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| 22 | Schools are systematically predicting lower A-level grades for boys compared with girls who go on to get the same results.Yeah, but with the way we consider men and boys in society, and refuse to acknowledge their structural disadvantages, I can't C this situation really getting better anytime soon. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/26 07:50 AM |
| 19 | Orgasm Gap - To what extent are men responsible for a woman orgasming?The thing is, women in general don't really know how to make men orgasm either. The orgasm gap entirely hinges on the fact that overal men are still expected to be the active ones during sex (hence a lot of women starfishing), therefore men will do what they feel good to them. | /r/MensRights | 27/07/26 03:49 PM |
| 28 | Orgasm Gap - To what extent are men responsible for a woman orgasming?Yup. Still, everyone is in charge of their own orgasms. If you need something specific to get you in the mindspace to come it's up to you to communicate it. If you don't, then you can't complain that your partner can't make you come. Also, knowing yourself is important and in my experience a lot of women don't ever try to understand what helps them come. They expect the men to do the right thing without really thinking about it. Let me phrase it another way : if we societally expect men to have … | /r/MensRights | 27/07/26 02:27 PM |
| 11 | Concerning statisticI am not so sure it's a matter of "women, as they age, gain a more nuanced view of men" Imho, it's more a function of the ever growing negativity toward men in medias and social discourse. Meaning the women who are 35 were exposed to less negativity than those who are 30. And those were exposed to less than those who are 25. It's an infernal cycle. Women are exposed to negative messaging, therefore they hold negative views of men. So they perpetuate negative messaging, creating a self-perpetuati… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 26/07/26 06:42 PM |
| 22 | Concerning statisticIt's like if telling an entire population that the other half of the population is bad was having a negative influence on said population's view of the other half... What's saddest here is that it's going to be rationalized. Majority of young women having a bad opinion on men is going to be seen as "normal and justifiable". I can guarantee you that if the majority of men had a bad opinion of women as a whole it would be seen as a societal crisis. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 26/07/26 06:06 PM |
| 33 | And they wonder why a lot of men are afraid to talk to them in personUnfortunately for a lot of women it has become a powertrip. And in 5 years she'll wonder why nobody is appepaching her. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 19/07/26 06:35 AM |
| 20 | I think Leftists might be responsible for the rise of ManosphereVery well articulated. And genuinely glad you uncivered your bias there. Gotta say, nothing really new for someone who frequent this forum, but still a good read. As for the "women can do no bad" angle, recently (3 or 4 days ago) someone on reddit argued to me that women are absolute oppressed and men absolute oppressor, and nothing (up to murder) the oppressed does to the oppressor is injustifiable. And as such, nothing any woman does to any man is reprehensible. This is the kind of crowd that … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/07/26 06:13 PM |
| 18 | Male Misandrist InfluencerHow is any of those statements misogynistic? Please, describe the misoginy of it. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 14/07/26 10:02 PM |
| 19 | Wow. Just....wow.The very fact that men are struggling shows that this world was not built for men. It might have been, and that's heavily debatable, but nowadays? It's very much not builr for men. Feminist are so ingrained with the idea of a patriarchy built by and for men that this is laughable. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 14/07/26 06:01 PM |
| 6 | "When will people stop using the phrase "women and children" to treat men as subhuman and expendable in wartime? Children, yes. They're innocents. But women and men are adults, citizens. Their lives have equal value."The narrative used to be "well, children need someone to look after them, that's why we save women, so they have their moms". Mind you it was a time women supposedly didn't work. So that was basically condemning them to a life of poverty. Anyway, "parents and children first" would have been a much fairer thing to announce. But yeah, I hate this. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/26 07:23 AM |
| 34 | Criticizing Feminism = MisogynyIt's,funny because each and every single one of those are used by feminists online... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 10/07/26 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Men's sexual prowess being made fun of.Premature ejaculation is one of my main gripe. Men are designed for quick ejaculation. So it's a learning process. And the thing is? To last longer, you basically have to deny your own pleasure. You have to stop yourself, let the pressure down, until you can go again. But if you do this? Well, let's just say it's easy to lose all pleasure altogether. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/26 07:33 AM |
| 8 | Woman kills boyfriend for not having sex, all the comments calling him gay.Dude relax, this was sarcasm. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/26 10:43 AM |
| -99 | Woman kills boyfriend for not having sex, all the comments calling him gay.The proof of men's entitlement to women's body, and a culture that tells men that women exist just to satisfy their primal, bestial sexual urges. Or something like that, I'm not fucked in the head enough for this shit. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/26 07:53 AM |
| 94 | CNN featured a $5,000 camp that 'reframes' men away from their masculinity. Is this #ProgressiveConversionTherapy?Do y'all remember when the same medias (justly) mocked masculinity reinforcement camps? Nicknamed "camps for alpha men"? Why can't we just fucking leave masculinity alone for one second? Without either alpha-type bullshit, or progressive women trying to tell men what being a man looks like? Femininity is nowhere near as scrutinized, criticized, and subject to political appetite as masculinity is. Can you imagine if tomorrow we were to open a camp to "reframe femininity"? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/06/26 07:26 AM |
| 5 | No one really talks about how the "physically stronger" argument is extremely harmful to so many menYou might well be stronger than a woman, yet a thrown ceramic plate, or knives, will hurt just as much. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/26 05:12 PM |
| 13 | Look how they react to young men not wanting to date.You know what? Fair is fair. But I'll only accept demeaning comment about men not asking women out from women who have asked men out. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 25/06/26 11:01 AM |
| 20 | Two Terrible People in a RelationshipI'l be ok with women generalizing all men when they had a bad experience when they will be okay with men generalizing all women when they had a bad experience. Tits for tats | /r/EverydayMisandry | 18/06/26 08:46 PM |
| 6 | It’s funny how misandrist women call themselves baby-making machines when it goes with their narrativeThey almost got it but just don't push their reflection far enough. We live in a "patriarchy" because women sexually selected and raised dominant men for all of human history as a survival mechanism. It was their entire mating strategy. As a man, being dominant, being the leader was rewarded. Agreeableness was not. I maintain that if tomorrow women en masse rejected the more dominant men and only had sex and reproduced with more "submissive" (for lack of a better term) men, and if they raised th… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 16/06/26 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Gamma Bias: The Hidden Cognitive Distortion Hurting Men and BoysOh, that's just about everything really. I got to thinking recently about the dating discourse and standards. Whenever someone tells women that if they can't find a suitable partner within their dating standards (for example, if they want a 6ft and taller guy) they ought to maybe relax them a bit. This is usually met with "god forbid a woman wants to be with a man she is attracted to" and the person saying that will be met with ridicule at best. But on the other hand one of the main discourse su… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/06/26 04:50 AM |
| 12 | The Scars Left by Bullying: How it Affects Men Once They’ve GrownYup. When you're made to feel worthless as a child, it leaves mark as an adult. Also, sport in school. I was a chubby kid, and as such I would always be the last chosen when it came to assembling sports teams, even if the one doing the chosing was my best friend. That's super cool if you want to learn as a kid that nobody will ever choose you, that you won't ever be anyone's first choice... | /r/MensRights | 23/05/26 05:32 PM |
| 9 | Mother ties the eyes of the children and abandons them in forest in Portugal !!Yeah, read this headline, and uttered out loud "what a cunt". But I guess only men can be monsters and only fathers can be abusive/negligent. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/26 10:59 AM |
| 15 | Homophobia is one aspect of modern misandryIt's pretty clear cut. To me one of the major component of homophobia is a pretty deeply ingrained disgust at male sexuality. We are inundated with messages regarding vow male sexuality is bad. The male body is ugly. Penises are disgusting. Everything surrounding it is regarded as bestial, base, aggressive, etc... I''d argue slut shaming is a function of this (after all, if having sex with a man makes the woman "lesser", impure, then it stands to reason that it's the man that it's the man that i… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/26 06:31 AM |
| 41 | The usual crapAnd if boys weren't unfairly treated by (the majorly female) teachers at school, and told by society that they're unruly, gross, crass, idiots who will only grow to become predators, they wouldn't resent women as a whole. Or are just women excused from being bad people because of past experiences? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 12/05/26 05:37 PM |
| 23 | The Hands That Rock The CradleYeah it doesn't hold much water. If women, as they claim, have been forced by the patriarchy to do the child rearing since time immemorial, it means the patriarchy (and misogyny) was propagated by women. Because they had an unique position to influence children when they are most malleable. I mean, there's a reason Hitler targeted german youth. Children are the most fertile ground to implement ideas. If women decided that their position in society was not desired, they could have overturned it a… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/05/26 06:49 AM |
| 41 | Most parents fear daughters will grow up unsafe in publicIt's a vicious cycle. We tell people women aren't safe. So people are worried for women in their lives. So women feel unsafe. So we report that women aren't feeling safe. So people are worried for..... Rinse and repeat. Statistically women are the safest they've ever been, and the safest demographic there is. Yet never have women felt less safe... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/05/26 05:24 PM |
| 3 | “misandry has no significance, isn’t systemic, and is a waste of time.”Yeah, and misandry kills men. Right now men are being kidnappes in the streets in Ukraine to be sent to die a senseless war because they are men. Conversely, my friend is a tourist car driver àd he tells me he has never seen more busloads of ukrainian women touring western europe than since the start of the war. And if you're refering to IPV, if you count suicides due to victimization, as many men are estimated being killed by partners than women. And overall, men are more victims of violent cr… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 04/05/26 09:40 PM |
| 7 | "you see we can be sexist because our sexism is the good one"My go-to is, if it can't survive the gender-swap (or target a specific race) it's probably bigoted shit. I know some men can be absolute scum of the earth. I know several women who have been on the receiving end of it and my heart absolutely goes to them and I support them and I believe they are extremely courageous to confront what happened to them. And I understand having a hard time trusting men after having suffered anything of the kind, and I don't judge women for their wariness. But in the… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 04/05/26 07:25 AM |
| 58 | “misandry has no significance, isn’t systemic, and is a waste of time.”Most symptoms of misogyny is just women's feelings getting hurt too after all... so I guess it doesn't matter either? I don't get how society can see women as the oppressed class when women are quite fankly the ones that have the power to decide what being oppressed means and who is oppressed. It kind of reminds me the memes about corporations auditing themselves. "We investigated ourselves and found no unlawful acts being commited" | /r/EverydayMisandry | 03/05/26 07:13 AM |
| 86 | Woman Literally Saying She Wants to Rape Men to DeathI don't get it. I NEVER get into arguments with anybody. Especially not strangers. If she gets into argument at least once a day? The problem seems to be her honestly. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 26/04/26 06:17 PM |
| 106 | SHOCKING | Katy Perry's co-star Josh Kloss claims singer exposed his genitals at a party without his consent: 'If you pull someone's pants down...'Only men can do bad things. If women do bad things, it's men's fault. And it's not really a bad thing if it happens to men. And honestly, pulling down a man's underwear in public is empowering to women. And this man should be happy he gets so much attention. And he is problematic for complaining, showing that the patriarchy still controls women's impulse. In fact, he basically slut-shamed her. (/s obviously (I hope)) | /r/MensRights | 26/04/26 05:43 AM |
| 3 | Self cretique.Because what OF content creator sell isn't sex, it's the illusion of intimacy. It's making men pay for the feeling of participating. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/26 10:57 AM |
| 66 | I don't understand how people with this mentality could ever consider having kids of either genderThe irony of it all is, nothing will make a man hate women more than this kind of sentiment from his own mother.... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 21/04/26 06:07 AM |
| 50 | False rape accusations are incredibly common, virtually routine even.I have a friend who was victim of a false rape accusation by his crazy ex. How do I know it was a false accusation you ask? He was with me on a roadtrip to the Balkans when she alledged it happened. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/04/26 11:00 AM |
| 65 | “A child can never rape their father.”About the last one. If a 15 y.o boy was to drug his mother and then fuck her, no way they'd be calling her the rapist... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 17/04/26 05:37 AM |
| 26 | Women are now encouraging other women to lie during the jury duty process to vote people guilty from the get-go.And still, people attacked AVFM for its counter-article. Granted, Paul Elam is an abrasive dude who doesn't hold his words. But still, not a peep was given to the original article. Only to his response. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/26 05:06 AM |
| 5 | Data on False Accusations in IndiaYup. Same crowd that's saying that "only 2-10% of rape allegations are false" (which, 10% is already alarmingly high) because it's the number proven without a shred of a doubt to be false, will in the same breath tell you that only 4% of rapists are condemned, not realizing the irony of it. Because what it means is that only 4% of rape cases are proven to be true without any single shred of doubt. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/26 08:43 AM |
| 23 | men create their own problems bs againThe idea that patriarchy was created by men... Does it benefit some men at the top of the social echelon? Absolutely. Yet it's a system of gender roles created entirely by environmental pressure and needs of survival. It was put in place both by men AND women. They'll say "why would women have participated in building a system that oppresses them" as a retort, yet in the very same breath saying "patriarchy hurts men too", unaware of the irony of it all... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 04/04/26 07:07 PM |
| 15 | 🧔 She spent a year living as a man.Not quite because of it, she had a history of depression. But it might have been a huge part of her depressive state tbh. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/26 10:49 AM |
| 1 | “Feminist” gloats of illegal sexist discrimination.You can actually calculate this. A man needs on average 500kcal more per day for maintenance. Except if you decide to consume these calories entirely in oil, 100 calories will cost you on average 0.5$ in the US, so that's a 2.5$/day increase. In a month, you'll spend about 80$ more in food than a woman. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/26 08:18 AM |
| 4 | Man hating art I found on Pinterest part 8I mean, the part about the penis being impure is basically what we've all been saying about the demonization of male sexuality. It's a shame they just don't accept it for what it is. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/03/26 03:57 PM |
| 12 | How can I day by day support average men as a lady?Honestly? At that point the simple acknowledgment that society is fucked up toward men and that men don't bear the entire responsibility of it wokld be a nice gesture. As for a more personal action, focus on the men in your life. Hold the bad ones accountable, but in exchange recognize the good ones and what they do right. Men want one thing above all else, it's being seen We are invisible to the world. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/26 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Does masturbating cause muscle loss.Another example then? In video games, attractive female characters are a battlefield right now, with a lot of female character being uglified (which is especially visible in successive games of the same franchise, i.e. SpiderMan, Horizon, etc...). And I mean, if a developer studio want an average woman as their main character, they absolutely can, but there is a huge gaslighting surrounding this whole issue where gamers noting the visible decrease in attractivrness of female characters being tol… | /r/MensRights | 19/03/26 10:29 AM |
| 10 | Does masturbating cause muscle loss.Maybe not in this exact choice of words, but buying a dildo is considered empowering for women. Buying a fleshlight? For very long men buying sextoys have been described as creepy losers. | /r/MensRights | 19/03/26 06:12 AM |
| 35 | This one is fantastic in its own right...So, appare tly, the reason women are physically weaker than men is because men in the past systemically only raped 12 year old girls. Let alone the fact that women do be the sexual selectors in our species, and the truth is more akin to men being stronger because women exclusively mated with strong men... This isn't how genetics work. Like, at all. It's like saying that if I fuck my wife when she dyes her hair blond, and we she becomes pregnant, our kids will have blond hair. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 18/03/26 07:31 AM |
| 7 | “There are no decent men”How's that "good men exist, they just usually aren't the ones being successful" is not an incel argument. And overall, it's mainly due to good men not wanting to bother women, so them restraining themselves from flirting, while bad men don't care and just go for what they want. (Btw, I'm not saying all men that are comfortable flirting are bad men, or that all men who are uncomfortable are good men. But A LOT of men tend to not approach women because they want them to not feel bothered, and a ma… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 16/03/26 01:58 PM |
| 10 | The Male Abortion: The Putative Father 's Right to Terminate His Interests In and Obligations to the Unborn ChildExactly. If a woman knows that she can't force the father to help financially sustain her kid, she'd be forced to be much more prudent and intelligent about the way she approaches sex. This only has net positives, but gets caught by the "societal misoginy filter", because anything that somehow restricts women is apparently bad. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/03/26 10:46 AM |
| 22 | The Male Abortion: The Putative Father 's Right to Terminate His Interests In and Obligations to the Unborn ChildI absolutely hate the counter-argument given each time, "when men get pregnant, they can abort too" Closely followed by "when the child is born, it's their need that come before both father's and mother's needs" It's so disingenuous, and obviously anti-men... Also, I may be wrong, but if a man could opt out, that would reduce paternity fraud to ashes. But it would require women to take responsibility in their sexual freedom, and ultimately, better chose whomst they reproduce with. And I feel tha… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/03/26 07:30 AM |
| 26 | “There are no decent men”You know, I'd feel for them. But I've seen the worst manhood has to offer be swamped in pussy, and the best it has to offer be dying of thirst in the meanwhile... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 15/03/26 09:00 PM |
| 5 | NPR podcasters call 2026 the "year of pathetic men." How can we get these organizations to see this is wrong?I often reflect that most feminist "activism" is basically societally authorized bullying. Incel-shaming or male body -shaming is rampant for example, and when you look at it, it's basically just someone virtue signaling by punching people they perceive as "priviledged" without a shred of empathy or understanding. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/03/26 07:55 AM |
| 31 | The Pressure to Be "Interesting"So in the same vein, we often hear about the "pressure to be physically attractive" women face. Would you be comfortable telling women "you can live as ugly as you want to live, just don't be bitter or resentful when no one wants to have sex with you"? Also, what good does it make to be dismissive of real concerns? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/03/26 06:16 PM |
| 86 | The Pressure to Be "Interesting"Yeah, I definitely see a lot of women qualify men (at least men they don't want to date) as boring, but they never expand on what "boring" and "interesting" might be. Sale shit as the "just work on your personality bro" crowd, but nobody defines what is wrong with the guy's personality, or even what a personality even is. There definitely is a lot of pressure on men. To be interesting. To be funny. To be entertaining. To be sexually performant. And associated with this comes a lot of anxiety to … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/03/26 04:35 PM |
| 9 | Why Is Society So Comfortable Mocking Sexually Unsuccessful Men?I don't know. I still thunk women have it easier. One of the most ugly women I've ever known - and abrasive, and mean as fuck to top that - was happily married. My own wife - while not unattractive, she is not a top model either - is wildly shy and socially anxious (like severely so) and it didn't prevent her from having around 30 partners (both purely sexual or romantic) before meeting me. This is something most men will never have happen to them. A shy man will be lucky to have 1 or 2 partners… | /r/MensRights | 09/03/26 07:39 AM |
| 11 | Why Is Society So Comfortable Mocking Sexually Unsuccessful Men?Yup, sums it up nicely. Society yas, since times immemorial, deemed women to be the arbiters of men's value. That if a woman accepts to have sex with a man, then this man has proven his value to society. This also shows up in women mate selection process, wherein preselection plays an important role (and for young men, popularity steps in as preselection). So yeah, virgin men, single men, are being mocked because we innately perceive their lack of success as a moral failure. How many times have … | /r/MensRights | 09/03/26 07:04 AM |
| 3 | Feminism functions as a massive Motte and BaileyThere's a reason people have been talking about the "church of feminism" for quite some time now. It's an ideology, and as with all ideologies, it is blind when it comes to its core tenets, and perceive every criticism as an attack. But let's be humble here, we're all vulnerable to becomine ideologically driven. The main difference is that feminism kinda looks like the main state religion in the western world lately. Refuting and/or opposing it publically is social suicide, doubting its claim ma… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/03/26 10:12 AM |
| 10 | Women prefer meaningful work to well paidI think what is meant by that is purposeful, not meaningful. As in, congruent with one's purpose in life. Most people don't really want to work a garbage truck or the sewers (no shade on people who do this, and/or who live this. I respect the heck out of them). | /r/MensRights | 04/03/26 08:24 AM |
| 86 | Male victimization rates of IPV are far higher than people thinkYup. To be clear, my heart goes out to female victims of IPV, this is a horrible thing to go through. BUT, the insistance of feminism that it is an uniquely female victimization with only male perpetrators is infuriating. And it's being paraded everywhere as a talking point. Women are the unique victims of violence. Men are the unique perpetrators of said violence. And everyone online acts as if that was an universal truth. It's dehumanizing honestly. And a great violence against all victims of … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/03/26 07:27 AM |
| 3 | I don’t even have a title for this one what the hellYeah, that's why I can't get behind people saying sex is just a bodily function. If that was the case, rape would not be worse than any other kind of physical assault. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/26 07:08 AM |
| 6 | Debunking a survey shared on Psychology Today, claiming that 82% of women supposedly state they experience "creepy" behaviours?It's simple. Majority of men don't approach women because they're hyper-scrupulous, and are afraid of making them uncomfortable. Bad men don't care if they make women uncomfortable, they want what they want, so they go for it. As a result, women interact with many more bad men with creepy attitude, that they do with good men. That's why. Basically, by only complaining, and never offering solutions (be it genuine invitations to approach, or by approaching themselves), women have selected a huge c… | /r/MensRights | 02/03/26 07:17 AM |
| 23 | Not inherently true. Pure sexism.I mean, yeah, the worst person I know is a man. But : 1 - one man is not representative of all men 2 - this man seems to have no problem with getting women. He's a violent, schizophrenic drug-addict who doesn't work, doesn't even understand the concept of personal hygiene, and makes everyone's life impossible, and yet he has a different woman at his apartment (that he is illegally squatting in) every week, and 3 baby mommas.... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/03/26 10:52 PM |
| 9 | Mom abandons family.Dad gets the blame.My mom was an alcoholic abusive asshole who made my whole life a living hell until her death. 10 years later and I still have no self-confidence nor self-esteem because of how thoroughly she destroyed it. 4 or 5 times when I told what happened to me, people initially believed it was my father who was being abusive he was a victim too, even more so than me), and that I mispoke. When I correctes them that no no, it was my mother, 2 of them told me "you must have made something to make her angry, w… | /r/MensRights | 01/03/26 06:24 PM |
| 5 | Father and daughter mistakenly caught up in human trafficking investigation: fathers can't go out with their daughters in public.Men with kids will always be looked at with suspicion. Hell, my father brought our son to the playground once when me and my wife both were swamped with work, and 10 minutes in a Karen called the cops on him... | /r/MensRights | 28/02/26 08:57 AM |
| 43 | “You should be happy your girlfriend hates your demographic.”I know a feminist woman. She is a nice woman by all means, but also very active on feminist associations and stuff like that. She married a guy that is the definition of a macho man, who let her take care of the house and the kids while he goes out drinking. In fact, I don't know a single feminist woman who isn't attracted to the same stereotypes of manly, burly macho men who don't do their share of the housework... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/02/26 07:57 AM |
| 10 | Why do so many think this way when boys are abused by women?Because the defaulr state for men is not being desired. It's having to work, and face rejection, to get a woman to want to have sex with you. So people see boys (and men honestly) who have had women literally force them into sex? It just doesn't compute. It registers as "I wish a woman was so attracted to me she would fuck me without me even asking for it". | /r/MensRights | 23/02/26 07:15 AM |
| 5 | Women more likely to be perpetrators of abuse as well as victimsI commend you for acknowledging it without entrenching in ideological bias. That's rare enough on both side of this argument to be noted. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/26 09:51 AM |
| 38 | Women more likely to be perpetrators of abuse as well as victimsMen do not want to hate women. But men are tired of the perception that only men can be agressors and women are always innocent victims. Because this perception (or should I say ideology, because it absolutely is an ideological bias) influences every aspect of life and politics, and pushes us in a downspiral of self-fulfilling prophecy. Men are seen as agressors, therefore men are punished more harshly than women, therefore men make up the majority of prisoners, therefore men are seen as more da… | /r/MensRights | 14/02/26 08:46 AM |
| 43 | Minnesota Woman Allegedly Kills Boyfriend After He Denied Her SexYou know, after being told time and time again shit like "men fear getting their feeling hurt, women fear getting killed" over and over again, like men are absolute monsters no one in their right mind should interact with, and wolen are these innocent little victims who can do no wrong? It's vindicating having proof this is bullshit. It's a step toward recognizing that women can be (and are) as able of being absolute monster as men are. And this one point here is the keystone which holds the ent… | /r/MensRights | 14/02/26 07:12 AM |
| 6 | Girl gets arrested for masturbating in public, comments are defending herOh yeah absolutely 100%. I'm just pointing out that they wouldn't extend this grace if the shoe was on the other foot. If a man did this, they'd 100% ask for his immediate arrestation and inscription on the sex offender registry. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 12/02/26 10:19 AM |
| 62 | Girl gets arrested for masturbating in public, comments are defending herIf they have moral consistency and decide that men masturbating in public is ok, it's one thing. But I'm like 99% sure if the gender were swapped they would say how damaging it is for the kids and how men are disgusting pigs... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 11/02/26 08:18 AM |
| 93 | Study of 35,000 adults finds people care significantly less about men than women in the workplace and educationWomen are wonderful effect combined with in/out-group bias. This explains so much about why feminism is so potent and MRAs are so lambasted. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/02/26 07:34 AM |
| 2 | In Turkey, if a parent passes away, daughters get "Survivor Benefits" from the passed parent's pensions until she's married (no deadline). Sons only get it til they're 18, or 25 if they go to higher education.So she basically can decide on a life long relationship without being married and get this pensoon until end of life? If she gets kid and she has a daughter, does the daughter then benefits from the same pension? | /r/MensRights | 05/02/26 07:04 AM |
| 7 | Twitter never fails to amaze meBut hey, at least, men are only scare to get their ego hurt, unlike wolen who are scared of being murdered, right? RIGHT? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 05/02/26 06:56 AM |
| 3 | Woman cheats on husband, then when guy tells husband about affair, she shoots them both.Not even normal sugar. HFCS! | /r/MensRights | 04/02/26 08:51 AM |
| 12 | Woman cheats on husband, then when guy tells husband about affair, she shoots them both.Well, of course not, she didn't cheat. He just didn't meet her sexual and emotionnal needs* so she had to outsource it. And she didn't kill them, she cas cleaning her husband's gun collection (what a violent man he is) and unfortunately there were still 2 bullets left in the chamber and they happened to be right in front of the gun's barrel when it unfortunately shoot. It's a tragedy that could have been entirely avoided if the husband wasn't such a terrible person honestly. *On that note, I thi… | /r/MensRights | 04/02/26 08:50 AM |
| 20 | How to Fix an Incel (Unpaywalled)Dude, thank you for writing this. I never frequented incels forums, but yeah, I too suffered from this inability to get women (still do honestly, despite being married). And yeah, that's the word. Every single one of these articles made me feel lonelier and lonelier. Like, the idea that would germinate in my mind from reading these articles was "nobody gets it, and dating is normal for everyone except for me. I'm an abnormality, therefore I can't find a date, therefore I suck, rinse and repeat."… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/02/26 07:29 AM |
| 24 | This is why I feel like we will never be equalI just saw a post on the french equivalent of "AskMen". A dude that was battered by his wife. He called the cops, he had black eye, hematomas, scratch marks. She had nothing. They took her to the station, he spent 20 hours in a cell. In his deposition he described having been beaten and scratched. His own wife admits to having beaten him and scratches him. The coroner examined him and declared he was beaten. The dude was charged with battery, and has been sentenced to follow a formation to refor… | /r/MensRights | 03/02/26 10:45 PM |
| 74 | The claim that "if you want equal rights then you are a feminist" is wrong and the actual word is egalitarianism.That's because these people work on a binary worldview. Women are absolutely oppressed and disadvantaged, men are absolutely oppressors and priviledged. There is no nuance, there is no single domain of life where in any woman has any kind of advantage. Therefore, they believe that equal rights only means lifting women up to where men are. That's also why any male issue is immediately swept under the rug as "caused by men themselves". Which, you'll agree, is a pretty fucking convenient point of v… | /r/MensRights | 31/01/26 11:48 AM |
| 5 | I don't understand this i really try being open mindedYeah, no, feels petty. BUT "mine is in hell, otherwise I wouldn't have approached you, so about same I guess?" works just fine for me. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 29/01/26 05:43 PM |
| 50 | Men parentingWomen don't know how to parent. They just access every single desire and tantrum of their kids to be seen as the better parent. See, I can do it too. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 23/01/26 03:04 PM |
| 14 | Demonising male sexualityIt's been going for decades if not centuries. It's just that easy communication (since the tv) made it much more easier to propagate than beforehand. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 16/01/26 03:15 PM |
| 33 | Feminist's complete lack of empathy for intactivism is very offputting.If a woman was abused by a man she is justified in saying stuff like #KillAllMen or "All men are trash" and "I hate men". If a man is abused by a woman, somehow he isn't even justified to say "I hate this one woman". I've seen men talking about their abuse be met with variations of "it's not her fault", "she must have had her reasons" or "what did you do to make her this way?" (This one stings because my mother abused me and I got told this). | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/01/26 07:41 AM |
| 17 | Curious to hear from trans men about misandryThis is such a complex issue. The main problem isn't that. The main problem is the need to pay lip servicr whenever talking about something affecting men so as to not anger the holy church of feminism. "I feelk like people see me as a monster for being a man" shouldn't have to automatically come with a "of course they're right to believe so" disclaimer. And I'm always iffy about that idea that women have to be guarded more than men. If anything, DV numbers show men are more likely to be the init… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/01/26 04:44 PM |
| 14 | Curious to hear from trans men about misandry"The misconception some women have that living as a man is 100% better is simply not true today; it’s a trade-off. At least in my experience. It’s not all bad, there are obviously perks as well. But the social aspect is not one of them." I'm not sure it ever was 100% better. It always was kind of a trade off. The male peasant in western Europe during medieval times was not really better off than his wife. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/01/26 11:52 AM |
| 34 | Curious to hear from trans men about misandryI remember reading it back then, and yeah, it's a scathing criticism of progressive mindset and it was a good and thought provoking read. There is but one thing. In the comment there's a woman saying "whatever you say, I feel like I have a right to mock and deride men because they are awful". Which is kinda expected. What is infuriating is the response she got (not from the author of the article but other commenters). Something akin to "of course you have a right and are justified in saying that… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/01/26 10:25 AM |
| 56 | Curious to hear from trans men about misandryWhat's funny is that the only kind of testimony we hear about in social medias are trans men that still find a way to put the blame on men. Like that video of that one trans man crying on camera, but still inserting "women are guarded against men, but that's still completely valid" while complaining about the overbearing feeling of loneliness. Or that one trans man who wrote a rant and found a way to put the blame on "white imperialism"... But the ones who say "it was a lie all along" are not se… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/01/26 06:51 AM |
| 53 | Why is it so frowned upon for a man to have boundaries in a relationship, and even if he has them he’s scrutinized and forced to justify them?To be fair, a lot of comments were in support of the dude. But those that weren't were nauseating. | /r/MensRights | 09/01/26 03:36 PM |
| 428 | Why is it so frowned upon for a man to have boundaries in a relationship, and even if he has them he’s scrutinized and forced to justify them?"My boyfriend goes down on me all the time, but I'm not comfortable with going down on him, yet he pressures me because I sucked my ex boyfriend's dick despit not wanting to". I'm sure the comments would absolutely be 100% against the dude in this situation. Seems to me that as a man, you can eother be wrong, or you can not be right... | /r/MensRights | 09/01/26 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Can’t Believe Anyone Is on the Girlfriend’s Side (Part 2)The dude is there to work, he informed her he wouldn't have time for her at all, he gets up at 6 every morning and does 12 hours shifts. Maybe he was a bit abrasive, but I get it. If you tell your SO "for 3 days I will be so deep in my work don't count one" I'd like for her to respect that. Doesn't mean I don't love her... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 09/01/26 03:18 PM |
| 17 | Can’t Believe Anyone Is on the Girlfriend’s Side (Part 2)Exactly. The first comment would be "you set boundaries and made it clear it was a work trip and you wouldn't have time for him. And still he tried at every turn to make you care for him? Even to the point of trying to get you to have sex with you? He's a selfish asshole, bordering on rapist, you better run sis". | /r/EverydayMisandry | 07/01/26 11:20 PM |
| 27 | Can’t Believe Anyone Is on the Girlfriend’s Side (Part 2)Because the Women are wonderful effect is still a thing. And a dude will always be seen as the guilty party in any situation. r/aitah is proof enough of this, it's incredibly biased against men. Hell, I have been abused by my mother since I was 8, and when I talked about it, some people (especially women) foind a day to tell me it was somehow my fault if I was abused. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 07/01/26 11:17 PM |
| 56 | Is there proof that women are more empathic besides study that used empathy tests or pictures of sad peopleIt depends. Some women are empathetic, sometimes almost pathologically so. For a lot of others, it's performative empathy. Kind of a form of virtue signaling. Imho this is borne out of the idea thay women are more empathetic, forcing these women to visibly conform, when within themselves they don't care. Sometimes it's almost ridiculous it looks like theater. But no, on average I don't believe women are more empathetic than men are. But as I said, they are primed by society to express how empath… | /r/MensRights | 04/01/26 09:37 AM |
| 11 | The "If men got pregnant, you could get an abortion at an ATM" phraseAnd, I mean, I get that. How the hell are you supposed to determine when it's alive and not a clump of cells anymore? Pro-lifers take the stance that at conception it already is a life so abortion is murder. I completely get that. I still believe that no children should have to be born from parents who don't desire them, that's why I support abortion rights. But it's impossible to scientifically prove that a 2 week foetus is not alive, and thus abortion isn't murder. Especially when you have rel… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/01/26 11:51 AM |
| 3 | The "If men got pregnant, you could get an abortion at an ATM" phraseIf men could get pregnant they'd be women and the roles would be reversed... But hypothetically, if men could ALSO be pregnant? Yeah, we'd absolutely be forced to carry any pregnany to term, the idea of an abortion wouldn't even be muttered... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/01/26 11:20 AM |
| 7 | Is the virgin shaming of men more to do with a man actually being a virgin or is it more to do with a man fitting stereotypically "nerdy" stereotypes?I am everyday reminded that the absolute worst male human beings I know have absolutely no problem finding women to fuck. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/25 09:00 AM |
| 9 | Is the virgin shaming of men more to do with a man actually being a virgin or is it more to do with a man fitting stereotypically "nerdy" stereotypes?Virgin shaming has nothing to do with sex. A man who had sex with 50 women but every single one of them was a sex-worker is going to be mocked relentlessly. The point is mocking men who weren't able to be accepted by a woman. It's basically holding women as the moral arbiter of manhood, and of the value of a man, and saying "see, no women found you worthy, so you are worthless". | /r/MensRights | 31/12/25 08:56 AM |
| 3 | A Shame Seeing This in a Sub That Claims to Be Wholesome (and That I’ve Enjoyed Posting In)I think a good way to argument against this would be by saying "if you're a parent and someone invites your kid to a sleepover, you would judge if the person holding that sleepover is trustworthy, or on the contrary if your kid is going to be in a bad situation, with maybe abusive people, or with drugs and alcohol. You wouldn't let your kid at a sleepover in a crackhouse. Are your kids your property because you decide if they can go?" | /r/EverydayMisandry | 26/12/25 09:26 AM |
| 55 | A Shame Seeing This in a Sub That Claims to Be Wholesome (and That I’ve Enjoyed Posting In)The whole idea that you had to ask her father's permission because she was "his property" is just weird as fuck. In society, women were the people that were being protected. Asking her father for permission was asking her father if he judged you worthy of her, and would entrust her wellbeing to you. It's paternalistic as shit, yes, but it had nothing to do with her being his property or I don't know what other delusion is going to pop in their mind. And seeing how many single mothers there are t… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 24/12/25 09:40 PM |
| 75 | Researchers find reverse sexual double standard in sextech use.Slut shaming is nor a condemnation of female sexuality. It's a condemnation of sexuality with men. Lesbians sluts are nowhere as shamed as straight sluts. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/25 11:33 AM |
| 37 | Sexual Stamina (Mods please give it a read before banning)I tend to agree. Especially when you take into account that quick ejaculation is kinda the biological norm, and delaying ejaculation is a process. A process in which it can lead to the dude basically losing excitation and the capacity to orgasm. I am such an example. I am able to delay my orgasm. But if I do so there is an almost guarantee I won't be able to reach it at all. Which sucks. I get that sex is a two-way street, and yeah, every couple need to communicate and find ways to make it work … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 19/12/25 10:55 AM |
| 83 | Anyone ever notice that women never get stereotyped as lazy or unsuccessful the way men do?Loser is a definitely male oriented insult. I've known women who were by far worse people, and less successful in almost every domain than everybody else, and they never were called losers. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/25 07:49 AM |
| 2 | You've heard of the "pink tax". I now present to you the "blue hole" - where certain product categories for men have fewer options, less features and are generally neglectedAnd a store clerk in a clothing shop had the gall to tell me she didn't think that, in general, men have less choices for clothing... | /r/MensRights | 15/12/25 07:09 AM |
| 11 | Abused by momWhat happens forward is that you can't go back. Abusers will make you believe they changed, but they fall back in abusive schemes really fast. If you can stay at your nan's for until you are old enough to get your own apartment, that would be ideal. Alsl it sucks your family doesn't believe you. | /r/MensRights | 07/12/25 08:26 AM |
| 11 | Abused by momThat's heartwrenching. You really need to leave ASAP, this is incredibly toxic, and it will leave long lasting traumas. Do you have friends you can ask for help? I know it's going to be hard because it's your mom abusing you and not your dad, and people will have a harder time believing you on this. But I hope you'll succees in getting free. | /r/MensRights | 07/12/25 08:18 AM |
| 32 | Women, like men, show an aversion to potential partners with “high body counts”.Yeah, but you know, we can't let facts get in the way of such a useful narrative as "men are the judgmental jerks, while women are all-accepting angels of grace and understanding" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/12/25 08:10 PM |
| 18 | UK: Male model David Gandy roasts Peppa Pig's father Daddy Pig for promoting a 'bad narrative' about menI have seen the show when my son was about 2 or 3. The dad is an absolute slob, he is mocked and ridiculed at every single episode. The mother is able to climb Mount Everest and pilot a helicopter without any prior training. Yeah, it gives a bad image of the dad, and by extensions of all male role models. I would get mad if the show portrayed the mother as a dumb blond bitch who did not know how to do anything, but such is not the case... | /r/MensRights | 30/11/25 10:50 PM |
| 51 | UK: Male model David Gandy roasts Peppa Pig's father Daddy Pig for promoting a 'bad narrative' about menYou could be sure if Mamma Pif was a useless slob and some actress criticized it for being a bad role model for girls, they'd all be cheering. | /r/MensRights | 30/11/25 10:47 PM |
| 21 | Fucking GrossOh believe me I know. Still, that "falling" is a ick for some women is... weird. Liie, everybody trips sometimes. Rejecting someone for that is basically saying you need your date to be perfect, never make a mistake. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 29/11/25 08:47 AM |
