Shit Test ??

PragmaticRedTruth · 2016-08-27T17:04:49+00:00

No.

You made yourself available to her and asked her to make a decision.

She took out a fucking agenda in front of you with dudes names in it she's planning to fuck? Didn't even try to lie and say she had a tea date with her mom? She has zero respect for you, next this sloppy bitch and delete her contact info.

These games are for children and not a man who is self actualizing. He wouldn't put up with this, is too busy, and has too much self respect. Don't say anything just next her and move along.

From here forward, try this: don't text them after dates let them text you. Tell them what the plans are, don't ask them. Don't work with their schedule, make them work with yours.

You passed the shit tests, but then again, you didn't. You look low value.

SexySmexxy · 2016-08-27T22:27:42+00:00

first of all it's 2016 who the fuck says

"Let me check my schedule"

Secondly she checkmated you quite nicely tbh and turned you into her bitch. Honestly she grandmaster chess level played you I'm actually impressed with her.

You failed every test in her book, she Even found a way to somehow win the part where you said you'll have to check your schedule.

You didn't pass any tests, she schooled you.

Girl asks about a next date the answer is always "I'll let you know" you never say yes and you never say no.

She calls you short, dread and punish

She talks about other guys in front of you ignore and change subject or just completely ignore

I'm not gonna say you're a beta because you're social life sounds cool.and you're spinning plates etc.

But Alice is just way too experienced for you and you got schooled. That's just how it is, she knows the game better than you and like watching two boxers of different skill levels, she systemically made very very light work of you.

PiperTheGreat · 2016-08-27T16:20:27+00:00

Always let her come to you with plans. Also when she says your too short say something like "your right, your wayyyyy to talk for me anyway. We'd never work"

that_italia_guy · 2016-08-28T01:07:07+00:00

This is just how i interpret it...haters going to hate......you are way off the fucking mark dude....

She really likes you(and still does). And wanted to go out on another date with you. So her behavior tried to make it as easy for you as possible to setup another date...ie all those hints/some dumb shit tests that dont matter.
She was going way out of her way to try and get you to set up a 3rd date. She wanted YOU to say when and where. If you wanted to go on a third date you should have communicated this more clearly. Or if you didnt like her anymore, just ended it there. If you actually needed to check you "schedule" then you should have just said ill let you know at X time.
Other date with jack in the notebook was a tiny shit test.
Shit test 2(I don't even count this as shit test) was your doing because your poor communication on shit test 1 and your response on wednesday was still not clear. Should have defined the date better..not putting the onus on her again....
You caused yourself shit test 2, and possibly a 3rd(if you like this girl and still want to see her/plate), now your on here because you had the same exact response to her as the first time. You never took control and guided the 3rd date/or ended it between her. you just waited for her to do it, but the women will never do this....or very unlikely to.

I know she respects you. She doesn't think you have "no life/ are beta" at this point. She's still unsure whether you like her or not, but your just on redpill confused as fuck because your over thinking what you think is a massive shit test. But at the end of the day its just your lack of guidance as to if you want to see her again or not. If i were you i would just say something like: "Hey i enjoyed our last date...maybe say something you liked most about it...then say....lets go on a date at XXX at YYY time on this day" If the time doesn't work. Just suggest anther time..basically figure out a time that works for both of you (its been almost a week at this point and you don't know how her schedule has changed)....if she flakes on this date then you know for certain. But i dont think she will flake, and defiantly escalate more on this date sounds like you've been on a couple dates and the most you have done is her kissing you on the cheeks.

Toddbaker6 · 2016-08-27T16:17:04+00:00

Jack is less available and she hasn't quite received a response from him for that date. You're the backup plan.

Title	Shit Test ??
Author	AchillesHeel77
Upvotes	1
Comments	31
Date	August 27, 2016 3:22 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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