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Agree to disagree.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 09:37 PM
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I'm talking about instinct and sexual strategy here, not surface-level facts. It's in a woman's nature to seek out a better male at all times. This isn't in a man's nature, and I'd assume the reason it happens today is he isn't happy with his current relationship to start with. Such a common theme to see a man resent a woman because society forces him into monogamy.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 09:36 PM
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Why is that funny? Have you been living under a rock? I'd think it would be funny 10-20 years ago, but today isn't conveying the same message. It seems that you're the type to give people the benefit of the doubt until it negatively affects you. I've been burned enough to think otherwise.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 08:21 PM
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If you're into that, good for you. I don't find that attractive in the slightest. Related, what I have a problem with is growing old together. Importance of physical attraction will plateau later in life, so this opinion of mine entirely depends on what stage I'm in. But right now, I'm not there.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 07:48 PM
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Maybe it has more to do with the fem-dom identity of a shaven head, than the looks. If there wasn't a malicious intent, I might stick around. However it jeopardizes levels of attraction, and that's important.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 07:39 PM
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You were basing your existence around another person, which is insanely unhealthy. Instead of loving yourself because someone else loves you, it needs to be the other way around. They can wake up one day and decide to leave, and you'll be thrown into a downward spiral. Start looking out for yourself. This is pathetic.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 07:36 PM
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Use humor so it doesn't sting. Tell her you're thinking about getting breast implants and ask her if she would stay with you post-op.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 07:32 PM
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Do what you can to behave like others. Your actual opinions will naturally pull you to the center and you won't end up jeopardizing yourself.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 07:22 PM
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You fucked up. Next time she asks if you would dump her for shaving her head, say yes. Then she can decide if her relationship is important enough. It's a big move, so odds are she might ask again. Men have a right to desire feminine women... That have hair on their head. If she ended up doing it, I'd probably dump her on the spot.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 07:18 PM
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I'll be the bad guy, since it looks like plenty of good guys had their say. I've been in a LTR for around 16 months now. I'd consider myself as being happy as fuck. Do it. Go fuck a 5-7 and see how you feel afterward. I can tell you there is some guilt, but I know my intentions are in the right place so I'm not worried at all. If for some reason it blows up in my face, which I have thought deeply about, it wasn't meant to be. A LTR is going to choose to stay or choose to go no matter what, and I…
/r/askTRP31/08/16 07:09 PM
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There's no repairing this. You've lost respect for him. Find the man out there he used to be.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 09:53 AM
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Now realize it doesn't mean shit and just text her while you're still fresh in her mind, at the end of the day or early evening. "Hey it's Fuckass, you free this Xday?" - "Blah blah yeah/maybe" "Grab coffee/beer with me at around 8" - "where?" "I'll let you know" (gives you an excuse to stay on her radar between now and then) Or "Hey it's Fuckass, you free this Xday?" - "Blah blah no" End of story until she offers an alternative A better version is to approach with this conversation instead of b…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 10:10 PM
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Sounds like she's toying with you.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 10:05 PM
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And then fuck everyone's girlfriend in front of them.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 09:29 PM
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Yup. Sidebar is good to revisit time to time.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 08:17 PM
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Grow a beard if you're about to be bald. May as well get used to it now.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 06:04 PM
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https://illimitablemen.com/game/ https://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/
/r/askTRP30/08/16 05:19 PM
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Fuck them anyway. Your mind needs it.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 05:12 PM
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I was in the same boat. I plated a girl for two months while she tried to have the talk. I had three other plates at the time, and decided I'd keep this one because she had a lot of qualities I look for in a LTR. I ghosted my three plates, took the plunge, and have been with her since. Previous you would have settled with the first or second plate you stumbled across. Thank TRP for that. The warning I will give you is based on my experience. I still want to fuck other women, so I still fuck othe…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 04:44 PM