| 55 | Fucking GrossNo joke, I met a girl, we hit it off, and she invited me for the week end. We took the tram, and at some point I was unbalanced with no way to reach a handke because it was full of people, there was a sudden brake and I fell of. She broke up because she told me it disgusted her... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/11/25 11:48 PM |
| 15 | Classic Kafka TrapI mean, all muslims are trash. And the few good ones won't be offended by this statement because they understand it's not about them. Right? RIGHT? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/11/25 08:13 AM |
| 10 | Male sexuality is demonizedYup. This is why slut shaming exists. And I'm serious about it. Society sees male sexuality as bad an degrading. It sees female sexuality as beautiful, pure, and overall more important (just do a post about "My partner doesn't make me cum" as a man and as a woman, and look at the reactions it gets). Male sexuality is bestial, it's an invasion, basically. And the male body form is not the standard of beauty in society. That's the gist of it. So, if a woman gets sexual with a man, she is getting i… | /r/MensRights | 27/11/25 07:59 AM |
| 41 | “If women are behind on a metric, it’s recorded as inequality. If men are behind, it’s recorded as parity. You read that correctly: The index is explicitly designed so that men cannot be seen as disadvantaged, no matter how far behind they fall.”Well, it's simply because AIs are trained on human behaviour. So, in the end, the fact an AI favors women is proof of the existence of a hirikg bias toward women in all of society. All in all, I think that's an amazing tool for us to prove that men can be and are defavorises in society. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/11/25 07:58 AM |
| 76 | This was just so heart breaking and unfortunate to seeKinda repinds me of what Cassie Jaye experienced after releasing "The Red Pill". It's crazy, she was the poster child for feminism, released multiple movies pertaining to subjects around feminism. Then decided to release a movie where she talks about what men experience and got treated like shit. Or Laci Green. Same poster child. Decided she'd reach out to the other side, and after doing it recognized she had biases and that the other side made good points she hadn't considered. In the process f… | /r/MensRights | 16/11/25 08:09 AM |
| 5 | Double standards in gendered aesthetics and self expression, why is manliness not seen as a valid as a superficial aesthetic like girliness is?Because masculinity is more restrictive. If femininity was seen as bad, women would be shamed for wearing girly clothes, and it just doesn't happen. Sure, people can say "ohh, that's too revealing" or stuff like that, but not "oh, you're wearing a dress, weird". Men are shamed for going out of thz restrictive framework that is masculinity. In a way or another. Too feminine is bad, too masculine too. Because it's a self-expression that's out of bounds in a sort. You can see it whenever you visit … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/11/25 06:47 AM |
| 20 | I'm so tired of Vaush's take on male lonelinessIt doesn't per se, but as soon as your ideology is based upon the idea that men as a whole group are prviliedged, and oppressors, and women as a group are dispriviledged and oppressed, you close yourself to seeing the truth of the experience of both genders. Not saying it's your case, but the feminist movement in general (especially in this period of time) have this rigid frame of reference when it comes to all of this shebang. The truth is, men, just as women, suffer specific struggles. And bel… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/11/25 07:07 AM |
| 22 | Double standards in gendered aesthetics and self expression, why is manliness not seen as a valid as a superficial aesthetic like girliness is?That's a very thoughtful reflexion. My understanding has always been that masculinity was always a more rigid and restrictive framework of gender expression than femininity was. That's why a tomboy is not going to be shamed, but an effeminate dude will be. It has nothing to do with "femininity being seen as lesser", it's the fact that men have to conform to much more rigid norms in terms of both physicality and style expression. Our current representation of masculinity is basically a tall, lean… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/11/25 05:58 PM |
| 16 | "Men perceive kindness from women as flirting because they would never be kind to a woman they aren't attracted to" - A common complaint by people who refuse to look beyond their own experiences...because in many cases, it's actually the opposite.There's also the fact that when you're deprived of food, even leftovers in a garbage bin look like 3 star meals... well, that's kinda your point anyway. Oh, and also that some women do flirt by being nice. Oh and also the fact that what a lot of women consider flirting is a quick side glance, and for most men that is completely invisible, while obvious kindness isn't. But no, it must be that men are asshole... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 05/11/25 07:18 AM |
| 77 | I am convinced that many women want to protect their role as the main parent to their childrenWhen my son was born, my MiL tried very very hard to convince my wife that a man shouldn't be too involved in their kids lives, and that she really should come live with her like amazons, and raise our son in an entirely female environment... she also tried very hard to convince her that she should be the one in the delivery room with her, and not me. And it reminds me of my grandfather's village in Italy wherein when a woman was about the go into labour, the women of the village would descend u… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/11/25 07:38 AM |
| 11 | “Men only view women as objects” is false and missing the point.Let's put it that way. Looks is a foot on the door for a lot of man. It opens the possibility of sex and relationships. But personnality make or break attraction. I've seen objectively beautiful women I wouldn't touch with a vault pole because they are obnoxious. On the inverse, there were women who I thought weren't attractive, yet saw them get more beautiful by the minute (in my eyes) as I talked to them and discovered them. There's a reason if you ask men which woman they'd choose between a h… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/11/25 07:47 AM |
| 31 | Wait—The Men's Rights Movement is WORKING??Yesterday, I consented for sex, but this morning I felt like I really didn't want it so I retrogradely revoke my consent. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/25 07:36 AM |
| 14 | "The violence against men & boys by many women - be it physical/verbal & emotional - is wrongfully and dangerously dismissed. People laugh or joke, when we should give attention and highlight abuse no matter whom."Yeah but, if we don't dismiss violence perpetrated by women against men and boys, we won't be able to claim that men are the sole violent assholes anymore. We can't have that. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/10/25 09:16 PM |
| 10 | Part 2 of People Refusing to Sympathize with a Male Abuse Victim Because His Wife Is PregnantYup. When my wife has her periods, yeah it impacts her mood, but never has she been abusive. She's a little more on edge, but that's all. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 22/10/25 06:24 AM |
| 5 | Terrible article spewing misandrist rubbishSomeone has been hurt before.... Thing is I'm pretty sure the overwhelming majority of men are not like that. Maybe she should look at who she's attracted to. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 17/10/25 06:05 AM |
| 14 | Self hating festIt's a shame because his whole point on social expectations being harmful is absolutely true. But he (and others) just had to sprinkle some "us men really suck as himan beings, righr?" on there... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 13/10/25 06:59 PM |
| 30 | Trans woman rapes man by deception. Redditors defend her and blame him.Yeah... To be fair, the idea that she "had to deceive to have sex with a heterosexual man" is weird, plenty of guys would happily fuck a transgender woman, even preop. But yeah, she a rapist, stop defending her... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 12/10/25 08:04 AM |
| 15 | Wall of text to justify misandryLetting women say #killallmen is honestly infantilizing toward women. I have had bad experiences with women in my life. I'm wary of them for that reason. You know what I say? "I have haf bad experiences with women in the past, so I'm wary of them when I meet them until I get to know them, but I'm working on it because I know my traumas are mine to work on and do not reflect on every women out there". The trauma is there, but I own the responsibility of fixing it, and I don't pin everything on ev… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 10/10/25 05:38 AM |
| 14 | Does feminist activism have a history of trying to get people fired?I remember a decade back when Anita Sarkeesian released her "Tropes vs Women" series, there waq a bunch of youtubers criticizing her work, bringing often valid points. And of course they were doxxed, and their employer contacted to try and get them fired. There was one prominent figure, can't remember her name though, cheering at the thought of a dude losing his job. She told something like "you're free to be a sexist and your employer is free to fire you once we tell them you're a sexist asshol… | /r/MensRights | 19/09/25 08:35 PM |
| 4 | Sister of boy, 17, who killed himself after being falsely accused of rape breaks down as she recalls the night he took his own life. OP: Of course the girl was not prosecuted.Nah it was even worse. They sent the daughter to the family in Algeria for the holidays and that's where he rapes her. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/25 09:27 PM |
| 15 | Sister of boy, 17, who killed himself after being falsely accused of rape breaks down as she recalls the night he took his own life. OP: Of course the girl was not prosecuted.There's also a lack of will toward granting a good defense for most accused men. I remember hearing a lawyer talking about the most fucked up thing he saw in his practice here in France. So he was defending a teacher. Said teacher had a young female student (about 13 if I recall correctly) who je saw being down after being back from the holidays. So after class he asked her to stay, and then asked her if everything was alright. He then touched her on the shoulder and told her "if you need to spe… | /r/MensRights | 16/09/25 08:59 PM |
| 72 | Woman Attacks Sleeping Boyfriend With Hatchet And Then Smiles For The Mugshot"He mUSt HaVE doNE SoMEthiNg To piSs HEr Off". I fucking guarantee it. But even if the cheated on her with her own mother or something, it doesn't warrant an axe to the head. If the roles were reversed everybody would say he's a piece of shit. Kinda mike when that women cut off her husband penis and the harpies on god remembers what TV show cheered... | /r/MensRights | 15/09/25 08:03 AM |
| 6 | More Nonsense on My “Men are trash” PostNah, I have seen on reddit men say almost word for word "I have had some traumatic experiences with women in the past so now I'm wary around women and out up a shield until I get to know them better" and be called assholes and incels. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 13/09/25 06:11 AM |
| 16 | More Nonsense on My “Men are trash” PostYou know, whenever someone points out that it's a hurtful generalization, there will always be someone saying "that's a reaction to traumatic experience, they are venting their bad experiences, if you feel attacked you're part of the problem". It's completely understandable to have some stigmas from previous bad experiences, and to be wary of people of a similar demographic as the one(s) you had said bad experience with. But the way it's frames put the locus of control outside. It frames women a… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 12/09/25 07:02 PM |
| 1 | It's brutally unfair but so many women refuse to date a man under 5ft 8in OP: More male hate.Nah, what I mean is that the fact he never had a girlfriend before wasn't because of his personality, as he is an awesome dude. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/25 05:29 AM |
| 79 | It's brutally unfair but so many women refuse to date a man under 5ft 8in OP: More male hate.What's even more infuriating is the gaslighting, whenever women and other dudes say "size is not that big of a deal, it's your personality if you don't find a gf bro". My cousin is an oncologist, a brilliant pianist, a motorcyclist, does trekking and rockclimbing pretty often. He is one of the warmest and kindest person I know. But he's like 1m65 (so I guess 5ft something in weird units). He married last summer, he was 37. He never had a girlfriend before, not for lack of trying. And it absolute… | /r/MensRights | 10/09/25 10:30 AM |
| 8 | "Straight men view women as objects and do not love them."You know, maybe I don't ninja the right subs, but I always hear that "incels are the hateful ones" yet I never see anything as unhinged as this on these subs. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 07/09/25 05:57 AM |
| 3 | Imagine If It Were the Other Way AroundHoly fucking shit this girl has problems. I dunno, I ask you for a playstation you buy me an xbox I say thank you and play tje xbox. And anyway I know my technical wants well enough that I don't ask for it as gifts. This guy did his best given the situation, the fact that some peoole call him an asshole is weird... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 05/09/25 09:45 AM |
| 27 | “I won’t donate my organs because I don’t want them saving a man.”Yeah that's unhinged. Replace man by any other qualifier and it becomes insanely hateful really quick. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/09/25 05:31 AM |
| 9 | God Forbid a Male Celebrity Have BoundariesMy wife used to be a big fan of Enrique Iglesias. I remember her showing me a show of his, and this wolan went up on stage and tried to forcefully kiss him. She was very gently (not ironic at all, like really gently) moved out of the stage by security and did not face any thing. I saw this and thought that if I, a man, were to go up on the stage and forcibly try to kiss a female performer, I'd be in jail... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 26/08/25 06:40 AM |
| 57 | Woman got cosmetic surgery and regrets it ? Men's faultBecause, you know, dudes face absolutely no pressure to look a certain way... at all... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 22/08/25 03:28 PM |
| 22 | Double standards in relationshipsI can already imagine the disgust if a 65 y.o dude said "I hooked up with one of my granddaughter's friends". Goes to show that we see female sexuality as good by default, and male sexuality as bad/predatory by default. People can say "no, male sexuality is celebrated" how many times they want to, doesn't change that fact. Hell, look at how male homosexuality is perceived compared with female homosexuality. One is seen as disgusting, the other as beautiful, full of butterflies and lavender scent… | /r/MensRights | 13/08/25 06:24 AM |
| 3 | Rome’s New Male Victims Support Center Attacked by Feminists and PoliticiansIt's ironic that not a week ago on reddit I was saying that feminists tended to protest male victims shelters and was told I was wrong and that no feminists would ever do that, and that men don't need shelters that's why there aren't any... | /r/MensRights | 31/07/25 06:01 AM |
| 3 | I posed the following question to ChatGPT: It is said that false accusations of rape are very rare and that they account for approximately 2 to 10% of all accusations. Do you think people would call it rare if 2 to 10% of women who report a rape were murdered2 to 10% of all accusations are PROVEN false. But in the same breath, these people will complain that only 5% of accusations lead to a conviction. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/25 06:42 PM |
| 9 | Misandric school system: Three teachers locked up a boy who became so starved, he began eating his own feces and drinking his urine, a criminal complaint alleges.Nah, that would be inhumane to let them starve. Serve them some excrement at the very least. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/25 04:46 PM |
| 15 | Misandric school system: Three teachers locked up a boy who became so starved, he began eating his own feces and drinking his urine, a criminal complaint alleges.Yeah, if it was a girl, it would be in the article title. At this point I'm pretty sure if they could keep it being gender ambiguous they would have done it.. That poor kid, it's horrifying. If I imagine my own son being subjected to this kind of horrific abuse, it makes me want to scream. | /r/MensRights | 10/07/25 04:45 PM |
| 23 | Apparently it's good to jail innocent manThis is... Honestly this is exceptionnally stupid. I don't know what event this refers to, but jailing one innocent man doesn't keep a dozen women safe. That man is innocent, he has done nothing, jailing him doesn't make anyone safe. In fact, it makes people even less safe, because the true culprit is still outside, still free to threaten women. And if all innocent men are jailed, then women will only ever interact with dangerous men, so jailing innocent men mathrmatically majes the world more d… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 03/07/25 06:34 AM |
| 3 | Back in 2008, childless single women aged 22-30 in the U.S. out-earned their male peers countrywide by 8%. They outearned or matched men in 47 of the 50 biggest cities, as much as 121% in big metro areas.I just discussed this week end with my karate teacher, whom lived in my street when I was a kid, and the conversation went toward his youngest son, still single. At some point he told me the last girl he tried to date refused him, because "if you're not earning thrice my salary, don't even bother"... Is it any wonder with such a mentality, and women out-earning men pretty much everywhere, that so many young men struggle to find romantic prospects? | /r/MensRights | 01/07/25 09:42 AM |
| 12 | No wordsWhat's funny is that there are hundreds of countries where guns are illegale to own, and yet men still dominate suicide statistics... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 23/06/25 06:56 PM |
| 164 | Serious: Why do you think people on reddit (and the real world) are so disgusted by the MensRights subreddit/movement?Because social media and leftist medias have made a great job conflating male rights advocacy with the most unsufferable assholes there are. I mean, whenever you bring up the feminists who killed men, advocated for global castration of male, worked to tailor the definition of rape and domestic violence to purposefully exclude men from ever being victims, you are met with a wall of "these aren't ream feminists" DESPITE these people self-describing as feminists. Yet, asswipes like Andrew Taint, Fr… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/25 06:50 AM |
| 40 | Why are men shamed for their sexuality while women are cheered for promiscuity and porn addiction?You know, as we are talking about sexual shaming, a thought came to me yesterday. Maybe I'm imagining things, but wasn't there an uptick recently on internet of shaming incels by describing their want for sexual intimacy as "getting their peepees wet"? If I'm right, in addition to a global demonization pf male sexuality, there's also an infantilization of it. Like, wanting sex is an immature want. Meanwhile, a woman not orgasming is her "not having her needs met". Society at large seems to depic… | /r/MensRights | 20/06/25 06:30 AM |
| 41 | "Radical Feminists" quip about the fact that male professors are supposedly rated "better" than female professors in student evaluations, without taking student outcomes into account.I just love that when men are ahead in something, that's because of sexism, misoginy, whatever, but when women are ahead in anything rhat's an expected state of affair because of their innate awesomeness... | /r/MensRights | 15/06/25 11:55 AM |
| 114 | The photo gapI remember a japanese movie, "The Asano Family" about a real-life photographer. Anyway, at some point during the 2011 earthquake/tsunami cpmbo, that guy went to Fukushima seeking to help, and decided to try and salvage whatever family photos he could find, so people could have photos of their lost family members. Then, a young girl came to try and find photos of her family and especially her dad who died, but couldn't. At some point he decides to help her make new family photos with her mother a… | /r/MensRights | 15/06/25 07:58 AM |
| 13 | What is your experience with the "Women are wonderful" effect? Have you noticed this in your work life?At Uni (architecture school), we did a project in small group, and I was paired with a girl. The typical party girl, spent her nights clubbing while I was working. I by no mean did everything, but yeah, when we presented the project, I did about 65% of the project, plus the whole cardboard model (imagine a 1 meter long/60cm high model). We present together, then she goes to see the jury and told them she did all the work. They didn't even heard me out, she got a 16/20 I got a 10/20. I only disco… | /r/MensRights | 13/06/25 08:34 AM |
| 76 | What do today’s men have to do with the men of the past?We really should get rid of that idea that men built the system. If anything, it's infantilizing to the generatilns of women that built society with the men. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 10/06/25 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Debunking The Myth That There's No Systemic Discrimination Against MenSee, I believe everything can be boiled down to the "Women are wonderful" effect. Every single issue men face is due to this innate perception of one gender as inherently more good and valuable as the other. And unfortunately it isn't going away. But that's why it's so irritating to hear that men aren't discriminated against when it's harder for men to find employment, housing, help, empathy, etc... for being a man. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/06/25 06:50 AM |
| 5 | It Is All Women Until It's No WomenWhen it comes to forced to penetrate, I seem to recall it has a near 80% female perpetrator rate. As for the 99%, literally all over Reddit or tweetzr for example... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/06/25 04:53 PM |
| 50 | "I don't hate men, I hate the patriarchy" What are some things you think of when you hear this statement from feminist?That it's alright, if I get to say I don't hate women, I hate feminism... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/06/25 05:44 PM |
| 14 | Say this to the plenty of straight women in happy relationships and the bisexual women who prefer men or are in a relationship with a manThat's fair. Every dude I know pretty much agree that it would be much easier being gay, so pretty much the same sentiment. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 29/05/25 07:12 AM |
| 7 | Contrary to popular beliefs. Society would say only incels make disgusting jokes like this.The "what was she wearing" remarks are appaling, but at the same time when a man is victim of domestic violence from his wife, most people will retort some version of "he must have done something to piss her off". When a man is raped by a woman, the "if he had an erection he was consenting" crowd comes out in full swing. And if it's a kid raped by his female teacher, oh boy is he lucky! Victim blaming isn't limited to women... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 25/05/25 05:24 PM |
| 60 | How tf?Remember, when something bad happens to women, it's oppression. When something good happens to women, it's also oppression. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 25/05/25 06:32 AM |
| 13 | Reactions to Corbie Jean Walpole burning a man alive for a sexist comment.Reminds me of that time a dude in Afghanistan threw acid in a woman's face and it burned her entire face. Oh how we laughed and cheered for that guy... Said no one ever. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/25 04:54 PM |
| 49 | Contrary to popular beliefs. Society would say only incels make disgusting jokes like this.To be fair, jokes bout dudes beating their girlfriends do be existing. Stuff like "what do you say to a woman with two black eyes? Nothing, you already told her twice". The difference is, most men, even those who make these jokes, would not be like "you go king" under an article speaking of a woman being violented. Most men would condemn the piece of shit who did it, and peopl defending it would be lambasted. What we see here is not a joke. It's a celebration, and that's worrisome to say the lea… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 23/05/25 07:05 AM |
| 45 | It Is All Women Until It's No WomenHoly mother of long read! Thanks for this post, it's eye-opening. I don't have much to say about this, except the numbers are worst than I previously imagined. Like, 40% of 71% of respondents were forced to penetrate? That's 1/3 of all men who were interrogated. That's staggering. And yet, not a day passes where I don't see someone on reddit throw up that "99% of rapes are committed by males" stat which is do neatly paraded by feminist as the ultimate proof that men are sexual deviants by nature… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/05/25 06:30 AM |
| 49 | In response to a female cop breaking into her ex-boyfriends house and attacking him and his new gfHoly fucking shit. I always heard that if a girl breaks up with a guy, and the guy is emotionnally hurt because the very next day she is getting railed by 3 different guys, it's his problem, and that she owes him nothing. And now, if the guy breaks up, somehow expecting the ex NOT to break in his apartment and physically assault him is somehow misogynistic? I wonder if that commenter would have said the same thing if the roles were reversed? Would they justify a giy breaking in his ex-gf apartme… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 12/05/25 11:33 AM |
| 24 | This Is Psychological Abuse and Manipulation to Be ClearI thought men were supposed to be the insecure ones? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 09/05/25 06:33 AM |
| 142 | Accused of sexual assault at age seven – now Adam, 13, has been allowed to move home (In Swedish, translation in comments)Holy shit that woman is evil. Poor kids and poor dad... | /r/MensRights | 07/05/25 05:56 AM |
| 13 | every single dayAt least it acknowledges it's a constant feedback loop | /r/EverydayMisandry | 03/05/25 09:42 PM |
| 7 | Always with the excusesMost men don't become mothers because motherhood is designed around what the average women is fit to do... Hey, look at that, it's as braindead as the OP and it still works... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 02/05/25 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Apperently being in a crappy relationship gives people the right to judge a whole gender's ability to loveI'll be honest, 10 years and a half there and I don't know ly wifr's favorite color or food. To my defense, she doesn't even really know herself | /r/EverydayMisandry | 30/04/25 07:43 AM |
| 3 | Young men don't "celebrate" Andrew TateMy son was home for his first almost 3 years of life. We decided we wouldn't send him to a day care or a babysitter. We also decided we wouldn't try to influence him, so we bought him both toy car and dolls to play with, and did not tell him that one was for boys and the other for girls. I think he played maybe twice with the dolls, he was immediately drawn to the cars and other "boy toys". So that more or less confirmed it's pretty much a gendered preference for young kids... So yeah, boys and … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 27/04/25 05:51 AM |
| 2 | Young men don't "celebrate" Andrew TateAndrew Taint is stain on mankind and he should a solutely get anything that's coming toward him. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 27/04/25 05:45 AM |
| 8 | Dating Coach and Other Women Encouraging Gold DiggingEspecially when you take into account the fact that it can take up to 20-30 first dates to find someone you really click with. And it's on men to finance these dates. So if you go for the restaurant option, and choose a noce restaurant (like 100€ per person), that can be up to 6000€ or (or dollars or whatever) spent on first dates... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 25/04/25 05:19 PM |
| 27 | Male privilege does exist. But it's weak, and need other privileges in order to work.On the whole "male domination" and "patriarchy" thing, a simple retort : if tomorrow, women decided as a population to stop dating the hyper-successful and hyper masculine men, the entire hierarchy of our society would topple in a year. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/25 06:57 PM |
| -6 | Women who say men made religion to oppress womenI mean, it's not wrong. It was made to oppress everyone, not specifically women, but the result is there, religion oppresses women. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/25 07:04 PM |
| 49 | Rape accusations chartYeah. The thing is, about 10% of accusations are proven false. About the same might be proven true. That means 80% are in a limbo where it's impossible to prove them true or false. Feminists will use this to say that it means 90% are true. Morons on our side will use it to say it means 90% are false. But truth is, it's somewhere in the middle. Still, even then 10% of false accusations before a tribunal is harrowing and should be taken seriously, just as 10% of rape accusations being true is alre… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 13/04/25 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Losers and Loserettes - Why being called a loser cuts deeper for men, how the label evolved, and why it rarely gets tossed at women (plus, what makes a man an actual loser)I agree that the term loser is an ugly insult, and I hate it. It's another way of saying "man up", it's putting a man on a hierarchical scale that shouldn't exist. It puts a lot of pressure and is overall horrible for men's mental health. Hell, I've known men who were absolutely toxic, lives ruines by bad choices, but loser is a word I would never apply to them, because it feels... final. It's a judgment on the whole character of that person... I'm a bit hazy with my thoughts, but I have to agre… | /r/MensRights | 07/04/25 07:02 AM |
| 16 | Losers and Loserettes - Why being called a loser cuts deeper for men, how the label evolved, and why it rarely gets tossed at women (plus, what makes a man an actual loser)I agree that the term loser is an ugly insult, and I hate it. It's another way of saying "man up", it's putting a man on a hierarchical scale that shouldn't exist. It puts a lot of pressure and is overall horrible for men's mental health. Hell, I've known men who were absolutely toxic, lives ruines by bad choices, but loser is a word I would never apply to them, because it feels... final. It's a judgment on the whole character of that person... I'm a bit hazy with my thoughts, but I have to agre… | /r/MensRights | 07/04/25 07:02 AM |
| 18 | HypocrisyIs it me, or do women kinda.... gatekeep rape? Not that I blame them, it's such a neat tool. It's almost universally perceived as the worst crime to suffer (some even consider it worst than being murdered), so the opening of it to male victims of female perpetrators is the loss of a uge strategic advantage. It's just sad that they only seem it to perceive as such, with no real care for victims... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 05/04/25 07:01 AM |
| 2 | What about the recent cases of medical schools in Japan discriminating against female applicants being utilised by "Feminists" as evidence of the supposed "Patriarchy"?Wall of text? That much? You might have read that I likened what Japan decided to do to the draft because it's the same thing in the end. And just as the draft is abhorrent, this decision is. The fact that it's grounded in some biological facts (women bearing kids and not being available to practice medicine in one case, and the fact that men are stronger than women, and ultimately less essential for the species' survival in the other one) explains said decision, but we agree it's horrific. But … | /r/MensRights | 30/03/25 02:43 PM |
| 5 | What about the recent cases of medical schools in Japan discriminating against female applicants being utilised by "Feminists" as evidence of the supposed "Patriarchy"?I'm surprised you managed to type a response, given you evidently are illiterate... Did I say it's okay? Did I say I agree with it? I just pointed out that it's not "fick with women to fuck with women", it's a fucked up solution to a situation of crisis. Doesn't make it okay (and I specifically said it wasn't okay). | /r/MensRights | 30/03/25 12:34 PM |
| 9 | This is the most misandrist movie ever made, right?I think the message behind the movie (be who you want, without conforming to what society expects of you, male or female) is good, but yeah the execution was... weird. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 30/03/25 08:28 AM |
| 6 | Another sub becoming an echo chamber"I complain about my husband" is literally a video genre on tiktok which gets millions of views and positive comments on the daily, without any more context... a lot of women are becoming very adept partner shamers. Even tiktoks where women show something cute they did for their partners has top comments be "and what does he do for YOU? But don't you dare, as a husband, publically criticize your wife, or you'll be crucified. But sure, we're just imagining the empathy gap... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 30/03/25 07:18 AM |
| 15 | What about the recent cases of medical schools in Japan discriminating against female applicants being utilised by "Feminists" as evidence of the supposed "Patriarchy"?And whenever a female doctor gets pregnant and can't be a mother because of her binding contract, you'll have people protesting against the obvious sexism of this institution who forces women to chose between their career and motherhood... But let me reformulate once again : it's an abhorrent thing they did, but Japan is literally in a demographic crisis wherein they both need every possible woman to be able to have kids, and also need the most possible amount of available doctors, and these two… | /r/MensRights | 30/03/25 12:02 AM |
| 46 | What about the recent cases of medical schools in Japan discriminating against female applicants being utilised by "Feminists" as evidence of the supposed "Patriarchy"?They did discriminate against women, but with a reason. Basicallu, most female doctors in Japan cease their practice whenever they get pregnant, and Japan, with its aging population, is in dire need of more doctors, so the prospect of half their doctors just leaving the workforce a few years after graduating is catastrophic. Therefore they favored male students because qocietally, men in Japan are basically slaves to their work and would not just up and leave. Still a fucked up thing to do, but … | /r/MensRights | 29/03/25 07:36 PM |
| 7 | Thoughts On Changes For Men?K don't thunk this is a RedPill sub. Sure there are some RedPillers here and there, but this here sub is dedicated to men's issues. I encourage you to visite LeftWinMaleAdvocates too. And I especially encourage you to go read/hear everything u/TheTinMenblog has to say, he is an amazing man and makes very well done infographics on males issues. As for what issues we face as men? The first that comes to mind is the general antipathy toward men. Be it whenever a man expresses struggling, or the glo… | /r/MensRights | 27/03/25 08:05 AM |
| 6 | What happened to fèminists ?We are glad for the existence of female MRAs because it means people "on the other side" see men's struggles and recognize something should be done about that. Female MRAs are often the most influencial imho because they have this unique perspective of women actually understanding men's point of view (as in, a male MRA could be seen as uniquely self-serving). But yeah, feminists see male feminists as the enemy often than not. Because they have the linear scale of oppression that dictates that yo… | /r/MensRights | 25/03/25 07:33 AM |
| 9 | Even when feminists agree the statistics are right, they minimise them to absolve fellow women of accountability for committing rapeWhen studies on male victims of domestic violence are being shut down because the findings go against the accepted correct opinion, and funding is offered only on studies focusing on female victims, I don't find this that surprising, that dtudies on male victims of rape can be skewed by a partisan lens. Disgusting, but not surprising. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 24/03/25 07:04 AM |
| 77 | We have to be careful with how we talk about male feminists or nice guys.Kinda agree, that being said I have no problem saying male feminists are really annoying as heck, and the self-righteous auto-flagellation is pathetic. It's fine to care about women's issues, but when everything you say is a flavor of "us men are monsters, we should all be ashamed for being born with a penis", I'm going to stop listening to what you have to say real fast. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/03/25 05:40 PM |
| 5 | Incels: New studyThat would be entirely due to an unability to recognize flirting. I mean, most men are unable to detect when a woman is interested in them, hence the "I need you to hold a sign saying "I want you to fuck me" " meme. Add to this social anxiety, and a very poor self esteem (perhaps due to years of being told they are worthless), and you get a man that is absolutely unable to even consider he might have a chance. So the ptoblem is not that they've tried everything and can't find a date, it's that t… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 21/03/25 07:10 AM |
| 10 | Is it just me, or is this whole “gamers think female characters are ugly” is massively overblown?Sure, but the problem isn't that there are ugly characters. It's that for some reason, all male characters based on actual actors are a near 1 to 1 reproduction, yet somehow female characters all seem to be altered ro be less appealing. And even then, some female characters (like Horizon 1's Aloy, or Spiderman 1's MJ) are visibly changed in the sequel, and it's always a change toward a more mundane looking aesthetics, to say the least. So, people having pattern recognition skill will at some poi… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/03/25 11:01 PM |
| 9 | I can't take these people seriouslyYeah, my thought too. It's a stupid ass remark... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 20/03/25 06:35 AM |
| 20 | From Coercion to Physical Force: Aggressive Strategies Used by Women Against Men in “Forced‑to‑Penetrate” Cases in the UKYeaj, but if we start calling it rape, how will the feminists be able to use that super neat "99% of rapists are men" statistics. Have you thought about that? Clearly, you must hate women! (/s obviously, but I'm part convinced one of the reason we have this distinction is partly to allow such statistics to exist) | /r/MensRights | 18/03/25 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Never have I seen a more disgusting thread, only rape apologia and dehumanization.You should edit your comment, you made a type in the first sentence that makes it weire, you wrote "other women" instead of "other men". | /r/MensRights | 15/03/25 08:04 AM |
| 10 | Never have I seen a more disgusting thread, only rape apologia and dehumanization.I just had a guy in another sub tell me that it is statistically proven that men overreport and women underreport physical and sexual violence done unto them. I tried calling him out, and he replied "a woman dies every 3 minute you incel".... | /r/MensRights | 15/03/25 08:02 AM |
| 63 | Men are sexual harassers and should worship women:And whar exactly do women do to court men? Bat an eye 3 times and look away? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 14/03/25 11:40 AM |
| 6 | Choose the Bear, We don't care!BuT THat DOeSn'T HaPPeN... I know 3 guys whose partners tried forceful paternity on them (and one where it suceeded), one that was raped, one that was raped, stalked and falsely accused. And I don't know a lot of people... | /r/MensRights | 14/03/25 07:38 AM |
| 1 | The women who condemn MGTOW for "not moving on" aren't moving on themselvesOn a french sub (not even a feminist one) they were mocking and fustigating mgtows and in the breadth encensing women who do the exact same thing. Apparently, men do it "out of a desire for punishing women" and women do it "for their own sake"... Let's ignore the fact that the women who do it are usually the same that spout misandrist bullshit h24 on social medias, of course.... I still don't get why feminists are so angry about mgtows. These are apparently "misogynist toxic assholes", why are t… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 14/03/25 07:05 AM |
| 4 | Choose the Bear, We don't care!Thing is, I'd also chose the bear if the choice was between a woman and a bear... | /r/MensRights | 14/03/25 06:44 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else hate the term "Man up"? Feel free to voice your opinion.What infuriates me most is the idea that it's men telling other men to man up. There was maybe one dude in my life telling me to man up. The rest were women. I have 3 friends now dumped as soon as they showed vulnerability, and none of them were gay, so they were dumped by women... | /r/MensRights | 08/03/25 07:43 AM |
| 17 | This is a praise for the "nice-guys" - you are stronger than they recognize youNo joke, once I replied to a woman who was saying "women end up with assholes because assholes are very good are hiding their true nature, so saying women pick assholes is sexist" I told her an anecdote about a guy in my architecture school who everyone knew was a self-centered douchebag. He wore it on his sleeve, it's literally the first thing you notice about him, in his demeanor. "That guy is a fucking asshole". So comes beginning of year, and we welcome new students. 17 and 18 years old fres… | /r/MensRights | 05/03/25 08:23 AM |
| 6 | Okay...this one legit infuriated me.I mean, the kids could have tried and thought a bit before going to school to what is, truly, a perfect spot for a nuclear waste dump. So, duh... it's kinda their fault. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/03/25 09:54 AM |
| 21 | USA: Glamorous Texas teacher, 35, raped boy she met at her school, police say"Gorgeous, dazzingly handsome male teacher raped female student." Yeah, I threw up a bit writing this. | /r/MensRights | 01/03/25 09:52 AM |
| 2 | Made a Post About the Hypocrisy About “Toxic” and “Fragile” Masculinity, Here’s an ExampleWe went from "kids should be able to play with toys that are not typically associated with their gender" to "if a kid plays with a toy that's not typically associated with their gender, they have gender dysphoria"... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/02/25 06:43 AM |
| 7 | Financial Oppression in Japan: The Hidden Matriarchal Grip on the Husband's FinancesThat's not just Japan. When we rented an apartment i Brussels a few years back, we took to speaking with the (then 70 something landlord), and he basically disclosed that his wife was, and always has been, managing finances, despite him being the breadwinner. And it was the traditionnal organization of households there. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/25 08:01 AM |
| 3 | Fed up with the constant mockery and blatant ridiculing of the "nice guys" (By woman mostly)I found my forever love. But let's just say I was on the receiving end of being used for the services I provided by women who did not care about me before... | /r/MensRights | 25/02/25 08:47 AM |
| 3 | Fed up with the constant mockery and blatant ridiculing of the "nice guys" (By woman mostly)Nah, you're misunderstanding things. Let's say you are an upstanding citizen. You pay your taxes, you give time to charity, you treat your neighbours well, you are kind to every form of living being. You're the poster child for being a good person. Then you see someone who beats dogs in the street, insults people without reason, litters everywhere. Truly a deject to society. And you see this horrid person be celebrated, and people talk about what an amazing person this is. Wouldn't you, in this … | /r/MensRights | 25/02/25 08:22 AM |
| 2 | Fed up with the constant mockery and blatant ridiculing of the "nice guys" (By woman mostly)They do exist but they are a minority. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/25 08:12 AM |
| 4 | Fed up with the constant mockery and blatant ridiculing of the "nice guys" (By woman mostly)Thing is, if you're nice to someone, and they abuse of said kindness so you decide to stop being kind (not become nasty, just stop being present/helpful), you get accused of having faked it all along as a manipulation tactic. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/25 08:09 AM |
| 2 | Fed up with the constant mockery and blatant ridiculing of the "nice guys" (By woman mostly)I won't go into redpill territory because that's a borderline philosophy to me, but yeah. Do guys who befriend women in the hopes of manipulating them into having sex exist? Most certainly. But imho, most "nice guys" are guys who are genuinely empathetic, caring, but lack the skillset to express interest to women, and as such end up in a non-sexually-charged relationship with the woman they are interested in. And getting out of those is difficult once the label has been set. Plus, there definite… | /r/MensRights | 25/02/25 08:06 AM |
| 5 | Any shows or movies about a man trapped in a toxic relationship?Gone Girl? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/02/25 06:12 PM |
| 28 | So men who wish they were in a relationship "feel entitled to women's bodies", women who wish they were in a relationship "are smart for not settling for trash"Iyou just gotta love the whole idea that a guy has to constantly improve, that he's never enough... "hit the gym, make money, get better..." And overall, "become person". Because no undecent man has ever been in a relationship, that's for damn sure /s. I hate this pressure put on men to ever get better, and that it's never enough. It cost me quite the chunk of my mental health to this day. And most of all, I hate with a burning passion the idea that if a man has a hard time finding a partner, th… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 21/02/25 06:47 AM |
| 18 | All Men Want Is Casual Sex And No Commitment (Apparently)I never understood where the "men only want casual sex" mentality comes from. I (and most men I know) never were into casual sex. Since I was old enough to fall in love, I had this want for a relationship. Sex was way below on my priorities. Like, it's fun and all, but my goal was to find my forever girl. I have this idea that women think men only are interested in casual sex because the men they are interested in are those who want casual sex. Look at ot this way. Women want to be pursued and s… | /r/MensRights | 17/02/25 06:13 PM |
| 74 | Absolute gold I found in one of my insta bookmarksView the world through a lens of mistrust and resentment? Isn't that exactly what feminism does ti women? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 16/02/25 04:58 PM |
| 14 | I found this disgusting discussion on Twitter.Pretty much yeah. Because "99% of rape are commited by rape" is such a neat statistics to have, we can't let truth get in the way... btw, I'm pretty sure the remaining 1% are transwomen, therefore counted as women. Still, yeah, if your definition of rape by default excludes anyone not possessing a penis from being perpetrator, it's not surprising it shows that penis havers are 99 or 100% of perpetrators. If the definition of sexual assault was "slapping someone with your boobs", women would be 1… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 12/02/25 11:15 PM |
| 19 | Therapist Explains The Dehumanization Of MenHer upload schedule is chaotic, but I absolutely love her videos. So many good points, and so much empathy... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/02/25 08:10 AM |
| 2 | 86% of the victims of female sexual predators aren't believed, so the crimes go unreported and don't get prosecuted according to CCRCThat's horrifying. I hope at the very least you distanced yourself from your mother... Hope you'll heal from that, and I'm sorry it happened to you. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/25 11:36 AM |
| 3 | 86% of the victims of female sexual predators aren't believed, so the crimes go unreported and don't get prosecuted according to CCRCI have a 3. An old friend and neighbor who moved a decade ago, so long time ago, but his then girlfriend unilaterally decided she wanted a kid, so she stopped the pills and became pregnant. He loves his daughter, but he hates his ex with all the fury of hell. My BiL's ex-girlfriend, in addition to raping him, also decided to stop taking the pill without prior discussion. Fortunately, it didn't take, and not long after he finally broke up, but it was a close call. one of my best friend was hookin… | /r/MensRights | 08/02/25 11:33 AM |
