sign of a sick society
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:16 AM
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Thats understandable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:28 PM
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i dont think theyre losers. i just dislike people bullying others needlessly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:03 PM
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I see them reducing them to a lot of racist wojak caricatures of submissive latina wives holding plates of tacos and making memes of white women being fat and ugly. It’s not only racist but it pits women against each other as well. Our society is already a divided shit show. It also is hypocritical because the alt right was complaining about minorities “replacing the whites and their poor heritage” and now is like omg you evil western women! They cant even decide on a flavor of racism But there …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:57 PM
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His comment section is full of people talking about how they want women who are single and childless to have their face chewed off by cats. Totally not crazy. And plus I know that there’s awful women out there. Growing up I was bullied and socially ostracized by many girls who grew up to be slutty popular girls. I’m aware. But I would never wish for them to get chewed up by a cat or some kind of crazy revenge fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:53 PM
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The craziest part is these people have no clue what happened to these women who don’t have kids. Maybe they were abused and didn’t want to continue the trauma cycle. Maybe they have mental health issues. Maybe they are infertile.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:49 PM
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I mean his comment sections are incredibly concerning. Not him. But he criticizes women so why are women not allowed to criticize back?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:03 PM
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Because dating me is the subject of it, from a woman’s perspective. Just like how a man says how he wouldnt date a woman who says “kill all men”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:01 PM
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well as a soy guzzler myself, i guess it makes me a buzzfeed cuck that regular milk gives me diarrhea
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:59 PM
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I’m saying his comment section is bad, not him. But all his videos are criticizing women. Why can’t we criticize back?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:58 PM
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Female suicides due to online bullying and low self esteem and deaths due to eating disorders are not “mildly hurt feelings”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:59 PM
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Being autistic, I generally don’t like to see bullying, as I know what it’s like to not fit in. So it’s why I type like big paragraphs moralizing over stuff like this. I get the same way over a lot of stuff. It’s cognitive rigidity. I get really mad if I see injustice like someone mistreating a service worker And I believe if you fling shit, get shit back. And I’ve been seeing a MAJOR increase in misogny on all social media sites for the past few years. This isn’t about men dating foreign women …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:53 PM
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I addressed this in my post. Do you guys realize sound like a bunch of gossipy teenage girls when you go around being like “Youree just jeallllooous”. Can we please stop trying to pass this off as an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:49 PM
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It’s not exploiting, but i think that even in a traditional dominant/submissive relationship there needs to be boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:47 PM
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I know plenty of really nice guys IRL married to/dating foreign women, including two of my male best friends. They just dont need to call themselves anything or sit there yelling at western women online trying to prove how “miserable” western women are in red pill echo chambers
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:42 PM
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These are simply from the comments on passport bro videos and the passport bro subreddit. I have no clue if theyre incels or not and thats not important to me. What matters is, I hate bullies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:40 PM
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Imagine if I treated the male mental health crisis this way
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:39 PM
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Which I have no problem with, I have a problem with it being used to aggressively attack western women and use strawman arguments of a “bitter career feminist” yet also claim women who want to be homemakers are “gold diggers”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:37 PM
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How is criticizing someone living rent free? Also one of the points I brought up is they all have submissive wives yet let western women live rent free in their heads, sitting on the pass port bro subreddit all day complaining about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:35 PM
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Why do they care so much about these supposedly evil western women and spend their time angrily obsessing over them online instead of spending time with their submissive wife and kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:34 PM
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As long as theyre both over 18 IDGAF. i was raised by libertarian parents
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:07 PM
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If I were in your situation, I would get off all toxic online Reddit spaces (including purple pill debate) and just experience the world. NoSurf is a great subreddit for this. I also recommend just meeting everyone. Trying out all sorts of hobbies and activities. Not to find a husband, but to socialize. You mention how your friends are all busy with their own families. I’m very into Buddhism and letting go of attachments, and naturally friendships come and go. There’s lots of great childfree res…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:52 AM
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Autistic people dislike lying due to cognitive rigidity. And I would recommend you get evaluated. ADHD does share a lot of characteristic with autism. You also could have NVLD or non verbal learning disorder
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:20 AM
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If you’ve seen the children of rich parents though, they often turn out spoiled and borderline sociopathic. She could be stuck with bratty ipad kids who only see her as a money source, then will shove her in a nursing home when she gets old and fight for the inheritance. Kim Kardashian’s kids like the nanny more than they like her. Meanwhile there’s lots of opportunities where you can volunteer/work with kids, or help foster children and build REAL relationships with children/families in your co…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:21 PM
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I mean as long as you guys are cool with it and it's a mutual agreement. As another comment mentioned, arranged marriage is common around the world. I just mean in the liar aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 06:17 PM
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I mean maybe they're happy but at the same time they could be miserable and secretly hate each other. Who knows. I grew up around a lot of families who came from india with arranged marriages. Behind closed doors I heard about a lot of abuse, toxic dynamics, and resentment. (not trying to generalize about Indian people here, I just mean with arranged marriages) And I really don't want to generalize here or stereotype. I used to be hardcore anti-feminist and believe in the cat lady stereotypes. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 06:15 PM
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I think that's fair, and I even mentioned that in the first line of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 06:05 PM
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Well, all I can say is if you think the partner who’s doing 40 hours a week and getting breaks/lunches (especially if its in a quiet office) shouldn’t remotely help the partner who’s doing 80 hours of unpaid labor with kids a week. Then don’t be surprised when the next generation turns out messed up due to having uninvolved fathers, and your own kids shove you in a nursing home. Don’t blame feminism for that! All I can say is good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:04 PM
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The thing is, people need breaks. There's nothing wrong with wanting your husband to watch the kids for a few minutes on his day off while you have a nap. There's a difference between raising screaming kids 7 days a week, 24 hours a day with no breaks, and being at an office job where you get breaks/lunches and days off It's kind of weird people are willing to make women into married single mothers and completely have someone be a 24/7 servant and ignore their kids all to fulfill a traditional r…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:26 AM
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I remembered your comment today while driving to work. I can't even believe how on the nose this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:03 AM
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I’m not denying that but in the comment section of anti-feminist videos, and on anti feminist twitter I’ve seen genuine psychopathy Talking about beating women to death with rocks, training women like dogs to do housework, raping women, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:40 AM
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I dont feel like a hero for it or like im doing the lords work. I just bond really easily with all kids and I even love babysitting outside of work
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:32 PM
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I mean I think the reason why people are clinging to these gender roles is cuz they’re saying they “worked better” but I think ppl ignore the reality of things. the so called “glory days” of the 1950s a lot of housewives were so depressed they took drugs/alcohol or were abused, a lot of minority women still had to work, and it was just generally not a fun time to be black under jim crow
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:47 PM
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Yeah that's really ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:08 PM
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Dude I'd take a househusband in an instant. I'd far rather just buy my own condo and find a spouse to live in it with me. I was just afraid that they'd find me unattractive if I get a master's degree and want a traditional wife instead. Especially when a lot of men tell me they want to feel needed and feel like a provider
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:03 PM
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This is exactly what I'm talking about!!!!!!!!!!! UGH