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A few have mentioned the real problem: You aren't getting the sex you want. Your sex life with her is 100% your responsibility. Maybe you need to start fucking her mind before you fuck her. Tap more into her submissive side. Have you read The Sex God Method yet? An n-count at 23 isn't bad for a 32-year-old. She's had almost two decades to ride the CC. 23 doesn't start to look bad until you get down to age 25-27.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 04:24 PM
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Definitely reasonable. The CC only caught her up a few dozen times.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 04:20 PM
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Pretty low actually.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 04:19 PM
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First, there are no "HB10s". Second, how many plates have you seen since your ex? Third, it sounds like this new oneitus hasn't even asked for you two to be exclusive. Why do you even care? She HAS to ask or you won't have a shot in the long run without being a doormat.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 04:14 PM
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The Sex God Method applies to any romantic situation.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 04:10 PM
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My comment here where i mention "OP" wasn't directed at you, even though it can seem that way. I meant OP of the average sidebar-answered topics in asktrp. I replied on one of your posts in this thread which addresses some of what you're talking about here.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 08:24 AM
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You know that sinking feeling when you're alone at night thinking about that girl you "almost" approached earlier that day? Didn't have the balls? Guess how you prevent that from happening.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 07:59 AM
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Here's another angle: Plating can be used positively. Think of it as a tool. Bedding multiple women gives you experience. You learn as you go, and you learn a lot about female sexuality. You learn a lot about yourself. You develop more boundaries. You learn that you're able to develop those boundaries because you have abundance. You gain more confidence from this. Add lifting and hobbies to this ego. Now you have stronger boundaries. Still plating through this? Women are getting easy. The game i…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 07:54 AM
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9 of every 10 asktrp posts can be answered by the sidebar, and the OP probably doesn't follow the advice most of the time anyway. In other words, they don't need serious answers all the time. There is still quality here, but we all know most of the topics have easy solutions. Other than that, I'm not sure what the rant is about. Are you talking about the main sub? I see way too fucking much anger phase to waste time reading their theories and rants, so I wouldn't immediately assume you're wrong …
/r/askTRP30/08/16 07:39 AM
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Connections are made in the awkward silences. Train yourself to feel at ease during them. You can communicate a lot without words. The fact you can let a conversation die in someone's company and feel fine with it can say a lot about your character. Don't be the guy that gets scared of a few seconds of silence so he just talks about random shit. Those are people that try too hard. Let her meet you halfway. Let her have a personality and start topics, too. If she can't and it gets really silent, …
/r/askTRP30/08/16 06:53 AM
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Maybe they can rearrange your face for the better.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 06:48 AM
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Right. OP isn't a man. The neighbor knew this. Men take care of themselves. OP I know what I'm saying stings when you read this, but let that drive you and slingshot you into some gym gains.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 06:02 AM
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I had the 100th. Winning. What OP is not doing. Why you not jacked OP?
/r/askTRP30/08/16 05:59 AM
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Ok that's too far. There are different spectrums, and you kinda chose one of the most extreme to carry your opinion.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 10:24 PM
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r/bdsm Just lurk, don't post. They hate anything that implies a man actually controls the bedroom, and will dox and ban you for posting in TRP. They have lots of ideas for dynamics like this; like no panties allowed, permission to speak, cucking her, etc. Make sure it's also things that you can enjoy, otherwise you're just entering her frame and she will probably pick up on any lack of desire if you try to fake it too much.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 06:41 PM
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Video games are shit. They all try to suck you into a fantasy world that doesn't exist. Most of them today also try to suck your wallet dry. That said, I do play cards online frequently. If you can find a game that exercises your mind and doesn't CONSUME you, you'll be solid. As far as main stream media, like news, that's good. Knowledge is power. Even though half of it is bullshit, it allows you to speak from a frame of reference.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 11:56 PM
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Tell her maybe you should take a break. Then retract the statement and downplay it. Watch the sex drive increase by 90% overnight. She's less attracted to you because you were way too fucking easy.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 10:13 PM
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It's just loss of attraction.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 10:11 PM