| 23 | Yet another form of misandry we've all probably seen at one time or another, unfortunately perpetuated mostly by men themselves.Never disagreed with what you said, just added some context. Yeah it's misandry through and through. But I really wanted to talk about that disgust, because that's something that's absolutely not being talked about. Usually the length the discussion goes is "men are homophobic" and that's all. But it misses so much by not going into depth about why. And also if I hear a feminist say one more time "male sexuality is celebrated" I'm going to be very very sad, because that's patently not true. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 08/02/25 07:15 AM |
| 32 | Yet another form of misandry we've all probably seen at one time or another, unfortunately perpetuated mostly by men themselves.That's simply a form of general disgust at male sexuality, applied to same-sex couples. Basically "Women sex good and pure and beautiful. Men sex bestial, ugly and dirty. Therefore, 2 women having the sex together equals twice more beautiful. 2 men having the sex together equals twice the ugliness and dirtiness." I am not even joking, if you boil it down to its key components, that's what gayphobia mostly is. And that's not just men doing it. Women are notoriously biphobic when it comes ti havin… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 08/02/25 07:09 AM |
| 4 | Feminist rape apologists"God told men to wrote the bible, therefore if the bible exists, then god exists, and if god exists, then he told men to write the bible. Which, if it exists, proves the existence of god...." And now it's "the law says forced to penetrate isn't rape, therefore it isn't rape. Therefore the law reflects that by saying it's not rape, so it's not rape". Same thing with the question a few years back here in France to decide if we should make recreative use of cannabis legal. People said "the law says… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 24/01/25 07:19 AM |
| 5 | Feminist rape apologistsReminds me of the circular justification of the existence of god by certain christians. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 24/01/25 07:02 AM |
| 28 | How dare someone want to know the age of a person they’re interested in?Unlikely story. Where is the bus it's supposed to happen in, huh? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 21/01/25 05:14 PM |
| 3 | At this point, willfully false accusations are an epidemic.The actual stat is 2-10%. But what they don't acknowledge is that it's PROVEN false. If only 6% of rape accusations lead to a guilty verdict, then it means that there is 84-92% of accusations that are neither proven false or true. | /r/MensRights | 19/01/25 12:09 PM |
| 24 | Throughout history, queens were more likely to wage war than kings"But that's because they were forced to do so by the pattiarchy". No joke, I've seen this reply many times... | /r/MensRights | 19/01/25 11:38 AM |
| 5 | Holy False Equivalence, BatmanIt doesn't even make sense syntaxically speaking. When the lifeguard says "kids, it's forbidden to run around the pool" to some kids, he is adressing said kids directly. Whenever someone says "men this, men that" they are adressing men as a group. They don't say "this man did this" or "some men do this". It's Men they are referring to. Anyway, if they wouldn't accept this defense for "women are gold-diggers" because it's generalizing, they shouldn't accept this defense whenever they generalize. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 18/01/25 12:14 PM |
| 16 | Holy False Equivalence, BatmanDid he say "Kill all runners"? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 18/01/25 12:04 PM |
| 35 | I feel like most guys just want acknowledgment that things can suck for men too.Yup. Being constantly told that we're the oppressor, that we have male priviledge, that everything wrong is men's fault, yaddi yaddi yadda.... takes its toll on one's mental health. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/01/25 07:02 AM |
| 33 | Why are some men like this?Because as dudes we are not the chaser in sexual relationship dynamics. This default situation makes it so most men tend to feel undesirable by virtue of never being pursued, even in later stage of relationships, i.e. having tl be the one to initiate sex every time (because it's easy to feel like nobody wants you). So, for some men, the idea of being so desired by a woman that she will overcome both society's rules and your own consent is like a holy grail. It's fucked up, but part of me kinda g… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 14/01/25 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Study Reveals 67.8% of Women Have Unconscious Attraction to Women, While Only 5.9% Show Preference for Men Despite 80.4% Identifying as HeterosexualYeah, but what he says rings true. Feminism is not marxism, and as someone from Europe, the tendency of americans to conflate feminism and the whole IDPol movement with marxism is weird, if not cringe. | /r/MensRights | 06/01/25 07:01 AM |
| 15 | List of Sources Proving That Wife Beaters Were Punished Prior to the 1960'sWasn't rhere a custom than men victims of domestic violence were paraded on a donkey and publicaly mocked? I seem to recall something like that. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/25 11:21 PM |
| 7 | Gender neutral language about sexual harassment us sexist.I remember when I was 10, for mardi gras at school I was disguised as a scotsman, dow to the kilt. Many girls (and a female teacher) tried lifting my kilt to see if I wore underwears... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 30/12/24 10:59 PM |
| 26 | Has anyone ever seen a post that say "women need to treat men as human beings"? Or do we just assume they already do that? Women as the Fairer Sex but make it woke.The dudes I've seen getting the most action were men who treated women like literal fleshlights. Like, in architecture school there was this dude that most men hated. He was the poster child for "immature, toxic asshole who never thought of anything but himself". The guy once went to a first year student he never saw before, told her "hey, my girlfriend is sick, and I really need some pussy" and ended up going home with her... This interaction screams "I see women as human beings", of course... … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/12/24 08:38 AM |
| 3 | "Only 2% Of Rape Accusations Are False" debunkedYeah, I often reply this to the "only 2% are proven false" argument. "Your side complain only 6% of rape accusations lead to a condemnation. What I hear is that only 6% of accusations are proven true". Usually they'll respond by "it's disillusional to say that, truth is, it's not because only 6% lead to a guilty verdict that the true number isn't much higher". To which you can then say "Exactly, same as for false allegations". | /r/MensRights | 24/12/24 12:38 PM |
| 37 | “But what about the patriarchy?”Society could literally evolve toward the whole male sex being enslaved, and they'd still say it's patriarchy. There is no reasoning these people. What you can do is make the cogs of their delusion wince. Ask them who the sexual selector is in our species (aka, who says yes or no). Then ask them who then is responsible for perpetuating gendered traits in both men and women, therefore basically making men be bigger, stronger, and more assertive on average than women. Then, ask them who took care … | /r/MensRights | 24/12/24 08:30 AM |
| 15 | Just… holy hell."I am so proud of my son for having been abused without defending himself because I told him women are a protected class. Though I know he will be a piece of shit" What an unhinged comment... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 19/12/24 07:40 PM |
| 18 | It’s over for us, boys 💀Don't you know only women are subjected to beauty standards? You incel creep? (/s obviously) | /r/EverydayMisandry | 19/12/24 02:17 PM |
| 9 | Are there any great movies about women exploiting men? One example would be Lights in the Dusk(2006), for reference. I know there are tons of Hollywood films about how evil men are, but rarely are women ever portrayed that way. So, I am curious.And still people be defending her. | /r/MensRights | 17/12/24 12:04 PM |
| 2 | I condemn cheating whenever it is, but whats your opinion on the ideology that men cheat with their body, while women cheat with their feelings?I disagree. Maybe men seek something moee physical than emotionnal while cheating, but I'm not convinced. Ultimately, despite what the "sex is JUST a biological function" crowd are saying, I'm deeply convinced sex is much more intellectual/emotionnal than that. We seek sex because we seek connection, companionship. We seek to be accepted wholly by someone else, and to open ourselves to someone else. Some may also seek sex for prestige, for manipulation, but in fine it's all part of the same need… | /r/MensRights | 16/12/24 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Woman asks to split the bill, is offended and rude when man splits the billO don't you worry, I call that shit out whenever I see it. | /r/MensRights | 15/12/24 06:27 AM |
| -18 | Woman asks to split the bill, is offended and rude when man splits the billThat's not about sensibilities. But body-shaming is not a good argument. It hurts people who have NOTHING to do with who you're discussing about, while, the person you're discussing about is blissfully unaware. It's akikg to napalming an entire village to get ied of someone who isn't even here to begin with. It's also immature as fuck. "Oh, I don't like you. Therefore I'm going to attack an aspect of your body I have no idea about, making sweeping assumptions while showing a remarkable lack of e… | /r/MensRights | 14/12/24 10:01 AM |
| -27 | Woman asks to split the bill, is offended and rude when man splits the billYeah no, we're not going to do body shaming. Gold digger energy, sure. But we should not insult any body parts, lest we accept they do it to us. And I'm absolutely livid whenever I see "Small Dick Energy" used. So, can you please edit your comment? | /r/MensRights | 14/12/24 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Extremely DisgustingThat's absolutely harrowing and terrifying, but it's not misandrist. These monsters did not target specifically men, not did the article say everyone of those perps are men. But this story is absolutely disgusting. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 12/12/24 07:55 AM |
| 5 | ‘Alarm bells’: why are Australian boys doing better than girls in maths and science? | No one cares when boys fall behind, but any hint of a "small difference" with boys ahead and it's immediately a crisisTo be fair, being able to cry, or not be muscular as a dude, and not being judged for it is a worthy cause to defend. We need to assert that non-traditionnal masculinity still is masculinity. This being said, menslib is a cesspit of male guilt, and is completely blind to the fact that traditionnal masculinity is enforced as much, if not more, by women than by men. Women are the sexual selectors in our specied, they're the one that decide if a man is "man enough" to mate. As such, the worst examp… | /r/MensRights | 09/12/24 07:32 AM |
| 21 | Why do men dont support men's rights and men's issues the way women support women's rights?In-group bias is the tendency to side with members of the same demographic group. Out-group bias is the tendency to side with members of the opposite demographic group. Therefore, women, who have an in-group bias, will support women over men. Men, who have an out-group bias, will support women over men. To sum it up, a tv host here in France one summed it up quite nicely while hosting a tv game. "If a man has to chose between a man and a woman for whom to eliminate, he will eliminate the man out… | /r/MensRights | 06/12/24 10:17 PM |
| 48 | Sweden’s ‘soft girl’ trend that celebrates women quitting work OP: Imagine how men would be attacked in the media if the genders were reversed.It's "the ability of choice" And if men complain that this choice is not a luxury that's afforded to them, it's "because of patriarchy, which men built, so toigh luck". | /r/MensRights | 06/12/24 02:43 PM |
| 12 | Curious newcomerI truly believe the patriarchy exists. We would be fool to deny that society assigns gender roles to both gender and enforces them. Where I disagree with what feminists say is that : Those gender roles are entirely based on biological functionning, and the need for the survival of the species Both gender are responsible for both the establishment, and more critically, the enforcing of said system. The people I've seen push gender norms the most are women. Mother slapping their 3 y.o son who were… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/12/24 07:48 AM |
| 2 | Misandrists lying about false accusations, againYeah but thing is you can't really prove one way or another. So it's disingenuous to say that if onlu 8% of rape accusations are proven false, then it must mean that 92% are true. And with some statistics saying that up to 40% of rape allegations could be false, that would mean almost half of all rape accusations are false. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 05/12/24 11:38 AM |
| 4 | The Moral Failures of "Punching Up"Another example is Grand Theft Auto honestly. It's so good because it criticizes everyone. The gangster, as well as the politician, the banker, the hooker... it's a critic of America as a society, and it does not carve special exceptions for certain categories of people. Can you imagine of mind-numbingly boring it would be if GTA VI decided to grant exceptions to certain demographics under the guise of "punching up"?. It would safe, sanitized even. Wait a minute... it would be like 90% of modern… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/12/24 10:08 PM |
| 27 | Misandrists lying about false accusations, againStats are neat, because if you don't know what they mean, you can make them say anything. I really like when people say "only 2-8% of accusations are proven false" and then complain that "only 6 or 7% (can't remember the correct number) of rapes accusations lead fo sentencing. Seems to me only 6 or 7% or rape accusations were proven true.... Which mean that there is 86 to 95% of rape accusations which are in a legal limbo whereas nobody can prove either truth or falseness. So for all that we kno… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 03/12/24 08:31 AM |
| 2 | What are proper counter arguments for arguments such as, "Misandry, anti men sentiments exist online." "Those are not directed towards you." "Online is toxic anyways, so don't take those anti man sentiments personally."If online misandry has no importance because "it's not directed toward you", then online misogyny doesn't hold any importznce either, unless it's directiy aimed at someone in particular. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/12/24 08:17 AM |
| 15 | The Moral Failures of "Punching Up"It's even worst than that imho. I'll take for example incels. Incels are considered as losers by almost everyone (anyway, those who don't care about struggling men, so yeah, about everyone). And let's just say people have no moral quandaries piling up on them. If you really think about it, attacking someone you see as lesser than you is not punching up. It's punching down. It's straight up bullying. I guess they'd reply that being an incel is a moral failing, while punching down usually concerns… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/12/24 07:34 AM |
| 14 | What should we do?Body dismorphia is a bitch, and, contrary to popular belief, it affects men too. That's why it irritates me whenever I see women body-shaming men on the ground that "women's bodies have been scrutinized for millenias". Well, I'm pretty sure men's have been too. Not like a difformed man would have had much success with the ladies in the 17th century. And hurting innocent people because you want revenge? That kind of behavior should not be encouraged. But somehow when women do it, it's completely … | /r/MensRights | 01/12/24 07:28 AM |
| 33 | Damn... you guys are alright.OUR soup. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/11/24 06:33 AM |
| 11 | i can understand why men would wanna switch gender.Have to say, I'd rather have been born as a woman than as a man. If I could go back and change that I would. | /r/MensRights | 13/11/24 08:13 AM |
| 3 | What The Actual FUCK Did I Just Read?That's the female equivalent to "this 13 y.o boy is lucky he had sex with his female teacher"... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 10/11/24 01:16 PM |
| 20 | UN: Nearly 70% of Gaza killed are women and childrenOne cannot forget the infamous "stop targeting female reporters" because 1/6th of war reporterd killed in 2022 (Ithink) were women... | /r/MensRights | 09/11/24 06:23 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts about Top G?Top G being Tate I imagine? The dude is a fucking monster who abused women and used them to abuse and scam lonely men out of money. He has nothing positive to bring men or women, and as far as I'm concerned he can get fucked. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/24 08:20 PM |
| 17 | South Korean woman submits AI-manipulated voice as evidence of sexual harassment to kill a man socially and to get the money.Holy fucking shit that's terrifying. Especially when you think what it heralds for false allegations in general. Have IA fake someone confessing to murder or rape? Thay shit is not a few years away, it's right at our doorstep, only waiting for someone evil enough to use it. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 04/11/24 10:24 AM |
| 11 | Even more misinformation about male rape victims. Most of this genuinely makes me angry.Forced pregnancy being the absolute worst that can happen to someone? It's certainly a frightening prospect, but I can think of quite a lot of thing that would probably be worst. Like, you know, death for example.... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 03/11/24 08:35 AM |
| 2 | "The real reason for the rise in male childlessness"Yeah, my point exactly. If earning less than a woman wasn't a sure way to be left single, I am pretty sure no man would ever be insecure about winning less than a woman... | /r/MensRights | 01/11/24 10:35 PM |
| 27 | "The real reason for the rise in male childlessness"You know, it's always funny whenever I hear that men feel uncomfortable being with a woman with more power/a higher salary, like that's oppressive of men to do, but nobody points out that women just don't date down (cue "women are single because there is a lack of eligible bachelors in society since women are the majority of college degree earners nowadays" articles), therefore for a lot of men, a woman outearning them is almost a romantic death sentence... through no choice of the man... | /r/MensRights | 01/11/24 01:19 PM |
| -9 | Women making excuses for a child murdererWe absolutely should take inti account mental health to judge the action of that woman and any woman for that matter. Thing is, they wouldn't extend the same understanding of circumstances when a man commits a crime, and that's where the problem lies. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/24 01:13 PM |
| 2 | "And who set that system up?"Everyone. Oligarchs of all gender definitely. If you go back far enough, why is it men in position of power? I'd say in huge part because women selected those traits in men via sexual selection... | /r/MensRights | 31/10/24 08:25 PM |
| 5 | How many men here have been falsely accused of rape?Honestly, if she had pulled the "false rape allegation" card right after the breakup, he'd have been screwed, because at that point he did not yet know to record everything she said. That's why I'm always angry whenever I hear any variation of "if we reject men we face death" or anything saying interacting with men is dangerous. I have no problem acknowledging there are a TON of problematic dudes out there. Scary dudes. But I have seen enough examples to know that there are also tons of problema… | /r/MensRights | 22/10/24 04:55 PM |
| 25 | “Women can’t rape men because law!”There are women who orgasmed during rape. Biological response is not consent. Ffs.. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 21/10/24 05:52 AM |
| 14 | How many men here have been falsely accused of rape?I wasn't, but a friend of mine was. Basically, she was an absolute psycho. He broke up with her when once, after sex, she took the condom saying she was going to the bathroom so she'd dispose of it, but stopped under the door of the room, turned around, and looked at him in the eye while putting the condom back in her, inverted so as to try and get pregnant, while telling him "that way we'll be together forever". At least that's how he related it to me. Anyway, after the breakup she went full st… | /r/MensRights | 20/10/24 10:24 PM |
| 38 | Not understanding English very well makes you an incel... even if you're a womanCan we just stop already with the idea that men created gender roles? Like, it's a mix of biological factors, and societal evolution toward survival, and men AND women both contributed to the emergence of recent gender roles. Just as men AND women are fighting to change those roles (and some women and men are fighting to keep these in place). Hell, if you take into account the fact that women are basically the sex responsible throughout history for mate selection, and therefore for controlled ev… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 20/10/24 09:49 AM |
| 4 | And then she went and deleted all her replies... but lmk if anything ive said was at all off base... cause ive been left confused i did nothing but try to be completely respectful and open... it never seems to work, why is it impossible to have a conversation in good faith about these topics?But we do tell men to settle. As a rule, men have always dated down anyway. But the main sentiment people will express when talking about incels is basically "they're trying to date above their own level of attractiveness, they should aim for women at their level". If that's not "telling men they should settle" I don't know what it is. It doesn't matter that the problem is absolutely not there, and is to be found around fucked up constructions of dating, seduction and self-esteem (mainly, a lot … | /r/MensRights | 18/10/24 06:08 AM |
| 6 | And then she went and deleted all her replies... but lmk if anything ive said was at all off base... cause ive been left confused i did nothing but try to be completely respectful and open... it never seems to work, why is it impossible to have a conversation in good faith about these topics?What I find disturbing about the whole incel insult thing, is that the people who are criticizing incels/using it as an insult always reduce intimacy to sex. It's always "incels are angry because they don't get sex", "jerk off you'll feel better". Like, no, incels in general want intimacy, including sex, but not just sex. From what I see, they want to feel valuable and important to someone, they want to share a connection with someone, and be able to be vulnerable with said person. So, I find it… | /r/MensRights | 18/10/24 05:41 AM |
| 9 | Some stories of sexual abuse against menThe prevalence of false rape allegations in the comments is frightening too. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/24 06:57 AM |
| 7 | Insights from Female Bullying Behaviour and it's correlation to men's social issues!I remember someone putting it that way : "If you work at an animal shop, and someone wants to adopt a dog, and asks for advice, if your advice is "well, don't spread peanut butter on your dick so your dog will lick it", don't be surprised when they get upset " | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/10/24 01:58 PM |
| 38 | Insights from Female Bullying Behaviour and it's correlation to men's social issues!I've always felr incel shaming is pure and simple bullying. Don't get me wrong, misoginy is bad, and if said incels have expressed hateful or harmfil views, they need to be called out. But honestly, whenever I see people piling on incels on reddit or anywhere else, all I see is the queen bees laughing the awkward kid to suicide. Incels need empathy, not scorn. And I wonder, how many incels are pushed to hatred because of how they're treated, instead of the opposite. And yeah, the tendency of peo… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/10/24 06:06 AM |
| 2 | Crosswords are sexist. Crazy feminist word salad explains why.I mean, they're the crown that hijacked popular media to make it more palatable to ultra-left wing sensibilities, saying to people criticizing it that it's "not made for them", and then complain that nobody is consuming said media... what can you expect, really? | /r/MensRights | 24/09/24 04:20 PM |
| 10 | More charges laid against a female elementary school teacher who was first charged with first-degree child sexual assault of an 11 year old boy.Can we talk about the fact that the photos in the article are good photos of her, smiling and all? If it was a man, you'd have a mugshot and not much else. | /r/MensRights | 23/09/24 11:04 AM |
| 6 | Court essentially overwrites a deceased mother's will giving daughter more money than she was intended to be allotted b/c it's argued the will has a gender-biasI dunno, I kinda like the french system whereas disowning a child is impossible. Basically, in the absence of a spouse (that takes 50% of the estate), each kid is guaranteed a basic part. That is 1/n+1 of the estate where is the number of kids. So, if there are 4 kids, each kid will be guaranteed to get 1/5th of the estate. The last part is up to the discretion of the deceased. So, in truth, in the case of OP, he could get 1/2 while his sister gets 2/3. Still, no disowning possible. And pre-deat… | /r/MensRights | 23/09/24 05:59 AM |
| 31 | Why is it that when a man doesn't want the child, "he shouldn't have had sex"?Even body count doesn't benefit men. I remember a post here with a LOT of sources of studies that basically showed that women were as limiting if not more regarding the body count of their partners. Basically, the ceiling was not higher, but the floor was much so. Male virgins were far less likely to be accepted than female virgins. Women were also less accepting of bisexuality in men. So, the whole "women sexuality is briddled by men" is a complete fabrication. | /r/MensRights | 18/09/24 06:03 AM |
| 7 | Boy reports teacher for inappropriate behavior"It's because she has to conform to the male-based idea of power, and the pressure of being a woman in a position of power in a male-dominated field. The patriarchy made her do it" | /r/MensRights | 17/09/24 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Unfair treatment of womenHell, my late mother was an abusive alcoholic that made mine and my father's lives miserable until the alcohol killed her. Almost everytime I open up to someone about that, they jump to excuses. "It's not her fault", "your father must have done something to make her like that". Hell, one person even said it must have been my fault if she was alcoholic and abusive. The abuse started when I was 9 for fuck's sake. | /r/MensRights | 14/09/24 01:10 PM |
| 27 | Men are always the workhorsesSo, women age of retirement will augment by 5.5% while for men it will only augment by 5%. That's definitely sexist against women /s. And if you think this retort is ridiculous? In France, te age of retirement for women is lowered by 2 years for each kid they have. So, for one kid, a woman could retire at 60 instead of 62. Only for women though. As a dude, you can have as many kids as you want, that won't change. So, a few years back, our dear President proposed to raise the age of retirement by… | /r/MensRights | 13/09/24 01:23 PM |
| 11 | This "men want sex" thing is too muchA big classic on reddit here is "incels are not getting laid because they have absolutely unrealistc standards and want women who are out of their leagues" | /r/MensRights | 11/09/24 06:17 AM |
| 39 | Have you ever been in a school with the ideology "girls can do no wrong"?Yup. In Elementary School (in France, so about 7-8 years old for reference) I had a teacher who was very much a proponent of chivalry. Basically, if a boy touched a girl for whatever reason, he was punished. If he shouted at a girl for whatever reason he was punished. If he reported on the girl to the teacher for whatever reason, he was punished. Also, if a girl was close to a doorway, a boy had to let her pass through to be able to pass through. So, now that the setup is... set up. Our recess h… | /r/MensRights | 10/09/24 06:09 AM |
| 99 | Because work in Japan is SO easy (repost without names)You know why they did this in the first place? Because in Japan, a lot of women, when they get pregnant, just quit their career altogether and rely entirely on their husband's salary to fees the family. And Japan's population is only getting older, and in need of more and more doctors. If even half the female doctors decide they want to stop their career okce pregnant, the country is facing a sanitary catastrophe of devastating proportion. Entire regions with little to no doctors. So, this decis… | /r/MensRights | 04/09/24 11:01 AM |
| 24 | I hate the pressure society puts on men to have "game".What irks me the most is that having game is absolutely not representative of bein a good partner. Like, you can be the most charismatic person out there, and still be a massive piece of shit. On the other hand, you can have difficulties in the flirting scene, but be an amazing partner. And that's valid for both sexes mind you. And same goes with self-confidence. Self-confidence is not a metric of someone's worth as a human being, or partner, or anything. It's just a metric of how someone values… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/08/24 07:28 AM |
| 27 | How to respond to “who set that system up?”?Everybody did. And women had a pivotal role, by the way of mate selection. Women, for survival reasons, had a vested interest in selecting the stronger, more dominant male of the tribe. Therefore, socially signaling the importance for males to be dominant. And also, genetically selecting traits expressing physical dominance. Therefore after a few generations, the male part of humanity was selectively bred to be physically dominant, and socially raised to seek hierachical power to secure reproduc… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/08/24 12:22 PM |
| 11 | Misogyny to be treated as terrorismWell, it says society will always find a way to absolve women as a group of their responsibilities, but will not extend the same gesture toward men. And, I mean, we shouldn't absolve men of their responsibilities. But we absolutely shouldn't absolve women either of their responsibilities. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/24 06:49 AM |
| 21 | Men report more pressure and threats to share location and accounts with partners, research shows.On the other hand, when I was in OLD, there was a girl that did not want to tell me her last name. I did not push, but then I called her, she did not pick up and I went to her voicemail where I heard her name. When she realized I heard her name this way, she freaked out and almost accused me of being a stalker (she did not tell me "you stalker", but she said I creeped her out because now I knew her name). | /r/EverydayMisandry | 13/08/24 11:33 AM |
| 9 | First time I've seen a feminist defend men from another feministThing is, patriarchy exist. It's hard to argue against the fact that there is a societal order in place which assigns specific gender roles and expectations on each sex. The origin, and effects of patriarchy, is the point we should be arguinf about, not its existence. For example, we could argue that women are the main building block of patriarchy. By selecting mates based on strength and social status for survival's sake, they had a direct impact on creating a social order and hierarchy that fa… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/08/24 07:12 AM |
| 3 | OOP seems to despise men, not a good sign if she raises a son imoI'd equally ask about female role model for a kid with gay parents. Kids need role models from both gender imho. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 11/08/24 05:54 AM |
| 9 | Dutch women, but not men, in same-sex relationships are more likely to commit crime, study findsOn the post in r/science, they are already saying it's "accused of crime", not "guilty of crimes", and so it's really that lesbians are so disadvantaged in life that police automatically accuses them of crimes they didn't commit. Honestly, I know it's not the truth (or at least far from being the whole truth), but part of me still believe thay, to some degree, women are raised to be more outspoken, entitled and antagonistic than men, and it has effect in their relationships, especially on their … | /r/MensRights | 29/07/24 05:59 AM |
| 52 | I fully, 100%, believe in a woman's right to choose. I also believe in a man's right to choose. Why is this a crazy take?The most infuriating response I have seen to this subject is "men have the exact same rights as women. The day a man gets pregnant, he'll be able to abort too..." | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/07/24 05:01 PM |
| 68 | Transitioning to male opened my eyesYou know, your perspective will always be welcomed here. We're slowly gathering quite the number of testimonies of transmen saying "grass is not greener on this side of the gender fence". It's a bit disheartening too, because feminists (well, most feminists at least) will listen to what you have to say, despite the fact that you're saying what we've been saying for decades. The fact that you used to be a woman makes you inherently more trustworthy than any man, and what you're saying more palata… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/07/24 04:02 PM |
| 14 | Found this gem on r/Feminism, this just shows how all their statements are just pulled from thin airHaven't you learned by now that all wars were created by the white heteronormative pariarchy? Even when african tribes massacred other african tribes before colonization it was still solehow old white men's fault. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 17/07/24 09:50 PM |
| 9 | Only dangerous men get offended by generalisations about men…The discourse is not about dangerous men, that's the problem. These people are not saying "some men are dangerous, so we have to be on guard", they're saying "all men, and only men, are potentially dangerous" | /r/EverydayMisandry | 14/07/24 11:33 AM |
| 93 | If you’re an autistic guy and can’t date, it’s NOT YOUR FAULTThe fact that autistic women have more success than autistic men might imho come down to the simple fact that men have to approach and escalate. Which women don't have to. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/24 11:32 AM |
| 29 | If you’re an autistic guy and can’t date, it’s NOT YOUR FAULTWas wondering that too. I often hear say "if a woman look at you, just smile at her, and see if she smiles back". Or "just smile back when someone smiles at you". And I'm like. I can smile. But I can't manufacture a smile. Thing is, I've wondered if I may be on the spectrum for quite a while, and I'm gathering quite a number of clues that my suspicion might be pretty much true. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/24 11:31 AM |
| 75 | Why Men Enter And Exit The ‘Manosphere’—By A (Male) PsychologistI remember a quote, that I believe was by the youtuber VaushV, who said something like "12 y.o boys are not pulled into facism because of some machiavellian desire to protect and expand their priviledges. It's because the right talks to them and the left doesn't". And, well, of course it started a shitstorm. But it's mindboggling that people on the left are unable to understand that if young men are struggling, telling them "boohoo, poor proviledge men, shedding these delicious male tears" is no… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/07/24 06:17 AM |
| 2 | Oral Sex on Women, Consent and R@pe of Men to close the Orgasm Gap?Yeah, no dude. I love eating pussy, but I get why some people can find it unappealing. Just as there as women who don't like giving head. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/24 06:12 AM |
| 9 | Men are the problemShe can changes the (she)ets, so she won't give me (her)pes. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 06/07/24 11:34 PM |
| 12 | When did you realize that you aren't the problem?It kinda reminds me of Gone Girl. That movie was blood chilling, and depicted in a really infuriating (thus, completely believable) manner the way the medias turn on a man based on nothing but suspicions, and kept blind to every indication of the woman's perversity... And of course, feminists were absolutely livid... | /r/MensRights | 05/07/24 07:03 AM |
| 24 | Im so happy to see sexual assault towards men by women being recognizedWell, the problem being the most influentual feminists are usually the ones who don't care. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/24 07:19 AM |
| 26 | I saw a guy asking if women will date him with painted nails and a lot of women said noIt's as I always said. If a man act like a woman, he will be berated, and feminists use this to say "see, they consider being feminine bad, so they consider women as inferior The difference is not that masculinity is better than femininity. The difference is that masculinity is more rigid, more absolute than femininity. Masculinity is something you can "lose". Femininity is not. It's stupid and I hate it, but that's how we treat it socially. A man that's not displaying masculinity is "not a real… | /r/MensRights | 28/06/24 06:55 AM |
| 38 | Female Self Snitching and Public Mistreatment: A ThreadAt least the 2 last ones did some introspection and saw that they were wrong. The rest of it is legitimately frightening. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 20/06/24 07:05 AM |
| 3 | The other side of domestic violence: Men abused by the women they loveI LOVE that in the after article links provided, every single one of them is for a shelter or an association targeted at VAW... Not ONE link for men's association, not even the one they cite in the article, Mankind Initiative. Also, the law lecturer at the end. "Yeah, men can be victimd, but come on, it's more damaging when it happens to a woman". Could we, FOR ONCE, have an article about male issues that doesn't feel the need to add "it doesn't retract from female issues which are much more imp… | /r/MensRights | 14/06/24 04:49 PM |
| 17 | I create a subreddit to combat a societal expectation placed on women, promote it in a subreddit that’s designed to combat a societal expectation placed on women, and get attacked as a woman hater for daring to say missndry existsYeah, I think that was quite expected. Some of these are REALLY unsufferable. I think you're doing great work in here, and I thank you for it. And I also don't think you're doing anything misogynistic. It's quite ironic that you calling out misandry is called misogyny. Like, for these assholes, somehow misandry is women's baseline... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 04/06/24 04:45 PM |
| 29 | Actor Shivam Patil opens up about being a male abuse survivor. His horrid account reveals the consequences of gender-biased laws across the world that deprive male victims from ever finding safety and justice.Holy fuck that's horrible. Hope the guy is doing ok now. Obviously, we all know who the real culprit is. That poor man is a victim of the patriarchy! (/s obviously, but I know some people will twist it that way) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/06/24 06:55 AM |
| 21 | The Major Predictors of Long-Term Involuntary Singlehood"Incels are single because they have unhealthy expectations, and don't try do date at their level". - Every fucking one on reddit when a man complains about being single Yeah bro, that's exactly what it is... 2 seconds of thinking is enough to understand than involuntarily single men are probably the least demanding out there, and suffer from a very low self-esteem and don't believe in their ability to get a relationship. And how to blame them, with society basically telling them that because th… | /r/MensRights | 02/06/24 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Slut shaming and the perception of male sexualityYeah, me neither, it just hit me. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/24 08:01 AM |
| 0 | If The Patriarchy Exists, Then Why Aren't Men Thriving?The patriarchy exists, but it's not that grand conspiracy that people will have you believe Patriarchy is just the organization of roles in society, dictated by survival. Women being the one bearing the child, they needed to be protected. As such, their role was mostly internal to the societal cell (the family, and then the clan). Leaving men to manage external subjects, like diplomatic relationships, in addition to the heavy labor (because, you know, men are naturally stronger than women on ave… | /r/MensRights | 18/05/24 08:12 AM |
| 3 | Iran executes 63 'people' in the last two weeks of April, 96% of them being male.Reminds me of the time the UN told everyone that we need to stop targeting female war journalists. It transpired that the total amount of war journalist killed was fewer than previous years. The kicker being it dropped more for male journaliste than women journalists. Meaning the proportion of female journalists killed was higher than the previous years. Cue "the amount of female journalists killed is increasing, we need to stop targeting female journalists". Meanwhile, female journalists killed… | /r/MensRights | 16/05/24 11:35 AM |
| 2 | Iran executes 63 'people' in the last two weeks of April, 96% of them being male.Still too factual. "Iran executes women" That way it can seem systemic, in spite of everything... | /r/MensRights | 16/05/24 11:29 AM |
| 4 | Boy, 10, kills himself after suffering horrific bullyingYeah, we're going to make him take karate classes. He's really excited! | /r/MensRights | 16/05/24 10:49 AM |
| 27 | Boy, 10, kills himself after suffering horrific bullyingYeah. My son is too gentle (very much alike me) and that frightens me a bit. I've been telling him "if people are naughty with you, you ask them to stop. If they continue, either you see the teacher, or you make them stop". | /r/MensRights | 16/05/24 06:03 AM |
| 10 | Male Victims Don’t CryFuck these comments are hard to read. It's infuriatinf when people frame domestic violence as a women's issue, and dismiss male victims and female perpetrators. This shit is absolutely heinous, and negating its very existence is a fucking hate crime. | /r/MensRights | 13/05/24 10:00 AM |
| 6 | Emmanuel Macron wants to force visitation for divorced men.Hard to find in english, but this one seems ok Macron proposes duty to visit. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/24 03:01 PM |
| 16 | This Daniel and Nicholas are two of the worst people I’ve ever seen on TwitterYeah, they're bad. Fuck's sake, they're talking about a 1 y.o as if he's already a serial rapist... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 10/05/24 08:56 AM |
| 17 | The scope of male sexualityWasn't there a woman who raped a man's body and became pregnant, recently? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/05/24 05:28 AM |
| 14 | "Misandry isn't a problem, it's a response."Misoginy isn't a problem, it's a response. Works too. And it's still abhorrent. If you dehumanize the out-group so much that hatred is justified, you are no better than nazis. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/24 04:26 PM |
| 7 | "Wisconsin elementary school teacher, 24, busted for ‘making out’ with 5th-grader — three months before wedding"Holy fucking shit. I thought it would be around 15... 11 is absurd... what a monster. | /r/MensRights | 04/05/24 07:19 PM |
| 8 | "Wisconsin elementary school teacher, 24, busted for ‘making out’ with 5th-grader — three months before wedding"As a non american, 5th grader is what age range approximately? | /r/MensRights | 04/05/24 06:00 PM |
| 4 | Advertising strategist thinks he's "reshaping modern men" - Understanding modern masculinity – the new narratives shaping male identity and behaviour.Yeah, sure, but it's not by making men behave more like women that you'll accomplish that goal. Remove the pressure to provide, the excel, and cease tying a man's value tl his financial worth and his heroic deeds (and stop saying that a man his worthless otherwise) and you'll have a much greater impact than by saying to men "maybe channel your inner female a little bit more". A lot of men become criminals because of the pressure to provide they feel. We tell them "them bitches won't want yo ass … | /r/MensRights | 29/04/24 08:25 PM |
| 5 | My son 5yo was M*****Ed by my ex-wifes family members. Ex-wife and Ex-GF started to gang up on me.Fuck's sake, that's horrific. I'm sorry your son has to go through all of that, but I'm glad he has a father fighting for him. It's absolutely fucked up that given these accusations, the mother still has custody of him. | /r/MensRights | 29/04/24 12:21 PM |
| 31 | Advertising strategist thinks he's "reshaping modern men" - Understanding modern masculinity – the new narratives shaping male identity and behaviour.So, as always, what I see is that to some, a man is nothing but an incomplete woman. Sweet. Why do men always have to be "more like women" to be complete? I'm absolutely not advocating for old school masculinity as a monolith, god knows I don't conform to that model. But I just don't accept that idea that men are deficient, and need to be more like women. Imagine the reverse. "Femininity is an old and deficient concept, and must integrate elements of masculinity to be adaptes to modern society".… | /r/MensRights | 29/04/24 06:37 AM |
| 16 | No Title NeededWell, funny enough, I stoppes getting mad at how men talk about women when I listened to women calling men trash... And seriously where do these people live that they encounter so many bad people? In my whole life I encountered maybe 2 men talking shit at women. And weirdly enough, those men were always highly successful with women..n | /r/EverydayMisandry | 27/04/24 10:56 PM |
| 16 | Way to say you don’t say about male mental healthShe only sees value in men if they have big penises. That's it. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 27/04/24 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Selfie saved innocent man from 99-year prison sentenceThis is awful. I'm glad this poor guy got away. On that note, just a question. 99 years? I mean, the charges were breaking in, and carving something on someone's chest. If true, that would warrant prison time, but 99 years? For fuck's sake. | /r/MensRights | 27/04/24 07:05 AM |
| 63 | Trans Men Are Our Greatest AlliesThat's not transphobic to say "it's disheartening that what we've been saying for decades has been ignored, and only gets listened to because it now affects a demographic society actually cares about". I'm very glad our trans brothers are being listened to. I just wish we too could be listened to. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/24 10:55 PM |
| 91 | Trans Men Are Our Greatest AlliesI dunno what to think of it really. On the one hand, yeah, trans men are the greatest asset the MRM could possibly hope for in that climate. On the other hand, I am upset, and quite frankly angry everytime there's a video online commenting what trans men say, saying "that's an incredibly eye-opening testimony", like we've not been shouting from the bottom of our lungs the very same things those trans men are saying, for decades at this point. Like, people would be saying "there's a male social c… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/24 10:51 PM |
| 6 | Female on Male ViolenceWhat is it from? | /r/MensRights | 21/04/24 06:40 AM |
| 2 | “It’s men’s fault”Of course. But sometimes, it's glaringly obvious a dude is an absolute asshole, and yet will have girls flocking around. I remember one guy in my school going to a girl he never met and telling her something akin to "my girlfrind is sick, and I need some pussy tonight, you're cute enough, we bang?". She went home with him, and then proceeded to complain that h was being an asshole and just used her. I mean, yeah, he told you upfront ffs. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 20/04/24 06:16 AM |
| 14 | “It’s men’s fault”The funny thing is, most men can very easily discern when other men are being assholes, but it seems women just don't see it... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 19/04/24 03:43 PM |
| 15 | YawnIt's not so much "loweeing your standards" as it is "sstop fishing your guys from the exact same pond every fucking time" | /r/EverydayMisandry | 15/04/24 07:52 AM |