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:00 PM
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I absolutely that it was abhorrent the way they were laughing at a man for getting his penis cut off. And I'm not saying it's unjust I'm just saying I do feel like there are some generalizations at play. Especially since I know a lot of sweet quiet women who are becoming biologists for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:00 PM
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I also noticed with this whole hate towards "soy boys". They say they want to do away with holding men to certain standards, yet shame men who don't fit any traditionally "masculine" mold. Like life is temporary and we all die, why can't a guy enjoy childish stuff like his fave nintendo games?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:59 PM
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I deliberately avoid this stuff irl. I can’t say the same for men who complain about being friendzoned, then openly talk about wanting to murder/abuse women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:02 PM
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A lot of young men right now are immature and not commitment minded, regardless of their height or income.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:34 AM
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I've been friend zoned by guys...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:53 AM
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thx
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:45 AM
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Well first of all, you’re confusing philosophy with religion. Second of all, why is kindness and empathy being politicized? Third of all, religion is a pretty big special interest of mine, and I believe instead of excluding it from public schools, or only picking one, I have my own idea. I believe we should neutrally teach about every major world religion, and the history of them. And teach about atheism, agnosticism, deism. And then children can pick what they want to believe and have construct…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:13 PM
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Yeah. Like I grew up in California and in the rich areas it's totally conservative and even racist as hell but people are just really quiet about it to keep up appearances. I saw the school administration do nothing about the racism towards minority students.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:00 PM
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I live in the most liberal state, and go to a huge liberal university. I also know a lot of childfree women. It's not due to "feminist indoctrination" but when from every single one the answer was because of how tired and depressed they saw their mothers/female relatives. I've known a lot of stay at home moms who told me in private they secretly regret having kids. There's whole facebook groups, forums, subreddits dedicated to people saying they regret having kids. It would make sense it would b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:17 PM
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third party that unites us all is what i assume
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:00 PM
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A lot of classically abbys content is hypocritical tho. She makes money off monetized videos while shaming women for working. She shames non-mothers while not realizing some women have fertility issues
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:54 PM
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You realize in the south theyre showing kids prageru right…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:50 PM
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The whole term “vagina tingles” is weird, jarring, and creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 07:15 PM
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i need a white pill rn...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:53 PM
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How is it supposed to be "indoctrination" when kids these days wont even listen LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:50 PM
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A lot of public schools lack resources, especially in low income areas. And I see a lot of vague character education yeah, but I don't see them really getting into the nitty gritty with psychology, spirituality, discussing the meaning of life, morality, deep feelings talks, etc. Just watched a whole documentary on the benefits of teaching Eastern philosophy/meditation to prison inmates.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:46 PM
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yeah I mean people. if we want to succeed as a society we gotta look out for each other instead of tearing each other apart
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:43 PM
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I'm very much against authoritarianism (hence why im freaked about project 2025) but as i mentioned with the casual sex section, i believe in just teaching things in a nuanced empathetic way instead of a black and white one. Like I believe we should do a better job as a society to teach our children to be kinder and more empathetic, and put more effort into teaching it in schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:41 PM
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it's also a little harder to find autistic people out there
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:07 AM
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I noticed it's easier for me to be friends with/date neurotypicals. And this isn't me being a picky princess because ideally I would like an autistic person, but I noticed when I dated an autistic man he was emotionally abusive and constantly lashing out (and treated his other exes the same) while when i dated a neurotypical guy it was super chill and no drama and he even helped me improve my social skills. I think it's because autistic men seek treatment/help less than autistic women, not becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:35 PM
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Well I also don’t really understand the passportbro’s sub’s obsession with these supposedly fat undesirable western women if they all have submissive japanese housewives
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:24 PM
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I’m not saying women can’t be just as bad but she’s exactly 100% right about this. I see this sub saying how women will end up alone with cats if they’re not submissive housewives but also saying submissive housewives are lazy gold diggers. I call it the girlboss vs gold digger dichotomy. I’ve seen it repeated online an insane amount of times in the past few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:09 PM
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yeah but I hate wasted time plus I see those videos of women crying at 30 cuz they got dumped after 8 years. I am a very gullible person who gets tricked very easily so I am worried about games/bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:00 PM
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That is understandable but at the same time I would not want to date someone who calls women hags. I don’t call men scrotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:58 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:51 AM
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Yeah it just helps to avoid some questions. When ive tried to force myself to lie on rare occasions my face scrunches up and it comes out weird and then people get the truth out of me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:30 AM
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🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:38 AM
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who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:37 AM
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Gender roles work for some people, some people they dont. Like my dad submits to my mom, and they have been married for over 25 years now. He has to ask her permission to make big purchases and she runs our household. People would say he’s a cuck or insane but they have a strong marriage while I’ve seen others with more traditional roles fail
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:25 AM
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I like it for the intimacy aspect like the emotional bonding. Physically I have vaginismus so its painful. But emotionally I love getting to bond with someone on that level like I did with my ex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:07 AM
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I dont like cats or alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:32 AM
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First of all with the settling thing, I don’t get why anyone would want to be settled for. Thatd kinda suck if you married some woman who just wants your money but secretly cant stand you. Second of all, the only people I know slugging sangria are tired married housewives It’s so weird this assumption single women are bitter and drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:27 AM
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I help run a philosophy discord and we talk about this a lot in the religion channel I think purity culture that causes religious trauma is bad, especially with bullying ppl for being promiscuous cuz a lot of the promiscuous people I know do it because of childhood sexual trauma, mental illness, low self esteem, etc BUT it is understandable why ppl find it unattractive if someone has a high body count due to it trivializing sex and making them seem like theyre indecisive and cant commit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:25 AM
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Autism cognitive ridigity sees how people talk about women with high body counts online. Brain gets neurotic and stressed out about the idea of having it and ruining my marriage chances. And I’m physically incapable of lying so if they asked id have to say it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:18 AM
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Oh thank you so much, I vaguely researched gottmans stuff in my major classes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:58 AM
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Yeah but what about men who want like a trad wife and plus doesn't that just set you up for being strung along for 8 years
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:42 AM
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I definitely dont want chad because i prefer short men and would love to be a breadwinner financially. I've just been nervous to enter the dating pool because I don't want to rack up a huge body count before I find "the one" so I haven't dated in years and I've never used a dating app. I found my last relationship by blind luck. So good to know that average men don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:34 AM
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why
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:32 AM
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I agree, but it does get confusing when female dating advice books are saying that it's too much pressure on a man to suggest marriage and kids from the get go
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:48 AM