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You're getting downvoted because you're bending and twisting to try to prove her argument a strong one. You're rationalizing against logic. She may very well be a good LTR candidate, but not while she's still considering other dick. That's the very definition of a girl that is not ready for a LTR. The worst thing you could do right now, aside from LTR'ing her on the spot, is to tell her why you aren't considering exclusivity. She 100%, hell 150%, needs to figure this out on her own. Otherwise, y…
/r/askTRP28/08/16 09:59 PM
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Ok, that's not bad. I'd encourage her to go out and socialize with her friends. Spend some healthy time apart, not in a break-up way. It's part test, and part dread. Because let's face it. If you wife this bitch up, you're not going to spend 100% of your time with her. You need to know if she's into it or not. Give her plenty of opportunities to escape and ride the CC. That's part of your job. It's also a touch of dread because you can plan a night out with the guys.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 06:50 PM
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Agreed. Tuck or not, own it.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 06:48 PM
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Wait for the "girls' night out" to take action. That's her next step. You didn't think regular text convos with "other guys" were a red flag? She's had her door open the entire time.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 06:41 PM
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Men follow through.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 06:40 PM
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Sick.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 06:38 PM
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Sounds like you both skipped out on work that day. I wouldn't apologize. That will reinforce her belief that it was your fault, as if you're reminding her that you were a shitbag. Just say it won't happen again if you're confronted about it.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 06:25 AM
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Give us an update on how it goes.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 04:19 AM
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Backhanded compliment on your genetic qualities like your face/complexion. Take it as constructive criticism.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 04:16 AM
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Drop that mic.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 04:15 AM
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She probably broke up with you after she slept with him. Who gives a shit? You had your turn while she was younger, therefore better. Now he gets the older version that you already ran through. Anger phase is for pussies. Don't act on it because then you just be a stupid pussy. Give it time.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 04:12 AM
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Yes it's a disorder. I believe it's called strange dick addiction.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 03:21 AM
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Sounds like she could've also just had her ego hit by your "I'll check my schedule" comment, so she wanted to make you jealous. Either way, give us an update when she hits you back Sunday afternoon. Calling it now.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 01:48 AM
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I've had girls ask and told them bluntly that I was in a relationship. Banged one of them for months, to include the night she asked.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 01:39 AM
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Good shit. She could also be mulling it over on whether or not to even tell your ex. Depends on how close they are. If they're really close, odds are high the girl won't bite especially if your ex was the one who helped her through her recent break-up. She has to hang on to her support system for dear life and if your ex is vital to that... You know.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 01:34 AM
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Stop being concerned whether she's ok with it. She will decide that for herself. I can tell you feel guilty. Stop that. A "hmmmm ok" isn't a no. It could be a positive response. No need to give serious answers for more questions like that. Keep being assertive. Come Monday, it's "meet me X at X o'clock". Escalate as per normal.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 12:41 AM
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I wouldn't worry about keeping it low key, assuming the reason you say that is because you'll be around other friends too. Tingles are born through boldness. You have the right attitude. Don't get tripped up by your plate. Have fun making her jealous on purpose. Your plate will whine when she wants attention, and you should give her attention only when you feel like it. She's not entitled to 100% if your attention, but she won't last as a plate with 0%.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 12:25 AM
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What's the follow-up? Did you text her yet?
/r/askTRP27/08/16 11:51 PM
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The plates I had were trying to date me, not just fuck. In order to keep them spinning, they required too much of my time. At 4, there was always at least 1 I had to completely neglect for 1 week+.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 08:45 PM
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4 4 was too much for me.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 07:58 PM
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Do you want a relationship where she chooses the conditions? Fully ignore that. You can say "ok", and continue doing the same shit. A&A works great here. "Yeah, we will go share a milkshake and eat the same spaghetti dish tomorrow night together."