| 103 | Japanese women are upset that they can't kidnap children anymoreBasically, in Japan women get automatic custody. And if the father is a foreigner, ooooh boy. Basically, if you have a kid with a japanese woman, you have no rights to that kid. She can grab the kid and vanish, you have zero recourse. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/24 02:49 PM |
| 8 | As a feminist what can i do to support men’s rights without diminishing those of women?Call out misandry, and those who diminish the issues men face (like, for example, those who say that domestic or sexual violence is a gendered issue wherein men are always perps and women are always victims. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/24 07:08 AM |
| 10 | What discrimination do men face in Canada?And then he got a slew of articles and twitter post about him calling him a mediocre white man. I rememberone twitter post being like "I'd like to have the confidence of a mediocre white man, who thinks he's entitled to a job because of his skin color and his junk". The dude sued his university. And his argument has always been the same. "I'm not entitled to this tenure. But I'm at least entitled to have my candidature examined, and yet I was told it was automatically rejected on the sole ground… | /r/MensRights | 07/04/24 07:13 AM |
| 40 | Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their livesWomen make it to the ballot all the time. Also there are more women voters than male voters in about every country on earth (that allows women to vote that is, sure there are some regressive ass countries). If women wanted a female leader, men couldn't do much to stop them. And no, men don't start wars. The upper class starts war. For whatever reason they see fit. Men as a class don't want war. They've been indoctrinatrd into believing there's some glory and honor in dying fighting one, to prote… | /r/MensRights | 05/04/24 07:06 AM |
| 162 | Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their livesAnd here I thought women were also voting for those in power... but no, accountability is not their forte it seems. Set aside the fact that queens have proportionally started more wars than kings in history... and that to a dude in the trenches, it doesn't matter what his ruler had between their legs. Men are sent to die only to protect women. Just food for thought. | /r/MensRights | 05/04/24 06:05 AM |
| 1 | "Why do you think that the majority of violent crime in the United States is committed by men?"- assignment question in my class.Because of socio-economical factors putting greater strain and imperatives on the global male population. Men being tricked into having kids they don't want and having to pay for those kids. Those kids then being isolated from their fathers, is a huge factor. Fatherlessness is a big predictor of criminality in the male population. Add to that a sprinkle of the traditional gender role of men being asked to provide to justify their right to exist, therefore having a bigger onus put on bringing mon… | /r/MensRights | 04/04/24 08:49 PM |
| 5 | The invisible misandry of family court"90% of men get custody when they ask for it" or some shit, that's been debunked as it's solely in a few US states, and it's only about shared legal custody, not physical one. | /r/MensRights | 02/04/24 06:23 AM |
| 7 | “She Was Pure Evil”: Man Abused By His Wife For 20 Years Speaks Out In New DocumentaryAlso, she had a lover... just sayin'. I'm glad that dude got footage, because I think we all can pretty much agree that if he didn't, she'd have accused him back and he would have been found guilty. Hell, even with the evidence, she still tried to paint him as an abuser... Who does that reminds me of? Something about defecating too... weird... | /r/MensRights | 21/03/24 07:54 AM |
| 4 | Dehumanising comparisons about men again and comparing them to poisonous foodWhat irks me the most is that these comparisons are not unfounded. Yeah, if you had bad experiences with a category of people, you'll be more wary around them. But it also applies to women. A lot of men had bad experiences with women. Yet this comparison makes it seems like all women are perfect and innocent little victims of the horrors of men. It's self-agrandizing and I hate that. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 18/03/24 06:23 AM |
| 84 | Isn't all of this true though?I can just say for myself, but yes it's true. I can't say it's been conscious though, and I was already this way pre-metoo. Basically, what I gathered from society as a whole is that male sexuality is bad. That women are pure u til they are tarnished by having sex with a man. That women don't want to have sex with men as a default, and for a man to have sex, a woman has to sacrifice herself, to let herself be used. That's the view I had of sex growing up. That, as a man, me having sex with a wom… | /r/MensRights | 15/03/24 11:37 PM |
| 2 | The misleading narrative of sexual violenceSo, that means 75% of 40% of rape are perpetrated by women. So that means that about 30% of rape perpetrators are women. And that is with reported rape. Given the fact that men are well known to severely underreport rape they're victims of, and adding women forcing other women to engage in sexual acts, if we were at parity it wouldn't astonish me one bit. It's fantastic how one can completely manipulate statistics using just one tiny change of definition... | /r/MensRights | 15/03/24 07:39 AM |
| 2 | The misleading narrative of sexual violenceI have a question about those statistics. It's been on my mind for quite some time How are counted trans people (be it victims or perps)? If a pre-op trans woman rapes someone, is it counted as a man or a woman raping someone? And if a transman forced another man to penetrate him? Because that's kind of a gray zone here, and I'd like to know how this is tallied? | /r/MensRights | 15/03/24 07:31 AM |
| 38 | Is a large component of the male loneliness epidemic the general feeling of being undesirable?Honestly yes. I'm in a long term relationship, so not concerned by the dating market. But I had (and it still lingers) a lot of resentment. Not toward women as people, but toward the fact that women are desirable in society, they are pursued, sought after, and can basically have a romantic life, even if they don't have to put themselves out there (basically just existing). I'm not saying this is easy for women. But they have a much lower barrier to entry in interpersonal relationships. And all i… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/03/24 05:00 PM |
| 18 | What?Men make up more than 2/3rd or suicides worldwide, and a lot of it can be traced back by social isolation due to social conditioning and global distrust of men. So, if that isn't misandry that kills, I wonder what qualifies. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 08/03/24 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Men being against mass generalisations pisses this woman offYou know, most of the most single men I've ever known were the kindest, gentlest, most respectful dudes out there. The kind you can trust with your life. Who never even think about hurting someone. These dudes have spent decades without getting a single woman to look their way. On the other hand, the most toxic, hateful, sexist and violent guys I've known had no issue smashing pussy. They were literal chick magnets. Like, once I've witness a guy that was in class with me, a dude whose whole beha… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 04/03/24 08:01 AM |
| 15 | “Manspreading”It's not a question of balls. It's a question of hips. Men's hips are narrower than women's hips. Therefore, if the legs are closed,they are squeezed together. That's why the default resting position for men sitting is to have the legs apart. Granted, some men do spread their legs a lot too far. But for most men, closing the legs when seated if really uncomfortable. And it has nothing to do with balls. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 24/02/24 11:23 PM |
| 37 | It's so frustrating that men being rude to women is somehow evidence of "patriarchy" and "oppression" but men's issues like disposability and genital mutilation is seen as trivialThey only acknowledge the consequences of misandry so far as "hurting men's little feefees", you really think society is going to do any more for men as of now? | /r/MensRights | 23/02/24 07:55 AM |
| 5 | 132K likesThey'll twist it someways. Like, lesbians have the higher rate of domestic violence of all kind of monogamous relationships. And yet you'll have people claiming it's still men's fault. That it's violence they faced at the hand of men when they were still in the closet, and in a heterosexual relationship. Which just doesn't make sense mathematically speaking. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 22/02/24 07:23 AM |
| 21 | Thoughts on study that concluded that men are far more likely to leave their wives if the wives are seriously ill than vice versa?For real? That's fucked up. Thanks for the info! | /r/MensRights | 16/02/24 06:42 AM |
| 12 | In Japan, it can be hard to be a man, say menI mean, Japan is the country that started the whole "men don't really want to engage with women anymore" trend that's coming to western countries, so... I remember seeing a video about that, a year ago or so. Weirdly enough it was a video about why we always kill god in japanese video games. Basically, in the late 70s, early 80s, japanese men were really misogynistic, and full of machismo. Thing is, it worked with women, but gave a terrible example to younger men. As a reaction, men as a whole s… | /r/MensRights | 14/02/24 08:19 AM |
| 25 | Interesting study: “Some Sex Differences are More Problematic than Others”It's almost as if filling people's head with "everything is sexist" makes them perceive everything as a result of sexism... Honestly, who here had any doubt that society perceive sex difference as problematic only when women are affected? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/02/24 07:13 AM |
| 6 | UK: Woman who acted out depraved schoolgirl fantasies with her boyfriend faces jail after pouring bleach over his face before trying to stab him in the penis for rejecting her for sexYeah. I always see people saying that men are trash for not taking kindly to rejection (and to be fair, some men do overreact in awful ways), but more and more I see proof that women react much more harshly when facing rejection. But they face much less rejection, so... | /r/MensRights | 09/02/24 05:42 PM |
| 13 | The Patriarchy Doesn't ExistThing is, I understand the patriarchy theory. It so happens that, yes, societies of old created a system of patrilinearity (that the english term?), and not matrilinearity. It also so happens that positions of power in times of deep insecurity were placed in the hands of the strongest, for survival sake. Therefore, a system where the succession line of families is that of the father, and where decision makers were mostiy men. This system is accompanied by strict gender roles. But those gender ro… | /r/MensRights | 08/02/24 07:08 AM |
| 9 | My sister and I were both abused. The community helped her because she was a girl. They assumed I was ok. They pushed me to go to the military and work. I was encouraged to fight and provide. The world turned its back on me and never cared.I've been psychologically abused by my depressive alcoholic mother from the age of 12 to the age of about 27. It left me a fucking shell of the boy I was beforehand. My father stayed with her because he knew if he left, there was a good chance I'd be placed with her. Also, suicide threats from her didn't help I stayed after I was 18 because I couldn't bear letting him alone with her. And I also felt responsible for her. Anyway, once, I went to a support group for victims of domestic abuse. I sta… | /r/MensRights | 07/02/24 02:22 PM |
| 19 | Bisexual woman is disgusted at the thought of being with a bisexual man (this is a very common experience for bi men dating bi or straight women)Because men are much easier to date and be around. That's not the first time I've heard bi-women say that it's much harder to date women than it is to date men. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 06/02/24 07:45 AM |
| 2 | Am I less of a man for crying?Nope, and fuck anyone that would make you feel any lesser for crying, be them men or women. You have this natural function for a reason, it's not vestigial. So, don't feel bad for crying, your depression is already enough to deal with, without having to worry about societal pressures. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/24 06:54 AM |
| 91 | False accusation and AIThere are already youtubers making videos using AI to imitate real people's voices. I watched a 1 5 hours video about Starfield where the content creator recreated Todd Hiward's and Elias Toufexis' voices (nad some others) for commentary. The video was hilarious, but yeah it can open some frightening cans of worms. | /r/MensRights | 29/01/24 02:16 PM |
| 47 | Man who has bonded with a 3-year-old child, as he thinks she is his daughter, discovers from a paternity test in (TV) court he is not the father. Mother cheers. Judge gives her a lecture. Having paternity testing as the default at birth would reduce situations like this. (90-second video).Yeah. When you bring up the idea of mandatory paternity testing at birth, everyone against it is going to say "how much that gonna cost?" My dude, the US spend literal hundred of billions per year in the military, they can spare 2 billions for that. Plus, having genetic tracability can be good for the kid. If the kid needs an organ transplant, knowing soon enough who the biological father is can literally save their life. So, people against mandatory paternity test just want men to get fucked is… | /r/MensRights | 28/01/24 04:58 PM |
| 9 | Women are now video recording their male partner's cleaning up skills, as a test and critiquing it on Tik Tok. Imagine what would happen if men tested their wives and girlfriends cleaning skill and critiquing it online?I'd go search one of her t-shirts and use it to clean the ketchup. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/24 07:50 AM |
| 3 | What does it mean to be a man?It sucks. I don't have body disphoria or anything like that, but I wish I was born a woman. The amount of injunctions about being a male... the fact that you have to build your masculinity to be seen as a man, and one slip up and you're seen as lesser... The fact that nobody really cares about you. Yeah, it sucks to be a man. | /r/MensRights | 20/01/24 08:34 AM |
| 6 | Do you guys know what actually is the gender pay gap in the United States? And have you ever actually witnessed women being economically discriminated against?Recently in the french equivalent to r/askwomen, a dude asked women there if they were facing any wage inesuality, if they were paid less than their male counterpart with the same job and years on the job. A hundred answer. No disparity. And even then, you had women saying they were paid the same as their male counterpart jumping on the poor dude asking, accusing him of being a misogynist for doubting the wage gap... | /r/MensRights | 19/01/24 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Why are men always accused of not wanting stable relationships?Because a small subset of sexually hyper-successul men get the huge majority of women's attention. Those of those men who want to start families stop searching when they find their match. But those who don't, and enjoy getting women's attention? They'll not settle anytime soon. And that's the subset of men women interact the most with. So, from their perspective, all men want is casual sex. Let me tell you, I'm 36 y.o. I know of ONE man who was into casual sex, and not seeking a stable relations… | /r/MensRights | 19/01/24 07:46 AM |
| 12 | The irony of calling men gay as an insultBut... but... I thought only incels were the entitled ones, and that's why they're literally satan? | /r/MensRights | 16/01/24 07:29 AM |
| 13 | The irony of calling men gay as an insultI remember seeing a clip of a gay dude saying exactly that "if you want someone to bring something to the table, go date a dude. But if you're dating a woman, you're paying for the priviledge of being in her presence. She's the table". What I like is that he's basically saying you're paying for a woman's time, thus making her automatically an escort. | /r/MensRights | 16/01/24 07:09 AM |
| 10 | What would your response to this post be?My mother was depressive and very abusive to me and my father. My father stayed only because he knew that if he was to ask for divorce, she'd either gain custody of me, or probably kill herself. He couldn't bear any of these scenarios, so he stayed. And when I was old enough to take an apartment, I did not for the same reason. Could not bear to let my father stay alone with her, and fear that she'd kill herself. It was one hellish mind prison. Once I went to a support group for victims of domest… | /r/MensRights | 11/01/24 06:27 PM |
| 14 | Why are men the violent ones?The whole idea that lesbians dv rates are higher because of past heterosexual relationships don't add up. The math ain't mathing. If it were true that most of these cases of dv were due to males, then the rate would be lower than for women in heterosexual relationships. Let's say for argument's sake that 100% of lesbians were in the past in heterosexual relationships. If women are less violent, then lesbians would have the exact same rate of victimisation as hetero women. Now imagine 50% were in… | /r/MensRights | 11/01/24 08:45 AM |
| 3 | Most mens rights criticism I receive is something that sounds like "why are you being so analytical about this stuff" and "why are you interested in something that upsets women?"I wish my dick was fucking... | /r/MensRights | 10/01/24 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Androcide (Gendercide): Women and Children First in Emergencies is not a Myth & Titanic wasnt an ExceptionParents first. If there's a kid, let them go with any of their parents present. The childfree people will have to wait. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/01/24 10:54 AM |
| 1 | The "If men were the ones getting pregnant meme" is infuriating and wrongIf men were the ones getting pregnant, women would be the ones fighting wars and building skyscrappers. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/01/24 10:46 AM |
| 12 | "Nice guy syndrome", and how the Internet made up a character whose prevalence is exaggerated.From my perspective (I might be wrong though), it's the main reason incels exist. I, myself, realize than I haven't been so much rejected, as I didn't even gave a chance to many women to reject (or accept me) because of this fear of my desire being bad. I'm now in a 9 years long relationship, but if tomorrow I were single again, man it would be rough as shit. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/24 11:07 AM |
| 35 | "Nice guy syndrome", and how the Internet made up a character whose prevalence is exaggerated.Yuuup. That's about it. And the unassertiveness comes from one source mainly : sexual shame. Those guys (I've been one of them, and still carries that shame around) are ashamed of their desires, of wanting to have sex as women. They see it as inherently bad and predatory to want to fuck a woman, and insulting to even express interest. And why wouldn't they? That's basically been the social background radiation of the entire human race. "A woman is pure until she is desecrated by having sex with … | /r/MensRights | 07/01/24 08:50 AM |
| 17 | Comments on a post where two men are complimenting another manReddit be like "if men want to be complimented, why don't they start complimenting each other?" And then be like this : "complimenting a man? You must be gay" | /r/MensRights | 05/01/24 08:09 AM |
| 18 | Blatant misandry (but it’s okay she’s just quirky)Yeah, it gave me the ick. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/24 08:25 AM |
| 10 | Does society actually live in a rape culture? Debunking the myth that society is pro-rape.You know, I happened to ask that question on TrueUnpopularOpinion on a post about the value of sex, and was called unhinged. "What makes rape so much bad than anything else?" One responded that a woman being raped is fearing for her life, and left traumatized. Sure, I have a friend who was mugged with a knife and is alive only because someone saw that and called the cops, who happened to patrol just a few streets away. He was literally centimeters away from being severely harmed/killed, he was d… | /r/MensRights | 30/12/23 10:06 AM |
| 21 | Does society actually live in a rape culture? Debunking the myth that society is pro-rape.The only rape culture I can think of is rape of male victims. Those are the ones that are played for laugh in media. And the most egregious of all, prison rape. Outside of that, rape is considered one of the most heinous crime that a woman can be victim of. I remember when the Hamas attack on Israel just happened, people on reddit saying that it was horrible for the women, who would probably be raped, moreso than the men that wpuld be tortured and killed. With people saying outright "I'd rather … | /r/MensRights | 30/12/23 09:07 AM |
| 4 | Losing their leverage and their minds 😂When I met her,my wife thought I wouldn't give her a chance because her job wasn't "glamorous or high paying" enough. She was quite surprised when I told her I don't know a single dude who gives a fuck what a woman does for work, as long as she is able to share the expenses of the relationship. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/12/23 07:37 AM |
| 51 | False rape accusation. Scott Espinosa spent 19 months in jail. His accuser, 22 year old Leslie Peterson is a drug addict, prostitute and single mother of 3 (no custody). Scott let her stay in his house as she told him that she was homeless. Scott's mother killed herself because of this ordeal.You know sometimes when I see a homeless mother in the street I have that primal instinct of helping her. Like, "I have a spare bedroom if you and your kid want to stay warm tonight" kind of help. But I will never because of that. | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 06:55 PM |
| 2 | men and entitlementThe article is "Radicalizing the Romanceless" by Alexander Scott (will post the link afterwards). The guy's name is Henry, he beat and cheat on all of his girlfriends, and in the article is currently cheating on his newest (whom he knew beforehand, so she knew he was like that) with his ex-girlfriend (who knew what he was like). And the conclusion to that part is, more truthfully "I don't think I deserve to get a girlfriend, but I think I deserve to not be doing worst than Henry". But he add ton… | /r/MensRights | 21/12/23 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Baby Momma has withheld the children from their father for one year. The paperwork to request custody and child support is 80 PAGES!!!!Didn't you get the memo? We don't speak of parental alienation anymore. Now it's called SCAM, for "Sabotaging of Child and Mother relationship" (I wish I made that up, but u/thetinmenblog had a post about that recently). For real man, I'm really sorry it's happening to you. It's unfair, it's infuriating, and I hope you'll win your kid back! | /r/MensRights | 20/12/23 02:49 PM |
| 10 | What can the largest database of domestic violence research tell us?Are the researchers misogynists? Or is the science misogynistic? | /r/MensRights | 18/12/23 04:18 PM |
| 111 | For the “by other men” argument that feminists love to use,My go to point is to default to FGM. FGM is almost entirely practiced on young women by older women, despite men in the countries it's practiced in being overwhelmingly against it. So,as it's done by women on women, I guess we should just not care about it... | /r/MensRights | 16/12/23 07:55 PM |
| 13 | What's the biggest simp-like behaviour you've done for someone who wasn't into you?I blame myself for falling into the trap. But I blame her for laying said trap. A good person does not do that. | /r/MensRights | 12/12/23 11:08 AM |
| 24 | What's the biggest simp-like behaviour you've done for someone who wasn't into you?When I was in architecture school, for 3 years (so age 17 to 20) I was absolutely mad in love with a girl. And, as a young, very unconfident man with no experience, and absolutely no idea of what flirting was (but rest assured my friends. 36 y.o me still don't know what flirting is), I reverted to the basics. Make myself as useful and friendly as possible, in the hopes she'd catch my intentions. So, I slaved away for her for 3 years. Basically did all of her projects in addition to mine, listen … | /r/MensRights | 12/12/23 08:04 AM |
| 16 | Why does nobody talk about biphobia against bimen?I'll repeat it again. It's all based in demonisation of male sexuality. Basically, the idea that having sex with a man is being "sullied". That's why a lot of men are uneasy around gay men. Because they fear being sullied (stupid I know...) That's why bisexual women who have had sex with men are seen as traitors by lesbians. And that's why bisexual men are heavily rejected. Because, by having been with a man (i.e. penetrated) they have been sullied. It's the same demonization that's a root of in… | /r/MensRights | 10/12/23 11:03 PM |
| 47 | Found people arguing about how it's okay to frame someone for rape even if you consented to the sex.Yeah. I'm 100% ok with the idea that consent can be withdrawn at any point before or during. But after? Nah that's insane, and people saying it's ok are crazy. Though I remember Lena Dunham rape story. It's an old one, but for those who are lucky enough to not know of it, and if I recall : She went to a club. Started heavily flirting with a guy, rubbing herself against him, kissing him, etc... She invited him over, he said yes. She initiated the sex, yet at some point she wanted to stop. She tol… | /r/MensRights | 09/12/23 01:17 PM |
| 65 | When have women ever been the gender more expected to do emotional labor?Initially, Emotional Labor refered to people in the service industry having to manage their emotions to offer the best service possible. I.e., don't bring your shit to work, and don't lose your shit when a Karen is screaming at you´ Thing is, it is MUCH closer to what is expected of men. Men are supposed to be the rock in the relationship. To not show vulnerability, no defaillance. That's the literal definition of emotional labor. Managing your emotions so the party in front of you doesn't have … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/12/23 09:45 PM |
| 2 | How words can distort the truth...Somehow it reminds me of the interview of Katherine Spillar in The Red Pill, where that very well adjusted person say that Domestic Violence is a cleanup word for wife beating... | /r/MensRights | 01/12/23 09:40 PM |
| 1 | A question about geneticsNah, it's clear enough. So, when someone say that women are smaller in height and stature it's because it's been bred out, they're just saying bullshit as I thought. Thanks for the reply. I did not want to engage anyone about that without having my facts straight. | /r/MensRights | 29/11/23 05:11 PM |
| 11 | 'On a flight from Antalya to Moscow, a female passenger went on a rampage and [orally] raped her [male] neighbour,' reported major Russian news outlet Gazeta.ru.Yeah, but she was fined 5€ so that's okay. | /r/MensRights | 29/11/23 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Debunking the myth of the male hunter: Prehistoric women were BETTER at hunting than men, University study claims OP: It is not science it is feminist propaganda. Feminists really do hate men!Another fellow suffering under Macron, I presume? | /r/MensRights | 29/11/23 08:12 AM |
| 71 | Incels: a new study.Yeah,whenever I hear people say "the bar for men is in hell", I'm thinking to myself "The bar might be in hell, but that's for men who are given a chance. You can be the best man there is, if you can't pass the threshold of what a woman finds attractive it doesn't matter". | /r/MensRights | 27/11/23 05:35 PM |
| 31 | An exploration of the "emotional labour trope" and societies entitlement to control men's emotional expressionWhat gets me about the whole emotional labor thing is that, well, the cliché is that it's women that are endlessly showering their partners with emotional dumps. And truthfully, all I ever seen in my life are women just opening the valves to their husbands/fathers/coworkers, etc. And internet is rife with "dating advice" for men saying that men need to stop trying to fix women's problems, and must only listen (like, she talks to you about her bad day at work, listen, don't talk). And yet, when a… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/11/23 08:08 AM |
| 13 | Getting cheated on hurts men at a genetic level - much worse than it does women: Male biology hurts menYeah, kinda. I've never been cheated on, but I kinda played with the idea of it (in a "what would I feel if it happened to me?" kind of way. As a mean of introspection) And yeah, betrayal and loss of trust is definitely part of the mix, but there is that deep sense of being mocked/rejected as a man. As you state, the idea of the other guy grinning about fucking the girl I love is definitely the most disheartening part. And if you reflect in basic terms, with the man being the chaser (or conquero… | /r/MensRights | 23/11/23 07:54 AM |
| 3 | Survivorship bias explanation pic for you to use in arguments.You know what? Thank you, because you made me realize just this. I think I had blinders on... | /r/MensRights | 23/11/23 06:36 AM |
| -6 | New Argentinian president: “Why isn’t there a ministry of men?”Well, even a broken clock is right 2 times a day. | /r/MensRights | 22/11/23 08:02 AM |
| 27 | Survivorship bias explanation pic for you to use in arguments.This is also a great illustration of the ills of dating. Women will complain that men are fuckboys, only want sex and treat them like garbage. Men on the other hand complain of not having a single date in years. What happens is that only the top 10-20% of men in terms of attractiveness have real success in romantic dating. Of those 10-20%, those who seek to be in a stable relationship will disappear of the market quite fast. Those who remain are the men who just want sex and will not pursue a re… | /r/MensRights | 21/11/23 06:12 PM |
| 10 | What are the cringiest misandrist phrases you have heard?The "teach boys not to rape" is having the contrary effect I think. Well, first, women rape too, so the gendering is really bad. "Teach kids the value of consent" seems a much more positive message. But I guess that's not guilting men enough... Secondly, I know quite a lot of men who grew up with the idea that women don't want sex, and that the only way for them to have sex is to have a woman "sacrifice herself". Which is a horrendous thing to believe. Those men are usually the ones who want the… | /r/MensRights | 19/11/23 07:51 AM |
| 3 | What are the cringiest misandrist phrases you have heard?What irks me is that Reddit is also full of people saying "shaming men for expressing emotions doesn't exist IRL". | /r/MensRights | 19/11/23 07:40 AM |
| 45 | As a transman, woman have it easierThat's a bit on the shorter side, I'd like to have some example of your lived experiences that make you say that? | /r/MensRights | 17/11/23 05:42 PM |
| 59 | Men's general lack of interest in Romance novels and movies is very often attributed to Misogyny and Patriarchal expectations. To what extent do you think that's true, If at all?Let's just say that if I want to read about something that won't ever happen to be, I prefer science-fiction or fantasy. Romcoms are based upon the idea of something happening naturally. Almost by accident. Most men understand real quick they won't get to live that. I mean, my partner was the one who made the first step, but still I was the one that was "expected" to plan most dates, go in for the first kiss, propose the first time we had sex, etc... For most men, a romantic relationship is not … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/11/23 08:03 AM |
| 19 | Fifty Years of Gender Bias: When it comes to hiring decisions, people vastly overestimate how much gender bias there is - against both sexesSo, overall, there is little bias, and what still remains favors women ? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/11/23 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Lads I’m meeting with a researcher looking into male suicide. What’re some specific issues you recommend me telling him to look into?I honestly have no clue. We could look for correlation between suicide rate and domestic violence victimization to see if men who reported being abused tend to appear more often in suicide statistics, but at best it would be a correlation, not a causation. Still, I think it would be an important subject tackle. | /r/MensRights | 12/11/23 01:40 PM |
| 12 | Lads I’m meeting with a researcher looking into male suicide. What’re some specific issues you recommend me telling him to look into?My long ongoing question would be to know what percentage of men take their own lives due to domestic physical and psychological abuse. We know men are victimized at about the same rate as women in domestic relationships, but women are killed more. But given the social pressure around men and the stigmatization of male victimhood, combined with higher rates of male suicide, I can't help but wonder if a lot of men in DV situation end up killing themselves out of desperation and hopelessness. | /r/MensRights | 12/11/23 07:26 AM |
| 10 | I am a mother to be in three weeks to a baby boy, and I'm wondering, what is your take on circumcision as a circumcised/uncircumcised man?As someone from a civilized country where curcumcision is not the norm, it's a barbaric practice that should absolutely not be practiced without a real medical reason. Respect his bodily autonomy. If he wants to get cut, he can do it on his own when he's old enough to form his own opinion. As for the aesthetic aspect... fuck that. I'm not gay so I have no preference one way or another, but I like my penis to be whole. The hygiene point is stupid, it doesn't take much effort to clean it, and if w… | /r/MensRights | 11/11/23 10:09 AM |
| 5 | Have you ever heard a woman being called a loser?Nah it's not just you. The idea that male promiscuity is lauded is laughable. Men who sleep around are seen as immature and driven by base instincts, at best. In french we have the term "queutard" which would translate to something like "Cock drunkard", and it's not a nice term. The only difference is that a man sleeping around is seen as an achievement because it's harder for men to get women to sleep with them than the other way around. But it's an achievement in the same degree that eating 20… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/11/23 05:38 PM |
| 18 | Have feminists been teaching the wrong things to women about reducing the orgasm gap? I found some very interesting information about female orgasms.I can attest that as a dude, it has ALWAYS been my understanding that a woman's orgasm is the man's responsibility. What with all discourses around shaming men who are bad in bed, less endowed, etc.. basically anything that can be a reason for a woman not getting an orgasm is the man's fault. And, it sucked, and blocked me from interacting with women, because as a dude without experience, persuaded that I would not be able to get a woman off, and that I would be blamed for it in its integrality,… | /r/MensRights | 09/11/23 06:12 PM |
| 22 | Really good (albeit decade old) article I found for men worried about their sexuality being seen as inherently predatory.I remember reading it a while back, thanks for reminding me. Though she does drop the ball on the dancefloor when it comes to the conclusion and the advice. Summed up, it's "what can men do for us women, and how can they not be so demony". You know, it made me think of something I realized recently while listening to an expert of islam on french radio (what with the law against the abaya in french schools). Islam. More precisely, women's clothing. Hijab, burqa, abaya, etc.. thise pieces of cloth… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/11/23 03:58 PM |
| 22 | The Argument That Misandry Is "Harmless"At least kicking rock can be fun... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/11/23 04:46 PM |
| 95 | The Argument That Misandry Is "Harmless"The phrase "misoginy kills women, misandry annoys men".... Men are seen as disposable. Hence the draft in almost all countries. Misandry literally killed more men than misoginy will ever kill women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/11/23 07:13 AM |
| -3 | Domestic Violence Against Men9 | /r/MensRights | 01/11/23 04:07 PM |
| 15 | Domestic Violence Against MenWhat a piece of shit, having a face so hard she would break her hand on it. I hope he got jailed! /s | /r/MensRights | 01/11/23 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Abuse Knows No Gender: Real Life Examples Of How Women Abuse Men Read more here: https://themindsjournal.com/women-abuse-men-too/The fact that it has to be said is saddening. Yesterday on a french sub, a guy asked how to manage m1s 1mepem 20 | /r/MensRights | 01/11/23 10:09 AM |
| 5 | Abuse Knows No Gender: Real Life Examples Of How Women Abuse Men Read more here: https://themindsjournal.com/women-abuse-men-too/The fact that it has to be said is saddening. Yesterday on a french sub, a guy asked how to manage his girlfriend angry at him, because at 2 am while he was drunk from the night before, she talked his ear off about inclusive writing (french is a heavily gendered language), and when he told her "I don't care, it's 2 am let me sleep" she called him an incel and an asshole. So, a lot of people in the comment said that she was out of line and probably a bit toxic. What got to me is that even those w… | /r/MensRights | 01/11/23 10:09 AM |
| 1 | 2020: Paris major broke the law and was fined for promoting mostly one gender to senior positions. She called the fine "absurd, unfair, irresponsible and dangerous"I remember when Macron announced his government with more women than men ministers, and said proudly "we have reached parity"... | /r/MensRights | 30/10/23 08:35 AM |
| 4 | If you convince the lowest of women that they're morally superior to the greatest of menThat's the problem with modern day's women's empowerment. I'm fine with messaging women that they are worthy of love, respect, care, and all matter of fine sentiments. That they can do whatever they want if they put their mind to it. It's an awesome message for anyone. But modern entertainment's version of female empowerment is "you, as a woman, are better than men". It's putting down men to empower women. And it sucks balls. | /r/MensRights | 23/10/23 08:30 AM |
| 11 | I keep hearing people say that "women and children" is a mythYeah, I've seen this. People say that "women and children first don't exist anymore, if it ever existed at all". I mean, the Titanic is a pretty glaring example of that bias. And much more recently, when that plane crash landed in the hudson river a few years back, the evacuation was described has having been conducted in a calm and oderly fashion, women and children first. Ah, but you know, it's really sexist against women you see? Because it assumes that it's a woman's role to care for the kid… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/10/23 04:26 PM |
| 107 | Woman ate 48 oysters on a date — what happened next was shocking"Your pussy is worth a happy meal, maybe a cheeseburger, lady" | /r/MensRights | 17/10/23 04:47 PM |
| 7 | I dont know if this belongs here but...I've got to admit, I too am influenced by this vision, despite being aware of it. Part of me still can't accept the idea that male bodies and sexuality can be anything else than disgusting. And it played a lot in my difficulties flirting with women. I was so convinced the male form was disgusting, and the male sexuality predatory (and mine especially so), that I would never express desire toward a woman. I did not want to impose that on anyone. And in my opinion, a lot of incels are born this wa… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/10/23 03:56 PM |
| 24 | I dont know if this belongs here but...That's a subject I talk about pretty often, and it has to do with misandry. Basically, we are conditioned by society to hate male sexualiity, even if only unconsciously. It's seen as gross, bestial, dirty. Sperm is seen as icky at best. Even male bodies are seen as less appealing, and since times immemorial. And if you think about it,wen are seen as sexuallypure. Until they have sex with a man, which makes her impure. That also plays into slut shaming. So, the thought of two guys fucking each ot… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/10/23 10:53 AM |
| 24 | As men realize your sexuality is going to be demonized either way, you're always going to either appear a creepy horndog to most people or even worse, if you actually try showing some sexual restraint and discipline, your ass will be throw in the ditch and get called a ''neckbeard incel'',Also, the way dating is structured encourages men to play a numbers game. Try to hit on as much women as possible to get some positive answers. Thing is, a lot of men are not ok with that way of doing things. I think a lot of men are romantics who believe in meeting the right woman. The dudes that don't care though, see women as statistics, or slabs of meat. So they aren't affected by rejection, because it doesn't hold any weight for them. It's just another woman, who cares. And that's the irony… | /r/MensRights | 16/10/23 07:06 AM |
| 2 | Sad Dads: Postnatal Depression in MenI get it dude, I was there. If you ever need to talk... | /r/MensRights | 16/10/23 06:58 AM |
| 2 | Sad Dads: Postnatal Depression in MenYou know, when my son was born, I was pretty distraught.not to the point of depression, but I felt overwhelmed and lost by this change. And what cemented it was that single thought. "My wife is there for our son. I'm here for both my wife and son. But nobody is here for me". When you're a dad, you most likely have no support network to help you navigate what it means to be a dad,nad the changes you go through in your life. It's a very lonely experience from my point of view... | /r/MensRights | 16/10/23 06:54 AM |
| 5 | What if people started calling it "toxic woke"Well, let's just say that if you explore that middle ground, one side will call you a woke regressive,m for not being on the right enough, and the other side will call you a fascist for not being on the left enough. And there are people that are genuinely frightened to be outed and bullied if they don't align enough with the most extremist ideologies. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/10/23 06:50 AM |
| 16 | What if people started calling it "toxic woke"You know,just yesterday on the french equivalent of r/askmen, there was a woman asking if her boyfriend's behavior was normal, or if he was a violent man. So basically, she was talking to him about the whole Israel/Gaza disaster, and from the way she described him, it was clear to about anyone reading that he didn't want to talk about it. So she pushed, and pushed, and at some point she told him (and I quote and translate) "how can you not cry for those women and kids killed by terrorists? How c… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/10/23 06:36 AM |
| 2 | CDC Rape Data Verified - some of it any way.And not 2 days ago I've seen reddit call a man an entitled little bitch because he complained to his wife that they didn't have had sex for 3 days (granted, that's not a lot)... | /r/MensRights | 15/10/23 04:24 PM |
| 31 | Women apparently cannot do any wrong.I think you are the troll they refer too... | /r/MensRights | 15/10/23 06:30 AM |
| 36 | Even chat gpt got double standards 🤦♂️Now you're being paranoid. Why would it have a bias against you specifically? | /r/MensRights | 14/10/23 09:03 AM |
| 46 | Australia: Neighbours' Craig McLachlan finds it hard to trust women after false sexual assault allegations.I mean, I adore nuts, but at the same time they make me sick. So I tend to not eat them. You can absolutely love something and still get hurt by it. Also, the whole idea that women are moral arbiters of men (so, if women hurt you or reject you, it's really your fault, it's because you are not a good enough human being) is really bothersome. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/23 10:37 AM |
| 0 | I see a lot of feminists I know posting "violence is the result of oppression" re the Hamas attacks. Do they use the same logic when pointing out that men commit most violent crime?Dude, I'm French. You can't tell me it's not Britain's fault. It's offensive to my culture. EVERYTHING is Britain's fault. Hell, I'm sick, and I' sure it's because of a damn britton. | /r/MensRights | 10/10/23 09:16 PM |
| 6 | I hate how slavery is blamed on white men and white women's crimes are forgotten.Some still do. Hell, the arab slavery was probably the most brutal there was, with all women being made sex slaves, high profile men being ransomed and low profile men being auctioned of. Male slaves were castrated to keep racial purity. Brutal shit. And maghreb slavers kept attacking european ships and coastal towns well into the 19th century, which in part prompted the french colonization of Algeria, seeing as they didn't seem to show any sign of stopping. The transatlantic slave trade was a h… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/23 07:06 AM |
| 17 | Does father absence have an effect on the child?I can only speak from anecdotal experience. My son is 5 y.o, in school. His best friend is a boy whose father isn't in the picture. It's 100% the fault of the father, not going to say otherwise. But my god does this kid needs a father figure. He's insubordinate, without any sense of discipline, at 5 y.o he still sleeps with his mom despite her best efforts (she ends up sleeping before he does), and so on and so forth. There's another kid, a girl, whose father died when she was 1, and it's about … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/10/23 07:30 PM |
| 0 | Battle-aged men and boys are often the first targets during genocide. There is an academic debate about whether it should be recognized as a form of gendercide.I'm not saying I agree with the sentiment. Just that I understand what they're trying to say. And that they're saying it the WORST way possible. Which, if I had a dollar every time the left chose the worst possible way to express an idea, I'd prbably be a trillionaire by now. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/10/23 04:11 PM |
| 0 | Battle-aged men and boys are often the first targets during genocide. There is an academic debate about whether it should be recognized as a form of gendercide.Thing is, I understand what is meant by this. When the war is over, more men are dead than women,and thus women are the ones who are in the majority facing (alone) the aftermath of a war. It's a reasonable argument to make, and not untrue. But it seems that progressives always go the extra-mile to find the worst way possible to word a concept. Like "defund the police". The idea behind it is good. But the wording, oh my fucking god, it's like you're trying to get people to not support you. Imagin… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/10/23 07:17 AM |
| 40 | Aren’t men in power structures alienated from men in general?That's the gist of it. Patriarchy is not society made for men by men. It's a society made for a very limited upper class, by everyone else (women included) And historically, said upper class indeed mainly consisted of men. It's not so true anymore nowadays. But still, it's not a society made "for men". Never has been. BUT, it's a good way to ignore men's issues. Distort the definition of patriarchy to make it a society by men for men, and there you go, anytime a man complains about something, yo… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/10/23 06:05 AM |
| 31 | Rachel Bilson says it's weird for a guy in his 40's to have had only 4 partners.I had only 4 at 36 y.o. Don't see that change, except if my relationship abruptly came to a stop. Do I wish I had more? Not necessarily. I wish I didn't have so much blocks that stopped me to go after the girls I liked when I was younger, yes. Anyway, I remember a woman saying that if you were a 23 y.o dude and a virgin, it means you are mentally ill. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/23 06:35 AM |
| 11 | I absolutely despise the phrase "real men"Especially when it's women who tell men whata"real man" is. Maybe I'm a cave man, but in my opinion, the manliest thing a man can do is define his own masculinity, free of the opinion of anyone or anything. I am a man because I deem it so, not because Muriel from Tinder decided I check enough boxes on her "Real Man Bingo". | /r/MensRights | 02/10/23 06:33 AM |
| 2 | I absolutely despise the phrase "real men"Nah, I'm not excluding our transbrothers from the definition of a man. If someone is self-sacrificing and masochistic enough to voluntarily be a man, he's a man in my book. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/23 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Feminist propagandaThis was not at all prevalent went I was in school, some 18 years ago (fuck I'm old). If this is the case nowadays, I' worried for my son... | /r/MensRights | 01/10/23 07:07 PM |