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The whole problem with “pick better” is that it is assumed that if you just pick the “sweet lonely nice guy” instead of some imaginary chad things will be better. But in reality if you date someone who’s severely insecure, severely mentally ill, no social skills/friendships, you’re more likely to be abused. Personal experience is speaking here. Not saying that means go for a frat boy asshole who uses steroids and clearly only wants hookups. It just means that just being a “poor lonely nice guy” …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:24 PM
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I’ve seen enough disordered eating behavior in my family to know we need to treat people with basic human decency, even if we do not find them attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:34 PM
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Male tradcons have also done the same however, I often see a strange pendulum swinging between “women should be modest and covered up and trad and not have jobs” to “how dare the green m&m not be sexy anymore! evil wokeness!”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:53 PM
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All I’m asking is to provide basic respect and empathy towards someone. Not date them, not feel attracted to them. Just treating them like a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:58 PM
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This idea of “just be feminine” varies so much from man to man tbf. And a lot of men are different in tastes from what I’ve seen. Like I’ve seen some guys say how women without tattoos are boring, and some say how they hate tattoos on women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:43 PM
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Nobody ever said in this post or in the comments that people should be enabled in unhealthy habits I am simply saying that people should be treated with dignity and respect while being given advice on healthier habits. Multiple studies back this up, the fact that people tend to lose weight far more easily when given positive feedback. Especially if the root issue behind their binge eating is feeling depressed/trauma. If I went and stood on the corner and screamed at every homeless drug addict “J…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:42 PM
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Like I said, if someone has a root cause for “stuffing their face” such as depression/anxiety, my main question how sneering at that person/insulting them somehow is productive and fixes the initial issue. Insteas of constructive advice such as suggesting workout routines or healthier less caloric alternatives to their favorite foods I also provided an example of when societal fat shaming goes so far that perfectly healthy women are body shamed for not being anorexic, as well as the fact countri…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:39 PM
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It can be viewed similarly to drug addiction, as food addiction is a legitimate health diagnosis. Especially since our body has mechanisms to try and prevent us from starving to death. A little empathy goes a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:34 AM
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I’m Californian and people assume that it’s some “woke DEI liberal dystopia” but people dont realize that here, esp in the weathy majority white areas, stuff like racism and homophobia is VERY common.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:39 AM
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Thank you for the channel recommendation. I will check that out. But yeah I absolutely agree that everyone deserves to be treated with respect and dignity, no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:02 AM
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I saw more people complaining about people complaining about adele's weight loss than people complaining about it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:39 AM
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yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:33 AM
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I do follow some overweight male content creators and they don't even get nearly the amount of backlash for it that overweight female content creators get. They're told they have a dad bod or whatever. But at the same time I would get accused of womansplaining a man's issue. But personally I'd absolutely support the hell out of a short king positivity campaign. I can understand that short men get a lot of shit for it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:32 AM
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I can understand the men thing cuz men are lacking in movements for male body positivity. But the main beef that made me make this post is seeing a really sweet content creator I like who makes wholesome content be bullied like crazy for her weight (she could be trying to lose weight for all people know) and then people will turn around and be like "people are just caring about her health"....if commenting "kill yourself you disgusting whale" made people thin, we'd have a real skinny nation rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:30 AM
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Well as I suggested Healthy food alternatives Working out/exercising Giving people encouragement to reach their goals What I was criticizing Name calling, bullying, rudeness Crash diets (which have been scientifically proven to fail)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:25 AM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6565398/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:17 AM
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I absolutely think men should be included as well! I dislike donald trump but I remember thinking how ridiculous it was when people were being hypocrites and claiming to be body positive but fat shaming him and penis size shaming back in 2017.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:10 AM
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I live in what's considered the most "woke" state and I've known tons of overweight women who got bullied in school growing up for being big, even if it was shitty circumstances like they had lazy parents who only got the family fast food as a kid. I also have noticed on the social media accounts of overweight women, they get horrendously mean comments. When if anything, if someone is overeating due to depression, getting out there socially can help with the depression aspect instead of just hid…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:08 AM
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See now we are getting to some common ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:05 AM
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You absolutely deserve empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:04 AM
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They also have high suicide rates and high rates of deaths from eating disorders.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:02 AM
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Government subsidizes a lot of unhealthy things! I hate it!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:01 AM
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There is nothing wrong with you finding them sexually unattractive and appealing. Men do not owe obese women relationships (As I said in my post) My issue is, and even though I'm not overweight, I know what it feels like to be bullied for being different, being an autistic person my whole life. It didn't suddenly make me neurotypical, it made me anxious and neurotic. But what has helped with some of my social issues for example, when now that I'm older people give me genuine feedback on my socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:01 AM
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I'm not saying there aren't negative sides to the movement, just that a lot of the really crazy stuff like saying "fat is healthy" tends to be more fringe than people say it is, and that there is nothing wrong with loving your body WHILE you work to get a healthier body.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:58 AM
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Absolutely, that is constructive advice right there ^
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:57 AM
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Yeah those are absolutely awful as well. Small penises tend to be less uncomfortable and give women more pleasure. And gymbro culture is awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:57 AM
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Bullying isn't expressing preferences. Preferences is simply stating "I do not date obese women and I'm not attracted to them" Bullying is this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JuCNQFZ-H4E
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:45 AM
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I never said that anyone should be forced to be attracted to obese women. I’m simply saying to stop bullying them. Especially because then the thick and curvy you women like end up being lumped in with them and terrorized for not being 80 lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:29 AM
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So is calling them a “slob” going to make them less obese? I’m sure they get regular hate comments on social media being called a slob. People act like overweight people have never been told this before
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:28 AM
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Most body positivity is about avoiding bullying fat people. Multiple studies has shown bullying fat people does not help them lose weight, but actually makes them gain more weight. You can still think obesity is unhealthy, without bullying people into eating disorders. During Y2k they had the whole era of calling any celebrity who wasn’t anorexic a “fat pig” on magazine covers, and you didn’t see that lower the obesity rate. Just made a bunch of young girls die of eating disorders. I live in a “…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:22 PM
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I think you do need to understand though rather than blaming “feminism” is in America, people of both genders are expected to move out at 18. And housing is brutally expensive. One of my best friends got kicked out of her mom’s house at 18 (her mom was super trashy and irresponsible) and has spent years working her ass off to pay for a tiny apartment for herself. A lot of women also have seen how exhausted and miserable their moms were with childcare/housework. Those experiences influenced them …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:40 PM
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How is overpopulation, something that’s been studied in tons of species a “myth”? You can dislike it all you want but it doesn’t change the fact it kills off species. And I’m not antinatalist. I just noticed pronatalists don’t seem to care about the population when it comes to actually born children. To the point where they often don’t care about families with 10 kids being in poverty. Maybe instead of putting all this energy into getting outraged online, you should go pop out another kid/knock …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:33 PM
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It’s so weird how they dismiss the violent things incel men say in red pill subs as “locker room talk” Yet then when a woman speaks her mind shes an “icky fat feminist who will die alone” Its like regina george and classically abby had a baby