/r/askTRP27/08/16 07:36 PM
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At 30, I feel the same. You're probably visually overstimulated. Thanks to Internet porn, we have seen absolutely everything. Don't look at that stuff ever again and hopefully you'll forget most of it. Normal girls don't excite you, but maybe some day they will again. Lack of morning wood is a sign of physical issues you can bring up with your doc. He could hook you up with ED medication. If you are interested, you can work the angle that you don't want to be in a situation where you need it to …
/r/askTRP27/08/16 07:06 PM
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Nah, you're still fine. She's giving you the opportunity to be like anyone else--needy. Sometimes the best move is no move at all, and you're already doing that.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 06:43 PM
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That's good. Text her now and ask if she's free for coffee tomorrow. Strike while the iron is hot. Then pull back completely until she responds. If she says no and she doesn't give a counter-offer, forget her.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 06:35 PM
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Ok, I re-read the story. You're in a pretty good position. The odds this jack guy outshines you are fairly low. And you have a very solid backup plan short and long term (not sure why I didn't see that earlier). Don't let the height stuff get to you. The less you acknowledge it, the less they'll bring it up. 5'9" is not even short.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 06:19 PM
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How often do you see the friend? Do you already have her #?
/r/askTRP27/08/16 06:13 PM
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If she pulls the same stuff maybe 3x in one month, I'd consider she just doesn't like hanging out with you. Some (blue pill) people have a hard time coming out and saying this to a friend or relative's face and you have to guess whether or not that's what's happening here. Either way, keep putting yourself out there to land yourself in a social circle or start your own.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 06:06 PM
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You're buying into a lot of her stories based on your responses in the thread. It depends on what you actually believe. Whipping out that planner was a huge shit test and I'm not sure you passed it. She strung you along for a little while. I have nothing against sluts, but she seemed like a disrespectful slut anyway.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 06:04 PM
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All these words she says are 90% bullshit. She's fucked enough guys to know what conversations she can make up to alter your thought process. For instance, she could say "Oh ya one guy didn't buy me a drink so I left" just to get you to buy her a drink. The fake # app is a mix of bragging and a misunderstanding of men. She thinks, just like an ungodly amount of women, that being surrounded by cock 24/7 is attractive for other men to see. She thinks this because she gets wet when she sees a decen…
/r/askTRP27/08/16 05:56 PM
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I deal with this in my group of friends. If you honestly have no one else to hang out with, it's better to put up with the bullshit. You don't want to end up isolating yourself just because your cousin was busy last week. Friends and family are important. As long as you're not being a doormat, keep them around if you can. You don't need to play games. If she doesn't respond to one invite, send another in a week or so.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 05:46 PM
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A woman would rather be dead than bored. That always trumps what she was told she should want all her life.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 05:42 PM
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Sorry for your loss. Your wife died and whoever she is now is a different person. She left to hop back on what's left of the CC and won't settle down until she gets bored of that (again). She probably won't find a better man, but she isn't one to think ahead. She wants to live in the moment.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 05:15 PM
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Take this route. You don't owe anyone an explanation. You're willing to keep your friends and get rid of the ones that want to side with her. Nothing bothers you. Even when something does bother you, never show it except with your closest male friends who you can really talk to. You'll get asked what happened. Just downplay it. "She was silly", or "it's whatever" works just fine with a smile or chuckle (you gotta show that it's amusing to you). People will think you're not even phased, and that'…
/r/askTRP27/08/16 05:09 PM
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Do you lift heavy shit? If you answer yes, lift more heavy shit. If you answer no, lift more heavy shit. This is your magic pill, so take it. Fuck a psychologist. You pay them so they can tell you how fucked up you are. The more you visit, the more money they get. Why would they ever really want you to get better? Jesus Christ.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 05:01 PM
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That's the nerdiest way to put it. It's just like when people discourage you for staying in shape or telling you to get settled down.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 04:46 PM
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Sometimes the best move is to do nothing.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 04:26 PM
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You're still the backup. She's not going to tell you to fuck off because she likes having a backup, like any other girl.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 04:20 PM
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Jack is less available and she hasn't quite received a response from him for that date. You're the backup plan.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 04:17 PM
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