| 48 | Campaign: complimenting a woman, asking for her number, or giving her any attention is regarded as predatory in the off-chance it is unwanted. At some point, even a cynic should wonder if the purpose is simply to demonize men.I mean, the crux of it is that every chance social interaction is, by definition, unwanted. If I'm at a library and go to speak to someone (not even for flirting purposes), BY DEFINITION they didn't ask for me to engage a conversation. Yet, that's how 99% of relations (be them friendship, romantic, professional) are born. By someone going to talk to someone else. Without that other person inviting them. Now, of course, if you go to talk to someone and they say they don't want to talk? You should… | /r/MensRights | 29/09/23 03:53 PM |
| 6 | I believe most trans women (MTF) related community are at the wrong side of the gender debate, being a trans women who supports men's right had been a difficult journey for meImho the lgbt as well as feminism sees themselves as freedom fighter against tyranny. For feminism it's tyranny of men. For lgbt, it's tyranny of straight cis people. Mix the 2 with a pinch of intersectionnality and you get the "straight white cis-het male" as Lucifer incarnate. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/23 11:37 AM |
| 2 | Out of curiosity…I usually have a good relation with women, despite my now deceased mother being an alcoholic, abusive and deeply damaged person who made my young adult years a living hell. I've always have had female friends, even in short lived (most lost after I finish my studies, and those I kept for longer, those women just changed region and we lost contact). I'm in a 9 y.o relationship with a woman whom I love quite a lot, with whom I have a 5 y.o son. But it was not rosy, as my partner is psychologically… | /r/MensRights | 28/09/23 07:19 AM |
| 6 | I believe most trans women (MTF) related community are at the wrong side of the gender debate, being a trans women who supports men's right had been a difficult journey for meI'm sorry you had to go through this. Having gender disphoria I can't even begin to imagine what it's like, but then the only group of people who shared your experience being such a cesspit of hatred... | /r/MensRights | 28/09/23 06:31 AM |
| 29 | I believe most trans women (MTF) related community are at the wrong side of the gender debate, being a trans women who supports men's right had been a difficult journey for meI remember reading an article some times ago m, with some comments from transwomen who were saying that the lgbt community almost forces them to become misandrists as a way to be integrated. Basically, if you were a transwomen and not shitting on cis men, you were seen as a traitor, which is... disturbing. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/23 09:58 PM |
| 1 | I need to find an article about FGMWell, I don't, but I'm petty. And whenever the fact that men make up the huge majority of violence victim, someone will say "BY MEN". At which point I want to point out that FGM is mostly perpetrated by women on women, so does that mean we just shouldn't care about it? And usually, the answer is "well, it's the fault of patriarchy, it's men that want women to be mutilated for their own pleasure". And if there is a study that disproves this point, i.e. that it's done to women by women, despit… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/09/23 02:24 PM |
| 3 | Fetish or Financial Abuse?That's the thing. Same thing that with the hosts/hostesses in Japan. If you're exploiting loneliness and insecurities to make a profit, you're either a corporation, or a monster. Well, same thing really. I know I couldn't look at myself in the mirror if I did it. But again, I'm a dude so I'm not really the demographic for the "taking" part of such a deal. | /r/MensRights | 26/09/23 09:04 PM |
| 125 | The expectation of men holding other men accountable and using their male privilege to help women plays a factor when it comes to hyper-agency for men.I absolutely have a problem with "all men are trash" or "kill all men". Don't get me wrong, I understand people will need to vent their frustration, and I accept that. But men are the only demographic where disparaging generalities can be made. "All latinos are trash". "#killalllesbians", etc... wouldn't fly so good.. Especially when it's easy to say "all the men I meet/date/fuck/work with/whatever, are trash". It's 3 words at most. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/09/23 11:12 AM |
| 37 | New study shows that involuntarily sexless men are not more misogynistic or violent, and that misogynistic men often have more sexual partners.That's the gist of it. Due to how our dating system is structured, with men required to take the first step and engage with women, the men who will have the easier time are those who just don't give a fuck about women and see it as a numbers game. So, quite literally the men who see women as slabs of meat. Because rejection won't affect them, and it makes them more attractive. It's sad for men that, to be able to secure a relationship, your best bet is to not care about the woman you're seducing… | /r/MensRights | 23/09/23 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Yes, women can rape men. No, men don't 'enjoy it'.My main reply is that women can experience orgasm while they are raped. So, if they orgasm, it must mean it's not rape, right? But honestly, part of it is a lack of education. I have a friend who believed a man could not be raped, because indeed, no erection was possible without arousal. I managed to convince him of the contrary, but he's one person, and we're 7 billions on earth. | /r/MensRights | 23/09/23 06:44 AM |
| 1 | I need to find an article about FGMThat's the one, thank you! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/09/23 06:46 AM |
| 1 | I (27, MtF) am doing a video about MRAs and males advocate and I need2 fautes! Vous ne m'auriez pas dit que vous apprenez, je n'aurais pas su que vous n'étiez pas français. (C'est "du capitalisme", pas "de la capitalisme". Et confrontés est au pluriel, donc avec un S.) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/09/23 12:29 PM |
| 2 | Femicide is not what you thinkEverytime someone says "male victims of homicide are killed by other men" (meaning we don't care), I'm itching to reply that since FGM is overwhelmingly perpetrated by women toward other women (and a lot of studies show that men in general don't want their daughter/sisters/wives (dependong on their relationship with said woman) to be excised), we should not care about FGM. | /r/MensRights | 18/09/23 07:49 PM |
| 1 | I (27, MtF) am doing a video about MRAs and males advocate and I needCqfd... Thanks, fixed it.11 | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/09/23 06:45 AM |
| 6 | Why Make Violence Gendered?As a dude who grew up with a violent alcoholic mother who abused my father and myself, I can tell you that this gendering of violence destroys a part of my soul everytime it's talked about in the news or by politics. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/09/23 06:44 AM |
| 14 | I (27, MtF) am doing a video about MRAs and males advocate and I needThere kinda is. We had an author, Pauline Harmange, publish a book last year, "moi les hommes, je les déteste". Translated it's "Men, I hate them". And it didn't face much backlash. And the public discourse is HEAVILY skewed toward women's issues, with leftist parties incorporating feminism as a core value. We talk about feminicide and violence against women and girls all the time, but barely a word toward men victims. A few years back we had a pretty huge movement against domestic violence, lea… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/09/23 06:39 AM |
| 9 | I (27, MtF) am doing a video about MRAs and males advocate and I needJe suis pas certain qu'on en soit là. Je pense que pour la plupart des MRAs (et pas des masculinistes, je pense sérieusement que cette distinction n'est pas assez faite), si on avait déjà une reconnaissance des problèmes que subissent les hommes dans la société (le taux de mortalité BEAUCOUP plus élevé d'une manière générale, entre autres), ce serait déjà bien. Après, il y aura toujours des métiers plus dangereux que les autres, et il y a un point ou on ne pourra plus trop réduire le risque inhé… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/09/23 06:11 AM |
| 3 | Feminism has created the myth that men should be ashamed of themselves, but it’s nice to see that most feminists don’t believe this.Well no, we aren't the devil. At least the devil is handsome and has a cult following. | /r/MensRights | 14/09/23 06:05 AM |
| 1 | My feminist wife age 44 who used to complain about abuse of male power at work is now having sex with her 29 year old employee while breaking our marriage vow Women somehow assumed that if they were in power they wouldn’t act on their libido?Ok yeah. So, divorce her ass, and then report her. | /r/MensRights | 13/09/23 03:04 PM |
| -5 | My feminist wife age 44 who used to complain about abuse of male power at work is now having sex with her 29 year old employee while breaking our marriage vow Women somehow assumed that if they were in power they wouldn’t act on their libido?Ok, just a quick question here. Your (I hope soon-to-be-ex) wife is a horrible human being and a hypocrite, and you should divorce her. But why would having sex with her employee would result in her being fired, if it's consensual? | /r/MensRights | 13/09/23 11:50 AM |
| 45 | 'Trickle-down' feminismI think hostility toward gay men if more deeply rooted in 2 things : 1 : The rigidity of male gender roles and expectations in society (while femininity is much more fluid, and a woman showing masculine traits won't be seen as problematic¹) 2 : a deep disgust toward male sexuality, by both men and women. Men's sexuality is seen as gross, animalistic, dirty. There's a reason why a lot of self-professed homophobes don't have that much a problem with lesbianism. It's perceived as pure, beautiful. B… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/09/23 04:52 PM |
| 29 | When people say: "It's okay for a man to cry", what they unconsciously seek to add is: "so long as that man is not my Father, Brother, Son, Husband, or anyone remotely close to me."More like "it's ok for men to cry, as lo´g as it's not about themselves". | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/09/23 03:42 PM |
| 3 | Why Men stay in intimate partner violent heterosexual relationships: A systematic review. Guilt, fear for their children safety, family members pressure….etcI know for a fact that my father stayed with my alcoholic, violent mother because he knew if he quit, she'd have me in the divorce, and he didn't want me to be alone with her... | /r/MensRights | 03/09/23 12:41 PM |
| 10 | TV shows portray men/fathers as idiots, and one ought to be aware of this and look out for it. Even a seemingly innocuous show like Peppa Pig portrays the father as an idiot, and this has an effect on children subconsciously.The dd in Bluey is a very good, positive example of masculinity. But yeah, Peppa pig is trash. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/23 10:02 AM |
| 100 | Men are not allowed to feel certain emotions like fear (especially of women).Yup. I remember a similar story. The dude was autistic and had been traumatized by women in his youth. So, he had to spend years in therapy to be able to even have basic interactions with women. Si he told that at his job,he could have short, professionnal exchanges with women, but anymore and it would send him in a panic attack. HR knew about it too. Except that a woman at his job decided she'd force him to crawl out of his shell by trying repeatedly to engage friendly conversation with him. Wh… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/08/23 09:02 AM |
| 88 | What's the Focus of Menslib?Yup, Menslib don't care about men's issues if they can't express it using a feminist framework. Reminds me of a debate about having men's issue clubs in some american campuses, a few years back (I honestly won't be able to find the source, it was in passing like in 2015 or 2016), and it was abandonned due to pressure from gender studies teachers and students because "we can't guarantee they'd use a feminist framework, and the men we asked out refuse to accept their discussion supervised by a fem… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/08/23 06:16 AM |
| 37 | Request: examples of 'controlling the narrative'And men use more violent means of suicide, so in the end, men offing themselves really only is a powerplay, to assert dominance and exact psychological damage on whomever finds their body. At least, that's what you'll learn about male suicide from common discourse. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/08/23 03:48 PM |
| 4 | Do you think there is "good" radicalisation?I don't use oppression, because the backlash you get is really something. See, us men are the oppressors (white cishet men are the worst offenders). So, claiming anything we face is oppression is seen as an insult, like we're insulting the "real oppressed" by comparing our struggle to theirs. Other times, it's met with "well, men made society for men's sake, so you can't be oppressed". (And, from experience, if you respond that patriarchy is not "by men, for men" you'll get the classical answer,… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/08/23 06:49 PM |
| 2 | The fallacy of binary privilegeExcept I fon't feel like a sportscar. I feel like a work truck. The kind that haul literal tons, and get it's axle difformed by the weight after a few years of intensive use. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/08/23 06:07 AM |
| 4 | "Violence against men is committed by other men". Ok, so what?Nah you're wrong my friend. When talking about crime statistics by skin color, of course there are social factors coming into play. But the ONLY REASON men commit crime, as a group, is their natural despicableness, everyone knows that /s. It's funny (well, not really, but ironic at the very least) that the idea of the original sin is still very much alive in our society, just deflected toward men. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/08/23 04:55 AM |
| 56 | Shoe0nHead on The Male Loneliness EpidemicThe part with the replies from leftists about some horribly misogynistic takes like "maybe we should actually adresse men's loneliness, least it comes back to bite us in the ass" and "12 y.o kids don't turn to the right because they want to enforce their privileges, but because the right at least look like they try to listen to them". I almost had an anxiety attack reading these replies... Gosh, the volume of misandry is frightening. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/08/23 09:55 AM |
| 109 | Reddit Will Side Against Men In ANY SituationThat's Reddit for you. Recently on r/TrueUnpopularOpinion, there was someone basically saying "women criticizing men pushes those young men into refusing feminism, and it will have adverse consequences for society, BUT women are totally justified in hating men, and then should absolutely continue because fuck men that's why". I summarized a bit, but that's the gist of it. Even when recognizing that society hurt us, people will still say men deserve it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/08/23 04:48 PM |
| 85 | (question) Did men build this system that men suffer in it thousands of years ago?Yes we did. And women did too. The idea that for all of History, women never even had a say in the way things went is absolutely bonkers. What happened from early on is that male and female homo sapiens took on tasks dependent on their respective physical attributes. Women bore child and gathered food, men became hunters and protectors. That solidified in what became traditional gender roles. But it's not like men decided that women were the ones bearing child and breast-feeding them. We also di… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/07/23 07:45 AM |
| 11 | Do we downplay misandry?Does u/thetinmenblog not posts here anymore? If so, that's a real shame... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/07/23 03:24 PM |
| 9 | The “male gaze”Maybe. But I'm convinced that homophobia as it existed in the late 19th/early 20th century (and as it still exists) comes from the fact that we, as a society, can't see male desire as positive. And it shows in the fact that lesbians are seen in a more positive light than gays, even by homophobes. I had a coworker who was barely left of "we should send gays to conversion camps" and still had no problems with girls fucking each other or kissing on the streets. And I know he's far from alone in tha… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/07/23 03:21 PM |
| 6 | The “male gaze”I'm not talking specifically about your mother. I'm sayikng that disgust toward male sexuality is something that has permeated our society since far before feminism came to be. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/07/23 02:40 PM |
| 17 | The “male gaze”Nah, that's anterior to feminism. The whole slut-shaming shtick, and the idea that women need to not have sex to be pure, tracks down to the idea that male sexuality is impure and soils people "subjected" to it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/07/23 01:41 PM |
| 59 | The “male gaze”The "gross" aspect of male homophobia really is a societal disdain for male sexuality. We, as a society, consider male desire and sexuality to be inherently bad, aggressive, gross, you have the pick of the litter of bad adjective to describe our relation with male sexuality. On the opposite, women's sexuality is seen as beautiful, fresh, loving, warm, almost clean. That's why lesbians are seen under a better light than gays. And it has impact everywhere in life. I'm convinces that one of the roo… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/07/23 11:27 AM |
| 41 | Something interesting that i noticedThis is Reddit. You'll the same pattern on r/aitah, whereas anything posted by men will see commenters say that he indeed is ann asshole. But women's post will have a low of backing up and rarely people will say they are assholes, even if the behavior is the same as the man. On r/trueunpopularopinion I have also seen that if apost talks about dating, bodycount, stuff like that, if it's made by a man it will get a lot of backlash. But I have seen precious few posts with the same content made by w… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/07/23 06:52 AM |
| 14 | The common feminist comeback for "why don't feminists advocate for more women in hard labor jobs" is very weak and flawed.At architecture school, every time we had a jury for our end of year projects, most of the times the jurors were men, and the girls would almost universally wear revealing clothes. I'm not talking "dressing to impress". I'm talking open blouses with dentelle showing, annd skirt become as short as possible, in a way that's just enough to not be considered erotic, but definitely with the aim of showing the goods. So yeah, women know how to use their sexuality to gain advantages in society. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/07/23 08:14 PM |
| 6 | are most men rapists?Well, that's not very efficient now, is it? You could easily mash coffee, podcast and rape together with a little bit of effort, and free more time fir more recreational non-consensual sex, as we all do when we have a penis. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 18/07/23 11:15 AM |
| 2 | "women hold up half the sky" Or why I stopped dating cis women and identifying as a man.Not gonna lie,if I was single, I think I'd specifically try to findmyself a trans woman to date. Well,I'd actually have to know how to meet pne,then how to approach one then how to seduce one, then... But you get what I'm trying to say. I'm happy with my wife, but yeah, I'd try something different if I was single. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/06/23 09:04 PM |
| 6 | How to get more women to understand the perspective of men and their issuesHonestly, the better advice in the end is to seek the help of a therapist, or better yet a sex therapist, because it seems to me a lot of difficulties with dating can be traced back to a lack of social skill, and moreover a difficulty to reconcile one's desire with the social conditionning we receive as men. So, seeking help from a professional that will help us deconstruct this conditionning can allow men to overcome that first hurdle. Won't guarantee finding someone. But you have much better o… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/06/23 01:12 PM |
| 5 | How to get more women to understand the perspective of men and their issuesFor real. Women always complain about there being no more good men. But consistently, the people I know that had the hardest time with dating are also the most gentle, respectful and implicated men. The kind of men who'd not hesitate to drive 300km at 4 o'clock if it could help a friend in need or a lover. Those are the ones that are left on the sidewalk of romantic relationships because they are not assertive enough. I'm not counting myself in this, because it would be pretty shitty to define m… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/06/23 06:19 AM |
| 164 | How to get more women to understand the perspective of men and their issuesThe main hurdle is that society views women's issues as a societal failing, and views men's issues as an individual moral failing. Recently on a french sub (an equivalent of askwomen), someone asked what these women thought about the fact that a lot of men felt that society didn't care about them at all. A few of the answers were sympathetic. A good chunk of answers were "well, society don't care about women either, and women have it worst so tough shit", and the other good chunk of answers was … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/06/23 11:40 AM |
| 44 | Academia is rife with subtle misandry.When I was 9, we had a teacher who was really, REALLY pro-women and had a bone to pick with boys. She'd set up rules like "boys can't talk back to girls", "if a girl is before a door, a boy can't enter before her" stuff like that. Oh, and "a boy can't push/shove a girl". She was also very strict with the bell on recess We had 2 bells, one to signify the end of the recess, a second one to signify the start of class. If, at the second bell you weren't in the classroom, you were punished (can't rem… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/06/23 05:44 AM |
| 10 | Is it true that fathers rarely apply for custody and if they do , they usually get it?So, I saw a video about that recently. I think it was the Dadvocate on youtube, you can find it easily. What it said, is that there was only ONE study. In Kentucky if I recall, which is one of the 11 states in the US where temporary shared legal custody is the norm during a divorce, pending the judgment. And yes, in Kentucky at that time, if men applied for it, they were granted temporary legal custody. Not physical custody, not visitation rights, legal custody. They are temporarily granted the … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/06/23 05:16 AM |
| 10 | Are we burning the candle at both ends for men?I mean, in France women are alllowed one year of early retirement per child they raise. Men are not allowed it. Why? Dunno, I guess fathers don't matter. Anyway, with the recent clusterfuck with the retirement age increase, we had feminist complain because the reform would disproportionately impacts mothers. Did the government propose to get rid ot these "free years" in addition ro raising the retirement age? Which would be a step toward equality? Nope. The increase is to be two years for everyo… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/06/23 09:54 PM |
| 6 | Update regarding "Are We Dating the Same Guy" Groups: You are FOR SURE being defamedHey Tinmen! Long time we haven't had one of your infographies, I'm starting to miss it. I hope everything is well and good for you. I can't (don't want to, really) imagine how much it can be a burden to carry this torch for so long, and the hate you must receive. So, take care of yourself! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/05/23 06:51 AM |
| 3 | How to dismiss the argument that we should focus on women's issues before tackling men's onesYeah, but we fall in another problem there. We should work on fixing men's issues because that's help men, not because it would indirectly help women. As an argument it can work, yes, but it still maintains the idea that men's issues don't deserve to be tackled for what they are and how they affect men. It still plays in to the idea that women are more important than men, and that's not an idea we should help propagate. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/05/23 05:53 AM |
| 3 | How to dismiss the argument that we should focus on women's issues before tackling men's onesIt's a little like when on reddit, a woman complains of her husband/bf cheating, he is the worst, and when the roles are reversed and it's a dude complaining, it feally is his fault if his gf/wife had to go outside of the relationship to find fulfillment. Thanks for sharing anyway. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/05/23 01:50 PM |
| 2 | How to dismiss the argument that we should focus on women's issues before tackling men's onesHonestly, nobody can fully know what is the male or female experience. Even transgender people will proba ly still have been socialized only one way as kids. So, yeah, as someone said, "mathematically, the distance from A to B is the same as the distance from B to A. It stands to reason that if the female experience is impossible to fully understand for a male, the inverse is also true". | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/05/23 11:57 AM |
| 3 | How to dismiss the argument that we should focus on women's issues before tackling men's onesI'm not confused, but I'm always down for a good story or two, so shoot! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/05/23 11:54 AM |
| 4 | How to dismiss the argument that we should focus on women's issues before tackling men's onesThat's what I'm defending. As a rebuttal to the argument that "as long as we've not finished working on women's issues, we won't adress men's issues because they are less pressing", apply the same logic to women's issues when compared to queerphobia or racism. One can argue racism kills in a day more people than mysoginy does in a year. So, following their logic (or lack thereof), we shouldn't adress women's issues as long as there still exist racism. Because it's a more pressing matter. And if … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/05/23 11:50 AM |
| 11 | How to dismiss the argument that we should focus on women's issues before tackling men's onesYup, that's about what I feel like to. There is so much power to be had for feminism that I don't see them ever stop fighting, even if they had a matriarchal hegemony with men in chains working the salt mines. Somehow, women would still be oppressed, because it's really hard to let go of the power when you have it. Which is, imho, one of the reason the whole idea of the patriarchy maintaining women in oppression falls flat. No system of power would ever relinquish their stranglehold on society. … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/05/23 11:46 AM |
| 18 | Panopticon of iffinessIsn't that what traditional masculinity is all about? Always having a façade of being cool/strong/stoic, despite the circumstances? That's what gets to me with things like "male tears" we saw pop up a few years ago. It's maintaining men in a state of self-oppression, because even mentioning that things are not fine is not masculine. The more I look, the more feminism looks to me to be a right wing movement, with a left-wing coat of paint. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/05/23 05:57 AM |
| 65 | Something I want to ask and I could be an ass for asking this. What is with the left's disdain of agency in dating and relationships??First instinct? It's coming from the general point of view of women in dating. Basically, meeting people, dating, sex, is something that ",happens" for alot of women. It's not something they have to work for. Which is NOT the case for most men. Most men have to work to get women interested in them. Approach them. Set up a date. Initiate everything, show their interest, etc... So, the idea that there are some things you have to do for it to work out might feel like manipulation. Because for the m… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/05/23 02:58 PM |
| 79 | Question for the peeps in this sub: Do you want the bonding nature of men to change for the better or should we respect the way most men socialize, but encourage more “bromance” culture?We should let men be men, and that means accepting the way men tend to naturally behave. It's funny though that we go to great length to change society to accomodate women (as we should), but when it comes to accomodating anything for men, tough shit, it's men's role to adapt. It's a trope at this point, but it looks like the ideal man would be a woman if we follow that train of thoughts. That's something I often hear, we should "correct" men in behaving more like women. Could you imagine the up… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/05/23 06:57 AM |
| 15 | How are men's rights viewed in scandinavian societies?The sterilization thing is wild imho. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/05/23 06:04 PM |
| 111 | What do you believe is driving the male loneliness pandemic?Oof, though question. Economic tension, the fact that people have to work indecent hours to make ends meet... I also think the dating world is a hellscape and that doesn't help. Online dating have allowed already successful people to become even more successful (so, a few men and quite a lot of women), and with the exponential growth of the available dating pool (and the fact that someone in France can potentially hook up with someone in Sweden) has created an illusion of abundance. Which means … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/05/23 07:43 AM |
| 27 | How to argue against the "(cishet) men are inherently more dangerous" rhetoric?Plus, it doesn't address the "why?" of why men are more violent. When it comes to black people, it's rightly pointed out that socio-economic causes are at the root of why black people make up the majority of perpetrators. When it comes to men, "they're just evil by nature". We could point out the onus put on men to be providers, and the fact that society regards men who fail to accomplish that as failures (even in these times, where women outearn men until they got a kiddo). And that it's basica… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/05/23 08:25 AM |
| 16 | How can we end potential anti-male bias in international humanitarian organizations?It would also suggest that problem don't matter unless it hurts women. And that nothing should be done unless it aims to aid women. And one of the main issue we face, is the very idea that men's issues deserve to be recognized and tackled because they hurt men, and that should be enough to act. Masquerading every single one of our issues as women's issues, or kid's issues would only serve to reinforce the idea that men don't face real issues. So I, for one, am against it | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/05/23 04:03 PM |
| 80 | Have you ever been shamed by another man (or men in your life) for showing certain emotions?That whole "emotional labor" stuff is basic hypocrisy. How can you tell men they need ro be more open with their emotions, and as soon as they do so, criticize them for the required emotional labor? Basically saying men "you can talk about your emotions and hardships. Just, not to me. Or any woman in general" So, like it already is? Also, isn't the cliché that men have to sit down and listen to their wives whine for days on end? I know I've seen the men in my life do so at least. Isn't that emot… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/05/23 09:31 AM |
| 4 | "If you want a movement for men so bad, just start one yourself. There's nothing stopping you."I agree. That's why I said that according to society, which is heavily influenced by feminism, considers any man that complain about dating struggle an incel. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/05/23 11:35 AM |
| 3 | "If you want a movement for men so bad, just start one yourself. There's nothing stopping you."No, but every man who complains about it, is. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/05/23 06:24 AM |
| 10 | "If you want a movement for men so bad, just start one yourself. There's nothing stopping you."Yup I know that one. Scott Alexander is always on point. Thing is, to this day I share this fear of being a creep if women see my sexual desire. The only reason I was able to be with my wife is that she came to me, she broke the barrier of intimacy. And once that barrier is broken, I can express my desire freely, because I see that it's somewhat reciprocated. And what the feminists replying to Scott Aaronsson don't understand, and most women are the same, is that for most of them, they will neve… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/05/23 06:21 AM |
| 16 | "If you want a movement for men so bad, just start one yourself. There's nothing stopping you."Thing is, incels are not "born" bitter and angry. These are men that face very hard challenges when it comes to a primordial aspect of human life : -companionship and intimacy (sexual and romantic). Because dating as a dude is hard. You basically have to do all the legwork, putting yourself out there, with the risk of facing some devastating rejection from people who, frankly, will most likely never have to deal with that. And as dating standards have kept increasing, more and more men are falli… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/05/23 06:14 AM |
| 6 | "If you want a movement for men so bad, just start one yourself. There's nothing stopping you."Well, if you're not willing to face opposition, that shows that your cause is not important enough. Look at feminism, now THAT's a movement that face tremendous opposition and still does the work, with absolutely no support whatsoever except maybe the media, the entire UN, capitalism, Hollywood... No support I tell you! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/05/23 06:01 AM |
| 14 | "If you want a movement for men so bad, just start one yourself. There's nothing stopping you."Yeah, but not many. My main thoughts on the daily are "we need to enslave women" and "what do I eat today?". With a little wiggle room to sprinkle some "how am I going to beat my wife" sometimes. Aren't we all just the same on that front? A happy bunch of neanderthal? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/05/23 05:38 AM |
| 16 | Abraham Lincoln used female pen names to attack political rivals, from which he could slander them as "unpopular with women", among other thingsThere is also the fact that, despite women having the right to vote, there still haven't been a female president. So, you have to some degree to divorce the idea that "very few women hold office to this day" and "women have no power". Women are half the voters in most country. There not being a female president means that women do not vote as a monolith, and have agency in who they vote for. There not having been a female president is not a marker of the lack of power of women over the political… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/05/23 06:08 AM |
| 19 | Gender biases in our narratives about historyAnd then you'll have someone say "see they treated women BETTER than today's society. We really are the savages here" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/04/23 06:23 AM |
| 16 | Men are being gaslit into thinking they are misogynists and it’s destroying their mental healthI remember when feminists started entering video game spaces and telling us that everything was sexist and problematic. That was about the beginning of my journey toward being absolutely annoyed by feminism. And since, it has gone even deeper into it. Most games today seems to have to follow the most "inclusive" guidelines possible. And games that don't are bad, m'wokay? I mean, geek spaces were what marginal people could get into without feeling judged. You like sci-fi? Welcome here, nobody is … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/04/23 07:03 AM |
| 17 | Physical v Mental Abuse and gendersThe "Nice guy" syndrome is often portrayed as men being assholes, but for having fell prey to it, and seen many men fall prey to it, I can tell you some women are REALLY adept at manipulating men they feel are interested in them, to make them their personal slave or emotionnal support animal. And they just have to distillate the most minimal amount if positive attention to keep it running. I don't know if I'd qualify it as abuse, but whenever I read that nice guys are assholes (when a lot are ju… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/04/23 04:33 PM |
| 12 | Science denial won’t end sexism.Ok so, on that note, even with as much caution as possible, you'll generally see that male infant are more interested in things, and female infants in people (or toys representing people). I see my son, we've been very cautious not to imprint on him "boys like trucks and not dolls". Still, he has some dolls but seldom plays with them. He can play with a toy car for days on end. And I seem to recall they gave chimpanzees human toys, and quickly found that male infant chimpanzee gravitated toward … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/04/23 08:50 PM |
| 16 | What do you know about men and boys' advocacy?It reminds me of a tweet I saw some time ago from a feminist who reacted to someone saying "75% of homeless people are men" (don't quote me on the statistics), and she replied "And I won't stop until it's 100%" I can almost see the people replying to "men are the majority of death in 11 or the 15 leading causes of death" with "so there are 4 causes of death where we should focus all our attention". | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/04/23 08:54 PM |
| 9 | Invisible hurdles: Gender and institutional differences in the evaluation of economics papersI like the fact that the study tend to show that there might be a bias FOR women in reviewing of economic papers, and that the researcher seems to almost ask for forgiveness ("I am almost tempted to go for the naive conclusion that... " seems pretty begging for forgiveness in my book) for concluding that "maybe there isn't a bias AGAINST women" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/04/23 06:37 AM |
| 12 | TW: Male suicide. Nobody really cares.I feel like that's about it. Without going into depression territory, I have been through some rough phases, and yeah, as a dude you kinda have to climb your way out of it by yourself because very few people will help you. I xan't say how it is for women though, so I'm not going to say it's easier for them. What I saw though, is that the ones that stuck with me through it were all men. So yeah, the narrative that men don't have each others back is bullshit. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/04/23 06:33 AM |
| 28 | A Researcher Studied The Most Common Last Words Of Suicidal MenAnd people saying "fragile masculinity" doesn't help either. Well, mocking and deriding masculinity altogether is a very bad idea, and it chips away at the core of manhood which is already in turmoil enough as it is. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/04/23 05:57 AM |
| 49 | Why I joined the Men’s’ Advocacy Movement: the greatest weapon the misandrists have is divisionGood on you for freeing you from all these hurtful messages. Internalized misandry is a thing, wether feminism wants to recognize it or not. And it hurts men. I, myself, was unable to even ask a girl out for years because I had internalized all those messages about men being violent, aggresive, perverts, etc... So I perceived asking a girl out to be an insult to her, like me having any desire toward her was already a disrespect, so asking her out was being a monster. So yeah, there are still way… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/04/23 07:55 AM |
| 42 | Why does the man that moves out after a breakup or divorce?Good old chivalry in our society imho. Minimize inconvenience for women at all cost. Funny you talk about that. I just yesterday learnt one of my Iaido teacher is separating from his wife (in good terms he said), and he's leaving her the house he paid for in full, while changing region. So there is an element of truth to what you said, I've got to say. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/04/23 07:49 AM |
| 2 | Justice and gender stereotypes: How should returning female jihadists be judged?First, I'll have you know that no expat woman came here for me, and that's scandalous. Second, I don't know if there is something to believe or not. They interviewed woman that came back from Syria, and most of them said the same thing, "I went there to find a husband". To be fair, those were the women that were basically used as sex and labour slaves once there, not combattants. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/04/23 09:03 PM |
| 50 | Justice and gender stereotypes: How should returning female jihadists be judged?Yup, the fact that they were judged "victims of indoctrination" but men weren't was fishy as hell. I also remember clearly one of them being interviewed by a tv team, and when asked why she went there, her answer was "because I wanted to find myself a real man, a manly one, and they don't exist anymore in France". | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/04/23 07:28 PM |
| 16 | Postive masculinity is still something vague when you think about it.Yesterday I was listening to a woman on the radio who was pretty critical of the gender war propagated by feminism. She was notably saying that feminism seemed to consider masculinity to be a defect, and femininity the goal to strive for, qualifying it as "a man is a woman like every other, he just has to be sculpted to fit the mold". But something interesting she said was that femininity is natural. Women's body change during puberty to make them become women, and it reminds them every month th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/04/23 11:22 AM |
| 6 | The erasure of male victims of abuseAh, Marlène.... what an exceptional woman she is.... Speaking of equality and parity, I was really amused when our government announced that there were more female ministers than male one, and that we"reached parity". I am not good a math, but if there are more women than men, that's not parity, is it? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/04/23 07:09 AM |
| 54 | The erasure of male victims of abuseAmazing work as usual. In France too, it's classified as "Violence against Women". Which is weird because it's a pretty evenly distributed form of violence, in terms of perpetrators annd victims both. Yet, forms of violence where men are the vast majority of victims (for instance, workplace death, suicide, global forms of violences wars, etc...) are not categorized as Violence against Men and Boys. I wonder if somewhere, there is a form of ideological bias at play... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/04/23 12:47 PM |
| 3 | Exploitation of men and their wealthLa plupart des exemples je ne les ai pas référencés, c'est plus des trucs captés au vol. Pour le podcast, c'était la chronique sexo de Catherine Blanc sur Europe 1, l'épisode justement nommé "Je suis féministe mais j'aime avoit des rapports sexuels avec un macho, pourquoi?" Du 4 février 2021. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/04/23 10:50 AM |
| 35 | Exploitation of men and their wealthDon't know why you're getting downvoted pal. Came here to add that I've seen/heard plenty of cases of self-identified feminists that openly admit they simply aren't attracted to men that aren't traditionally masculine. I remember on a french sexuality podcast a listener that asked "why am I only attracted to very macho men. I'm a feminist, one of my main focus is to help society forgo toxic masculinity nad give birth to more sensitive men, yet I am not attracted to them" There was also a twitter… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/04/23 06:00 AM |
| 43 | What are the examples of misandry, male disposability & common male tropes in fiction?In recent memories, there are a ton of movies where they show the male characters to be incompetent at best, and female characters to be almost infaillible. I think about Star Wars mostly, but look at The Ring of Power, most Marvel stuff (Thor is a buffon, and female Thor is perfect. Hulk learned to master his powers for decades, and She-Hulk surpasses naturally, Loki is replaced in his own show by Female Loki who is superior in every respect, ...) The last Jurassic Park where you discover that … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/04/23 01:55 PM |
| 43 | Anti-male sentiment on the left from the perspective of a trans womanWell, basically, feminism sees men as has about every society beforehand. Disposable cannon fodder, whose greatest quality is their strength and number. "Be an ally and shut the fuck up" or "be a grunt for our war against the enemy and shut the fuck up" seems to be pretty close from one another... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/04/23 09:53 PM |
| 12 | Vast numbers of men and women think mens’ rights are under threat…so why does no one speak out?I'm in France, and my feeling anytime I listen to the radio or watch the TV, is that not being feminist (or worse, being anti-feminist) is the biggest taboo there is. They parrot feminists talking points like it's the accepted and absolute truth, and I don't feel like it's really allowed societally to offer counterpoints. Granted, our main anti-feminist figures here in France are fucking assholes, that doesn't help. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/04/23 05:26 AM |
| 6 | Does anyone have stats on IPV against men in Australia? What does the research say?Well, it's easy. They're self-defending against their self-defending partner, who in turns is self-self-defending against her self-self-self-defending partner. It's an infinite cycle of self-defense. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/03/23 01:23 PM |
| 85 | Status, Not Sex: Bo Winegard scrutinizes Kate Manne's concept of 'himpathy'Even despite the whole gendered wording, that's insane. Female perps and victims have infinitely more support than male perps and victims. A woman can kill her husband and she will be automatically thought to have done so in self-defence. Female teacher raping 10, 12, 13 year old kids are defined has "having had sex", not raped. On the other hand, male victims of rape are being laughed at, male victims of domesric violence are being completely erased from the public discourse. What the fuck is s… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/03/23 01:08 PM |
| 30 | Tropes against Men: examples of misandry that are baked into our cultureI remember discussing on reddit about the cdc study on domestic violence, and the fact that statistically, lesbian relationships are the most violent. A self-proclaimed feminist came and asserted that "yes, but it's because they ask over a lifetime, not last relationship. And many lesbians are closeted at first, therefore the violence they experienced were from men". First, it never said as much in the study. It specifically asked for violence IN lesbian relationships. Second, even if it were tr… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/03/23 10:26 AM |
| 30 | Is it time we talked about parental alienation?You know, when I think Parental Alienation, I can't help thinking about the videogame The Witcher 3. In this, we encoubter a man called the Bloody Baron, who is known to have a bad temper, who seeks to find his wife and daughter again and enlists our help. As we progress through the search, we discover that he is an alcoholic, prone to violent outbursts. Then, we discover the truth. Before becoming like that, while he was away at war for years, his wife cheated on him with his childhood friend, … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/03/23 03:32 PM |
| 20 | A question on statistics and victims of domestic violenceI am no expert, but py gut feelings is that in the collective psyche, reciprocal violence is counted as male-on-female violence (you'll often hear things like "if she hit him, it was self-defence or stuff like that.) So if all reciprocal violence is counted as unilateral toward females, then statistically it appears that men are very little impacted by DV. That's unfair I know, but I'm pretty sure that's it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/03/23 07:50 AM |