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:42 AM
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Id also be kinda mad if I was born to some single woman who had a one night stand because she wanted to use a child as a personal therapist/retirement plan to take care of her when she gets old. Bonus points if she’s a stereotypical “boymom” who acts overbearing to her son and treats him like a husband
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:10 AM
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I wouldn't say it's smart to make themselves single mothers. I am a pretty open minded, progressive person but as someone w a background in child/family development, I disagree with the whole "single mom by choice" stuff. I've known tons of single moms and their lives were miserable and their kids often had behavioral issues. I remember they would even say they were jealous of women who decided to be single careerwomen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:53 AM
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I could care less about if the kid came from me or not. I'm a kid at heart myself. Plus childbirth is legit scary to me being an autistic woman and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:25 AM
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Calling people "old single parasites" is exactly why you shouldn't have kids. Those people are human beings. Was Jesus a "parasite" for not having kids? If I have kids I would never want to be a role model for them like that, by calling people who couldn't have kids due to fertility issues "parasites". You know better than this. Overpopulation can be just as devastating to a species as underpopulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:19 AM
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I wouldn't mind being a stepmom at all but when I brought that up on this sub they said it was because I was a "gold digger" and "wanted mens money" when in reality i wasnt even thinking about the money, i was just thinking about having a positive impact on kids from a broken home and ive always assumed once i get married im gonna split bills 50/50 with a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:14 AM
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I was reading it and I just felt bad. Like they had good points like not sleeping around, making men feel manley. But the sheer amount of self hatred on that sub is depressing. And hatred towards other women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:48 PM
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I'm just saying at this point if someone's had like 50 relationships and still couldn't get married, there's clearly some larger factors at play here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:44 PM
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Kurt Cobain was admired for his empathy towards others. He was a strong advocate for the underdog, and people who were excluded for being different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:24 AM
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I think selfish, envious behavior is bad from both genders. Didn't mean to sound like a pickme here. I think people of any gender today could use more etiquette and better manners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:22 AM
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Thank you for your perspective! I will keep this in mind
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:03 AM
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If you define feminism as trying to help women overcome the cultural barriers they have faced historically and live up to their full potential, I don't think most emotionally healthy men would repel from that at all Yes this is what I'm talking about. I don't think they'll be repelled by it, but just not interested. It's just more of a topic you talk about with your gal pals, just like how men have locker room talk with their bros
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:56 PM
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They just replied to my pink tax comment and I got completely strawmanned lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:27 PM
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You're just strawmanning me at this point, and claiming I want the government to pay for tampons, when in reality I support voluntary charities that pay for them to be in schools. Most men would be like "oh cool" but not really be interested. And with the wage gap, I believe that can be easily solved through free market stuff like unionizing. Seeing hard working women I work with who are paying rent alongside their husband to support kids unionize to get paid a liveable wage makes me happy. No n…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:24 PM
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By feminist opinions I mostly just meant activism stuff yeah that a lot of zoomer men would probably agree with anyway, but it's just more of a discussion for majority women spaces that are interested in that stuff like feminist clubs. Just like how men have "locker room talk"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:08 PM
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Thank you so much, I am happy you found the one!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:06 PM
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And you can absolutely be a strong woman who uplifts and supports other women, while also being motherly, calm, feminine, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:04 PM
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Thanks for the advice! I will try that! My college has a video game club and I love nintendo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:21 PM
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sasuke?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:44 PM
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There's really just no need to discuss it honestly. I don't need to sit around ranting about the pink tax to someone who doesn't get a period and won't understand for example. Or yell about how I don't like andrew tate, when i can easily just ignore andrew tate. Shrug.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:39 PM
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no cuz i dont use dating apps and am in an all female field with all straight women. so im just sort of waiting for someone to come along. i may eventually have to use dating apps and i kinda dread it. I'd way rather meet people organically than all this swiping garbage. I fucking hate social media apps. I can like barely tolerate discord and reddit alone. I also got autism and severe social anxiety so im very awkward irl and dont know how to approach potential partners. so ideally i plan to fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:37 PM
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Well now im adjusting a bit better and realizing things are more nuanced. But sometimes things can be literal for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:48 PM
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Yeah I think in general that's the problem is scaremongering about dying alone, when in reality a lot of people enjoy solitude and contribute in other ways like helping their church or being a teacher
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:54 PM
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I'm not delusional, I just made a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:28 PM
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Well as I said im figuring it out
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:28 PM
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I also said men shouldn't be disagreeable either. Everyone should try and be polite and nuanced
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:19 PM
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I've taken things very literally I see online. I'm still a bit confused on what is real and what isn't but I'm slowly figuring it out
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:17 PM
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I'm a neurodivergent woman (autism/anxiety) so I always have felt inferior And I've always felt bad for lonely guys and want to "help" them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:15 PM
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Low self esteem. I felt like I was "bad" and "needed to settle for someone so i dont die alone without a husband or kids". I also worried that I was "going for Chad" if I picked someone better. I'm not saying I needed that experience, I'm just saying unfortunately now that I've went through it, I'm glad I can know red flags better. And that I'm not an ugly unloveable picky princess if I want someone who has control over their life or isn't negative. He stalked me for two years after our breakup …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:00 PM
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whats that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:54 PM
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Thanks for giving this perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:46 PM
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I also said men should be accountable as well. Everyone should be accountable. Just like how it would be uncomfortable for me if on a first date a man started loudly ranting in the restaurant about how women "only want Chad"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:38 PM
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There's a difference between being aggressive and assertive. There's nothing wrong with being assertive. No woman should have to be a doormat. But then there is an issue when you're constantly shouting or being rude and disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:36 PM
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death threats and rape threats for years towards women “boohoo” A hashtag “THROW THEM IN JAIL”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:38 AM
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I don't want to deny men's issues or say that they don't exist. But the whole man vs bear thing I believe started as a reaction to the violent rhetoric. Not the other way around. I see women saying "I'll take the bear" as a response to a man saying something like "Women all deserve to be raped" And with the uprooting thing, I don't see what would be the solution to that. Force women to date men they don't want to date at gunpoint? Because, even if you have a woman coming from the absolute bottom…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:15 AM
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I am not defending "kill all men" but these women also got a lot of blowback for it. Hell, even the red haired feminist lady who was super rude or "big red" got death threats/rape threats for YEARS. And I mostly am just talking about this sub having an anti woman bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:07 AM
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Well first of all, you are a good person and you should not have to justify your existence like that. Short and tall men are all worthy. Rich and poor men are all worthy. However I think the 50% of TRP who thinks women should be submissive tradwives is shooting itself in the foot, because by telling women they're disgusting and masculine for having jobs unlike those "trad eastern women", it encourages gold digging and only dating men for their money. Especially with inflation, you're gonna need …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:44 PM