| 24 | The coercive control con jobWhat the??? Australia, are you ok? Do you need help? I just love that as soon as the program started backfiring, and women were charged with coercive behaviot, they lost their collection shit and asked for "better" training to focus on arresting males... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/03/23 12:50 PM |
| 7 | What is considered ‘rape’? The public’s definition differs greatly from the law — YouGov survey results, UK, surprisingly positive.You can then object that women can orgasm during rape, despite being, well, raped. So, can we say they enjoyed it and therefore it's not rape? Orgasm and arousal both are physiological responses to a stimuli, they do not denote consent. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/03/23 11:53 AM |
| 33 | The "Gender Wage Gap" is why I was (formerly) a feministAnd why aren't business only hiring women? And as for why more men are homeless, I'm sure menslib would tell you something like "because men don't know how to manage their money, and make stupid spending decisions". Everything is allowed to justify inequality toward men after all. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/03/23 10:53 AM |
| 82 | Does this sub believe that "traditional" masculinity and/or gender roles should be promoted/encouraged?I don't know what to tell you man. I've been following this sub for quite a few month, and I've never really seen people saying we should enforce traditional gender roles. But I've not read every single post either. I find in that sub quite a lot of respite. It's a men's right sub, but without right- wing edge, and without the self-flagellation of other left wing male subs. People here, from what I see, are not particularly in favor or traditionalism. BUT, advocate for the idea that part of the … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/03/23 11:13 PM |
| 22 | Sexual politics is damaging young menAnd that's also white slut shaming is a thing. Because a woman who sleems around has given herself to the polluting sexuality of males, without the cleansing touch of a serious relationship. Though on that note, the fact that typically, women are offered sex might also play a role. Usually, women don't have to work for sex, so a woman who consumes it a lot is, well, a consumer. Not unlike an obese person eating all the food at an all-you-can-eat buffet (and I'm obese, so I'm very aware of that s… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/03/23 11:28 PM |
| 12 | Why are feminists shocked when young boys turn to altright role models?I am genuinely reluctant to vote ecologists here in France, for two reasons. First being their ideologically stupid anti-nuclear stance (when you see Germany for example...) And second is the insane feminists there are in that party. Sandrine Rousseau is a train wreck. And in general, most left-wing parties in France are massively pro-feminists, and it does them a huge disservice. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/03/23 08:44 PM |
| 32 | Why are feminists shocked when young boys turn to altright role models?I am genuinely reluctant to vote ecologists here in France, for two reasons. First being their ideologically stupid anti-nuclear stance (when you see Germany for example...) And second is the insane feminists there are in that party. Sandrine Rousseau is a train wreck. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/03/23 06:16 PM |
| 25 | So many women seem to have zero idea what the male experience is actually likeI don't know dude. When I was a little boy, my father took me to Paris, Place Saint Michel, and told me "you see son, all these women will be yours to rape. That's your right as a man". At least that's what feminism told me happened. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/03/23 10:38 AM |
| 9 | Stigma against older men potentially rooted in misandryMacron it's even worst, he was a minor wheb they began their relationship. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/03/23 10:35 AM |
| 18 | Stigma against older men potentially rooted in misandryYup. Everytime they bring that up about Leonardo DiCaprio, I'm kinda puzzled. He is dating 25 y.o women. They are adults through and through, they're capable of chosing for themselves. If the situation was reversed, and let's say Elizabeth Banks (who is the same age) dated only 25 y.o studs, nobody would bat an eye. It would be seen as empowering. I can already hear what they would say "50 y.o men are flabby and gross, of course she dates 25 y.o, she has the right to have standards". Except here… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/03/23 07:07 AM |
| 23 | So many women seem to have zero idea what the male experience is actually likeAccording to feminism, women have been locked up at home since the dawn of time, forced to manage the kids and teach them life while the men are out drinking with their buddies. So, if women were the ones responsible for teaching everything to kids, they're responsible for the Patriarchy. A system can only continue because it's taught after all. If all kids were taught matriarchal values by their mothers, the Patriarchy wouldn't have lasted a generation. Also I'd like to point out something. Thi… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/03/23 06:44 AM |
| 11 | In Scotland they are proposing a law for men to go to prison for offending womenI thought the very principle of sexual advances was you cannot now if they're wanted or not until you try? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 16/03/23 06:11 PM |
| 6 | A Contradiction in Rhetoric Regarding Men's SuicideThe modern corporate world does seem like a machine designed to crush hopes and dreams. I'd like to see suicide statistics between now and a date going back as far as we can. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/03/23 04:07 PM |
| 12 | A Contradiction in Rhetoric Regarding Men's SuicideYou know, every time I've heard "you are a man, act like it" it was coming from a woman. I've seen a mother slap and shout at her 3 or 4 y.o son because he was crying after being hit by his big sister. I've already told that, but a friend went through a litteral hell-month, losing his uncle, breaking both his leg in a motorcycle accident, and losing his job, and when he cried in front of his then girlfriend (very much a feminist and "men can cry all they want when they're with me, I'm fine with … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/03/23 06:31 AM |
| 98 | A Contradiction in Rhetoric Regarding Men's SuicideThe point I have often heard about women attempting more is that their suicide attempts are cries for help whereas men's attempts mostly only aim to end one's life. I've also seen feminists say men die more because they use more violent methods because they're egotistical people who don't care about the mess they leave for others to clean. I wish I was making that up. It's brought up almost everytime the higher rate of male suicides is discuted somewhere. But yeah, the higher number of female at… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/03/23 10:20 PM |
| 27 | Note written by MSU shooter asked 'why,' outlined other targetsI'm always absolutely stunned by the fact that we can find ways to excuse radical islamisr terrorists (I'm french so I vividly remember Charlie Hebdo, and the 15th of November 2016, wherein the american left said shit like "I am not Charlie because they kinda deserve it" and "Yes, more than 150 people were killed, but you have to understand that those terrorists didn't really have a choice". Yet when it's a man acting on the issues that made him suffer, there is no justification or understanding… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/03/23 08:17 AM |
| 1 | I Am A Woman Trying to UnderstandI don't know. I'm born that way. Believe me I'm as surprised of it as you can be. But at least I have good healthcare, so that's not all that bad. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/03/23 07:19 PM |
| 14 | Why does The Left Keep Missing This About The Male Loneliness Problem?I remember as time of seeing meme-y twitter posts about "day 9 without sex : I laid naked on a beach to finally feel the "motion of the ocean" again" and stuff like that. Coming almost exclusively from women. And everytime I was like "I know that's a joke, but you think 9 days without sex is a long time?", realizing the world of difference between the average man and thr average woman when it comes to access to sex. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/03/23 07:35 AM |
| 36 | Why does The Left Keep Missing This About The Male Loneliness Problem?You ask them. "Have you ever had sex with a man you felt was only there for sex, and didn't respect you as a person" There is a good chance they will say yes. Then you say "so, why does him treating you as a fuckable piece of meat didn't stop you from having sex with him". If treating women as a sex-object was the single biggest barrier to entry to sex for men, no women should be able to complain about men sleeping with them only seeing them as sex-object. Especially because, in my experience, t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/03/23 06:52 AM |
| 9 | Why does The Left Keep Missing This About The Male Loneliness Problem?And, you know, that's something that always bothered me. "Lowering their standards". It always seems to come from the idea that somehow, all women are perfect being and deserve nothing but perfection. Don't get me wrong, I love women. But they're not perfect. Many have character flaws, endearing or not. Some might be toxic, dangerous, whatever. Let's not act like if, for a man, having a woman in his life is an automatic gift from god. Because that's what this implies. "Women are exceptionnal bei… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/03/23 06:38 AM |
| 51 | Why does The Left Keep Missing This About The Male Loneliness Problem?"men who don't have success are treating women like trophies, and that's why they don't have success" is a phrase that negates itself. Because the men who treat women as trophies, and usually as pieces of meat to fuck, usually have the most success. If objectifying women was the root-cause of lack of sexual success, players wouldn't exist. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/03/23 07:04 AM |
| 19 | Misandry IS RealYeah, but "MiSAndrY hURts MEn's FEEliNgs MisogiNY KIlls womEN" or something. I recently searched for r/menkampf, and it's discussed quite heavily in "antihatesubreddits", where they said that it's a neonazis subreddit... I mean... if all it takes to make your tweets look like neonazis' tweets, is to change a single word, maybe reflect on what it says about the original tweet, not on the person doing the switch for demonstrative purposes. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 06/03/23 07:52 AM |
| 2 | Traditional house chores done by menThat's very probable. I never even opened that post... damn smartphones... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/03/23 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Traditional house chores done by men6 5k 555n5n 60kg 5zan 5n 5an 555655ln5qn5n5n5 | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/03/23 06:03 PM |
| 17 | 10 Stories That Show How Horribly We Treat Male Rape Victims - ListverseI'm talking about the people saying "you're lucky"'s perception of what happened, I'm not saying it's true. The standard perception for a man being "I feel like no girl want to have sex with me" (because it's a dude's responsibility to engage and escalate things with a woman to ultimately lead to sex), so I think the response to "I have been raped by a woman" might shape to become something like "I would havae liked for a woman to want sex with me so bad that she'd just... do it..." It's a respo… | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/03/23 03:19 PM |
| 54 | 10 Stories That Show How Horribly We Treat Male Rape Victims - ListverseImho, the fact that men will cheer for a man that has been raped (in the sense "how lucky") comes from the fact that men are never made to feel like they can be desired by a woman, like they can be an object of lust. And it's also amplified by the fact that even in a consensual relationship, if a man is not up for sex, he'll often be told he must be gay for not wanting sex. So, a man that has been raped? That man was sought after. A woman desired him so much she was willing to force him to have … | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/03/23 02:20 PM |
| 6 | "Men should be drafted/conscripted because they are more capable fighter, not because of their sex" is the dumbest argumentYup, that's about the most irritating answer you usually get. Do feminists really think women are so powerless, that even when in power of entire kingdoms, they are still somehow slaves? Though, when you think about it, every "female empowerement" there is today is really only pushing a consumerist mindset, so yeah, it makes sense. Recently I have seen quite a lot of talk about the question of body count. And while I won't shame someone for their bodycount, I, myself, would not date someone with… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/03/23 08:47 AM |
| 10 | "Men should be drafted/conscripted because they are more capable fighter, not because of their sex" is the dumbest argumentExcept for the times it was a female ruler. I mean, the 100 years war kinda ignited thanks to Alienor d'Aquitaine.... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/03/23 07:59 AM |
| 32 | "Men should be drafted/conscripted because they are more capable fighter, not because of their sex" is the dumbest argumentI don't remember who, but someone said that "sure, women have had a hard time in history. But given the fact that men have been sent to die in wars for thousands of years, with no regard for their wishes or feelings, saying that men hvae always been and still are oppressors is an insult to all those victims of war in history" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/03/23 04:25 PM |
| 12 | «It's not enough that men's lives are ruined»Why is she still your sister? /s That's a fucked up worldview if you want my opinion. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/03/23 04:21 PM |
| 4 | Guardian article that sums up the left's problem discussing male loneliness.Sure thing https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-state-our-unions/202208/whats-behind-the-rise-lonely-single-men%3famp | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/02/23 12:56 PM |
| 34 | Why the rate of single men in the US looking for dates has declinedI don't know where this idea that men prefer to sleep around comes from. Might some men prefer it? Sure, just like women. But the majority of men I know are not much in hooking up. Sure, it's anecdotal... but still, I'd like to see a study saying that men prefer hooking up to relationships. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/02/23 03:40 PM |
| 13 | Guardian article that sums up the left's problem discussing male loneliness.I said they "can cruise through life" not facing rejection. Because let's be honest, making signs at dudes and dudes not recognizing them is not what I'd call rejection. It might not be comfortable mind you, but it's not an outright no. And, with dating sites, most women can just exist and have opportunities without having to do much, if at all, for this. And about "nobody wants to see that", sure a 450 pounds 99 years-old woman will maybe trigger this. But I have heard it about completely norma… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/02/23 03:35 PM |
| 62 | Why the rate of single men in the US looking for dates has declinedWell, it depends. If so many men in the dating pool are trash like I've seen claimed time and time again, getting them out of it should be a win for women, no? That would mean the dude no girls want are not here anymore and the ones lefts are the very few select "good ones" That's why I never got the backlash against MGTOW. These "obvious incel type misogynists" are removing themselves from yhe dating pool, why do you complain? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/02/23 12:36 PM |
| 20 | A lie that needs to die: "Men Won't Take Birth Control if They Had it."And there was a stupid anchor mocking men about this clinical trial saying "boohoo poor little fragile men are hurt by the bad moods so they asked to stop the trials, boohoo" I kid you not. Imagine the reverse. Imagine on any clinical trials for a medication for women if an anchor said the same things, but about women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/02/23 08:55 AM |
| 67 | Guardian article that sums up the left's problem discussing male loneliness.Oh, I know what makes men lonely : Most men receive no positive validation past the age of... what? 12 y.o Society sees male sexuality as inherently bad, perverse and invasive, and male bodies as something gross (cue the "nobody wants to see that" when a man who's not a pro-athletes wallk shirtless somewhere), with little to no bodypos for male bodies. And yet, despite having to build their self-confidence on their fucking own with everything stacked against it, it's men who are supposed to face… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/02/23 08:30 AM |
| 20 | The "quiet loner" stereotype about mass shootersToo radical for me... don't you know men just cruise on life with a leisurely pace, just for being a man? You must be a MRad. (/s obviously) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/02/23 08:10 AM |
| 29 | Does radical feminism damage the profile of women's rights?I'm always appaled by the idea that banning abortion is a move targeted at women. I'm pretty sure if men were the ones being pregnant, or if we had to use a third sex for that, whatever... anti-abortion people would still be anti-abortion. Because for the vast majority of them, what matters is the idea that as soon as an egg is fertilized, it's a life. I mean, I remember christians saying that men masturbating is murder, because you're killing thousands of spermatozoids each time... so, is it a … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/02/23 06:22 PM |
| 8 | I Am A Woman Trying to UnderstandI have an anecdote for that. I had a girl friend in high school who had really high grade when it came to maps colouring (is that a thing outside France? Anyway we had maps to colour at home for homework that would be graded afterwards). Anyway, boys tended to have lower grades than girls. So, being a sly dog I asked her if she could make my map in the same time as hers So, there we had 2 maps done by the same person. They are virtually identical. We both gave it to the teacher the next day. Sur… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/02/23 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Highlighting the hypocrisy of feminists with respect to the JK Rowling drama and Mens RightsIf Trauma is a you problem, shouldn't that mean that there should be no segregated shelters, and that men and women should be able to use the same shelters at all time? No, because one of the main argument of women only shelters is that due to having been abused at the hand of a man, they should find a safe space free of masculinity. And vice versa, in the case of a male-only shelter, to not be confronted with femininity. That's one of the points I agree on with feminists about DV shelters. It d… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/23 09:36 AM |
| 43 | I Am A Woman Trying to UnderstandWell, I'm glad you're open minded toward learning our struggles. I'm French so i can't really help you out there about books (and, in addition, there are very few books simply because every time one is published there is a maor backlash from feminists). Anyway, the only real resource I can recommend you with my limited knowledge would be "The War on Boys" by Warren Ferrel, or the movie "The Red Pill", which is really interesting because it's made by an ex-feminist who made some pretty progressiv… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/23 09:12 AM |
| 6 | "I wish you were a girl"There was a french movie a while back, named "Guillaume et les Garcons, à table". It's an autobiographic movie about an actor that was raised by his mother as a girl, because she really wanted a girl and only had boys. It's a really touching movie that shows how much that guy didn't know how to be a man, and how he kinda conquered it back while not going the opposite way to the extreme. On the end he found the right balance, being a man with some feminine character traits, found himself a wife w… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/23 07:53 AM |
| 11 | Highlighting the hypocrisy of feminists with respect to the JK Rowling drama and Mens RightsIf I remember, the reason JKR gave for excluding trans women is that those women are fleeing domestic violence, often at the hand of a man, therefore having people who used to be male in a space that's supposed to be safe could very much be cause for stress for those women victims of DV. Imho that's debatable, but still, I can see the reason there. It's not like "we don't want trans women because they're not real women and we hate that". | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/02/23 11:33 AM |
| 7 | One Men and ViolenceI have a personal example about that. A few month back, my wife had a "psychotic breakdown" (don't know if that's the right term, I am not a native speaker). Basically, her brain had no restrictions, and she acted on every impulse she had. Like at one point getting naked in our living room, saying she was getting wet and to come fuck her, which is something she never do (I refused of course, but she later confessed she felt like she was ready to rape me at that point if she could. Again, no impu… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/02/23 05:03 PM |
| 12 | One Men and ViolenceThe idea that men are not allowed to express violent tendencies, and therefore bottle up until they explode is something I never considered, but is a very interesting take. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/02/23 03:52 PM |
| 40 | The “incel” slur is making it impossible for me to use the internetHonestly, you don't even have to not have sex. Nowadays, every single disagreement with the progressive discourse is cause for being called an incel. Because you can't disagree if you're not an angry virgin apparently. And progressives hold the absolute truth in all subjects it seems. In the end, the more I witness this, the more I realize intersectional feminism, anti-racism, lgbtq+ movement, etc... are fostering bullies. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/02/23 07:39 AM |
| 20 | Until we learn to discuss child victims of radicalisation without blaming them people like Tate will for ever take advantage of them.Wait. Your father didn't teach you that as a soon-to-be-man, your role, and your priviledge, was to be an oppressor? I'm teaching my son how to oppress people, as my father did before me, and his father did before him! /s obviously. But for fucks sake, men being oppressors is such an horrible point to make. Most men are completely powerless, and moreover, most men are moving mountains and ready to sacrifice a lot to accomodate the women in their lives. Society is built around sacrificing men. Ho… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/02/23 11:08 PM |
| 5 | Do we care less about missing boys and men?What's in fact, pretty ironic, is that by focusing so much on female victims while ignoring male victims (for example about domestic and sexual violence), feminism is actually perpetuaring patriarchal gender roles and the idea that women are in perpetual need of saving. The actual anti-patriarchal thing to do would be, quite weirdly, to focus instead on male victims... and it would solve a LOT of problems. Male disenfranchisement which can lead to resentment and potentially violence, chief among… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/02/23 05:17 PM |
| 11 | "Rolling the dice on your life!"Exactly. They act like women are a monolithic force for good, and no women can ever do bad things. But everybody knows of absolutely horrible women. Vile, egotistical, shallow, arrogant, gold-digging women who think they are entitled to the world because they exist are a dime a dozen. But I guess they act like this "because they're constrained by The Patriarchy", so really it's the fault of men. (I'm not even kidding, when you bring up that terrible female leader existed, ahem, Thatcher (sorry, … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/02/23 07:57 AM |
| 6 | "Rolling the dice on your life!"By the way, one thing I find very ironic is that idea that "if Nice GuysTM weren't misogynistic, they'd easily be in a relationship". Because if that were true, and the only thing preventing those men from finding a relationship was to be misogynists, then there wouldn't be so many women complaining about dating misogynists... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/02/23 07:45 AM |
| 22 | "Rolling the dice on your life!"The feminist talking points are indeed very close to the Far Right's ones. Just with another target. "Men are the most violent gender, thus we should not trust men" Vs - "Blacks are the most violent ethnicity, thus we should not trust blacks" Or "Men shouldn't be able to opt out of child support. If a man didn't want to have a kid, then he should not have had sex, now he has to take responsibility" Vs - "Women shouldn't be able to abort. If a woman doesn't want a kid, she should not have had sex… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/02/23 11:06 PM |
| 30 | "Rolling the dice on your life!"I'd like to make a bridge between between what you're citing, and the research cited in Slate Star Codex's "Radicalizing the Romanceless", where the author talks about a study that showed that men with higher antisocial and/or violent behavioral markers (being part of a gang, having been in a fight, etc...) were consistently more sexually successful than non-violent men (success being measured in the number of partners here). He also cites another study showing that for each point of QI above 10… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/02/23 11:02 PM |
| 7 | Why do feminists say “ah now I see, it’s your personality” or “maybe if you were nice women would like you” when most women are attracted to assholes and turned off by genuinely nice men?Okay, so, as a retort to that, there has been a study done that linked sexual success in males to dangerous and antisocial behaviors. Using questions like "are you or were you part of a gang", "have you ever been involved in a fight", "have you ever assaulted someone", "have you ever been to jail", the researcher has been able to predict pretty accurately the number of sexual partners of young men. It also highlighted the idea that a certain amount of young men joined gangs as a way to attract m… | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/02/23 07:35 AM |
| 3 | Please, everyone, a moment of silence for all the female train conductors that died during WWI. I’m sure it must have been very comparable to the 20 million men killed in the trenches plus the 21 million men wounded.Okay so, you're overreacting a bit there. Nowhere does it say women had it worse. They only complain that after the war it reverted to a "man-only" job. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 31/01/23 06:58 AM |
| 5 | how pressured do you guys feel get laid or be seen as someone who gets laid? and how do you deal with that?Ngl, when I was single, I did feel a touch of pressure, because being the forever alone guy I felt like I was a failure. No one wanted me, desired me, and yeah, it hurt. But the most hurt came from the lack of intimacy. Not sex, intimacy. I think that's what people don't get about incels, whatever the gender. Lack of sex is bad enough, but what most people seek through that? Emotionnal connection and intimacy. That's why I'm so angry when I read that "incels feel entitled to sex". Because those … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/01/23 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Let's stop using 'incel' as an insultAt architecture school. But nothing happened. I was interested but, yeah, didn't make a move for reasons, and she ended up with another guy from the school. But we stayed more or less friend. Fast forward 10 years, I receive a mail out of the blue from that woman. She moved to south of France but is coming back to Paris, and as she doesn't know anybody there anymore she wants to meet some people she remembered from back then. So we meet, have a nice stroll through the city, and eat at a restaura… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/01/23 08:28 AM |
| 3 | Is pornography degrading to women? Or does society just have a problem being open about male sexuality?Oh yup. I wrote this at 1 am. My brain was probably a bit on autopilot there | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/01/23 08:21 AM |
| 53 | Is pornography degrading to women? Or does society just have a problem being open about male sexuality?I think society at large has a problem with male sexuality, full stop. It's inherently seen as degrading, disrespectful, and invasive. So, it's only natural that feminism would latch on this representation of male sexuality and deduce that its only goal is to degrade women. That's also why men being raped by women is perceived as "funny" or "good". Because women's sexuality is not degrading. Therefore if a woman rapes you, you cannot claim to have been degraded. Though I must say, this insistanc… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/01/23 11:29 PM |
| 9 | Let's stop using 'incel' as an insultYou know, at a point in my life I would have identified myself as an incel. And if my wife disappeared from my life, I'm pretty sure I'd struggle finding someone. And you know what? I don't feel entitled to sex from women. I want sex with women I like, sure, but I've never felt that they owed it to me. My difficulties come from the fact that I feel like I wouldn't be accepted so I struggle to make a move, and to show sexual interest. In a way, I put women on a pedestal, and I dare not try to cro… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/01/23 07:00 PM |
| 9 | Let's stop using 'incel' as an insultJust want to point something out. When people call someone incel, or virgin, what they mean is "you have not been vetted by women, and are therefore of lesser value". It does link the value of a man to his sexual history. But, it also means something else. It means that, as much as they'll deny it, these type of persons are very aware that, in some respect, women are gatekeeping sex. Because if you're insult hinges on the idea that you have to be sexually accepted by women to have value, it impl… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/01/23 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Some thoughts on the great portrayal of masculinity in Red Dead Redemption IIYou know who is an excellent example of masculinity? Kiryu Kazuma. Well, he is a beast able to defeat 150 men alone, but that's not what I'm talking alone. He is, deeply, a good man who tries to do what is best for everyone despite what everyone throws at him. He is honourable, kind-hearted, in touch with his inner kid, cares about others (and starts an orphanage because he wants to make the world better). To me Kiryu is a good male role model. Who beats people up constantly... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/01/23 05:58 PM |
| 15 | Am I being soft at getting mad or at least a bit irritated at these kinds of jokes? The majority of the crowd seems to be in favor of them and I feel like an outlier.Yeah, no, it definitely reads like a bunch of entitled, self-important assholes, and yup it's irritating. I mean, if you are of the idea that we should all be treated equally, either you authorize blatantly sexist and condescending jokes toward women, or you don't accept thoses jokes when targeting men. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/01/23 07:10 AM |
| 18 | I would like your opinion on this article about domestic violence.Us men have been told since birth that it's absolutely verboten to hit women. Women on the other hand seldom receive any comment saying it's bad to hit men. I think it might play a part in that. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/23 06:35 AM |
| 31 | Should we even out the amount of females and males in workplaces?He probably didn't have a female garbage collector either... | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/01/23 09:29 PM |
| 62 | The case for A Commission on Boys and Men: Will Washington state lead the way? by Richard ReevesYou know, I'm glad for the US of that happens, but I' scared it will look at issue pertaining to men through a feminist lens. If I recall, some years prior a feminist figure (can't recall who for the life of me, might have been Anita Sarkeesian) basically said that men shouldn't be allowed to talk about their issues without using a feminist frame. Anyway, we'll see, but cynic ol' me is already anticipating the male-blaming of "it's patriarchy's fault" followed by a "the solution is obviously to … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/01/23 07:47 AM |
| 10 | Who's gatekeeping the discussion?I dunno. It's anecdotal, but I've seen a 5-6 y.o girl starting on a swing while her 2-3 brother was in front of her, and give him a good old kick in the face (I think she just wasn't paying attention). The boy started to cry, and the mother, despite seeing it unfold, shouted at her son for crying but said nothing to her daughter for literally sending her younger brother flying. I'm sure that were roles reversed, the older boy swing-kickikg his youbger sister would have been in for a world of pai… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/01/23 12:04 PM |
| 2 | I am a feminist, I want to have a friendly debateMay I answer too? ' I don't think negatively about a woman with a high body count, but to date a woman she has to have the same values as me, most notably when it comes to sex. My wife has a 30+ body count and I'm okay with that because I know her history and I know she was trying to find "the right one" but it didn't work out with most of them. I happen to be her right one. That being said, I remember an interview on TV of a 19 y.o teen who already had a 100+ bodycount, and while I respect her … | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/01/23 06:51 AM |
| 3 | What is the most misandrist thing you’ve personally experienced? It can be either in person or online.That's mild in comparison, but (I don't know what grade it would be in america? Age 7-8) I had a female teacher who was really, really hellbent on boys respecting girls. That meant no touching, no shouting at, nothing allowed. Not even saying things against girls. But the contrary was not true. She also had a very strict "if you're still out of the class once the second bell rings, you're punished". And of course, after the first bell, some girls would use that to stay by the door (inside the cl… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 12/01/23 06:34 AM |
| 24 | LWMA Need to Fight & Address Suburban Sprawl/Car-Dependent Infrastructure to Significantly Mitigate/Resolve Male LonelinessYou know, I live near Paris (it's a 10 minute train ride, so peanuts), and when studying I'd spend every single day there. Let me tell you, you can be awfully alone in a dense city made for pedestrians. Not saying the american model or urban sprawl shouldn't disappear. But I'm not so sure it is that connected to loneliness. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/01/23 06:58 AM |
| 9 | The left on social media (in particular leftist women) are hypocritical about gender roles, capitalism and their treatment of "Patriarchy"I havve no knowledge of this man or what happened to him, but how you phrase it, "I have a preference for white girls" doesn't seem like an awful take for me. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/01/23 04:07 PM |
| 163 | Average fds memberAh yes, equality. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/01/23 01:20 PM |
| 22 | The left on social media (in particular leftist women) are hypocritical about gender roles, capitalism and their treatment of "Patriarchy"One of the problem with women having careers now is that the economic system hasn't adapted to this. Or, to be more clear, capitalism saw this as an opportunity to generate more profit with more workforce without increasing their spending. The fact that 40 years ago a blue collar worker could buy a house and feed a big family all by himself, meanwhile nowadays two salaries are barely enough to rent a small apartment in most cities is no accident. Women entered the workforce en masse (they always… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/01/23 11:33 AM |
| 40 | The Double Standards of Body Shaming MenYou forget the part where somehow, being insecure as a man is something to be laughed at for... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/01/23 03:00 PM |
| 4 | Tired Of Hearing About "Male Domination"That's actually pretty insightful, thank you! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/01/23 12:05 PM |
| 1 | I believe reddit HATES men. My experience:Which is actually weird, because for many male late-bloomers, I am of the impression that one of the main block (I know it was in me, maybe I'm generalizing) was the idea that having desire toward a woman was somehow aggressive, and the consequent inaction due to not wanting to impose oneself on women. So, quite literally, not doing anything as to not impose on women. Which, imho, would make someone much safer than someone that just don't care and just impose his desire on women indiscriminately… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/01/23 08:15 AM |
| 3 | I believe reddit HATES men. My experience:Seeing as the most despicable people I know seem to have zero problem getting laid, and the most kind and thoughtful people I know had (or still have) a really hard time getting women to even look at them, I'd say women aren't really the best judges of characters in this case. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/01/23 08:10 AM |
| 2 | I believe reddit HATES men. My experience:One of the tragedy of the left politics (and what we could identify as the "woke" movement) is this idea of being a parangon of justice and equality. And guess what? Nobody's perfect. Some people might hold views that you'll find reprehensible, even if they're as valid as yours (I'm not talking about hatred and such, those are out of the question for me). But if you build your entire political side on the idea that you have to be perfect or you're the enemy, you'll quickly end up being alone, or… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/01/23 08:08 AM |
| 2 | I believe reddit HATES men. My experience:Honestly, we live in France, yet my wife and I own our apartment, but we contemplate moving with my father who lives alone in a big house, so our kid can see him more and enjoy a garden and a dog (because a dog in a small apartment...). The idea of the intergenerational house doesn't really bother me much., I feel there is too much disconnect between generations in our society. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/01/23 07:52 AM |
| 2 | Why do we get domestic violence so wrong?If memory serves, he just lost his father when he was recorded slammming cabinet doors. Which makes it even more despicable from Heard's part. Using the comprehensible emotionnal distress of her husband to try and get ammunitions to then attack him... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/01/23 07:43 AM |
| 4 | Why do we get domestic violence so wrong?Ohhh yeah. The infamous "sure she was violent, but it was only in self-defence". To which I always want to reply "How do you know all those male perpetrators of domestic violence aren't acting in self-defence though? Because statistics tends to demonstrate that more than the opposite". What they're really upset about is that some men defend themselves and thus don't respect the "never hit girls back rules" that's been drilled into our collective psyche since we all were little shits. Notice how … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/01/23 06:59 AM |
| 13 | When Feminists got Old Navy to try and destroy Fathers Day, a couple years ago."Yes, but everyday is men's day". Or something. I don't know, I'm not yet braindead enough. | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/01/23 12:58 PM |
| 14 | Gold diggers r usNot wallet, but I did help her a lot with homeworks (plus, helping gesture is one of my main way of showing my affection). The rejection hurt (especially after having been called "cute", "an angel" and been told "if you help me with this, I'll be your slave" (and that's not an exagerration, she did say that)), but what hurt more was when a friend of her came to see me afterwards to tell me she was sorry how the girl treated me, because she definitely knew I was head over heels in love with her a… | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/12/22 11:23 AM |
| 64 | Gold diggers r usHmm, weird, it looks like the way a girl treated me before rejecting me when I confessed to her. And then I got called an asshole for "feigning friendship to get in her pants"... | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/12/22 10:42 PM |
| 55 | How do I make peace with the fact that practically no one has progressive views on the role of men in society?Tate was being Tate, i.e. a giant douchebag, but yeah, Thunberg's reply was not great in term of "not reinforcing stereotypes about masculinity" And at no point does OP ever defends Tate. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/12/22 10:39 PM |
| 10 | Ungrateful goofball deletes her commentAnd of these 90% of violent crimes, a disproportionate number is commited to black men. So, do we fall back on racism and say that blacks are the scum of the earth (I mean, the numbers don't lie), or, as wedo for african-american, we recognize that there probably are a certain numbers of socioeconomic factors that explain this high percentage? Just a thought. But maybe life as a man is not all that peachy... | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/12/22 10:21 PM |
| 46 | Very easy to get AI to tell a joke about men, but very difficult to get it to say it about womenAh, nothing screams "empowering" like the very fact that your entire demographic has to be excluded from a program so as not to offend... | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/12/22 03:48 PM |
| 3 | Farid El HaïryThere was a case of a 10something y.o girl in France in the 2000s who accused her history teacher to have raped her. The dude's life was absolutely destroyed, he spent a few years in jail, even before the trial. Thing is, in that case, the victim don't have to be forced to be in a confrontation with the accused, i.e., justice can't forceto be faced with the accused and relive the trauma. And the parents adamantly refused to let her daughter see him, to protect her. Came the trial, where she had … | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/12/22 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Farid El HaïryImo it depends on the context and intention. If said false accusation has been made by mistake (as can happen with young, traumatized people), then no. If ithas been made with ill-intent, then yes. In every case, the falsely accused is due some serious reparations, and a public apology from the fake accuser. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/12/22 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Great Criticism Of "The Future Is Female"That's the most worrying thing imo. Feminists will say stuff like this, or "KillAllMen" "MenArePigs", "DrinkMaleTears", etc... and yeah, as an adult it's shitty and upsetting to see such misandry openly shared online. It angers me. But when I think about boys 10-15 who will read these phrases? It will fuck them up for a long time. I'm no expert nor psychic, but I wager a lot of these boys will develop long term self-esteem issues, have hard time with their own masculinity and sexuality, and eith… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 15/12/22 07:23 AM |
| 9 | What's missing from the incel conversation?Well, both. They'll never talk about it, and therefore won't even consider resolving it. That's the one gender role feminism seems to be very glad to keep as is. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/22 08:49 AM |
| 12 | Found on TwitterWell, reverse racism does not exist. There is no such thing as "reverse" racism. There is racism, and that's about all. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 13/12/22 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Positive depictions of male characters in fictionI'd say Kiryu in the Yakuza series. Sure he's the perfect depiction of the overpowered man. But, as a man, he is genuinely positive. He's intelligent, thoughtful, a positive role model for kids he raises. He has very strong core values too. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/22 08:46 AM |
| 16 | What's missing from the incel conversation?Well, nope. Celibacy is a lack of romantic relationship. Chastity is a lack of sexual relationship. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/22 08:44 AM |
| 9 | What's missing from the incel conversation?The problem is, it's not sex incels want (other wise they'd pay for sex, legal or nor). It's intimacy, and being accepted. And that you can't pay for. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/22 08:41 AM |
| 20 | What's missing from the incel conversation?True that, but, and that's a big but, the crux of the problem here is that women with low self-esteem existall over the world. Even with self-esteem as low or lower than incels. But the way our mating rituals are structured, those women probably won't have as hard a time having access to intimacy as incels. That's where the resentment comes from. It's easy saying "it's your fault, you just have to be better, and are not entitled to women's bodies" when your contribution to dating can simply be "… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/22 08:35 AM |
| 39 | What's missing from the incel conversation?You know what? I was about to go to sleep but I have to jump on what you just wrote. Because yeah, on the one hand they say that the value of someone isn't determined by their sexual success, and women shouldn't be a trophy to validate one's masculinity. But then, they'll use incel as an attack. And also phrases like "looks like someone who never kissed a girl" or "guess he doesn't know what a naked woman looks like" (I've seen these used). So, they're validating that access to sex is a form of … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/12/22 11:00 PM |
| 69 | Men receive contradicting messages about dating from societyThat's something I've been shouting from the top of my lungs everywhere I can. We, as a society, have a very misandrist view of male sexuality. It's almost everywhere. "Men only want one thing and it's disgusting", "men are pigs", etc.. The very fact that we inately consider women to be pure until the very moment she has sexual contact with a man means that, the masculine sex is impure. The fact that both male and female bisexuals are shunned from lgbt spaces for having sex with men (someone pos… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/12/22 05:52 PM |
| 25 | The Unpalatable TruthRemember, we do not call it Domestic Violence, because that's a clean-up word. We call it wife-beating. /s Anyway, spot-on as always. How do you churn out quality content so fast? Is cocaine that cheap where you live? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/12/22 04:58 PM |
| 7 | How to communicate to people that emotional support is tremendously different in real life compared to hypotheticals?I also think that trauma dumping is an indicator of how much the person concerned has bottled up and needs to talk. In that case, the best thing to do is, as you say, inform them that it's a bit much for you to handle and to crank it a bit down, without shaming, and propose the peerson follows a therapy. From my experience, with a good therapeutist, therapy is the safest place there can be. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/12/22 07:28 AM |
| 55 | The misleading notion that men consider themselves "main characters" and expect the world to cater to themYou know what, I agree with you. There seems to be a trend in western medias to portray men as perceiving themselves as the center of the universe. There are talks of male entitlement. Many movies have female characters telling men about their "overly large male ego". And what's funny is that I've rarely seen that in real life. If anything, the most entitled people I know, both in my day-to-day life, or examples in various medias, are women. And the most egotistical too. Everyone here know the s… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/12/22 11:38 PM |