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im an ugly woman and ive been treated like garbage my whole life and bullied for how my face looks by men and women, and have been friendzoned by even super lonely guys and its like i dont think men should be killed for that. its called i had bad luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:35 PM
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I dont think im a victim and I think ppl have freedom of speech. Im just saying if men are the more objective rational sex they should have better points than just ad hominems
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:29 PM
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I'm not denying that sub can be toxic either, but I've never seen anyone on there talk about how they want to abuse their male spouse. I've never seen any even hardcore lesbian feminist women talk about wanting some authoritarian theocracy government that makes men into submissive kitchen slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:39 PM
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Men generally care about society as a whole more than women do, which is why the neoliberal elites who only care about profit have almost fully switched over to catering exclusively to women and highly feminized men. Women are the ones fighting against capitalism, fighting for better maternity leave policies, standing up against bullying, voting for policies that help income inequality. I just see a lot of moaning and complaining from men. Also there was plenty of blood, sweat, and sacrifice fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:57 PM
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Woman constantly make online content about motherhood, why can't women make content about the childfree lifestyle? Are they supposed to hide from the world and repeatedly flog themselves for not birthing unwanted kids? Plus there's plenty of men and DINK couples on the childfree sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:13 PM
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https://www.goretro.com/2014/08/mothers-little-helper-vintage-drug-ads.html?m=1 My mom just went back to work for fun after years of being a housewife because she likes to work. It’s also not a dichotomy of “corporate slave” vs “full time trad wife” I genuinely love my own job and the structure it brings my life. A lot of women have very social jobs where it builds friendships and they do things they love like care for animals or create art. A lot of women have jobs that help their community. Li…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:09 PM
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Why black women and Asian men are at a disadvantage when it comes to online dating https://www.thestar.com/life/why-black-women-and-asian-men-are-at-a-disadvantage-when-it-comes-to-online/article_c28d746b-2c0a-537a-a1f4-3bc72250bb48.html
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:14 AM
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Women are constantly mean to each other. Slut shaming is still alive and well, even among gen z. And girls I know constantly encourage each other to settle for guys they’re not attracted to for money
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:09 AM
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It’s not breaking the solidarity. It’s when you look at any anti feminist woman’s twitter, and you see the fact she claims to be “blissfully married with kids” yet spends more time flying into a psychotic, mouth-frothing rage at a strawman of a “blue haired feminist” than spending time with her own husband or kids. I see them tweet like legit once an hour just pure bitter rage at feminist women. That’s a pickme, bonus points if they have a bunch of male orbiters who call them based or say they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:02 AM
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Constantly over centuries- women worked. And even in the so-called "glory days" of the 1950s, non-white women and women in poverty still had to work. https://medium.com/@LiaTripleL/no-men-were-never-protectors-and-providers-4a0ada241d09 if early women would've sat in the cave all day cuddling babies and eating bon-bons we wouldn't even be alive today as a species. Feminism has done far more for stay at home moms than anti-feminism has. Modern day feminists are often also anti capitalists who wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:27 PM
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I think traditional roles are a good guideline, but not a hard rule that applies to everyone. They're really shooting themselves in the foot with this one. Just like how I think stuff in the Bible like waiting for marriage is a good guideline for dating, but I think it's perfectly okay to have sex with a loving committed partner you're going to marry in a few years anyway. IDK why people had to turn it into a "do this or eternal torture pit" thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 07:49 PM
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This is a very good, well thought and well-put response. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 06:08 PM
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i like your take on it, and i agree. remembering the human is important
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:53 PM
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i mostly notice this conflicting view coming from the red pill in particular
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:33 PM
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Ideally I’d like to see a dialogue between the two, because I’m seeing a lot of claims that it’s “how society should be” by both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:23 PM
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I have a date with a guy coming up and he was super stoked and excited when he found out I was paying, despite the fact hes a computer dude I was so confused because of all the trad “good wife” online classes and stuff that claimed that men will skip women who want to pay, and will be disgusted by them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:21 PM
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No man is intimidated by a woman's income. I do hear a lot of red pill men and women saying stuff like "no man wants a careerwoman" or "no man wants a strong independent girlboss".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:08 PM
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I would ideally like to see a dialogue between someone (man or woman) who’s team tradwife, and another who is team “women need to pay”. And see them come to a middle ground
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:01 PM
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Based work-life balance for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:37 PM
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I can understand if men want to be providers though, or want to feel masculine. The thing is though if one would want to live off one income in this day and age, you'd have to be rich. Especially with a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:35 PM
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one of my main criticisms of TRP/manosphere, especially these republican tradpilled men is that they claim to be male positive and the opposite of man-hating feminists, yet will basically trash on so called "liberal beta males" like a bunch of stereotypical 80s high school jock bullies. Instead of uplifting them or giving them empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:41 AM
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naw i don't think it's particularly masculine or feminine. it's just abusive. however i see people disagreeing with abusive outdated behavior being told they're trying to "remove masculinity from our society" regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:38 AM
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I thought we were supposed to go for "masculine men" and not "beta soy cucks who eat bugs and play nintendo" according to red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:27 AM
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Single mothers do suffer financially. They often have to life with roommates and in low income areas full of crime and their children suffer for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 01:14 AM
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Well thanks, I appreciate it. You are handsome and will live a long life surrounded by loved ones who adore you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:55 PM
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That sounds more like being a nuanced person who isn't dogmatic and thinks for themselves. Like for example, someone who thinks gender roles are natural but doesn't believe in forcing them and believes in exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:35 PM
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Why does it have to be that this sub is full of "evil women" and "nice men"? Why can't it just be that both suck on here I just saw a man comment on a post about how he would love to see a woman mauled by a bear while taking a selfie in the woods, and another man not helping her. Also, I have noticed that when I write well thought out comments outlining my argument respectfully and in good faith, instead of a healthy debate, I just get told that I will die alone with my wine and cats (I don't li…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:30 PM
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but even if you did get that tradwife, after you had years to build up your career, in the divorce she’d have an empty resume. Even if she got a payout from the house, once that ran out she’d be a lifer at walmart, not some billionare.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:17 PM
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RP men usually say that the father figure is most important in kid’s lives and even use it as a talking point to shit on lesbian couples who adopt and single moms….yet basically you’re saying women should be married single moms? It’s wild that people would see it as “a stupid feminist chore” to spend time with their own kids. 50% of their DNA and the mom has to do 100% of the childcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:14 PM
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There's no woke propaganda. This is a persecution complex boogeyman. If they're all such a bunch of "lonely bitter fat feminists" and men are the "braver, stronger, more logical sex" then who really has more control in society?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:18 PM
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Good for them then, they can do whatever they want
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:13 PM
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You’re not really addressing any of the points. This is just getting outraged over a hypothetical boyfriend and hypothetical Starbucks order. Still not really seeing you provide points on how redpill men are just these kind angelic loving souls who are getting screwed by chad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:57 PM
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I’m someone who is against casual sex and I think it’s none of the government’s business who the hell uses birth control or not Similarly to the failed efforts to ban drug use- your fantasy of a ban isn’t going to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:21 PM
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What does the ability to be a good husband and father who behaves maturely and responsibly have to do with looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:37 PM