| 13 | I have a genuine questionFeminism isn't about equal right. It's about equal right for women. And said rights are studied with a tinted lens. What I mean by that is that femini by default seems to only adress issues pertaining to women (if you want equality, you should adress everyone's issues), and with the premise that those issues are caused by a system created by, and favoring only, men. And, it's false. There is a system, which originally assigned gender roles. Men had authority over the work and social sphere, wome… | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/12/22 11:29 PM |
| 22 | US National Survey: more men than women victims of intimate partner violenceYeah but the statistics that say women initiate IPV violence more often than men paints another picture. It basically says that men are more likely to engage in self-defence than women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/11/22 05:53 AM |
| 45 | The Incel-InsultYup. A feminist, I can't remember who, pointed this out very precisely. She basically said "we shouldn't use the insult incel so lightly. It's the newest flavor of virgin-shaming, which we shouldn't do. Also, it reinforces the toxic idea that a man's worth is measured only by his sexual success, and we shouldn't do that either". First time in a long while I agreed with a feminist... | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/11/22 10:10 PM |
| 6 | Maybe if you should've pay attention to your own self instead of putting yourself in that type of situations, it's your own fault lady if you chose a shitty choices you make🤨No. We don't do that. We don't victim blame anyone. What she went through is rape, by definition. We won't achieve acknowledgement of men's issues by victim blaming women. So don't | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/11/22 07:03 PM |
| 7 | Can we please talk about the rest of the Left "waking up" to Men's issues??To me, the very fact that men's issues won't be addressed anywhere by businesse is a testament to the power of women in society. If big corporations don't even broach this subject and adopt feminists talking point, it's not because they are inherently feminists or that men's rights are unwarranted. Businesses fon't care about that, they care about money. So, they'll address a message to the most powerful, consensula group out there to gain publicity. And that group is feminism and the advocacy o… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/11/22 10:08 AM |
| 29 | Woman beats the shit out of man in public while the crowd does nothing to stop it.I especially like yhe fact that she gets a hug afterwards. She definitely deserves and need it. Joke aside, what is the context. I won't excuse her of ther horrible behavior, but do you know what caused this? | /r/EverydayMisandry | 27/11/22 03:57 PM |
| 80 | Post that is clearly meant to stir up hate & label men are violent & psychotic. Currently at about 25k upvotes. Fails to mention that the vast majority of “mass shootings” are gang-related, not men massacring people indiscriminatelyYou know, if mass shootings were a majorly female-perpetrated form of violence, I think we, as a society, would (correctly) identify it as a mental health crisis, and seek ways to solve said crisis by addressing issues specifically relating to women that could cause said mental health crisis, and thus violence. But as it's a man-perpetrated form of violence, I guess it's just part of the natural make-up of our gender... | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/11/22 10:47 AM |
| 5 | LolIt can not be, but that's something both partners have to agree on. I.e. both are asexual. But if at least one of the two is not asexual, the lack of sex will cause frictions, which can make a relationship become toxic pretty fast. Hell, even difference in libido in a relationship between two sexually active people can cause difficulties. A dead bedroom is a slow killer, but an effective one. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/11/22 07:32 AM |
| 33 | Literally “men should show show more emotions…..no not like that” (also note the “supposedly” here)It's funny how men waiting anything from women is entitlement, but men have to exist the way women want or they're toxic or whatever... I mean, I'm all for men allowing themselves to express theirr emotions, and not having to be strong and stoic. But it's up to men to decide their expression of masculinity, not women. The same way it's up to women to define their femininity, and each woman individually at that. In the end, it's patronizing, entitled and, yes, toxic, to dictate to anyone how they… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 13/11/22 04:43 PM |
| 18 | Being perceived as a threat (especially by women)It hits bad when you describe not being able to understand how other men, even problematic, assholes and mysogynistic men, enter in relationship with women, because I'm the same. Now, I have a wife, but it was on a dare. She was an old friend I hadn't seen for years, saw her back, spent the evening with her, and at the end told her "Hey, I like you, and I'd like us to date". But it was a wager, it could have gone nowhere. But yeah, I'm still dumbfounded by the whole seduction thing. And the wors… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/11/22 12:45 PM |
| 18 | 1 in 6 Hiring Managers Have Been Told to Stop Hiring White MenNot in the US, but in France there seemed to be a hiring bias toward women in architecture firms. When we were in last year of architecture school, several female classmate already had teacher offering them internship with the promise of a contract when they'd have their diploma, nothing of the sort for the men in the class. Though it could be because our teachers were horndogs. But all in all, the makeup of architecture firms in France is pretty skewed toward women. At least last I checked, I s… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/11/22 08:53 AM |
| 1 | What happens when you "identify" as your political beliefs?You are a bit disingenuous regarding that payscale quote. They say that to be equal pay for equal work, the difference should be null, so that's not equal. Though, gotta say, 99cents to the dollar is in the range of statistical error, not systemic oppression. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/11/22 12:41 PM |
| 5 | A recent experience with the gender empathy gap and its potential for unseen impactPart of me thinks he thought I'd hit her back in retaliation. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/11/22 09:47 AM |
| 16 | 11 months probation for shooting a man twiceI've seen people framin it as a "rich people evading justice". While there definitely is some truth to it, let's not kid ourselves there, if a man did the same he'd have gotten a much harder sentence, not matter how rich he was. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/11/22 08:50 AM |
| 8 | A recent experience with the gender empathy gap and its potential for unseen impactI just experienced tve empathy gap too. Too long to describe, but basically the wife had a psychotic episode yesterday evening (she is in the ER right now, not going into too much description here, that's not the place) Anyway, on the street, she starts acting strange. Trying to kiss me forcefully, crying. And then at some point, she turns toward me, and starts trying to hit me. She goes as strongly as she can (fortunately I'm able to stop her punches and restrain her), and she shouts as loudly … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/11/22 07:43 AM |
| 2 | Feminists love to gaslightAh yes, the famous "xism is prejudice + power" which is very convenient to justify being an absolute asshole to some people with no consequences.... But the great news is, I can go to China or Japan and be an absolute asshole if I want toward the people there because obviously they have all the power! That's most definitely very cool that I can be a fucking bully with guaranteed legitimacy should I choose the setting well enough! Because don't kid yourself, that's what it is. Those pieces of shi… | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/11/22 08:24 PM |
| 7 | I agree.You're literally comparing different jobs. The whole premise of the Wage Gap is different wages for the same job. The Payscale 2022 gender gap report finds that the controlled pay gap (for the exact same job, the exact same seniority, qualifications, etc...) is $0.99 per $1. This can be explained a lot of fucking way. Maybe men are more daring when negotiating their salaries? So, as I say, there is an earnings gap, which can be explained by personal choice, but the wage gap is virtually inexiste… | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/11/22 02:43 PM |
| 10 | I agree.You and I work for $2500 dollars a month for 160 hours. You decide to work the 160 hours for various reasons (you want to spend more time with the kiddos). I decide to work 20 hours overtime, and get paid $500 more. Our wgae is the same, our earnings aren't. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/11/22 09:27 AM |
| 9 | I agree.There is an earnings gap, but the wage gap doesn't exist. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/11/22 08:52 AM |
| 1 | grossTo be fair, unless that's a very big fan, or a very small ship, everything should be pretty ok... | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/11/22 03:26 PM |
| 54 | Feminists love to gaslightAfro-american who aren't criminals aren't offended when you call afro-americans criminals Jews who aren't greedy aren't offended when you call jews greedy Women who aren't manipulative gold-diggers aren't offended when you call women manipulative gold-diggers. Hey, look at that, it's still bigoted when you change the subject. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/11/22 03:22 PM |
| 25 | Is The Male Gaze and Gynocentrism two sides of the same coin?Stellar job, as always! That's an idea I never explored, the fact that the male gaze could be some form of gynocentrism - after all, much of our conception of beauty is centered around the feminine, so maybe part of the tendency to show women's bodies in art comes from that conception. That, and if the artist is a heterosexual male, well, he'll draw attention to what he likes! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/11/22 04:03 PM |
| 6 | "Of all journalists killed in 2021, 11% were women."Wait wait wait. That would mean that even if less women journalists were killed, if the number of male journalists dropped too, making the percentage of women killed higher, they'd probably still be bitching? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/11/22 05:53 AM |
| 48 | I got banned for this? As a progressive they’re turning me into a full red hat MAGA supporter.Ok, a thing. I agree that stealthing is an absolute dick move, and yes, it's a break of trust, and can even be akin to rape. But in what world does it make logical sense that removing the condom without your partner's knowledge gives you a harsher sentence than murder or actual rape? Please make it make sense! Also, what happens if the condom falls of and stays inside? It happened to me, it happened to my wife with one of her first relationship, it happened to my best friend. Can it be ground fo… | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/11/22 07:18 PM |
| 43 | What is a good rebuttal to the ''men create their own oppression and suffering'' narrative?That it's very sexist of them to say that women have absolutely zero agency in our society, and that they better change their misogynistic worldview fast, because I can't support such bigotry. Joke aside, I don't know either. If men really created patriarchy, then why are men so far behind in a lot of metrics? Shouldn't we have created a society where we excel in school, say "girls drool, boys rule", have warranted custody of children in case of divorce, aren't sent to die in war, have longer li… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/11/22 06:57 PM |
| 27 | Why do you guys hate feminists? Don't they advocate for equality?Feminism does advocate for equality, but based on a totally unequel premise, which is that women's oppression is absolute, and men's power also is absolute. Basically, in their views, women are slaves and men slave-owners. It has absolutely zero nuance, and doesn't take into account the priviledges women may have and the disadvantages men do suffer from. Worst, they'll manufacture definition to exclude men from even having their issues being recognized. I mean, the whole "sexism = prejudice+powe… | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/11/22 04:16 PM |
| 2 | People who claim that false accusations (of rape) are insignificant are so hypocritical and inconsistenthttps://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3196341/amp/Japanese-boxer-24-bursts-lawyer-s-office-cuts-42-year-old-man-s-penis-garden-shears-flushes-organ-toilet-discovering-wife-s-affair.html But weirdly enough I can't find the part where it was revealed the wife lied. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/11/22 06:38 PM |
| 6 | People who claim that false accusations (of rape) are insignificant are so hypocritical and inconsistentThere was a case in Japan a few years back, I could find it if needed, where a woman told her then boyfriend (that she knew had a violent past) that her manager was harassing her on the job, so the bf went during work hours, knocked the guy out, cut his penis off and threw it in the shredder in front of everyone. The guy was rightfully convicted, but the girl didn't get even a slap on the wrist, even though it's her lie that caused the whole shit. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/11/22 07:41 AM |
| 2 | She thinks little boys are evil80% of women compete for the attention of 20% of men. Or, put in another form with the OkCupid survey, women rate 80% of men as being "below average" in physical attractiveness. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/11/22 11:37 AM |
| 10 | She thinks little boys are evilI can't help but wonder where does this idea of the male ego comes from? Amongst people I know, women are often the most self-centered, narcissistic. They're the ones that think they are better than everyone else and deserve better than anyone else. Karens wouldn't be Karens if they didn't have a ginormous ego for example. The 80/20 statistics in dating also reflects that imho. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/11/22 08:52 AM |
| 21 | People who claim that false accusations (of rape) are insignificant are so hypocritical and inconsistentTwo things : 1 - someone here posted a statistic that showed that when you factor in "made to penetrate" as a form of rape, men were the primary victims of rape, and mostly by women. Don't intend to use it as a "gatcha" and say that women victims of rape shouldn't be cared for, but the whole narrative of "women primarily suffer from rape" is just that, a narrative. One that is deeply entrenched in our comlective psyche 2 - I'm pretty sure that if you show men a movie where there is a man murdere… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/11/22 08:48 AM |
| 2 | 232K likesThat too. It's funny, because from where I stand, given the different statistics (women initiate DV more often, women and men face similar rate of sexual abuse when you factor in "made to penetrate", and lesbians having the higher rate of DV and gays having the lowest), the picture it draws is one of women losing their temper and men being better at keeping it, until they don't. Basically, women are the one pushing, and pushing, until they push too much on a man who snaps back. Men push less oft… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 31/10/22 08:35 AM |
| 2 | So Tired Of Hearing About "Systematic Misogyny"Just saying, if a systems completely recognize your gender's hardships and do something about it, while it voluntarily ignores the hardships of the other gender and does absolutely nothing about it, you are not the one that is the most systemically oppressed. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 30/10/22 10:38 AM |
| 7 | 232K likesApparently, lesbians. Though, as I have seen it put by someone who was really, REALLY agile when it comes to mental gymnastic, "it's higher because it counts lesbians who have been in heterosexual relationships before coming out, and have therefore been abused in these relationships". Which is,... weird, because even if that was the case, then by all means, the number should still be lower than for hetero women, seeing as the perfect, pink unicorns lesbians who always knew they were lesbians, al… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 30/10/22 10:35 AM |
| 6 | Vaush showing a heavier MRA leanThat's very true. That being said, there are quite a lot of examples in anyone's lives of wen dating men they knew were assholes. For example, I have a cousin that went around asking everyone (her friends, brithers, and cousins) of they knew someone who went to jail, because she REALLY wanted to date an ex-con... and the number of live letters life (or even death) convicts receive is pretty insane. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/10/22 10:04 AM |
| 35 | Vaush showing a heavier MRA leanYou know, that's something bothering le. "It's men's fault" "Women have standards now", "if men can't get laid, they should become something women would want", "those men can't get laid because they are misogynistic scumbags" One - it's pretty gynocentric Two - that's completely stupid. If it was true, only good men would be in relationships, and you wouldn't hear all the time "my bf is an asshole" and so on. The fact that so many women complain that their sex-friends/bfs/husbands/paramours are … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/10/22 08:49 AM |
| 7 | "ENOUGH" - UK Gov pulls a Gillette (yes, *another* one)I had a friend who was a police officer (I know, Acab, but anyway), so consequently she trained about every day of the week. I'm a fat slob, I never trained in my fucking life. I could still easily lift things she can't. And then Anita Sarkeesian says that the difference in strength between men and women entirely boils down to cultural pressure for men to get ripped.... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/10/22 07:44 AM |
| 14 | what should we do for Incels?They most likely also never had those issues developing a romantic bond, so they can't even imagine what it can be like to be completely lost in that department, without any help available, and people either mocking you or villifying you for your distress over your lack of romantic success. On the other hand, most people I see dunking on incels basically make me think of bullies, attacking the most fragile to make themselves feel better and tell people "hey, I'm virtuous, look". And that makes m… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/10/22 09:11 PM |
| 33 | what should we do for Incels?That's why when people say incels are feeling "entitled to sex" and only want that, it makes my blood boil. If incels only wanted sex and felt entitled to it, they'd hire a hooker, but that's not what they seek. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/10/22 08:59 AM |
| 6 | what should we do for Incels?Yup, that's about sums it up. Sorry if I didn't express it correctly, my english can be sometimes lackluster. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/10/22 08:57 AM |
| 27 | what should we do for Incels?I find that the thing I struggled the most with (and probably still would struggle with were I single tomorrow) is expressing desire to someone I'm not yet intimate with. I can say to my wife "I want to fuck you over the kitchen counter right now" without a problem, but suggesting to a girl "I like you and would like to have sex with you" is a fence I can't seem to even imagine jumping over. That's a skill I'm sorely lacking, mostly because deep inside of me I'm convinced no woman would really b… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/10/22 05:43 AM |
| 3 | A different man spoke a factFGM is quasi entirely forced upon girls by women, and a study sjowed that in the regions where it happens, the vast majority of men don't like it. Like fathers don't want their daughters to be mutilated, and men prefer their sexual partners to enjoy the act, so not mutilated is best It's literally done by women to women without inference to the preference of men in that regard. So, by her logic, as long as it's not done by the opposite sex, it's not a problem right? There, we've solved the probl… | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/10/22 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Men taking care of children who are not their blood(unless adopted knowing) is act of kindness, sacrifice(of time, emotions and money) and them being nice. But it should not be something they are forced to do.I agree. But, I can't help but imagine how it would damage my kid if I were to just nope out of his life for something his mother might have done. That's why I propose that in the case of a child born out of adultery, judges should cancel child support while still granting visitation/guard should the non-bio father wish it. Let the cheating mother bear the consequences of her fault. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/10/22 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Men taking care of children who are not their blood(unless adopted knowing) is act of kindness, sacrifice(of time, emotions and money) and them being nice. But it should not be something they are forced to do.I'm still not sure I agree. The man has been cheated and the kid is not his, sure. But on the other hand, the kid didn't do anything to be abandoned. It's not like he chose who would be his father. But if he spent 10 years loving someone as a father, he can't stop loving that man. And that man walking away can be disastrous for the kid. It's a situation with only bad outcomes in the end. It's fucked up. The only solution I could think of is if the wife paid reparation should the man choose to ke… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/10/22 06:37 AM |
| 5 | 26k likes for "if you're lonely, light a candle and go to the park." 🙄The instructions are really not clear, but it works! So first I decided to join a book-club, because I can join reading a book with being in a club and making friend. Neat. The senior of our book-club is a bit weird, but he has very good recommendations, like this book with neat ideas to make picnics. Like that candlelit picnic where we all sing around a circle. Anyway, I invited my newfound friends to a picnic in the park, during an full moon, because it's cool. We bought a lot of candles, put … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 21/10/22 05:48 PM |
| 29 | Women are more critical of female toplessness than men (but don't worry, it's men's fault anyway)The matriarchy hurts women too... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/10/22 04:43 PM |
| 8 | Can a metero just hit us already?Turns out it was chemistry all along. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/10/22 05:26 AM |
| 6 | "Women will save democracy."Or good old Marine Le Pen, our very own french beacon of fascism. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/10/22 06:11 AM |
| 11 | "Men hate romcoms because they don't respect women."I remember someone saying that men usually don't like romcoms, because for us, love is work. It doesn't happen naturally, you have to work for it. To make the first step, the first kiss, etc... if you don't nothing happens and the girls moves on with her life. So a movie depicting the female perception of live is not very alluring for men. I think we also are told from a very young age that we don't deserve love until we have something to offer, so romcoms are... not really our thing. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/10/22 07:13 AM |
| 2 | This may be my favorite sad simp ever...guy tries to ingratiate himself on the feminist sub and gets bitten. Too bad he didn't realize the only unifying principle in feminism is misandry. *sad simping noises*From the PAtriArCHy! | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/10/22 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Why I hate strip clubs, and what they reveal about sexual dynamics. (A critique of Norah Vincent's "Self Made Man")Ok, so wow. First of all, just to clarify, in what part of society and gender norms do men have the power? I'm genuinely curious about what your view on that is. Then, about the sexuality part. How can you not see that women have always had the power when it comes to sexuality? Gender norms are literally made around men courting women to gain their attention and their favors. Women are set as the price, not men. That means that, to have a sexual relationship with a woman, a man must work. Most m… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/10/22 08:09 PM |
| 12 | Is the dismissal of misandry for not being "systemic" systemic in itself?I think the dismissal is the systemic point. The fact is, misandry apparently can't exist for reasons, so it's okay to be as misandrist as possible. The system justifies misandry by saying it can't exist. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/10/22 08:06 PM |
| 6 | You might have been raped or sexually assaulted without even knowing itWomen can orgasm from rape. Is it not rape anymore then? | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/10/22 05:53 AM |
| 34 | The European radicalization awareness network recently released an article on how to tackle the incel issue. And it's surprisingly good.If incels only were after sex, they'd enlist the services of a hooker. In fact, I'd argue that most times, people don't seek sex for sex's sake, but for the sake of connection and a sense of belonging. Because let's face it, if I want to orgasm, I'll have a much easier time jerking off. What I seek when I have sex with someone is a shared intimacy, the notion of being "accepted" by that person (and I'd argue that if most young men want to get rid of their v-card, it's probably also much more bec… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/10/22 08:01 AM |
| 3 | My response to "the alt right playbook, How to radicalize a normie"Oh don't worry, I have a wife and a son, and I'm happy in my relationship (even though it seems my son has a fusion reactor somewhere in his body, and it's tiring to following sometimes), so all is good for me. But my 20s were really hard. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/10/22 09:24 AM |
| 5 | My response to "the alt right playbook, How to radicalize a normie"I'm pretty sure I have developed a mild addiction to video games as a way to distract from the crushing influence of loneliness, fear and desire. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/10/22 07:15 AM |
| 4 | My response to "the alt right playbook, How to radicalize a normie"Yup I know of this post and Scott Alexander. He is so on point everytime it's scary. And yeah, it describes what I felt for years perfectly. Not to the point of seeking castration, but the mental block associated with a very bad perception of my own sexuality, and the idea that by desiring a woman, I would sully her, stopped me from ever expressing any interest. It was to the point that even if a girl expressed interest, I convonced myself that it simply could not be, and either it was a prank, … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/10/22 07:13 AM |
| 21 | Why I hate strip clubs, and what they reveal about sexual dynamics. (A critique of Norah Vincent's "Self Made Man")I mean, uou only have to look at instagram, twitch, and onlyfans. There are women and girls making literal millions off of exposing their sexuality and profiteering from male starvation of human contact with the opposing sex. Women always hvae had the power when it comes to sex, and they definitely know how to use it for their own benefit. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/10/22 05:45 AM |
| 48 | Does it ever feel pointless to you?"Is your femininity so fragile that you'd need to fight for issues pertaining to women in our country while there are women murdered in Iran? Do you really have to make it all about you? They havve it much worse you know" Hey, it works even for women! But in that case, why even having a conversation about mental health. There are people dying right now in some place in the world, our issues seem minuscule compared to that, so let's postpone until nobody is dying anymore.... That's why I hate peo… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/10/22 07:01 AM |
| 50 | People are more sceptical of sex difference research when findings favour men - The British Psychological SocietyYup. And the fact that nobody on the progressive side of things seems to ever acknowledge that effect in society and how it can affect their views on issues concerning both women and men. If you're infouenced by that effect - and let's be honest, everyone, even aware of it, is influenced by it - it's only natural that you'll gravitate toward radical positions about the rights and responsibility of women and men in socoety, whereas women can't be responsible of any issue because they are wonderfu… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/10/22 06:56 AM |
| 58 | My response to "the alt right playbook, How to radicalize a normie"It's not so much that when you treat someone as a monster, they'll become one. It's more than when you'll treat someone as a monster, they'll go toward people telling them that they are not monsters Andrew Tate is a garbage human being, and his discourse is toxic as fuck, but I understand why many young men gravitate toward him. They'll hear that they are monsters simply for being men and not align 100% with the wokest of beliefs, and then Andrew comed like a savior to say "shut up shrieking har… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/10/22 06:32 AM |
| 18 | Possibly the most misandrist thing I have ever readBut of course, feminists take rape against men very seriously, and want to end it, can't you see it? Well, after all, one way to stop rape against men IS denying it even existed in the first place... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 04/10/22 03:12 PM |
| 61 | What's happening to homeless men in Denver?"This is because patriarchy sees women as weak, so really that is sexism against women". 100% the kind of answer you would be getting. When I pointed out to someone that people tend to be more attentive to baby girls than to baby boys, responding faster to their cries, this is the answer I was given. The narrative is so deeply entrenched that the idea that boys and men could be at a disadvantage anywhere is not even conceivable. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/09/22 03:37 PM |
| 17 | Meat, masculinity and bullshitBut damn is she funny. I'm just feeling sad for her "unbuilt" husband (a man who has forgone the traditional ideas of masculinity. For example, a man ready to take charge of contraception, take care of the kids, etc...). I think it's great that he doesn't adhere to traditional masculinity, especilaly when it's pretty limiting. Choosing who you want to be is awesome. But being married to a man-hating hag like her? That's got to be pretty depressing. On that note, what about "unbuilt" women. Women… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/09/22 04:13 PM |
| 51 | Forced male prostitution in Russian armyHoly shit that's terrible. Rape in the military seemss to be something pretty common unfortunately, but that's a whole ither fucking level. And these victims are encouraged to become the bullies the next year, that it? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/09/22 11:40 AM |
| 87 | Meat, masculinity and bullshitSandrine ROUSSEAU a french ecologist/feminist politician, recently went about how meat consumption was toxic masculinity. She also co-wrote a book supporting the theory that we don't live in an anthropocene, but in an androcene, and thatmen are almost entirely responsible for climate change and other environmental disasters. They really are trying hard as possible to pin every woe of humanity on men, aren't they? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/09/22 11:33 AM |
| 12 | "Facility-level and Individual-level Correlates of Sexual Victimization in Juvenile Facilities, 2012": Youth-on-youth sexual victimization is much higher in female-only facilities than male-only facilities.From what I see, but I'm not a native speaker, sexual violence by sex is only small part (white people are more victims than other ethnicities, disabled and LGBTQ people are more victims than heterosexual people). And of those victims, men are the most victimized, and mostly by staff, while women are a bit less victimized overall, but mostly by other detainees. Though it raises an interesting question. I made a post a few days (weeks?) back on how some anectodal stories (very anecdotal) showed e… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/09/22 08:01 AM |
| 17 | What are the general rebuttals to "Men Commit the Vast Majority of Crime!" talking point?That's actually very true. I kinda think it's a gotcha. Not in the sense that men are more disadvantaged than women, but in the sense that it sheds a new light on the correlation between sex and crime. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/09/22 06:06 PM |
| 34 | What are the general rebuttals to "Men Commit the Vast Majority of Crime!" talking point?Not only enjoying the spoils. This dynamic in romantic relationships is actively encouraging men to adopt more dangerous behaviours, or toxic masculinity or whatever. It's uncanny how sexually successful "bad" men can be. My Brother-in-Law is borderline sociopathic, he cares only about two things : Himself, and what people can do for him. And that guys fucks like crazy. Like, no girls has ever said no to him. And I mean, he is smart, interesting, pretty attractive. But he also is a literal piece… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/09/22 04:11 PM |
| 26 | Estonian PM: Every citizen is responsible for the actions of their state, and citizens of Russia are no exception. Therefore, we do not give asylum to Russian men who flee their country. They should oppose the war.But, isn't men fleeing Russia to avoid being drafted an opposition to the war in itself? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/09/22 11:38 AM |
| 11 | The "Shame" Narrative Regarding Male VictimsI remember one time when I brought my son to the playground. There was a young bou, maybe 3, who was walking, and then got hit by his sister who was on the swing. Well, the boy shouldn't have walked there, the sister should have looked before beginning to swing. But what shocked me was the grandma's reaction to her grandson being hit hard and almost sent flying because of it. She slapped him, and shouted "you're a boy, boys don't cry, so stop crying or you'll get another (slap)" I was horrified.… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/09/22 10:13 PM |
| 7 | On "Men are trash"Plus, if you follow the idea that women are "forced by patriarchy to take care of the kids and their education", it stands to reason that women are at least as responsible as men in perpetuating patriarchy. You can't be the ones educating the kids and take no responsibility in the worldview you impose upon them. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/09/22 01:29 PM |
| 9 | A bit of my story and why I don't like some commonly given advice.That's a pet peeve of mine. Non-initiators have the luxury of things happening organically. Initiators (so, traditionally, men) don't have such luxury. Sex and relationships happen because you make it happen. From the get-go it's work, and a work that's not always rewarded because you can (you will be even) be rejected and have put that work for nothing. It doesn't mean it's not fulfilling to be in a relationship, but for most men, relationships aren't magical, they're work. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/09/22 09:38 AM |
| 3 | A bit of my story and why I don't like some commonly given advice.That's plainly stupid. Excuse me for saying so but it is. We date people we're attracted to, and unless asexual, that attraction is sexual. You have to build more to have a healthy relationship, but most relationships are to a very basic level based on a mutual (one can hope) desire to bumps your sensitive tissues to that of the other person. And that's true both for men and women. Sure it can start as a friendship and evolve to something, but to evolve, at some point both have to want to fuck. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/09/22 08:41 AM |
| 8 | A bit of my story and why I don't like some commonly given advice.That'd be fine and dandy if we didn't see time annd time again horrible people having absolutely no problem getting access to sexual relationships. The whole "you don't get sex because you're a misogynist" argument would carry much more weight if truly misogynistic men actually had a hard time getting laid. Every metric tend toward the opposite. I know of no man who doesn't have at least a couple example of men being absolutely awful people in general, let alone to women, being almost bathed in … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/09/22 08:13 AM |
| 8 | what are your thoughts on people saying feminism benefits men?They'll say it's because now women have a choice and men have to be better, when beforehand they were forced into relationships. Still, most of the time they'll chose the same men they would have been "forced into a relationship" in the before time. And I'm not talking about incels here. But yeah, even if most men did transition to a more "feminine" masculinity (god I hate this term, as if a man had to be more of a woman to be better.), most women I know still only date traditionally masculine m… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/09/22 05:35 AM |
| 4 | what are your thoughts on people saying feminism benefits men?That reminds me, tomorrow it's your turn on the helm of patriarchy, don't be late! This idea that men created society... I don't even know how you can be so wrong and not see it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/09/22 05:24 AM |
| 11 | Cna you give me examples of traditional house chores mostly done by men?https://www.legifrance.gouv.fr/codes/section_lc/LEGITEXT000006072050/LEGISCTA000018492447/2021-06-16/#:~:text=4541%2D5%20ne%20peuvent%20pas,%C3%AAtre%20sup%C3%A9rieures%20%C3%A0%20105%20kilogrammes. That's the french legislation website, in full text. I will try to translate below : Article R4541-9 - march 7, 2008 When the recourse to manual carrying is unavoidable, and mechanical tools provisioned in the article R. 4541-5 can't be used, a worker cannot be allowed to carry loads superior to 55 k… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/09/22 01:33 PM |
| 32 | Cna you give me examples of traditional house chores mostly done by men?Okay so I looked again and my numbers were off. Women can't carry more than 25 kg in all circumstances. Men can't carry more than 55 kg, unless there are so auhtorized by a doctor, in which case they can be asked to carry up to 105kg without tools... For fuck's sake, it's worse than I first believed. And for horizontal translations (pushing things around on wheels), the limit is 360 kg for a woman and 600kg for a man... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/09/22 10:53 AM |
| 40 | Cna you give me examples of traditional house chores mostly done by men?About that "carry heavy loads", I recently learned something prerry aggravating. In french labor laws, above a certain weight, you have to use a carrying tool for health reason. Can be a forklift, a cart, anything. Anyway, that weight for women is 15 kg. Above 15kg, an employer is mandate to give a woman carrying tools. That limit for men is 50kg. I can understand that there is a difference. But more than threefold? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/09/22 08:31 AM |
| 2 | An Interesting tumblr conversation about ale undersexualization and how it affects the discussion around female oversexualizationWell, I'm so conditioned to not be objectified and desired as a man that I would definitely shoot myself down for even thinking that she might be interested. Hell, I've had a girl tell me to my face that she'd like to test my bed right after saying I had beautiful eyes, and not do anything because obviously she couldn't be interested. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/09/22 07:14 AM |
| 19 | Feminists claim to oppose gender roles, but then perpetuate gender roles.You know, I'm not a woman, but if my wife tried to motivate me to sexually assault children, I'm pretty sure I'd not do it. I'm also pretty sure that if the roles were reversed, she would not do it either. So, I'm not sure the "she was motivated by her male partner" defense really holds up under any kind of scrutiny. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/09/22 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Why are school shootings so common?It's common in the US, not in the rest of the world. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/09/22 06:54 AM |
| 7 | the root issue with social sciencesMaybe, just maybe, men prefer agreeable women because we're so used to adversity in our day to day lives that we'd like someone nice for a change. Just an idea. You can't just say "men prefer women tl be agreeable and nice because they want domination over women" without looking at what men experience. Loneliness, isolation, and a rugged, hypercompetitive experience of masculinity propped up by and hypercompetitive work ethics in society. I know that's been said and repeated, but most men get fa… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/09/22 06:53 AM |
| 3 | on the dynamics of catcalling, and romantic lonelinessThat'd be hard to provide sources. Those are stories taken here and there. The plumber one was from r/offmychest a few month back. And about all-girls schools, I saw someone in that sub talking about it, and a few years back I heard my father and uncles talking about how, when they were young teens, they had to walk past an all-girls school to get to their school (it was 1960's rural France mind you) and that 17-18 y.o. girls were basically whistling young boys passing by every day. So yeah, cou… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/09/22 06:30 AM |
| 7 | If "pussy" and "bitch" are sexist words, why are "dick" and "bastard" not also?Nah because only whites can have power. Even in Japan. Japanese people don't have power over their own country, you bigoted asshole! But yeah, first question I asked myself was hearing this was "so I can go to a chinese person in China and insult them for being chinese, and I wouldn't be racist, am I right? What a wonderful world we're living in" Ther being racist ideas and legislation in western societies is undisputable. But saying that a group of PoC assaulting a white person for being a whit… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/09/22 09:17 AM |
| 5 | on the dynamics of catcalling, and romantic lonelinessAs I said, I saw/heard quite a number of stories, but with all-girl schools. We're not talking criminals here, we're talking teenage girls in the peak of puberty. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/09/22 08:19 AM |
| 88 | If "pussy" and "bitch" are sexist words, why are "dick" and "bastard" not also?I vividly remember Anita Sarkeesian noting that the enemies in The Witcher 3 called Ciri a cunt, and that it was sexist, without ever noticing that Geralt was called a prick constantly. And, it's the same insult, but on the masculine side. It's no more insulting for a woman than for a man. But yeah, it's only problematic when it's geared toward women. Because priviledges or some stuff. And that's the crux of it. By defining sexism as prejudoce+power, and designing men as a group as the sole reci… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/09/22 09:37 PM |
| 5 | Economic based virginity. Or how I still need to do everything as a man in a more expensive and demanding economy. Move out, become "independent," get a "good" job, become a supporter etc.As far as I know, if you want to be sexually successful, you either have to be rich, or be violent (in general, not toward women). There was a study I'd have to find that pretty accurately guessed the number of sexual partners of men using questions like "were/are you part of a gang", "have you ever been in a knife fight", and so on and so forth. The most violent men were more likely to have been successful, sexually-wise. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/09/22 07:56 AM |
| 5 | Mormon fundamentalists, the lost boys and the real rape cultureThat's pretty fucked up. And by pretty I mean horrible. Both for the girl brides and the discarded boys left to rot... I just wanted to share an opinion about rape culture. If rape culture is a culture justifying the systemic rape of a gender, refusing to even recognize it as rape, aren't we living in a rape culture where men are the victims? I mean, the rape of men is quite literally not recognized as rape at all. Men who are raped are being told to be happy about it. Isn't that the définition … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/09/22 07:04 AM |
| 3 | Do you think he's the asshole?To be fair, this is fucked up from the girlfriend's part, vut this is not the girl's fault, and he is effectively bialing on agirl who knows him as her father. This is a hard situation, and I agree that he shouldn't have to pay any kind of child support for what is basically paternity fraud. But he should try and stay involved in her life. She doesn't have to pay for her mother's bad behavior. But yeah, fucked up situation. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/09/22 09:35 PM |
| 7 | Struggling to find any good argument against mandatory paternity testingIt depends. Forming a relationships with a woman pregnant from another man, or who already has kids from another relationship is one thing. Raising a kid born out of treason is another. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/09/22 06:05 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone here had feminists and the broader ideology have lasting negative affects on there life?That's something I always wondered. We will never have a clear answer, but of this absolutely mind-boggling number of male suicide, how many were men that were driven to suicide due to a mix of domestic abuse, lack of helpful resources and the pernicious idea that men can't be victims? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/09/22 06:59 PM |
| 7 | Barbara Ehrenreich, Feminism, and Abu GhraigI was hopeful. A glimpse of consciousness, a shred of self-reflection. The "women are wonderful" effect is a lie, and feminism shouldn't be based on that assumption. What doors could it have opened for her? Maybe, then, domestic violence could be more than just "wife beating". Maybe rape could be more than just "forced penetration" It could have led her to question the basic propaganda of feminism, the idea that women are always, only victims. But no, that brilliant reasoning fell back right to … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/09/22 04:30 PM |
| 9 | Has anyone here had feminists and the broader ideology have lasting negative affects on there life?Not feminism, but yeah, the misandrist vision of male sexuality (all men are pigs, men want one thing and it's disgusting) and the pervasive idea that men should respect women in all aspect (we never heard the opposite being said though) combined in a single idea : Having sexual desires for women was in my mind the biggest slap I could give to a woman's honor. It basically stopped me dead in my tracks in any kind of romantic interaction with women. I couldn't ever bring me to even fantasize abou… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/09/22 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Why cheating is now a good thingI've seen on imgur feminists mock men who wanted to open their relationships because, and I paraphrase the gist of it, "he thought he'd get pussy but nobody wanted him, while the wife had a line of pretender trying to woo her away from him, and when he wanted to close the relationship again, she said no". And, I mean, yeah, of course it's easier for the wife, she literally just has to ask any dude. It's the way the power balance is working in the dating world. Every man is conscious of that, how… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/09/22 05:23 AM |
| 20 | How does misandry hurt men in the same ways misogyny hurts women?There also was Laci Green who decided to reach to the other side to hear what they had to say, and was utterly victimized by her fellow cult-members for doing so. It was heartbreaking, but not surprising tbh. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/09/22 03:29 PM |
| 3 | Why is modern feminism critiqued as a hate group?This is a very interesting take, thanks a bunch for it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/08/22 08:53 AM |