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Yeah I know a lot of girls my age who are dating guys in their 30s for that reason and I am 100% supportive of them, I’m actually one of the few coworkers who doesn’t judge about it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:24 AM
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I mean of course there's trades, but I mean if we're talking about like software engineers and corporate people and I appreciate your hard work. You are absolutely valuable to our society. i will edit what I said to say "non trades"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:48 PM
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Even like meetup events are dominated by old people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:22 PM
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Epic, im basically a big kid myself
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:53 PM
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Being a well behaved autistic kid who never got invited to parties in HS is hard!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:44 PM
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Well damm Id say time to become a cat lady but I don’t like cats
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:42 PM
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Hell yeah, yeehaw and rooty toot
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:00 PM
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I specifically prefer short guys
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:47 PM
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Where, mail one to me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:41 PM
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Why is it when a woman works in a corporate office she’s a “lazy girlboss” but when a man does, besides trades (esp with most male dominated jobs being remote nowadays unlike female dominated ones like teaching) he’s a brave strong provider And commitment to marriage and kids is bare minimum for both genders. I’m pretty feminist and I think those young women in their 20s who are sleeping around SHOULD be focused on commitment instead too, because casual sex culture is idiotic and a waste of time…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:40 PM
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I've had a lot of married red pill people tell me that lowering your standards is the key to marriage and kids, so this is what I'm trying to dispute basically
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:55 PM
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Well, I would like to see that they're taking this seriously. Posting a pic of yourself getting shitfaced drunk at a party to represent who you are, doesn't scream "I want marriage and not hookups". I plan to try a site like match.com once I feel secure enough because right now I am building up skills on how to be a good wife and I am working on weight loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:21 PM
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Decent idea. Religion is one of my special interests (as critical as I can get over it) and I generally enjoy churches
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:19 PM
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This isn't about "crafted pics". This is about behaving like a grown adult, not a stoner. This is about the man I'm going to trust to raise kids with as an autistic woman with a high risk of postpartum depression and pregnancy complications. Yeah I'll get with the party guy, and then when I get dumped to be a single mom with a kid with similar behavioral issues to what I had growing up, I'll get told "should've picked better"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:17 PM
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And third places are being blown up too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:05 PM
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Yeah I'm in an all-female major and career so I'm fucked to use apps, but I am still preparing myself by losing weight and building up what would make me a good wife, and then I am going to try my best to maybe sign up for match.com or whatever since a website seems more serious, and just wait it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:01 PM
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I can understand that a man wouldn't want to be with a woman who hates men. But stuff like "weird looks" is basically the same thing as saying "I'm a bad bitch, no short guys!". Especially if a woman is healthy and not obese, something like "Oh her face isn't like a conventional supermodel" is a bit concerning with the rise of plastic surgery and "instagram face". Completely normal features like a woman having a big nose is treated as something broken and defective and that you "need a nose job"…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:55 PM
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Could also be biased too because I'm Californian and the dating culture here in general is weird because a lot of people get together just so they can move out of their parent's house and afford an apartment
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:43 PM
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Yeah but in the US men are also obese and are single dads? Why is it portrayed all the time that it’s a bunch of “fat western women” and “perfect skinny muscular Greek gods who are being rejected by these evil fat feminazis”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:45 PM
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https://www.logicallyfallacious.com/logicalfallacies/Faulty-Comparison There’s Buddhist/Christian Monks and who live super happy and fulfilled lives in their community while celibate. It just takes a lot of meditation, focus, and self-actualization. Brain scans actually show that monks have better mental health than laypeople. Sex is not like food.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:50 PM
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India isn't America though. Why force something onto a completely different culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:09 PM
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Not really no, lmao. You are actually encouraged to job hop until you find a higher paying position. It’s actually been very common since post pandemic. https://www.google.com/search?q=why+job+hopping+is+good&rlz=1C9BKJA_enUS1073US1073&oq=why+job+hopping&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUqBwgAEAAYgAQyBwgAEAAYgAQyCQgBEEUYORiABDIHCAIQABiABDIHCAMQABiABDIICAQQABgWGB4yCAgFEAAYFhgeMggIBhAAGBYYHjIICAcQABgWGB4yCggIEAAYDxgWGB4yCggJEAAYDxgWGB7SAQgyNTA4ajBqN6gCALACAA&hl=en-US&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:46 PM
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I don’t understand this anti feminist view of sneering “I’d rather be a submissive wife than be a corporate slaaaaaave” As if you have to choose between the two and it’s a dichotomy. And your husband divorcing you is more likely to leave you with nothing than your job firing you. If a job fires you, you have a full resume and can easily get a new one. If your job is shit you can sue for workplace harassment and find a new job. But if your husband beats the fuck out of you it’s harder to leave. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:40 PM
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I'm in one of the top universities in California and not once has their been any form of "antinatalist matriarchy indoctrination" If anything the STEM and business majors are total boy's clubs and have very little women. I've never been told "don't have kids" by any professor. I've only been told by a hippie child development professor how "natural childbirth is beautiful and doesn't hurt if you do a water birth" I'm in some feminist spaces online (and contrary to what you're saying we aren't ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:49 PM
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Childcare teachers aren't "strangers" they're teachers. I've seen childcare teachers treat children way better than I've seen elementary teachers treat children. It's very strange how people consider age 5 this magical age where it's not being "raised" but "taught" Very ironic how anti childcare advocates like Phyllis Schlafly called it "stranger care" yet had her own kids cared for by nannies/help. Which IMO having a nanny 24/7 is way more harmful to kids than them playing with friends at presc…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:51 PM
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I can say firsthand being a woman (and a very anxious autistic one at that) that the pressure to have kids from a young age is pretty strong, and we're reminded to get married and pregnant before we hit 30 like every 5 seconds. Relatives, peers, coworkers, friends, social media really cranks up the pressure. It's just difficult out there when we see so many single moms and women in miserable dead bedroom marriages to find "the one" because after all....red pill tells women to "just pick better m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:47 AM
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A lot of people have to choose it due to financial reasons tho, and in my case because of my autism-induced violent behavioral issues growing up There's also a major stigma and hatred of working moms/working women in general
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:42 PM
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You're right, it is a stupid idea to marry someone significantly older, but if women can't figure that out on their own, they deserve it. Yeah true. I'm not saying we need to coddle or protect them. I just think it's a bit ironic when people will be like "see you bitter feminazis are sooooo jealous" of something that may not even work out in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:25 PM
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The thing is, it’s not “hard and grueling” but a lot of the time women just feel bored and depressed doing it. I think while yes there’s a lot of women who are happy doing it, I think especially the right will try and miss-sell it to women by saying “You get to nap in a hammock all day!” To the point where I genuinely wondered for a while if it was a psy op to try and justify another lockdown
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:12 PM
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Physicalism is gay and holding us back in neuroscience. Eastern philosophy has nailed it with phenemenonology and the issue with age gap relationships isn't "creeps" or "manipulation" I'd say. I'd say if let's say this 35 year old person marries an 18 year old person just based on their looks alone and youthfulness, what's going to happen in 12 years when the 18 year old hits 30 then? Especially with the whole RP concept of "the wall". And if 35 year old reaches 50 and hits a midlife crisis and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:59 PM
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I replied this to another comment, but here's my thoughts - As long as they are two consenting adults, I do not give a fuck about who dates who or who has the age gap. I'm a firm believer in as long as you're 18, who cares HOWEVER, I find that some red pill people will try and use this as a motte and bailey where the motte is just "We're trying just to respect women's maturity that happens very young! Those blue haired fat feminists are JEALOUS" and the Bailey is wanting girls to get impregnated…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:48 PM
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Ah yes we love a strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:35 PM
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I am going to have to strongly disagree with you about it being “insulting”. I definitely think 18 is old enough to date someone older. It’s not the “creep” thing I’m worried about here It’s the idea of women having children as teenagers being super supported by the right despite the fact gen alpha is more mentally ill than ever, affording a single family home is more difficult than ever, statistically teen moms are far more likely to abuse their children (and get ripped open in childbirth) I’ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:35 PM
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ooo goody, I love nuanced takes. I've talked to other people who have similar views to yours and are disillusioned with both sides. I feel like the unfortunate thing with a lot of liberal feminists is that they oftentimes will want stuff that will aggravate Republicans into extremism. Like wanting affirmative action for women. That kind of thing, like prioritizing women in STEM, sends the red pill into such a tizzy that they go extremist in return. Similar to how each decade is a reaction politi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:55 PM
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I think I’m just going to stop engaging in this though, because it’s not going to go anywhere and you’re not really refuting my points other than saying I’m unfeminine. Even the most trad conservative women are pretty opinionated/outspoken (See:the transformed wife on twitter) I don’t hate you or think you’re a bad person. Nobody gets here on accident, and a lot of people here are very depressed and damaged emotionally. I am sorry for whatever pain you have suffered in your lifetime. I apologize…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:51 PM
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It’s the most feminine thing I could say because I’m priotizing the safety and needs of my hypothetical future children. It is my own motherly instinct kicking in when I see someone who has the potential to be physically abusive or have temper issues which could traumatize a small baby
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:15 PM
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I still don’t get how that makes me “masculine and undesirable” to disagree with a man. I was completely honest and polite with what I said. At this point the idea of feminity is “stand there like a total subservient robot and express zero opinions and have a constant smile plastered on your face while men are allowed to act however they want” None of my points were actually addressed and I was simply told ad hominems despite the fact IRL I am pretty submissive due to social anxiety. It has neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:37 PM
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That’s pretty concerning that disagreeing with someone in the internet makes me “disgusting and masculine” and that I would be expected to have zero opinion outside of “cook, clean, smile”. I was completely respectful and polite in my reply. You’re only proving my point that I would be in a one sided marriage with a man who’s allowed to act as rude as they please, while I am expected to be a robot who has a 24/7 smile and does nonstop chores without even a thank-you. Especially because my parent…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:35 PM
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The type of men I see on that sub are not “prizes” that I feel like I am missing out on. I feel like they seem very angry, bitter, jaded, and on the verge of lashing out. Not very ideal for when there’s difficult times like me needing help with a screaming newborn while they’re sitting on a computer getting angry at a straw man of a blue haired obese feminist “boogeyman”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:56 AM
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>The left treats conservatives as non people. If Donald Trump single handedly discovered a cure for cancer tomorrow, most liberals would demand his name not be associated with the cure. Eliminate all reference to him entirely. I can understand this, and I am not saying that right doing this automatically makes the left doing this okay. The amount of psychotic overreactions of Trump was ridiculous and I'm saying this as someone who doesn't like Trump. I have still stayed close with my own Trump l…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:08 PM
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I would say the same thing applies to the right. Just look how they reacted over a beer can
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:39 PM
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Okay but if women put themselves first they get shit on for that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:51 AM
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Single mothers by choice actually do get a lot of flak for their decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 08:43 PM
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I think a far more productive way to raise the birth rate would be to try and sit down with people and hear out their reasons why for not having kids, instead of just screaming at them, throwing tantrums, and shutting them out. Especially with Jesus saying being celibate is the easiest way to go to heaven, I would say having basic empathy for people and their situations is the best approach. Like maybe someone is childfree due to childhood trauma? Especially when it doesn't seem like a warning w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:13 PM
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How does insulting these women help though, besides creating alienation, division, a counterculture, and reverse psychology?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:55 PM
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>I also don't think women are really all that happy in the current dating market either whether they choose to engage with it or not. Women use antidepressants at nearly TWICE the rate of men. I think alot of this notion that they are doing great alone is simply a cope enabled by antidepressants and a culture that has normalized alcoholism. I've worked with both stay at home moms who are working as a pocket money job (out of boredom) and childfree women in their 50s. By far the childfree women w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:09 AM
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Society absolutely runs on the backs of women as well. Even in the 1950s, when a lot of white women stayed at home, a lot of latina/black women still had to work low paying jobs such as agriculture. I can say firsthand as a childcare teacher that I've never once seen women whose children I care for work a "useless hr girlboss job". All of them work very hard at important jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:43 PM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2379718/#:~:text=Maternal%2Dinfant%20bonding%20is%20a,is%20affected%20by%20many%20factors. https://bmcpregnancychildbirth.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12884-019-2426-0 when a baby comes out of the womb, oxytocin is released, which makes them bond with the mother. they also receive bacteria that match the mother's microbiome and immune system. Using a surrogate for selfish reasons and then ripping the baby away from the woman who birthed them fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:25 PM
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Lebanese gal seems mentally ill and chronically online.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:29 PM
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Do you guys care more about spiting women than how the actual children will turn out never having the essential maternal bond for brain development?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:23 PM
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I’m pretty feminist on a lot of things and I do not support that. I don’t think it’s empowered for a woman to do at all, I think it’s very selfish, especially with all the kids who need fostering. People are obsessed with their genes spreading
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:17 AM
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The fact that feminists and trads are all agreeing on this thread "dude stop" is a rare moment of unity for this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:51 PM
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I 100% agree and I'm pretty open minded and progressive. It's selfish and concerning for so many reasons. I can imagine also if these people couldn't find a romantic partner despite having 20 child rearing years to do so, that it may be due to a bad personality anyway. And when you have a bad personality, kids definitely aren't guaranteed you won't die alone when they run away once they're 18. I think loneliness is one of the worst reasons to have kids especially if people don't have a healthy c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:49 PM
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That does not even remotely make up for them not having a mother. The hormonal bond that comes from a biological mom is STRONG. Having paid helpers isn't close to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:49 PM
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The whole "single parent by choice" thing seems good on paper but is an awful idea. I always say instead people should look into volunteer/mentor programs with children or becoming a teacher instead. We desperately need teachers and childcare workers right now. You form wonderful relationships with the kids and families. It sounds way easier than having to put yourself through the emotional and financial hardships of single parenthood just so you can have a kid. At that point if you're 45 and st…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:44 PM
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Sir, there’s difference branches of feminism. Radical vs Liberal, etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:51 AM
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I didn’t only mean men by this, I also meant women shaming other women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:04 PM
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I mean the men are the ones saying they’re leaving those girls for non western women and becoming passport bros over that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:42 AM
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on the most recent post here about the mardi gras girls dance controversy, a bunch of the “west has fallen” men were literally calling the women uneducated a bunch of chuds value some kind of education/academia aesthetic and want wives well versed in philosophy or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:25 AM
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https://www.healthline.com/health/purpose-of-pubic-hair#:~:text=As%20mentioned%20above%2C%20pubic%20hair,%2C%20vaginitis%2C%20and%20yeast%20infections. Removing pubic hair may therefore make a person more susceptible to common infections, such as UTIs, vaginitis, and yeast infections.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 12:32 AM
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In the past in SOME societies keyword, some they removed bodily hair. but in the 50s for example those trad wifes definitely had bushes. So if we wanna argue that was the “best decade for feminity and purity and best women” welll……
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:55 PM