| 6 | Tired Of Hearing About Society Being Male-DominatedHonestly, given the fact that even saying that could bring down upon you the wrath of feminism, and that men are just supposed to shut up nad acccept feminism as the de facto mantra of society, I'd wager to say that culturally, society is dominated by feminism. Someone once said "if you want to know who really rules above you, find the ones you can't say bad things about" (don't remember the exact quote). And it sure seems that criticizing feminsit doctrine is a big nono nowadays. On the other h… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/08/22 07:15 AM |
| 30 | The misandrist idea that single men are lonely because they should be ‘emotionally available’ and ‘open up more’ totally debunked.I'm happy for you that it worked, but you are the outlier there. Let me tell you about Aleksa. Aleksa is a friend of serbian origin. He is overweight, but the guy is a bear in human form. He is strong, like a lot. And he has a beautiful face. Aleksa is also the sweetest dude I know. And maybe the kindest. Once, a friend of him was depressed after her boyfriend broke up with her, so he invited her to a 2 weeks roadtrip to his homeland of Serbia and back to help her a bit, free of charge (and I ma… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/08/22 07:28 AM |
| 113 | The misandrist idea that single men are lonely because they should be ‘emotionally available’ and ‘open up more’ totally debunked.I find it incredibly funny and ironic to be told in the same article (the original one, not that one which is quite interesting) that men should open-up and be more emotionally available, and in the meantime that men should not complain about loneliness or lack of romantic success because that's entitlement. It really reinforces the idea that men's emotions are only valid when they neatly align with women's expectations and desires, and non-conformity will be punished. Which is quite entitled in… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/08/22 05:56 PM |
| 16 | semi-feminist madly in love with a LWMA memberWomen and feminism are not one and the same thing. So one can attack the ideology of feminism without attacking women as a whole. Because that's what it is. Feminism is an ideology, and as all ideologies, they are debatable, prone to gross overreach and overzealousness, and will also tend to not like being questionned at all. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/08/22 02:25 PM |
| 25 | semi-feminist madly in love with a LWMA memberIt depends. Do disabled people hold certain priviledges and advantages that abled people don't have? That's the crux of it. Women and Men both have priviledges and disadvantages in society. It would be stupid to deny it. But when you say "let's only work on dismantling men's priviledges and women's disadvantages", you'll end up in a society where women get to keep their priviledges with do disadvantages, while men only get to keep their disadvantadges without any priviledges. That's why focusing… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/08/22 01:55 PM |
| 33 | Well-being of incels: an interesting paper"Involuntarily celibate men, or incels, have risen to prominence within social discourse in recent years. Far from the male supremacists that media portrays, incels appear to demonstrate a sense of victimhood and inferiority. The mental health of incels tends to be poor, with many reporting high levels of loneliness" No shit sherlock.... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/08/22 07:45 PM |
| 22 | Remember: to feminists, men are simply a means to an end.Well, it's easy. Us men have all the rights, all the power, all the privileges, and most importantly all the candies, and so, Equality(tm) can only be achieved when they'll have stripped us of our dear candy. When you think men really have it on extra-easy mode, not a struggle in our entire life, it's easy to see equality as stripping men of their unfair, ill-gotten advantages in life. Problem is, if you try and look at the issues that men face, then your whole house of card of oppression falls … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/08/22 04:16 PM |
| 5 | Why is violence against men and boys classified under end VAWG strategy?It was a statistic from the Cdc if I remember correctly. It's years old though. I've seen a feminist accept it, but rationalizing it in the weirdest way possible. It went like this : "It reference people who have suffered IPV in their lives, without asking if it happened now pr in the past. And many lesbian women had heterosexual relationships before making their coming out, so really it's only lesbians that suffered from IPV during their heterosexual relationships from male perpetrators, and no… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/08/22 07:38 AM |
| 16 | Why is violence against men and boys classified under end VAWG strategy?We're much closer to parity though. 40% male victims is not a "tiny minority", plus it doesn't factor in both male underreporting, and the higher number of victims in lesbian couples. So in heterosexual couples, we're pretty much at parity. Which is... well, sad that it even exists in the first place. But equality, yeah (sarcasm evidently) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/08/22 06:28 AM |
| 58 | Why is violence against men and boys classified under end VAWG strategy?Do you think that at some point in the future we're finally going to be rid of the "domestic violence disproportionately affect women and girls" bullshit? Because it doesn't seems like it, and it's despairing me to no end... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/08/22 07:00 PM |
| 11 | *Shadow in the Cloud* is a fantastic feminist filmFrom my understanding, not so much hates feminist as very wary of feminist and feminist tendancies to just pile up on men (while painting themselved as the underdog). Anyway, OP clearly states that this movie is a disaster of unleashed feminist chauvinistic rhetoric, to the point where it becomes brilliantly fun to watch, if you don't take it seriously. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/08/22 07:20 AM |
| 4 | Found an abnormal psychology pamphlet at my campus store that noted some interesting thoughts on ED treatment.I also don't like the idea that once the drugs sovies the ED problem, the man will fall back to his base instinct and become an unfaithful fuck machine. Like, yeah, most men like sex, but most men are also able to control their animal instincts, we're not lowly beasts ffs. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/08/22 05:48 AM |
| 7 | Do we do videos around here? | The Emotional Objectification of MenThanks for posting this. Reading the comments here I was a bit afraid, but it was a really interesting watch. Just got to say though that the use of the word patriarchy irritates me, because at some point he does point at the etymological dichotomy between feminism (the feminine force for good) and the patrarchy (the masculine force for evil). And with that framework in mind, I'd really hoped he would call for a renaming of both these entities that don't reinforce gendered stereotypes (men bad, … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/08/22 10:22 AM |
| 19 | The Reason People Like Andrew Tate Exist Is Because No One On The The Left/Feminist Decided To Stick Up For Men's Issues.Well, thank you for your remarks. But I'm not sure that men don't like other men, in like individual men. I'm pretty sure on the other hand than men don't like manhood. And why would we? Manhood is suffering. It's an ultimatum to be manly or not to be a man at all. It's a lifelong competition for both financial, social and sexual success, where every other man is a competitor. It's also been hammered in our heads since birth that boys are gross, icky and smelly, while girls fart rose aroma and s… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/08/22 08:35 PM |
| 19 | The Reason People Like Andrew Tate Exist Is Because No One On The The Left/Feminist Decided To Stick Up For Men's Issues.Honestly, I find that guy absolutely ridiculous, and sexist as fuck, but I get where his followers come from. You are a young man, searcjing for your bearings in your most formative of years, and how to interact with women (and your hormones won't let you have a single break). And from the "kumbaya" side of the spectrum, you see that men are refered to as toxic, immature, entitled, rapist and wife-beaters (despite those thing pretty much being evely distributed acrosse the gender spectrum, both … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/08/22 07:06 PM |
| 27 | The Reason People Like Andrew Tate Exist Is Because No One On The The Left/Feminist Decided To Stick Up For Men's Issues.About the "absent father" thing, I recently read something on Imgur that made me think. It's a "wholesole" repost of some years old post by a man who was involved in all sort of illegal shit until the woman he was with became pregnant. Now he says that he didn't want a kid, but (and I'm basically quoting at this point), when he discovered he'd have a daughter, everything changed. He bought girly things for her room, got his life in order and became a super dad for her. And I mean, great, I'm hap… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/08/22 06:07 PM |
| 7 | Is this some kind of projection (more in comments)There was a researcher who was abble to predict the number of sexual partners of men using metrics such as "are you a member of a gang", "have you already fought someone using a blade weapon", etc... with quite some accuracy. I havve to find it again. And to the surprise of no one, the higher your violence metrics, the higher the number of your sexual partners... Also, for each point of IQ in college, you have an increase probability of being a late virgin as a man, so there is that too.... | /r/EverydayMisandry | 14/08/22 07:31 AM |
| 23 | Apparently Now Men Are Single Because Of A " Skills Deficit ". What Skills Are We Talking About Here?Or 7 feet tall and earn 6 figures. They are interchangeable. | /r/MensRights | 14/08/22 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Loneliness and the EconomyThis is something I've already thought about. If all men decided to do a "date-strike" and agree to not ask women out for, let's say a month, it would force a change in the structur of the dating and seduction paradigm in our societies. Though women would most likely complain and men be called "immature tantrum-having entitled men-child". Weird that when women propose a sex-strike it never happens to them.... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/08/22 09:21 PM |
| 10 | Only men can be charged with rape in England, and why it matters.I knew wome rapist existed, but I never knew the rates of men and women victims of rape (by the broader, more humane definition) were so similar. Thanks for sharing that! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/08/22 02:45 PM |
| 3 | This is being gobbled up by wokesters as 100% truthYou know, this is something I have a bone to pick with. Men need to step up. It would be oppressive to ask women to even look at men they would not be normlaly interested in, yaddi yaddi yadda. Women have the chosing power in dating, they're the ones selecting always the same dudes. They are basically artificially selecting the men they are sayibg they don't want to date anymore. I remember an article a few years back by a woman who said that she took a leap of faith and dated the shy guy, the g… | /r/MensRights | 12/08/22 06:26 AM |
| 18 | An interesting deleted comment from menslib and a reflection as to why language matters.There is something I want to add about the idea that non-traditionally masculine men are defavorized in the dating world, which is very true. Thing is, from my point of view, while it's not women's fault, changing things is definitely majoritarily women's responsibility. Now, before I sound like some bitter recluse, I just want to point that if women (who are the sex having the power of choice in dating) are always favorizing traditionally masculine men, to the point that brutish, selfish, misog… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/08/22 07:42 PM |
| 19 | Throughout history, women rulers were more likely to wage war than men. — QuartzJust look at Fredegonde, a french servant who intrigued her way to queendom in the 6th century. She made the king renounce his queen by making her become the godmother of her own son, which made it incest to be wed to the father of the son. During her reign, she had quite the number of assassinations to her belt. Her husbands kids from his first marriage, 2 queens, a king from another kindgom, her own husband the king Chilpéric... She also was quite the man-eatress, basically fucking anything th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/08/22 07:38 AM |
| 8 | insults and compliments directed towards menI'm not sure I'd say it like that. Just that, while acting to free women of gender roles and to make each women free to define their femininity, feminism still tries to make masculinity conform to a definite frame, instead of freeing men of gender roles too. I mean, they SAY men should not conform to gender roles, while having a very precise opinion of what a man's man should be like, and act like. Not gonna lie, there is also some hypocrisy in their choice of mates. With precious few exceptions… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/08/22 07:04 AM |
| 39 | insults and compliments directed towards menThat's very true. That's something my girlfriend struggle to understand, when she says that it's hard to be a woman and it's hard to be feminine (and I agree, it must be hard). But as for masculinity, there is a sort of... absolute to it. Being masculine defines your worth as a man, and not just your identity. Society tells you, cash, if you're not enough of a man, you're not a man, period. And it's reinforced constantly, by both men and women. It can be "toxic masculinity", true, but those voic… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/08/22 07:19 PM |
| 3 | I've created an Instagram account with the purpose of exposing the hatred feminists have towards men, and I need help to fill it up, if you have any links that you think are relevant, please send them to me.Holy fucking shit that's depressing... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/08/22 10:23 PM |
| 9 | There is more to incels than just "entitlement"It's even more grating (that the right word?) when acts of service are one of your language of love. If you're in love with someone, and your way is to show it to them is to be helpful, how is that manipulative? I think that dating is entirely conceptualized from the female experience, and that's part of the problem. If you're not doing it according to how they see it, that's a problem. So if you want to show interest by acts of service (which, as a man, is kinda how we're told to act since chil… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/08/22 06:30 PM |
| 17 | There is more to incels than just "entitlement"There is soooo much to say about the "nice guys"... I don't even know where to begin. First, the idea that "being nice is nothing special, that's the bare minimum". Fuck that. Have you interacted with people, or even watched people interact? A lot of people are awful. They treat service workers like garbage and are entirely self-centered. Being genuinely nice is pretty rare, because we live in a society that pits us against one another. And if it was a "bare minimum to date", how are so many wom… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/08/22 05:48 PM |
| 25 | There is more to incels than just "entitlement"I remember once seeing a clip of a show in the US where the host said to "incels" that "if women don't want you, that's because you're unfuckable". I was taken aback by the sheer violence of that statement. These are people who struggle with self-love and self-confidence, and who are convinced that nobody will ever love them. They need empathy, understanding and help, and insulting them is the most sure way to radicalize them. Same goes with nice guys. Some are genuine manipulative assholes, but… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/08/22 04:25 PM |
| 30 | There is more to incels than just "entitlement"Before I met my wife, I remember saying upon internet, somewhere, that I had difficulties meeting and entering in relationships with women. The answer I got, multiple times, from women and some male feminists, is that "it's not hard to find someone to have sex, therefore it's your problem/you're the problem". How can you hope that someone struggling with loneliness and dating will take it in a positive way? And yeah, at that time, I developed a resentment toward women for my loneliness. Because … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/08/22 01:54 PM |
| 4 | Do you think Beyoncé is a misandrist?Yeah, but you're aware of the existence of the out-group tendancy of men, contrary to most men and women out there. That's also a reason why defending men's issue seems so hard. Both sexes have a solidarity to women by nature, so women's issue are taken into account much more seriously than men's. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/07/22 06:56 PM |
| 8 | RealizationHe went through a rough patch, but now he is much better. At least, last I heard from him, since he moved halfway through the country (which, I guess as a french, might seem minuscule for american people as he only moved 500km). Last I heard he had found a new girlfriend and launched his own business, and was ready to have a kid. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/07/22 05:44 PM |
| 2 | A theory of patriarchyThat was not my goal. I'm aware that society was built in equal part by men and women. But I found ironic the realization that the selection of the dominant male throughout history was for a huge part due to women. That goes completely contrary to the idea that men created the patriarchy as a way to subjuguate women. I've got to said then, that if we did create patriarchy to guarantee us a spot at the top, given the sorry state of men in society (with the issues we all know of), it's about time … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/07/22 05:09 AM |
| 57 | RealizationThere is also the fact that toxic masculinity is, in part, enforced by women. They can tout that men should be able to show emotions and cry all they like, I know of enough examples in my social circle of women getting completely turned off my a man showing vulnerability and sadness that I'd be weary to show any "weakness" in front of most women. For example, I've a friend who suffered a motorcycle accident, lost his job (his employer went bankrupt) and lost an uncle in the same month. Understan… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/07/22 05:00 AM |
| 2 | "Make boys cry."If men built the patriarchy as a way to oppress and dominate women, I guess it really is time we smash the patriarchy, because oh boy, we sure do suck at it. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 25/07/22 01:10 PM |
| 27 | I am tired of men being treated as means to ends instead of as ends in themselves (in contravention of Kantian ethics)Not just that, I've seen a bizarre trend. If a man has preferences in women (be it her size, her breasts, her weight - anything really) he's fetishizing her. For instance, I'm attracted to bigger women (though I'm in a relationship with a girl who can't gain any weight no matter what she eats), and often you'll see people saying that liking big women is fetishizing them. Or, I have a friend that is attractes to transwomen, and same, fetishizing. But on the other hand, a woman who really, REALLLY… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/07/22 10:29 PM |
| 6 | PSA: men and women who work outside, please be careful with the summer heat waves.We do have pretty strong labor laws, but you can't rule out the scummy boss who profits of young, beginning labourer who don't really yet know their rights or the risk they are taking. For example, for my architecture studies I had to do a 2 weeks internship in a construction firm. I worked under a man who had no fucks to give for my safety. He made me use a jackhammer in an enclosed space without ear protection. 19 y.o me was absolutely unaware of the risks, so I lost 40dB in my right ear. He a… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/07/22 05:33 PM |
| 8 | PSA: men and women who work outside, please be careful with the summer heat waves.Right in the beginning of the week, we had in Europe quite the violent heatwave. Up to 40°C in the shadows, unbearable in the sun. Yet we had some roofers (is that the correct term) dying of heatstroke in my region (near Paris). And the fact that ANYONE should have to work under these conditions is beyond me. How is it worth killing people so as not to be 2 days late on your calendar? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/07/22 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Some common gender myths and their rebuttalsAbout the out-group bias toward women, I remember a tv game host here in France who described it quite right. So basically, there is a champion (it's a general culture quizz) who stays as long as he wins, and every day you have 6 contestants competing to be the challenger. And, if 2 contestants have the same amount of points, the champion gets to decide who will be the challenger. And after thousands of games, the host said "Anyway, it doesn't matter, if there is woman in the 2 contestabts, she'… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/07/22 05:41 AM |
| 10 | Is there any truth to the idea that modern society highly values fulfilling the sexual desires of men?DISCLAIMER :not a native speaker, and written on a phone. I tried to correct as many typos as possible but I humbly ask for your leniency. What a world they live in. Is there any place left on that world where men's sexual gratification is even acknowledged? I mean, come on. Have you ever heard of any people or article discussing the male orgasm? How to achieve it, what it looks like, etc? Me, personally, absolutely not. BUT, I've seen hundreds of thousands of articles about the female orgasm an… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/07/22 06:13 AM |
| 2 | The current obsession with vasectomies is creepyI mean, if women want to mitigate the risk of pregnancy, they can get their tubes tied. What's that? What if they want kids later in life? Hmm, now that's a conundrum ain't it? Well I guess they can always freeze their eggs... You know what? It's strangely sexist when it's directed toward women, so i wonder if it could not be sexist when directed toward men... hmmmm. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/07/22 06:17 AM |
| 5 | How the slut shaming double standard is actually rooted in misandryAlso, when you think about it, in our culture we believe that a woman who have had sex with a man is impure. So, at some level it must mean that men are making women impure by having sex with them. The fact that we're also criminalizing staring, critiquing the "male gaze", shaming men for their sex drive (which is not especially higher than women's in general btw) really shows that men's sexuality is demonized. That's a subject I have wanted to do a post on for quite some time but never have had… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/07/22 06:05 AM |
| 77 | The fact that people found the Lorena Bobbitt case funny (or worse, justified) makes me wonder if we'll ever succeed in getting society to morally condemn and ban male circumcision (and other MGM)Yup, there is a huge amount of acceptance of women's violence toward men. For instance, recently on imgur there was a firstpage post about a 19th century woman who bit the nose off of a man for trying to kiss her. At the time, the man sued and the judge sided with the woman sayibg that she was well within her rights. When I pointed that it might have been a tad disproportionnate to disfigure the man for going for a kiss, I've been told I'm an incel, yaddi yaddi yadda... But seriously, a slap or … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/07/22 12:16 PM |
| 29 | Sexist body shaming like this is never aimed at women, so why does LeftBook think it acceptable to be blatantly sexist and body shame and think that this kind of shit is okay?And it's (rightfully so) reviled to do so. But it's not when it comes to dick shaming. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/07/22 10:05 AM |
| 11 | Why are men being blamed for the overturn of Roe v. Wade when recent surveys show that the majority of men AND women are pro-choice?Ok, so I misread his post, thanks for pointing out. Still, saying that all these women are somehow incapable of rhought is pretty sexist imho. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/06/22 07:43 PM |
| 73 | Why are men being blamed for the overturn of Roe v. Wade when recent surveys show that the majority of men AND women are pro-choice?Also, and quite ironically, I've seen women get pretty upset online because they're being told that "if they don't want to get pregnant, they should not have sex" Ironically because that's what has been said to men who are forced into paternity, but when you point that out, you're an incel misogynist. Even when you specifically said that you're pro-abortions, and that the discussion about forced parentality should concern both sexes. Oh, and also, somehow those 60% of anti-abortion women are rea… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/06/22 04:52 PM |
| 3 | I'm tired of the gendering of the (justified) backlash against the abortion ban in the USYeah, but they're obviously brainwashed by the patriarchy! Because, let's face it, no women is ever capable of free thought. /s | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/06/22 10:11 AM |
| 26 | What is a Patriarchy?Honestly, I think we are downtroddens. If tomorrow you could give me a choice to be reborn a woman, I'd take it without hesitation. If for no other reason than it must be nice to have society fight for you and not against you... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/06/22 09:14 PM |
| 5 | I feel like it takes a special kind of ignorance to not see that male gender expectations are massively harmfulThat's pretty fucked up. And they wonder why men nit expressing emotions, not asking help, etc... is a thing. If toxic masculinity exists (and to some extent, I believe there are indeed unhealthy side-effects to the expression of masculinity), its primary enforcers are women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/06/22 08:49 AM |
| 14 | Incels exist because no one started social media campaigns for unconventional men. They were instead continuously ostracized and their insecurities made the butt of jokes.Well, to work with your analogy, incels are people who were never correctly taught to hunt or fish, that are shamed for that by people that were always fed venison and fish without ever having to fish or hunt. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/06/22 09:39 PM |
| 13 | I feel like it takes a special kind of ignorance to not see that male gender expectations are massively harmfulI remember on imgur a post about "how to correctly eat out your girl". And sure it was interesting. But there were a collection of women commenting "lol at all the men who favorited it". Like, learning how to please your partner is shameful. But if you don't do it, you're an egoist and a bad fuck. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/06/22 01:00 PM |
| 58 | I feel like it takes a special kind of ignorance to not see that male gender expectations are massively harmfulJust take dating for example. I always scoff at people who say "women make effort to get prepared, so it's men's burden to ask her out", reinforcing outdated traditional roles. I don't know about you, but I already didn't have much success when I was well clothed, hairs done, and perfumed, I'm pretty sure it would have been worse if I went to a date wearing 10 days dirty clothes, smelt like I just went through the garbage, and with lice in my hair and beard. The idea that women are the only gend… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/06/22 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else realize that most women don't really respect progressive men?That's actually better. Much better. Ok, let's propagate "to be sistraught"! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/06/22 06:31 PM |
| 9 | Anyone else realize that most women don't really respect progressive men?As I translated it, it's a typo (damn phone keyboard made for ants), but I'll be coining the term. Sistraught, to be upset by a woman! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/06/22 07:19 AM |
| 30 | Anyone else realize that most women don't really respect progressive men?Yeah but don't you dare point out that their choice of me are shitty as hell. They can't possibly be wrong or have to work on some toxic character traits that make them always go for immature, dickish people. And you pointing it out must mean that you are a virgin incel that's basically unfuckable. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/06/22 10:35 PM |
| 74 | Anyone else realize that most women don't really respect progressive men?I remember a daily sexology segment on french radio were one time they shared a question by a feminist girl who asked, in summary (and I'm translating) "I'm a feminist and always have been a feminist, and I live in feminist circles. And though I'm for men showing progressive values, I'm only attracted to men displaying machismo style of behavior. I witness the same kind of attraction in my feminist friends, and feel sistraught because there is a dissonance between my values and the reality of my… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/06/22 10:27 PM |
| 21 | I'm just now realizing how often the term "mutual abuse" was used during the Depp v Heard trial.That's really true. Once on a forum, I made a post and bought up the fact that I had an abusive parent and described some of the abuses, as a way to vent. The gender didn't matter to me at this point. I suffered abuse, it did a number on me, that's what mattered. Nevertheless, the people that responded automatically assumed it was my father and were pretty harsh (justifiedly so given the described abuse) in their comments, but when I told them that it was, in fact, my mother that was abusive, I … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/06/22 08:10 AM |
| 34 | I'm just now realizing how often the term "mutual abuse" was used during the Depp v Heard trial.Also, when we're talking about a male victim, often he is said to "have done something to deserve it". And that's disgusting. But somehow, victim blaming men is ok. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/06/22 07:41 AM |
| 2 | Why does the establishment and mainstream media want to paint us as far-right nutjobs?I think because there is an element of truth in it, but they see it the wrong way. The far-right is the only one saying to men "listen, we hear you". So while feminism and the left in general has adopted a very firm standing ground on women's rights being the only ones that matters, and men should not voice their own issues because muh priviledge, there is a part of the political spectrum that says "we know you face issues, we know it's not easy, come here you will be heard". Unfortunately, the … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/06/22 09:26 AM |
| 4 | An open invitation for a roundtable to the feminists of redditI remember a few tears back, when Cassie Jaye and then Lacie Green, two really feminist women, extended an olive branch and talked to anti-feminists. With the result we know. Cassie Jaye dropped the feminist label, Lacie Green didn't, but in a video had a phrase I will remember for long. She said "I took time to talk with prominent anti-feminists, and was exposed to another viewpoint, and thought "hey, that's interesting, I didn't think about it that way"" This "I didn't think about it that way"… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/06/22 05:48 AM |
| 4 | What was GamerGate all about?It all started at a time where feminism was really starting to try and get its claws inside video gaming too. It was the start of the "gamers are misogynists and gaming is sexist" era, and not only in the US. In France we had a journalist who wrote an article about the Tomb Raider reboot. Granted, his article was written like an edgy teenager review of a snuff movie. But still... At one point, this journalist was excited to see Lara Croft being so thoroughly put down during the demo. Meaning tha… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/06/22 06:54 AM |
| 30 | Why are women objectified in your opinion?So, feminist are both objectifying women, because they deny their agency in the world, and men because they deny men's subjective experience and silence us when we express said experiences... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/05/22 06:51 AM |
| 3 | I think there is this dilemma, that men are not allowed to show emotion in societyYou know, I have thought about that for a very long time, ans in my opinion, that's a control mechanism. If you shame men for expressing feelings, then by extension you shame men for expressing that something don't fit them right, be it at a personal or a societal level. And if you shame a man for expressing that, then you don't have to work on that. Because when it's deeply ingrained in the common psyche, both of men and women, then it's a self-maintaining process. So, if men suddenly don't wan… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/05/22 06:01 AM |
| 19 | Why many women choose the wrong partners, and how that benefits more traditional menI have somehow worse. A girl we (my university friends group) knew was in a relationship with a guy EVERYONE thought toxic as fuck. Whatever we told her, it was "her business who she dated and we didn't have a say in it". Turns out he cheated on her for the whole time they dated. Also turns out that when she discovered it, she accepted it, and then the guy invites one of his side girls (he had a few) to her birthday. She was in tears almost every days, and still, she wouldn't heed our warnings. … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/05/22 11:33 AM |
| 20 | Why many women choose the wrong partners, and how that benefits more traditional menYup, rhere definitely is a dynamic of (especially young) women chosing male partners that display some pretty sketchy character traits, end up disappointed, only to do the same thing again. Every man has in his life at least 2 or 3 stories about women who consistently go for the bad guys, and don't you dare ask those women to question their choice of men. It's their business, and you are just a lonely loser who is unfuckable if you think that maybe, just maybe, they would gain quite a lot to, yo… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/05/22 09:13 AM |
| 11 | In light of Chris Hemsworth’s nudity in the trailer of Thor: Love And Thunder, I think it’s worth asking why the notion that female sexualization is wrong was immediately followed by copious amounts of male nudityThe idea that there is a male gaze but no female gaze is just ludicrous. I mean, the fact that all already very buff men (Chris Hemworth/Pratt/Evans, Henry Cavill, etc...) have to risk sever organ failure due to dehydration, just to enhance muscle definition for obvious seduction shots is not a coincidence. It's not an "artistic vision" to have them pose nude, and I highly doubt it's for men. And the fact that everytime you have a flurry of social media posts of women commenting of said scenes k… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/05/22 06:39 AM |
| 6 | Two X Literally Creates a Hate Post, and Reddit Says It Is Not HateI mean, even when you look at all that abortion fiasco, they said it was old white men trying to take away women's bodily autonomy (which is an horror, I join them in that, NOBODY should force women to bear kids and said kids to be born). Ignoring the fact that, ahem, one of the people voting for that was a black man and another was a woman. And that studies have shown that in the US, the anti-abortion movement is pretty equal part men and women. When you make everything a gender issue, you neve… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/05/22 06:07 AM |
| 49 | Johnny Depp wins women's abuse organization's support in Amber Heard trialYou know what bothers me? If a man is harassed by his wife. She is consistently insulting him, diminishing him, destroying his self-confidence, isolating him from his friends and family, telling him that he is worthless, that he is not a man. Stuff we can easily imagine happening. If, after years of abuse, that man snaps and slap her? He is the abuser, she gets to be seen as the victim. If he takes his own life out of desperation? Well, then he's just another statistic. Now, I'm not excusing bea… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/05/22 04:44 AM |
| 14 | Showerthought: Feminist women saying, "Don't approach me unless you are a feminist man" is A LOT like Christian girls only dating within the same denominationEspecially when it's in a situation like dating, where women, wether they like it or not, have plenty more opportunith (and quite frankly, power) than men. So, quite a lot of men are left frustrated and feeling a crushing loneliness (cue the emergence of the PUAs and their promises to offer you the "solution to dating") while most women are advantaged in this domain (it would be hypocritical to say otherwise. I have heard plenty of times "if I want to get laid, I just have to go to a pub for a f… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/05/22 01:13 PM |
| 23 | Showerthought: Feminist women saying, "Don't approach me unless you are a feminist man" is A LOT like Christian girls only dating within the same denominationYeah, I already read it a while ago. It was a fantastic read. I especially appreciated his take on "I didn't think I was entitled to sex by women, but I deserved to not be doing (much mich) worse than Henry. Because when it comes to the subject of "Nice guys", this is solething that always comes back. "You are not entitled to sex". And yeah, nobody is. That's not the point made here. The point is, the worst people have the least problem finding mates. Concerning that Henry, I read a comment on t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/05/22 12:18 PM |
| 29 | Showerthought: Feminist women saying, "Don't approach me unless you are a feminist man" is A LOT like Christian girls only dating within the same denominationBecause despite what society tells us, men are not only desperate fuck machines, and seek intimate relationships more often than not. What's ironic though, is that men who are obsessed by sex over intimacy are more successful in my experience, which might be confirming a selection bias somewhere in women. I mean, I know this is not relevant, but at an university party (when I was young and beautiful), I've witnessed an average looking dude telling girls that he didn't give a fuck about them, the… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/05/22 11:16 AM |
| 14 | As a transwoman, I am happy to find this subI had a friend who was pretty bigoted indeed (one of the reasons why we aren't friends anymore), but one time he told me something that really resonated with me, on a deep, deep level. He told me "I find that the word "Tolerance" is one of the most violent word there is. It's such an horrible concept. It's forcing oneself to accept something against what they believe. And it's saying to someone "I don't really accept you." And indeed, tolerance is not acceptance. Telling someone "I tolerate you"… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/05/22 05:46 AM |
| 14 | "What about the women??" Feminists mad that Johnny Depp case may challenge #BelieveWomen (I hope it does)I want women to be able to abort an unwanted or medically unviable pregnancy. As much for the women as for the children, because let's face it, being born unwanted in a family not ready/fit/stable enough is a recipe for a lot of pain and suffering. I can't even imagine how hard a child's life whose parents resent for the crime of being born can be. At the same time, men should be able to opt out of parentality if they don't desire it. If you want to end the "absent father" epidemic going on, sto… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/05/22 05:47 AM |
| 7 | My sister has gone off the deep end, what can I do?The whole narrative about "you don't know which men are good and which are bad, so I'm justified in being wary of them"... I don't know which women will be respectful and mind equality in the couple, and which women will try to treat me as a free-use wallet. I don't know whoch women will be mature emotionnaly, and which women will be be a Amber Heard, hitting me while going to the cops accusing me of my own abuse. Or thoroughly destroy my mental health and push me to end my own life because she'… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/05/22 06:37 AM |
| 5 | An... Interesting... article from the Australian Broadcasting Company, especially in light of the banning of a certain subreddit...Because the emergence of the PUAs and their coaching doesn't emerge at all from a distinct lack of dating opportunities for men, thus creating a market for charlatans selling their miracle recipe for lonely men, by basically telling them to change every single thing about them and their behaviour. I must be mistaken then. It's true, men are the gender having an easy time in dating... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/04/22 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Sinfest: A perfect case study as to how "Radical Feminism" and "Far Right Propaganda" are both two sides of the same coin (more commentary in the "comments")Yup, on point. The whole idea of a society is that it was created by everyone. Women were pretty intent on enforcing gender roles, because they found their own advantage in it. Feminist and adjacent ideologists might say "oh, but women were really seen as powerless", but the truth is, biologically speaking, women are much more important for the species than men, because they're the ones that generate offsprings. So society as a whole evolved toward protecting its most valuable members. And to th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/04/22 08:04 PM |
| 28 | Sinfest: A perfect case study as to how "Radical Feminism" and "Far Right Propaganda" are both two sides of the same coin (more commentary in the "comments")Saying that men are oppressors is... mind baffling. The system might be oppressive, toward everyone but the richest of us. But individuals are not oppressors by virtue of the circumstances of their birth. Actions dictate if you oppress someone or not. Because, let's face it, lots of dude suffered abuse from women in their lives, be it toxic mothers and lovers, and also from the system. From unfair family proceedings, to a system that'll presume a man to be guilty in any situation involving him a… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/04/22 05:39 AM |
| 33 | Sinfest: A perfect case study as to how "Radical Feminism" and "Far Right Propaganda" are both two sides of the same coin (more commentary in the "comments")If the patriarchy exists, in the sense that since the dawn of history, men created a social system designed to subjuguate women and put men on a pedestal, then I think it's about time we let women take the helm, because man, do we suck at it. I mean, if I were to design a system favoring me, I'd be drinking cocktails while women were doing all the hard,dangerous labor. Sure, I'd hire some women to protect me from the wrath of the masses by offering them some priviledges, so the women would be su… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/04/22 09:09 PM |
| 12 | It's really fucked up how the idea of a man displaying weakness is seen as something reprehensibleYup. I was on a recent topic about a trans guy who discovered the social isolation that comes with being a man, and this someonewas there saying girls suffer discrimination since they're born. So i replied with the fact that boys, from a very young age, are less cuddled and shown less interest than girls, and that in general, people tend to react faster when a girl cries than when it's a boy. Anyway, this stranger "answered" (with quotation mark because it was formulated as an insult, like "can … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/04/22 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Debate topic: Can pro life feminists can be allies to left wing male advocates. Yes or no?And no child should be forced to a life with parents who didn't desire them. That's the best way to make everyone miserable. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/04/22 06:49 AM |
| 45 | It's really fucked up how the idea of a man displaying weakness is seen as something reprehensibleI'd go further in that they explicitely discourage men showing weakness. The "male tears" memes say it all. Whenever men express that their situation don't fit what they strive for (and moreover that the proposition of feminism isn't working for them), men are shamed by this. Thus reinforcing that being a man is shutting up and taking it however hard it is. One recent example on imgur about the Depp/Heard trial, where someone posted something about it, criticizing Amber Heard's behavior and call… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/04/22 06:45 AM |
| 7 | Has anyone ever heard about the Roman Empress Agrippina, her husband Claudius, and her son Nero?There was also Fredegonde, a french servant who manipulalted the queen so she would be removed from the throne (basically telling her to be her own child's godmother which, not knowing french custom, she did. It was seen as incestuous at the time for the godmother of a child to have sex with its father). So the queen was sent to a monastery, her child was seen as a bastard, unfit to inherit the throne, and then Fredegonde seduced and married the king, Chilperic the 1st, to become queen and have … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/04/22 05:34 PM |
| 129 | My thoughts on teaching students about incelsYup, that's pretty worrying. Incels need empathy, understanding and compassion, not hate and more isolation. You don't make a scared dog more calm by beating him with a stick. You won't make incels less hateful by shaming them. If anything, yes, that'll make every man unable to find a sexual partner feel even worse, and that can spiral really fast toward hate. Also, mysoginy is not the cause of their lack of sexual connection. There are plenty of mysoginistic dudes that are really sexually succe… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/04/22 06:06 AM |
| 6 | Enough With The DownplayingStill, it's a bit hypocritical to say that the portrayal of women in medias is sexist, sexualized, etc..., and has to change, and when confronted with what I said in response (i.e. men areportrayed as useless idiots most of the time) to answer with "well, I don't make the shows, it's not my fault, so I won't do anything about it" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/03/22 09:48 AM |
| 3 | Enough With The DownplayingYou know, about domestic violence, a question I always asked myself was "what drove these people to become violent". And I came to a realization that, for some men, they might become violent because they don't feel like they matter, and they shoulder all the weight of the world, which nobody should. And at some point, when the load becomes to much to bear, they give up to the only thing that might help them express their feelings. Now, I am not, and I would never excuse anyone that abuses, both … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/03/22 06:46 PM |
| 14 | Enough With The DownplayingHonestly, yup it's infuriating, because you try to talk about something that impacts men and you aren't even rebuked, you're flat out ignored. I keep hearing that men are perpetrators of violence against women, but never that men can be the victims. I keep hearing about toxic men, but let me tell you (and yeah, I know my experience is not the same as everyone), every single toxic person I've ever known was a woman. I've known assholes from both genders, but manipulative, toxic people? I can thin… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/03/22 03:29 PM |
| 3 | More than "just jokes": The societal treatment of men with small dicks.You know, I struggled all my life with my body image, and chief amongst it are anxieties about my perceived dick size I make a distinction about perceived/real, because while I've never had any complaint or remarks, and my wife seems happy with it, it psychologically hindered me quite a bit. I've forbidden myself to approach women for a long-ass time because of that, even though my wife seems happy about it. And in the rare cases I got with women, when things ended up breaking up, the idea my di… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/03/22 08:49 AM |
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