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See I think some religious stuff has value, especially as a mod on a philosophy discord. I think a lot of stuff is a great guideline like loving thy neighbor and focusing on long term relationships instead of parties/drugs. But I think it gets extreme when the religious trad people turn it into a hard rule instead of a guideline for living and will create echo chambers. I've watched tons of both Christian apologetic and atheist content and I can see the flaws and decent points of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:51 PM
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And I think that that's total BS when people say men shouldn't cry or it's not "alpha" thank you for pointing out another double standard involving men!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:20 PM
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Don't shoot the messenger, but it's very conflicting advice when we are told that men are "natural providers" and that working/paying for dates makes us "evil cat lady career girlbosses who need to get back in the kitchen" yet then if we are tradwives who rely on men we get called "gold diggers"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:21 PM
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Religions can be just as indoctrinating and I’m saying this as someone who loves religions and studies them heavily. The sheer amount of ex religious stories I’ve heard involving people being told lies, science denial, and child sexual abuse is off the charts Not to mention kinda unrealistic in this economy when everyone has to work no? I’m a university student and I’m not “partying” or “riding the cock carousel”. It’s made me into a more mature person and more disciplined. I’d be much better at…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:18 PM
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Tbf you dont need to be obsessively putting doilies on the table and making 5 course meals etc etc it means more if you cook just a normal healthy dinner for your family, friends, or partner
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:08 PM
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i dont think its slavery just looks kinda boring *shrug* to each their own tho, and if i had super young kids id probably do it but once the kids get older i can imagine it gets kinda dull my mom was a traditional stay at home wife my whole life and this year went back to work because she was really bored
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:34 AM
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well you guys are arguing they don't do any domestic things and this is what I am replying to. Most people feminist or trad, unless they're a mentally ill hoarder cook for themselves and do laundry. Mcdonald's is expensive af in this economy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:27 AM
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Not really sure what you mean. Even some of the most popular party girl modern hoes I know love cooking for their bf, or clean up after themselves like a normal human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:00 AM
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I dont think we need female only scholarships or special priveleges for STEM. If anything it trivializes the hard work women have put into those fields to get into them over the centuries. Such as the woman who made the calculations for the moon landing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:29 PM
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Well I noticed that if for example women don’t fit into certain institutions such as hard STEM majors that are often boy’s clubs (and notorious for misogyny in class) such as engineering, “biological differences that make women better at housework than critical thinking” get cited. But if women do better in a subject than men, it’s that we need to coddle and handhold men more. And I don’t mind if we coddle and handhold men more especially with the mental health crisis and suicide rates but then …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:32 PM
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Well studies show that men have more confidence in women than math but then women do better. People talk about gender differences being a good thing until it involves their own gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:43 PM
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I don’t really understand how the education thing is “feminist’s” fault. I’m a woman who’s pretty decent at math for example. All my irl male friends who I outperform in math just didn’t want to do it. They weren’t being coerced by some matriarchal society. They just didn’t like it. And college for many is a scam so it’s not like they don’t have other options like trades. It’s like if I said “the patriarchy” is why I’m shitty at a certain subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:21 PM
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Well I’m a feminist libertarian (fiscal conservative, socially a bit more liberal) and I primarily view it as a voluntary social movement. Some things I support - Free pads and tampons thru charity. - volunteering services to help tired moms - more education on not harassing women on street (the amount of times I have had men refuse to take no for an answer and try and follow me to work asking for my number) - free market solutions to low paying female careers such as unionizing that don’t invol…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:17 PM
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A job can hire whoever tf they want and pay them as much as they want. It's no different than if they decided to marry a rich man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:56 AM
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Alright, but if you know anything about economics, the free market easily sorts this out. A lot of women are being laid off from these office jobs in tech companies as we speak. And also I keep hearing this weird thing on purple pill debate spaces where they either say careerwomen are lazy and get paid a million dollars to sit around and relax like evil modern whores, OR that they’re “bitter exhausted corporate slaves who desperately want to be tradwives dragging toddlers through the supermarket…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:24 PM
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It’s a free market. Boohoo. How do you even know that’s real and they’re not just lying to rage bait conservatives who want them scrubbing floors?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:21 PM
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I work at a university daycare at one of the top universities in the country, and I would say in majority of cases it’s fine and healthy for the kids. Typically they have professor parents who have breakfast with them in the morning, they get dropped off at 8-9, and go home at 3 or 4 and play at their park with their parents, then they all cook dinner together as a family (what i hear secondhand) The kids love coming to school and playing with their friends. The only time I see it having a negat…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:20 PM
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Pearl literally has STDs from wanting men to cheat on her. Isn’t she irrelevant at this point after her grifting thing failed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:20 PM
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There’s also a lot of jobs that women do that men just won’t take and vehemently don’t want. It’s like how when people say immigrants are stealing jobs. yet as someone who lives in a border state (California) all the Mexican immigrants here do jobs that are normally ones American people think they are too good for such as picking crops, housekeeping, yard work, and fast food/retail. Otherwise those jobs would be VERY short staffed. I mentioned this in another comment on this thread, but I still …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:09 PM
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For it has nothing to do with feminism, im just an introvert autistic woman who likes to have my own money and my own stuff, especially after I grew up with nosy strict parents it’s helped my mental health a ton to have a lot more privacy and space and independence as an adult. I’m not insulting anyone who wants to be a tradwife. I still live at home in my own tiny house in my parents backyard but I actually have a way better relationship with my parents now that I bought my own car, can drive m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:43 AM
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You’re still avoiding the point I’m bringing up about the fact if people want us to completely overpopulate this country, once again we will need a TON more nurses and teachers. Many essential fields employ women, and if something like covid happened again with 10x the population and yet 50 percent of the medical workforce is out being barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen, it’d be ugly. And google all the countries with the highest birth rates. They’re not trad paradises with prosperous economie…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:50 AM
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https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/effects-of-fat-shaming#:~:text=Effect%20on%20body%20weight,cause%20weight%20gain https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6565398/ It didn’t work or lower the obesity rate in the early 2000s. Like communism, it doesn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 05:50 PM
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Agreed 100% it depends on personality whether you’re happy married or unmarried. I know super happy childfree women because they were already introverts who can’t stand noise and had a huge network of friends/nieces and nephews clinging to their leg in case they did want connection. Meanwhile I think someone who’s very extroverted and family oriented would be extremely devastated if they couldn’t have kids, such in the case of women with fertility issues who desperately want to conceive a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 05:14 PM
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I would disagree that it’s negatively impacted our society. Especially since the 1950s was just one decade where women stayed at home, (and it was mostly wealthy white women, Black/Latina women still had to work). Do I think women should aim to be corporate CEO girlbosses? Naw. Do I see lots of women who love their jobs? Yes. Especially women who enjoy stuff like being nurses, teachers, etc. it’s not this dichotomy between high flying girl boss and trad wife. A lot of women CONTRIBUTE to family …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 05:11 PM
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Look at the female eating disorder rate and tell me how fat-shaming women is helpful? Men aren’t victims. Look at the vile comments men leave on videos about feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:28 PM
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I’ve worked with tons of suburban moms who were working there as a part time pin-money job because they were bored. The sheer amount of times I heard “Don’t have kids”, “If I could go back I would’ve never had them” and “You’re so lucky you don’t have kids”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:13 PM
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Medically obese is understandable but “overweight” BMI can even be in really fit muscular women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:47 PM
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